hi everyone welcome to another episode of unlocking lily so I believe that this
of unlocking lily so I believe that this
of unlocking lily so I believe that this world would be a better place if we all
world would be a better place if we all
world would be a better place if we all just embrace who we truly are and when
just embrace who we truly are and when
just embrace who we truly are and when after what we truly wanted which is what
after what we truly wanted which is what
after what we truly wanted which is what inspired me to do just that to start a
inspired me to do just that to start a
inspired me to do just that to start a business to help people creat an
business to help people creat an
business to help people creat an extraordinary life based on their terms
extraordinary life based on their terms
extraordinary life based on their terms Evan is currently an investor and also a
Evan is currently an investor and also a
Evan is currently an investor and also a mentor in my business and I’m inviting
mentor in my business and I’m inviting
mentor in my business and I’m inviting all of you guys to join me on my startup
all of you guys to join me on my startup
all of you guys to join me on my startup journey the two main things I do for my
journey the two main things I do for my
journey the two main things I do for my business is I’m a coach and a speaker as
business is I’m a coach and a speaker as
business is I’m a coach and a speaker as a coach I have the amazing opportunity
a coach I have the amazing opportunity
a coach I have the amazing opportunity in helping my clients discover what they
in helping my clients discover what they
in helping my clients discover what they truly value and then taking that in
truly value and then taking that in
truly value and then taking that in creating a life and business that they
creating a life and business that they
creating a life and business that they absolutely love on the speaking side
absolutely love on the speaking side
absolutely love on the speaking side I’ve spoken at TEDx have spoken at
I’ve spoken at TEDx have spoken at
I’ve spoken at TEDx have spoken at corporate events and even private
corporate events and even private
corporate events and even private functions and in all revolves around one
functions and in all revolves around one
functions and in all revolves around one theme that is to unlock your potential
theme that is to unlock your potential
theme that is to unlock your potential now also at the same time I’m trying to
now also at the same time I’m trying to
now also at the same time I’m trying to grow myself as a coach and a speaker as
grow myself as a coach and a speaker as
grow myself as a coach and a speaker as much as possible so far I’ve had the
much as possible so far I’ve had the
much as possible so far I’ve had the help of my beautiful mentor at Evan I
help of my beautiful mentor at Evan I
help of my beautiful mentor at Evan I read books I’ve done online workshops I
read books I’ve done online workshops I
read books I’ve done online workshops I even attended live workshops and
even attended live workshops and
even attended live workshops and seminars so the next step for me is to
seminars so the next step for me is to
seminars so the next step for me is to reach out to people who I believe have a
reach out to people who I believe have a
reach out to people who I believe have a special set of skills and unique
special set of skills and unique
special set of skills and unique background to really help me grow even
background to really help me grow even
background to really help me grow even faster as a coach I have the wonderful
faster as a coach I have the wonderful
faster as a coach I have the wonderful opportunity in coaching people from
opportunity in coaching people from
opportunity in coaching people from around the world in fact I have coached
around the world in fact I have coached
around the world in fact I have coached hundreds of entrepreneurs from six
hundreds of entrepreneurs from six
hundreds of entrepreneurs from six continents that’s amazing I have not
continents that’s amazing I have not
continents that’s amazing I have not reach out to her to go yet though so
reach out to her to go yet though so
reach out to her to go yet though so that’s the next goal for me so as a
that’s the next goal for me so as a
that’s the next goal for me so as a coach is not only important for me to
coach is not only important for me to
coach is not only important for me to understand that complexity of their
understand that complexity of their
understand that complexity of their business it’s also important for me to
business it’s also important for me to
business it’s also important for me to understand their culture that background
understand their culture that background
understand their culture that background there is already a star
there is already a star
there is already a star so the more I understand people the
so the more I understand people the
so the more I understand people the better and more effective I can be as a
better and more effective I can be as a
better and more effective I can be as a coach so today I am going to learn from
coach so today I am going to learn from
coach so today I am going to learn from neurodiversity communication specialists
neurodiversity communication specialists
neurodiversity communication specialists Tim Goldstein’s Tim is also a speaker a
Tim Goldstein’s Tim is also a speaker a
Tim Goldstein’s Tim is also a speaker a coach and a trainer he works with
coach and a trainer he works with
coach and a trainer he works with corporations and universities with their
corporations and universities with their
corporations and universities with their leadership team to understand their
leadership team to understand their
leadership team to understand their employees better so I learned so many
employees better so I learned so many
employees better so I learned so many important lessons during my interview
important lessons during my interview
important lessons during my interview with Tim how do I pass over those
with Tim how do I pass over those
with Tim how do I pass over those lessons to you guys to be able to
lessons to you guys to be able to
lessons to you guys to be able to understand people so that way you can
understand people so that way you can
understand people so that way you can communicate with anybody now when you’re
communicate with anybody now when you’re
communicate with anybody now when you’re communicating with people you’re bound
communicating with people you’re bound
communicating with people you’re bound to come across some communication
to come across some communication
to come across some communication hurdles so in this video I am going to
hurdles so in this video I am going to
hurdles so in this video I am going to go over what those communication hurdles
go over what those communication hurdles
go over what those communication hurdles are and what you can do about it and
are and what you can do about it and
are and what you can do about it and once you overcome those hurdles you are
once you overcome those hurdles you are
once you overcome those hurdles you are going to see your relationships get
going to see your relationships get
going to see your relationships get better you can understand your customers
better you can understand your customers
better you can understand your customers better and even leave your team in a
better and even leave your team in a
better and even leave your team in a more effective way communication hurdle
more effective way communication hurdle
more effective way communication hurdle number one is figuring out people’s
number one is figuring out people’s
number one is figuring out people’s learning styles so their different
learning styles so their different
learning styles so their different learning styles are number one visual
learning styles are number one visual
learning styles are number one visual number two auditory and number three is
number two auditory and number three is
number two auditory and number three is tactile or kinesthetic just because
tactile or kinesthetic just because
tactile or kinesthetic just because you’re visual learner doesn’t mean that
you’re visual learner doesn’t mean that
you’re visual learner doesn’t mean that everybody is going to communicate in a
everybody is going to communicate in a
everybody is going to communicate in a visual way so understanding what
visual way so understanding what
visual way so understanding what people’s learning styles are is going to
people’s learning styles are is going to
people’s learning styles are is going to really help you become a better
really help you become a better
really help you become a better communicator so this clip Tim is
communicator so this clip Tim is
communicator so this clip Tim is actually showing me how to better
