monogamy that that’s a culturally expected even required conduct of you
expected even required conduct of you
expected even required conduct of you know it’s how it’s how we view
know it’s how it’s how we view
know it’s how it’s how we view relationships
relationships
relationships yeah and over the last sixty years okay
yeah and over the last sixty years okay
yeah and over the last sixty years okay so now get me never applied to men until
so now get me never applied to men until
so now get me never applied to men until about sixty years oh so they were never
about sixty years oh so they were never
about sixty years oh so they were never akan Cubans men had access to sex
akan Cubans men had access to sex
akan Cubans men had access to sex workers men had multiple wives monogamy
workers men had multiple wives monogamy
workers men had multiple wives monogamy was built to imprison women to reassure
was built to imprison women to reassure
was built to imprison women to reassure men about with their you know to address
men about with their you know to address
men about with their you know to address males paternal insecurities you knew for
males paternal insecurities you knew for
males paternal insecurities you knew for sure it was hurt baby
sure it was hurt baby
sure it was hurt baby you never could know for sure it was
you never could know for sure it was
you never could know for sure it was your baby this is what accounts for the
your baby this is what accounts for the
your baby this is what accounts for the Jewish lineage unless she was locked up
Jewish lineage unless she was locked up
Jewish lineage unless she was locked up the only Jewish if you give not one of
the only Jewish if you give not one of
the only Jewish if you give not one of the Jewish mother because you know who
the Jewish mother because you know who
the Jewish mother because you know who the mother is you never know who the
the mother is you never know who the
the mother is you never know who the father is right so it wasn’t until in
father is right so it wasn’t until in
father is right so it wasn’t until in the twentieth century to go from this
the twentieth century to go from this
the twentieth century to go from this gendered institution in this property
gendered institution in this property
gendered institution in this property transaction where the husband was
transaction where the husband was
transaction where the husband was granted the gift of the daughter that in
granted the gift of the daughter that in
granted the gift of the daughter that in that trick became the wife with the
that trick became the wife with the
that trick became the wife with the dowry right included and so marriage
dowry right included and so marriage
dowry right included and so marriage became the the equal sort of union of
became the the equal sort of union of
became the the equal sort of union of two autonomous individuals and
two autonomous individuals and
two autonomous individuals and expectations changed that the same
expectations changed that the same
expectations changed that the same standards had to apply to both Farris
standards had to apply to both Farris
standards had to apply to both Farris and yeah and then monogamy instead of
and yeah and then monogamy instead of
and yeah and then monogamy instead of extending to women the same license that
extending to women the same license that
extending to women the same license that men had always enjoyed the same latitude
men had always enjoyed the same latitude
men had always enjoyed the same latitude around monogamy we imposed on men the
around monogamy we imposed on men the
around monogamy we imposed on men the same restrictions that women had always
same restrictions that women had always
same restrictions that women had always endured and it’s been a disaster for
endured and it’s been a disaster for
endured and it’s been a disaster for marriage nothing correlates more
marriage nothing correlates more
marriage nothing correlates more strongly with the rise of divorce than
strongly with the rise of divorce than
strongly with the rise of divorce than imposing the monogamous model on men so
imposing the monogamous model on men so
imposing the monogamous model on men so what should happen going forward
what should happen going forward
what should happen going forward monogamous relationship ish monogamous
monogamous relationship ish monogamous
monogamous relationship ish monogamous there are people who are anonymous
there are people who are anonymous
there are people who are anonymous relationships now but who won’t admit it
relationships now but who won’t admit it
relationships now but who won’t admit it because of the stigma you know people
because of the stigma you know people
because of the stigma you know people say and I often hear this from my
say and I often hear this from my
say and I often hear this from my straight readers no there’s no open
straight readers no there’s no open
straight readers no there’s no open relationship lasts and the my response
relationship lasts and the my response
relationship lasts and the my response is always because you only hear about
is always because you only hear about
is always because you only hear about them when they failed that there are
them when they failed that there are
them when they failed that there are people in successful non-monogamous
people in successful non-monogamous
people in successful non-monogamous relationships that you know you just
relationships that you know you just
relationships that you know you just don’t know you know them it’s not quite
don’t know you know them it’s not quite
don’t know you know them it’s not quite a selection effect yes very hard to
a selection effect yes very hard to
a selection effect yes very hard to compensate if two people stood a
compensate if two people stood a
compensate if two people stood a straight couple who are not monogamous
straight couple who are not monogamous
straight couple who are not monogamous because they’re swinging or having
because they’re swinging or having
because they’re swinging or having threeways or somebody cheated if they
threeways or somebody cheated if they
threeways or somebody cheated if they divorce everybody finds out about the
divorce everybody finds out about the
divorce everybody finds out about the non-monogamy and blames it whether you
non-monogamy and blames it whether you
non-monogamy and blames it whether you sometimes even if
sometimes even if
sometimes even if irrelevant but a straight couple who are
irrelevant but a straight couple who are
irrelevant but a straight couple who are able to stay together because they’re
able to stay together because they’re
able to stay together because they’re not monogamous nobody ever hears about
not monogamous nobody ever hears about
not monogamous nobody ever hears about it and nobody gives it any credit that
it and nobody gives it any credit that
it and nobody gives it any credit that there are couples who are together today
there are couples who are together today
there are couples who are together today still not despite the fact that they’re
still not despite the fact that they’re
still not despite the fact that they’re in an open relationship but because
in an open relationship but because
in an open relationship but because they’re in an open relationship
they’re in an open relationship
they’re in an open relationship and when non-monogamy saves a
and when non-monogamy saves a
and when non-monogamy saves a relationship it gets no credit when
relationship it gets no credit when
relationship it gets no credit when non-monogamy destroys one
non-monogamy destroys one
non-monogamy destroys one it’s a headlines its headlines
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