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How to reach out to COMPLETE STRANGERS for help


if you need to reach out to complete

if you need to reach out to complete strangers to have them help you grow

strangers to have them help you grow

strangers to have them help you grow your business I’m going to share with

your business I’m going to share with

your business I’m going to share with you a quick story today about one recent

you a quick story today about one recent

you a quick story today about one recent example that I went through and I think

example that I went through and I think

example that I went through and I think you could model to help you build your

you could model to help you build your

you could model to help you build your business hi I’m Evan Carmichael

business hi I’m Evan Carmichael

business hi I’m Evan Carmichael I believe in entrepreneurs and I’ve

I believe in entrepreneurs and I’ve

I believe in entrepreneurs and I’ve always been a huge Howard Schultz fan

always been a huge Howard Schultz fan

always been a huge Howard Schultz fan he’s the guy behind Starbucks I love

he’s the guy behind Starbucks I love

he’s the guy behind Starbucks I love what he stands for I love his messaging

what he stands for I love his messaging

what he stands for I love his messaging I love what he talks about an

I love what he talks about an

I love what he talks about an entrepreneurship and dreaming big and

entrepreneurship and dreaming big and

entrepreneurship and dreaming big and encouraging people to follow their

encouraging people to follow their

encouraging people to follow their dreams and not listen to the naysayers

dreams and not listen to the naysayers

dreams and not listen to the naysayers he’s got a lot of great videos we

he’s got a lot of great videos we

he’s got a lot of great videos we featured some on this channel and so

featured some on this channel and so

featured some on this channel and so when he came up with this book I

when he came up with this book I

when he came up with this book I discovered it not too long ago called

discovered it not too long ago called

discovered it not too long ago called onward I had to read it and when I was

onward I had to read it and when I was

onward I had to read it and when I was flipping through something interesting

flipping through something interesting

flipping through something interesting came up on page 4 you don’t forget

came up on page 4 you don’t forget

came up on page 4 you don’t forget through it very long where it says

through it very long where it says

through it very long where it says there’s one word that comes to mind when

there’s one word that comes to mind when

there’s one word that comes to mind when I think about our company and our people

I think about our company and our people

I think about our company and our people that word is love now right away that

that word is love now right away that

that word is love now right away that blew my mind because I’ve been an

blew my mind because I’ve been an

blew my mind because I’ve been an advocate of finding one word that you

advocate of finding one word that you

advocate of finding one word that you stand for that your business stands for

stand for that your business stands for

stand for that your business stands for and and inject it right stand for

and and inject it right stand for

and and inject it right stand for something with your company

something with your company

something with your company – believe and I’ve been helping other

– believe and I’ve been helping other

– believe and I’ve been helping other entrepreneurs do it I’m writing my own

entrepreneurs do it I’m writing my own

entrepreneurs do it I’m writing my own book on this process and I thought

book on this process and I thought

book on this process and I thought Howard Schultz you know one of these

Howard Schultz you know one of these

Howard Schultz you know one of these guys that I really look up to Howard

guys that I really look up to Howard

guys that I really look up to Howard Schultz he is all about one word as well

Schultz he is all about one word as well

Schultz he is all about one word as well I have to find a way to get in touch now

