someone in your life doesn’t get your vision if no one in your life get your
vision if no one in your life get your
vision if no one in your life get your vision it could be because God didn’t
vision it could be because God didn’t
vision it could be because God didn’t give your vision to them
give your vision to them
give your vision to them [Music]
[Music]
[Music] this book abundance now is a culmination
this book abundance now is a culmination
this book abundance now is a culmination of about 25 years of work in 1994 which
of about 25 years of work in 1994 which
of about 25 years of work in 1994 which isn’t quite 25 years ago but in 1994 I
isn’t quite 25 years ago but in 1994 I
isn’t quite 25 years ago but in 1994 I was on government assistance and I had
was on government assistance and I had
was on government assistance and I had to get on government assistance to have
to get on government assistance to have
to get on government assistance to have my son and I was on WIC women infant and
my son and I was on WIC women infant and
my son and I was on WIC women infant and children which is free cheat he’s free
children which is free cheat he’s free
children which is free cheat he’s free pasta free milk and I’m grateful I was
pasta free milk and I’m grateful I was
pasta free milk and I’m grateful I was embarrassed but I was grateful because
embarrassed but I was grateful because
embarrassed but I was grateful because as a mom you just want to take care of
as a mom you just want to take care of
as a mom you just want to take care of your child
your child
your child and when my son was 8 months old I’m
and when my son was 8 months old I’m
and when my son was 8 months old I’m just kind of telling you how did this
just kind of telling you how did this
just kind of telling you how did this book come about without me knowing that
book come about without me knowing that
book come about without me knowing that the book was coming about when my son
the book was coming about when my son
the book was coming about when my son was 8 months old I needed Pampers some a
was 8 months old I needed Pampers some a
was 8 months old I needed Pampers some a change of pampers and I went to the
change of pampers and I went to the
change of pampers and I went to the cupboard to get pampers and there was
cupboard to get pampers and there was
cupboard to get pampers and there was none so I went to the ATM to get $20 out
none so I went to the ATM to get $20 out
none so I went to the ATM to get $20 out to buy pampers and I had 11 dollars and
to buy pampers and I had 11 dollars and
to buy pampers and I had 11 dollars and 42 cents to my name yeah that’s exactly
42 cents to my name yeah that’s exactly
42 cents to my name yeah that’s exactly what I did when I saw insufficient funds
what I did when I saw insufficient funds
what I did when I saw insufficient funds and I remember going home wondering what
and I remember going home wondering what
and I remember going home wondering what am I gonna do I wrapped my son in a
am I gonna do I wrapped my son in a
am I gonna do I wrapped my son in a towel and for the next two days I just
towel and for the next two days I just
towel and for the next two days I just changed his towel that’s all I could do
changed his towel that’s all I could do
changed his towel that’s all I could do and so on the second day I never said
and so on the second day I never said
and so on the second day I never said without getting emotional people go you
without getting emotional people go you
without getting emotional people go you still get emotional yeah I was still the
still get emotional yeah I was still the
still get emotional yeah I was still the same mom who I’m just allowing myself to
same mom who I’m just allowing myself to
same mom who I’m just allowing myself to recall that experience so that I can
recall that experience so that I can
recall that experience so that I can share it so you understand the why it’s
share it so you understand the why it’s
share it so you understand the why it’s never easy to recall the experience
never easy to recall the experience
never easy to recall the experience because I think there’s only two things
because I think there’s only two things
because I think there’s only two things you want to do with your children that’s
you want to do with your children that’s
you want to do with your children that’s people safe to be able to be at the
people safe to be able to be at the
people safe to be able to be at the razor and I felt like I can only do one
razor and I felt like I can only do one
razor and I felt like I can only do one which is keep them safe but up
which is keep them safe but up
which is keep them safe but up challenging and so on the second day of
challenging and so on the second day of
challenging and so on the second day of my son being wrapped in a towel I put my
my son being wrapped in a towel I put my
my son being wrapped in a towel I put my hand on my son Geelani stomach and I
hand on my son Geelani stomach and I
hand on my son Geelani stomach and I said Jelani don’t worry mommy will never
said Jelani don’t worry mommy will never
said Jelani don’t worry mommy will never be this broke again ever and that was
be this broke again ever and that was
be this broke again ever and that was the journey to now like I just want to
the journey to now like I just want to
the journey to now like I just want to kind of give you all the way back then a
kind of give you all the way back then a
kind of give you all the way back then a lot of things happened since then but
lot of things happened since then but
lot of things happened since then but I’ve been interviewed in 2009 alone I
I’ve been interviewed in 2009 alone I
I’ve been interviewed in 2009 alone I was interviewed 155 times that’s when my
was interviewed 155 times that’s when my
was interviewed 155 times that’s when my first single book came out when I was
first single book came out when I was
first single book came out when I was interviewed 155 times and probably a
interviewed 155 times and probably a
interviewed 155 times and probably a hundred and forty-seven times they asked
hundred and forty-seven times they asked
hundred and forty-seven times they asked how did you do it how did you go from
how did you do it how did you go from
how did you do it how did you go from being broke and on government assistance
being broke and on government assistance
being broke and on government assistance to running a multi-million dollar
to running a multi-million dollar
to running a multi-million dollar company and lately I hear how did you go
company and lately I hear how did you go
company and lately I hear how did you go from being on public assistance to
from being on public assistance to
from being on public assistance to running a publicly held company my
running a publicly held company my
running a publicly held company my company went public two years ago I am
company went public two years ago I am
company went public two years ago I am the only company in the self-development
the only company in the self-development
the only company in the self-development industry to have a company on Wall
industry to have a company on Wall
industry to have a company on Wall Street and I’m one of two African
Street and I’m one of two African
Street and I’m one of two African American women founders to own a
American women founders to own a
American women founders to own a publicly held company so I get that
publicly held company so I get that
publicly held company so I get that question thank you thank you thank you I
question thank you thank you thank you I
question thank you thank you thank you I get that question a lot how did you go
get that question a lot how did you go
get that question a lot how did you go from publica system in on public and I
from publica system in on public and I
from publica system in on public and I always have to start with that in that
always have to start with that in that
always have to start with that in that on that day in 1994 when I put my son on
on that day in 1994 when I put my son on
on that day in 1994 when I put my son on my hand on my bit my son’s belly and
my hand on my bit my son’s belly and
my hand on my bit my son’s belly and said don’t worry Jelani mommy will never
said don’t worry Jelani mommy will never
said don’t worry Jelani mommy will never be this broke again something shifted I
be this broke again something shifted I
be this broke again something shifted I was willing to do what I’d never done
was willing to do what I’d never done
was willing to do what I’d never done before I was willing to say what I’d
before I was willing to say what I’d
before I was willing to say what I’d never said before but first I had to
never said before but first I had to
never said before but first I had to learn what I didn’t even know I knew
learn what I didn’t even know I knew
learn what I didn’t even know I knew that abundant thinkers prosperous
that abundant thinkers prosperous
that abundant thinkers prosperous prosperous people successful people were
prosperous people successful people were
prosperous people successful people were doing something that I wasn’t doing
doing something that I wasn’t doing
doing something that I wasn’t doing because my life was evidence your life
because my life was evidence your life
because my life was evidence your life is an evidence of what you’re up to
is an evidence of what you’re up to
is an evidence of what you’re up to good bad or indifferent your life is
good bad or indifferent your life is
good bad or indifferent your life is evidence of what you’re up to and so I
evidence of what you’re up to and so I
evidence of what you’re up to and so I wanted to be up to something different
wanted to be up to something different
wanted to be up to something different but I didn’t know how to be up to
but I didn’t know how to be up to
but I didn’t know how to be up to something different I needed to learn
something different I needed to learn
something different I needed to learn something different to be up to
something different to be up to
something different to be up to something different and so I started
something different and so I started
something different and so I started following successful people and I want
following successful people and I want
following successful people and I want to know what if they do in the morning
to know what if they do in the morning
to know what if they do in the morning what if they do at night what did they
what if they do at night what did they
what if they do at night what did they do when they failed and I liked those
do when they failed and I liked those
do when they failed and I liked those behind the black curtain questions like
behind the black curtain questions like
behind the black curtain questions like I don’t just wanna know what goals do
I don’t just wanna know what goals do
I don’t just wanna know what goals do you set I don’t know what happens when
you set I don’t know what happens when
you set I don’t know what happens when someone pisses you off and you got to
someone pisses you off and you got to
someone pisses you off and you got to forgive them what happens
forgive them what happens
forgive them what happens when you fall down and you don’t know
when you fall down and you don’t know
when you fall down and you don’t know how to get back up what happens what
how to get back up what happens what
how to get back up what happens what happens when you start leaving the
happens when you start leaving the
happens when you start leaving the people you love based on your level of
people you love based on your level of
people you love based on your level of success how do you stay connected to
success how do you stay connected to
success how do you stay connected to your community or your tribe and still
your community or your tribe and still
your community or your tribe and still go after your dreams how do you get out
go after your dreams how do you get out
go after your dreams how do you get out of a mindset that says I’m only gonna
of a mindset that says I’m only gonna
of a mindset that says I’m only gonna have this much success because I’m a
have this much success because I’m a
have this much success because I’m a woman because I’m a woman of color
woman because I’m a woman of color
woman because I’m a woman of color because I was born and raised in South
because I was born and raised in South
because I was born and raised in South Central or wherever whatever that story
Central or wherever whatever that story
Central or wherever whatever that story is that we make up how do I unleash
is that we make up how do I unleash
is that we make up how do I unleash myself from that story and and hook
myself from that story and and hook
myself from that story and and hook myself to my future how do I do that
myself to my future how do I do that
myself to my future how do I do that anybody else curious about that I just
anybody else curious about that I just
anybody else curious about that I just wanna make sure I’m in the right place I
wanna make sure I’m in the right place I
wanna make sure I’m in the right place I don’t need a lot of people I just need
don’t need a lot of people I just need
don’t need a lot of people I just need to write people because a lot of the
to write people because a lot of the
to write people because a lot of the wrong people are more distracting than a
wrong people are more distracting than a
wrong people are more distracting than a few of the right people yes all right so
few of the right people yes all right so
few of the right people yes all right so so I was hungry like I was hungry people
so I was hungry like I was hungry people
so I was hungry like I was hungry people often want to call me the exception like
often want to call me the exception like
often want to call me the exception like oh my god you’re the exception no I’m
oh my god you’re the exception no I’m
oh my god you’re the exception no I’m not the exception I’m an average
not the exception I’m an average
not the exception I’m an average ordinary woman who chose every day to
ordinary woman who chose every day to
ordinary woman who chose every day to make one more extraordinary decision I’m
make one more extraordinary decision I’m
make one more extraordinary decision I’m an average ordinary mom who said I want
an average ordinary mom who said I want
an average ordinary mom who said I want to drastically transform my son’s future
to drastically transform my son’s future
to drastically transform my son’s future that he deserves to have every option
that he deserves to have every option
that he deserves to have every option that every other child would have
that every other child would have
that every other child would have irregardless of what he was born into I
irregardless of what he was born into I
irregardless of what he was born into I just was crazy enough to believe that
just was crazy enough to believe that
just was crazy enough to believe that that it doesn’t matter the color of my
that it doesn’t matter the color of my
that it doesn’t matter the color of my skin doesn’t matter my religious
skin doesn’t matter my religious
skin doesn’t matter my religious background doesn’t matter my origin it
background doesn’t matter my origin it
background doesn’t matter my origin it doesn’t matter my mom’s bank account my
doesn’t matter my mom’s bank account my
doesn’t matter my mom’s bank account my dad’s been coming I was born none of
dad’s been coming I was born none of
dad’s been coming I was born none of that means my future that’s just the
that means my future that’s just the
that means my future that’s just the circumstance that I came from that’s not
circumstance that I came from that’s not
circumstance that I came from that’s not what defines my future I just believe
what defines my future I just believe
what defines my future I just believe that not a lot validated it but faith is
that not a lot validated it but faith is
that not a lot validated it but faith is believing in the unseen anyway so I have
believing in the unseen anyway so I have
believing in the unseen anyway so I have enough faith to go I know like I know
enough faith to go I know like I know
