more people need to share their story not in a victim way and not sharing a
not in a victim way and not sharing a
not in a victim way and not sharing a tap for a point of healing but for a
tap for a point of healing but for a
tap for a point of healing but for a point of literally empowering
the reality is is just looking in the
the reality is is just looking in the mirror and telling yourself the story
mirror and telling yourself the story
mirror and telling yourself the story that you want I mean and a lot of people
that you want I mean and a lot of people
that you want I mean and a lot of people tell the story that everybody else wants
tell the story that everybody else wants
tell the story that everybody else wants them to tell right so the marketing
them to tell right so the marketing
them to tell right so the marketing message is so young girls right now I’m
message is so young girls right now I’m
message is so young girls right now I’m fat I’m ugly my hair’s not long enough
fat I’m ugly my hair’s not long enough
fat I’m ugly my hair’s not long enough it’s not belong enough it’s not brunette
it’s not belong enough it’s not brunette
it’s not belong enough it’s not brunette enough my hips are too big they’re not
enough my hips are too big they’re not
enough my hips are too big they’re not big enough whatever it is right the the
big enough whatever it is right the the
big enough whatever it is right the the story is being told from out here and
story is being told from out here and
story is being told from out here and then you’re bringing it to you what you
then you’re bringing it to you what you
then you’re bringing it to you what you have to do is tell the story you want
have to do is tell the story you want
have to do is tell the story you want when you’re a victim you’re in zero
when you’re a victim you’re in zero
when you’re a victim you’re in zero control like you have zero control and I
control like you have zero control and I
control like you have zero control and I mean we can go you know from the
mean we can go you know from the
mean we can go you know from the simplest thing of like you’re a victim
simplest thing of like you’re a victim
simplest thing of like you’re a victim and you want the government to take care
and you want the government to take care
and you want the government to take care of it well what if the government fails
of it well what if the government fails
of it well what if the government fails well now you’re screwed right so you
well now you’re screwed right so you
well now you’re screwed right so you need to be independent in that space
need to be independent in that space
need to be independent in that space you’re being abused you’re a victim yes
you’re being abused you’re a victim yes
you’re being abused you’re a victim yes I understand that there should be
I understand that there should be
I understand that there should be sympathy inside of being a victim for
sympathy inside of being a victim for
sympathy inside of being a victim for something that happened but that’s the
something that happened but that’s the
something that happened but that’s the key something that happened if it’s
key something that happened if it’s
key something that happened if it’s happening that’s at work we’re talking a
happening that’s at work we’re talking a
happening that’s at work we’re talking a completely different thing here and I
completely different thing here and I
completely different thing here and I want to make sure that’s clear if you’re
want to make sure that’s clear if you’re
want to make sure that’s clear if you’re currently being abused or currently
currently being abused or currently
currently being abused or currently being you know victimized then please
being you know victimized then please
being you know victimized then please seek help and it’s not being a victim to
seek help and it’s not being a victim to
seek help and it’s not being a victim to ask for help
ask for help
ask for help what’s really to me being a victim is
what’s really to me being a victim is
what’s really to me being a victim is you’re past it it’s happened and now you
you’re past it it’s happened and now you
you’re past it it’s happened and now you just keep replaying that in your head
just keep replaying that in your head
just keep replaying that in your head over and over and over again I was the
over and over and over again I was the
over and over and over again I was the last time I was molested I was about
last time I was molested I was about
last time I was molested I was about seven six and a half seven years old I
seven six and a half seven years old I
seven six and a half seven years old I carried that and again I was physically
carried that and again I was physically
carried that and again I was physically abused after but I’m talking sexually
abused after but I’m talking sexually
abused after but I’m talking sexually molested molestation I carried that
molested molestation I carried that
molested molestation I carried that tells about 16 years old inside of me
tells about 16 years old inside of me
tells about 16 years old inside of me and constantly told that story every day
and constantly told that story every day
and constantly told that story every day anytime something would go bad in my
anytime something would go bad in my
anytime something would go bad in my life
life
life I would just look at people and be like
I would just look at people and be like
I would just look at people and be like well you know this is what happened to
well you know this is what happened to
well you know this is what happened to me and da-da-da-da-da and it when I was
me and da-da-da-da-da and it when I was
me and da-da-da-da-da and it when I was 16 I stopped and I thought that person
