[Music]
[Music] it’s ha easy it’s not an option
it’s ha easy it’s not an option
it’s ha easy it’s not an option it’s hard living life is hard
it’s hard living life is hard
it’s hard living life is hard see it’s hard when when you are 49 years
see it’s hard when when you are 49 years
see it’s hard when when you are 49 years old been working on a job for 17 years
old been working on a job for 17 years
old been working on a job for 17 years and they come in and tell you you’re
and they come in and tell you you’re
and they come in and tell you you’re finished and give you one week severance
finished and give you one week severance
finished and give you one week severance pay you got to start all over again it’s
pay you got to start all over again it’s
pay you got to start all over again it’s hard when you’re married and raising
hard when you’re married and raising
hard when you’re married and raising children and your children are crawling
children and your children are crawling
children and your children are crawling and your husband dies unexpectedly it’s
and your husband dies unexpectedly it’s
and your husband dies unexpectedly it’s not handling just the tragedies of life
not handling just the tragedies of life
not handling just the tragedies of life it’s hard when you’re working on
it’s hard when you’re working on
it’s hard when you’re working on something in and you put everything you
something in and you put everything you
something in and you put everything you have in it and it doesn’t work it’s hard
have in it and it doesn’t work it’s hard
have in it and it doesn’t work it’s hard I realized that information changes
I realized that information changes
I realized that information changes situations so I’d rather buy a book and
situations so I’d rather buy a book and
situations so I’d rather buy a book and buy a house because if I buy a book I
buy a house because if I buy a book I
buy a house because if I buy a book I can buy several homes if I buy a home
can buy several homes if I buy a home
can buy several homes if I buy a home and I don’t have the right in for me
and I don’t have the right in for me
and I don’t have the right in for me you could burn my house down and it
you could burn my house down and it
you could burn my house down and it wouldn’t bother well how do I know
wouldn’t bother well how do I know
wouldn’t bother well how do I know because we have the blueprint and they
because we have the blueprint and they
because we have the blueprint and they can rebuild it you can take all my money
can rebuild it you can take all my money
can rebuild it you can take all my money off the back if you take the knowledge
off the back if you take the knowledge
off the back if you take the knowledge out of my head and take the experiences
out of my head and take the experiences
out of my head and take the experiences that I have the disappointment
or not getting it makes you look for
or not getting it makes you look for another aspect of your life a spiritual
another aspect of your life a spiritual
another aspect of your life a spiritual aspect though a family aspect physical
aspect though a family aspect physical
aspect though a family aspect physical aspect if you can just trust that life
aspect if you can just trust that life
aspect if you can just trust that life doesn’t happen to you it happens for you
doesn’t happen to you it happens for you
doesn’t happen to you it happens for you then you can find in any situation a
then you can find in any situation a
then you can find in any situation a benefit that can take your life to the
benefit that can take your life to the
benefit that can take your life to the next level that’s that’s the number one
next level that’s that’s the number one
next level that’s that’s the number one thing you have to do is to work on
thing you have to do is to work on
thing you have to do is to work on yourself and to fill your self up and
yourself and to fill your self up and
yourself and to fill your self up and keep your people keep yourself forward
keep your people keep yourself forward
keep your people keep yourself forward [Music]
[Music]
[Music] you got to make your decisions
you got to make your decisions
you got to make your decisions accountable to to your accents if you
accountable to to your accents if you
accountable to to your accents if you say so first I decision second side
say so first I decision second side
say so first I decision second side I want you to write down every single
I want you to write down every single
I want you to write down every single action that’s gonna take to make that
action that’s gonna take to make that
action that’s gonna take to make that decision a reality you hear me
decision a reality you hear me
decision a reality you hear me [Music]
every one of us in our life is going to
every one of us in our life is going to feed faced situations where it feels
feed faced situations where it feels
feed faced situations where it feels like we have total trauma something
like we have total trauma something
like we have total trauma something that’s been taken from us the real
that’s been taken from us the real
that’s been taken from us the real question is what are you gonna do
that you can forget about felling that
that you can forget about felling that test you can forget about being a
test you can forget about being a
test you can forget about being a disappointment to your mom a
disappointment to your mom a
disappointment to your mom a disappointment to your dad the fact that
disappointment to your dad the fact that
disappointment to your dad the fact that you didn’t finish school the fact that
you didn’t finish school the fact that
you didn’t finish school the fact that you you got a divorce the fact that for
you you got a divorce the fact that for
you you got a divorce the fact that for real for real you feel like a failure so
real for real you feel like a failure so
real for real you feel like a failure so you’ve been trying to make the rest of
you’ve been trying to make the rest of
you’ve been trying to make the rest of your life the best of your life but
your life the best of your life but
your life the best of your life but you’ve been holding on to being a
you’ve been holding on to being a
you’ve been holding on to being a failure to get about your bad and make
failure to get about your bad and make
failure to get about your bad and make the rest of your life then back to your
the rest of your life then back to your
the rest of your life then back to your life necessary to start talking to
life necessary to start talking to
life necessary to start talking to people and seeking and asking but what I
people and seeking and asking but what I
people and seeking and asking but what I wanted and leveraging relationships are
wanted and leveraging relationships are
wanted and leveraging relationships are trying to find out how do the people do
trying to find out how do the people do
trying to find out how do the people do it that win ahead of me how to make do
it that win ahead of me how to make do
it that win ahead of me how to make do it then what is it I need to do how is
it then what is it I need to do how is
it then what is it I need to do how is it I need to train myself to develop
it I need to train myself to develop
it I need to train myself to develop myself
myself
myself what’s the resources that will be
what’s the resources that will be
what’s the resources that will be required in order to make it happen
required in order to make it happen
required in order to make it happen we’re in Hell right now believe me and
we’re in Hell right now believe me and
we’re in Hell right now believe me and we can stay here get the shit kicked out
we can stay here get the shit kicked out
we can stay here get the shit kicked out of us or we can fight our way back into
of us or we can fight our way back into
of us or we can fight our way back into the light we can climb out of hell one
the light we can climb out of hell one
the light we can climb out of hell one inch at a time
listen to me your life will never be the
listen to me your life will never be the same again
same again
same again all the failures almost ate all her
all the failures almost ate all her