enough faith to go I know like I know like I know like I know I don’t
like I know like I know I don’t
like I know like I know I don’t necessarily have to see it yet and so
necessarily have to see it yet and so
necessarily have to see it yet and so abundance now is it’s the the notes that
abundance now is it’s the the notes that
abundance now is it’s the the notes that I took it’s the things that I did it’s
I took it’s the things that I did it’s
I took it’s the things that I did it’s the lessons that I learned and then some
the lessons that I learned and then some
the lessons that I learned and then some that I began to adopt that I hadn’t
that I began to adopt that I hadn’t
that I began to adopt that I hadn’t learned that when I hit my head against
learned that when I hit my head against
learned that when I hit my head against the wall enough I realize don’t do that
the wall enough I realize don’t do that
the wall enough I realize don’t do that let me tell it
let me tell it
let me tell it anyone who’s reading the book don’t do
anyone who’s reading the book don’t do
anyone who’s reading the book don’t do that that only looks sexy and so not
that that only looks sexy and so not
that that only looks sexy and so not right and so it really is this book is
right and so it really is this book is
right and so it really is this book is designed to be disruptive it’s designed
designed to be disruptive it’s designed
designed to be disruptive it’s designed to disrupt a couple of myths a few myths
to disrupt a couple of myths a few myths
to disrupt a couple of myths a few myths three myths
number one myth number one is that we
number one myth number one is that we believe that abundant this is the part
believe that abundant this is the part
believe that abundant this is the part you want to write down
you want to write down
you want to write down we believe that abundance is for some
we believe that abundance is for some
we believe that abundance is for some people some people of a certain hue a
people some people of a certain hue a
people some people of a certain hue a certain origin a certain background and
certain origin a certain background and
certain origin a certain background and we teach that society just teaches that
we teach that society just teaches that
we teach that society just teaches that but you have to come from this place to
but you have to come from this place to
but you have to come from this place to have abundance there’s them and then
have abundance there’s them and then
have abundance there’s them and then there’s us yes you guys okay by the way
there’s us yes you guys okay by the way
there’s us yes you guys okay by the way I’m an interactive like I’m not here
I’m an interactive like I’m not here
I’m an interactive like I’m not here just to do you alright just for the
just to do you alright just for the
just to do you alright just for the record like what I learned is that I am
record like what I learned is that I am
record like what I learned is that I am a major part of my own rescue I’m a
a major part of my own rescue I’m a
a major part of my own rescue I’m a major part of my own breakthrough so
major part of my own breakthrough so
major part of my own breakthrough so whether you’re here because you want to
whether you’re here because you want to
whether you’re here because you want to get out of a place of being stuck or
get out of a place of being stuck or
get out of a place of being stuck or whether you’re here because you want to
whether you’re here because you want to
whether you’re here because you want to go to the next level of possibility you
go to the next level of possibility you
go to the next level of possibility you are part of that next level so I’m gonna
are part of that next level so I’m gonna
are part of that next level so I’m gonna ask questions
ask questions
ask questions I love a dialogue not a monologue I’m
I love a dialogue not a monologue I’m
I love a dialogue not a monologue I’m not a performer though I can’t I can’t
not a performer though I can’t I can’t
not a performer though I can’t I can’t be entertaining at times this is really
be entertaining at times this is really
be entertaining at times this is really about a dialogue a juicy delicious
about a dialogue a juicy delicious
about a dialogue a juicy delicious dialogue that I hope on this day January
dialogue that I hope on this day January
dialogue that I hope on this day January 6 they created some kind of shift in you
6 they created some kind of shift in you
6 they created some kind of shift in you some kind of jolt to you where
some kind of jolt to you where
some kind of jolt to you where afterwards you like I think I just need
afterwards you like I think I just need
afterwards you like I think I just need to do something just right I need to
to do something just right I need to
to do something just right I need to tweak this not that anything’s wrong but
tweak this not that anything’s wrong but
tweak this not that anything’s wrong but how do we what does uplevel look like
how do we what does uplevel look like
how do we what does uplevel look like what does next level look like and so
what does next level look like and so
what does next level look like and so the first myth is that and when I say
the first myth is that and when I say
the first myth is that and when I say myth these are the things you there’s so
myth these are the things you there’s so
myth these are the things you there’s so much value in what you unlearn sometimes
much value in what you unlearn sometimes
much value in what you unlearn sometimes the best thing you can do is unlearn
the best thing you can do is unlearn
the best thing you can do is unlearn some things we’re all always going after
some things we’re all always going after
some things we’re all always going after learning something new because we’re
learning something new because we’re
learning something new because we’re information junkies because we have all
information junkies because we have all
information junkies because we have all these forms of information coming at us
these forms of information coming at us
these forms of information coming at us on the internet coming at us in books
on the internet coming at us in books
on the internet coming at us in books coming at us on the radio coming out of
coming at us on the radio coming out of
coming at us on the radio coming out of the television that we want to learn
the television that we want to learn
the television that we want to learn learn learn but sometimes your biggest
learn learn but sometimes your biggest
learn learn but sometimes your biggest breakthrough is in what you unlearn and
breakthrough is in what you unlearn and
breakthrough is in what you unlearn and then you relearn sometimes you have to
then you relearn sometimes you have to
then you relearn sometimes you have to disrupt your soil pull your soil up take
disrupt your soil pull your soil up take
disrupt your soil pull your soil up take that dry dirt that’s been planted for
that dry dirt that’s been planted for
that dry dirt that’s been planted for years I know I’ve just been knowing this
years I know I’ve just been knowing this
years I know I’ve just been knowing this for years is what my mother taught me
for years is what my mother taught me
for years is what my mother taught me that’s what we’ve always done
that’s what we’ve always done
that’s what we’ve always done you have to disrupt that soil in order
you have to disrupt that soil in order
you have to disrupt that soil in order to plant a new seed to grow a new fruit
to plant a new seed to grow a new fruit
to plant a new seed to grow a new fruit yeah yeah you guys got that and so I
yeah yeah you guys got that and so I
yeah yeah you guys got that and so I came very comfortably to disrupt your
came very comfortably to disrupt your
came very comfortably to disrupt your soil like that’s what I came for to
soil like that’s what I came for to
soil like that’s what I came for to disrupt your soil not to necessarily
disrupt your soil not to necessarily
disrupt your soil not to necessarily keep you comfortable what you know stay
keep you comfortable what you know stay
keep you comfortable what you know stay comfortable that I want to disrupt you
comfortable that I want to disrupt you
comfortable that I want to disrupt you with some things that are new awareness
with some things that are new awareness
with some things that are new awareness to go oh wait hold on or new awareness
to go oh wait hold on or new awareness
to go oh wait hold on or new awareness about what you’ve been doing
about what you’ve been doing
about what you’ve been doing based on what you’ve known forever that
based on what you’ve known forever that
based on what you’ve known forever that doesn’t fit your future anymore because
doesn’t fit your future anymore because
doesn’t fit your future anymore because I can guarantee you every single one of
I can guarantee you every single one of
I can guarantee you every single one of us who want something different than
us who want something different than
us who want something different than what we’re getting we’re doing something
what we’re getting we’re doing something
what we’re getting we’re doing something unconsciously from all patterns that
unconsciously from all patterns that
unconsciously from all patterns that doesn’t even serve our future that’s
doesn’t even serve our future that’s
doesn’t even serve our future that’s when the tongue in your mouth and the
when the tongue in your mouth and the
when the tongue in your mouth and the tongue in your shoe are going in two
tongue in your shoe are going in two
tongue in your shoe are going in two totally different directions and your
totally different directions and your
totally different directions and your job is to align them up so that you can
job is to align them up so that you can
job is to align them up so that you can move forward in a powerful way yes yes
move forward in a powerful way yes yes
move forward in a powerful way yes yes all right when I say yes yes sure q2 say
all right when I say yes yes sure q2 say
all right when I say yes yes sure q2 say yes yes back it makes me feel really
yes yes back it makes me feel really
yes yes back it makes me feel really good inside thank you so much for your
good inside thank you so much for your
good inside thank you so much for your generosity
generosity
generosity next time we all could sell out so myth
next time we all could sell out so myth
next time we all could sell out so myth number one is that abundance is for some
number one is that abundance is for some
number one is that abundance is for some people it’s not for everyone it you got
people it’s not for everyone it you got
people it’s not for everyone it you got to come from a certain origin or have a
to come from a certain origin or have a
to come from a certain origin or have a certain background whatever story we
certain background whatever story we
certain background whatever story we make up and the truth is and what I love
make up and the truth is and what I love
make up and the truth is and what I love about the truth is the truth doesn’t
about the truth is the truth doesn’t
about the truth is the truth doesn’t change whether you accept it or not it’s
change whether you accept it or not it’s
change whether you accept it or not it’s still the truth and so once you’re made
still the truth and so once you’re made
still the truth and so once you’re made aware from from your unconscious to your
aware from from your unconscious to your
aware from from your unconscious to your conscious of a truth live like you know
conscious of a truth live like you know
conscious of a truth live like you know that truth and watch things change just
that truth and watch things change just
that truth and watch things change just live like you know that truth a lot of
live like you know that truth a lot of
live like you know that truth a lot of times when you learn a lesson and you
times when you learn a lesson and you
times when you learn a lesson and you keep revisiting that same pain it’s
keep revisiting that same pain it’s
keep revisiting that same pain it’s because you’re not living like you
because you’re not living like you
because you’re not living like you learned the lesson how many of us by
learned the lesson how many of us by
learned the lesson how many of us by show of hands have asked the question
show of hands have asked the question
show of hands have asked the question how did I end up here again raise your
how did I end up here again raise your
how did I end up here again raise your hands up I just make sure I’m in the
hands up I just make sure I’m in the
hands up I just make sure I’m in the right room okay great it’s because we
right room okay great it’s because we
right room okay great it’s because we forgot we learned the lesson so the
forgot we learned the lesson so the
forgot we learned the lesson so the universe guy whatever you call it have
universe guy whatever you call it have
universe guy whatever you call it have to give you the lesson again and then
to give you the lesson again and then
to give you the lesson again and then you go okay I got I got I got I got it
you go okay I got I got I got I got it
you go okay I got I got I got I got it right I’ve set it I got a guy like that
right I’ve set it I got a guy like that
right I’ve set it I got a guy like that okay live like you learn to listen and
okay live like you learn to listen and
okay live like you learn to listen and then it won’t ever come again same thing
then it won’t ever come again same thing
then it won’t ever come again same thing with the truth when you live like you
with the truth when you live like you
with the truth when you live like you know a new truth or an old truth that
know a new truth or an old truth that
know a new truth or an old truth that you didn’t really recognize you knew
you didn’t really recognize you knew
you didn’t really recognize you knew when you live like you know the truth
when you live like you know the truth
when you live like you know the truth your life will show up to match that
your life will show up to match that
your life will show up to match that truth you know so first true abundance
truth you know so first true abundance
truth you know so first true abundance is available to every
is available to every
is available to every everyone irregardless of your culture
everyone irregardless of your culture
everyone irregardless of your culture background origin no matter how you
background origin no matter how you
background origin no matter how you start at least so what if I you can do
start at least so what if I you can do
start at least so what if I you can do all the what-ifs it’s still available to
all the what-ifs it’s still available to
all the what-ifs it’s still available to you now whether you go get it or not
you now whether you go get it or not
you now whether you go get it or not and off the times you don’t go get it
and off the times you don’t go get it
and off the times you don’t go get it because the story you’re telling
because the story you’re telling
because the story you’re telling yourself doesn’t agree with what’s
yourself doesn’t agree with what’s
yourself doesn’t agree with what’s available for you and our stories are
available for you and our stories are
available for you and our stories are huge because your story is your
huge because your story is your
huge because your story is your perception your perception is your truth
perception your perception is your truth
perception your perception is your truth and you will live into that perception
and you will live into that perception
and you will live into that perception as if it is your truth
myth number two is that abundance is
myth number two is that abundance is singularly focused on possessions and
singularly focused on possessions and
singularly focused on possessions and money right that’s all about what you
money right that’s all about what you
money right that’s all about what you drive what you live in how much money
drive what you live in how much money
drive what you live in how much money you make when in fact this couldn’t be
you make when in fact this couldn’t be
