how to deal with the doubters and the haters so I got a great comment that
haters so I got a great comment that
haters so I got a great comment that came in front of my newsletter readers
came in front of my newsletter readers
came in front of my newsletter readers love you guys I DT who wrote in the say
love you guys I DT who wrote in the say
love you guys I DT who wrote in the say how do you deal with the doubters and
how do you deal with the doubters and
how do you deal with the doubters and haters how do you keep yourself esteem
haters how do you keep yourself esteem
haters how do you keep yourself esteem high despite all the criticism this is a
high despite all the criticism this is a
high despite all the criticism this is a great question too DT and I call these
great question too DT and I call these
great question too DT and I call these people the little man you know the
people the little man you know the
people the little man you know the people who don’t believe when your idea
people who don’t believe when your idea
people who don’t believe when your idea who just tell you all the reasons why
who just tell you all the reasons why
who just tell you all the reasons why something’s not gonna work and try to
something’s not gonna work and try to
something’s not gonna work and try to tear you down the fact is everybody has
tear you down the fact is everybody has
tear you down the fact is everybody has the little man in their life everybody
the little man in their life everybody
the little man in their life everybody has and when you’re trying to chase your
has and when you’re trying to chase your
has and when you’re trying to chase your dream when you’re trying to do something
dream when you’re trying to do something
dream when you’re trying to do something big you’re trying to do something
big you’re trying to do something
big you’re trying to do something important you’re trying to do something
important you’re trying to do something
important you’re trying to do something that maybe nobody and your family has
that maybe nobody and your family has
that maybe nobody and your family has ever done before it’s outside the norm
ever done before it’s outside the norm
ever done before it’s outside the norm then at the start you’re not gonna have
then at the start you’re not gonna have
then at the start you’re not gonna have all the answers right it’s a dream
all the answers right it’s a dream
all the answers right it’s a dream you’re trying to figure it out you’re
you’re trying to figure it out you’re
you’re trying to figure it out you’re making corrections as you go but it’s
making corrections as you go but it’s
making corrections as you go but it’s not gonna be perfect you’re gonna make
not gonna be perfect you’re gonna make
not gonna be perfect you’re gonna make mistakes
mistakes
mistakes there’s gonna be holes in your plan and
there’s gonna be holes in your plan and
there’s gonna be holes in your plan and the little man is a person who sees all
the little man is a person who sees all
the little man is a person who sees all those holes all those things that you
those holes all those things that you
those holes all those things that you don’t have the knowledge of yet and
don’t have the knowledge of yet and
don’t have the knowledge of yet and tells you well here’s all the reasons
tells you well here’s all the reasons
tells you well here’s all the reasons why it’s not gonna work out where your
why it’s not gonna work out where your
why it’s not gonna work out where your real friends are the people who will see
real friends are the people who will see
real friends are the people who will see those holes and give you support either
those holes and give you support either
those holes and give you support either in a form of a solution here’s what you
in a form of a solution here’s what you
in a form of a solution here’s what you can do here’s the problem you’re gonna
can do here’s the problem you’re gonna
can do here’s the problem you’re gonna face and here’s how you can handle it or
face and here’s how you can handle it or
face and here’s how you can handle it or just boosting your confidence saying I
just boosting your confidence saying I
just boosting your confidence saying I believe in you it’s gonna work out you
believe in you it’s gonna work out you
believe in you it’s gonna work out you can do this they don’t have to agree
can do this they don’t have to agree
can do this they don’t have to agree with you okay they don’t have to
with you okay they don’t have to
with you okay they don’t have to necessarily think that even what you’re
necessarily think that even what you’re
necessarily think that even what you’re doing is right but if it’s your dream
doing is right but if it’s your dream
doing is right but if it’s your dream and you want to see this thing through
and you want to see this thing through
and you want to see this thing through then your real friends would be the
then your real friends would be the
then your real friends would be the people who support you no matter what
people who support you no matter what
people who support you no matter what now it can be hard to eliminate the
now it can be hard to eliminate the
now it can be hard to eliminate the people in your life who don’t support
people in your life who don’t support
people in your life who don’t support you because sometimes are really close
you because sometimes are really close
you because sometimes are really close but strategy number one is say goodbye
but strategy number one is say goodbye
but strategy number one is say goodbye to the little man now if it’s somebody
to the little man now if it’s somebody
to the little man now if it’s somebody who’s not that close to you it’s easy
who’s not that close to you it’s easy
who’s not that close to you it’s easy right to stop talking to somebody who’s
right to stop talking to somebody who’s
right to stop talking to somebody who’s an acquaintance is easy what do you do
an acquaintance is easy what do you do
an acquaintance is easy what do you do when it’s somebody closer to you so I
when it’s somebody closer to you so I
when it’s somebody closer to you so I want to share two examples from my my my
want to share two examples from my my my
want to share two examples from my my my story the first is there’s a company I
story the first is there’s a company I
story the first is there’s a company I work with it’s run by two people
work with it’s run by two people
work with it’s run by two people business partners and
business partners and
business partners and one guy is the little man and this is
one guy is the little man and this is
one guy is the little man and this is how I came up with the name little man
how I came up with the name little man
