Valley wrote in a long post basically one drain she’s basically worried about
one drain she’s basically worried about
one drain she’s basically worried about that her store is going to be on there
that her store is going to be on there
that her store is going to be on there forever and then you’re gonna be up
forever and then you’re gonna be up
forever and then you’re gonna be up there we wouldn’t look at it you know no
there we wouldn’t look at it you know no
there we wouldn’t look at it you know no way to take it down how do you kind of
way to take it down how do you kind of
way to take it down how do you kind of get over that fear of being so public
get over that fear of being so public
get over that fear of being so public and open that your story is there
and open that your story is there
and open that your story is there forever from Valerie well I think
forever from Valerie well I think
forever from Valerie well I think Valerie’s it’s a valid element once you
Valerie’s it’s a valid element once you
Valerie’s it’s a valid element once you post something on on the internet it is
post something on on the internet it is
post something on on the internet it is there forever so just need to be I think
there forever so just need to be I think
there forever so just need to be I think thoughtful and careful about what you
thoughtful and careful about what you
thoughtful and careful about what you want to post and something you know it’s
want to post and something you know it’s
want to post and something you know it’s almost cancer yourself and visualize
almost cancer yourself and visualize
almost cancer yourself and visualize yourself in the future and if you came
yourself in the future and if you came
yourself in the future and if you came back and read what you’ve written today
back and read what you’ve written today
back and read what you’ve written today would you feel proud of it I think it’s
would you feel proud of it I think it’s
would you feel proud of it I think it’s really important to be authentic the
really important to be authentic the
really important to be authentic the other thing I’d say is you know again in
other thing I’d say is you know again in
other thing I’d say is you know again in this world a profession that we all live
this world a profession that we all live
this world a profession that we all live in you know people the authentic people
in you know people the authentic people
in you know people the authentic people have vulnerabilities and they share
have vulnerabilities and they share
have vulnerabilities and they share their vulnerabilities and I think you
their vulnerabilities and I think you
their vulnerabilities and I think you know in terms of telling your stories
know in terms of telling your stories
know in terms of telling your stories riya gehen emotionally humans connect to
riya gehen emotionally humans connect to
riya gehen emotionally humans connect to people who show vulnerabilities people
people who show vulnerabilities people
people who show vulnerabilities people who you know like superman and
who you know like superman and
who you know like superman and superwoman who are perfect you know they
superwoman who are perfect you know they
superwoman who are perfect you know they kind of repel people people who show
kind of repel people people who show
kind of repel people people who show that vulnerability draw people towards
that vulnerability draw people towards
that vulnerability draw people towards them and especially if you’re connecting
them and especially if you’re connecting
them and especially if you’re connecting the heart and the head you know you
the heart and the head you know you
the heart and the head you know you connect the emotion you bring people
connect the emotion you bring people
connect the emotion you bring people with you so I’d be advocate a massive
with you so I’d be advocate a massive
with you so I’d be advocate a massive advocate for sharing your story turn
advocate for sharing your story turn
advocate for sharing your story turn your vulnerability and be really clear
your vulnerability and be really clear
your vulnerability and be really clear about how you can help other people I
about how you can help other people I
about how you can help other people I like you who’ve got a product or
like you who’ve got a product or
like you who’ve got a product or services neither you can provide I think
services neither you can provide I think
services neither you can provide I think one of the hardest parts of sharing your
one of the hardest parts of sharing your
one of the hardest parts of sharing your story is worrying about being judged and
story is worrying about being judged and
story is worrying about being judged and being ashamed of certain parts of your
being ashamed of certain parts of your
being ashamed of certain parts of your story right let back to one of the
story right let back to one of the
story right let back to one of the people’s questions about overeating now
people’s questions about overeating now
people’s questions about overeating now you have to you know admit that you’re
you have to you know admit that you’re
you have to you know admit that you’re an overeater and share all the deep
an overeater and share all the deep
an overeater and share all the deep things that you get stressed out over
things that you get stressed out over
things that you get stressed out over and that’s what causes overeating like
and that’s what causes overeating like
and that’s what causes overeating like that’s the juice that’s going to connect
that’s the juice that’s going to connect
that’s the juice that’s going to connect me to your story really deeply right
me to your story really deeply right
me to your story really deeply right like if your parents got divorced and
like if your parents got divorced and
like if your parents got divorced and you know mistreated you or whatever it
you know mistreated you or whatever it
you know mistreated you or whatever it was like if that’s what led you to that
was like if that’s what led you to that
was like if that’s what led you to that moment that’s what connects with me but
moment that’s what connects with me but
moment that’s what connects with me but it’s also the hard
it’s also the hard
it’s also the hard it’s like deepest moment that you have
it’s like deepest moment that you have
it’s like deepest moment that you have to share and expose and it’s having the
to share and expose and it’s having the
to share and expose and it’s having the courage to do that and yes some people
courage to do that and yes some people
courage to do that and yes some people will judge you you know if nobody is
will judge you you know if nobody is
will judge you you know if nobody is judging you there’s no uh if there’s no
judging you there’s no uh if there’s no
