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“TOXIC People Have NO BUSINESS in My Life!” – Joss Whedon (@joss) – Top 10 Rules


really toxic people I avoid I treat film

really toxic people I avoid I treat film like a military I got out to Hollywood

like a military I got out to Hollywood

like a military I got out to Hollywood and we discovered incredible lack of

and we discovered incredible lack of

and we discovered incredible lack of money you are all going to die

money you are all going to die

money you are all going to die hello believe nation I’m Evan Carmichael

hello believe nation I’m Evan Carmichael

hello believe nation I’m Evan Carmichael my one word is believe and I believe

my one word is believe and I believe

my one word is believe and I believe that entrepreneurs are going to solve

that entrepreneurs are going to solve

that entrepreneurs are going to solve all of the world’s major problems so to

all of the world’s major problems so to

all of the world’s major problems so to help you on your journey today we’re

help you on your journey today we’re

help you on your journey today we’re going to learn from director Joss Whedon

going to learn from director Joss Whedon

going to learn from director Joss Whedon and my take on his top 10 rule to

and my take on his top 10 rule to

and my take on his top 10 rule to success rule number two is my personal

success rule number two is my personal

success rule number two is my personal favorite and I’d love to know which one

favorite and I’d love to know which one

favorite and I’d love to know which one you guys like the best and as always as

you guys like the best and as always as

you guys like the best and as always as you’re listening if something really

you’re listening if something really

you’re listening if something really resonates with you is a message that

resonates with you is a message that

resonates with you is a message that really holds true to you please leave it

really holds true to you please leave it

really holds true to you please leave it down in the comments below and put it in

down in the comments below and put it in

down in the comments below and put it in quotes so that other people can be

quotes so that other people can be

quotes so that other people can be inspired and when you write it down it’s

inspired and when you write it down it’s

inspired and when you write it down it’s much more likely to stick with yourself

much more likely to stick with yourself

much more likely to stick with yourself as well enjoy

do you like actors

do you like actors generally speaking I’ll just be I’ll be

generally speaking I’ll just be I’ll be

generally speaking I’ll just be I’ll be back in a couple minutes

back in a couple minutes

back in a couple minutes the weird thing as many of my best

the weird thing as many of my best

the weird thing as many of my best friends are actresses right

friends are actresses right

friends are actresses right I love actors and I did not think I you

I love actors and I did not think I you

I love actors and I did not think I you know I I answer again in the old school

know I I answer again in the old school

know I I answer again in the old school it’s an adversarial relationship and and

it’s an adversarial relationship and and

it’s an adversarial relationship and and I’ve worked in my share of divas but I

I’ve worked in my share of divas but I

I’ve worked in my share of divas but I also have enormous respect for divas

also have enormous respect for divas

also have enormous respect for divas they’re usually people who do something

they’re usually people who do something

they’re usually people who do something extraordinary and know it and show up

extraordinary and know it and show up

extraordinary and know it and show up and do it and you have to deal with a

and do it and you have to deal with a

and do it and you have to deal with a lot of other stuff but they usually come

lot of other stuff but they usually come

lot of other stuff but they usually come in and say you’re going to have to deal

in and say you’re going to have to deal

in and say you’re going to have to deal with a lot of other stuff I’m a diva so

with a lot of other stuff I’m a diva so

with a lot of other stuff I’m a diva so here we go

here we go

here we go and and then you get this beautiful work

and and then you get this beautiful work

and and then you get this beautiful work and you’re like okay yeah you know

and you’re like okay yeah you know

and you’re like okay yeah you know thanks for the heads up really toxic

thanks for the heads up really toxic

thanks for the heads up really toxic people

people

people I avoid I cast for sanity that’s a very

I avoid I cast for sanity that’s a very

I avoid I cast for sanity that’s a very important thing to me but talk to people

important thing to me but talk to people

important thing to me but talk to people are different than divas divas are

are different than divas divas are

are different than divas divas are complicated but they know that there is

complicated but they know that there is

complicated but they know that there is a simplicity to what they’re going to

a simplicity to what they’re going to

a simplicity to what they’re going to give you that you need and want and

give you that you need and want and

give you that you need and want and truly toxic people are just about trying

truly toxic people are just about trying

truly toxic people are just about trying to tear something down whether it’s

to tear something down whether it’s

to tear something down whether it’s somebody else in the thing whether it’s

somebody else in the thing whether it’s

somebody else in the thing whether it’s the story there about power those people

the story there about power those people

the story there about power those people have no business in my life as far as

have no business in my life as far as

have no business in my life as far as I’m concerned in the industry as a

I’m concerned in the industry as a

I’m concerned in the industry as a filmmaker

you have to it’s sort of a bad teacher

you have to it’s sort of a bad teacher thing you have to be sure when you’re

thing you have to be sure when you’re

thing you have to be sure when you’re working for somebody else that’s it

working for somebody else that’s it

working for somebody else that’s it they’re the boss I treat film like a

they’re the boss I treat film like a

they’re the boss I treat film like a military I always have film and

military I always have film and

military I always have film and television when I’m working for someone

television when I’m working for someone

television when I’m working for someone and they’re telling you know if they’re

and they’re telling you know if they’re

and they’re telling you know if they’re Henry Fonda and Porter pachi and they’re

Henry Fonda and Porter pachi and they’re

Henry Fonda and Porter pachi and they’re making all the wrong decisions I listen

making all the wrong decisions I listen

making all the wrong decisions I listen to them because someday I’m going to

to them because someday I’m going to

to them because someday I’m going to take over and expect the same thing and

take over and expect the same thing and

take over and expect the same thing and it’s not that I don’t want the center I

it’s not that I don’t want the center I

it’s not that I don’t want the center I don’t I don’t want to make a creative

don’t I don’t want to make a creative

don’t I don’t want to make a creative collaboration that’s very exciting for

collaboration that’s very exciting for

collaboration that’s very exciting for me but you have to be in charge know

me but you have to be in charge know

me but you have to be in charge know what you want and know that you have the

what you want and know that you have the

what you want and know that you have the ability to get that and requires a lot

ability to get that and requires a lot

ability to get that and requires a lot of fierceness and a lot of belief more

of fierceness and a lot of belief more

of fierceness and a lot of belief more belief than other people are going to

belief than other people are going to

belief than other people are going to have in you when I shock the first thing

have in you when I shock the first thing

have in you when I shock the first thing I ever shot was a pilot presentation for

