you have to be prepared to take any and every opportunity that’s presented to
every opportunity that’s presented to
every opportunity that’s presented to you
you
you all right nothing’s just gonna happen
all right nothing’s just gonna happen
all right nothing’s just gonna happen you know everybody say it’s all on you
you know everybody say it’s all on you
you know everybody say it’s all on you it is all on you there’s other people
it is all on you there’s other people
it is all on you there’s other people that can educate you and help you but
that can educate you and help you but
that can educate you and help you but you take these different experiences
you take these different experiences
you take these different experiences that you learn that stick with you I
that you learn that stick with you I
that you learn that stick with you I mean you may not remember a whole lot
mean you may not remember a whole lot
mean you may not remember a whole lot when you were four years old but there’s
when you were four years old but there’s
when you were four years old but there’s certain memories there’s certain things
certain memories there’s certain things
certain memories there’s certain things you can use them to either harness you
you can use them to either harness you
you can use them to either harness you to greatness or you can use them to kind
to greatness or you can use them to kind
to greatness or you can use them to kind of just keep you where you’re at and
of just keep you where you’re at and
of just keep you where you’re at and most people are just satisfied with that
most people are just satisfied with that
most people are just satisfied with that there’s always the next level your
there’s always the next level your
there’s always the next level your definition of greatness and what you
definition of greatness and what you
definition of greatness and what you want achieve could be totally different
want achieve could be totally different
want achieve could be totally different than somebody else’s there are so many
than somebody else’s there are so many
than somebody else’s there are so many people in the world and and and you know
people in the world and and and you know
people in the world and and and you know you may be watching this right now and
you may be watching this right now and
you may be watching this right now and you have these incredible ideas and what
you have these incredible ideas and what
you have these incredible ideas and what you think is missing is motivation and
you think is missing is motivation and
you think is missing is motivation and that’s not true
that’s not true
that’s not true because the way that our minds are wired
because the way that our minds are wired
because the way that our minds are wired and the fact about human beings is that
and the fact about human beings is that
and the fact about human beings is that we are not designed to do things that
we are not designed to do things that
we are not designed to do things that are uncomfortable or scary or difficult
are uncomfortable or scary or difficult
are uncomfortable or scary or difficult our brains are designed to protect us
our brains are designed to protect us
our brains are designed to protect us from those things because our brains are
from those things because our brains are
from those things because our brains are trying to keep us alive and in order to
trying to keep us alive and in order to
trying to keep us alive and in order to change in order to build a business in
change in order to build a business in
change in order to build a business in order to be the best parent of a spouse
order to be the best parent of a spouse
order to be the best parent of a spouse to do all those things that you know you
to do all those things that you know you
to do all those things that you know you want to do with your life with your work
want to do with your life with your work
want to do with your life with your work with your dreams you’re gonna have to do
with your dreams you’re gonna have to do
with your dreams you’re gonna have to do things that are difficult uncertain or
things that are difficult uncertain or
things that are difficult uncertain or scary which sets up this problem for all
scary which sets up this problem for all
scary which sets up this problem for all of us you’re never gonna feel like it
of us you’re never gonna feel like it
of us you’re never gonna feel like it motivations garbage you you only feel
motivations garbage you you only feel
motivations garbage you you only feel motivated to do the things that are easy
motivated to do the things that are easy
motivated to do the things that are easy what do you think that is oh I know
what do you think that is oh I know
what do you think that is oh I know exactly why that is because I I’ve
exactly why that is because I I’ve
exactly why that is because I I’ve studied this so much because for me one
studied this so much because for me one
studied this so much because for me one of the hardest things to figure out was
of the hardest things to figure out was
of the hardest things to figure out was why is it so hard to do the little
