you can either live your dreams or live your fears and I think the majority of
your fears and I think the majority of
your fears and I think the majority of people actually are not living their
people actually are not living their
people actually are not living their dreams but are living their fears so I
dreams but are living their fears so I
dreams but are living their fears so I want to ask you a question what are your
want to ask you a question what are your
want to ask you a question what are your fears what are you afraid of what are
fears what are you afraid of what are
fears what are you afraid of what are you scared of because we all have fears
you scared of because we all have fears
you scared of because we all have fears don’t we we all have something that’s
don’t we we all have something that’s
don’t we we all have something that’s blocking us that’s holding us back and
blocking us that’s holding us back and
blocking us that’s holding us back and as we begin to look at life what we
as we begin to look at life what we
as we begin to look at life what we realize is that the reason that most
realize is that the reason that most
realize is that the reason that most people are not living out their true
people are not living out their true
people are not living out their true potential and not doing all of the
potential and not doing all of the
potential and not doing all of the things that they would really like to do
things that they would really like to do
things that they would really like to do it’s because of fear some people called
it’s because of fear some people called
it’s because of fear some people called fear false evidence or expectations
fear false evidence or expectations
fear false evidence or expectations appearing real a reminder of the story
appearing real a reminder of the story
appearing real a reminder of the story of a guy that was living in an area
of a guy that was living in an area
of a guy that was living in an area where he had some new neighbors and
where he had some new neighbors and
where he had some new neighbors and these neighbors had a bulldog and when
these neighbors had a bulldog and when
these neighbors had a bulldog and when he came home every day this Bulldog used
he came home every day this Bulldog used
he came home every day this Bulldog used to chase him about a half a block from
to chase him about a half a block from
to chase him about a half a block from his house every day he would have to
his house every day he would have to
his house every day he would have to streak home I mean he was just run this
streak home I mean he was just run this
streak home I mean he was just run this bulldog be right on his heels and so he
bulldog be right on his heels and so he
bulldog be right on his heels and so he just got tired of that because he would
just got tired of that because he would
just got tired of that because he would go home about a half a block away from
go home about a half a block away from
go home about a half a block away from home he would look around for this
home he would look around for this
home he would look around for this Bulldog that he would see and he would
Bulldog that he would see and he would
Bulldog that he would see and he would go walking casually along and his
go walking casually along and his
go walking casually along and his Bulldog come out of nowhere well it’s
Bulldog come out of nowhere well it’s
Bulldog come out of nowhere well it’s not chancing here to run home so this
not chancing here to run home so this
not chancing here to run home so this one day he just got tired and so when
one day he just got tired and so when
one day he just got tired and so when the Bulldog was running after and he
the Bulldog was running after and he
the Bulldog was running after and he started running he saw a rock and he
started running he saw a rock and he
started running he saw a rock and he stopped to pick it up to throw out the
stopped to pick it up to throw out the
stopped to pick it up to throw out the Bulldog and when the Bulldog got up on
Bulldog and when the Bulldog got up on
Bulldog and when the Bulldog got up on him he started barking you realized the
him he started barking you realized the
him he started barking you realized the Bulldog could have any teeth involved
then he’s not change the boat on him you
then he’s not change the boat on him you don’t get all the way from it the boat
don’t get all the way from it the boat
don’t get all the way from it the boat the Moondogs gonna done is gum you know
the Moondogs gonna done is gum you know
the Moondogs gonna done is gum you know and so you know what most people go
and so you know what most people go
and so you know what most people go through life running scared running
through life running scared running
through life running scared running scared from things that have no teeth in
scared from things that have no teeth in
scared from things that have no teeth in them because they’re false expectations
them because they’re false expectations
them because they’re false expectations appearing will but see we’re brilliant
appearing will but see we’re brilliant
appearing will but see we’re brilliant enough to scare ourselves to death you
enough to scare ourselves to death you
enough to scare ourselves to death you realize that there are some people
realize that there are some people
realize that there are some people actually will get a kick out of scaring
actually will get a kick out of scaring
actually will get a kick out of scaring themselves to death I remember the last
themselves to death I remember the last
themselves to death I remember the last frightening movie I saw it was the
frightening movie I saw it was the
frightening movie I saw it was the Exorcist I will never forget I was so
Exorcist I will never forget I was so
Exorcist I will never forget I was so frightened when I came home I’ll never
frightened when I came home I’ll never
frightened when I came home I’ll never got drove in the driveway and I had
got drove in the driveway and I had
got drove in the driveway and I had already called my former wife and said
already called my former wife and said
already called my former wife and said listen turn the lights on I was coming
listen turn the lights on I was coming
listen turn the lights on I was coming in the driveway and I and I was getting
in the driveway and I and I was getting
in the driveway and I and I was getting out of the car and all of a sudden I
out of the car and all of a sudden I
out of the car and all of a sudden I couldn’t get out of someone my heart I
couldn’t get out of someone my heart I
couldn’t get out of someone my heart I said mama they got me there Gaby she
said mama they got me there Gaby she
said mama they got me there Gaby she came to the kitchen when I said take
came to the kitchen when I said take
came to the kitchen when I said take your seat belt loose fool okay okay
your seat belt loose fool okay okay
your seat belt loose fool okay okay I was striped out of my wits but there
I was striped out of my wits but there
I was striped out of my wits but there are a lot of people who make you know
are a lot of people who make you know
are a lot of people who make you know for that Hey look I’m the person up my
for that Hey look I’m the person up my
for that Hey look I’m the person up my brother is a paratrooper my twin brother
brother is a paratrooper my twin brother
brother is a paratrooper my twin brother he’s in the military
he’s in the military
he’s in the military career man I would love to jump out of
career man I would love to jump out of
career man I would love to jump out of an airplane the parachute I’m scared
an airplane the parachute I’m scared
an airplane the parachute I’m scared though I mean I really admire our
though I mean I really admire our
though I mean I really admire our brother for that I would really love to
brother for that I would really love to
brother for that I would really love to be macho vampire one of the things that
be macho vampire one of the things that
be macho vampire one of the things that you fear that’s been keeping you from
you fear that’s been keeping you from
you fear that’s been keeping you from living your dream that’s been keeping
living your dream that’s been keeping
living your dream that’s been keeping you from doing some things that you
you from doing some things that you
you from doing some things that you would like to do just think about those
would like to do just think about those
would like to do just think about those things and how do we begin to handle
things and how do we begin to handle
things and how do we begin to handle that Abraham Maslow said that the life
that Abraham Maslow said that the life
that Abraham Maslow said that the life is about growth and he said you can
is about growth and he said you can
is about growth and he said you can either go back to your comfort zone and
either go back to your comfort zone and
either go back to your comfort zone and there you won’t find any growth or you
there you won’t find any growth or you
there you won’t find any growth or you must Willie be willing to go forward and
must Willie be willing to go forward and
must Willie be willing to go forward and face your fears again and again and
face your fears again and again and
face your fears again and again and again because you’re never going to have
again because you’re never going to have
again because you’re never going to have a I’ll fear free existence I mean some
a I’ll fear free existence I mean some
a I’ll fear free existence I mean some fear is acceptable and legitimate there
fear is acceptable and legitimate there
fear is acceptable and legitimate there are some things that you you really
are some things that you you really
are some things that you you really should be
should be
should be wait up now you shouldn’t allow it to
wait up now you shouldn’t allow it to
wait up now you shouldn’t allow it to immobilize you you acknowledge it you
immobilize you you acknowledge it you
immobilize you you acknowledge it you take it into account and you carry
take it into account and you carry
take it into account and you carry yourself accordingly there are times
yourself accordingly there are times
yourself accordingly there are times that we should proceed with caution but
that we should proceed with caution but
that we should proceed with caution but it’s the difference between being
it’s the difference between being
it’s the difference between being stopped by fear it’s the difference
stopped by fear it’s the difference
stopped by fear it’s the difference between having a fear and the fear
between having a fear and the fear
between having a fear and the fear having you so what do we do one
having you so what do we do one
having you so what do we do one acknowledging and knowing that it’s okay
acknowledging and knowing that it’s okay
acknowledging and knowing that it’s okay don’t condemn yourself for being afraid
don’t condemn yourself for being afraid
don’t condemn yourself for being afraid it’s perfectly fine to have some fears
it’s perfectly fine to have some fears
it’s perfectly fine to have some fears you acknowledge your fears you embrace