I ever shot was a pilot presentation for

I ever shot was a pilot presentation for Buffy and it was a nightmare

Buffy and it was a nightmare

Buffy and it was a nightmare none of the crew understood what I was

none of the crew understood what I was

none of the crew understood what I was trying to do or thought I could do it

trying to do or thought I could do it

trying to do or thought I could do it and there was a point at which I just

and there was a point at which I just

and there was a point at which I just want to fold just can I please go home

want to fold just can I please go home

want to fold just can I please go home and be a writer but I was miserable just

and be a writer but I was miserable just

and be a writer but I was miserable just being a writer because I wasn’t creating

being a writer because I wasn’t creating

being a writer because I wasn’t creating the thing whole that I wanted to and at

the thing whole that I wanted to and at

the thing whole that I wanted to and at some point in the shoot I just I said to

some point in the shoot I just I said to

some point in the shoot I just I said to myself this is it this is your pep talk

myself this is it this is your pep talk

myself this is it this is your pep talk you’re either going to go home and

you’re either going to go home and

you’re either going to go home and regret it for the rest of your life

regret it for the rest of your life

regret it for the rest of your life you’re going to go in there and run this

you’re going to go in there and run this

you’re going to go in there and run this thing

thing

thing in fact your first work it was a

in fact your first work it was a

in fact your first work it was a television job I think it’s Ravana that

television job I think it’s Ravana that

television job I think it’s Ravana that correct oh yeah that was my first job so

correct oh yeah that was my first job so

correct oh yeah that was my first job so with with that did you always want to do

with with that did you always want to do

with with that did you always want to do television I know that you come from a

television I know that you come from a

television I know that you come from a television family or did you did you go

television family or did you did you go

television family or did you did you go out to Hollywood to work in film or

out to Hollywood to work in film or

out to Hollywood to work in film or television how did that work I would

television how did that work I would

television how did that work I would never do television

never do television

never do television I was that was beneath me and study film

I was that was beneath me and study film

I was that was beneath me and study film and my bad my best friend senior year

and my bad my best friend senior year

and my bad my best friend senior year used to taunt me so you’re gonna be a

used to taunt me so you’re gonna be a

used to taunt me so you’re gonna be a third generation television writer we

third generation television writer we

third generation television writer we didn’t wanna put it through GTV

didn’t wanna put it through GTV

didn’t wanna put it through GTV you told me that all the time and then I

you told me that all the time and then I

you told me that all the time and then I you know I got out to Hollywood and

you know I got out to Hollywood and

you know I got out to Hollywood and discovered incredible lack of money and

discovered incredible lack of money and

discovered incredible lack of money and so I sort of started poking my nose

so I sort of started poking my nose

so I sort of started poking my nose around in the me like oh there’s some

around in the me like oh there’s some

around in the me like oh there’s some very good televisions being made and and

very good televisions being made and and

very good televisions being made and and as soon as I started writing it which is

as soon as I started writing it which is

as soon as I started writing it which is really the first writing I’d ever done

really the first writing I’d ever done

really the first writing I’d ever done over my television specs that I wrote

over my television specs that I wrote

over my television specs that I wrote trying to get a job and that’s when I

trying to get a job and that’s when I

trying to get a job and that’s when I fell in love with writing was through

fell in love with writing was through

fell in love with writing was through television so and I had the privilege to

television so and I had the privilege to

television so and I had the privilege to work on Roseanne which was you know he

work on Roseanne which was you know he

work on Roseanne which was you know he was the best show on and it really it

was the best show on and it really it

was the best show on and it really it had a level of reality that no other

had a level of reality that no other

had a level of reality that no other show is really busting out just then

show is really busting out just then

show is really busting out just then well the difficult story line like widow

well the difficult story line like widow

well the difficult story line like widow and Tara’s a lesbian love on TV

and Tara’s a lesbian love on TV

and Tara’s a lesbian love on TV abdominal no we do it very gradually I’m

abdominal no we do it very gradually I’m

abdominal no we do it very gradually I’m not sure they knew that that’s what it

not sure they knew that that’s what it

not sure they knew that that’s what it was

boy that seems like a very intense still

boy that seems like a very intense still there caster

there caster

there caster um sir my voice is so loud in my ear

um sir my voice is so loud in my ear

um sir my voice is so loud in my ear that I but um you know again I’ve always

that I but um you know again I’ve always

that I but um you know again I’ve always sort of approached things with the idea

sort of approached things with the idea

sort of approached things with the idea of that whoever is giving me all that

of that whoever is giving me all that

of that whoever is giving me all that money to put it on as my partner

money to put it on as my partner

money to put it on as my partner and that ain’t I’m not I’m not working

and that ain’t I’m not I’m not working

and that ain’t I’m not I’m not working against them I’m trying to work with

against them I’m trying to work with

against them I’m trying to work with them I’m trying to find the space

them I’m trying to find the space

them I’m trying to find the space between my artistic expression their

between my artistic expression their

between my artistic expression their commercial needs and my artistic

commercial needs and my artistic

commercial needs and my artistic expressions commercial I want to make

expressions commercial I want to make

expressions commercial I want to make things that people like I’m not trying

things that people like I’m not trying

things that people like I’m not trying I’m not wearing a beret and sitting in a

I’m not wearing a beret and sitting in a

I’m not wearing a beret and sitting in a garret and smoking more because it makes

garret and smoking more because it makes

garret and smoking more because it makes me reflect um occurred but um you know I

me reflect um occurred but um you know I

me reflect um occurred but um you know I I understand what they need and and what

