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How to CONNECT with Influential People ft. @cloriskylie


all right everybody welcome to another

all right everybody welcome to another YouTube hangout I’m super excited to be

YouTube hangout I’m super excited to be

YouTube hangout I’m super excited to be back with you guys today I have a

back with you guys today I have a

back with you guys today I have a special guest a new friend cloris Kylie

special guest a new friend cloris Kylie

special guest a new friend cloris Kylie and we are talking today about how to

and we are talking today about how to

and we are talking today about how to connect with influential people so that

connect with influential people so that

connect with influential people so that you can kind of leverage their influence

you can kind of leverage their influence

you can kind of leverage their influence leverage their audience and their

leverage their audience and their

leverage their audience and their expertise to get your message your

expertise to get your message your

expertise to get your message your product or services out there and I’m

product or services out there and I’m

product or services out there and I’m gonna have some questions and you guys

gonna have some questions and you guys

gonna have some questions and you guys can ask the questions to pick her brain

can ask the questions to pick her brain

can ask the questions to pick her brain for the next a little bit cloris welcome

for the next a little bit cloris welcome

for the next a little bit cloris welcome aboard well thank you having such an

aboard well thank you having such an

aboard well thank you having such an honor to have you doing here today so

honor to have you doing here today so

honor to have you doing here today so for the people watching who may not be

for the people watching who may not be

for the people watching who may not be familiar with what you’re all about yet

familiar with what you’re all about yet

familiar with what you’re all about yet I mean is that quick and chill but you

I mean is that quick and chill but you

I mean is that quick and chill but you want to give a little bit more context

want to give a little bit more context

want to give a little bit more context so they know a little more about what

so they know a little more about what

so they know a little more about what you’re doing yeah sure what I do I work

you’re doing yeah sure what I do I work

you’re doing yeah sure what I do I work with coaches authors consultants

with coaches authors consultants

with coaches authors consultants speakers trainers anybody who is

speakers trainers anybody who is

speakers trainers anybody who is profiting from their expertise to share

profiting from their expertise to share

profiting from their expertise to share that message and to reach the right

that message and to reach the right

that message and to reach the right clients because it’s not just about

clients because it’s not just about

clients because it’s not just about reaching anyone right it’s about

reaching anyone right it’s about

reaching anyone right it’s about connecting with the people who number

connecting with the people who number

connecting with the people who number one can appreciate what you do and your

one can appreciate what you do and your

one can appreciate what you do and your value and number two can afford your

value and number two can afford your

value and number two can afford your services of course because you have a

services of course because you have a

services of course because you have a business you have to stay in business

business you have to stay in business

business you have to stay in business and number three is to apply what you

and number three is to apply what you

and number three is to apply what you teach again you want people who are

teach again you want people who are

teach again you want people who are ready to take action and that’s why I

ready to take action and that’s why I

ready to take action and that’s why I helped so one of the things that I did

helped so one of the things that I did

helped so one of the things that I did when I was in that first business that I

when I was in that first business that I

when I was in that first business that I was super pumped about that helped was I

was super pumped about that helped was I

was super pumped about that helped was I mean I called him a guide to

mean I called him a guide to

mean I called him a guide to professional success and I connected

professional success and I connected

professional success and I connected with a whole bunch of other famous

with a whole bunch of other famous

with a whole bunch of other famous authors you know Tony Robbins and Zig

authors you know Tony Robbins and Zig

authors you know Tony Robbins and Zig Ziglar and all these guys and got an

Ziglar and all these guys and got an

Ziglar and all these guys and got an article there and then also added my own

article there and then also added my own

article there and then also added my own article to this guy to kind of lifted my

article to this guy to kind of lifted my

article to this guy to kind of lifted my brand because I’m associated with these

brand because I’m associated with these

brand because I’m associated with these guys well I mean that really helped me

guys well I mean that really helped me

guys well I mean that really helped me in building my brand in like very early

in building my brand in like very early

in building my brand in like very early days what are some of the ways that you

days what are some of the ways that you

days what are some of the ways that you recommend or what’s one of the first

recommend or what’s one of the first

recommend or what’s one of the first somebody hasn’t that any work with

somebody hasn’t that any work with

somebody hasn’t that any work with influential people no influencer

influential people no influencer

influential people no influencer marketing where should they start what

marketing where should they start what

marketing where should they start what do you recommend yes that’s definitely

do you recommend yes that’s definitely

do you recommend yes that’s definitely something that I’ve done ever and to

something that I’ve done ever and to

something that I’ve done ever and to build my own brand in my own business

build my own brand in my own business

build my own brand in my own business and I want you to think as connecting

and I want you to think as connecting

and I want you to think as connecting with them

with them

with them people not just us as something that

people not just us as something that

people not just us as something that will help your brand but something that

will help your brand but something that

will help your brand but something that will help your belief in what is

will help your belief in what is

will help your belief in what is possible for you because what happens is

possible for you because what happens is

possible for you because what happens is once you connect with people who have

once you connect with people who have

once you connect with people who have achieved great things then you start to

achieved great things then you start to

achieved great things then you start to see yourself as as somebody who could

see yourself as as somebody who could

see yourself as as somebody who could potentially get there see like you see

potentially get there see like you see

potentially get there see like you see the possibilities and that’s really the

the possibilities and that’s really the

the possibilities and that’s really the only way to achieve something great is

only way to achieve something great is

only way to achieve something great is when you see yourself you can visualize

when you see yourself you can visualize

when you see yourself you can visualize yourself achieving something wonderful

yourself achieving something wonderful

yourself achieving something wonderful and so I really want you to consider

and so I really want you to consider

and so I really want you to consider that like its power you know once you

that like its power you know once you

that like its power you know once you start to connect with people who have

start to connect with people who have

start to connect with people who have influence then you start to become an

influence then you start to become an

influence then you start to become an influential person yourself and I would

influential person yourself and I would

influential person yourself and I would say the first thing you have to do is to

say the first thing you have to do is to

say the first thing you have to do is to select somebody who you can clearly

select somebody who you can clearly

select somebody who you can clearly resonate with somebody who shares your

resonate with somebody who shares your

resonate with somebody who shares your values and who you admire you would want

values and who you admire you would want

values and who you admire you would want to be like right you always wanted the

to be like right you always wanted the

to be like right you always wanted the people you would want to be like so just

people you would want to be like so just

people you would want to be like so just find that person and they’ll really

find that person and they’ll really

find that person and they’ll really become their advocate they of course the

become their advocate they of course the

become their advocate they of course the easiest thing to do is to follow them on

easiest thing to do is to follow them on

easiest thing to do is to follow them on social media and to support them that

social media and to support them that

social media and to support them that way now it’s easy to think okay well if

way now it’s easy to think okay well if

way now it’s easy to think okay well if I just kind of automate retweeting their

I just kind of automate retweeting their

I just kind of automate retweeting their stuff or if I can just kind of like

stuff or if I can just kind of like

stuff or if I can just kind of like their post is that going to be enough

their post is that going to be enough

their post is that going to be enough it’s not you really have to go above and

it’s not you really have to go above and

it’s not you really have to go above and beyond so when you retweet something at

beyond so when you retweet something at

beyond so when you retweet something at a comment that creates value for their

a comment that creates value for their

a comment that creates value for their audience when you go to their blog and

audience when you go to their blog and

audience when you go to their blog and you’re going to post up a comment there

you’re going to post up a comment there

you’re going to post up a comment there really say something that shows how you

really say something that shows how you

really say something that shows how you know your stuff how you have something

know your stuff how you have something

know your stuff how you have something to contribute on Facebook same story you

to contribute on Facebook same story you

to contribute on Facebook same story you want to be one of those comments on

want to be one of those comments on

want to be one of those comments on Facebook that people click like on the

Facebook that people click like on the

Facebook that people click like on the comment that’s what you want to be to

comment that’s what you want to be to

comment that’s what you want to be to really stand out and slowly but surely

really stand out and slowly but surely

really stand out and slowly but surely that influencer will notice you and I

that influencer will notice you and I

that influencer will notice you and I actually did that with this woman called

actually did that with this woman called

actually did that with this woman called I see her name is Melanie Todaro and she

