good morning believe nation today’s message is look yourself in the mirror
message is look yourself in the mirror
message is look yourself in the mirror over to you Marshall Goldsmith it’s very
over to you Marshall Goldsmith it’s very
over to you Marshall Goldsmith it’s very easy to see what we don’t like about
easy to see what we don’t like about
easy to see what we don’t like about ourselves in other people it’s a little
ourselves in other people it’s a little
ourselves in other people it’s a little harder to see what we don’t like about
harder to see what we don’t like about
harder to see what we don’t like about ourselves in the mirror and sometimes
ourselves in the mirror and sometimes
ourselves in the mirror and sometimes other people can see things in us that
other people can see things in us that
other people can see things in us that we don’t want to see in ourselves and
we don’t want to see in ourselves and
we don’t want to see in ourselves and when that happens our first reaction is
when that happens our first reaction is
when that happens our first reaction is you’re wrong you’re confused people tell
you’re wrong you’re confused people tell
you’re wrong you’re confused people tell us something we don’t want to hear our
us something we don’t want to hear our
us something we don’t want to hear our first reaction is they’re wrong and
first reaction is they’re wrong and
first reaction is they’re wrong and they’re confused sometimes it’s hard to
they’re confused sometimes it’s hard to
they’re confused sometimes it’s hard to look in that mirror and say you know
look in that mirror and say you know
look in that mirror and say you know what maybe I’m wrong and maybe I’m
what maybe I’m wrong and maybe I’m
what maybe I’m wrong and maybe I’m confused what did I learn sometimes
confused what did I learn sometimes
confused what did I learn sometimes other people can see someone else we
other people can see someone else we
other people can see someone else we can’t see in ourselves and our first
can’t see in ourselves and our first
can’t see in ourselves and our first reaction is they’re confused a great
reaction is they’re confused a great
reaction is they’re confused a great challenge learn to listen to other
challenge learn to listen to other
challenge learn to listen to other people hear what they have to say and
people hear what they have to say and
people hear what they have to say and recognize sometimes they can see
recognize sometimes they can see
recognize sometimes they can see something in us that we don’t want to
something in us that we don’t want to
something in us that we don’t want to see in ourselves so what do you think
see in ourselves so what do you think
see in ourselves so what do you think you know the first thing that kind of
you know the first thing that kind of
you know the first thing that kind of hit my mind is that the conversations
hit my mind is that the conversations
hit my mind is that the conversations that we really don’t want to have are
that we really don’t want to have are
that we really don’t want to have are the ones that we almost have to have
the ones that we almost have to have
the ones that we almost have to have he’s using the analogy of looking
he’s using the analogy of looking
he’s using the analogy of looking yourself in the mirror and a lot of
yourself in the mirror and a lot of
yourself in the mirror and a lot of times you know that’s why I think it’s
times you know that’s why I think it’s
times you know that’s why I think it’s so important to have coaches and mentors
so important to have coaches and mentors
so important to have coaches and mentors to have those people in your life that
to have those people in your life that
to have those people in your life that are willing to kind of call you out and
are willing to kind of call you out and
are willing to kind of call you out and tell you that you know what maybe you
tell you that you know what maybe you
tell you that you know what maybe you have some blind spots over here maybe
have some blind spots over here maybe
have some blind spots over here maybe you have some things that you’re not
you have some things that you’re not
you have some things that you’re not really you’re neglecting or that you’re
really you’re neglecting or that you’re
really you’re neglecting or that you’re not really taking care of that last part
not really taking care of that last part
not really taking care of that last part it may meet when he was talking about
it may meet when he was talking about
it may meet when he was talking about you know taking things kind of personal
you know taking things kind of personal
you know taking things kind of personal and made me think about the Four
and made me think about the Four
and made me think about the Four Agreements the Don Miguel Ruiz and one
Agreements the Don Miguel Ruiz and one
Agreements the Don Miguel Ruiz and one of them is don’t take anything
of them is don’t take anything
of them is don’t take anything personally right and so I think for us
personally right and so I think for us
personally right and so I think for us that are on this journey of self
that are on this journey of self
that are on this journey of self development or on this journey of
development or on this journey of
development or on this journey of building our legacy whatever it is we
building our legacy whatever it is we
building our legacy whatever it is we can gain so much from not taking
can gain so much from not taking
can gain so much from not taking anything personally and
anything personally and
anything personally and actually having coaches and mentors call
actually having coaches and mentors call
actually having coaches and mentors call us out when we need to be called out
us out when we need to be called out
us out when we need to be called out yeah this is an interesting one for me
yeah this is an interesting one for me
yeah this is an interesting one for me it’s a tough one for me because a lot of
it’s a tough one for me because a lot of
it’s a tough one for me because a lot of the people who will be telling you what
the people who will be telling you what
the people who will be telling you what you should or shouldn’t be doing
you should or shouldn’t be doing
