the number one key to success is goal-setting of course I’m a good
goal-setting of course I’m a good
goal-setting of course I’m a good student so I always read another book
student so I always read another book
student so I always read another book second book says forget goal-setting
second book says forget goal-setting
second book says forget goal-setting well is it he’s nice but that is not it
well is it he’s nice but that is not it
well is it he’s nice but that is not it say go to your blues – you’re blue in
say go to your blues – you’re blue in
say go to your blues – you’re blue in the face what you don’t learn to do in
the face what you don’t learn to do in
the face what you don’t learn to do in your life is manage your turn you have
your life is manage your turn you have
your life is manage your turn you have great goals with a middle manager time
great goals with a middle manager time
great goals with a middle manager time times the only resource you can control
times the only resource you can control
times the only resource you can control it is your life I thought that’s true
it is your life I thought that’s true
it is your life I thought that’s true the number one key to success time
the number one key to success time
the number one key to success time management or isn’t a third book then
management or isn’t a third book then
management or isn’t a third book then forget time management forget goals a
forget time management forget goals a
forget time management forget goals a whole key with all this discipline you
whole key with all this discipline you
whole key with all this discipline you can play with your time management all
can play with your time management all
can play with your time management all day long if you can’t discipline
day long if you can’t discipline
day long if you can’t discipline yourself you’ve got nothing that’s truly
yourself you’ve got nothing that’s truly
yourself you’ve got nothing that’s truly discipline till I read the fourth book
discipline till I read the fourth book
discipline till I read the fourth book which says forget this one forget time I
which says forget this one forget time I
which says forget this one forget time I forgot a step of all blue because if
forgot a step of all blue because if
forgot a step of all blue because if your discipline that you don’t believe
your discipline that you don’t believe
your discipline that you don’t believe is going to work well we’ve never died
is going to work well we’ve never died
is going to work well we’ve never died you won’t see a workman by the way which
you won’t see a workman by the way which
you won’t see a workman by the way which one of these is truly good number one
one of these is truly good number one
one of these is truly good number one foundation feel all successful that’s
foundation feel all successful that’s
foundation feel all successful that’s right they all are in fact that list
right they all are in fact that list
right they all are in fact that list doesn’t end here it doesn’t so that got
doesn’t end here it doesn’t so that got
doesn’t end here it doesn’t so that got me frustrated like how do you work on
me frustrated like how do you work on
me frustrated like how do you work on all these things simultaneously our know
all these things simultaneously our know
all these things simultaneously our know the one thing that’s worth of us alone
the one thing that’s worth of us alone
the one thing that’s worth of us alone everything else will fall into place
everything else will fall into place
everything else will fall into place when I searched and I searched my
when I searched and I searched my
when I searched and I searched my interview people until one day I
interview people until one day I
interview people until one day I embossed the number one key to all
embossed the number one key to all
embossed the number one key to all success in white if you’re interested my
success in white if you’re interested my
success in white if you’re interested my one write the same only if you’re
one write the same only if you’re
one write the same only if you’re interested in the number one key to all
interested in the number one key to all
interested in the number one key to all success in life if not know more than
success in life if not know more than
success in life if not know more than jot it down the answer I came up with a
jot it down the answer I came up with a
jot it down the answer I came up with a number one key to all success is
number one key to all success is
number one key to all success is knowledge knowledge I said certainly
knowledge knowledge I said certainly
knowledge knowledge I said certainly people who succeed they know things that
people who succeed they know things that
people who succeed they know things that other people just don’t know that’s why
other people just don’t know that’s why
other people just don’t know that’s why they’re so much more successful but
they’re so much more successful but
they’re so much more successful but knowledge is get and as soon as I wrote
knowledge is get and as soon as I wrote
knowledge is get and as soon as I wrote down knowledge of my notes I crossed it
down knowledge of my notes I crossed it
down knowledge of my notes I crossed it out because that was definitely not it
out because that was definitely not it
out because that was definitely not it how could you even write that down
how could you even write that down
how could you even write that down you’re my you know no better than that
you’re my you know no better than that
you’re my you know no better than that see if it was knowledge and everybody
see if it was knowledge and everybody
see if it was knowledge and everybody who’s educated would be successful you
who’s educated would be successful you
who’s educated would be successful you know that’s not true
know that’s not true
know that’s not true right how many of you in this room how
right how many of you in this room how
right how many of you in this room how many of you people in this room right
many of you people in this room right
many of you people in this room right now know somebody who should change your
now know somebody who should change your
now know somebody who should change your life they know they should change their
life they know they should change their
life they know they should change their life you’re gonna know how they could
life you’re gonna know how they could
life you’re gonna know how they could change their life what they still gonna
change their life what they still gonna
change their life what they still gonna do it how are you know something like
do it how are you know something like
do it how are you know something like baby intimately yeah that’s right
baby intimately yeah that’s right
baby intimately yeah that’s right so know why it sells not enough see
so know why it sells not enough see
so know why it sells not enough see knowing is great but it’s not enough
knowing is great but it’s not enough
knowing is great but it’s not enough knowledge is not power now with this
knowledge is not power now with this
knowledge is not power now with this information how are something else and
information how are something else and
information how are something else and what I think is the really number one
what I think is the really number one
what I think is the really number one key to our success is something I call
key to our success is something I call
key to our success is something I call personal power this is really at John
personal power this is really at John
personal power this is really at John Adair personal power that to me is the
Adair personal power that to me is the
Adair personal power that to me is the single number-one foundational key to
single number-one foundational key to
single number-one foundational key to all success if you use it you can get
all success if you use it you can get
all success if you use it you can get everything else that you want personal
everything else that you want personal
everything else that you want personal power means the ability to take action
power means the ability to take action
power means the ability to take action to follow through to take the steps that
to follow through to take the steps that
to follow through to take the steps that are necessary to take an idea and
are necessary to take an idea and
are necessary to take an idea and translate it into reality and it’s the
translate it into reality and it’s the
translate it into reality and it’s the number one tool that most people like
number one tool that most people like
number one tool that most people like never exercise and forget that every one
never exercise and forget that every one
never exercise and forget that every one of us has right now and in any other
of us has right now and in any other
of us has right now and in any other life even if you haven’t used this gift
life even if you haven’t used this gift
life even if you haven’t used this gift we’re 20 years right now by one decision
we’re 20 years right now by one decision
we’re 20 years right now by one decision you could start using your power you
you could start using your power you
you could start using your power you could start following through you can
could start following through you can
could start following through you can stake this idea in your head and turn it
stake this idea in your head and turn it
stake this idea in your head and turn it into physical reality what are the ideas
into physical reality what are the ideas
into physical reality what are the ideas how you want to make your relationship
how you want to make your relationship
how you want to make your relationship or how you want input your children well
or how you want input your children well
or how you want input your children well the kind of money you want to make or a
the kind of money you want to make or a
the kind of money you want to make or a business you want to start it doesn’t
business you want to start it doesn’t
business you want to start it doesn’t matter it is available right now all you
matter it is available right now all you
matter it is available right now all you do is this side and then follow through
do is this side and then follow through
do is this side and then follow through there you go for Tony what if I do life
there you go for Tony what if I do life
there you go for Tony what if I do life nothing it doesn’t work
that’s what we’ll learn something today
that’s what we’ll learn something today well we’re gonna share with you there’s
well we’re gonna share with you there’s
well we’re gonna share with you there’s probably worth writing down so you want
probably worth writing down so you want
probably worth writing down so you want to definitely capture it years ago I met
to definitely capture it years ago I met
to definitely capture it years ago I met a very very successful man he taught me
a very very successful man he taught me
a very very successful man he taught me something I never forgot for the rest of
something I never forgot for the rest of
something I never forgot for the rest of my life he said Tony whatever you do in
my life he said Tony whatever you do in
my life he said Tony whatever you do in your life whenever you find you’re gonna
your life whenever you find you’re gonna
your life whenever you find you’re gonna go someplace where there’s some great
go someplace where there’s some great
go someplace where there’s some great ideas and great resources he said always
ideas and great resources he said always
ideas and great resources he said always make sure you take a pen and paper these
make sure you take a pen and paper these
make sure you take a pen and paper these things what you want to do is you want
things what you want to do is you want
things what you want to do is you want to be able to capture those ideas and
to be able to capture those ideas and
to be able to capture those ideas and submit them to paper so you can review
submit them to paper so you can review
submit them to paper so you can review them in the future that what he got me
them in the future that what he got me
them in the future that what he got me to do was to keep a journal and I would
to do was to keep a journal and I would
to do was to keep a journal and I would HIGHLY encourage you by the time you
HIGHLY encourage you by the time you
HIGHLY encourage you by the time you come to the next management session or
come to the next management session or
come to the next management session or maybe even during a break today if you
maybe even during a break today if you
maybe even during a break today if you wanted you to get yourself a hardbound
wanted you to get yourself a hardbound
wanted you to get yourself a hardbound journal our town journal meeting not a
journal our town journal meeting not a
journal our town journal meeting not a loose-leaf and you can get those in all
loose-leaf and you can get those in all
loose-leaf and you can get those in all kinds of stationery stores some
kinds of stationery stores some
kinds of stationery stores some religious bookstores the bottom line is
religious bookstores the bottom line is
religious bookstores the bottom line is if you keep a journal
if you keep a journal
if you keep a journal you don’t even write it every day but
you don’t even write it every day but
you don’t even write it every day but when you get thoughts or ideas you
when you get thoughts or ideas you
when you get thoughts or ideas you capture it there you can’t believe what
capture it there you can’t believe what
capture it there you can’t believe what will happen you’ll start to accumulate a
will happen you’ll start to accumulate a
will happen you’ll start to accumulate a wealth of knowledge and ability and
wealth of knowledge and ability and
wealth of knowledge and ability and skills and resources that not only will
skills and resources that not only will
skills and resources that not only will help you you can help other people as
help you you can help other people as
help you you can help other people as well I’ve been keeping journals myself
well I’ve been keeping journals myself
well I’ve been keeping journals myself now for about a dozen years and I go
now for about a dozen years and I go
now for about a dozen years and I go back and review my life and has two real
back and review my life and has two real
back and review my life and has two real values I think one is it gives you a
values I think one is it gives you a
values I think one is it gives you a chance to really see how much you’ve
chance to really see how much you’ve
chance to really see how much you’ve grown because how many of you have kids
grown because how many of you have kids
grown because how many of you have kids I’m curious I’m gonna be out of somebody
I’m curious I’m gonna be out of somebody
I’m curious I’m gonna be out of somebody come save all your kids really grow on
come save all your kids really grow on
come save all your kids really grow on you really because you’re so close to
you really because you’re so close to
you really because you’re so close to them you don’t notice it as much how
them you don’t notice it as much how
them you don’t notice it as much how many found out to be true guess when
many found out to be true guess when
many found out to be true guess when it’s even worse with yourself sometimes
it’s even worse with yourself sometimes
it’s even worse with yourself sometimes we don’t give ourselves credit than the
we don’t give ourselves credit than the
we don’t give ourselves credit than the amount that we’re growing but I’ll tell
amount that we’re growing but I’ll tell
amount that we’re growing but I’ll tell you one thing if you keep a journal it
you one thing if you keep a journal it
you one thing if you keep a journal it won’t be hard to see how much you’re
won’t be hard to see how much you’re
won’t be hard to see how much you’re growing cuz you’ll see the kind of goals
growing cuz you’ll see the kind of goals
growing cuz you’ll see the kind of goals you have back then the kind of things
you have back then the kind of things
you have back then the kind of things you’ve bought back in those days and
you’ve bought back in those days and
you’ve bought back in those days and you’ll begin to see the evolutionary
you’ll begin to see the evolutionary
you’ll begin to see the evolutionary growth also I personally believe that
growth also I personally believe that
growth also I personally believe that life’s worth living it’s worth recording
life’s worth living it’s worth recording
life’s worth living it’s worth recording that’s an incredible gift to give to
that’s an incredible gift to give to
that’s an incredible gift to give to your children because someday they get
your children because someday they get
your children because someday they get to know exactly how you were at
to know exactly how you were at
to know exactly how you were at different times in your life and they
different times in your life and they
different times in your life and they get to learn your lessons and I’ll go
get to learn your lessons and I’ll go
get to learn your lessons and I’ll go through it so I highly encourage you do
through it so I highly encourage you do
through it so I highly encourage you do that but it’s a very minimum let’s make
that but it’s a very minimum let’s make
that but it’s a very minimum let’s make sure we take notes
sure we take notes
sure we take notes you guys ready to crank Frank let’s do
you guys ready to crank Frank let’s do
you guys ready to crank Frank let’s do it so this whole weekend is about
it so this whole weekend is about
it so this whole weekend is about connecting and communication really it’s
connecting and communication really it’s
connecting and communication really it’s about communication relationship I make
about communication relationship I make
about communication relationship I make everything worthwhile the technology
everything worthwhile the technology
everything worthwhile the technology that we’re gonna share with you this
that we’re gonna share with you this
that we’re gonna share with you this weekend is a unique name we call it
weekend is a unique name we call it
weekend is a unique name we call it reality bridging reality bridging
reality bridging reality bridging
reality bridging reality bridging we make it go into a deep trance trying
we make it go into a deep trance trying
we make it go into a deep trance trying to figure out what that means right
to figure out what that means right
to figure out what that means right we’re gonna clarify for you but reality
we’re gonna clarify for you but reality
we’re gonna clarify for you but reality bridging the technology of the vital
bridging the technology of the vital
bridging the technology of the vital communication and true freedom is what
communication and true freedom is what
communication and true freedom is what you’re gonna find is you’re gonna find
you’re gonna find is you’re gonna find
you’re gonna find is you’re gonna find there’s gonna be a vitality in your
there’s gonna be a vitality in your
there’s gonna be a vitality in your communication when you start using the
communication when you start using the
communication when you start using the techniques we’re gonna teach you and
techniques we’re gonna teach you and
techniques we’re gonna teach you and there’s gonna be a sense of absolute
there’s gonna be a sense of absolute
there’s gonna be a sense of absolute freedom where you can share with
freedom where you can share with
freedom where you can share with somebody what your real feelings are and
somebody what your real feelings are and
somebody what your real feelings are and never ever offend them they won’t have
never ever offend them they won’t have
never ever offend them they won’t have to hear you and cry and feel bad and you
to hear you and cry and feel bad and you
to hear you and cry and feel bad and you won’t feel so bad either we want to make
won’t feel so bad either we want to make
won’t feel so bad either we want to make sure the communication is vital that
sure the communication is vital that
sure the communication is vital that you’re always connecting that you feel
you’re always connecting that you feel
you’re always connecting that you feel good when you’re communicating so does
good when you’re communicating so does
good when you’re communicating so does the person you’re communicating with and
the person you’re communicating with and
the person you’re communicating with and it produces results that’s our outcome
it produces results that’s our outcome
it produces results that’s our outcome and to be able to do that without him to
and to be able to do that without him to
and to be able to do that without him to worry creates an unbelievable level
worry creates an unbelievable level
worry creates an unbelievable level freedom for people because how many of
freedom for people because how many of
freedom for people because how many of you be honest have felt feelings at
you be honest have felt feelings at
you be honest have felt feelings at times and you’re upset but you didn’t
times and you’re upset but you didn’t
times and you’re upset but you didn’t share it because you didn’t know how or
share it because you didn’t know how or
share it because you didn’t know how or you didn’t share it because well you
you didn’t share it because well you
you didn’t share it because well you thought well maybe it’s really about me
thought well maybe it’s really about me
thought well maybe it’s really about me or you didn’t share it because you
or you didn’t share it because you
or you didn’t share it because you didn’t want to offend somebody even
didn’t want to offend somebody even
didn’t want to offend somebody even though you were bad or upset I really
though you were bad or upset I really
though you were bad or upset I really got that experience in the past and when
