goodmorning believes nation today we’re going to talk about how to deal with
going to talk about how to deal with
going to talk about how to deal with haters lesson number four is our
haters lesson number four is our
haters lesson number four is our personal favorite and make sure to stick
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people are talking if they taste help them it really resonates with you please
them it really resonates with you please
them it really resonates with you please leave it in the comments below and put
leave it in the comments below and put
leave it in the comments below and put quotes around it so other people can be
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what I love my aliens because my haters
what I love my aliens because my haters are gonna show me things my friends and
are gonna show me things my friends and
are gonna show me things my friends and my family not gonna tell me here is it
my family not gonna tell me here is it
my family not gonna tell me here is it going to be very quick like they’re
going to be very quick like they’re
going to be very quick like they’re haters because they said it you so they
haters because they said it you so they
haters because they said it you so they know a thing or two about you and so you
know a thing or two about you and so you
know a thing or two about you and so you can all communicate it it’s like any
can all communicate it it’s like any
can all communicate it it’s like any information can be recycled but I don’t
information can be recycled but I don’t
information can be recycled but I don’t allow my haters to penetrate my spirit I
allow my haters to penetrate my spirit I
allow my haters to penetrate my spirit I don’t allow them to throw me off of my
don’t allow them to throw me off of my
don’t allow them to throw me off of my plans and like you if I got a hater I’m
plans and like you if I got a hater I’m
plans and like you if I got a hater I’m not saying well my hate I always found
not saying well my hate I always found
not saying well my hate I always found talking about oh I don’t waste time you
talking about oh I don’t waste time you
talking about oh I don’t waste time you know getting engaged in the stuff that
know getting engaged in the stuff that
know getting engaged in the stuff that they want me to get a day I say focus
they want me to get a day I say focus
they want me to get a day I say focus and do it I’m supposed to do but I
and do it I’m supposed to do but I
and do it I’m supposed to do but I listen to them to see is there anything
listen to them to see is there anything
listen to them to see is there anything there same as proper that I can adjust
there’s four things when some gives you
there’s four things when some gives you feedback or criticism however its
feedback or criticism however its
feedback or criticism however its intended whether ill are positive and so
intended whether ill are positive and so
intended whether ill are positive and so one is not to take it in but to kind of
one is not to take it in but to kind of
one is not to take it in but to kind of catch it I think it’s like a catcher’s
catch it I think it’s like a catcher’s
catch it I think it’s like a catcher’s mitt if you tell me something you come
mitt if you tell me something you come
mitt if you tell me something you come across this way I’ll grab it and then
across this way I’ll grab it and then
across this way I’ll grab it and then I’ll look at it and I’ll think okay is
I’ll look at it and I’ll think okay is
I’ll look at it and I’ll think okay is it true it’s true cool I’ll put it in
it true it’s true cool I’ll put it in
it true it’s true cool I’ll put it in and learn from it I think it’s not true
and learn from it I think it’s not true
and learn from it I think it’s not true cool I’ll throw it away no harm no foul
cool I’ll throw it away no harm no foul
cool I’ll throw it away no harm no foul I’m not going to dwell on it right and I
I’m not going to dwell on it right and I
I’m not going to dwell on it right and I think everybody needs us in this world
think everybody needs us in this world
think everybody needs us in this world because we’re all on most of us are in
because we’re all on most of us are in
because we’re all on most of us are in social media and we’re all getting Slyke
social media and we’re all getting Slyke
social media and we’re all getting Slyke you know all our stocks are getting
you know all our stocks are getting
you know all our stocks are getting picked apart you know all the times who
picked apart you know all the times who
picked apart you know all the times who really need this more than ever then the
really need this more than ever then the
really need this more than ever then the third one is you get it and it’s a maybe
third one is you get it and it’s a maybe
third one is you get it and it’s a maybe well I’m not sure you said this about me
well I’m not sure you said this about me
well I’m not sure you said this about me and not sure you know what you guys
and not sure you know what you guys
and not sure you know what you guys think you know what do you think I lost
think you know what do you think I lost
think you know what do you think I lost my friends and asked other people and
my friends and asked other people and
my friends and asked other people and get some feedback and if it’s true well
get some feedback and if it’s true well
