alright welcome everybody on Wednesday I forgot to film a video for friday i
forgot to film a video for friday i
forgot to film a video for friday i usually go on a rant or share something
usually go on a rant or share something
usually go on a rant or share something and i forgot to do it and christina
and i forgot to do it and christina
and i forgot to do it and christina reminded me so I said you know what and
reminded me so I said you know what and
reminded me so I said you know what and i owe you guys a video i’m going to
i owe you guys a video i’m going to
i owe you guys a video i’m going to start a new series maybe we’ll see how
start a new series maybe we’ll see how
start a new series maybe we’ll see how this one goes coffee time with Alex so I
this one goes coffee time with Alex so I
this one goes coffee time with Alex so I just kind of hit Alex families he’s
just kind of hit Alex families he’s
just kind of hit Alex families he’s working for my dining room table he’s
working for my dining room table he’s
working for my dining room table he’s gonna share a message my message today
gonna share a message my message today
gonna share a message my message today is understand how other people express
is understand how other people express
is understand how other people express love it all started yesterday I was
love it all started yesterday I was
love it all started yesterday I was having a conversation with Evan
having a conversation with Evan
having a conversation with Evan something very deep about how I want my
something very deep about how I want my
something very deep about how I want my fiance 22 to show her love for me it all
fiance 22 to show her love for me it all
fiance 22 to show her love for me it all really stemmed from when I grew up in a
really stemmed from when I grew up in a
really stemmed from when I grew up in a household where my mom made a lot of
household where my mom made a lot of
household where my mom made a lot of food and that is how she expressed her
food and that is how she expressed her
food and that is how she expressed her love like she would just make awesome
love like she would just make awesome
love like she would just make awesome food and she was cooking she was like 12
food and she was cooking she was like 12
food and she was cooking she was like 12 and so what as I was growing up that was
and so what as I was growing up that was
and so what as I was growing up that was like the standard for what I would want
like the standard for what I would want
like the standard for what I would want in my partner right and so when rose and
in my partner right and so when rose and
in my partner right and so when rose and I started dating that wasn’t something
I started dating that wasn’t something
I started dating that wasn’t something that she was just really passionate
that she was just really passionate
that she was just really passionate about and and it was it was something
about and and it was it was something
about and and it was it was something that we had difficulty with like I want
that we had difficulty with like I want
that we had difficulty with like I want her to do it she likes to cook right
her to do it she likes to cook right
her to do it she likes to cook right like but it’s not a priority like of all
like but it’s not a priority like of all
like but it’s not a priority like of all things it’s not the most important thing
things it’s not the most important thing
things it’s not the most important thing basically I had this difficulty there
basically I had this difficulty there
basically I had this difficulty there was this like cognitive dissonance I
was this like cognitive dissonance I
was this like cognitive dissonance I don’t think I’m probably using the right
don’t think I’m probably using the right
don’t think I’m probably using the right term here but the idea that there was
term here but the idea that there was
term here but the idea that there was the separation between what I wanted her
the separation between what I wanted her
the separation between what I wanted her to be like versus what she is like and
to be like versus what she is like and
to be like versus what she is like and and where she does show her love Evan
and where she does show her love Evan
and where she does show her love Evan and I we had this whole discussion about
and I we had this whole discussion about
and I we had this whole discussion about that I can’t you know you don’t you’re
that I can’t you know you don’t you’re
that I can’t you know you don’t you’re not you shouldn’t force people to do
not you shouldn’t force people to do
not you shouldn’t force people to do things that they’re not most passionate
things that they’re not most passionate
things that they’re not most passionate about and so my issue was well you know
about and so my issue was well you know
about and so my issue was well you know if you’re in a relationship you should
if you’re in a relationship you should
if you’re in a relationship you should you you know you do things that you’re
you you know you do things that you’re
you you know you do things that you’re not happy about but make make the other
not happy about but make make the other
not happy about but make make the other person happy right it shouldn’t be all
person happy right it shouldn’t be all
person happy right it shouldn’t be all selfish and all that not that was an
selfish and all that not that was an
selfish and all that not that was an itself as she does a huge amount of