got that experience in the past and when
got that experience in the past and when you don’t share something what happens
you don’t share something what happens
you don’t share something what happens when you just keep it inside and build
when you just keep it inside and build
when you just keep it inside and build it up
it up
it up yeah it festers doesn’t get better or
yeah it festers doesn’t get better or
yeah it festers doesn’t get better or worse I think it’s a lot worse and
worse I think it’s a lot worse and
worse I think it’s a lot worse and eventually what happens when you blow up
eventually what happens when you blow up
eventually what happens when you blow up about something that could have been
about something that could have been
about something that could have been handled so much easier along the way but
handled so much easier along the way but
handled so much easier along the way but then there’s the other approach which is
then there’s the other approach which is
then there’s the other approach which is you’re looking for things on a regular
you’re looking for things on a regular
you’re looking for things on a regular basis to be able to give people feedback
basis to be able to give people feedback
basis to be able to give people feedback about and some people develop that habit
about and some people develop that habit
about and some people develop that habit or you communicate in a way where
or you communicate in a way where
or you communicate in a way where basically you’re communicating your
basically you’re communicating your
basically you’re communicating your feelings like you’re upset but do you
feelings like you’re upset but do you
feelings like you’re upset but do you always have all the information no and
always have all the information no and
always have all the information no and so you’re making a decision about how to
so you’re making a decision about how to
so you’re making a decision about how to feel based on false information how many
feel based on false information how many
feel based on false information how many were gonna upset later on for a little
were gonna upset later on for a little
were gonna upset later on for a little dumb Japan that you’re upset about
dumb Japan that you’re upset about
dumb Japan that you’re upset about something really should have been upset
something really should have been upset
something really should have been upset about
about
about so one philosophy says keep it inside it
so one philosophy says keep it inside it
so one philosophy says keep it inside it applause he says we’ll get it out but
applause he says we’ll get it out but
applause he says we’ll get it out but what if you get it out and then you find
what if you get it out and then you find
what if you get it out and then you find out if we’re wrong by the way do we like
out if we’re wrong by the way do we like
out if we’re wrong by the way do we like being wrong No so then what would he
being wrong No so then what would he
being wrong No so then what would he probably do just to find a fan well
probably do just to find a fan well
probably do just to find a fan well that’s swell yeah I know that but they
that’s swell yeah I know that but they
that’s swell yeah I know that but they can’t give you up you’ve done that
can’t give you up you’ve done that
can’t give you up you’ve done that before
and that does not make a relation to
and that does not make a relation to work plus that person gets upset it’s
work plus that person gets upset it’s
work plus that person gets upset it’s kinda like didn’t you ever come up to
kinda like didn’t you ever come up to
kinda like didn’t you ever come up to you and say yeah you know why you have
you and say yeah you know why you have
you and say yeah you know why you have set in your monitor no no yeah you are
set in your monitor no no yeah you are
set in your monitor no no yeah you are no I’m not yes you are well I’m getting
no I’m not yes you are well I’m getting
no I’m not yes you are well I’m getting upset okay that also happens unless
upset okay that also happens unless
upset okay that also happens unless we’re really clear so what we really
we’re really clear so what we really
we’re really clear so what we really gonna do is we’re gonna start a whole
gonna do is we’re gonna start a whole
gonna do is we’re gonna start a whole basis of studying of communication to
basis of studying of communication to
basis of studying of communication to remember one thing like the senior notes
remember one thing like the senior notes
remember one thing like the senior notes if you would and that is the quality of
if you would and that is the quality of
if you would and that is the quality of your life is directly related to the
your life is directly related to the
your life is directly related to the quality of your communication the
quality of your communication the
quality of your communication the quality of your life is the quality of
quality of your life is the quality of
quality of your life is the quality of your communication period quality of
your communication period quality of
your communication period quality of your life is the quality of your
your life is the quality of your
your life is the quality of your communication now pretty basic idea
communication now pretty basic idea
communication now pretty basic idea nothing earth-shattering but I’m gonna
nothing earth-shattering but I’m gonna
nothing earth-shattering but I’m gonna tell you that’s Ling and taught your
tell you that’s Ling and taught your
tell you that’s Ling and taught your entire life comes down to this quality
entire life comes down to this quality
entire life comes down to this quality of your entire life comes down to
of your entire life comes down to
of your entire life comes down to quality how you communicate with home no
quality how you communicate with home no
quality how you communicate with home no know with whom first you think and
know with whom first you think and
know with whom first you think and determines how you know that’s right
determines how you know that’s right
determines how you know that’s right well in your life starts with the
well in your life starts with the
well in your life starts with the quality of how you communicate to
quality of how you communicate to
quality of how you communicate to yourself that’s where it all starts how
yourself that’s where it all starts how
yourself that’s where it all starts how you feel is not based on the environment
you feel is not based on the environment
you feel is not based on the environment is it based like how do you feel is that
is it based like how do you feel is that
is it based like how do you feel is that determine based on like whether or not
determine based on like whether or not
determine based on like whether or not you have lots of money yes or no a
you have lots of money yes or no a
you have lots of money yes or no a little mixed reaction on that one oh
little mixed reaction on that one oh
little mixed reaction on that one oh well no no no it’s not no absolutely not
well no no no it’s not no absolutely not
well no no no it’s not no absolutely not no how’s that for incongruent
no how’s that for incongruent
no how’s that for incongruent communication from a lot of your okay
communication from a lot of your okay
communication from a lot of your okay some of you I’m a little mixed feelings
some of you I’m a little mixed feelings
some of you I’m a little mixed feelings about this don’t you let me ask you a
about this don’t you let me ask you a
about this don’t you let me ask you a question how do you know somebody who
question how do you know somebody who
question how do you know somebody who has tons of money they’re still not
has tons of money they’re still not
has tons of money they’re still not happy I’ll interesting how many of you
happy I’ll interesting how many of you
happy I’ll interesting how many of you know somebody who doesn’t have anybody
know somebody who doesn’t have anybody
know somebody who doesn’t have anybody at all it seems I’m very happy
at all it seems I’m very happy
at all it seems I’m very happy so does money determine your happiness
so does money determine your happiness
so does money determine your happiness yes or no how do you know if you have a
yes or no how do you know if you have a
yes or no how do you know if you have a lot so many though you’d be happy you’re
lot so many though you’d be happy you’re
lot so many though you’d be happy you’re different
different
different I have your money on be happy no problem
I have your money on be happy no problem
I have your money on be happy no problem give me your money we’ll try okay people
give me your money we’ll try okay people
give me your money we’ll try okay people say money can’t buy happiness don’t know
say money can’t buy happiness don’t know
say money can’t buy happiness don’t know where to shop now see that that’s not
where to shop now see that that’s not
where to shop now see that that’s not gonna do it is it it’s not the money
gonna do it is it it’s not the money
gonna do it is it it’s not the money it’s how you communicate yourself about
it’s how you communicate yourself about
it’s how you communicate yourself about money your lack of it or the abundance
money your lack of it or the abundance
money your lack of it or the abundance you think you have by the way it can be
you think you have by the way it can be
you think you have by the way it can be one of an abundance what communicates it
one of an abundance what communicates it
one of an abundance what communicates it himself but they’re still in scarcity
himself but they’re still in scarcity
himself but they’re still in scarcity yes or no absolutely
yes or no absolutely
yes or no absolutely so money doesn’t is how you feel
so money doesn’t is how you feel
so money doesn’t is how you feel determined by whether or not the weather
determined by whether or not the weather
determined by whether or not the weather is good yes oh really
is good yes oh really
is good yes oh really are there people in freezing weather
are there people in freezing weather
are there people in freezing weather we’re very happy yes or no
we’re very happy yes or no
we’re very happy yes or no are there people hot whether they’re
are there people hot whether they’re
are there people hot whether they’re very happy yes or no other people that
very happy yes or no other people that
very happy yes or no other people that are in either of those weathers in the
are in either of those weathers in the
are in either of those weathers in the opposite degree that have opposite
opposite degree that have opposite
opposite degree that have opposite feelings is that tranch you got yet yes
feelings is that tranch you got yet yes
feelings is that tranch you got yet yes see the weather doesn’t determine it is
see the weather doesn’t determine it is
see the weather doesn’t determine it is it what are you happy not determined by
it what are you happy not determined by
it what are you happy not determined by whether or not other people say they
whether or not other people say they
whether or not other people say they love you you know yes with you but it
love you you know yes with you but it
love you you know yes with you but it shouldn’t so you sit there and shoot all
shouldn’t so you sit there and shoot all
shouldn’t so you sit there and shoot all over yourself okay you’re right I
over yourself okay you’re right I
over yourself okay you’re right I probably shouldn’t but a lot of us can’t
probably shouldn’t but a lot of us can’t
probably shouldn’t but a lot of us can’t bet real directly but I got a question
bet real directly but I got a question
bet real directly but I got a question for you somebody comes up to you and
for you somebody comes up to you and
for you somebody comes up to you and they tell you why they come up and they
they tell you why they come up and they
they tell you why they come up and they hug you or they look at you that certain
hug you or they look at you that certain
hug you or they look at you that certain special
are they passionate my question for you
are they passionate my question for you is was it really kiss the minute no I
is was it really kiss the minute no I
is was it really kiss the minute no I don’t mix up and that’s true kissing
don’t mix up and that’s true kissing
don’t mix up and that’s true kissing your dog would get you excited it wasn’t
your dog would get you excited it wasn’t
your dog would get you excited it wasn’t a kiss
a kiss
a kiss it was the meaning you associated to
it was the meaning you associated to
it was the meaning you associated to that particular moment when tissue
that particular moment when tissue
that particular moment when tissue touched tissue in the unique way that’s
touched tissue in the unique way that’s
touched tissue in the unique way that’s really it isn’t it it isn’t actually yes
really it isn’t it it isn’t actually yes
really it isn’t it it isn’t actually yes [Applause]
[Applause]
[Applause] it isn’t actually the event itself is it
it isn’t actually the event itself is it
it isn’t actually the event itself is it it is rather than what we communicated
it is rather than what we communicated
it is rather than what we communicated to ourselves about that event so many
to ourselves about that event so many
to ourselves about that event so many hundred you feel good do they make you
hundred you feel good do they make you
hundred you feel good do they make you feel good yes or no no what makes you
feel good yes or no no what makes you
feel good yes or no no what makes you feel good as you got a set of rules
feel good as you got a set of rules
feel good as you got a set of rules inside your head and say if somebody
inside your head and say if somebody
inside your head and say if somebody touches me quite like this they look
touches me quite like this they look
touches me quite like this they look like that sound smell feel like this
like that sound smell feel like this
like that sound smell feel like this then I get to say and so you say okay
then I get to say and so you say okay
then I get to say and so you say okay it’s time to feel good you start feeling
it’s time to feel good you start feeling
it’s time to feel good you start feeling good so bottom line is we determine how
good so bottom line is we determine how
good so bottom line is we determine how we feel by the way we communicate to
we feel by the way we communicate to
we feel by the way we communicate to ourselves by the meaning that we
ourselves by the meaning that we
ourselves by the meaning that we communicate about a situation see it’s
communicate about a situation see it’s
communicate about a situation see it’s not the event that determines how we
not the event that determines how we
not the event that determines how we feel it’s the meaning that we associate
feel it’s the meaning that we associate
feel it’s the meaning that we associate to the event the terms how we feel and
to the event the terms how we feel and
to the event the terms how we feel and that meaning is something we create and
that meaning is something we create and
that meaning is something we create and we communicate to ourselves if you’re
we communicate to ourselves if you’re
we communicate to ourselves if you’re upset about anything all upsets come
upset about anything all upsets come
upset about anything all upsets come down to the meaning you associate to
down to the meaning you associate to
down to the meaning you associate to something you’re upset about something
something you’re upset about something
something you’re upset about something is because you’re thinking well that’s
is because you’re thinking well that’s
is because you’re thinking well that’s because this means they don’t care about
because this means they don’t care about
because this means they don’t care about me or this means I’m no longer in
me or this means I’m no longer in
me or this means I’m no longer in control or this means I’m not respect
control or this means I’m not respect
control or this means I’m not respect there this means all upset is based on
there this means all upset is based on
there this means all upset is based on the meaning and how many times we’ve
the meaning and how many times we’ve
the meaning and how many times we’ve been wrong when you linked up the
been wrong when you linked up the
been wrong when you linked up the meaning anybody been wrong yes or no yes
meaning anybody been wrong yes or no yes
meaning anybody been wrong yes or no yes this means you ask I’ll guide you
this means you ask I’ll guide you
this means you ask I’ll guide you through this okay we’ve all been wrong
through this okay we’ve all been wrong
through this okay we’ve all been wrong so what we’ve got to really be able to
so what we’ve got to really be able to
so what we’ve got to really be able to do is to realize one thing and right at
do is to realize one thing and right at
do is to realize one thing and right at your notes nothing in life has any
your notes nothing in life has any
your notes nothing in life has any meaning except the meaning that I give
meaning except the meaning that I give
meaning except the meaning that I give it nothing in life has any meaning
it nothing in life has any meaning
it nothing in life has any meaning except the meaning that I give it
nothing in life has any meaning except
nothing in life has any meaning except the meaning that I give it you’re the
the meaning that I give it you’re the
the meaning that I give it you’re the one that puts the label on what things
one that puts the label on what things
one that puts the label on what things mean and the last time you’re with me I
mean and the last time you’re with me I
mean and the last time you’re with me I gave you the phrase when we talked about
gave you the phrase when we talked about
gave you the phrase when we talked about transformational vocabulary if you
transformational vocabulary if you
transformational vocabulary if you recall transformational vocabulary is
recall transformational vocabulary is
recall transformational vocabulary is the idea that we get all these pictures
the idea that we get all these pictures
the idea that we get all these pictures and sounds and feelings and sensations
and sounds and feelings and sensations
and sounds and feelings and sensations start to come in our body but we don’t
start to come in our body but we don’t
start to come in our body but we don’t know what it means so we put a label on
know what it means so we put a label on
know what it means so we put a label on it so you’ve got all these things they
it so you’ve got all these things they
it so you’ve got all these things they feel uncomfortable I feel kind of
feel uncomfortable I feel kind of
feel uncomfortable I feel kind of painful and you call that humiliation
painful and you call that humiliation
painful and you call that humiliation will that intensify the feeling more
will that intensify the feeling more
will that intensify the feeling more than if you say you know I’m all
than if you say you know I’m all
than if you say you know I’m all frustrated yes or no you better believe
frustrated yes or no you better believe
frustrated yes or no you better believe it the label we put on our experience
it the label we put on our experience
it the label we put on our experience becomes our experience and we are the
becomes our experience and we are the
becomes our experience and we are the person doing the labeling now I’m
person doing the labeling now I’m
person doing the labeling now I’m granted I’ll agree that most of us are
granted I’ll agree that most of us are
granted I’ll agree that most of us are on automatic pilot we’re using a
on automatic pilot we’re using a
on automatic pilot we’re using a labeling and a communication process
labeling and a communication process
labeling and a communication process that we don’t even think about
that we don’t even think about
that we don’t even think about consciously and we can easily point to
consciously and we can easily point to
consciously and we can easily point to the people show how they created that
the people show how they created that
the people show how they created that feeling for us and certainly they helped
feeling for us and certainly they helped
feeling for us and certainly they helped us to get into state they helped us by
us to get into state they helped us by
us to get into state they helped us by giving us some feedback but we still
giving us some feedback but we still
giving us some feedback but we still determine the feeling they give an
determine the feeling they give an
determine the feeling they give an example I was in Hawaii recently I
example I was in Hawaii recently I
example I was in Hawaii recently I couldn’t believe it I read this article
couldn’t believe it I read this article
couldn’t believe it I read this article not something on TV when they
not something on TV when they
not something on TV when they interviewed this guy he’s out swimming
interviewed this guy he’s out swimming
interviewed this guy he’s out swimming and the shark came and bit his leg off
and the shark came and bit his leg off
and the shark came and bit his leg off yeah you think he’s really upset why
yeah you think he’s really upset why
yeah you think he’s really upset why would you be upset of science you lost
would you be upset of science you lost
would you be upset of science you lost your leg after the initial pain why
your leg after the initial pain why
your leg after the initial pain why would you stay upset because of the
would you stay upset because of the
would you stay upset because of the meaning you’d like to that right what
meaning you’d like to that right what
meaning you’d like to that right what would be the meaning that would make you
would be the meaning that would make you
would be the meaning that would make you feel upset all the time that’s right the