get some feedback and if it’s true well cool maybe I’ll learn from if everyone’s
cool maybe I’ll learn from if everyone’s
cool maybe I’ll learn from if everyone’s like this is total nonsense ignore that
like this is total nonsense ignore that
like this is total nonsense ignore that dude I throw it out then dip it under
dude I throw it out then dip it under
dude I throw it out then dip it under the fourth one and this is where the
the fourth one and this is where the
the fourth one and this is where the real growth is do you know what the
real growth is do you know what the
real growth is do you know what the fourth one is the fourth one is you get
fourth one is the fourth one is you get
fourth one is the fourth one is you get it you throw it out I’m talking to you
it you throw it out I’m talking to you
it you throw it out I’m talking to you in the mid to later I’m talking to you
in the mid to later I’m talking to you
in the mid to later I’m talking to you know you I get it and I’m like now it’s
know you I get it and I’m like now it’s
know you I get it and I’m like now it’s not sure I throw it out and later I’m
not sure I throw it out and later I’m
not sure I throw it out and later I’m talking to someone else I get it it’s a
talking to someone else I get it it’s a
talking to someone else I get it it’s a third time it’s come back to rest Oregon
third time it’s come back to rest Oregon
third time it’s come back to rest Oregon I’m like wait maybe I got to take this
I’m like wait maybe I got to take this
I’m like wait maybe I got to take this thing a little ornery and it becomes it
thing a little ornery and it becomes it
thing a little ornery and it becomes it maybe and then it becomes a yes and
maybe and then it becomes a yes and
maybe and then it becomes a yes and that’s when the big real thing is
that’s when the big real thing is
that’s when the big real thing is because you kept ignoring this thing
because you kept ignoring this thing
because you kept ignoring this thing that was in your face so the best
that was in your face so the best
that was in your face so the best feedback like where you really grow if
feedback like where you really grow if
feedback like where you really grow if you keep getting the same feedback you
you keep getting the same feedback you
you keep getting the same feedback you keep dismissing it at some point you say
keep dismissing it at some point you say
keep dismissing it at some point you say wait maybe they have something so one
wait maybe they have something so one
wait maybe they have something so one way I do this is I get together a group
way I do this is I get together a group
way I do this is I get together a group of people and we sit together once a
of people and we sit together once a
of people and we sit together once a week and talk about the stuff going on
week and talk about the stuff going on
week and talk about the stuff going on our lives
our lives
our lives I find group therapy really powerful
I find group therapy really powerful
I find group therapy really powerful because if it’s just one-on-one I can
because if it’s just one-on-one I can
because if it’s just one-on-one I can just say I disagree with you but when
just say I disagree with you but when
just say I disagree with you but when four or five people are saying hey dude
four or five people are saying hey dude
four or five people are saying hey dude no you’re really coming off like that or
no you’re really coming off like that or
no you’re really coming off like that or you’re really having this problem your
you’re really having this problem your
you’re really having this problem your relationship and maybe need to look at
relationship and maybe need to look at
relationship and maybe need to look at it and five people are saying it like
it and five people are saying it like
it and five people are saying it like it’s pretty hard to dismiss them Prince
it’s pretty hard to dismiss them Prince
it’s pretty hard to dismiss them Prince as we was taking his last breath there’s
as we was taking his last breath there’s
as we was taking his last breath there’s a big shout out to print them a huge fan
a big shout out to print them a huge fan
a big shout out to print them a huge fan I don’t think Prince cared what
I don’t think Prince cared what
I don’t think Prince cared what Billboard magazine said or what anybody
Billboard magazine said or what anybody
Billboard magazine said or what anybody said it’s just the way it is it’s the
said it’s just the way it is it’s the
said it’s just the way it is it’s the way it is and so it’s through this plea
way it is and so it’s through this plea
way it is and so it’s through this plea on this show onto a one on a Monday in
on this show onto a one on a Monday in
on this show onto a one on a Monday in late spring if I could get four of you
late spring if I could get four of you
late spring if I could get four of you to understand I could get four of you to
to understand I could get four of you to
to understand I could get four of you to understand it’s just not going to matter
understand it’s just not going to matter
understand it’s just not going to matter people I mean I love them people I’m
people I mean I love them people I’m
people I mean I love them people I’m vitally notice to tell you I’m going to
vitally notice to tell you I’m going to
vitally notice to tell you I’m going to say it very clear I just let Stefan get