actually showing me how to better
actually showing me how to better communicate my meditation practice to
communicate my meditation practice to
communicate my meditation practice to all my coaching clients the way you
all my coaching clients the way you
all my coaching clients the way you would explain it is explain technically
would explain it is explain technically
would explain it is explain technically what they are to do don’t talk about
what they are to do don’t talk about
what they are to do don’t talk about necessarily the sensations or emotions
necessarily the sensations or emotions
necessarily the sensations or emotions or feelings that they may or that you
or feelings that they may or that you
or feelings that they may or that you may experience or probably do if you’re
may experience or probably do if you’re
may experience or probably do if you’re you know if you’re a regular meditator
you know if you’re a regular meditator
you know if you’re a regular meditator yeah you do you do you have that whole
yeah you do you do you have that whole
yeah you do you do you have that whole different sensation that happens
different sensation that happens
different sensation that happens part of its button in your body part of
part of its button in your body part of
part of its button in your body part of its in in your mind yeah the part in
its in in your mind yeah the part in
its in in your mind yeah the part in your mind they’ll be able to that tracks
your mind they’ll be able to that tracks
your mind they’ll be able to that tracks that works for them but you have to
that works for them but you have to
that works for them but you have to explain it technically what they’re
explain it technically what they’re
explain it technically what they’re doing is the example is something like
doing is the example is something like
doing is the example is something like I’m trying to think of how do I explain
I’m trying to think of how do I explain
I’m trying to think of how do I explain something that would be non-technical as
something that would be non-technical as
something that would be non-technical as you’re doing meditating because I’m
you’re doing meditating because I’m
you’re doing meditating because I’m coming from a technical standpoint so
coming from a technical standpoint so
coming from a technical standpoint so the way I could explain it would be
the way I could explain it would be
the way I could explain it would be technical yeah
technical yeah
technical yeah breathe with me this way I’m going to
breathe with me this way I’m going to
breathe with me this way I’m going to breathe in a pattern that’s going to be
breathe in a pattern that’s going to be
breathe in a pattern that’s going to be I’m going to breathe out three counts
I’m going to breathe out three counts
I’m going to breathe out three counts and I’ma breathe back in two counts so I
and I’ma breathe back in two counts so I
and I’ma breathe back in two counts so I would break it down to very mechanical
would break it down to very mechanical
would break it down to very mechanical motions and then I would help the person
motions and then I would help the person
motions and then I would help the person you know I would model it to them so
you know I would model it to them so
you know I would model it to them so they can see it and then help them do it
they can see it and then help them do it
they can see it and then help them do it and you know go back through how those
and you know go back through how those
and you know go back through how those mechanical motions they’re trying to you
mechanical motions they’re trying to you
mechanical motions they’re trying to you know they’re either in sync or no no you
know they’re either in sync or no no you
know they’re either in sync or no no you got this one but you’re missing this
got this one but you’re missing this
got this one but you’re missing this mechanical motion at the same time okay
mechanical motion at the same time okay
mechanical motion at the same time okay so actually number one demonstrates what
so actually number one demonstrates what
so actually number one demonstrates what they could see it and then not multiple
they could see it and then not multiple
they could see it and then not multiple modes whenever you can use multiple
modes whenever you can use multiple
modes whenever you can use multiple modes you’re gonna be a hundred percent
modes you’re gonna be a hundred percent
modes you’re gonna be a hundred percent better off demonstration visual is
better off demonstration visual is
better off demonstration visual is usually going to be their strongest
usually going to be their strongest
usually going to be their strongest processing strength as you saw in the
processing strength as you saw in the
processing strength as you saw in the video
video
video Tim suggested that anytime it’s possible
Tim suggested that anytime it’s possible
Tim suggested that anytime it’s possible use multiple modes to explain something
use multiple modes to explain something
use multiple modes to explain something so let’s explore those learning styles
so let’s explore those learning styles
so let’s explore those learning styles again number one our official number two
again number one our official number two
again number one our official number two our auditory number three of tactile or
our auditory number three of tactile or
our auditory number three of tactile or kinesthetic so how would you even know
kinesthetic so how would you even know
kinesthetic so how would you even know what the person’s learning style is so
what the person’s learning style is so
what the person’s learning style is so you want to pay a very close attention
you want to pay a very close attention
you want to pay a very close attention to the common phrases that they use so
to the common phrases that they use so
to the common phrases that they use so for a visual learner they would use
for a visual learner they would use
for a visual learner they would use worth like yeah I see your point
worth like yeah I see your point
worth like yeah I see your point oh I see the picture now what the
oh I see the picture now what the
oh I see the picture now what the auditory learners they’re gonna say yeah
auditory learners they’re gonna say yeah
auditory learners they’re gonna say yeah I hear you yeah that rings a bell and
I hear you yeah that rings a bell and
I hear you yeah that rings a bell and for tactile learners or kinesthetic
for tactile learners or kinesthetic
for tactile learners or kinesthetic learners they feel a lot so this like
learners they feel a lot so this like
learners they feel a lot so this like yeah I feel you or they would say yeah I
yeah I feel you or they would say yeah I
yeah I feel you or they would say yeah I feel it in my gut so once you really get
feel it in my gut so once you really get
feel it in my gut so once you really get the understanding of what they’re all
the understanding of what they’re all
the understanding of what they’re all about you could use that to help explain
about you could use that to help explain
about you could use that to help explain things better so using the example of my
things better so using the example of my
things better so using the example of my meditation so for a visual learner
meditation so for a visual learner
meditation so for a visual learner I would illustrate the meditation and do
I would illustrate the meditation and do
I would illustrate the meditation and do a visual demonstration for them so that
a visual demonstration for them so that
a visual demonstration for them so that way they can see before they go in and
way they can see before they go in and
way they can see before they go in and do it so I would say okay watch me once
do it so I would say okay watch me once
do it so I would say okay watch me once I’m gonna breathe in for three counts
I’m gonna breathe in for three counts
I’m gonna breathe in for three counts I’m
I’m
I’m breathe out for three cones so on and so
breathe out for three cones so on and so
breathe out for three cones so on and so forth and now you’re gonna repeat after
forth and now you’re gonna repeat after
forth and now you’re gonna repeat after me
me
me now for the audio learners that’s not
now for the audio learners that’s not
now for the audio learners that’s not going to help them as much I would get
going to help them as much I would get
going to help them as much I would get them to close their eyes and firmly
them to close their eyes and firmly
them to close their eyes and firmly articulate my words and what it is that
articulate my words and what it is that
articulate my words and what it is that I’m doing I would say like okay so gonna
I’m doing I would say like okay so gonna
I’m doing I would say like okay so gonna breathe in slowly and they’re gonna let
breathe in slowly and they’re gonna let
