good morning believe nation today’s messages focus on you first over to you
messages focus on you first over to you
messages focus on you first over to you Jada pinkett-smith you had to take care
Jada pinkett-smith you had to take care
Jada pinkett-smith you had to take care of yourself in order to have the
of yourself in order to have the
of yourself in order to have the alignment and the power to take care of
alignment and the power to take care of
alignment and the power to take care of others at the capacity that we do
others at the capacity that we do
others at the capacity that we do because it fills the well what what I
because it fills the well what what I
because it fills the well what what I believe that I do take so much energy so
believe that I do take so much energy so
believe that I do take so much energy so much work from heart spirit and
much work from heart spirit and
much work from heart spirit and creativity that I had to be responsible
creativity that I had to be responsible
creativity that I had to be responsible enough to take care of me because you
enough to take care of me because you
enough to take care of me because you know what happens imbalance comes and
know what happens imbalance comes and
know what happens imbalance comes and you know what happens I look to you well
you know what happens I look to you well
you know what happens I look to you well and I say willow you’ve got to do this
and I say willow you’ve got to do this
and I say willow you’ve got to do this because if you don’t you you become I
because if you don’t you you become I
because if you don’t you you become I start looking towards you I start making
start looking towards you I start making
start looking towards you I start making you responsible for my happiness and a
you responsible for my happiness and a
you responsible for my happiness and a lot of times you know we do we look to
lot of times you know we do we look to
lot of times you know we do we look to our men we look to our husbands and our
our men we look to our husbands and our
our men we look to our husbands and our boyfriends and we go you I’ve given all
boyfriends and we go you I’ve given all
boyfriends and we go you I’ve given all this up for you and you’ve got to make
this up for you and you’ve got to make
this up for you and you’ve got to make this right by me and you’re supposed to
this right by me and you’re supposed to
this right by me and you’re supposed to make me happy because we’ve lost our way
make me happy because we’ve lost our way
make me happy because we’ve lost our way on how to make ourselves happy we lost
on how to make ourselves happy we lost
on how to make ourselves happy we lost our way so what I had to do and what I
our way so what I had to do and what I
our way so what I had to do and what I had to learn was how to get more balance
had to learn was how to get more balance
had to learn was how to get more balance in over the years each year each day I
in over the years each year each day I
in over the years each year each day I get more and more and more and more
get more and more and more and more
get more and more and more and more imbalance more and more and more in
imbalance more and more and more in
imbalance more and more and more in alignment and you know what I get more
alignment and you know what I get more
alignment and you know what I get more and more happy and the very thing that I
and more happy and the very thing that I
and more happy and the very thing that I thought would make you unhappy or make
thought would make you unhappy or make
thought would make you unhappy or make Jaden unhappy or make daddy unhappy
Jaden unhappy or make daddy unhappy
Jaden unhappy or make daddy unhappy actually is fulfilling for you guys as
actually is fulfilling for you guys as
actually is fulfilling for you guys as well even though you might it might not
well even though you might it might not
well even though you might it might not be a tangible reason but the more happy
be a tangible reason but the more happy
be a tangible reason but the more happy I am in the more fulfilled I am it works
I am in the more fulfilled I am it works
I am in the more fulfilled I am it works for the family and when I’m not it
for the family and when I’m not it
for the family and when I’m not it doesn’t it’s really that simple I love
doesn’t it’s really that simple I love
doesn’t it’s really that simple I love this message and I agree that a lot of
this message and I agree that a lot of
this message and I agree that a lot of people expect their happiness to come
people expect their happiness to come
people expect their happiness to come from others and we blame other people
from others and we blame other people
from others and we blame other people for not
for not
for not giving us the happiness that we need in
giving us the happiness that we need in
giving us the happiness that we need in our lives and if I put that in an
our lives and if I put that in an
our lives and if I put that in an entrepreneurial context a lot of times
entrepreneurial context a lot of times
entrepreneurial context a lot of times we spend too much time focusing on
we spend too much time focusing on
we spend too much time focusing on external factors blaming other people
external factors blaming other people
external factors blaming other people for our dissatisfaction for where we are
for our dissatisfaction for where we are
for our dissatisfaction for where we are not quite at yet in your in our
not quite at yet in your in our
not quite at yet in your in our businesses if you’re not happy with
businesses if you’re not happy with
businesses if you’re not happy with where you’re at right now if you have
where you’re at right now if you have
where you’re at right now if you have not reached the goals that you want to
not reached the goals that you want to
not reached the goals that you want to reach the way to break through is to
reach the way to break through is to
reach the way to break through is to accept the responsibility and to not
accept the responsibility and to not
accept the responsibility and to not blame other people for it it’s a theme
blame other people for it it’s a theme
blame other people for it it’s a theme that I’ve covered multiple times on the
that I’ve covered multiple times on the
that I’ve covered multiple times on the channel and I get that it’s hard because
channel and I get that it’s hard because
channel and I get that it’s hard because the easy thing to do was to blame
the easy thing to do was to blame
the easy thing to do was to blame somebody else to blame your parents at a
somebody else to blame your parents at a
somebody else to blame your parents at a building the government or you know
building the government or you know
building the government or you know blame your business partner who screwed
blame your business partner who screwed
blame your business partner who screwed you over or blame somebody else the easy
you over or blame somebody else the easy
you over or blame somebody else the easy thing is that blame somebody else is not
thing is that blame somebody else is not
thing is that blame somebody else is not your fault that’s the easy thing to do
your fault that’s the easy thing to do
your fault that’s the easy thing to do but when you can realize that it’s up to
but when you can realize that it’s up to
