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“YOU Are The MASTER Of Your FATE!” – Oprah Winfrey (@Oprah) – #Entspresso


rise and shine it’s an espresso time

rise and shine it’s an espresso time good morning relief nation it’s even my

good morning relief nation it’s even my

good morning relief nation it’s even my one word is believe and I believe in you

one word is believe and I believe in you

one word is believe and I believe in you I believe in that amazing gift you have

I believe in that amazing gift you have

I believe in that amazing gift you have inside to you that needs to be shared

inside to you that needs to be shared

inside to you that needs to be shared with the world so let’s start the day

with the world so let’s start the day

with the world so let’s start the day off right together grab your cup of

off right together grab your cup of

off right together grab your cup of coffee and sit on today’s message set

coffee and sit on today’s message set

coffee and sit on today’s message set boundaries

over to you Oprah Winfrey so I first

over to you Oprah Winfrey so I first started making money and it was you know

started making money and it was you know

started making money and it was you know my salary or my earnings were published

my salary or my earnings were published

my salary or my earnings were published all over the place I mean the first year

all over the place I mean the first year

all over the place I mean the first year I was like really did I make that much

I was like really did I make that much

I was like really did I make that much money oh my god it was very difficult

money oh my god it was very difficult

money oh my god it was very difficult for me to figure out where my boundaries

for me to figure out where my boundaries

for me to figure out where my boundaries were because I’d grown up poor and

were because I’d grown up poor and

were because I’d grown up poor and didn’t have anything so it’s easy when

didn’t have anything so it’s easy when

didn’t have anything so it’s easy when you don’t have anything and people ask

you don’t have anything and people ask

you don’t have anything and people ask you for money and they say I need 500

you for money and they say I need 500

you for money and they say I need 500 cent I don’t have it cuz I’m just trying

cent I don’t have it cuz I’m just trying

cent I don’t have it cuz I’m just trying to get my rent paid it’s harder when

to get my rent paid it’s harder when

to get my rent paid it’s harder when you’re multi-billion dollar salary is

you’re multi-billion dollar salary is

you’re multi-billion dollar salary is now in the paper and you get a lot of

now in the paper and you get a lot of

now in the paper and you get a lot of friends and cousins you didn’t have

friends and cousins you didn’t have

friends and cousins you didn’t have before so how do you set boundaries for

before so how do you set boundaries for

before so how do you set boundaries for yourself I was having trouble setting

yourself I was having trouble setting

yourself I was having trouble setting boundaries myself for myself for even

boundaries myself for myself for even

boundaries myself for myself for even strangers people would just show up at

strangers people would just show up at

strangers people would just show up at my door in Chicago and say Oprah I left

my door in Chicago and say Oprah I left

my door in Chicago and say Oprah I left my husband please help me and I would

my husband please help me and I would

my husband please help me and I would because she knows I have it so don’t try

because she knows I have it so don’t try

because she knows I have it so don’t try that now though okay don’t try that now

that now though okay don’t try that now

that now though okay don’t try that now I figured it out so what I learned was

I figured it out so what I learned was

I figured it out so what I learned was is that oh the reason why people keep

is that oh the reason why people keep

is that oh the reason why people keep showing up is because my intention is to

showing up is because my intention is to

showing up is because my intention is to make them think that I’m such a nice

make them think that I’m such a nice

make them think that I’m such a nice person

person

person that you can ask me for anything you can

that you can ask me for anything you can

that you can ask me for anything you can get me to do anything I’m gonna say yes

get me to do anything I’m gonna say yes

get me to do anything I’m gonna say yes I’m gonna say yes so when Stevie called

I’m gonna say yes so when Stevie called

I’m gonna say yes so when Stevie called me this time I thought I’d try out my

me this time I thought I’d try out my

me this time I thought I’d try out my first no on Stevie let’s start big he

first no on Stevie let’s start big he

first no on Stevie let’s start big he wanted me to donate some money to a

wanted me to donate some money to a

wanted me to donate some money to a charity and I didn’t want to donate to

charity and I didn’t want to donate to

charity and I didn’t want to donate to the charity because I have my own

the charity because I have my own

the charity because I have my own charities and I care about a lot of

charities and I care about a lot of

charities and I care about a lot of people but the problem is when you you

people but the problem is when you you

people but the problem is when you you have money everybody thinks you just

have money everybody thinks you just