I see her name is Melanie Todaro and she

I see her name is Melanie Todaro and she is pretty big on social medias he has a

is pretty big on social medias he has a

is pretty big on social medias he has a huge following and I just love her

huge following and I just love her

huge following and I just love her content so I started by first asking her

content so I started by first asking her

content so I started by first asking her actually first of doing everything she

actually first of doing everything she

actually first of doing everything she posed she put out any posts I would

posed she put out any posts I would

posed she put out any posts I would comment I would retweet it share it and

comment I would retweet it share it and

comment I would retweet it share it and then once she had like that knowledge

then once she had like that knowledge

then once she had like that knowledge about you know who I was I invited her

about you know who I was I invited her

about you know who I was I invited her to connect on LinkedIn so it’s important

to connect on LinkedIn so it’s important

to connect on LinkedIn so it’s important that you use LinkedIn

that you use LinkedIn

that you use LinkedIn for that purpose but it’s not just say

for that purpose but it’s not just say

for that purpose but it’s not just say hey connect it’s just about writing a

hey connect it’s just about writing a

hey connect it’s just about writing a customized message that shows number one

customized message that shows number one

customized message that shows number one why you think I hope you admire this

why you think I hope you admire this

why you think I hope you admire this person and number two what you will be

person and number two what you will be

person and number two what you will be able to to give or to contribute to that

able to to give or to contribute to that

able to to give or to contribute to that person because remember it’s a two-way

person because remember it’s a two-way

person because remember it’s a two-way street when you have to find a way that

street when you have to find a way that

street when you have to find a way that you can help this person so that’s what

you can help this person so that’s what

you can help this person so that’s what I did I invited her to connect on

I did I invited her to connect on

I did I invited her to connect on LinkedIn as she said yes and then after

LinkedIn as she said yes and then after

LinkedIn as she said yes and then after that I was able to support her even more

that I was able to support her even more

that I was able to support her even more so I would you know really post on her

so I would you know really post on her

so I would you know really post on her LinkedIn comments I would recommend I

LinkedIn comments I would recommend I

LinkedIn comments I would recommend I recommended her on LinkedIn and people

recommended her on LinkedIn and people

recommended her on LinkedIn and people love to have that a recommendation on

love to have that a recommendation on

love to have that a recommendation on their LinkedIn profile so I went really

their LinkedIn profile so I went really

their LinkedIn profile so I went really above and beyond so Melanie a new me so

above and beyond so Melanie a new me so

above and beyond so Melanie a new me so then by the time I waited up a while

then by the time I waited up a while

then by the time I waited up a while right you have to build a relationship

right you have to build a relationship

right you have to build a relationship and when I was time for four there was

and when I was time for four there was

and when I was time for four there was the right time I said hey would you like

the right time I said hey would you like

the right time I said hey would you like to be on my show because I have an

to be on my show because I have an

to be on my show because I have an online radio show and she didn’t

online radio show and she didn’t

online radio show and she didn’t hesitate like yes of course

hesitate like yes of course

hesitate like yes of course and later on during the interview she

and later on during the interview she

and later on during the interview she told me Clarissa I don’t give interviews

told me Clarissa I don’t give interviews

told me Clarissa I don’t give interviews anymore I just don’t have time and I

anymore I just don’t have time and I

anymore I just don’t have time and I said yes to you because I know you know

said yes to you because I know you know

said yes to you because I know you know how good you have been and how much you

how good you have been and how much you

how good you have been and how much you share my stuff and I feel like I owe you

share my stuff and I feel like I owe you

share my stuff and I feel like I owe you so I’m here today so that’s that’s an

so I’m here today so that’s that’s an

so I’m here today so that’s that’s an example of what you can do I love it and

example of what you can do I love it and

example of what you can do I love it and it’s so true and I think too many people

it’s so true and I think too many people

it’s so true and I think too many people give up too soon you know the people who

give up too soon you know the people who

give up too soon you know the people who are commenting on all my videos and are

are commenting on all my videos and are

are commenting on all my videos and are on a lot of the live streams and the

on a lot of the live streams and the

on a lot of the live streams and the live chat it doesn’t take a long time to

live chat it doesn’t take a long time to

live chat it doesn’t take a long time to necessarily have to make an impact if

necessarily have to make an impact if

necessarily have to make an impact if you are consistent with it so you know

you are consistent with it so you know

you are consistent with it so you know if you guys watching a live chat you see

if you guys watching a live chat you see

if you guys watching a live chat you see Zeno and Xena’s got this little toolbar

Zeno and Xena’s got this little toolbar

Zeno and Xena’s got this little toolbar next to him he’s been made a moderator

next to him he’s been made a moderator

next to him he’s been made a moderator of the chat because he’s been in on all

of the chat because he’s been in on all

of the chat because he’s been in on all of the chats and he’s always sharing

of the chats and he’s always sharing

of the chats and he’s always sharing love and he’s always had an impact some

love and he’s always had an impact some

love and he’s always had an impact some of the other people who popping on one

of the other people who popping on one

of the other people who popping on one shot you know I’m not gonna remember you

shot you know I’m not gonna remember you

shot you know I’m not gonna remember you the next time and it’s not that I’m you

the next time and it’s not that I’m you

the next time and it’s not that I’m you know I’m not trying to remember you just

know I’m not trying to remember you just

know I’m not trying to remember you just there’s so many people were watching

there’s so many people were watching

there’s so many people were watching every video that it can be hard and so a

every video that it can be hard and so a

every video that it can be hard and so a lot of people like to come in for one

lot of people like to come in for one

lot of people like to come in for one video they leave a chat comments and all

video they leave a chat comments and all

video they leave a chat comments and all that was a really good comment he didn’t

that was a really good comment he didn’t

that was a really good comment he didn’t recognize me you didn’t see it you know

recognize me you didn’t see it you know

recognize me you didn’t see it you know understanding the people you’re trying

understanding the people you’re trying

understanding the people you’re trying to connect with if they have a big

to connect with if they have a big

to connect with if they have a big following they may not see your one

following they may not see your one

following they may not see your one golden

golden

golden comment so it has to be consistent right

comment so it has to be consistent right

comment so it has to be consistent right it’s like everything they put out you

it’s like everything they put out you

it’s like everything they put out you want to be leaving a really golden piece

want to be leaving a really golden piece

want to be leaving a really golden piece of comment around to help them out and

of comment around to help them out and

of comment around to help them out and with time people do recognize it I think

with time people do recognize it I think

with time people do recognize it I think people just quit a little too soon you

people just quit a little too soon you

people just quit a little too soon you have to be persistent just like anything

have to be persistent just like anything

have to be persistent just like anything if you want to make anything happen just

if you want to make anything happen just

if you want to make anything happen just have to keep at it and you’ll eventually

have to keep at it and you’ll eventually

have to keep at it and you’ll eventually be successful so so you know somebody

be successful so so you know somebody

be successful so so you know somebody who say me so I’m like I’m trying I have

who say me so I’m like I’m trying I have

who say me so I’m like I’m trying I have my book right I’m promoting my book so

my book right I’m promoting my book so

my book right I’m promoting my book so yes hey like that could be really

yes hey like that could be really

yes hey like that could be really helpful for me to go and connect with

helpful for me to go and connect with

helpful for me to go and connect with people who could potentially market my

people who could potentially market my

people who could potentially market my book what do you recommend for me is it

book what do you recommend for me is it

book what do you recommend for me is it just making a list of people who you

just making a list of people who you

just making a list of people who you know have audiences that I think would

know have audiences that I think would

know have audiences that I think would be relevant that I have a message that

be relevant that I have a message that

be relevant that I have a message that connects with them and then following

connects with them and then following

connects with them and then following them on social sharing you know their

them on social sharing you know their

them on social sharing you know their content trying to make an impact and

content trying to make an impact and

content trying to make an impact and then approach them about the book well

then approach them about the book well

then approach them about the book well how would you how would you dissect what

how would you how would you dissect what

how would you how would you dissect what I should do to throw my but definitely

I should do to throw my but definitely

I should do to throw my but definitely yeah I would say the making the list is

yeah I would say the making the list is

yeah I would say the making the list is important I actually have a list of the

important I actually have a list of the

important I actually have a list of the I have it right here on my bulletin

I have it right here on my bulletin

I have it right here on my bulletin board it’s a it’s a list of my top 50 so

board it’s a it’s a list of my top 50 so

board it’s a it’s a list of my top 50 so the top 50 are those people I really

the top 50 are those people I really

the top 50 are those people I really want to support on a continuous basis

want to support on a continuous basis

want to support on a continuous basis and every morning I look at the list and

and every morning I look at the list and

and every morning I look at the list and say hey who have I have I supported this

