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”I Was AFRAID About Getting JUDGED…” – #UnlockingLily Ep. 11


hello everyone welcome to another

hello everyone welcome to another episode of unlocking lily so it’s always

episode of unlocking lily so it’s always

episode of unlocking lily so it’s always been my dream to be a speaker which led

been my dream to be a speaker which led

been my dream to be a speaker which led me to quit my day job to work and mentor

me to quit my day job to work and mentor

me to quit my day job to work and mentor under Evan full time and all of you are

under Evan full time and all of you are

under Evan full time and all of you are coming along for this ride with me in

coming along for this ride with me in

coming along for this ride with me in every episode I take on a different

every episode I take on a different

every episode I take on a different challenge to help me grow as a speaker

challenge to help me grow as a speaker

challenge to help me grow as a speaker so in this video I am going back to

so in this video I am going back to

so in this video I am going back to Michigan where I’ll be speaking at a

Michigan where I’ll be speaking at a

Michigan where I’ll be speaking at a secular congregation called the Sunday

secular congregation called the Sunday

secular congregation called the Sunday assembly so you’re probably wondering

assembly so you’re probably wondering

assembly so you’re probably wondering how did this happen why are you back

how did this happen why are you back

how did this happen why are you back there again Lily so when I did my TEDx

there again Lily so when I did my TEDx

there again Lily so when I did my TEDx talk

talk

talk I caught the attention of one of the

I caught the attention of one of the

I caught the attention of one of the organizers at the sunday Assembly so she

organizers at the sunday Assembly so she

organizers at the sunday Assembly so she came up to me she loved the one word

came up to me she loved the one word

came up to me she loved the one word talk and she wanted to see if I would

talk and she wanted to see if I would

talk and she wanted to see if I would speak at her congregation and naturally

speak at her congregation and naturally

speak at her congregation and naturally I said yes of course so I will be doing

I said yes of course so I will be doing

I said yes of course so I will be doing the exact same talk but this time I’m

the exact same talk but this time I’m

the exact same talk but this time I’m gonna do something a little bit

gonna do something a little bit

gonna do something a little bit different and really challenging for me

different and really challenging for me

different and really challenging for me to step outside of my comfort zone I

to step outside of my comfort zone I

to step outside of my comfort zone I will be singing the intro to my talk so

will be singing the intro to my talk so

will be singing the intro to my talk so you guys need to wish me luck and I’ll

you guys need to wish me luck and I’ll

you guys need to wish me luck and I’ll see you on the road

see you on the road

see you on the road so today’s a day I’m going off to

so today’s a day I’m going off to

so today’s a day I’m going off to Michigan it’s actually a long weekend in

Michigan it’s actually a long weekend in

Michigan it’s actually a long weekend in Canada we’re celebrating Thanksgiving I

Canada we’re celebrating Thanksgiving I

Canada we’re celebrating Thanksgiving I think this is a good time for me to give

think this is a good time for me to give

think this is a good time for me to give all of you thanks for being part of this

all of you thanks for being part of this

all of you thanks for being part of this journey with me and it’s just getting

journey with me and it’s just getting

journey with me and it’s just getting started because we’re going on this road

started because we’re going on this road

started because we’re going on this road trip together to Michigan and I’m gonna

trip together to Michigan and I’m gonna

trip together to Michigan and I’m gonna go get my husband and we’re gonna hit

go get my husband and we’re gonna hit

go get my husband and we’re gonna hit the road right now

the road right now

the road right now [Music]

[Music]

[Music] we’re making a quick pit stop to refuel

we’re making a quick pit stop to refuel

we’re making a quick pit stop to refuel our car and refuel our bellies we’re

our car and refuel our bellies we’re

our car and refuel our bellies we’re gonna go inside and try to find

gonna go inside and try to find

gonna go inside and try to find something a little bit healthy doesn’t

something a little bit healthy doesn’t

something a little bit healthy doesn’t look too promising but we’ll see

[Music]