have money everybody thinks you just want to give to everything so every

want to give to everything so every

want to give to everything so every letter I ever get starts with we know

letter I ever get starts with we know

letter I ever get starts with we know you love the children

you love the children

you love the children yes I do love the children but somebody

yes I do love the children but somebody

yes I do love the children but somebody else is gonna have to help the children

else is gonna have to help the children

else is gonna have to help the children so I said to Stevie I said to Stevie no

so I said to Stevie I said to Stevie no

so I said to Stevie I said to Stevie no and as a person who has that disease to

and as a person who has that disease to

and as a person who has that disease to please I was waiting for him then just

please I was waiting for him then just

please I was waiting for him then just to say I will never speak to you again I

to say I will never speak to you again I

to say I will never speak to you again I will never call you I will never sing a

will never call you I will never sing a

will never call you I will never sing a song for you and he didn’t he just said

song for you and he didn’t he just said

song for you and he didn’t he just said okay okay okay it’s okay he said okay

okay okay okay it’s okay he said okay

okay okay okay it’s okay he said okay check you later and what I learned from

check you later and what I learned from

check you later and what I learned from that is many times you will have angst

that is many times you will have angst

that is many times you will have angst and worry about things and put yourself

and worry about things and put yourself

and worry about things and put yourself in a state like someone said this

in a state like someone said this

in a state like someone said this morning cuz their phone went off they

morning cuz their phone went off they

morning cuz their phone went off they were mortified over a phone I said

were mortified over a phone I said

were mortified over a phone I said really you will put yourself in a state

really you will put yourself in a state

really you will put yourself in a state when the other person really isn’t even

when the other person really isn’t even

when the other person really isn’t even thinking about you so learning that I

thinking about you so learning that I

thinking about you so learning that I could specifically determine for myself

could specifically determine for myself

could specifically determine for myself what the boundaries were for me what I

what the boundaries were for me what I

what the boundaries were for me what I wanted to do give my money give my time

wanted to do give my money give my time

wanted to do give my money give my time given of my service to who I wanted to

given of my service to who I wanted to

given of my service to who I wanted to give it to when I did that I get to make

give it to when I did that I get to make

give it to when I did that I get to make that decision and just because you get a

that decision and just because you get a

that decision and just because you get a hundred requests a week doesn’t mean you

hundred requests a week doesn’t mean you

hundred requests a week doesn’t mean you have to try to fulfill all of that just

have to try to fulfill all of that just

have to try to fulfill all of that just because you have all of these demands on

because you have all of these demands on

because you have all of these demands on your time and on you doesn’t mean that

your time and on you doesn’t mean that

your time and on you doesn’t mean that you have to say yes you get to decide

you have to say yes you get to decide

you have to say yes you get to decide because you’re the master of your fate

because you’re the master of your fate

because you’re the master of your fate the captain of your soul is William

the captain of your soul is William

the captain of your soul is William Ernest Henley said in Invictus and

Ernest Henley said in Invictus and

Ernest Henley said in Invictus and understanding that really change the

understanding that really change the

understanding that really change the meaning of my life and that I was not no

meaning of my life and that I was not no

meaning of my life and that I was not no longer driven by what other people

longer driven by what other people

longer driven by what other people wanted me to do but took charge of my

wanted me to do but took charge of my

wanted me to do but took charge of my own destiny making choices based upon

own destiny making choices based upon

own destiny making choices based upon what do I feel is the next right move

what do I feel is the next right move

what do I feel is the next right move for me setting boundaries for what you

for me setting boundaries for what you

for me setting boundaries for what you will and will no longer accept in your

will and will no longer accept in your

will and will no longer accept in your life is one of the most powerful

life is one of the most powerful

life is one of the most powerful decisions that you can make ever

decisions that you can make ever

decisions that you can make ever your life period when you start to

your life period when you start to

your life period when you start to accept responsibility and say this is my

accept responsibility and say this is my

accept responsibility and say this is my time I am NOT carving it out for anybody