I understand what they need and and what

I understand what they need and and what they wanted I like that and I also think

they wanted I like that and I also think

they wanted I like that and I also think with audiences you know I used to say we

with audiences you know I used to say we

with audiences you know I used to say we could have made Buffy – lesbian

could have made Buffy – lesbian

could have made Buffy – lesbian separatist but let’s start the Vampire

separatist but let’s start the Vampire

separatist but let’s start the Vampire Slayer and and you know you you always

Slayer and and you know you you always

Slayer and and you know you you always want to sort of get people at the edge

want to sort of get people at the edge

want to sort of get people at the edge of their comfort level there are a lot

of their comfort level there are a lot

of their comfort level there are a lot of things that I do that you know people

of things that I do that you know people

of things that I do that you know people like robots and that’s pretty edgy I’m

like robots and that’s pretty edgy I’m

like robots and that’s pretty edgy I’m like really

like really

like really I don’t it surprises me that it’s not

I don’t it surprises me that it’s not

I don’t it surprises me that it’s not morning stream let’s just say

morning stream let’s just say

morning stream let’s just say hypothetically the two roads diverged in

hypothetically the two roads diverged in

hypothetically the two roads diverged in a wood and you took the path less

a wood and you took the path less

a wood and you took the path less traveled

traveled

traveled part of you is just going look at that

part of you is just going look at that

part of you is just going look at that path over there it’s much better if

path over there it’s much better if

path over there it’s much better if everybody’s traveling on it and it’s

everybody’s traveling on it and it’s

everybody’s traveling on it and it’s paved and there’s a there’s like a

paved and there’s a there’s like a

paved and there’s a there’s like a Starbucks every 50 yards it’s a recent

Starbucks every 50 yards it’s a recent

Starbucks every 50 yards it’s a recent wrong this one there’s nettles and

wrong this one there’s nettles and

wrong this one there’s nettles and Robert Frost’s body and somebody should

Robert Frost’s body and somebody should

Robert Frost’s body and somebody should have moved bad I think that’s it feels

have moved bad I think that’s it feels

have moved bad I think that’s it feels weird and not only is your mind telling

weird and not only is your mind telling

weird and not only is your mind telling you this

you this

you this it is on that other path it is behaving

it is on that other path it is behaving

it is on that other path it is behaving in as though it is on that path it is

in as though it is on that path it is

in as though it is on that path it is doing the opposite of what you are doing

doing the opposite of what you are doing

doing the opposite of what you are doing and for your entire life you will be

and for your entire life you will be

and for your entire life you will be doing on some level the opposite not

doing on some level the opposite not

doing on some level the opposite not only of what you are doing but of what

only of what you are doing but of what

only of what you are doing but of what you think you are that is just going to

you think you are that is just going to

you think you are that is just going to go on what you do with all your heart

go on what you do with all your heart

go on what you do with all your heart you will do the opposite of and what you

you will do the opposite of and what you

you will do the opposite of and what you need to do is to honor that to

need to do is to honor that to

need to do is to honor that to understand it to unearth it to listen to

understand it to unearth it to listen to

understand it to unearth it to listen to this this other voice all right

this this other voice all right

this this other voice all right Elizabeth Knapp because otherwise it’s

Elizabeth Knapp because otherwise it’s

Elizabeth Knapp because otherwise it’s coming off in a dramatic fashion at the

coming off in a dramatic fashion at the

coming off in a dramatic fashion at the wrong time I know I worked on the Terra

wrong time I know I worked on the Terra

wrong time I know I worked on the Terra for a long time I had a busted out you

for a long time I had a busted out you

for a long time I had a busted out you have which is a rare thing the ability

have which is a rare thing the ability

have which is a rare thing the ability and the responsibility to listen to the

and the responsibility to listen to the

and the responsibility to listen to the dissent in yourself to at least give it

dissent in yourself to at least give it

dissent in yourself to at least give it the floor okay because it is the key not

the floor okay because it is the key not

the floor okay because it is the key not only the consciousness but to real

only the consciousness but to real

only the consciousness but to real growth to accept duality is to earn

growth to accept duality is to earn

growth to accept duality is to earn identity and identity is something that

identity and identity is something that

identity and identity is something that you are constantly earning it is not

you are constantly earning it is not

you are constantly earning it is not just who you are it is a process that

just who you are it is a process that

just who you are it is a process that you must be active in and it’s not

you must be active in and it’s not

you must be active in and it’s not parenting your parenting your parents or

parenting your parenting your parents or

parenting your parenting your parents or even the thoughts of dear learning

even the thoughts of dear learning

even the thoughts of dear learning teachers is now more than ever about

teachers is now more than ever about

teachers is now more than ever about understanding yourself so you can become

understanding yourself so you can become

understanding yourself so you can become yourself and I talked about this

yourself and I talked about this

yourself and I talked about this contradict in a detention there’s two

contradict in a detention there’s two

contradict in a detention there’s two things I want to say about it

things I want to say about it

things I want to say about it one it never goes away

one it never goes away

one it never goes away and if you think that achieving

and if you think that achieving

and if you think that achieving something if you think that solving

something if you think that solving

something if you think that solving something if you think a career or a

something if you think a career or a

something if you think a career or a relationship

relationship

relationship we’ll quiet that voice it will not if

we’ll quiet that voice it will not if

we’ll quiet that voice it will not if you think the happiness means total

you think the happiness means total

you think the happiness means total peace you will never be happy

peace you will never be happy

peace you will never be happy peace comes from the acceptance of the

peace comes from the acceptance of the

peace comes from the acceptance of the part of you that can never be at peace

part of you that can never be at peace

part of you that can never be at peace it will always be in conflict if you

it will always be in conflict if you

it will always be in conflict if you accept that everything gets a lot better

accept that everything gets a lot better

accept that everything gets a lot better the other reason is because you are

the other reason is because you are