16 I stopped and I thought that person
16 I stopped and I thought that person hasn’t touched me for nine ten years
hasn’t touched me for nine ten years
hasn’t touched me for nine ten years yeah they continually touch me every
yeah they continually touch me every
yeah they continually touch me every single day of my life so who’s really in
single day of my life so who’s really in
single day of my life so who’s really in control who really even though I was
control who really even though I was
control who really even though I was like trying to be the big bad like
like trying to be the big bad like
like trying to be the big bad like they’ll never hurt me again you know
they’ll never hurt me again you know
they’ll never hurt me again you know whatever I was still allowing them to
whatever I was still allowing them to
whatever I was still allowing them to hurt me every single day so I let go of
hurt me every single day so I let go of
hurt me every single day so I let go of that control so being a victim is being
that control so being a victim is being
that control so being a victim is being completely powerless and and taking away
completely powerless and and taking away
completely powerless and and taking away all control you might have which
all control you might have which
all control you might have which ultimately doesn’t make you feel safe
ultimately doesn’t make you feel safe
ultimately doesn’t make you feel safe which ultimately doesn’t give you
which ultimately doesn’t give you
which ultimately doesn’t give you happiness which ultimately doesn’t give
happiness which ultimately doesn’t give
happiness which ultimately doesn’t give you prosperity and you know fill in the
you prosperity and you know fill in the
you prosperity and you know fill in the blank and so what does being a victim
blank and so what does being a victim
blank and so what does being a victim get you nothing absolutely nothing so if
get you nothing absolutely nothing so if
get you nothing absolutely nothing so if you’re getting nothing from one
you’re getting nothing from one
you’re getting nothing from one direction why not turn around and go to
direction why not turn around and go to
direction why not turn around and go to the other direction I mean to me it’s a
the other direction I mean to me it’s a
the other direction I mean to me it’s a really common sense but you have to
really common sense but you have to
really common sense but you have to break down that and you have to give
break down that and you have to give
break down that and you have to give people this understanding that it’s okay
people this understanding that it’s okay
people this understanding that it’s okay to have had something happen to you like
to have had something happen to you like
to have had something happen to you like you’re not a bad person because of that
you’re not a bad person because of that
you’re not a bad person because of that and it sounds crazy unless somebody’s
and it sounds crazy unless somebody’s
and it sounds crazy unless somebody’s watching this who’s gone through
watching this who’s gone through
watching this who’s gone through something you know the guilt you feel
something you know the guilt you feel
something you know the guilt you feel and the things that you carry that you
and the things that you carry that you
and the things that you carry that you haven’t told anyone because you’re
haven’t told anyone because you’re
haven’t told anyone because you’re or all these things that’s okay but
or all these things that’s okay but
or all these things that’s okay but continuing to allow it to affect you
continuing to allow it to affect you
continuing to allow it to affect you that’s on you that’s not on the abuser
that’s on you that’s not on the abuser
that’s on you that’s not on the abuser that’s not on the situation that’s on
that’s not on the situation that’s on
that’s not on the situation that’s on you it’s a choice you have to make I am
you it’s a choice you have to make I am
you it’s a choice you have to make I am no longer gonna let this happen and so
no longer gonna let this happen and so
no longer gonna let this happen and so that’s where I came up with this concept
that’s where I came up with this concept
that’s where I came up with this concept of put the victim to bed and wake the
of put the victim to bed and wake the
of put the victim to bed and wake the hero up instead and the next part of
hero up instead and the next part of
hero up instead and the next part of that is you have to be a hero to
that is you have to be a hero to
that is you have to be a hero to yourself before you can save the world
yourself before you can save the world
yourself before you can save the world and so you have to have that moment of I
and so you have to have that moment of I
and so you have to have that moment of I am Who I am I’m comfortable and who that
am Who I am I’m comfortable and who that
am Who I am I’m comfortable and who that is and I’m gonna go out and use Who I am
is and I’m gonna go out and use Who I am
is and I’m gonna go out and use Who I am in the world in the best way possible
in the world in the best way possible
in the world in the best way possible for example troubled youth right I was
for example troubled youth right I was
for example troubled youth right I was told that all your just your troubled
told that all your just your troubled
told that all your just your troubled youths west so we need to help you and
youths west so we need to help you and
youths west so we need to help you and I’m like no I’m not a troubled youth
I’m like no I’m not a troubled youth
I’m like no I’m not a troubled youth like I’m I am a youth right so let’s get
like I’m I am a youth right so let’s get
like I’m I am a youth right so let’s get where they were trouble I’m a happy