time I am NOT carving it out for anybody

time I am NOT carving it out for anybody else unless I want to I am not letting

else unless I want to I am not letting

else unless I want to I am not letting other people attack my time I am setting

other people attack my time I am setting

other people attack my time I am setting the boundary right I’m setting the gate

the boundary right I’m setting the gate

the boundary right I’m setting the gate I’m building a wall so that to get at me

I’m building a wall so that to get at me

I’m building a wall so that to get at me to get the most precious thing I have it

to get the most precious thing I have it

to get the most precious thing I have it is time it’s gonna be valuable it’s

is time it’s gonna be valuable it’s

is time it’s gonna be valuable it’s gonna be worth it so many people are

gonna be worth it so many people are

gonna be worth it so many people are just time for your doing everything and

just time for your doing everything and

just time for your doing everything and you feel you have no time for yourself

you feel you have no time for yourself

you feel you have no time for yourself because you’re explaining your time

because you’re explaining your time

because you’re explaining your time doing things for other people and that

doing things for other people and that

doing things for other people and that can be great if it’s out of service if

can be great if it’s out of service if

can be great if it’s out of service if it’s out of something that fills you up

it’s out of something that fills you up

it’s out of something that fills you up and fuels you but if you’re spending all

and fuels you but if you’re spending all

and fuels you but if you’re spending all of your time just living somebody else’s