all the failures almost ate all her heart oh it’s over but hear what I’m
heart oh it’s over but hear what I’m
heart oh it’s over but hear what I’m telling you it’s over
telling you it’s over
telling you it’s over poverty is over lack is over like you’re
poverty is over lack is over like you’re
poverty is over lack is over like you’re about to live by the next level
about to live by the next level
about to live by the next level abundance you’re about to start doing
abundance you’re about to start doing
abundance you’re about to start doing things if you don’t stop seeing success
you have a choice to either give up or
you have a choice to either give up or keep going give up get up when you fail
keep going give up get up when you fail
keep going give up get up when you fail try again why not now this is a good
try again why not now this is a good
try again why not now this is a good time as the 20th century starts to wind
time as the 20th century starts to wind
time as the 20th century starts to wind down few more years as we get ready for
down few more years as we get ready for
down few more years as we get ready for century 21 what a good time to set your
century 21 what a good time to set your
century 21 what a good time to set your goals work on yourself work on your
goals work on yourself work on your
goals work on yourself work on your skills what a good time to get it
skills what a good time to get it
skills what a good time to get it together what a good time to start this
together what a good time to start this
together what a good time to start this process personal development growing
process personal development growing
process personal development growing changing developing having a good plan
changing developing having a good plan
changing developing having a good plan for your money and for your life and for
for your money and for your life and for
for your money and for your life and for your future why not
listen to me carefully guys let’s still
listen to me carefully guys let’s still be very careful you got to hear what I’m
be very careful you got to hear what I’m
be very careful you got to hear what I’m saying this is important
saying this is important
saying this is important there are 86,400 seconds in a day and if
there are 86,400 seconds in a day and if
there are 86,400 seconds in a day and if you maximize each and every one of them
you maximize each and every one of them
you maximize each and every one of them you will live like you want to live you
you will live like you want to live you
you will live like you want to live you will have what you want to have you’ll
will have what you want to have you’ll
will have what you want to have you’ll be what you want to be you can have more
be what you want to be you can have more
be what you want to be you can have more than you’ve got because you can become
than you’ve got because you can become
than you’ve got because you can become more than you are if you just remain how
more than you are if you just remain how
more than you are if you just remain how you are you’ll always have what you’ve
you are you’ll always have what you’ve
you are you’ll always have what you’ve got but if you’re willing to make
got but if you’re willing to make
got but if you’re willing to make changes the next five years of your life
changes the next five years of your life
changes the next five years of your life can be totally different than the last
can be totally different than the last
can be totally different than the last one if you don’t change chances are
one if you don’t change chances are
one if you don’t change chances are excellent the next five will be like the
excellent the next five will be like the
excellent the next five will be like the last four things to change
last four things to change
last four things to change you’ve got to change for things to get
you’ve got to change for things to get
you’ve got to change for things to get better it’s not what happens that
better it’s not what happens that
better it’s not what happens that determines your future it’s what you do
determines your future it’s what you do
determines your future it’s what you do about what happens direction determines
about what happens direction determines
about what happens direction determines destination all you got to do is make a
destination all you got to do is make a
destination all you got to do is make a little change in direction to arrive at
little change in direction to arrive at
little change in direction to arrive at a brand new destination in two years
a brand new destination in two years
a brand new destination in two years three years five years you either have
three years five years you either have
three years five years you either have to change your life that is you can say
to change your life that is you can say
to change your life that is you can say you know what my body isn’t there I’m
you know what my body isn’t there I’m
you know what my body isn’t there I’m gonna go work out my relationship is in
gonna go work out my relationship is in
gonna go work out my relationship is in there I’m gonna change it you know I’m
there I’m gonna change it you know I’m
there I’m gonna change it you know I’m not making one I gotta make I’m gonna
not making one I gotta make I’m gonna
not making one I gotta make I’m gonna retool I’m gonna get a new skill I’m
retool I’m gonna get a new skill I’m
retool I’m gonna get a new skill I’m gonna go back to school I’m gonna start
gonna go back to school I’m gonna start
gonna go back to school I’m gonna start a business I’m gonna do something you
a business I’m gonna do something you
a business I’m gonna do something you have to do something to change your life
have to do something to change your life
have to do something to change your life or in order for you to be happy you
or in order for you to be happy you
or in order for you to be happy you can’t change your life you’re gonna have
can’t change your life you’re gonna have
can’t change your life you’re gonna have to change your blueprint usually a life
to change your blueprint usually a life
to change your blueprint usually a life it requires a little bit of the
it requires a little bit of the
it requires a little bit of the does that make sense and if you change
does that make sense and if you change
does that make sense and if you change your take change your life and change
your take change your life and change
your take change your life and change your blueprint you can have an
your blueprint you can have an
your blueprint you can have an extraordinary life because all of us are
extraordinary life because all of us are
extraordinary life because all of us are gonna have times in our life when what
gonna have times in our life when what
gonna have times in our life when what we want or think life should be like
we want or think life should be like
we want or think life should be like isn’t gonna match how life really is
isn’t gonna match how life really is
isn’t gonna match how life really is those moments if we blame our life goes
those moments if we blame our life goes
those moments if we blame our life goes into pain if we change we can change our
into pain if we change we can change our
into pain if we change we can change our life and match our blueprint the fact
life and match our blueprint the fact
life and match our blueprint the fact that you’re not happy has nothing to do
that you’re not happy has nothing to do
that you’re not happy has nothing to do with what you have or don’t have the
with what you have or don’t have the
with what you have or don’t have the fact that you’re not happy is that your
fact that you’re not happy is that your
fact that you’re not happy is that your life doesn’t match the way you think it
life doesn’t match the way you think it
life doesn’t match the way you think it should be you have some idea how you
should be you have some idea how you
should be you have some idea how you think it should be
think it should be
think it should be listen to me there are those of you or
listen to me there are those of you or
listen to me there are those of you or what you’re doing is that there are ten
what you’re doing is that there are ten
what you’re doing is that there are ten opportunities in the day and you’re