itself as she does a huge amount of
itself as she does a huge amount of things that just like for you know that
things that just like for you know that
things that just like for you know that she knows I hate doing and I’m not
she knows I hate doing and I’m not
she knows I hate doing and I’m not passionate about and she’s like these
passionate about and she’s like these
passionate about and she’s like these things need to get done the point in a
things need to get done the point in a
things need to get done the point in a deeper thing was how each person
deeper thing was how each person
deeper thing was how each person expresses
expresses
expresses love and being able to understand it and
love and being able to understand it and
love and being able to understand it and appreciating it my mom expressed her
appreciating it my mom expressed her
appreciating it my mom expressed her love through cooking and it was amazing
love through cooking and it was amazing
love through cooking and it was amazing and but that is not the only way to
and but that is not the only way to
and but that is not the only way to express love and that is not the only
express love and that is not the only
express love and that is not the only way to build to have a connection with
way to build to have a connection with
way to build to have a connection with rosanna she expresses her love with a
rosanna she expresses her love with a
rosanna she expresses her love with a variety of ways kicking me in the butt
variety of ways kicking me in the butt
variety of ways kicking me in the butt sometimes because she knows something
sometimes because she knows something
sometimes because she knows something needs to be done that I don’t do but
needs to be done that I don’t do but
needs to be done that I don’t do but it’s important for me i express my love
it’s important for me i express my love
it’s important for me i express my love to kicking out a lot of butt kicking and
to kicking out a lot of butt kicking and
to kicking out a lot of butt kicking and Alex Isla if and he’s not the one
Alex Isla if and he’s not the one
Alex Isla if and he’s not the one dishing it out unfortunately so I
dishing it out unfortunately so I
dishing it out unfortunately so I actually had a really really deep impact
actually had a really really deep impact
actually had a really really deep impact for conversation after Evan I spoke with
for conversation after Evan I spoke with
for conversation after Evan I spoke with Rosanna and I realized that she was
Rosanna and I realized that she was
Rosanna and I realized that she was having these complexes that I was
having these complexes that I was
having these complexes that I was putting pressure on her that she needs
putting pressure on her that she needs
putting pressure on her that she needs to be you know perform at a certain
to be you know perform at a certain
to be you know perform at a certain level right of like cooking all the time
level right of like cooking all the time
level right of like cooking all the time and being this thing when she’s she’s
and being this thing when she’s she’s
and being this thing when she’s she’s not passionate about that she’s
not passionate about that she’s
not passionate about that she’s passionate about many things and and me
passionate about many things and and me
passionate about many things and and me accepting that there’s so many more
accepting that there’s so many more
accepting that there’s so many more beautiful things that she does for me
beautiful things that she does for me
beautiful things that she does for me and our relationship and she was she is
and our relationship and she was she is
and our relationship and she was she is a person that putting her in a box and
a person that putting her in a box and
a person that putting her in a box and limiting her or projecting what I think
limiting her or projecting what I think
limiting her or projecting what I think she should be like is just gonna cause
she should be like is just gonna cause
she should be like is just gonna cause us trouble in the long term I do believe
us trouble in the long term I do believe
us trouble in the long term I do believe that there should be a balance right
that there should be a balance right
that there should be a balance right like you shouldn’t be in any
like you shouldn’t be in any
like you shouldn’t be in any relationship where you know you do
relationship where you know you do
relationship where you know you do everything for the person but the person
everything for the person but the person
everything for the person but the person doesn’t write like show love a
doesn’t write like show love a
doesn’t write like show love a reciprocate or do things but it it also
reciprocate or do things but it it also
reciprocate or do things but it it also it also should be like understanding
it also should be like understanding
it also should be like understanding what’s important to them and if you’re
what’s important to them and if you’re
what’s important to them and if you’re lucky and you’re with the right person
lucky and you’re with the right person
lucky and you’re with the right person they’ll do the same and Rosanna has done
they’ll do the same and Rosanna has done
they’ll do the same and Rosanna has done that Oh throughout since the beginning
that Oh throughout since the beginning
that Oh throughout since the beginning like I did not date Rosanna and then we
like I did not date Rosanna and then we
