everyone today I wanted to talk quickly about what to do when you have
about what to do when you have
about what to do when you have unsupported parents so I recently got
unsupported parents so I recently got
unsupported parents so I recently got asked by one of my YouTube subscribers
asked by one of my YouTube subscribers
asked by one of my YouTube subscribers who’s a teenager we’ll call him Jay and
who’s a teenager we’ll call him Jay and
who’s a teenager we’ll call him Jay and he wanted to be a motivational speaker
he wanted to be a motivational speaker
he wanted to be a motivational speaker and so I invited him into my mastermind
and so I invited him into my mastermind
and so I invited him into my mastermind group tgim for one week just to and ask
group tgim for one week just to and ask
group tgim for one week just to and ask his question to the group and get some
his question to the group and get some
his question to the group and get some feedback and support as well as this
feedback and support as well as this
feedback and support as well as this video for me and here’s his problems he
video for me and here’s his problems he
video for me and here’s his problems he was a teenager he wants to be a
was a teenager he wants to be a
was a teenager he wants to be a motivational speaker he wants to start
motivational speaker he wants to start
motivational speaker he wants to start improving his skills who wants launching
improving his skills who wants launching
improving his skills who wants launching youtube channel to start to get some
youtube channel to start to get some
youtube channel to start to get some practice and his parents laughed at his
practice and his parents laughed at his
practice and his parents laughed at his face they laughed at him said he can’t
face they laughed at him said he can’t
face they laughed at him said he can’t do it said nobody would ever listen to
do it said nobody would ever listen to
do it said nobody would ever listen to his advice and this is something that
his advice and this is something that
his advice and this is something that he’s holding herself back from doing
he’s holding herself back from doing
he’s holding herself back from doing something he really wants to do but he’s
something he really wants to do but he’s
something he really wants to do but he’s not doing it because he doesn’t have to
not doing it because he doesn’t have to
not doing it because he doesn’t have to support his family and so he wanted our
support his family and so he wanted our
support his family and so he wanted our feedback and so this this drives me nuts
feedback and so this this drives me nuts
feedback and so this this drives me nuts it drives me nuts because having
it drives me nuts because having
it drives me nuts because having unsupportive friends and family on the
unsupportive friends and family on the
unsupportive friends and family on the little man in your life will hold you
little man in your life will hold you
little man in your life will hold you back always from doing something great
back always from doing something great
back always from doing something great you have to first of all understand that
you have to first of all understand that
you have to first of all understand that if you want to be happy you want to be
if you want to be happy you want to be
if you want to be happy you want to be fulfilled you want to make a lot of
fulfilled you want to make a lot of
fulfilled you want to make a lot of money you want to have a big impact on
money you want to have a big impact on
money you want to have a big impact on this world the only way that is going to
this world the only way that is going to
this world the only way that is going to happen is if you follow your passion and
happen is if you follow your passion and
happen is if you follow your passion and do what makes you come alive if you do
do what makes you come alive if you do
do what makes you come alive if you do what your parents tell you to do if you
what your parents tell you to do if you
what your parents tell you to do if you do your friends think you should do then
do your friends think you should do then
do your friends think you should do then you’re living somebody else’s version of
you’re living somebody else’s version of
you’re living somebody else’s version of your life instead of your own version of
your life instead of your own version of
your life instead of your own version of your life and there’s no way that you’re
your life and there’s no way that you’re
your life and there’s no way that you’re going to be a big success by living
going to be a big success by living
going to be a big success by living somebody else’s version okay don’t let
somebody else’s version okay don’t let
somebody else’s version okay don’t let them put their experiences and their
them put their experiences and their
them put their experiences and their thought processes and their biases on
thought processes and their biases on
thought processes and their biases on you to drive you down a path for you to
you to drive you down a path for you to
you to drive you down a path for you to want to go whatever it is you want to
want to go whatever it is you want to
want to go whatever it is you want to learn go and learn you want to try try
learn go and learn you want to try try
learn go and learn you want to try try it your launch on youtube channel to
it your launch on youtube channel to
it your launch on youtube channel to practice being a speaker practice being
practice being a speaker practice being
practice being a speaker practice being the speaker put it up you always want to
the speaker put it up you always want to
the speaker put it up you always want to do with this mean you’re young now just