say it very clear I just let Stefan get
say it very clear I just let Stefan get very focused here because I want to
very focused here because I want to
very focused here because I want to really deliver this with all the drama
really deliver this with all the drama
really deliver this with all the drama that it deserves and I like when people
that it deserves and I like when people
that it deserves and I like when people put me down I get off on when people put
put me down I get off on when people put
put me down I get off on when people put me down
me down
me down nothing is more interesting to me than
nothing is more interesting to me than
nothing is more interesting to me than to prove all of you wrong I love the
to prove all of you wrong I love the
to prove all of you wrong I love the people that think I’m a huckster or I’ve
people that think I’m a huckster or I’ve
people that think I’m a huckster or I’ve got some hidden agenda or I’m not that
got some hidden agenda or I’m not that
got some hidden agenda or I’m not that good or I won’t be that great or I think
good or I won’t be that great or I think
good or I won’t be that great or I think too big of myself or my dad at a liquor
too big of myself or my dad at a liquor
too big of myself or my dad at a liquor store and that’s the only reason I’m
store and that’s the only reason I’m
store and that’s the only reason I’m successful or I got lucky or does this
successful or I got lucky or does this
successful or I got lucky or does this desk asbestos that the depth of does
desk asbestos that the depth of does
desk asbestos that the depth of does that show me like please Eve please
that show me like please Eve please
that show me like please Eve please continue to judge me and underestimate
continue to judge me and underestimate
continue to judge me and underestimate me because it’s the only driver I have
me because it’s the only driver I have
me because it’s the only driver I have and that’s how I’m wired and I don’t
and that’s how I’m wired and I don’t
and that’s how I’m wired and I don’t expect all of you to be wired that way
expect all of you to be wired that way
expect all of you to be wired that way but if I can through my energy move any
but if I can through my energy move any
but if I can through my energy move any of you and trust me I’m reading your
of you and trust me I’m reading your
of you and trust me I’m reading your comments because your comments on my
comments because your comments on my
comments because your comments on my oxygen and I see so many of you so many
oxygen and I see so many of you so many
oxygen and I see so many of you so many comments over the last three or four
comments over the last three or four
comments over the last three or four months of people saying hmm I’ve got a
months of people saying hmm I’ve got a
months of people saying hmm I’ve got a little more cockiness or confidence than
little more cockiness or confidence than
little more cockiness or confidence than I used to remember I seen you guys
I used to remember I seen you guys
I used to remember I seen you guys actually see my inner circle have more
actually see my inner circle have more
actually see my inner circle have more confidence when they were like it just
confidence when they were like it just
confidence when they were like it just rubs off I mean you’re getting cocky
rubs off I mean you’re getting cocky
rubs off I mean you’re getting cocky have you felt it yeah yeah I know I’ve a
have you felt it yeah yeah I know I’ve a
have you felt it yeah yeah I know I’ve a lie them but it’s true right there
lie them but it’s true right there
lie them but it’s true right there there’s a rub off its kind of like a
there’s a rub off its kind of like a
there’s a rub off its kind of like a leader on a sports team like it rubs off
leader on a sports team like it rubs off
leader on a sports team like it rubs off and one of the great accomplishments in
and one of the great accomplishments in
and one of the great accomplishments in my life will be the fact that I was able
my life will be the fact that I was able
my life will be the fact that I was able to rub off my confidence not only on my
to rub off my confidence not only on my
to rub off my confidence not only on my inner circle but on the community that
inner circle but on the community that
inner circle but on the community that decided to give me it’s unbelievable how
decided to give me it’s unbelievable how
decided to give me it’s unbelievable how good I feel that I get to reward the
good I feel that I get to reward the
good I feel that I get to reward the amazing reward that you give me which is
amazing reward that you give me which is
amazing reward that you give me which is in all the things that you could be
in all the things that you could be
in all the things that you could be watching right now you’re watching this
watching right now you’re watching this
watching right now you’re watching this and all the things you could be reading
and all the things you could be reading
and all the things you could be reading spending time on time you decided to
spending time on time you decided to
spending time on time you decided to watch me me do you know how incredibly
watch me me do you know how incredibly
watch me me do you know how incredibly empowering that is except scale it’s not
empowering that is except scale it’s not
empowering that is except scale it’s not doing people you don’t powering it is