you make when in fact this couldn’t be further from the truth
further from the truth
further from the truth wealth is possessions and money
wealth is possessions and money
wealth is possessions and money abundance is a 360 experience abundance
abundance is a 360 experience abundance
abundance is a 360 experience abundance is a 360 experience true abundance true
is a 360 experience true abundance true
is a 360 experience true abundance true abundance is your health because if you
abundance is your health because if you
abundance is your health because if you don’t have great health life does not
don’t have great health life does not
don’t have great health life does not feel good
feel good
feel good abundance is relationship and at the end
abundance is relationship and at the end
abundance is relationship and at the end of your life literally you will measure
of your life literally you will measure
of your life literally you will measure the quality of your life by the quality
the quality of your life by the quality
the quality of your life by the quality of the relationships you had all the
of the relationships you had all the
of the relationships you had all the other stuff will fall away that
other stuff will fall away that
other stuff will fall away that promotion you’re thinking about you’re
promotion you’re thinking about you’re
promotion you’re thinking about you’re wondering about that race it will fall
wondering about that race it will fall
wondering about that race it will fall away in the area of importance when you
away in the area of importance when you
away in the area of importance when you get to the end of your life you will
get to the end of your life you will
get to the end of your life you will begin to look at the quality of your
begin to look at the quality of your
begin to look at the quality of your relationships how are your children
relationships how are your children
relationships how are your children related to you how your siblings really
related to you how your siblings really
related to you how your siblings really – do you have love in your life you
– do you have love in your life you
– do you have love in your life you literally will start looking at
literally will start looking at
literally will start looking at relationships at a higher level as you
relationships at a higher level as you
relationships at a higher level as you get older so when you mind them now you
get older so when you mind them now you
get older so when you mind them now you take care of them and I know that for a
take care of them and I know that for a
take care of them and I know that for a fact I have a friend who’s who’s worth
fact I have a friend who’s who’s worth
fact I have a friend who’s who’s worth 14 billion dollars billion would it be
14 billion dollars billion would it be
14 billion dollars billion would it be he was just partying at my house all
he was just partying at my house all
he was just partying at my house all night long wouldn’t leave 4 in the
night long wouldn’t leave 4 in the
night long wouldn’t leave 4 in the morning go home and he flew in from
morning go home and he flew in from
morning go home and he flew in from Canada to go to my New Year’s party
Canada to go to my New Year’s party
Canada to go to my New Year’s party because he loves my family connection
because he loves my family connection
because he loves my family connection and he doesn’t have one he is
and he doesn’t have one he is
and he doesn’t have one he is financially wealthy
financially wealthy
financially wealthy he’s relationship broke so that make
he’s relationship broke so that make
he’s relationship broke so that make sense
sense
sense abundance is a 360 experience it’s about
abundance is a 360 experience it’s about
abundance is a 360 experience it’s about relationships it’s about health it’s
relationships it’s about health it’s
relationships it’s about health it’s about your spiritual groundedness that
about your spiritual groundedness that
about your spiritual groundedness that doesn’t mean you have a religious origin
doesn’t mean you have a religious origin
doesn’t mean you have a religious origin it’s about can you release can you
it’s about can you release can you
it’s about can you release can you forgive can you let go can you be still
forgive can you let go can you be still
forgive can you let go can you be still do you meditate do you have time with
do you meditate do you have time with
do you meditate do you have time with yourself that has a lot to do with the
yourself that has a lot to do with the
yourself that has a lot to do with the quality of your life that ability and I
quality of your life that ability and I
quality of your life that ability and I talked about this in the book and I and
talked about this in the book and I and
talked about this in the book and I and I and I’m a teacher so I give you ways
I and I’m a teacher so I give you ways
I and I’m a teacher so I give you ways to enhance every area that I’m talking
to enhance every area that I’m talking
to enhance every area that I’m talking about
about
about I don’t just introduce it to you I go
I don’t just introduce it to you I go
I don’t just introduce it to you I go listen if you want to strengthen this
listen if you want to strengthen this
listen if you want to strengthen this area why don’t you do these things so
area why don’t you do these things so
area why don’t you do these things so you’ll find page 58 is dynamic page 265
you’ll find page 58 is dynamic page 265
you’ll find page 58 is dynamic page 265 dynamic worth it so and then the final
dynamic worth it so and then the final
dynamic worth it so and then the final area is Finance
area is Finance
area is Finance fine it’s there times where it is about
fine it’s there times where it is about
fine it’s there times where it is about the money and people of service people
the money and people of service people
the money and people of service people who are givers people who are natural
who are givers people who are natural
who are givers people who are natural lovers of life we sometimes don’t want
lovers of life we sometimes don’t want
lovers of life we sometimes don’t want to talk about the money money is a
to talk about the money money is a
to talk about the money money is a dignified conversation to have
dignified conversation to have
dignified conversation to have matter of fact you should do very very
matter of fact you should do very very
matter of fact you should do very very well financially because when good
well financially because when good
well financially because when good people do well good people simply do
people do well good people simply do
people do well good people simply do more good in the world like we could in
more good in the world like we could in
more good in the world like we could in hunger we could we could in homelessness
hunger we could we could in homelessness
hunger we could we could in homelessness when enough good people do well we’re
when enough good people do well we’re
when enough good people do well we’re now empowered financially to make some
now empowered financially to make some
now empowered financially to make some major differences so money is a
major differences so money is a
major differences so money is a dignified conversation money is a tool
dignified conversation money is a tool
dignified conversation money is a tool money is a team member money buys you
money is a team member money buys you
money is a team member money buys you access to great memories mmm that’s a
access to great memories mmm that’s a
access to great memories mmm that’s a different look at it huh money is not
different look at it huh money is not
different look at it huh money is not the end game money simply buys me access
the end game money simply buys me access
the end game money simply buys me access to great memories money buys me freedom
to great memories money buys me freedom
to great memories money buys me freedom I’m able to do more in life now because
I’m able to do more in life now because
I’m able to do more in life now because I have more money that’s it I have
I have more money that’s it I have
I have more money that’s it I have access to better better memories my
access to better better memories my
access to better better memories my money bought me the memory of my son at
money bought me the memory of my son at
money bought me the memory of my son at age 10 he’s now 21 at age 10 standing on
age 10 he’s now 21 at age 10 standing on
age 10 he’s now 21 at age 10 standing on top of one of the tallest mountains in
top of one of the tallest mountains in
top of one of the tallest mountains in Kenya with no front teeth saying mommy
Kenya with no front teeth saying mommy
Kenya with no front teeth saying mommy I’m on top of the tallest mountain in
I’m on top of the tallest mountain in
I’m on top of the tallest mountain in Africa I still have that memory it
Africa I still have that memory it
Africa I still have that memory it burned in my head because the first time
burned in my head because the first time
burned in my head because the first time I took my son on a trip with me my money
I took my son on a trip with me my money
I took my son on a trip with me my money was able to buy my son and I surfing in
was able to buy my son and I surfing in
was able to buy my son and I surfing in Brisbane Australia this last May yes we
Brisbane Australia this last May yes we
Brisbane Australia this last May yes we surfed mama was on a surfboard for about
surfed mama was on a surfboard for about
surfed mama was on a surfboard for about 2.2 seconds but I got it on video so it
2.2 seconds but I got it on video so it
2.2 seconds but I got it on video so it doesn’t matter I’m a clip it and just
doesn’t matter I’m a clip it and just
doesn’t matter I’m a clip it and just keep like just add it together to give
keep like just add it together to give
keep like just add it together to give myself about a good two minutes right
myself about a good two minutes right
myself about a good two minutes right and so money allowed me to jump out of a
and so money allowed me to jump out of a
and so money allowed me to jump out of a plane with my son and Australia’s along
plane with my son and Australia’s along
plane with my son and Australia’s along the Gold Coast of Australia and fly over
the Gold Coast of Australia and fly over
the Gold Coast of Australia and fly over the Gold Coast of Australia so money is
the Gold Coast of Australia so money is
the Gold Coast of Australia so money is not the end game it’s a tool it’s a team
not the end game it’s a tool it’s a team
not the end game it’s a tool it’s a team member it simply gives you access to
member it simply gives you access to
member it simply gives you access to greater memories I want to invite up my
greater memories I want to invite up my
greater memories I want to invite up my son here to New York he’s been one to
son here to New York he’s been one to
son here to New York he’s been one to come to New York for ever mom
come to New York for ever mom
come to New York for ever mom New York New York ok great I’m going in
New York New York ok great I’m going in
New York New York ok great I’m going in January for my book – he’s like jQuery
January for my book – he’s like jQuery
January for my book – he’s like jQuery he’s like no no that’s one that’s when
he’s like no no that’s one that’s when
he’s like no no that’s one that’s when it’s cold there right as I do I’m going
it’s cold there right as I do I’m going
it’s cold there right as I do I’m going to New York it’s time to come
to New York it’s time to come
to New York it’s time to come you’ll be back is that kind of access he
you’ll be back is that kind of access he
you’ll be back is that kind of access he knows it goes but mom when you go to
knows it goes but mom when you go to
knows it goes but mom when you go to London I’m so with you no matter what
London I’m so with you no matter what
London I’m so with you no matter what time of the year and that’s the same kid
time of the year and that’s the same kid
time of the year and that’s the same kid that I have to wrap in the towel that’s
that I have to wrap in the towel that’s
that I have to wrap in the towel that’s the sweetest part of the memories is
the sweetest part of the memories is
the sweetest part of the memories is that the story I get to tell is
that the story I get to tell is
that the story I get to tell is transformational because I was willing
transformational because I was willing
transformational because I was willing to invest the pennies in my pocket in my
to invest the pennies in my pocket in my
to invest the pennies in my pocket in my mind so that my pocket can overflow with
mind so that my pocket can overflow with
mind so that my pocket can overflow with something in there and so I’m here to
something in there and so I’m here to
something in there and so I’m here to disrupt you a bit I’m here to make you
disrupt you a bit I’m here to make you
disrupt you a bit I’m here to make you mildly to moderately to significantly
mildly to moderately to significantly
mildly to moderately to significantly uncomfortable in any form of mediocracy
uncomfortable in any form of mediocracy
uncomfortable in any form of mediocracy that’s my agenda because when someone
that’s my agenda because when someone
that’s my agenda because when someone loves us enough to shake us up a bit and
loves us enough to shake us up a bit and
loves us enough to shake us up a bit and make it uncomfortable to do business as
make it uncomfortable to do business as
make it uncomfortable to do business as usual that’s a favor that’s a favor and
usual that’s a favor that’s a favor and
usual that’s a favor that’s a favor and I was so uncomfortable in 1994 that the
I was so uncomfortable in 1994 that the
I was so uncomfortable in 1994 that the last thing I wanted was to do business
last thing I wanted was to do business
last thing I wanted was to do business as usual and so the book is my it’s my
as usual and so the book is my it’s my
as usual and so the book is my it’s my answering of the question I’ve been
answering of the question I’ve been
answering of the question I’ve been asked so many times how did you do it
asked so many times how did you do it
asked so many times how did you do it and I would be unfair if I just gave you
and I would be unfair if I just gave you
and I would be unfair if I just gave you one line there were many things I did
one line there were many things I did
one line there were many things I did and when I look at my life I traveled
and when I look at my life I traveled
and when I look at my life I traveled the world I’m on the road over 310 days
the world I’m on the road over 310 days
the world I’m on the road over 310 days out of the year and I don’t mind cuz 24
out of the year and I don’t mind cuz 24
out of the year and I don’t mind cuz 24 years ago I had a prayer god I want to
years ago I had a prayer god I want to
years ago I had a prayer god I want to travel the world run my mouth and
travel the world run my mouth and
travel the world run my mouth and autograph anything and now I’m like
autograph anything and now I’m like
autograph anything and now I’m like update travel the world half the time
update travel the world half the time
update travel the world half the time and so I live my dreams and perfect far
and so I live my dreams and perfect far
and so I live my dreams and perfect far from that but what I’ve learned how to
from that but what I’ve learned how to
from that but what I’ve learned how to do is perfectly manage my imperfection
do is perfectly manage my imperfection
do is perfectly manage my imperfection and accept it and be at peace with it
and accept it and be at peace with it
and accept it and be at peace with it and then find out how we can bring out
and then find out how we can bring out
and then find out how we can bring out the best in each other and so I stopped
the best in each other and so I stopped
the best in each other and so I stopped by Google and this is a you talk about
by Google and this is a you talk about
by Google and this is a you talk about the law of attraction this is
the law of attraction this is
