why are you here that’s what I want to talk about today we got a look at what
talk about today we got a look at what
talk about today we got a look at what makes you really do what you do
makes you really do what you do
makes you really do what you do everything on earth has a purpose and
everything on earth has a purpose and
everything on earth has a purpose and you do to that purpose provides an inner
you do to that purpose provides an inner
you do to that purpose provides an inner drive that once you tap into it can give
drive that once you tap into it can give
drive that once you tap into it can give your life immense fulfillment it’ll also
your life immense fulfillment it’ll also
your life immense fulfillment it’ll also give you certainty cuz you know right
give you certainty cuz you know right
give you certainty cuz you know right now what a world that’s changing so
now what a world that’s changing so
now what a world that’s changing so rapidly that virtually every time you
rapidly that virtually every time you
rapidly that virtually every time you turn around you hear about something
turn around you hear about something
turn around you hear about something else that’s changing and I personally
else that’s changing and I personally
else that’s changing and I personally get to deal with hundreds of thousands
get to deal with hundreds of thousands
get to deal with hundreds of thousands of people per year I see about 250 to
of people per year I see about 250 to
of people per year I see about 250 to 300 thousand people a year in my live
300 thousand people a year in my live
300 thousand people a year in my live programs and I hear so much excitement
programs and I hear so much excitement
programs and I hear so much excitement there’s so much fear about the pace of
there’s so much fear about the pace of
there’s so much fear about the pace of change I mean we’ve all talked about
change I mean we’ve all talked about
change I mean we’ve all talked about changes happening so rapidly now in
changes happening so rapidly now in
changes happening so rapidly now in paradigm shifts all that stuff has
paradigm shifts all that stuff has
paradigm shifts all that stuff has become so overused at this point that we
become so overused at this point that we
become so overused at this point that we become numb to it but it’s true never in
become numb to it but it’s true never in
become numb to it but it’s true never in the history of the world of things
the history of the world of things
the history of the world of things changed so rapidly so you need to find
changed so rapidly so you need to find
changed so rapidly so you need to find something that’s eternal inside of
something that’s eternal inside of
something that’s eternal inside of yourself that no matter what changes on
yourself that no matter what changes on
yourself that no matter what changes on the surface this part of you does not
the surface this part of you does not
the surface this part of you does not change it’s the part you come back to
change it’s the part you come back to
change it’s the part you come back to the part that guides you the part that
the part that guides you the part that
the part that guides you the part that really makes you fulfilled
really makes you fulfilled
really makes you fulfilled and that’s your purpose because all of a
and that’s your purpose because all of a
and that’s your purpose because all of a sudden when you find out a friend’s got
sudden when you find out a friend’s got
sudden when you find out a friend’s got cancer or you turn around and you see
cancer or you turn around and you see
cancer or you turn around and you see that 35,000 people IBM got laid off or
that 35,000 people IBM got laid off or
that 35,000 people IBM got laid off or an entire industry disappeared overnight
an entire industry disappeared overnight
an entire industry disappeared overnight because a new one was created it’ll give
because a new one was created it’ll give
because a new one was created it’ll give you a way to find some good and
you a way to find some good and
you a way to find some good and virtually anything your purpose is
virtually anything your purpose is
virtually anything your purpose is available to you at any moment of your
available to you at any moment of your
available to you at any moment of your life but you got to know what it is
life but you got to know what it is
life but you got to know what it is before we get into it let me back up a
before we get into it let me back up a
before we get into it let me back up a little bit here okay I have a good
little bit here okay I have a good
little bit here okay I have a good friend is one of the most successful
friend is one of the most successful
friend is one of the most successful financial people in the country he works
financial people in the country he works
financial people in the country he works in all these financial markets he’s an
in all these financial markets he’s an
in all these financial markets he’s an incredibly successful businessman and I
incredibly successful businessman and I
incredibly successful businessman and I know he’s working very hard right now on
know he’s working very hard right now on
know he’s working very hard right now on a goal and I went to visit him recently
a goal and I went to visit him recently
a goal and I went to visit him recently and boy he’s working hard he’s gonna
and boy he’s working hard he’s gonna
and boy he’s working hard he’s gonna achieve that goal but you know when the
achieve that goal but you know when the
achieve that goal but you know when the goal is finally there then he’s gonna be
goal is finally there then he’s gonna be
goal is finally there then he’s gonna be happy I thought no no no no you know
happy I thought no no no no you know
happy I thought no no no no you know each moment we’ve got to be able to find
each moment we’ve got to be able to find
each moment we’ve got to be able to find some sense of meaning for our life
some sense of meaning for our life
some sense of meaning for our life something that a significant something
something that a significant something
something that a significant something is useful and we all know this is not a
is useful and we all know this is not a
is useful and we all know this is not a new conversation but as your coach and
new conversation but as your coach and
new conversation but as your coach and as your friend in these tapes I’d like
as your friend in these tapes I’d like
as your friend in these tapes I’d like to draw your attention to some things
to draw your attention to some things
to draw your attention to some things that maybe you already know but haven’t
that maybe you already know but haven’t
that maybe you already know but haven’t thought about for a while maybe get you
thought about for a while maybe get you
thought about for a while maybe get you to put some of your focus into the most
to put some of your focus into the most
to put some of your focus into the most important area life which is enhancing
important area life which is enhancing
important area life which is enhancing meaning see all of us in life have to
meaning see all of us in life have to
meaning see all of us in life have to have a reason to be here if all you’re
have a reason to be here if all you’re
have a reason to be here if all you’re doing out there is going out and trying
doing out there is going out and trying
doing out there is going out and trying to achieve goals and then you achieve
to achieve goals and then you achieve
to achieve goals and then you achieve them that I’m sure you’ve run into that
them that I’m sure you’ve run into that
them that I’m sure you’ve run into that trip up wire that says okay I’ve
trip up wire that says okay I’ve
trip up wire that says okay I’ve achieved the goal now what right we
achieved the goal now what right we
achieved the goal now what right we achieve the goal and your brain says is
achieve the goal and your brain says is
achieve the goal and your brain says is this all there is see the purpose of a
this all there is see the purpose of a
this all there is see the purpose of a goal is I’ve shared with you so many
goal is I’ve shared with you so many
goal is I’ve shared with you so many times is not to achieve the goal the
times is not to achieve the goal the
times is not to achieve the goal the purpose of the goal is what it makes of
purpose of the goal is what it makes of
purpose of the goal is what it makes of us as people who we become
us as people who we become
us as people who we become ultimately with all we have to have a
ultimately with all we have to have a
ultimately with all we have to have a sense but who we even have become as
sense but who we even have become as
sense but who we even have become as some kind of meaning without that
some kind of meaning without that
some kind of meaning without that there’s not a reason to live it’s not a
there’s not a reason to live it’s not a
there’s not a reason to live it’s not a reason to get up there’s not a reason to
reason to get up there’s not a reason to
reason to get up there’s not a reason to go out there and make it happen what’s
go out there and make it happen what’s
go out there and make it happen what’s really controlling this man’s life is
really controlling this man’s life is
really controlling this man’s life is fear when people say they’re cynical or
fear when people say they’re cynical or
fear when people say they’re cynical or they’re pessimistic what they’re really
they’re pessimistic what they’re really
they’re pessimistic what they’re really screaming out to you is I’m scared out
screaming out to you is I’m scared out
screaming out to you is I’m scared out of my mind I’m afraid to dream again I’m
of my mind I’m afraid to dream again I’m
of my mind I’m afraid to dream again I’m afraid to think about what’s possible
afraid to think about what’s possible
afraid to think about what’s possible I’m afraid to really put myself on the
I’m afraid to really put myself on the
I’m afraid to really put myself on the line and say I’m gonna go for something
line and say I’m gonna go for something
line and say I’m gonna go for something I’m gonna stand for something I’m gonna
I’m gonna stand for something I’m gonna
I’m gonna stand for something I’m gonna put myself in line in a relationship or
put myself in line in a relationship or
put myself in line in a relationship or my business or my vision to make a
my business or my vision to make a
my business or my vision to make a difference in the world because you know
difference in the world because you know
difference in the world because you know what maybe at one time this person did
what maybe at one time this person did
what maybe at one time this person did that maybe they tried it several times
that maybe they tried it several times
that maybe they tried it several times and it didn’t work and they got pain and
and it didn’t work and they got pain and
and it didn’t work and they got pain and pain and pain but he said they didn’t
pain and pain but he said they didn’t
pain and pain but he said they didn’t want the pain so they stopped dreaming
want the pain so they stopped dreaming
want the pain so they stopped dreaming he stopped and visioning he stopped
he stopped and visioning he stopped
he stopped and visioning he stopped coming up with meaning instead they try
coming up with meaning instead they try
coming up with meaning instead they try to keep themself away from the pain by
to keep themself away from the pain by
to keep themself away from the pain by saying well there’s no meaning at all
saying well there’s no meaning at all
saying well there’s no meaning at all anyway but unfortunately that gives you
anyway but unfortunately that gives you
anyway but unfortunately that gives you the ultimate pain cuz it gives you a
the ultimate pain cuz it gives you a
the ultimate pain cuz it gives you a life without meaning and no one can live
life without meaning and no one can live
life without meaning and no one can live a life that’s fulfilled without a sense
a life that’s fulfilled without a sense
a life that’s fulfilled without a sense of meaning see we’ve been put here for a
of meaning see we’ve been put here for a
of meaning see we’ve been put here for a reason
reason
reason question is why and the answer I think
question is why and the answer I think
question is why and the answer I think is different for every one of us it’s
is different for every one of us it’s
is different for every one of us it’s different for me than it is for you and
different for me than it is for you and
different for me than it is for you and yet it’s the same every one of us has
yet it’s the same every one of us has
yet it’s the same every one of us has been put here every one of us is unique
been put here every one of us is unique
been put here every one of us is unique and different and special and I believe
and different and special and I believe
and different and special and I believe our Creator if I’m gonna use the word
our Creator if I’m gonna use the word
our Creator if I’m gonna use the word God if I’m a God has put you here for a
God if I’m a God has put you here for a
God if I’m a God has put you here for a reason
reason
reason questions what is it God does not create
questions what is it God does not create
questions what is it God does not create things without a purpose everything on
things without a purpose everything on
things without a purpose everything on earth serves the purpose why are you
earth serves the purpose why are you
earth serves the purpose why are you here what are you here to do what are
here what are you here to do what are
here what are you here to do what are you here to become to create and to give
you here to become to create and to give
you here to become to create and to give these are some of the most significant
these are some of the most significant
these are some of the most significant questions that you can answer in your
questions that you can answer in your
questions that you can answer in your life and even when you answer them I’m
life and even when you answer them I’m
life and even when you answer them I’m sure that as your life expands you’ll
sure that as your life expands you’ll
sure that as your life expands you’ll come up with better answers as you get
come up with better answers as you get
come up with better answers as you get more experience and you get closer in
more experience and you get closer in
more experience and you get closer in touch with your own innermost being and
touch with your own innermost being and
touch with your own innermost being and maybe your closer in touch with your
maybe your closer in touch with your
maybe your closer in touch with your Creator as well so Tony where are you
Creator as well so Tony where are you
Creator as well so Tony where are you going with this I’m really going to the
going with this I’m really going to the
going with this I’m really going to the essence of giving your life what you
essence of giving your life what you
essence of giving your life what you deserve which is knowing that there are
deserve which is knowing that there are
deserve which is knowing that there are no mistakes knowing that every little
no mistakes knowing that every little
no mistakes knowing that every little thing you do has a consequence it can be
thing you do has a consequence it can be
thing you do has a consequence it can be a positive consequence
a positive consequence
a positive consequence if you choose it the most powerful thing
if you choose it the most powerful thing
if you choose it the most powerful thing that has consequence in your life though
that has consequence in your life though
that has consequence in your life though is the thing we talk about so often but
is the thing we talk about so often but
is the thing we talk about so often but I gotta say it again and that is what’s
I gotta say it again and that is what’s
I gotta say it again and that is what’s really ultimately shaping our lives our
really ultimately shaping our lives our
really ultimately shaping our lives our decisions the first decision is a
decisions the first decision is a
decisions the first decision is a decision about what to focus on where
decision about what to focus on where
decision about what to focus on where your focus goes can determine how you
your focus goes can determine how you
your focus goes can determine how you think how you feel what you do
think how you feel what you do
think how you feel what you do ultimately what your life turns out like
ultimately what your life turns out like
ultimately what your life turns out like what you’re able to contribute the
what you’re able to contribute the
what you’re able to contribute the bottom line is we must find an
bottom line is we must find an
bottom line is we must find an empowering focus out of any situation
empowering focus out of any situation
empowering focus out of any situation the second decision that shapes our life
the second decision that shapes our life
the second decision that shapes our life and the meaning of our lives are the
and the meaning of our lives are the
and the meaning of our lives are the decisions that we make about what
decisions that we make about what
decisions that we make about what something means meaning as ultimately
something means meaning as ultimately
something means meaning as ultimately something we determine that’s the
something we determine that’s the
something we determine that’s the exciting part about it and that’s the
exciting part about it and that’s the
exciting part about it and that’s the scary part about it the third decision
scary part about it the third decision
scary part about it the third decision of course is what are you going to do
of course is what are you going to do
of course is what are you going to do when something happens see so much of
when something happens see so much of
when something happens see so much of the fear that we see in life comes from
the fear that we see in life comes from
the fear that we see in life comes from the fact that most of us don’t feel like
the fact that most of us don’t feel like
the fact that most of us don’t feel like we’re in control we’re running around
we’re in control we’re running around
we’re in control we’re running around trying to control all the events of our
trying to control all the events of our
trying to control all the events of our lives and every single one of us is
lives and every single one of us is
lives and every single one of us is going to experience multiple situations
going to experience multiple situations
going to experience multiple situations in our life that no matter how skillful
in our life that no matter how skillful
in our life that no matter how skillful we are what we cannot control the event
we are what we cannot control the event
we are what we cannot control the event well it’s just not something that we can
well it’s just not something that we can
well it’s just not something that we can control because we didn’t initiate it
control because we didn’t initiate it
control because we didn’t initiate it anytime you’re dealing with other people
anytime you’re dealing with other people
anytime you’re dealing with other people this is gonna happen anytime you’re
this is gonna happen anytime you’re
this is gonna happen anytime you’re dealing with mother nature this is gonna
dealing with mother nature this is gonna
dealing with mother nature this is gonna happen
happen
happen most of us in life are so afraid
most of us in life are so afraid
most of us in life are so afraid something’s gonna happen that we can’t
something’s gonna happen that we can’t
something’s gonna happen that we can’t control therefore we’re gonna get pain
control therefore we’re gonna get pain
control therefore we’re gonna get pain that we try to avoid those things we
that we try to avoid those things we
that we try to avoid those things we can’t control we’re trying to shape our
can’t control we’re trying to shape our
can’t control we’re trying to shape our lives where we spend our time who we
lives where we spend our time who we
lives where we spend our time who we spend our time with what we do by
spend our time with what we do by
spend our time with what we do by environments that we feel really
environments that we feel really
environments that we feel really comfortable in when we feel like we’re
comfortable in when we feel like we’re
comfortable in when we feel like we’re really controlling them but what that
really controlling them but what that
really controlling them but what that does is it limits the shape and quality
does is it limits the shape and quality
does is it limits the shape and quality of our lives we’ve got to do want to put
of our lives we’ve got to do want to put
of our lives we’ve got to do want to put ourselves out there to discover what
ourselves out there to discover what
ourselves out there to discover what we’re really capable of or put in
we’re really capable of or put in
we’re really capable of or put in environments when we don’t know what to
environments when we don’t know what to
environments when we don’t know what to do we don’t know what things mean we’re
do we don’t know what things mean we’re
do we don’t know what things mean we’re not sure it’s in those environments that
not sure it’s in those environments that
not sure it’s in those environments that grow the most it’s in those environments
grow the most it’s in those environments
grow the most it’s in those environments that we discover more of our true
that we discover more of our true
that we discover more of our true purpose as human beings it’s there that
purpose as human beings it’s there that
purpose as human beings it’s there that our character is shaped you know so many
our character is shaped you know so many
our character is shaped you know so many times we set goals or we have dreams or
times we set goals or we have dreams or
times we set goals or we have dreams or we have plans and we work our tail off
we have plans and we work our tail off
we have plans and we work our tail off and it doesn’t come out the way we want
and it doesn’t come out the way we want
and it doesn’t come out the way we want a lot of people come out of those
a lot of people come out of those
a lot of people come out of those situations disillusioned or angry or
situations disillusioned or angry or
situations disillusioned or angry or resentful or frustrated they look for
resentful or frustrated they look for
resentful or frustrated they look for someone to blame but you know sometimes
someone to blame but you know sometimes
someone to blame but you know sometimes I really truly believe that not getting
I really truly believe that not getting
I really truly believe that not getting your goal as part of the design part of
your goal as part of the design part of
your goal as part of the design part of the game plan causing you to dig inside
the game plan causing you to dig inside
the game plan causing you to dig inside and discover more of yourself to really
and discover more of yourself to really
and discover more of yourself to really begin to use your real capacity as human
begin to use your real capacity as human
begin to use your real capacity as human being those traits that are within you
being those traits that are within you
being those traits that are within you that only expand when they’re challenged
that only expand when they’re challenged
that only expand when they’re challenged when demands are made upon them
when demands are made upon them
when demands are made upon them you know I truly believe that God is not
you know I truly believe that God is not
you know I truly believe that God is not so much interested in our convenience
so much interested in our convenience
so much interested in our convenience as he isn’t our character you know and I
as he isn’t our character you know and I
as he isn’t our character you know and I also believe that because something
also believe that because something
also believe that because something hasn’t happened right away when you
hasn’t happened right away when you
hasn’t happened right away when you wanted it and designed it didn’t work
wanted it and designed it didn’t work
wanted it and designed it didn’t work out doesn’t mean it’s not gonna happen
out doesn’t mean it’s not gonna happen
out doesn’t mean it’s not gonna happen it’s really a test of how committed are
it’s really a test of how committed are
it’s really a test of how committed are you it’s really a test designed to make
you it’s really a test designed to make
you it’s really a test designed to make you become more gods delays are not
you become more gods delays are not
you become more gods delays are not God’s denials unless you give up of
God’s denials unless you give up of
God’s denials unless you give up of course if you don’t do your part then of
course if you don’t do your part then of
course if you don’t do your part then of course whatever you’ve envisioned will
course whatever you’ve envisioned will
course whatever you’ve envisioned will never come to be but we have to be
never come to be but we have to be
never come to be but we have to be willing to continue to put ourselves
willing to continue to put ourselves
willing to continue to put ourselves forth and know that events will show up
forth and know that events will show up
forth and know that events will show up that we can’t control so let me ask you
that we can’t control so let me ask you
that we can’t control so let me ask you a question you go okay I understand all
a question you go okay I understand all
a question you go okay I understand all this Tony but how do you ever have a
this Tony but how do you ever have a
this Tony but how do you ever have a sense of certainty in a world that’s
sense of certainty in a world that’s
sense of certainty in a world that’s changing all the time well you set goals
changing all the time well you set goals
changing all the time well you set goals you do all the right things and still
you do all the right things and still
you do all the right things and still doesn’t always turn out right how do you
doesn’t always turn out right how do you
doesn’t always turn out right how do you live in a world where suddenly something
live in a world where suddenly something
live in a world where suddenly something can happen it can take away your whole
can happen it can take away your whole
can happen it can take away your whole business or you know storm could come
business or you know storm could come
business or you know storm could come and take away your home or or some
and take away your home or or some
and take away your home or or some calamity could happen to your personal
calamity could happen to your personal
calamity could happen to your personal family or a disease could hit or or
family or a disease could hit or or
family or a disease could hit or or someone could die how do you deal with
someone could die how do you deal with
someone could die how do you deal with all that and the answer is you have to
all that and the answer is you have to
all that and the answer is you have to know the one thing you can control is
know the one thing you can control is
know the one thing you can control is not events where you control is what
not events where you control is what
