I am a lawyer dealing with bullying problems
We have taught about bullying at many schools so far
We received consultation from many teachers
Actually I am not a lawyer from law school
I am from the Faculty of Education
I also have a teacher’s license
So I am very interested in educational problems
I got involved with bullying
But in the first place, why did I aim for a lawyer in the first place
Dare to say in a word it is the influence of a TV drama
There used to be a drama that Yuuki Amenai plays a role as a lawyer
The lawyer looks very shiny shining
I also admired that I wanted to be like that
Amemi in the drama always tells the right thing is very right
So I also like her
I wanted to be a lawyer who can tell you the right thing straight
I still think so.
However, in my bullying problem
Even if you say the right thing, there are things that you can not reach the other’s heart
Today I would like to introduce a bit of that part
When I began to tackle bullying problems as a lawyer
I noticed that there are features in the “how to be spoken” of bullying
It is very dramatic and very sensational
It is to be told emotionally
Adults talk to children through TV and so on
“There was such a terrible bull”
“Such a sad result has resulted in terrible results”
And lastly “Because important lives are lost
Do not do bullying absolutely “
Because this was too common for me
I was a bit surprised even by myself that I noticed it
And as I noticed this
In order that I will go on a difficult path a little
At first I was not noticed at all
As I mentioned at the beginning, I am a lawyer from the Faculty of Education
If you are concerned with bullying
I wanted to make a class about bullying for junior high and high school students
And to cultivate the way of thinking about bullying
I made classes that everyone can discuss about one case
The content of this case is like this
One child borrows a DVD from another child in the same group
But that girl does not return the DVD quite well
I think I returned it at last, I will scratch it and return it
That girl will make that child out of the group from everyone in the group
And I do not want to come to school
What did you first think of when you first hear this
Try at some schools
I was just a little surprised
Than I thought
It is because there were many opinions that “this is not bullying”
“People who did bad things are obviously taken out of class.”
“It was not ignored by all the classes”
“It is strange that bullying is hurt by some students”
Every opinion was very strong
Also my case on TV –
Because it is being introduced in NHK TV and radio or something like that
I got a lot of opinions from adults
Again the opinion that “it is not bullying”
“I was receiving more severe bullying”
“Children are weakened if they say bullying until such things”
“I can not communicate if I say bullying anything”
There was also an opinion that
That is to say, if it is this level things are trivial
To say bullying is too much exaggeration.
Why do you think they are exaggerating
Probably if you say “bullying”
Severe things like watching on TV
Things that are likely to be related to life
Or a poor victim who has no fault
I think that it is because it imagines
We say that we should “stop bullying” “stop bullying”
So bullied that is said to “stop letting it”
Perhaps such a terrible thing as watching on TV
It means that the victim side may only have something without fault
I prepared a picture for clarity
The vertical axis shows the extent of the action
This is mainly the act done by the group
The horizontal axis is the degree of distress of the partner
Bullying also has collective psychology
It is characterized by escalating more and more
On the other hand, the extent of the pain of the partner increases more and more accordingly
And how much we can endure that pain
I have individual differences and I do not know from outside
It is a translation that I do not know when the limit will come
So only escalate bad things as “bullying”
Even if I say “let’s stop it” or “let’s stop it”
It will not be a real bullying countermeasure
There are more cases in cases where it becomes too late
However, “bullying” that we image is
Mainly this part
This part is just before the limit
Therefore, “I will stop bullying because important lives are lost”
It becomes a way to be spoken
So what is this part of the rest?
I do not have to stop here
If you do not like it
Why is that?
I am in this part
I think there are hints to think about the essence of bullying problems
So using a case like the one above
I am thinking about this problem with my students
By the way the law starts from the partner’s suffering starts
I regard the whole as “bullying”
It is to discover bullying to prevent it from becoming serious
So something like the case I discussed earlier is also “bullying”
It will be called “bullying” under the law
Well, as long as these things become “bullies”
It is the teachers of the field who are confused next to the students
From the teachers
Those who tease and those who can be bullied are important students
Bullys and bullying babies to cute students
I do not want to stick a label
So victims and perpetrators
It is not “bullying” which causes something like power relationship
It seems to want to respond to this problem as “trouble”
I have worked with many students so far
I also work with teachers together
So I can understand this feeling very well
However, I am against the solution
Because this kind of thing happens
I faced this problem for the first time
It was a questionnaire after class
There was written like this
“The teacher of the homeroom teacher in this case is a person who can tease and who is bullied
Both were said to be bad
I think so, too
I will treasure what I borrowed from people. “
This impression that seemingly does not have any problem at this glance
This is the theory that what is called “bullied people are bad”
This is a very dangerous response
Because there is a possibility to escalate bullying
I justify a group to a certain extent
There are such aspects
So this is a very dangerous response
Just because the opponent has a fault
It is not a bully to be bullied
Bullying is “choice of means”
Something angry or irritated
There are many ways to solve it at such time
Talk with your opponent or put some time
Bring someone who will mediate
Abandon all such means
Dare to give yourself pain to distress
It is a translation that is “choosing”
“The means are wrong”
“You can not do it” “It’s useless”
I think adults need to tell their children properly
You should not make it obscure
So why not?
Why can not you do it?
It is because it hurts human dignity
Dignity means that the person is around people or families
I was loved by those people
Or while they are lost or suffer
I have built up one by one
It is like a nucleus for that person to be that person
Bullying denies it and hurts it and destroys it
So do not do it
There are certainly outrageous and ignorant etc.
It is not a big deal if it is seen from the outside
It may be a thing that is trivial
However, we know adults
How deeply hurt it when it is directed to myself
How much I lose my confidence of being myself
And that confidence lost
I also know that it will not recover easily
On the contrary, how serious it is to hurt the dignity of the opponent
You should also know how to regret it
When adults talk about bullying to children
Even though there are people who talk about their own damage experience
There are few people who talk about experience of harassment
In terms of reasoning than the number of victims
Despite the fact that the number of perpetrators should be larger
After that I regret it
It is that there are many adults who are quietly in my mind
So we adults against children
Bullying should not be done as human dignity will be hurt
It means that the opponent’s life is lost or not lost
That thing does not matter
I think you need to discuss it from the front
I think we need to face it
It’s like I’ve walked so far
It might be a very difficult thing
From many adults and children
‘Even’ or ‘even’
“Everything is beautiful like that”
‘It is a hypocrite ‘
You may be told such a thing
Also for victims
“Because it’s like that, I will be outraged.”
I thought that ‘I am also in social studies’
You may try yourself
Even so, as we adults repeat trial and error
I think that it is important to continue to face this problem
A society in which each person can live like himself
I think that it will lead to a society in which individuals are respected
You may have made a mistake like scratching the borrowed
Only one person may have disturbed the circle of the team
Air may not be readable
It may have hurt someone
Only one person may be different from everyone
By such a trigger, I am ignoring mate
There are some people suffering from being killed
I suppose I might be wrong
There are people who endure peacefully
I want those people
“It’s bullying,”
“It is not a good thing”
“You can raise your voice”
I can say that “You can say that it is painful –
I want to be an adult
For that reason I will continue to face this problem from now on
This is helped by a lot of people
We have built up one by one –
It is the nucleus for me to be me
thank you for your attention
(applause)
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