of your time just living somebody else’s

of your time just living somebody else’s dream just all improve for other people

dream just all improve for other people

dream just all improve for other people and not having enough time for yourself

and not having enough time for yourself

and not having enough time for yourself to recharge or for you to go off and

to recharge or for you to go off and

to recharge or for you to go off and follow your dream do the thing that you

follow your dream do the thing that you

follow your dream do the thing that you want to do you’re gonna be unhappy then

want to do you’re gonna be unhappy then

want to do you’re gonna be unhappy then you’re gonna be unfulfilled then you

you’re gonna be unfulfilled then you

you’re gonna be unfulfilled then you need to be constantly playing small and

need to be constantly playing small and

need to be constantly playing small and so what’s really important is that you

so what’s really important is that you

so what’s really important is that you start saying now that you start sending

start saying now that you start sending

start saying now that you start sending values that you start protecting your

values that you start protecting your

values that you start protecting your time whether it’s just blocks whether

time whether it’s just blocks whether

time whether it’s just blocks whether you start with just an hour a day from

you start with just an hour a day from

you start with just an hour a day from 7:00 in the morning to 8:00 in the

7:00 in the morning to 8:00 in the

7:00 in the morning to 8:00 in the morning this is my time or 7:00 at night

morning this is my time or 7:00 at night

morning this is my time or 7:00 at night 8:00 at night is my time I’m doing this

8:00 at night is my time I’m doing this

8:00 at night is my time I’m doing this nobody talked to me phones off like

nobody talked to me phones off like

nobody talked to me phones off like don’t email me don’t distract me you

don’t email me don’t distract me you

don’t email me don’t distract me you know training the people around you so

know training the people around you so

know training the people around you so what it is you train the people in your

what it is you train the people in your

what it is you train the people in your life but this is how you work and you

life but this is how you work and you

life but this is how you work and you have to be willing to let go of small

have to be willing to let go of small

have to be willing to let go of small wins to go for the bigger one so as an

wins to go for the bigger one so as an

wins to go for the bigger one so as an example the first one for me was given

example the first one for me was given

example the first one for me was given up email I used to check email

up email I used to check email

up email I used to check email constantly I used to pride myself on if

constantly I used to pride myself on if

constantly I used to pride myself on if you sent me an email

you sent me an email

you sent me an email I would respond within one or two

I would respond within one or two

I would respond within one or two minutes and instantly and every time I

minutes and instantly and every time I

minutes and instantly and every time I get a reply back see how you respond so

get a reply back see how you respond so

get a reply back see how you respond so quickly and that fed the negative loop

quickly and that fed the negative loop

quickly and that fed the negative loop right like you’re giving me you’re

right like you’re giving me you’re

right like you’re giving me you’re giving me a compliment you’re giving me

giving me a compliment you’re giving me

giving me a compliment you’re giving me a boost for doing this destructive habit

a boost for doing this destructive habit

a boost for doing this destructive habit so I’m gonna do it again and again and

so I’m gonna do it again and again and

so I’m gonna do it again and again and again I call it destructive because

again I call it destructive because

again I call it destructive because while it helped that one person helped

while it helped that one person helped

while it helped that one person helped out with a mic for a moment it

out with a mic for a moment it

out with a mic for a moment it constantly distracting from doing the

constantly distracting from doing the

constantly distracting from doing the big things I could never do a big

big things I could never do a big

big things I could never do a big project work really deeply on something

project work really deeply on something

project work really deeply on something creative because I kept getting beep

creative because I kept getting beep

creative because I kept getting beep beep you know kept getting that email

beep you know kept getting that email

beep you know kept getting that email ding going off and I’d be distracted and

ding going off and I’d be distracted and

ding going off and I’d be distracted and so if you’re constantly just replying to

so if you’re constantly just replying to

so if you’re constantly just replying to social media and answering phone calls

social media and answering phone calls

social media and answering phone calls and being in your email you’re never

and being in your email you’re never

and being in your email you’re never actually doing really really really

actually doing really really really

actually doing really really really important work and so you have to be

important work and so you have to be

important work and so you have to be willing to let go of

willing to let go of

willing to let go of minor wins to spend time on a bigger one

minor wins to spend time on a bigger one

minor wins to spend time on a bigger one sometimes that means I miss out on

sometimes that means I miss out on

sometimes that means I miss out on potentially bigger opportunities a media

potentially bigger opportunities a media

potentially bigger opportunities a media is a great example there’s reporters who