where they were trouble I’m a happy
where they were trouble I’m a happy youth I’m a playful youth I’m a
youth I’m a playful youth I’m a
youth I’m a playful youth I’m a successful youth like put the word fill
successful youth like put the word fill
successful youth like put the word fill the word in there that you want and if
the word in there that you want and if
the word in there that you want and if you believe the word trouble then much
you believe the word trouble then much
you believe the word trouble then much like the stutter thing then that’s what
like the stutter thing then that’s what
like the stutter thing then that’s what you are right you’re just perpetuating
you are right you’re just perpetuating
you are right you’re just perpetuating that stereotype or that conversation
that stereotype or that conversation
that stereotype or that conversation more and more and whenever I did that
more and more and whenever I did that
more and more and whenever I did that whenever I wish I have my moments of
whenever I wish I have my moments of
whenever I wish I have my moments of weakness where I would try and try and
weakness where I would try and try and
weakness where I would try and try and then fail and as soon as I’d start like
then fail and as soon as I’d start like
then fail and as soon as I’d start like just kind of okay you know but just like
just kind of okay you know but just like
just kind of okay you know but just like everything like frumpy and just like
everything like frumpy and just like
everything like frumpy and just like alright I’m just gonna give up that’s
alright I’m just gonna give up that’s
alright I’m just gonna give up that’s when my life became worse and worse and
when my life became worse and worse and
when my life became worse and worse and I started making worse decisions and
I started making worse decisions and
I started making worse decisions and then I started realizing like wait if I
then I started realizing like wait if I
then I started realizing like wait if I just keep pushing over here it’s hard
just keep pushing over here it’s hard
just keep pushing over here it’s hard it’s hard as hell there’s no easy answer
it’s hard as hell there’s no easy answer
it’s hard as hell there’s no easy answer to this there’s no like okay well every
to this there’s no like okay well every
to this there’s no like okay well every morning at six o’clock you know wake up
morning at six o’clock you know wake up
morning at six o’clock you know wake up and meditate for ten minutes and tell
and meditate for ten minutes and tell
and meditate for ten minutes and tell yourself you’re beautiful and then go
yourself you’re beautiful and then go
yourself you’re beautiful and then go like it’s not it doesn’t work like that
like it’s not it doesn’t work like that
like it’s not it doesn’t work like that it’s a constant battle and you’re gonna
it’s a constant battle and you’re gonna
it’s a constant battle and you’re gonna have moments of complete and total
have moments of complete and total
have moments of complete and total defeat where it’s just like what am i
defeat where it’s just like what am i
defeat where it’s just like what am i doing like why do I keep trying to do
doing like why do I keep trying to do
doing like why do I keep trying to do this and it for me again who’s just
this and it for me again who’s just
this and it for me again who’s just reminding myself if I want these happy
reminding myself if I want these happy
reminding myself if I want these happy moments I want to have this life and and
moments I want to have this life and and
moments I want to have this life and and so it just it started to perpetuate in
so it just it started to perpetuate in
so it just it started to perpetuate in little things that I would see like a
little things that I would see like a
little things that I would see like a new friend at school or a relationship
new friend at school or a relationship
new friend at school or a relationship or you know its start to like blossom
or you know its start to like blossom
or you know its start to like blossom into different things and then with the
into different things and then with the
into different things and then with the business it would be oh wow like I can
business it would be oh wow like I can
business it would be oh wow like I can go and sell and I can do and as soon as
go and sell and I can do and as soon as
go and sell and I can do and as soon as I started like seeing just a little bit
I started like seeing just a little bit
I started like seeing just a little bit of progress then that motivated me for
of progress then that motivated me for
of progress then that motivated me for the next and the next and just build and
the next and the next and just build and
the next and the next and just build and build and build and I’d still say I’m
build and build and I’d still say I’m
build and build and I’d still say I’m building like I still have issues but
building like I still have issues but
building like I still have issues but it’s just focusing on that
it’s just focusing on that
it’s just focusing on that different conversation telling a
different conversation telling a
different conversation telling a different story and the story you want
different story and the story you want
different story and the story you want and that’s the first thing I tell you
and that’s the first thing I tell you
and that’s the first thing I tell you this’ like look don’t look at my story
this’ like look don’t look at my story
this’ like look don’t look at my story you don’t look at someone else’s story
you don’t look at someone else’s story
you don’t look at someone else’s story what’s the story you want you may have
what’s the story you want you may have