the law of attraction this is this is a full circle five years ago I
this is a full circle five years ago I
this is a full circle five years ago I opened my offices for the first time
opened my offices for the first time
opened my offices for the first time I’ve been working out of my home for 15
I’ve been working out of my home for 15
I’ve been working out of my home for 15 years and my little home office I
years and my little home office I
years and my little home office I started in a closet a walk-in closet
started in a closet a walk-in closet
started in a closet a walk-in closet well it wasn’t really a walk all the way
well it wasn’t really a walk all the way
well it wasn’t really a walk all the way in you know it’s they should call some
in you know it’s they should call some
in you know it’s they should call some causes stepping in closets so it was a
causes stepping in closets so it was a
causes stepping in closets so it was a step in and turn around closet and I put
step in and turn around closet and I put
step in and turn around closet and I put on the wall you know those little
on the wall you know those little
on the wall you know those little handheld mirrors you can get at the
handheld mirrors you can get at the
handheld mirrors you can get at the store and just a little handy about
store and just a little handy about
store and just a little handy about $4.99 I bought about four to six of
$4.99 I bought about four to six of
$4.99 I bought about four to six of those mirrors and I put those mirrors on
those mirrors and I put those mirrors on
those mirrors and I put those mirrors on the wall in the walk-in closet so when I
the wall in the walk-in closet so when I
the wall in the walk-in closet so when I sat down it looked bigger and on the
sat down it looked bigger and on the
sat down it looked bigger and on the pant hang inverted this walk-in closet
pant hang inverted this walk-in closet
pant hang inverted this walk-in closet to my office and I used pant hangers
to my office and I used pant hangers
to my office and I used pant hangers with clips on them as my files so I
with clips on them as my files so I
with clips on them as my files so I clipped manila folders on the pant
clipped manila folders on the pant
clipped manila folders on the pant hangers and I just sliding a little
hangers and I just sliding a little
hangers and I just sliding a little vanilla photos across put a little desk
vanilla photos across put a little desk
vanilla photos across put a little desk in there and I worked out of that off
in there and I worked out of that off
in there and I worked out of that off out of that office out of that closet
out of that office out of that closet
out of that office out of that closet for four years building my company then
for four years building my company then
for four years building my company then I graduated to a little room off the
I graduated to a little room off the
I graduated to a little room off the side of my bedroom five years ago I
side of my bedroom five years ago I
side of my bedroom five years ago I graduated to a 3,500 square-foot office
graduated to a 3,500 square-foot office
graduated to a 3,500 square-foot office to you guys that small but to me that
to you guys that small but to me that
to you guys that small but to me that was really really big because it was a
was really really big because it was a
was really really big because it was a walk-in closet at one time and when I
walk-in closet at one time and when I
walk-in closet at one time and when I opened my office’s I had about three
opened my office’s I had about three
opened my office’s I had about three employees and now we’re up to about 20
employees and now we’re up to about 20
employees and now we’re up to about 20 25 26 or something
25 26 or something
25 26 or something and still small and some people stand up
and still small and some people stand up
and still small and some people stand up a big for me on my own right and when I
a big for me on my own right and when I
a big for me on my own right and when I started my offices this is my connection
started my offices this is my connection
started my offices this is my connection to do us but I would tell you this
to do us but I would tell you this
to do us but I would tell you this connection I had I watched the
connection I had I watched the
connection I had I watched the documentary on who I really loved the
documentary on who I really loved the
documentary on who I really loved the intention around making the employees
intention around making the employees
intention around making the employees feel at home make them in foot pump I
feel at home make them in foot pump I
feel at home make them in foot pump I love that essence I love that the whole
love that essence I love that the whole
love that essence I love that the whole and I’ll probably butcher this up
and I’ll probably butcher this up
and I’ll probably butcher this up forgive me it’s my first time with you
forgive me it’s my first time with you
forgive me it’s my first time with you guys but the whole food area right like
guys but the whole food area right like
guys but the whole food area right like oh my gosh chefs and food and cuisines
oh my gosh chefs and food and cuisines
oh my gosh chefs and food and cuisines and I was like this is amazing oh my god
and I was like this is amazing oh my god
and I was like this is amazing oh my god they can go in and eat it’s amazing how
they can go in and eat it’s amazing how
they can go in and eat it’s amazing how can i duplicate this on my little bit
can i duplicate this on my little bit
can i duplicate this on my little bit and so my duplication ever you should
and so my duplication ever you should
and so my duplication ever you should come to my office I invite you all to
come to my office I invite you all to
come to my office I invite you all to visit my office you walk in my office
visit my office you walk in my office
visit my office you walk in my office and Carla can tell you she’s on my team
and Carla can tell you she’s on my team
and Carla can tell you she’s on my team you walk in my office and when you go
you walk in my office and when you go
you walk in my office and when you go into my kitchen my version of Google is
into my kitchen my version of Google is
into my kitchen my version of Google is there’s a shopping list and you can put
there’s a shopping list and you can put
there’s a shopping list and you can put anything you want to eat on the shopping
anything you want to eat on the shopping
anything you want to eat on the shopping list and we’ve stocked the refrigerator
list and we’ve stocked the refrigerator
list and we’ve stocked the refrigerator every week with fresh food that you
every week with fresh food that you
every week with fresh food that you choose and I have a George form and
choose and I have a George form and
choose and I have a George form and that’s my chef that’s that’s y’all Shep
that’s my chef that’s that’s y’all Shep
that’s my chef that’s that’s y’all Shep is our George Foreman it’s y’all chef
is our George Foreman it’s y’all chef
is our George Foreman it’s y’all chef and so and and everything for breakfast
and so and and everything for breakfast
and so and and everything for breakfast everything for lunch everything for
everything for lunch everything for
everything for lunch everything for dinner is in the cabinets and in the
dinner is in the cabinets and in the
dinner is in the cabinets and in the refrigerator
and if you want something just put on
and if you want something just put on the list and I’ll buy it for you
and I model that and I tell everyone
and I model that and I tell everyone whenever I’m giving a tour and I give
whenever I’m giving a tour and I give
whenever I’m giving a tour and I give tours a lot in my office that I I was
tours a lot in my office that I I was
tours a lot in my office that I I was inspired by Google to do that so you got
inspired by Google to do that so you got
inspired by Google to do that so you got to start somewhere right you gotta start
to start somewhere right you gotta start
to start somewhere right you gotta start somewhere and so when I found out that
somewhere and so when I found out that
somewhere and so when I found out that during our tour I was coming to go it’s
during our tour I was coming to go it’s
during our tour I was coming to go it’s like finally I get to actually see the
like finally I get to actually see the
like finally I get to actually see the real so when I leave here I’m so going
real so when I leave here I’m so going
real so when I leave here I’m so going over to your cafeteria I’m gonna take
over to your cafeteria I’m gonna take
over to your cafeteria I’m gonna take pictures in the cafeteria I’m gonna put
pictures in the cafeteria I’m gonna put
pictures in the cafeteria I’m gonna put that picture up in my office so you guys
that picture up in my office so you guys
that picture up in my office so you guys will be it you will be your your
will be it you will be your your
will be it you will be your your cafeteria will be in my cafeteria the
cafeteria will be in my cafeteria the
cafeteria will be in my cafeteria the pictures so that I could show that the
pictures so that I could show that the
pictures so that I could show that the connection and I believe that when God
connection and I believe that when God
connection and I believe that when God when the universe bring something within
when the universe bring something within
when the universe bring something within your realm that’s showing you that
your realm that’s showing you that
your realm that’s showing you that something is available to you more than
something is available to you more than
something is available to you more than where you are wherever you’re going but
where you are wherever you’re going but
where you are wherever you’re going but you got to be willing to dream big
you got to be willing to dream big
you got to be willing to dream big enough to scare yourself if your dreams
enough to scare yourself if your dreams
enough to scare yourself if your dreams don’t scare you you ain’t dreaming big
don’t scare you you ain’t dreaming big
don’t scare you you ain’t dreaming big enough if you already know the how
enough if you already know the how
enough if you already know the how you’re not dreaming big enough you’re
you’re not dreaming big enough you’re
you’re not dreaming big enough you’re why should be so big you’re what should
why should be so big you’re what should
why should be so big you’re what should be so big that you sit back and go now
be so big that you sit back and go now
be so big that you sit back and go now how am I gonna do that good it’s finally
how am I gonna do that good it’s finally
how am I gonna do that good it’s finally big enough so many of us stop dreaming
big enough so many of us stop dreaming
big enough so many of us stop dreaming big because we’ve had some failures in
big because we’ve had some failures in
big because we’ve had some failures in the past well let me tell you about
the past well let me tell you about
the past well let me tell you about abundant thinkers abundant thinkers we
abundant thinkers abundant thinkers we
abundant thinkers abundant thinkers we give ourselves permission to fail all
give ourselves permission to fail all
give ourselves permission to fail all the time we give ourselves permission to
the time we give ourselves permission to
the time we give ourselves permission to fail all the time and let me tell you
fail all the time and let me tell you
fail all the time and let me tell you why because when you give yourself
why because when you give yourself
why because when you give yourself permission to fail you actually just
permission to fail you actually just
permission to fail you actually just gave yourself permission to fly because
gave yourself permission to fly because
gave yourself permission to fly because if you try to avoid failure all the time
if you try to avoid failure all the time
if you try to avoid failure all the time you’ll never take a leap and the moment
you’ll never take a leap and the moment
you’ll never take a leap and the moment you say I’m okay whatever happens you’ll
you say I’m okay whatever happens you’ll
you say I’m okay whatever happens you’ll take a leap I’d rather fall flying then
take a leap I’d rather fall flying then
take a leap I’d rather fall flying then live a life on the edge and never
live a life on the edge and never
live a life on the edge and never jumping off because then you get to 90
jumping off because then you get to 90
jumping off because then you get to 90 and go what would have happened if I
and go what would have happened if I
and go what would have happened if I didn’t play it 70 percent and you got to
didn’t play it 70 percent and you got to
didn’t play it 70 percent and you got to watch out for yourself because you’re so
watch out for yourself because you’re so
watch out for yourself because you’re so brilliant then just raise your hand if
brilliant then just raise your hand if
brilliant then just raise your hand if this is you that you’re 70 percent looks
this is you that you’re 70 percent looks
this is you that you’re 70 percent looks like someone else’s 159 percent come on
like someone else’s 159 percent come on
like someone else’s 159 percent come on you guys bust yourself out don’t just
you guys bust yourself out don’t just
you guys bust yourself out don’t just kind of put it up a little bit put it
kind of put it up a little bit put it
kind of put it up a little bit put it all the way in the air just that’s the
all the way in the air just that’s the
all the way in the air just that’s the truth the truth is sexy your brilliant
truth the truth is sexy your brilliant
truth the truth is sexy your brilliant raise your hand you know you brilliant
raise your hand you know you brilliant
raise your hand you know you brilliant you can see the brilliance in the room
you can see the brilliance in the room
you can see the brilliance in the room and you got to watch out because you can
and you got to watch out because you can
and you got to watch out because you can literally
literally
literally is 70% and be impressive and yet you
is 70% and be impressive and yet you
is 70% and be impressive and yet you know you know and there’s no one to hold
know you know and there’s no one to hold
know you know and there’s no one to hold you accountable because in your family
you accountable because in your family
you accountable because in your family circle you are the bomb.com right like
circle you are the bomb.com right like
circle you are the bomb.com right like woo they’re bragging on you works at
woo they’re bragging on you works at
woo they’re bragging on you works at Google got it made it out the
Google got it made it out the
Google got it made it out the neighborhood or whatever it is it’s my
neighborhood or whatever it is it’s my
neighborhood or whatever it is it’s my neighborhood that’s what they say and so
neighborhood that’s what they say and so
neighborhood that’s what they say and so you have to constantly be holding
you have to constantly be holding
you have to constantly be holding yourself accountable to the version of
yourself accountable to the version of
yourself accountable to the version of you that you desire to become you have
you that you desire to become you have
you that you desire to become you have to constantly keep yourself in an
to constantly keep yourself in an
to constantly keep yourself in an environment of other people who are
environment of other people who are
environment of other people who are willing to hold you accountable if you
willing to hold you accountable if you
willing to hold you accountable if you came here with someone or there’s
came here with someone or there’s
came here with someone or there’s someone back in your office or someone
someone back in your office or someone
someone back in your office or someone back in your community that can hold you
back in your community that can hold you
back in your community that can hold you accountable
accountable
accountable tell them the thing that you’re afraid
tell them the thing that you’re afraid
tell them the thing that you’re afraid to say out loud and then follow it with
