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People Don’t Change – Stop trying to change people


stop trying to change people stop trying

stop trying to change people stop trying to change people into something that

to change people into something that

to change people into something that they’re not and instead bring on people

they’re not and instead bring on people

they’re not and instead bring on people who are the people that you need it’s a

who are the people that you need it’s a

who are the people that you need it’s a way better way to build your business

way better way to build your business

way better way to build your business here’s an example so I I recently hired

here’s an example so I I recently hired

here’s an example so I I recently hired an artist okay I wanted to create some

an artist okay I wanted to create some

an artist okay I wanted to create some art around thinking big I’ve got this

art around thinking big I’ve got this

art around thinking big I’ve got this new guide coming out on my website to

new guide coming out on my website to

new guide coming out on my website to help entrepreneurs think big and land

help entrepreneurs think big and land

help entrepreneurs think big and land bigger deal stop struggling with the

bigger deal stop struggling with the

bigger deal stop struggling with the crappy tiny deals and land something big

crappy tiny deals and land something big

crappy tiny deals and land something big for your business and I wanted a piece

for your business and I wanted a piece

for your business and I wanted a piece of art to go across the top of my page

of art to go across the top of my page

of art to go across the top of my page that spoke to the feeling of thinking

that spoke to the feeling of thinking

that spoke to the feeling of thinking big I was looking to the artist for

big I was looking to the artist for

big I was looking to the artist for guidance you know like I don’t know how

guidance you know like I don’t know how

guidance you know like I don’t know how to create this art that’s why I’m coming

to create this art that’s why I’m coming

to create this art that’s why I’m coming at you here’s the feeling I want make me

at you here’s the feeling I want make me

at you here’s the feeling I want make me something that makes me think big and

something that makes me think big and

something that makes me think big and feel inspired to think big that’s what

feel inspired to think big that’s what

feel inspired to think big that’s what I’m hiring you for and I search for

I’m hiring you for and I search for

I’m hiring you for and I search for artists and I I went up and down and I

artists and I I went up and down and I

artists and I I went up and down and I found an artist who I really I liked her

found an artist who I really I liked her

found an artist who I really I liked her work I liked what she had created I like

work I liked what she had created I like

work I liked what she had created I like the the her approach I like the realism

the the her approach I like the realism

the the her approach I like the realism I liked what she had made and I hired

I liked what she had made and I hired

I liked what she had made and I hired her to create this piece of art it was

her to create this piece of art it was

her to create this piece of art it was okay it was good it was realistic it was

okay it was good it was realistic it was

okay it was good it was realistic it was a style that I wanted but she didn’t

a style that I wanted but she didn’t

a style that I wanted but she didn’t capture the feeling she didn’t make me

capture the feeling she didn’t make me

capture the feeling she didn’t make me want to think big through this picture

want to think big through this picture

want to think big through this picture that was the whole point it was a

that was the whole point it was a

that was the whole point it was a beautiful picture but it didn’t have the

beautiful picture but it didn’t have the

beautiful picture but it didn’t have the feeling and that the art doesn’t have

feeling and that the art doesn’t have

feeling and that the art doesn’t have feeling it’s useless I needed it to have

feeling it’s useless I needed it to have

feeling it’s useless I needed it to have the feeling and so I went back and forth

the feeling and so I went back and forth

the feeling and so I went back and forth and said I need this I need this to have

and said I need this I need this to have

and said I need this I need this to have the feeling better I need this for I

the feeling better I need this for I

the feeling better I need this for I love it I love the work you did it’s

love it I love the work you did it’s

love it I love the work you did it’s it’s great it looks beautiful but I

it’s great it looks beautiful but I

it’s great it looks beautiful but I don’t get the feeling of thinking bigger

don’t get the feeling of thinking bigger

don’t get the feeling of thinking bigger from this and I don’t know what to do to