the other reason is because you are establishing your identities and your

establishing your identities and your

establishing your identities and your beliefs you need to argue yourself down

beliefs you need to argue yourself down

beliefs you need to argue yourself down because somebody else will somebody is

because somebody else will somebody is

because somebody else will somebody is going to come at you there whatever your

going to come at you there whatever your

going to come at you there whatever your belief your idea your ambition

belief your idea your ambition

belief your idea your ambition somebody’s going to question it and

somebody’s going to question it and

somebody’s going to question it and unless you have first you won’t be able

unless you have first you won’t be able

unless you have first you won’t be able to answer back you won’t be able to hold

to answer back you won’t be able to hold

to answer back you won’t be able to hold your ground you don’t believe me try

your ground you don’t believe me try

your ground you don’t believe me try taking a stand on just one leg you need

taking a stand on just one leg you need

taking a stand on just one leg you need to see both sides

because I never studied writing I just

because I never studied writing I just sort of had to learn on the job my

sort of had to learn on the job my

sort of had to learn on the job my entire family my mother’s my father

entire family my mother’s my father

entire family my mother’s my father everyone around them teachers and

everyone around them teachers and

everyone around them teachers and writers and very erudite very articulate

writers and very erudite very articulate

writers and very erudite very articulate people that would come hard for me to

people that would come hard for me to

people that would come hard for me to sort of find a voice but it took me just

sort of find a voice but it took me just

sort of find a voice but it took me just training on the job working relentlessly

training on the job working relentlessly

training on the job working relentlessly since today I started to sort of

since today I started to sort of

since today I started to sort of discover what it was that I was doing

discover what it was that I was doing

discover what it was that I was doing and sort of discover the structures

and sort of discover the structures

and sort of discover the structures behind the voices that I was created how

behind the voices that I was created how

behind the voices that I was created how did you settle on matcha tea I mean is

did you settle on matcha tea I mean is

did you settle on matcha tea I mean is your favorite Shakespeare play or is it

your favorite Shakespeare play or is it

your favorite Shakespeare play or is it just it’s up there it’s not my very

just it’s up there it’s not my very

just it’s up there it’s not my very favorite but it is it’s one that we

favorite but it is it’s one that we

favorite but it is it’s one that we always talked about doing because we

always talked about doing because we

always talked about doing because we knew amy and alexis should definitely be

knew amy and alexis should definitely be

knew amy and alexis should definitely be Beatrice and Benedick and and it’s all

Beatrice and Benedick and and it’s all

Beatrice and Benedick and and it’s all in one place and you know it’s sort of

in one place and you know it’s sort of

in one place and you know it’s sort of low stress but for years I just didn’t

low stress but for years I just didn’t

low stress but for years I just didn’t have a take on the material and then

have a take on the material and then

have a take on the material and then finally when I realized I did I said

finally when I realized I did I said

finally when I realized I did I said okay it’s go time and that really that

okay it’s go time and that really that

okay it’s go time and that really that movie exists because of years and years

movie exists because of years and years

movie exists because of years and years of working with actors that I absolutely

of working with actors that I absolutely

of working with actors that I absolutely knew could do that as though it were

knew could do that as though it were

knew could do that as though it were live theatre could walk on set and never

live theatre could walk on set and never

live theatre could walk on set and never get it wrong and because we you know the

get it wrong and because we you know the

get it wrong and because we you know the schedule was exactly the same as a TV

schedule was exactly the same as a TV

schedule was exactly the same as a TV show

show

show no actually was worse and it was

no actually was worse and it was

no actually was worse and it was actually tighter than a regular Network

actually tighter than a regular Network

actually tighter than a regular Network TV show and and you know obviously the

TV show and and you know obviously the

TV show and and you know obviously the language slightly different and no stage

language slightly different and no stage

language slightly different and no stage directions practically so it was like a

directions practically so it was like a

directions practically so it was like a ton of work every day and you can only

ton of work every day and you can only

ton of work every day and you can only do that when you know you have an

do that when you know you have an

do that when you know you have an ensemble who is you know just strength

ensemble who is you know just strength

ensemble who is you know just strength to strength so it’s really them they’re

to strength so it’s really them they’re

to strength so it’s really them they’re they’re my secret I mean my my secret

they’re my secret I mean my my secret

they’re my secret I mean my my secret but me

the pressure is greater if you have

the pressure is greater if you have characters that already exist or in the

characters that already exist or in the

characters that already exist or in the case of Avengers some of them you know

case of Avengers some of them you know

case of Avengers some of them you know we’ve had been cast and had their own

we’ve had been cast and had their own

we’ve had been cast and had their own films some of them were beloved from

films some of them were beloved from

films some of them were beloved from comics but we were reinvented within the

comics but we were reinvented within the

comics but we were reinvented within the film’s meeting everybody’s expectations

film’s meeting everybody’s expectations

film’s meeting everybody’s expectations really just means meeting your own it

really just means meeting your own it

really just means meeting your own it means that you understand these voices

means that you understand these voices

means that you understand these voices and that people you’re making the film

and that people you’re making the film

and that people you’re making the film for hear them the same way that you do

for hear them the same way that you do

for hear them the same way that you do people at Marvel are very clear that

people at Marvel are very clear that

people at Marvel are very clear that when you make a film of a comic book or

when you make a film of a comic book or

when you make a film of a comic book or when you make a film with the character

when you make a film with the character

when you make a film with the character from another film you cannot do exactly

from another film you cannot do exactly

from another film you cannot do exactly what was done before you have to

what was done before you have to

what was done before you have to translate it to your own film and you do

translate it to your own film and you do

translate it to your own film and you do it in their style in their you know sort