why is it so hard to do the little
why is it so hard to do the little things that would improve my life and
things that would improve my life and
things that would improve my life and what I’ve come to realize and that we’ll
what I’ve come to realize and that we’ll
what I’ve come to realize and that we’ll talk a lot about today is that the way
talk a lot about today is that the way
talk a lot about today is that the way that our minds are designed is our minds
that our minds are designed is our minds
that our minds are designed is our minds are designed to stop you at all costs
are designed to stop you at all costs
are designed to stop you at all costs from doing anything that might hurt you
from doing anything that might hurt you
from doing anything that might hurt you and the way that that that that this all
and the way that that that that this all
and the way that that that that this all happens is it all starts with something
happens is it all starts with something
happens is it all starts with something super subtle that none of us ever catch
super subtle that none of us ever catch
super subtle that none of us ever catch and that is with this habit that all of
and that is with this habit that all of
and that is with this habit that all of us have that nobody’s talking about
us have that nobody’s talking about
us have that nobody’s talking about everything
everything
everything matters
matters
matters if you take any situation and just take
if you take any situation and just take
if you take any situation and just take the word only and take the word just out
the word only and take the word just out
the word only and take the word just out of it
of it
of it it changes the holy phrase
it changes the holy phrase
it changes the holy phrase it’s just a game
it’s just a game
it’s just a game it’s a game
it’s a game
it’s a game it’s only a job
if you feel like this isn’t only a job
if you feel like this isn’t only a job before this interview is up I advise you
before this interview is up I advise you
before this interview is up I advise you to get up and leave right now
to get up and leave right now
to get up and leave right now because if somebody else will fill this
because if somebody else will fill this
because if somebody else will fill this seat up and take that job and turn it
seat up and take that job and turn it
seat up and take that job and turn it into a career be careful of those words
into a career be careful of those words
into a career be careful of those words trap words I’m just gonna smoke one
trap words I’m just gonna smoke one
trap words I’m just gonna smoke one cigarette
that shows you their preparation for a
that shows you their preparation for a mental standpoint of how weak they
mental standpoint of how weak they
mental standpoint of how weak they really are we all have a habit of
really are we all have a habit of
really are we all have a habit of hesitating hmm we have an idea you’re
hesitating hmm we have an idea you’re
hesitating hmm we have an idea you’re sitting in a meeting you have this
sitting in a meeting you have this
sitting in a meeting you have this incredible idea and instead of just you
incredible idea and instead of just you
incredible idea and instead of just you know saying it you stop and you hesitate
know saying it you stop and you hesitate
know saying it you stop and you hesitate now what none of us realize is that when
now what none of us realize is that when
now what none of us realize is that when you hesitate just that moment that micro
you hesitate just that moment that micro
you hesitate just that moment that micro moment that small hesitation it sends a
moment that small hesitation it sends a
moment that small hesitation it sends a stress signal to your brain it wakes
stress signal to your brain it wakes
stress signal to your brain it wakes your brain up and your brain all of a
your brain up and your brain all of a
your brain up and your brain all of a sudden goes oh wait a minute wait why is
sudden goes oh wait a minute wait why is
sudden goes oh wait a minute wait why is he hesitating he didn’t hesitate when he
he hesitating he didn’t hesitate when he
he hesitating he didn’t hesitate when he put on his killer spiky sneakers he
put on his killer spiky sneakers he
put on his killer spiky sneakers he didn’t hesitate with the really cool
didn’t hesitate with the really cool
didn’t hesitate with the really cool track pants he didn’t hesitate with the
track pants he didn’t hesitate with the
track pants he didn’t hesitate with the NASA tee shirt now he’s hesitating to
NASA tee shirt now he’s hesitating to
NASA tee shirt now he’s hesitating to talk something must be up
talk something must be up
talk something must be up so then your brain goes to work to
so then your brain goes to work to
so then your brain goes to work to protect you it has a million different
protect you it has a million different
protect you it has a million different ways to protect you one of them is
ways to protect you one of them is
ways to protect you one of them is called the spotlight effect it’s a known
called the spotlight effect it’s a known
called the spotlight effect it’s a known phenomenon where your brain magnifies