opportunities in the day and you’re
opportunities in the day and you’re taking advantage of seven of it and you
taking advantage of seven of it and you
taking advantage of seven of it and you think you’re doing something yeah you
think you’re doing something yeah you
think you’re doing something yeah you got to hear me you got to hear me you
got to hear me you got to hear me you
got to hear me you got to hear me you only have 24 hours in a day and you’ve
only have 24 hours in a day and you’ve
only have 24 hours in a day and you’ve heard me say this time and time again
heard me say this time and time again
heard me say this time and time again the way you spend your 24 hours it
the way you spend your 24 hours it
the way you spend your 24 hours it determines how you live if you want the
determines how you live if you want the
determines how you live if you want the future to change for you you’ve got to
future to change for you you’ve got to
future to change for you you’ve got to change if you don’t change the next six
change if you don’t change the next six
change if you don’t change the next six years of your life is gonna be just like
years of your life is gonna be just like
years of your life is gonna be just like the last six you’ll still be behind on
the last six you’ll still be behind on
the last six you’ll still be behind on your bills you’ll still be behind on
your bills you’ll still be behind on
your bills you’ll still be behind on your promises no opportunity wasted
your promises no opportunity wasted
your promises no opportunity wasted again no opportunity wasted one of us
again no opportunity wasted one of us
again no opportunity wasted one of us can do it hey we all can do it now
can do it hey we all can do it now
can do it hey we all can do it now here’s my last question why not now
here’s my last question why not now
here’s my last question why not now [Music]
[Music]
[Music] every day we grow older every day we
every day we grow older every day we
every day we grow older every day we have one less day in our futures and one
have one less day in our futures and one
have one less day in our futures and one more day in our past you can keep doing
more day in our past you can keep doing
more day in our past you can keep doing the old thing over and over and over
the old thing over and over and over
the old thing over and over and over again and then in five years you will be
again and then in five years you will be
again and then in five years you will be about where you are today
where will you be in your business in
where will you be in your business in your life at 36 months not because hope
your life at 36 months not because hope
your life at 36 months not because hope because you decide if you keep up your
because you decide if you keep up your
because you decide if you keep up your present disciplines and keep up the
present disciplines and keep up the
present disciplines and keep up the present pace that you’re on where would
present pace that you’re on where would
present pace that you’re on where would you be in five years you will either
you be in five years you will either
you be in five years you will either arrive at a well-designed destination or
arrive at a well-designed destination or
arrive at a well-designed destination or an undesigned well designed around ISM
an undesigned well designed around ISM
an undesigned well designed around ISM and I promise you five years from now
and I promise you five years from now
and I promise you five years from now you really don’t want to arrive at an
you really don’t want to arrive at an
you really don’t want to arrive at an undesigned destination where will you be
undesigned destination where will you be
undesigned destination where will you be in five years start looking into the
in five years start looking into the
in five years start looking into the future of what you would like to
future of what you would like to
future of what you would like to accomplish where you would like to go
accomplish where you would like to go
accomplish where you would like to go the person you would like to be and see
the person you would like to be and see
the person you would like to be and see if you can’t get a better picture of the
if you can’t get a better picture of the
if you can’t get a better picture of the finished objective see yourself there
finished objective see yourself there
finished objective see yourself there see yourself in possession hogs
direction determines destination
direction determines destination destination is not determined by hope
destination is not determined by hope
destination is not determined by hope it’s not deterring my wish destination
it’s not deterring my wish destination
it’s not deterring my wish destination is determined by direction
[Music]
[Music] you take that responsibility into your
you take that responsibility into your
you take that responsibility into your own heart and you say I am the problem
own heart and you say I am the problem
own heart and you say I am the problem and
and
and and the solution you become free throw
and the solution you become free throw
and the solution you become free throw off the chains you throw up everything
off the chains you throw up everything
off the chains you throw up everything that holds you back and you are in power
if you start early the fortune belongs
if you start early the fortune belongs to you if you start early all fortunes
to you if you start early all fortunes
to you if you start early all fortunes that are available to humans if you
that are available to humans if you
that are available to humans if you start early the promise looms large and
start early the promise looms large and
start early the promise looms large and the odds are heavy in your favor now yes
the odds are heavy in your favor now yes
the odds are heavy in your favor now yes it’s possible to do some radical thing
it’s possible to do some radical thing
it’s possible to do some radical thing starting late and still arrive with some
starting late and still arrive with some
starting late and still arrive with some good treasures and some good things but
good treasures and some good things but
good treasures and some good things but when you haven’t got that much time left
when you haven’t got that much time left
when you haven’t got that much time left now sometimes the decision has to be so
now sometimes the decision has to be so
now sometimes the decision has to be so drastic people are not willing to make
drastic people are not willing to make
drastic people are not willing to make them you’re too tired too weary and do
them you’re too tired too weary and do
them you’re too tired too weary and do ill
how do you create your life and get
how do you create your life and get hungry for something don’t you
hungry for something don’t you
hungry for something don’t you who has done something your life that
who has done something your life that
who has done something your life that once seemed difficult or impossible and
once seemed difficult or impossible and
once seemed difficult or impossible and now it’s part of your life it was once
now it’s part of your life it was once
now it’s part of your life it was once just a vision may have seemed impossible
just a vision may have seemed impossible
just a vision may have seemed impossible one time so how did you do it
one time so how did you do it
one time so how did you do it you started with a concrete vision of
you started with a concrete vision of
you started with a concrete vision of what you wanted and you focused on it
what you wanted and you focused on it
what you wanted and you focused on it continuously didn’t you whatever focus
continuously didn’t you whatever focus
continuously didn’t you whatever focus goes energy floats and isn’t something
goes energy floats and isn’t something
goes energy floats and isn’t something you got clear about it and then you
you got clear about it and then you
you got clear about it and then you started thinking about all the reasons
started thinking about all the reasons
started thinking about all the reasons why you wanted it
why you wanted it
why you wanted it you got excited about it so this is
you got excited about it so this is