I have to find a way to get in touch now

I have to find a way to get in touch now usually when I want to reach out to

usually when I want to reach out to

usually when I want to reach out to somebody my first step is to look at my

somebody my first step is to look at my

somebody my first step is to look at my network does anybody know Howard Schultz

network does anybody know Howard Schultz

network does anybody know Howard Schultz that I know and he co-wrote this with

that I know and he co-wrote this with

that I know and he co-wrote this with Joanne Gordon and you know did does

Joanne Gordon and you know did does

Joanne Gordon and you know did does anybody know jooheon’s anybody know this

anybody know jooheon’s anybody know this

anybody know jooheon’s anybody know this he Paul neither reach out I got to get

he Paul neither reach out I got to get

he Paul neither reach out I got to get in touch and nobody in my network knew

in touch and nobody in my network knew

in touch and nobody in my network knew either Howard or Joanne so my first

either Howard or Joanne so my first

either Howard or Joanne so my first option was out of luck the next thing I

option was out of luck the next thing I

option was out of luck the next thing I always do is try to reach out on social

always do is try to reach out on social

always do is try to reach out on social media my favorite two channels are

media my favorite two channels are

media my favorite two channels are Twitter and YouTube and what I’ll often

Twitter and YouTube and what I’ll often

Twitter and YouTube and what I’ll often do is find them on Twitter YouTube

do is find them on Twitter YouTube

do is find them on Twitter YouTube follow them start to engage with their

follow them start to engage with their

follow them start to engage with their stuff comment on it share it and my goal

stuff comment on it share it and my goal

stuff comment on it share it and my goal is to get them to know me right to add

is to get them to know me right to add

is to get them to know me right to add value to give them something in return

value to give them something in return

value to give them something in return before I ever ask for anything and when

before I ever ask for anything and when

before I ever ask for anything and when I do message them they know who I am

I do message them they know who I am

I do message them they know who I am they recognize my face because I’ve been

they recognize my face because I’ve been

they recognize my face because I’ve been tweeting and sharing all their stuff the

tweeting and sharing all their stuff the

tweeting and sharing all their stuff the problem here again though was neither

problem here again though was neither

problem here again though was neither Howard or Joanne were on Twitter or

Howard or Joanne were on Twitter or

Howard or Joanne were on Twitter or YouTube so my

YouTube so my

YouTube so my usual strategies of trying to use my

usual strategies of trying to use my

usual strategies of trying to use my connections and trying to reach out on

connections and trying to reach out on

connections and trying to reach out on social media they weren’t working for me

social media they weren’t working for me

social media they weren’t working for me this time around and I really wanted to

this time around and I really wanted to

this time around and I really wanted to connect and and it just I sat on it and

connect and and it just I sat on it and

connect and and it just I sat on it and was sitting there in my inbox as a to-do

was sitting there in my inbox as a to-do

was sitting there in my inbox as a to-do list for weeks and weeks and weeks and

list for weeks and weeks and weeks and

list for weeks and weeks and weeks and like you know what one day it was an

like you know what one day it was an

like you know what one day it was an evening there like 6 o’clock at night I

evening there like 6 o’clock at night I

evening there like 6 o’clock at night I just decided I’m gonna write Joanne she

just decided I’m gonna write Joanne she

just decided I’m gonna write Joanne she had a website you had a contact I’m just

had a website you had a contact I’m just

had a website you had a contact I’m just gonna write to her and I’m gonna I’m

gonna write to her and I’m gonna I’m

gonna write to her and I’m gonna I’m gonna pour my heart out I’m gonna I’m

gonna pour my heart out I’m gonna I’m

gonna pour my heart out I’m gonna I’m gonna grid a authentic email asking what

gonna grid a authentic email asking what

gonna grid a authentic email asking what I was asking and I was reluctant at the

I was asking and I was reluctant at the

I was asking and I was reluctant at the start because I hate being the guy who

start because I hate being the guy who

start because I hate being the guy who asked for stuff right I hate being the

asked for stuff right I hate being the

asked for stuff right I hate being the guy who doesn’t provide any value and

guy who doesn’t provide any value and

guy who doesn’t provide any value and it’s just writing to somebody asking

it’s just writing to somebody asking

it’s just writing to somebody asking them for something and so I wanted to

them for something and so I wanted to

them for something and so I wanted to express that in an email and make her

express that in an email and make her

express that in an email and make her realize that I’m a genuine guy I love to

realize that I’m a genuine guy I love to

realize that I’m a genuine guy I love to help others anyway and so I’m gonna read

help others anyway and so I’m gonna read

help others anyway and so I’m gonna read you the email that I sent and I might be

you the email that I sent and I might be

you the email that I sent and I might be able to use it as a template for you

able to use it as a template for you

able to use it as a template for you guys we’re trying to reach out to people

guys we’re trying to reach out to people

guys we’re trying to reach out to people who you need to reach out to hi Joanne

who you need to reach out to hi Joanne

who you need to reach out to hi Joanne this might be one of the stranger emails

this might be one of the stranger emails

this might be one of the stranger emails you receive today my name is Evan

you receive today my name is Evan

you receive today my name is Evan Carmichael I have a popular website that

Carmichael I have a popular website that

Carmichael I have a popular website that has over 20 million people visited and a