phenomenon where your brain magnifies
phenomenon where your brain magnifies risk Y to pull you away from something
risk Y to pull you away from something
risk Y to pull you away from something that it perceives to be a problem and so
that it perceives to be a problem and so
that it perceives to be a problem and so you can truly trace every single problem
you can truly trace every single problem
you can truly trace every single problem or complaint in your life to silence and
or complaint in your life to silence and
or complaint in your life to silence and hesitation those are decisions and what
hesitation those are decisions and what
hesitation those are decisions and what I do and what’s changed my life is
I do and what’s changed my life is
I do and what’s changed my life is waking up and realizing that motivations
waking up and realizing that motivations
waking up and realizing that motivations garbage I’m never gonna feel like doing
garbage I’m never gonna feel like doing
garbage I’m never gonna feel like doing the things that are tough for difficult
the things that are tough for difficult
the things that are tough for difficult or uncertain or scary or new so I need
or uncertain or scary or new so I need
or uncertain or scary or new so I need to stop leading until I feel like it and
to stop leading until I feel like it and
to stop leading until I feel like it and number two I am one decision away from a
number two I am one decision away from a
number two I am one decision away from a totally different marriage a totally
totally different marriage a totally
totally different marriage a totally different life a totally different job a
different life a totally different job a
different life a totally different job a totally different income a totally
totally different income a totally
totally different income a totally different relationship with my kids
different relationship with my kids
different relationship with my kids not like one decision I’m divorcing you
not like one decision I’m divorcing you
not like one decision I’m divorcing you in in the marriage example but one
in in the marriage example but one
in in the marriage example but one decision on you know you could be having
decision on you know you could be having
decision on you know you could be having a conversation with your spouse and you
a conversation with your spouse and you
a conversation with your spouse and you feel your emotions rise up and within a
feel your emotions rise up and within a
feel your emotions rise up and within a tiny window those emotions can take over
tiny window those emotions can take over
tiny window those emotions can take over and can impact how your marriage goes or
and can impact how your marriage goes or
and can impact how your marriage goes or you can learn how to take control of
you can learn how to take control of
you can learn how to take control of that micro moment
that micro moment
that micro moment and make a decision to act in a way that
and make a decision to act in a way that
and make a decision to act in a way that actually shifts your marriage your life
actually shifts your marriage your life
actually shifts your marriage your life comes down to your decisions and if you
comes down to your decisions and if you
comes down to your decisions and if you change your decisions you will change
change your decisions you will change
change your decisions you will change everything I’m convinced that well
everything I’m convinced that well
everything I’m convinced that well virtually everyone you’re ever gonna
virtually everyone you’re ever gonna
virtually everyone you’re ever gonna meet they will tell you that they want
meet they will tell you that they want
meet they will tell you that they want to do something great with their life
to do something great with their life
to do something great with their life they’ll tell you that they’ve got big
they’ll tell you that they’ve got big
they’ll tell you that they’ve got big dreams they’ve got plans and they’re
dreams they’ve got plans and they’re
dreams they’ve got plans and they’re gonna make it happen
gonna make it happen
gonna make it happen but they can’t take criticism they’re
but they can’t take criticism they’re
but they can’t take criticism they’re not willing to look at what they’re
not willing to look at what they’re
not willing to look at what they’re doing wrong they’re not willing to admit
doing wrong they’re not willing to admit
doing wrong they’re not willing to admit that everything is their fault but it’s
that everything is their fault but it’s
that everything is their fault but it’s just a frame of reference and if they
just a frame of reference and if they
just a frame of reference and if they would change that frame of reference it
would change that frame of reference it
would change that frame of reference it would change everything and as Tim
would change everything and as Tim
would change everything and as Tim Grover said the only difference between
Grover said the only difference between
Grover said the only difference between feedback and criticism is how you hear
feedback and criticism is how you hear