you got excited about it so this is what’s next for me now I want this you
what’s next for me now I want this you
what’s next for me now I want this you may have dreamed about it thought about
may have dreamed about it thought about
may have dreamed about it thought about a doctor back when you focus on
a doctor back when you focus on
a doctor back when you focus on something continuously something magical
something continuously something magical
something continuously something magical happens you get insights don’t you
happens you get insights don’t you
happens you get insights don’t you overhear a conversation he hears
overhear a conversation he hears
overhear a conversation he hears something he would’ve heard if you
something he would’ve heard if you
something he would’ve heard if you didn’t have that outcome of all that you
didn’t have that outcome of all that you
didn’t have that outcome of all that you want to battle
now you can keep on the same path for
now you can keep on the same path for the next couple of years as you have the
the next couple of years as you have the
the next couple of years as you have the past two but if you wish to if you wish
past two but if you wish to if you wish
past two but if you wish to if you wish to and maybe everything’s okay for you
to and maybe everything’s okay for you
to and maybe everything’s okay for you and you don’t need to but if you need to
and you don’t need to but if you need to
and you don’t need to but if you need to make some changes
make some changes
make some changes I’m telling you can start doing it today
I’m telling you can start doing it today
I’m telling you can start doing it today so that the next two years will be
so that the next two years will be
so that the next two years will be drastically different than the last two
you cannot be a believer until you see
you cannot be a believer until you see your old life and the misery thereof and
your old life and the misery thereof and
your old life and the misery thereof and want to change are you committed
because without commitment nothing
because without commitment nothing happens
[Music]
[Music] if you don’t learn to give like you
if you don’t learn to give like you
if you don’t learn to give like you learn to get every area that there is
learn to get every area that there is
learn to get every area that there is not reciprocity it will die reciprocity
not reciprocity it will die reciprocity
not reciprocity it will die reciprocity what do you give back for what you get
what do you give back for what you get
what do you give back for what you get [Music]
[Music]
[Music] you’re not committed you’re not gonna
you’re not committed you’re not gonna
you’re not committed you’re not gonna make it even the ones with the
make it even the ones with the
make it even the ones with the personalities you don’t like you have to
personalities you don’t like you have to
personalities you don’t like you have to be committed through the storm and the
be committed through the storm and the
be committed through the storm and the rain and the heartache and the pain and
rain and the heartache and the pain and
rain and the heartache and the pain and the disappointment you have to believe
the disappointment you have to believe
the disappointment you have to believe in the we and the us and not the me and
in the we and the us and not the me and
in the we and the us and not the me and the you or you’re not gonna make it it’s
the you or you’re not gonna make it it’s
the you or you’re not gonna make it it’s a commitment it’s not a feeling until
a commitment it’s not a feeling until
a commitment it’s not a feeling until you have had the taste of finishing you
you have had the taste of finishing you
you have had the taste of finishing you will not respect yourself until you
will not respect yourself until you
will not respect yourself until you follow through until something is done
follow through until something is done
follow through until something is done come hell or high water tears and
come hell or high water tears and
come hell or high water tears and struggles and pain and you go through it
struggles and pain and you go through it
struggles and pain and you go through it anyway and you show up and you continue
anyway and you show up and you continue
anyway and you show up and you continue to fight oh and no matter the
to fight oh and no matter the
to fight oh and no matter the circumstances after a while something
circumstances after a while something
circumstances after a while something begins to wither inside of me
begins to wither inside of me
begins to wither inside of me [Music]
anytime you need something that you
anytime you need something that you can’t give to yourself you’re at the
can’t give to yourself you’re at the
can’t give to yourself you’re at the mercy of somebody else and when they
mercy of somebody else and when they
mercy of somebody else and when they don’t come through you got pain and what
don’t come through you got pain and what
don’t come through you got pain and what you become is the consequences of what
you become is the consequences of what
you become is the consequences of what you didn’t do
it’s an urge it’s an urge to be told
it’s an urge it’s an urge to be told every champion has felt it every
every champion has felt it every
every champion has felt it every president has felt it every King has
president has felt it every King has
president has felt it every King has felt that every lion has felt it every
felt that every lion has felt it every
felt that every lion has felt it every winner as he felt it every soldier has
winner as he felt it every soldier has
winner as he felt it every soldier has felt in every victorious person has felt
felt in every victorious person has felt
felt in every victorious person has felt it the urge
don’t you give up on your dream I don’t
don’t you give up on your dream I don’t care if you don’t have the money you
care if you don’t have the money you
care if you don’t have the money you don’t have the help and you don’t have
don’t have the help and you don’t have
don’t have the help and you don’t have the family forward and you don’t have
the family forward and you don’t have
the family forward and you don’t have the background for it and you don’t have
the background for it and you don’t have
the background for it and you don’t have any friends for it don’t you give up on
any friends for it don’t you give up on
any friends for it don’t you give up on your dream coach you do it don’t you do
your dream coach you do it don’t you do
your dream coach you do it don’t you do it don’t you do it
it don’t you do it
it don’t you do it it may take you twice as long you may
it may take you twice as long you may
it may take you twice as long you may have to take courses and classes you may
have to take courses and classes you may
have to take courses and classes you may not read as fast you might not move as
not read as fast you might not move as
not read as fast you might not move as quick you might not have as much but
quick you might not have as much but
quick you might not have as much but don’t you
don’t to quit you do make a difference
don’t to quit you do make a difference you do make a difference
you do make a difference
you do make a difference you do make a difference as weak as you
you do make a difference as weak as you
you do make a difference as weak as you are as tired as you are as many mistakes
are as tired as you are as many mistakes
are as tired as you are as many mistakes as you made you do make a difference
as you made you do make a difference
as you made you do make a difference there is something they would lose if
there is something they would lose if
there is something they would lose if you were not there there was something
you were not there there was something
you were not there there was something that they would miss if you were not
that they would miss if you were not
that they would miss if you were not there you do make a difference having as
there you do make a difference having as
there you do make a difference having as your default state however you forgotten
your default state however you forgotten
your default state however you forgotten that and it’s not about seeking more
