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How to overcome your FEAR to try – Evan & @SKellyCEO


dab in white I have no idea how to start

dab in white I have no idea how to start a business I’m scared to try I fear that

a business I’m scared to try I fear that

a business I’m scared to try I fear that investors will either not take me

investors will either not take me

investors will either not take me seriously or I will have been taking

seriously or I will have been taking

seriously or I will have been taking advantage of somehow I have faith in my

advantage of somehow I have faith in my

advantage of somehow I have faith in my idea but not my ability to make it a

idea but not my ability to make it a

idea but not my ability to make it a reality I just got a number one take

reality I just got a number one take

reality I just got a number one take that word behind Evan believe right so

that word behind Evan believe right so

that word behind Evan believe right so kind of let’s not get the sequence wrong

kind of let’s not get the sequence wrong

kind of let’s not get the sequence wrong as well forget the investors focus on

as well forget the investors focus on

as well forget the investors focus on the idea if the idea and then focus on

the idea if the idea and then focus on

the idea if the idea and then focus on who the target customers are if you’ve

who the target customers are if you’ve

who the target customers are if you’ve got those right investors will flopped

got those right investors will flopped

got those right investors will flopped you you don’t have to worry about those

you you don’t have to worry about those

you you don’t have to worry about those guys you’ll have money chasing you

guys you’ll have money chasing you

guys you’ll have money chasing you everywhere but you don’t want that

everywhere but you don’t want that

everywhere but you don’t want that because that’s just the wrong ethos for

because that’s just the wrong ethos for

because that’s just the wrong ethos for building a business you want to start

building a business you want to start

building a business you want to start with the idea then go and find the

with the idea then go and find the

with the idea then go and find the customers refine the idea to have a

customers refine the idea to have a

customers refine the idea to have a winning product or a service and then

winning product or a service and then

winning product or a service and then you can always find money for great

you can always find money for great

you can always find money for great businesses and growth businesses that’s

businesses and growth businesses that’s

businesses and growth businesses that’s the least your problems I’m probably

the least your problems I’m probably

the least your problems I’m probably actually have on one of these we should

actually have on one of these we should

actually have on one of these we should do how do you find kind of growth money

do how do you find kind of growth money

do how do you find kind of growth money and growth capital and all those sort of

and growth capital and all those sort of

and growth capital and all those sort of things because there’s a whole topic in

things because there’s a whole topic in

things because there’s a whole topic in itself but the last thing to do is go to

itself but the last thing to do is go to

itself but the last thing to do is go to the investors focus focus focus on the

the investors focus focus focus on the

the investors focus focus focus on the idea and get the business going do it

idea and get the business going do it

idea and get the business going do it now JD I yeah that was the theme of the

now JD I yeah that was the theme of the

now JD I yeah that was the theme of the show I like it I mean I couette totally

show I like it I mean I couette totally

show I like it I mean I couette totally agree you’ll get destroyed on your

agree you’ll get destroyed on your

agree you’ll get destroyed on your valuation if you take money before you

valuation if you take money before you

valuation if you take money before you have any kind of momentum behind it and

have any kind of momentum behind it and

have any kind of momentum behind it and you spend your whole time trying to

you spend your whole time trying to

you spend your whole time trying to raise money instead of actually trying

raise money instead of actually trying

raise money instead of actually trying to build a company um the thing I would

to build a company um the thing I would

to build a company um the thing I would say to add is when you start anything

say to add is when you start anything

say to add is when you start anything you’re afraid right like you want to

you’re afraid right like you want to

you’re afraid right like you want to learn snowboarding you’re afraid of

learn snowboarding you’re afraid of

learn snowboarding you’re afraid of going down that hill or get enough for

going down that hill or get enough for

going down that hill or get enough for me was getting off the chairlift was

me was getting off the chairlift was

me was getting off the chairlift was freaking me out because you only have

freaking me out because you only have

freaking me out because you only have one foot on the support i was falling

one foot on the support i was falling

one foot on the support i was falling down every time but anything anything

down every time but anything anything

down every time but anything anything that you try for the first time you’re

that you try for the first time you’re

that you try for the first time you’re going to be afraid to do and then once

going to be afraid to do and then once

going to be afraid to do and then once you start doing it it’s not that bad it

you start doing it it’s not that bad it

you start doing it it’s not that bad it doesn’t seem as bad as this huge fear

doesn’t seem as bad as this huge fear

doesn’t seem as bad as this huge fear that you set up in your head and so it

that you set up in your head and so it

that you set up in your head and so it may help us to look at all the other

may help us to look at all the other

may help us to look at all the other things that you try to do whether it was

things that you try to do whether it was

things that you try to do whether it was you know asking that girl out or

you know asking that girl out or

you know asking that girl out or learning that new language you’re going

learning that new language you’re going

learning that new language you’re going to that new country whatever it is uh

to that new country whatever it is uh

to that new country whatever it is uh you had

you had

you had fear and you overcame it and once you

fear and you overcame it and once you

fear and you overcame it and once you did it you realize it wasn’t that hard

did it you realize it wasn’t that hard

did it you realize it wasn’t that hard it’s the same thing with business just

it’s the same thing with business just

it’s the same thing with business just start there’s no right first step are

start there’s no right first step are

start there’s no right first step are you going to make mistakes you don’t

you going to make mistakes you don’t

you going to make mistakes you don’t need to get the investors yet the link

need to get the investors yet the link

need to get the investors yet the link it’s this huge big thing just take one

it’s this huge big thing just take one

it’s this huge big thing just take one step after another after another after

step after another after another after

step after another after another after another and those little steps will add

another and those little steps will add

another and those little steps will add up to big steps hey vlv Evan obviously

up to big steps hey vlv Evan obviously

up to big steps hey vlv Evan obviously people can listen to you because you

people can listen to you because you

people can listen to you because you inspire people but there’s a couple of

inspire people but there’s a couple of

inspire people but there’s a couple of armed examples both service people so we

armed examples both service people so we

armed examples both service people so we talked about will we’ve got a lot of

talked about will we’ve got a lot of

talked about will we’ve got a lot of people in here Vitas games have had

people in here Vitas games have had

people in here Vitas games have had stuff like their legs blown off and

stuff like their legs blown off and

stuff like their legs blown off and there are saying I’m gonna be successful

there are saying I’m gonna be successful

there are saying I’m gonna be successful as an entrepreneur so if those kinds can