do with this mean you’re young now just
do with this mean you’re young now just a teenager you’ve got a huge light path
a teenager you’ve got a huge light path
a teenager you’ve got a huge light path ahead of you you always want to do the
ahead of you you always want to do the
ahead of you you always want to do the things that make you a lot and get
things that make you a lot and get
things that make you a lot and get you excited you don’t want to be the guy
you excited you don’t want to be the guy
you excited you don’t want to be the guy like most people who look back on their
like most people who look back on their
like most people who look back on their life right here 40 50 60 looking back to
life right here 40 50 60 looking back to
life right here 40 50 60 looking back to when you were 19 s a man I really wish I
when you were 19 s a man I really wish I
when you were 19 s a man I really wish I started right living with that regret
started right living with that regret
started right living with that regret for the rest of your life don’t let that
for the rest of your life don’t let that
for the rest of your life don’t let that be you if you want something you go
be you if you want something you go
be you if you want something you go after right now
after right now
after right now your environment sucks and that’s the
your environment sucks and that’s the
your environment sucks and that’s the first thing that you need to change and
first thing that you need to change and
first thing that you need to change and I’m not saying get new parents I’m sure
I’m not saying get new parents I’m sure
I’m not saying get new parents I’m sure they love you and I’m sure their advice
they love you and I’m sure their advice
they love you and I’m sure their advice it there they’re giving you is out of
it there they’re giving you is out of
it there they’re giving you is out of love right they want to see me
love right they want to see me
love right they want to see me successful just their approach totally
successful just their approach totally
successful just their approach totally sucks and your environment is terrible
sucks and your environment is terrible
sucks and your environment is terrible and so what you need to start doing is
and so what you need to start doing is
and so what you need to start doing is changing your environment what I would
changing your environment what I would
changing your environment what I would recommend is look at people who inspire
recommend is look at people who inspire
recommend is look at people who inspire you look at speakers that you look up to
you look at speakers that you look up to
you look at speakers that you look up to and say I want to be like that guy that
and say I want to be like that guy that
and say I want to be like that guy that girl surround yourself with that right
girl surround yourself with that right
girl surround yourself with that right start your day every day with a video
start your day every day with a video
start your day every day with a video from a speaker you look up to have stuff
from a speaker you look up to have stuff
from a speaker you look up to have stuff on your wall have statues have things
on your wall have statues have things
on your wall have statues have things that support you that build you up that
that support you that build you up that
that support you that build you up that make you want to be great if you want to
make you want to be great if you want to
make you want to be great if you want to be great you have to surround yourself
be great you have to surround yourself
be great you have to surround yourself with greatness that’s the only way that
with greatness that’s the only way that
with greatness that’s the only way that it happens and if you don’t have
it happens and if you don’t have
it happens and if you don’t have greatness around you if you have
greatness around you if you have
greatness around you if you have mediocrity around you guess what you’re
mediocrity around you guess what you’re
mediocrity around you guess what you’re going to be so start changing your
going to be so start changing your
going to be so start changing your environment from the media you consume
environment from the media you consume
environment from the media you consume the books you read the videos you watch
the books you read the videos you watch
the books you read the videos you watch your morning routine your daily schedule
your morning routine your daily schedule
your morning routine your daily schedule it’s got to support you to being up here
it’s got to support you to being up here
it’s got to support you to being up here right you can’t even see it gets off the
right you can’t even see it gets off the
right you can’t even see it gets off the screen up here that’s what you gotta be
screen up here that’s what you gotta be
screen up here that’s what you gotta be where right now you’re super low right
where right now you’re super low right
where right now you’re super low right and if you continue on this path you’re
and if you continue on this path you’re
and if you continue on this path you’re going to live the life that your parents
going to live the life that your parents
going to live the life that your parents are living and that’s not the path that
are living and that’s not the path that
are living and that’s not the path that you want to go down in terms of adding
you want to go down in terms of adding
you want to go down in terms of adding value and creating content people will
value and creating content people will
value and creating content people will listen to I have two things to offer you
listen to I have two things to offer you