doing people you don’t powering it is
doing people you don’t powering it is and for me knowing that not only do I
and for me knowing that not only do I
and for me knowing that not only do I give you tactical advice or in a funny
give you tactical advice or in a funny
give you tactical advice or in a funny way that I answer question number three
way that I answer question number three
way that I answer question number three a girl in Indonesia might say well if
a girl in Indonesia might say well if
a girl in Indonesia might say well if Gary Vee is bad at math and has been
Gary Vee is bad at math and has been
Gary Vee is bad at math and has been successful I can to or in this ending
successful I can to or in this ending
successful I can to or in this ending and you can care a little bit less when
and you can care a little bit less when
and you can care a little bit less when your coworker or your older brother or
your coworker or your older brother or
your coworker or your older brother or that naysayer says or what I know so
that naysayer says or what I know so
that naysayer says or what I know so many of you deal with which is the
many of you deal with which is the
many of you deal with which is the trolling and the hate and the and the
trolling and the hate and the and the
trolling and the hate and the and the disagreeing even when it’s done well and
disagreeing even when it’s done well and
disagreeing even when it’s done well and I love when people disagree with me in
I love when people disagree with me in
I love when people disagree with me in the comment section I take it for this
the comment section I take it for this
the comment section I take it for this even when that happens you know pissed I
even when that happens you know pissed I
even when that happens you know pissed I was a daily be thirty
was a daily be thirty
was a daily be thirty how many people like emphatically were
how many people like emphatically were
how many people like emphatically were drilling me for a bad episode fine but
drilling me for a bad episode fine but
drilling me for a bad episode fine but like after all like and that’s fine and
like after all like and that’s fine and
like after all like and that’s fine and I agree and we didn’t do a good job
I agree and we didn’t do a good job
I agree and we didn’t do a good job setting that up and I don’t think I set
setting that up and I don’t think I set
setting that up and I don’t think I set up the rock for success at the genre
up the rock for success at the genre
up the rock for success at the genre that he’s not as passionate about I
that he’s not as passionate about I
that he’s not as passionate about I could have done a better job I
could have done a better job I
could have done a better job I understand that but it’s blows me away
understand that but it’s blows me away
understand that but it’s blows me away of how much venom people can put up like
of how much venom people can put up like
of how much venom people can put up like like after you provided you’re only as
like after you provided you’re only as
like after you provided you’re only as good as your last at-bat two hundred
good as your last at-bat two hundred
good as your last at-bat two hundred great episodes of a business show
great episodes of a business show
great episodes of a business show stories great episodes of the doc you
stories great episodes of the doc you
stories great episodes of the doc you show five thousand interviews of
show five thousand interviews of
show five thousand interviews of business stuff unbelievable engagement
business stuff unbelievable engagement
business stuff unbelievable engagement answer your questions answering a staff
answer your questions answering a staff
answer your questions answering a staff boom one baseball fantasy thing and pure
boom one baseball fantasy thing and pure
boom one baseball fantasy thing and pure and utter disagreement thus parchments
and utter disagreement thus parchments
and utter disagreement thus parchments hate negativity that’s hard I’m the most
hate negativity that’s hard I’m the most
hate negativity that’s hard I’m the most competent and it felt bad and I didn’t
competent and it felt bad and I didn’t
competent and it felt bad and I didn’t like it so what do I expect from others
like it so what do I expect from others
like it so what do I expect from others I get it but it is what it is and at the
I get it but it is what it is and at the
I get it but it is what it is and at the end of the day it’s not going to matter
end of the day it’s not going to matter
end of the day it’s not going to matter and you have to love yourself first but
and you have to love yourself first but
and you have to love yourself first but I feel good and complete with yourself
I feel good and complete with yourself
I feel good and complete with yourself first so the 15 year old I would do what
first so the 15 year old I would do what
first so the 15 year old I would do what I did as a 15 year old would you start
I did as a 15 year old would you start
I did as a 15 year old would you start building those skills and not listen to
building those skills and not listen to
building those skills and not listen to your parents and not listen to your
your parents and not listen to your
your parents and not listen to your teachers and not listen to your friends
teachers and not listen to your friends