how I came up with the name little man and I showed him some of my stuff and
and I showed him some of my stuff and
and I showed him some of my stuff and he’s hating on it and he’s hurling
he’s hating on it and he’s hurling
he’s hating on it and he’s hurling insults at me and not telling me how to
insults at me and not telling me how to
insults at me and not telling me how to make it better and it got to the point
make it better and it got to the point
make it better and it got to the point where like this guy that the the emails
where like this guy that the the emails
where like this guy that the the emails going back and and this guy’s just a
going back and and this guy’s just a
going back and and this guy’s just a drain
drain
drain he’s a drain on my life force and I
he’s a drain on my life force and I
he’s a drain on my life force and I can’t be around him anymore now his
can’t be around him anymore now his
can’t be around him anymore now his business partner I love he does great by
business partner I love he does great by
business partner I love he does great by me he’s an awesome individual if he was
me he’s an awesome individual if he was
me he’s an awesome individual if he was stuck in a problem and he said Evan I
stuck in a problem and he said Evan I
stuck in a problem and he said Evan I really need your help
really need your help
really need your help I would hop on a plane and fly to him to
I would hop on a plane and fly to him to
I would hop on a plane and fly to him to help him out but I have no time for his
help him out but I have no time for his
help him out but I have no time for his business partner and I’ve eliminated him
business partner and I’ve eliminated him
business partner and I’ve eliminated him from my life and I’m much happier and
from my life and I’m much happier and
from my life and I’m much happier and able to do much greater things without
able to do much greater things without
able to do much greater things without him being a part of what I do another
him being a part of what I do another
him being a part of what I do another example is even more personal there’s
example is even more personal there’s
example is even more personal there’s somebody in my extended family who who
somebody in my extended family who who
somebody in my extended family who who is a little man everything she’s
is a little man everything she’s
is a little man everything she’s complaining about is negative is is
complaining about is negative is is
complaining about is negative is is another drain on you and doesn’t support
another drain on you and doesn’t support
another drain on you and doesn’t support anything that you do and became dishes
anything that you do and became dishes
anything that you do and became dishes and personal and degrading and doing
and personal and degrading and doing
and personal and degrading and doing things that I would you know never
things that I would you know never
things that I would you know never imagine people doing other people
imagine people doing other people
imagine people doing other people especially in your family and so I
especially in your family and so I
especially in your family and so I decided to eliminate her from my day to
decided to eliminate her from my day to
decided to eliminate her from my day to day life and and I haven’t seen her in
day life and and I haven’t seen her in
day life and and I haven’t seen her in years and again I’ve been able to you
years and again I’ve been able to you
years and again I’ve been able to you know I have much higher self-confidence
know I have much higher self-confidence
know I have much higher self-confidence and self-esteem because I’m not around
and self-esteem because I’m not around
and self-esteem because I’m not around negative people and that may be hard for
negative people and that may be hard for
negative people and that may be hard for you you know especially if they’re close
you you know especially if they’re close
you you know especially if they’re close family you know if it’s your parents how
family you know if it’s your parents how
family you know if it’s your parents how do you tell your parents I’m not talking
do you tell your parents I’m not talking
do you tell your parents I’m not talking to you because you don’t support my
to you because you don’t support my
to you because you don’t support my dream and I think it’s important to try
dream and I think it’s important to try
dream and I think it’s important to try to explain how important this is for you
to explain how important this is for you
to explain how important this is for you that this is your life that you’re
that this is your life that you’re
that this is your life that you’re trying to do something to change the
trying to do something to change the
trying to do something to change the world to make it better this is really
world to make it better this is really
world to make it better this is really important to you and you really want
important to you and you really want
important to you and you really want their support because you can’t do great
their support because you can’t do great
their support because you can’t do great things if the people around you’re just
things if the people around you’re just
things if the people around you’re just trying to tear you down so if you can’t
trying to tear you down so if you can’t
trying to tear you down so if you can’t eliminate somebody from your life which
eliminate somebody from your life which
eliminate somebody from your life which is the ideal scenario then at least
is the ideal scenario then at least
is the ideal scenario then at least limit your exposure on top of that you
limit your exposure on top of that you
limit your exposure on top of that you want to create an environment that
want to create an environment that
want to create an environment that supports you that’s number two create an
supports you that’s number two create an
supports you that’s number two create an environment that supports you you want
environment that supports you you want
environment that supports you you want to create a routine you want to be
to create a routine you want to be
to create a routine you want to be surrounded by people who
surrounded by people who
surrounded by people who you up you want to consume stories and
you up you want to consume stories and
you up you want to consume stories and media and and information that builds
media and and information that builds
media and and information that builds you up they give you ideas that give you
you up they give you ideas that give you
you up they give you ideas that give you energy it’s hard enough to follow your
energy it’s hard enough to follow your