not events where you control is what things mean to you and therein comes the
things mean to you and therein comes the
things mean to you and therein comes the secret to life because no matter what
secret to life because no matter what
secret to life because no matter what happens in your life the meaning of what
happens in your life the meaning of what
happens in your life the meaning of what has happened is yours
has happened is yours
has happened is yours you get to determine it as long as
you get to determine it as long as
you get to determine it as long as you’re conscious and you don’t allow the
you’re conscious and you don’t allow the
you’re conscious and you don’t allow the people around you to teach you what to
people around you to teach you what to
people around you to teach you what to think and as long as you don’t just go
think and as long as you don’t just go
think and as long as you don’t just go on
on
on pilot and allow your nervous system to
pilot and allow your nervous system to
pilot and allow your nervous system to make up connections that are false let
make up connections that are false let
make up connections that are false let me give an example of what happens to
me give an example of what happens to
me give an example of what happens to people certainly by now you realize that
people certainly by now you realize that
people certainly by now you realize that what you do is human being is primarily
what you do is human being is primarily
what you do is human being is primarily driven by your need to avoid pain your
driven by your need to avoid pain your
driven by your need to avoid pain your desire for pleasure right but see all of
desire for pleasure right but see all of
desire for pleasure right but see all of us have learned through life certain
us have learned through life certain
us have learned through life certain things mean more pain than others and so
things mean more pain than others and so
things mean more pain than others and so some people are driven by their fear
some people are driven by their fear
some people are driven by their fear right to experience the emotion of fear
right to experience the emotion of fear
right to experience the emotion of fear is the most incredible painful thing
is the most incredible painful thing
is the most incredible painful thing they could ever imagine so they’ll do
they could ever imagine so they’ll do
they could ever imagine so they’ll do anything to avoid being in a fearful
anything to avoid being in a fearful
anything to avoid being in a fearful situation other people are driven by
situation other people are driven by
situation other people are driven by their desire to feel the sense of
their desire to feel the sense of
their desire to feel the sense of adventure
adventure
adventure obviously they make decisions
obviously they make decisions
obviously they make decisions differently they focus on different
differently they focus on different
differently they focus on different things in life they can walk in the same
things in life they can walk in the same
things in life they can walk in the same room as someone who lives in fear and
room as someone who lives in fear and
room as someone who lives in fear and they’re gonna notice different things
they’re gonna notice different things
they’re gonna notice different things they’re gonna want to sit in a different
they’re gonna want to sit in a different
they’re gonna want to sit in a different place they’re gonna want to try a
place they’re gonna want to try a
place they’re gonna want to try a different kind of vacation than someone
different kind of vacation than someone
different kind of vacation than someone who’s trying to focus on how to be
who’s trying to focus on how to be
who’s trying to focus on how to be secure what drives you are you driven by
secure what drives you are you driven by
secure what drives you are you driven by guilt are you driven by your past when
guilt are you driven by your past when
guilt are you driven by your past when we would use the word driven the word
we would use the word driven the word
we would use the word driven the word drive it really means to guide to
drive it really means to guide to
drive it really means to guide to control or to direct something so what’s
control or to direct something so what’s
control or to direct something so what’s guiding you what’s controlling you
guiding you what’s controlling you
guiding you what’s controlling you what’s directing your behavior what’s
what’s directing your behavior what’s
what’s directing your behavior what’s directing your focus what’s directing
directing your focus what’s directing
directing your focus what’s directing the meaning you’re pulling from your
the meaning you’re pulling from your
the meaning you’re pulling from your life what is it is it your parents is it
life what is it is it your parents is it
life what is it is it your parents is it the competition you have with somebody
the competition you have with somebody
the competition you have with somebody else is it wanted to prove somebody
else is it wanted to prove somebody
else is it wanted to prove somebody wrong is it your desire to contribute is
wrong is it your desire to contribute is
wrong is it your desire to contribute is it your desire for joy or happiness or
it your desire for joy or happiness or
it your desire for joy or happiness or is it a sense of purpose that’s driving
is it a sense of purpose that’s driving
is it a sense of purpose that’s driving you a sense there’s something out there
you a sense there’s something out there
you a sense there’s something out there for you to do something you’re designed
for you to do something you’re designed
for you to do something you’re designed to evolve into to become to share to
to evolve into to become to share to
to evolve into to become to share to give to create you don’t even know what
give to create you don’t even know what
give to create you don’t even know what it is but you’re willing to trust that
it is but you’re willing to trust that
it is but you’re willing to trust that each day more that’s gonna come out see
each day more that’s gonna come out see
each day more that’s gonna come out see whatever drives you that’s what’s
whatever drives you that’s what’s
whatever drives you that’s what’s shaping your life and the challenges
shaping your life and the challenges
shaping your life and the challenges that most of us never consciously decide
that most of us never consciously decide
that most of us never consciously decide what we’re gonna have drive our life see
what we’re gonna have drive our life see
what we’re gonna have drive our life see we’re not stimulus-response animals but
we’re not stimulus-response animals but
we’re not stimulus-response animals but we can beast their musics response to
we can beast their musics response to
we can beast their musics response to animals
animals
animals our nervous systems are designed to help
our nervous systems are designed to help
our nervous systems are designed to help us they’re designed to be a source of
us they’re designed to be a source of
us they’re designed to be a source of decision-making they’re designed to help
decision-making they’re designed to help
decision-making they’re designed to help us very quickly when you have an
us very quickly when you have an
us very quickly when you have an experienced figure out what is the
experienced figure out what is the
experienced figure out what is the source of that pain so we can avoid it
source of that pain so we can avoid it
source of that pain so we can avoid it in the future what is that source of
in the future what is that source of
in the future what is that source of that pleasure so we can have more of it
that pleasure so we can have more of it
that pleasure so we can have more of it in the future
in the future
in the future but when we don’t think things through
but when we don’t think things through
but when we don’t think things through when we don’t think things through in an
when we don’t think things through in an
when we don’t think things through in an empowering way we don’t have faith that
empowering way we don’t have faith that
empowering way we don’t have faith that there’s a higher meaning we tend to
there’s a higher meaning we tend to
there’s a higher meaning we tend to settle like animals for the lowest
settle like animals for the lowest
settle like animals for the lowest meaning that we can find well this is
meaning that we can find well this is
meaning that we can find well this is happening because I’m a bad person this
happening because I’m a bad person this
happening because I’m a bad person this is happening because there’s something
is happening because there’s something
is happening because there’s something wrong with me this is happening because
wrong with me this is happening because
wrong with me this is happening because I’m just destined to fail or worse very
I’m just destined to fail or worse very
I’m just destined to fail or worse very often in life we don’t even consciously
often in life we don’t even consciously
often in life we don’t even consciously think things through our nervous system
think things through our nervous system
think things through our nervous system just makes quick decisions hey every
just makes quick decisions hey every
just makes quick decisions hey every moment you’re alive whatever you have a
moment you’re alive whatever you have a
moment you’re alive whatever you have a significant amount of pain your brain
significant amount of pain your brain
significant amount of pain your brain says hey what is the source of this pain
says hey what is the source of this pain
says hey what is the source of this pain and it uses three criteria I’m sure you
and it uses three criteria I’m sure you
and it uses three criteria I’m sure you remember to determine what the source of
remember to determine what the source of
remember to determine what the source of your pain is it looks for something that
your pain is it looks for something that
your pain is it looks for something that is happening about the same time you’re
is happening about the same time you’re
is happening about the same time you’re having the pain that is unique because
having the pain that is unique because
having the pain that is unique because after all you weren’t feeling pain a
after all you weren’t feeling pain a
after all you weren’t feeling pain a moment ago you got pain now what’s
moment ago you got pain now what’s
moment ago you got pain now what’s unique about this situation it looks for
unique about this situation it looks for
unique about this situation it looks for something that is recent something’s
something that is recent something’s
something that is recent something’s happening about the same time you have
happening about the same time you have
happening about the same time you have the pain and it also looks for something
the pain and it also looks for something
the pain and it also looks for something that is consistent something that
that is consistent something that
that is consistent something that whenever you have had pain in the past
whenever you have had pain in the past
whenever you have had pain in the past this has also been a factor in that
this has also been a factor in that
this has also been a factor in that situation let me tell you how these
situation let me tell you how these
situation let me tell you how these three criteria can help you you go out
three criteria can help you you go out
three criteria can help you you go out one day when you’re a child and you
one day when you’re a child and you
one day when you’re a child and you touch a hot stove you feel some pain you
touch a hot stove you feel some pain you
touch a hot stove you feel some pain you pull it back your brain says okay what
pull it back your brain says okay what
pull it back your brain says okay what was unique to that moment that gave me
was unique to that moment that gave me
was unique to that moment that gave me the pain he looks around us inside this
the pain he looks around us inside this
the pain he looks around us inside this burner right and says what was happening
burner right and says what was happening
burner right and says what was happening about the same time I felt the pain I
about the same time I felt the pain I
about the same time I felt the pain I was touching this burner and what’s
was touching this burner and what’s
was touching this burner and what’s consistent about it well maybe nothing
consistent about it well maybe nothing
consistent about it well maybe nothing until you do it again after doing it two
until you do it again after doing it two
until you do it again after doing it two or three times or maybe one time does it
or three times or maybe one time does it
or three times or maybe one time does it hurt enough maybe one time is consistent
hurt enough maybe one time is consistent
hurt enough maybe one time is consistent it’s like when somebody says to you
it’s like when somebody says to you
it’s like when somebody says to you always do that you know I don’t always
always do that you know I don’t always
always do that you know I don’t always do that yes you do you always do it
do that yes you do you always do it
do that yes you do you always do it I’ve done it one time yeah but well
I’ve done it one time yeah but well
I’ve done it one time yeah but well that’s always what human beings can make
that’s always what human beings can make
that’s always what human beings can make one time consistent if it’s painful
one time consistent if it’s painful
one time consistent if it’s painful enough so the bottom line is what do you
enough so the bottom line is what do you
enough so the bottom line is what do you learn you’re nervous doesn’t learns you
learn you’re nervous doesn’t learns you
learn you’re nervous doesn’t learns you don’t
don’t
don’t we’re out burners right you just don’t
we’re out burners right you just don’t
we’re out burners right you just don’t do that and some of the future when
do that and some of the future when
do that and some of the future when you’re trying to make a decision about
you’re trying to make a decision about
you’re trying to make a decision about what to focus on what things mean and
what to focus on what things mean and
what to focus on what things mean and what to do and you’re going buy a burner
what to do and you’re going buy a burner
what to do and you’re going buy a burner one of the options is not to go grab
one of the options is not to go grab
one of the options is not to go grab that baby just for fun so as basic as
that baby just for fun so as basic as
that baby just for fun so as basic as this lesson is we feel to realize that
this lesson is we feel to realize that
this lesson is we feel to realize that this simple system that assists us so
this simple system that assists us so
this simple system that assists us so much and making decisions because it
much and making decisions because it
much and making decisions because it helps us discover what is the source of
helps us discover what is the source of
helps us discover what is the source of our pain or our pleasure so we can avoid
our pain or our pleasure so we can avoid
our pain or our pleasure so we can avoid the pain gain the pleasure in the future
the pain gain the pleasure in the future
the pain gain the pleasure in the future this simple system can be misguided or
this simple system can be misguided or
this simple system can be misguided or misinterpret information see here’s how
misinterpret information see here’s how
misinterpret information see here’s how it works so give me an example is doing
it works so give me an example is doing
it works so give me an example is doing a date with destiny only a couple
a date with destiny only a couple
a date with destiny only a couple weekends ago um several people are
weekends ago um several people are
weekends ago um several people are having major challenges in their life
having major challenges in their life
having major challenges in their life and one lady just couldn’t get herself
and one lady just couldn’t get herself
and one lady just couldn’t get herself to really have any meaning in her life
to really have any meaning in her life
to really have any meaning in her life and as I kept digging digging digging
and as I kept digging digging digging
and as I kept digging digging digging the real problem that she had is he felt
the real problem that she had is he felt
the real problem that she had is he felt lonely because she felt disconnected
lonely because she felt disconnected
lonely because she felt disconnected because she wanted to have someone she
because she wanted to have someone she
because she wanted to have someone she could share her life with but she
could share her life with but she
could share her life with but she couldn’t get herself to do that why
couldn’t get herself to do that why
couldn’t get herself to do that why would you guess someone couldn’t get
would you guess someone couldn’t get
would you guess someone couldn’t get themself to be able to share their life
themself to be able to share their life
themself to be able to share their life not hard to figure out is it pain person
not hard to figure out is it pain person
not hard to figure out is it pain person obviously as I guessed had a painful
obviously as I guessed had a painful
obviously as I guessed had a painful relationship in the past which she had
relationship in the past which she had
relationship in the past which she had it was so painful that she linked up in
it was so painful that she linked up in
it was so painful that she linked up in her head that marriage she had a
her head that marriage she had a
her head that marriage she had a previous one that was painful equals
previous one that was painful equals
previous one that was painful equals death we’re gonna kind of keep you away
death we’re gonna kind of keep you away
death we’re gonna kind of keep you away from getting into closer relationship
from getting into closer relationship
from getting into closer relationship right and how did her brain do that well
right and how did her brain do that well
right and how did her brain do that well she said she was in this relationship
she said she was in this relationship
she said she was in this relationship but was so great but after they got
but was so great but after they got
but was so great but after they got married this man became physically
married this man became physically
married this man became physically abusive verbally abusive he basically
abusive verbally abusive he basically
abusive verbally abusive he basically did everything he could to control every
did everything he could to control every
did everything he could to control every aspect of her life and the worst thing
aspect of her life and the worst thing
aspect of her life and the worst thing of all was he finally got up developed
of all was he finally got up developed
of all was he finally got up developed the courage to divorce this man he
the courage to divorce this man he
the courage to divorce this man he threatened dolly her life but he also
threatened dolly her life but he also
threatened dolly her life but he also threatened their own son’s life
threatened their own son’s life
threatened their own son’s life and when that happens she got linked up
and when that happens she got linked up
and when that happens she got linked up marriage equals death to not only need a
marriage equals death to not only need a
marriage equals death to not only need a potential loss of the life of my child
potential loss of the life of my child
potential loss of the life of my child that’s even more than the loss of her
that’s even more than the loss of her
that’s even more than the loss of her own life for her well it’s not too hard
own life for her well it’s not too hard
own life for her well it’s not too hard to figure out that if your brain says
to figure out that if your brain says
to figure out that if your brain says why am I feeling his ultimate pain it
why am I feeling his ultimate pain it
why am I feeling his ultimate pain it looks for something unique and says well
looks for something unique and says well
looks for something unique and says well cuz I’m married and then it looks around
cuz I’m married and then it looks around
cuz I’m married and then it looks around and says what was happening about the
and says what was happening about the
and says what was happening about the same time I felt the pain marriage and
same time I felt the pain marriage and
same time I felt the pain marriage and you say what was consistent during the
you say what was consistent during the
you say what was consistent during the pain you go marriage pretty soon you can
pain you go marriage pretty soon you can
pain you go marriage pretty soon you can avoid marriage but it doesn’t stop there
avoid marriage but it doesn’t stop there
avoid marriage but it doesn’t stop there her brain also linked up that the cause
her brain also linked up that the cause
her brain also linked up that the cause of her pain was something else two men
of her pain was something else two men
of her pain was something else two men was after all what was unique I had this
was after all what was unique I had this
was after all what was unique I had this man around I was married to a man right
man around I was married to a man right
man around I was married to a man right and then secondly what else was going on
and then secondly what else was going on
and then secondly what else was going on well about the same time I was feeling
well about the same time I was feeling
well about the same time I was feeling the pain I was with this man and sure
the pain I was with this man and sure
the pain I was with this man and sure enough what was recent this man right on
enough what was recent this man right on
enough what was recent this man right on time I’d the pain he was there every
time I’d the pain he was there every
time I’d the pain he was there every time so sure enough all sudden she’s
time so sure enough all sudden she’s
time so sure enough all sudden she’s avoiding all men but didn’t stop there
avoiding all men but didn’t stop there
avoiding all men but didn’t stop there she also linked up that the reason she
she also linked up that the reason she
she also linked up that the reason she felt this pain was because she trusted
felt this pain was because she trusted
felt this pain was because she trusted so as a result her brain linked up
so as a result her brain linked up
so as a result her brain linked up unconsciously if you trust then you will
unconsciously if you trust then you will
unconsciously if you trust then you will die now I would say to you the opposite
die now I would say to you the opposite
die now I would say to you the opposite is true if you don’t trust if you don’t
is true if you don’t trust if you don’t
is true if you don’t trust if you don’t have faith then you instantly die
have faith then you instantly die
have faith then you instantly die internally you may not die physically
internally you may not die physically
internally you may not die physically but you die emotionally because anything
but you die emotionally because anything
but you die emotionally because anything that’s worth living in life requires
that’s worth living in life requires
that’s worth living in life requires faith
faith
faith it requires trusting it requires knowing
it requires trusting it requires knowing
it requires trusting it requires knowing that you can get out of the chair and
that you can get out of the chair and
that you can get out of the chair and walk on this floor and when you step out
walk on this floor and when you step out
walk on this floor and when you step out on the floor you don’t stop and have to
on the floor you don’t stop and have to
on the floor you don’t stop and have to analyze can I do this and you don’t
analyze can I do this and you don’t
analyze can I do this and you don’t weigh everything and think about your
weigh everything and think about your
weigh everything and think about your weight and the structure of the floor
weight and the structure of the floor
weight and the structure of the floor what’s underneath that you just trust
what’s underneath that you just trust
what’s underneath that you just trust otherwise you’d be immobilized you have
otherwise you’d be immobilized you have
otherwise you’d be immobilized you have to trust the drive a car you have to
to trust the drive a car you have to
to trust the drive a car you have to have faith to enter a relationship death
have faith to enter a relationship death
have faith to enter a relationship death faith to start a business you have to
faith to start a business you have to
faith to start a business you have to face when all of a sudden somebody this
face when all of a sudden somebody this
face when all of a sudden somebody this company says these 35,000 people are
company says these 35,000 people are
company says these 35,000 people are gone into faith that if you’re one of
gone into faith that if you’re one of
gone into faith that if you’re one of those 35,000 that there is a better plan
those 35,000 that there is a better plan
those 35,000 that there is a better plan for you and that you will now act on
for you and that you will now act on
for you and that you will now act on that faith and take action and find that
that faith and take action and find that
that faith and take action and find that better plan that better solution for
better plan that better solution for
better plan that better solution for your life you must have that
your life you must have that
your life you must have that you lose trust you lose meaning when you
you lose trust you lose meaning when you
you lose trust you lose meaning when you lose meaning you lose your life again
lose meaning you lose your life again
lose meaning you lose your life again maybe not physically but certainly
maybe not physically but certainly
maybe not physically but certainly emotionally and when you lose it
emotionally and when you lose it
emotionally and when you lose it emotionally the physical loss of life
emotionally the physical loss of life
emotionally the physical loss of life often is not that far behind medical
often is not that far behind medical
often is not that far behind medical researchers are now proving the
researchers are now proving the
researchers are now proving the mind-body connection is not some psycho
mind-body connection is not some psycho
mind-body connection is not some psycho babble but a physical reality that the
babble but a physical reality that the
babble but a physical reality that the way we think in the way we feel about
way we think in the way we feel about
way we think in the way we feel about our lives affects us physically in fact
our lives affects us physically in fact
our lives affects us physically in fact dr. Chopra recently shared with me that
dr. Chopra recently shared with me that
dr. Chopra recently shared with me that there is a new study that was done in
there is a new study that was done in
there is a new study that was done in the state of Massachusetts where they
the state of Massachusetts where they
the state of Massachusetts where they began to study what causes someone to
began to study what causes someone to
