don’t lead with a complaint so just finished filming my weekly videos at
finished filming my weekly videos at
finished filming my weekly videos at trial date salsa and the first guy who
trial date salsa and the first guy who
trial date salsa and the first guy who showed up was complaining first thing
showed up was complaining first thing
showed up was complaining first thing first thing I was found was complaining
first thing I was found was complaining
first thing I was found was complaining about how much of work he had how busy
about how much of work he had how busy
about how much of work he had how busy he felt I wasn’t sleeping next guy shows
he felt I wasn’t sleeping next guy shows
he felt I wasn’t sleeping next guy shows up starts complaining about how hot it
up starts complaining about how hot it
up starts complaining about how hot it is in the studio because we we turn off
is in the studio because we we turn off
is in the studio because we we turn off the air conditioning doesn’t make noise
the air conditioning doesn’t make noise
the air conditioning doesn’t make noise or two when we’re filming hey you know
or two when we’re filming hey you know
or two when we’re filming hey you know in general complaining is not a great
in general complaining is not a great
in general complaining is not a great thing you know and Here I am plugging
thing you know and Here I am plugging
thing you know and Here I am plugging the book complainers you look at super
the book complainers you look at super
the book complainers you look at super successful people and they don’t usually
successful people and they don’t usually
successful people and they don’t usually complain much right like they’re not
complain much right like they’re not
complain much right like they’re not human players they have bad things
human players they have bad things
human players they have bad things happen to them sure maybe more than most
happen to them sure maybe more than most
happen to them sure maybe more than most of us and they plow through when they
of us and they plow through when they
of us and they plow through when they accept responsibility and they do
accept responsibility and they do
accept responsibility and they do something about it but they don’t
something about it but they don’t
something about it but they don’t complain with my breath doesn’t go up
complain with my breath doesn’t go up
complain with my breath doesn’t go up the stairs here still with stairwell
the stairs here still with stairwell
the stairs here still with stairwell rained and so I challenged them to say
rained and so I challenged them to say
rained and so I challenged them to say listen don’t make your first interaction
listen don’t make your first interaction
listen don’t make your first interaction with somebody for the next week don’t
with somebody for the next week don’t
with somebody for the next week don’t make it a complaint like don’t be that
make it a complaint like don’t be that
make it a complaint like don’t be that person who’s known as the guy a girl
person who’s known as the guy a girl
person who’s known as the guy a girl who’s always complaining how does that
who’s always complaining how does that
who’s always complaining how does that make people feel around here in response
make people feel around here in response
make people feel around here in response was well Evan I know you you know known
was well Evan I know you you know known
was well Evan I know you you know known you for a while it’s not like I’m
you for a while it’s not like I’m
you for a while it’s not like I’m talking to a customer and for sure like
talking to a customer and for sure like
talking to a customer and for sure like if you’re talking to a customer the
if you’re talking to a customer the
if you’re talking to a customer the first thing I promised complaint man
first thing I promised complaint man
first thing I promised complaint man like you hate your life there’s a whole
like you hate your life there’s a whole
like you hate your life there’s a whole bunch of stuff you gotta fix there but
bunch of stuff you gotta fix there but
bunch of stuff you gotta fix there but why is it that when you do with your
why is it that when you do with your
why is it that when you do with your friends or people close to you that’s
friends or people close to you that’s
friends or people close to you that’s okay to lead with a complaint how is
okay to lead with a complaint how is
okay to lead with a complaint how is that okay
and so I’ll use the example listen if
and so I’ll use the example listen if you’re secured going home take my shoe
you’re secured going home take my shoe
you’re secured going home take my shoe off and you’re meeting your wife or your
off and you’re meeting your wife or your
off and you’re meeting your wife or your wife is coming home which is meeting you
wife is coming home which is meeting you
wife is coming home which is meeting you do you want the first thing out of your
do you want the first thing out of your
do you want the first thing out of your mouth to be a complaint like do you want
mouth to be a complaint like do you want
mouth to be a complaint like do you want the first thing I’m her mouth to be a
the first thing I’m her mouth to be a
the first thing I’m her mouth to be a complaint is that what you want to like
complaint is that what you want to like
complaint is that what you want to like that’s the relationship that you want to
that’s the relationship that you want to
that’s the relationship that you want to have wouldn’t be better to say something
have wouldn’t be better to say something
have wouldn’t be better to say something like hey it’s great to see you i don’t
like hey it’s great to see you i don’t
like hey it’s great to see you i don’t know something something more than just
know something something more than just