is a great example there’s reporters who

is a great example there’s reporters who need feedback by a certain time I’m

need feedback by a certain time I’m

need feedback by a certain time I’m working on a story my deadline is four

working on a story my deadline is four

working on a story my deadline is four o’clock today I don’t see the email till

o’clock today I don’t see the email till

o’clock today I don’t see the email till the next day I missed that I missed on

the next day I missed that I missed on

the next day I missed that I missed on that that chance to be in that story

that that chance to be in that story

that that chance to be in that story maybe that’s an amazing story that can

maybe that’s an amazing story that can

maybe that’s an amazing story that can help give me more credibility but I’m

help give me more credibility but I’m

help give me more credibility but I’m working on something else like in that

working on something else like in that

working on something else like in that time I’m present doing something else

time I’m present doing something else

time I’m present doing something else right in my book making some videos

right in my book making some videos

right in my book making some videos whatever it is I’m not distracted and so

whatever it is I’m not distracted and so

whatever it is I’m not distracted and so you know you’re playing the game that

you know you’re playing the game that

you know you’re playing the game that that focus work that you’re spending

that focus work that you’re spending

that focus work that you’re spending time on is going to yield something much

time on is going to yield something much

time on is going to yield something much bigger than just being constant

bigger than just being constant

bigger than just being constant distracted by other people’s agendas and

distracted by other people’s agendas and

distracted by other people’s agendas and so you need to train the people around

so you need to train the people around

so you need to train the people around you as another example I run a

you as another example I run a

you as another example I run a mastermind group here in Toronto for

mastermind group here in Toronto for

mastermind group here in Toronto for entrepreneurs with 300,000 plus in

entrepreneurs with 300,000 plus in

entrepreneurs with 300,000 plus in revenue and we meet once a month and the

revenue and we meet once a month and the

revenue and we meet once a month and the meeting is usually at my condo in the

meeting is usually at my condo in the

meeting is usually at my condo in the boardroom and they wanted to change it

boardroom and they wanted to change it

boardroom and they wanted to change it up somebody emailed the morning of we

up somebody emailed the morning of we

up somebody emailed the morning of we meet at night and the evil in the

meet at night and the evil in the

meet at night and the evil in the morning hey how about meet at my office

morning hey how about meet at my office

morning hey how about meet at my office I’m moving into a new office how about

I’m moving into a new office how about

I’m moving into a new office how about we meet there and everybody in the

we meet there and everybody in the

we meet there and everybody in the conversation was responding and say this

conversation was responding and say this

conversation was responding and say this is good grade like I can make it I can

is good grade like I can make it I can

is good grade like I can make it I can make it let’s go let’s switch it up

make it let’s go let’s switch it up

make it let’s go let’s switch it up let’s make it I don’t see the email if

let’s make it I don’t see the email if

let’s make it I don’t see the email if you email me the day of I may not get

you email me the day of I may not get

you email me the day of I may not get back to you that day I mean I might get

back to you that day I mean I might get

back to you that day I mean I might get back to you for two days

back to you for two days

back to you for two days because I’m working on important stuff

because I’m working on important stuff

because I’m working on important stuff I’m not getting distracted by something

I’m not getting distracted by something

I’m not getting distracted by something as little as where we’re gonna meet up

as little as where we’re gonna meet up

as little as where we’re gonna meet up tonight and at the end of the day

tonight and at the end of the day

tonight and at the end of the day somebody said hey we’re waiting forever

somebody said hey we’re waiting forever

somebody said hey we’re waiting forever to make a call on it I obviously didn’t

to make a call on it I obviously didn’t

to make a call on it I obviously didn’t make a call and everybody end up showing

make a call and everybody end up showing

make a call and everybody end up showing up at my place and we decided for the

up at my place and we decided for the

up at my place and we decided for the next month to go meet at that other

next month to go meet at that other

next month to go meet at that other person’s place but even if nobody showed

person’s place but even if nobody showed

person’s place but even if nobody showed up

up

up like everybody went to do the person’s

like everybody went to do the person’s

like everybody went to do the person’s place and I stayed here I’m cool with

place and I stayed here I’m cool with

place and I stayed here I’m cool with that I’m training the people around me

that I’m training the people around me

that I’m training the people around me that if you email me on the day of and

that if you email me on the day of and

that if you email me on the day of and then send like 15 follow-up emails I’m

then send like 15 follow-up emails I’m

then send like 15 follow-up emails I’m not seeing that I’m not replying to that

not seeing that I’m not replying to that

not seeing that I’m not replying to that I’m busy doing important stuff don’t

I’m busy doing important stuff don’t