like I did not date Rosanna and then we got engaged because she’s like you know
got engaged because she’s like you know
got engaged because she’s like you know chef boyardee or sorry whatever the
chef boyardee or sorry whatever the
chef boyardee or sorry whatever the equivalent is right like a famous shells
equivalent is right like a famous shells
equivalent is right like a famous shells like this incredible person I started
like this incredible person I started
like this incredible person I started dating her boy idea you’re laughing at
dating her boy idea you’re laughing at
dating her boy idea you’re laughing at that
it’s amazing i love you keep going sorry
it’s amazing i love you keep going sorry um go go go okay you killing my momentum
um go go go okay you killing my momentum
um go go go okay you killing my momentum and you stop me I’m like I’m mom she
and you stop me I’m like I’m mom she
and you stop me I’m like I’m mom she wasn’t she wasn’t that I loved her for
wasn’t she wasn’t that I loved her for
wasn’t she wasn’t that I loved her for who she is all the beautiful things that
who she is all the beautiful things that
who she is all the beautiful things that we went through and all that it’s easy
we went through and all that it’s easy
we went through and all that it’s easy to get wrapped up in your head about
to get wrapped up in your head about
to get wrapped up in your head about what your needs are and what you think
what your needs are and what you think
what your needs are and what you think is important verses really what’s what’s
is important verses really what’s what’s
is important verses really what’s what’s at the core of what makes them special
at the core of what makes them special
at the core of what makes them special and beautiful and it wasn’t it wasn’t it
and beautiful and it wasn’t it wasn’t it
and beautiful and it wasn’t it wasn’t it wasn’t it wasn’t the cooking or whatever
wasn’t it wasn’t the cooking or whatever
wasn’t it wasn’t the cooking or whatever was right she makes great food too mind
was right she makes great food too mind
was right she makes great food too mind you like I don’t want to talk her she’s
you like I don’t want to talk her she’s
you like I don’t want to talk her she’s made beautiful dinner she made me take I
made beautiful dinner she made me take I
made beautiful dinner she made me take I love sweets on my birthday it’s actually
love sweets on my birthday it’s actually
love sweets on my birthday it’s actually on facebook right now oh by the way I’m
on facebook right now oh by the way I’m
on facebook right now oh by the way I’m tried 1030 as a side note so that was a
tried 1030 as a side note so that was a
tried 1030 as a side note so that was a big thing today today I’m to anything
big thing today today I’m to anything
big thing today today I’m to anything with it no yeah but today days yeah
with it no yeah but today days yeah
with it no yeah but today days yeah tomorrow tomorrow I think it’s coming oh
tomorrow tomorrow I think it’s coming oh
tomorrow tomorrow I think it’s coming oh it is okay so so great with october
it is okay so so great with october
it is okay so so great with october fourteenth is when it’s coming up sober
fourteenth is when it’s coming up sober
fourteenth is when it’s coming up sober 13s when’s my birthday it helped me
13s when’s my birthday it helped me
13s when’s my birthday it helped me having a discussion with rosanna first
having a discussion with rosanna first
having a discussion with rosanna first apologizing and having a discussion
apologizing and having a discussion
apologizing and having a discussion about understanding her better as a
about understanding her better as a
about understanding her better as a human being and loving her for the way
human being and loving her for the way
human being and loving her for the way that she expresses her love towards me
that she expresses her love towards me
that she expresses her love towards me you know the thing that she does and she
you know the thing that she does and she
you know the thing that she does and she takes care of that maybe I don’t even
takes care of that maybe I don’t even
takes care of that maybe I don’t even appreciate and having that discussion
appreciate and having that discussion
appreciate and having that discussion with her made her think about all the
with her made her think about all the
with her made her think about all the things that I do for her and how she’s
things that I do for her and how she’s
things that I do for her and how she’s appreciative of that it’s very easy to
appreciative of that it’s very easy to
appreciative of that it’s very easy to want to mold people around you to the
want to mold people around you to the
want to mold people around you to the way that you need it and on your terms
way that you need it and on your terms
way that you need it and on your terms and what happens is either you know they
and what happens is either you know they
and what happens is either you know they will feel stifled or oppressed or the
will feel stifled or oppressed or the
will feel stifled or oppressed or the and they’ll do it and sooner or later
and they’ll do it and sooner or later
and they’ll do it and sooner or later might explode or you have lots of fight
might explode or you have lots of fight
might explode or you have lots of fight or they’ll just walk away a person is
or they’ll just walk away a person is
or they’ll just walk away a person is not two dimensional so you know
not two dimensional so you know