teachers and not listen to your friends respect it but don’t let anybody anybody
respect it but don’t let anybody anybody
respect it but don’t let anybody anybody impose their way on you it’s you you’re
impose their way on you it’s you you’re
impose their way on you it’s you you’re with yourself and you’ve got to make
with yourself and you’ve got to make
with yourself and you’ve got to make yourself happy first don’t give away
yourself happy first don’t give away
yourself happy first don’t give away your power so anytime some nasty
your power so anytime some nasty
your power so anytime some nasty criticism or bf comes your way you have
criticism or bf comes your way you have
criticism or bf comes your way you have to say this you cannot take me down I
to say this you cannot take me down I
to say this you cannot take me down I will not give you that power I want you
will not give you that power I want you
will not give you that power I want you to make that your new mantra in life you
to make that your new mantra in life you
to make that your new mantra in life you got to realize that people can say
got to realize that people can say
got to realize that people can say whatever they want but you do not have
whatever they want but you do not have
whatever they want but you do not have to take it in and you don’t have to let
to take it in and you don’t have to let
to take it in and you don’t have to let it ruin your day your time on this earth
it ruin your day your time on this earth
it ruin your day your time on this earth is so precious and it’s really really
is so precious and it’s really really
is so precious and it’s really really important that you protect your soul
important that you protect your soul
important that you protect your soul empathize
empathize
empathize you know a lot of people who are being
you know a lot of people who are being
you know a lot of people who are being in a negative mood or negative energy
in a negative mood or negative energy
in a negative mood or negative energy you don’t know why you know you’ve had a
you don’t know why you know you’ve had a
you don’t know why you know you’ve had a bad day too you’ve been rude yes I know
bad day too you’ve been rude yes I know
bad day too you’ve been rude yes I know you’re amazing and you watch this show
you’re amazing and you watch this show
you’re amazing and you watch this show and you’re really into personal
and you’re really into personal
and you’re really into personal development at the end of the day you’ve
development at the end of the day you’ve
development at the end of the day you’ve been rude to people too you’ve had a bad
been rude to people too you’ve had a bad
been rude to people too you’ve had a bad day you snaps you’ve been impatient
day you snaps you’ve been impatient
day you snaps you’ve been impatient you’ve hollered you’ve been a jerk when
you’ve hollered you’ve been a jerk when
you’ve hollered you’ve been a jerk when you shouldn’t event you know it well
you shouldn’t event you know it well
you shouldn’t event you know it well other people do too so when somebody is
other people do too so when somebody is
other people do too so when somebody is negative always wonder I wonder what
negative always wonder I wonder what
negative always wonder I wonder what happened today that led to that you know
happened today that led to that you know
happened today that led to that you know maybe the kids got out the wrong side of
maybe the kids got out the wrong side of
maybe the kids got out the wrong side of bed and they were just horrible that
bed and they were just horrible that
bed and they were just horrible that morning and that person didn’t sleep
morning and that person didn’t sleep
morning and that person didn’t sleep last night maybe something happened with
last night maybe something happened with
last night maybe something happened with their family maybe on the way to the
their family maybe on the way to the
their family maybe on the way to the work they just thought of something very
work they just thought of something very
work they just thought of something very depressing in their past maybe the truth
depressing in their past maybe the truth
depressing in their past maybe the truth is right now they’re so unclear about
is right now they’re so unclear about
is right now they’re so unclear about who they are and what they want in life
who they are and what they want in life
who they are and what they want in life that they’re taking out on other people
that they’re taking out on other people
that they’re taking out on other people maybe their own failures their own
maybe their own failures their own
maybe their own failures their own struggles their own disappointments have
struggles their own disappointments have
struggles their own disappointments have ravaged them and led them to you know
ravaged them and led them to you know
ravaged them and led them to you know depression led them to mental disorder
depression led them to mental disorder
depression led them to mental disorder the reality is we never know someone’s
the reality is we never know someone’s
the reality is we never know someone’s story and once you can teach yourself
story and once you can teach yourself
story and once you can teach yourself that I really believe you become a
that I really believe you become a
that I really believe you become a better human you become more
better human you become more