feel upset all the time that’s right the
feel upset all the time that’s right the meaning of a loss that you would lost
meaning of a loss that you would lost
meaning of a loss that you would lost something see almost all pain all pain
something see almost all pain all pain
something see almost all pain all pain you’re ever gonna feel in your life the
you’re ever gonna feel in your life the
you’re ever gonna feel in your life the pain that people have that makes them
pain that people have that makes them
pain that people have that makes them upset
upset
upset it all starts with theirs I call it an
it all starts with theirs I call it an
it all starts with theirs I call it an emotional anatomy it all starts in one
emotional anatomy it all starts in one
emotional anatomy it all starts in one place pain starts with number one I’ll
place pain starts with number one I’ll
place pain starts with number one I’ll put it down the bottom here a feeling of
put it down the bottom here a feeling of
put it down the bottom here a feeling of loss
feeling loss now can you ever really
feeling loss now can you ever really lose anything
lose anything
lose anything only if you proceed that there’s a loss
only if you proceed that there’s a loss
only if you proceed that there’s a loss is that true are you follow me on this
is that true are you follow me on this
is that true are you follow me on this now for a second you’d only feel loss if
now for a second you’d only feel loss if
now for a second you’d only feel loss if you perceive it in other words you have
you perceive it in other words you have
you perceive it in other words you have to tell yourself there’s a loss you have
to tell yourself there’s a loss you have
to tell yourself there’s a loss you have to communicate that you lost something
to communicate that you lost something
to communicate that you lost something this man was not upset in fact he was
this man was not upset in fact he was
this man was not upset in fact he was concerned about the shark yeah he says
concerned about the shark yeah he says
concerned about the shark yeah he says guys are drugged he was sincere because
guys are drugged he was sincere because
guys are drugged he was sincere because his belief was that number one he was
his belief was that number one he was
his belief was that number one he was responsible not the shark because he was
responsible not the shark because he was
responsible not the shark because he was a swimmer and he knew that in the area
a swimmer and he knew that in the area
a swimmer and he knew that in the area was a shark so that he’s thrashing
was a shark so that he’s thrashing
was a shark so that he’s thrashing around on the top they they get the
around on the top they they get the
around on the top they they get the turtle will come after him and his
turtle will come after him and his
turtle will come after him and his concern was that people are so upset
concern was that people are so upset
concern was that people are so upset about it the people are gonna go out and
about it the people are gonna go out and
about it the people are gonna go out and rage and kill the sharks in that area
rage and kill the sharks in that area
rage and kill the sharks in that area how’s that for sorting by others instead
how’s that for sorting by others instead
how’s that for sorting by others instead of sorting myself so the meaning for him
of sorting myself so the meaning for him
of sorting myself so the meaning for him was this was a learning experience
was this was a learning experience
was this was a learning experience that’s what it meant to him other people
that’s what it meant to him other people
that’s what it meant to him other people would mean I maimed for life with a
would mean I maimed for life with a
would mean I maimed for life with a different meaning that he communicated
different meaning that he communicated
different meaning that he communicated he would have said I’m maimed for life
he would have said I’m maimed for life
he would have said I’m maimed for life I’ll never be the same you know I can
I’ll never be the same you know I can
I’ll never be the same you know I can never accomplish anything
never accomplish anything
never accomplish anything I’ll never a woman would never be
I’ll never a woman would never be
I’ll never a woman would never be attracted to me I’ll be a gift for the
attracted to me I’ll be a gift for the
attracted to me I’ll be a gift for the rest of my life he wouldn’t link those
rest of my life he wouldn’t link those
rest of my life he wouldn’t link those means do you think he would have been at
means do you think he would have been at
means do you think he would have been at the same state yes or no no way by the
the same state yes or no no way by the
the same state yes or no no way by the way maybe this is temporary right I
way maybe this is temporary right I
way maybe this is temporary right I don’t know I don’t know this guy I’m not
don’t know I don’t know this guy I’m not
don’t know I don’t know this guy I’m not gonna be around a long time meet him I
gonna be around a long time meet him I
gonna be around a long time meet him I can tell you for years when I’ve known
can tell you for years when I’ve known
can tell you for years when I’ve known his interview people who absolute what I
his interview people who absolute what I
his interview people who absolute what I think are spiritual masters when I mean
think are spiritual masters when I mean
think are spiritual masters when I mean my spiritual masters not flying to East
my spiritual masters not flying to East
my spiritual masters not flying to East and meeting somebody who sits and
and meeting somebody who sits and
and meeting somebody who sits and meditates I mean somebody who doesn’t
meditates I mean somebody who doesn’t
meditates I mean somebody who doesn’t have the loose of the legs or their arms
have the loose of the legs or their arms
have the loose of the legs or their arms and lives an absolute joy is totally
and lives an absolute joy is totally
and lives an absolute joy is totally loving and tries to figure out to
loving and tries to figure out to
loving and tries to figure out to contribute to other people to me that’s
contribute to other people to me that’s
contribute to other people to me that’s a spiritual master I’ll tell you what
a spiritual master I’ll tell you what
a spiritual master I’ll tell you what there’s tons of them they’re my friend’s
there’s tons of them they’re my friend’s
there’s tons of them they’re my friend’s name cuz I gonna learn from them you
name cuz I gonna learn from them you
name cuz I gonna learn from them you know I find out they have developed
know I find out they have developed
know I find out they have developed belief systems that had helped them to
belief systems that had helped them to
belief systems that had helped them to interpret human behavior in a way that
interpret human behavior in a way that
interpret human behavior in a way that causes them not to be upset because no
causes them not to be upset because no
causes them not to be upset because no matter what happens they finally figured
matter what happens they finally figured
matter what happens they finally figured out something do you want to succeed
out something do you want to succeed
out something do you want to succeed life so figure out how it works
life so figure out how it works
life so figure out how it works and then do it that way not the way you
and then do it that way not the way you
and then do it that way not the way you think it should be say what most of us
think it should be say what most of us
think it should be say what most of us do is you run around like little these
do is you run around like little these
do is you run around like little these rules or how life should be about how
rules or how life should be about how
rules or how life should be about how you should be in a jury how doctors
you should be in a jury how doctors
you should be in a jury how doctors should be how staffs should be how
should be how staffs should be how
should be how staffs should be how patients should be
patients should be
patients should be they’re gonna be how they really are not
they’re gonna be how they really are not
they’re gonna be how they really are not how you want them to be and then every
how you want them to be and then every
how you want them to be and then every time they don’t meet your criteria right
time they don’t meet your criteria right
time they don’t meet your criteria right you communicate yourself it’s time to be
you communicate yourself it’s time to be
you communicate yourself it’s time to be annoyed or maybe a more intense worked
annoyed or maybe a more intense worked
annoyed or maybe a more intense worked it’s that true when you have an upset of
it’s that true when you have an upset of
it’s that true when you have an upset of any sort you’re feeling some negative
any sort you’re feeling some negative
any sort you’re feeling some negative emotion it always comes down to really
emotion it always comes down to really
emotion it always comes down to really you have a feeling of what loss but do
you have a feeling of what loss but do
you have a feeling of what loss but do you ever really lose no you ever lose
you ever really lose no you ever lose
you ever really lose no you ever lose anything it just changes form ain’t
anything it just changes form ain’t
anything it just changes form ain’t nothing in the entire universe ever
nothing in the entire universe ever
nothing in the entire universe ever disappears nothing not your physical
disappears nothing not your physical
disappears nothing not your physical body not rocks not stones nothing
body not rocks not stones nothing
body not rocks not stones nothing everything in the uniform universe
everything in the uniform universe
everything in the uniform universe transforms from one form to another you
transforms from one form to another you
transforms from one form to another you take water you turn destroy it let’s say
take water you turn destroy it let’s say
take water you turn destroy it let’s say you boil it what does it become
you boil it what does it become
you boil it what does it become steam everything in the world transforms
steam everything in the world transforms
steam everything in the world transforms to a higher level it’s always
to a higher level it’s always
to a higher level it’s always transforming you gotta realize you can’t
transforming you gotta realize you can’t
transforming you gotta realize you can’t lose anything you can transform things
lose anything you can transform things
lose anything you can transform things you can’t lose anything now you can try
you can’t lose anything now you can try
you can’t lose anything now you can try and pretend you’ve lost something you
and pretend you’ve lost something you
and pretend you’ve lost something you can only be upset with somebody think oh
can only be upset with somebody think oh
can only be upset with somebody think oh my god I lost their love or or they lost
my god I lost their love or or they lost
my god I lost their love or or they lost mine I’ve lost respect how do you lose
mine I’ve lost respect how do you lose
mine I’ve lost respect how do you lose respect you can’t lose something that’s
respect you can’t lose something that’s
respect you can’t lose something that’s already inside of you sit on this people
already inside of you sit on this people
already inside of you sit on this people are looking for love all the wrong
are looking for love all the wrong
are looking for love all the wrong places
well it was not something you have to go
well it was not something you have to go looking for that’s where you come from
I was not something up to go looking for
I was not something up to go looking for words where you come so you can’t move
words where you come so you can’t move
words where you come so you can’t move something everything you thought you
something everything you thought you
something everything you thought you lose is already exciting you see if you
lose is already exciting you see if you
lose is already exciting you see if you won’t feel respect it’s good as new I’m
won’t feel respect it’s good as new I’m
won’t feel respect it’s good as new I’m choosing to focus on being respected
choosing to focus on being respected
choosing to focus on being respected you’re not communicating yourself you
you’re not communicating yourself you
you’re not communicating yourself you should be respected what if I said
should be respected what if I said
should be respected what if I said something to you I said in a way that
something to you I said in a way that
something to you I said in a way that made you feel disrespected it made you
made you feel disrespected it made you
made you feel disrespected it made you feel disrespected or you took what I
feel disrespected or you took what I
feel disrespected or you took what I said managed to interpret it represent
said managed to interpret it represent
said managed to interpret it represent to yourself and communicate yourself
to yourself and communicate yourself
to yourself and communicate yourself that my saying and that’s otherwise
that my saying and that’s otherwise
that my saying and that’s otherwise means I don’t respect you therefore you
means I don’t respect you therefore you
means I don’t respect you therefore you can’t have these here
can’t have these here
can’t have these here not make any sense no we do it all turn
not make any sense no we do it all turn
not make any sense no we do it all turn yes
yes
yes do we want to continue to do it no okay
do we want to continue to do it no okay
do we want to continue to do it no okay you want to change that you can’t ever
you want to change that you can’t ever
you want to change that you can’t ever lose anything now you can proceed you
lose anything now you can proceed you
lose anything now you can proceed you lost something by the way you some
lost something by the way you some
lost something by the way you some people who not lost the limb not lost
people who not lost the limb not lost
people who not lost the limb not lost their eyesight not lost anything feel
their eyesight not lost anything feel
their eyesight not lost anything feel like they lost over a little stupid
like they lost over a little stupid
like they lost over a little stupid things yes or no some people feel lost
things yes or no some people feel lost
things yes or no some people feel lost upon something you never even had in the
upon something you never even had in the
upon something you never even had in the first place like they have this goal
first place like they have this goal
first place like they have this goal that didn’t happen I lost my goal you
that didn’t happen I lost my goal you
that didn’t happen I lost my goal you never had it well they have this
never had it well they have this
never had it well they have this expectation most upsets are about
expectation most upsets are about
expectation most upsets are about expectations that aren’t met isn’t it
expectations that aren’t met isn’t it
expectations that aren’t met isn’t it true you expect something something you
true you expect something something you
true you expect something something you expect yourself to do something you
expect yourself to do something you
expect yourself to do something you expected life to do something you expect
expected life to do something you expect
expected life to do something you expect to the weather be a certain way and it
to the weather be a certain way and it
to the weather be a certain way and it didn’t happen
didn’t happen
didn’t happen I lost now how could you lose out on
I lost now how could you lose out on
I lost now how could you lose out on something you never have you must have
something you never have you must have
something you never have you must have been very confused so you can’t lose but
been very confused so you can’t lose but
been very confused so you can’t lose but if you want to feel bad what you have to
if you want to feel bad what you have to
if you want to feel bad what you have to do is have the illusion of loss create
do is have the illusion of loss create
do is have the illusion of loss create the illusion blocks that’s all you have
the illusion blocks that’s all you have
the illusion blocks that’s all you have to do feel that imagine how to feel bad
to do feel that imagine how to feel bad
to do feel that imagine how to feel bad step one feel bad create the illusion
step one feel bad create the illusion
step one feel bad create the illusion once you make sure you take notes and I
once you make sure you take notes and I
once you make sure you take notes and I want to feel bad you know what to do now
want to feel bad you know what to do now
want to feel bad you know what to do now have the illusion of loss what that
have the illusion of loss what that
have the illusion of loss what that usually does does that creates the
usually does does that creates the
usually does does that creates the second major emotion in the anatomy of
second major emotion in the anatomy of
second major emotion in the anatomy of human emotion and that is feeling of
human emotion and that is feeling of
human emotion and that is feeling of hurt feel hurt and usually what happens
hurt feel hurt and usually what happens
hurt feel hurt and usually what happens is people don’t notice the lost thing
is people don’t notice the lost thing
is people don’t notice the lost thing they notice they feel hurt if they’re
they notice they feel hurt if they’re
they notice they feel hurt if they’re sensitive
sensitive
sensitive cuz this thing happens pretty fast
cuz this thing happens pretty fast
cuz this thing happens pretty fast doesn’t and we forgotten it’s lost all
doesn’t and we forgotten it’s lost all
doesn’t and we forgotten it’s lost all we know is we feel hurt anytime somebody
we know is we feel hurt anytime somebody
we know is we feel hurt anytime somebody feels hurt what it really is
feels hurt what it really is
feels hurt what it really is they have a sense of loss about
they have a sense of loss about
they have a sense of loss about something it lost out on their
something it lost out on their
something it lost out on their expectation they lost out on what they
expectation they lost out on what they
expectation they lost out on what they thought they had they think they’ve lost
thought they had they think they’ve lost
thought they had they think they’ve lost out on something else they think they’re
out on something else they think they’re
out on something else they think they’re missing out I think something has
missing out I think something has
missing out I think something has changed I think they’re losing something
changed I think they’re losing something
changed I think they’re losing something they feel bad they feel hurt how many
they feel bad they feel hurt how many
they feel bad they feel hurt how many that I felt hurt in a personal
that I felt hurt in a personal
that I felt hurt in a personal relationship great tell me raise your
relationship great tell me raise your
relationship great tell me raise your hand tell me what did you feel heard
hand tell me what did you feel heard
hand tell me what did you feel heard about him in exam yes sir if I heard
about him in exam yes sir if I heard
about him in exam yes sir if I heard about this honesty meaning you thought
about this honesty meaning you thought
about this honesty meaning you thought this person had been dishonest with you
this person had been dishonest with you
this person had been dishonest with you now are we absolutely certain that this
now are we absolutely certain that this
now are we absolutely certain that this person was dishonest that he felt that
person was dishonest that he felt that
person was dishonest that he felt that was dishonest yes or no is it possible
was dishonest yes or no is it possible
was dishonest yes or no is it possible this person was not dishonest whether he
this person was not dishonest whether he
this person was not dishonest whether he interpreted their behavior is dishonest
interpreted their behavior is dishonest
interpreted their behavior is dishonest yes or no
yes or no
yes or no to know that conversation not long ago I
to know that conversation not long ago I
to know that conversation not long ago I couldn’t even believe it she was like
couldn’t even believe it she was like
couldn’t even believe it she was like all hurt look she said I don’t in she
all hurt look she said I don’t in she
all hurt look she said I don’t in she was she went to the next level and I’ll
was she went to the next level and I’ll
was she went to the next level and I’ll tell you what it is most people in the
tell you what it is most people in the
tell you what it is most people in the way
way
way don’t stay in her a man is immediately
don’t stay in her a man is immediately
don’t stay in her a man is immediately amp up into anger it’s that true that’s
amp up into anger it’s that true that’s
amp up into anger it’s that true that’s right and that’s the third emotion so if
right and that’s the third emotion so if
right and that’s the third emotion so if you’re angry what you really are is what
you’re angry what you really are is what
you’re angry what you really are is what her which means you really just have a
her which means you really just have a
her which means you really just have a sense of what that’s really it
sense of what that’s really it
sense of what that’s really it so my mom was upset I was like what you
so my mom was upset I was like what you
so my mom was upset I was like what you upset with me about it what I do cheers
upset with me about it what I do cheers
upset with me about it what I do cheers well she does flowers for seminars and
well she does flowers for seminars and