say hey who have I have I supported this

say hey who have I have I supported this week who I haven’t and then I actually

week who I haven’t and then I actually

week who I haven’t and then I actually go and check their stuff I go to the

go and check their stuff I go to the

go and check their stuff I go to the Twitter pages Facebook Linkedin see what

Twitter pages Facebook Linkedin see what

Twitter pages Facebook Linkedin see what else they have out and try to support

else they have out and try to support

else they have out and try to support them as much as possible and so stable

them as much as possible and so stable

them as much as possible and so stable you know you have your list you have

you know you have your list you have

you know you have your list you have your target and yes it has to be people

your target and yes it has to be people

your target and yes it has to be people who have an audience that is similar to

who have an audience that is similar to

who have an audience that is similar to yours so you can sell your book of

yours so you can sell your book of

yours so you can sell your book of course and and then you start connecting

course and and then you start connecting

course and and then you start connecting with people and keep in mind a song

with people and keep in mind a song

with people and keep in mind a song let’s say that your book is coming out

let’s say that your book is coming out

let’s say that your book is coming out in four weeks then it might not be

in four weeks then it might not be

in four weeks then it might not be enough time for you to create a

enough time for you to create a

enough time for you to create a relationship though it’s something you

relationship though it’s something you

relationship though it’s something you have to strategize and start right now I

have to strategize and start right now I

have to strategize and start right now I mean today after this show you

mean today after this show you

mean today after this show you definitely have to start your list and

definitely have to start your list and

definitely have to start your list and start those relationships and the more

start those relationships and the more

start those relationships and the more time that goes by you know the sooner

time that goes by you know the sooner

time that goes by you know the sooner you will see who is being responsive and

you will see who is being responsive and

you will see who is being responsive and who is not because you have some people

who is not because you have some people

who is not because you have some people will ignore you and that’s just part of

will ignore you and that’s just part of

will ignore you and that’s just part of the game right so

the game right so

the game right so you say okay well move on right to the

you say okay well move on right to the

you say okay well move on right to the next person and then you have that that

next person and then you have that that

next person and then you have that that circle of people who you feel that yes

circle of people who you feel that yes

circle of people who you feel that yes they respond to you they resonate with

they respond to you they resonate with

they respond to you they resonate with you and then you can go and and reach

you and then you can go and and reach

you and then you can go and and reach out and contact them and I was thinking

out and contact them and I was thinking

out and contact them and I was thinking if you really want to take it above and

if you really want to take it above and

if you really want to take it above and beyond then you could do something that

beyond then you could do something that

beyond then you could do something that really puts the name out there to

really puts the name out there to

really puts the name out there to increase their influence and and their

increase their influence and and their

increase their influence and and their reach and so I’ll give you a quick

reach and so I’ll give you a quick

reach and so I’ll give you a quick example I love this show is it’s not

example I love this show is it’s not

example I love this show is it’s not live anymore but they had two seasons

live anymore but they had two seasons

live anymore but they had two seasons it’s called fat guys in the woods on the

it’s called fat guys in the woods on the

it’s called fat guys in the woods on the Weather Channel’s now if you ever

Weather Channel’s now if you ever

Weather Channel’s now if you ever watched it I love the shows weird I just

watched it I love the shows weird I just

watched it I love the shows weird I just love survival stuff and there were these

love survival stuff and there were these

love survival stuff and there were these three guys who needed a change in their

three guys who needed a change in their

three guys who needed a change in their life and survival expert Craig Stewart

life and survival expert Craig Stewart

life and survival expert Craig Stewart took them out into the woods for a week

took them out into the woods for a week

took them out into the woods for a week but no no water no food they had to

but no no water no food they had to

but no no water no food they had to survive so loved the show so that you

survive so loved the show so that you

survive so loved the show so that you know I said this show you know to be in

know I said this show you know to be in

know I said this show you know to be in the show you have to have the same

the show you have to have the same

the show you have to have the same qualities that you have to be an

qualities that you have to be an

qualities that you have to be an entrepreneur and so I went ahead and I

entrepreneur and so I went ahead and I

entrepreneur and so I went ahead and I wrote an article lessons for

wrote an article lessons for

wrote an article lessons for entrepreneurs from fat guys in the woods

entrepreneurs from fat guys in the woods

entrepreneurs from fat guys in the woods and wrote the article I was inspired and

and wrote the article I was inspired and

and wrote the article I was inspired and then I they will share the article with

then I they will share the article with

then I they will share the article with creeks with the hosts and believe it or

creeks with the hosts and believe it or

creeks with the hosts and believe it or not he saw the tweet it was just a tweet

not he saw the tweet it was just a tweet

not he saw the tweet it was just a tweet he clicked on the article and read it

he clicked on the article and read it

he clicked on the article and read it and he loved the article and what did he

and he loved the article and what did he

and he loved the article and what did he do he share that article with his

do he share that article with his

do he share that article with his audience so I had all these people and

audience so I had all these people and

audience so I had all these people and took who are into survival go into my

took who are into survival go into my

took who are into survival go into my site and check it out my stuff but but

site and check it out my stuff but but

site and check it out my stuff but but the key is like see how I did something

the key is like see how I did something

the key is like see how I did something that was like above and beyond so in

that was like above and beyond so in

that was like above and beyond so in your case if you want to promote your

your case if you want to promote your

your case if you want to promote your book and you have this list of people

book and you have this list of people

book and you have this list of people and what could you do maybe you could

and what could you do maybe you could

and what could you do maybe you could you know case them in your own show

you know case them in your own show

you know case them in your own show which has a huge following and that’s

which has a huge following and that’s

which has a huge following and that’s what I do with my own online radio show

what I do with my own online radio show

what I do with my own online radio show I’ve had best-selling authors and

I’ve had best-selling authors and

I’ve had best-selling authors and entrepreneurs who are making millions of

entrepreneurs who are making millions of

entrepreneurs who are making millions of dollars so you know I give them more of

dollars so you know I give them more of

dollars so you know I give them more of an expanded reach by being on my show so

an expanded reach by being on my show so

an expanded reach by being on my show so you have to leverage what you have maybe

you have to leverage what you have maybe

you have to leverage what you have maybe you have a blog so go ahead and you have