you acknowledge your fears you embrace
you acknowledge your fears you embrace those fears and then you move on you act
those fears and then you move on you act
those fears and then you move on you act on whatever it is that you fear because
on whatever it is that you fear because
on whatever it is that you fear because once you embrace it see what you resist
once you embrace it see what you resist
once you embrace it see what you resist will persist what you’re resist will
will persist what you’re resist will
will persist what you’re resist will persist so one of the most important
persist so one of the most important
persist so one of the most important things is is to begin to embrace your
things is is to begin to embrace your
things is is to begin to embrace your fear the fear of bodily harm that’s
fear the fear of bodily harm that’s
fear the fear of bodily harm that’s legitimate when I was a disc jockey in
legitimate when I was a disc jockey in
legitimate when I was a disc jockey in Columbus Ohio you know I was young right
Columbus Ohio you know I was young right
Columbus Ohio you know I was young right 22 23 but I was tough and I was on the
22 23 but I was tough and I was on the
22 23 but I was tough and I was on the air and Al Green who was a great
air and Al Green who was a great
air and Al Green who was a great performer at that time and still is now
performer at that time and still is now
performer at that time and still is now now singing gospel music had a record
now singing gospel music had a record
now singing gospel music had a record his first hit record was backup train so
his first hit record was backup train so
his first hit record was backup train so a guy came into town and was
a guy came into town and was
a guy came into town and was impersonating Al Green I happened to
impersonating Al Green I happened to
impersonating Al Green I happened to know al green because I’d already booked
know al green because I’d already booked
know al green because I’d already booked it and so when I found out this guy was
it and so when I found out this guy was
it and so when I found out this guy was impersonating outreach I came on the air
impersonating outreach I came on the air
impersonating outreach I came on the air and did an editorial about it and I
and did an editorial about it and I
and did an editorial about it and I exposed it he was rather big fellow and
exposed it he was rather big fellow and
exposed it he was rather big fellow and so he had the word out that when I see
so he had the word out that when I see
so he had the word out that when I see this guy let’s prime a disc jockey I
this guy let’s prime a disc jockey I
this guy let’s prime a disc jockey I went knocking him out from having a big
went knocking him out from having a big
went knocking him out from having a big mouth so I was driving down Main Street
mouth so I was driving down Main Street
mouth so I was driving down Main Street in Columbus Ohio had my son in a car and
in Columbus Ohio had my son in a car and
in Columbus Ohio had my son in a car and I always have this little thing hey if
I always have this little thing hey if
I always have this little thing hey if anybody will put a threat on me I’ll
anybody will put a threat on me I’ll
anybody will put a threat on me I’ll make him honor it so I saw this guy on
make him honor it so I saw this guy on
make him honor it so I saw this guy on the street so I pull around I say excuse
the street so I pull around I say excuse
the street so I pull around I say excuse me I’ll be right back got out the car
me I’ll be right back got out the car
me I’ll be right back got out the car hey man I heard you said that you were
hey man I heard you said that you were
hey man I heard you said that you were looking for me I’m les Brown he said you
looking for me I’m les Brown he said you
looking for me I’m les Brown he said you are say yeah I said what is it I’m the
are say yeah I said what is it I’m the
are say yeah I said what is it I’m the one that said that you are an imposter I
one that said that you are an imposter I
one that said that you are an imposter I said I want to know what you’re going to
said I want to know what you’re going to
said I want to know what you’re going to do about it he opened it’s going you had
do about it he opened it’s going you had
do about it he opened it’s going you had a gun there
a gun there
a gun there I say but whatever I said to hurt you
acknowledged of beer scare yourself
acknowledged of beer scare yourself accordingly and do what makes sense for
accordingly and do what makes sense for
accordingly and do what makes sense for you
you
you well one major fear I’ve always had is a
well one major fear I’ve always had is a
well one major fear I’ve always had is a fear of dentists and this fear had me I
fear of dentists and this fear had me I
fear of dentists and this fear had me I didn’t have that fear and what really
didn’t have that fear and what really
didn’t have that fear and what really important frosted you got to watch
important frosted you got to watch
important frosted you got to watch things that can feed your fear I saw a
things that can feed your fear I saw a
things that can feed your fear I saw a movie that most people would not
movie that most people would not
movie that most people would not remember this movie was starring Dustin
remember this movie was starring Dustin
remember this movie was starring Dustin Hoffman
Hoffman
Hoffman called the Marathon Man with Laurence
called the Marathon Man with Laurence
called the Marathon Man with Laurence Olivier when he’s trying to get a
Olivier when he’s trying to get a
Olivier when he’s trying to get a confession out of here and he took this
confession out of here and he took this
confession out of here and he took this drill out let me tell you someone he
drill out let me tell you someone he
drill out let me tell you someone he went in dunk my Hoffman’s mouth with
went in dunk my Hoffman’s mouth with
went in dunk my Hoffman’s mouth with that drill I had a dollar worth of
that drill I had a dollar worth of
that drill I had a dollar worth of popcorn that part go with everywhere you
popcorn that part go with everywhere you
popcorn that part go with everywhere you know I could not go to the dentist for
know I could not go to the dentist for
know I could not go to the dentist for five years I left broadcasting went to
five years I left broadcasting went to
five years I left broadcasting went to the Ohio legislature had an impacted
the Ohio legislature had an impacted
the Ohio legislature had an impacted wisdom tooth now that hurts and I would
wisdom tooth now that hurts and I would
wisdom tooth now that hurts and I would call and soon as the people would answer
call and soon as the people would answer
call and soon as the people would answer the phone I would hang up as I fight
the phone I would hang up as I fight
the phone I would hang up as I fight about dr. Hamlet office boom I’d hail
about dr. Hamlet office boom I’d hail
about dr. Hamlet office boom I’d hail then I got to the point where I could
then I got to the point where I could
then I got to the point where I could just ask for an appointment hello and I
just ask for an appointment hello and I
just ask for an appointment hello and I wouldn’t give my real name because I
wouldn’t give my real name because I
wouldn’t give my real name because I knew I would go keep it
knew I would go keep it
knew I would go keep it I came anybody’s name Joe giggles here
I came anybody’s name Joe giggles here
I came anybody’s name Joe giggles here mrs. Brattle supporting sari up to the
mrs. Brattle supporting sari up to the
mrs. Brattle supporting sari up to the point where I could give my name it was
point where I could give my name it was
point where I could give my name it was about four years after that so my name
about four years after that so my name
about four years after that so my name is les bond then I would call back and
is les bond then I would call back and
is les bond then I would call back and say look here due to my legislative
say look here due to my legislative
say look here due to my legislative agenda I won’t be able to make it so the
agenda I won’t be able to make it so the
agenda I won’t be able to make it so the lady finally federal function you’re
lady finally federal function you’re
lady finally federal function you’re scared aren’t you
scared aren’t you
scared aren’t you I said no I’m not then why
I said no I’m not then why
I said no I’m not then why don’t you come in that’s none of your
don’t you come in that’s none of your
don’t you come in that’s none of your business
she said you’re not coming in because
she said you’re not coming in because you’re scared I wish you just would not
you’re scared I wish you just would not
you’re scared I wish you just would not waste our time and you hung up I said
waste our time and you hung up I said
waste our time and you hung up I said you have no right to do that to people
you have no right to do that to people
you have no right to do that to people like me you know so finally we’ll make
like me you know so finally we’ll make
like me you know so finally we’ll make it long in short I was hurting so bad as
it long in short I was hurting so bad as
it long in short I was hurting so bad as a way to I’ve got to do something and I
a way to I’ve got to do something and I
a way to I’ve got to do something and I said what am I afraid of go there and
said what am I afraid of go there and
said what am I afraid of go there and handle that’s it man that’s a dr. hammer
handle that’s it man that’s a dr. hammer
handle that’s it man that’s a dr. hammer I just can’t hear this drill I mean you
I just can’t hear this drill I mean you
I just can’t hear this drill I mean you can do whatever I just don’t I don’t
can do whatever I just don’t I don’t
can do whatever I just don’t I don’t need to hear this drill this drill that
need to hear this drill this drill that
need to hear this drill this drill that sound you know that’s the what gets me
sound you know that’s the what gets me
sound you know that’s the what gets me that drill don’t pull that drill out on
that drill don’t pull that drill out on
that drill don’t pull that drill out on me you could just calm down Conda and it
me you could just calm down Conda and it
me you could just calm down Conda and it wasn’t really bad as I thought it was
wasn’t really bad as I thought it was
wasn’t really bad as I thought it was one of the things you find out that when
one of the things you find out that when
one of the things you find out that when you face your fears it’s not as bad as
you face your fears it’s not as bad as
you face your fears it’s not as bad as you think it is when people tell you I
you think it is when people tell you I
you think it is when people tell you I just can’t do that I can’t handle I mean
just can’t do that I can’t handle I mean
just can’t do that I can’t handle I mean really really really I can’t handle it
really really really I can’t handle it
really really really I can’t handle it what they’re envisioning is that they’re
what they’re envisioning is that they’re
