screaming child and threw it at
floor
my first reaction was shock then flow
thoughts and feelings hit me like
she could do that she was for mother
So ours is that sick but then when
passed some time I noticed that I
I constantly return to this
woman and together with old thoughts and
emotions
added one more and what if this woman
really sick
today I want to talk with you about
disease and the disease of social stigma
so great that no one talks about
many even think that it is not
there is this
postpartum depression according to data
World Health Organization
every seventh mother suffers
postpartum depression is a huge
number of women in Kazakhstan is 6
millions of women of childbearing age from
900,000 of them suffer from postpartum
depression 900000 and in fact, many none
child and two three four and even more
this means that more than a million children
are brought up by moms
with postpartum depression why is it so
scary and generally what is postpartum
depression
when a woman gives birth in her body
there is a complete hormonal
restructuring
there are still a lot of hormones
There are still very few others, and this one
imbalance is manifested following
symptoms
First, the woman becomes more
Irritable and maybe even more
aggressive or vice versa you can
note that it becomes passive and
can cry and without visible at that
causes
but the most important is what happens
inside of it what we can not see but
inside she feels helplessness despair
even when she is holding her
A newborn baby she does not experience
that joy and love
which she expected in your head
cover begin to turn
crushing thoughts I’m a bad mother I
bad mother
a woman does not understand what is happening to her
and it closes even more and
very, very rarely does she talk about
this is why she does not talk about
this in our society is taken care of
about children completely lies on the shoulders
women and if she can not cope with
his mother’s role is not pleased that her
it means there is not something that does not mean it
bad she is a bad woman she is bad
mother is a bad mistress is a bad wife
bad bad bad no woman
wants to feel this label on himself
even if she finally talks about it
shares her closest that she
hears in return and now our time even
there were not any pampers so you still have
lucky we all washed by hand
or is it our female share
tolerate the expensive we suffer what people say
on the one hand it may seem like yes
because it’s relatively true and yes
There were no pampers before and it seemed like
female share yes we give birth but she only
reinforces the isolation of women only
strengthens her state of despair
our society is also completely wrong
priorities when a woman walks
pregnant yes we pay so much
attention we tell her oh what we like
can help you before your loved ones take care
when a baby is born all this attention
love abruptly passes to him with one
it’s natural because
babies are so little sweet
such defenseless and want to surround
their love with warmth but as much love and
Heat needs his mom who just got
gave birth to scientists all over the world again and again
they say that everything that kids need
from 0 to 3 years
this is a healthy and happy mom they do not
need expensive strollers branded things
swimming lessons during the first week
life they do not need mom mom that’s in
time goes to the gynecologist and to other doctors
who monitor their health
he needs a mom who gets
an adequate allowance he needs a mom
which they love
which takes care when I become pregnant
it was the happiest time of my life
life, I’ve been waiting for so long to meet with my
toddler
so a professional in the field
Of course, I knew the psychological services
about postpartum depression I knew that
there are such consequences but this is the last
than i wanted to think i thought why should i
this negativity I know I am able to
I know how to work with my emotions .
how to cope with stress is exactly me
I teach my clients too much
self-assured when I finally gave birth
the reality of postpartum life collapsed
on me as an avalanche in my process
there were gaps and I could not not
just sit or lie down, but when
I stood
it was unbearably painful who heard
that breastfeeding is natural
the process I heard is not to eat their son
process is at least a process
which requires a very long
when I applied my breasts
my son I did not see him as a son
I saw a toothy piranha that
tore my chest after each
Feeding the crack on the nipples of the roof and
almost every week I had
lactostasis is when the breast is formed
clogged milk ducts are formed
very smelly lumps are you yes I’m all
I remember right here and now
because of this I certainly was very
difficult to enjoy their motherhood
enjoy your baby
but despite all this I was very lucky
I was lucky because my beloved husband
specially left for several months with
work to take care of us so that
spend as much time as possible with
me and our son I was lucky
that my mother came to us almost
every day it’s a million things
only that I focus on
restore that I focus on
caring for my son
my opal who at that time lived with
we were completely engaged in cooking
cooked that is never needed
think to eat or whatever we are already
feed thanks to them thanks to my
I turned out to be 80 percent
women who will experience a postnatal
spleen is the only difference between postpartum
spleen and postpartum depression
that the spleen ends she
ends within the first two
weeks or months, unfortunately 15
percent of women and continue
feel bad and they have
will develop
postpartum depression scientists have proven
I found
The main risks that affect
development of postpartum depression there
the stress of health problems is
mothers have problems with the baby
feeding
The risk is also a history of depression
or financial problems but the most important thing
what scientists
this is something that a woman does not have a supportive