feedback and criticism is how you hear it
it
it understanding the brain understanding
understanding the brain understanding
understanding the brain understanding how we process data understanding the
how we process data understanding the
how we process data understanding the way that ideas get into your mind and
way that ideas get into your mind and
way that ideas get into your mind and cause a chain reaction of emotions if
cause a chain reaction of emotions if
cause a chain reaction of emotions if you can’t figure that out and rise above
you can’t figure that out and rise above
you can’t figure that out and rise above it and not become a victim of your
it and not become a victim of your
it and not become a victim of your emotions not become a victim to people
emotions not become a victim to people
emotions not become a victim to people saying something that knock you off your
saying something that knock you off your
saying something that knock you off your confidence that make you feel insecure
confidence that make you feel insecure
confidence that make you feel insecure that actually cripple your ability to
that actually cripple your ability to
that actually cripple your ability to perform because of how you have decided
perform because of how you have decided
perform because of how you have decided to hear something and that moment of
to hear something and that moment of
to hear something and that moment of awakening that breakthrough that is the
awakening that breakthrough that is the
awakening that breakthrough that is the realization that you decide what to
realization that you decide what to
realization that you decide what to focus on you decide what to hear and
focus on you decide what to hear and
focus on you decide what to hear and what to take away from something
what to take away from something
what to take away from something somebody can assail you they can attack
somebody can assail you they can attack
somebody can assail you they can attack you they can victimize you but it’s a
you they can victimize you but it’s a
you they can victimize you but it’s a choice as to whether or not you play the
choice as to whether or not you play the
choice as to whether or not you play the victim as Winston Churchill said
victim as Winston Churchill said
victim as Winston Churchill said criticism may not be agreeable but it’s
criticism may not be agreeable but it’s
criticism may not be agreeable but it’s necessary it fulfills the same function
necessary it fulfills the same function
necessary it fulfills the same function as pain in the human body it calls
as pain in the human body it calls
as pain in the human body it calls attention to an unhealthy state of
attention to an unhealthy state of
attention to an unhealthy state of things in the pursuit of greatness
things in the pursuit of greatness
things in the pursuit of greatness people are still trying to avoid
people are still trying to avoid
people are still trying to avoid if you really want to do something if
if you really want to do something if
if you really want to do something if you really want to become somebody then
you really want to become somebody then
you really want to become somebody then you’ve got to run headlong into pain
you’ve got to run headlong into pain
you’ve got to run headlong into pain you’ve got to be looking for those
you’ve got to be looking for those
you’ve got to be looking for those things that make you suffer you’ve got
things that make you suffer you’ve got
things that make you suffer you’ve got to seek out the pain you’ve got to seek
to seek out the pain you’ve got to seek
to seek out the pain you’ve got to seek out things that make you uncomfortable
out things that make you uncomfortable
out things that make you uncomfortable you’ve got to want to hit that
you’ve got to want to hit that
you’ve got to want to hit that difficulty because it is in those
difficulty because it is in those
difficulty because it is in those moments it is in that bit of suffering
moments it is in that bit of suffering
moments it is in that bit of suffering it is in seeing what you are not good at
it is in seeing what you are not good at
it is in seeing what you are not good at that is going to allow you to become
that is going to allow you to become
that is going to allow you to become great and if you have to let it fill you
great and if you have to let it fill you
great and if you have to let it fill you with rage to really stand in anguish in
with rage to really stand in anguish in
with rage to really stand in anguish in order to force yourself to move then
order to force yourself to move then
order to force yourself to move then stand in it do whatever you need to do
stand in it do whatever you need to do
stand in it do whatever you need to do in order to reach your goals and if
in order to reach your goals and if
in order to reach your goals and if that’s the motivation that you need then
that’s the motivation that you need then
that’s the motivation that you need then embrace it and chase it as Tony Robbins
embrace it and chase it as Tony Robbins
embrace it and chase it as Tony Robbins said the purpose of pain is to move us