has over 20 million people visited and a

has over 20 million people visited and a rapidly growing YouTube channel with

rapidly growing YouTube channel with

rapidly growing YouTube channel with over 5 million views I also have a radio

over 5 million views I also have a radio

over 5 million views I also have a radio show that reaches almost 600 station

show that reaches almost 600 station

show that reaches almost 600 station across America and Forbes named me one

across America and Forbes named me one

across America and Forbes named me one of the top 40 social marketing talents

of the top 40 social marketing talents

of the top 40 social marketing talents so my goal here at the start was to lead

so my goal here at the start was to lead

so my goal here at the start was to lead with something curious interesting this

with something curious interesting this

with something curious interesting this might be one of the stranger emails that

might be one of the stranger emails that

might be one of the stranger emails that you received today to make her want to

you received today to make her want to

you received today to make her want to read more and then I also included a

read more and then I also included a

read more and then I also included a little bit about me that I’m not just

little bit about me that I’m not just

little bit about me that I’m not just some guy off the street that I have some

some guy off the street that I have some

some guy off the street that I have some authority and and hopefully I’m somebody

authority and and hopefully I’m somebody

authority and and hopefully I’m somebody worth listening to continuing on I said

worth listening to continuing on I said

worth listening to continuing on I said I’m doing an interview series and I’m

I’m doing an interview series and I’m

I’m doing an interview series and I’m writing the book with a major publisher

writing the book with a major publisher

writing the book with a major publisher called one word where I’m discussing

called one word where I’m discussing

called one word where I’m discussing finding one word that you believe in to

finding one word that you believe in to

finding one word that you believe in to your core and profiling famous

your core and profiling famous

your core and profiling famous entrepreneurs who build businesses

entrepreneurs who build businesses

entrepreneurs who build businesses around their one word after reading on

around their one word after reading on

around their one word after reading on word amazing amazing amazing book did I

word amazing amazing amazing book did I

word amazing amazing amazing book did I say amazing

say amazing

say amazing I noticed these lines there’s one word

I noticed these lines there’s one word

I noticed these lines there’s one word that comes to mind when I think about

that comes to mind when I think about

that comes to mind when I think about our company and our people that word is

our company and our people that word is

our company and our people that word is love I love suburbs because everything

love I love suburbs because everything

love I love suburbs because everything we do is steeped in humanity Howard

we do is steeped in humanity Howard

we do is steeped in humanity Howard Schultz is one of my favorite

Schultz is one of my favorite

Schultz is one of my favorite entrepreneurs of all time because he has

entrepreneurs of all time because he has

entrepreneurs of all time because he has an important mission and it really

an important mission and it really

an important mission and it really stands for something powerful it’s

stands for something powerful it’s

stands for something powerful it’s inspiring and I wish every entrepreneur

inspiring and I wish every entrepreneur

inspiring and I wish every entrepreneur knew about his stories they could model

knew about his stories they could model

knew about his stories they could model him and learn from him so here now

him and learn from him so here now

him and learn from him so here now trying to show that I’ve read your book

trying to show that I’ve read your book

trying to show that I’ve read your book I really

I really

I really you it I love it it has great content

you it I love it it has great content

you it I love it it has great content I’m sending something really personal

I’m sending something really personal

I’m sending something really personal something from the heart not just some

something from the heart not just some

something from the heart not just some boilerplate you know template content

boilerplate you know template content

boilerplate you know template content that I’m asking for something right I

that I’m asking for something right I

that I’m asking for something right I really want to show that I really care

really want to show that I really care

really want to show that I really care about what she’s created and a really

about what she’s created and a really

about what she’s created and a really value her opinion then I wrote my

value her opinion then I wrote my

value her opinion then I wrote my question to you is if there is any way

question to you is if there is any way

question to you is if there is any way you’d be able to set up an introduction

you’d be able to set up an introduction

you’d be able to set up an introduction to him to see if I could interview him

to him to see if I could interview him

to him to see if I could interview him from my series on my book I know it’s a

from my series on my book I know it’s a

from my series on my book I know it’s a huge ask especially coming for a

huge ask especially coming for a

huge ask especially coming for a complete stranger and it’s totally

complete stranger and it’s totally

complete stranger and it’s totally outside my usual style doing things but

outside my usual style doing things but

outside my usual style doing things but I don’t have any other connections at

I don’t have any other connections at

I don’t have any other connections at the moment I don’t know that I have much