you have a blog so go ahead and you have

you have a blog so go ahead and you have them guest post on your blog or if they

them guest post on your blog or if they

them guest post on your blog or if they don’t have time then you write the

don’t have time then you write the

don’t have time then you write the article and mention them and their

article and mention them and their

article and mention them and their lessons that you have gained from them

lessons that you have gained from them

lessons that you have gained from them so whatever platform that you have

so whatever platform that you have

so whatever platform that you have whether it be a youtube show a radio

whether it be a youtube show a radio

whether it be a youtube show a radio show a blog use it use it to support

show a blog use it use it to support

show a blog use it use it to support these influencers and they will

these influencers and they will

these influencers and they will appreciate it and then that’s when you

appreciate it and then that’s when you

appreciate it and then that’s when you you know they’ll want to reciprocate and

you know they’ll want to reciprocate and

you know they’ll want to reciprocate and help you promote your book I gotta get

help you promote your book I gotta get

help you promote your book I gotta get hustlin I gotta I gotta start now Cloris

hustlin I gotta I gotta start now Cloris

hustlin I gotta I gotta start now Cloris is lighting the fire under me here I

is lighting the fire under me here I

is lighting the fire under me here I gotta get I gotta get busy

gotta get I gotta get busy

gotta get I gotta get busy one of the other things that I found

one of the other things that I found

one of the other things that I found super helpful is when targeting people

super helpful is when targeting people

super helpful is when targeting people on social media to make sure that

on social media to make sure that

on social media to make sure that they’re active in responding to comments

they’re active in responding to comments

they’re active in responding to comments on that platform and so like Twitter

on that platform and so like Twitter

on that platform and so like Twitter super easy you can see their tweets and

super easy you can see their tweets and

super easy you can see their tweets and replies if somebody’s just broadcasting

replies if somebody’s just broadcasting

replies if somebody’s just broadcasting and they never apply to anybody they’re

and they never apply to anybody they’re

and they never apply to anybody they’re probably not even paying attention there

probably not even paying attention there

probably not even paying attention there and so you tweeting them every day is

and so you tweeting them every day is

and so you tweeting them every day is probably not gonna have an impact

probably not gonna have an impact

probably not gonna have an impact you know youtubers and they were

you know youtubers and they were

you know youtubers and they were applying to every comment or at least

applying to every comment or at least

applying to every comment or at least are they looking in the comments or

are they looking in the comments or

are they looking in the comments or they’re just if they’re just

they’re just if they’re just

they’re just if they’re just broadcasting then you can be spending a

broadcasting then you can be spending a

broadcasting then you can be spending a lot of time doing the wrong thing where

lot of time doing the wrong thing where

lot of time doing the wrong thing where you want to look where they’re actually

you want to look where they’re actually

you want to look where they’re actually engaged and most people are in all the

engaged and most people are in all the

engaged and most people are in all the platforms but they’ll have one that they

platforms but they’ll have one that they

platforms but they’ll have one that they actually use themselves and it’s not

actually use themselves and it’s not

actually use themselves and it’s not their team so this snapchat or Instagram

their team so this snapchat or Instagram

their team so this snapchat or Instagram or Facebook or whatever it is and then

or Facebook or whatever it is and then

or Facebook or whatever it is and then that’s that’s when you want to be on

that’s that’s when you want to be on

that’s that’s when you want to be on because you want to get their attention

because you want to get their attention

because you want to get their attention as much as possible not their assistant

as much as possible not their assistant

as much as possible not their assistant or somebody on their team what are your

or somebody on their team what are your

or somebody on their team what are your thoughts there completely I agree

thoughts there completely I agree

thoughts there completely I agree because I want you to think about your

because I want you to think about your

because I want you to think about your influencers as an audience right just

influencers as an audience right just

influencers as an audience right just like when you want to build your

like when you want to build your

like when you want to build your business right don’t you want to know

business right don’t you want to know

business right don’t you want to know your avatar to really know what your

your avatar to really know what your

your avatar to really know what your avatar hangs out their problems be and

avatar hangs out their problems be and

avatar hangs out their problems be and behaviors and their their needs and

behaviors and their their needs and

behaviors and their their needs and wants and their aspirations same thing

wants and their aspirations same thing

wants and their aspirations same thing happens with the influencers that you’re

happens with the influencers that you’re

happens with the influencers that you’re targeting its your audience it’s a

targeting its your audience it’s a

targeting its your audience it’s a special audience right it’s really small

special audience right it’s really small

special audience right it’s really small you want to really kind of pinpoint the

you want to really kind of pinpoint the

you want to really kind of pinpoint the people who can help you the most

people who can help you the most

people who can help you the most so that’s yes you have to study them

so that’s yes you have to study them

so that’s yes you have to study them really learn as much about them as

really learn as much about them as

really learn as much about them as possible and if you really want to go

possible and if you really want to go

possible and if you really want to go way above and beyond you know why don’t

way above and beyond you know why don’t

way above and beyond you know why don’t you sign up for the programs right if

you sign up for the programs right if

you sign up for the programs right if they have for example if they have a

they have for example if they have a

they have for example if they have a training program on how to how to get

training program on how to how to get

training program on how to how to get more sales you sign up and become a you

more sales you sign up and become a you

more sales you sign up and become a you know one of those people who

know one of those people who

know one of those people who participates and gives feedback and

participates and gives feedback and

participates and gives feedback and actually gives a testimony

actually gives a testimony

actually gives a testimony after product and that’s when they will

after product and that’s when they will

after product and that’s when they will really remember you and if something

really remember you and if something

really remember you and if something comes to mind to I belong to this

comes to mind to I belong to this

comes to mind to I belong to this program called joint venture insider

program called joint venture insider

program called joint venture insider circle in which you connect with with

circle in which you connect with with

circle in which you connect with with people who have similar audiences and

people who have similar audiences and

people who have similar audiences and and so forth and the person who created

and so forth and the person who created

and so forth and the person who created this program she said when she was

this program she said when she was

this program she said when she was starting out which is now is like a you

starting out which is now is like a you

starting out which is now is like a you know they make seven figures with a

know they make seven figures with a

know they make seven figures with a program but when she was starting out

program but when she was starting out

program but when she was starting out she took this Lisa Sasha Buchert

she took this Lisa Sasha Buchert

she took this Lisa Sasha Buchert who calls herself the queen of sales

who calls herself the queen of sales

who calls herself the queen of sales conversion and she has all this problems

conversion and she has all this problems

conversion and she has all this problems well how to sell your problems and

well how to sell your problems and

well how to sell your problems and services so she loved the program she

services so she loved the program she

services so she loved the program she actually created a video testimonial of

actually created a video testimonial of

actually created a video testimonial of how much she loved it and guess what

how much she loved it and guess what

how much she loved it and guess what Lisa I noticed her and she noticed her

Lisa I noticed her and she noticed her

Lisa I noticed her and she noticed her and she actually wanted to thank her

and she actually wanted to thank her

and she actually wanted to thank her personally for the video so those are

personally for the video so those are

personally for the video so those are things that you can go to really go a

things that you can go to really go a

things that you can go to really go a pala beyond one of the things I did to

pala beyond one of the things I did to

pala beyond one of the things I did to get on somebody’s radar I’ve got a

get on somebody’s radar I’ve got a

get on somebody’s radar I’ve got a couple times for youtubers I would go to

couple times for youtubers I would go to

couple times for youtubers I would go to see who is leaving comments on their

see who is leaving comments on their

see who is leaving comments on their YouTube channel I connect with the most

YouTube channel I connect with the most

YouTube channel I connect with the most common commenters on that person’s

common commenters on that person’s

common commenters on that person’s channel and I would send them a message

channel and I would send them a message

channel and I would send them a message saying hey I love this youtuber just

saying hey I love this youtuber just

saying hey I love this youtuber just like you do I want to thank them for all

like you do I want to thank them for all

like you do I want to thank them for all the work that they’re doing and I strung

the work that they’re doing and I strung

the work that they’re doing and I strung together like 50 of these people who

together like 50 of these people who

together like 50 of these people who made a one-minute video or 30-second

made a one-minute video or 30-second

made a one-minute video or 30-second video to say thank you so much for all

video to say thank you so much for all

video to say thank you so much for all the work and the love and to get those

the work and the love and to get those

the work and the love and to get those 50 you have to reach out to like 500 of

50 you have to reach out to like 500 of

50 you have to reach out to like 500 of them but then I make this video of just

them but then I make this video of just

them but then I make this video of just all of their top fans thinking them and

all of their top fans thinking them and

all of their top fans thinking them and of course I have my own message in there

of course I have my own message in there

of course I have my own message in there too and it’s it’s pretty impossible to

too and it’s it’s pretty impossible to

too and it’s it’s pretty impossible to not pay attention your your point of

not pay attention your your point of

not pay attention your your point of going way above and beyond this is just

going way above and beyond this is just

going way above and beyond this is just so far crazy above and beyond that

so far crazy above and beyond that

so far crazy above and beyond that nobody does that you’re at least you

nobody does that you’re at least you

nobody does that you’re at least you have an introduction now you still need

have an introduction now you still need

have an introduction now you still need to hit them with value they self to see

to hit them with value they self to see

to hit them with value they self to see you know importance in what you’re doing

you know importance in what you’re doing

you know importance in what you’re doing maybe they hate my book you know who

maybe they hate my book you know who

maybe they hate my book you know who knows but at least you have the in

knows but at least you have the in

knows but at least you have the in because you did all that work to really

because you did all that work to really

because you did all that work to really stand up for them I love that even

stand up for them I love that even

stand up for them I love that even that’s that’s really way above and

that’s that’s really way above and

that’s that’s really way above and beyond and you probably saw amazing

beyond and you probably saw amazing

beyond and you probably saw amazing results from that and you know the thing

results from that and you know the thing

results from that and you know the thing is once you connect with that person who

is once you connect with that person who

is once you connect with that person who a lot of influence then it becomes much

a lot of influence then it becomes much

a lot of influence then it becomes much easier right like you know I’m sure that

easier right like you know I’m sure that

easier right like you know I’m sure that the first person you connected with and

the first person you connected with and

the first person you connected with and you can say to somebody else hey you

you can say to somebody else hey you

you can say to somebody else hey you know you want to be on my show I

know you want to be on my show I

know you want to be on my show I interviewed such-and-such and then it

interviewed such-and-such and then it

interviewed such-and-such and then it becomes much easier to connect with

becomes much easier to connect with

becomes much easier to connect with influential people sure and also asking

influential people sure and also asking

influential people sure and also asking what they what they want you know like I

what they what they want you know like I

what they what they want you know like I was on Lewis with Lewis house if you

was on Lewis with Lewis house if you

was on Lewis with Lewis house if you know Lewis house he’s has a school of

know Lewis house he’s has a school of

know Lewis house he’s has a school of greatness podcast I just just ask him

greatness podcast I just just ask him

greatness podcast I just just ask him hey who’s like a dream person you want

hey who’s like a dream person you want

hey who’s like a dream person you want to have on your podcast and he gave me

to have on your podcast and he gave me

to have on your podcast and he gave me four or five names of people that he

four or five names of people that he

four or five names of people that he would love to have on his show and so

would love to have on his show and so

would love to have on his show and so it’s now it’s on my radar like if I can

it’s now it’s on my radar like if I can

it’s now it’s on my radar like if I can give him an introduction somehow some

give him an introduction somehow some

give him an introduction somehow some way I don’t guarantee but if you know

way I don’t guarantee but if you know

way I don’t guarantee but if you know what those people want that you’re

what those people want that you’re

what those people want that you’re connecting with then you become way more

connecting with then you become way more

connecting with then you become way more important to them as well oh yeah it’s

important to them as well oh yeah it’s

important to them as well oh yeah it’s about providing value always and

about providing value always and

about providing value always and something something else you can do to

something something else you can do to

something something else you can do to provide value if let’s say that you

provide value if let’s say that you

provide value if let’s say that you don’t have the right connections right

don’t have the right connections right

don’t have the right connections right you’re like okay I’m starting out how I

you’re like okay I’m starting out how I

you’re like okay I’m starting out how I don’t know anybody how can I introduce

don’t know anybody how can I introduce

don’t know anybody how can I introduce them to anyone well why don’t you send

them to anyone well why don’t you send

them to anyone well why don’t you send them your ideas I mean your ideas are

them your ideas I mean your ideas are

them your ideas I mean your ideas are valuable and if you have a way if you

valuable and if you have a way if you

valuable and if you have a way if you think of a way that they could be

think of a way that they could be

think of a way that they could be improving what they do even more or some

improving what they do even more or some

improving what they do even more or some creative way that they could even expand