but when you can realize that it’s up to you that the cavalry is not coming that
you that the cavalry is not coming that
you that the cavalry is not coming that you need to accept that responsibility
you need to accept that responsibility
you need to accept that responsibility for where you’re at in your business
for where you’re at in your business
for where you’re at in your business that if you’re not as far long as you
that if you’re not as far long as you
that if you’re not as far long as you want to be it’s because you haven’t done
want to be it’s because you haven’t done
want to be it’s because you haven’t done the work yet or because your product or
the work yet or because your product or
the work yet or because your product or service isn’t valuable enough yet or you
service isn’t valuable enough yet or you
service isn’t valuable enough yet or you haven’t invested enough in yourself to
haven’t invested enough in yourself to
haven’t invested enough in yourself to be that person yet and when you realize
be that person yet and when you realize
be that person yet and when you realize that when you truly accept that
that when you truly accept that
that when you truly accept that responsibility
responsibility
responsibility two things happen the first is sadness
two things happen the first is sadness
two things happen the first is sadness is maybe a bit of despair is
is maybe a bit of despair is
is maybe a bit of despair is uncomfortableness because the fear
uncomfortableness because the fear
uncomfortableness because the fear starts to creep in as to whether you
starts to creep in as to whether you
starts to creep in as to whether you have the abilities to be that person
have the abilities to be that person
have the abilities to be that person it’s way easier to blame somebody else
it’s way easier to blame somebody else
it’s way easier to blame somebody else but now that’s on me I’m not being
but now that’s on me I’m not being
but now that’s on me I’m not being successful because of me then you start
successful because of me then you start
successful because of me then you start thinking do I have the ability to do it
thinking do I have the ability to do it
thinking do I have the ability to do it can I do it can I be that person do I
can I do it can I be that person do I
can I do it can I be that person do I have the skills do I want to put in the
have the skills do I want to put in the
have the skills do I want to put in the work to actually become that person who
work to actually become that person who
work to actually become that person who leads us business to success the second
leads us business to success the second
leads us business to success the second part is it’s empowering because once you
part is it’s empowering because once you
part is it’s empowering because once you get through all of that realization that
get through all of that realization that
get through all of that realization that it’s scary and that’s gonna be a lot of
it’s scary and that’s gonna be a lot of
it’s scary and that’s gonna be a lot of hard work it’s empowering because you
hard work it’s empowering because you
hard work it’s empowering because you have an answer because at the end of
have an answer because at the end of
have an answer because at the end of blame at the end of complaining there is
blame at the end of complaining there is
blame at the end of complaining there is no answer the answer is just to blame
no answer the answer is just to blame
no answer the answer is just to blame that person but you never make the
that person but you never make the
that person but you never make the progress that you need to make or if you
progress that you need to make or if you
progress that you need to make or if you understand that it’s up to you that
understand that it’s up to you that
understand that it’s up to you that you’ve accepted that responsibility then
you’ve accepted that responsibility then
you’ve accepted that responsibility then yes it’s gonna be a lot of hard work yes
yes it’s gonna be a lot of hard work yes
yes it’s gonna be a lot of hard work yes you’re gonna be putting in insane number
you’re gonna be putting in insane number
you’re gonna be putting in insane number of hours to make yourself a better
of hours to make yourself a better
of hours to make yourself a better leader a better entrepreneur a better
leader a better entrepreneur a better
leader a better entrepreneur a better person but it’s under your control and
person but it’s under your control and
person but it’s under your control and that’s empowering and that will let you
that’s empowering and that will let you
that’s empowering and that will let you get to where you need to be and so if
get to where you need to be and so if
get to where you need to be and so if you ever find yourself saying you can’t
you ever find yourself saying you can’t
you ever find yourself saying you can’t do something if you ever find yourself
do something if you ever find yourself
do something if you ever find yourself blaming something or complaining about
blaming something or complaining about
blaming something or complaining about something try to catch yourself
something try to catch yourself
something try to catch yourself try to stop in that moment and realize
try to stop in that moment and realize
try to stop in that moment and realize that this is not the correct action and
that this is not the correct action and
that this is not the correct action and that you need to take accountability and
that you need to take accountability and
that you need to take accountability and responsibility where you’re at right now
responsibility where you’re at right now
responsibility where you’re at right now and that you choose not to do that
and that you choose not to do that
and that you choose not to do that whether it’s in the best interest or not
whether it’s in the best interest or not
whether it’s in the best interest or not and once you start making better choices
and once you start making better choices
and once you start making better choices you’ll start having better outcomes so
you’ll start having better outcomes so
you’ll start having better outcomes so the question today today is how much do
the question today today is how much do
the question today today is how much do you focus on you first leave in the
you focus on you first leave in the
you focus on you first leave in the comments below I’m going to join the
comments below I’m going to join the
comments below I’m going to join the discussion finally want to give a quick
discussion finally want to give a quick
discussion finally want to give a quick shout out to mr. mo from mr. mo da ve
shout out to mr. mo from mr. mo da ve
shout out to mr. mo from mr. mo da ve mr. mo thank you so much for picking up
mr. mo thank you so much for picking up
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day continue to believe or whatever your
day continue to believe or whatever your one word is and I’ll see you again
one word is and I’ll see you again
one word is and I’ll see you again tomorrow morning for another shot of
tomorrow morning for another shot of
tomorrow morning for another shot of espresso and it’s not an easy solution
espresso and it’s not an easy solution
espresso and it’s not an easy solution Hayden Hayden
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