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”ママ抱っこしてよ”闇の中でもがく子供たち | Satomi Tomaru | TEDxTakasaki


Translation: Kouki Okawara Proofreading: Hiroko Kawano

Is not there someone who was surprised when the work clothes brother came out?

Burned skin Cropped head and Nikkabokka

“Hey, this place is not the scene.

Truly this older brother now

Can I make a creative speech? “

If there is a person who thought like that, please raise a hand for a while

(Lol)

Because I am a little unexpected

(Lol)

One idea came out

Tenderness is sometimes cruel

(Lol)

Everyone took care of me

All the talks prepared after this are messed up

(Lol)

I understand

I will do it only because I do it.

please listen

Mr. S –

In the circumstances of his family at elementary school first grade

I was deposited with my grandpa and grandma

His grandpa is a so-called company warrior

She seems to have been working diligently from early in the morning until late at night

And since his grandma had no license

He seems to have lived within the range that can be reached by bicycle

The school he attended was about two and a half hours on foot from home

Because it is not the distance the first grade primary school can walk on foot

It is said that Grandpa was dropping in front of the school gate in front of the school on the way of commuting

How morning at 5:30

please imagine

5: 30 in cold mid-midwinter

The appearance of a child waiting for physical education sitting in front of the school gate

But please do not think pessimistically when listening to the story so far

He is still doing very well now

Because it is such a wonderful stage

I made it possible for you to make a speech in front of you

(applause)

It was my own story

Later when I listen to my grandpa, when I drop you down in front of the school gate

While being drawn behind “I feel sorry”

I heard he was commuting.

I think that I was loved though it was a bit different from people

I did a lot of bad things than people who can not tell people in the process of growing up

Now two children’s dad

Building a family with a beloved wife

I run two companies and own one cafe owner

And I am a local youth group and I am participating in town development and volunteer activities

Listening to the story so far

Overcoming suffering, sailing smoothly

It may seem like that

Even now even if I remember the old days there is a case that my heart hurts and it hurts

“Wounds will heal someday”

I have such a word, but it is absolutely a lie

The wounds of the heart that I received when I was a child

Even if I forget it will not disappear

This may only be understood by children who have experienced difficulty

Even so still I still have that feeling

I do not care much about children

And we are putting our emphasis on rehabilitation protection activities by the company management

This activity is a so-called bad boy and children with disadvantaged families

Abuse child abandonment child who can not live with parents for economic reasons

There are cases such as death discrimination

It is an activity that keeps close to the hearts of such children

And while doing this activity I met a boy named R

He was deposited with my grandmother in the circumstances of his family at the age of 1

His grandma is very kind

Always look after my hard work

He liked grandma very much.

When I was in elementary school fifth grader I thought that such happy everyday will continue

His grandma committed suicide

I do not know the reason

While becoming likely to be hurt by sorrow

With a mother of birth

With my father who was newly made and my newly made sister

I began to start living

I wonder if this loneliness is manageable

The reality that I had visited him who had imagined a peaceful family life

Mother loudly speaking out with alcoholism

His mother is doing water sales, sleeping in the daytime and going out at night

When he is at home on occasional break, he seems to be drinking alcohol and going crazy

It was when he was a third grader at the age of 15 at junior high

At first, I did not talk and look downward without looking at eyes either

Now it gets gradually better and 16 years old

After graduating from junior high school and working for my company

I live in my company dorm and work with me

Because it is such a relationship, we often have two persons clearly with him

In the meantime during this he

I asked “What would you like if only one wish would come true?”

Because he is such a wonderful hair color and a cheerful child

I say “I want a motorcycle” or “I want a motorcycle”

I was imagining it

Words from his mouth are

“I would like to see my grandmother”

How come this is going to happen?

My favorite grandma goes away and my parents do not love me

Is living really a wonderful thing?

Mr. A –

He was abused from a childhood

One day when I was sleeping in a futon, my father suddenly beat me up from above

It seems that the nose bone broke

One day my older brother is beaten when my mom is beaten

My family seemed to tremble with fear

Because he is a boy

Although I could not forgive by seeing my mom being beaten in front of me

I was scared and could not do anything I could not do anything.

I was living every day to blame myself without such courage

The word that he often said from his father

“You do not have to do anything”

Children will take what adults say straight

That’s why he says, “I am a human who does not need this world”

It seems he felt that “It is a sin that may be alive”

When he was 21 years old

Dad was caught by report from neighbor

And Mom puts myself and sister of the youngest older

It faded away somewhere

Suddenly visited my sister and my two lives

From what – I do not know what to do

Head is blank

While being anxious to be crushed

It seems that I could only have one hope

If you close your eyes on that hope, can not you come easy to finish everything?