listen to I have two things to offer you advice on one I would start with things
advice on one I would start with things
advice on one I would start with things that you know about okay so what have
that you know about okay so what have
that you know about okay so what have you gone through to this point in your
you gone through to this point in your
you gone through to this point in your life right so you’re a teenager you need
life right so you’re a teenager you need
life right so you’re a teenager you need to learn some lessons along the way it
to learn some lessons along the way it
to learn some lessons along the way it may not be a long road you may not have
may not be a long road you may not have
may not be a long road you may not have you know 80 years of experience to give
you know 80 years of experience to give
you know 80 years of experience to give to somebody but you’ve learned some
to somebody but you’ve learned some
to somebody but you’ve learned some things and you can help people who are
things and you can help people who are
things and you can help people who are still younger than you so what lessons
still younger than you so what lessons
still younger than you so what lessons can you give to people who are two three
can you give to people who are two three
can you give to people who are two three four five six years younger than you
four five six years younger than you
four five six years younger than you because they’re on YouTube man they are
because they’re on YouTube man they are
because they’re on YouTube man they are on YouTube they’re looking for advice
on YouTube they’re looking for advice
on YouTube they’re looking for advice you looking for help and you know they
you looking for help and you know they
you looking for help and you know they don’t look up to the 40 50 year olds
don’t look up to the 40 50 year olds
don’t look up to the 40 50 year olds right they want someone who can relate
right they want someone who can relate
right they want someone who can relate to them and so talking to those people
to them and so talking to those people
to them and so talking to those people are are people who can be inspired by
are are people who can be inspired by
are are people who can be inspired by your message right you may not inspire
your message right you may not inspire
your message right you may not inspire your 40 year old 50 year old parents
your 40 year old 50 year old parents
your 40 year old 50 year old parents whatever you may but depending on the
whatever you may but depending on the
whatever you may but depending on the message you may not and that’s okay look
message you may not and that’s okay look
message you may not and that’s okay look to the people that you can help be
to the people that you can help be
to the people that you can help be authentic
authentic
authentic right anything that you’re giving advice
right anything that you’re giving advice
right anything that you’re giving advice on it’s something that you’ve
on it’s something that you’ve
on it’s something that you’ve experienced something that you feel not
experienced something that you feel not
experienced something that you feel not something that you’re just like
something that you’re just like
something that you’re just like researching and trying to get a grasp on
researching and trying to get a grasp on
researching and trying to get a grasp on write something that ah hits you here
write something that ah hits you here
write something that ah hits you here that’s what you want to talk about I’m
that’s what you want to talk about I’m
that’s what you want to talk about I’m passion about this video it’s coming
passion about this video it’s coming
passion about this video it’s coming through it’s more exciting that has more
through it’s more exciting that has more
through it’s more exciting that has more impact enough i’m talking like this and
impact enough i’m talking like this and
impact enough i’m talking like this and i’m trying to research any say you need
i’m trying to research any say you need
i’m trying to research any say you need to follow your passion because it’s
to follow your passion because it’s
to follow your passion because it’s really important right like if i read
really important right like if i read
really important right like if i read off some quote it’s not legit it’s got
off some quote it’s not legit it’s got
off some quote it’s not legit it’s got it right there that’s where it’s got to
it right there that’s where it’s got to
it right there that’s where it’s got to come from okay and then the other way
come from okay and then the other way
come from okay and then the other way that I would do it kind of hurt a bit
that I would do it kind of hurt a bit
that I would do it kind of hurt a bit the other thing that I would do is uh
the other thing that I would do is uh
the other thing that I would do is uh talk about what you’re going through so
talk about what you’re going through so
talk about what you’re going through so what are the challenges that you’re
what are the challenges that you’re
what are the challenges that you’re facing right now talk about this talk
facing right now talk about this talk
facing right now talk about this talk about the fear of going on YouTube
about the fear of going on YouTube
about the fear of going on YouTube talking about the fear of not having the
talking about the fear of not having the
talking about the fear of not having the support of your parents talk about all
support of your parents talk about all
support of your parents talk about all that stuff things that you are currently
that stuff things that you are currently
that stuff things that you are currently going through right now because that