not two dimensional so you know something when I was younger I I pursued
something when I was younger I I pursued
something when I was younger I I pursued things you know like I want I had a list
things you know like I want I had a list
things you know like I want I had a list of things the person that I want to end
of things the person that I want to end
of things the person that I want to end up with his has to have these things if
up with his has to have these things if
up with his has to have these things if he does it or I mean she does in or he
he does it or I mean she does in or he
he does it or I mean she does in or he doesn’t whatever who’s watching this
doesn’t whatever who’s watching this
doesn’t whatever who’s watching this right Dennis this is my list yeah then
right Dennis this is my list yeah then
right Dennis this is my list yeah then they don’t meet that criteria and that’s
they don’t meet that criteria and that’s
they don’t meet that criteria and that’s that’s that’s short-sighted the best you
that’s that’s short-sighted the best you
that’s that’s short-sighted the best you can do is be a better version of
can do is be a better version of
can do is be a better version of yourself every day and if you’re lucky
yourself every day and if you’re lucky
yourself every day and if you’re lucky they’ll do the same acknowledging and
they’ll do the same acknowledging and
they’ll do the same acknowledging and understanding what my fiance how she
understanding what my fiance how she
understanding what my fiance how she expresses her love
expresses her love
expresses her love makes me appreciate her so much more and
makes me appreciate her so much more and
makes me appreciate her so much more and makes us happier now she wants to she
makes us happier now she wants to she
makes us happier now she wants to she wants to make awesome food she wants to
wants to make awesome food she wants to
wants to make awesome food she wants to do all that but I enjoy cooking too i
do all that but I enjoy cooking too i
do all that but I enjoy cooking too i just realized i made a dinner yesterday
just realized i made a dinner yesterday
just realized i made a dinner yesterday made to course dinner yesterday there’s
made to course dinner yesterday there’s
made to course dinner yesterday there’s a lot of fun actually how you’re raised
a lot of fun actually how you’re raised
a lot of fun actually how you’re raised or whatever the traditions are that set
or whatever the traditions are that set
or whatever the traditions are that set standards for what it means to for it to
standards for what it means to for it to
standards for what it means to for it to be a whole or whatever it is right
be a whole or whatever it is right
be a whole or whatever it is right whatever what a relationship is what a
whatever what a relationship is what a
whatever what a relationship is what a husband and wife are what a girlfriend
husband and wife are what a girlfriend
husband and wife are what a girlfriend and boyfriend are with two girlfriends
and boyfriend are with two girlfriends
and boyfriend are with two girlfriends are what two boyfriends or whatever it
are what two boyfriends or whatever it
are what two boyfriends or whatever it is right are the foundation that you
is right are the foundation that you
is right are the foundation that you that you build you know all your
that you build you know all your
that you build you know all your understanding of the world it’s
understanding of the world it’s
understanding of the world it’s sometimes limiting and so my foundation
sometimes limiting and so my foundation
sometimes limiting and so my foundation was that she needs to be a certain way
was that she needs to be a certain way
was that she needs to be a certain way and she needs to do this and this is how
and she needs to do this and this is how
and she needs to do this and this is how she’s gonna show her love but its its
she’s gonna show her love but its its
she’s gonna show her love but its its its its weak sauce its weak sauce it’s
its its weak sauce its weak sauce it’s
its its weak sauce its weak sauce it’s not it’s not it’s not you know you need
not it’s not it’s not you know you need
not it’s not it’s not you know you need to add a little bit of a cup a couple
to add a little bit of a cup a couple
to add a little bit of a cup a couple Calvin’s in there you need to add some
Calvin’s in there you need to add some
Calvin’s in there you need to add some spiciness to it it was a scary feeling
spiciness to it it was a scary feeling
spiciness to it it was a scary feeling actually because yesterday it was pretty
actually because yesterday it was pretty
actually because yesterday it was pretty tense between Evan and I write it got
tense between Evan and I write it got
tense between Evan and I write it got pretty it got really heated because like
pretty it got really heated because like
pretty it got really heated because like we have we had we have has stronger yeah
we have we had we have has stronger yeah
we have we had we have has stronger yeah but the point was what was scary for me
but the point was what was scary for me
but the point was what was scary for me was I started questioning everything
was I started questioning everything
was I started questioning everything about how where I put my value and where
about how where I put my value and where
about how where I put my value and where I series Anna’s value and my friends
I series Anna’s value and my friends