the moment I don’t know that I have much

the moment I don’t know that I have much to offer you in return apart from a

to offer you in return apart from a

to offer you in return apart from a heartfelt thank-you and lifelong

heartfelt thank-you and lifelong

heartfelt thank-you and lifelong gratitude I’d be happy to help parallel

gratitude I’d be happy to help parallel

gratitude I’d be happy to help parallel projects that you’re working on to my

projects that you’re working on to my

projects that you’re working on to my audience I don’t know if that’s

audience I don’t know if that’s

audience I don’t know if that’s important to you and I really hate the

important to you and I really hate the

important to you and I really hate the idea of just trading favors I guess the

idea of just trading favors I guess the

idea of just trading favors I guess the bottom line is I would really appreciate

bottom line is I would really appreciate

bottom line is I would really appreciate introduction and I would be in lifelong

introduction and I would be in lifelong

introduction and I would be in lifelong debt to you happy to help whenever I can

debt to you happy to help whenever I can

debt to you happy to help whenever I can whenever you need because you did

whenever you need because you did

whenever you need because you did something lovely for a complete stranger

something lovely for a complete stranger

something lovely for a complete stranger who’s trying to do something important

who’s trying to do something important

who’s trying to do something important and powerful for the world I’m happy to

and powerful for the world I’m happy to

and powerful for the world I’m happy to provide you more information on me the

provide you more information on me the

provide you more information on me the series the book thank you so much for

series the book thank you so much for

series the book thank you so much for consideration in your time I sincerely

consideration in your time I sincerely

consideration in your time I sincerely appreciated Cheers Evan believe so I got

appreciated Cheers Evan believe so I got

appreciated Cheers Evan believe so I got to my ask what I really wanted was a

to my ask what I really wanted was a

to my ask what I really wanted was a potential introduction to Howard Schultz

potential introduction to Howard Schultz

potential introduction to Howard Schultz obviously she knew him because she

obviously she knew him because she

obviously she knew him because she co-wrote the book with him and I really

co-wrote the book with him and I really

co-wrote the book with him and I really wanted her to feel like this is

wanted her to feel like this is

wanted her to feel like this is something that was important to me you

something that was important to me you

something that was important to me you know it’s something that I really valued

know it’s something that I really valued

know it’s something that I really valued her help with it’s not just hey hooked

her help with it’s not just hey hooked

her help with it’s not just hey hooked me up to Howard Schultz please and I

me up to Howard Schultz please and I

me up to Howard Schultz please and I really wanted her to feel like if there

really wanted her to feel like if there

really wanted her to feel like if there was anything I could do to help her

was anything I could do to help her

was anything I could do to help her just let me know you know I didn’t want

just let me know you know I didn’t want

just let me know you know I didn’t want it to feel like hey I’ll help you so you

it to feel like hey I’ll help you so you

it to feel like hey I’ll help you so you helped me I really wanted to help her if

helped me I really wanted to help her if

helped me I really wanted to help her if there was any way I could do it and and

there was any way I could do it and and

there was any way I could do it and and I would be in lifelong gratitude to her

I would be in lifelong gratitude to her

I would be in lifelong gratitude to her and she’s helping a complete stranger

and she’s helping a complete stranger

and she’s helping a complete stranger out and so I felt like this is

out and so I felt like this is

out and so I felt like this is everything I got you know this is this

everything I got you know this is this

everything I got you know this is this is me pouring it onto an email putting

is me pouring it onto an email putting

is me pouring it onto an email putting my heart out there and hopefully I get a

my heart out there and hopefully I get a

my heart out there and hopefully I get a positive response

positive response

positive response now she wrote back that same evening

now she wrote back that same evening

now she wrote back that same evening with this message hi Evan thank you for

with this message hi Evan thank you for

with this message hi Evan thank you for such a heartfelt and sincere email I’m

such a heartfelt and sincere email I’m

such a heartfelt and sincere email I’m touched at the book resonated with you

touched at the book resonated with you

touched at the book resonated with you the way it did I know you can never say

the way it did I know you can never say

the way it did I know you can never say amazing enough to an author happy face

amazing enough to an author happy face

amazing enough to an author happy face I’ve shared your email with the powers

I’ve shared your email with the powers

I’ve shared your email with the powers that be at Starbucks who handle requests

that be at Starbucks who handle requests

that be at Starbucks who handle requests such as yours for Howard someone will

such as yours for Howard someone will

such as yours for Howard someone will reach out to you and hopefully we’ll get

reach out to you and hopefully we’ll get

reach out to you and hopefully we’ll get your meeting Thanks

your meeting Thanks

your meeting Thanks for emailing and congratulations on your

for emailing and congratulations on your

for emailing and congratulations on your success best Jo n now that email made my