going through right now because that
going through right now because that will inspire other people who are going
will inspire other people who are going
will inspire other people who are going through those same problems and how
through those same problems and how
through those same problems and how you’re doing and how you’re overcoming
you’re doing and how you’re overcoming
you’re doing and how you’re overcoming it and people on people to follow you on
it and people on people to follow you on
it and people on people to follow you on your journey could be another great way
your journey could be another great way
your journey could be another great way for you to motivate people without
for you to motivate people without
for you to motivate people without having to be the expert on everything
having to be the expert on everything
having to be the expert on everything right saying I don’t know how to do this
right saying I don’t know how to do this
right saying I don’t know how to do this but I don’t want to live in regret for
but I don’t want to live in regret for
but I don’t want to live in regret for the rest of my so I’m trying to figure
the rest of my so I’m trying to figure
the rest of my so I’m trying to figure it out and this is my path I hope you
it out and this is my path I hope you
it out and this is my path I hope you guys will join me on and you’ll get lots
guys will join me on and you’ll get lots
guys will join me on and you’ll get lots of support one more again notice it too
of support one more again notice it too
of support one more again notice it too but I got three the third one is I would
but I got three the third one is I would
but I got three the third one is I would interview people who you look up to who
interview people who you look up to who
interview people who you look up to who have a message that you can learn from
have a message that you can learn from
have a message that you can learn from right so if you look up to whatever
right so if you look up to whatever
right so if you look up to whatever public speaker or whatever author
public speaker or whatever author
public speaker or whatever author whatever youtuber asked him an interview
whatever youtuber asked him an interview
whatever youtuber asked him an interview with them and ask them questions that
with them and ask them questions that
with them and ask them questions that not only help you but also will help
not only help you but also will help
not only help you but also will help your audience so by that combination of
your audience so by that combination of
your audience so by that combination of one sharing what you know authentically
one sharing what you know authentically
one sharing what you know authentically right I’m not going to pound this heart
right I’m not going to pound this heart
right I’m not going to pound this heart this time and then to sharing what
this time and then to sharing what
this time and then to sharing what you’re going through right now your
you’re going through right now your
you’re going through right now your future concerns your worries your
future concerns your worries your
future concerns your worries your journey and then three interviewing
journey and then three interviewing
journey and then three interviewing people who are ahead of you who you look
people who are ahead of you who you look
people who are ahead of you who you look up to who have an inspired message as
up to who have an inspired message as
up to who have an inspired message as well that you can learn from and pull
well that you can learn from and pull
well that you can learn from and pull questions from to help inspire your
questions from to help inspire your
questions from to help inspire your audience that’s gold man that’s cool and
audience that’s gold man that’s cool and
audience that’s gold man that’s cool and maybe this isn’t you know you start on
maybe this isn’t you know you start on
maybe this isn’t you know you start on YouTube maybe you go somewhere else and
YouTube maybe you go somewhere else and
YouTube maybe you go somewhere else and you follow some where the path and
you follow some where the path and
you follow some where the path and that’s okay right life is not this
that’s okay right life is not this
that’s okay right life is not this straight line you’re gonna wobble all
straight line you’re gonna wobble all
straight line you’re gonna wobble all over the place but the only way to go
over the place but the only way to go
over the place but the only way to go from here to here is a start right if
from here to here is a start right if
from here to here is a start right if you’re just staying down here and you’re
you’re just staying down here and you’re
you’re just staying down here and you’re not taking any action because your
not taking any action because your
not taking any action because your parents tell you that you suck and
parents tell you that you suck and
parents tell you that you suck and they’re laughing at you you never
they’re laughing at you you never
they’re laughing at you you never get to where you want to go okay follow
get to where you want to go okay follow
get to where you want to go okay follow your passion change your environment
your passion change your environment
your passion change your environment start making it impact and I’m gonna
start making it impact and I’m gonna
start making it impact and I’m gonna start following you want to see that
start following you want to see that
start following you want to see that video all right good luck that’s it
video all right good luck that’s it
video all right good luck that’s it believe I’ll talk you soon man
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