creative way that they could even expand

creative way that they could even expand that reach even more just send it to

that reach even more just send it to

that reach even more just send it to them you know that’s that’s what James

them you know that’s that’s what James

them you know that’s that’s what James Altucher does you know he’s he loves

Altucher does you know he’s he loves

Altucher does you know he’s he loves ideas he sends ideas to all these

ideas he sends ideas to all these

ideas he sends ideas to all these companies and some of them really

companies and some of them really

companies and some of them really appreciated he had Amazon fly him just

appreciated he had Amazon fly him just

appreciated he had Amazon fly him just because he sent a huge document of his

because he sent a huge document of his

because he sent a huge document of his ideas to Amazon and they had in my

ideas to Amazon and they had in my

ideas to Amazon and they had in my headquarters you know they came because

headquarters you know they came because

headquarters you know they came because they loved what he had to say so again

they loved what he had to say so again

they loved what he had to say so again if you are able to provide value and you

if you are able to provide value and you

if you are able to provide value and you can because you have your mind and your

can because you have your mind and your

can because you have your mind and your your creativeness and your passion then

your creativeness and your passion then

your creativeness and your passion then yes so if you if it’s valuable they will

yes so if you if it’s valuable they will

yes so if you if it’s valuable they will notice you mm-hmm yeah I think if you

notice you mm-hmm yeah I think if you

notice you mm-hmm yeah I think if you can figure out any of their goals you

can figure out any of their goals you

can figure out any of their goals you know I you know I want to interview

know I you know I want to interview

know I you know I want to interview Howard Schultz he’s the CEO of Starbucks

Howard Schultz he’s the CEO of Starbucks

Howard Schultz he’s the CEO of Starbucks I want to have him on my show right

I want to have him on my show right

I want to have him on my show right maybe you don’t know Starbucks you know

maybe you don’t know Starbucks you know

maybe you don’t know Starbucks you know maybe you don’t know Howard Schultz he’s

maybe you don’t know Howard Schultz he’s

maybe you don’t know Howard Schultz he’s not really on Twitter you know it’s a

not really on Twitter you know it’s a

not really on Twitter you know it’s a private guy so it’s hard to get access

private guy so it’s hard to get access

private guy so it’s hard to get access to but like if you were doing so say he

to but like if you were doing so say he

to but like if you were doing so say he was on Twitter you know if you were

was on Twitter you know if you were

was on Twitter you know if you were tweeting him every day seeing Howard I’d

tweeting him every day seeing Howard I’d

tweeting him every day seeing Howard I’d love to have you on up and show how you

love to have you on up and show how you

love to have you on up and show how you gotta get out of and show how it’s like

gotta get out of and show how it’s like

gotta get out of and show how it’s like please be on Evans show right like

please be on Evans show right like

please be on Evans show right like even if he never came on I appreciate

even if he never came on I appreciate

even if he never came on I appreciate your hustle right like I’m gonna notice

your hustle right like I’m gonna notice

your hustle right like I’m gonna notice you I say dude thank you so much for

you I say dude thank you so much for

you I say dude thank you so much for your love what’s your business about and

your love what’s your business about and

your love what’s your business about and I want to click on your profile and see

I want to click on your profile and see

I want to click on your profile and see what’s in your Twitter bio and click on

what’s in your Twitter bio and click on

what’s in your Twitter bio and click on your website and maybe there’s some kind

your website and maybe there’s some kind

your website and maybe there’s some kind of thing right so even if you don’t have

of thing right so even if you don’t have

of thing right so even if you don’t have that connection just the work just the

that connection just the work just the

that connection just the work just the hustle just the energy that you’re

hustle just the energy that you’re

hustle just the energy that you’re pointing to try to help is loved and

pointing to try to help is loved and

pointing to try to help is loved and that often gets recognized I would

that often gets recognized I would

that often gets recognized I would recognize that I want to turn to the

recognize that I want to turn to the

recognize that I want to turn to the live chat because I got some questions

live chat because I got some questions

live chat because I got some questions going on here and I want to respect that

going on here and I want to respect that

going on here and I want to respect that – Savita is asking how do you deal with

– Savita is asking how do you deal with

– Savita is asking how do you deal with failure so you know you reach out these

failure so you know you reach out these

failure so you know you reach out these people you really want to get their

people you really want to get their

people you really want to get their attention a lot of times you may not get

attention a lot of times you may not get

attention a lot of times you may not get it how do you deal with that failure of

it how do you deal with that failure of

it how do you deal with that failure of rejection there yes it’s a good question

rejection there yes it’s a good question

rejection there yes it’s a good question and I think well first of all you have

and I think well first of all you have

and I think well first of all you have to ask yourself have I tried this long

to ask yourself have I tried this long

to ask yourself have I tried this long enough and long enough he’ll know and it

enough and long enough he’ll know and it

enough and long enough he’ll know and it has been too long I would say a minimum

has been too long I would say a minimum

has been too long I would say a minimum that you you should try to support it a

that you you should try to support it a

that you you should try to support it a person would be you know three to six

person would be you know three to six

person would be you know three to six months to really do as much as you can

months to really do as much as you can

months to really do as much as you can to support them if you if you really

to support them if you if you really

to support them if you if you really have no response whatsoever then it’s

have no response whatsoever then it’s

have no response whatsoever then it’s just a matter of saying well you know

just a matter of saying well you know

just a matter of saying well you know for some reason this wasn’t the person

for some reason this wasn’t the person

for some reason this wasn’t the person for me and that’s fine to just think

for me and that’s fine to just think

for me and that’s fine to just think that somehow you’re being guided to the

that somehow you’re being guided to the

that somehow you’re being guided to the right person for you you don’t want it’s

right person for you you don’t want it’s

right person for you you don’t want it’s just like if you had you try to get

just like if you had you try to get

just like if you had you try to get together with your friend and she was

together with your friend and she was

together with your friend and she was always canceling on you after a while

always canceling on you after a while

always canceling on you after a while you would get the hint that this is not

you would get the hint that this is not

you would get the hint that this is not the right friend for you you know there

the right friend for you you know there

the right friend for you you know there are so many people out there who can

are so many people out there who can

are so many people out there who can provide the same value and connection so

provide the same value and connection so

provide the same value and connection so it’s time to move on to the next person

it’s time to move on to the next person

it’s time to move on to the next person and that’s why it’s important that you

and that’s why it’s important that you

and that’s why it’s important that you start with a big enough less though that

start with a big enough less though that

start with a big enough less though that you can just kind of support all these

you can just kind of support all these

you can just kind of support all these people and then then eventually narrow

people and then then eventually narrow

people and then then eventually narrow it down to those people who you really

it down to those people who you really

it down to those people who you really want to be connected with yeah I think

want to be connected with yeah I think

want to be connected with yeah I think as long as you have the passion for it

as long as you have the passion for it

as long as you have the passion for it as long as you still feel like like if

as long as you still feel like like if

as long as you still feel like like if somebody says no where somebody is just

somebody says no where somebody is just

somebody says no where somebody is just ignoring you maybe you lose interest in

ignoring you maybe you lose interest in

ignoring you maybe you lose interest in them maybe you know you’re not as

them maybe you know you’re not as

them maybe you know you’re not as exciting anymore and that’s the time to

exciting anymore and that’s the time to

exciting anymore and that’s the time to move on if you really feel like you know

move on if you really feel like you know

move on if you really feel like you know whoever’s on your 50 list cloris like I

whoever’s on your 50 list cloris like I

whoever’s on your 50 list cloris like I really want to get those people and for

really want to get those people and for

really want to get those people and for me I

me I

me I keep going like until I lose the passion

keep going like until I lose the passion

keep going like until I lose the passion for that having that guest I’ll just

for that having that guest I’ll just

for that having that guest I’ll just keep going until until I get an answer

keep going until until I get an answer

keep going until until I get an answer until they get a yes or I know and just

until they get a yes or I know and just

until they get a yes or I know and just make it part of your daily daily ritual

make it part of your daily daily ritual

make it part of your daily daily ritual and I don’t see it as that like you know

and I don’t see it as that like you know

and I don’t see it as that like you know if you tweet out PewDiePie is and

if you tweet out PewDiePie is and

if you tweet out PewDiePie is and respond to you on the first day or you

respond to you on the first day or you

respond to you on the first day or you know you tweet out the president and he

know you tweet out the president and he

know you tweet out the president and he doesn’t reply to you it’s just a step

doesn’t reply to you it’s just a step

doesn’t reply to you it’s just a step right like you’re running a marathon and

right like you’re running a marathon and

right like you’re running a marathon and you took one step there is a finish line