breathe in slowly and they’re gonna let it go breathe in slowly you’re doing
it go breathe in slowly you’re doing
it go breathe in slowly you’re doing great let it go again and for tactile
great let it go again and for tactile
great let it go again and for tactile learners and kinesthetic learners I
learners and kinesthetic learners I
learners and kinesthetic learners I would just get them to do the exercise
would just get them to do the exercise
would just get them to do the exercise right away because they need to feel it
right away because they need to feel it
right away because they need to feel it within themselves in order to really
within themselves in order to really
within themselves in order to really help them understand what it is that’s
help them understand what it is that’s
help them understand what it is that’s going on communication kernel number two
going on communication kernel number two
going on communication kernel number two is understanding people’s willingness to
is understanding people’s willingness to
is understanding people’s willingness to share there are people out there in this
share there are people out there in this
share there are people out there in this world that would just share everything
world that would just share everything
world that would just share everything and there’s just complete open book
and there’s just complete open book
and there’s just complete open book they’ll tell you exactly what they’re
they’ll tell you exactly what they’re
they’ll tell you exactly what they’re feeling and thinking while others are
feeling and thinking while others are
feeling and thinking while others are little more closed off
little more closed off
little more closed off they are not gonna share everything
they are not gonna share everything
they are not gonna share everything angel pulling and digging to find out
angel pulling and digging to find out
angel pulling and digging to find out more information from them so in this
more information from them so in this
more information from them so in this clip Tim is being very candid with me
clip Tim is being very candid with me
clip Tim is being very candid with me he’s completely honest he’s telling me
he’s completely honest he’s telling me
he’s completely honest he’s telling me exactly what he’s thinking about the way
exactly what he’s thinking about the way
exactly what he’s thinking about the way I’m explaining the meditation practice
I’m explaining the meditation practice
I’m explaining the meditation practice he’s basically telling me that I’m
he’s basically telling me that I’m
he’s basically telling me that I’m making no sense and I personally prefer
making no sense and I personally prefer
making no sense and I personally prefer that a lot better because at least I
that a lot better because at least I
that a lot better because at least I know what it is that I need to do so
know what it is that I need to do so
know what it is that I need to do so here’s a clip I hope you guys enjoy it
here’s a clip I hope you guys enjoy it
here’s a clip I hope you guys enjoy it what does you’re gonna let it go let it
what does you’re gonna let it go let it
what does you’re gonna let it go let it go to me I’m gonna do it on Asperger’s
go to me I’m gonna do it on Asperger’s
go to me I’m gonna do it on Asperger’s so you say let it go I say okay Latin
so you say let it go I say okay Latin
so you say let it go I say okay Latin okay that means something is gonna
okay that means something is gonna
okay that means something is gonna happen you know allow it to happen it
happen you know allow it to happen it
happen you know allow it to happen it okay we’re talking about what are we
okay we’re talking about what are we
okay we’re talking about what are we talking about I mean it’s it there’s no
talking about I mean it’s it there’s no
talking about I mean it’s it there’s no word in front of it it’s pointing to now
word in front of it it’s pointing to now
word in front of it it’s pointing to now okay and then go okay I understand go
okay and then go okay I understand go
okay and then go okay I understand go but what the heck am i letting go I
but what the heck am i letting go I
but what the heck am i letting go I think you said gibberish to me okay so
think you said gibberish to me okay so
think you said gibberish to me okay so when there’s no context it’s just
when there’s no context it’s just
when there’s no context it’s just they’re just words that’s the part to
they’re just words that’s the part to
they’re just words that’s the part to always remember is for the most part for
always remember is for the most part for
always remember is for the most part for people on the spectrum it’s all just
people on the spectrum it’s all just
people on the spectrum it’s all just words it’s literal translations of the
words it’s literal translations of the
words it’s literal translations of the words with no even recognition normally
words with no even recognition normally
words with no even recognition normally of the emotional nuances that come with
of the emotional nuances that come with
of the emotional nuances that come with certain words
certain words
certain words combined with poor will say vocal
combined with poor will say vocal
combined with poor will say vocal speaking habits that make those poor
speaking habits that make those poor
speaking habits that make those poor word choices come across even worse
word choices come across even worse
word choices come across even worse because they’re said in a tone or manner
because they’re said in a tone or manner
because they’re said in a tone or manner that seems to be cutting or sarcastic or
that seems to be cutting or sarcastic or
that seems to be cutting or sarcastic or arrogant when that’s not how it’s men
arrogant when that’s not how it’s men
arrogant when that’s not how it’s men it’s this person that’s really just not
it’s this person that’s really just not
it’s this person that’s really just not comfortable in the situation and they’re
comfortable in the situation and they’re
comfortable in the situation and they’re using a word out of the dictionary that
using a word out of the dictionary that
using a word out of the dictionary that they pulled out because that’s the best
they pulled out because that’s the best
they pulled out because that’s the best word they could come up with
word they could come up with
word they could come up with so understanding people’s willingness to
so understanding people’s willingness to
so understanding people’s willingness to share can be a little bit tricky at
share can be a little bit tricky at
share can be a little bit tricky at times because on one side you want
times because on one side you want
times because on one side you want people to be willing to share you want
people to be willing to share you want
people to be willing to share you want them to tell you the truth and they will
them to tell you the truth and they will
them to tell you the truth and they will they will tell you all the truths even
they will tell you all the truths even
they will tell you all the truths even the brutal truths and sometimes it can
the brutal truths and sometimes it can
the brutal truths and sometimes it can hurt your feelings a little bit so the
hurt your feelings a little bit so the
hurt your feelings a little bit so the most important thing that we need to do
most important thing that we need to do
most important thing that we need to do is to take it from an objective
is to take it from an objective
is to take it from an objective perspective and take a step back and
perspective and take a step back and
perspective and take a step back and really take what they’re seeing to us as
really take what they’re seeing to us as
really take what they’re seeing to us as a way for us to grow and get better and
a way for us to grow and get better and
a way for us to grow and get better and try not to take anything too personally
try not to take anything too personally
try not to take anything too personally and on the other side people who are
and on the other side people who are
and on the other side people who are more considerate and they’re they’re
more considerate and they’re they’re
more considerate and they’re they’re more read between the lines kind of
more read between the lines kind of
more read between the lines kind of people they sugarcoat things a little
people they sugarcoat things a little
people they sugarcoat things a little bit so maybe they’re not telling you
bit so maybe they’re not telling you
bit so maybe they’re not telling you everything that you need to hear so it’s
everything that you need to hear so it’s
everything that you need to hear so it’s a little bit harder to kind of help them
a little bit harder to kind of help them
a little bit harder to kind of help them open up a little bit more so a couple of
open up a little bit more so a couple of