began to study what causes someone to die of their first heart attack before
die of their first heart attack before
die of their first heart attack before the age of 50 were they never get
the age of 50 were they never get
the age of 50 were they never get another chance I was what was the number
another chance I was what was the number
another chance I was what was the number one risk factor they wanted to know and
one risk factor they wanted to know and
one risk factor they wanted to know and they assumed that what would cause
they assumed that what would cause
they assumed that what would cause someone to die from just their very
someone to die from just their very
someone to die from just their very first heart attack never another chance
first heart attack never another chance
first heart attack never another chance would be a person just had so much
would be a person just had so much
would be a person just had so much cholesterol in their body the body
cholesterol in their body the body
cholesterol in their body the body wasn’t able to recover they found out
wasn’t able to recover they found out
wasn’t able to recover they found out that was not the number one risk factor
that was not the number one risk factor
that was not the number one risk factor and they thought well maybe that
and they thought well maybe that
and they thought well maybe that diabetes maybe it was more of a genetic
diabetes maybe it was more of a genetic
diabetes maybe it was more of a genetic factor they had once again disproved
factor they had once again disproved
factor they had once again disproved that theory with the Department of
that theory with the Department of
that theory with the Department of Health Education and Welfare for the
Health Education and Welfare for the
Health Education and Welfare for the state of Massachusetts states in their
state of Massachusetts states in their
state of Massachusetts states in their article clearly is the most important
article clearly is the most important
article clearly is the most important risk factor determine that you will die
risk factor determine that you will die
risk factor determine that you will die of your first heart attack and not get a
of your first heart attack and not get a
of your first heart attack and not get a second chance is what they call job
second chance is what they call job
second chance is what they call job dissatisfaction you’ve got to have a
dissatisfaction you’ve got to have a
dissatisfaction you’ve got to have a deeper meaning for your life than oh I’m
deeper meaning for your life than oh I’m
deeper meaning for your life than oh I’m on that grindstone again or I’m on that
on that grindstone again or I’m on that
on that grindstone again or I’m on that treadmill the wonder of those people
treadmill the wonder of those people
treadmill the wonder of those people life’s turn to alcohol or drugs or
life’s turn to alcohol or drugs or
life’s turn to alcohol or drugs or television and even then they can’t find
television and even then they can’t find
television and even then they can’t find something entertaining themselves even
something entertaining themselves even
something entertaining themselves even then they don’t sense any fulfillment
then they don’t sense any fulfillment
then they don’t sense any fulfillment because distraction does not create a
because distraction does not create a
because distraction does not create a life of significance distraction does
life of significance distraction does
life of significance distraction does not create joy distraction will not give
not create joy distraction will not give
not create joy distraction will not give you what you’re seeking drugs will not
you what you’re seeking drugs will not
you what you’re seeking drugs will not change your life for the better right
change your life for the better right
change your life for the better right what they’ll do is hurt you they’ll
what they’ll do is hurt you they’ll
what they’ll do is hurt you they’ll create pain and there are all kinds of
create pain and there are all kinds of
create pain and there are all kinds of drugs anything that doesn’t expand you
drugs anything that doesn’t expand you
drugs anything that doesn’t expand you as a human being or allow you to share
as a human being or allow you to share
as a human being or allow you to share more love and joy with others in a
more love and joy with others in a
more love and joy with others in a natural way that enhances your
natural way that enhances your
natural way that enhances your physiology and your mind your emotions
physiology and your mind your emotions
physiology and your mind your emotions and your spirit is something you
and your spirit is something you
and your spirit is something you probably don’t need
probably don’t need
probably don’t need you gotta grow you gotta expand you got
you gotta grow you gotta expand you got
you gotta grow you gotta expand you got to contribute you’ve got to know that
to contribute you’ve got to know that
to contribute you’ve got to know that you’re here for a purpose there are no
you’re here for a purpose there are no
you’re here for a purpose there are no mistakes there is a meaning even if you
mistakes there is a meaning even if you
mistakes there is a meaning even if you haven’t found it yet you must discover
haven’t found it yet you must discover
haven’t found it yet you must discover it and you know what for most people
it and you know what for most people
it and you know what for most people they don’t discovered the meaning of
they don’t discovered the meaning of
they don’t discovered the meaning of their life until their life is over what
their life until their life is over what
their life until their life is over what a sad place to be or until they have a
a sad place to be or until they have a
a sad place to be or until they have a life-threatening illness
life-threatening illness
life-threatening illness we’re until somebody very close to them
we’re until somebody very close to them
we’re until somebody very close to them that they love is about to leave them
that they love is about to leave them
that they love is about to leave them you don’t have to wait for the pain to
you don’t have to wait for the pain to
you don’t have to wait for the pain to discover the meaning oh I know what I
discover the meaning oh I know what I
discover the meaning oh I know what I found the purpose of my life you decide
found the purpose of my life you decide
found the purpose of my life you decide what it is you discover it and you
what it is you discover it and you
what it is you discover it and you decide this is it maybe later on I’ll
decide this is it maybe later on I’ll
decide this is it maybe later on I’ll define it I probably will but for right
define it I probably will but for right
define it I probably will but for right now this is why I’m playing the game of
now this is why I’m playing the game of
now this is why I’m playing the game of life this is what it’s about every day
life this is what it’s about every day
life this is what it’s about every day if I’m just being this way if I’m just
if I’m just being this way if I’m just
if I’m just being this way if I’m just doing these kinds of simple things with
doing these kinds of simple things with
doing these kinds of simple things with other people with myself then I know I’m
other people with myself then I know I’m
other people with myself then I know I’m on track I know there’s a reason for my
on track I know there’s a reason for my
on track I know there’s a reason for my existence we all have that and I know
existence we all have that and I know
existence we all have that and I know you know a story of Viktor Frankl right
you know a story of Viktor Frankl right
you know a story of Viktor Frankl right the manner up man’s search for meaning
the manner up man’s search for meaning
the manner up man’s search for meaning here’s a man who’s in a Nazi
here’s a man who’s in a Nazi
here’s a man who’s in a Nazi concentration camp with pain everywhere
concentration camp with pain everywhere
concentration camp with pain everywhere around him knowing any moment he could
around him knowing any moment he could
around him knowing any moment he could be gassed or may be spared and if he
be gassed or may be spared and if he
be gassed or may be spared and if he asperity to have the unique privilege of
asperity to have the unique privilege of
asperity to have the unique privilege of going out and taking the dead bodies out
going out and taking the dead bodies out
going out and taking the dead bodies out of those gas chambers putting them in
of those gas chambers putting them in
of those gas chambers putting them in the big ovens talk about intense and yet
the big ovens talk about intense and yet
the big ovens talk about intense and yet somehow in the midst of that pain he
somehow in the midst of that pain he
somehow in the midst of that pain he found a deeper meaning the meaning was
found a deeper meaning the meaning was
found a deeper meaning the meaning was that even though he was in pain in the
that even though he was in pain in the
that even though he was in pain in the moment somehow someday he would survive
moment somehow someday he would survive
moment somehow someday he would survive this and he would come to share the
this and he would come to share the
this and he would come to share the story so that this would never happen to
story so that this would never happen to
story so that this would never happen to other people in the future he couldn’t
other people in the future he couldn’t
other people in the future he couldn’t find a meaning in the moment he found a
find a meaning in the moment he found a
find a meaning in the moment he found a meaning in the future and for most of us
meaning in the future and for most of us
meaning in the future and for most of us the meaning that we want for our lives
the meaning that we want for our lives
the meaning that we want for our lives is here today and it’s preparing us for
is here today and it’s preparing us for
is here today and it’s preparing us for an even greater meaning in the future if
an even greater meaning in the future if
an even greater meaning in the future if we’ll just use all of our life’s
we’ll just use all of our life’s
we’ll just use all of our life’s experience
experience
experience pain and the pleasure to become more to
pain and the pleasure to become more to
pain and the pleasure to become more to prepare ourselves for whatever it is
prepare ourselves for whatever it is
prepare ourselves for whatever it is that our Creator has brought us here for
that our Creator has brought us here for
that our Creator has brought us here for to prepare ourselves so that at the
to prepare ourselves so that at the
to prepare ourselves so that at the moment of truth where we are needed we
moment of truth where we are needed we
moment of truth where we are needed we will deliver my real belief is we’re
will deliver my real belief is we’re
will deliver my real belief is we’re going to be delivering all along the way
going to be delivering all along the way
going to be delivering all along the way it isn’t something that someday you’re
it isn’t something that someday you’re
it isn’t something that someday you’re gonna do it’s something new every day
gonna do it’s something new every day
gonna do it’s something new every day are doing you know my former spouse
are doing you know my former spouse
are doing you know my former spouse Becky just recently lost her father and
Becky just recently lost her father and
Becky just recently lost her father and it’s been a tough time for her because
it’s been a tough time for her because
it’s been a tough time for her because in a very short period of time here
in a very short period of time here
in a very short period of time here she’s lost both her mom and her dad and
she’s lost both her mom and her dad and
she’s lost both her mom and her dad and that’s an event you cannot control and
that’s an event you cannot control and
that’s an event you cannot control and God knows we tried you know three years
God knows we tried you know three years
God knows we tried you know three years ago when they told us that father had
ago when they told us that father had
ago when they told us that father had cancer they told us that he would die
cancer they told us that he would die
cancer they told us that he would die within a period of anywhere from three
within a period of anywhere from three
within a period of anywhere from three to six months and we just did not allow
to six months and we just did not allow
to six months and we just did not allow them to tell him that for the obvious
them to tell him that for the obvious
them to tell him that for the obvious reasons you know how odd I believe from
reasons you know how odd I believe from
reasons you know how odd I believe from all the people we’ve learned from from
all the people we’ve learned from from
all the people we’ve learned from from everyone from dr. Bernie Siegel to
everyone from dr. Bernie Siegel to
everyone from dr. Bernie Siegel to Norman Cousins to dr. Deepak Chopra we
Norman Cousins to dr. Deepak Chopra we
Norman Cousins to dr. Deepak Chopra we understand the mind-body connection if
understand the mind-body connection if
understand the mind-body connection if someone decides that because they have
someone decides that because they have
someone decides that because they have some dis-ease in their body what it
some dis-ease in their body what it
some dis-ease in their body what it means is they’re gonna die then of
means is they’re gonna die then of
means is they’re gonna die then of course they will unfortunately he never
course they will unfortunately he never
course they will unfortunately he never found out that diagnosis and what we did
found out that diagnosis and what we did
found out that diagnosis and what we did is we kept making sure he had a
is we kept making sure he had a
is we kept making sure he had a compelling future he had a sense of
compelling future he had a sense of
compelling future he had a sense of meaning a variety of things that he was
meaning a variety of things that he was
meaning a variety of things that he was needed for and it was amazing how he
needed for and it was amazing how he
needed for and it was amazing how he physically responded only had trips
physically responded only had trips
physically responded only had trips scheduled for him to go to Fiji on which
scheduled for him to go to Fiji on which
scheduled for him to go to Fiji on which he went on and talked about how we
he went on and talked about how we
he went on and talked about how we needed his help with our resort there
needed his help with our resort there
needed his help with our resort there and helping some of the genes in the
and helping some of the genes in the
and helping some of the genes in the garden because the garden for him
garden because the garden for him
garden because the garden for him created so much meaning in his life was
created so much meaning in his life was
created so much meaning in his life was about supporting about nurturing about
about supporting about nurturing about
about supporting about nurturing about helping life along a little bit and so
helping life along a little bit and so
helping life along a little bit and so he that he was excited about things we
he that he was excited about things we
he that he was excited about things we wanted to do with his grandkids and we
wanted to do with his grandkids and we
wanted to do with his grandkids and we kept giving him compelling futures and
kept giving him compelling futures and
kept giving him compelling futures and sure enough three months went by he was
sure enough three months went by he was
sure enough three months went by he was healthy six months went by he was
healthy six months went by he was
healthy six months went by he was healthy a year went by and through a
healthy a year went by and through a
healthy a year went by and through a variety of interventions pretty soon he
variety of interventions pretty soon he
variety of interventions pretty soon he seemed to be better and tells just
seemed to be better and tells just
seemed to be better and tells just recently when we started getting phone
recently when we started getting phone
recently when we started getting phone calls from his neighbors he lived up in
calls from his neighbors he lived up in
calls from his neighbors he lived up in a place called Ram Colorado
a place called Ram Colorado
a place called Ram Colorado a little town with 14 people in it and
a little town with 14 people in it and
a little town with 14 people in it and he’s been a major part of for years and
he’s been a major part of for years and
he’s been a major part of for years and years and they started calls to tell us
years and they started calls to tell us
years and they started calls to tell us that they didn’t think he could take
that they didn’t think he could take
that they didn’t think he could take care of himself anymore so we flew out
care of himself anymore so we flew out
care of himself anymore so we flew out and brought him back here the first few
and brought him back here the first few
and brought him back here the first few days he was in phenomenal shape it was
days he was in phenomenal shape it was
days he was in phenomenal shape it was like he was completely restored being
like he was completely restored being
like he was completely restored being around the grandkids and then being in
around the grandkids and then being in
around the grandkids and then being in the environment he was all excited to
the environment he was all excited to
the environment he was all excited to share about things that have happened in
share about things that have happened in
share about things that have happened in his little town of RAM that he helped to
his little town of RAM that he helped to
his little town of RAM that he helped to create there about all about the calves
create there about all about the calves
create there about all about the calves that he helped to deliver and about the
that he helped to deliver and about the
that he helped to deliver and about the planting season and how they helped
planting season and how they helped
planting season and how they helped people through the winter and some of
people through the winter and some of
people through the winter and some of the stories they’d been telling and he
the stories they’d been telling and he
the stories they’d been telling and he was just totally alive and we took him
was just totally alive and we took him
was just totally alive and we took him to doctors for a series of tests they
to doctors for a series of tests they
to doctors for a series of tests they said they wanted to keep him overnight
said they wanted to keep him overnight
said they wanted to keep him overnight the next day we called and I spoke to
the next day we called and I spoke to
the next day we called and I spoke to his main doctor and he said it looks
his main doctor and he said it looks
his main doctor and he said it looks like he just has a foreign meningitis so
like he just has a foreign meningitis so
like he just has a foreign meningitis so he said that’ll be really easily
he said that’ll be really easily
he said that’ll be really easily treatable and he should be okay and he
treatable and he should be okay and he
treatable and he should be okay and he said does so don’t worry
said does so don’t worry
said does so don’t worry he said we’re just gonna do a series
he said we’re just gonna do a series
he said we’re just gonna do a series more tests because he’s a bit dehydrated
more tests because he’s a bit dehydrated
more tests because he’s a bit dehydrated he lives in an altitude of about 11,500
he lives in an altitude of about 11,500
he lives in an altitude of about 11,500 feet and he’s not drinking enough water
feet and he’s not drinking enough water
feet and he’s not drinking enough water and he said so you know we’re gonna run
and he said so you know we’re gonna run
and he said so you know we’re gonna run a couple more tests he said next day he
a couple more tests he said next day he
a couple more tests he said next day he said but I think he’ll be fine he said I
said but I think he’ll be fine he said I
said but I think he’ll be fine he said I have to go out of town he said my you
have to go out of town he said my you
have to go out of town he said my you know partner doctor will be working with
know partner doctor will be working with
know partner doctor will be working with him so said I’ve passed on all the
him so said I’ve passed on all the
him so said I’ve passed on all the information you can check in with him
information you can check in with him
information you can check in with him tomorrow
tomorrow
tomorrow well the next day Becky went to go see
well the next day Becky went to go see
well the next day Becky went to go see her dad and I was out doing a seminar
her dad and I was out doing a seminar
her dad and I was out doing a seminar and I got a phone call on the phone call
and I got a phone call on the phone call
and I got a phone call on the phone call was that they done additional tests and
was that they done additional tests and
was that they done additional tests and that they found out that the cancer had
that they found out that the cancer had
that they found out that the cancer had spread throughout his spine and into his
spread throughout his spine and into his
spread throughout his spine and into his brain and while it wasn’t treatable
brain and while it wasn’t treatable
brain and while it wasn’t treatable before when they told us three years ago
before when they told us three years ago
before when they told us three years ago it’s certainly not treatable now
it’s certainly not treatable now
it’s certainly not treatable now and they thought he would die within
and they thought he would die within
and they thought he would die within weeks the worst part was though they
weeks the worst part was though they
weeks the worst part was though they also told this to him before they told
also told this to him before they told
also told this to him before they told the Becky so he had no one there to
the Becky so he had no one there to
the Becky so he had no one there to support him through the process or to
support him through the process or to
support him through the process or to give him other options when I found this
give him other options when I found this
give him other options when I found this out of it came so angry with the doctors
out of it came so angry with the doctors
out of it came so angry with the doctors cuz I focused on how he’d violated what
cuz I focused on how he’d violated what
cuz I focused on how he’d violated what we asked him to do and how the other
we asked him to do and how the other
we asked him to do and how the other doctor should have told his partner
doctor should have told his partner
doctor should have told his partner doctor not to tell him yet to allow us
doctor not to tell him yet to allow us
doctor not to tell him yet to allow us to talk to him to prepare him for the
to talk to him to prepare him for the
to talk to him to prepare him for the situation that was so harsh it was so
situation that was so harsh it was so
situation that was so harsh it was so unfair and and the meaning of it was
unfair and and the meaning of it was
unfair and and the meaning of it was that it was gonna really harm him that
that it was gonna really harm him that
that it was gonna really harm him that it all said he would give up hope and
it all said he would give up hope and
it all said he would give up hope and what I wanted to do was lash out and
what I wanted to do was lash out and
what I wanted to do was lash out and fortunately I didn’t lash out instead I
fortunately I didn’t lash out instead I
fortunately I didn’t lash out instead I started focused on what’s happening to
started focused on what’s happening to
started focused on what’s happening to see so what can I do so I went to go see
see so what can I do so I went to go see
see so what can I do so I went to go see him and talk to him and it was
him and talk to him and it was
him and talk to him and it was unbelievable he looked like he just aged
unbelievable he looked like he just aged
unbelievable he looked like he just aged ten years in a day because what happened
ten years in a day because what happened
ten years in a day because what happened is he had no future there was no purpose
is he had no future there was no purpose
is he had no future there was no purpose in fighting the pain or trying to make
in fighting the pain or trying to make
in fighting the pain or trying to make things happen or you know trying to tell
things happen or you know trying to tell
things happen or you know trying to tell stories or do anything because after all
stories or do anything because after all
stories or do anything because after all you’re gonna die anyway soon and that
you’re gonna die anyway soon and that
you’re gonna die anyway soon and that was kind of the way he was interpreting
was kind of the way he was interpreting
was kind of the way he was interpreting it
it
it sure enough no matter what we said he
sure enough no matter what we said he
sure enough no matter what we said he just didn’t seem to respond he’s just
just didn’t seem to respond he’s just
just didn’t seem to respond he’s just seemed to go into a total stupor and for
seemed to go into a total stupor and for
seemed to go into a total stupor and for the next day and a half or so he just
the next day and a half or so he just
the next day and a half or so he just sat in the corner he really didn’t say
sat in the corner he really didn’t say
sat in the corner he really didn’t say very much or communicate very much you
very much or communicate very much you
very much or communicate very much you just said not to bother with him that he
just said not to bother with him that he
just said not to bother with him that he was fine didn’t open up emotionally I
was fine didn’t open up emotionally I
was fine didn’t open up emotionally I just sat down with him tonight I cried
just sat down with him tonight I cried
just sat down with him tonight I cried and I told him how much I loved him and
and I told him how much I loved him and
and I told him how much I loved him and when Becky loved him and how he needed
when Becky loved him and how he needed
when Becky loved him and how he needed to share with us what he was really
to share with us what he was really
to share with us what he was really feeling because holding that back wasn’t
feeling because holding that back wasn’t
feeling because holding that back wasn’t keep protecting us from pain was just
keep protecting us from pain was just
keep protecting us from pain was just felt separate from him then we met that
felt separate from him then we met that
felt separate from him then we met that he could choose how what this was gonna
he could choose how what this was gonna
he could choose how what this was gonna mean for his life that he the doctors
mean for his life that he the doctors
mean for his life that he the doctors had told us three years ago that he was
had told us three years ago that he was
had told us three years ago that he was gonna die when the matter of months then