you took one step there is a finish line

you took one step there is a finish line and it’s it it could only be failure if

and it’s it it could only be failure if

and it’s it it could only be failure if you stop like if you just give up on

you stop like if you just give up on

you stop like if you just give up on this whole influencer marketing thing

this whole influencer marketing thing

this whole influencer marketing thing I’m not gonna connect with any

I’m not gonna connect with any

I’m not gonna connect with any influential people anymore because it

influential people anymore because it

influential people anymore because it doesn’t work you know that’s failure

doesn’t work you know that’s failure

doesn’t work you know that’s failure where if you keep taking steps every day

where if you keep taking steps every day

where if you keep taking steps every day it’s just understanding there is a

it’s just understanding there is a

it’s just understanding there is a finish line you’re gonna get there you

finish line you’re gonna get there you

finish line you’re gonna get there you just took one more step today and then

just took one more step today and then

just took one more step today and then you need another step tomorrow and the

you need another step tomorrow and the

you need another step tomorrow and the list of tomorrow it’s just another step

list of tomorrow it’s just another step

list of tomorrow it’s just another step and each step is a no or like a

and each step is a no or like a

and each step is a no or like a non-response and eventually you go and

non-response and eventually you go and

non-response and eventually you go and you get you get your yes shifting that

you get you get your yes shifting that

you get you get your yes shifting that perspective we think might help I think

perspective we think might help I think

perspective we think might help I think so yeah plus you can learn you know from

so yeah plus you can learn you know from

so yeah plus you can learn you know from those knows you know maybe what can I do

those knows you know maybe what can I do

those knows you know maybe what can I do differently this time with this new

differently this time with this new

differently this time with this new person with the same person and kind of

person with the same person and kind of

person with the same person and kind of tweak your strategy because you know

tweak your strategy because you know

tweak your strategy because you know your failures are lessons they’re pay

your failures are lessons they’re pay

your failures are lessons they’re pay for lessons but they are lessons so

for lessons but they are lessons so

for lessons but they are lessons so Sherry’s writing in same LinkedIn is her

Sherry’s writing in same LinkedIn is her

Sherry’s writing in same LinkedIn is her number one site for social media is

number one site for social media is

number one site for social media is there a preference that you have on how

there a preference that you have on how

there a preference that you have on how you’re reaching out what you’re doing

you’re reaching out what you’re doing

you’re reaching out what you’re doing well sherry I think it depends on how

well sherry I think it depends on how

well sherry I think it depends on how active the person is on LinkedIn or any

active the person is on LinkedIn or any

active the person is on LinkedIn or any other social media platform I personally

other social media platform I personally

other social media platform I personally love LinkedIn because that way I can

love LinkedIn because that way I can

love LinkedIn because that way I can connect with a person I can support them

connect with a person I can support them

connect with a person I can support them on other posts I can recommend them I

on other posts I can recommend them I

on other posts I can recommend them I can send them an email if I want to have

can send them an email if I want to have

can send them an email if I want to have them on my show so I feel like people

them on my show so I feel like people

them on my show so I feel like people who are active on Linkedin they check

who are active on Linkedin they check

who are active on Linkedin they check their LinkedIn emails so I think it’s a

their LinkedIn emails so I think it’s a

their LinkedIn emails so I think it’s a good platform but then you have to

good platform but then you have to

good platform but then you have to figure out how acts how active they are

figure out how acts how active they are

figure out how acts how active they are so can it depends just like the whole

so can it depends just like the whole

so can it depends just like the whole thing about the audience you know where

thing about the audience you know where

thing about the audience you know where do they hang out and then go to where

do they hang out and then go to where

do they hang out and then go to where that person is and really reach out to

that person is and really reach out to

that person is and really reach out to them but I’d personally liked like

them but I’d personally liked like

them but I’d personally liked like LinkedIn interesting I do almost nothing

LinkedIn interesting I do almost nothing

LinkedIn interesting I do almost nothing on LinkedIn but I think

on LinkedIn but I think

on LinkedIn but I think thing yeah I mean I agree hundred

thing yeah I mean I agree hundred

thing yeah I mean I agree hundred percent – it’s where the audience where

percent – it’s where the audience where

percent – it’s where the audience where they’re at where they actually are you

they’re at where they actually are you

they’re at where they actually are you want to you want to play to that if

want to you want to play to that if

want to you want to play to that if doing multiple places and play to your

doing multiple places and play to your

doing multiple places and play to your strengths my default for reaching out I

strengths my default for reaching out I

strengths my default for reaching out I wish YouTube had a great way to reach

wish YouTube had a great way to reach

wish YouTube had a great way to reach out to people they don’t like the you

out to people they don’t like the you

out to people they don’t like the you leave a message it gets sent to spam in

leave a message it gets sent to spam in

leave a message it gets sent to spam in otherwise there’s an email that you can

otherwise there’s an email that you can

otherwise there’s an email that you can write an email isn’t as great my usual

write an email isn’t as great my usual

write an email isn’t as great my usual go-to if they’re in a different place

go-to if they’re in a different place

go-to if they’re in a different place it’ll be Twitter okay because I have a

it’ll be Twitter okay because I have a

it’ll be Twitter okay because I have a following there too I have two hundred

following there too I have two hundred

following there too I have two hundred thousand whatever followers on Twitter

thousand whatever followers on Twitter

thousand whatever followers on Twitter so it usually triggers the alerts or

so it usually triggers the alerts or

so it usually triggers the alerts or whatever it’s not some no-name like

whatever it’s not some no-name like

whatever it’s not some no-name like brand new Twitter account person writing

brand new Twitter account person writing

brand new Twitter account person writing so it allows me to get in a little bit

so it allows me to get in a little bit

so it allows me to get in a little bit and I built my Twitter following with

and I built my Twitter following with

and I built my Twitter following with partly with that intention is that hey

partly with that intention is that hey

partly with that intention is that hey if I if I call out to somebody they’ll

if I if I call out to somebody they’ll

if I if I call out to somebody they’ll pay attention if I if I’m upset at the

pay attention if I if I’m upset at the

pay attention if I if I’m upset at the company for bad customer service they’re

company for bad customer service they’re

company for bad customer service they’re gonna pay attention but yeah most

gonna pay attention but yeah most

gonna pay attention but yeah most important is where they are like if

important is where they are like if

important is where they are like if they’re all over LinkedIn LinkedIn and

they’re all over LinkedIn LinkedIn and

they’re all over LinkedIn LinkedIn and figure it out and be active and share

figure it out and be active and share

figure it out and be active and share their posts and comments and being their

their posts and comments and being their

their posts and comments and being their groups and you know they you should be a

groups and you know they you should be a

groups and you know they you should be a known quantity right to close this point

known quantity right to close this point

known quantity right to close this point they should know who you are they should