open up a little bit more so a couple of things that you need to do number one is
things that you need to do number one is
things that you need to do number one is you have to build trust Trust doesn’t
you have to build trust Trust doesn’t
you have to build trust Trust doesn’t come overnight
come overnight
come overnight it comes a day after day after day so
it comes a day after day after day so
it comes a day after day after day so really making them feel comfortable and
really making them feel comfortable and
really making them feel comfortable and when they do actually tell you something
when they do actually tell you something
when they do actually tell you something that they have never told you before try
that they have never told you before try
that they have never told you before try your best not to react in a terrible way
your best not to react in a terrible way
your best not to react in a terrible way try not to judge even though the thing
try not to judge even though the thing
try not to judge even though the thing that they are saying
that they are saying
that they are saying could be completely out of the field in
could be completely out of the field in
could be completely out of the field in a might hurt your feelings try not to
a might hurt your feelings try not to
a might hurt your feelings try not to react in a certain way also don’t judge
react in a certain way also don’t judge
react in a certain way also don’t judge them for the things that they say maybe
them for the things that they say maybe
them for the things that they say maybe they’re telling you about a lifestyle
they’re telling you about a lifestyle
they’re telling you about a lifestyle that they live that you don’t
that they live that you don’t
that they live that you don’t necessarily agree with but try to not
necessarily agree with but try to not
necessarily agree with but try to not judge them as much as possible so by
judge them as much as possible so by
judge them as much as possible so by being non-judgmental and not reacting in
being non-judgmental and not reacting in
being non-judgmental and not reacting in a crazy way they’re going to be able to
a crazy way they’re going to be able to
a crazy way they’re going to be able to trust you and open up more and more and
trust you and open up more and more and
trust you and open up more and more and more to you communication hurdle number
more to you communication hurdle number
more to you communication hurdle number three is understand their situation
three is understand their situation
three is understand their situation we’re always working with people from
we’re always working with people from
we’re always working with people from different walks of life so it’s
different walks of life so it’s
different walks of life so it’s absolutely important for us to
absolutely important for us to
absolutely important for us to understand and appreciate the situation
understand and appreciate the situation
understand and appreciate the situation that they are in you may be working with
that they are in you may be working with
that they are in you may be working with someone who is from a different country
someone who is from a different country
someone who is from a different country than you a person who is from a
than you a person who is from a
than you a person who is from a different industry or person who has a
different industry or person who has a
different industry or person who has a condition like Asperger’s so in this
condition like Asperger’s so in this
condition like Asperger’s so in this clip Tim explains the difference between
clip Tim explains the difference between
clip Tim explains the difference between your diversity and your typicals and
your diversity and your typicals and
your diversity and your typicals and tells us that our brains are all wired
tells us that our brains are all wired
tells us that our brains are all wired very differently so I’m just going to go
very differently so I’m just going to go
very differently so I’m just going to go real fast kind of through what
real fast kind of through what
real fast kind of through what neurodiversity is and as I cover this I
neurodiversity is and as I cover this I
neurodiversity is and as I cover this I think it’s going to give you your answer
think it’s going to give you your answer
think it’s going to give you your answer as we work our way there but so the idea
as we work our way there but so the idea
as we work our way there but so the idea of the neuro cloud is that as our brains
of the neuro cloud is that as our brains
of the neuro cloud is that as our brains are wired in shape different ways we’re
are wired in shape different ways we’re
are wired in shape different ways we’re going to act and perceive the world and
going to act and perceive the world and
going to act and perceive the world and process the world in different ways so I
process the world in different ways so I
process the world in different ways so I think we all can accept that you know
think we all can accept that you know
think we all can accept that you know genetics makes our bodies all different
genetics makes our bodies all different
genetics makes our bodies all different from each other so why shouldn’t
from each other so why shouldn’t
from each other so why shouldn’t genetics make our brains a little bit
genetics make our brains a little bit
genetics make our brains a little bit different from each other we don’t think
different from each other we don’t think
different from each other we don’t think of it that way but you know when you
of it that way but you know when you
of it that way but you know when you point it out it’s huh most complex is
point it out it’s huh most complex is
point it out it’s huh most complex is Oregon I bet you there is some
Oregon I bet you there is some
Oregon I bet you there is some differences in there what this whole
differences in there what this whole
differences in there what this whole cloud is representing is just all the
cloud is representing is just all the
cloud is representing is just all the different ways that a person could
different ways that a person could
different ways that a person could perceive and process the world so it’s
perceive and process the world so it’s
perceive and process the world so it’s kind of a accumulation of every possible
kind of a accumulation of every possible
kind of a accumulation of every possible human experience that’s existed when you
human experience that’s existed when you
human experience that’s existed when you look at it you see like in this green
look at it you see like in this green
look at it you see like in this green circle area that there’s a whole bunch
circle area that there’s a whole bunch
circle area that there’s a whole bunch of these I call the Aqua or whatever
of these I call the Aqua or whatever
of these I call the Aqua or whatever white blue colors and that’s a huge
white blue colors and that’s a huge
white blue colors and that’s a huge group that group is what we call
group that group is what we call
group that group is what we call neurotypical z’ and it’s not that
neurotypical z’ and it’s not that
neurotypical z’ and it’s not that they’re special it’s just that they’re
they’re special it’s just that they’re
they’re special it’s just that they’re the big as a group out there so you got
the big as a group out there so you got
the big as a group out there so you got to make something typical you make
to make something typical you make
to make something typical you make biggest group typical that’s just the
biggest group typical that’s just the
biggest group typical that’s just the way you normally do
way you normally do
way you normally do so neurotypicals nothing special about
so neurotypicals nothing special about
so neurotypicals nothing special about them they just tend to think in a
them they just tend to think in a
them they just tend to think in a particular pattern of ways and that’s
particular pattern of ways and that’s
particular pattern of ways and that’s the way most humans tend to me
the way most humans tend to me
the way most humans tend to me neuro-diverse is anybody that’s outside
neuro-diverse is anybody that’s outside
neuro-diverse is anybody that’s outside a neurotypical in other words you think
a neurotypical in other words you think
a neurotypical in other words you think process and perceive the world in a
process and perceive the world in a
process and perceive the world in a different way than the neurotypical
different way than the neurotypical
different way than the neurotypical perceives processes the world fast story
perceives processes the world fast story
perceives processes the world fast story on that one I get into a kick in what I
on that one I get into a kick in what I
on that one I get into a kick in what I eat and I was into this particular