to say out loud and then follow it with
to say out loud and then follow it with please hold me accountable to the man
please hold me accountable to the man
please hold me accountable to the man the woman that I’m becoming not to Who I
the woman that I’m becoming not to Who I
the woman that I’m becoming not to Who I am
am
am please don’t be impressed with my bio
please don’t be impressed with my bio
please don’t be impressed with my bio cuz I already did that and my people
cuz I already did that and my people
cuz I already did that and my people look at my bag of whoa don’t don’t spend
look at my bag of whoa don’t don’t spend
look at my bag of whoa don’t don’t spend a lot of time on that that’s so that’s
a lot of time on that that’s so that’s
a lot of time on that that’s so that’s so oh eight I already did that like hold
so oh eight I already did that like hold
so oh eight I already did that like hold me accountable to what is in my head
me accountable to what is in my head
me accountable to what is in my head that I want to do in the next ten years
that I want to do in the next ten years
that I want to do in the next ten years that’s what I need you to really know
that’s what I need you to really know
that’s what I need you to really know and so when you look at that and you
and so when you look at that and you
and so when you look at that and you play that big and you’re willing to
play that big and you’re willing to
play that big and you’re willing to stretch and you willing to think
stretch and you willing to think
stretch and you willing to think ginormous not being not huge but
ginormous not being not huge but
ginormous not being not huge but ginormous and you’re willing to walk
ginormous and you’re willing to walk
ginormous and you’re willing to walk alone see so many of us are afraid of
alone see so many of us are afraid of
alone see so many of us are afraid of leaving someone behind we’re afraid of
leaving someone behind we’re afraid of
leaving someone behind we’re afraid of walking alone here’s what I know about a
walking alone here’s what I know about a
walking alone here’s what I know about a great vision and if someone else in your
great vision and if someone else in your
great vision and if someone else in your life doesn’t get your vision as some of
life doesn’t get your vision as some of
life doesn’t get your vision as some of you came just for this everything else
you came just for this everything else
you came just for this everything else is bonus
someone in your life doesn’t get your
someone in your life doesn’t get your vision if no one in your life get your
vision if no one in your life get your
vision if no one in your life get your vision it could be because God didn’t
vision it could be because God didn’t
vision it could be because God didn’t give your vision to them
and whatever you call your faith I’m not
and whatever you call your faith I’m not here to impose my belief system on you
here to impose my belief system on you
here to impose my belief system on you but your vision was given to you so if
but your vision was given to you so if
but your vision was given to you so if you got to walk with it and hold it and
you got to walk with it and hold it and
you got to walk with it and hold it and nurture it for a while be okay with that
nurture it for a while be okay with that
nurture it for a while be okay with that that’s like being impregnated with
that’s like being impregnated with
that’s like being impregnated with something beautiful but you want
something beautiful but you want
something beautiful but you want everyone else to see it and describe it
everyone else to see it and describe it
everyone else to see it and describe it before you let it out to the world it’s
before you let it out to the world it’s
before you let it out to the world it’s impossible physically your job is the
impossible physically your job is the
impossible physically your job is the birthday now you can be here and still
birthday now you can be here and still
birthday now you can be here and still be creative you can be here and have a
be creative you can be here and have a
be creative you can be here and have a passion inside the book I talked about
passion inside the book I talked about
passion inside the book I talked about the four ease
the four ease
the four ease oh yeah I thought I was just gonna talk
oh yeah I thought I was just gonna talk
oh yeah I thought I was just gonna talk about the book and read from the book
about the book and read from the book
about the book and read from the book y’all knows not even bring a book up to
y’all knows not even bring a book up to
y’all knows not even bring a book up to your life get the book right and then
your life get the book right and then
your life get the book right and then you got both y’all gonna get the bugs on
you got both y’all gonna get the bugs on
you got both y’all gonna get the bugs on just come from a free conversation
just come from a free conversation
just come from a free conversation because this is just the outskirts the
because this is just the outskirts the
because this is just the outskirts the book is the deep dive of the how to this
book is the deep dive of the how to this
book is the deep dive of the how to this could be called entertainment in a
could be called entertainment in a
could be called entertainment in a couple of hours that’s where you have
couple of hours that’s where you have
couple of hours that’s where you have the breakthrough where you do the work
the breakthrough where you do the work
the breakthrough where you do the work so many times we don’t want to be
so many times we don’t want to be
so many times we don’t want to be inconvenience by having we don’t wanna
inconvenience by having we don’t wanna
inconvenience by having we don’t wanna be inconvenienced with our convictions
be inconvenienced with our convictions
be inconvenienced with our convictions let me tell you in order to have
let me tell you in order to have
let me tell you in order to have something different you are going to
something different you are going to
something different you are going to have to do something different in order
have to do something different in order
have to do something different in order to have something more you have to do
to have something more you have to do
to have something more you have to do something haven’t done yet I have to say
something haven’t done yet I have to say
something haven’t done yet I have to say the things I didn’t want to say do the
the things I didn’t want to say do the
the things I didn’t want to say do the things I didn’t feel like doing to have
things I didn’t feel like doing to have
things I didn’t feel like doing to have the life I know I want it period period
the life I know I want it period period
the life I know I want it period period and all I did was give instructions for
and all I did was give instructions for
and all I did was give instructions for here do this bite-sized do this
here do this bite-sized do this
here do this bite-sized do this bite-sized do this bite-size bite-size
bite-sized do this bite-size bite-size
bite-sized do this bite-size bite-size digestible palatable pieces of what you
digestible palatable pieces of what you
digestible palatable pieces of what you can do it’s that sound good you guys and
can do it’s that sound good you guys and
can do it’s that sound good you guys and when you look up and you don’t have to
when you look up and you don’t have to
when you look up and you don’t have to have a magnificent change over 12 months
have a magnificent change over 12 months
have a magnificent change over 12 months have a small change over 30 days and
have a small change over 30 days and
have a small change over 30 days and then a small change over 30 days your
then a small change over 30 days your
then a small change over 30 days your breakthrough comes will come in
breakthrough comes will come in
breakthrough comes will come in needlepoint moves and you look up look
needlepoint moves and you look up look
needlepoint moves and you look up look up in five years and not recognize your
up in five years and not recognize your
up in five years and not recognize your life and you need tools because you’ve
life and you need tools because you’ve
life and you need tools because you’ve gotten yourself as far as you can get
gotten yourself as far as you can get
gotten yourself as far as you can get yourself that was the best thing I
yourself that was the best thing I
yourself that was the best thing I learned is that I taking myself as far
learned is that I taking myself as far
learned is that I taking myself as far as I could take myself I keep a coach in
as I could take myself I keep a coach in
as I could take myself I keep a coach in my life I keep a coaching every part of
my life I keep a coaching every part of
my life I keep a coaching every part of my life that matters right before we
my life that matters right before we
my life that matters right before we landed here I was in the car texting
landed here I was in the car texting
landed here I was in the car texting back my spiritual mentor and I have a
back my spiritual mentor and I have a
back my spiritual mentor and I have a business mentor and I have a health
business mentor and I have a health
business mentor and I have a health mentor because those areas of my life
mentor because those areas of my life
mentor because those areas of my life really really mattered
really really mattered
really really mattered to me so get someone who’s 2 to 10 steps
to me so get someone who’s 2 to 10 steps
to me so get someone who’s 2 to 10 steps ahead of you and then just say give me
ahead of you and then just say give me
ahead of you and then just say give me some give me some breadcrumbs
some give me some breadcrumbs
some give me some breadcrumbs give me some breadcrumbs I’m good and so
give me some breadcrumbs I’m good and so
give me some breadcrumbs I’m good and so that’s what I did in the book I just
that’s what I did in the book I just
that’s what I did in the book I just said here if you’re interested in
said here if you’re interested in
said here if you’re interested in financial growth and I tell people to
financial growth and I tell people to
financial growth and I tell people to skip to finances if that’s important for
skip to finances if that’s important for
skip to finances if that’s important for you skip to relationships if that’s the
you skip to relationships if that’s the
you skip to relationships if that’s the thing you want to enhance build heal
thing you want to enhance build heal
thing you want to enhance build heal move through skip to self esteems
move through skip to self esteems
move through skip to self esteems which is called self enrichment if
which is called self enrichment if
which is called self enrichment if that’s the area you want to work on
that’s the area you want to work on
that’s the area you want to work on yourself worth you want to work on your
yourself worth you want to work on your
yourself worth you want to work on your on your value you want to work on making
on your value you want to work on making
on your value you want to work on making your yeses more powerful making your
your yeses more powerful making your
your yeses more powerful making your nose matter then skip to self enrichment
nose matter then skip to self enrichment
nose matter then skip to self enrichment don’t read the book in order to read the
don’t read the book in order to read the
don’t read the book in order to read the book base is how you based on how you
book base is how you based on how you
book base is how you based on how you need yes and three minutes I’m open up
need yes and three minutes I’m open up
need yes and three minutes I’m open up for questions your job is to have some
for questions your job is to have some
for questions your job is to have some really great questions
really great questions
really great questions my job is create master and here’s the
my job is create master and here’s the
my job is create master and here’s the guideline on questions you can ask me
guideline on questions you can ask me
guideline on questions you can ask me anything say anything you guys want to
anything say anything you guys want to
anything say anything you guys want to say anything say anything I know you
say anything say anything I know you
say anything say anything I know you guys have a corporate policy of
guys have a corporate policy of
guys have a corporate policy of corporate correct and what you can ask
corporate correct and what you can ask
corporate correct and what you can ask I’m the author and I said what anything
I’m the author and I said what anything
I’m the author and I said what anything I’m committed to your breakthrough even
I’m committed to your breakthrough even
I’m committed to your breakthrough even though there’s one person that’s perfect
though there’s one person that’s perfect
though there’s one person that’s perfect for me so well out the hours spent well
for me so well out the hours spent well
for me so well out the hours spent well if only one person has a great day and
if only one person has a great day and
if only one person has a great day and sometimes the question you need to ask
sometimes the question you need to ask
sometimes the question you need to ask is not the normal question or the
is not the normal question or the
is not the normal question or the politically correct question so there’s
politically correct question so there’s
politically correct question so there’s no question you could ask of me that I
no question you could ask of me that I
no question you could ask of me that I feel is inappropriate there’s not can we
feel is inappropriate there’s not can we
feel is inappropriate there’s not can we agree with that everyone we’re all got
agree with that everyone we’re all got
agree with that everyone we’re all got that now you choose the question and my
that now you choose the question and my
that now you choose the question and my job is to answer you transparently now
job is to answer you transparently now
job is to answer you transparently now your job is to be able to handle the
your job is to be able to handle the
your job is to be able to handle the answer because I already had to get used
answer because I already had to get used
answer because I already had to get used to it right so in about two minutes
to it right so in about two minutes
to it right so in about two minutes we’ll go into Q&A um when I I was I just
we’ll go into Q&A um when I I was I just
we’ll go into Q&A um when I I was I just appeared on The Steve Harvey Show
appeared on The Steve Harvey Show
appeared on The Steve Harvey Show yesterday and it’s about my probably
yesterday and it’s about my probably
yesterday and it’s about my probably seventh time on my seventh time on The
seventh time on my seventh time on The
seventh time on my seventh time on The Steve Harvey Show
Steve Harvey Show
Steve Harvey Show I’m a resident coach on The Steve Harvey
I’m a resident coach on The Steve Harvey
I’m a resident coach on The Steve Harvey Show a resident coach on The Today Show
Show a resident coach on The Today Show
Show a resident coach on The Today Show and more on the Steve Harvey Show hand I
and more on the Steve Harvey Show hand I
and more on the Steve Harvey Show hand I have a relationship that’s pretty cool
have a relationship that’s pretty cool
have a relationship that’s pretty cool he hired me two years ago a year and a
he hired me two years ago a year and a
he hired me two years ago a year and a half ago two years ago he hired me to
half ago two years ago he hired me to
half ago two years ago he hired me to coach him and I coached him for a year
coach him and I coached him for a year
coach him and I coached him for a year and a half on how to become an
and a half on how to become an
and a half on how to become an inspirational speaker and actually have
inspirational speaker and actually have
inspirational speaker and actually have a division in his company that’s a self
a division in his company that’s a self
a division in his company that’s a self development division he said I want to