well she does flowers for seminars and she asked me if I would contact this
she asked me if I would contact this
she asked me if I would contact this hotel and have the hotel like use your
hotel and have the hotel like use your
hotel and have the hotel like use your services and I said I’m you willing to
services and I said I’m you willing to
services and I said I’m you willing to but I don’t think they do that and they
but I don’t think they do that and they
but I don’t think they do that and they never do it for us
never do it for us
never do it for us well she talks somebody else and that
well she talks somebody else and that
well she talks somebody else and that somebody else told her that the hotel
somebody else told her that the hotel
somebody else told her that the hotel does it all the time and they contract
does it all the time and they contract
does it all the time and they contract with somebody else here son must not
with somebody else here son must not
with somebody else here son must not really care about you
really care about you
really care about you now she was also in a very stressful
now she was also in a very stressful
now she was also in a very stressful state as the state we’re in and just our
state as the state we’re in and just our
state as the state we’re in and just our normal life affect the way we interpret
normal life affect the way we interpret
normal life affect the way we interpret meaning yeah she was stressed about one
meaning yeah she was stressed about one
meaning yeah she was stressed about one of the things so while she’s in the
of the things so while she’s in the
of the things so while she’s in the stressful say somebody said what story
stressful say somebody said what story
stressful say somebody said what story to Minho my son he just thinks I’m a
to Minho my son he just thinks I’m a
to Minho my son he just thinks I’m a pain in the butt
pain in the butt
pain in the butt he doesn’t eat us he just wants to get
he doesn’t eat us he just wants to get
he doesn’t eat us he just wants to get rid of me he must be ashamed with my
rid of me he must be ashamed with my
rid of me he must be ashamed with my work he does not like my flowers he
work he does not like my flowers he
work he does not like my flowers he would create all this wonderful stuff
would create all this wonderful stuff
would create all this wonderful stuff can we create all kinds of man
can we create all kinds of man
can we create all kinds of man I’m good at creating in your head
okay
okay I am too we all are and I’m picking on
I am too we all are and I’m picking on
I am too we all are and I’m picking on my mom dress me oh really in Egypt
my mom dress me oh really in Egypt
my mom dress me oh really in Egypt he taught me everything I know he did
he taught me everything I know he did
he taught me everything I know he did teach me a great deal gonna give me a
teach me a great deal gonna give me a
teach me a great deal gonna give me a great foundation for my life point is
great foundation for my life point is
great foundation for my life point is though seriously she’s all upset and she
though seriously she’s all upset and she
though seriously she’s all upset and she bought that I have wider enough for
bought that I have wider enough for
bought that I have wider enough for someone she said she I lied to her what
someone she said she I lied to her what
someone she said she I lied to her what do you think happen to me like me
do you think happen to me like me
do you think happen to me like me honesty is one of my highest is I’m
honesty is one of my highest is I’m
honesty is one of my highest is I’m probably too honest I don’t be equal
probably too honest I don’t be equal
probably too honest I don’t be equal everything all right what like the fact
everything all right what like the fact
everything all right what like the fact that you question my honesty how many of
that you question my honesty how many of
that you question my honesty how many of you something question your honesty and
you something question your honesty and
you something question your honesty and you know you’re honest I mean that
you know you’re honest I mean that
you know you’re honest I mean that really upset you what do you think I got
really upset you what do you think I got
really upset you what do you think I got when she said that how could you say
when she said that how could you say
when she said that how could you say that I just did all these things for you
I said what are you talking I can’t even
I said what are you talking I can’t even believe that why was i angry because I
believe that why was i angry because I
believe that why was i angry because I felt by her statement and they felt hurt
felt by her statement and they felt hurt
felt by her statement and they felt hurt because i descend to what wasa my loss
because i descend to what wasa my loss
because i descend to what wasa my loss to us how could we lose that connection
to us how could we lose that connection
to us how could we lose that connection knowing to each other our when my own
knowing to each other our when my own
knowing to each other our when my own mom
mom
mom when i do anything for i just got done
when i do anything for i just got done
when i do anything for i just got done doing this anything for her that I mean
doing this anything for her that I mean
doing this anything for her that I mean blew her out of her shorts she didn’t
blew her out of her shorts she didn’t
blew her out of her shorts she didn’t ever expect it I blew out an interesting
ever expect it I blew out an interesting
ever expect it I blew out an interesting picture so you know what happened those
picture so you know what happened those
picture so you know what happened those I realized that if I respond to her in a
I realized that if I respond to her in a
I realized that if I respond to her in a state of anger well that’d probably work
state of anger well that’d probably work
state of anger well that’d probably work now it didn’t work so I realized I need
now it didn’t work so I realized I need
now it didn’t work so I realized I need to change my state and I asked myself a
to change my state and I asked myself a
to change my state and I asked myself a question it helped me a lot
question it helped me a lot
question it helped me a lot the question I ask is what’s probably
the question I ask is what’s probably
the question I ask is what’s probably going on with her that makes her treat
going on with her that makes her treat
going on with her that makes her treat me this way or treat people this way
me this way or treat people this way
me this way or treat people this way well respond this way instead of how
well respond this way instead of how
well respond this way instead of how dare she what how could you treat me
dare she what how could you treat me
dare she what how could you treat me this way after I’ve done so much for her
this way after I’ve done so much for her
this way after I’ve done so much for her which one do what make you more what sad
which one do what make you more what sad
which one do what make you more what sad different question a so what’s going on
different question a so what’s going on
different question a so what’s going on with her that’s making her spot on this
with her that’s making her spot on this
with her that’s making her spot on this one what she stressed about mastered she
one what she stressed about mastered she
one what she stressed about mastered she told me she apologized and just dropped
told me she apologized and just dropped
told me she apologized and just dropped by the way I’m gonna tell you the leaf I
by the way I’m gonna tell you the leaf I
by the way I’m gonna tell you the leaf I want you to member to the rest of your
want you to member to the rest of your
want you to member to the rest of your life if all you do is remember this a
life if all you do is remember this a
life if all you do is remember this a whole week and really remembered at the
whole week and really remembered at the
whole week and really remembered at the right times it’ll change the way you
right times it’ll change the way you
right times it’ll change the way you communicate a little bit I believe is
communicate a little bit I believe is
communicate a little bit I believe is this then in any communication with
this then in any communication with
this then in any communication with another human being
another human being
another human being well you get a response from someone in
well you get a response from someone in
well you get a response from someone in any communication with another human
any communication with another human
any communication with another human being you get a response from someone
being you get a response from someone
being you get a response from someone that response is either a loving
that response is either a loving
that response is either a loving response or a cry for help
response or a cry for help
response or a cry for help in any communication that you have with
in any communication that you have with
in any communication that you have with another human being they give you some
another human being they give you some
another human being they give you some kind of response they respond you in
kind of response they respond you in
kind of response they respond you in some way in that communication is either
some way in that communication is either
some way in that communication is either a loving response or a cry for help
a loving response or a cry for help
a loving response or a cry for help that’s it those the only two kinds of
that’s it those the only two kinds of
that’s it those the only two kinds of responses one more time in any
responses one more time in any
responses one more time in any communication with everything being and
communication with everything being and
communication with everything being and they respond do they communicate to you
they respond do they communicate to you
they respond do they communicate to you they react to you they respond to you
they react to you they respond to you
they react to you they respond to you that reaction that response I don’t care
that reaction that response I don’t care
that reaction that response I don’t care what it looks like on the outside what
what it looks like on the outside what
what it looks like on the outside what it seems like it’s either a loving
it seems like it’s either a loving
it seems like it’s either a loving response or a cry for help which one do
response or a cry for help which one do
response or a cry for help which one do you think my mom was doing in the
you think my mom was doing in the
you think my mom was doing in the situation was that a lovely response or
situation was that a lovely response or
situation was that a lovely response or a cry for help there’s a cry for help
a cry for help there’s a cry for help
a cry for help there’s a cry for help and help to say I’m feeling what hurt
and help to say I’m feeling what hurt
and help to say I’m feeling what hurt because I have a sense of what it may
because I have a sense of what it may
because I have a sense of what it may not be true but that’s what I feel that
not be true but that’s what I feel that
not be true but that’s what I feel that wasn’t a cry for help how do most people
wasn’t a cry for help how do most people
wasn’t a cry for help how do most people respond to a cry for help with another
respond to a cry for help with another
respond to a cry for help with another cry for Allen is that true how do I
cry for Allen is that true how do I
cry for Allen is that true how do I first start to respond to my mom she’s
first start to respond to my mom she’s
first start to respond to my mom she’s angry with me she I mean how could you
angry with me she I mean how could you
angry with me she I mean how could you do this to me what’s going on I get a me
do this to me what’s going on I get a me
do this to me what’s going on I get a me back so I respond with a growl
back so I respond with a growl
back so I respond with a growl how do you how can you say this to me
how do you how can you say this to me
how do you how can you say this to me don’t pull this crap I mean look what I
don’t pull this crap I mean look what I
don’t pull this crap I mean look what I do free we’re gonna grab this
do free we’re gonna grab this
do free we’re gonna grab this interesting so when do people are
interesting so when do people are
interesting so when do people are yelling at each other crying growl back
yelling at each other crying growl back
yelling at each other crying growl back and forth who gets out nobody so you
and forth who gets out nobody so you
and forth who gets out nobody so you know what happens their anger doesn’t
know what happens their anger doesn’t
know what happens their anger doesn’t stop what happens is the anger there’s
stop what happens is the anger there’s
stop what happens is the anger there’s one place either starts going out to
one place either starts going out to
one place either starts going out to other people and becomes resentment
built never said that may be expressed
built never said that may be expressed or not expressed usually resentments
or not expressed usually resentments
or not expressed usually resentments expressed non-invertible eat other
expressed non-invertible eat other
expressed non-invertible eat other people and some people do it by thinking
people and some people do it by thinking
people and some people do it by thinking they’re exempt in the resentment and
they’re exempt in the resentment and
they’re exempt in the resentment and they express it by what they call
they express it by what they call
they express it by what they call confrontation and they actually feel
confrontation and they actually feel
confrontation and they actually feel good about it they say oh one of those
good about it they say oh one of those
good about it they say oh one of those people keeps inside I confront people
people keeps inside I confront people
people keeps inside I confront people little bastards
little bastards
little bastards I don’t really build a quality
I don’t really build a quality
I don’t really build a quality communication on it I confront I don’t
communication on it I confront I don’t
communication on it I confront I don’t keep it inside you I’ll tell you what’s
keep it inside you I’ll tell you what’s
keep it inside you I’ll tell you what’s wrong yes say will you this is this
wrong yes say will you this is this
wrong yes say will you this is this baby’ll this way I request the hugie you
baby’ll this way I request the hugie you
baby’ll this way I request the hugie you change
change
change hmm ever try this mm-hmm you know what
hmm ever try this mm-hmm you know what
hmm ever try this mm-hmm you know what that doesn’t work it can work anything
that doesn’t work it can work anything
that doesn’t work it can work anything can work tone of voice she uses those
can work tone of voice she uses those
can work tone of voice she uses those gonna play a bigger role for what you
gonna play a bigger role for what you
gonna play a bigger role for what you say anything agree your facial
say anything agree your facial
say anything agree your facial expressions can play a bigger role the
expressions can play a bigger role the
expressions can play a bigger role the way you say how many greet somebody else
way you say how many greet somebody else
way you say how many greet somebody else can sit there listen to you and say yes
can sit there listen to you and say yes
can sit there listen to you and say yes I’ll buy by your request but it’s how to
I’ll buy by your request but it’s how to
I’ll buy by your request but it’s how to okay that’s not communication that’s not
okay that’s not communication that’s not
okay that’s not communication that’s not quality communication I want to change
quality communication I want to change
quality communication I want to change and enhance our plumbing the other thing
and enhance our plumbing the other thing
and enhance our plumbing the other thing we can do is we feel anger instead of
we can do is we feel anger instead of
we can do is we feel anger instead of presenting and confronting we can just
presenting and confronting we can just
presenting and confronting we can just keep it inside and then keeping the side
keep it inside and then keeping the side
keep it inside and then keeping the side usually what it becomes as depression he
usually what it becomes as depression he
usually what it becomes as depression he would have press don’t even know why
would have press don’t even know why
would have press don’t even know why these people are depressed they felt
these people are depressed they felt
these people are depressed they felt like they’re not in control my things
like they’re not in control my things
like they’re not in control my things are happening are not control of the
are happening are not control of the
are happening are not control of the night bill would communicate and get
night bill would communicate and get
night bill would communicate and get control of their life a lot of times
control of their life a lot of times
control of their life a lot of times depression is directly relating the fact
depression is directly relating the fact
depression is directly relating the fact that kept his anger and sign these
that kept his anger and sign these
that kept his anger and sign these upsets they haven’t expressed and they
upsets they haven’t expressed and they
upsets they haven’t expressed and they become compressed how they can relate to
become compressed how they can relate to
become compressed how they can relate to this not new with other people you’ve
this not new with other people you’ve
this not new with other people you’ve seen good luck puzzle so the bottom line
seen good luck puzzle so the bottom line
seen good luck puzzle so the bottom line is we’ve got to do when somebody
is we’ve got to do when somebody
is we’ve got to do when somebody responds to us with a cry for help is
responds to us with a cry for help is
responds to us with a cry for help is give them what kind of response which of
give them what kind of response which of
give them what kind of response which of the Jewish laws will show you give
the Jewish laws will show you give
the Jewish laws will show you give somebody when they give us cry for help
somebody when they give us cry for help
somebody when they give us cry for help a loving response is that always easy to
a loving response is that always easy to
a loving response is that always easy to do now but it requires you to remember
do now but it requires you to remember
do now but it requires you to remember that no matter what it looks like
that no matter what it looks like
that no matter what it looks like they’re just really crying for help you
they’re just really crying for help you
they’re just really crying for help you guys are crying at each other
how darest me should go oh you should
how darest me should go oh you should picture you come back go I hear you I
picture you come back go I hear you I
picture you come back go I hear you I appreciate you I love you that’s not my
appreciate you I love you that’s not my
appreciate you I love you that’s not my intent
intent
intent how go make this work I’m willing to
how go make this work I’m willing to
how go make this work I’m willing to make it work thanks for sharing your
make it work thanks for sharing your
make it work thanks for sharing your feelings let’s do it
feelings let’s do it
feelings let’s do it nobody do you don’t want to spawn a cry
nobody do you don’t want to spawn a cry
nobody do you don’t want to spawn a cry for help by crying yourself you want to
for help by crying yourself you want to
for help by crying yourself you want to be bigger no idiot Biggers you remember
be bigger no idiot Biggers you remember
be bigger no idiot Biggers you remember this you remember it you use it make it
this you remember it you use it make it
this you remember it you use it make it work this will change your life that one
work this will change your life that one
work this will change your life that one belief if you also execute you know what
belief if you also execute you know what
belief if you also execute you know what you learn today you learn some skills
you learn today you learn some skills
you learn today you learn some skills today that are so easy it’s so simple
today that are so easy it’s so simple
today that are so easy it’s so simple all you go to do is commit to making
all you go to do is commit to making
all you go to do is commit to making them a habit so you’re not to think
them a habit so you’re not to think
them a habit so you’re not to think about anymore your life will change
about anymore your life will change
about anymore your life will change forever
forever
forever your personal life the way you
your personal life the way you
your personal life the way you communicate to yourself and practice
communicate to yourself and practice
communicate to yourself and practice your team and most of you’re already so
your team and most of you’re already so
your team and most of you’re already so bonded you’re incredible is there always
bonded you’re incredible is there always
bonded you’re incredible is there always a deeper level that we could pursue in
a deeper level that we could pursue in
a deeper level that we could pursue in this room there’s always a deeper
this room there’s always a deeper
this room there’s always a deeper connection
connection
connection and if it’s possible should we pursue
and if it’s possible should we pursue
and if it’s possible should we pursue yeah when I have breasts I’d be closer
yeah when I have breasts I’d be closer
yeah when I have breasts I’d be closer why don’t people up might be more
why don’t people up might be more
why don’t people up might be more connected why not do more why not create