eat and I was into this particular
eat and I was into this particular potato bread and we’d go shopping of my
potato bread and we’d go shopping of my
potato bread and we’d go shopping of my wife and I go to the store and I’d be
wife and I go to the store and I’d be
wife and I go to the store and I’d be looking up and down the aisle trying to
looking up and down the aisle trying to
looking up and down the aisle trying to find my potato bread and she’d always
find my potato bread and she’d always
find my potato bread and she’d always just go right there so year and a half
just go right there so year and a half
just go right there so year and a half later you know I’m a guy and I’m kind of
later you know I’m a guy and I’m kind of
later you know I’m a guy and I’m kind of stubborn so your and a half later I
stubborn so your and a half later I
stubborn so your and a half later I asked her how the heck do you just
asked her how the heck do you just
asked her how the heck do you just always point to it and she goes just see
always point to it and she goes just see
always point to it and she goes just see that orange circle on the end of the
that orange circle on the end of the
that orange circle on the end of the labo I looked for the orange circle
labo I looked for the orange circle
labo I looked for the orange circle there’s only two brands in the whole
there’s only two brands in the whole
there’s only two brands in the whole store that have it I’ve been reading the
store that have it I’ve been reading the
store that have it I’ve been reading the labels all the time she’d been looking
labels all the time she’d been looking
labels all the time she’d been looking at this kind of just general pattern
at this kind of just general pattern
at this kind of just general pattern that she could identify quickly very
that she could identify quickly very
that she could identify quickly very very different ways of processing and in
very different ways of processing and in
very different ways of processing and in this case I hate to admit it but her way
this case I hate to admit it but her way
this case I hate to admit it but her way really was far better I’m gonna explain
really was far better I’m gonna explain
really was far better I’m gonna explain to two ways one part is what you can’t
to two ways one part is what you can’t
to two ways one part is what you can’t do and one part is what you can do
do and one part is what you can do
do and one part is what you can do there’s a whole bunch of charts I wish I
there’s a whole bunch of charts I wish I
there’s a whole bunch of charts I wish I had but you know will fake it in general
had but you know will fake it in general
had but you know will fake it in general part of what makes neurotypical
part of what makes neurotypical
part of what makes neurotypical neurotypical is that you depend a huge
neurotypical is that you depend a huge
neurotypical is that you depend a huge amount upon context and emotional cues
amount upon context and emotional cues
amount upon context and emotional cues to get your information and to make your
to get your information and to make your
to get your information and to make your points and everybody that’s kind of been
points and everybody that’s kind of been
points and everybody that’s kind of been neurotypical kind of you know they kind
neurotypical kind of you know they kind
neurotypical kind of you know they kind of get it and some people aren’t quite
of get it and some people aren’t quite
of get it and some people aren’t quite as quick and it’s not saying everybody’s
as quick and it’s not saying everybody’s
as quick and it’s not saying everybody’s perfect in here and certainly when you
perfect in here and certainly when you
perfect in here and certainly when you come from two different cultures there
come from two different cultures there
come from two different cultures there can be sometimes even cultural ways that
can be sometimes even cultural ways that
can be sometimes even cultural ways that you simply act bi how you beyond how you
you simply act bi how you beyond how you
you simply act bi how you beyond how you speak that would make it look like maybe
speak that would make it look like maybe
speak that would make it look like maybe they’re different but they’re still
they’re different but they’re still
they’re different but they’re still their emotion based a lot of emotion is
their emotion based a lot of emotion is
their emotion based a lot of emotion is going into all of the decisioning status
going into all of the decisioning status
going into all of the decisioning status social thought you know who is this
social thought you know who is this
social thought you know who is this person in the status if it’s my boss I
person in the status if it’s my boss I
person in the status if it’s my boss I got to be careful because you know
got to be careful because you know
got to be careful because you know that’s the alpha male that can kick me
that’s the alpha male that can kick me
that’s the alpha male that can kick me out
out
out tribe a lot of your processing up here
tribe a lot of your processing up here
tribe a lot of your processing up here has emotion mixed into it most of your
has emotion mixed into it most of your
has emotion mixed into it most of your processing that you when you get outside
processing that you when you get outside
processing that you when you get outside of it has virtually no emotion mixed
of it has virtually no emotion mixed
of it has virtually no emotion mixed into it very much it’s mr. Spock from
into it very much it’s mr. Spock from
into it very much it’s mr. Spock from from you know Star Trek I like to say
from you know Star Trek I like to say
from you know Star Trek I like to say that us and I use this term ASD Lister’s
that us and I use this term ASD Lister’s
that us and I use this term ASD Lister’s and I think of it as how you would a
and I think of it as how you would a
and I think of it as how you would a listers right I mean what our Hollywood
listers right I mean what our Hollywood
listers right I mean what our Hollywood a-listers they’re play great they get
a-listers they’re play great they get
a-listers they’re play great they get the job done but you don’t hire them for
the job done but you don’t hire them for
the job done but you don’t hire them for their behavior by any means you hire
their behavior by any means you hire
their behavior by any means you hire them for their abilities well that’s a
them for their abilities well that’s a
them for their abilities well that’s a lot like people that are on the spectrum
lot like people that are on the spectrum
lot like people that are on the spectrum you hire them for their skills not for
you hire them for their skills not for
you hire them for their skills not for their social abilities because they
their social abilities because they
their social abilities because they don’t have them so I like to use this
don’t have them so I like to use this
don’t have them so I like to use this term a Lister to really say it could be
term a Lister to really say it could be
term a Lister to really say it could be anybody is that really tech left brain
anybody is that really tech left brain
anybody is that really tech left brain leaving I don’t really care whether
leaving I don’t really care whether
leaving I don’t really care whether you’re have a official diagnosis or not
you’re have a official diagnosis or not
you’re have a official diagnosis or not we’re just really saying you’re not in
we’re just really saying you’re not in
we’re just really saying you’re not in that group that processes by primarily
that group that processes by primarily
that group that processes by primarily or heavily on what emotion you’re a
or heavily on what emotion you’re a
or heavily on what emotion you’re a group that processes with virtually no
group that processes with virtually no
group that processes with virtually no emotion so this is where your
emotion so this is where your
emotion so this is where your communication comes in my guess is
communication comes in my guess is
communication comes in my guess is you’re trying to communicate something
you’re trying to communicate something
you’re trying to communicate something that’s not purely factual you’re trying
that’s not purely factual you’re trying
that’s not purely factual you’re trying to communicate some context with emotion
to communicate some context with emotion
to communicate some context with emotion involved in the context the problem is I
involved in the context the problem is I
involved in the context the problem is I I live in a world that’s devoid of that
I live in a world that’s devoid of that
I live in a world that’s devoid of that there’s a word that I can never
there’s a word that I can never
there’s a word that I can never pronounce and it’s in Latin and it’s
pronounce and it’s in Latin and it’s
