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these girls are going to be forced into

these girls are going to be forced into Meritus they’re going to be mutilated

Meritus they’re going to be mutilated

Meritus they’re going to be mutilated and I noticed I would say this is a

and I noticed I would say this is a

and I noticed I would say this is a crisis this is a global crisis and

crisis this is a global crisis and

crisis this is a global crisis and something has to happen we work in a

something has to happen we work in a

something has to happen we work in a small Messiah community that is about

small Messiah community that is about

small Messiah community that is about 250 miles away of Nairobi it’s a very

250 miles away of Nairobi it’s a very

250 miles away of Nairobi it’s a very rural in a place like our community the

rural in a place like our community the

rural in a place like our community the girls are just prepared for marriage as

girls are just prepared for marriage as

girls are just prepared for marriage as soon as she starts walking she’s

soon as she starts walking she’s

soon as she starts walking she’s sweeping the house she’s cooking for

sweeping the house she’s cooking for

sweeping the house she’s cooking for people she takes care of other siblings

people she takes care of other siblings

people she takes care of other siblings she’s constantly doing water make her a

she’s constantly doing water make her a

she’s constantly doing water make her a perfect mother and with this expectation

perfect mother and with this expectation

perfect mother and with this expectation at the time that they are they reach

at the time that they are they reach

at the time that they are they reach puberty they are prepared actually for

puberty they are prepared actually for

puberty they are prepared actually for manage the undergo through the female

manage the undergo through the female

manage the undergo through the female genital cutting which is a horrible

genital cutting which is a horrible

genital cutting which is a horrible practice that happens to them and after

practice that happens to them and after

practice that happens to them and after that she’s married

that she’s married

that she’s married the statistic says among the masses over

the statistic says among the masses over

the statistic says among the masses over 90% of girls were under 15 I married

90% of girls were under 15 I married

90% of girls were under 15 I married some of them are even married when

some of them are even married when

some of them are even married when they’re nine years old I grew up in the

they’re nine years old I grew up in the

they’re nine years old I grew up in the community I was engaged when I was five

community I was engaged when I was five

community I was engaged when I was five years old was supposed to be married

years old was supposed to be married

years old was supposed to be married when I was 12 and I went through the

when I was 12 and I went through the

when I was 12 and I went through the female genital cutting I understand what

female genital cutting I understand what

female genital cutting I understand what it is that gas will go through if you

it is that gas will go through if you

it is that gas will go through if you don’t get cut this a stinking mind that

don’t get cut this a stinking mind that

don’t get cut this a stinking mind that stigma sticks with your family your

stigma sticks with your family your

stigma sticks with your family your father and everybody around your family

father and everybody around your family

father and everybody around your family will carry forever so I told my father

will carry forever so I told my father

will carry forever so I told my father if you don’t let me go to school I’ll

if you don’t let me go to school I’ll

if you don’t let me go to school I’ll run away and you remain with the stigma

run away and you remain with the stigma

run away and you remain with the stigma and so he agreed I did go through the

and so he agreed I did go through the

and so he agreed I did go through the hiring and I went to school I knew for

hiring and I went to school I knew for

hiring and I went to school I knew for me that the thing that made a difference

me that the thing that made a difference

me that the thing that made a difference in my life was an education being able

in my life was an education being able

in my life was an education being able to push against all the odds

to push against all the odds

to push against all the odds getting a you know a graduate degree

getting a you know a graduate degree

getting a you know a graduate degree being in school has made a difference

being in school has made a difference

being in school has made a difference for me I’d learned that female genital

for me I’d learned that female genital

for me I’d learned that female genital cutting was outlawed in Kenya I’m

cutting was outlawed in Kenya I’m

cutting was outlawed in Kenya I’m thinking really um because I mean I

thinking really um because I mean I

thinking really um because I mean I didn’t know about it and that just to me

didn’t know about it and that just to me

didn’t know about it and that just to me I knew that Wow

I knew that Wow

I knew that Wow all the guys that are going through what

all the guys that are going through what

all the guys that are going through what you know through that horrible practice

you know through that horrible practice

you know through that horrible practice they should know they should know these

they should know they should know these

they should know they should know these things they knew that the very best

things they knew that the very best

things they knew that the very best thing that I could do for the women for

thing that I could do for the women for

thing that I could do for the women for the girls in the village was to give

the girls in the village was to give

the girls in the village was to give them an education they have the rights

them an education they have the rights

them an education they have the rights to go to school they have the right to

to go to school they have the right to

to go to school they have the right to not be forced into a marriage we have

not be forced into a marriage we have

not be forced into a marriage we have the right not to be mutilated or you

the right not to be mutilated or you

the right not to be mutilated or you know they have the right to be children

know they have the right to be children

know they have the right to be children we started our program by starting a

we started our program by starting a

we started our program by starting a boarding school I knew when you put the

boarding school I knew when you put the

boarding school I knew when you put the girls in a boarding school bye-bye to

girls in a boarding school bye-bye to

girls in a boarding school bye-bye to milking cows in the morning bye-bye to

milking cows in the morning bye-bye to

milking cows in the morning bye-bye to feeding everybody before you go to

feeding everybody before you go to

feeding everybody before you go to school she would just take care of

school she would just take care of

school she would just take care of herself they’re outperforming in the

herself they’re outperforming in the

herself they’re outperforming in the district they’re at the top and people

district they’re at the top and people

district they’re at the top and people for the first time are focusing on the

for the first time are focusing on the

for the first time are focusing on the girls

imagine they have never known that

imagine they have never known that female genital cutting is against the

female genital cutting is against the

female genital cutting is against the law they have never known that there are

law they have never known that there are

law they have never known that there are consequences these laws are not taught

consequences these laws are not taught

consequences these laws are not taught in the schools and the kids don’t know

in the schools and the kids don’t know

in the schools and the kids don’t know about them but now the guys are like wow

about them but now the guys are like wow

about them but now the guys are like wow if this is what is happening I am NOT

if this is what is happening I am NOT

if this is what is happening I am NOT going to go through it and when the

going to go through it and when the

going to go through it and when the phallus is no we help them we will help

phallus is no we help them we will help

phallus is no we help them we will help them go through the system and we ask

them go through the system and we ask

them go through the system and we ask them what are your dreams you know wants

them what are your dreams you know wants

them what are your dreams you know wants to be a doctor wants to be a lawyer and

to be a doctor wants to be a lawyer and

to be a doctor wants to be a lawyer and we ask them so would you be a lawyer if

we ask them so would you be a lawyer if

we ask them so would you be a lawyer if you get married at 12 like now I have to

you get married at 12 like now I have to

you get married at 12 like now I have to keep going in school and this is what

keep going in school and this is what

keep going in school and this is what really is amazing about our trainings

really is amazing about our trainings

really is amazing about our trainings because we know that when you give girls

because we know that when you give girls

because we know that when you give girls information vital information that they

information vital information that they

information vital information that they are not getting anywhere they make the

are not getting anywhere they make the

are not getting anywhere they make the right choices they make the right

right choices they make the right

right choices they make the right decisions we need to tell that we are

decisions we need to tell that we are

decisions we need to tell that we are that your dream is not ending in

that your dream is not ending in

that your dream is not ending in marriage it’s ending in what you want to

marriage it’s ending in what you want to

marriage it’s ending in what you want to become

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