better human you become more compassionate you’re better at listening
compassionate you’re better at listening
compassionate you’re better at listening you’re better able to understand because
you’re better able to understand because
you’re better able to understand because you have the intention to sympathize and
you have the intention to sympathize and
you have the intention to sympathize and say all that persons are really in a bad
say all that persons are really in a bad
say all that persons are really in a bad place right now you don’t take ownership
place right now you don’t take ownership
place right now you don’t take ownership of that say well I didn’t cause it you
of that say well I didn’t cause it you
of that say well I didn’t cause it you just say simply ah they’re in a bad
just say simply ah they’re in a bad
just say simply ah they’re in a bad place I hope they’re okay you know I
place I hope they’re okay you know I
place I hope they’re okay you know I think it’s a real true personal power of
think it’s a real true personal power of
think it’s a real true personal power of you walk by negative people and still
you walk by negative people and still
you walk by negative people and still say I wish you nothing but joy and
say I wish you nothing but joy and
say I wish you nothing but joy and health and strength and love in your
health and strength and love in your
health and strength and love in your life to have that hope for people even
life to have that hope for people even
life to have that hope for people even when they’re in a bad place
when they’re in a bad place
when they’re in a bad place that’s humanity your critics don’t
that’s humanity your critics don’t
that’s humanity your critics don’t matter
matter
matter has there ever been a statue built of a
has there ever been a statue built of a
has there ever been a statue built of a critic
critic
critic I remember the great writer Paulo Coelho
I remember the great writer Paulo Coelho
I remember the great writer Paulo Coelho said that he doesn’t think about his
said that he doesn’t think about his
said that he doesn’t think about his critics that’s their job and it made me
critics that’s their job and it made me
critics that’s their job and it made me realize that that is so true you see so
realize that that is so true you see so
realize that that is so true you see so many of us we spend our time worrying
many of us we spend our time worrying
many of us we spend our time worrying about people who don’t serve us
about people who don’t serve us
about people who don’t serve us I say I am letting go of whatever no
I say I am letting go of whatever no
I say I am letting go of whatever no longer serves me to make space what the
longer serves me to make space what the
longer serves me to make space what the hell inspires me and that is that
hell inspires me and that is that
hell inspires me and that is that beautiful prana baby right now in the
beautiful prana baby right now in the
beautiful prana baby right now in the grand scheme of criticism right we can
grand scheme of criticism right we can
grand scheme of criticism right we can write essays we can write essays on
write essays we can write essays on
write essays we can write essays on criticism because it’s so exciting look
criticism because it’s so exciting look
criticism because it’s so exciting look at it like this many people stop having
at it like this many people stop having
at it like this many people stop having fun you play it safe when someone
fun you play it safe when someone
fun you play it safe when someone criticizes you so when I first started
criticizes you so when I first started
criticizes you so when I first started to make videos someone said gosh Ralph
to make videos someone said gosh Ralph
to make videos someone said gosh Ralph that video so long it was only for a
that video so long it was only for a
that video so long it was only for a minute so I said actually okay I’m going
minute so I said actually okay I’m going
minute so I said actually okay I’m going to take on board what you say and the
to take on board what you say and the
to take on board what you say and the next video the next video was 26 minutes
next video the next video was 26 minutes
next video the next video was 26 minutes can I get a Hello there you see I made
can I get a Hello there you see I made
can I get a Hello there you see I made videos with my hair all over the place
videos with my hair all over the place
videos with my hair all over the place and some people said Ralph your hair
and some people said Ralph your hair
and some people said Ralph your hair looks terrible
looks terrible
looks terrible do you know how I felt yeah I felt like
do you know how I felt yeah I felt like
do you know how I felt yeah I felt like that it was really hard and I thought
that it was really hard and I thought
that it was really hard and I thought okay I’ve got to make my hair like this
okay I’ve got to make my hair like this
okay I’ve got to make my hair like this I got to make my hair like that then I
I got to make my hair like that then I
I got to make my hair like that then I said actually my hair does not define
said actually my hair does not define
said actually my hair does not define who I am I am NOT my hair I am so much
who I am I am NOT my hair I am so much
who I am I am NOT my hair I am so much more so that gave me the strength to