connected why not do more why not create
connected why not do more why not create more why not make it happen why not why
more why not make it happen why not why
more why not make it happen why not why not us or not now that’s what we do so
not us or not now that’s what we do so
not us or not now that’s what we do so get the feeling for what it is it all
get the feeling for what it is it all
get the feeling for what it is it all comes down to meaning you change the
comes down to meaning you change the
comes down to meaning you change the meaning we change it all example 2 it’s
meaning we change it all example 2 it’s
meaning we change it all example 2 it’s on my first book tour this woman calls
on my first book tour this woman calls
on my first book tour this woman calls me up on the phone right the radio and I
me up on the phone right the radio and I
me up on the phone right the radio and I love doing the radio responses so I’m
love doing the radio responses so I’m
love doing the radio responses so I’m like really fast me I’ll help people all
like really fast me I’ll help people all
like really fast me I’ll help people all the time depressed now for seven years I
the time depressed now for seven years I
the time depressed now for seven years I said gosh have you accomplished that
said gosh have you accomplished that
said gosh have you accomplished that what have you accomplished that I mean
what have you accomplished that I mean
what have you accomplished that I mean that’s pretty amazing
that’s pretty amazing
that’s pretty amazing so you depress me when you sleep kill
so you depress me when you sleep kill
so you depress me when you sleep kill when I sleep
when I sleep
when I sleep what I’m doing is breaking her wet how
what I’m doing is breaking her wet how
what I’m doing is breaking her wet how do i interrupting your pattern all you
do i interrupting your pattern all you
do i interrupting your pattern all you got to do
got to do
got to do okay keep if you respond people go all
okay keep if you respond people go all
okay keep if you respond people go all around I’m sorry you feel that way and
around I’m sorry you feel that way and
around I’m sorry you feel that way and that’s not enough sometimes you got to
that’s not enough sometimes you got to
that’s not enough sometimes you got to interrupt the pattern tease them and be
interrupt the pattern tease them and be
interrupt the pattern tease them and be loving to tease them you just call it’s
loving to tease them you just call it’s
loving to tease them you just call it’s okay it’s okay they’re getting a lot of
okay it’s okay they’re getting a lot of
okay it’s okay they’re getting a lot of feedback they’re being rewarded for
feedback they’re being rewarded for
feedback they’re being rewarded for feeling bad is that true so you gotta be
feeling bad is that true so you gotta be
feeling bad is that true so you gotta be careful you gotta be loving but you
careful you gotta be loving but you
careful you gotta be loving but you gotta be fun and love it that would be
gotta be fun and love it that would be
gotta be fun and love it that would be my response a loving fun-loving response
my response a loving fun-loving response
my response a loving fun-loving response and outrageous ly fun-loving in response
and outrageous ly fun-loving in response
and outrageous ly fun-loving in response don’t break your pattern do something
don’t break your pattern do something
don’t break your pattern do something don’t expect so I said well what’s the
don’t expect so I said well what’s the
don’t expect so I said well what’s the challenge because my boyfriend left me
challenge because my boyfriend left me
challenge because my boyfriend left me seven years ago he left me he left me he
seven years ago he left me he left me he
seven years ago he left me he left me he took my whole life and said he took your
took my whole life and said he took your
took my whole life and said he took your whole life yeah I gave him everything I
whole life yeah I gave him everything I
whole life yeah I gave him everything I said everything you kept your voice I
said everything you kept your voice I
said everything you kept your voice I hear
hear
hear so when he gave me my legs run forever
so when he gave me my legs run forever
so when he gave me my legs run forever why is she in pain that’s right she
why is she in pain that’s right she
why is she in pain that’s right she feels tremendous depression actually
feels tremendous depression actually
feels tremendous depression actually because she’s been angry because she
because she’s been angry because she
because she’s been angry because she really felt what hurt cuz she has a
really felt what hurt cuz she has a
really felt what hurt cuz she has a sense of what are there people who end a
sense of what are there people who end a
sense of what are there people who end a relationship and don’t feel sense of
relationship and don’t feel sense of
relationship and don’t feel sense of watts yes or no yes because you have to
watts yes or no yes because you have to
watts yes or no yes because you have to tell yourself applause you have been
tell yourself applause you have been
tell yourself applause you have been communicated to watts how many has found
communicated to watts how many has found
communicated to watts how many has found that the past we thought was lost was
that the past we thought was lost was
that the past we thought was lost was actually your game but when you thought
actually your game but when you thought
actually your game but when you thought it was a loss how did you feel her never
it was a loss how did you feel her never
it was a loss how did you feel her never lost it was a loss of her own
lost it was a loss of her own
lost it was a loss of her own self-esteem well they left me they must
self-esteem well they left me they must
self-esteem well they left me they must love me I was a good enough you know I’m
love me I was a good enough you know I’m
love me I was a good enough you know I’m not good enough for loss upon your own
not good enough for loss upon your own
not good enough for loss upon your own self-esteem but you do that to yourself
self-esteem but you do that to yourself
self-esteem but you do that to yourself – it’s just not true the meeting you
– it’s just not true the meeting you
– it’s just not true the meeting you made up in your head we’re making this
made up in your head we’re making this
made up in your head we’re making this all this crap up in her head and it’s
all this crap up in her head and it’s
all this crap up in her head and it’s not true you gotta be careful about the
not true you gotta be careful about the
not true you gotta be careful about the meaning you label things you got to take
meaning you label things you got to take
meaning you label things you got to take control of that process is over the
control of that process is over the
control of that process is over the reason she’s upset the reason she’s this
reason she’s upset the reason she’s this
reason she’s upset the reason she’s this angry this is not that she feels a lot
angry this is not that she feels a lot
angry this is not that she feels a lot of but she’s labeled that loss because
of but she’s labeled that loss because
of but she’s labeled that loss because of that my whole life is over how would
of that my whole life is over how would
of that my whole life is over how would you feel your whole life was over a bit
you feel your whole life was over a bit
you feel your whole life was over a bit depressed you better believe it
depressed you better believe it
depressed you better believe it so I said look I said my line is I said
so I said look I said my line is I said
so I said look I said my line is I said ma’am you got to change your state the
ma’am you got to change your state the
ma’am you got to change your state the weight the state you’re in right now
weight the state you’re in right now
weight the state you’re in right now you’re gonna keep thinking your life so
you’re gonna keep thinking your life so
you’re gonna keep thinking your life so you’re gonna change your state because
you’re gonna change your state because
you’re gonna change your state because you know I’ve tried I’m try so what do
you know I’ve tried I’m try so what do
you know I’ve tried I’m try so what do you do well I’m taking drugs as well
you do well I’m taking drugs as well
you do well I’m taking drugs as well what I see my therapist for years now
what I see my therapist for years now
what I see my therapist for years now I’ve been this I said so yelling on the
I’ve been this I said so yelling on the
I’ve been this I said so yelling on the phone the radio right it’s your imagine
phone the radio right it’s your imagine
phone the radio right it’s your imagine I can masturbate so mother lodes you
I can masturbate so mother lodes you
I can masturbate so mother lodes you crazy so what’s wrong I said you listen
crazy so what’s wrong I said you listen
crazy so what’s wrong I said you listen to me right now
to me right now
to me right now you want to change this you do exactly
you want to change this you do exactly
you want to change this you do exactly what I say let’s say nothing yeah and
what I say let’s say nothing yeah and
what I say let’s say nothing yeah and you run outside and you just yell two
you run outside and you just yell two
you run outside and you just yell two words at the top of your lungs over and
words at the top of your lungs over and
words at the top of your lungs over and over again as you think about your old
over again as you think about your old
over again as you think about your old boyfriend
at first she was like in a deep trance
at first she was like in a deep trance with no reaction right and I also heard
with no reaction right and I also heard
with no reaction right and I also heard this chuckling laughing hysterically
this chuckling laughing hysterically
this chuckling laughing hysterically it’s just a laugh I said just yell next
it’s just a laugh I said just yell next
it’s just a laugh I said just yell next go out there look around see men go next
as soon as she started laughing I said
as soon as she started laughing I said think about your boyfriend she starts
think about your boyfriend she starts
think about your boyfriend she starts laughing at your old boyfriend she
laughing at your old boyfriend she
laughing at your old boyfriend she laughing your old boyfriend her
laughing your old boyfriend her
laughing your old boyfriend her boyfriend
boyfriend
boyfriend pretty soon when she’s not a real
pretty soon when she’s not a real
pretty soon when she’s not a real boyfriend guess what you be gonna do Wow
boyfriend guess what you be gonna do Wow
boyfriend guess what you be gonna do Wow now my belittling relationship no but
now my belittling relationship no but
now my belittling relationship no but you think she laughs when she thinks
you think she laughs when she thinks
you think she laughs when she thinks about it she’ll be able to deal with it
about it she’ll be able to deal with it
about it she’ll be able to deal with it better than if she cried you better
better than if she cried you better
better than if she cried you better believe it say our state affects a lot
believe it say our state affects a lot
believe it say our state affects a lot of the meaning we linked to things we’re
of the meaning we linked to things we’re
of the meaning we linked to things we’re stressed or we can make out the worst
stressed or we can make out the worst
stressed or we can make out the worst situation that virtually anything can’t
situation that virtually anything can’t
situation that virtually anything can’t wait so you gotta remember you’re the
wait so you gotta remember you’re the
wait so you gotta remember you’re the producer of this play you’re the one
producer of this play you’re the one
producer of this play you’re the one writing the script of this movie now
writing the script of this movie now
writing the script of this movie now some of you though have like one style
some of you though have like one style
some of you though have like one style of writing called drama maybe I’ll try
of writing called drama maybe I’ll try
of writing called drama maybe I’ll try writing a comedy instead it might be
writing a comedy instead it might be
writing a comedy instead it might be more enjoyable
more enjoyable
more enjoyable some of you written a love story my
some of you written a love story my
some of you written a love story my congratulations to you some of your
congratulations to you some of your
congratulations to you some of your adventure story
adventure story
adventure story some of you’ve got one garbled story
some of you’ve got one garbled story
some of you’ve got one garbled story that doesn’t even make sense
that doesn’t even make sense
that doesn’t even make sense maybe it’s time you cleaned up the
maybe it’s time you cleaned up the
maybe it’s time you cleaned up the script this doesn’t mean go back and
script this doesn’t mean go back and
script this doesn’t mean go back and rewrite at all
rewrite at all
rewrite at all it means terrible one definitely go back
it means terrible one definitely go back
it means terrible one definitely go back and rewrite the script or die make it
and rewrite the script or die make it
and rewrite the script or die make it work yes or no I want you can do a set
work yes or no I want you can do a set
work yes or no I want you can do a set aside move on from here what a concept
aside move on from here what a concept
aside move on from here what a concept so what do I want now what happened I
so what do I want now what happened I
so what do I want now what happened I past doesn’t mean diddly oh man this is
past doesn’t mean diddly oh man this is
past doesn’t mean diddly oh man this is what I’m going if you’re trying to drive
what I’m going if you’re trying to drive
what I’m going if you’re trying to drive in the future using the rearview mirror
in the future using the rearview mirror
in the future using the rearview mirror as your guidance tool you’re gonna crash
as your guidance tool you’re gonna crash
as your guidance tool you’re gonna crash but you know what your futures gonna
but you know what your futures gonna
but you know what your futures gonna look like the past
look like the past
look like the past I’m scary maybe I’ll just let go of the
I’m scary maybe I’ll just let go of the
I’m scary maybe I’ll just let go of the past tear up that script you don’t have
past tear up that script you don’t have
past tear up that script you don’t have to keep playing that same play or write
to keep playing that same play or write
to keep playing that same play or write a new one now don’t tell me you’re
a new one now don’t tell me you’re
a new one now don’t tell me you’re tripping you know but who gives a
tripping you know but who gives a
tripping you know but who gives a oh and write a new one you know be
oh and write a new one you know be
oh and write a new one you know be spontaneous maybe you want to write
spontaneous maybe you want to write
spontaneous maybe you want to write something along the way maybe when I’m
something along the way maybe when I’m
something along the way maybe when I’m down the whole thing planned out a video
down the whole thing planned out a video
down the whole thing planned out a video exec who’s going up when it could happen
exec who’s going up when it could happen
exec who’s going up when it could happen then you won’t be so upset when it
then you won’t be so upset when it
then you won’t be so upset when it doesn’t go the way you wrote the first
doesn’t go the way you wrote the first
doesn’t go the way you wrote the first version in script calls your
version in script calls your
version in script calls your expectations and maybe then you’ll blow
expectations and maybe then you’ll blow
expectations and maybe then you’ll blow this script is kind of guideline there’s
this script is kind of guideline there’s
this script is kind of guideline there’s my absolute posture I’m gonna be Pete I
my absolute posture I’m gonna be Pete I
my absolute posture I’m gonna be Pete I think that would help things along see
think that would help things along see
think that would help things along see whole key is the quality of life the
whole key is the quality of life the
whole key is the quality of life the quality communication one with yourself
quality communication one with yourself
quality communication one with yourself because nothing has a meaning except the
because nothing has a meaning except the
because nothing has a meaning except the meaning given the me and give it’s kind
meaning given the me and give it’s kind
meaning given the me and give it’s kind of tripping how you feel any feels gonna
of tripping how you feel any feels gonna
of tripping how you feel any feels gonna turn what you do what you do is gonna
turn what you do what you do is gonna
turn what you do what you do is gonna shape your destiny if I interpret this
shape your destiny if I interpret this
shape your destiny if I interpret this means this person doesn’t love me now
means this person doesn’t love me now
means this person doesn’t love me now all of a sudden I’m gonna feel lousy
all of a sudden I’m gonna feel lousy
all of a sudden I’m gonna feel lousy about it and I’m gonna do things either
about it and I’m gonna do things either
about it and I’m gonna do things either verbally or non-verbally to get back
verbally or non-verbally to get back
verbally or non-verbally to get back maybe or at the very worst I’ll withhold
maybe or at the very worst I’ll withhold
maybe or at the very worst I’ll withhold my emotions because I don’t wanna be
my emotions because I don’t wanna be
my emotions because I don’t wanna be hurt again and is that withholding make
hurt again and is that withholding make
hurt again and is that withholding make my relationship better yes or no no and
my relationship better yes or no no and
my relationship better yes or no no and now that was sudden you start to drift
now that was sudden you start to drift
now that was sudden you start to drift apart now I start doing doing things
apart now I start doing doing things
apart now I start doing doing things that will change my destiny separate me
that will change my destiny separate me
that will change my destiny separate me from somebody I really love something
from somebody I really love something
from somebody I really love something really loves me all cuz I made up with
really loves me all cuz I made up with
really loves me all cuz I made up with your crowd man company hasn’t accepted
your crowd man company hasn’t accepted
your crowd man company hasn’t accepted so if we want to change our lives really
so if we want to change our lives really
so if we want to change our lives really want to make things work make sure I
want to make things work make sure I
want to make things work make sure I remember this write it you know it’s not
remember this write it you know it’s not
remember this write it you know it’s not an event it’s what we do with it that
an event it’s what we do with it that
an event it’s what we do with it that determines the quality of your life
determines the quality of your life
determines the quality of your life it’s not an event it’s what you do with
it’s not an event it’s what you do with
it’s not an event it’s what you do with it determines the quality of life
what we do but is what we do with it
what we do but is what we do with it inside of our head it’s not the event
inside of our head it’s not the event
inside of our head it’s not the event it’s what we do with the event in terms
it’s what we do with the event in terms
it’s what we do with the event in terms the quality of my life when we do with
the quality of my life when we do with
the quality of my life when we do with inside of our head we can take things
inside of our head we can take things
inside of our head we can take things that destroy other people and cause them
that destroy other people and cause them
that destroy other people and cause them to make us better
to make us better
to make us better this whole seminar today you’re gonna go
this whole seminar today you’re gonna go
this whole seminar today you’re gonna go through as a result of you having an
through as a result of you having an
through as a result of you having an event that was not pleasurable last
event that was not pleasurable last
event that was not pleasurable last night especially since I was exhausted
night especially since I was exhausted
night especially since I was exhausted no sleep and also amplified my feelings
no sleep and also amplified my feelings
no sleep and also amplified my feelings about the situation and then what
about the situation and then what
about the situation and then what happened was I asked myself a question
happened was I asked myself a question
happened was I asked myself a question how can I use this what’s great about
how can I use this what’s great about
how can I use this what’s great about this I was not feeling I was great I’m
this I was not feeling I was great I’m
this I was not feeling I was great I’m gonna use this what’s great about this
gonna use this what’s great about this
gonna use this what’s great about this the rain starts that was great about
the rain starts that was great about
the rain starts that was great about this as it means what we tried to do
this as it means what we tried to do
this as it means what we tried to do before this wasn’t making sense we’re
before this wasn’t making sense we’re
before this wasn’t making sense we’re not quite we almost had it wasn’t quite
not quite we almost had it wasn’t quite
not quite we almost had it wasn’t quite there so it’s great about this I found
there so it’s great about this I found
there so it’s great about this I found that out cuz I want to share with you