what’s the story you want you may have had something happen and I always say
had something happen and I always say
had something happen and I always say it’s your eighth birthday all you ever
it’s your eighth birthday all you ever
it’s your eighth birthday all you ever wanted was the Elmo doll right you told
wanted was the Elmo doll right you told
wanted was the Elmo doll right you told your grandma your grandpa your friends
your grandma your grandpa your friends
your grandma your grandpa your friends your everyone mom dad all I want is an
your everyone mom dad all I want is an
your everyone mom dad all I want is an Elmo doll your birthday comes around you
Elmo doll your birthday comes around you
Elmo doll your birthday comes around you get an Xbox a mountain bike and $500 and
get an Xbox a mountain bike and $500 and
get an Xbox a mountain bike and $500 and gift certificates but no Elmo doll now
gift certificates but no Elmo doll now
gift certificates but no Elmo doll now for 20 years you’re living your life and
for 20 years you’re living your life and
for 20 years you’re living your life and every time you’re in a relationship
every time you’re in a relationship
every time you’re in a relationship you’ll text you’ll do something and they
you’ll text you’ll do something and they
you’ll text you’ll do something and they won’t respond to you or you ask for
won’t respond to you or you ask for
won’t respond to you or you ask for something you don’t get it and every
something you don’t get it and every
something you don’t get it and every time you have this self-sabotaging thing
time you have this self-sabotaging thing
time you have this self-sabotaging thing in a relationship where you go to the
in a relationship where you go to the
in a relationship where you go to the person who say you never listen to you
person who say you never listen to you
person who say you never listen to you never hear what I’m saying even though
never hear what I’m saying even though
never hear what I’m saying even though that person’s doing so many other things
that person’s doing so many other things
that person’s doing so many other things for you when you’re asking for certain
for you when you’re asking for certain
for you when you’re asking for certain things it’s not being reciprocated you
things it’s not being reciprocated you
things it’s not being reciprocated you go all the way back to that 8th year
go all the way back to that 8th year
go all the way back to that 8th year that that barometer that benchmark that
that that barometer that benchmark that
that that barometer that benchmark that was set that all you wanted was an Elmo
was set that all you wanted was an Elmo
was set that all you wanted was an Elmo doll regardless of all the cool stuff
doll regardless of all the cool stuff
doll regardless of all the cool stuff you just got you didn’t get an Elmo at
you just got you didn’t get an Elmo at
you just got you didn’t get an Elmo at all so thus people weren’t listening to
all so thus people weren’t listening to
all so thus people weren’t listening to your feelings aren’t being validated and
your feelings aren’t being validated and
your feelings aren’t being validated and heard and you’re 28 years old figuring
heard and you’re 28 years old figuring
heard and you’re 28 years old figuring out why you can’t have relationships and
out why you can’t have relationships and
out why you can’t have relationships and the Elmo doll effect is actually a real
the Elmo doll effect is actually a real
the Elmo doll effect is actually a real case that I worked on it was just kind
case that I worked on it was just kind
case that I worked on it was just kind of like breaking through and figuring
of like breaking through and figuring
of like breaking through and figuring out where was that set up where this
out where was that set up where this
out where was that set up where this person was just you know self-sabotaging
person was just you know self-sabotaging
person was just you know self-sabotaging every single time and it comes came out
every single time and it comes came out
every single time and it comes came out to be that they wanted something for
to be that they wanted something for
to be that they wanted something for their birthday when they were younger
their birthday when they were younger
their birthday when they were younger and they didn’t get it and they’ve been
and they didn’t get it and they’ve been
and they didn’t get it and they’ve been holding on to that and ian’s and even
holding on to that and ian’s and even
holding on to that and ian’s and even like admitted to themselves that every
like admitted to themselves that every
like admitted to themselves that every Christmas they’re thinking like yeah
Christmas they’re thinking like yeah
Christmas they’re thinking like yeah finally I’ll get it you know it’s like
finally I’ll get it you know it’s like
finally I’ll get it you know it’s like 28 29 years old as soon as they release
28 29 years old as soon as they release
28 29 years old as soon as they release that it’s like they’re not playing the
that it’s like they’re not playing the
that it’s like they’re not playing the victim anymore so that may seem like
victim anymore so that may seem like
victim anymore so that may seem like really silly in all this other stuff
really silly in all this other stuff
really silly in all this other stuff we’ve been talking about but to to
we’ve been talking about but to to
we’ve been talking about but to to people who are watching this who haven’t
people who are watching this who haven’t
people who are watching this who haven’t gone through something horrific you may
gone through something horrific you may
gone through something horrific you may be holding on to something as simple as
be holding on to something as simple as