judging you there’s no uh if there’s no fear then it’s you’ve lived it so safe
fear then it’s you’ve lived it so safe
fear then it’s you’ve lived it so safe you’ve written something so safe that
you’ve written something so safe that
you’ve written something so safe that it’s not impacting anybody so some
it’s not impacting anybody so some
it’s not impacting anybody so some people will judge you that’s okay and
people will judge you that’s okay and
people will judge you that’s okay and you are the champion of truth for your
you are the champion of truth for your
you are the champion of truth for your people right like you started this
people right like you started this
people right like you started this business your visionary you’re an
business your visionary you’re an
business your visionary you’re an entrepreneur you’re leading the way in
entrepreneur you’re leading the way in
entrepreneur you’re leading the way in some paths and people who’ve lived that
some paths and people who’ve lived that
some paths and people who’ve lived that same story or going through the same
same story or going through the same
same story or going through the same problems that you went through before
problems that you went through before
problems that you went through before they want to rally around you and
they want to rally around you and
they want to rally around you and they’ll do that by understanding your
they’ll do that by understanding your
they’ll do that by understanding your story and so it’s a to see this point
story and so it’s a to see this point
story and so it’s a to see this point about being vulnerable and being open
about being vulnerable and being open
about being vulnerable and being open that’s where that’s where the real juice
that’s where that’s where the real juice
that’s where that’s where the real juice is that’s that’s the heart of it if you
is that’s that’s the heart of it if you
is that’s that’s the heart of it if you gloss over it then the story won’t have
gloss over it then the story won’t have
gloss over it then the story won’t have the impact and so part of telling your
the impact and so part of telling your
the impact and so part of telling your story is being prepared for a little bit
story is being prepared for a little bit
story is being prepared for a little bit of a judgment but for the most part
of a judgment but for the most part
of a judgment but for the most part every time I put something up it’s it’s
every time I put something up it’s it’s
every time I put something up it’s it’s 95 99 percent positive um so just like
95 99 percent positive um so just like
95 99 percent positive um so just like as you get bigger you’re gonna get
as you get bigger you’re gonna get
as you get bigger you’re gonna get haters it means you’re doing something
haters it means you’re doing something
haters it means you’re doing something right means you’re doing something
right means you’re doing something
right means you’re doing something important yeah as you get most
important yeah as you get most
important yeah as you get most successful you’ll get more critics the
successful you’ll get more critics the
successful you’ll get more critics the other day I was we were a massage
other day I was we were a massage
other day I was we were a massage foundation event last week up in the
foundation event last week up in the
foundation event last week up in the north of England we had 75 kids from
north of England we had 75 kids from
north of England we had 75 kids from disadvantaged backgrounds between about
disadvantaged backgrounds between about
disadvantaged backgrounds between about 11 and 25 and the old ethos of them is
11 and 25 and the old ethos of them is
11 and 25 and the old ethos of them is they came in to sort of do pictures and
they came in to sort of do pictures and
they came in to sort of do pictures and and these kids just are ah they were so
and these kids just are ah they were so
and these kids just are ah they were so inspiring because they told their story
inspiring because they told their story
inspiring because they told their story that was so authentic there just to
that was so authentic there just to
that was so authentic there just to Evans point they told about their own
Evans point they told about their own
Evans point they told about their own personal story the tragedies that
personal story the tragedies that
personal story the tragedies that overcome all the difficulties they had
overcome all the difficulties they had
overcome all the difficulties they had and honestly you just could you could
and honestly you just could you could
and honestly you just could you could drop a pin in that room and like I was
drop a pin in that room and like I was
drop a pin in that room and like I was leaning forward I just wanted to know
leaning forward I just wanted to know
leaning forward I just wanted to know more about these kids and their story so
more about these kids and their story so
more about these kids and their story so I think you’ve got to be honest you’ve
I think you’ve got to be honest you’ve
I think you’ve got to be honest you’ve got to be open you’ve gotta have that
got to be open you’ve gotta have that
got to be open you’ve gotta have that sense of vulnerability that’s relevant
sense of vulnerability that’s relevant
sense of vulnerability that’s relevant to your story
to your story
to your story because the reality is again people are
because the reality is again people are
because the reality is again people are people as humans and people are
people as humans and people are
people as humans and people are compassionate people want to build by
compassionate people want to build by
compassionate people want to build by awesome products from entrepreneurs like
awesome products from entrepreneurs like
awesome products from entrepreneurs like on this I you know Google how now that
on this I you know Google how now that
on this I you know Google how now that are really good to meet the needs
are really good to meet the needs
are really good to meet the needs because you’ve been there you’ve lived
because you’ve been there you’ve lived
because you’ve been there you’ve lived their anger or the gap in the market
their anger or the gap in the market
their anger or the gap in the market you’ve identified there and you’ve
you’ve identified there and you’ve
you’ve identified there and you’ve connected your story to the community
connected your story to the community
connected your story to the community you’ve made that connection and I think
you’ve made that connection and I think
you’ve made that connection and I think very much part of that Valerie’s is your
very much part of that Valerie’s is your
very much part of that Valerie’s is your personality and you want to bring it out
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