that out cuz I want to share with you
that out cuz I want to share with you the best what’s great about is I can use
the best what’s great about is I can use
the best what’s great about is I can use this intense emotion see what really
this intense emotion see what really
this intense emotion see what really will work and the most intense feelings
will work and the most intense feelings
will work and the most intense feelings are not wow what a great deal it’s not
are not wow what a great deal it’s not
are not wow what a great deal it’s not the event it’s what you do with it and
the event it’s what you do with it and
the event it’s what you do with it and remember the meaning you associate or
remember the meaning you associate or
remember the meaning you associate or assigned to something meaning you
assigned to something meaning you
assigned to something meaning you associate and put parenthesis or
associate and put parenthesis or
associate and put parenthesis or assigned to something determines how you
assigned to something determines how you
assigned to something determines how you feel and what you do so nearly it
feel and what you do so nearly it
feel and what you do so nearly it meaning you associate or that you assign
meaning you associate or that you assign
meaning you associate or that you assign to something term ins how you feel and
to something term ins how you feel and
to something term ins how you feel and what you do throughout your life
determines how you feel and what you do
determines how you feel and what you do throughout your life bless you
the problem is are you communicating to
the problem is are you communicating to yourself in a way that’s empowering or
yourself in a way that’s empowering or
yourself in a way that’s empowering or disempowering what would you say it
disempowering what would you say it
disempowering what would you say it would be all the time it is probably if
would be all the time it is probably if
would be all the time it is probably if you’re not totally happy disempower
you’re not totally happy disempower
you’re not totally happy disempower so the problem is not the event the
so the problem is not the event the
so the problem is not the event the problem is the meaning that you’re
problem is the meaning that you’re
problem is the meaning that you’re associating to things
associating to things
associating to things that’s affecting your actions throughout
that’s affecting your actions throughout
that’s affecting your actions throughout your whole life determine your destiny
your whole life determine your destiny
your whole life determine your destiny is probably disempowering a good deal of
is probably disempowering a good deal of
is probably disempowering a good deal of time if you’re not happy if you’re happy
time if you’re not happy if you’re happy
time if you’re not happy if you’re happy you’re probably assigning a lot of
you’re probably assigning a lot of
you’re probably assigning a lot of empowering meetings aren’t you you
empowering meetings aren’t you you
empowering meetings aren’t you you couples of core beliefs some ways of
couples of core beliefs some ways of
couples of core beliefs some ways of looking at the world that really help
looking at the world that really help
looking at the world that really help you help you to evaluate things away
you help you to evaluate things away
you help you to evaluate things away where you’re really in charge or you’re
where you’re really in charge or you’re
where you’re really in charge or you’re not in reaction so if we want to really
not in reaction so if we want to really
not in reaction so if we want to really take control then you got to remember
take control then you got to remember
take control then you got to remember what I’ve already said nothing life has
what I’ve already said nothing life has
what I’ve already said nothing life has a meaning except the meaning that we
a meaning except the meaning that we
a meaning except the meaning that we give it so for example the doctor Staff
give it so for example the doctor Staff
give it so for example the doctor Staff the doctor raises voice says please give
the doctor raises voice says please give
the doctor raises voice says please give me this let me listen please give me
me this let me listen please give me
me this let me listen please give me this he doesn’t say the word please what
this he doesn’t say the word please what
this he doesn’t say the word please what does that mean
does that mean
does that mean scumbag doctor that’s what it means it
scumbag doctor that’s what it means it
scumbag doctor that’s what it means it means he doesn’t respect you right means
means he doesn’t respect you right means
means he doesn’t respect you right means he doesn’t care about you right no it
he doesn’t care about you right no it
he doesn’t care about you right no it means if you’re upset that’s what the
means if you’re upset that’s what the
means if you’re upset that’s what the meaning you’ve attached to it yet how
meaning you’ve attached to it yet how
meaning you’ve attached to it yet how many would agree what else could it be
he’s angry if he’s angry already
he’s angry if he’s angry already stressed or he’s frustrated
stressed or he’s frustrated
stressed or he’s frustrated does that give a right to stand by you
does that give a right to stand by you
does that give a right to stand by you yes or no no way when I’m thinking him
yes or no no way when I’m thinking him
yes or no no way when I’m thinking him right we just want to know what it
right we just want to know what it
right we just want to know what it really means first does that make sense
really means first does that make sense
really means first does that make sense how many of you have ever screwed up
how many of you have ever screwed up
how many of you have ever screwed up come to see show of hands how many of
come to see show of hands how many of
come to see show of hands how many of you have ever snapped that somebody had
you have ever snapped that somebody had
you have ever snapped that somebody had nothing to do with them it was just your
nothing to do with them it was just your
nothing to do with them it was just your state you were so stressed about
state you were so stressed about
state you were so stressed about something else
something else
something else how many have done this even beating you
how many have done this even beating you
how many have done this even beating you totally well like your children hmm
totally well like your children hmm
totally well like your children hmm ready I’ll try again
ready I’ll try again
ready I’ll try again very nice think about that now when the
very nice think about that now when the
very nice think about that now when the doctor does that instead of going here
doctor does that instead of going here
doctor does that instead of going here it’s not right to do that you’re right
it’s not right to do that you’re right
it’s not right to do that you’re right he has no right to do it yeah absolutely
he has no right to do it yeah absolutely
he has no right to do it yeah absolutely right and you need to help him so he
right and you need to help him so he
right and you need to help him so he doesn’t do that anymore
doesn’t do that anymore
doesn’t do that anymore you need to help him not make it wrong
you need to help him not make it wrong
you need to help him not make it wrong do you make him wrong is that gonna roll
do you make him wrong is that gonna roll
do you make him wrong is that gonna roll him I’m not doing this again yes or no
him I’m not doing this again yes or no
him I’m not doing this again yes or no doctor when all of a sudden you keep
doctor when all of a sudden you keep
doctor when all of a sudden you keep asking your staff they don’t deliver
asking your staff they don’t deliver
asking your staff they don’t deliver something you need I mean they’re
something you need I mean they’re
something you need I mean they’re incompetent they don’t care means to me
incompetent they don’t care means to me
incompetent they don’t care means to me you’re working above you anytime you’re
you’re working above you anytime you’re
you’re working above you anytime you’re getting paid they’re gonna baby him
getting paid they’re gonna baby him
getting paid they’re gonna baby him let’s not care about you
let’s not care about you
let’s not care about you so it means know what might it mean
so it means know what might it mean
so it means know what might it mean they’re overloaded they’re overworked
they’re overloaded they’re overworked
they’re overloaded they’re overworked you beat him to a pulp they don’t want
you beat him to a pulp they don’t want
you beat him to a pulp they don’t want to talk to you because you’ve been real
to talk to you because you’ve been real
to talk to you because you’ve been real mean hard to be around they’re trying to
mean hard to be around they’re trying to
mean hard to be around they’re trying to avoid you to stand in your way because
avoid you to stand in your way because
avoid you to stand in your way because they’re afraid they’re and set you off
I noticed that was a doctor that was
I noticed that was a doctor that was laughing huh ma’am it’s not possible
laughing huh ma’am it’s not possible
laughing huh ma’am it’s not possible let’s see which meaning you was signed
let’s see which meaning you was signed
let’s see which meaning you was signed will determine how you feel and how you
will determine how you feel and how you
will determine how you feel and how you treat people is that true and it doesn’t
treat people is that true and it doesn’t
treat people is that true and it doesn’t stop there it continues because the
stop there it continues because the
stop there it continues because the truth is most of you don’t communicate
truth is most of you don’t communicate
truth is most of you don’t communicate all that you feel and it’s a good thing
cuz the mo word spoken in a moment of
cuz the mo word spoken in a moment of anger some words like that are never
now that’s not true you can’t forget
now that’s not true you can’t forget people they all never forget that you
people they all never forget that you
people they all never forget that you tell them I’ll never ever forget
they work real hard to remember but how
they work real hard to remember but how many of you forgotten your own home
many of you forgotten your own home
many of you forgotten your own home telephone number address or how does all
telephone number address or how does all
telephone number address or how does all the word though so you can’t forget get
the word though so you can’t forget get
the word though so you can’t forget get you yes
you yes
you yes actually forgetting is a very useful
actually forgetting is a very useful
actually forgetting is a very useful tool I may want to teach you before the
tool I may want to teach you before the
tool I may want to teach you before the weekends up the power of forgetting not
weekends up the power of forgetting not
weekends up the power of forgetting not forgiving forget it hmm hmm this is
forgiving forget it hmm hmm this is
forgiving forget it hmm hmm this is sometimes useful to forget especially if
sometimes useful to forget especially if
sometimes useful to forget especially if what you’re forgetting is only your
what you’re forgetting is only your
what you’re forgetting is only your conception especially since your
conception especially since your
conception especially since your memories are nothing but myths anyway
because if you ask my mother I bet you
because if you ask my mother I bet you have a different story true today see
have a different story true today see
have a different story true today see the bottom line in life and is we’ve got
the bottom line in life and is we’ve got
the bottom line in life and is we’ve got to make sure that we assign a meaning
to make sure that we assign a meaning
to make sure that we assign a meaning that empowers and pussing doesn’t
that empowers and pussing doesn’t
that empowers and pussing doesn’t empower this is how by the way we don’t
empower this is how by the way we don’t
empower this is how by the way we don’t really know for sure what the meaning is
really know for sure what the meaning is
really know for sure what the meaning is unless we pass by the way do we always
unless we pass by the way do we always
unless we pass by the way do we always have to ask now sometimes we can
have to ask now sometimes we can
have to ask now sometimes we can hallucinate the people are coming from
hallucinate the people are coming from
hallucinate the people are coming from the best place how often would it be
the best place how often would it be
the best place how often would it be useful to lose sneaking people are
useful to lose sneaking people are
useful to lose sneaking people are really coming to the positive attention
really coming to the positive attention
really coming to the positive attention yes see if you question my behavior I
yes see if you question my behavior I
yes see if you question my behavior I can probably deal with that but if you
can probably deal with that but if you
can probably deal with that but if you question my intention that is gonna
question my intention that is gonna
question my intention that is gonna really hurt because I’m gonna go don’t
really hurt because I’m gonna go don’t
really hurt because I’m gonna go don’t be have a relationship don’t you know
be have a relationship don’t you know
be have a relationship don’t you know who I am but that’s why I’m an ominous
who I am but that’s why I’m an ominous
who I am but that’s why I’m an ominous fine I probably follow the cry for help
fine I probably follow the cry for help
fine I probably follow the cry for help I’ll be pissed off you could ever
I’ll be pissed off you could ever
I’ll be pissed off you could ever question my integrity or my intent or
question my integrity or my intent or
question my integrity or my intent or whether I care about you how can you do
whether I care about you how can you do
whether I care about you how can you do that after all I’ve done for you then
that after all I’ve done for you then
that after all I’ve done for you then people start justifying noticing all
people start justifying noticing all
people start justifying noticing all these leaders I think it really need
these leaders I think it really need
these leaders I think it really need more man town cetera
more man town cetera
more man town cetera so we’ve got a really do is we got to
so we’ve got a really do is we got to
so we’ve got a really do is we got to say okay I don’t know what the meaning
say okay I don’t know what the meaning
say okay I don’t know what the meaning is I’m not sure what the meaning is but
is I’m not sure what the meaning is but
is I’m not sure what the meaning is but I’m sure that the intent is positive the
I’m sure that the intent is positive the
I’m sure that the intent is positive the person need to stress or something else
person need to stress or something else
person need to stress or something else well I know who they are I remember who
well I know who they are I remember who
well I know who they are I remember who this person really is the moment doesn’t
this person really is the moment doesn’t
this person really is the moment doesn’t matter this too shall pass
matter this too shall pass
matter this too shall pass that’s her unless I decide to try hang
that’s her unless I decide to try hang
that’s her unless I decide to try hang onto it not let it pass I’ve never tried
onto it not let it pass I’ve never tried
onto it not let it pass I’ve never tried not to let something pass gets to be
not to let something pass gets to be
not to let something pass gets to be painful after a few days you come home
you caught that one huh you come home
you caught that one huh you come home and your spouse is watching TV again the
and your spouse is watching TV again the
and your spouse is watching TV again the reason is sleeper again they insanely
reason is sleeper again they insanely
reason is sleeper again they insanely love you are given what does that mean
love you are given what does that mean
love you are given what does that mean scumbag that’s a bad divorce they don’t
scumbag that’s a bad divorce they don’t
scumbag that’s a bad divorce they don’t care they don’t love me they’re not
care they don’t love me they’re not
care they don’t love me they’re not attracted to me anymore
attracted to me anymore
attracted to me anymore can’t imagine why they wouldn’t be
can’t imagine why they wouldn’t be
can’t imagine why they wouldn’t be attracted you when you in this
attracted you when you in this
attracted you when you in this personality looks another man but Sir
personality looks another man but Sir
personality looks another man but Sir the women can’t imagine why when they
the women can’t imagine why when they
the women can’t imagine why when they get to come home just seeing you at this
get to come home just seeing you at this
get to come home just seeing you at this unique state because they don’t have
unique state because they don’t have
unique state because they don’t have very good taste that’s why they’ve got
maybe they know what they’ve got maybe
maybe they know what they’ve got maybe that’s why they’re looking meaning we
that’s why they’re looking meaning we
that’s why they’re looking meaning we link to things determines our actions
link to things determines our actions
link to things determines our actions therefore our destiny and order to share
therefore our destiny and order to share
therefore our destiny and order to share that with you
that with you
that with you the key mins to choose empowering versus
the key mins to choose empowering versus
the key mins to choose empowering versus disempowering means the key for us from
disempowering means the key for us from
disempowering means the key for us from now on is when something happens we’re
now on is when something happens we’re
now on is when something happens we’re gonna probably have a reaction man throw
gonna probably have a reaction man throw
gonna probably have a reaction man throw down with a little reaction we should
down with a little reaction we should
down with a little reaction we should sit back and say what’s a whore
sit back and say what’s a whore
sit back and say what’s a whore empowering way of looking at this what
empowering way of looking at this what
empowering way of looking at this what might be a more empowering way of
might be a more empowering way of
might be a more empowering way of looking at this what else could this
looking at this what else could this
looking at this what else could this mean because I choose the empowering one
mean because I choose the empowering one
mean because I choose the empowering one I may be wrong is it possible the person
I may be wrong is it possible the person
I may be wrong is it possible the person really is this comeback I guess
really is this comeback I guess
really is this comeback I guess anything’s possible but a probably won’t
anything’s possible but a probably won’t
anything’s possible but a probably won’t empower you’re looking in that way
empower you’re looking in that way
empower you’re looking in that way because people tend to be whatever you
because people tend to be whatever you
because people tend to be whatever you make them you have a right people tend
make them you have a right people tend
make them you have a right people tend to be in whatever you make them pretty
to be in whatever you make them pretty
to be in whatever you make them pretty important
and I want you remember this like the
and I want you remember this like the cenotes whatever you look for you will
cenotes whatever you look for you will
cenotes whatever you look for you will find whatever you look for you will find
find whatever you look for you will find
find whatever you look for you will find whatever you look for you’re gonna get
whatever you look for you’re gonna get
whatever you look for you’re gonna get and by the way the way we look for
and by the way the way we look for
and by the way the way we look for things is we ask questions about people
things is we ask questions about people
things is we ask questions about people about our life about ourselves that’s
about our life about ourselves that’s
about our life about ourselves that’s how you look for things the way you
how you look for things the way you
how you look for things the way you direct what you focus on is ask a
direct what you focus on is ask a
direct what you focus on is ask a question very quickly look we’re in this
question very quickly look we’re in this
question very quickly look we’re in this room as fast you can delay notice
room as fast you can delay notice
room as fast you can delay notice everything in this room that’s brown
everything in this room that’s brown
everything in this room that’s brown quick it’s brown brown clothing people’s
quick it’s brown brown clothing people’s
quick it’s brown brown clothing people’s hair floors a big brown brown brown holy
hair floors a big brown brown brown holy
hair floors a big brown brown brown holy brown brown brown brown brown brown
brown brown brown brown brown brown
brown brown brown brown brown brown brown close your eyes your eyes closed
brown close your eyes your eyes closed
brown close your eyes your eyes closed now tell me everything in this room
now tell me everything in this room
now tell me everything in this room that’s that mm-hmm
that’s that mm-hmm
that’s that mm-hmm raise your hand if you see a lot more
raise your hand if you see a lot more
raise your hand if you see a lot more Brown than you have that you see red
Brown than you have that you see red
Brown than you have that you see red raise your hand open your eyes look for
raise your hand open your eyes look for
