Notebooks in the box is what he thought up
parts I think is the best that
thought up a man is what helps us
Finding yourself is what helps us
be free then what gives the norms that
This is what helped me in the end.
its time to find a dream for itself this
thing that accompanies the last
20 years I know when what if to give it
an adult person, then this person
and my dream is
wake up in a world where we stop all
decides for their children where we stop
tell them what they should you should
here you go, you should do this
must do your homework you should
should this go on
endlessly we all decided for our children
from the moment of their birth, we believe that
the perfect baby is some kid
who silently somewhere out there in the corner
sits at his desk and performs
some incredibly complex
didactic tasks silently silently he
we do not interfere, he does not interfere with not making a noise
nothing breaks does not run and he does not
prevents us from living and we are so comfortable though
know what they really want children they
want to play they all the time want to play
when they are born when we were born
the first thing we learned to do is
play because the game is where the place is
we can learn absolutely everything I have again
most games this is the movement so here I am
I want to wake up in a world where the movement is
It is also important to study at a university or
lead the old lady across the road i
held on the football field five
the last years of life, fifteen hundred hours
I watched as children play and you know it
Not the children who went that they would become
footballers are not children who believe
that I will not become a world champion it’s not children
tea world Ronaldo or anyone else
these are children who suddenly discovered that
it turns out there is a place in their lives where
you can just run and scream where you are
do not owe anything to anyone and you know what
begin with
in general, any movement in any child
flour, I am not going to talk about the children
younger than 2 years but children are brought to us from
2 years
and here comes the baby he comes by the hand
with mom mom leads Ivanov and Dad
leads him to football solemnly
great event and what to do mom
It releases him and now think
The child spent 2 years in his life on
then to hold my hand it’s all
time was lying on her chest holding
she comes and gives it to her.
last 5 years
a unit of parents guessed together with
child play in training but on
In fact, despite all this, this is the most
A simple problem that we succeed in and
We managed to solve it once, we simply
we take mother
we take the pope and give them the opportunity
is played with children because today
adults do not know how to play with their
children
and then the child becomes older and we
prevto older children and the age of about
4 to 14 years old
all children sound here according to our observations
the parish is the same and I say not
I do not want to interest me, I will not be able to
I’ll sit my mom why you brought me here
children do not want to move, not because
they do not want to run but because they
again
it seems that they are someone and something should
and we found a very simple very
intuitive recipe I approach the child
I sit next to him and say look you
no one owes nothing to you here
sit you can move you can
can run everything that you want all that
do you want for this hour is
only one single rule is
we are on a hundred meter field and you are beyond
This field does not leave everything you want with
whatever you want, you can take what you want
say that you want to scream and yell and
so on and sooner or later this wall
breaks someone needs someone’s hour to someone
need a week someone needs a month
but sooner or later the child sees that from
no one wants nothing like this
shrinks his neck he looks around
was he mistaken
and suddenly he sees the same guys who
just run around having fun and have fun
he realizes that this is the place where
he can be himself a game that’s something
A place where every child can find
a place independent of one’s own
regardless of their past
and the future of their goals and and all that
the child rises and begins to play
starts to move we are adults
teach their children to move toward the goal a
children do not need a goal children need a game
because remember and when we were
the most important thing for us was
game we all the time played the essence of us all
time we did not live that life
which now our children we did not sit on
The rear seat of the car for 8 hours in
day because they take from the mug in
A circle of mugs and a circle and school in
a circle from a mug in this was not and that
for us was the most important is the process
you understand the game itself
we played all the time please
In the hall of the hand are those of whom
great and now please raise
hall of the hand are those who have no attention
expectations from their children and never
there was no expectation so again there is still
there is something so well, well, you are very nonsense.
cool you are a dreamer and and it seems to me
it seems that your children are the happiest
in the world there is one problem you are in
minority and we are the majority, I am also in
This majority, alas, I’m working on
itself is the most paradoxical
the most interesting
fast i have the same best results
show children from whom no one has anything
does not want, and first of all their parents
we have a boy matvei he came to
to us on football when he was either three
four years I can be mistaken in from is
we are two years incredibly capable
boy is the same as all
with one exception, his parents
the devil does not understand football anything or more
even in sports, they do not
understand the only reason for which they are his
there led it said mom I want to play
football
but they themselves okay okay well understood
football and to illustrate it
love somehow time football in general box
It’s really because
football outside you still do not value the main thing
the movement is so one day he is sitting in front of
father dad I love you so much I love you
so you know as if I love you like
as if the problem is that you
minority about us
the majority and we every day every hour
every minute we make a decision for our
we take these decisions even
then when we think that we do not
where to eat what to eat where to sleep
where do you go where you do not go grandfather
to study at what university you will be
To study though we have passed or have taken place like as it and
we should not set aside but we are all
equally continue to do once we see
in your child some ability of times
and our son is already five days a week though
music school
because we decided so if he knew
what will his playing on a xylophone in
three years he was generally not approached him
you know, a pony went days and here we are
just so we came up with a very bad
know where we are as long as he walks these five
Days of the week in this music school
we do not know and do not think about the fact that
He feels and yet the child can not you
say that he feels he has it
experiencing this is seen in everything but he does not
can this sound and we are not worried about something
that the child can not tell me
it hurts my leg very well, I’m very worried
Me, I had a soul, he is not affected
the boy does not understand us
he is five years old and he has dvd
this is attention deficit disorder and
hyperactivity mom great great that
found the strength to bring her incredibly
ashamed of his behavior, I’m sure that
many I render such health and so
I’m incredibly ashamed of his behavior and
not because she is wrong because she
I’m used to what everyone thinks is wrong.