that and it’s not about seeking more
that and it’s not about seeking more it’s about realizing that it’s not about
it’s about realizing that it’s not about
it’s about realizing that it’s not about adding it’s about getting there it’s
adding it’s about getting there it’s
adding it’s about getting there it’s like the way there the way you grow is
like the way there the way you grow is
like the way there the way you grow is by realizing you’re already there and
by realizing you’re already there and
by realizing you’re already there and getting rid of everything telling you
getting rid of everything telling you
getting rid of everything telling you you’re not there that’s the journey if
you’re not there that’s the journey if
you’re not there that’s the journey if you get that and you let go of trying to
you get that and you let go of trying to
you get that and you let go of trying to feel happy because you don’t want to
feel happy because you don’t want to
feel happy because you don’t want to feel happy you want to be happy not the
feel happy you want to be happy not the
feel happy you want to be happy not the emotion but the state the emotion you do
emotion but the state the emotion you do
emotion but the state the emotion you do not want that emotion because as I said
not want that emotion because as I said
not want that emotion because as I said that emotion is not your happiness that
that emotion is not your happiness that
that emotion is not your happiness that emotion is dependent on something and
emotion is dependent on something and
emotion is dependent on something and it’s linked to feeling happy feeling not
it’s linked to feeling happy feeling not
it’s linked to feeling happy feeling not happy but I mean what makes you feel
happy but I mean what makes you feel
happy but I mean what makes you feel happy eventually will turn into
happy eventually will turn into
happy eventually will turn into unhappiness you don’t want to feel happy
unhappiness you don’t want to feel happy
unhappiness you don’t want to feel happy you want to let go if that makes you
you want to let go if that makes you
you want to let go if that makes you feel happy because that’s you’re
feel happy because that’s you’re
feel happy because that’s you’re attached to
attached to
attached to you want to let go of anything you want
you want to let go of anything you want
you want to let go of anything you want you want to let go of anything you don’t
you want to let go of anything you don’t
you want to let go of anything you don’t want let go of all the emotions that go
want let go of all the emotions that go
want let go of all the emotions that go all the thoughts reach the state and
all the thoughts reach the state and
all the thoughts reach the state and again you can’t put the state into words
again you can’t put the state into words
again you can’t put the state into words but that’s what we’re looking for
but that’s what we’re looking for
but that’s what we’re looking for because you’ve all had the emotion of
because you’ve all had the emotion of
because you’ve all had the emotion of feeling happy it clearly is not what
feeling happy it clearly is not what
feeling happy it clearly is not what you’re after if you’re someone who
you’re after if you’re someone who
you’re after if you’re someone who thinks you don’t deserve happiness which
thinks you don’t deserve happiness which
thinks you don’t deserve happiness which is again your defaults in happy it
is again your defaults in happy it
is again your defaults in happy it doesn’t matter what you do your
doesn’t matter what you do your
doesn’t matter what you do your subconscious is gonna keep taking over
subconscious is gonna keep taking over
subconscious is gonna keep taking over you’re unhappy just making that firm
you’re unhappy just making that firm
you’re unhappy just making that firm commitment like a nuts enough because
commitment like a nuts enough because
commitment like a nuts enough because we’re so hooked on to it like in our
we’re so hooked on to it like in our
we’re so hooked on to it like in our minds like repetitive is most of the
minds like repetitive is most of the
minds like repetitive is most of the thoughts you’re thinking today are the
thoughts you’re thinking today are the
thoughts you’re thinking today are the same thoughts you thought yesterday and
same thoughts you thought yesterday and
same thoughts you thought yesterday and the day before and the day before and
the day before and the day before and
the day before and the day before and the day before relieved we’re living our
the day before relieved we’re living our
the day before relieved we’re living our life and repeats literally and the more
life and repeats literally and the more
life and repeats literally and the more we do it the more we’re hooked on it and
we do it the more we’re hooked on it and
we do it the more we’re hooked on it and the stronger that those habits become by
the stronger that those habits become by
the stronger that those habits become by knowing deep down inside then we’re
knowing deep down inside then we’re
knowing deep down inside then we’re already up here the journey is getting
already up here the journey is getting
already up here the journey is getting rid of everything that’s in a way from
rid of everything that’s in a way from
rid of everything that’s in a way from you realizing you’re up here so there is
you realizing you’re up here so there is
you realizing you’re up here so there is a journey and who knows help in long it
a journey and who knows help in long it
a journey and who knows help in long it takes and they just take forever it’s
takes and they just take forever it’s
takes and they just take forever it’s kind of the same thing as going from up
kind of the same thing as going from up
kind of the same thing as going from up here and down here it’s like it never
here and down here it’s like it never
here and down here it’s like it never ends but although it may never end you
ends but although it may never end you
ends but although it may never end you still know especially once you
still know especially once you
still know especially once you experience it that you’re already up
experience it that you’re already up
experience it that you’re already up here so although you’re working on
here so although you’re working on
here so although you’re working on getting rid of the bit it’s not coming
getting rid of the bit it’s not coming
getting rid of the bit it’s not coming from scarcity so it is possible to
from scarcity so it is possible to
from scarcity so it is possible to improve yourself without improving
improve yourself without improving
improve yourself without improving yourself it’s possible to improve
yourself it’s possible to improve
yourself it’s possible to improve yourself coming from a place of already
yourself coming from a place of already
yourself coming from a place of already being improve due to this is an
being improve due to this is an
being improve due to this is an interesting one the dual nature of this
interesting one the dual nature of this
interesting one the dual nature of this world anything if you’re it’s depending
world anything if you’re it’s depending
world anything if you’re it’s depending on anything that thing is not permanent
on anything that thing is not permanent
on anything that thing is not permanent and it’s going to change and it’s going
and it’s going to change and it’s going
and it’s going to change and it’s going to disappoint you and you will not be
to disappoint you and you will not be
to disappoint you and you will not be happy so it’s all temporary it’s all
happy so it’s all temporary it’s all
happy so it’s all temporary it’s all this relief from pain and as long as you
this relief from pain and as long as you
this relief from pain and as long as you don’t get to the cops
don’t get to the cops
don’t get to the cops nothing will happen you’ll just be
nothing will happen you’ll just be
nothing will happen you’ll just be reinforcing that assumption because
reinforcing that assumption because
reinforcing that assumption because that’s a big one – it’s like the more
that’s a big one – it’s like the more
that’s a big one – it’s like the more you think hustlin will make you happy