energy it’s hard enough to follow your dreams when you have great people around
dreams when you have great people around
dreams when you have great people around you forget about when you have people
you forget about when you have people
you forget about when you have people trying to tear you down around you but
trying to tear you down around you but
trying to tear you down around you but you want to still have an environment as
you want to still have an environment as
you want to still have an environment as much as possible that builds you up so
much as possible that builds you up so
much as possible that builds you up so think about who your friends are think
think about who your friends are think
think about who your friends are think about the people who you hang out with
about the people who you hang out with
about the people who you hang out with do they help build you up think about
do they help build you up think about
do they help build you up think about the books that you read the TV shows
the books that you read the TV shows
the books that you read the TV shows that you watch the videos that you
that you watch the videos that you
that you watch the videos that you consume the newspapers or websites or
consume the newspapers or websites or
consume the newspapers or websites or whatever it is that you read are you
whatever it is that you read are you
whatever it is that you read are you surrounded by things that build you up
surrounded by things that build you up
surrounded by things that build you up to give you energy they give you
to give you energy they give you
to give you energy they give you creativity if not then change your
creativity if not then change your
creativity if not then change your surroundings this is entirely in your
surroundings this is entirely in your
surroundings this is entirely in your control
control
control you can create whatever world you want
you can create whatever world you want
you can create whatever world you want your daily routine what’s the first
your daily routine what’s the first
your daily routine what’s the first thing that you do when you wake up every
thing that you do when you wake up every
thing that you do when you wake up every day how do you spend that first hour of
day how do you spend that first hour of
day how do you spend that first hour of your day is it doing something that
your day is it doing something that
your day is it doing something that supports you that builds you up that
supports you that builds you up that
supports you that builds you up that gives you momentum that gives you energy
gives you momentum that gives you energy
gives you momentum that gives you energy or is it something that just is just
or is it something that just is just
or is it something that just is just average because again if you’re just
average because again if you’re just
average because again if you’re just being average you’re not gonna be able
being average you’re not gonna be able
being average you’re not gonna be able to do something great so create that
to do something great so create that
to do something great so create that environment think about who your friends
environment think about who your friends
environment think about who your friends are think about the music to listen to
are think about the music to listen to
are think about the music to listen to the books you read the shows you watch
the books you read the shows you watch
the books you read the shows you watch stop voice and time on Facebook and
stop voice and time on Facebook and
stop voice and time on Facebook and stupid YouTube videos and start
stupid YouTube videos and start
stupid YouTube videos and start consuming stuff that builds you up that
consuming stuff that builds you up that
consuming stuff that builds you up that makes you a better entrepreneur that
makes you a better entrepreneur that
makes you a better entrepreneur that gives you the confidence to say I can do
gives you the confidence to say I can do
gives you the confidence to say I can do this one of the things that helped me
this one of the things that helped me
this one of the things that helped me the most was reading stories of famous
the most was reading stories of famous
the most was reading stories of famous entrepreneurs famous successful
entrepreneurs famous successful
entrepreneurs famous successful entrepreneurs you look at how they got
entrepreneurs you look at how they got
entrepreneurs you look at how they got started and it was with nothing most of
started and it was with nothing most of
started and it was with nothing most of them with nothing they didn’t have
them with nothing they didn’t have
them with nothing they didn’t have family background they didn’t have a
family background they didn’t have a
family background they didn’t have a angel investor a venture capitalist
angel investor a venture capitalist
angel investor a venture capitalist dumping millions into them they started
dumping millions into them they started
dumping millions into them they started with nothing they’re often who were
with nothing they’re often who were
with nothing they’re often who were broken and ran out of money but they
broken and ran out of money but they
broken and ran out of money but they believed in themselves they had people
believed in themselves they had people
believed in themselves they had people around them who tried to tear them down
around them who tried to tear them down
around them who tried to tear them down and tell them why it’s not gonna work
and tell them why it’s not gonna work
and tell them why it’s not gonna work out but they believed in themselves and
out but they believed in themselves and
out but they believed in themselves and reading those stories makes me feel like
reading those stories makes me feel like
reading those stories makes me feel like I could do the same thing right Walt
I could do the same thing right Walt
I could do the same thing right Walt Disney had to go through all of that
Disney had to go through all of that
Disney had to go through all of that crap in his life to become successful I
crap in his life to become successful I
crap in his life to become successful I could do the same thing you could be the
could do the same thing you could be the
could do the same thing you could be the next Walt Disney but you have to create
next Walt Disney but you have to create
next Walt Disney but you have to create that routine in that environment that
that routine in that environment that
that routine in that environment that builds you up and ignore the little man
builds you up and ignore the little man
builds you up and ignore the little man believed for those of you watching like
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