what they’re envisioning is that they’re not going to be if they’re going to
not going to be if they’re going to
not going to be if they’re going to clock out like you’re going to die guess
clock out like you’re going to die guess
clock out like you’re going to die guess what we all in occasions when we
what we all in occasions when we
what we all in occasions when we confronted our fears we had to do
confronted our fears we had to do
confronted our fears we had to do something we thought uncomfortable with
something we thought uncomfortable with
something we thought uncomfortable with we didn’t want to do it and we did not
we didn’t want to do it and we did not
we didn’t want to do it and we did not die they didn’t come take us and put us
die they didn’t come take us and put us
die they didn’t come take us and put us in a box somewhere am i right so what
in a box somewhere am i right so what
in a box somewhere am i right so what we’ve got to begin to do how do we
we’ve got to begin to do how do we
we’ve got to begin to do how do we handle that what’s the process because
handle that what’s the process because
handle that what’s the process because it’s all up in here one I think is
it’s all up in here one I think is
it’s all up in here one I think is imagine the worst-case scenario I just
imagine the worst-case scenario I just
imagine the worst-case scenario I just imagined that he went in my mouth and
imagined that he went in my mouth and
imagined that he went in my mouth and with this drill and that I just croaked
with this drill and that I just croaked
with this drill and that I just croaked out
then I imagine that’s the worst-case
then I imagine that’s the worst-case scenario then I had another technique I
scenario then I had another technique I
scenario then I had another technique I used visualize yourself being more than
used visualize yourself being more than
used visualize yourself being more than able and capable of handling it but I
able and capable of handling it but I
able and capable of handling it but I used to have a tremendous inferiority
used to have a tremendous inferiority
used to have a tremendous inferiority complex about speaking before people
complex about speaking before people
complex about speaking before people that I felt who had more going for them
that I felt who had more going for them
that I felt who had more going for them than I did because I’m not college
than I did because I’m not college
than I did because I’m not college trained I used to feel that college
trained I used to feel that college
trained I used to feel that college people were the most intelligent people
people were the most intelligent people
people were the most intelligent people on the planet and there was nothing I
on the planet and there was nothing I
on the planet and there was nothing I had to say for them and what would that
had to say for them and what would that
had to say for them and what would that what will they listen to me for that’s
what will they listen to me for that’s
what will they listen to me for that’s the way I felt and so I had to visualize
the way I felt and so I had to visualize
the way I felt and so I had to visualize myself speaking before them speaking
myself speaking before them speaking
myself speaking before them speaking before various audiences that had more
before various audiences that had more
before various audiences that had more going for them than I did and realize
going for them than I did and realize
going for them than I did and realize and appreciate my own value and that I
and appreciate my own value and that I
and appreciate my own value and that I was a worthwhile person even though I
was a worthwhile person even though I
was a worthwhile person even though I didn’t have all going for me I don’t
didn’t have all going for me I don’t
didn’t have all going for me I don’t have the money I didn’t have the
have the money I didn’t have the
have the money I didn’t have the education that they had so part of the
education that they had so part of the
education that they had so part of the process is seeing yourself being worthy
process is seeing yourself being worthy
process is seeing yourself being worthy being capable having what you need to
being capable having what you need to
being capable having what you need to make your worthwhile person and that
make your worthwhile person and that
make your worthwhile person and that you’re more than able and that you
you’re more than able and that you
you’re more than able and that you deserve to be listened to or you deserve
deserve to be listened to or you deserve
deserve to be listened to or you deserve to have that dream in that passion and
to have that dream in that passion and
to have that dream in that passion and whatever it is that you see and envision
whatever it is that you see and envision
whatever it is that you see and envision it you’ve got to see it in your mind’s
it you’ve got to see it in your mind’s
it you’ve got to see it in your mind’s eye and know that you’ve got what it
eye and know that you’ve got what it
eye and know that you’ve got what it takes repeat after me please
takes repeat after me please
takes repeat after me please I must see and my mind’s I see myself
I must see and my mind’s I see myself
I must see and my mind’s I see myself confronting my fears handling my fears
confronting my fears handling my fears
confronting my fears handling my fears I’m more than able shake somebody’s hand
I’m more than able shake somebody’s hand
I’m more than able shake somebody’s hand on your right and left and say you’ve
on your right and left and say you’ve
on your right and left and say you’ve got the right stuff
so deciding as you look at your life as
so deciding as you look at your life as you look into the future and say what
you look into the future and say what
you look into the future and say what fears am i holding on to what fears that
fears am i holding on to what fears that
fears am i holding on to what fears that I’m aligned to imprison me that’s
I’m aligned to imprison me that’s
I’m aligned to imprison me that’s keeping me from breaking out that’s
keeping me from breaking out that’s
keeping me from breaking out that’s keeping me from living up to my true
keeping me from living up to my true
keeping me from living up to my true potential that’s keeping me from really
potential that’s keeping me from really
potential that’s keeping me from really being happy that’s keeping me from
being happy that’s keeping me from
being happy that’s keeping me from having a sense of adventure and
having a sense of adventure and
having a sense of adventure and excitement in my life what’s what’s
excitement in my life what’s what’s
excitement in my life what’s what’s keeping me from controlling my destiny
keeping me from controlling my destiny
keeping me from controlling my destiny what fears and I’m giving that
what fears and I’m giving that
what fears and I’m giving that permission to notice what I said that we
permission to notice what I said that we
permission to notice what I said that we must give our permission to fear to
must give our permission to fear to
must give our permission to fear to immobilize us because whatever
immobilize us because whatever
immobilize us because whatever discomfort you experience whatever
discomfort you experience whatever
discomfort you experience whatever challenges a difficulty that it is you
challenges a difficulty that it is you
challenges a difficulty that it is you got to handle it
got to handle it
got to handle it you’ve got to go up in there and wrestle
you’ve got to go up in there and wrestle
you’ve got to go up in there and wrestle with it will it be easy no will it be
with it will it be easy no will it be
with it will it be easy no will it be challenging yes friend of mine who’s
challenging yes friend of mine who’s
challenging yes friend of mine who’s going into recovery
going into recovery
going into recovery he’s been addicted to crack cocaine for
he’s been addicted to crack cocaine for
he’s been addicted to crack cocaine for years and alcohol he was talking about
years and alcohol he was talking about
years and alcohol he was talking about how challenging it was and while he was
how challenging it was and while he was
how challenging it was and while he was dreading going on going into cold turkey
dreading going on going into cold turkey
dreading going on going into cold turkey I said what do you want me to tell you
I said what do you want me to tell you
I said what do you want me to tell you that it’s going to be a picnic no it’s
that it’s going to be a picnic no it’s
that it’s going to be a picnic no it’s not
not
not it’s going to kick your button yes it is
it’s going to kick your button yes it is
it’s going to kick your button yes it is are you going to want to die yes yes
are you going to want to die yes yes
are you going to want to die yes yes that’s a part of it but that’s just what
that’s a part of it but that’s just what
that’s a part of it but that’s just what you must go through in order to get
you must go through in order to get
you must go through in order to get where you want to go and guess what you
where you want to go and guess what you
where you want to go and guess what you are strong enough to do it you’re strong
are strong enough to do it you’re strong
are strong enough to do it you’re strong enough and your life is worth whatever
enough and your life is worth whatever
enough and your life is worth whatever you have to go through to get past this
you have to go through to get past this
you have to go through to get past this addiction whatever you have to do this
addiction whatever you have to do this
addiction whatever you have to do this dream you got whatever you want to do
dream you got whatever you want to do
dream you got whatever you want to do will it be easy to just run out and do
will it be easy to just run out and do
will it be easy to just run out and do it no will it happen overnight now will
it no will it happen overnight now will
it no will it happen overnight now will it be a struggle yes
it be a struggle yes
it be a struggle yes will there be times when you can’t make
will there be times when you can’t make
will there be times when you can’t make ends meet yes that’s a part of it will
ends meet yes that’s a part of it will
ends meet yes that’s a part of it will be times you won’t know what to do yes
be times you won’t know what to do yes
be times you won’t know what to do yes that’s a part of it well you have some
that’s a part of it well you have some
that’s a part of it well you have some opposition will things go wrong
opposition will things go wrong
opposition will things go wrong sometimes you will have many visits
sometimes you will have many visits
sometimes you will have many visits Murphy now if you’re saying well whose
Murphy now if you’re saying well whose
Murphy now if you’re saying well whose mark and go
somebody must have told us someplace
somebody must have told us someplace along the line I don’t know where but
along the line I don’t know where but
along the line I don’t know where but somebody must have told people Oh life
somebody must have told people Oh life