I’m busy doing important stuff don’t expect me to handle your crisis I don’t

expect me to handle your crisis I don’t

expect me to handle your crisis I don’t think it’s a crisis I’m not being sucked

think it’s a crisis I’m not being sucked

think it’s a crisis I’m not being sucked into your crisis I have important work

into your crisis I have important work

into your crisis I have important work to do and so I train the people around

to do and so I train the people around

to do and so I train the people around me I don’t use a cell phone I have a

me I don’t use a cell phone I have a

me I don’t use a cell phone I have a phone where’s metal I have a phone but

phone where’s metal I have a phone but

phone where’s metal I have a phone but there’s no number I have a data package

there’s no number I have a data package

there’s no number I have a data package so I can connect and see what needs to

so I can connect and see what needs to

so I can connect and see what needs to get done or from bored again it’s an

get done or from bored again it’s an

get done or from bored again it’s an email but

email but

email but phone number when you have a phone

phone number when you have a phone

phone number when you have a phone number then people call you and that is

number then people call you and that is

number then people call you and that is a just huge time-suck a phone number is

a just huge time-suck a phone number is

a just huge time-suck a phone number is other people’s agenda for your time

other people’s agenda for your time

other people’s agenda for your time because even if you don’t answer you’re

because even if you don’t answer you’re

because even if you don’t answer you’re looking at the number music what is that

looking at the number music what is that

looking at the number music what is that person one and one the way they’re

person one and one the way they’re

person one and one the way they’re calling and you get distracted

calling and you get distracted

calling and you get distracted immediately distracted from what you

immediately distracted from what you

immediately distracted from what you were working on if I’m working on my

were working on if I’m working on my

were working on if I’m working on my book and I’m trying to make gold for you

book and I’m trying to make gold for you

book and I’m trying to make gold for you guys or on the middle of this video if

guys or on the middle of this video if

guys or on the middle of this video if I’m in the middle of recording this

I’m in the middle of recording this

I’m in the middle of recording this video somebody calls me and I look at it

video somebody calls me and I look at it

video somebody calls me and I look at it and I’m just thinking for five seconds

and I’m just thinking for five seconds

and I’m just thinking for five seconds what does that person want I’ve already

what does that person want I’ve already

what does that person want I’ve already forgotten what I’m talking in this video

forgotten what I’m talking in this video

forgotten what I’m talking in this video I’d start over this person just wasted

I’d start over this person just wasted

I’d start over this person just wasted my time and wasted all of your time

my time and wasted all of your time

my time and wasted all of your time right

right

right I’m not happy with that so you got to

I’m not happy with that so you got to

I’m not happy with that so you got to stop getting distracted you got to start

stop getting distracted you got to start

stop getting distracted you got to start setting some boundaries and be willing

setting some boundaries and be willing

setting some boundaries and be willing to give up some small wings because

to give up some small wings because

to give up some small wings because you’re working on much more important

you’re working on much more important

you’re working on much more important things train the people around you that

things train the people around you that

things train the people around you that your time is important if you don’t

your time is important if you don’t

your time is important if you don’t treat your own time as important than

treat your own time as important than

treat your own time as important than the people around you they won’t treat

the people around you they won’t treat

the people around you they won’t treat as important either set boundaries and

as important either set boundaries and

as important either set boundaries and set yourself free so the question that

set yourself free so the question that

set yourself free so the question that today is I’m curious what if the biggest

today is I’m curious what if the biggest

today is I’m curious what if the biggest time-suck in your life in your business

time-suck in your life in your business

time-suck in your life in your business that you now need to set some boundaries

that you now need to set some boundaries

that you now need to set some boundaries for after watching this video leave in

for after watching this video leave in

for after watching this video leave in the comments below really curious to

the comments below really curious to

the comments below really curious to find that I also want to give a quick

find that I also want to give a quick

find that I also want to give a quick shout out to Kelly from you and Kelly

shout out to Kelly from you and Kelly

shout out to Kelly from you and Kelly cue calm Kelly thank you so much for

cue calm Kelly thank you so much for

cue calm Kelly thank you so much for picking up a copy of my book your one

picking up a copy of my book your one

picking up a copy of my book your one word actually ten copies of the book and

word actually ten copies of the book and

word actually ten copies of the book and sharing it with your friends I really

sharing it with your friends I really

sharing it with your friends I really really really appreciate the support and

really really appreciate the support and

really really appreciate the support and I hope you enjoyed the read so thank you