[Music] Michael what did you get to eat

oh it’s not healthy good morning

oh it’s not healthy good morning everyone hope everyone’s having a

everyone hope everyone’s having a

everyone hope everyone’s having a wonderful day and my phone died last

wonderful day and my phone died last

wonderful day and my phone died last night so I couldn’t I couldn’t record

night so I couldn’t I couldn’t record

night so I couldn’t I couldn’t record and bring you guys and we had a busy

and bring you guys and we had a busy

and bring you guys and we had a busy night we we went out for dinner last

night we we went out for dinner last

night we we went out for dinner last night about a Middle Eastern restaurant

night about a Middle Eastern restaurant

night about a Middle Eastern restaurant here at Livonia Michigan it was really

here at Livonia Michigan it was really

here at Livonia Michigan it was really good we got to know the organizers

good we got to know the organizers

good we got to know the organizers better at the sunday assembly

better at the sunday assembly

better at the sunday assembly inauguration they just a shared their

inauguration they just a shared their

inauguration they just a shared their vision and hearing a little bit about

vision and hearing a little bit about

vision and hearing a little bit about their childhood and how they discovered

their childhood and how they discovered

their childhood and how they discovered themselves and how they issued certain

themselves and how they issued certain

themselves and how they issued certain things and which led them to this path

things and which led them to this path

things and which led them to this path so that was really good to know my phone

so that was really good to know my phone

so that was really good to know my phone is well charged today are you gonna see

is well charged today are you gonna see

is well charged today are you gonna see a lot of stuff happening today

[Music]

[Music] getting started music many white people

getting started music many white people

getting started music many white people couple songs that make you feel very pop

couple songs that make you feel very pop

couple songs that make you feel very pop or maybe right away in the morning just

or maybe right away in the morning just

or maybe right away in the morning just minutes maybe there’s now to run a

minutes maybe there’s now to run a

minutes maybe there’s now to run a routine you’re already in positivity

routine you’re already in positivity

routine you’re already in positivity back to the world is so important

back to the world is so important

back to the world is so important hey my talk is done at this sunday

hey my talk is done at this sunday

hey my talk is done at this sunday assembly Detroit chapter it was such an

assembly Detroit chapter it was such an

assembly Detroit chapter it was such an awesome experience I haven’t experienced

awesome experience I haven’t experienced

awesome experience I haven’t experienced anything like that before in my life

anything like that before in my life

anything like that before in my life it’s it’s a church-like experience

it’s it’s a church-like experience

it’s it’s a church-like experience without religion so it was really cool

without religion so it was really cool

without religion so it was really cool what do you think nicest group of

what do you think nicest group of

what do you think nicest group of atheists I’ve ever met I love it

atheists I’ve ever met I love it

atheists I’ve ever met I love it I’m going to head over to a meeting with

I’m going to head over to a meeting with

I’m going to head over to a meeting with someone that I met at the TEDx event

someone that I met at the TEDx event

someone that I met at the TEDx event last month and we’re gonna head home to

last month and we’re gonna head home to

last month and we’re gonna head home to Toronto very soon

Toronto very soon

Toronto very soon [Music]

[Music]

[Music] so I just got back from giving your

so I just got back from giving your

so I just got back from giving your one-word talk at the sunday assembly and

one-word talk at the sunday assembly and

one-word talk at the sunday assembly and I thought I’d share two things that I

I thought I’d share two things that I

I thought I’d share two things that I learned from this experience

learned from this experience

learned from this experience number one is it feels amazing

number one is it feels amazing

number one is it feels amazing to get over your fear I had this giant

to get over your fear I had this giant

to get over your fear I had this giant fear of singing in public and I have no

fear of singing in public and I have no

fear of singing in public and I have no idea why like I shunned it out from my

idea why like I shunned it out from my

idea why like I shunned it out from my life to the point that I wouldn’t even

life to the point that I wouldn’t even

life to the point that I wouldn’t even sing happy birthday at someone’s

sing happy birthday at someone’s

sing happy birthday at someone’s birthday party when they brought out

birthday party when they brought out

birthday party when they brought out that cake

that cake

that cake absolutely ridiculous it’s such a small

absolutely ridiculous it’s such a small

absolutely ridiculous it’s such a small thing to do I just got so scared and

thing to do I just got so scared and

thing to do I just got so scared and nervous primarily because I have a

nervous primarily because I have a

nervous primarily because I have a terrible singing voice and I was afraid

terrible singing voice and I was afraid

terrible singing voice and I was afraid of getting judged and that’s really the

of getting judged and that’s really the

of getting judged and that’s really the truth and I thought it’s time for me to

truth and I thought it’s time for me to

truth and I thought it’s time for me to get over this fear and what better to do

get over this fear and what better to do

get over this fear and what better to do it and to do it in front of all of those