that she is not well educated by anybody not
It delves into the details so she brought on by
training and the first training is not
asked nikita scatter cones pencil case
Swords in all directions with no one
talked ignored by coach intel
nothing just rushed like a hurricane in the field
and my mother was ready never again
come on we caught by the hand and
said come again she came again
Once again once again and through any
time we found out that Nikita suddenly
became a participant in the fact that he is
suddenly noticed children
suddenly began to listen to the coach he suddenly became
To participate and became one of the best
It took weeks not months and not even
year and suddenly we saw how weak
the Nikita’s side to turn into his
strengths and at the end of some kind of
the next training mom burst into tears
because she had never seen him
such a
she did not have a great job with me
I personally thank you for
that she gave an opportunity to her son
be what he is what he is
in fact, I, too, have a parent with me
Two children and one’s elder and constantly
changing you is not good enough then that means
not enough this wonderful could
do better here and could better study
and he constantly has something to show me
or decided I generally know in principle so
He must behave in absolutely any
situation in this life I know all my
The problem is that it is specifically with my
The problem is that I’m not yet very
I know well what is puberty
I train teenagers but I meet with
he understands several hours of the week
here as though absolutely other contact I think
that with very soon I’ll tell everything where
my place and it’s great if it’s not on
Russian obscene I’m the same parent as
most and yet I know that
My child is for me and for you your children
the best in the world we always know
that our children are the best in the world I
I promise myself that I will be better that I
I will be more tolerant that I will stretch it out to him
A helping hand that I will hear it that I
I’ll talk to him but it’s all
remains a simple promise from year to year
from time to time I think that you will find out
I myself do not believe that you do not recognize yourself in
this story but something does not give me
turn these promises into reality and in
for a moment I realized that we all do not
grabs a big good good kick
and himself, but this kick in life happened
as one said mike tyson
everyone has his own plan until he
gets on face two years ago from me
my daughter was born to me was a wonderful immunity
it was great strong good fun
emotional everything was wonderful i
imagined how she would play
on the piano as we will eat
Learn to ride surf to the cube of it and
go to the ocean as we play in
anything she just had time to be born
I have already awarded up to 18 years in advance
I somehow decided that she should do it all
be interesting until the moment until
happened what happened one by one
medical error call it so my
the child has turned into a few weeks
I will not understand the disabled person
who was to blame we were not just this
time I because I can now in this
but I have a daughter I need
I told myself one very
the important thing is, I ‘ll find out
yourself so blunt to forgive the parent
not tied to a life similar to
physicians forecasts the goal I told myself I
I ‘ll get you out of this and our
marathon
ours I have changed my whole life I am 12 14
hours per day was not running this marathon
from doctors of rehabilitation of medicines
drugs Chinese medicine
such-and-such, whatever, but here it is.
feeling you know when I’m every second
the doctor said the same autism each
the third doctor told me that you know
you have brain damage that occurs
right now and we do not know what will stop
years and we do not know how to stop it.
know this one here is the story when you
run somewhere with the baby you keep it
By the hand you do not see him you feel
before you feel that it is in your hand that he
with you and so I was offended here
month and the royal one on
naked I do not know what happened I do not know
why did I decide to stop
specifically in this second but I
became to see what was happening there
it does not happen at all 24 hours
was in my arms but I did not see that
with her happening I turned saw
a child who has their interests at
whose own plans that play their own
games that have their own even small ones
To start up children’s goals and I became
incredibly ashamed I felt ashamed that in
my pursuit of this goal of my
purpose, yes, she is noble, each of us
would do the same but I am for this purpose
forgot to look at what with her
we all the time move to
some purpose
forgetting about what way we go and
because the path is not less important
and sometimes more important than the goal itself
because it is the path that determines the coming
Do we understand this point and if
talk about the baby then everyone
child in general its own way unique
especially in the child there with a particular
whether the development of something else is not important and
if we teach our children to think
categories aim category results
then we push them to ensure that they are
their lives were unhappy
on the way to this goal in fact reach the goal
not everyone and in our hands to teach them
have fun here now
because happiness for the child is here
and now this game about something that I feel good
Here and now
leave and open the box and show that in
it yes of course it’s the ball I but I
understand
the problem is not that it’s a ball
problems is that in the first place it is
a toy is a toy and only then is it a ball
the best that my parents gave me is
freedom of choice and soccer ball
the first they gave me unconsciously
know how unconsciously the freedom of choice
give all know in fact they have
I did not have time for me I hope one
they hope me they will be offended
when it will look and hear from them
a difficult fate did not come from
good life and the second that they gave
this football ball they made it by accident
and this determined all my further
life ball with me past 25 years
every day he went through with me through everything
he helped me cope with my
problems with you complexities but never
was not a football and was here
a toy of my favorite toy
so here today is Friday tomorrow Saturday at
many of you have a day off asking in the morning
go to the store
buy any toy store
a toy for your child anyway like you
want to
Come home and give it to you here
for this do not need an excuse
step back and close your eyes and give it to him.
Thanks be oneself
[applause]
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