I hope you enjoyed the read so thank you

I hope you enjoyed the read so thank you guys again for watching I believe in you

guys again for watching I believe in you

guys again for watching I believe in you and I hope you continue to believe in

and I hope you continue to believe in

and I hope you continue to believe in yourself and whatever your one word is

yourself and whatever your one word is

yourself and whatever your one word is I’ll see you again tomorrow morning for

I’ll see you again tomorrow morning for

I’ll see you again tomorrow morning for another shot events best

oh I’m great at boundaries I’m not great

oh I’m great at boundaries I’m not great at boundaries I’m kidding I so thought

at boundaries I’m kidding I so thought

at boundaries I’m kidding I so thought that was gonna be a laugh line I thought

that was gonna be a laugh line I thought

that was gonna be a laugh line I thought you guys knew me I thought you knew me

you guys knew me I thought you knew me

you guys knew me I thought you knew me well enough to know that no I I don’t

well enough to know that no I I don’t

well enough to know that no I I don’t have any better I’m the permeable

have any better I’m the permeable

have any better I’m the permeable membrane I don’t know I let I let the

membrane I don’t know I let I let the

membrane I don’t know I let I let the you know I’m a little better at it but

you know I’m a little better at it but

you know I’m a little better at it but but I have I don’t know I have learned

but I have I don’t know I have learned

but I have I don’t know I have learned one important thing which is that I

one important thing which is that I

one important thing which is that I think you sort of get to a point in your

think you sort of get to a point in your

think you sort of get to a point in your life where you think I have to learn how

life where you think I have to learn how

life where you think I have to learn how to say no to things I don’t want to do

to say no to things I don’t want to do

to say no to things I don’t want to do and that’s a big mature moment when you

and that’s a big mature moment when you

and that’s a big mature moment when you start to begin to do that but the bigger

start to begin to do that but the bigger

start to begin to do that but the bigger mature moment is when you learn how to

mature moment is when you learn how to

mature moment is when you learn how to say no to things you do want to do

say no to things you do want to do

say no to things you do want to do because you know that you just don’t

because you know that you just don’t

because you know that you just don’t have time or you don’t have energy or

have time or you don’t have energy or

have time or you don’t have energy or there just isn’t you know you have to

there just isn’t you know you have to

there just isn’t you know you have to sort of triage your life and there just

sort of triage your life and there just

sort of triage your life and there just isn’t an opportunity and and that only

isn’t an opportunity and and that only

isn’t an opportunity and and that only came to me very recently that sometimes

came to me very recently that sometimes

came to me very recently that sometimes you you have to turn down even the

you you have to turn down even the

you you have to turn down even the wonderful things in order to take care

wonderful things in order to take care

wonderful things in order to take care of your health or to take care of what

of your health or to take care of what

of your health or to take care of what you truly truly truly care about not

you truly truly truly care about not

you truly truly truly care about not just what you truly care about there’s a

just what you truly care about there’s a

just what you truly care about there’s a place in you that you must keep

place in you that you must keep

place in you that you must keep inviolate you must keep it pristine

inviolate you must keep it pristine

inviolate you must keep it pristine clean so that nobody has a right to

clean so that nobody has a right to

clean so that nobody has a right to curse you up treat you badly nobody no

curse you up treat you badly nobody no

curse you up treat you badly nobody no mother father no wife no husband knows

mother father no wife no husband knows

mother father no wife no husband knows nobody because that may be the place you

nobody because that may be the place you

nobody because that may be the place you go to when you meet God you have to have

go to when you meet God you have to have

go to when you meet God you have to have a place but did you say stop it back up

a place but did you say stop it back up

a place but did you say stop it back up not even must not know no absolutely and

not even must not know no absolutely and

not even must not know no absolutely and that’s one I told you 25 years ago

that’s one I told you 25 years ago

that’s one I told you 25 years ago yes say no when it’s no yeah say so back

yes say no when it’s no yeah say so back

yes say no when it’s no yeah say so back it up because that place has to remain

it up because that place has to remain

it up because that place has to remain clean and clear and that has to be a

clean and clear and that has to be a

clean and clear and that has to be a place within you yes ma’am yeah that is

place within you yes ma’am yeah that is

place within you yes ma’am yeah that is the best advice it’s 8:00 a.m. like I

the best advice it’s 8:00 a.m. like I

the best advice it’s 8:00 a.m. like I gotta get to the office and I was like

gotta get to the office and I was like

gotta get to the office and I was like why like why do I have to get like I I

why like why do I have to get like I I

why like why do I have to get like I I always wanted to be a writer

always wanted to be a writer

always wanted to be a writer I accomplished this thing I could make a

I accomplished this thing I could make a

I accomplished this thing I could make a living being a writer I have a home like