it in their style in their you know sort

it in their style in their you know sort of the house style of Marvel which you

of the house style of Marvel which you

of the house style of Marvel which you know which I grew up with and I feel I

know which I grew up with and I feel I

know which I grew up with and I feel I understand pretty well but but you have

understand pretty well but but you have

understand pretty well but but you have to make it personal and you have to

to make it personal and you have to

to make it personal and you have to translate it to a new audience to

translate it to a new audience to

translate it to a new audience to somebody who hasn’t seen or read or any

somebody who hasn’t seen or read or any

somebody who hasn’t seen or read or any of the other things while keeping the

of the other things while keeping the

of the other things while keeping the essence of the thing some somebody will

essence of the thing some somebody will

essence of the thing some somebody will always argue with the way you do it but

always argue with the way you do it but

always argue with the way you do it but nobody can argue with my passion for

nobody can argue with my passion for

nobody can argue with my passion for doing it and I think that’s what people

doing it and I think that’s what people

doing it and I think that’s what people are really looking for more than the

are really looking for more than the

are really looking for more than the specifics as well in the comic is

specifics as well in the comic is

specifics as well in the comic is costume head up let’s hear one big issue

costume head up let’s hear one big issue

costume head up let’s hear one big issue removable you’ve had a really wonderful

removable you’ve had a really wonderful

removable you’ve had a really wonderful few years and you’ve had a little bird

few years and you’ve had a little bird

few years and you’ve had a little bird yes I had a good run

yes I had a good run

yes I had a good run how are you going how do you feel about

how are you going how do you feel about

how are you going how do you feel about it how do you feel about where you are

it how do you feel about where you are

it how do you feel about where you are right now are you or over yeah that’s

right now are you or over yeah that’s

right now are you or over yeah that’s how we always feel all right yeah this

how we always feel all right yeah this

how we always feel all right yeah this is this is a bad one I mean I know you

is this is a bad one I mean I know you

is this is a bad one I mean I know you get that after any project probably it’s

get that after any project probably it’s

get that after any project probably it’s over

over

over yeah the jig is up yes they’re going to

yeah the jig is up yes they’re going to

yeah the jig is up yes they’re going to know yeah

know yeah

know yeah yep it’s worse this time partially

yep it’s worse this time partially

yep it’s worse this time partially because you know of the Ultron thing

because you know of the Ultron thing

because you know of the Ultron thing which was difficult and I I should just

which was difficult and I I should just

which was difficult and I I should just say because I I feel like when I I feel

say because I I feel like when I I feel

say because I I feel like when I I feel like part of like Ultron I am very proud

like part of like Ultron I am very proud

like part of like Ultron I am very proud of there were things that did not meet

of there were things that did not meet

of there were things that did not meet my expectations of myself and I you know

my expectations of myself and I you know

my expectations of myself and I you know and then I sort of I was so beaten down

and then I sort of I was so beaten down

and then I sort of I was so beaten down by the process some of that was

by the process some of that was

by the process some of that was conflicting with Marvel which is

conflicting with Marvel which is

conflicting with Marvel which is inevitable but a lot of it was about my

inevitable but a lot of it was about my

inevitable but a lot of it was about my own work and then and I was also

own work and then and I was also

own work and then and I was also exhausted and then we went right away

exhausted and then we went right away

exhausted and then we went right away and did publicity and I sort of created

and did publicity and I sort of created

and did publicity and I sort of created the narrative wherein I am not quite

the narrative wherein I am not quite

the narrative wherein I am not quite accomplished it and people just ran with

accomplished it and people just ran with

accomplished it and people just ran with that and so it became well it’s okay it

that and so it became well it’s okay it

that and so it became well it’s okay it could be better but it’s not Josh’s

could be better but it’s not Josh’s

could be better but it’s not Josh’s fault and and I think that did a

fault and and I think that did a

fault and and I think that did a disservice to the movie and to the

disservice to the movie and to the

disservice to the movie and to the studio and to myself ultimately was it

studio and to myself ultimately was it

studio and to myself ultimately was it was not the right way to be because I am

was not the right way to be because I am

was not the right way to be because I am very proud of it the things about it

very proud of it the things about it

very proud of it the things about it that are wrong frustrate me enormous Lee

that are wrong frustrate me enormous Lee

that are wrong frustrate me enormous Lee and I had you know probably more of

and I had you know probably more of

and I had you know probably more of those than I have on the other movies

those than I have on the other movies

those than I have on the other movies I’ve made but I also got to make for the

I’ve made but I also got to make for the

I’ve made but I also got to make for the second time an absurdly personal movie

second time an absurdly personal movie

second time an absurdly personal movie where I got to talk about how I felt

where I got to talk about how I felt

where I got to talk about how I felt about humanity and what it means in very

about humanity and what it means in very

about humanity and what it means in very esoteric and bizarre ways for hundreds

esoteric and bizarre ways for hundreds

esoteric and bizarre ways for hundreds of billions of dollars like the fact