it and to do it in front of all of those

it and to do it in front of all of those people during my hog so I sang the intro

people during my hog so I sang the intro

people during my hog so I sang the intro to my talk my gosh leading up to it it

to my talk my gosh leading up to it it

to my talk my gosh leading up to it it was really scary but what I was doing

was really scary but what I was doing

was really scary but what I was doing I’m like wow this feels great and it’s

I’m like wow this feels great and it’s

I’m like wow this feels great and it’s not a big deal and when I was done with

not a big deal and when I was done with

not a big deal and when I was done with it it felt amazing number two if people

it it felt amazing number two if people

it it felt amazing number two if people are just awesome when I went on stage

are just awesome when I went on stage

are just awesome when I went on stage and I told them that look I have a

and I told them that look I have a

and I told them that look I have a sphere and I was really hoping that you

sphere and I was really hoping that you

sphere and I was really hoping that you guys could help me out they were more

guys could help me out they were more

guys could help me out they were more than helpful they all cheered me on

than helpful they all cheered me on

than helpful they all cheered me on they all sing along with me and it was

they all sing along with me and it was

they all sing along with me and it was such a

such a

such a the experience and you know what I also

the experience and you know what I also

the experience and you know what I also felt like that’s what brought us even

felt like that’s what brought us even

felt like that’s what brought us even closer together and I have a special

closer together and I have a special

closer together and I have a special shadow for Clifford Starks Clifford

shadow for Clifford Starks Clifford

shadow for Clifford Starks Clifford thank you so much for writing that

thank you so much for writing that

thank you so much for writing that really sweet comment on my last episode

really sweet comment on my last episode

really sweet comment on my last episode it really does mean a lot to me and

it really does mean a lot to me and

it really does mean a lot to me and finally the question the day is what is

finally the question the day is what is

finally the question the day is what is your favorite song to sing along to

your favorite song to sing along to

your favorite song to sing along to leave in the comments below and I’ll

leave in the comments below and I’ll

leave in the comments below and I’ll join in on the discussion I received

join in on the discussion I received

join in on the discussion I received some amazing news my TEDx talk your word

some amazing news my TEDx talk your word

some amazing news my TEDx talk your word word is out now so from my next video I

word is out now so from my next video I

word is out now so from my next video I will be sharing my TEDx talk with you

will be sharing my TEDx talk with you

will be sharing my TEDx talk with you guys this is stay tuned for that and

guys this is stay tuned for that and

guys this is stay tuned for that and thank you so much for watching and more

thank you so much for watching and more

thank you so much for watching and more importantly being on this journey with

importantly being on this journey with

importantly being on this journey with me I get so excited when I see all your

me I get so excited when I see all your

me I get so excited when I see all your comments coming in every time my video

comments coming in every time my video

comments coming in every time my video comes out so keep them coming and I’ll

comes out so keep them coming and I’ll

comes out so keep them coming and I’ll keep answering them

keep answering them

keep answering them and I’ll see you guys very very soon the

and I’ll see you guys very very soon the

and I’ll see you guys very very soon the most important word ever if you had to

most important word ever if you had to

most important word ever if you had to think of one word that’s most important

think of one word that’s most important

think of one word that’s most important to you or that sums you Apple so it

to you or that sums you Apple so it

to you or that sums you Apple so it would be like a little beacon hey

would be like a little beacon hey

would be like a little beacon hey believe nation if you want to know what

believe nation if you want to know what

believe nation if you want to know what the most important one word is for Tony

the most important one word is for Tony

the most important one word is for Tony Robbins Gary Vaynerchuk Oprah Winfrey

Robbins Gary Vaynerchuk Oprah Winfrey

Robbins Gary Vaynerchuk Oprah Winfrey will.i.am and Howard Schultz I have a

will.i.am and Howard Schultz I have a

will.i.am and Howard Schultz I have a very special secret video for you check

very special secret video for you check

very special secret video for you check the description for details

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