He was supposed to have a suicide wish

Still my sister was worried when I thought about my little sister after I was gone

I could not die

Then what on earth did he do?

I was worried about my sister even after receiving such a bad treatment

I can not die His kindness is not rewarded for me why?

And what they can say in common

Being betrayed in hopes of being loved by parents

It would be painful to be betrayed, so I would not need anything anymore

That way my heart will be empty

I’ve heard of this from my colleagues doing the same activities as I do

Children who are being abused in their childhood are

It is said that they would like to see a mother to see a dad

I just want children to love from their parents

I would like you to take that that there are many such children

And they asked their mother love while asking for love

I think such a thing

“I was beaten because I do not listen to what you say because it’s a bad boy”

“Because you are inferior to the other children because you said you do not need anything”

“I have to work harder”

But it’s absolutely wrong

The funny things are adults

Because I did not want to be born by myself himself

And from here I would like to talk to the adults

About 16.55 million children in Japan

Number of child abuse consultations and the number of children deposited in the child care facility

Together, about 150,000 people

In other words, roughly one in 100 children

I will not have a decent affection from my parents

It is such a big problem

Many people do not know low social interest

Do not you think this is somewhat strange?

Because there are children who are shedding tears in your eyes

Please take that reality first

And from here on please use only the ability that human beings can use only

That’s imagination.

It is the children who create tomorrow’s world or the future

One in 100 children of the children who create that tomorrow’s world

What will happen to this country unless it grows up in a decent environment?

Can easily imagine

And what you should do is easy if you can imagine

Even now I am your own child’s grandchild

Please love me a bit deeper than now

And at the same time children other than myself

You may be a friend of a child

Please love me please

Keep an eye out for now than you do now

Please give me softly

Such a trivial action is for the child

It will be a pleasant experience to survive for the rest of my life

Certainly one person’s power may not change the world

Yet, with the power of only one person

I can change the world of one child

I want you to know more

Children’s wound depth

The tragedy that our ignorance brings

And that we adults can save our children

1 child in 100 people Do you think this is a tragedy

Also, because there are a lot of people in 100 with different ways of catching

Watch children watching even a little more than now

And I will give a voice if there is a worried child

That alone can save a lot of children

This idea is from me today

It is a gift I want to send to adults

And from here

I still want to talk to everyone who feels lonely

Everyone was born to be unhappy

I should have been born to be happy

I do not know yet for now

I wonder how wonderful I am

But I am sure I will be happy.

When you tell the truth

Today until this time comes

I did not want to talk about my childhood

Because children in the gym sitting in front of the school gates at 5:30 in the midwinter are not ordinary

I know

If you talk about this kind of strange things you guys are made to be strangely gentle

I was afraid when I thought that it could be seen with special eyes

Perhaps the person who saw me for the first time

There seems to be no trouble for anything and it seems to be strong

I think that it looks like that

I lived with my dancing style like that

I hope to do it like that

I was afraid that everything I’ve accumulated so far will be gone

I was the same as everyone and I was scared.

But when you think about everyone every day

Everyone’s scratch seems like my own wound

Do not look at it already.

I came here to talk here today.

If you can have courage even a little while looking at me today

If the heart trembles

I want you to cheer for the people who are suffering this time

Even now everyone is the only one who can help their colleagues who are likely to lose

Because they have their figure in them

It may have been only disappointing for a long time since birth

Maybe now

But thanks to that, we have special abilities.

I can hear no voice

When you listen carefully

“Hold your mother,”

“Come to your father’s athletic meeting”

I hear such a voice

The same pain as myself

I really understand how much it hurts

If there is no happiness that everyone can give now

You can live by feeling happiness you can give

Then, the happiness that was supposed to have given

Someday the day will surely fill your heart with happy feeling

I was also so

I thought that I managed to happily manage the children I met

I have been doing activities

I found myself happy everyday when I noticed it

You can say that there are ways to be happy like that

This idea is a gift for everyone from me today

And finally

I would like to apologize to everyone on behalf of adults

If everyone is feeling sad now

If you can not find even a living value

That is not your fault.

It is the responsibility of all adults who are not elsewhere

really sorry

And be absolutely happy

thank you for listening

(applause)

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