of billions of dollars like the fact

of billions of dollars like the fact that Marvel gave you that opportunity

that Marvel gave you that opportunity

that Marvel gave you that opportunity twice is so bonkers and so beautiful and

twice is so bonkers and so beautiful and

twice is so bonkers and so beautiful and the fact that I come off of it feeling

the fact that I come off of it feeling

the fact that I come off of it feeling like a miserable failure is also

like a miserable failure is also

like a miserable failure is also Bunker’s but not in a cute way like it

Bunker’s but not in a cute way like it

Bunker’s but not in a cute way like it becomes problematic and I don’t know

becomes problematic and I don’t know

becomes problematic and I don’t know what it’s like for you I took my first

what it’s like for you I took my first

what it’s like for you I took my first vacation ever after that movie and I

vacation ever after that movie and I

vacation ever after that movie and I don’t mean ever but my first vacation

don’t mean ever but my first vacation

don’t mean ever but my first vacation that was more than two weeks in 25 years

that was more than two weeks in 25 years

that was more than two weeks in 25 years except for

except for

except for one four month vacation where I wrote

one four month vacation where I wrote

one four month vacation where I wrote the Buffy musical that was lonely and so

the Buffy musical that was lonely and so

the Buffy musical that was lonely and so and really set out to do nothing to

and really set out to do nothing to

and really set out to do nothing to accomplish nothing I’m proud to say that

accomplish nothing I’m proud to say that

accomplish nothing I’m proud to say that I have truly a conjugate there yeah I

I have truly a conjugate there yeah I

I have truly a conjugate there yeah I really I got to a higher state of all

really I got to a higher state of all

really I got to a higher state of all this life for you that’s an expense of a

this life for you that’s an expense of a

this life for you that’s an expense of a major departure I’m proud I’m also but

major departure I’m proud I’m also but

major departure I’m proud I’m also but my resting state is is not it’s not a

my resting state is is not it’s not a

my resting state is is not it’s not a good one

good one

good one you work hard I mean I work hard I love

you work hard I mean I work hard I love

you work hard I mean I work hard I love to work I love the work that I do and

to work I love the work that I do and

to work I love the work that I do and I’m very happy and grateful about it

I’m very happy and grateful about it

I’m very happy and grateful about it when I’m not doing it I remember that I

when I’m not doing it I remember that I

when I’m not doing it I remember that I hate myself and so it’s not it’s not

hate myself and so it’s not it’s not

hate myself and so it’s not it’s not doing so much to be sorry the vacations

doing so much to be sorry the vacations

doing so much to be sorry the vacations over now I’m writing again

over now I’m writing again

over now I’m writing again and so how you bad daddy thank you yeah

and so how you bad daddy thank you yeah

and so how you bad daddy thank you yeah okay when I was sitting where you guys

okay when I was sitting where you guys

okay when I was sitting where you guys are sitting the speaker was Bill Cosby

are sitting the speaker was Bill Cosby

are sitting the speaker was Bill Cosby funny man and Bill Cosby he was very

funny man and Bill Cosby he was very

funny man and Bill Cosby he was very funny and he was very brief and I thank

funny and he was very brief and I thank

funny and he was very brief and I thank him for that

him for that

him for that but he gave us a message that I really

but he gave us a message that I really

but he gave us a message that I really took with me that a lot of us never

took with me that a lot of us never

took with me that a lot of us never forgot about changing the world he said

forgot about changing the world he said

forgot about changing the world he said you’re not going to change the world so

you’re not going to change the world so

you’re not going to change the world so don’t try that was in like he didn’t buy

don’t try that was in like he didn’t buy

don’t try that was in like he didn’t buy that back at all and then complained

that back at all and then complained

that back at all and then complained about buying his daughter a car and we

about buying his daughter a car and we

about buying his daughter a car and we left and what I remember thinking you

left and what I remember thinking you

left and what I remember thinking you know I think I could do better

know I think I could do better

know I think I could do better I think maybe I could be a little more

I think maybe I could be a little more

I think maybe I could be a little more inspiring than that and so what I’d like

inspiring than that and so what I’d like

inspiring than that and so what I’d like to say to all of you is that you are all

to say to all of you is that you are all

to say to all of you is that you are all going to die

going to die

going to die [Music]

[Music]

[Music] okay so this is a good function because

okay so this is a good function because

okay so this is a good function because I’m figuring it’s got to go up from here

I’m figuring it’s got to go up from here

I’m figuring it’s got to go up from here right can only get better so this is

right can only get better so this is

right can only get better so this is good I mean you can’t get more

good I mean you can’t get more

good I mean you can’t get more depressing you have in fact already

depressing you have in fact already

depressing you have in fact already begun to die okay

begun to die okay

begun to die okay you look great don’t get me wrong

you look great don’t get me wrong

you look great don’t get me wrong and you know you are using Beauty you

and you know you are using Beauty you

and you know you are using Beauty you are at the physical peak your bodies

are at the physical peak your bodies

are at the physical peak your bodies have just gotten off the ski slope on

have just gotten off the ski slope on

have just gotten off the ski slope on the peak of growth and potential and now

the peak of growth and potential and now

the peak of growth and potential and now comes the Black Diamond mogul run to the