pronounce and it’s in Latin and it’s like a leaf a wreath Vimy or some crazy
like a leaf a wreath Vimy or some crazy
like a leaf a wreath Vimy or some crazy Latin word I never took Latin
Latin word I never took Latin
Latin word I never took Latin unfortunately and what it actually
unfortunately and what it actually
unfortunately and what it actually literally means is no word for emotion
literally means is no word for emotion
literally means is no word for emotion so in other words not that there’s not
so in other words not that there’s not
so in other words not that there’s not body sensations in such going on but we
body sensations in such going on but we
body sensations in such going on but we don’t have the ability the way our
don’t have the ability the way our
don’t have the ability the way our brains are wired and shaped but we don’t
brains are wired and shaped but we don’t
brains are wired and shaped but we don’t have the ability to turn that into a
have the ability to turn that into a
have the ability to turn that into a word that we can then use in our brain
word that we can then use in our brain
word that we can then use in our brain we don’t have that word that says oh oh
we don’t have that word that says oh oh
we don’t have that word that says oh oh that means like watch out for this
that means like watch out for this
that means like watch out for this person be a little aware of them that’s
person be a little aware of them that’s
person be a little aware of them that’s what that feeling means so that’s where
what that feeling means so that’s where
what that feeling means so that’s where part of your difficulty I think is is
part of your difficulty I think is is
part of your difficulty I think is is when you’re dealing with somebody that
when you’re dealing with somebody that
when you’re dealing with somebody that is that very technical geeky you know
is that very technical geeky you know
is that very technical geeky you know left brain reading kind of person
left brain reading kind of person
left brain reading kind of person not going to get the emotional content
not going to get the emotional content
not going to get the emotional content they will get the facts so what you need
they will get the facts so what you need
they will get the facts so what you need to express is the facts because that’s
to express is the facts because that’s
to express is the facts because that’s how their brain functions now you may be
how their brain functions now you may be
how their brain functions now you may be able to illustrate some of the emotion
able to illustrate some of the emotion
able to illustrate some of the emotion if you can find a situation they can
if you can find a situation they can
if you can find a situation they can relate to or have been in that has just
relate to or have been in that has just
relate to or have been in that has just even a little bit of what it is you’re
even a little bit of what it is you’re
even a little bit of what it is you’re trying to relay but if they have if you
trying to relay but if they have if you
trying to relay but if they have if you can’t find something where they’ve
can’t find something where they’ve
can’t find something where they’ve experienced you’re basically talking as
experienced you’re basically talking as
experienced you’re basically talking as if you’re talking color to a person
if you’re talking color to a person
if you’re talking color to a person that’s never seen their entire life they
that’s never seen their entire life they
that’s never seen their entire life they hear words but it doesn’t mean anything
hear words but it doesn’t mean anything
hear words but it doesn’t mean anything particularly as you I saw on the video
particularly as you I saw on the video
particularly as you I saw on the video to me explain that neurotypical who are
to me explain that neurotypical who are
to me explain that neurotypical who are basically people like me rely heavily on
basically people like me rely heavily on
basically people like me rely heavily on emotional context behind our words
emotional context behind our words
emotional context behind our words whereas people in the newer diverse
whereas people in the newer diverse
whereas people in the newer diverse community they take the words for the
community they take the words for the
community they take the words for the literal meaning so next time you want to
literal meaning so next time you want to
literal meaning so next time you want to think about that when you’re
think about that when you’re
think about that when you’re communicating we can’t assume that
communicating we can’t assume that
communicating we can’t assume that everybody knows the context behind your
everybody knows the context behind your
everybody knows the context behind your words or know exactly where you’re
words or know exactly where you’re
words or know exactly where you’re coming from because they may be coming
coming from because they may be coming
coming from because they may be coming from a different country that they have
from a different country that they have
from a different country that they have never seen that before so for example
never seen that before so for example
never seen that before so for example when I first came to Canada I’ve never
when I first came to Canada I’ve never
when I first came to Canada I’ve never seen a computer before my entire life
seen a computer before my entire life
seen a computer before my entire life and I was in my computer class and the
and I was in my computer class and the
and I was in my computer class and the teacher told me to pick up the mouse and
teacher told me to pick up the mouse and
teacher told me to pick up the mouse and move it over to the file tab and I had
move it over to the file tab and I had
move it over to the file tab and I had zero idea what she was talking about
zero idea what she was talking about
zero idea what she was talking about because I have never used a computer in
because I have never used a computer in
because I have never used a computer in my life I was so incredibly embarrassed
my life I was so incredibly embarrassed
my life I was so incredibly embarrassed Schism I didn’t know what the common
Schism I didn’t know what the common
Schism I didn’t know what the common knowledge was in Canada in addition to
knowledge was in Canada in addition to
knowledge was in Canada in addition to that I just didn’t want to tell anybody
that I just didn’t want to tell anybody
that I just didn’t want to tell anybody because again I was really embarrassed
because again I was really embarrassed
because again I was really embarrassed so I’m sitting there nervous and
so I’m sitting there nervous and
so I’m sitting there nervous and petrified and panicking and sweating
petrified and panicking and sweating
petrified and panicking and sweating sweating like crazy in my computer class
sweating like crazy in my computer class
sweating like crazy in my computer class and while everybody was just doing
and while everybody was just doing
and while everybody was just doing things perfectly so beside me there was
things perfectly so beside me there was
things perfectly so beside me there was a girl named Andrea I remember her name
a girl named Andrea I remember her name
a girl named Andrea I remember her name and she leaned over she saw that I
and she leaned over she saw that I
and she leaned over she saw that I wasn’t really getting it and she
wasn’t really getting it and she
wasn’t really getting it and she whispered to me so no one else could
whispered to me so no one else could
whispered to me so no one else could hear
hear
hear this is a mouse because it looks like a
this is a mouse because it looks like a
this is a mouse because it looks like a mouse if you move it you’re able to
mouse if you move it you’re able to
mouse if you move it you’re able to select the cursor on the file tab got it
select the cursor on the file tab got it
select the cursor on the file tab got it and I felt so much better because number
and I felt so much better because number
and I felt so much better because number one
one
one she didn’t judge me for the fact that I
she didn’t judge me for the fact that I
she didn’t judge me for the fact that I didn’t know what a common language was
didn’t know what a common language was
didn’t know what a common language was number two is she’s whispered it without
number two is she’s whispered it without
number two is she’s whispered it without weighing nobody else her because she
weighing nobody else her because she
weighing nobody else her because she knew I was embarrassed about it and she
knew I was embarrassed about it and she
knew I was embarrassed about it and she was completely wonderful about it
was completely wonderful about it
was completely wonderful about it and sometimes I wish I still had contact