gonna die when the matter of months then
gonna die when the matter of months then hearing was three years later I said
hearing was three years later I said
hearing was three years later I said what if you would have just sat around
what if you would have just sat around
what if you would have just sat around for three years in this little corner
for three years in this little corner
for three years in this little corner doing nothing because you thought you’re
doing nothing because you thought you’re
doing nothing because you thought you’re gonna die any day or any week and should
gonna die any day or any week and should
gonna die any day or any week and should that be pretty crazy on he started
that be pretty crazy on he started
that be pretty crazy on he started laughs I said look at this I said you
laughs I said look at this I said you
laughs I said look at this I said you can’t just sit off in this corner hey
can’t just sit off in this corner hey
can’t just sit off in this corner hey you might die tomorrow you might die in
you might die tomorrow you might die in
you might die tomorrow you might die in six weeks you might die in six months in
six weeks you might die in six months in
six weeks you might die in six months in my die in six years you might die in ten
my die in six years you might die in ten
my die in six years you might die in ten or twenty years and really screw these
or twenty years and really screw these
or twenty years and really screw these people’s brains up I said it doesn’t
people’s brains up I said it doesn’t
people’s brains up I said it doesn’t matter
matter
matter how long you’re gonna live what’s gonna
how long you’re gonna live what’s gonna
how long you’re gonna live what’s gonna matters how are you gonna live while
matters how are you gonna live while
matters how are you gonna live while you’re here I said you’ve lived an
you’re here I said you’ve lived an
you’re here I said you’ve lived an incredible life that he in World War two
incredible life that he in World War two
incredible life that he in World War two you were a pilot you know you’re a
you were a pilot you know you’re a
you were a pilot you know you’re a businessman now you’re this guy who’s
businessman now you’re this guy who’s
businessman now you’re this guy who’s touching this little town up in Colorado
touching this little town up in Colorado
touching this little town up in Colorado everybody knows you and cares about you
everybody knows you and cares about you
everybody knows you and cares about you loves you because you love them I said
loves you because you love them I said
loves you because you love them I said you braise these incredible kids I said
you braise these incredible kids I said
you braise these incredible kids I said you know if you’re gonna go go out and
you know if you’re gonna go go out and
you know if you’re gonna go go out and style go out because you decided to go
style go out because you decided to go
style go out because you decided to go out in an energy that you want to where
out in an energy that you want to where
out in an energy that you want to where you really enjoy your life don’t just
you really enjoy your life don’t just
you really enjoy your life don’t just shut down because somebody told you
shut down because somebody told you
shut down because somebody told you life’s over cuz you buy into it don’t do
life’s over cuz you buy into it don’t do
life’s over cuz you buy into it don’t do it and he said well you know Tony said
it and he said well you know Tony said
it and he said well you know Tony said the truth is I’m not afraid to die he
the truth is I’m not afraid to die he
the truth is I’m not afraid to die he said everything he said is truly said
said everything he said is truly said
said everything he said is truly said you know my life has been so rich he
you know my life has been so rich he
you know my life has been so rich he says I feel like you know I’ve lived my
says I feel like you know I’ve lived my
says I feel like you know I’ve lived my purpose now you know I look around and I
purpose now you know I look around and I
purpose now you know I look around and I see my kids and I see what they’re like
see my kids and I see what they’re like
see my kids and I see what they’re like is people and I see what I’ve done and
is people and I see what I’ve done and
is people and I see what I’ve done and and I think maybe it’s time for me to go
and I think maybe it’s time for me to go
and I think maybe it’s time for me to go now
now
now I said listen if you’re deciding to do
I said listen if you’re deciding to do
I said listen if you’re deciding to do that because you really want to go as it
that because you really want to go as it
that because you really want to go as it then you know I love you I mean so you
then you know I love you I mean so you
then you know I love you I mean so you know I I’m gonna cry and I’m like I’ll
know I I’m gonna cry and I’m like I’ll
know I I’m gonna cry and I’m like I’ll try and keep you here and not just
try and keep you here and not just
try and keep you here and not just because we love you I said but at the
because we love you I said but at the
because we love you I said but at the same time don’t leave cuz somebody tells
same time don’t leave cuz somebody tells
same time don’t leave cuz somebody tells you it’s time to go he said well I said
you it’s time to go he said well I said
you it’s time to go he said well I said well when it’s time to go you’ll know I
well when it’s time to go you’ll know I
well when it’s time to go you’ll know I said you can go consciously you can
said you can go consciously you can
said you can go consciously you can decide when it’s time you don’t have to
decide when it’s time you don’t have to
decide when it’s time you don’t have to wait till the pain is so intense you
wait till the pain is so intense you
wait till the pain is so intense you can’t stand it but the same time don’t
can’t stand it but the same time don’t
can’t stand it but the same time don’t go any quicker then your meaning is done
go any quicker then your meaning is done
go any quicker then your meaning is done I think right now you’re teaching your
I think right now you’re teaching your
I think right now you’re teaching your family a whole lot of new lessons
family a whole lot of new lessons
family a whole lot of new lessons he said yeah that’s probably true I said
he said yeah that’s probably true I said
he said yeah that’s probably true I said so what do you want to do how do you
so what do you want to do how do you
so what do you want to do how do you want to do things I said let’s get your
want to do things I said let’s get your
want to do things I said let’s get your Fanny out of here let’s get about we
Fanny out of here let’s get about we
Fanny out of here let’s get about we have this great conversation and talk of
have this great conversation and talk of
have this great conversation and talk of all kinds of things that will bore you
all kinds of things that will bore you
all kinds of things that will bore you the details but I’ll let him know that
the details but I’ll let him know that
the details but I’ll let him know that you never have to worry about his
you never have to worry about his
you never have to worry about his daughter and she’d become the kind of
daughter and she’d become the kind of
daughter and she’d become the kind of person he could always be proud of it
person he could always be proud of it
person he could always be proud of it was amazing because the next three four
was amazing because the next three four
was amazing because the next three four or five days he came to life all of a
or five days he came to life all of a
or five days he came to life all of a sudden there was a purpose and things
sudden there was a purpose and things
sudden there was a purpose and things again all the sudden he was alive he’d
again all the sudden he was alive he’d
again all the sudden he was alive he’d go out by the pool and tell stories and
go out by the pool and tell stories and
go out by the pool and tell stories and so forth and he went over to the Polo
so forth and he went over to the Polo
so forth and he went over to the Polo Grounds and did all kinds of just really
Grounds and did all kinds of just really
Grounds and did all kinds of just really great things and then I went away for a
great things and then I went away for a
great things and then I went away for a seminar and I came back two days later
seminar and I came back two days later
seminar and I came back two days later and it was like he was gone he could
and it was like he was gone he could
and it was like he was gone he could barely even talk he’s having a difficult
barely even talk he’s having a difficult
barely even talk he’s having a difficult time holding himself up you have
time holding himself up you have
time holding himself up you have round-the-clock care for him pretty soon
round-the-clock care for him pretty soon
round-the-clock care for him pretty soon he wasn’t able to carry on a
he wasn’t able to carry on a
he wasn’t able to carry on a conversation he would start talking
conversation he would start talking
conversation he would start talking gibberish and start seeing things that
gibberish and start seeing things that
gibberish and start seeing things that were invisible and point to them we did
were invisible and point to them we did
were invisible and point to them we did how the end was coming and as the end
how the end was coming and as the end
how the end was coming and as the end star to come there was more and more
star to come there was more and more
star to come there was more and more pain tears
pain tears
pain tears and we felt it all and also at the same
and we felt it all and also at the same
and we felt it all and also at the same time reminded ourselves hey we’re making
time reminded ourselves hey we’re making
time reminded ourselves hey we’re making this thing but it’s lost because if our
this thing but it’s lost because if our
this thing but it’s lost because if our short-term thinking about this man in
short-term thinking about this man in
short-term thinking about this man in his body and his presence but his life
his body and his presence but his life
his body and his presence but his life will live on beyond his physical
will live on beyond his physical
will live on beyond his physical presence here and for him what it
presence here and for him what it
presence here and for him what it probably means his freedom finally be
probably means his freedom finally be
probably means his freedom finally be free of the painful bodies been in for
free of the painful bodies been in for
free of the painful bodies been in for so many years for him it’s a chance to
so many years for him it’s a chance to
so many years for him it’s a chance to be with his wife Becky’s mom she has to
be with his wife Becky’s mom she has to
be with his wife Becky’s mom she has to be whether the loved ones
be whether the loved ones
be whether the loved ones there was another meeting that could
there was another meeting that could
there was another meeting that could give you joy at the same time you’re
give you joy at the same time you’re
give you joy at the same time you’re feeling pain and so we try to focus on
feeling pain and so we try to focus on
feeling pain and so we try to focus on those and one night I got home and all
those and one night I got home and all
those and one night I got home and all of a sudden I was called by the nurse
of a sudden I was called by the nurse
of a sudden I was called by the nurse Becky’s dad just passed away
and share with back we cried my talk to
and share with back we cried my talk to the same time she felt that Gladwell
the same time she felt that Gladwell
the same time she felt that Gladwell says peace for him
says peace for him
says peace for him it’s amazing how instantly how we felt
it’s amazing how instantly how we felt
it’s amazing how instantly how we felt could change just by changing what we
could change just by changing what we
could change just by changing what we focused on more lost his game
focused on more lost his game
focused on more lost his game – the feeling of joy for him to be free
– the feeling of joy for him to be free
– the feeling of joy for him to be free we couldn’t control the event but we
we couldn’t control the event but we
we couldn’t control the event but we could certainly
could certainly
could certainly minds that thinking beyond ourselves to
minds that thinking beyond ourselves to
minds that thinking beyond ourselves to something deeper to a deeper meaning in
something deeper to a deeper meaning in
something deeper to a deeper meaning in life
life
life I got back yesterday from gonna back you
I got back yesterday from gonna back you
I got back yesterday from gonna back you up to this little town and ran Colorado
up to this little town and ran Colorado
up to this little town and ran Colorado well done I’d never been to before bet
well done I’d never been to before bet
well done I’d never been to before bet you’ve been there many times I got a
you’ve been there many times I got a
you’ve been there many times I got a chance to see where Cecil lived and the
chance to see where Cecil lived and the
chance to see where Cecil lived and the impact he had you didn’t really want a
impact he had you didn’t really want a
impact he had you didn’t really want a funeral he never liked people quote put
funeral he never liked people quote put
funeral he never liked people quote put on airs for anything he was a simple man
on airs for anything he was a simple man
on airs for anything he was a simple man simple values a simple mission when I
simple values a simple mission when I
simple values a simple mission when I got there I looked around and he never
got there I looked around and he never
got there I looked around and he never explicitly said what the mission of his
explicitly said what the mission of his
explicitly said what the mission of his life was a purpose of his life but in a
life was a purpose of his life but in a
life was a purpose of his life but in a town of 14 people on we went out to this
town of 14 people on we went out to this
town of 14 people on we went out to this gravesite to put his body into the
gravesite to put his body into the
gravesite to put his body into the ground and suddenly person after person
ground and suddenly person after person
ground and suddenly person after person started showing up we knew all 14 people
started showing up we knew all 14 people
started showing up we knew all 14 people be there because we nearly touched them
be there because we nearly touched them
be there because we nearly touched them all they all loved him he was the
all they all loved him he was the
all they all loved him he was the storyteller it’s the man that took an
storyteller it’s the man that took an
storyteller it’s the man that took an old car years ago and painted it black
old car years ago and painted it black
old car years ago and painted it black and white but a star on the side but a
and white but a star on the side but a
and white but a star on the side but a dump in the inside glasses made it look
dump in the inside glasses made it look
dump in the inside glasses made it look like a police car so the people came
like a police car so the people came
like a police car so the people came running through this little town which
running through this little town which
running through this little town which consists about seven or eight buildings
consists about seven or eight buildings
consists about seven or eight buildings that they might slow down his house was
that they might slow down his house was
that they might slow down his house was called the rand Yacht Club because he
called the rand Yacht Club because he
called the rand Yacht Club because he invited everybody out for coffee every
invited everybody out for coffee every
invited everybody out for coffee every single morning at least 300 days a year
single morning at least 300 days a year
single morning at least 300 days a year figured I could tell him a story and
figured I could tell him a story and
figured I could tell him a story and cheer him up he’s surrounded a
cheer him up he’s surrounded a
cheer him up he’s surrounded a restaurant they were called the liars
restaurant they were called the liars
restaurant they were called the liars lair the reason was because he had
lair the reason was because he had
lair the reason was because he had people he’d tell people stories and you
people he’d tell people stories and you
people he’d tell people stories and you tell the wildest tales and get people to
tell the wildest tales and get people to
tell the wildest tales and get people to believe them sure enough after about 10
believe them sure enough after about 10
believe them sure enough after about 10 or 15 years began to realize that some
or 15 years began to realize that some
or 15 years began to realize that some of these things were stories and they
of these things were stories and they
of these things were stories and they all laughed as they told me stories
all laughed as they told me stories
all laughed as they told me stories about this incredible man who touched
about this incredible man who touched
about this incredible man who touched their lives when we got to the gravesite
their lives when we got to the gravesite
their lives when we got to the gravesite not only did 14 people show up but this
not only did 14 people show up but this
not only did 14 people show up but this town it’s four hours outside of Denver
town it’s four hours outside of Denver
town it’s four hours outside of Denver people came from all over people came
people came from all over people came
people came from all over people came from my Oh me people came from Denver
from my Oh me people came from Denver
from my Oh me people came from Denver pretty soon there were a hundred people
pretty soon there were a hundred people
pretty soon there were a hundred people at a gray site where there’s not
at a gray site where there’s not
at a gray site where there’s not supposed to be a service
supposed to be a service
supposed to be a service to honor a man who touched their lives
to honor a man who touched their lives
to honor a man who touched their lives so we said you know you don’t have any
so we said you know you don’t have any
so we said you know you don’t have any formal service because that’s not what
formal service because that’s not what
formal service because that’s not what he wanted but before we put his body in
he wanted but before we put his body in
he wanted but before we put his body in the ground as I like to say anything we
the ground as I like to say anything we
the ground as I like to say anything we all talked about how he touched them
all talked about how he touched them
all talked about how he touched them their life was greater because he was
their life was greater because he was
their life was greater because he was such a loving soul and his smile a Tesla
such a loving soul and his smile a Tesla
such a loving soul and his smile a Tesla that his stories attached
that his stories attached
that his stories attached that just his manner that he was lover
that just his manner that he was lover
that just his manner that he was lover of people and animals
of people and animals
of people and animals because he’d been in this pound their
because he’d been in this pound their
because he’d been in this pound their lives would never be the same people who
lives would never be the same people who
lives would never be the same people who come through the town just for a day
come through the town just for a day
come through the town just for a day just his little kindness he was a man
just his little kindness he was a man
just his little kindness he was a man who said if you can’t say something nice
who said if you can’t say something nice
who said if you can’t say something nice about somebody don’t say anything at all
about somebody don’t say anything at all
about somebody don’t say anything at all he never said a negative word about
he never said a negative word about
he never said a negative word about anybody in fact one man probably the
anybody in fact one man probably the
anybody in fact one man probably the most telling tale of this man’s life
most telling tale of this man’s life
most telling tale of this man’s life he said cecil’s the kind of guys to the
he said cecil’s the kind of guys to the
he said cecil’s the kind of guys to the sat down one day with him I said what
sat down one day with him I said what
sat down one day with him I said what are you doing about all those rodents
are you doing about all those rodents
are you doing about all those rodents that keep stealing all our animals are
that keep stealing all our animals are
that keep stealing all our animals are you poison in the Murray shooting at me
you poison in the Murray shooting at me
you poison in the Murray shooting at me trapping him are you killing what are
trapping him are you killing what are
trapping him are you killing what are you doing because they’re taking all my
you doing because they’re taking all my
you doing because they’re taking all my stuff and Cecil said no he said I just
stuff and Cecil said no he said I just
stuff and Cecil said no he said I just plant twice as much I thought what a
plant twice as much I thought what a
plant twice as much I thought what a life what a man his life was his mission
life what a man his life was his mission
life what a man his life was his mission his mission was real simple love people
his mission was real simple love people
his mission was real simple love people love animals love beings make the world
love animals love beings make the world
love animals love beings make the world a little bit better by just being nice
a little bit better by just being nice
a little bit better by just being nice he lived a life of significance one that
he lived a life of significance one that
he lived a life of significance one that had mean
had mean
had mean you didn’t go out and change everything
you didn’t go out and change everything
you didn’t go out and change everything on earth you didn’t make a billion
on earth you didn’t make a billion
on earth you didn’t make a billion dollars
dollars
dollars he doesn’t have people writing him up
he doesn’t have people writing him up
he doesn’t have people writing him up everywhere but he changed people’s lives
everywhere but he changed people’s lives
everywhere but he changed people’s lives and he died in his sleep out of pain the
and he died in his sleep out of pain the
and he died in his sleep out of pain the day he decided to go and he created in
day he decided to go and he created in
day he decided to go and he created in his family a greater sense of courage to
his family a greater sense of courage to
his family a greater sense of courage to look at life in a new way and a greater
look at life in a new way and a greater
look at life in a new way and a greater sense of dedication to give him more he
sense of dedication to give him more he
sense of dedication to give him more he added to our drive he had at our
added to our drive he had at our
added to our drive he had at our commitment to be givers in life as he
commitment to be givers in life as he
commitment to be givers in life as he was – any soul who had the privilege of
was – any soul who had the privilege of
was – any soul who had the privilege of cross his path
[Music]
[Music] I hope it also makes you think about
I hope it also makes you think about
I hope it also makes you think about what’s most important in your life I
what’s most important in your life I
what’s most important in your life I remember an interview with Michael
remember an interview with Michael
remember an interview with Michael Landon in Life magazine when he knew he
Landon in Life magazine when he knew he
Landon in Life magazine when he knew he was gonna go he said quote somebody
was gonna go he said quote somebody
was gonna go he said quote somebody should tell us right at the start of our
should tell us right at the start of our
should tell us right at the start of our lives that were dying and we might live
lives that were dying and we might live
lives that were dying and we might live life to the limit every minute of every
life to the limit every minute of every
life to the limit every minute of every day do what I say whatever you want to
day do what I say whatever you want to
day do what I say whatever you want to do do it now there are only so many
do do it now there are only so many
do do it now there are only so many tomorrow’s if you and I are gonna live
tomorrow’s if you and I are gonna live
tomorrow’s if you and I are gonna live our lives fully and then maybe sometimes
our lives fully and then maybe sometimes
our lives fully and then maybe sometimes we can take the experiences of those
we can take the experiences of those
we can take the experiences of those around us
around us
around us and learn from them we can learn that
and learn from them we can learn that
and learn from them we can learn that when all of our lives worry the warnings
when all of our lives worry the warnings
when all of our lives worry the warnings or examples ceaseless life was an
or examples ceaseless life was an
or examples ceaseless life was an incredible example he didn’t think
incredible example he didn’t think
incredible example he didn’t think anything in life was insignificant not a
anything in life was insignificant not a
anything in life was insignificant not a rodent not a flower and not an animal
rodent not a flower and not an animal
rodent not a flower and not an animal not a stranger passing through
not a stranger passing through
not a stranger passing through he live by a philosophy but they also
he live by a philosophy but they also
he live by a philosophy but they also live in Fiji by the way Fiji was his
live in Fiji by the way Fiji was his
live in Fiji by the way Fiji was his favorite place the last things he told
favorite place the last things he told
favorite place the last things he told me was that happiest time his life last
me was that happiest time his life last
me was that happiest time his life last few years with the trips he took to Fiji
few years with the trips he took to Fiji
few years with the trips he took to Fiji mangas cuz he felt like there everybody
mangas cuz he felt like there everybody
mangas cuz he felt like there everybody understood what he understood the life
understood what he understood the life
understood what he understood the life is meant to be a happy to be a joy to
is meant to be a happy to be a joy to
is meant to be a happy to be a joy to appreciate the little things as well as
appreciate the little things as well as
appreciate the little things as well as the big things appreciate one another to
the big things appreciate one another to
the big things appreciate one another to be givers to be lovers of life I say to
be givers to be lovers of life I say to
be givers to be lovers of life I say to you that if you’re driven by anything
you that if you’re driven by anything
you that if you’re driven by anything other than your love then your spirit
other than your love then your spirit
other than your love then your spirit and your desire to contribute your
and your desire to contribute your