I series Anna’s value and my friends valleys not just resent it affects
valleys not just resent it affects
valleys not just resent it affects everything right and just about being
everything right and just about being
everything right and just about being humble and about coming to understanding
humble and about coming to understanding
humble and about coming to understanding from her perspective and she does the
from her perspective and she does the
from her perspective and she does the same and your friends are you people
same and your friends are you people
same and your friends are you people important to you that have a big impact
important to you that have a big impact
important to you that have a big impact I think we’ll do the same if you make
I think we’ll do the same if you make
I think we’ll do the same if you make the first gesture if you work on
the first gesture if you work on
the first gesture if you work on yourself and you try to understand
yourself and you try to understand
yourself and you try to understand people better it tends to be that
people better it tends to be that
people better it tends to be that they’ll they’ll they’ll give that love
they’ll they’ll they’ll give that love
they’ll they’ll they’ll give that love back and it’s a beautiful thing cool
back and it’s a beautiful thing cool
back and it’s a beautiful thing cool well a couple things I want to add to
well a couple things I want to add to
well a couple things I want to add to this first off you know and you guys be
this first off you know and you guys be
this first off you know and you guys be able to learn from alex’s store i think
able to learn from alex’s store i think
able to learn from alex’s store i think is the most important thing not just
is the most important thing not just
is the most important thing not just Alex you know sharing his personal life
Alex you know sharing his personal life
Alex you know sharing his personal life where you guys can able to like pick
where you guys can able to like pick
where you guys can able to like pick teach you a lesson from it I think one
teach you a lesson from it I think one
teach you a lesson from it I think one is whole thing like I need a video I
is whole thing like I need a video I
is whole thing like I need a video I said Alex do you want to be on a video
said Alex do you want to be on a video
said Alex do you want to be on a video right now let’s film something I gotta
right now let’s film something I gotta
right now let’s film something I gotta send to christina is again we’re gonna
send to christina is again we’re gonna
send to christina is again we’re gonna talk about I don’t know you pick a topic
talk about I don’t know you pick a topic
talk about I don’t know you pick a topic okay and just like when opportunities
okay and just like when opportunities
okay and just like when opportunities come to you
come to you
come to you jump on them and go for it even if it’s
jump on them and go for it even if it’s
jump on them and go for it even if it’s scary and you don’t know what you’re
scary and you don’t know what you’re
scary and you don’t know what you’re gonna do yet you know this discussion
gonna do yet you know this discussion
gonna do yet you know this discussion came up because with Alex’s mom you know
came up because with Alex’s mom you know
came up because with Alex’s mom you know she showed her loved through food and
she showed her loved through food and
she showed her loved through food and understanding that people express their
understanding that people express their
understanding that people express their love of different ways and him expecting
love of different ways and him expecting
love of different ways and him expecting Rosanna to show the same level of love
Rosanna to show the same level of love
Rosanna to show the same level of love and care that his mom did through food
and care that his mom did through food
and care that his mom did through food is an unfair guilt that she would carry
is an unfair guilt that she would carry
is an unfair guilt that she would carry around forever and would continue to be
around forever and would continue to be
around forever and would continue to be a source of fighting now Rosanna needs
a source of fighting now Rosanna needs
a source of fighting now Rosanna needs to love Alex and Alex into lovers Anna
to love Alex and Alex into lovers Anna
to love Alex and Alex into lovers Anna but how somebody chooses to express
but how somebody chooses to express
but how somebody chooses to express himself will be different you know maybe
himself will be different you know maybe
himself will be different you know maybe rozonda expresses herself through being
rozonda expresses herself through being
rozonda expresses herself through being closed through hugging cuddling
closed through hugging cuddling
closed through hugging cuddling snuggling whatever or some other way
snuggling whatever or some other way
snuggling whatever or some other way right she’s gonna love him just as much
right she’s gonna love him just as much
right she’s gonna love him just as much you know just as strong but just express
you know just as strong but just express
you know just as strong but just express it differently and there’s not one right
it differently and there’s not one right
it differently and there’s not one right way or the other but to put an
way or the other but to put an
way or the other but to put an expectation someone’s going to do and
expectation someone’s going to do and