living being a writer I have a home like

living being a writer I have a home like I haven’t been there in weeks like why

I haven’t been there in weeks like why

I haven’t been there in weeks like why am I here and and I was like I was here

am I here and and I was like I was here

am I here and and I was like I was here because like I just say

because like I just say

because like I just say yes and I didn’t think about like I mean

yes and I didn’t think about like I mean

yes and I didn’t think about like I mean I didn’t actually weigh like the pros

I didn’t actually weigh like the pros

I didn’t actually weigh like the pros and cons of this scenario and again it’s

and cons of this scenario and again it’s

and cons of this scenario and again it’s like sometimes you got to do it you

like sometimes you got to do it you

like sometimes you got to do it you don’t want to do to figure out what you

don’t want to do to figure out what you

don’t want to do to figure out what you want to do but it was like I sort of

want to do but it was like I sort of

want to do but it was like I sort of distanced myself from a lot of things

distanced myself from a lot of things

distanced myself from a lot of things and I’ve gotten got my life in a good

and I’ve gotten got my life in a good

and I’ve gotten got my life in a good place and then someone called me and

place and then someone called me and

place and then someone called me and offered me money on the phone and I said

offered me money on the phone and I said

offered me money on the phone and I said yes alright because it’s so hard to say

yes alright because it’s so hard to say

yes alright because it’s so hard to say it like it’s so hard to to say notice

it like it’s so hard to to say notice

it like it’s so hard to to say notice stuff like especially if you’re like I

stuff like especially if you’re like I

stuff like especially if you’re like I do it’s so hard to say like I want to do

do it’s so hard to say like I want to do

do it’s so hard to say like I want to do this but I also want to do that I have

this but I also want to do that I have

this but I also want to do that I have to choose it’s easy to say like I’m

to choose it’s easy to say like I’m

to choose it’s easy to say like I’m gonna try to do both at the same time

gonna try to do both at the same time

gonna try to do both at the same time and I said yes to both like I don’t I

and I said yes to both like I don’t I

and I said yes to both like I don’t I don’t think I’ve ever like quit anything

don’t think I’ve ever like quit anything

don’t think I’ve ever like quit anything like I’ve just added new stuff right and

like I’ve just added new stuff right and

like I’ve just added new stuff right and so for me that certainly has added up

so for me that certainly has added up

so for me that certainly has added up over time to an unsustainable load raise

over time to an unsustainable load raise

over time to an unsustainable load raise your standard Apple at the core its core

your standard Apple at the core its core

your standard Apple at the core its core value is that that people passion and

value is that that people passion and

value is that that people passion and not one drop of my self-worth depends on

not one drop of my self-worth depends on

not one drop of my self-worth depends on Europe it’s something Samia

Europe it’s something Samia

Europe it’s something Samia I don’t ever give up I’d have to be dead

I don’t ever give up I’d have to be dead

I don’t ever give up I’d have to be dead or absolutely in faster hey believe

or absolutely in faster hey believe

or absolutely in faster hey believe nation if you want to see my all-time

nation if you want to see my all-time

nation if you want to see my all-time favorite top ten rows of success I have

favorite top ten rows of success I have

favorite top ten rows of success I have a very special secret video for you

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a very special secret video for you these are the individual clips that I

these are the individual clips that I

these are the individual clips that I have personally learned the most from

have personally learned the most from

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