comes the Black Diamond mogul run to the

comes the Black Diamond mogul run to the grave

thank you guys so much for watching I

thank you guys so much for watching I made this video because telling it like

made this video because telling it like

made this video because telling it like it is mm asked me to if there’s someone

it is mm asked me to if there’s someone

it is mm asked me to if there’s someone you like me to profile in the next top

you like me to profile in the next top

you like me to profile in the next top ten check out the link in the

ten check out the link in the

ten check out the link in the description and go and cast your vote

description and go and cast your vote

description and go and cast your vote I’d also love to know what was your

I’d also love to know what was your

I’d also love to know what was your favorite message from this video what

favorite message from this video what

favorite message from this video what did you learn from this video that

did you learn from this video that

did you learn from this video that you’re going to immediately apply

you’re going to immediately apply

you’re going to immediately apply somehow in your life or in your business

somehow in your life or in your business

somehow in your life or in your business please leave it down the comments below

please leave it down the comments below

please leave it down the comments below I’m really curious to find out I also

I’m really curious to find out I also

I’m really curious to find out I also want to give a quick shout out to Oscar

want to give a quick shout out to Oscar

want to give a quick shout out to Oscar and animal Oscar thank you so much for

and animal Oscar thank you so much for

and animal Oscar thank you so much for picking up a copy of my book your one

picking up a copy of my book your one

picking up a copy of my book your one word doing your review on your YouTube

word doing your review on your YouTube

word doing your review on your YouTube channel and posting it on your Twitter

channel and posting it on your Twitter

channel and posting it on your Twitter account as well I really really really

account as well I really really really

account as well I really really really appreciate the support man and I’m so

appreciate the support man and I’m so

appreciate the support man and I’m so glad that you enjoyed the block today’s

glad that you enjoyed the block today’s

glad that you enjoyed the block today’s book book report is the one word by Evan

book book report is the one word by Evan

book book report is the one word by Evan Carmichael so thank you guys again for

Carmichael so thank you guys again for

Carmichael so thank you guys again for watching I believe in you I hope you

watching I believe in you I hope you

watching I believe in you I hope you continue to believe in yourself and

continue to believe in yourself and

continue to believe in yourself and whatever your one word is much love I’ll

whatever your one word is much love I’ll

whatever your one word is much love I’ll see you soon

your story life-energy here they haven’t

your story life-energy here they haven’t written this university has created what

written this university has created what

written this university has created what about it has to be artistically

about it has to be artistically

about it has to be artistically fulfilling or challenging for you for

fulfilling or challenging for you for

fulfilling or challenging for you for students because for me what was

students because for me what was

students because for me what was surprised that you can shake here what

surprised that you can shake here what

surprised that you can shake here what that is not by my fancy is that move

that is not by my fancy is that move

that is not by my fancy is that move let’s pretend a long time where you had

let’s pretend a long time where you had

let’s pretend a long time where you had written and it wasn’t exactly yeah you

written and it wasn’t exactly yeah you

written and it wasn’t exactly yeah you know really the only things I directed

know really the only things I directed

know really the only things I directed that and written that all were episodes

that and written that all were episodes

that and written that all were episodes of the office and Glee because I love

of the office and Glee because I love

of the office and Glee because I love those shows and I knew the people who

those shows and I knew the people who

those shows and I knew the people who are doing them and I was going to say I

are doing them and I was going to say I

are doing them and I was going to say I had free time but I’m pretty sure I need

had free time but I’m pretty sure I need

had free time but I’m pretty sure I need my career is on those kids um but and I

my career is on those kids um but and I

my career is on those kids um but and I but something like The Avengers to being

but something like The Avengers to being

but something like The Avengers to being cast this whole universe huge history

cast this whole universe huge history

cast this whole universe huge history that I know and and it’s it’s all you

that I know and and it’s it’s all you

that I know and and it’s it’s all you know you if you can’t find your own way

know you if you can’t find your own way

know you if you can’t find your own way in then you just don’t do it the fact

in then you just don’t do it the fact

in then you just don’t do it the fact the matter is because I’ve been a script

the matter is because I’ve been a script

the matter is because I’ve been a script doctor to get the showrunner I was used

doctor to get the showrunner I was used

doctor to get the showrunner I was used to coming in with things were already

to coming in with things were already

to coming in with things were already said after the pilot up show everything

said after the pilot up show everything

said after the pilot up show everything a lot of works been done and you’re you

a lot of works been done and you’re you

a lot of works been done and you’re you know you’re interpreting what you got

know you’re interpreting what you got

know you’re interpreting what you got there when you come into the script

there when you come into the script

there when you come into the script doctor you know they’re like and then it

doctor you know they’re like and then it

doctor you know they’re like and then it goes into a plane I’m like I have a way

goes into a plane I’m like I have a way

goes into a plane I’m like I have a way better idea that we already bought the

better idea that we already bought the

better idea that we already bought the plane

plane

plane I’m kidding we worked Norfolk plains

I’m kidding we worked Norfolk plains

I’m kidding we worked Norfolk plains it’s good dinner so you know you just

it’s good dinner so you know you just

it’s good dinner so you know you just serve you have to pee now you find the

serve you have to pee now you find the

serve you have to pee now you find the heart of the thing you find your heart

heart of the thing you find your heart

heart of the thing you find your heart of the thing with marvel I said look I

of the thing with marvel I said look I

of the thing with marvel I said look I know what you want this is what I want I

know what you want this is what I want I

know what you want this is what I want I want make a war movie I want to make the

