
we are not a naturally monogamous species we are a pair bonding species
species we are a pair bonding species
species we are a pair bonding species but there’s social monogamy which is the
but there’s social monogamy which is the
but there’s social monogamy which is the parabot and their sexual monogamy which
parabot and their sexual monogamy which
parabot and their sexual monogamy which is never touching anybody ever again
is never touching anybody ever again
is never touching anybody ever again with your genitals and we are not never
with your genitals and we are not never
with your genitals and we are not never flip that before no we need to split it
flip that before no we need to split it
flip that before no we need to split it we all of these birds we used to look to
we all of these birds we used to look to
we all of these birds we used to look to and think why can’t we be monogamous
and think why can’t we be monogamous
and think why can’t we be monogamous like like the Eagles and yeah certain
like like the Eagles and yeah certain
like like the Eagles and yeah certain geese and little birds that would mate
geese and little birds that would mate
geese and little birds that would mate and it would make for life and would and
and it would make for life and would and
and it would make for life and would and we would measure our failure as humans
we would measure our failure as humans
we would measure our failure as humans to live up to the standards set by these
to live up to the standards set by these
to live up to the standards set by these damn birds well along comes genetic
damn birds well along comes genetic
damn birds well along comes genetic testing and we find out that these birds
testing and we find out that these birds
testing and we find out that these birds are screwing around on each other
are screwing around on each other
are screwing around on each other constantly that they are socially
constantly that they are socially
constantly that they are socially monogamous pair bonded but they’re not
monogamous pair bonded but they’re not
monogamous pair bonded but they’re not sexually monogamous no primates with
sexually monogamous no primates with
sexually monogamous no primates with testicles our size are our monogamous
testicles our size are our monogamous
testicles our size are our monogamous sexually monogamous women hidden menses
sexually monogamous women hidden menses
sexually monogamous women hidden menses I’m not saying all this to say that
I’m not saying all this to say that
I’m not saying all this to say that people shouldn’t go from monogamy if
people shouldn’t go from monogamy if
people shouldn’t go from monogamy if monogamy is something they want I’m not
monogamy is something they want I’m not
monogamy is something they want I’m not saying this to argue that people that
saying this to argue that people that
saying this to argue that people that made a monogamous commitment have
made a monogamous commitment have
made a monogamous commitment have license to violate that monogamous
license to violate that monogamous
license to violate that monogamous commitment and of course that’s what
commitment and of course that’s what
commitment and of course that’s what headlines would do when they hear a
headlines would do when they hear a
headlines would do when they hear a phrase that comes out of your mouth and
phrase that comes out of your mouth and
phrase that comes out of your mouth and they do that what I’m saying is we are
they do that what I’m saying is we are
they do that what I’m saying is we are not naturally monogamous
not naturally monogamous
not naturally monogamous it is a difficult struggle for us Chris
it is a difficult struggle for us Chris
it is a difficult struggle for us Chris Ryan sex writer in his book sex it on
Ryan sex writer in his book sex it on
Ryan sex writer in his book sex it on before you just know all these sex
before you just know all these sex
before you just know all these sex writers well I do I read them all he
writers well I do I read them all he
writers well I do I read them all he points out that you know all these
points out that you know all these
points out that you know all these cultures you know the sky religions
cultures you know the sky religions
cultures you know the sky religions death penalty for adultery well at the
death penalty for adultery well at the
death penalty for adultery well at the same time we run around arguing that
same time we run around arguing that
same time we run around arguing that monogamy comes naturally to us as a
monogamy comes naturally to us as a
monogamy comes naturally to us as a species
species
species well no other species has to be
well no other species has to be
well no other species has to be threatened with death to do that which
threatened with death to do that which
threatened with death to do that which comes naturally to it we don’t point
comes naturally to it we don’t point
comes naturally to it we don’t point guns at dolphins and say swim right but
guns at dolphins and say swim right but
guns at dolphins and say swim right but we point guns at each other and say
we point guns at each other and say
we point guns at each other and say don’t cheat because monogamy comes
don’t cheat because monogamy comes
don’t cheat because monogamy comes naturally to us and so I’m not my
naturally to us and so I’m not my
naturally to us and so I’m not my argument then isn’t you shouldn’t have
argument then isn’t you shouldn’t have
argument then isn’t you shouldn’t have it you shouldn’t do it my argument is we
it you shouldn’t do it my argument is we
it you shouldn’t do it my argument is we should be a little compassionate
should be a little compassionate
should be a little compassionate understanding by the fact that monogamy
understanding by the fact that monogamy
understanding by the fact that monogamy is a struggle that a monogamous we said
is a struggle that a monogamous we said
is a struggle that a monogamous we said we believe what we’re told as children
we believe what we’re told as children
we believe what we’re told as children is one day you will grow up and fall in
is one day you will grow up and fall in
is one day you will grow up and fall in love with someone and you will make a
love with someone and you will make a
love with someone and you will make a monogamous commitment to them and that
monogamous commitment to them and that
monogamous commitment to them and that means you’re in love with them and when
means you’re in love with them and when
means you’re in love with them and when you’re in love you won’t want to have
you’re in love you won’t want to have
you’re in love you won’t want to have sex with other people and the truth is
sex with other people and the truth is
sex with other people and the truth is if you make a monogamous commitment to
if you make a monogamous commitment to
if you make a monogamous commitment to someone you love you will still want to
someone you love you will still want to
someone you love you will still want to have sex with other people you will
have sex with other people you will
have sex with other people you will refrain from it it will be difficult and
refrain from it it will be difficult and
refrain from it it will be difficult and so perhaps we need to look at people
so perhaps we need to look at people
so perhaps we need to look at people who’ve been in 50-year marriages and
who’ve been in 50-year marriages and
who’ve been in 50-year marriages and only cheated on each other once or two
only cheated on each other once or two
only cheated on each other once or two and say they were good at monogamy not
and say they were good at monogamy not
and say they were good at monogamy not bad at it good at it and give them some
bad at it good at it and give them some
bad at it good at it and give them some credit for having done this thing that
credit for having done this thing that
credit for having done this thing that was difficult in a natural as a token of
was difficult in a natural as a token of
was difficult in a natural as a token of their love and affection and commitment
their love and affection and commitment
their love and affection and commitment almost completely successfully 50 it’s
almost completely successfully 50 it’s
almost completely successfully 50 it’s like somebody standing on one foot for
like somebody standing on one foot for
like somebody standing on one foot for 50 years that’s kind of amazing if they
50 years that’s kind of amazing if they
50 years that’s kind of amazing if they touch the ground two or three times to
touch the ground two or three times to
touch the ground two or three times to get their balance we wouldn’t go they
get their balance we wouldn’t go they
get their balance we wouldn’t go they sucked at standing on their foot for 50
sucked at standing on their foot for 50
sucked at standing on their foot for 50 years on one foot
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