more so that gave me the strength to
more so that gave me the strength to face screw it and for many years I made
face screw it and for many years I made
face screw it and for many years I made videos my hair all over the place and
videos my hair all over the place and
videos my hair all over the place and guess what I love this can I get a hello
guess what I love this can I get a hello
guess what I love this can I get a hello there do whatever you want
there do whatever you want
there do whatever you want say whatever you want go wherever you
say whatever you want go wherever you
say whatever you want go wherever you want and if anybody’s got a problem with
want and if anybody’s got a problem with
want and if anybody’s got a problem with that screw them
thank you guys so much for watching I
thank you guys so much for watching I made this video because one of my
made this video because one of my
made this video because one of my teammates Ivan who does a lot of the
teammates Ivan who does a lot of the
teammates Ivan who does a lot of the research for these videos wanted to put
research for these videos wanted to put
research for these videos wanted to put this one together so Thank You Ivan for
this one together so Thank You Ivan for
this one together so Thank You Ivan for all the work and if there’s a topic that
all the work and if there’s a topic that
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I can do I’m also curious to figure out
I can do I’m also curious to figure out what was the biggest lesson that you
what was the biggest lesson that you
what was the biggest lesson that you took from this how are you having a hard
took from this how are you having a hard
took from this how are you having a hard time dealing with haters and maybe the
time dealing with haters and maybe the
time dealing with haters and maybe the one of these strategies stand out from
one of these strategies stand out from
one of these strategies stand out from the rest I’m super curious to figure it
the rest I’m super curious to figure it
the rest I’m super curious to figure it out leave it in the comments your
out leave it in the comments your
out leave it in the comments your experiences below and I’m going to join
experiences below and I’m going to join
experiences below and I’m going to join in the discussion finally I want to give
in the discussion finally I want to give
in the discussion finally I want to give a quick shout out to my publisher Mary
a quick shout out to my publisher Mary
a quick shout out to my publisher Mary and Lizzie thank you so much Mary for
and Lizzie thank you so much Mary for
and Lizzie thank you so much Mary for all your support in the launch of my
all your support in the launch of my
all your support in the launch of my book your one word and proposing that
book your one word and proposing that
book your one word and proposing that awesome unboxing picture on Instagram I
awesome unboxing picture on Instagram I
awesome unboxing picture on Instagram I really really really really appreciate
really really really really appreciate
really really really really appreciate it so thank you guys again for watching
it so thank you guys again for watching
it so thank you guys again for watching I believe in you I hope you continue to
I believe in you I hope you continue to
I believe in you I hope you continue to believe in yourself and whatever your
believe in yourself and whatever your
believe in yourself and whatever your one word is much love I’ll see you soon
I am one who always welcomes criticism
I am one who always welcomes criticism and I increase people you should welcome
and I increase people you should welcome
and I increase people you should welcome tradition and we bold enough to give
tradition and we bold enough to give
tradition and we bold enough to give criticism if the criticism is coming out
criticism if the criticism is coming out
criticism if the criticism is coming out of Dino valence that I want that someone
of Dino valence that I want that someone
of Dino valence that I want that someone is criticizing so that I can become
is criticizing so that I can become
is criticizing so that I can become better then it is always welcome but if
better then it is always welcome but if
better then it is always welcome but if someone is criticizing just total
someone is criticizing just total
someone is criticizing just total jealous you are trying to pull someone
jealous you are trying to pull someone
jealous you are trying to pull someone down then that is not good then that is
down then that is not good then that is
down then that is not good then that is coming from a male if ik mindset so
coming from a male if ik mindset so
coming from a male if ik mindset so constructive criticism I feel everyone
constructive criticism I feel everyone
constructive criticism I feel everyone should welcome criticism with compassion
should welcome criticism with compassion
should welcome criticism with compassion criticism Fadlallah its most adorable
criticism Fadlallah its most adorable
criticism Fadlallah its most adorable thing and it should always be welcomed
thing and it should always be welcomed
thing and it should always be welcomed to use their energy use that energy they
to use their energy use that energy they
to use their energy use that energy they put out there use that challenge for
put out there use that challenge for