raise your hand open your eyes look for red now see everything you see in this
red now see everything you see in this
red now see everything you see in this room it’s red red red red anywhere you
room it’s red red red red anywhere you
room it’s red red red red anywhere you can see it clothing people anyway see
can see it clothing people anyway see
can see it clothing people anyway see read read read read read the grab that
read read read read read the grab that
read read read read read the grab that red red let me see a lot more red now
red red let me see a lot more red now
red red let me see a lot more red now raise your hand
raise your hand
raise your hand guess what you get when you look for and
guess what you get when you look for and
guess what you get when you look for and I got you a quart by asking a question
I got you a quart by asking a question
I got you a quart by asking a question that’s also how you get yourself to look
that’s also how you get yourself to look
that’s also how you get yourself to look for things by asking a question like
for things by asking a question like
for things by asking a question like what’s wrong with this person
what’s wrong with this person
what’s wrong with this person you know what you look if I’m wrong
you know what you look if I’m wrong
you know what you look if I’m wrong is wrong there’s what’s wrong with them
is wrong there’s what’s wrong with them
is wrong there’s what’s wrong with them why are they such as come back to why
why are they such as come back to why
why are they such as come back to why there’s one reason here’s another here’s
there’s one reason here’s another here’s
there’s one reason here’s another here’s another how come I can never succeed I
another how come I can never succeed I
another how come I can never succeed I don’t see here you looking so yeah this
don’t see here you looking so yeah this
don’t see here you looking so yeah this here my childhood you find somebody’s
here my childhood you find somebody’s
here my childhood you find somebody’s horrible and did you find something good
horrible and did you find something good
horrible and did you find something good in them if you look for it yes you know
in them if you look for it yes you know
in them if you look for it yes you know yeah because you’re the one that terms
yeah because you’re the one that terms
yeah because you’re the one that terms will it’s good anon dream but true could
will it’s good anon dream but true could
will it’s good anon dream but true could you find something good in Saddam saying
you find something good in Saddam saying
you find something good in Saddam saying if you wanted to what I’m saying should
if you wanted to what I’m saying should
if you wanted to what I’m saying should if you wanted to could you in certain
if you wanted to could you in certain
if you wanted to could you in certain evil think he’s good yeah people say hey
evil think he’s good yeah people say hey
evil think he’s good yeah people say hey he’s gotten back our land I don’t
he’s gotten back our land I don’t
he’s gotten back our land I don’t necessarily agree but weren’t agree to
necessarily agree but weren’t agree to
necessarily agree but weren’t agree to be able to appreciate is there a
be able to appreciate is there a
be able to appreciate is there a difference yeah you can appreciate
difference yeah you can appreciate
difference yeah you can appreciate somebody’s view even if you don’t agree
somebody’s view even if you don’t agree
somebody’s view even if you don’t agree with you can appreciate that for them if
with you can appreciate that for them if
with you can appreciate that for them if that’s true you can appreciate but they
that’s true you can appreciate but they
that’s true you can appreciate but they have a different reality than you have
have a different reality than you have
have a different reality than you have about something most of us think we all
about something most of us think we all
about something most of us think we all have to share the same seeing the
have to share the same seeing the
have to share the same seeing the reality I’m sure we share the same
reality I’m sure we share the same
reality I’m sure we share the same physical reality but physical reality is
physical reality but physical reality is
physical reality but physical reality is not what most of us experience we
not what most of us experience we
not what most of us experience we experience a perceive the reality we
experience a perceive the reality we
experience a perceive the reality we made up in our hand isn’t that true and
made up in our hand isn’t that true and
made up in our hand isn’t that true and so do you remember what the titleist
so do you remember what the titleist
so do you remember what the titleist technology is bridging realities what we
technology is bridging realities what we
technology is bridging realities what we want to do is build a bridge between our
want to do is build a bridge between our
want to do is build a bridge between our reality in somebody else’s so that we
reality in somebody else’s so that we
reality in somebody else’s so that we can connect at a relationship we want to
can connect at a relationship we want to
can connect at a relationship we want to make them live in our reality we don’t
make them live in our reality we don’t
make them live in our reality we don’t have to hold our we ours their absolute
have to hold our we ours their absolute
have to hold our we ours their absolute we can create a bridge and by having a
we can create a bridge and by having a
we can create a bridge and by having a bridge we can exchange information
bridge we can exchange information
bridge we can exchange information between our two cities our two
between our two cities our two
between our two cities our two communities of emotion our two
communities of emotion our two
communities of emotion our two communities of understanding
communities of understanding
communities of understanding and create a connection we don’t want to
and create a connection we don’t want to
and create a connection we don’t want to separate connected we can share we can
separate connected we can share we can
separate connected we can share we can have our own identity and feeling you
have our own identity and feeling you
have our own identity and feeling you also connect and share there’s no limit
also connect and share there’s no limit
also connect and share there’s no limit let me do it at any moment all we have
let me do it at any moment all we have
let me do it at any moment all we have to do is choose to cross the bridge
bridge the reality I’ll show you how to
bridge the reality I’ll show you how to do that for people to rest your life you
do that for people to rest your life you
do that for people to rest your life you can change your life like it’s so simple
can change your life like it’s so simple
can change your life like it’s so simple it starts with this basic philosophical
it starts with this basic philosophical
it starts with this basic philosophical understanding what you feel it’s based
understanding what you feel it’s based
understanding what you feel it’s based on the meaning you give things
on the meaning you give things
on the meaning you give things we’re the ones different meaning to
we’re the ones different meaning to
we’re the ones different meaning to matter what you know feels like somebody
matter what you know feels like somebody
matter what you know feels like somebody else the question is it empowering
else the question is it empowering
else the question is it empowering meeting or disempowering me and if you
meeting or disempowering me and if you
meeting or disempowering me and if you say yeah look I got proof I got proof
say yeah look I got proof I got proof
say yeah look I got proof I got proof for what I’m saying is true you want to
for what I’m saying is true you want to
for what I’m saying is true you want to be white then you want to be in a
be white then you want to be in a
be white then you want to be in a relationship you want to be right you
relationship you want to be right you
relationship you want to be right you want to be in love expect me an argument
want to be in love expect me an argument
want to be in love expect me an argument it Alaskans I’m gonna be right every one
it Alaskans I’m gonna be right every one
it Alaskans I’m gonna be right every one of you love cuz that’s really your
of you love cuz that’s really your
of you love cuz that’s really your choice that’s really it see I think I
choice that’s really it see I think I
choice that’s really it see I think I told the last time I was here out of
told the last time I was here out of
told the last time I was here out of time few years back we’re at a unique
time few years back we’re at a unique
time few years back we’re at a unique partner who I really cared a lot about
partner who I really cared a lot about
partner who I really cared a lot about embezzled a quarter million dollars 97
embezzled a quarter million dollars 97
embezzled a quarter million dollars 97 or fifty eight thousand dollars a day I
or fifty eight thousand dollars a day I
or fifty eight thousand dollars a day I got up to paint by this I got angrier
got up to paint by this I got angrier
got up to paint by this I got angrier than I ever remember because I felt so
than I ever remember because I felt so
than I ever remember because I felt so massively what hurt and it’s because I
massively what hurt and it’s because I
massively what hurt and it’s because I had a feeling of what loss
had a feeling of what loss
had a feeling of what loss the money was part of it the ability to
the money was part of it the ability to
the money was part of it the ability to not have to think about money was
not have to think about money was
not have to think about money was another part of an equally big part of
another part of an equally big part of
another part of an equally big part of the was I cared about this person they
the was I cared about this person they
the was I cared about this person they took advantage of me I felt the loss
took advantage of me I felt the loss
took advantage of me I felt the loss trust loss of love loss of connection
trust loss of love loss of connection
trust loss of love loss of connection all I got stacked in the same let me
all I got stacked in the same let me
all I got stacked in the same let me hear that
see the truth of the matter is why have
see the truth of the matter is why have every right to be able to point and show
every right to be able to point and show
every right to be able to point and show this guy’s mom sure will that make my
this guy’s mom sure will that make my
this guy’s mom sure will that make my life better
life better
life better no I don’t do say how can I use this and
no I don’t do say how can I use this and
no I don’t do say how can I use this and move on not making right not making
move on not making right not making
move on not making right not making wrong just go okay yeah what make a
wrong just go okay yeah what make a
wrong just go okay yeah what make a person do that you don’t when I finally
person do that you don’t when I finally
person do that you don’t when I finally start asking what make a person do that
start asking what make a person do that
start asking what make a person do that I created my entire destiny technologies
I created my entire destiny technologies
I created my entire destiny technologies probably is the most powerful to send
probably is the most powerful to send
probably is the most powerful to send distinctions like midnight so figured
distinctions like midnight so figured
distinctions like midnight so figured out I could use it what I could learn
out I could use it what I could learn
out I could use it what I could learn from instead of how come is happening
from instead of how come is happening
from instead of how come is happening and I turned the finances around like
and I turned the finances around like
and I turned the finances around like Pineville and then company did four
Pineville and then company did four
Pineville and then company did four million dollars a year fifty million
million dollars a year fifty million
million dollars a year fifty million dollars you it’s a fairly larger all
dollars you it’s a fairly larger all
dollars you it’s a fairly larger all because I chose to create a different
because I chose to create a different
because I chose to create a different meaning meaning is this is a chance for
meaning meaning is this is a chance for
meaning meaning is this is a chance for me to go the next level meaning is this
me to go the next level meaning is this
me to go the next level meaning is this chance we learn make something better
chance we learn make something better
chance we learn make something better protective why don’t you leave that
protective why don’t you leave that
protective why don’t you leave that meaning between oil changes remember if
meaning between oil changes remember if
meaning between oil changes remember if you don’t like the way you feel to
you don’t like the way you feel to
you don’t like the way you feel to change your perception of what something
change your perception of what something
change your perception of what something means the change in actions that’s what
means the change in actions that’s what
means the change in actions that’s what it takes in the change
a little metaphor here come before it I
a little metaphor here come before it I just wanna remind you that when you
just wanna remind you that when you
just wanna remind you that when you decide you can’t find something also
decide you can’t find something also
decide you can’t find something also never I said what you look for you’ll
never I said what you look for you’ll
never I said what you look for you’ll find when you decide you can’t find
find when you decide you can’t find
find when you decide you can’t find something you’ll also discover you won’t
something you’ll also discover you won’t
something you’ll also discover you won’t find because what do you believe
find because what do you believe
find because what do you believe something is true when you believe it’s
something is true when you believe it’s
something is true when you believe it’s not your right how many of the
not your right how many of the
not your right how many of the experience of having somebody say to you
experience of having somebody say to you
experience of having somebody say to you something why can you find me the salt
something why can you find me the salt
something why can you find me the salt you think yourself would you want the
you think yourself would you want the
you think yourself would you want the cabin to get me a salt as you’re walking
cabin to get me a salt as you’re walking
cabin to get me a salt as you’re walking you think I don’t know what the salt is
you think I don’t know what the salt is
you think I don’t know what the salt is you really do look don’t you you really
you really do look don’t you you really
you really do look don’t you you really look but you already have this believe
look but you already have this believe
look but you already have this believe this is I get my dissolved so what
this is I get my dissolved so what
this is I get my dissolved so what happens seamlessly go it’s not in here
happens seamlessly go it’s not in here
happens seamlessly go it’s not in here nobody fire it’s right there on the
nobody fire it’s right there on the
nobody fire it’s right there on the shelf you know it’s not they’re walking
shelf you know it’s not they’re walking
shelf you know it’s not they’re walking they walk right beside you
they walk right beside you
they walk right beside you we trying to be your face you know what
we trying to be your face you know what
we trying to be your face you know what is this and what is it
is this and what is it
is this and what is it how many have this happen to you now
how many have this happen to you now
how many have this happen to you now solve ozone you there you said Tony what
solve ozone you there you said Tony what
solve ozone you there you said Tony what I look for all fine yes what you look
I look for all fine yes what you look
I look for all fine yes what you look for an Ernest will find see what you
for an Ernest will find see what you
for an Ernest will find see what you really want the answer to
really want the answer to
really want the answer to you’ll get there you go why am I still
you’ll get there you go why am I still
you’ll get there you go why am I still happy but you really don’t want to know
happy but you really don’t want to know
happy but you really don’t want to know the answer you’re not gonna get the
the answer you’re not gonna get the
the answer you’re not gonna get the answer but what’s really great about
answer but what’s really great about
answer but what’s really great about this person will get an answer it’s only
this person will get an answer it’s only
this person will get an answer it’s only when you see poor and earnest if you
when you see poor and earnest if you
when you see poor and earnest if you don’t look for something you won’t find
don’t look for something you won’t find
don’t look for something you won’t find it you’re right you don’t commit
it you’re right you don’t commit
it you’re right you don’t commit yourself defining it you won’t but they
yourself defining it you won’t but they
yourself defining it you won’t but they do you remember what do you do when an
do you remember what do you do when an
do you remember what do you do when an upset happens let me give you an example
upset happens let me give you an example
upset happens let me give you an example what I learned from racing school
what I learned from racing school
what I learned from racing school changed my whole life I race cars for
changed my whole life I race cars for
changed my whole life I race cars for movies and so I went to several
movies and so I went to several
movies and so I went to several different schools by the way to do this
different schools by the way to do this
different schools by the way to do this let him forget in my first school the
let him forget in my first school the
let him forget in my first school the first thing they really taught us it was
first thing they really taught us it was
first thing they really taught us it was one school for racing as they said first
one school for racing as they said first
one school for racing as they said first you got to do is you’re gonna know how
you got to do is you’re gonna know how
you got to do is you’re gonna know how to recover him unrecovered before
to recover him unrecovered before
to recover him unrecovered before anything else how to drive apart you
anything else how to drive apart you
anything else how to drive apart you guys ought to do how to go forward you
guys ought to do how to go forward you
guys ought to do how to go forward you know how to do that what you got to do
know how to do that what you got to do
know how to do that what you got to do is learn how to recover when you hit the
is learn how to recover when you hit the
is learn how to recover when you hit the skids in the road because if you don’t
skids in the road because if you don’t
skids in the road because if you don’t do that you’re racing cruising rather
do that you’re racing cruising rather
do that you’re racing cruising rather short or rather painful
short or rather painful
short or rather painful and most of you in trying to race you
and most of you in trying to race you
and most of you in trying to race you life and a lot of you are having a
life and a lot of you are having a
life and a lot of you are having a rather painful time because you recover
rather painful time because you recover
rather painful time because you recover very well or you recover but in the
very well or you recover but in the
very well or you recover but in the process of recovering you smashing
process of recovering you smashing
process of recovering you smashing everybody else’s car long away
everybody else’s car long away
everybody else’s car long away now makes the next trip around a little
now makes the next trip around a little
now makes the next trip around a little is in full for the people they see you
is in full for the people they see you
is in full for the people they see you coming by they kind of avoid you a
coming by they kind of avoid you a
coming by they kind of avoid you a little paper I’m gonna get do close to
little paper I’m gonna get do close to
little paper I’m gonna get do close to this dog with this staff member this
this dog with this staff member this
this dog with this staff member this person this account the secretaries
person this account the secretaries
person this account the secretaries telephone person the person around the
telephone person the person around the
telephone person the person around the calendar I’m not doing that what I do
calendar I’m not doing that what I do
calendar I’m not doing that what I do they’re gonna smash me up to the process
they’re gonna smash me up to the process
they’re gonna smash me up to the process of them trying to become so what they do
of them trying to become so what they do
of them trying to become so what they do is they put you in the skin car or they
is they put you in the skin car or they
is they put you in the skin car or they make you go through the process is about
make you go through the process is about
make you go through the process is about to crash well they knock you off track
to crash well they knock you off track
to crash well they knock you off track what it is escape by they got a little
what it is escape by they got a little
what it is escape by they got a little computer a Firefox computer what it does
computer a Firefox computer what it does
computer a Firefox computer what it does as a little lift let’s swing your wheels