from this and I don’t know what to do to

from this and I don’t know what to do to add to it to to make this better

add to it to to make this better

add to it to to make this better and I spoke with Jason who’s on my team

and I spoke with Jason who’s on my team

and I spoke with Jason who’s on my team and it’s adjacent I you know I don’t

and it’s adjacent I you know I don’t

and it’s adjacent I you know I don’t know maybe you can help maybe you can

know maybe you can help maybe you can

know maybe you can help maybe you can maybe you can lend some guidance here

maybe you can lend some guidance here

maybe you can lend some guidance here and maybe you want to talk to her I

and maybe you want to talk to her I

and maybe you want to talk to her I don’t know and he he reminded me of

don’t know and he he reminded me of

don’t know and he he reminded me of something that I knew but but I wasn’t

something that I knew but but I wasn’t

something that I knew but but I wasn’t applying and it’s very helpful and he

applying and it’s very helpful and he

applying and it’s very helpful and he said we can try to make this work you

said we can try to make this work you

said we can try to make this work you know we can we can try to talk to her

know we can we can try to talk to her

know we can we can try to talk to her try to give some instruction but you’re

try to give some instruction but you’re

try to give some instruction but you’re you’re trying to pull out something from

you’re trying to pull out something from

you’re trying to pull out something from her that isn’t there it’s not part of

her that isn’t there it’s not part of

her that isn’t there it’s not part of her that’s not what she’s all about she

her that’s not what she’s all about she

her that’s not what she’s all about she creates other kind of art you need

creates other kind of art you need

creates other kind of art you need somebody who understands that feeling of

somebody who understands that feeling of

somebody who understands that feeling of thinking big and can create it for you

thinking big and can create it for you

thinking big and can create it for you and he was right he’s right because no

and he was right he’s right because no

and he was right he’s right because no matter how much I try to tell her she

matter how much I try to tell her she

matter how much I try to tell her she doesn’t get the feeling that I’m after

doesn’t get the feeling that I’m after

doesn’t get the feeling that I’m after and this applies to any anybody that you

and this applies to any anybody that you

and this applies to any anybody that you hire if they can’t understand what

hire if they can’t understand what

hire if they can’t understand what you’re doing there’s some things that

you’re doing there’s some things that

you’re doing there’s some things that could be trained and saying do this

could be trained and saying do this

could be trained and saying do this follow these procedures but other things

follow these procedures but other things

follow these procedures but other things they have it’s part of them it’s what

they have it’s part of them it’s what

they have it’s part of them it’s what they believe in it’s their values

they believe in it’s their values

they believe in it’s their values it’s how they see the world you can’t

it’s how they see the world you can’t

it’s how they see the world you can’t change that you shouldn’t try to change

change that you shouldn’t try to change

change that you shouldn’t try to change that and as entrepreneurs we do try to

that and as entrepreneurs we do try to

that and as entrepreneurs we do try to change that because it’s so painful and

change that because it’s so painful and

change that because it’s so painful and hard to get somebody else so I have

hard to get somebody else so I have

hard to get somebody else so I have somebody here why can’t they do their

somebody here why can’t they do their

somebody here why can’t they do their job why can’t they be what I want them

job why can’t they be what I want them

job why can’t they be what I want them to be and some amount of training can

to be and some amount of training can

to be and some amount of training can help but if you’re talking about

help but if you’re talking about

help but if you’re talking about changing mindset and changing

changing mindset and changing

changing mindset and changing personality and changing outlook on life

personality and changing outlook on life

personality and changing outlook on life that is super hard to change and instead

that is super hard to change and instead

that is super hard to change and instead of changing somebody into somebody

of changing somebody into somebody

of changing somebody into somebody they’re not you should go out and find

they’re not you should go out and find

they’re not you should go out and find someone who’s already that because both

someone who’s already that because both

someone who’s already that because both people will be happy the person who who

people will be happy the person who who

people will be happy the person who who is not who you need who you’re trying to

is not who you need who you’re trying to

is not who you need who you’re trying to force and change they’re not happy right

force and change they’re not happy right

force and change they’re not happy right now working for you they’re frustrated

now working for you they’re frustrated

now working for you they’re frustrated that they can’t get what you want them

that they can’t get what you want them

that they can’t get what you want them to do so let them be free and find

to do so let them be free and find

to do so let them be free and find somewhere where they can fit in better

somewhere where they can fit in better

somewhere where they can fit in better and you’ll be much happier and less

and you’ll be much happier and less

and you’ll be much happier and less stressed out and see better results if

stressed out and see better results if

stressed out and see better results if you bring on the right person who sees

you bring on the right person who sees

you bring on the right person who sees the world the way you need them to see

the world the way you need them to see

the world the way you need them to see the world so I need to go out and do all

the world so I need to go out and do all

the world so I need to go out and do all the hard work again now finding the

the hard work again now finding the

the hard work again now finding the right artist so if you guys know an

right artist so if you guys know an

right artist so if you guys know an artist who can think big and you can

artist who can think big and you can

artist who can think big and you can capture that in the picture let me know

capture that in the picture let me know

capture that in the picture let me know but for now stop trying to change people

but for now stop trying to change people

but for now stop trying to change people into people they aren’t and focus on

into people they aren’t and focus on

into people they aren’t and focus on finding the people who are exactly who

finding the people who are exactly who

finding the people who are exactly who you need for your business belief who

you need for your business belief who

you need for your business belief who those are watching like the video give

those are watching like the video give

those are watching like the video give it a thumbs up I love them coming in

it a thumbs up I love them coming in

it a thumbs up I love them coming in thank you so much leave a comment to let

thank you so much leave a comment to let

thank you so much leave a comment to let me know what you think leave your

me know what you think leave your

me know what you think leave your thoughts below your comments inspire me

thoughts below your comments inspire me

thoughts below your comments inspire me to do more videos for you I really

to do more videos for you I really

to do more videos for you I really appreciate them you have a question

appreciate them you have a question

appreciate them you have a question leave a

leave a

leave a I’m making a video response thank you so

I’m making a video response thank you so

I’m making a video response thank you so much and I’ll see you soon

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