through all these experiences that you’ve had in the past couple of years
you’ve had in the past couple of years
you’ve had in the past couple of years is there something that sticks out to
is there something that sticks out to
is there something that sticks out to you that you that’s been a learning
you that you that’s been a learning
you that you that’s been a learning moment or a growing moment that’s just
moment or a growing moment that’s just
moment or a growing moment that’s just you know whether it’s an event or
you know whether it’s an event or
you know whether it’s an event or whether whether it’s just this thought
whether whether it’s just this thought
whether whether it’s just this thought that past your mind that that’s really
that past your mind that that’s really
that past your mind that that’s really stuck out to you is something formative
stuck out to you is something formative
stuck out to you is something formative and directing you to where you’re going
and directing you to where you’re going
and directing you to where you’re going now the two like super formative ones
now the two like super formative ones
now the two like super formative ones for me happen when I was 20 ish one was
for me happen when I was 20 ish one was
for me happen when I was 20 ish one was I was in Paris and I was a tourist and
I was in Paris and I was a tourist and
I was in Paris and I was a tourist and I’m sitting outside the Notre Dame
I’m sitting outside the Notre Dame
I’m sitting outside the Notre Dame Cathedral and I had my math I’m trying
Cathedral and I had my math I’m trying
Cathedral and I had my math I’m trying to figure out where I’m going next and
to figure out where I’m going next and
to figure out where I’m going next and by myself and this French girl comes up
by myself and this French girl comes up
by myself and this French girl comes up to me and asking for directions and I’m
to me and asking for directions and I’m
to me and asking for directions and I’m thinking why the French girl asking me
thinking why the French girl asking me
thinking why the French girl asking me for directions like it doesn’t really
for directions like it doesn’t really
for directions like it doesn’t really write like my should i should ask this
write like my should i should ask this
write like my should i should ask this girl ever I got it what sue she’s doing
girl ever I got it what sue she’s doing
girl ever I got it what sue she’s doing tonight or the coffee supplies i right
tonight or the coffee supplies i right
tonight or the coffee supplies i right and I chicken out right like I chicken
and I chicken out right like I chicken
and I chicken out right like I chicken out i’m worried about my french not
out i’m worried about my french not
out i’m worried about my french not being good enough or whatever whatever
being good enough or whatever whatever
being good enough or whatever whatever reason so she walks away and I’m pissed
reason so she walks away and I’m pissed
reason so she walks away and I’m pissed that I didn’t take my shot not that is
that I didn’t take my shot not that is
that I didn’t take my shot not that is like it would have been amazing but like
like it would have been amazing but like
like it would have been amazing but like not knowing is worse than the rejection
not knowing is worse than the rejection
not knowing is worse than the rejection and so I I tried to take her picture
and so I I tried to take her picture
and so I I tried to take her picture like I’m across the river I just walking
like I’m across the river I just walking
like I’m across the river I just walking by and she actually kind of walked
by and she actually kind of walked
by and she actually kind of walked behind the stall so then get her but as
behind the stall so then get her but as
behind the stall so then get her but as soon as I got home I like I put that on
soon as I got home I like I put that on
soon as I got home I like I put that on my wall I put that picture of my wall as
my wall I put that picture of my wall as
my wall I put that picture of my wall as a reminder to like the next time I’m
a reminder to like the next time I’m
a reminder to like the next time I’m afraid I just got to do it I just got to
afraid I just got to do it I just got to
afraid I just got to do it I just got to do it yes and figure it out because not
do it yes and figure it out because not
do it yes and figure it out because not knowing is worse than don’t even know
knowing is worse than don’t even know
knowing is worse than don’t even know like that short-term know is is okay
like that short-term know is is okay
like that short-term know is is okay compared to a lifetime of not knowing
compared to a lifetime of not knowing
compared to a lifetime of not knowing absolutely no I looked at that every day
absolutely no I looked at that every day
absolutely no I looked at that every day and I did not should tell the story to
and I did not should tell the story to
and I did not should tell the story to my friends people came over because
my friends people came over because
my friends people came over because again I was embarrassed in a shame they
again I was embarrassed in a shame they
again I was embarrassed in a shame they should see this beautiful French
should see this beautiful French
should see this beautiful French Riverside picture but like to me it’s
Riverside picture but like to me it’s
Riverside picture but like to me it’s like I missed my shot man should I like
like I missed my shot man should I like
like I missed my shot man should I like Eminem she got one shot one
Eminem she got one shot one
Eminem she got one shot one do you ever want it is not go until that