somebody must have told people Oh life is going to be real easy
is going to be real easy
is going to be real easy oh if they told you that I’ve got a
oh if they told you that I’ve got a
oh if they told you that I’ve got a special announcement they lie I don’t
special announcement they lie I don’t
special announcement they lie I don’t forget I had a special piece of
forget I had a special piece of
forget I had a special piece of legislation I wanted to get passed and I
legislation I wanted to get passed and I
legislation I wanted to get passed and I sent two old guys lucky can I count on
sent two old guys lucky can I count on
sent two old guys lucky can I count on your vote
your vote
your vote Ethan yes but look here if I can’t count
Ethan yes but look here if I can’t count
Ethan yes but look here if I can’t count on to let me know this another guy that
on to let me know this another guy that
on to let me know this another guy that owes midship and I can call on that and
owes midship and I can call on that and
owes midship and I can call on that and I want need your vote but I do need it
I want need your vote but I do need it
I want need your vote but I do need it if you say you’re going to do it do it
if you say you’re going to do it do it
if you say you’re going to do it do it you say you can count on it legislation
you say you can count on it legislation
you say you can count on it legislation came up he voted against my bill my bill
came up he voted against my bill my bill
came up he voted against my bill my bill passed I went back to hey I told you I
passed I went back to hey I told you I
passed I went back to hey I told you I needed the vote but if you couldn’t give
needed the vote but if you couldn’t give
needed the vote but if you couldn’t give it up let me know and get somebody else
it up let me know and get somebody else
it up let me know and get somebody else in
in
in why are you tell me is it away I was in
why are you tell me is it away I was in
why are you tell me is it away I was in shock how many of you that life just
shock how many of you that life just
shock how many of you that life just were you out that you didn’t expect that
were you out that you didn’t expect that
were you out that you didn’t expect that you thought you go to school get good
you thought you go to school get good
you thought you go to school get good grades get a job and you came out here
grades get a job and you came out here
grades get a job and you came out here you’ll be able to get a job a little
you’ll be able to get a job a little
you’ll be able to get a job a little happily ever after if you say yes they
happily ever after if you say yes they
happily ever after if you say yes they never told me you know that something
never told me you know that something
never told me you know that something mom told me there’d be days like that
mom told me there’d be days like that
mom told me there’d be days like that even tell us that you got something
even tell us that you got something
even tell us that you got something about life is challenging I mean it’s
about life is challenging I mean it’s
about life is challenging I mean it’s some stuff you get out here you didn’t
some stuff you get out here you didn’t
some stuff you get out here you didn’t read it in a book though where then
read it in a book though where then
read it in a book though where then nobody warned you that it’s gonna come
nobody warned you that it’s gonna come
nobody warned you that it’s gonna come down on you like this it’s called life
down on you like this it’s called life
down on you like this it’s called life there are kind of challenges like that
there are kind of challenges like that
there are kind of challenges like that so what’s the next piece is that you
so what’s the next piece is that you
so what’s the next piece is that you accept yourself then you accept the fear
accept yourself then you accept the fear
accept yourself then you accept the fear as a fact and not a false so when you
as a fact and not a false so when you
as a fact and not a false so when you accept yourself and you accept fear as a
accept yourself and you accept fear as a
accept yourself and you accept fear as a fact that means that it’s something that
fact that means that it’s something that
fact that means that it’s something that happens it’s something that you’re going
happens it’s something that you’re going
happens it’s something that you’re going to experience but it is not a force to
to experience but it is not a force to
to experience but it is not a force to hold you back it doesn’t have any
hold you back it doesn’t have any
hold you back it doesn’t have any special power other than that that you
special power other than that that you
special power other than that that you give it so you accept the fact that you
give it so you accept the fact that you
give it so you accept the fact that you are play and then you move on anyhow you
are play and then you move on anyhow you
are play and then you move on anyhow you move on pass it and you do whatever
move on pass it and you do whatever
move on pass it and you do whatever you’ve got to do I was at a big
you’ve got to do I was at a big
you’ve got to do I was at a big motivational rally for gentleman by the
motivational rally for gentleman by the
motivational rally for gentleman by the name of Dexter Jaeger down in the
name of Dexter Jaeger down in the
name of Dexter Jaeger down in the Carolinas I was standing backstage
Carolinas I was standing backstage
Carolinas I was standing backstage age and I had to go out I was the last
age and I had to go out I was the last
age and I had to go out I was the last speaker on the program it’s the first
speaker on the program it’s the first
speaker on the program it’s the first time I’ve been in a stadium of this size
time I’ve been in a stadium of this size
time I’ve been in a stadium of this size over 10,000 people you couldn’t see the
over 10,000 people you couldn’t see the
over 10,000 people you couldn’t see the people because the lights are just
people because the lights are just
people because the lights are just blaring in your eyes called free
blaring in your eyes called free
blaring in your eyes called free enterprise day I was afraid my heart was
enterprise day I was afraid my heart was
enterprise day I was afraid my heart was beating fast I just pacing back and
beating fast I just pacing back and
beating fast I just pacing back and forth and Dexter said are you all right
forth and Dexter said are you all right
forth and Dexter said are you all right I said you fastly wait a bit just calm
I said you fastly wait a bit just calm
I said you fastly wait a bit just calm down calm yourself a little bit
down calm yourself a little bit
down calm yourself a little bit it’s all right left it’s all right all
it’s all right left it’s all right all
it’s all right left it’s all right all right just be as scared as you can be
right just be as scared as you can be
right just be as scared as you can be you as I say embrace that fear just try
you as I say embrace that fear just try
you as I say embrace that fear just try and see how scared you can really give
and see how scared you can really give
and see how scared you can really give and stop breathing deeper so the guy
and stop breathing deeper so the guy
and stop breathing deeper so the guy came back and said are you bout to die
came back and said are you bout to die
came back and said are you bout to die well I said no fine but after I started
well I said no fine but after I started
well I said no fine but after I started breaking it and trying to make myself as
breaking it and trying to make myself as
breaking it and trying to make myself as afraid as I can get and imagine what’s
afraid as I can get and imagine what’s
afraid as I can get and imagine what’s the worst thing that I can go out there
the worst thing that I can go out there
the worst thing that I can go out there do my Michael Blake and I played on
do my Michael Blake and I played on
do my Michael Blake and I played on stage the longer they gave you my jacket
so what I thought laughing at myself I
so what I thought laughing at myself I stopped talking about those they you
stopped talking about those they you
stopped talking about those they you don’t you care today arrows that I just
don’t you care today arrows that I just
don’t you care today arrows that I just calm myself down and I went out then I
calm myself down and I went out then I
calm myself down and I went out then I cooked and that’s what you got to do I
cooked and that’s what you got to do I
cooked and that’s what you got to do I had another experience where I was at a
had another experience where I was at a
had another experience where I was at a major corporation and I was one of my
major corporation and I was one of my
major corporation and I was one of my first major presentations I was going to
first major presentations I was going to
first major presentations I was going to do for this corporation and I had four
do for this corporation and I had four
do for this corporation and I had four other presenters that had large firms
other presenters that had large firms
other presenters that had large firms and one of the things that you’ve got to
and one of the things that you’ve got to
and one of the things that you’ve got to do is you’ve got to watch your inner
do is you’ve got to watch your inner
do is you’ve got to watch your inner conversation and discipline your
conversation and discipline your
conversation and discipline your thinking and your imagination because if
thinking and your imagination because if
thinking and your imagination because if you don’t your mind will take you on a
you don’t your mind will take you on a
you don’t your mind will take you on a wild trip so my mind said hey les I said
wild trip so my mind said hey les I said
wild trip so my mind said hey les I said what this guy’s going to wipe you out
what this guy’s going to wipe you out
what this guy’s going to wipe you out you can’t compete with them because I
you can’t compete with them because I
you can’t compete with them because I heard these guys sitting over across
heard these guys sitting over across
heard these guys sitting over across from me and they were talking about all
from me and they were talking about all
from me and they were talking about all that they had going for them and so I
that they had going for them and so I
that they had going for them and so I started doubting myself and I became
started doubting myself and I became
started doubting myself and I became afraid and I was thinking well maybe I
afraid and I was thinking well maybe I
afraid and I was thinking well maybe I shouldn’t go in there
shouldn’t go in there
shouldn’t go in there and so I knew then and this is what I
and so I knew then and this is what I
and so I knew then and this is what I suggest to you sometimes you got to talk
suggest to you sometimes you got to talk
suggest to you sometimes you got to talk to yourself talking to yourself you’d be
to yourself talking to yourself you’d be
to yourself talking to yourself you’d be a good exercise might be the only
a good exercise might be the only