they should know who you are they should

they should know who you are they should know your name exactly something I was

know your name exactly something I was

know your name exactly something I was going to say actually if the person who

going to say actually if the person who

going to say actually if the person who you’re trying to connect with wrote a

you’re trying to connect with wrote a

you’re trying to connect with wrote a book that’s actually great because first

book that’s actually great because first

book that’s actually great because first of all you can write a review of read

of all you can write a review of read

of all you can write a review of read their book of course and then write a

their book of course and then write a

their book of course and then write a review on Amazon and just tell them you

review on Amazon and just tell them you

review on Amazon and just tell them you know tweet them hey I just posted this

know tweet them hey I just posted this

know tweet them hey I just posted this review on Amazon what I’ve done I’ve

review on Amazon what I’ve done I’ve

review on Amazon what I’ve done I’ve posted the link to to you know the book

posted the link to to you know the book

posted the link to to you know the book and then a picture of me holding the

and then a picture of me holding the

and then a picture of me holding the book and saying this this book is

book and saying this this book is

book and saying this this book is amazing and I put it on Twitter and

amazing and I put it on Twitter and

amazing and I put it on Twitter and tweet that and it gets their attention

tweet that and it gets their attention

tweet that and it gets their attention so you know books are awesome because

so you know books are awesome because

so you know books are awesome because they want to sell their books and they

they want to sell their books and they

they want to sell their books and they love to get reviews on them positive

love to get reviews on them positive

love to get reviews on them positive reviews for so you know that’s another

reviews for so you know that’s another

reviews for so you know that’s another great way to connect with them yeah and

great way to connect with them yeah and

great way to connect with them yeah and I would say to add on to that point and

I would say to add on to that point and

I would say to add on to that point and your art into it whatever you’re good at

your art into it whatever you’re good at

your art into it whatever you’re good at talent to that bring that creativity to

talent to that bring that creativity to

talent to that bring that creativity to it so for me it’s making videos there’s

it so for me it’s making videos there’s

it so for me it’s making videos there’s a couple of authors whose books I’m

a couple of authors whose books I’m

a couple of authors whose books I’m supporting and the way I do it is we’ll

supporting and the way I do it is we’ll

supporting and the way I do it is we’ll make a video about it I’ll read a

make a video about it I’ll read a

make a video about it I’ll read a passage

passage

passage and then we’ll edit it together and have

and then we’ll edit it together and have

and then we’ll edit it together and have motivational music and it becomes this

motivational music and it becomes this

motivational music and it becomes this promotional vehicle for them that when

promotional vehicle for them that when

promotional vehicle for them that when they see that Wow

they see that Wow

they see that Wow let you really turn my words into

let you really turn my words into

let you really turn my words into something amazing

something amazing

something amazing I’ve seen other people who are singers

I’ve seen other people who are singers

I’ve seen other people who are singers sing a book review right or if you’re

sing a book review right or if you’re

sing a book review right or if you’re you know if you’re a programmer you make

you know if you’re a programmer you make

you know if you’re a programmer you make you make a little program around the

you make a little program around the

you make a little program around the book or something like something unique

book or something like something unique

book or something like something unique different it’s something that you’re

different it’s something that you’re

different it’s something that you’re really good at what’s your art what do

really good at what’s your art what do

really good at what’s your art what do you you know what do you love to create

you you know what do you love to create

you you know what do you love to create create around the book so that like

create around the book so that like

create around the book so that like nobody’s song a book review for that

nobody’s song a book review for that

nobody’s song a book review for that person before you know this lots of

person before you know this lots of

person before you know this lots of singers nobody’s gonna take that so the

singers nobody’s gonna take that so the

singers nobody’s gonna take that so the Cloris is point about like extra step

Cloris is point about like extra step

Cloris is point about like extra step right not just the same thing everybody

right not just the same thing everybody

right not just the same thing everybody else is doing they’re like wow that

else is doing they’re like wow that

else is doing they’re like wow that person’s saying a book review you know

person’s saying a book review you know

person’s saying a book review you know or compose the song around something in

or compose the song around something in

or compose the song around something in my book it’s like man that’s really

my book it’s like man that’s really

my book it’s like man that’s really that’s really wild that’s crazy

that’s really wild that’s crazy

that’s really wild that’s crazy love that cool dee Wilson is writing in

love that cool dee Wilson is writing in

love that cool dee Wilson is writing in will this work to break into the music

will this work to break into the music

will this work to break into the music business well interesting question Dee

business well interesting question Dee

business well interesting question Dee what I would say like who are you really

what I would say like who are you really

what I would say like who are you really trying to target I would just say that

trying to target I would just say that

trying to target I would just say that you wanted to target Rihanna or

you wanted to target Rihanna or

you wanted to target Rihanna or something and you know it’s pretty

something and you know it’s pretty

something and you know it’s pretty difficult to reach her I would try to

difficult to reach her I would try to

difficult to reach her I would try to visualize some sort of like staircase to

visualize some sort of like staircase to

visualize some sort of like staircase to reach her and then kind of go step by

reach her and then kind of go step by

reach her and then kind of go step by step so I would say start with somebody

step so I would say start with somebody

step so I would say start with somebody who’s a little bit more approachable who

who’s a little bit more approachable who

who’s a little bit more approachable who can actually notice your stuff and then

can actually notice your stuff and then

can actually notice your stuff and then once you’re there and you you know that

once you’re there and you you know that

once you’re there and you you know that person then you can go a little bit

person then you can go a little bit

person then you can go a little bit higher and so forth I would say having

higher and so forth I would say having

higher and so forth I would say having your own platform really helps so if you

your own platform really helps so if you

your own platform really helps so if you are in the music business you definitely