be holding on to something as simple as a stupid little Elmo doll that’s
a stupid little Elmo doll that’s
a stupid little Elmo doll that’s affecting your belief system your story
affecting your belief system your story
affecting your belief system your story and giving you limits in your life
and giving you limits in your life
and giving you limits in your life instead of creating a limitless
instead of creating a limitless
instead of creating a limitless and how do you teach people to go back
and how do you teach people to go back
and how do you teach people to go back and sort of get new perspective on the
and sort of get new perspective on the
and sort of get new perspective on the ELMO doll it’s it’s really you know just
ELMO doll it’s it’s really you know just
ELMO doll it’s it’s really you know just quiet space kind of putting yourself in
quiet space kind of putting yourself in
quiet space kind of putting yourself in a position of just really kind of going
a position of just really kind of going
a position of just really kind of going through and time lining your life and I
through and time lining your life and I
through and time lining your life and I usually start with like what’s your
usually start with like what’s your
usually start with like what’s your first childhood memory and then from
first childhood memory and then from
first childhood memory and then from there you know you can kind of start
there you know you can kind of start
there you know you can kind of start architecting and building different
architecting and building different
architecting and building different story and figuring out like where things
story and figuring out like where things
story and figuring out like where things happened but I think that most people
happened but I think that most people
happened but I think that most people they know what’s holding them back at
they know what’s holding them back at
they know what’s holding them back at some level and they just don’t want to
some level and they just don’t want to
some level and they just don’t want to be honest with it and they’ll do a lot
be honest with it and they’ll do a lot
be honest with it and they’ll do a lot to bury it and the older you get the
to bury it and the older you get the
to bury it and the older you get the more it gets married but I think if you
more it gets married but I think if you
more it gets married but I think if you really look back on your life you can
really look back on your life you can
really look back on your life you can say okay that’s it and I just don’t want
say okay that’s it and I just don’t want
say okay that’s it and I just don’t want to take ownership of that and a lot of
to take ownership of that and a lot of
to take ownership of that and a lot of times it’s like I said that shame
times it’s like I said that shame
times it’s like I said that shame whether it happened to you or you did it
whether it happened to you or you did it
whether it happened to you or you did it you know it’s that shame of just let go
you know it’s that shame of just let go
you know it’s that shame of just let go a shame wait if anything we’ve proven in
a shame wait if anything we’ve proven in
a shame wait if anything we’ve proven in this world like we’re we’re a world of
this world like we’re we’re a world of
this world like we’re we’re a world of forgiveness like we will forgive people
forgiveness like we will forgive people
forgiveness like we will forgive people who are honest and vulnerable and real
who are honest and vulnerable and real
who are honest and vulnerable and real but you’ve got to be that first in order
but you’ve got to be that first in order
but you’ve got to be that first in order for us to you know but you got to do
for us to you know but you got to do
for us to you know but you got to do that for yourself first you got to
that for yourself first you got to
that for yourself first you got to forgive yourself the simplicity of just
forgive yourself the simplicity of just
forgive yourself the simplicity of just knowing that you’re not alone is is
knowing that you’re not alone is is
knowing that you’re not alone is is really not simple it’s it’s massive
really not simple it’s it’s massive
really not simple it’s it’s massive because in those dark moments you are
because in those dark moments you are
because in those dark moments you are alone for the most part you are
alone for the most part you are
alone for the most part you are physically alone and so then it’s not
physically alone and so then it’s not
physically alone and so then it’s not that hard to take it from a physical to
that hard to take it from a physical to
that hard to take it from a physical to a mental state of I’m the only one being
a mental state of I’m the only one being
a mental state of I’m the only one being molested I’m the only one being beaten
molested I’m the only one being beaten
molested I’m the only one being beaten I’m the only one with alcoholic parents
I’m the only one with alcoholic parents
I’m the only one with alcoholic parents I’m the only one with a mom and dad who
I’m the only one with a mom and dad who
I’m the only one with a mom and dad who hate each other I’m the only one that
hate each other I’m the only one that
hate each other I’m the only one that lives in a really wealthy community but
lives in a really wealthy community but
lives in a really wealthy community but everyone’s lying to each other like you
everyone’s lying to each other like you
everyone’s lying to each other like you it’s really simple for that to happen
it’s really simple for that to happen
it’s really simple for that to happen but the the reality is is you’re not and
but the the reality is is you’re not and
but the the reality is is you’re not and when you’re not alone you have community