a good exercise might be the only intelligent conversation you ever get so
intelligent conversation you ever get so
intelligent conversation you ever get so I got up and I went the bathroom and I
I got up and I went the bathroom and I
I got up and I went the bathroom and I start talking to myself said last time
start talking to myself said last time
start talking to myself said last time let me tell you something what do you
let me tell you something what do you
let me tell you something what do you care about these guys and their firms
care about these guys and their firms
care about these guys and their firms and all their money you’ve got six
and all their money you’ve got six
and all their money you’ve got six children you’ve got to feel you got a
children you’ve got to feel you got a
children you’ve got to feel you got a mama you’ve got to take care of home you
mama you’ve got to take care of home you
mama you’ve got to take care of home you ain’t got nothing to lose
our normal up to those people I said
our normal up to those people I said don’t you do nothing till you hear from
don’t you do nothing till you hear from
don’t you do nothing till you hear from me and I got the contract
so when you have your Lord self talking
so when you have your Lord self talking to you telling you what you can’t do
to you telling you what you can’t do
to you telling you what you can’t do part of what you’ve got to do is be your
part of what you’ve got to do is be your
part of what you’ve got to do is be your own motivator you can you can’t talk
own motivator you can you can’t talk
own motivator you can you can’t talk casually to yourself you can’t stare uh
casually to yourself you can’t stare uh
casually to yourself you can’t stare uh sit down you must calm down now no
sit down you must calm down now no
sit down you must calm down now no that’s unconscious man well here that
that’s unconscious man well here that
that’s unconscious man well here that you’ve got to have a good conversation
you’ve got to have a good conversation
you’ve got to have a good conversation to you so hey and answer yourself to
to you so hey and answer yourself to
to you so hey and answer yourself to don’t pity people in the attention you
don’t pity people in the attention you
don’t pity people in the attention you answer yourself hey what you’re going to
answer yourself hey what you’re going to
answer yourself hey what you’re going to I’m going in get off all right very good
I’m going in get off all right very good
I’m going in get off all right very good go on then take care busy you’ve got to
go on then take care busy you’ve got to
go on then take care busy you’ve got to talk to yourself and you build yourself
talk to yourself and you build yourself
talk to yourself and you build yourself up and you’ll feel your energy level
up and you’ll feel your energy level
up and you’ll feel your energy level coming up and people will feel that
coming up and people will feel that
coming up and people will feel that around you see now if you go through
around you see now if you go through
around you see now if you go through life being afraid people can sense that
life being afraid people can sense that
life being afraid people can sense that they can pick up that fear so that’s why
they can pick up that fear so that’s why
they can pick up that fear so that’s why you’ve got to stand up inside yourself
you’ve got to stand up inside yourself
you’ve got to stand up inside yourself I’m reminded of the little boy that was
I’m reminded of the little boy that was
I’m reminded of the little boy that was on a bus and and some bigger fellows who
on a bus and and some bigger fellows who
on a bus and and some bigger fellows who were picking at him you know and so he
were picking at him you know and so he
were picking at him you know and so he wanted to move from by then they were
wanted to move from by then they were
wanted to move from by then they were thumping you on the head and so you
thumping you on the head and so you
thumping you on the head and so you stood up just to get from by them and
stood up just to get from by them and
stood up just to get from by them and they would push him back down he would
they would push him back down he would
they would push him back down he would stand up again they’d push him back down
stand up again they’d push him back down
stand up again they’d push him back down and he stood up again they pushed in on
and he stood up again they pushed in on
and he stood up again they pushed in on held him down he said you might hold me
held him down he said you might hold me
held him down he said you might hold me down but I’m standing up inside myself
see when you are not filling your life
see when you are not filling your life with the things that you are capable of
with the things that you are capable of
with the things that you are capable of doing so we all have some stuff that
doing so we all have some stuff that
doing so we all have some stuff that we’ve been given and I don’t think that
we’ve been given and I don’t think that
we’ve been given and I don’t think that it’s optional for us to sit on what we
it’s optional for us to sit on what we
it’s optional for us to sit on what we have see if you’re sitting on what you
have see if you’re sitting on what you
have see if you’re sitting on what you have which you’ve been given I think
have which you’ve been given I think
have which you’ve been given I think everybody’s been given something to
everybody’s been given something to
everybody’s been given something to bring to the planet that only you can do
bring to the planet that only you can do
bring to the planet that only you can do that only you can perform that only you
that only you can perform that only you
that only you can perform that only you can initiate that activity and if you
can initiate that activity and if you
can initiate that activity and if you don’t do that if you’re not filling in
don’t do that if you’re not filling in
don’t do that if you’re not filling in your life with your life work or your
your life with your life work or your
your life with your life work or your mission then they’re gaps in your life
mission then they’re gaps in your life
mission then they’re gaps in your life and what we do when we’re not living out
and what we do when we’re not living out
and what we do when we’re not living out our true identity we begin to fill the
our true identity we begin to fill the
our true identity we begin to fill the gaps we fill the holes with garbage
gaps we fill the holes with garbage
gaps we fill the holes with garbage alcohol drugs whirly self-destructive
alcohol drugs whirly self-destructive
alcohol drugs whirly self-destructive behavior so when you begin to look at
behavior so when you begin to look at
behavior so when you begin to look at your life and you know that that you’re
your life and you know that that you’re
your life and you know that that you’re not doing what you can do because you
not doing what you can do because you
not doing what you can do because you have allowed yourself to be held captive
have allowed yourself to be held captive
have allowed yourself to be held captive by your fear now when you don’t have a
by your fear now when you don’t have a
by your fear now when you don’t have a true appreciation and acceptance for who
true appreciation and acceptance for who
true appreciation and acceptance for who you are and you allow yourself to be
you are and you allow yourself to be
you are and you allow yourself to be immobilized by fear what happens in the
immobilized by fear what happens in the
immobilized by fear what happens in the process is that you begin to abused
process is that you begin to abused
process is that you begin to abused yourself you begin to sabotage your life
yourself you begin to sabotage your life
yourself you begin to sabotage your life you begin to sabotage your dreams you
you begin to sabotage your dreams you
you begin to sabotage your dreams you begin to unconsciously work against
begin to unconsciously work against
begin to unconsciously work against yourself you become your own worst enemy
yourself you become your own worst enemy
yourself you become your own worst enemy so what do you do about that
so what do you do about that
so what do you do about that well you you begin to realize that your
well you you begin to realize that your
well you you begin to realize that your dream and your gifts have so much
dream and your gifts have so much
dream and your gifts have so much meaning and so much value for you till
meaning and so much value for you till
meaning and so much value for you till your hunger for them will begin to push
your hunger for them will begin to push
your hunger for them will begin to push you past the fear your hunger to have
you past the fear your hunger to have
you past the fear your hunger to have them will give you a special drive as
them will give you a special drive as
them will give you a special drive as you work on yourself as you begin to
you work on yourself as you begin to
you work on yourself as you begin to acknowledge your true identity the true
acknowledge your true identity the true
acknowledge your true identity the true power that you have the true capacity
power that you have the true capacity
power that you have the true capacity you have to bring about change the
you have to bring about change the
you have to bring about change the miracle-working power that you have
miracle-working power that you have
miracle-working power that you have within yourself to do the things that
within yourself to do the things that
within yourself to do the things that you want to do when you take them on I’m
you want to do when you take them on I’m
you want to do when you take them on I’m reminded of a man who
reminded of a man who
reminded of a man who this gentleman was doing a special study
this gentleman was doing a special study
this gentleman was doing a special study of a special tribe in Africa headhunters
of a special tribe in Africa headhunters
of a special tribe in Africa headhunters and he had difficulty in developing a
and he had difficulty in developing a
and he had difficulty in developing a relationship with these tribesmen
relationship with these tribesmen
relationship with these tribesmen because of the fact that he had fear
because of the fact that he had fear
because of the fact that he had fear yeah beautiful pig is in jail all fears
yeah beautiful pig is in jail all fears
yeah beautiful pig is in jail all fears are bad I was a legitimate deer I was a
are bad I was a legitimate deer I was a
are bad I was a legitimate deer I was a good for you to give you headache so he
good for you to give you headache so he
good for you to give you headache so he worked there for a long time with no
worked there for a long time with no
worked there for a long time with no effort no progress in developing
effort no progress in developing
effort no progress in developing relationship and rapport and being able
relationship and rapport and being able
relationship and rapport and being able to achieve a level of trust so finally
to achieve a level of trust so finally