expectation someone’s going to do and express themselves one way is just
express themselves one way is just
express themselves one way is just setting yourself up for failure and if
setting yourself up for failure and if
setting yourself up for failure and if you look to like the next generation you
you look to like the next generation you
you look to like the next generation you know they have kids they’re gonna have
know they have kids they’re gonna have
know they have kids they’re gonna have like 25 kids or something like that like
like 25 kids or something like that like
like 25 kids or something like that like two football teams you know you get
two football teams you know you get
two football teams you know you get ready resentence heaven if the kids are
ready resentence heaven if the kids are
ready resentence heaven if the kids are sick alex is going to want to cook for
sick alex is going to want to cook for
sick alex is going to want to cook for them and give them food and give them
them and give them food and give them
them and give them food and give them soup and that was how my mom cheated me
soup and that was how my mom cheated me
soup and that was how my mom cheated me to like I’m sick here’s some chicken
to like I’m sick here’s some chicken
to like I’m sick here’s some chicken noodle soup homemade with like spinach
noodle soup homemade with like spinach
noodle soup homemade with like spinach and all this up to make me feel better
and all this up to make me feel better
and all this up to make me feel better where if Rosanna is connecting through
where if Rosanna is connecting through
where if Rosanna is connecting through cuddling that she’s gonna want to lie
cuddling that she’s gonna want to lie
cuddling that she’s gonna want to lie down and cuddle with them until they get
down and cuddle with them until they get
down and cuddle with them until they get better right and not this one coach is
better right and not this one coach is
better right and not this one coach is not better than the other it’s still
not better than the other it’s still
not better than the other it’s still love and so you know for the people in
love and so you know for the people in
love and so you know for the people in your life how they show their love is
your life how they show their love is
your life how they show their love is important and recognized and it’s not
important and recognized and it’s not
important and recognized and it’s not going to be likely the same way that you
going to be likely the same way that you
going to be likely the same way that you do it fear for for them and so you know
do it fear for for them and so you know
do it fear for for them and so you know even this morning Alex came in on his
even this morning Alex came in on his
even this morning Alex came in on his birthday and offered to make me food and
birthday and offered to make me food and
birthday and offered to make me food and I said yeah that’d be great because I
I said yeah that’d be great because I
I said yeah that’d be great because I you know I always like a good some good
you know I always like a good some good
you know I always like a good some good food but also it’s how Alex shows his
food but also it’s how Alex shows his
food but also it’s how Alex shows his love so I didn’t want to reject the gift
love so I didn’t want to reject the gift
love so I didn’t want to reject the gift because not because I didn’t care so
because not because I didn’t care so
because not because I didn’t care so much about it right like right yeah
much about it right like right yeah
much about it right like right yeah awesome but more you know I didn’t I
awesome but more you know I didn’t I
awesome but more you know I didn’t I want him to feel like his gifts are
want him to feel like his gifts are
want him to feel like his gifts are being accepted at the same time me and I
being accepted at the same time me and I
being accepted at the same time me and I made me breakfast so Alex maybe two eggs
made me breakfast so Alex maybe two eggs
made me breakfast so Alex maybe two eggs and eggplant parmesan and a not a bagel
and eggplant parmesan and a not a bagel
and eggplant parmesan and a not a bagel croissant quest sounds like a big-ass
croissant quest sounds like a big-ass
croissant quest sounds like a big-ass breakfast that I’m not used to annina
breakfast that I’m not used to annina
breakfast that I’m not used to annina made me a couple eggs as well so I
made me a couple eggs as well so I
made me a couple eggs as well so I finish out his breakfast and then I ate
finish out his breakfast and then I ate
finish out his breakfast and then I ate Nina’s breakfast as well because she
Nina’s breakfast as well because she
Nina’s breakfast as well because she expressed his love through food and if I
expressed his love through food and if I
expressed his love through food and if I didn’t eat that I’m rejecting her love
didn’t eat that I’m rejecting her love
didn’t eat that I’m rejecting her love too I don’t give love through food you
too I don’t give love through food you
too I don’t give love through food you know i will give love through
know i will give love through
know i will give love through conversations and confidence and doing
conversations and confidence and doing
conversations and confidence and doing activities and spending time together
activities and spending time together
activities and spending time together and so just having that awareness if
and so just having that awareness if