are in the music business you definitely

are in the music business you definitely you know if you have a YouTube channel

you know if you have a YouTube channel

you know if you have a YouTube channel you could have a way to have guests on

you could have a way to have guests on

you could have a way to have guests on your channel and perform your music then

your channel and perform your music then

your channel and perform your music then you can have that person you’ve

you can have that person you’ve

you can have that person you’ve connected with as you know to interview

connected with as you know to interview

connected with as you know to interview them and know about their career in

them and know about their career in

them and know about their career in music and then you’ve started to create

music and then you’ve started to create

music and then you’ve started to create that following it wants to create that

that following it wants to create that

that following it wants to create that following and it’s a big enough

following and it’s a big enough

following and it’s a big enough following that you’ll be able to connect

following that you’ll be able to connect

following that you’ll be able to connect with more and more influential people

with more and more influential people

with more and more influential people until you get to Rihanna you know the

until you get to Rihanna you know the

until you get to Rihanna you know the sass that’s what I would suggest instead

sass that’s what I would suggest instead

sass that’s what I would suggest instead of kind of shooting for the people who

of kind of shooting for the people who

of kind of shooting for the people who really have no time to interact with

really have no time to interact with

really have no time to interact with with anyone

with anyone

with anyone then just just go like step by step

then just just go like step by step

then just just go like step by step going up that ladder until you reach it

going up that ladder until you reach it

going up that ladder until you reach it at the top yeah and like again to the

at the top yeah and like again to the

at the top yeah and like again to the previous I think it works in any

previous I think it works in any

previous I think it works in any industry so to the previous point where

industry so to the previous point where

industry so to the previous point where are they

are they

are they you know Rihanna has music videos but I

you know Rihanna has music videos but I

you know Rihanna has music videos but I doubt that she’s looking through the

doubt that she’s looking through the

doubt that she’s looking through the comments to say hey this person

comments to say hey this person

comments to say hey this person commented a lot you know she’s probably

commented a lot you know she’s probably

commented a lot you know she’s probably on Instagram so that’s where you want to

on Instagram so that’s where you want to

on Instagram so that’s where you want to be and maybe what you do is you know

be and maybe what you do is you know

be and maybe what you do is you know maybe on her birthday you sing her I’ll

maybe on her birthday you sing her I’ll

maybe on her birthday you sing her I’ll give you a singer go sing her a happy

give you a singer go sing her a happy

give you a singer go sing her a happy birthday and your style or if you’re I

birthday and your style or if you’re I

birthday and your style or if you’re I don’t know what you’re doing in the

don’t know what you’re doing in the

don’t know what you’re doing in the music industry if you’re if you’re you

music industry if you’re if you’re you

music industry if you’re if you’re you make beats like make her birthday D

make beats like make her birthday D

make beats like make her birthday D something so that like if she happens to

something so that like if she happens to

something so that like if she happens to be attention to it

be attention to it

be attention to it like you have to be good to write you

like you have to be good to write you

like you have to be good to write you want to work with Rihanna

want to work with Rihanna

want to work with Rihanna she’s just if there’s a quality

she’s just if there’s a quality

she’s just if there’s a quality threshold you know you could get on her

threshold you know you could get on her

threshold you know you could get on her radar but if you’re if your stuff sucks

radar but if you’re if your stuff sucks

radar but if you’re if your stuff sucks she’s not gonna do anything with you

she’s not gonna do anything with you

she’s not gonna do anything with you right like people can get on my radar

right like people can get on my radar

right like people can get on my radar but if I don’t like your product or

but if I don’t like your product or

but if I don’t like your product or service I’m not gonna promote it so your

service I’m not gonna promote it so your

service I’m not gonna promote it so your stuff has to be good and something that

stuff has to be good and something that

stuff has to be good and something that when she listens to it she’s gonna be

when she listens to it she’s gonna be

when she listens to it she’s gonna be like and that’s who is this person who

like and that’s who is this person who

like and that’s who is this person who wrote this thing and this is this is

wrote this thing and this is this is

wrote this thing and this is this is quality and yes I like the point of like

quality and yes I like the point of like

quality and yes I like the point of like you can have Rihanna as your goal but

you can have Rihanna as your goal but

you can have Rihanna as your goal but then like what’s the path to Rihanna who

then like what’s the path to Rihanna who

then like what’s the path to Rihanna who are the other people you need to get to

are the other people you need to get to

are the other people you need to get to and the music industry is all about

and the music industry is all about

and the music industry is all about collaborations mmm right like how many

collaborations mmm right like how many

collaborations mmm right like how many albums are produced where there’s

albums are produced where there’s

albums are produced where there’s somebody else on the track with them

somebody else on the track with them

somebody else on the track with them they’re always looking for either those

they’re always looking for either those

they’re always looking for either those sharing audiences or just a different

sharing audiences or just a different

sharing audiences or just a different vibe you know one song has a different

vibe you know one song has a different

vibe you know one song has a different feel to it a special guest on it and

feel to it a special guest on it and

feel to it a special guest on it and some artists are much more open to that

some artists are much more open to that

some artists are much more open to that than others – you know like youtubers –

than others – you know like youtubers –

than others – you know like youtubers – right I do a lot of these kind of

right I do a lot of these kind of

right I do a lot of these kind of hangouts right I do a lot of

hangouts right I do a lot of

hangouts right I do a lot of collaborations we do it every week so

collaborations we do it every week so

collaborations we do it every week so with if Cloris writes and we make this

with if Cloris writes and we make this

with if Cloris writes and we make this up you know it’s it’s it’s easy for me

up you know it’s it’s it’s easy for me

up you know it’s it’s it’s easy for me to say yes because I do this a lot if I

to say yes because I do this a lot if I

to say yes because I do this a lot if I never have guests on and I’m always just

never have guests on and I’m always just

never have guests on and I’m always just doing my own thing it’s gonna be a lot

doing my own thing it’s gonna be a lot

doing my own thing it’s gonna be a lot harder to get me to do an interview

harder to get me to do an interview

harder to get me to do an interview right and so understanding like if

right and so understanding like if

right and so understanding like if there’s an artist who does tons of

there’s an artist who does tons of

there’s an artist who does tons of collabs and you have this sick beat or a

collabs and you have this sick beat or a

collabs and you have this sick beat or a special way of rapping or you just

special way of rapping or you just

special way of rapping or you just acapella like crazy whatever it is even

acapella like crazy whatever it is even

acapella like crazy whatever it is even they’ll use your little chunk in their

they’ll use your little chunk in their

they’ll use your little chunk in their next song so – course is point about

next song so – course is point about

next song so – course is point about having like the list targets that list

having like the list targets that list

having like the list targets that list right to the right people who could be

right to the right people who could be

right to the right people who could be good fits for you correct yeah you

good fits for you correct yeah you

good fits for you correct yeah you really have to know them though to have

really have to know them though to have

really have to know them though to have to really know that person as you said

to really know that person as you said

to really know that person as you said know if they do cooperations or not and

know if they do cooperations or not and

know if they do cooperations or not and that’s when you know you have a chance I

that’s when you know you have a chance I

that’s when you know you have a chance I love it

love it

love it have you seen examples and like you’re

have you seen examples and like you’re

have you seen examples and like you’re typically working with thought leaders

typically working with thought leaders

typically working with thought leaders experts right business kind of people

experts right business kind of people

experts right business kind of people right yeah exactly so uh I would say

right yeah exactly so uh I would say

right yeah exactly so uh I would say I’ve seen examples of people who connect

I’ve seen examples of people who connect

I’ve seen examples of people who connect with with those get the top leaders in

with with those get the top leaders in

with with those get the top leaders in the industry just by doing what I what I

the industry just by doing what I what I

the industry just by doing what I what I said and just participating in in their

said and just participating in in their

said and just participating in in their programs and courses really gives you

programs and courses really gives you

programs and courses really gives you that edge so if you are in another

that edge so if you are in another

that edge so if you are in another industry then ask yourself you know how

industry then ask yourself you know how

industry then ask yourself you know how could I be a crack how could I stand out

could I be a crack how could I stand out

could I be a crack how could I stand out and meet up part of the small I guess a

and meet up part of the small I guess a

and meet up part of the small I guess a group of people that they pay more

group of people that they pay more

group of people that they pay more attention to some of these people have

attention to some of these people have

attention to some of these people have mastermind groups and there would be a

mastermind groups and there would be a

mastermind groups and there would be a investment but if you join them

investment but if you join them

investment but if you join them they’re definitely connecting with them

they’re definitely connecting with them

they’re definitely connecting with them so I wasn’t the entrepreneur on fire

so I wasn’t the entrepreneur on fire

so I wasn’t the entrepreneur on fire they’ve podcast with Johnny two months

they’ve podcast with Johnny two months

they’ve podcast with Johnny two months and the way I initially reached out to

and the way I initially reached out to

and the way I initially reached out to John it was just again I just followed

John it was just again I just followed

John it was just again I just followed him before I was listening to this show

him before I was listening to this show

him before I was listening to this show I said why I love the show and what I

I said why I love the show and what I

I said why I love the show and what I believed in and he actually said you’re

believed in and he actually said you’re

believed in and he actually said you’re a great guest for my show so I didn’t

a great guest for my show so I didn’t

a great guest for my show so I didn’t have to do too much but now because I’m

have to do too much but now because I’m

have to do too much but now because I’m connected with him a lot of many doors

connected with him a lot of many doors

connected with him a lot of many doors like have opened for me you know all

like have opened for me you know all

like have opened for me you know all these people want to have me on their

these people want to have me on their

these people want to have me on their podcast so again it’s awesome so it’s a

podcast so again it’s awesome so it’s a

podcast so again it’s awesome so it’s a matter of of connecting with that one

matter of of connecting with that one

matter of of connecting with that one person that opens the door for you to

person that opens the door for you to

person that opens the door for you to many other opportunities right and you

many other opportunities right and you

many other opportunities right and you know we’ve been talking about online it

know we’ve been talking about online it

know we’ve been talking about online it may also be off low like maybe the

may also be off low like maybe the

may also be off low like maybe the people that you’re connecting what I

people that you’re connecting what I

people that you’re connecting what I connect with they’re not on social we’re

connect with they’re not on social we’re

connect with they’re not on social we’re doing a top ten video and Tyree skips in

doing a top ten video and Tyree skips in

doing a top ten video and Tyree skips in the actor and for him he wanted to

the actor and for him he wanted to

the actor and for him he wanted to connect with this director is what is

connect with this director is what is

connect with this director is what is his favorite director he wanted to

his favorite director he wanted to

his favorite director he wanted to connect with and the director is not on

connect with and the director is not on

connect with and the director is not on social media so he can’t tweet him I

social media so he can’t tweet him I

social media so he can’t tweet him I send my video or anything but he knew

send my video or anything but he knew

send my video or anything but he knew this director was gonna be at this party

this director was gonna be at this party

this director was gonna be at this party it’s like I’m gonna go to the party I

it’s like I’m gonna go to the party I

it’s like I’m gonna go to the party I don’t care about party I don’t care

don’t care about party I don’t care

don’t care about party I don’t care about anybody else there I’m not there

about anybody else there I’m not there

about anybody else there I’m not there to get drunk or me to the P I want to

to get drunk or me to the P I want to

to get drunk or me to the P I want to meet the director I’m gonna have a

meet the director I’m gonna have a

meet the director I’m gonna have a conversation with that director

conversation with that director

conversation with that director and then I’m gonna go home you know and

and then I’m gonna go home you know and

and then I’m gonna go home you know and you had that conversation then using

you had that conversation then using

you had that conversation then using that time to stand up so you know to

that time to stand up so you know to

that time to stand up so you know to your point about like maybe they have a

your point about like maybe they have a

your point about like maybe they have a mastermind group or maybe they’re going

mastermind group or maybe they’re going

mastermind group or maybe they’re going to do a book signing somewhere you know

to do a book signing somewhere you know

to do a book signing somewhere you know maybe they have some local events or

maybe they have some local events or

maybe they have some local events or some tour thing that you can go and

some tour thing that you can go and

some tour thing that you can go and shake their hand and introduce yourself

shake their hand and introduce yourself

shake their hand and introduce yourself just getting on their ass something yeah

just getting on their ass something yeah

just getting on their ass something yeah that’s right yeah cool

that’s right yeah cool

that’s right yeah cool Cloris it’s crazy how quickly half an

Cloris it’s crazy how quickly half an

Cloris it’s crazy how quickly half an hour flies by for people who are curious

hour flies by for people who are curious

hour flies by for people who are curious about you what you’re up to reaching out

about you what you’re up to reaching out

about you what you’re up to reaching out I know you have your website

I know you have your website

I know you have your website Cloris Kylee calm we’re linked it up in

Cloris Kylee calm we’re linked it up in

Cloris Kylee calm we’re linked it up in the description you have an ebook what’s

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