to achieve a level of trust so finally one night while he was in bed he was
one night while he was in bed he was
one night while he was in bed he was thinking about it what what is it that
thinking about it what what is it that
thinking about it what what is it that you came here to do what is your life
you came here to do what is your life
you came here to do what is your life work as a missionary said I wanted to
work as a missionary said I wanted to
work as a missionary said I wanted to study these tribesmen so what’s the
study these tribesmen so what’s the
study these tribesmen so what’s the worst thing that they can do to you kill
worst thing that they can do to you kill
worst thing that they can do to you kill you and he just decided hey this is what
you and he just decided hey this is what
you and he just decided hey this is what I came here to do I know that there’s
I came here to do I know that there’s
I came here to do I know that there’s some risk involved and I’m going to do
some risk involved and I’m going to do
some risk involved and I’m going to do it come what may he said I’m not going
it come what may he said I’m not going
it come what may he said I’m not going to be afraid he went back the next day
to be afraid he went back the next day
to be afraid he went back the next day and he started doing the work and trying
and he started doing the work and trying
and he started doing the work and trying to talk to and interview many of the
to talk to and interview many of the
to talk to and interview many of the members of this tribe and they began to
members of this tribe and they began to
members of this tribe and they began to respond to him they threw out the
respond to him they threw out the
respond to him they threw out the welcome mat to him and years later when
welcome mat to him and years later when
welcome mat to him and years later when people came to see what his progress was
people came to see what his progress was
people came to see what his progress was they asked him how were you able to do
they asked him how were you able to do
they asked him how were you able to do this how did you convert the
this how did you convert the
this how did you convert the relationship from being hostile to that
relationship from being hostile to that
relationship from being hostile to that of being positive he said something I
of being positive he said something I
of being positive he said something I think has value for all of us
think has value for all of us
think has value for all of us he said when life can no longer threaten
he said when life can no longer threaten
he said when life can no longer threaten you with death what else is this
you with death what else is this
you with death what else is this [Music]
[Music]
[Music] what else you see and the majority of
what else you see and the majority of
what else you see and the majority of the fears that we have are not life or
the fears that we have are not life or
the fears that we have are not life or death fear and not those kind of fears
death fear and not those kind of fears
death fear and not those kind of fears but through our imagination we blow them
but through our imagination we blow them
but through our imagination we blow them out of proportion and we give them more
out of proportion and we give them more
out of proportion and we give them more power than they actually have or deserve
power than they actually have or deserve
power than they actually have or deserve and we permit them to govern our lives
and we permit them to govern our lives
and we permit them to govern our lives we permit them to determine how far we
we permit them to determine how far we
we permit them to determine how far we can stretch out on our dreams and
can stretch out on our dreams and
can stretch out on our dreams and discover now stuff and as we begin to
discover now stuff and as we begin to
discover now stuff and as we begin to look at ourselves and and begin to wait
look at ourselves and and begin to wait
look at ourselves and and begin to wait a minute just getting to the point as
a minute just getting to the point as
a minute just getting to the point as you assess yourself in and begin to
you assess yourself in and begin to
you assess yourself in and begin to prove yourself and just a weary whole is
prove yourself and just a weary whole is
prove yourself and just a weary whole is Makonnen I’ve been sweating this out
Makonnen I’ve been sweating this out
Makonnen I’ve been sweating this out what can what’s the worst thing that can
what can what’s the worst thing that can
what can what’s the worst thing that can happen to nothing
happen to nothing
happen to nothing will it kill me will I die what why am I
will it kill me will I die what why am I
will it kill me will I die what why am I going through all of these changes over
going through all of these changes over
going through all of these changes over this how much power this is really have
this how much power this is really have
this how much power this is really have and am I the one that’s feeding the
and am I the one that’s feeding the
and am I the one that’s feeding the power into it so a lot of times we we
power into it so a lot of times we we
power into it so a lot of times we we allow ourselves to be fed and to be
allow ourselves to be fed and to be
allow ourselves to be fed and to be programming to to being afraid of you
programming to to being afraid of you
programming to to being afraid of you watch the news and read the newspaper
watch the news and read the newspaper
watch the news and read the newspaper you’ll be scared to come out the house
you’ll be scared to come out the house
you’ll be scared to come out the house am i right if we’re afraid so what kinds
am i right if we’re afraid so what kinds
am i right if we’re afraid so what kinds of things what kinds of thoughts are you
of things what kinds of thoughts are you
of things what kinds of thoughts are you feeding your consciousness what kind of
feeding your consciousness what kind of
feeding your consciousness what kind of things are you putting in your mind that
things are you putting in your mind that
things are you putting in your mind that will enable you to either move forward
will enable you to either move forward
will enable you to either move forward or than justify why you’re staying where
or than justify why you’re staying where
or than justify why you’re staying where you are another piece that I look at
you are another piece that I look at
you are another piece that I look at that when I finally decided that I was
that when I finally decided that I was
that when I finally decided that I was going to go to the dentist pain was so
going to go to the dentist pain was so
going to go to the dentist pain was so great I couldn’t hold out any longer all
great I couldn’t hold out any longer all
great I couldn’t hold out any longer all of a sudden it’s theater better
of a sudden it’s theater better
of a sudden it’s theater better I can take me not some people need fear
I can take me not some people need fear
I can take me not some people need fear you know have a friend that that we
you know have a friend that that we
you know have a friend that that we tolling hey man you know you need to
tolling hey man you know you need to
tolling hey man you know you need to lose some weight
lose some weight
lose some weight you gettin overweight and out of shape
you gettin overweight and out of shape
you gettin overweight and out of shape and at our age we need to have a regular
and at our age we need to have a regular
and at our age we need to have a regular program and bud said man I’ve been fat
program and bud said man I’ve been fat
program and bud said man I’ve been fat since I was little boy um you know I’m
since I was little boy um you know I’m
since I was little boy um you know I’m big-boned
big-boned
big-boned I’ve never seen a fat skeleton though
I’ve never seen a fat skeleton though
I’ve never seen a fat skeleton though yeah well bud became ill how many of us
yeah well bud became ill how many of us
yeah well bud became ill how many of us be the best guilting radii all right but
be the best guilting radii all right but
be the best guilting radii all right but I became ill passed out and I was there
I became ill passed out and I was there
I became ill passed out and I was there the doctor was talking to him and but I
the doctor was talking to him and but I
the doctor was talking to him and but I think was going to go right back to say
think was going to go right back to say
think was going to go right back to say no eating habits and doing everything
no eating habits and doing everything
no eating habits and doing everything you know to look here you are a diabetic
you know to look here you are a diabetic
you know to look here you are a diabetic and so now here’s some of the side
and so now here’s some of the side
and so now here’s some of the side effects you know you could go blind you
effects you know you could go blind you
effects you know you could go blind you can become an amputee none of that
can become an amputee none of that
can become an amputee none of that testing he said you can become impotent
testing he said you can become impotent
testing he said you can become impotent Ethan what did you say bob has lost
Ethan what did you say bob has lost
Ethan what did you say bob has lost weight he exercises every day he’s in
weight he exercises every day he’s in
weight he exercises every day he’s in the body sculpturing
the body sculpturing
the body sculpturing forty-eight years ago he looks great I
forty-eight years ago he looks great I
forty-eight years ago he looks great I can’t believe for just that once a bit
can’t believe for just that once a bit
can’t believe for just that once a bit made all the difference in the world but
made all the difference in the world but
made all the difference in the world but is a humanity so what is it that has to
is a humanity so what is it that has to
is a humanity so what is it that has to happen to you some people don’t take
happen to you some people don’t take
happen to you some people don’t take corrective measures to improve their
corrective measures to improve their
corrective measures to improve their health until they get a pronouncement
health until they get a pronouncement
health until they get a pronouncement that they’re about to die then they
that they’re about to die then they
that they’re about to die then they start okay all right I’m ready to do
start okay all right I’m ready to do
start okay all right I’m ready to do whatever you want me to do but they
whatever you want me to do but they
whatever you want me to do but they won’t do that they can see people drop
won’t do that they can see people drop
won’t do that they can see people drop it off like flies around there well
it off like flies around there well
it off like flies around there well that’s them you got to go from something
we go through life really blocking
we go through life really blocking ourselves constantly and fear is one of
ourselves constantly and fear is one of
ourselves constantly and fear is one of the greatest instruments that we could
the greatest instruments that we could