and your desire to contribute your desire to grow and expand if you’re
desire to grow and expand if you’re
desire to grow and expand if you’re driven by their need to please others if
driven by their need to please others if
driven by their need to please others if you’re driven by your fear if you’re
you’re driven by your fear if you’re
you’re driven by your fear if you’re driven by your past maybe it’s time to
driven by your past maybe it’s time to
driven by your past maybe it’s time to free yourself and the way to do it is
free yourself and the way to do it is
free yourself and the way to do it is decide decide consciously what you want
decide decide consciously what you want
decide decide consciously what you want your life to be about decide consciously
your life to be about decide consciously
your life to be about decide consciously what’s the purpose your life something
what’s the purpose your life something
what’s the purpose your life something simple something you can live every
simple something you can live every
simple something you can live every single day
single day
single day you know I think that they look at
you know I think that they look at
you know I think that they look at people’s lives and I see the people who
people’s lives and I see the people who
people’s lives and I see the people who are having so much difficulty I think
are having so much difficulty I think
are having so much difficulty I think the number one reason why people fail to
the number one reason why people fail to
the number one reason why people fail to experience joy and life experience life
experience joy and life experience life
experience joy and life experience life as a win it’s not because their life
as a win it’s not because their life
as a win it’s not because their life isn’t the wind because the wind can be
isn’t the wind because the wind can be
isn’t the wind because the wind can be just reaching out and touching somebody
just reaching out and touching somebody
just reaching out and touching somebody around you the wind can be just telling
around you the wind can be just telling
around you the wind can be just telling somebody you love them the wind could be
somebody you love them the wind could be
somebody you love them the wind could be taking care of your body God’s temple
taking care of your body God’s temple
taking care of your body God’s temple the wind could be stopping and feeling
the wind could be stopping and feeling
the wind could be stopping and feeling grateful the wind could be anywhere you
grateful the wind could be anywhere you
grateful the wind could be anywhere you don’t have to land on the moon to have
don’t have to land on the moon to have
don’t have to land on the moon to have the win and you can enjoy landing on the
the win and you can enjoy landing on the
the win and you can enjoy landing on the moon too how much better to enjoy the
moon too how much better to enjoy the
moon too how much better to enjoy the process because we’re gonna spend most
process because we’re gonna spend most
process because we’re gonna spend most of our life in process towards the
of our life in process towards the
of our life in process towards the achievement of goals I’m not saying
achievement of goals I’m not saying
achievement of goals I’m not saying don’t go do things and I’m not saying
don’t go do things and I’m not saying
don’t go do things and I’m not saying don’t have grand schemes and dreams and
don’t have grand schemes and dreams and
don’t have grand schemes and dreams and not saying don’t do those cuz our lives
not saying don’t do those cuz our lives
not saying don’t do those cuz our lives are better because people dreamed huge
are better because people dreamed huge
are better because people dreamed huge dreams and they’ve made them happen but
dreams and they’ve made them happen but
dreams and they’ve made them happen but I’m saying don’t do it the expense of
I’m saying don’t do it the expense of
I’m saying don’t do it the expense of not appreciating what’s true along the
not appreciating what’s true along the
not appreciating what’s true along the way and the Cecil’s are – is obvious all
way and the Cecil’s are – is obvious all
way and the Cecil’s are – is obvious all those little things that are so so
those little things that are so so
those little things that are so so important and we’ve always believed it
important and we’ve always believed it
important and we’ve always believed it important I feel like we’ve always lived
important I feel like we’ve always lived
important I feel like we’ve always lived that they’re important but I just want
that they’re important but I just want
that they’re important but I just want to redouble the effort part of my
to redouble the effort part of my
to redouble the effort part of my commitment to him and I sell and he has
commitment to him and I sell and he has
commitment to him and I sell and he has honor I challenge you to do the same I
honor I challenge you to do the same I
honor I challenge you to do the same I challenge you to hold yourself to a
challenge you to hold yourself to a
challenge you to hold yourself to a higher standard I challenge you to
higher standard I challenge you to
higher standard I challenge you to realize that you’re here for a purpose
realize that you’re here for a purpose
realize that you’re here for a purpose there’s something for you to do and be
there’s something for you to do and be
there’s something for you to do and be here for yourself and for others you
here for yourself and for others you
here for yourself and for others you can’t just do for others not do for
can’t just do for others not do for
can’t just do for others not do for yourself or you won’t be here so this is
yourself or you won’t be here so this is
yourself or you won’t be here so this is really designed to get you to ask
really designed to get you to ask
really designed to get you to ask yourself are you being efficient are you
yourself are you being efficient are you
yourself are you being efficient are you being effective in your life there’s a
being effective in your life there’s a
being effective in your life there’s a big difference if you’re being efficient
big difference if you’re being efficient
big difference if you’re being efficient then what you’re doing is you’re doing
then what you’re doing is you’re doing
then what you’re doing is you’re doing things right but if you’re being
things right but if you’re being
things right but if you’re being effective you’re doing the right things
effective you’re doing the right things
effective you’re doing the right things are you doing the things that are gonna
are you doing the things that are gonna
are you doing the things that are gonna give you the most joy in your life why
give you the most joy in your life why
give you the most joy in your life why are you doing what you’re doing
are you doing what you’re doing
are you doing what you’re doing and where is it taking you you know we
and where is it taking you you know we
and where is it taking you you know we all need to have what I call a code of
all need to have what I call a code of
all need to have what I call a code of conduct a set of standards we hold
conduct a set of standards we hold
conduct a set of standards we hold ourselves to every day about how we’re
ourselves to every day about how we’re
ourselves to every day about how we’re gonna be is people the kinds of states
gonna be is people the kinds of states
gonna be is people the kinds of states we’re gonna live in cuz it’s out of
we’re gonna live in cuz it’s out of
we’re gonna live in cuz it’s out of those states that we affect everyone
those states that we affect everyone
those states that we affect everyone around this just stop and think about
around this just stop and think about
around this just stop and think about what’s most important think about why
what’s most important think about why
what’s most important think about why you’re here what’s the purpose
you’re here what’s the purpose
you’re here what’s the purpose your life step out of the moment and
your life step out of the moment and
your life step out of the moment and into eternity think about what’s eternal
into eternity think about what’s eternal
into eternity think about what’s eternal when you’re feeling insecure start to
when you’re feeling insecure start to
when you’re feeling insecure start to realize there is something inside of you
realize there is something inside of you
realize there is something inside of you that is never-ending if there’s
that is never-ending if there’s
that is never-ending if there’s something inside of you that is
something inside of you that is
something inside of you that is unchangeable and that’s the part of you
unchangeable and that’s the part of you
unchangeable and that’s the part of you that knows what is right what to do and
that knows what is right what to do and
that knows what is right what to do and why you’re here so you know that may
why you’re here so you know that may
why you’re here so you know that may sound metaphysical and may sound
sound metaphysical and may sound
sound metaphysical and may sound religious or spiritual call it whatever
religious or spiritual call it whatever
religious or spiritual call it whatever you want but know that the bottom line
you want but know that the bottom line
you want but know that the bottom line is that you are here for a reason
is that you are here for a reason
is that you are here for a reason and that it’s a special reason that only
and that it’s a special reason that only
and that it’s a special reason that only you know and it may be that you haven’t
you know and it may be that you haven’t
you know and it may be that you haven’t found it because you’re looking for
found it because you’re looking for
found it because you’re looking for something huge and it may be that you’re
something huge and it may be that you’re
something huge and it may be that you’re living it right now you’re just not
living it right now you’re just not
living it right now you’re just not appreciating your purpose maybe what
appreciating your purpose maybe what
appreciating your purpose maybe what you’re doing right now
you’re doing right now
you’re doing right now is your life purpose this thing that you
is your life purpose this thing that you
is your life purpose this thing that you detest most or maybe what it is doing is
detest most or maybe what it is doing is
detest most or maybe what it is doing is giving you the challenge to really
giving you the challenge to really
giving you the challenge to really discover something within yourself
discover something within yourself
discover something within yourself that’ll allow you to give and be more
that’ll allow you to give and be more
that’ll allow you to give and be more because life is about two things being
because life is about two things being
because life is about two things being and doing how are you gonna be as a
and doing how are you gonna be as a
and doing how are you gonna be as a human being I mean ultimately our
human being I mean ultimately our
human being I mean ultimately our destiny is who do we become as people
destiny is who do we become as people
destiny is who do we become as people and what do you do what do you
and what do you do what do you
and what do you do what do you contribute that’s what it’s about that’s
contribute that’s what it’s about that’s
contribute that’s what it’s about that’s what gives us a sense of fulfillment and
what gives us a sense of fulfillment and
what gives us a sense of fulfillment and a life of significance it’s one of
a life of significance it’s one of
a life of significance it’s one of growth and contribution it’s one you
growth and contribution it’s one you
growth and contribution it’s one you decide what your life’s about simply are
decide what your life’s about simply are
decide what your life’s about simply are you what are you here for you here to
you what are you here for you here to
you what are you here for you here to live to learn to grow here to love what
live to learn to grow here to love what
live to learn to grow here to love what are you here for I’m asking these
are you here for I’m asking these
are you here for I’m asking these questions I’m hoping you’re thinking not
questions I’m hoping you’re thinking not
questions I’m hoping you’re thinking not just listening to me
just listening to me
just listening to me what is the special plan for you you’ve
what is the special plan for you you’ve
what is the special plan for you you’ve got to discover the purpose of your life
got to discover the purpose of your life
got to discover the purpose of your life there is a plan there’s something here
there is a plan there’s something here
there is a plan there’s something here for you that’s different than anybody
for you that’s different than anybody
for you that’s different than anybody else in the world and you’ve got to
else in the world and you’ve got to
else in the world and you’ve got to discover what it is and the best way to
discover what it is and the best way to
discover what it is and the best way to discover is just trust your instinct and
discover is just trust your instinct and
discover is just trust your instinct and say what is it that was simple was clear
say what is it that was simple was clear
say what is it that was simple was clear and I was living your day why am I here
and I was living your day why am I here
and I was living your day why am I here because if you never discover your
because if you never discover your
because if you never discover your purpose how can you ever win the game of
purpose how can you ever win the game of
purpose how can you ever win the game of life how can you really enjoy it the
life how can you really enjoy it the
life how can you really enjoy it the early
early
early I look around at people so often they’re
I look around at people so often they’re
I look around at people so often they’re so unhappy and I think the reason is
so unhappy and I think the reason is
so unhappy and I think the reason is that they don’t ever win in the game of
that they don’t ever win in the game of
that they don’t ever win in the game of life it’s a game they feel like they
life it’s a game they feel like they
life it’s a game they feel like they can’t win like they’re always losing and
can’t win like they’re always losing and
can’t win like they’re always losing and the reason number one is I think there’s
the reason number one is I think there’s
the reason number one is I think there’s seven reasons I’ll give you seven I’ve
seven reasons I’ll give you seven I’ve
seven reasons I’ll give you seven I’ve jotted some down you know I think number
jotted some down you know I think number
jotted some down you know I think number one is I think most people never win the
one is I think most people never win the
one is I think most people never win the game of life they never feel fulfilled I
game of life they never feel fulfilled I
game of life they never feel fulfilled I never feel joy because they don’t know
never feel joy because they don’t know
never feel joy because they don’t know the purpose of the game if you don’t
the purpose of the game if you don’t
the purpose of the game if you don’t know the purpose of the game what’s your
know the purpose of the game what’s your
know the purpose of the game what’s your chances I’ve ever women I’ve ever gotten
chances I’ve ever women I’ve ever gotten
chances I’ve ever women I’ve ever gotten ring the bell feel that sense of
ring the bell feel that sense of
ring the bell feel that sense of fulfillment or joy or passion or love or
fulfillment or joy or passion or love or
fulfillment or joy or passion or love or whatever it is that you truly want at
whatever it is that you truly want at
whatever it is that you truly want at the deepest level see if you can tell
the deepest level see if you can tell
the deepest level see if you can tell the purpose the game you don’t know the
the purpose the game you don’t know the
the purpose the game you don’t know the goal is pretty hard to set up your game
goal is pretty hard to set up your game
goal is pretty hard to set up your game to win isn’t it pretty soon you start
to win isn’t it pretty soon you start
to win isn’t it pretty soon you start pursuing things that don’t give you
pursuing things that don’t give you
pursuing things that don’t give you fulfillment living somebody else’s wife
fulfillment living somebody else’s wife
fulfillment living somebody else’s wife other than your own you gotta know what
other than your own you gotta know what
other than your own you gotta know what are you doing it all for what do you
are you doing it all for what do you
are you doing it all for what do you really want but ask most people this
really want but ask most people this
really want but ask most people this question what do you want they give me
question what do you want they give me
question what do you want they give me answers like well I know what I don’t
answers like well I know what I don’t
answers like well I know what I don’t want I don’t want to live this way
want I don’t want to live this way
want I don’t want to live this way anymore I don’t want to feel like Alan
anymore I don’t want to feel like Alan
anymore I don’t want to feel like Alan emu whore that’s not gonna give you what
emu whore that’s not gonna give you what
emu whore that’s not gonna give you what you want what do you really know I want
you want what do you really know I want
you want what do you really know I want to finally be financially secure so I
to finally be financially secure so I
to finally be financially secure so I can retire great
can retire great
can retire great you know statistics about retirement
you know statistics about retirement
you know statistics about retirement actuary is statistics from insurance
actuary is statistics from insurance
actuary is statistics from insurance companies show the three years after a
companies show the three years after a
companies show the three years after a man retires specifically on using men
man retires specifically on using men
man retires specifically on using men guess what happens he dies to retire is
guess what happens he dies to retire is
guess what happens he dies to retire is to die and for some people this is like
to die and for some people this is like
to die and for some people this is like their major aim think about it her time
their major aim think about it her time
their major aim think about it her time is gonna make you happy
is gonna make you happy
is gonna make you happy you gotta have a purpose you gotta know
you gotta have a purpose you gotta know
you gotta have a purpose you gotta know what it is you’ve got to decide what it
what it is you’ve got to decide what it
what it is you’ve got to decide what it is at least for now know that that
is at least for now know that that
is at least for now know that that vision will continue to expand second
vision will continue to expand second
vision will continue to expand second reason why most people fail the game
reason why most people fail the game
reason why most people fail the game called life cuz even though they don’t
called life cuz even though they don’t
called life cuz even though they don’t know the purpose of the game that got
know the purpose of the game that got
know the purpose of the game that got tons of rules about how it must be
tons of rules about how it must be
tons of rules about how it must be played they don’t even know the goal
played they don’t even know the goal
played they don’t even know the goal they got all these rules they gotta live
they got all these rules they gotta live
they got all these rules they gotta live by and only do they have rules for
by and only do they have rules for
by and only do they have rules for themselves but they have rules for
themselves but they have rules for
themselves but they have rules for everybody else around them rules for how
everybody else around them rules for how
everybody else around them rules for how their spouse should be rules about how
their spouse should be rules about how
their spouse should be rules about how their boss should be rules from people
their boss should be rules from people
their boss should be rules from people they don’t even know on the street
they don’t even know on the street
they don’t even know on the street should be you know it’s so often or
should be you know it’s so often or
should be you know it’s so often or likely get upset with other people and
likely get upset with other people and
likely get upset with other people and it’s not about the other people it’s
it’s not about the other people it’s
it’s not about the other people it’s about our rules they’re doing something
about our rules they’re doing something
about our rules they’re doing something we know they shouldn’t be doing or
we know they shouldn’t be doing or
we know they shouldn’t be doing or they’re not doing something we know they
they’re not doing something we know they
they’re not doing something we know they should be doing right we need to just
should be doing right we need to just
should be doing right we need to just relax a little bit you need to realize
relax a little bit you need to realize
relax a little bit you need to realize that whatever people are doing they got
that whatever people are doing they got
that whatever people are doing they got a reason may not be a very
a reason may not be a very
a reason may not be a very intelligent reason by our perspective
intelligent reason by our perspective
intelligent reason by our perspective but who are we to say and you know what
but who are we to say and you know what
but who are we to say and you know what and maybe it isn’t an intelligent reason
and maybe it isn’t an intelligent reason
and maybe it isn’t an intelligent reason by lots of people’s ideas but you know
by lots of people’s ideas but you know
by lots of people’s ideas but you know what is a reason I mean it all comes
what is a reason I mean it all comes
what is a reason I mean it all comes down how we wire ourselves as human
down how we wire ourselves as human
down how we wire ourselves as human beings see whenever you see somebody you
beings see whenever you see somebody you
beings see whenever you see somebody you think they’re doing something crazy have
think they’re doing something crazy have
think they’re doing something crazy have some compassion
some compassion
some compassion are there any stupid things you’ve never
are there any stupid things you’ve never
are there any stupid things you’ve never done in your lifetime or crazy
done in your lifetime or crazy
done in your lifetime or crazy I would hallucinate based on my own
I would hallucinate based on my own
I would hallucinate based on my own personal experience answer maybe you
personal experience answer maybe you
personal experience answer maybe you betcha from the bottom line is we got to
betcha from the bottom line is we got to
betcha from the bottom line is we got to understand that things are going on that
understand that things are going on that
understand that things are going on that we don’t understand with people you know
we don’t understand with people you know
we don’t understand with people you know one time I was talking to Stephen Covey
one time I was talking to Stephen Covey
one time I was talking to Stephen Covey about times when we misinterpreted
about times when we misinterpreted
about times when we misinterpreted people’s behavior and he told me about
people’s behavior and he told me about
people’s behavior and he told me about this time he got on the subway and this
this time he got on the subway and this
this time he got on the subway and this man walked in and brought on a bunch of
man walked in and brought on a bunch of
man walked in and brought on a bunch of his kids and they were just running
his kids and they were just running
his kids and they were just running rampant screaming yelling making noise
rampant screaming yelling making noise
rampant screaming yelling making noise creating havoc
creating havoc
creating havoc you know Stephens more of a mellow
you know Stephens more of a mellow
you know Stephens more of a mellow centered kind of guy he doesn’t like the
centered kind of guy he doesn’t like the
centered kind of guy he doesn’t like the kind of environment even on the subway
kind of environment even on the subway
kind of environment even on the subway and the bottom line is you know he
and the bottom line is you know he
and the bottom line is you know he didn’t want to say anybody found stuff
didn’t want to say anybody found stuff
didn’t want to say anybody found stuff getting more and more irritating the man
getting more and more irritating the man
getting more and more irritating the man scene he’d be just ignoring the kids
scene he’d be just ignoring the kids
scene he’d be just ignoring the kids like man didn’t even matter what they
like man didn’t even matter what they
like man didn’t even matter what they were doing so he found himself on the
were doing so he found himself on the
were doing so he found himself on the point where he actually spoke up so
point where he actually spoke up so
point where he actually spoke up so Stephen turned him and said you know do
Stephen turned him and said you know do
Stephen turned him and said you know do you think you might want to do something
you think you might want to do something
you think you might want to do something about these children and the man looked
about these children and the man looked
about these children and the man looked at him and said oh yeah I guess I said
at him and said oh yeah I guess I said
at him and said oh yeah I guess I said huh he said we just got back to the
huh he said we just got back to the
huh he said we just got back to the hospital or their mother just died he
hospital or their mother just died he
hospital or their mother just died he said I just don’t think they know how to
said I just don’t think they know how to
said I just don’t think they know how to deal with it
deal with it
deal with it quite honestly neither do I
quite honestly neither do I
quite honestly neither do I like absolute garbage and he said it
like absolute garbage and he said it
like absolute garbage and he said it made him from then on and realize
made him from then on and realize
made him from then on and realize whatever’s going on there may be
whatever’s going on there may be
whatever’s going on there may be something else going on as well I mean a
something else going on as well I mean a
something else going on as well I mean a half compassion gave him fewer rules for
half compassion gave him fewer rules for
half compassion gave him fewer rules for other people in his life not a bad idea
other people in his life not a bad idea
other people in his life not a bad idea but we were talking about people that
but we were talking about people that
but we were talking about people that don’t succeed in life oh I hope they
don’t succeed in life oh I hope they
don’t succeed in life oh I hope they succeed one they don’t know the purpose
succeed one they don’t know the purpose
succeed one they don’t know the purpose of the game too they got tons of rules
of the game too they got tons of rules
of the game too they got tons of rules even though none of the purpose how’d