you think hustlin will make you happy
you think hustlin will make you happy the more you think self-improvement will
the more you think self-improvement will
the more you think self-improvement will make you happy
make you happy
make you happy from where you’re enforcing that your
from where you’re enforcing that your
from where you’re enforcing that your defaults unhappiness we’re trying to
defaults unhappiness we’re trying to
defaults unhappiness we’re trying to seek the infinite with the finite we’re
seek the infinite with the finite we’re
seek the infinite with the finite we’re in this world of like limited things and
in this world of like limited things and
in this world of like limited things and we’re seeking the unlimited it doesn’t
we’re seeking the unlimited it doesn’t
we’re seeking the unlimited it doesn’t matter how much limited things you get
matter how much limited things you get
matter how much limited things you get you’re never gonna get the unlimited
it’s like trying to count til infinity
it’s like trying to count til infinity can you count til infinity yes or no no
can you count til infinity yes or no no
can you count til infinity yes or no no those be another number doesn’t matter
those be another number doesn’t matter
those be another number doesn’t matter how many like how high you get you’re
how many like how high you get you’re
how many like how high you get you’re never gonna reach infinity and that’s
never gonna reach infinity and that’s
never gonna reach infinity and that’s where all syncing is like we’re seeking
where all syncing is like we’re seeking
where all syncing is like we’re seeking like infinity we’re seeking that safe
like infinity we’re seeking that safe
like infinity we’re seeking that safe happiness in the finite and this isn’t
happiness in the finite and this isn’t
happiness in the finite and this isn’t matter how much we get it’s like more
matter how much we get it’s like more
matter how much we get it’s like more and more and more more and more we’re
and more and more more and more we’re
and more and more more and more we’re done you know and until we find this –
done you know and until we find this –
done you know and until we find this – as I said everything will be compulsive
as I said everything will be compulsive
as I said everything will be compulsive this was kind of crazy it’s like you
this was kind of crazy it’s like you
this was kind of crazy it’s like you know you you need more more more more
know you you need more more more more
know you you need more more more more more you’re literally like a drug addict
more you’re literally like a drug addict
more you’re literally like a drug addict chasing more you’re a workaholic we
chasing more you’re a workaholic we
chasing more you’re a workaholic we chase more gaming she’s hotter girls
chase more gaming she’s hotter girls
chase more gaming she’s hotter girls it’s like you live a life it has been
it’s like you live a life it has been
it’s like you live a life it has been compulsive you can’t actually kind of
compulsive you can’t actually kind of
compulsive you can’t actually kind of relax because your foundation is I’m
relax because your foundation is I’m
relax because your foundation is I’m unhappy but when I let go I realize like
unhappy but when I let go I realize like
unhappy but when I let go I realize like it wasn’t happiness it was happiness and
it wasn’t happiness it was happiness and
it wasn’t happiness it was happiness and this was like holy you know it’s like
this was like holy you know it’s like
this was like holy you know it’s like we’re literally all hanging onto the
we’re literally all hanging onto the
we’re literally all hanging onto the side of a cliff and you know someone’s
side of a cliff and you know someone’s
side of a cliff and you know someone’s below is like let go I’ll catch you
below is like let go I’ll catch you
below is like let go I’ll catch you you’re like yeah if I let go I’ll die
you’re like yeah if I let go I’ll die
you’re like yeah if I let go I’ll die and then you actually do let go but it
and then you actually do let go but it
and then you actually do let go but it requires so much to just like oak is
requires so much to just like oak is
requires so much to just like oak is again you’ve been hanging on your entire
again you’ve been hanging on your entire
again you’ve been hanging on your entire fucking life
fucking life
fucking life everything you’ve been doing has been
everything you’ve been doing has been
everything you’ve been doing has been reinforcing an assumption upon
reinforcing an assumption upon
reinforcing an assumption upon assumption consumption belief beliefs
assumption consumption belief beliefs
assumption consumption belief beliefs like hang on or I will die and you think
like hang on or I will die and you think
like hang on or I will die and you think that the journey is just to keep hanging
that the journey is just to keep hanging
that the journey is just to keep hanging on say let go easier said than done it’s
on say let go easier said than done it’s
on say let go easier said than done it’s easy to do I mean but parts of it and
easy to do I mean but parts of it and
easy to do I mean but parts of it and that’s what it took for me to like
that’s what it took for me to like
that’s what it took for me to like actually like up and a lesson was like
actually like up and a lesson was like
actually like up and a lesson was like there was that little glimpse of like
there was that little glimpse of like
there was that little glimpse of like holy shit
holy shit
holy shit instead of like nothingness instead of
instead of like nothingness instead of
instead of like nothingness instead of unhappiness was happiness and it’s like
unhappiness was happiness and it’s like
unhappiness was happiness and it’s like the default is happiness that’s what I
the default is happiness that’s what I
the default is happiness that’s what I like that
like that
like that and again my whole goal was how to let
and again my whole goal was how to let
and again my whole goal was how to let go of all the shit you know it’s letting
go of all the shit you know it’s letting
go of all the shit you know it’s letting go of literally everything like
go of literally everything like
go of literally everything like everything you’re attached to letting go
everything you’re attached to letting go
everything you’re attached to letting go of all of your emotions and that’s big
of all of your emotions and that’s big
of all of your emotions and that’s big remember your emotions are not you okay
remember your emotions are not you okay
remember your emotions are not you okay happiness feeling happy is the emotion
happiness feeling happy is the emotion
happiness feeling happy is the emotion we’re looking for the states letting go
we’re looking for the states letting go
we’re looking for the states letting go of all your thoughts literally dropping
of all your thoughts literally dropping
of all your thoughts literally dropping everything God asked me about two months
everything God asked me about two months
everything God asked me about two months ago he said ET if there’s one mistake
ago he said ET if there’s one mistake
ago he said ET if there’s one mistake you made what’s that one mistake you
you made what’s that one mistake you
you made what’s that one mistake you made someone be honest with you my
made someone be honest with you my
made someone be honest with you my values are not in alignment with my
values are not in alignment with my
values are not in alignment with my dreams
he said Ichi what do you mean by that I
he said Ichi what do you mean by that I said I want to tell you a story I got a
said I want to tell you a story I got a
said I want to tell you a story I got a good friend of mine who you know good
good friend of mine who you know good
good friend of mine who you know good friend of mine he came to me say Eric my
friend of mine he came to me say Eric my
friend of mine he came to me say Eric my marriage is not where my marriage needs
marriage is not where my marriage needs
marriage is not where my marriage needs to be I need to make some adjustments I
to be I need to make some adjustments I