development division he said I want to
development division he said I want to use my name I want to use my brand to
use my name I want to use my brand to
use my name I want to use my brand to inspire people now and not just make
inspire people now and not just make
inspire people now and not just make them laugh III feel like I owe it to my
them laugh III feel like I owe it to my
them laugh III feel like I owe it to my fans to inspire them and so I don’t know
fans to inspire them and so I don’t know
fans to inspire them and so I don’t know if you kind of saw about a year and a
if you kind of saw about a year and a
if you kind of saw about a year and a half ago he started moving more sort of
half ago he started moving more sort of
half ago he started moving more sort of kinda he’s kind of hard to corral but
kinda he’s kind of hard to corral but
kinda he’s kind of hard to corral but the intention was that he would move
the intention was that he would move
the intention was that he would move more toward inspirational speaking so I
more toward inspirational speaking so I
more toward inspirational speaking so I was on his show yesterday and I wasn’t
was on his show yesterday and I wasn’t
was on his show yesterday and I wasn’t physically there we recorded a couple of
physically there we recorded a couple of
physically there we recorded a couple of weeks ago because I was here yesterday
weeks ago because I was here yesterday
weeks ago because I was here yesterday launching my book and one of the key
launching my book and one of the key
launching my book and one of the key things was how do I shift my
things was how do I shift my
things was how do I shift my relationships and you’ll realize that
relationships and you’ll realize that
relationships and you’ll realize that when you look at the quality of your
when you look at the quality of your
when you look at the quality of your life you’re gonna look at relationships
life you’re gonna look at relationships
life you’re gonna look at relationships and you’re gonna look at money those are
and you’re gonna look at money those are
and you’re gonna look at money those are the two things that’s absorbs so much of
the two things that’s absorbs so much of
the two things that’s absorbs so much of our energy as money and relationships
our energy as money and relationships
our energy as money and relationships and one of the things I said that in
and one of the things I said that in
and one of the things I said that in relationships we make the mistake of
relationships we make the mistake of
relationships we make the mistake of thinking we can change someone and
thinking we can change someone and
thinking we can change someone and thinking if they just change like this
thinking if they just change like this
thinking if they just change like this they’ll be okay with me and the reality
they’ll be okay with me and the reality
they’ll be okay with me and the reality is can you love them where they are I
is can you love them where they are I
is can you love them where they are I see the giggles can you love them where
see the giggles can you love them where
see the giggles can you love them where they are if they never change can you
they are if they never change can you
they are if they never change can you of them and if you say yes to that then
of them and if you say yes to that then
of them and if you say yes to that then you become more of an inspiration for
you become more of an inspiration for
you become more of an inspiration for change versus a push for change does
change versus a push for change does
change versus a push for change does that make sense you guys if you agree to
that make sense you guys if you agree to
that make sense you guys if you agree to love them as is as is then you inspire
love them as is as is then you inspire
love them as is as is then you inspire change versus push change and the second
change versus push change and the second
change versus push change and the second thing is and these are the two key
thing is and these are the two key
thing is and these are the two key things that I said on his show yesterday
things that I said on his show yesterday
things that I said on his show yesterday is relationships begin to shift and go
is relationships begin to shift and go
is relationships begin to shift and go downhill when you’re more committed to
downhill when you’re more committed to
downhill when you’re more committed to being right then you are to being in
being right then you are to being in
being right then you are to being in harmony you forget that harmony is more
harmony you forget that harmony is more
harmony you forget that harmony is more important than being right that at the
important than being right that at the
important than being right that at the end of a debate discussion argument most
end of a debate discussion argument most
end of a debate discussion argument most of the time all you want to know is
of the time all you want to know is
of the time all you want to know is where am i right
where am i right
where am i right was i right though and yet you’ve killed
was i right though and yet you’ve killed
was i right though and yet you’ve killed off the relationship in that moment now
off the relationship in that moment now
off the relationship in that moment now there’s silent dinners and silent hours
there’s silent dinners and silent hours
there’s silent dinners and silent hours in the house when in fact you just want
in the house when in fact you just want
in the house when in fact you just want to be reconnected so if you commit to
to be reconnected so if you commit to
to be reconnected so if you commit to harmony over being right and then in
harmony over being right and then in
harmony over being right and then in finances and I always like to leave
finances and I always like to leave
finances and I always like to leave people with this I was just that essence
people with this I was just that essence
people with this I was just that essence I did an 8-hour 8-hour eight station 11
I did an 8-hour 8-hour eight station 11
I did an 8-hour 8-hour eight station 11 City radio interview this morning then I
City radio interview this morning then I
City radio interview this morning then I left there and went to essence and I
left there and went to essence and I
left there and went to essence and I left there and came to you guys I’m just
left there and came to you guys I’m just
left there and came to you guys I’m just getting started it’s a day right wake up
getting started it’s a day right wake up
getting started it’s a day right wake up ready
ready
ready and over at essence they asked can you
and over at essence they asked can you
and over at essence they asked can you talk about money
talk about money
talk about money you know coz money has such an energy
you know coz money has such an energy
you know coz money has such an energy attached to it and I’m gonna I’m gonna
attached to it and I’m gonna I’m gonna
attached to it and I’m gonna I’m gonna rattle off some blueprints you may want
rattle off some blueprints you may want
rattle off some blueprints you may want to write this down because this was a
to write this down because this was a
to write this down because this was a big shift for me around my mindset
big shift for me around my mindset
big shift for me around my mindset around money number one you won’t ever
around money number one you won’t ever
around money number one you won’t ever attract more money to you until you
attract more money to you until you
attract more money to you until you become a even greater steward of the
become a even greater steward of the
become a even greater steward of the money that you have that when you mind
money that you have that when you mind
money that you have that when you mind your pennies dollars will flow but if
your pennies dollars will flow but if
your pennies dollars will flow but if you are currently not the best steward
you are currently not the best steward
you are currently not the best steward of the money that you have meaning you
of the money that you have meaning you
of the money that you have meaning you spend it fast you give it away you don’t
spend it fast you give it away you don’t
spend it fast you give it away you don’t know how much you have then it’s
know how much you have then it’s
know how much you have then it’s difficult for the universe to give you
difficult for the universe to give you
difficult for the universe to give you more of what you’re not taking risk
more of what you’re not taking risk
more of what you’re not taking risk total and the highest level of
total and the highest level of
total and the highest level of responsibility around that’s the ouch
responsibility around that’s the ouch
responsibility around that’s the ouch but it’s the truth like I kept wanting
but it’s the truth like I kept wanting
but it’s the truth like I kept wanting to make more money but I wasn’t minding
to make more money but I wasn’t minding
to make more money but I wasn’t minding the money I was making right and when I
the money I was making right and when I
the money I was making right and when I begin to mind because my money my mother
begin to mind because my money my mother
begin to mind because my money my mother used to say money burns her pockets so I
used to say money burns her pockets so I
used to say money burns her pockets so I thought money was hot and I had to spend
thought money was hot and I had to spend
thought money was hot and I had to spend it fast and once I learned how to mind
it fast and once I learned how to mind
it fast and once I learned how to mind my existing money all of a sudden I
my existing money all of a sudden I
my existing money all of a sudden I begin to have space to attract more
begin to have space to attract more
begin to have space to attract more money in my space so being a good
money in my space so being a good
money in my space so being a good steward of your existing dollars are
steward of your existing dollars are
steward of your existing dollars are very
very
very very important because that will bring
very important because that will bring
very important because that will bring about more more more prosperity I don’t
about more more more prosperity I don’t
about more more more prosperity I don’t want to say well because prosperity
want to say well because prosperity
want to say well because prosperity comes in many different forms but
comes in many different forms but
comes in many different forms but there’s several blueprints that you have
there’s several blueprints that you have
there’s several blueprints that you have and I’m gonna rattle through these fast
and I’m gonna rattle through these fast
and I’m gonna rattle through these fast so that I can go into Q&A you have
so that I can go into Q&A you have
so that I can go into Q&A you have blueprints around money and the
blueprints around money and the
blueprints around money and the blueprint is an unconscious
blueprint is an unconscious
blueprint is an unconscious awareness you don’t even know you’re
awareness you don’t even know you’re
awareness you don’t even know you’re listening to this is gonna be really
listening to this is gonna be really
listening to this is gonna be really interesting but and I talked about this
interesting but and I talked about this
interesting but and I talked about this and unpacked this in the book unpack
and unpacked this in the book unpack
and unpacked this in the book unpack this in the book I actually have you
this in the book I actually have you
this in the book I actually have you take a financial assessment in the book
take a financial assessment in the book
take a financial assessment in the book so you just can kind of see where you
so you just can kind of see where you
so you just can kind of see where you are financially you rate yourself and
are financially you rate yourself and
are financially you rate yourself and then you focus on the areas that you
then you focus on the areas that you
then you focus on the areas that you didn’t write where you wanted to write
didn’t write where you wanted to write
didn’t write where you wanted to write it it’s a very personal powerful tool
it it’s a very personal powerful tool
it it’s a very personal powerful tool the assessments in the book so your
the assessments in the book so your
the assessments in the book so your money blueprint there are several money
money blueprint there are several money
money blueprint there are several money blueprints that you want to look at one
blueprints that you want to look at one
blueprints that you want to look at one you have a cultural money blueprint the
you have a cultural money blueprint the
you have a cultural money blueprint the way your culture relates to money has a
way your culture relates to money has a
way your culture relates to money has a lot to do with how you relate to money
lot to do with how you relate to money
lot to do with how you relate to money unconsciously right now not even
unconsciously right now not even
unconsciously right now not even consciously but the way your culture my
consciously but the way your culture my
consciously but the way your culture my culture my Gremory can make a dime going
culture my Gremory can make a dime going
culture my Gremory can make a dime going twenty different direction I called it a
twenty different direction I called it a
twenty different direction I called it a gift so it’s my honor to make a dime
gift so it’s my honor to make a dime
gift so it’s my honor to make a dime going 20 different directions so when I
going 20 different directions so when I
going 20 different directions so when I found myself having twenty-one dimes
found myself having twenty-one dimes
found myself having twenty-one dimes it was actually more of a problem
it was actually more of a problem
it was actually more of a problem that makes sense you guys because I was
that makes sense you guys because I was
that makes sense you guys because I was so used to culturally making my dime
so used to culturally making my dime
so used to culturally making my dime stretching all the sudden my dime didn’t
stretching all the sudden my dime didn’t
stretching all the sudden my dime didn’t have to stretch when I my company got to
have to stretch when I my company got to
have to stretch when I my company got to nine hundred and seventy five thousand
nine hundred and seventy five thousand
nine hundred and seventy five thousand dollars we were in October and I talked
dollars we were in October and I talked
dollars we were in October and I talked about money openly because it means it
about money openly because it means it
about money openly because it means it only means what you make it mean it
only means what you make it mean it
only means what you make it mean it doesn’t mean a lot it’s just it’s just a
doesn’t mean a lot it’s just it’s just a
doesn’t mean a lot it’s just it’s just a measure of work that’s it
measure of work that’s it
measure of work that’s it when I got to nine hundred seventy five
when I got to nine hundred seventy five
when I got to nine hundred seventy five thousand dollars it was in October I
thousand dollars it was in October I
thousand dollars it was in October I stopped working the rest of the year I
stopped working the rest of the year I
stopped working the rest of the year I said I was tired then the next year I
said I was tired then the next year I
said I was tired then the next year I got to nine hundred and eighty-two
got to nine hundred and eighty-two
got to nine hundred and eighty-two thousand dollars by August I wanted to
thousand dollars by August I wanted to
thousand dollars by August I wanted to stop working again for the rest of the
stop working again for the rest of the
stop working again for the rest of the year didn’t make sense that was like six
year didn’t make sense that was like six
year didn’t make sense that was like six months so I was forced to look at why
months so I was forced to look at why
months so I was forced to look at why was I slowing down right before a
was I slowing down right before a
was I slowing down right before a million dollars every year because I was
million dollars every year because I was