know something something more than just a complaint the people that you work
a complaint the people that you work
a complaint the people that you work with to your boss if you have a job how
with to your boss if you have a job how
with to your boss if you have a job how about you not be known as a person who
about you not be known as a person who
about you not be known as a person who just always is complaining but has
just always is complaining but has
just always is complaining but has something positive to say when they lead
something positive to say when they lead
something positive to say when they lead off just a mindset shift and by the same
off just a mindset shift and by the same
off just a mindset shift and by the same token also say try to end not on a
token also say try to end not on a
token also say try to end not on a complaint like whatever the last
complaint like whatever the last
complaint like whatever the last interaction with you is if you’re
interaction with you is if you’re
interaction with you is if you’re hanging up a phone call if you’re you
hanging up a phone call if you’re you
hanging up a phone call if you’re you know leaving and seeing a bye in person
know leaving and seeing a bye in person
know leaving and seeing a bye in person whatever it is try to end them on a
whatever it is try to end them on a
whatever it is try to end them on a positive note i definitely don’t end the
positive note i definitely don’t end the
positive note i definitely don’t end the complaint now i know life is not perfect
complaint now i know life is not perfect
complaint now i know life is not perfect i know we all have stuff that’s
i know we all have stuff that’s
i know we all have stuff that’s happening and no one gets on our nerves
happening and no one gets on our nerves
happening and no one gets on our nerves and yeah in an ideal world nobody’s
and yeah in an ideal world nobody’s
and yeah in an ideal world nobody’s complaining and the super successful
complaining and the super successful
complaining and the super successful people don’t complain but i think your
people don’t complain but i think your
people don’t complain but i think your first step kind of towards that is for
first step kind of towards that is for
first step kind of towards that is for the next week and i’m going to do this
the next week and i’m going to do this
the next week and i’m going to do this to like i don’t i don’t i’m not sitting
to like i don’t i don’t i’m not sitting
to like i don’t i don’t i’m not sitting on some high rock and saying i have all
on some high rock and saying i have all
on some high rock and saying i have all the answers and I don’t make any
the answers and I don’t make any
the answers and I don’t make any mistakes like maybe I do some
mistakes like maybe I do some
mistakes like maybe I do some complaining when I first meet somebody
complaining when I first meet somebody
complaining when I first meet somebody you know especially the people close to
you know especially the people close to
you know especially the people close to me there’s a challenge for me too but
me there’s a challenge for me too but
me there’s a challenge for me too but you know my challenge for you is for the
you know my challenge for you is for the
you know my challenge for you is for the next week try to go in to every single
next week try to go in to every single
next week try to go in to every single interaction with another human being and
interaction with another human being and
interaction with another human being and not lead with some kind of complaint
not lead with some kind of complaint
not lead with some kind of complaint right if somebody asks you how your day
right if somebody asks you how your day
right if somebody asks you how your day is going and it may be the worst day
is going and it may be the worst day
is going and it may be the worst day you’ve ever had still try to leave with
you’ve ever had still try to leave with
you’ve ever had still try to leave with something a little bit positive like I’m
something a little bit positive like I’m
something a little bit positive like I’m really glad to be seeing you here today
really glad to be seeing you here today
really glad to be seeing you here today something like show a little bit of
something like show a little bit of
something like show a little bit of gratitude and appreciation because you
gratitude and appreciation because you
gratitude and appreciation because you know what like as because you think your
know what like as because you think your
know what like as because you think your problems are right now your grandparents
problems are right now your grandparents
problems are right now your grandparents had it worse your great-grandparents had
had it worse your great-grandparents had
had it worse your great-grandparents had it works there’s a billion people in the
it works there’s a billion people in the
it works there’s a billion people in the world right now who would kill to have
world right now who would kill to have
world right now who would kill to have the life that you have right now and the
the life that you have right now and the
the life that you have right now and the problems that you have in
problems that you have in
problems that you have in life right now so stop complaining and
life right now so stop complaining and
life right now so stop complaining and definitely don’t lead or any or end any
definitely don’t lead or any or end any
definitely don’t lead or any or end any conversation any interaction with the
conversation any interaction with the
conversation any interaction with the complaint that’s your challenge my
complaint that’s your challenge my
complaint that’s your challenge my challenge for the week stairwell rant
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