to be I need to make some adjustments I see you and your wife I see how much
see you and your wife I see how much
see you and your wife I see how much time you spend with your wife how much
time you spend with your wife how much
time you spend with your wife how much time you spend with your children and I
time you spend with your children and I
time you spend with your children and I just I want that you buy your wife roses
just I want that you buy your wife roses
just I want that you buy your wife roses regularly you’re always taking her out
regularly you’re always taking her out
regularly you’re always taking her out to eat like eat I’m watching you you
to eat like eat I’m watching you you
to eat like eat I’m watching you you spoiler et but I just what can I do and
spoiler et but I just what can I do and
spoiler et but I just what can I do and so I told you what to do and guess what
so I told you what to do and guess what
so I told you what to do and guess what he started doing God he started doing
he started doing God he started doing
he started doing God he started doing the exact same thing I started doing
the exact same thing I started doing
the exact same thing I started doing they say Erica’s not working like I’m
they say Erica’s not working like I’m
they say Erica’s not working like I’m doing exactly what you’re doing but it’s
doing exactly what you’re doing but it’s
doing exactly what you’re doing but it’s not working I said he said why isn’t it
not working I said he said why isn’t it
not working I said he said why isn’t it working so you know why it’s not working
working so you know why it’s not working
working so you know why it’s not working because your values and your drink you
because your values and your drink you
because your values and your drink you say you say you want a better marriage
say you say you want a better marriage
say you say you want a better marriage but I told you you need to I on your
but I told you you need to I on your
but I told you you need to I on your wife’s clothes you know what he told me
wife’s clothes you know what he told me
wife’s clothes you know what he told me after why so I’ll be honest with you
after why so I’ll be honest with you
after why so I’ll be honest with you here I know you told me the iron tell me
here I know you told me the iron tell me
here I know you told me the iron tell me to wash and told me to cook but where I
to wash and told me to cook but where I
to wash and told me to cook but where I come from be honest
come from be honest
come from be honest when I do that I feel like a punk I said
when I do that I feel like a punk I said
when I do that I feel like a punk I said that’s why you’re having a hard time
that’s why you’re having a hard time
that’s why you’re having a hard time doing it because your value system says
doing it because your value system says
doing it because your value system says a man is not supposed to iron a man is
a man is not supposed to iron a man is
a man is not supposed to iron a man is not supposed to cook a man is not
not supposed to cook a man is not
not supposed to cook a man is not supposed to wash dishes that’s what your
supposed to wash dishes that’s what your
supposed to wash dishes that’s what your value system said so you’re doing one
value system said so you’re doing one
value system said so you’re doing one thing but you’re going to get your own
thing but you’re going to get your own
thing but you’re going to get your own value system the reason why I’m having
value system the reason why I’m having
value system the reason why I’m having such an easy time washing clothes and
such an easy time washing clothes and
such an easy time washing clothes and cooking and irony you know why because
cooking and irony you know why because
cooking and irony you know why because nothing is as important to me as my
nothing is as important to me as my
nothing is as important to me as my marriage and I would rather be happy I
marriage and I would rather be happy I
marriage and I would rather be happy I would rather be happy and to say I ain’t
would rather be happy and to say I ain’t
would rather be happy and to say I ain’t no punk let make me a punk I want to be
no punk let make me a punk I want to be
no punk let make me a punk I want to be a public a happy punk for real no a
a public a happy punk for real no a
a public a happy punk for real no a friend of mine is he came to my house
friend of mine is he came to my house
friend of mine is he came to my house and I didn’t have a mop
and I didn’t have a mop
and I didn’t have a mop and so I was on the ground and I was
and so I was on the ground and I was
and so I was on the ground and I was mopping the floor with a child and he
mopping the floor with a child and he
mopping the floor with a child and he says eat it if I’m free you’re on the
says eat it if I’m free you’re on the
says eat it if I’m free you’re on the ground and you’re mopping I said yeah he
ground and you’re mopping I said yeah he
ground and you’re mopping I said yeah he says your wife got you whipped I said
says your wife got you whipped I said
says your wife got you whipped I said you didn’t know you just found that out
you didn’t know you just found that out
you didn’t know you just found that out I’ve been doing a terrible job I’m sorry
I’ve been doing a terrible job I’m sorry
I’ve been doing a terrible job I’m sorry I am with and after 23 years you should
I am with and after 23 years you should
I am with and after 23 years you should be if you’re not it’s a problem so
be if you’re not it’s a problem so
be if you’re not it’s a problem so listen to me there those of you said I
listen to me there those of you said I
listen to me there those of you said I want to be a millionaire I want to be
want to be a millionaire I want to be
want to be a millionaire I want to be the best at this company right but your
the best at this company right but your
the best at this company right but your value system says you believe in sleep
value system says you believe in sleep
value system says you believe in sleep one of you believed in grinding your
one of you believed in grinding your
one of you believed in grinding your value system says you are a consumer and
value system says you are a consumer and
value system says you are a consumer and not a producer that you’re spending more
not a producer that you’re spending more
not a producer that you’re spending more money than you’re making why because
money than you’re making why because
money than you’re making why because you’re concerned with you you’re reading
you’re concerned with you you’re reading
you’re concerned with you you’re reading all the books and you’re saying
all the books and you’re saying
all the books and you’re saying everything the books are saying but
everything the books are saying but
everything the books are saying but those books are not in alignment with
those books are not in alignment with
those books are not in alignment with your values if you’re going to go to the
your values if you’re going to go to the
your values if you’re going to go to the next level your values are gonna have to
next level your values are gonna have to
next level your values are gonna have to change that’s what happened for Eric
change that’s what happened for Eric
change that’s what happened for Eric Thomas my values about learning change I
Thomas my values about learning change I
Thomas my values about learning change I realized that information changes
realized that information changes
realized that information changes situations and so I’d rather buy a book
situations and so I’d rather buy a book
situations and so I’d rather buy a book than buy a house because if I buy a book
than buy a house because if I buy a book
than buy a house because if I buy a book I can buy several homes
I can buy several homes
I can buy several homes bye-bye a home and I don’t have the
bye-bye a home and I don’t have the
bye-bye a home and I don’t have the right information gods pray okay I leave
right information gods pray okay I leave
right information gods pray okay I leave you with this this is crazy can I be
you with this this is crazy can I be
you with this this is crazy can I be honest with God you could take you can
honest with God you could take you can