million dollars every year because I was afraid that if I made a million dollars
afraid that if I made a million dollars
afraid that if I made a million dollars it would change Who I am as a woman as a
it would change Who I am as a woman as a
it would change Who I am as a woman as a woman of color as a black woman my
woman of color as a black woman my
woman of color as a black woman my cousins were all talking about robbing
cousins were all talking about robbing
cousins were all talking about robbing Peter to pay Paul I wanted to stay in
Peter to pay Paul I wanted to stay in
Peter to pay Paul I wanted to stay in the conversation you will you as much as
the conversation you will you as much as
the conversation you will you as much as you want to have success you want
you want to have success you want
you want to have success you want community more than you want success
community more than you want success
community more than you want success right and unconsciously you can start
right and unconsciously you can start
right and unconsciously you can start what I call moonwalking you look like
what I call moonwalking you look like
what I call moonwalking you look like you’re moving but you’re not going
you’re moving but you’re not going
you’re moving but you’re not going anywhere because you’re afraid you might
anywhere because you’re afraid you might
anywhere because you’re afraid you might be so different I don’t know I’m just
be so different I don’t know I’m just
be so different I don’t know I’m just sharing with you these can be
sharing with you these can be
sharing with you these can be unconscious converse I’m not implying
unconscious converse I’m not implying
unconscious converse I’m not implying this is you I’m just telling you these
this is you I’m just telling you these
this is you I’m just telling you these are some things that happen what
are some things that happen what
are some things that happen what happened to me it’s happened to many
happened to me it’s happened to many
happened to me it’s happened to many people so culturally gender wise you
people so culturally gender wise you
people so culturally gender wise you have a conversation around money as it
have a conversation around money as it
have a conversation around money as it comes to gender men your masculinity is
comes to gender men your masculinity is
comes to gender men your masculinity is attached to how much money you make how
attached to how much money you make how
attached to how much money you make how successful you are and your ability to
successful you are and your ability to
successful you are and your ability to provide for your family unfortunately
provide for your family unfortunately
provide for your family unfortunately your masculinity is attached to that
your masculinity is attached to that
your masculinity is attached to that right or wrong I’m not saying any of
right or wrong I’m not saying any of
right or wrong I’m not saying any of this is right or wrong it’s just how
this is right or wrong it’s just how
this is right or wrong it’s just how societies put it out there to us and you
societies put it out there to us and you
societies put it out there to us and you take it on or you don’t a woman either
take it on or you don’t a woman either
take it on or you don’t a woman either you grow up and get a good job or what
you grow up and get a good job or what
you grow up and get a good job or what are you marry rich man I haven’t got a
are you marry rich man I haven’t got a
are you marry rich man I haven’t got a good job either you get a good job and
good job either you get a good job and
good job either you get a good job and you get a good man with a good job right
you get a good man with a good job right
you get a good man with a good job right we’re raised that way right so I just
we’re raised that way right so I just
we’re raised that way right so I just want to show you some society
want to show you some society
want to show you some society unconscious influences that
unconscious influences that
unconscious influences that and so even now a woman can be equally
and so even now a woman can be equally
and so even now a woman can be equally as qualified in the same role as a man
as qualified in the same role as a man
as qualified in the same role as a man as she’s still making less than a man
as she’s still making less than a man
as she’s still making less than a man because we take that on societies take
because we take that on societies take
because we take that on societies take them off your next blueprint so there’s
them off your next blueprint so there’s
them off your next blueprint so there’s culture blueprint
culture blueprint
culture blueprint there’s your gender blueprint the next
there’s your gender blueprint the next
there’s your gender blueprint the next is your geographical blueprint how money
is your geographical blueprint how money
is your geographical blueprint how money was related to in your community was it
was related to in your community was it
was related to in your community was it a struggle was a gator get got was it
a struggle was a gator get got was it
a struggle was a gator get got was it keep up with the Joneses
keep up with the Joneses
keep up with the Joneses was it fluid and flowing whatever that
was it fluid and flowing whatever that
was it fluid and flowing whatever that is its had an impression on you around
is its had an impression on you around
is its had an impression on you around money I’m speaking to all of your
money I’m speaking to all of your
money I’m speaking to all of your unconscious influences you guys and then
unconscious influences you guys and then
unconscious influences you guys and then there’s your economic and your
there’s your economic and your
there’s your economic and your economical blueprint how was money in
economical blueprint how was money in
economical blueprint how was money in your house was a divisive was an
your house was a divisive was an
your house was a divisive was an inclusive did it by the lifestyle you
inclusive did it by the lifestyle you
inclusive did it by the lifestyle you want it as a child vacation to the
want it as a child vacation to the
want it as a child vacation to the family and all that good stuff or did it
family and all that good stuff or did it
family and all that good stuff or did it keep your parents away because they were
keep your parents away because they were
keep your parents away because they were always working to provide money for you
always working to provide money for you
always working to provide money for you whatever your economical blueprint was
whatever your economical blueprint was
whatever your economical blueprint was that’s what you’ll have and then last is
that’s what you’ll have and then last is
that’s what you’ll have and then last is your spiritual blueprint however your
your spiritual blueprint however your
your spiritual blueprint however your spiritual background or your religious
spiritual background or your religious
spiritual background or your religious background no matter even if you move
background no matter even if you move
background no matter even if you move from religious to spiritual whatever
from religious to spiritual whatever
from religious to spiritual whatever your religion religious blueprint was
your religion religious blueprint was
your religion religious blueprint was you there’s some unconscious influence
you there’s some unconscious influence
you there’s some unconscious influence Baptist ours mine was you don’t need
Baptist ours mine was you don’t need
Baptist ours mine was you don’t need money so that’s why I stopped working
money so that’s why I stopped working
money so that’s why I stopped working every time I got to that point cuz I
every time I got to that point cuz I
every time I got to that point cuz I felt like oh I don’t need money I’ll
felt like oh I don’t need money I’ll
felt like oh I don’t need money I’ll need that much money and so my spiritual
need that much money and so my spiritual
need that much money and so my spiritual influence was blueprint was really
influence was blueprint was really
influence was blueprint was really influencing me until I said thank you so
influencing me until I said thank you so
influencing me until I said thank you so much but I’ve outgrown you
because we often wait for the fear to go
because we often wait for the fear to go away to take action and when you realize
away to take action and when you realize
away to take action and when you realize that fear is actually your friend fear
that fear is actually your friend fear
that fear is actually your friend fear is not an enemy
is not an enemy
is not an enemy I love disrupting things like this fear
I love disrupting things like this fear
I love disrupting things like this fear is only your enemy when you allow it to
is only your enemy when you allow it to
is only your enemy when you allow it to paralyze your your movement but fear
paralyze your your movement but fear
paralyze your your movement but fear will get you up early
will get you up early
will get you up early fear will make you do your research fear
fear will make you do your research fear
fear will make you do your research fear will humble you out fear will have you
will humble you out fear will have you
will humble you out fear will have you asked for help
asked for help
asked for help fear is your friend when you use it to
fear is your friend when you use it to
fear is your friend when you use it to inform you of what do you need
inform you of what do you need
inform you of what do you need whenever I’m afraid and I stay afraid
whenever I’m afraid and I stay afraid
whenever I’m afraid and I stay afraid because I’m always playing so freaking
because I’m always playing so freaking
because I’m always playing so freaking bad I’m like are we gonna do that right
bad I’m like are we gonna do that right
bad I’m like are we gonna do that right haven’t I been playing big ever since we
haven’t I been playing big ever since we
haven’t I been playing big ever since we I find with Harper on this book like
I find with Harper on this book like
I find with Harper on this book like we’re gonna do this and we’re gonna do
we’re gonna do this and we’re gonna do
we’re gonna do this and we’re gonna do that then I go and go so fear feeds you
that then I go and go so fear feeds you
that then I go and go so fear feeds you so what I want to celebrate you from
so what I want to celebrate you from
so what I want to celebrate you from moving afraid and sharing it with your
moving afraid and sharing it with your
moving afraid and sharing it with your husband secondly I want to remind you
husband secondly I want to remind you
husband secondly I want to remind you and I’ll say this respectfully don’t
and I’ll say this respectfully don’t
and I’ll say this respectfully don’t share your million-dollar dreams with
share your million-dollar dreams with
share your million-dollar dreams with dollar thinkers she’s it I’m right there
dollar thinkers she’s it I’m right there
dollar thinkers she’s it I’m right there I don’t don’t like be selective who you
I don’t don’t like be selective who you
I don’t don’t like be selective who you share your million-dollar dreams with
share your million-dollar dreams with
share your million-dollar dreams with Sharon but Sharon what people were gonna
Sharon but Sharon what people were gonna
Sharon but Sharon what people were gonna put helium in your balloon that was
put helium in your balloon that was
put helium in your balloon that was Cheryl people gonna try to throw a pin
Cheryl people gonna try to throw a pin
Cheryl people gonna try to throw a pin at it why would I make my blue expose my
at it why would I make my blue expose my
at it why would I make my blue expose my dream balloons if someone who would a
dream balloons if someone who would a
dream balloons if someone who would a bunch of darts doesn’t say we don’t love
bunch of darts doesn’t say we don’t love
bunch of darts doesn’t say we don’t love them any less but based on where they’re
them any less but based on where they’re
them any less but based on where they’re dreaming and thinking they have to see
dreaming and thinking they have to see
dreaming and thinking they have to see the evidence before it becomes real when
the evidence before it becomes real when
the evidence before it becomes real when I talked about my company was named
I talked about my company was named
I talked about my company was named motivating the masses in 1992 you guys I
motivating the masses in 1992 you guys I
motivating the masses in 1992 you guys I didn’t even touch the masses in 2008
didn’t even touch the masses in 2008
didn’t even touch the masses in 2008 that’s how long it was my dream no one
that’s how long it was my dream no one
that’s how long it was my dream no one even knew I had the company name in my
even knew I had the company name in my
even knew I had the company name in my family because they only knew I had
family because they only knew I had
family because they only knew I had motivating the teen spirit cuz they
motivating the teen spirit cuz they
motivating the teen spirit cuz they could see me working with teens but I
could see me working with teens but I
could see me working with teens but I had motivating the masses over there and
had motivating the masses over there and
had motivating the masses over there and it could and I would tell the people who
it could and I would tell the people who
it could and I would tell the people who can hold that dream and they will
can hold that dream and they will
can hold that dream and they will constantly put helium in that dream and
constantly put helium in that dream and
constantly put helium in that dream and then when I when I was on Oprah kid you
then when I when I was on Oprah kid you
then when I when I was on Oprah kid you not I was on Oprah talking about the
not I was on Oprah talking about the
not I was on Oprah talking about the secret in 2007 and when I went home my
secret in 2007 and when I went home my
secret in 2007 and when I went home my family said we’re angry at you I said
family said we’re angry at you I said
family said we’re angry at you I said why are you angered me because you
why are you angered me because you
why are you angered me because you keeping some kind of secret that’s what
keeping some kind of secret that’s what
keeping some kind of secret that’s what they knew about the secret
they knew about the secret
they knew about the secret I said no that’s a project that’s a book
I said no that’s a project that’s a book
I said no that’s a project that’s a book that’s the video they’re like what what
that’s the video they’re like what what
that’s the video they’re like what what what what I was like I gave you the book
what what I was like I gave you the book
what what I was like I gave you the book like two years ago they’re like oh
like two years ago they’re like oh
like two years ago they’re like oh you’re ioan open that I could tell so I
you’re ioan open that I could tell so I
you’re ioan open that I could tell so I selected Lee choose who you shared that
selected Lee choose who you shared that
selected Lee choose who you shared that million dollar dream with first of all
million dollar dream with first of all
million dollar dream with first of all so that you don’t feel deflated have you
so that you don’t feel deflated have you
so that you don’t feel deflated have you ever shared a dream with someone and the
ever shared a dream with someone and the
ever shared a dream with someone and the dream busters just came swooped in and
dream busters just came swooped in and
dream busters just came swooped in and start busting the dream and you were
start busting the dream and you were
start busting the dream and you were afraid and it made you kind of doubt the
afraid and it made you kind of doubt the
afraid and it made you kind of doubt the dream a little more oh no no no no no
dream a little more oh no no no no no
dream a little more oh no no no no no don’t don’t make me doubt my dream I’m
don’t don’t make me doubt my dream I’m
don’t don’t make me doubt my dream I’m so your job is to share with the right
so your job is to share with the right