said the purpose of pain is to move us
said the purpose of pain is to move us into action it’s not to make us suffer
into action it’s not to make us suffer
into action it’s not to make us suffer so in that anguish in the excruciating
so in that anguish in the excruciating
so in that anguish in the excruciating pain find no suffering see the joining
pain find no suffering see the joining
pain find no suffering see the joining welcome it like an old friend and the
welcome it like an old friend and the
welcome it like an old friend and the day that you can welcome your pain like
day that you can welcome your pain like
day that you can welcome your pain like an old friend because you know like a
an old friend because you know like a
an old friend because you know like a friend it is taking you where you need
friend it is taking you where you need
friend it is taking you where you need to go it is spurring you into action it
to go it is spurring you into action it
to go it is spurring you into action it is pushing you to become something and
is pushing you to become something and
is pushing you to become something and the process of rebirth my friends hurts
the process of rebirth my friends hurts
the process of rebirth my friends hurts but whether you choose to suffer or not
but whether you choose to suffer or not
but whether you choose to suffer or not is your choice because remember Tim’s
is your choice because remember Tim’s
is your choice because remember Tim’s words the only difference between
words the only difference between
words the only difference between feedback and criticism is how
feedback and criticism is how
feedback and criticism is how the only difference between pain and
the only difference between pain and
the only difference between pain and suffering is how you frame it so it’s
suffering is how you frame it so it’s
suffering is how you frame it so it’s your choice it’s up to you how you’re
your choice it’s up to you how you’re
your choice it’s up to you how you’re gonna move forward but never for one
gonna move forward but never for one
gonna move forward but never for one second forget that it’s a choice the
second forget that it’s a choice the
second forget that it’s a choice the body has limitations the mind does not
body has limitations the mind does not
body has limitations the mind does not we focus so much on what goes on from
we focus so much on what goes on from
we focus so much on what goes on from the neck down that we forget it all
the neck down that we forget it all
the neck down that we forget it all starts from here everything starts with
starts from here everything starts with
starts from here everything starts with if you’re not mentally ready you’re
if you’re not mentally ready you’re
if you’re not mentally ready you’re never really physically prepared
never really physically prepared
never really physically prepared and that’s where the preparation starts
and that’s where the preparation starts
and that’s where the preparation starts I firmly believe that everybody in this
I firmly believe that everybody in this
I firmly believe that everybody in this room everybody on this planet has a gift
it’s your job to figure out what that
it’s your job to figure out what that gift is
gift is
gift is then it becomes your job to decide
then it becomes your job to decide
then it becomes your job to decide whether you’re going to act on that or
whether you’re going to act on that or
whether you’re going to act on that or not everyone sees
not everyone sees
not everyone sees the work that you put in but it’s what
the work that you put in but it’s what
the work that you put in but it’s what you don’t see it’s going to determine
you don’t see it’s going to determine
you don’t see it’s going to determine how far you did again I I hear stuff all
how far you did again I I hear stuff all
how far you did again I I hear stuff all the time people say oh look in the
the time people say oh look in the
the time people say oh look in the mirror and you’ll see why you’re not
mirror and you’ll see why you’re not
mirror and you’ll see why you’re not succeeding I don’t believe that it’s
succeeding I don’t believe that it’s
succeeding I don’t believe that it’s what you don’t see the mirror that’s
what you don’t see the mirror that’s
what you don’t see the mirror that’s what’s holding you back
what’s holding you back
what’s holding you back it’s what you’re not willing to see is
it’s what you’re not willing to see is
it’s what you’re not willing to see is why talent is not enough
when you finally see it and accept it
when you finally see it and accept it and decide to work on it
and decide to work on it
and decide to work on it you can take that next level the truth
you can take that next level the truth
you can take that next level the truth is very concise
is very concise
is very concise the words are very few but people don’t
the words are very few but people don’t
the words are very few but people don’t want to hear the truth cause the truth
want to hear the truth cause the truth
want to hear the truth cause the truth hurts
you
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