success best Jo n now that email made my

success best Jo n now that email made my night you know that came in just before

night you know that came in just before

night you know that came in just before midnight I opened it up and I showed my

midnight I opened it up and I showed my

midnight I opened it up and I showed my wife Lacroix she saw the email she

wife Lacroix she saw the email she

wife Lacroix she saw the email she responded she said it send it off to

responded she said it send it off to

responded she said it send it off to Howard so amazing and and regardless of

Howard so amazing and and regardless of

Howard so amazing and and regardless of if it happens or not regardless of if

if it happens or not regardless of if

if it happens or not regardless of if the PR people reach out to me it hasn’t

the PR people reach out to me it hasn’t

the PR people reach out to me it hasn’t happened yet but but even if it never

happened yet but but even if it never

happened yet but but even if it never happens the fact that Joanne was willing

happens the fact that Joanne was willing

happens the fact that Joanne was willing to do that speaks a lot to her character

to do that speaks a lot to her character

to do that speaks a lot to her character in her heart and what a wonderful person

in her heart and what a wonderful person

in her heart and what a wonderful person she is even though I’ve never met her

she is even though I’ve never met her

she is even though I’ve never met her just had this brief email discussion

just had this brief email discussion

just had this brief email discussion with her but for those of you who are

with her but for those of you who are

with her but for those of you who are trying to reach out to somebody who you

trying to reach out to somebody who you

trying to reach out to somebody who you feel like you really need to make this

feel like you really need to make this

feel like you really need to make this connection to grow your business you

connection to grow your business you

connection to grow your business you know you could start with your personal

know you could start with your personal

know you could start with your personal connections you can start with the

connections you can start with the

connections you can start with the social media and if it doesn’t work then

social media and if it doesn’t work then

social media and if it doesn’t work then just be passionate that’s the difference

just be passionate that’s the difference

just be passionate that’s the difference right be heartfelt be passionate do your

right be heartfelt be passionate do your

right be heartfelt be passionate do your research

research

research let the person know that you really

let the person know that you really

let the person know that you really value this time and you really want to

value this time and you really want to

value this time and you really want to make that connection and if you are

make that connection and if you are

make that connection and if you are putting your heart on your sleep like

putting your heart on your sleep like

putting your heart on your sleep like that you’re making it really really

that you’re making it really really

that you’re making it really really really difficult for somebody to say no

really difficult for somebody to say no

really difficult for somebody to say no to you and when you are genuine people

to you and when you are genuine people

to you and when you are genuine people will want to work with you so that’s my

will want to work with you so that’s my

will want to work with you so that’s my story hopefully that helped you and I’ll

story hopefully that helped you and I’ll

story hopefully that helped you and I’ll share the contents of my email in the

share the contents of my email in the

share the contents of my email in the description so you can have a template

description so you can have a template

description so you can have a template if you want to kind of look at and model

if you want to kind of look at and model

if you want to kind of look at and model and follow and that’s it for today thank

and follow and that’s it for today thank

and follow and that’s it for today thank you guys so much for watching a special

you guys so much for watching a special

you guys so much for watching a special thank you to Joanne for responding and

thank you to Joanne for responding and

thank you to Joanne for responding and being such an amazing human being and

being such an amazing human being and

being such an amazing human being and for those of you watching I’d love to

for those of you watching I’d love to

for those of you watching I’d love to know who you’ve reached out to or how

know who you’ve reached out to or how

know who you’ve reached out to or how you’ve reached out to complete strangers

you’ve reached out to complete strangers

you’ve reached out to complete strangers or if you have a fear of reaching out to

or if you have a fear of reaching out to

or if you have a fear of reaching out to complete strangers leave a comment below

complete strangers leave a comment below

complete strangers leave a comment below I’d love to see the discussion get going

I’d love to see the discussion get going

I’d love to see the discussion get going I’m going to join in that conversation

I’m going to join in that conversation

I’m going to join in that conversation as well thank you everybody so much for

as well thank you everybody so much for

as well thank you everybody so much for watching if you like this video you want

watching if you like this video you want

watching if you like this video you want to see more don’t forget to subscribe to

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