so your job is to share with the right people and not hold people who can’t
people and not hold people who can’t
people and not hold people who can’t dream that be responsible for
dream that be responsible for
dream that be responsible for celebrating your dream that’s unfair of
celebrating your dream that’s unfair of
celebrating your dream that’s unfair of for you to do that’s not that’s number
for you to do that’s not that’s number
for you to do that’s not that’s number number one number two I love where you
number one number two I love where you
number one number two I love where you are make a clear concrete plan don’t do
are make a clear concrete plan don’t do
are make a clear concrete plan don’t do some day I want the next time I see you
some day I want the next time I see you
some day I want the next time I see you talk to you come on follow me on
talk to you come on follow me on
talk to you come on follow me on Facebook talk to me and my email I want
Facebook talk to me and my email I want
Facebook talk to me and my email I want to know the day you start traveling so
to know the day you start traveling so
to know the day you start traveling so January so January 1 okay so then I want
January so January 1 okay so then I want
January so January 1 okay so then I want to know
to know
to know watch this level of clarity so am ambach
watch this level of clarity so am ambach
watch this level of clarity so am ambach ambiguous goals bring about ambiguous
ambiguous goals bring about ambiguous
ambiguous goals bring about ambiguous results but when you get to a new level
results but when you get to a new level
results but when you get to a new level of crystal clarity watch this
of crystal clarity watch this
of crystal clarity watch this tell me the day you start traveling tell
tell me the day you start traveling tell
tell me the day you start traveling tell me the airline you’re going to choose
me the airline you’re going to choose
me the airline you’re going to choose tell me the flight number I’ll care the
tell me the flight number I’ll care the
tell me the flight number I’ll care the flight number changes but pick a flight
flight number changes but pick a flight
flight number changes but pick a flight to the location and choose that flight
to the location and choose that flight
to the location and choose that flight number right take a picture of the
number right take a picture of the
number right take a picture of the luggage that you’re going to use take a
luggage that you’re going to use take a
luggage that you’re going to use take a picture of the way you’re gonna make
picture of the way you’re gonna make
picture of the way you’re gonna make money even if someone else is making
money even if someone else is making
money even if someone else is making that kind of money now of how they’re
that kind of money now of how they’re
that kind of money now of how they’re making it put all that inside your
making it put all that inside your
making it put all that inside your reality book not your dream book and
reality book not your dream book and
reality book not your dream book and your reality book get so crystal clear
your reality book get so crystal clear
your reality book get so crystal clear share with your husband share with your
share with your husband share with your
share with your husband share with your children start talking about things
children start talking about things
children start talking about things where are you going to travel get a
where are you going to travel get a
where are you going to travel get a postcard from the first place you don’t
postcard from the first place you don’t
postcard from the first place you don’t go to like order it go somewhere I find
go to like order it go somewhere I find
go to like order it go somewhere I find them and bring them into your existence
them and bring them into your existence
them and bring them into your existence start eating it breathe it walk it talk
start eating it breathe it walk it talk
start eating it breathe it walk it talk it when you sweat it comes from your
it when you sweat it comes from your
it when you sweat it comes from your pores so that’s all you’re doing your
pores so that’s all you’re doing your
pores so that’s all you’re doing your start drawing it to you faster you’ll
start drawing it to you faster you’ll
start drawing it to you faster you’ll start building up momentum toward it
start building up momentum toward it
start building up momentum toward it when you do that and then get an action
when you do that and then get an action
when you do that and then get an action and then one of the first things is
and then one of the first things is
and then one of the first things is they’ll take you for you to do
they’ll take you for you to do
they’ll take you for you to do find out how much does it if it does it
find out how much does it if it does it
find out how much does it if it does it cost to buy your freedom I found out how
cost to buy your freedom I found out how
cost to buy your freedom I found out how much it costs to buy my freedom I was
much it costs to buy my freedom I was
much it costs to buy my freedom I was working for LA Unified School District
working for LA Unified School District
working for LA Unified School District and I got my first check I wrote to
and I got my first check I wrote to
and I got my first check I wrote to myself was a hundred and ten dollars
myself was a hundred and ten dollars
myself was a hundred and ten dollars it’s in the book I just follow what I
it’s in the book I just follow what I
it’s in the book I just follow what I did from the book about buying your
did from the book about buying your
did from the book about buying your freak I wrote a check to myself for $110
freak I wrote a check to myself for $110
freak I wrote a check to myself for $110 I’ve put in the memo line funding my
I’ve put in the memo line funding my
I’ve put in the memo line funding my dream I wanted to clear with the dream
dream I wanted to clear with the dream
dream I wanted to clear with the dream boys and I would have checked it myself
boys and I would have checked it myself
boys and I would have checked it myself every two weeks for three and a half
every two weeks for three and a half
every two weeks for three and a half years almost four years
as I walked into Wells Fargo
as I walked into Wells Fargo and I said my name is Lisa Nichols I
and I said my name is Lisa Nichols I
and I said my name is Lisa Nichols I said Oh coz I used to mail the check in
said Oh coz I used to mail the check in
said Oh coz I used to mail the check in and I wouldn’t open the statements cuz I
and I wouldn’t open the statements cuz I
and I wouldn’t open the statements cuz I was afraid I’d spend the money if I open
was afraid I’d spend the money if I open
was afraid I’d spend the money if I open the statement cuz my mother said money
the statement cuz my mother said money
the statement cuz my mother said money burned her pocket so I don’t want to
burned her pocket so I don’t want to
burned her pocket so I don’t want to burn my pocket so if I didn’t know you
burn my pocket so if I didn’t know you
burn my pocket so if I didn’t know you you gotta trick yourself sometimes right
you gotta trick yourself sometimes right
you gotta trick yourself sometimes right so I said if I don’t know I’m not gonna
so I said if I don’t know I’m not gonna
so I said if I don’t know I’m not gonna spend it so I went into Wells Fargo I
spend it so I went into Wells Fargo I
spend it so I went into Wells Fargo I said my name is Lisa Nichols I came to
said my name is Lisa Nichols I came to
said my name is Lisa Nichols I came to check my balance they said you’re the
check my balance they said you’re the
check my balance they said you’re the funding my dream lady I said because I
funding my dream lady I said because I
funding my dream lady I said because I wrote that every time every two weeks in
wrote that every time every two weeks in
wrote that every time every two weeks in the memo line for three and a half years
the memo line for three and a half years
the memo line for three and a half years and they all ran around the teller and I
and they all ran around the teller and I
and they all ran around the teller and I said yes I am they said we got a
said yes I am they said we got a
said yes I am they said we got a question managers came around and said
question managers came around and said
question managers came around and said what’s the dream right and I said my son
what’s the dream right and I said my son
what’s the dream right and I said my son was five and a half then he I started
was five and a half then he I started
was five and a half then he I started when he was two I said I’m not sure oh
when he was two I said I’m not sure oh
when he was two I said I’m not sure oh my god make myself cry I said I’m not
my god make myself cry I said I’m not
my god make myself cry I said I’m not sure but I had something to do what
sure but I had something to do what
sure but I had something to do what inspiring people assume there’s
inspiring people assume there’s
inspiring people assume there’s inspiring people all around the world
inspiring people all around the world
inspiring people all around the world and I said I just came to check my
and I said I just came to check my
and I said I just came to check my balance they wrote the balance down turn
balance they wrote the balance down turn
balance they wrote the balance down turn it around and it says $62,500 I turned
it around and it says $62,500 I turned
it around and it says $62,500 I turned it back around giving back to I said my
it back around giving back to I said my
it back around giving back to I said my social security is five four nine six
social security is five four nine six
social security is five four nine six seven I don’t even want that money it’s
seven I don’t even want that money it’s
seven I don’t even want that money it’s not my money I don’t want to y’all gonna
not my money I don’t want to y’all gonna
not my money I don’t want to y’all gonna ask more back I know that’s not for me
ask more back I know that’s not for me
ask more back I know that’s not for me my family has never had $5,000 in the
my family has never had $5,000 in the
my family has never had $5,000 in the bank I know I don’t have 62,000 and they
bank I know I don’t have 62,000 and they
bank I know I don’t have 62,000 and they cheered up I cheered up and they said
cheered up I cheered up and they said
cheered up I cheered up and they said miss Nichols you have sixty two thousand
miss Nichols you have sixty two thousand
miss Nichols you have sixty two thousand five hundred dollars what are you gonna
five hundred dollars what are you gonna
five hundred dollars what are you gonna do with it
do with it
do with it and I say I don’t know but my dream gets
and I say I don’t know but my dream gets
and I say I don’t know but my dream gets funded today and that’s why I started so
funded today and that’s why I started so
funded today and that’s why I started so you’re on the right path
you’re on the right path
you’re on the right path I can give her hand so my goal was to
I can give her hand so my goal was to
I can give her hand so my goal was to come and just do a little or a lot of
come and just do a little or a lot of
come and just do a little or a lot of disruption my goal was to stir something
disruption my goal was to stir something
disruption my goal was to stir something in your soul to make you stretch a
in your soul to make you stretch a
in your soul to make you stretch a little further to the Magnificent
little further to the Magnificent
little further to the Magnificent feature that belongs to you
feature that belongs to you
feature that belongs to you it belongs to you by burglar abundance
it belongs to you by burglar abundance
it belongs to you by burglar abundance now is not a abundance later abundance
now is not a abundance later abundance
now is not a abundance later abundance when you get it alright abundance when
when you get it alright abundance when
when you get it alright abundance when you its abundance now like what better
you its abundance now like what better
you its abundance now like what better time than now so I just stopped by to
time than now so I just stopped by to
time than now so I just stopped by to inspiring I’m gonna hang around on the
inspiring I’m gonna hang around on the
inspiring I’m gonna hang around on the sign books and it takes and itches and
sign books and it takes and itches and
sign books and it takes and itches and hopefully create just a little
hopefully create just a little
hopefully create just a little needlepoint move and trajectory of your
needlepoint move and trajectory of your
needlepoint move and trajectory of your life
life
life and in the future you’ll have to
and in the future you’ll have to
and in the future you’ll have to remember my name
remember my name
remember my name you know I’d remember anything just
you know I’d remember anything just
you know I’d remember anything just remember the moment you make
remember the moment you make
remember the moment you make because that’s what matters your life
because that’s what matters your life
because that’s what matters your life is most more valuable to the people that
is most more valuable to the people that
is most more valuable to the people that it inspires it will actually ever be
it inspires it will actually ever be
it inspires it will actually ever be clean
clean
clean your job is towards
your job is towards
your job is towards that list from your legacy will live
that list from your legacy will live
that list from your legacy will live much longer than you
much longer than you
much longer than you and our job is to light a great night
anyone
anyone himself Cinderella
himself Cinderella
himself Cinderella Holika 3006 t who got a c-plus in school
Holika 3006 t who got a c-plus in school
Holika 3006 t who got a c-plus in school in 12 years that was my highest grade
in 12 years that was my highest grade
in 12 years that was my highest grade the last time I took English I got a
the last time I took English I got a
the last time I took English I got a fail and my English teacher told me I
fail and my English teacher told me I
fail and my English teacher told me I was the weakest writer she ever met in
was the weakest writer she ever met in
was the weakest writer she ever met in her entire life and the last time right
her entire life and the last time right
her entire life and the last time right I should send her a book right with my
I should send her a book right with my
I should send her a book right with my face on a right autograph some of your
face on a right autograph some of your
face on a right autograph some of your best motivation does not come wrapped in
best motivation does not come wrapped in
best motivation does not come wrapped in a red bow it comes wrapped in sandpaper
a red bow it comes wrapped in sandpaper
a red bow it comes wrapped in sandpaper you get to use everything as fuel the
you get to use everything as fuel the
you get to use everything as fuel the last time I got a took a speech class I
last time I got a took a speech class I
last time I got a took a speech class I got a d-minus and my speech teacher said
got a d-minus and my speech teacher said
got a d-minus and my speech teacher said quote unquote miss Nichols I recommend
quote unquote miss Nichols I recommend
quote unquote miss Nichols I recommend you never speak in public some of your
you never speak in public some of your
you never speak in public some of your best motivation might come wrapped in
best motivation might come wrapped in
best motivation might come wrapped in sandpaper I just stopped by to disrupt
sandpaper I just stopped by to disrupt
sandpaper I just stopped by to disrupt you a bit to inspire you a bit and to
you a bit to inspire you a bit and to
you a bit to inspire you a bit and to hold on and love you a bit I hope it’s
hold on and love you a bit I hope it’s
hold on and love you a bit I hope it’s been good for you guys because
been good for you guys because
been good for you guys because definitely good for me
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