the greatest instruments that we could use to stifle our true potential when
use to stifle our true potential when
use to stifle our true potential when you begin to to look at your life you
you begin to to look at your life you
you begin to to look at your life you can decide to use fear as a blocker or
can decide to use fear as a blocker or
can decide to use fear as a blocker or you can decide to use it as building
you can decide to use it as building
you can decide to use it as building blocks but you decide hey look here I’m
blocks but you decide hey look here I’m
blocks but you decide hey look here I’m going to move in this direction
going to move in this direction
going to move in this direction I’m not going to allow anything to stop
I’m not going to allow anything to stop
I’m not going to allow anything to stop me from doing what I want to do we shake
me from doing what I want to do we shake
me from doing what I want to do we shake somebody’s hand on your right
somebody’s hand on your right
somebody’s hand on your right weapon say I’m unstoppable
[Music]
[Music] see when you begin to understand and
see when you begin to understand and
see when you begin to understand and acknowledge your fear and you go forth
acknowledge your fear and you go forth
acknowledge your fear and you go forth anyhow you go forth in a spirit and
anyhow you go forth in a spirit and
anyhow you go forth in a spirit and unknowing but there’s a way that you can
unknowing but there’s a way that you can
unknowing but there’s a way that you can begin to handle this there’s a way out
begin to handle this there’s a way out
begin to handle this there’s a way out here somewhere there’s a solution what
here somewhere there’s a solution what
here somewhere there’s a solution what it is that you’re seeking that you’ll
it is that you’re seeking that you’ll
it is that you’re seeking that you’ll have the capacity to whatever comes up
have the capacity to whatever comes up
have the capacity to whatever comes up to handle it to face it and rather than
to handle it to face it and rather than
to handle it to face it and rather than feeling powerless you begin to feel
feeling powerless you begin to feel
feeling powerless you begin to feel powerful see when all of the major
powerful see when all of the major
powerful see when all of the major downsizings that are taking place around
downsizings that are taking place around
downsizings that are taking place around this country there are a lot of people
this country there are a lot of people
this country there are a lot of people who are biting their fingers and fear
who are biting their fingers and fear
who are biting their fingers and fear that they might lose their jobs but
that they might lose their jobs but
that they might lose their jobs but there are few people who have decided
there are few people who have decided
there are few people who have decided within themselves I’m going to make it
within themselves I’m going to make it
within themselves I’m going to make it some people aren’t waiting to be cut
some people aren’t waiting to be cut
some people aren’t waiting to be cut some people are moving on their home
some people are moving on their home
some people are moving on their home because they feel within themselves I’ve
because they feel within themselves I’ve
because they feel within themselves I’ve got what it takes to make it they’re not
got what it takes to make it they’re not
got what it takes to make it they’re not afraid about tomorrow because of how
afraid about tomorrow because of how
afraid about tomorrow because of how they see themselves because of what they
they see themselves because of what they
they see themselves because of what they feel that they deserve because of what
feel that they deserve because of what
feel that they deserve because of what they feel that they can create for
they feel that they can create for
they feel that they can create for themselves because these people have
themselves because these people have
themselves because these people have decided as they look at the future as
decided as they look at the future as
decided as they look at the future as they look at themselves there’s a way
they look at themselves there’s a way
they look at themselves there’s a way whether the will there’s a way for me to
whether the will there’s a way for me to
whether the will there’s a way for me to begin to create a way out of no way and
begin to create a way out of no way and
begin to create a way out of no way and when you have that kind of consciousness
when you have that kind of consciousness
when you have that kind of consciousness when you have that kind of spirit
when you have that kind of spirit
when you have that kind of spirit nothing can stop you nothing what would
nothing can stop you nothing what would
nothing can stop you nothing what would you like be like as you look toward the
you like be like as you look toward the
you like be like as you look toward the future if you decided I’m not going to
future if you decided I’m not going to
future if you decided I’m not going to allow my fears to stop me what would you
allow my fears to stop me what would you
allow my fears to stop me what would you like be like what would your future be
like be like what would your future be
like be like what would your future be like if you decided to to want that
like if you decided to to want that
like if you decided to to want that which you desire so strongly that it
which you desire so strongly that it
which you desire so strongly that it prepares you past your fears
prepares you past your fears
prepares you past your fears but you experience the fear as the one
but you experience the fear as the one
but you experience the fear as the one book says steal the fear and do it
book says steal the fear and do it
book says steal the fear and do it anyway what would your life be like and
anyway what would your life be like and
anyway what would your life be like and I’m saying to you that all of us who
I’m saying to you that all of us who
I’m saying to you that all of us who have been in tuned by fear have a
have been in tuned by fear have a
have been in tuned by fear have a capacity to resurrect ourselves and to
capacity to resurrect ourselves and to
capacity to resurrect ourselves and to resurrect our dreams
and you have is it easy no not easy can
and you have is it easy no not easy can I do it yet what’s one of the ways to
I do it yet what’s one of the ways to
I do it yet what’s one of the ways to get started some of us need somebody to
get started some of us need somebody to
get started some of us need somebody to hold our hands sometimes we need
hold our hands sometimes we need
hold our hands sometimes we need somebody to help us out be willing to
somebody to help us out be willing to
somebody to help us out be willing to say I don’t know be willing to reach out
say I don’t know be willing to reach out
say I don’t know be willing to reach out be willing to get some assistance to
be willing to get some assistance to
be willing to get some assistance to take you to the next level of what great
take you to the next level of what great
take you to the next level of what great athlete you never expect boxes to make
athlete you never expect boxes to make
athlete you never expect boxes to make profound statements I think was Joe
profound statements I think was Joe
profound statements I think was Joe Frazier said this one he says all of us
Frazier said this one he says all of us
Frazier said this one he says all of us are like the blind man at some point in
are like the blind man at some point in
are like the blind man at some point in our lives standing on the corner waiting
our lives standing on the corner waiting
our lives standing on the corner waiting for somebody to lead us across so all of
for somebody to lead us across so all of
for somebody to lead us across so all of us at some point in our lives need some
us at some point in our lives need some
us at some point in our lives need some help need someone to reach out to us
help need someone to reach out to us
help need someone to reach out to us before the Lifeline to help us go cross
before the Lifeline to help us go cross
before the Lifeline to help us go cross and treacherous waters that we could
and treacherous waters that we could
and treacherous waters that we could navigate by ourselves none of us do it
navigate by ourselves none of us do it
navigate by ourselves none of us do it by ourselves
by ourselves
by ourselves all of us at some point of our lives we
all of us at some point of our lives we
all of us at some point of our lives we need that kind of help we need that kind
need that kind of help we need that kind
need that kind of help we need that kind of assistance because we grow from the
of assistance because we grow from the
of assistance because we grow from the people we have in our lives that can
people we have in our lives that can
people we have in our lives that can enrich our lives personally
enrich our lives personally
enrich our lives personally professionally spiritually and all the
professionally spiritually and all the
professionally spiritually and all the dimensions of our lives we don’t go and
dimensions of our lives we don’t go and
dimensions of our lives we don’t go and about you so as you look at yourself
about you so as you look at yourself
about you so as you look at yourself whatever fears you have it maybe you
whatever fears you have it maybe you
whatever fears you have it maybe you need some help and strengthening
need some help and strengthening
need some help and strengthening yourself in that area as you assess your
yourself in that area as you assess your
yourself in that area as you assess your strengths and your weaknesses as you
strengths and your weaknesses as you
strengths and your weaknesses as you begin to approve yourself and your
begin to approve yourself and your
begin to approve yourself and your passions and your dreams and your goals
passions and your dreams and your goals
passions and your dreams and your goals and the things that you want if you
and the things that you want if you
and the things that you want if you decide to experience all of your true
decide to experience all of your true
decide to experience all of your true potential as you decide to manifest all
potential as you decide to manifest all
potential as you decide to manifest all of your greatness as you decide wait a
of your greatness as you decide wait a
of your greatness as you decide wait a minute what what else is available to me
minute what what else is available to me
minute what what else is available to me out here if I decided to experience the
out here if I decided to experience the
out here if I decided to experience the fear of rejection the fear of no the
fear of rejection the fear of no the
fear of rejection the fear of no the fear of failure the fear of standing by
fear of failure the fear of standing by
fear of failure the fear of standing by myself what else is available of taking
myself what else is available of taking
myself what else is available of taking a chance of fear of losing it all what
a chance of fear of losing it all what