and so just having that awareness if you’re in any kind of relationship if
you’re in any kind of relationship if
you’re in any kind of relationship if it’s a personal relationship of business
it’s a personal relationship of business
it’s a personal relationship of business relationship how somebody likes to show
relationship how somebody likes to show
relationship how somebody likes to show affection or love or feel respected is
affection or love or feel respected is
affection or love or feel respected is likely not the same way that you do it
likely not the same way that you do it
likely not the same way that you do it so being conscious of that will have a
so being conscious of that will have a
so being conscious of that will have a really dramatic positive impact on your
really dramatic positive impact on your
really dramatic positive impact on your ability to have those relationships
ability to have those relationships
ability to have those relationships because otherwise you’re putting unfair
because otherwise you’re putting unfair
because otherwise you’re putting unfair expectations on the other person which
expectations on the other person which
expectations on the other person which isn’t fair for either of you and then
isn’t fair for either of you and then
isn’t fair for either of you and then you know I want to give a big I want to
you know I want to give a big I want to
you know I want to give a big I want to clap it up for Alex 24 for coming on and
clap it up for Alex 24 for coming on and
clap it up for Alex 24 for coming on and talking about this cuz we talked about
talking about this cuz we talked about
talking about this cuz we talked about this yesterday and he was all against
this yesterday and he was all against
this yesterday and he was all against this at the start I make sense like it’s
this at the start I make sense like it’s
this at the start I make sense like it’s something that’s been value system for
something that’s been value system for
something that’s been value system for 30 let’s change that overnight you know
30 let’s change that overnight you know
30 let’s change that overnight you know look you know so we fought it and then
look you know so we fought it and then
look you know so we fought it and then and then goes home and has a
and then goes home and has a
and then goes home and has a conversation Susannah and then thinks
conversation Susannah and then thinks
conversation Susannah and then thinks about it now today is embracing it and
about it now today is embracing it and
about it now today is embracing it and encouraging you to as well so like how
encouraging you to as well so like how
encouraging you to as well so like how quickly Alex can kind of take feedback
quickly Alex can kind of take feedback
quickly Alex can kind of take feedback and start to try to make a positive
and start to try to make a positive
and start to try to make a positive difference is good so hopefully you can
difference is good so hopefully you can
difference is good so hopefully you can learn from one of those three messages
learn from one of those three messages
learn from one of those three messages when you have an opportunity go for it
when you have an opportunity go for it
when you have an opportunity go for it understand how people express love in
understand how people express love in
understand how people express love in different ways and you know if somebody
different ways and you know if somebody
different ways and you know if somebody calls you out on your stuff on your BS
calls you out on your stuff on your BS
calls you out on your stuff on your BS then receive the message and then go
then receive the message and then go
then receive the message and then go spread it to others that’s it I like
spread it to others that’s it I like
spread it to others that’s it I like this what do you think coffee time with
this what do you think coffee time with
this what do you think coffee time with Alex might be a series we’ll see how it
Alex might be a series we’ll see how it
Alex might be a series we’ll see how it goes
goes
goes we get to delve into his personal life
we get to delve into his personal life
we get to delve into his personal life every week Sarah Palin’s of people there
every week Sarah Palin’s of people there
every week Sarah Palin’s of people there appreciate feels a live session that
appreciate feels a live session that
appreciate feels a live session that would have been god I know it is like an
would have been god I know it is like an
would have been god I know it is like an hour and a half I was quality guys that
hour and a half I was quality guys that
hour and a half I was quality guys that was intense yeah thank you guys for
was intense yeah thank you guys for
was intense yeah thank you guys for watching a question what do you want to
watching a question what do you want to
watching a question what do you want to ask uh yeah uh is there a value system
ask uh yeah uh is there a value system
ask uh yeah uh is there a value system that you are attached to or maybe you’re
that you are attached to or maybe you’re
that you are attached to or maybe you’re projecting onto others that now that you
projecting onto others that now that you
projecting onto others that now that you think about it it’s not as important
think about it it’s not as important
think about it it’s not as important dead silence is it Wi-Fi i should go
dead silence is it Wi-Fi i should go
dead silence is it Wi-Fi i should go yeah you know why i feel like i need to