do you ever want it is not go until that
do you ever want it is not go until that date me because I said I wanted to be a
date me because I said I wanted to be a
date me because I said I wanted to be a banker and it’s money your books that
banker and it’s money your books that
banker and it’s money your books that I’m going to be a banker I had that
I’m going to be a banker I had that
I’m going to be a banker I had that opportunity when I make it 300 bucks a
opportunity when I make it 300 bucks a
opportunity when I make it 300 bucks a month in my company and just sucking
month in my company and just sucking
month in my company and just sucking right looks not making anything and I
right looks not making anything and I
right looks not making anything and I get these opportunities to work at
get these opportunities to work at
get these opportunities to work at Merrill Lynch and McKinsey Consulting
Merrill Lynch and McKinsey Consulting
Merrill Lynch and McKinsey Consulting you know 80 $100,000 starting salaries
you know 80 $100,000 starting salaries
you know 80 $100,000 starting salaries flying because in you are putting up in
flying because in you are putting up in
flying because in you are putting up in the waldorf-astoria like the whole deal
the waldorf-astoria like the whole deal
the waldorf-astoria like the whole deal wine is not like what I thought I wanted
wine is not like what I thought I wanted
wine is not like what I thought I wanted the jobs of my friends weren’t getting
the jobs of my friends weren’t getting
the jobs of my friends weren’t getting and it’s like what do I do do I take
and it’s like what do I do do I take
and it’s like what do I do do I take this crappy Calvin is not going anywhere
this crappy Calvin is not going anywhere
this crappy Calvin is not going anywhere or do it takes his dream job that I
or do it takes his dream job that I
or do it takes his dream job that I always wanted and I remembered the
always wanted and I remembered the
always wanted and I remembered the picture and what am I going to regret
picture and what am I going to regret
picture and what am I going to regret and I would regret not trying the
and I would regret not trying the
and I would regret not trying the company I could I could I’m used to like
company I could I could I’m used to like
company I could I could I’m used to like in a year I could get another job it may
in a year I could get another job it may
in a year I could get another job it may not be that job but it could be a
not be that job but it could be a
not be that job but it could be a similar job absolutely but I would know
similar job absolutely but I would know
similar job absolutely but I would know if I was just this company opportunity
if I was just this company opportunity
if I was just this company opportunity again so I had to go for it and I’m okay
again so I had to go for it and I’m okay
again so I had to go for it and I’m okay with it without working but I need to
with it without working but I need to
with it without working but I need to know because I don’t want to live the
know because I don’t want to live the
know because I don’t want to live the rest of my life not knowing that you
rest of my life not knowing that you
rest of my life not knowing that you know what I think even a little bit more
know what I think even a little bit more
know what I think even a little bit more on that thing right then maybe we’ll
on that thing right then maybe we’ll
on that thing right then maybe we’ll worked out and so like that failure in
worked out and so like that failure in
worked out and so like that failure in Paris with that girl and putting that
Paris with that girl and putting that
Paris with that girl and putting that picture up on the wall to remind myself
picture up on the wall to remind myself
picture up on the wall to remind myself with my failure that gave me the spark
with my failure that gave me the spark
with my failure that gave me the spark to then bet on myself the next time and
to then bet on myself the next time and
to then bet on myself the next time and just be okay and so that’s what all of
just be okay and so that’s what all of
just be okay and so that’s what all of my decisions are through always trying
my decisions are through always trying
my decisions are through always trying to minimize regret huh like what am I
to minimize regret huh like what am I
to minimize regret huh like what am I not going to regret and the fear of
not going to regret and the fear of
not going to regret and the fear of regret can help you push through the
regret can help you push through the
regret can help you push through the short-term fear whatever decision that
short-term fear whatever decision that
short-term fear whatever decision that you need to make short-term steamboat
you need to make short-term steamboat
you need to make short-term steamboat and then the other formative lesson was
and then the other formative lesson was
and then the other formative lesson was around the same time coming back
around the same time coming back
around the same time coming back trimming out how to make my business
trimming out how to make my business
trimming out how to make my business grow and I told my biz partner I quit
grow and I told my biz partner I quit
grow and I told my biz partner I quit and like worst day in my life I realized
and like worst day in my life I realized
and like worst day in my life I realized that I’m not the first got to try to
that I’m not the first got to try to
that I’m not the first got to try to sell software before and by modeling
sell software before and by modeling