a chance of fear of losing it all what else is available to me that will bring
else is available to me that will bring
else is available to me that will bring some extra meaning and value the fear of
some extra meaning and value the fear of
some extra meaning and value the fear of people not liking me you know how many
people not liking me you know how many
people not liking me you know how many people do things they don’t want to do
people do things they don’t want to do
people do things they don’t want to do because they want everybody to like them
because they want everybody to like them
because they want everybody to like them everybody’s not going to
everybody’s not going to
everybody’s not going to iq excuse me special announcement
iq excuse me special announcement
iq excuse me special announcement everybody’s not going to like you know
everybody’s not going to like you know
everybody’s not going to like you know that’s it’s just not that kind of world
that’s it’s just not that kind of world
that’s it’s just not that kind of world what but you know that a lot of people
what but you know that a lot of people
what but you know that a lot of people who won’t take positions on issues who
who won’t take positions on issues who
who won’t take positions on issues who won’t take a stand for things they
won’t take a stand for things they
won’t take a stand for things they believe in who won’t speak up for
believe in who won’t speak up for
believe in who won’t speak up for themselves because they don’t want to
themselves because they don’t want to
themselves because they don’t want to make anybody mad oh it was Bill Cosby he
make anybody mad oh it was Bill Cosby he
make anybody mad oh it was Bill Cosby he said I don’t know what the secret of
said I don’t know what the secret of
said I don’t know what the secret of success is he said but here’s what I
success is he said but here’s what I
success is he said but here’s what I know what the secret of failures is it
know what the secret of failures is it
know what the secret of failures is it trying to please everybody you can’t
trying to please everybody you can’t
trying to please everybody you can’t please everybody
please everybody
please everybody but they’re people who have a fear of
but they’re people who have a fear of
but they’re people who have a fear of rocking the boat
rocking the boat
rocking the boat so then just go alone and like just go
so then just go alone and like just go
so then just go alone and like just go along well so how do you feel well I
along well so how do you feel well I
along well so how do you feel well I don’t really want to say how many of you
don’t really want to say how many of you
don’t really want to say how many of you know people I get raise your head these
know people I get raise your head these
know people I get raise your head these people are living life they’re not truly
people are living life they’re not truly
people are living life they’re not truly experiencing life what do you really
experiencing life what do you really
experiencing life what do you really want to do well I don’t like this but I
want to do well I don’t like this but I
want to do well I don’t like this but I guess I’ll go ahead on and do know the
guess I’ll go ahead on and do know the
guess I’ll go ahead on and do know the life is too short for that too short and
life is too short for that too short and
life is too short for that too short and unpredictable moving through not try to
unpredictable moving through not try to
unpredictable moving through not try to disturb anything not trying to shake
disturb anything not trying to shake
disturb anything not trying to shake anything up not trying to make any waves
anything up not trying to make any waves
anything up not trying to make any waves you see there are some people who who
you see there are some people who who
you see there are some people who who come through the universe in their level
come through the universe in their level
come through the universe in their level of contribution and the level of energy
of contribution and the level of energy
of contribution and the level of energy they manifest is so small so
they manifest is so small so
they manifest is so small so inconspicuous that’s me when they go you
inconspicuous that’s me when they go you
inconspicuous that’s me when they go you won’t even know they left I mean they’re
won’t even know they left I mean they’re
won’t even know they left I mean they’re people who died on jobs and you save
people who died on jobs and you save
people who died on jobs and you save where’s young oh just in there six five
where’s young oh just in there six five
where’s young oh just in there six five you’re kidding no is that right yeah I
you’re kidding no is that right yeah I
you’re kidding no is that right yeah I didn’t know well I guess we didn’t but
didn’t know well I guess we didn’t but
didn’t know well I guess we didn’t but there are some people because of their
there are some people because of their
there are some people because of their personality because of their
personality because of their
personality because of their contribution because of their the
contribution because of their the
contribution because of their the investment of their time and their
investment of their time and their
investment of their time and their energy and the impact they have their
energy and the impact they have their
energy and the impact they have their that when they go everybody will miss
that when they go everybody will miss
that when they go everybody will miss them
them
them so another Teresa checks out everybody
so another Teresa checks out everybody
so another Teresa checks out everybody will know when Rosa Parks everybody will
will know when Rosa Parks everybody will
will know when Rosa Parks everybody will know Nelson Mandela everybody will know
know Nelson Mandela everybody will know
know Nelson Mandela everybody will know what because of their contribution see
what because of their contribution see
what because of their contribution see but there’s some people because their
but there’s some people because their
but there’s some people because their contribution is so small no one will
contribution is so small no one will
contribution is so small no one will care something before you are boxed and
care something before you are boxed and
care something before you are boxed and buried decide that you’re going to box
buried decide that you’re going to box
buried decide that you’re going to box and bury your fears decide that you’re
and bury your fears decide that you’re
and bury your fears decide that you’re going to begin to live life on a new
going to begin to live life on a new
going to begin to live life on a new level seeking out new horizons that
level seeking out new horizons that
level seeking out new horizons that you’re going to find more love and more
you’re going to find more love and more
you’re going to find more love and more joy and more ways to give more to life
joy and more ways to give more to life
joy and more ways to give more to life God said something I love this he says
God said something I love this he says
God said something I love this he says everything a man does for himself
everything a man does for himself
everything a man does for himself guess what he takes with him but
guess what he takes with him but
guess what he takes with him but everything he does for others he leaves
everything he does for others he leaves
everything he does for others he leaves behind so when you begin to say what is
behind so when you begin to say what is
behind so when you begin to say what is it that I want to leave what
it that I want to leave what
it that I want to leave what contribution that I want to begin to
contribution that I want to begin to
contribution that I want to begin to make what difference do I want to make
make what difference do I want to make
make what difference do I want to make in life what is it that I want to do
in life what is it that I want to do
in life what is it that I want to do with the rest of the life that I have
with the rest of the life that I have
with the rest of the life that I have left what what chances I need to take
left what what chances I need to take
left what what chances I need to take what risk do I need to begin to embrace
what risk do I need to begin to embrace
what risk do I need to begin to embrace what fears do I need to step on what
what fears do I need to step on what
what fears do I need to step on what areas of my life am i dead right now
areas of my life am i dead right now
areas of my life am i dead right now what three you can even live your dreams
what three you can even live your dreams
what three you can even live your dreams or live your fears you have got to get
or live your fears you have got to get
or live your fears you have got to get to a point where you say I’m sick and
to a point where you say I’m sick and
to a point where you say I’m sick and tired of living like this there’s got to
tired of living like this there’s got to
tired of living like this there’s got to be more let’s see that’s when people go
be more let’s see that’s when people go
be more let’s see that’s when people go out and strike out on their dreams
out and strike out on their dreams
out and strike out on their dreams that’s when people get out of
that’s when people get out of
that’s when people get out of relationships where they’re dying
relationships where they’re dying
relationships where they’re dying together rather than growing together
together rather than growing together
together rather than growing together that’s where they leave John so where
that’s where they leave John so where
that’s where they leave John so where you going away from here
do you have another job no I don’t what
do you have another job no I don’t what were you going to make it I don’t know
were you going to make it I don’t know
were you going to make it I don’t know but I will see you will when you put
but I will see you will when you put
but I will see you will when you put yourself in that kind of situation I’m
yourself in that kind of situation I’m
yourself in that kind of situation I’m reminded of two frogs that that were
reminded of two frogs that that were
reminded of two frogs that that were huffing down the road and they fell into
huffing down the road and they fell into
huffing down the road and they fell into a bottle of milk and one was hopping up
a bottle of milk and one was hopping up
a bottle of milk and one was hopping up and down for a while and he drowned he
and down for a while and he drowned he
and down for a while and he drowned he just gave up but his other frog has kept
just gave up but his other frog has kept
just gave up but his other frog has kept all kick it he wouldn’t give up he just
all kick it he wouldn’t give up he just
all kick it he wouldn’t give up he just kept on kicking and pretty soon he
kept on kicking and pretty soon he
kept on kicking and pretty soon he churned that milk into butter and he
churned that milk into butter and he
churned that milk into butter and he what
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