when you’re not alone you have community
when you’re not alone you have community what does community give you safety
what does community give you safety
what does community give you safety right it all comes back to like being
right it all comes back to like being
right it all comes back to like being safe and if I feel safe then I have
safe and if I feel safe then I have
safe and if I feel safe then I have power and then I can do something and
power and then I can do something and
power and then I can do something and control and all these different elements
control and all these different elements
control and all these different elements so you know yes that’s huge and it’s a
so you know yes that’s huge and it’s a
so you know yes that’s huge and it’s a massive thing that we talk about you
massive thing that we talk about you
massive thing that we talk about you know not being alone but in my opinion
know not being alone but in my opinion
know not being alone but in my opinion it comes down to self-worth and
it comes down to self-worth and
it comes down to self-worth and eliminating shame from these things so
eliminating shame from these things so
eliminating shame from these things so we can have real conversations so that
we can have real conversations so that
we can have real conversations so that just doesn’t become something that
just doesn’t become something that
just doesn’t become something that people have to deal with alone a human
people have to deal with alone a human
people have to deal with alone a human project is on a huge mission like I know
project is on a huge mission like I know
project is on a huge mission like I know that I know we can’t do it alone that’s
that I know we can’t do it alone that’s
that I know we can’t do it alone that’s why we’re enlisting the help that we’re
why we’re enlisting the help that we’re
why we’re enlisting the help that we’re listing make we’re not this isn’t this
listing make we’re not this isn’t this
listing make we’re not this isn’t this isn’t a simple problem to solve in the
isn’t a simple problem to solve in the
isn’t a simple problem to solve in the sense of the global aspect of it but the
sense of the global aspect of it but the
sense of the global aspect of it but the solution is simple and it just has to be
solution is simple and it just has to be
solution is simple and it just has to be understood right like I’ve I’ve been
understood right like I’ve I’ve been
understood right like I’ve I’ve been asked hundreds of times
asked hundreds of times
asked hundreds of times why are you Wes right why aren’t you the
why are you Wes right why aren’t you the
why are you Wes right why aren’t you the stereotypical like you’re abused you
stereotypical like you’re abused you
stereotypical like you’re abused you went through this your dad’s an
went through this your dad’s an
went through this your dad’s an alcoholic your mom’s this you’re like
alcoholic your mom’s this you’re like
alcoholic your mom’s this you’re like why aren’t you in that pool I made a
why aren’t you in that pool I made a
why aren’t you in that pool I made a choice that’s it
choice that’s it
choice that’s it I made a choice I made a choice that I
I made a choice I made a choice that I
I made a choice I made a choice that I didn’t want to be that there’s nothing
didn’t want to be that there’s nothing
didn’t want to be that there’s nothing special about me there’s nothing
special about me there’s nothing
special about me there’s nothing miraculous about Who I am
miraculous about Who I am
miraculous about Who I am the only miraculous cool thing is I
the only miraculous cool thing is I
the only miraculous cool thing is I don’t have to eat or sleep sometimes
don’t have to eat or sleep sometimes
don’t have to eat or sleep sometimes like that’s it
like that’s it
like that’s it I just made one choice I was 16 years
I just made one choice I was 16 years
I just made one choice I was 16 years old and I was no longer gonna be a
old and I was no longer gonna be a
old and I was no longer gonna be a victim and I was gonna be a hero to
victim and I was gonna be a hero to
victim and I was gonna be a hero to myself and that I was going to change my
myself and that I was going to change my
myself and that I was going to change my life and I had no idea that would leave
life and I had no idea that would leave
life and I had no idea that would leave me here and no idea I’d be here in the
me here and no idea I’d be here in the
me here and no idea I’d be here in the set talking to you doing what we’re
set talking to you doing what we’re
set talking to you doing what we’re doing knowing that was never part of the
doing knowing that was never part of the
doing knowing that was never part of the plan the only thing I knew is I didn’t
plan the only thing I knew is I didn’t
plan the only thing I knew is I didn’t want to be the victim and this other
want to be the victim and this other
want to be the victim and this other trajectory of life I wanted something
trajectory of life I wanted something
trajectory of life I wanted something different so I made that choice and now
different so I made that choice and now
different so I made that choice and now I’m here so if you’re listening to this
I’m here so if you’re listening to this
I’m here so if you’re listening to this and you’re thinking you’ve made all
and you’re thinking you’ve made all
and you’re thinking you’ve made all these different choices and your life is
these different choices and your life is
these different choices and your life is in one direction make one different
in one direction make one different
in one direction make one different choice just one see where it goes
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