and sometimes I wish I still had contact
and sometimes I wish I still had contact with her because I would love to thank
with her because I would love to thank
with her because I would love to thank her for making such a huge difference in
her for making such a huge difference in
her for making such a huge difference in my life so that’s a thank you guys you
my life so that’s a thank you guys you
my life so that’s a thank you guys you have to make sure that you don’t judge
have to make sure that you don’t judge
have to make sure that you don’t judge them for not knowing and number two is
them for not knowing and number two is
them for not knowing and number two is maybe you want to use some whispering
maybe you want to use some whispering
maybe you want to use some whispering techniques so that way not everybody can
techniques so that way not everybody can
techniques so that way not everybody can hear because the immediate thought is
hear because the immediate thought is
hear because the immediate thought is that they’re embarrassed that they don’t
that they’re embarrassed that they don’t
that they’re embarrassed that they don’t know something and and you know what in
know something and and you know what in
know something and and you know what in the end we’re all in this together
the end we’re all in this together
the end we’re all in this together so I talked a lot about fragrant
so I talked a lot about fragrant
so I talked a lot about fragrant different learning styles understanding
different learning styles understanding
different learning styles understanding different situation people from and
different situation people from and
different situation people from and their willingness to share but the main
their willingness to share but the main
their willingness to share but the main message is this the reason why we want
message is this the reason why we want
message is this the reason why we want to identify the differences is so that
to identify the differences is so that
to identify the differences is so that we can help each other out in the end
we can help each other out in the end
we can help each other out in the end we’re all in this together
we’re all in this together
we’re all in this together so I want to share my last clip with him
so I want to share my last clip with him
so I want to share my last clip with him as he and I discuss how we can all help
as he and I discuss how we can all help
as he and I discuss how we can all help each other out and support each other
each other out and support each other
each other out and support each other enjoy what is that little cap like
enjoy what is that little cap like
enjoy what is that little cap like little colorful cap behind you what’s
little colorful cap behind you what’s
little colorful cap behind you what’s the story behind that well you know it’s
the story behind that well you know it’s
the story behind that well you know it’s it’s obviously a full geek propeller
it’s obviously a full geek propeller
it’s obviously a full geek propeller beanie that is to make you know
beanie that is to make you know
beanie that is to make you know everybody happy it’s made in America
everybody happy it’s made in America
everybody happy it’s made in America comes from San Diego it’s they’re really
comes from San Diego it’s they’re really
comes from San Diego it’s they’re really nice so if you want a really good geek
nice so if you want a really good geek
nice so if you want a really good geek at you know I can tell you where I get
at you know I can tell you where I get
at you know I can tell you where I get the way it came about was when I first
the way it came about was when I first
the way it came about was when I first started into this after being diagnosed
started into this after being diagnosed
started into this after being diagnosed I basically would not talk about
I basically would not talk about
I basically would not talk about Asperger’s or autism now I had no
Asperger’s or autism now I had no
Asperger’s or autism now I had no problem talking about being geeky and I
problem talking about being geeky and I
problem talking about being geeky and I recognized the issues and challenges I
recognized the issues and challenges I
recognized the issues and challenges I had because of what I now found this you
had because of what I now found this you
had because of what I now found this you know the syndrome that I’ve had in my
know the syndrome that I’ve had in my
know the syndrome that I’ve had in my twin arrow entire life and now I have a
twin arrow entire life and now I have a
twin arrow entire life and now I have a name for why it works
name for why it works
name for why it works but most of the other people they worked
but most of the other people they worked
but most of the other people they worked with didn’t and at that point I didn’t
with didn’t and at that point I didn’t
with didn’t and at that point I didn’t want to identify myself out on the
want to identify myself out on the
want to identify myself out on the internet and in posts and stuff is being
internet and in posts and stuff is being
internet and in posts and stuff is being you know on the spectrum you know I
you know on the spectrum you know I
you know on the spectrum you know I guess it’s one of those things if
guess it’s one of those things if
guess it’s one of those things if somebody tells you you know you’ve got
somebody tells you you know you’ve got
somebody tells you you know you’ve got you know X Y Z it only takes a little
you know X Y Z it only takes a little
you know X Y Z it only takes a little while before you’re ready to go tell the
while before you’re ready to go tell the
while before you’re ready to go tell the rest of the world about it so I always
rest of the world about it so I always
rest of the world about it so I always talked about it in the town context of
talked about it in the town context of
talked about it in the town context of of geeks or nerds or that technical
of geeks or nerds or that technical
of geeks or nerds or that technical brain type it became a kind of a symbol
brain type it became a kind of a symbol
brain type it became a kind of a symbol for a geeks guide to interviews which is
for a geeks guide to interviews which is
for a geeks guide to interviews which is the book that I wrote for the geeky type
the book that I wrote for the geeky type
the book that I wrote for the geeky type of how to get through that soft side of
of how to get through that soft side of
of how to get through that soft side of the interview so that’s how the prop
the interview so that’s how the prop
the interview so that’s how the prop came about is uh you know it’s it’s the
came about is uh you know it’s it’s the
came about is uh you know it’s it’s the I think the International symbol of
I think the International symbol of
I think the International symbol of geekiness and it was my segue into
geekiness and it was my segue into
geekiness and it was my segue into finally getting up the the nerve to
finally getting up the the nerve to
finally getting up the the nerve to stand in front of an audience and say
stand in front of an audience and say
stand in front of an audience and say I’m not like you
I’m not like you
I’m not like you I have Asperger’s that’s a hard thing to
I have Asperger’s that’s a hard thing to
I have Asperger’s that’s a hard thing to do I think for anybody I can I can
do I think for anybody I can I can
do I think for anybody I can I can relate there I I stood up on the TEDx
relate there I I stood up on the TEDx
relate there I I stood up on the TEDx stage a couple of months ago and I told
stage a couple of months ago and I told
stage a couple of months ago and I told people that there was a time that I
people that there was a time that I
people that there was a time that I wanted to get hit by a bus quite
wanted to get hit by a bus quite
wanted to get hit by a bus quite literally I did because I just didn’t
literally I did because I just didn’t
literally I did because I just didn’t feel like life was worth living and
feel like life was worth living and
feel like life was worth living and there’s this huge amount of
there’s this huge amount of
there’s this huge amount of vulnerability that comes with that but
vulnerability that comes with that but
vulnerability that comes with that but also a huge amount of pride that comes
also a huge amount of pride that comes
also a huge amount of pride that comes with it too because now you know I’m
with it too because now you know I’m
with it too because now you know I’m proud that I went through that and I
proud that I went through that and I
proud that I went through that and I have gone I’ve come out the other side
have gone I’ve come out the other side
have gone I’ve come out the other side and now I could help other people right
and now I could help other people right