put out there use that challenge for your own character development really
your own character development really
your own character development really see when I’m someone’s negative around
see when I’m someone’s negative around
see when I’m someone’s negative around me I don’t sit there and I don’t become
me I don’t sit there and I don’t become
me I don’t sit there and I don’t become a victim oh gosh that’s negative I don’t
a victim oh gosh that’s negative I don’t
a victim oh gosh that’s negative I don’t go home and assume their energy and now
go home and assume their energy and now
go home and assume their energy and now I’m negative instead I go you know what
I’m negative instead I go you know what
I’m negative instead I go you know what this is a moment to test am I really in
this is a moment to test am I really in
this is a moment to test am I really in command of my emotion and how I sink or
command of my emotion and how I sink or
command of my emotion and how I sink or are they am I giving my power over to
are they am I giving my power over to
are they am I giving my power over to the world so that they can just take my
the world so that they can just take my
the world so that they can just take my energy and turn it to what they want or
energy and turn it to what they want or
energy and turn it to what they want or am I in charge so I use it as a
am I in charge so I use it as a
am I in charge so I use it as a challenge not as something I don’t have
challenge not as something I don’t have
challenge not as something I don’t have to challenge or change them immediately
to challenge or change them immediately
to challenge or change them immediately I also get to that point but I get the
I also get to that point but I get the
I also get to that point but I get the point where say you know what huh
point where say you know what huh
point where say you know what huh here’s a little challenge of world’s
here’s a little challenge of world’s
here’s a little challenge of world’s throwing me right now can I stay on my
throwing me right now can I stay on my
throwing me right now can I stay on my game can I stay centered
game can I stay centered
game can I stay centered can I stay peaceful can I stay calm can
can I stay peaceful can I stay calm can
can I stay peaceful can I stay calm can I stay present right here right now and
I stay present right here right now and
I stay present right here right now and not have to run away from it not have to
not have to run away from it not have to
not have to run away from it not have to pretend it’s not there but you I
pretend it’s not there but you I
pretend it’s not there but you I encourage you to do that because if it’s
encourage you to do that because if it’s
encourage you to do that because if it’s just something that you immediately
just something that you immediately
just something that you immediately complain about well then in your
complain about well then in your
complain about well then in your complaint you you just let them win
complaint you you just let them win
complaint you you just let them win their negativity has turned you into
their negativity has turned you into
their negativity has turned you into noticing what is negative and you lost
noticing what is negative and you lost
noticing what is negative and you lost you’re not winning even if you can
you’re not winning even if you can
you’re not winning even if you can critically you know
critically you know
critically you know should throw a barb at it make fun of it
should throw a barb at it make fun of it
should throw a barb at it make fun of it you’re still losing you’re being sucked
you’re still losing you’re being sucked
you’re still losing you’re being sucked into their pools of pessimism you’re
into their pools of pessimism you’re
into their pools of pessimism you’re drowning
drowning
drowning so I say used it recognize it and use it
so I say used it recognize it and use it
so I say used it recognize it and use it Oh criticism look the thing is the thing
Oh criticism look the thing is the thing
Oh criticism look the thing is the thing is that you know in the beginning it’s a
is that you know in the beginning it’s a
is that you know in the beginning it’s a little funky but you got to realize that
little funky but you got to realize that
little funky but you got to realize that everybody nowadays has an opinion
everybody nowadays has an opinion
everybody nowadays has an opinion everybody’s a critic and you know you
everybody’s a critic and you know you
everybody’s a critic and you know you can watch my video on YouTube and leave
can watch my video on YouTube and leave
can watch my video on YouTube and leave a comment you can go to iTunes and buy
a comment you can go to iTunes and buy
a comment you can go to iTunes and buy my album and leave a comment you could
my album and leave a comment you could
my album and leave a comment you could tweet whatever you want you know and
tweet whatever you want you know and
tweet whatever you want you know and you’re going to drive yourself crazy if
you’re going to drive yourself crazy if
you’re going to drive yourself crazy if you really take those things seriously
you really take those things seriously
you really take those things seriously you know they’re just everyone’s not
you know they’re just everyone’s not
you know they’re just everyone’s not everyone is going to love you
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