honest with God you could take you can burn my house down and it wouldn’t
burn my house down and it wouldn’t
burn my house down and it wouldn’t bother well how do I know I had a home
bother well how do I know I had a home
bother well how do I know I had a home than that a tornado tore now in Alabama
than that a tornado tore now in Alabama
than that a tornado tore now in Alabama didn’t bother me why because we have the
didn’t bother me why because we have the
didn’t bother me why because we have the blueprint and they can rebuild it you
blueprint and they can rebuild it you
blueprint and they can rebuild it you can take all my money off the bank and
can take all my money off the bank and
can take all my money off the bank and I’m like oh they might hit me rude if I
I’m like oh they might hit me rude if I
I’m like oh they might hit me rude if I will tell you my lineup of speaking and
will tell you my lineup of speaking and
will tell you my lineup of speaking and our audiobook what we’re making every
our audiobook what we’re making every
our audiobook what we’re making every month we don’t we’ll be all right I can
month we don’t we’ll be all right I can
month we don’t we’ll be all right I can make more money if you take the
make more money if you take the
make more money if you take the knowledge out of my hand and take the
knowledge out of my hand and take the
knowledge out of my hand and take the experiences that I have
experiences that I have
experiences that I have [Music]
[Music]
[Music] so now I don’t just read because I see
so now I don’t just read because I see
so now I don’t just read because I see other people reading and I want a minute
other people reading and I want a minute
other people reading and I want a minute what they’re doing
what they’re doing
what they’re doing and so all I do when I have time is read
and so all I do when I have time is read
and so all I do when I have time is read all right so I got a minute and 48 I’ve
all right so I got a minute and 48 I’ve
all right so I got a minute and 48 I’ve never done this before but I’m gonna get
never done this before but I’m gonna get
never done this before but I’m gonna get it done
it done
it done last one we got to be obsessed hi this
last one we got to be obsessed hi this
last one we got to be obsessed hi this was so important because some of the
was so important because some of the
was so important because some of the greatest minds are gonna be in front of
greatest minds are gonna be in front of
greatest minds are gonna be in front of you today someone some people in this
you today someone some people in this
you today someone some people in this room who are not just talking it they’ve
room who are not just talking it they’ve
room who are not just talking it they’ve lived it but here’s the problem the
lived it but here’s the problem the
lived it but here’s the problem the problem with most people the problem
problem with most people the problem
problem with most people the problem with most people is that you’re not
with most people is that you’re not
with most people is that you’re not obsessed with a movie you’re obsessed
obsessed with a movie you’re obsessed
obsessed with a movie you’re obsessed with making money you’re obsessed with
with making money you’re obsessed with
with making money you’re obsessed with taking your business to the next level
taking your business to the next level
taking your business to the next level and can I be honest with you god when
and can I be honest with you god when
and can I be honest with you god when you become obsessed with improvement I
you become obsessed with improvement I
you become obsessed with improvement I will spend more time learning and
will spend more time learning and
will spend more time learning and Australia then I was speaking I’m a said
Australia then I was speaking I’m a said
Australia then I was speaking I’m a said again because you missed it I will spend
again because you missed it I will spend
again because you missed it I will spend more time sitting under people I will
more time sitting under people I will
more time sitting under people I will spend more time with Glenn I was feel
spend more time with Glenn I was feel
spend more time with Glenn I was feel more time with Erin I will spend more
more time with Erin I will spend more
more time with Erin I will spend more time learning that I will speaking in
time learning that I will speaking in
time learning that I will speaking in this country I will walk away with stuff
this country I will walk away with stuff
this country I will walk away with stuff I never heard before books I’ve never
I never heard before books I’ve never
I never heard before books I’ve never read before audios I’ve never seen
read before audios I’ve never seen
read before audios I’ve never seen before
before
before going to conferences that I’ve never
going to conferences that I’ve never
going to conferences that I’ve never gone hanging out with people that I’ve
gone hanging out with people that I’ve
gone hanging out with people that I’ve never hung out with before this is
never hung out with before this is
never hung out with before this is nothing god this is just been deserts me
nothing god this is just been deserts me
nothing god this is just been deserts me speaking is just a desert this is just
speaking is just a desert this is just
speaking is just a desert this is just the beginning
the beginning
the beginning I came to Australia to learn I came to
I came to Australia to learn I came to
I came to Australia to learn I came to Australia to get upgrade and when I go
Australia to get upgrade and when I go
Australia to get upgrade and when I go back my wife will notice the difference
back my wife will notice the difference
back my wife will notice the difference my kids were no different why I’m
my kids were no different why I’m
my kids were no different why I’m obsessed with improvement every day I’m
obsessed with improvement every day I’m
obsessed with improvement every day I’m getting better there are those of you
getting better there are those of you
getting better there are those of you with phones and every new phone that
with phones and every new phone that
with phones and every new phone that comes out you get it every upgrade you
comes out you get it every upgrade you
comes out you get it every upgrade you get it every piece of software you get
get it every piece of software you get
get it every piece of software you get it you are upgrading your technology and
it you are upgrading your technology and
it you are upgrading your technology and you’ve not upgraded yourself you got the
you’ve not upgraded yourself you got the
you’ve not upgraded yourself you got the same operating system you had to the
same operating system you had to the
same operating system you had to the 1995 you don’t think any different you
1995 you don’t think any different you
1995 you don’t think any different you don’t speak any different you’re the
don’t speak any different you’re the
don’t speak any different you’re the exact same person you were in 2010 I
exact same person you were in 2010 I
exact same person you were in 2010 I challenge you the final one I challenge
challenge you the final one I challenge
challenge you the final one I challenge you I challenge you to finally won a
you I challenge you to finally won a
you I challenge you to finally won a challenge me we got five seconds four
challenge me we got five seconds four
challenge me we got five seconds four seconds I challenge you the obsessed
seconds I challenge you the obsessed
seconds I challenge you the obsessed with improvement be obsessed with
with improvement be obsessed with
with improvement be obsessed with improvement be obsessed with improvement
improvement be obsessed with improvement
improvement be obsessed with improvement and like the Lions go from a gazelle to
and like the Lions go from a gazelle to
and like the Lions go from a gazelle to a lion why because if you don’t kill it
a lion why because if you don’t kill it
a lion why because if you don’t kill it then your family in my dreams what you
then your family in my dreams what you
then your family in my dreams what you know
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