as a little lift let’s swing your wheels
as a little lift let’s swing your wheels you never know which direction you’re
you never know which direction you’re
you never know which direction you’re screwing around the track screaming
screwing around the track screaming
screwing around the track screaming screaming screaming screaming you’re not
screaming screaming screaming you’re not
screaming screaming screaming you’re not doing the full speed by kind of 20 miles
doing the full speed by kind of 20 miles
doing the full speed by kind of 20 miles now they start your little slower to go
now they start your little slower to go
now they start your little slower to go do this one you go about 6070 miles an
do this one you go about 6070 miles an
do this one you go about 6070 miles an hour but 6070 miles an hour attracts
hour but 6070 miles an hour attracts
hour but 6070 miles an hour attracts pretty intense and you run right for a
pretty intense and you run right for a
pretty intense and you run right for a wall and all of a sudden you start to
wall and all of a sudden you start to
wall and all of a sudden you start to skid out of control what they tell you
skid out of control what they tell you
skid out of control what they tell you in advance is you got to do is when you
in advance is you got to do is when you
in advance is you got to do is when you start scaring to control there’s only
start scaring to control there’s only
start scaring to control there’s only one key look where you want to go focus
one key look where you want to go focus
one key look where you want to go focus on where you want to go do not focus on
on where you want to go do not focus on
on where you want to go do not focus on what you’re afraid of
what you’re afraid of
what you’re afraid of now what do people do in life we focus
now what do people do in life we focus
now what do people do in life we focus on what we fear and we get more whatever
on what we fear and we get more whatever
on what we fear and we get more whatever we focus on that’s what they tell you
we focus on that’s what they tell you
we focus on that’s what they tell you that is it look whatever you focus on
that is it look whatever you focus on
that is it look whatever you focus on that’s how you’re gonna go wherever you
that’s how you’re gonna go wherever you
that’s how you’re gonna go wherever you focus on you’re gonna get Mara you focus
focus on you’re gonna get Mara you focus
focus on you’re gonna get Mara you focus on the wall you’re gonna get a lot of
on the wall you’re gonna get a lot of
on the wall you’re gonna get a lot of wall real fast you’re a crash but you
wall real fast you’re a crash but you
wall real fast you’re a crash but you need to get his focus on what you want
need to get his focus on what you want
need to get his focus on what you want not what you think you’re going not
not what you think you’re going not
not what you think you’re going not where you think you are if you’re not
where you think you are if you’re not
where you think you are if you’re not where you want to be if you’re not where
where you want to be if you’re not where
where you want to be if you’re not where you’re wanting to go focus on where you
you’re wanting to go focus on where you
you’re wanting to go focus on where you want to go immediately don’t hesitate
want to go immediately don’t hesitate
want to go immediately don’t hesitate they said that what you have to do is
they said that what you have to do is
they said that what you have to do is when you do this it won’t feel like it’s
when you do this it won’t feel like it’s
when you do this it won’t feel like it’s working at first because you’ll still
working at first because you’ll still
working at first because you’ll still feel like you’re going into the wall
feel like you’re going into the wall
feel like you’re going into the wall because what happens you have so much
because what happens you have so much
because what happens you have so much momentum in that direction when you
momentum in that direction when you
momentum in that direction when you focus where you want to go they’ll still
focus where you want to go they’ll still
focus where you want to go they’ll still be a little bit of momentum in that
be a little bit of momentum in that
be a little bit of momentum in that direction
direction
direction and they’ll be a little bit of a lag
and they’ll be a little bit of a lag
and they’ll be a little bit of a lag time before the car turns so don’t
time before the car turns so don’t
time before the car turns so don’t because you don’t take turning turn back
because you don’t take turning turn back
because you don’t take turning turn back and look as you do you’re gonna go right
and look as you do you’re gonna go right
and look as you do you’re gonna go right through crash keep there yeah
through crash keep there yeah
through crash keep there yeah that F word what is it hey so what
that F word what is it hey so what
that F word what is it hey so what happens is you turn you’re going in
happens is you turn you’re going in
happens is you turn you’re going in going in and look as well as people do
going in and look as well as people do
going in and look as well as people do first one will show me a turn when I do
first one will show me a turn when I do
first one will show me a turn when I do the first time I’m just looking at the
the first time I’m just looking at the
the first time I’m just looking at the wall my instructor last night say my lab
wall my instructor last night say my lab
wall my instructor last night say my lab never had going and pulling my head
never had going and pulling my head
never had going and pulling my head physically in the direction I should be
physically in the direction I should be
physically in the direction I should be looking which is directing ninety
looking which is directing ninety
looking which is directing ninety degrees opposite of where I was going
degrees opposite of where I was going
degrees opposite of where I was going right heading for the wall
right heading for the wall
right heading for the wall that’s my new look so I’m gonna grab
that’s my new look so I’m gonna grab
that’s my new look so I’m gonna grab singles like this pull my head over here
singles like this pull my head over here
singles like this pull my head over here and all we do we give it up and why
and all we do we give it up and why
and all we do we give it up and why second turn way no one oh my god
second turn way no one oh my god
second turn way no one oh my god heartbeat Anatomy I said maybe I should
heartbeat Anatomy I said maybe I should
heartbeat Anatomy I said maybe I should try a different sport I don’t know this
try a different sport I don’t know this
try a different sport I don’t know this is a good metaphor for life than they do
is a good metaphor for life than they do
is a good metaphor for life than they do it against I got there you never know
it against I got there you never know
it against I got there you never know what they’re gonna do it you’re going
what they’re gonna do it you’re going
what they’re gonna do it you’re going you’re going to going
you’re going to going
you’re going to going I don’t son I’m certain live racing
I don’t son I’m certain live racing
I don’t son I’m certain live racing Racing racing also Susan I started going
Racing racing also Susan I started going
Racing racing also Susan I started going anyway I did who I pulled my hand I’m
anyway I did who I pulled my hand I’m
anyway I did who I pulled my hand I’m like pulling my head mr. edge because I
like pulling my head mr. edge because I
like pulling my head mr. edge because I keep on going this way look what it is
keep on going this way look what it is
keep on going this way look what it is pull it and I’m waiting win and sure
pull it and I’m waiting win and sure
pull it and I’m waiting win and sure enough car turns just in time after a
enough car turns just in time after a
enough car turns just in time after a while you don’t you do something happens
while you don’t you do something happens
while you don’t you do something happens you notice what it is you’ll scare it
you notice what it is you’ll scare it
you notice what it is you’ll scare it what it is you’ll figure out what it is
what it is you’ll figure out what it is
what it is you’ll figure out what it is you go that’s a wall smacking that what
you go that’s a wall smacking that what
you go that’s a wall smacking that what would it be like to smack that blue they
would it be like to smack that blue they
would it be like to smack that blue they smack that my body or my head now what
smack that my body or my head now what
smack that my body or my head now what happens is you see the wall you know
happens is you see the wall you know
happens is you see the wall you know what it is you only acknowledge the
what it is you only acknowledge the
what it is you only acknowledge the problem enough to know what it is and
problem enough to know what it is and
problem enough to know what it is and then move on no one it is focus on where
then move on no one it is focus on where
then move on no one it is focus on where where to go minute I can define what it
where to go minute I can define what it
where to go minute I can define what it is and that’s not where I want to go
is and that’s not where I want to go
is and that’s not where I want to go boom so I’m have more room the car and
boom so I’m have more room the car and
boom so I’m have more room the car and it’s like now now we just get off it’s
it’s like now now we just get off it’s
it’s like now now we just get off it’s so fast
so fast
so fast focus on what you want and you get more
focus on what you want and you get more
focus on what you want and you get more focus on what you fear you’ll get one of
focus on what you fear you’ll get one of
focus on what you fear you’ll get one of that
that
that focus on what you want and you’ll get
focus on what you want and you’ll get
focus on what you want and you’ll get more focus on looking fear you’ll get
more focus on looking fear you’ll get
more focus on looking fear you’ll get more of that bottled wine inch almost
more of that bottled wine inch almost
more of that bottled wine inch almost everybody in life focuses on what they
everybody in life focuses on what they
everybody in life focuses on what they fear and that’s why they get more of
fear and that’s why they get more of
fear and that’s why they get more of what they don’t want well yeah but what
what they don’t want well yeah but what
what they don’t want well yeah but what does this happen what if that happens
does this happen what if that happens
does this happen what if that happens you keep asking what if this happens
you keep asking what if this happens
you keep asking what if this happens what if that happens I guarantee you’re
what if that happens I guarantee you’re
what if that happens I guarantee you’re gonna crash it’s only a matter of time
gonna crash it’s only a matter of time
gonna crash it’s only a matter of time instead of you gonna say well what if
instead of you gonna say well what if
instead of you gonna say well what if this happens what I want what will
this happens what I want what will
this happens what I want what will happen I will make this happen what I
happen I will make this happen what I
happen I will make this happen what I want the more you focus on that the more
want the more you focus on that the more
want the more you focus on that the more of an experience you’ll have what it is
of an experience you’ll have what it is
of an experience you’ll have what it is you want life you’ll get it right away
you want life you’ll get it right away
you want life you’ll get it right away now here’s the problem you got to still
now here’s the problem you got to still
now here’s the problem you got to still hang on to your F what is it faith you
hang on to your F what is it faith you
hang on to your F what is it faith you know what faith is faith is
know what faith is faith is
know what faith is faith is understanding the seasons of life life
understanding the seasons of life life
understanding the seasons of life life comes in seasons doesn’t smell always
comes in seasons doesn’t smell always
comes in seasons doesn’t smell always the same but it’s still predictable as a
the same but it’s still predictable as a
the same but it’s still predictable as a whole how many of you were surprised
whole how many of you were surprised
whole how many of you were surprised when winter comes cuz he shouldn’t know
when winter comes cuz he shouldn’t know
when winter comes cuz he shouldn’t know you and be surprised you don’t be
you and be surprised you don’t be
you and be surprised you don’t be surprised when it comes and are their
surprised when it comes and are their
surprised when it comes and are their emotional winters yes or no
emotional winters yes or no
emotional winters yes or no you better believe there are other times
you better believe there are other times
you better believe there are other times you try to communicate well doesn’t work
you try to communicate well doesn’t work
you try to communicate well doesn’t work all the times in the office where it
all the times in the office where it
all the times in the office where it feels a little frigid well cold that’s
feels a little frigid well cold that’s
feels a little frigid well cold that’s not just the air-conditioning what
not just the air-conditioning what
not just the air-conditioning what happens during the winter you break out
happens during the winter you break out
happens during the winter you break out a fire to warm each other up see some
a fire to warm each other up see some
a fire to warm each other up see some people freeze to death in the winter
people freeze to death in the winter
people freeze to death in the winter other people ski the meaning of winter
other people ski the meaning of winter
other people ski the meaning of winter is whatever you do with it isn’t that
is whatever you do with it isn’t that
is whatever you do with it isn’t that true wait there’s nothing wrong with
true wait there’s nothing wrong with
true wait there’s nothing wrong with winter what it was always summer why be
winter what it was always summer why be
winter what it was always summer why be great oh yeah I think you’re bored and
great oh yeah I think you’re bored and
great oh yeah I think you’re bored and son let’s try to get burned
son let’s try to get burned
son let’s try to get burned some people get burned in the summer
some people get burned in the summer
some people get burned in the summer some even get tan some people swim some
some even get tan some people swim some
some even get tan some people swim some people go on vacation springtime is a
people go on vacation springtime is a
people go on vacation springtime is a great time to get to glam follow you get
great time to get to glam follow you get
great time to get to glam follow you get to read
to read
to read you don’t happen to some evil wife some
you don’t happen to some evil wife some
you don’t happen to some evil wife some people do is they say okay I know what
people do is they say okay I know what
people do is they say okay I know what you said about but I’m sure I focus but
you said about but I’m sure I focus but
you said about but I’m sure I focus but it’s not working you’re still alive time
it’s not working you’re still alive time
it’s not working you’re still alive time God’s delays are not God’s denials
God’s delays are not God’s denials
God’s delays are not God’s denials that’s the laser not God’s in our heads
that’s the laser not God’s in our heads
that’s the laser not God’s in our heads when lag time doesn’t catch up hey look
when lag time doesn’t catch up hey look
when lag time doesn’t catch up hey look you think it’s fall we’re still in
you think it’s fall we’re still in
you think it’s fall we’re still in winter we think it’s funny you’re in
winter we think it’s funny you’re in
winter we think it’s funny you’re in spring or you’ve made it to summer but
spring or you’ve made it to summer but
spring or you’ve made it to summer but we’re not to fall yeah don’t be so darn
we’re not to fall yeah don’t be so darn
we’re not to fall yeah don’t be so darn impatient take on a new prayer lord give
impatient take on a new prayer lord give
impatient take on a new prayer lord give me patience and give it to me right now
be equally intelligent it’s like some
be equally intelligent it’s like some people think okay I don’t know what I
people think okay I don’t know what I
people think okay I don’t know what I want I want the seed to be planned they
want I want the seed to be planned they
want I want the seed to be planned they figure the soil they come out the next
figure the soil they come out the next
figure the soil they come out the next day and they go where’s my plant the
day and they go where’s my plant the
day and they go where’s my plant the song goes are you new that’s not how it
song goes are you new that’s not how it
song goes are you new that’s not how it works you plant it here okay you come
works you plant it here okay you come
works you plant it here okay you come back every day and take care of it right
back every day and take care of it right
back every day and take care of it right you make it through the whole spring
you make it through the whole spring
you make it through the whole spring then doing summer when it’s hot you got
then doing summer when it’s hot you got
then doing summer when it’s hot you got a really really take care of it because
a really really take care of it because
a really really take care of it because it gets you worse during that time and
it gets you worse during that time and
it gets you worse during that time and make it through all those seasons and
make it through all those seasons and
make it through all those seasons and the fall maybe more than likely not
the fall maybe more than likely not
the fall maybe more than likely not always but most the time you will have a
always but most the time you will have a
always but most the time you will have a plant here that’s how it works
plant here that’s how it works
plant here that’s how it works that’s not there that’s the life is how
that’s not there that’s the life is how
that’s not there that’s the life is how what he doesn’t know how you think it
what he doesn’t know how you think it
what he doesn’t know how you think it should be you coming back in today the
should be you coming back in today the
should be you coming back in today the plants so you come and start laughing
plants so you come and start laughing
plants so you come and start laughing look at this guy what’s the matter with
look at this guy what’s the matter with
look at this guy what’s the matter with you why don’t I have to get like time
you why don’t I have to get like time
you why don’t I have to get like time that’s why don’t make yourself wrong
that’s why don’t make yourself wrong
that’s why don’t make yourself wrong because you’re doing the right things
because you’re doing the right things
because you’re doing the right things and you don’t see the results yet
and you don’t see the results yet
and you don’t see the results yet takes time most people completely
takes time most people completely
takes time most people completely overestimate what can be done in a year
overestimate what can be done in a year
overestimate what can be done in a year underestimate what can be done today I
underestimate what can be done today I
underestimate what can be done today I can tell you my own career my business
can tell you my own career my business
can tell you my own career my business life in Hartzell every day every day two
life in Hartzell every day every day two
life in Hartzell every day every day two hundred seventy six seven hours a year
hundred seventy six seven hours a year
hundred seventy six seven hours a year the morning my giving with all anybody
the morning my giving with all anybody
the morning my giving with all anybody knows me will tell you on my Hall
knows me will tell you on my Hall
knows me will tell you on my Hall everybody doing out of what you know
everybody doing out of what you know
everybody doing out of what you know what I was broke I was frustrated
what I was broke I was frustrated
what I was broke I was frustrated outside in terms of the business
outside in terms of the business
outside in terms of the business business well nothing was working but I
business well nothing was working but I
business well nothing was working but I kept you know asked myself great price
kept you know asked myself great price
kept you know asked myself great price like why am i screwing this up so much
like why am i screwing this up so much
like why am i screwing this up so much that wasn’t me screwing up if flag Tom
that wasn’t me screwing up if flag Tom
that wasn’t me screwing up if flag Tom had a make distinction that I build
had a make distinction that I build
had a make distinction that I build something’s coming
something’s coming
something’s coming let me on the egg a little reality check
let me on the egg a little reality check
let me on the egg a little reality check which are going to teach you a reality
which are going to teach you a reality
which are going to teach you a reality check that flying into Los Angeles would
check that flying into Los Angeles would
check that flying into Los Angeles would be my seminar out there in my helicopter
be my seminar out there in my helicopter
be my seminar out there in my helicopter my jet helicopter it’s a tough life so I
my jet helicopter it’s a tough life so I
my jet helicopter it’s a tough life so I want to drive for three hours I jump the
want to drive for three hours I jump the
want to drive for three hours I jump the helicopter on there three
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