sell software before and by modeling success if somebody else is already
success if somebody else is already
success if somebody else is already figured this out I don’t have to come
figured this out I don’t have to come
figured this out I don’t have to come with all the union’s myself and I looked
with all the union’s myself and I looked
with all the union’s myself and I looked at how Bill Gates stood at Microsoft 021
at how Bill Gates stood at Microsoft 021
at how Bill Gates stood at Microsoft 021 like not how he makes an extra million
like not how he makes an extra million
like not how he makes an extra million now but there were 21 how do you do that
now but there were 21 how do you do that
now but there were 21 how do you do that that’s what I want to do and i found
that’s what I want to do and i found
that’s what I want to do and i found this story and i researched it and i was
this story and i researched it and i was
this story and i researched it and i was making 300 bucks a month and within two
making 300 bucks a month and within two
making 300 bucks a month and within two months or so i made my first deal that
months or so i made my first deal that
months or so i made my first deal that was 13 and a half thousand dollars and
was 13 and a half thousand dollars and
was 13 and a half thousand dollars and that doesn’t sound like like a lot of
that doesn’t sound like like a lot of
that doesn’t sound like like a lot of bank but do for me that was
bank but do for me that was
bank but do for me that was san jose analogy i mounted the field
san jose analogy i mounted the field
san jose analogy i mounted the field okay what I’m more important than that
okay what I’m more important than that
okay what I’m more important than that like I had a model that I could repeat
like I had a model that I could repeat
like I had a model that I could repeat it so it’s not just a one-time deal i
it so it’s not just a one-time deal i
it so it’s not just a one-time deal i could sell it again and again and again
could sell it again and again and again
could sell it again and again and again and so that idea the first ones like
and so that idea the first ones like
and so that idea the first ones like living with no regrets tried as much as
living with no regrets tried as much as
living with no regrets tried as much as possible and then to whenever I’m faced
possible and then to whenever I’m faced
possible and then to whenever I’m faced with the problem I don’t know what to do
with the problem I don’t know what to do
with the problem I don’t know what to do I try to model success find someone
I try to model success find someone
I try to model success find someone who’s already done it and what can I
who’s already done it and what can I
who’s already done it and what can I learn from thats quiet like what am i
learn from thats quiet like what am i
learn from thats quiet like what am i doing in my youtube channel it’s just
doing in my youtube channel it’s just
doing in my youtube channel it’s just mall and success to just finding people
mall and success to just finding people
mall and success to just finding people who’ve done great things and a selfish
who’ve done great things and a selfish
who’ve done great things and a selfish for me but i would do the youtube
for me but i would do the youtube
for me but i would do the youtube channel even if you guys didn’t like it
channel even if you guys didn’t like it
channel even if you guys didn’t like it for me like it’s my growth in my
for me like it’s my growth in my
for me like it’s my growth in my development I want to learn from Kobe
development I want to learn from Kobe
development I want to learn from Kobe and you know all these guys that we put
and you know all these guys that we put
and you know all these guys that we put up on the channel so i’m fortunate i
up on the channel so i’m fortunate i
up on the channel so i’m fortunate i guess the surround myself with that
guess the surround myself with that
guess the surround myself with that daily thank you guys so much for
daily thank you guys so much for
daily thank you guys so much for watching thank you to the guide some v
watching thank you to the guide some v
watching thank you to the guide some v and our media for the awesome interview
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love to know what did you think what are
love to know what did you think what are your thoughts leave them in the comments
your thoughts leave them in the comments
your thoughts leave them in the comments below I’m super curious to find out
below I’m super curious to find out
below I’m super curious to find out finally I want to give a quick shout out
finally I want to give a quick shout out
finally I want to give a quick shout out to Cassie more casting thank you so much
to Cassie more casting thank you so much
to Cassie more casting thank you so much for picking up the top of my book your
for picking up the top of my book your
for picking up the top of my book your one word it really really really means a
one word it really really really means a
one word it really really really means a lot to me and I hope you’re enjoying
lot to me and I hope you’re enjoying
lot to me and I hope you’re enjoying reading it thank you guys again for
reading it thank you guys again for
reading it thank you guys again for watching I believe in you I hope you
watching I believe in you I hope you
watching I believe in you I hope you continue to believe in yourself and
continue to believe in yourself and
continue to believe in yourself and whatever your one where it is much love
whatever your one where it is much love
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