want make a war movie I want to make the

want make a war movie I want to make the Dirty Dozen I want to make Black Hawk

Dirty Dozen I want to make Black Hawk

Dirty Dozen I want to make Black Hawk Down I don’t want to make a squeaky

Down I don’t want to make a squeaky

Down I don’t want to make a squeaky clean perfect I want to take a toll on

clean perfect I want to take a toll on

clean perfect I want to take a toll on these guys and they’re like we get that

these guys and they’re like we get that

these guys and they’re like we get that we love it do it in the mighty Marvel

we love it do it in the mighty Marvel

we love it do it in the mighty Marvel Manor and everybody wins

Manor and everybody wins

Manor and everybody wins so we knew going in you know that I had

so we knew going in you know that I had

so we knew going in you know that I had my obsessions that they fit in that

my obsessions that they fit in that

my obsessions that they fit in that universe with this you know it’s a

universe with this you know it’s a

universe with this you know it’s a question of you know interpreting his

question of you know interpreting his

question of you know interpreting his work the way I would which is in a

work the way I would which is in a

work the way I would which is in a depressing fashion you know it’s it’s

depressing fashion you know it’s it’s

depressing fashion you know it’s it’s very easy to fall in love with something

very easy to fall in love with something

very easy to fall in love with something what the entire world is covered with

what the entire world is covered with

what the entire world is covered with water include me in and yes you can get

water include me in and yes you can get

water include me in and yes you can get heartbroken but but you have to start

heartbroken but but you have to start

heartbroken but but you have to start that way and the parameter is they

that way and the parameter is they

that way and the parameter is they always exist if you’re doing a genre if

always exist if you’re doing a genre if

always exist if you’re doing a genre if you’re doing you know it’s a comedy

you’re doing you know it’s a comedy

you’re doing you know it’s a comedy they must laugh already you know the

they must laugh already you know the

they must laugh already you know the page is not totally blank so how much of

page is not totally blank so how much of

page is not totally blank so how much of it is filled in it’s completely written

it is filled in it’s completely written

it is filled in it’s completely written like this whether it’s whether there are

like this whether it’s whether there are

like this whether it’s whether there are a lot of elements are set by the vendors

a lot of elements are set by the vendors

a lot of elements are set by the vendors or whether it’s a show that’s yours but

or whether it’s a show that’s yours but

or whether it’s a show that’s yours but it’s been on for four years you know you

it’s been on for four years you know you

it’s been on for four years you know you always have to find a new way in how do

always have to find a new way in how do

always have to find a new way in how do you go from like we’re big-budget

you go from like we’re big-budget

you go from like we’re big-budget Avengers to this 12-day scene in your

Avengers to this 12-day scene in your

Avengers to this 12-day scene in your home and so there’s there’s no

home and so there’s there’s no

home and so there’s there’s no difference between the big reveal some

difference between the big reveal some

difference between the big reveal some little ones for me you know you’re

little ones for me you know you’re

little ones for me you know you’re always fighting everybody’s schedule in

always fighting everybody’s schedule in

always fighting everybody’s schedule in this case because they’ll had day jobs

this case because they’ll had day jobs

this case because they’ll had day jobs in the other case because they’re all

in the other case because they’re all

in the other case because they’re all famous you’re always getting your set

famous you’re always getting your set

famous you’re always getting your set the last minute you’re always behind

the last minute you’re always behind

the last minute you’re always behind you’re always worried about the same

you’re always worried about the same

you’re always worried about the same things they’re always trying to

things they’re always trying to

things they’re always trying to communicate the same things shooting

communicate the same things shooting

communicate the same things shooting they’re shooting storytelling is

they’re shooting storytelling is

they’re shooting storytelling is storytelling if you’re not writing about

storytelling if you’re not writing about

storytelling if you’re not writing about yourself why are you writing for me if

yourself why are you writing for me if

yourself why are you writing for me if you’re not telling the story spinning

you’re not telling the story spinning

you’re not telling the story spinning the yarn is fine and there are some

the yarn is fine and there are some

the yarn is fine and there are some people who are great at it and they’re

people who are great at it and they’re

people who are great at it and they’re great at things that I’m not great at

great at things that I’m not great at

great at things that I’m not great at like you intricate heist plots and

like you intricate heist plots and

like you intricate heist plots and things that you know that are that I

things that you know that are that I

things that you know that are that I admire and envy

admire and envy

admire and envy but if you’re if you’re sitting down to

but if you’re if you’re sitting down to

but if you’re if you’re sitting down to write something or make something that’s

write something or make something that’s

write something or make something that’s going to take three years out of your

going to take three years out of your

going to take three years out of your life why would you not want to tell

life why would you not want to tell

life why would you not want to tell people something that’s important to you

people something that’s important to you

people something that’s important to you to say but I don’t mean immoral

to say but I don’t mean immoral

to say but I don’t mean immoral I just mean an examination of the human

I just mean an examination of the human

I just mean an examination of the human condition you want you want to be able

condition you want you want to be able

condition you want you want to be able to talk about the politics of

to talk about the politics of

to talk about the politics of personality and that’s something it took

personality and that’s something it took

personality and that’s something it took me a while to find I started to figure

me a while to find I started to figure

me a while to find I started to figure find it on Alien Resurrection which is

find it on Alien Resurrection which is

find it on Alien Resurrection which is the last thing I wrote before Buffy

the last thing I wrote before Buffy

the last thing I wrote before Buffy before the show and that was the first

before the show and that was the first

before the show and that was the first time I went oh this is a metaphor and

time I went oh this is a metaphor and

time I went oh this is a metaphor and the only way this works is if I feel the

the only way this works is if I feel the

the only way this works is if I feel the way she feels and that was sort of like

way she feels and that was sort of like

way she feels and that was sort of like the beginning of becoming a storyteller

the beginning of becoming a storyteller

the beginning of becoming a storyteller instead of a yarn spinner and to me if I

instead of a yarn spinner and to me if I

instead of a yarn spinner and to me if I can’t do that if I can’t make that

can’t do that if I can’t make that

can’t do that if I can’t make that connection then I’m wasting people’s

connection then I’m wasting people’s

connection then I’m wasting people’s time and as men much as I’m a look-back

time and as men much as I’m a look-back

time and as men much as I’m a look-back at anything I made go flawed love love

at anything I made go flawed love love

at anything I made go flawed love love love love embarrassing embarrassing I

love love embarrassing embarrassing I

love love embarrassing embarrassing I never feel like I did that I never feel

never feel like I did that I never feel

never feel like I did that I never feel like well I wasted somebody’s time

like well I wasted somebody’s time

like well I wasted somebody’s time that’s the that’s the biggest brag I’m

that’s the that’s the biggest brag I’m

that’s the that’s the biggest brag I’m going to give you

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