even though none of the purpose how’d
even though none of the purpose how’d you like to be in a game and you’re
you like to be in a game and you’re
you like to be in a game and you’re trying to win hey you don’t know the
trying to win hey you don’t know the
trying to win hey you don’t know the goal and you got a zillion rules you
goal and you got a zillion rules you
goal and you got a zillion rules you gotta live by it’ll be pretty
gotta live by it’ll be pretty
gotta live by it’ll be pretty frustrating wouldn’t it well ads step
frustrating wouldn’t it well ads step
frustrating wouldn’t it well ads step three do it here’s the third reason
three do it here’s the third reason
three do it here’s the third reason people fail to win the game of life and
people fail to win the game of life and
people fail to win the game of life and that is because their rules are in
that is because their rules are in
that is because their rules are in conflict we’ve got all these different
conflict we’ve got all these different
conflict we’ve got all these different special rules where we contradict
special rules where we contradict
special rules where we contradict ourselves we’re in one situation you’re
ourselves we’re in one situation you’re
ourselves we’re in one situation you’re supposed to be one way and another
supposed to be one way and another
supposed to be one way and another situation is supposed to be totally
situation is supposed to be totally
situation is supposed to be totally different in order to be effective team
different in order to be effective team
different in order to be effective team if you got a bunch of rules in conflict
if you got a bunch of rules in conflict
if you got a bunch of rules in conflict which most of us do you’re gonna have
which most of us do you’re gonna have
which most of us do you’re gonna have pain you’re gonna have frustrations in
pain you’re gonna have frustrations in
pain you’re gonna have frustrations in your life here’s the fourth reason why
your life here’s the fourth reason why
your life here’s the fourth reason why most people want one the game of life
most people want one the game of life
most people want one the game of life because even when the person plays by
because even when the person plays by
because even when the person plays by the rules they don’t always win Lord you
the rules they don’t always win Lord you
the rules they don’t always win Lord you do everything right you don’t always get
do everything right you don’t always get
do everything right you don’t always get rewarded you give your all you put your
rewarded you give your all you put your
rewarded you give your all you put your heart and soul them on you do everything
heart and soul them on you do everything
heart and soul them on you do everything right and still sometimes it rains on
right and still sometimes it rains on
right and still sometimes it rains on your parade sometimes you know a storm
your parade sometimes you know a storm
your parade sometimes you know a storm comes down and beat the death out of
comes down and beat the death out of
comes down and beat the death out of your crop all the sudden you’re in the
your crop all the sudden you’re in the
your crop all the sudden you’re in the Midwest and the flood comes and destroys
Midwest and the flood comes and destroys
Midwest and the flood comes and destroys all you’ve worked on you know that kind
all you’ve worked on you know that kind
all you’ve worked on you know that kind of messes your brain a little bit you
of messes your brain a little bit you
of messes your brain a little bit you start saying hey you know why even try
start saying hey you know why even try
start saying hey you know why even try there’s no meaning this everything I do
there’s no meaning this everything I do
there’s no meaning this everything I do is for naught that’s worthless not
is for naught that’s worthless not
is for naught that’s worthless not realizing there’s a deeper meaning
realizing there’s a deeper meaning
realizing there’s a deeper meaning there’s a meaning beyond the moment that
there’s a meaning beyond the moment that
there’s a meaning beyond the moment that what’s happening in this life right now
what’s happening in this life right now
what’s happening in this life right now this event you can’t control whether
this event you can’t control whether
this event you can’t control whether it’s the loss of a father as Becky has
it’s the loss of a father as Becky has
it’s the loss of a father as Becky has gone through and a father in law’s I
gone through and a father in law’s I
gone through and a father in law’s I have or there’s loss of a business or
have or there’s loss of a business or
have or there’s loss of a business or anything that seems to be a loss is a
anything that seems to be a loss is a
anything that seems to be a loss is a gain if you ask yourself how can I use
gain if you ask yourself how can I use
gain if you ask yourself how can I use this what else can this mean if I can’t
this what else can this mean if I can’t
this what else can this mean if I can’t use it today how will I use this someday
use it today how will I use this someday
use it today how will I use this someday how can I turn this into opportunity how
how can I turn this into opportunity how
how can I turn this into opportunity how can I make myself more how can I use
can I make myself more how can I use
can I make myself more how can I use this pain to sculpt my soul
this pain to sculpt my soul
this pain to sculpt my soul what can I do right now to move myself
what can I do right now to move myself
what can I do right now to move myself forward these are the kinds of questions
forward these are the kinds of questions
forward these are the kinds of questions or support you instead of blows me why
or support you instead of blows me why
or support you instead of blows me why me why this have to happen you’ll never
me why this have to happen you’ll never
me why this have to happen you’ll never get an answer to those those questions
get an answer to those those questions
get an answer to those those questions are leave you in an endless loop here’s
are leave you in an endless loop here’s
are leave you in an endless loop here’s the fifth reason why most people fail in
the fifth reason why most people fail in
the fifth reason why most people fail in the game called life sometimes you break
the game called life sometimes you break
the game called life sometimes you break the rules and you win oh my gosh you do
the rules and you win oh my gosh you do
the rules and you win oh my gosh you do something you know is it right you do
something you know is it right you do
something you know is it right you do something you know you shouldn’t do
something you know you shouldn’t do
something you know you shouldn’t do something that’s against your own values
something that’s against your own values
something that’s against your own values against your own way of doing things and
against your own way of doing things and
against your own way of doing things and you get pleasure and your brain goes hey
you get pleasure and your brain goes hey
you get pleasure and your brain goes hey maybe there’s some new rules out here
maybe there’s some new rules out here
maybe there’s some new rules out here maybe I don’t have to live by these
maybe I don’t have to live by these
maybe I don’t have to live by these rules after all when I work my butt off
rules after all when I work my butt off
rules after all when I work my butt off and did everything right and help myself
and did everything right and help myself
and did everything right and help myself the size standard I got pain I break the
the size standard I got pain I break the
the size standard I got pain I break the rule I got pleasure maybe this that’s
rule I got pleasure maybe this that’s
rule I got pleasure maybe this that’s really wire maybe out of this like take
really wire maybe out of this like take
really wire maybe out of this like take a look at life being this way you know
a look at life being this way you know
a look at life being this way you know it does it takes you away from your
it does it takes you away from your
it does it takes you away from your higher purpose it takes you away from
higher purpose it takes you away from
higher purpose it takes you away from what’s most important in your life and
what’s most important in your life and
what’s most important in your life and while you might get pleasure in the
while you might get pleasure in the
while you might get pleasure in the short term you give up that sense of
short term you give up that sense of
short term you give up that sense of dignity within yourself that says you’re
dignity within yourself that says you’re
dignity within yourself that says you’re doing the right thing
doing the right thing
doing the right thing that’s what causes more people to fail
that’s what causes more people to fail
that’s what causes more people to fail with and I think almost anything else
with and I think almost anything else
with and I think almost anything else cuz the ultimate pleasure in life
cuz the ultimate pleasure in life
cuz the ultimate pleasure in life requires sometimes short-term pain to
requires sometimes short-term pain to
requires sometimes short-term pain to get to it and that ultimate pleasures
get to it and that ultimate pleasures
get to it and that ultimate pleasures will you become what you contribute and
will you become what you contribute and
will you become what you contribute and the experience of life that you have
the experience of life that you have
the experience of life that you have because of that growth and contribution
because of that growth and contribution
because of that growth and contribution the sixth reason when most people fail
the sixth reason when most people fail
the sixth reason when most people fail the game called life it’s because in
the game called life it’s because in
the game called life it’s because in order to win this game you got to work
order to win this game you got to work
order to win this game you got to work with five and a half billion other
with five and a half billion other
with five and a half billion other people all have the wrong rules they
people all have the wrong rules they
people all have the wrong rules they don’t know the purpose of the game
don’t know the purpose of the game
don’t know the purpose of the game either and they aren’t real clear that
either and they aren’t real clear that
either and they aren’t real clear that there are certain rules you must live by
there are certain rules you must live by
there are certain rules you must live by we all have different rules because
we all have different rules because
we all have different rules because we’ve all learned different ways of
we’ve all learned different ways of
we’ve all learned different ways of getting out of pain and into pleasure in
getting out of pain and into pleasure in
getting out of pain and into pleasure in life we got to learn from one another
life we got to learn from one another
life we got to learn from one another and finally the seventh reason why most
and finally the seventh reason why most
and finally the seventh reason why most people fail the game called life because
people fail the game called life because
people fail the game called life because they think it’s a life and death game
they think it’s a life and death game
they think it’s a life and death game and you said well it is a life and death
and you said well it is a life and death
and you said well it is a life and death game well I’m the first person to agree
game well I’m the first person to agree
game well I’m the first person to agree that this is not a practice session this
that this is not a practice session this
that this is not a practice session this is the real thing that’s all I’m gonna
is the real thing that’s all I’m gonna
is the real thing that’s all I’m gonna live in full-on but if you think
live in full-on but if you think
live in full-on but if you think everything is life and death every
everything is life and death every
everything is life and death every moment you put so much pressure on
moment you put so much pressure on
moment you put so much pressure on yourself that you truly will not live
yourself that you truly will not live
yourself that you truly will not live life you’ll live in fear and that’s no
life you’ll live in fear and that’s no
life you’ll live in fear and that’s no life at all how do you live life and win
life at all how do you live life and win
life at all how do you live life and win the game well in spite of all this stuff
the game well in spite of all this stuff
the game well in spite of all this stuff that sounds so terrible there are people
that sounds so terrible there are people
that sounds so terrible there are people that seem to be winning seem to be
that seem to be winning seem to be
that seem to be winning seem to be fulfilled seem to be making difference
fulfilled seem to be making difference
fulfilled seem to be making difference seem to have a great deal of joy
seem to have a great deal of joy
seem to have a great deal of joy their life and they seem to have it
their life and they seem to have it
their life and they seem to have it consistently and they’re not doing it
consistently and they’re not doing it
consistently and they’re not doing it through drugs or alcohol or distraction
through drugs or alcohol or distraction
through drugs or alcohol or distraction they’re doing it through living a life
they’re doing it through living a life
they’re doing it through living a life of significance how they’ve done it they
of significance how they’ve done it they
of significance how they’ve done it they do what we do in our date with destiny
do what we do in our date with destiny
do what we do in our date with destiny seminar we accomplish seven things in
seminar we accomplish seven things in
seminar we accomplish seven things in that seminar and I bring it up because I
that seminar and I bring it up because I
that seminar and I bring it up because I hope you’ll take the time and actually
hope you’ll take the time and actually
hope you’ll take the time and actually come we’ll get your purpose and your
come we’ll get your purpose and your
come we’ll get your purpose and your mission statement and your values all in
mission statement and your values all in
mission statement and your values all in the exact order you ideally need them to
the exact order you ideally need them to
the exact order you ideally need them to be so you’re being told rich and you
be so you’re being told rich and you
be so you’re being told rich and you want studying pull in multiple
want studying pull in multiple
want studying pull in multiple directions but for right now here’s what
directions but for right now here’s what
directions but for right now here’s what we do this is what we’re gonna start
we do this is what we’re gonna start
we do this is what we’re gonna start doing on this tape it’s the first thing
doing on this tape it’s the first thing
doing on this tape it’s the first thing these people have who succeed or
these people have who succeed or
these people have who succeed or fulfilled as they’ve decided what the
fulfilled as they’ve decided what the
fulfilled as they’ve decided what the purpose of the game is at least for
purpose of the game is at least for
purpose of the game is at least for right now you follow me on this they
right now you follow me on this they
right now you follow me on this they said okay I don’t know what the purpose
said okay I don’t know what the purpose
said okay I don’t know what the purpose is ultimately but let me just decide for
is ultimately but let me just decide for
is ultimately but let me just decide for right now the purpose of my life as to
right now the purpose of my life as to
right now the purpose of my life as to what it’s the love and be loved us to
what it’s the love and be loved us to
what it’s the love and be loved us to grow it’s to expand us to make a
grow it’s to expand us to make a
grow it’s to expand us to make a difference do this is do that they come
difference do this is do that they come
difference do this is do that they come up with a purpose which is what I want
up with a purpose which is what I want
up with a purpose which is what I want you to do at the end this tape the start
you to do at the end this tape the start
you to do at the end this tape the start I know it’s not the end all and be all
I know it’s not the end all and be all
I know it’s not the end all and be all from one tape but I want to get you
from one tape but I want to get you
from one tape but I want to get you started on a mission statement a purpose
started on a mission statement a purpose
started on a mission statement a purpose statement for your life you got to have
statement for your life you got to have
statement for your life you got to have it if you don’t at least have a target
it if you don’t at least have a target
it if you don’t at least have a target if you don’t know what the goal of the
if you don’t know what the goal of the
if you don’t know what the goal of the game is you don’t know what to decide to
game is you don’t know what to decide to
game is you don’t know what to decide to do we have all these choices all these
do we have all these choices all these
do we have all these choices all these opportunities so you have to choose
opportunities so you have to choose
opportunities so you have to choose between something that’s good and bad
between something that’s good and bad
between something that’s good and bad you have to choose between something
you have to choose between something
you have to choose between something that’s good and something that’s great
that’s good and something that’s great
that’s good and something that’s great but if you don’t know what your purpose
but if you don’t know what your purpose
but if you don’t know what your purpose is you don’t know you value most of life
is you don’t know you value most of life
is you don’t know you value most of life you can’t make an easy decision all
you can’t make an easy decision all
you can’t make an easy decision all decision making is value clarification
decision making is value clarification
decision making is value clarification if you don’t know where you’re going
if you don’t know where you’re going
if you don’t know where you’re going then you can get there by any road
then you can get there by any road
then you can get there by any road you’re not gonna know the difference and
you’re not gonna know the difference and
you’re not gonna know the difference and everything looks like great opportunity
everything looks like great opportunity
everything looks like great opportunity one of the biggest challenges in life is
one of the biggest challenges in life is
one of the biggest challenges in life is choosing focusing your life deciding
choosing focusing your life deciding
choosing focusing your life deciding what to spend your time on what to spend
what to spend your time on what to spend
what to spend your time on what to spend your energy on having a clear purpose
your energy on having a clear purpose
your energy on having a clear purpose that allows you to do that the second
that allows you to do that the second
that allows you to do that the second thing you want to do to make your life
thing you want to do to make your life
thing you want to do to make your life work and those who succeed do this is
work and those who succeed do this is
work and those who succeed do this is they have fewer rules
they have fewer rules
they have fewer rules the more rules you have about how people
the more rules you have about how people
the more rules you have about how people have to be in how I’ve has to be for you
have to be in how I’ve has to be for you
have to be in how I’ve has to be for you to be happy the less happy you’re gonna
to be happy the less happy you’re gonna
to be happy the less happy you’re gonna be see you know the happiest people
be see you know the happiest people
be see you know the happiest people those people say you know every day
those people say you know every day
those people say you know every day above ground is a great day
above ground is a great day
above ground is a great day Happy’s people that people find joy in a
Happy’s people that people find joy in a
Happy’s people that people find joy in a smile joy an adventure joy in a simple
smile joy an adventure joy in a simple
smile joy an adventure joy in a simple action if you find joy in that area then
action if you find joy in that area then
action if you find joy in that area then all the big things are just a big bonus
all the big things are just a big bonus
all the big things are just a big bonus for you in your life so when you find
for you in your life so when you find
for you in your life so when you find yourself starting to react to something
yourself starting to react to something
yourself starting to react to something that someone else has done then you
that someone else has done then you
that someone else has done then you might want to ask yourself how
might want to ask yourself how
might want to ask yourself how significant is this really right is this
significant is this really right is this
significant is this really right is this so bad is it okay for this person to
so bad is it okay for this person to
so bad is it okay for this person to have a different opinion a different
have a different opinion a different
have a different opinion a different view of different feeling than me in
view of different feeling than me in
view of different feeling than me in this area and in most cases you might
this area and in most cases you might
this area and in most cases you might say yeah it is what would you have to
say yeah it is what would you have to
say yeah it is what would you have to believe in order to be upset that
believe in order to be upset that
believe in order to be upset that everybody has to live by your rules well
everybody has to live by your rules well
everybody has to live by your rules well maybe in some areas that’s real
maybe in some areas that’s real
maybe in some areas that’s real important you maybe some of theirs it’s
important you maybe some of theirs it’s
important you maybe some of theirs it’s not a significant you just let go of it
not a significant you just let go of it
not a significant you just let go of it have a lot less pain the third thing
have a lot less pain the third thing
have a lot less pain the third thing that people win the game of life seem to
that people win the game of life seem to
that people win the game of life seem to have in common is they’ve made their
have in common is they’ve made their
have in common is they’ve made their rules consistent they found the
rules consistent they found the
rules consistent they found the conflicts in their life when they find
conflicts in their life when they find
conflicts in their life when they find them they’ve been honest themself and
them they’ve been honest themself and
them they’ve been honest themself and say this is a total contradiction of
say this is a total contradiction of
say this is a total contradiction of what I normally believe in other areas
what I normally believe in other areas
what I normally believe in other areas no more there’s not I’m gonna live my
no more there’s not I’m gonna live my
no more there’s not I’m gonna live my life for thing these people do that make
life for thing these people do that make
life for thing these people do that make them succeed is they give themself
them succeed is they give themself
them succeed is they give themself pleasure whenever they win even when the
pleasure whenever they win even when the
pleasure whenever they win even when the world doesn’t this is really important
world doesn’t this is really important
world doesn’t this is really important you gotta realize that sometimes you’ll
you gotta realize that sometimes you’ll
you gotta realize that sometimes you’ll do everything right you won’t get
do everything right you won’t get
do everything right you won’t get acknowledged so what acknowledge
acknowledged so what acknowledge
acknowledged so what acknowledge yourself you got to catch yourself doing
yourself you got to catch yourself doing
yourself you got to catch yourself doing little things right and give yourself
little things right and give yourself
little things right and give yourself the pleasure you deserve after all if
the pleasure you deserve after all if
the pleasure you deserve after all if somebody else tells you hey great job
somebody else tells you hey great job
somebody else tells you hey great job and that makes you feel good it’s
and that makes you feel good it’s
and that makes you feel good it’s nothing saying great job that makes you
nothing saying great job that makes you
nothing saying great job that makes you feel good that’s when they say great job
feel good that’s when they say great job
feel good that’s when they say great job you stop and say oh that means I get to
you stop and say oh that means I get to
you stop and say oh that means I get to feel good and you send a little
feel good and you send a little
feel good and you send a little neurotransmitter lawlz yourself to feel
neurotransmitter lawlz yourself to feel
neurotransmitter lawlz yourself to feel the pleasure feeling in your body why
the pleasure feeling in your body why
the pleasure feeling in your body why not just give it to yourself so that you
not just give it to yourself so that you
not just give it to yourself so that you keep yourself on track so you’re always
keep yourself on track so you’re always
keep yourself on track so you’re always reinforcing good behaviors excellent
reinforcing good behaviors excellent
reinforcing good behaviors excellent behaviors commitments to your highest
behaviors commitments to your highest
behaviors commitments to your highest values
values
values fifth thing these people have in common
fifth thing these people have in common
fifth thing these people have in common is when they screw up when they don’t do
is when they screw up when they don’t do
is when they screw up when they don’t do things right when they violate their own
things right when they violate their own
things right when they violate their own values they violate their own sense of
values they violate their own sense of
values they violate their own sense of purpose in life they give himself a
purpose in life they give himself a
purpose in life they give himself a short burst of pain they say this is not
short burst of pain they say this is not
short burst of pain they say this is not who I am I stand for more they don’t
who I am I stand for more they don’t
who I am I stand for more they don’t wait to the world I have to give them
wait to the world I have to give them
wait to the world I have to give them pain that’s why they’re on track the
pain that’s why they’re on track the
pain that’s why they’re on track the sixth thing that these people that win
sixth thing that these people that win
sixth thing that these people that win have in common is that they know that
have in common is that they know that
have in common is that they know that everybody life has different rules and
everybody life has different rules and