and now I could help other people right I think that’s there’s you’ve got two
I think that’s there’s you’ve got two
I think that’s there’s you’ve got two things in there that you said that I’ve
things in there that you said that I’ve
things in there that you said that I’ve got to comment on is one if you don’t go
got to comment on is one if you don’t go
got to comment on is one if you don’t go through it you can’t help other people
through it you can’t help other people
through it you can’t help other people because you’ve got accepted as that’s
because you’ve got accepted as that’s
because you’ve got accepted as that’s who you are
who you are
who you are and secondly I think we need to be
and secondly I think we need to be
and secondly I think we need to be helping each other with getting through
helping each other with getting through
helping each other with getting through that kind of stuff I mean we tend to
that kind of stuff I mean we tend to
that kind of stuff I mean we tend to have a culture where particularly you
have a culture where particularly you
have a culture where particularly you know you’re talking a mental health
know you’re talking a mental health
know you’re talking a mental health issue I’m talking about a mental health
issue I’m talking about a mental health
issue I’m talking about a mental health issue as you say it’s it’s not in our
issue as you say it’s it’s not in our
issue as you say it’s it’s not in our culture real common if we can just walk
culture real common if we can just walk
culture real common if we can just walk up to a friend and say you know you you
up to a friend and say you know you you
up to a friend and say you know you you thinking okay there
thinking okay there
thinking okay there but it’s certainly fine to walk up to
but it’s certainly fine to walk up to
but it’s certainly fine to walk up to him after the weekend ago and you
him after the weekend ago and you
him after the weekend ago and you feeling okay you’re not looking you know
feeling okay you’re not looking you know
feeling okay you’re not looking you know I’m with you first I think yes you have
I’m with you first I think yes you have
I’m with you first I think yes you have to go through it so that you can stand
to go through it so that you can stand
to go through it so that you can stand there and look at it objectively because
there and look at it objectively because
there and look at it objectively because it’s not objective till you’re living it
it’s not objective till you’re living it
it’s not objective till you’re living it yeah and then I think we gotta go out
yeah and then I think we gotta go out
yeah and then I think we gotta go out and help all those people that are
and help all those people that are
and help all those people that are afraid to do it because I mean I was
afraid to do it because I mean I was
afraid to do it because I mean I was afraid for a long time you know to be
afraid for a long time you know to be
afraid for a long time you know to be honest with you it hurt my career where
honest with you it hurt my career where
honest with you it hurt my career where my career big you know to go and post
my career big you know to go and post
my career big you know to go and post all over the internet that I you know
all over the internet that I you know
all over the internet that I you know I’m on the spectrum cool let’s hire like
I’m on the spectrum cool let’s hire like
I’m on the spectrum cool let’s hire like let’s go hire this nutty developer look
let’s go hire this nutty developer look
let’s go hire this nutty developer look what came out of it I you know
what came out of it I you know
what came out of it I you know phenomenal things are coming out of it
phenomenal things are coming out of it
phenomenal things are coming out of it it just blows me away as I get emails
it just blows me away as I get emails
it just blows me away as I get emails from from people around the world of you
from from people around the world of you
from from people around the world of you know whatever I mean I mean one was for
know whatever I mean I mean one was for
know whatever I mean I mean one was for a gentleman it was noodle a.cian and
a gentleman it was noodle a.cian and
a gentleman it was noodle a.cian and said I saw the thing you did it was
said I saw the thing you did it was
said I saw the thing you did it was wonderful thank you so much for sharing
wonderful thank you so much for sharing
wonderful thank you so much for sharing he told me a little bit about himself
he told me a little bit about himself
he told me a little bit about himself and he was from Belgium you know got
and he was from Belgium you know got
and he was from Belgium you know got another person who reached out from
another person who reached out from
another person who reached out from Canada I mean you just get these emails
Canada I mean you just get these emails
Canada I mean you just get these emails from all around of people saying I never
from all around of people saying I never
from all around of people saying I never understood that nobody’s ever explained
understood that nobody’s ever explained
understood that nobody’s ever explained clearly that it’s that different that
clearly that it’s that different that
clearly that it’s that different that it’s like two aliens talking and you
it’s like two aliens talking and you
it’s like two aliens talking and you need to negotiate how you’re even going
need to negotiate how you’re even going
need to negotiate how you’re even going to talk because otherwise we’re going to
to talk because otherwise we’re going to
to talk because otherwise we’re going to fall into well you know using a rodent
fall into well you know using a rodent
fall into well you know using a rodent to move something on the computer
exactly I mean if we don’t define it
exactly I mean if we don’t define it ahead of time then that’s what happens
ahead of time then that’s what happens
ahead of time then that’s what happens every time and I’m a social shadow for
every time and I’m a social shadow for
every time and I’m a social shadow for Emmanuel Garcia Emmanuel thank you so
Emmanuel Garcia Emmanuel thank you so
Emmanuel Garcia Emmanuel thank you so much for writing the sweet comment in my
much for writing the sweet comment in my
much for writing the sweet comment in my last episode and I do want you to know
last episode and I do want you to know
last episode and I do want you to know that your support means the world to me
that your support means the world to me
that your support means the world to me finally the question of the day is what
finally the question of the day is what
finally the question of the day is what is your biggest takeaway from this video
is your biggest takeaway from this video
is your biggest takeaway from this video write in the comments below and I’ll be
write in the comments below and I’ll be
write in the comments below and I’ll be sure to join in on this
sure to join in on this
sure to join in on this thank you guys so much for watching and
thank you guys so much for watching and
thank you guys so much for watching and more importantly being on this journey
more importantly being on this journey
more importantly being on this journey with me I feel like I’m learning and
with me I feel like I’m learning and
with me I feel like I’m learning and growing and I feel that comfort in
growing and I feel that comfort in
growing and I feel that comfort in knowing that you guys are there with me
knowing that you guys are there with me
knowing that you guys are there with me every step of the way
every step of the way
every step of the way so thank you so much again I’ll see you
so thank you so much again I’ll see you
so thank you so much again I’ll see you guys very very soon all right give me
guys very very soon all right give me
guys very very soon all right give me the 11.1 will this volume you know the
the 11.1 will this volume you know the
the 11.1 will this volume you know the most important word ever
most important word ever
most important word ever if you had to think of one word that’s
if you had to think of one word that’s
if you had to think of one word that’s most important to you or that sums you
most important to you or that sums you
most important to you or that sums you Apple that would be like a little beacon
Apple that would be like a little beacon
Apple that would be like a little beacon hey believe nation if you want to know
hey believe nation if you want to know
hey believe nation if you want to know what the most important one word is for
what the most important one word is for
what the most important one word is for Tony Robbins Gary Vaynerchuk Oprah
Tony Robbins Gary Vaynerchuk Oprah
Tony Robbins Gary Vaynerchuk Oprah Winfrey will.i.am and Howard Schultz I
Winfrey will.i.am and Howard Schultz I
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