environment
that is, the less support and sleep
a woman experiences the greater the chance
development of postpartum depression as
psychotherapist for work for many years and
Women addressed me on
postpartum depression unfortunately they
addressed me not
dad’s current first couple of months when
they felt bad after a lot
months and even years
one of my clients told me how
sensation
irritability and aggression was for
her norm is that this is all this negative
who constantly cooked in it she
get on your baby
shouted at him even a few times
slapped and then experienced
guilty conscience
another my client told me that in her
head constantly attended by some
horrible fantasies about how she extinguishes
Your child is scared, but all that
need this mom is not our condemnation of them
As the air needs the support of the family and
professional help what about
occurs when mother with postpartum
depression to raise their child very much
often she can not create this
affection is that tender feeling that
connects mother and child
what then happens to this baby
who is brought up by such a mother
American scientists conducted a study
in which they traced the development of children
than we suffered postpartum depression
and there are no results they stagger the kids than
and we suffered postpartum depression
behind
intellectual development, they lag behind in
emotional development is very difficult for them
understand their own boundaries
It is difficult to respect the boundaries of other people
chance of developing hyperactivity much
above it is very difficult to concentrate
on the same job
because of this problem in school problem
school academic nature of the problem
in a school of social character they have little
friends they are more aggressive and not less
friendly and when they grow up
adolescence and adulthood
life chance of developing mental
disorders such as depression and
panic attacks are much more
much higher
I want to highlight that postpartum
depression is a disease that is not some kind of
myth that women came up with is not
some kind of story to draw to
attention to postpartum depression is
disease is one of the most
common
complications of pregnancy most
common and like any disease in
there are treatments there is a way out of it because
when a person and diagnoses with diabetes
the man is told to be silent about it and bear it
no he gives medicine and he is pricked
Insulin if you need the same with
postpartum depression treatment is
drug therapy and psychotherapy already
after a few weeks mom can
feel the taste of life it can
Finally, then experience the joy of motherhood
To help mothers ask for help
overcome this social stigma and
to overcome postnatal depression at the root
I propose the following three solutions
first information dear moms
dear future moms and all who
ever known mothers appeal to
all of you information about the postpartum
depression and especially postpartum
period is very important the more you know
now the better you can
prepare for this period yes i
I understand that oh what for to think of it or this
negative
such thoughts appear or oh with me
this will not happen to drive them away and
The more you know the less chance
development of postpartum depression 2
The second very important decision is
supportive environment
create a supportive environment before
birth of a baby how to do it in
first
share this information with your
relatives and relatives tell them that yes
there is such complication
she may be at me too
such and such are the symptoms
I will need your support your
love in this difficult period
how else to deepen this
supportive environment you can create
Plan Action Plan such as paint
that every weekend my father walks with
each child every night he gives
baby bath for example that in-law
comes to your house in a day not
prepares you to eat before or
Mom comes every day until helps
shonu cases and other things that is when u
you have a plan
It’s much easier for you to focus on
restoring one’s body and caring for
his child and of course very
an important fact in advance
find your phone professionals and
psychotherapists gynecologist consultant
Breastfeeding should be hanging
at your refrigerator or be at your place
phone if you have questions
if you notice any symptoms you
you can always contact and get
professional qualified
help as early as possible with the third
I want to appeal to all of you.
if you are a father
I look at you men if you will
father take baby take a walk simp
play with him give the mother the opportunity
relax take a bath just to sleep
if the new mother for you is a native person
come to visit her
But do not expect that it will serve you
water tea will not feed the contrary
bring her food to cook her
service and wash the dishes
suggest removing if you see
tired mother on the plane and offer
to play with the baby literally
a few minutes it will enable her
just relax just catch your breath
if you see a mother with children in the back of you
queue them forward
in order to spend half a minute
Its time but you will give her something
care in which she so needs
at the very beginning I told you about
shocking video that saw that
can be seen by many of you I see
woman who is tired woman who
does not know what is happening to her woman
which has no support was
See the video before that it is after that
ejection of the negative on all the same grabbed
your baby
she pressed her breasts was I can
guess what shame and a sense
whose guilt she experienced I am very
I hope that after what you heard
Today
what do you hope I learn from others
sources about your postpartum depression
The first instinct will not be
condemn not punish
and show caring to help them only
can be healthy and happy and mom is
means healthy and happy children
let’s take care of them together
[applause]
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