yeah you know why i feel like i need to
yeah you know why i feel like i need to go a little deeper with it now okay
go a little deeper with it now okay
go a little deeper with it now okay because i liked it because how this all
because i liked it because how this all
because i liked it because how this all start a lot of it started because i was
start a lot of it started because i was
start a lot of it started because i was ranting that the food is not important
ranting that the food is not important
ranting that the food is not important that food is not important that the love
that food is not important that the love
that food is not important that the love is important focusing on the right
is important focusing on the right
is important focusing on the right things in business in a relationship
things in business in a relationship
things in business in a relationship people focus on the small insignificant
people focus on the small insignificant
people focus on the small insignificant things compared to the deeper core issue
things compared to the deeper core issue
things compared to the deeper core issue the issue is love in this case right the
the issue is love in this case right the
the issue is love in this case right the issue in a relationship is love not food
issue in a relationship is love not food
issue in a relationship is love not food you know if fruz anna doesn’t express
you know if fruz anna doesn’t express
you know if fruz anna doesn’t express her love in any way that’s a problem
her love in any way that’s a problem
her love in any way that’s a problem there’s something going on there needs
there’s something going on there needs
there’s something going on there needs to be fixed but she’s going to do it to
to be fixed but she’s going to do it to
to be fixed but she’s going to do it to her own way and for those univers Anna
her own way and for those univers Anna
her own way and for those univers Anna she’s a extremely loving person so when
she’s a extremely loving person so when
she’s a extremely loving person so when you’re looking at a situation in a
you’re looking at a situation in a
you’re looking at a situation in a relationship or in a business like is it
relationship or in a business like is it
relationship or in a business like is it really what actually matters is this
really what actually matters is this
really what actually matters is this important this is what you want to fight
important this is what you want to fight
important this is what you want to fight about right like this is really that
about right like this is really that
about right like this is really that significant that you’re going to fight
significant that you’re going to fight
significant that you’re going to fight about it where if the person has a
about it where if the person has a
about it where if the person has a positive intention that’s what usually
positive intention that’s what usually
positive intention that’s what usually Trump’s like that’s what you want to
Trump’s like that’s what you want to
Trump’s like that’s what you want to look at first and maybe it’s your own
look at first and maybe it’s your own
look at first and maybe it’s your own shortsightedness your own value system
shortsightedness your own value system
shortsightedness your own value system that might need a little bit of a jolt
that might need a little bit of a jolt
that might need a little bit of a jolt and it’s not like it’s not that same
and it’s not like it’s not that same
and it’s not like it’s not that same cooking is wrong it’s not that cuddling
cooking is wrong it’s not that cuddling
cooking is wrong it’s not that cuddling is wrong it’s just how somebody chooses
is wrong it’s just how somebody chooses
is wrong it’s just how somebody chooses to express themselves and recognizing
to express themselves and recognizing
to express themselves and recognizing that is the bigger game as opposed to
that is the bigger game as opposed to
that is the bigger game as opposed to try to force somebody to change to be
try to force somebody to change to be
try to force somebody to change to be more like you question was what is their
more like you question was what is their
more like you question was what is their value system that you have you base your
value system that you have you base your
value system that you have you base your decisions on and maybe you’re projecting
decisions on and maybe you’re projecting
decisions on and maybe you’re projecting onto other people that after watching
onto other people that after watching
onto other people that after watching this video you’re like well maybe I’m
this video you’re like well maybe I’m
this video you’re like well maybe I’m not in the right maybe there is
not in the right maybe there is
not in the right maybe there is something deeper that I need to
something deeper that I need to
something deeper that I need to her out let us know leave in the
her out let us know leave in the
her out let us know leave in the comments thank you guys so much for
comments thank you guys so much for
comments thank you guys so much for watching continue to believe that was
watching continue to believe that was
watching continue to believe that was good thank you i was watching the camera
good thank you i was watching the camera
good thank you i was watching the camera you’re wondering i will see you soon
you’re wondering i will see you soon
you’re wondering i will see you soon guys
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