as an entrepreneur so if those kinds can

as an entrepreneur so if those kinds can do it wow you can do it you should have

do it wow you can do it you should have

do it wow you can do it you should have no fear the other guy who’s had almost

no fear the other guy who’s had almost

no fear the other guy who’s had almost three careers amazing it was in the

three careers amazing it was in the

three careers amazing it was in the military guy called Justin back Shaw

military guy called Justin back Shaw

military guy called Justin back Shaw amazing guy Ted speaker but then he

amazing guy Ted speaker but then he

amazing guy Ted speaker but then he became an explorer and adventurer and he

became an explorer and adventurer and he

became an explorer and adventurer and he climbed Everest I think he’s sailed

climbed Everest I think he’s sailed

climbed Everest I think he’s sailed around the world he’s been to the North

around the world he’s been to the North

around the world he’s been to the North Pole South Pole multiple times he’s

Pole South Pole multiple times he’s

Pole South Pole multiple times he’s taken disabled service people on these

taken disabled service people on these

taken disabled service people on these expeditions and made them believe and

expeditions and made them believe and

expeditions and made them believe and I’m but overcome matical physical

I’m but overcome matical physical

I’m but overcome matical physical disabilities and he also runs he’s got a

disabilities and he also runs he’s got a

disabilities and he also runs he’s got a really nice jewelry business high

really nice jewelry business high

really nice jewelry business high quality in London town so he also said

quality in London town so he also said

quality in London town so he also said to me is you know when you’re getting up

to me is you know when you’re getting up

to me is you know when you’re getting up Everest it’s not about getting up is

Everest it’s not about getting up is

Everest it’s not about getting up is about coming down I think one in six

about coming down I think one in six

about coming down I think one in six people died coming down on something

people died coming down on something

people died coming down on something crazy like that and the mission for

crazy like that and the mission for

crazy like that and the mission for everybody in business is almost like an

everybody in business is almost like an

everybody in business is almost like an analogy that comes from exploring is

analogy that comes from exploring is

analogy that comes from exploring is you’ve got to get everybody safely

you’ve got to get everybody safely

you’ve got to get everybody safely landed and safely down and he said when

landed and safely down and he said when

landed and safely down and he said when you’ve dealt with the fear of facing

you’ve dealt with the fear of facing

you’ve dealt with the fear of facing death so bleakly and you know storms

death so bleakly and you know storms

death so bleakly and you know storms coming in you should have no fear in

coming in you should have no fear in

coming in you should have no fear in your business so I think I you know just

your business so I think I you know just

your business so I think I you know just when you when you look at these people

when you when you look at these people

when you when you look at these people there’s so many inspirational people out

there’s so many inspirational people out

there’s so many inspirational people out there and you just got over your

there and you just got over your

there and you just got over your fear and the way you do that is always

fear and the way you do that is always

fear and the way you do that is always take your first step you know we could

take your first step you know we could

take your first step you know we could quote Martin Luther King how do you

quote Martin Luther King how do you

quote Martin Luther King how do you climb a giant staircase you just take

climb a giant staircase you just take

climb a giant staircase you just take the first step you just got to take the

the first step you just got to take the

the first step you just got to take the first step next Monday just think how

first step next Monday just think how

first step next Monday just think how you gonna do it build your product take

you gonna do it build your product take

you gonna do it build your product take your idea to market go and test it go

your idea to market go and test it go

your idea to market go and test it go and share with friends and family and

and share with friends and family and

and share with friends and family and and then

and then

and then you build confidence and then you find

you build confidence and then you find

you build confidence and then you find out what will work you refine your idea

out what will work you refine your idea

out what will work you refine your idea your course correct and you’ll have a

your course correct and you’ll have a

your course correct and you’ll have a product that’s a winner in the

product that’s a winner in the

product that’s a winner in the marketplace ego believe what really

marketplace ego believe what really

marketplace ego believe what really helped me in my company because I didn’t

helped me in my company because I didn’t

helped me in my company because I didn’t mind you know my parents weren’t

mind you know my parents weren’t

mind you know my parents weren’t entrepreneurs I didn’t have any

entrepreneurs I didn’t have any

entrepreneurs I didn’t have any entrepreneur friends and have a uncle

entrepreneur friends and have a uncle

entrepreneur friends and have a uncle joe who could guide me uh I just wanted

joe who could guide me uh I just wanted

joe who could guide me uh I just wanted myself with stories of successful

myself with stories of successful