you should or shouldn’t be doing probably don’t want to listen to them
probably don’t want to listen to them
probably don’t want to listen to them yeah there’s a lot of people are gonna
yeah there’s a lot of people are gonna
yeah there’s a lot of people are gonna be hating on your idea are telling you
be hating on your idea are telling you
be hating on your idea are telling you you can’t do something and it’s really
you can’t do something and it’s really
you can’t do something and it’s really their own fears and insecurities being
their own fears and insecurities being
their own fears and insecurities being put onto you right like Jay you can’t go
put onto you right like Jay you can’t go
put onto you right like Jay you can’t go do that podcast you can’t launch that
do that podcast you can’t launch that
do that podcast you can’t launch that YouTube channel that’s too ambitious or
YouTube channel that’s too ambitious or
YouTube channel that’s too ambitious or too crazy or you know it’s really their
too crazy or you know it’s really their
too crazy or you know it’s really their fears and and they’re telling you the
fears and and they’re telling you the
fears and and they’re telling you the wrong thing and so I love the importance
wrong thing and so I love the importance
wrong thing and so I love the importance of mentorship it’s finding the right
of mentorship it’s finding the right
of mentorship it’s finding the right person who’s actually gonna call you out
person who’s actually gonna call you out
person who’s actually gonna call you out on your your own BS or when you’re you
on your your own BS or when you’re you
on your your own BS or when you’re you know making a mistake but it’s probably
know making a mistake but it’s probably
know making a mistake but it’s probably not most of the people in your life so
not most of the people in your life so
not most of the people in your life so being really selective with who the
being really selective with who the
being really selective with who the people are that you listen to a couple
people are that you listen to a couple
people are that you listen to a couple things that help me when I have a
things that help me when I have a
things that help me when I have a mastermind group that we meet once a
mastermind group that we meet once a
mastermind group that we meet once a month and the group of entrepreneurs
month and the group of entrepreneurs
month and the group of entrepreneurs we’re all you know built businesses and
we’re all you know built businesses and
we’re all you know built businesses and the more you spend time with them the
the more you spend time with them the
the more you spend time with them the more you know they recognize your BS and
more you know they recognize your BS and
more you know they recognize your BS and your excuses and you’re learning beliefs
your excuses and you’re learning beliefs
your excuses and you’re learning beliefs and they can call you out on it too
and they can call you out on it too
and they can call you out on it too watching these videos and learning from
watching these videos and learning from
watching these videos and learning from all these people have done way more than
all these people have done way more than
all these people have done way more than me I feel like their mindset and
me I feel like their mindset and
me I feel like their mindset and approach and their belief systems kind
approach and their belief systems kind
approach and their belief systems kind of seep into me a little bit more and
of seep into me a little bit more and
of seep into me a little bit more and three just asking myself in the mirror
three just asking myself in the mirror
three just asking myself in the mirror I’ve done a number of times where I look
I’ve done a number of times where I look
I’ve done a number of times where I look in the mirror and I asked myself like
in the mirror and I asked myself like
in the mirror and I asked myself like why can’t I be successful at this or why
why can’t I be successful at this or why
why can’t I be successful at this or why am I not further ahead and whatever
am I not further ahead and whatever
am I not further ahead and whatever reason I come up with I realize that
reason I come up with I realize that
reason I come up with I realize that that’s really a limiting belief like I’m
that’s really a limiting belief like I’m
that’s really a limiting belief like I’m not further ahead because I don’t have
not further ahead because I don’t have
not further ahead because I don’t have the resources or I don’t have the right
the resources or I don’t have the right
the resources or I don’t have the right team yet or whatever and it’s all just
team yet or whatever and it’s all just
team yet or whatever and it’s all just like I can fix those things and so
like I can fix those things and so
like I can fix those things and so asking those questions asking that
asking those questions asking that
asking those questions asking that specific question why I’m not further
specific question why I’m not further
specific question why I’m not further ahead than I am right now in the mirror
ahead than I am right now in the mirror
ahead than I am right now in the mirror I find really helps so the question
I find really helps so the question
I find really helps so the question today today is do you have any mentors
today today is do you have any mentors
today today is do you have any mentors in your life I like it you have mentors
in your life I like it you have mentors
in your life I like it you have mentors leave it in the comments below we’re
leave it in the comments below we’re
leave it in the comments below we’re gonna join in the discussion thank you
gonna join in the discussion thank you
gonna join in the discussion thank you guys so much for watching have an
guys so much for watching have an
guys so much for watching have an amazing day continue to believe or
amazing day continue to believe or
amazing day continue to believe or whatever your one word is and they’ll
whatever your one word is and they’ll
whatever your one word is and they’ll see you again tomorrow morning for
see you again tomorrow morning for
see you again tomorrow morning for another shot of espresso
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