everybody life has different rules and so when they get in a relationship with
so when they get in a relationship with
so when they get in a relationship with people they know they’ve got to have
people they know they’ve got to have
people they know they’ve got to have other people in my life to help succeed
other people in my life to help succeed
other people in my life to help succeed in particular area they try to find out
in particular area they try to find out
in particular area they try to find out their rules because if you know it’s
their rules because if you know it’s
their rules because if you know it’s most important to people you know what
most important to people you know what
most important to people you know what their rules for life are what their
their rules for life are what their
their rules for life are what their musts are in life it’s a lot easier and
musts are in life it’s a lot easier and
musts are in life it’s a lot easier and lastly people who succeed a life they’ve
lastly people who succeed a life they’ve
lastly people who succeed a life they’ve learned that life has a purpose but they
learned that life has a purpose but they
learned that life has a purpose but they also at the same time don’t take life
also at the same time don’t take life
also at the same time don’t take life too seriously
too seriously
too seriously they don’t take themselves too seriously
they don’t take themselves too seriously
they don’t take themselves too seriously what’s that old funny metaphor why do
what’s that old funny metaphor why do
what’s that old funny metaphor why do angels fly because they take themselves
angels fly because they take themselves
angels fly because they take themselves lately first the bottom line is we’ve
lately first the bottom line is we’ve
lately first the bottom line is we’ve got to look at life in a different way
got to look at life in a different way
got to look at life in a different way now with all this conversation we’ve had
now with all this conversation we’ve had
now with all this conversation we’ve had here about purpose what are you and I
here about purpose what are you and I
here about purpose what are you and I gonna do right now so that you have a
gonna do right now so that you have a
gonna do right now so that you have a greater sense of meaning but one is I
greater sense of meaning but one is I
greater sense of meaning but one is I don’t need you just go out and create
don’t need you just go out and create
don’t need you just go out and create this grandiose purpose and write pages
this grandiose purpose and write pages
this grandiose purpose and write pages and pages and pages I think that the
and pages and pages I think that the
and pages and pages I think that the simplest things can be the most powerful
simplest things can be the most powerful
simplest things can be the most powerful things so if you can now close your eyes
things so if you can now close your eyes
things so if you can now close your eyes and think about what you want to be when
and think about what you want to be when
and think about what you want to be when you’re gonna grow up go back to a time
you’re gonna grow up go back to a time
you’re gonna grow up go back to a time when you’re 5 6 7 8 9 10 years old but
when you’re 5 6 7 8 9 10 years old but
when you’re 5 6 7 8 9 10 years old but you want to be back then what you want
you want to be back then what you want
you want to be back then what you want to do who are your role models and why
to do who are your role models and why
to do who are your role models and why did you want to be that
did you want to be that
did you want to be that think about it just for a second your
think about it just for a second your
think about it just for a second your head as I’m saying this it might be want
head as I’m saying this it might be want
head as I’m saying this it might be want to write a few these things down in fact
to write a few these things down in fact
to write a few these things down in fact pretty soon you’re definitely gonna want
pretty soon you’re definitely gonna want
pretty soon you’re definitely gonna want to write things down so that’d be good
to write things down so that’d be good
to write things down so that’d be good to stop the tape right here and just
to stop the tape right here and just
to stop the tape right here and just think about what your purpose is and
think about what your purpose is and
think about what your purpose is and pull out a piece of paper and a pen or a
pull out a piece of paper and a pen or a
pull out a piece of paper and a pen or a little computer and let’s work together
little computer and let’s work together
little computer and let’s work together on this per second what were some of the
on this per second what were some of the
on this per second what were some of the things you wanted to be when you were
things you wanted to be when you were
things you wanted to be when you were growing up when you’re a little kid I
growing up when you’re a little kid I
growing up when you’re a little kid I remember one of the first things I
remember one of the first things I
remember one of the first things I wanted to be was an archaeologist now
wanted to be was an archaeologist now
wanted to be was an archaeologist now whatever you wanted to be here’s the
whatever you wanted to be here’s the
whatever you wanted to be here’s the question I want to ask you why did you
question I want to ask you why did you
question I want to ask you why did you want to be that in other words what was
want to be that in other words what was
want to be that in other words what was the feeling you were hoping to get from
the feeling you were hoping to get from
the feeling you were hoping to get from that what were the sensations what were
that what were the sensations what were
that what were the sensations what were you wanting to be and do what we wanted
you wanting to be and do what we wanted
you wanting to be and do what we wanted to get from that when I think back on I
to get from that when I think back on I
to get from that when I think back on I think about what I really want to be as
think about what I really want to be as
think about what I really want to be as an archaeologist is I wanted to discover
an archaeologist is I wanted to discover
an archaeologist is I wanted to discover things and that was the biggest thing I
things and that was the biggest thing I
things and that was the biggest thing I want to discover things that had not
want to discover things that had not
want to discover things that had not been asked ever before something new
been asked ever before something new
been asked ever before something new something unique something different and
something unique something different and
something unique something different and I wanted to share that with people I
I wanted to share that with people I
I wanted to share that with people I don’t want to be a person who we’re not
don’t want to be a person who we’re not
don’t want to be a person who we’re not discovered and then shared that
discovered and then shared that
discovered and then shared that discovery with others they know it’s
discovery with others they know it’s
discovery with others they know it’s interesting I’m doing that today
interesting I’m doing that today
interesting I’m doing that today I’m just not sticking my head in the
I’m just not sticking my head in the
I’m just not sticking my head in the sand and doing it I’m doing it by
sand and doing it I’m doing it by
sand and doing it I’m doing it by sticking my head in other people’s
sticking my head in other people’s
sticking my head in other people’s brains and find out what makes them tick
brains and find out what makes them tick
brains and find out what makes them tick and what find out what makes me tick and
and what find out what makes me tick and
and what find out what makes me tick and then sharing some of that but that that
then sharing some of that but that that
then sharing some of that but that that feeling that same feeling but I wanted
feeling that same feeling but I wanted
feeling that same feeling but I wanted then I found a way to do it today in a
then I found a way to do it today in a
then I found a way to do it today in a new way the side challenges think about
new way the side challenges think about
new way the side challenges think about what was it you really wanted from that
what was it you really wanted from that
what was it you really wanted from that then think of something else you wanted
then think of something else you wanted
then think of something else you wanted to be when you’re growing up I wanted to
to be when you’re growing up I wanted to
to be when you’re growing up I wanted to also be a police artist later on
also be a police artist later on
also be a police artist later on remember that you know those guys that
remember that you know those guys that
remember that you know those guys that draw those pictures you know and show
draw those pictures you know and show
draw those pictures you know and show people and catch the bad guys and why
people and catch the bad guys and why
people and catch the bad guys and why did I want to do that what I want to get
did I want to do that what I want to get
did I want to do that what I want to get from them oh gosh
from them oh gosh
from them oh gosh I said why LA I wanted to create I
I said why LA I wanted to create I
I said why LA I wanted to create I wanted to be creative and and I wanted
wanted to be creative and and I wanted
wanted to be creative and and I wanted to help people I wanted to help people
to help people I wanted to help people
to help people I wanted to help people do the right things I want to be father
do the right things I want to be father
do the right things I want to be father payment one of they catch bad guys but
payment one of they catch bad guys but
payment one of they catch bad guys but most importantly I wanted to create and
most importantly I wanted to create and
most importantly I wanted to create and help people well guess what I found a
help people well guess what I found a
help people well guess what I found a way to do that today different than I
way to do that today different than I
way to do that today different than I originally thought but the same purpose
originally thought but the same purpose
originally thought but the same purpose is there now maybe it’s not the same
is there now maybe it’s not the same
is there now maybe it’s not the same purpose for you for all the things you
purpose for you for all the things you
purpose for you for all the things you want to do maybe they have a common
want to do maybe they have a common
want to do maybe they have a common thread or maybe they’re different
thread or maybe they’re different
thread or maybe they’re different threads that are rapport
threads that are rapport
threads that are rapport what else did you want to be when you’re
what else did you want to be when you’re
what else did you want to be when you’re going up and why did you want it what
going up and why did you want it what
going up and why did you want it what feelings did you hope it would give you
feelings did you hope it would give you
feelings did you hope it would give you what did you what did you hope would
what did you what did you hope would
what did you what did you hope would come from it think for a second I’ll
come from it think for a second I’ll
come from it think for a second I’ll give you another one in mind while
give you another one in mind while
give you another one in mind while you’re thinking try and trigger you also
you’re thinking try and trigger you also
you’re thinking try and trigger you also want to do well I wanted to definitely
want to do well I wanted to definitely
want to do well I wanted to definitely be a rock star I wanted to be able to
be a rock star I wanted to be able to
be a rock star I wanted to be able to entertain people to change their
entertain people to change their
entertain people to change their emotional states to use my voice and my
emotional states to use my voice and my
emotional states to use my voice and my face and my body to give people more
face and my body to give people more
face and my body to give people more passion in their lives and I found
passion in their lives and I found
passion in their lives and I found another way to do that plus I get to
another way to do that plus I get to
another way to do that plus I get to work with some of these people the other
work with some of these people the other
work with some of these people the other day I got a chance to go to the
day I got a chance to go to the
day I got a chance to go to the Aerosmith concert I kind of grew up
Aerosmith concert I kind of grew up
Aerosmith concert I kind of grew up listening to those guys and I found out
listening to those guys and I found out
listening to those guys and I found out the Steven Tyler and some of these guys
the Steven Tyler and some of these guys
the Steven Tyler and some of these guys are fans of mine as well went backstage
are fans of mine as well went backstage
are fans of mine as well went backstage and I met Tim Collins who’s their
and I met Tim Collins who’s their
and I met Tim Collins who’s their manager and he told me a phenomenal
manager and he told me a phenomenal
manager and he told me a phenomenal story so that years ago in the early 80s
story so that years ago in the early 80s
story so that years ago in the early 80s when Aerosmith was in really bad shape
when Aerosmith was in really bad shape
when Aerosmith was in really bad shape the guys were hooked on heroin and they
the guys were hooked on heroin and they
the guys were hooked on heroin and they were losing everything financially and
were losing everything financially and
were losing everything financially and the group had broken up but he decided
the group had broken up but he decided
the group had broken up but he decided he’s gonna turn it around and he read
he’s gonna turn it around and he read
he’s gonna turn it around and he read two books Think and Grow Rich and a
two books Think and Grow Rich and a
two books Think and Grow Rich and a little book called unlimited power and
little book called unlimited power and
little book called unlimited power and he said that what he learned there gave
he said that what he learned there gave
he said that what he learned there gave him the inspiration and some of the
him the inspiration and some of the
him the inspiration and some of the tools and strategies that get himself
tools and strategies that get himself
tools and strategies that get himself off heroin and coke and they need a
off heroin and coke and they need a
off heroin and coke and they need a group intervention and help the other
group intervention and help the other
group intervention and help the other guys do the same and these guys are now
guys do the same and these guys are now
guys do the same and these guys are now in a mission they’re totally clean
in a mission they’re totally clean
in a mission they’re totally clean they’re Evian water drinking guys that
they’re Evian water drinking guys that
they’re Evian water drinking guys that are out there hearing their rock and
are out there hearing their rock and
are out there hearing their rock and roll on their message and they’re doing
roll on their message and they’re doing
roll on their message and they’re doing healthfully I got a chance to meet
healthfully I got a chance to meet
healthfully I got a chance to meet Stephen
Stephen
Stephen Tyler is just an incredible guy when
Tyler is just an incredible guy when
Tyler is just an incredible guy when these guys have been touring for 23
these guys have been touring for 23
these guys have been touring for 23 years giving their all passionately
years giving their all passionately
years giving their all passionately everyday feel like their brothers and I
everyday feel like their brothers and I
everyday feel like their brothers and I was really interesting cuz he said you
was really interesting cuz he said you
was really interesting cuz he said you know I watched on TV all the time I feel
know I watched on TV all the time I feel
know I watched on TV all the time I feel like we walk on the same path you know
like we walk on the same path you know
like we walk on the same path you know and he said I listened to your tapes he
and he said I listened to your tapes he
and he said I listened to your tapes he said we really have the same mission so
said we really have the same mission so
said we really have the same mission so you know do you think you’d get together
you know do you think you’d get together
you know do you think you’d get together us and do a gig for us what do you mean
us and do a gig for us what do you mean
us and do a gig for us what do you mean he’s like you know the guys on the
he’s like you know the guys on the
he’s like you know the guys on the weekend did you maybe like do your gig
weekend did you maybe like do your gig
weekend did you maybe like do your gig for us so we can all participate on
for us so we can all participate on
for us so we can all participate on weekend as they’re allowed when I pinch
weekend as they’re allowed when I pinch
weekend as they’re allowed when I pinch myself I sound cool now I get to do a
myself I sound cool now I get to do a
myself I sound cool now I get to do a gig for Aerosmith I’m not out there rock
gig for Aerosmith I’m not out there rock
gig for Aerosmith I’m not out there rock and rollin but sort of I am I’m working
and rollin but sort of I am I’m working
and rollin but sort of I am I’m working with the rock and rollers there’s fun so
with the rock and rollers there’s fun so
with the rock and rollers there’s fun so my point is maybe you’re not doing what
my point is maybe you’re not doing what
my point is maybe you’re not doing what you originally envisioned but maybe
you originally envisioned but maybe
you originally envisioned but maybe you’ll find a way to do it even better
you’ll find a way to do it even better
you’ll find a way to do it even better if you have some faith maybe if you keep
if you have some faith maybe if you keep
if you have some faith maybe if you keep developing yourself and you know at
developing yourself and you know at
developing yourself and you know at least the emotion you want the
least the emotion you want the
least the emotion you want the contribution you want to create just
contribution you want to create just
contribution you want to create just find a better way most importantly
find a better way most importantly
find a better way most importantly before you can find a way you got to
before you can find a way you got to
before you can find a way you got to know the essence of what it is you
know the essence of what it is you
know the essence of what it is you really want what is that purpose that’s
really want what is that purpose that’s
really want what is that purpose that’s what I’m really asking you about now
what I’m really asking you about now
what I’m really asking you about now with your eyes closed again think about
with your eyes closed again think about
with your eyes closed again think about a situation in your life when you felt
a situation in your life when you felt
a situation in your life when you felt like you’re really on a roll you know
like you’re really on a roll you know
like you’re really on a roll you know the kind of situation I’m talking about
the kind of situation I’m talking about
the kind of situation I’m talking about we you just felt incredibly good at
we you just felt incredibly good at
we you just felt incredibly good at great feelings but things were just
great feelings but things were just
great feelings but things were just flowing things were effortless when you
flowing things were effortless when you
flowing things were effortless when you thought yourself
thought yourself
thought yourself wow I love this this is what life’s
wow I love this this is what life’s
wow I love this this is what life’s about I love this is it this is this is
about I love this is it this is this is
about I love this is it this is this is what life is really about
what life is really about
what life is really about can you remember time like that in your
can you remember time like that in your
can you remember time like that in your life at any age younger all will you
life at any age younger all will you
life at any age younger all will you really felt like you’re in that flow
really felt like you’re in that flow
really felt like you’re in that flow even this is it this is what life’s
even this is it this is what life’s
even this is it this is what life’s about think of a situation like that
about think of a situation like that
about think of a situation like that right now
right now
right now remember that time that back into your
remember that time that back into your
remember that time that back into your mind back in your body like you were
mind back in your body like you were
mind back in your body like you were there and look through your own eyes as
there and look through your own eyes as
there and look through your own eyes as you were then when you felt like this is
you were then when you felt like this is
you were then when you felt like this is what life’s about and see what you saw
what life’s about and see what you saw
what life’s about and see what you saw here what you heard what were you doing
here what you heard what were you doing
here what you heard what were you doing what were you feeling
what were you feeling
what were you feeling what were the state you’re in what were
what were the state you’re in what were
what were the state you’re in what were you experiencing yeah think about it and
you experiencing yeah think about it and
you experiencing yeah think about it and tell me what is it and it was there
tell me what is it and it was there
tell me what is it and it was there anything in common with this with some
anything in common with this with some
anything in common with this with some of the other things you’ve wanted to
of the other things you’ve wanted to
of the other things you’ve wanted to have in your life the feelings you want
have in your life the feelings you want
have in your life the feelings you want to have maybe you wanted to grow or
to have maybe you wanted to grow or
to have maybe you wanted to grow or create or contributer discover or expand
create or contributer discover or expand
create or contributer discover or expand or challenge what is it love what were
or challenge what is it love what were
or challenge what is it love what were the feelings what were you doing then
the feelings what were you doing then
the feelings what were you doing then when you get a sense of what that was
when you get a sense of what that was
when you get a sense of what that was then think about this they got another
then think about this they got another
then think about this they got another situation you’ll I think of a second one
situation you’ll I think of a second one
situation you’ll I think of a second one where you felt like you’re on a roll at
where you felt like you’re on a roll at
where you felt like you’re on a roll at some other point in your life when
some other point in your life when
some other point in your life when things were flowing when you felt this
things were flowing when you felt this
things were flowing when you felt this is it this is what life’s about I love
is it this is what life’s about I love
is it this is what life’s about I love this think of another time like that to
this think of another time like that to
this think of another time like that to step into that situation as well
step into that situation as well
step into that situation as well step into it right now and she step in
step into it right now and she step in
step into it right now and she step in that situation look around see what you
that situation look around see what you
that situation look around see what you saw and hear it you’re her that’s you
saw and hear it you’re her that’s you
saw and hear it you’re her that’s you what you were feeling man what’s
what you were feeling man what’s
what you were feeling man what’s happening in that moment not just what
happening in that moment not just what
happening in that moment not just what you were doing notice what you were
you were doing notice what you were
you were doing notice what you were doing were you creating or writing or
doing were you creating or writing or
doing were you creating or writing or speaking communicating or or
speaking communicating or or
speaking communicating or or manufacturing something or studying or
manufacturing something or studying or
manufacturing something or studying or learning what were you doing but also
learning what were you doing but also
learning what were you doing but also how are you feeling what would the state
how are you feeling what would the state
how are you feeling what would the state you’re in and what were you doing for
you’re in and what were you doing for
you’re in and what were you doing for others that they were involved what
others that they were involved what
others that they were involved what other people involved what was the
other people involved what was the
other people involved what was the process what how are you being and what
process what how are you being and what
process what how are you being and what were you doing feel in your body is
were you doing feel in your body is
were you doing feel in your body is there anything that is similar between
there anything that is similar between
there anything that is similar between this and last experience or anything
this and last experience or anything
this and last experience or anything about this that’s similar between this
about this that’s similar between this
about this that’s similar between this and the feelings that you wanted for
and the feelings that you wanted for
and the feelings that you wanted for those things you wanted to be when
those things you wanted to be when
those things you wanted to be when you’re gonna grow up that’s it notice it
you’re gonna grow up that’s it notice it
you’re gonna grow up that’s it notice it and capture not only the idea of this
and capture not only the idea of this
and capture not only the idea of this but the feeling as well now one more
but the feeling as well now one more
but the feeling as well now one more time think of something else another
time think of something else another
time think of something else another time at any age when you felt like
time at any age when you felt like
time at any age when you felt like you’re on a major role things are really
you’re on a major role things are really
you’re on a major role things are really fun we felt incredible you felt like I
fun we felt incredible you felt like I
fun we felt incredible you felt like I love this this is what life’s really
love this this is what life’s really
love this this is what life’s really about this is it
about this is it
about this is it think of another situation like that
think of another situation like that
think of another situation like that right now and as you step into that
right now and as you step into that
right now and as you step into that situation right now notice what were you
situation right now notice what were you