myself with stories of successful entrepreneurs and how they got started

entrepreneurs and how they got started

entrepreneurs and how they got started and every morning I would read a quick

and every morning I would read a quick

and every morning I would read a quick story but a famous entrepreneur how they

story but a famous entrepreneur how they

story but a famous entrepreneur how they got started and you know how they

got started and you know how they

got started and you know how they usually had nothing and it provided me

usually had nothing and it provided me

usually had nothing and it provided me with both the motivation to keep going

with both the motivation to keep going

with both the motivation to keep going and it’s like if they could do it than I

and it’s like if they could do it than I

and it’s like if they could do it than I could do it and also some strategies for

could do it and also some strategies for

could do it and also some strategies for like ideas of what I could do because

like ideas of what I could do because

like ideas of what I could do because you don’t really learn this stuff in

you don’t really learn this stuff in

you don’t really learn this stuff in school and so that really really helped

school and so that really really helped

school and so that really really helped me and so having an environment that you

me and so having an environment that you

me and so having an environment that you create it’s only easier now there’s so

create it’s only easier now there’s so

create it’s only easier now there’s so many YouTube videos out there’s so many

many YouTube videos out there’s so many

many YouTube videos out there’s so many books you can read something kind of

books you can read something kind of

books you can read something kind of daily to get you going to motivate you

daily to get you going to motivate you

daily to get you going to motivate you and make you believe in yourself I think

and make you believe in yourself I think

and make you believe in yourself I think it’s crucial for any entrepreneur

it’s crucial for any entrepreneur

it’s crucial for any entrepreneur because it’s a hard lonely game this if

because it’s a hard lonely game this if

because it’s a hard lonely game this if you have to start when you have any

you have to start when you have any

you have to start when you have any momentum building up so creating an

momentum building up so creating an

momentum building up so creating an environment for greatness is a super

environment for greatness is a super

environment for greatness is a super important in my opinion if there’s any

important in my opinion if there’s any

important in my opinion if there’s any kids out there you know you’re twelve

kids out there you know you’re twelve

kids out there you know you’re twelve thirteen fourteen listening today then I

thirteen fourteen listening today then I

thirteen fourteen listening today then I would say there’s some amazing network

would say there’s some amazing network

would say there’s some amazing network setup one is junior achievers where we

setup one is junior achievers where we

setup one is junior achievers where we sponsor those guys across the US and

sponsor those guys across the US and

sponsor those guys across the US and across the world again what we the links

across the world again what we the links

across the world again what we the links but they’ve got a whole environment

but they’ve got a whole environment

but they’ve got a whole environment they’ve got these I’m simulated towns

they’ve got these I’m simulated towns

they’ve got these I’m simulated towns where you can start up your own business

where you can start up your own business

where you can start up your own business and there’s loads of entrepreneurs

and there’s loads of entrepreneurs

and there’s loads of entrepreneurs around to help you and also they can set

around to help you and also they can set

around to help you and also they can set up mentoring so if you don’t have a

up mentoring so if you don’t have a

up mentoring so if you don’t have a network or a family of entrepreneurs

network or a family of entrepreneurs

network or a family of entrepreneurs there’s loads of different ways to

there’s loads of different ways to

there’s loads of different ways to actually get that so don’t feel

actually get that so don’t feel

actually get that so don’t feel constrained and go out and find the

constrained and go out and find the

constrained and go out and find the people who are going to help you and

people who are going to help you and

people who are going to help you and again there’s so many voices in your

again there’s so many voices in your

again there’s so many voices in your head to tell you people won’t be

head to tell you people won’t be

head to tell you people won’t be prepared to give you their time people

prepared to give you their time people

prepared to give you their time people love to see young kids succeed people

love to see young kids succeed people

love to see young kids succeed people love to be asked to help young

love to be asked to help young

love to be asked to help young entrepreneurs so go and ask people

entrepreneurs so go and ask people

entrepreneurs so go and ask people people you respect people you can learn

people you respect people you can learn

people you respect people you can learn from and people who have made a lot of

from and people who have made a lot of

from and people who have made a lot of mistakes in their own careers of

mistakes in their own careers of

mistakes in their own careers of entrepreneurship

entrepreneurship

entrepreneurship help you kind of navigate a really

help you kind of navigate a really

help you kind of navigate a really successful path

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