situation right now notice what were you doing what were you creating what we
doing what were you creating what we
doing what were you creating what we have sharing what were you feeling
have sharing what were you feeling
have sharing what were you feeling feeling these feelings think about the
feeling these feelings think about the
feeling these feelings think about the purpose of your life if you were gonna
purpose of your life if you were gonna
purpose of your life if you were gonna say it in a simple phrase not even
say it in a simple phrase not even
say it in a simple phrase not even paragraphs and paragraphs simple phrase
paragraphs and paragraphs simple phrase
paragraphs and paragraphs simple phrase or a sentence or two and you’re gonna
or a sentence or two and you’re gonna
or a sentence or two and you’re gonna write down the purpose in my life is to
write down the purpose in my life is to
write down the purpose in my life is to what if you’re gonna do it you’re gonna
what if you’re gonna do it you’re gonna
what if you’re gonna do it you’re gonna have a couple simple criteria one has
have a couple simple criteria one has
have a couple simple criteria one has got to be stated positive not the
got to be stated positive not the
got to be stated positive not the personal life is to stop all the
personal life is to stop all the
personal life is to stop all the horrible things in the world no no
horrible things in the world no no
horrible things in the world no no something positive something stated in
something positive something stated in
something positive something stated in the positive and if it was gonna be
the positive and if it was gonna be
the positive and if it was gonna be something brief and it was gonna be
something brief and it was gonna be
something brief and it was gonna be something emotionally charged in terms
something emotionally charged in terms
something emotionally charged in terms of its words for you it has to have how
of its words for you it has to have how
of its words for you it has to have how you’re gonna be as a person and what we
you’re gonna be as a person and what we
you’re gonna be as a person and what we gonna do and it’s gotta include not just
gonna do and it’s gotta include not just
gonna do and it’s gotta include not just other people like I’m gonna change other
other people like I’m gonna change other
other people like I’m gonna change other people’s lives or I’m gonna make the
people’s lives or I’m gonna make the
people’s lives or I’m gonna make the world better for other people it’s gotta
world better for other people it’s gotta
world better for other people it’s gotta you got to be in your own mission
you got to be in your own mission
you got to be in your own mission statement you got to be your own purpose
statement you got to be your own purpose
statement you got to be your own purpose today but you got to be in there too and
today but you got to be in there too and
today but you got to be in there too and other people don’t have a purpose – for
other people don’t have a purpose – for
other people don’t have a purpose – for me to be happy cuz we’re all connected
me to be happy cuz we’re all connected
me to be happy cuz we’re all connected so if it’s you and others being and
so if it’s you and others being and
so if it’s you and others being and doing brief ensure what is the purpose
doing brief ensure what is the purpose
doing brief ensure what is the purpose of your life
of your life
of your life what is it right now what comes into
what is it right now what comes into
what is it right now what comes into your head not the right answer not the
your head not the right answer not the
your head not the right answer not the perfect answer just the answer the
perfect answer just the answer the
perfect answer just the answer the purpose your life is to be and do what
purpose your life is to be and do what
purpose your life is to be and do what for yourself another just say it out
for yourself another just say it out
for yourself another just say it out loud just say it don’t even write down
loud just say it don’t even write down
loud just say it don’t even write down at first and you got a pen and paper
at first and you got a pen and paper
at first and you got a pen and paper than right at that purpose my life is no
than right at that purpose my life is no
than right at that purpose my life is no what say it again try something keep
what say it again try something keep
what say it again try something keep changing it and if you write it down
changing it and if you write it down
changing it and if you write it down each time it’ll give you better saw it I
each time it’ll give you better saw it I
each time it’ll give you better saw it I prefer if you write it down but just
prefer if you write it down but just
prefer if you write it down but just come up with something
come up with something
come up with something the purpose of my life for me Tony
the purpose of my life for me Tony
the purpose of my life for me Tony Robbins is to serve God and my fellow
Robbins is to serve God and my fellow
Robbins is to serve God and my fellow man by being a powerful loving
man by being a powerful loving
man by being a powerful loving passionate outrageous courageous strong
passionate outrageous courageous strong
passionate outrageous courageous strong playful crazy example of the unlimited
playful crazy example of the unlimited
playful crazy example of the unlimited possibilities that God gives when you
possibilities that God gives when you
possibilities that God gives when you commit your life to service when you
commit your life to service when you
commit your life to service when you really focused on contribution that’s my
really focused on contribution that’s my
really focused on contribution that’s my life’s about I know what I feel like I
life’s about I know what I feel like I
life’s about I know what I feel like I can change the word slightly here in
can change the word slightly here in
can change the word slightly here in there but I know the essence of my life
there but I know the essence of my life
there but I know the essence of my life and you’ve got to know what that is for
and you’ve got to know what that is for
and you’ve got to know what that is for you that is what will help you to make
you that is what will help you to make
you that is what will help you to make the decisions that will give you the
the decisions that will give you the
the decisions that will give you the motivation to get up early and stay up
motivation to get up early and stay up
motivation to get up early and stay up late that’ll make you connect with
late that’ll make you connect with
late that’ll make you connect with people the way you’ve never connected
people the way you’ve never connected
people the way you’ve never connected before but you got to know what it is
before but you got to know what it is
before but you got to know what it is and it’s got to be more than just you
and it’s got to be more than just you
and it’s got to be more than just you you and others gonna debrief it’s got to
you and others gonna debrief it’s got to
you and others gonna debrief it’s got to be emotions got to be intense so go do
be emotions got to be intense so go do
be emotions got to be intense so go do it right now turn off the tape and just
it right now turn off the tape and just
it right now turn off the tape and just start writing my crazy what is the
start writing my crazy what is the
start writing my crazy what is the purpose of your life and when you write
purpose of your life and when you write
purpose of your life and when you write something write another thing cross it
something write another thing cross it
something write another thing cross it out write another one to keep writing it
out write another one to keep writing it
out write another one to keep writing it better and better so you got something
better and better so you got something
better and better so you got something you like them to turn the tape back on
you like them to turn the tape back on
you like them to turn the tape back on go for it do it now the purpose of your
go for it do it now the purpose of your
go for it do it now the purpose of your life is to what
you did turn this thing off didn’t you
you did turn this thing off didn’t you you’re not just sitting there thinking
you’re not just sitting there thinking
you’re not just sitting there thinking come on if you write it out it’ll be
come on if you write it out it’ll be
come on if you write it out it’ll be better with more precision turn off if
better with more precision turn off if
better with more precision turn off if you’re on your way back then just ignore
you’re on your way back then just ignore
you’re on your way back then just ignore the last sentence welcome back daddy got
the last sentence welcome back daddy got
the last sentence welcome back daddy got something you really like I hope so
something you really like I hope so
something you really like I hope so I know it’s not the end-all be-all it
I know it’s not the end-all be-all it
I know it’s not the end-all be-all it better not be perfect or I’m gonna come
better not be perfect or I’m gonna come
better not be perfect or I’m gonna come through this tape and grab you your job
through this tape and grab you your job
through this tape and grab you your job is not to be perfect it’s to be
is not to be perfect it’s to be
is not to be perfect it’s to be excellent perfection can never really be
excellent perfection can never really be
excellent perfection can never really be achieved in any way if you’re truly a
achieved in any way if you’re truly a
achieved in any way if you’re truly a perfectionist then it’s never perfect
perfectionist then it’s never perfect
perfectionist then it’s never perfect but it’s getting better all the time so
but it’s getting better all the time so
but it’s getting better all the time so what is the purpose of your life and how
what is the purpose of your life and how
what is the purpose of your life and how does it feel and you think about this is
does it feel and you think about this is
does it feel and you think about this is the purpose of my life let me give you
the purpose of my life let me give you
the purpose of my life let me give you one other criteria did you write it so
one other criteria did you write it so
one other criteria did you write it so you can only achieve it once you die if
you can only achieve it once you die if
you can only achieve it once you die if so change it because we don’t want you
so change it because we don’t want you
so change it because we don’t want you have to die to achieve your purpose
have to die to achieve your purpose
have to die to achieve your purpose which is what some people have it should
which is what some people have it should
which is what some people have it should be something you can experience every
be something you can experience every
be something you can experience every day you know whatever you do whether
day you know whatever you do whether
day you know whatever you do whether you’re just sitting at the lunch counter
you’re just sitting at the lunch counter
you’re just sitting at the lunch counter walking through a grocery store you’re
walking through a grocery store you’re
walking through a grocery store you’re going and conducting your business I
going and conducting your business I
going and conducting your business I don’t care what it is it should be
don’t care what it is it should be
don’t care what it is it should be something you can feel and you gotta
something you can feel and you gotta
something you can feel and you gotta find what that is for you and I had a
find what that is for you and I had a
find what that is for you and I had a language that at least for now see and
language that at least for now see and
language that at least for now see and know the goal of the game with that your
know the goal of the game with that your
know the goal of the game with that your life takes on a whole nother dimension
life takes on a whole nother dimension
life takes on a whole nother dimension so I should go out over the next month
so I should go out over the next month
so I should go out over the next month try something take this purpose
try something take this purpose
try something take this purpose statement and keep in front of you put
statement and keep in front of you put
statement and keep in front of you put it in the system you use for managing
it in the system you use for managing
it in the system you use for managing your time and keeping your to-do list
your time and keeping your to-do list
your time and keeping your to-do list put it up on the wall nearby and as you
put it up on the wall nearby and as you
put it up on the wall nearby and as you look at it each day don’t just write it
look at it each day don’t just write it
look at it each day don’t just write it and forget about it think about each day
and forget about it think about each day
and forget about it think about each day how can I live my purpose more when you
how can I live my purpose more when you
how can I live my purpose more when you go to make a decision about doing
go to make a decision about doing
go to make a decision about doing something and you’re not sure why you’re
something and you’re not sure why you’re
something and you’re not sure why you’re doing it you can always go back to your
doing it you can always go back to your
doing it you can always go back to your purpose you can do it going into a
purpose you can do it going into a
purpose you can do it going into a meeting and already going to meeting I’m
meeting and already going to meeting I’m
meeting and already going to meeting I’m going to meet I’m gonna be powerful
going to meet I’m gonna be powerful
going to meet I’m gonna be powerful loving passionate rageous playful I’m
loving passionate rageous playful I’m
loving passionate rageous playful I’m gonna inspire people to see what’s
gonna inspire people to see what’s
gonna inspire people to see what’s possible if we really serve all the
possible if we really serve all the
possible if we really serve all the people around us that’s not how to
people around us that’s not how to
people around us that’s not how to figure out you have a guiding principle
figure out you have a guiding principle
figure out you have a guiding principle no matter what happens
no matter what happens
no matter what happens principles don’t change the essence of
principles don’t change the essence of
principles don’t change the essence of who you are will not change the
who you are will not change the
who you are will not change the environment they change the vehicles may
environment they change the vehicles may
environment they change the vehicles may change but what’s inside of you won’t
change but what’s inside of you won’t
change but what’s inside of you won’t let me say one final thing to you before
let me say one final thing to you before
let me say one final thing to you before it’s in do you often have you take some
it’s in do you often have you take some
it’s in do you often have you take some more time to work on your mission state
more time to work on your mission state
more time to work on your mission state one is uh if you want to send me your
one is uh if you want to send me your
one is uh if you want to send me your mission statement the Robbins research
mission statement the Robbins research
mission statement the Robbins research I’d love to receive it I’d love to see
I’d love to receive it I’d love to see
I’d love to receive it I’d love to see how you’ve language the purpose of your
how you’ve language the purpose of your
how you’ve language the purpose of your life so if you feel like doing that
life so if you feel like doing that
life so if you feel like doing that please do and address it to me
please do and address it to me
please do and address it to me personally the other thing is this I
personally the other thing is this I
personally the other thing is this I want you to realize that very often not
want you to realize that very often not
want you to realize that very often not getting your dream gives you your
getting your dream gives you your
getting your dream gives you your destiny what I mean by that is this so
destiny what I mean by that is this so
destiny what I mean by that is this so often as I said when we start this tape
often as I said when we start this tape
often as I said when we start this tape people set up a goal or a demon they
people set up a goal or a demon they
people set up a goal or a demon they don’t get it and then they feel so
don’t get it and then they feel so
don’t get it and then they feel so disappointed so frustrated sometimes
disappointed so frustrated sometimes
disappointed so frustrated sometimes resentful towards others or are took
resentful towards others or are took
resentful towards others or are took their Creator or towards themselves are
their Creator or towards themselves are
their Creator or towards themselves are not accomplishing or achieving it but
not accomplishing or achieving it but
not accomplishing or achieving it but the truth of the matter is whenever
the truth of the matter is whenever
the truth of the matter is whenever something happens you must find an
something happens you must find an
something happens you must find an empowering meaning you must ask yourself
empowering meaning you must ask yourself
empowering meaning you must ask yourself how can I use this if this was to serve
how can I use this if this was to serve
how can I use this if this was to serve a higher purpose in my life how would I
a higher purpose in my life how would I
a higher purpose in my life how would I use it to serve a higher purpose if this
use it to serve a higher purpose if this
use it to serve a higher purpose if this was gonna make me into somebody more how
was gonna make me into somebody more how
was gonna make me into somebody more how would I use it to make me more and very
would I use it to make me more and very
would I use it to make me more and very often in life if you really look back on
often in life if you really look back on
often in life if you really look back on your life the worst situations in your
your life the worst situations in your
your life the worst situations in your life have been the best if you were
life have been the best if you were
life have been the best if you were willing to trust that it happened for a
willing to trust that it happened for a
willing to trust that it happened for a reason that somehow even though this is
reason that somehow even though this is
reason that somehow even though this is painful you’d never want it to happen
painful you’d never want it to happen
painful you’d never want it to happen again somehow this is gonna serve you
again somehow this is gonna serve you
again somehow this is gonna serve you maybe you were hurt by someone or some
maybe you were hurt by someone or some
maybe you were hurt by someone or some situation but because of that your kids
situation but because of that your kids
situation but because of that your kids will never be hurt the same way you did
will never be hurt the same way you did
will never be hurt the same way you did when you were a child or maybe you went
when you were a child or maybe you went
when you were a child or maybe you went through some tough time but because of
through some tough time but because of
through some tough time but because of that you did help somebody else so they
that you did help somebody else so they
that you did help somebody else so they won’t have to go through the same pain
won’t have to go through the same pain
won’t have to go through the same pain you did maybe the pain made you make a
you did maybe the pain made you make a
you did maybe the pain made you make a new decision to send you’re in a brand
new decision to send you’re in a brand
new decision to send you’re in a brand new direction that brought you to this
new direction that brought you to this
new direction that brought you to this destiny I really truly believe in my
destiny I really truly believe in my
destiny I really truly believe in my heart of hearts that have are willing to
heart of hearts that have are willing to
heart of hearts that have are willing to trust and have fate and look for answers
trust and have fate and look for answers
trust and have fate and look for answers and actively pursue them that every
and actively pursue them that every
and actively pursue them that every human experience supports us even those
human experience supports us even those
human experience supports us even those that are painful and I believe we can
that are painful and I believe we can
that are painful and I believe we can probably do them without the pain bullet
probably do them without the pain bullet
probably do them without the pain bullet the pain to strike or something happens
the pain to strike or something happens
the pain to strike or something happens outside your control which it will
outside your control which it will
outside your control which it will instead of living in fear that that will
instead of living in fear that that will
instead of living in fear that that will happen someday you want to live for the
happen someday you want to live for the
happen someday you want to live for the sense of certainty that says no matter
sense of certainty that says no matter
sense of certainty that says no matter what happens I will benefit from because
what happens I will benefit from because
what happens I will benefit from because I will look for benefits and therefore I
I will look for benefits and therefore I
I will look for benefits and therefore I will find them that simple now I’ll give
will find them that simple now I’ll give
will find them that simple now I’ll give you a good metaphor you know there’s a
you a good metaphor you know there’s a
you a good metaphor you know there’s a great movie I’m sure you recall was
great movie I’m sure you recall was
great movie I’m sure you recall was called the Field of Dreams in it they
called the Field of Dreams in it they
called the Field of Dreams in it they said if you build it they will come
said if you build it they will come
said if you build it they will come in the movie Kevin Costner seeks out an
in the movie Kevin Costner seeks out an
in the movie Kevin Costner seeks out an old man by the name of dr. am he’s
old man by the name of dr. am he’s
old man by the name of dr. am he’s played by Burt Lancaster and when he
played by Burt Lancaster and when he
played by Burt Lancaster and when he first meets this man he’s going to see
first meets this man he’s going to see
first meets this man he’s going to see him to tell him about a field of dreams
him to tell him about a field of dreams
him to tell him about a field of dreams that Kevin has developed a place where
that Kevin has developed a place where
that Kevin has developed a place where these old men could come back and play
these old men could come back and play
these old men could come back and play again to be young again to live their
again to be young again to live their
again to be young again to live their dream Hilary meets doctor and he starts
dream Hilary meets doctor and he starts
dream Hilary meets doctor and he starts to talk to him he says I understand that
to talk to him he says I understand that
to talk to him he says I understand that you only were able to play one inning in
you only were able to play one inning in
you only were able to play one inning in your life because I Graham said well
your life because I Graham said well
your life because I Graham said well yeah my whole life’s dream was always to
yeah my whole life’s dream was always to
yeah my whole life’s dream was always to play baseball to be a professional he
play baseball to be a professional he
play baseball to be a professional he said every single day I gave my all I
said every single day I gave my all I
said every single day I gave my all I lived this passion he said you know I
lived this passion he said you know I
lived this passion he said you know I took ground balls and batting practice
took ground balls and batting practice
took ground balls and batting practice and I pushed myself and he said finally
and I pushed myself and he said finally
and I pushed myself and he said finally I made it I made it to the big leagues
I made it I made it to the big leagues
I made it I made it to the big leagues and the whole season went by without my
and the whole season went by without my
and the whole season went by without my being able to play and finally at the
being able to play and finally at the
being able to play and finally at the end of the season in the eighth inning
end of the season in the eighth inning
end of the season in the eighth inning the coach looked over at me and said kid
the coach looked over at me and said kid
the coach looked over at me and said kid I want you in right field he said I was
I want you in right field he said I was
I want you in right field he said I was so happy I couldn’t believe it I ran out
so happy I couldn’t believe it I ran out
so happy I couldn’t believe it I ran out on the field and he said I stood out
on the field and he said I stood out
on the field and he said I stood out there and right field waiting for
there and right field waiting for
there and right field waiting for somebody hit it to me waiting for my
somebody hit it to me waiting for my
somebody hit it to me waiting for my chance and nothing happened then when we
chance and nothing happened then when we
chance and nothing happened then when we came back in he said my turn to bat
came back in he said my turn to bat
came back in he said my turn to bat never came and the next year they
never came and the next year they
never came and the next year they without giving me another chance or even
without giving me another chance or even
without giving me another chance or even giving me a chance they sent me back to
giving me a chance they sent me back to
giving me a chance they sent me back to the minor leagues and he said I couldn’t
the minor leagues and he said I couldn’t
the minor leagues and he said I couldn’t I just couldn’t take it ok
I just couldn’t take it ok
I just couldn’t take it ok take going through that again so I quit
take going through that again so I quit
take going through that again so I quit Kevin Costner said oh my god that’s
Kevin Costner said oh my god that’s
Kevin Costner said oh my god that’s unbelievable what incredible pain what
unbelievable what incredible pain what
unbelievable what incredible pain what devastation that must have destroyed you
devastation that must have destroyed you
devastation that must have destroyed you I mean for any man to be that close to
I mean for any man to be that close to
I mean for any man to be that close to his dream and have your dream pass you
his dream and have your dream pass you
his dream and have your dream pass you by as if it doesn’t even know it’s you
by as if it doesn’t even know it’s you
by as if it doesn’t even know it’s you he said that that must have been the
he said that that must have been the
he said that that must have been the most destructive painful Banga that
most destructive painful Banga that
most destructive painful Banga that that’s a total disaster
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