rise and shine it’s aunt spresso time good morning belief nation it’s seven my
good morning belief nation it’s seven my
good morning belief nation it’s seven my one word is believe and I believe in you
one word is believe and I believe in you
one word is believe and I believe in you I believe you have an amazing gift
I believe you have an amazing gift
I believe you have an amazing gift inside you that I want to see explode
inside you that I want to see explode
inside you that I want to see explode out into the world
out into the world
out into the world so grab your coffee and sip on today’s
so grab your coffee and sip on today’s
so grab your coffee and sip on today’s message demand respect over to you Oprah
message demand respect over to you Oprah
message demand respect over to you Oprah Winfrey when I first started as a
Winfrey when I first started as a
Winfrey when I first started as a broadcaster I was 19 very insecure
broadcaster I was 19 very insecure
broadcaster I was 19 very insecure thrown into television pretending to be
thrown into television pretending to be
thrown into television pretending to be Barbara Walters looking nothing like her
Barbara Walters looking nothing like her
Barbara Walters looking nothing like her and still going to college so I do all
and still going to college so I do all
and still going to college so I do all my classes in the morning from 8:00 to
my classes in the morning from 8:00 to
my classes in the morning from 8:00 to 1:00 and then the afternoon I work from
1:00 and then the afternoon I work from
1:00 and then the afternoon I work from 2:00 to 10:00 and did the 6 o’clock news
2:00 to 10:00 and did the 6 o’clock news
2:00 to 10:00 and did the 6 o’clock news and would stay up and study and all that
and would stay up and study and all that
and would stay up and study and all that stuff that you know until 1 2 or 3
stuff that you know until 1 2 or 3
stuff that you know until 1 2 or 3 o’clock in the morning and then just
o’clock in the morning and then just
o’clock in the morning and then just start the routine all over again
start the routine all over again
start the routine all over again and my classmates were so jealous of me
and my classmates were so jealous of me
and my classmates were so jealous of me that I remember like taking my little
that I remember like taking my little
that I remember like taking my little hundred and fifteen dollar paycheck and
hundred and fifteen dollar paycheck and
hundred and fifteen dollar paycheck and at the time I thought was really a lot
at the time I thought was really a lot
at the time I thought was really a lot but taking 150 dollars and trying to
but taking 150 dollars and trying to
but taking 150 dollars and trying to appease them I would like all wait
appease them I would like all wait
appease them I would like all wait anytime anybody needed money I was
anytime anybody needed money I was
anytime anybody needed money I was always offering oh you need ten dollars
always offering oh you need ten dollars
always offering oh you need ten dollars or taking them out for pizza ordering
or taking them out for pizza ordering
or taking them out for pizza ordering pizza for the class and things like that
pizza for the class and things like that
pizza for the class and things like that trying to that hold disease – please
trying to that hold disease – please
trying to that hold disease – please that’s where it was the worst for me I
that’s where it was the worst for me I
that’s where it was the worst for me I think because I wanted to be accepted by
think because I wanted to be accepted by
think because I wanted to be accepted by them and could not be because first of
them and could not be because first of
them and could not be because first of all I didn’t have the time they wanted
all I didn’t have the time they wanted
all I didn’t have the time they wanted me to pledge and I didn’t have the time
me to pledge and I didn’t have the time
me to pledge and I didn’t have the time to pledge I was I didn’t have the time
to pledge I was I didn’t have the time
to pledge I was I didn’t have the time to be a part of all the other college
to be a part of all the other college
to be a part of all the other college activities or a part of that whole
activities or a part of that whole
activities or a part of that whole lifestyle and it was very difficult for
lifestyle and it was very difficult for
lifestyle and it was very difficult for me socially really one of the worst
me socially really one of the worst
me socially really one of the worst times of my life because I was trying to
times of my life because I was trying to
times of my life because I was trying to fit in in school and be a part of that
fit in in school and be a part of that
fit in in school and be a part of that culture but also trying to build a
culture but also trying to build a
culture but also trying to build a career in television it’s very difficult
career in television it’s very difficult
career in television it’s very difficult for me to even see myself as successful
for me to even see myself as successful
for me to even see myself as successful because I still see myself as in the
because I still see myself as in the
because I still see myself as in the process of becoming successful to me
process of becoming successful to me
process of becoming successful to me successful is getting to the point where
successful is getting to the point where
successful is getting to the point where you are absolutely comfortable with
you are absolutely comfortable with
you are absolutely comfortable with yourself and it does not matter how many
yourself and it does not matter how many
yourself and it does not matter how many things you have acquired
things you have acquired
things you have acquired the ability to learn to say no and not
the ability to learn to say no and not
the ability to learn to say no and not to feel guilty about it
to feel guilty about it
to feel guilty about it to me is about the greatest success I
to me is about the greatest success I
to me is about the greatest success I have achieved the fact that I have you
have achieved the fact that I have you
have achieved the fact that I have you know in the public side done whatever is
know in the public side done whatever is
know in the public side done whatever is fine it’s all a part of a process for
fine it’s all a part of a process for
fine it’s all a part of a process for growing for me but to me to have the in
growing for me but to me to have the in
growing for me but to me to have the in the kind of internal strength and
the kind of internal strength and
the kind of internal strength and internal courage it takes to say no I
internal courage it takes to say no I
internal courage it takes to say no I will not let you treat me this way
will not let you treat me this way
will not let you treat me this way is what success is all about it’s the
is what success is all about it’s the
is what success is all about it’s the same thing that prevents you from being
same thing that prevents you from being
same thing that prevents you from being abused as a child that prevents you from
abused as a child that prevents you from
abused as a child that prevents you from being abused as an adult that allows you
being abused as an adult that allows you
being abused as an adult that allows you to build success for yourself I will not
to build success for yourself I will not
to build success for yourself I will not be treated this way I demand only the
be treated this way I demand only the
be treated this way I demand only the best for myself you are worthy to say no
best for myself you are worthy to say no
best for myself you are worthy to say no you were that it’s okay if you say no
you were that it’s okay if you say no
you were that it’s okay if you say no it’s okay if you say no and then people
it’s okay if you say no and then people
it’s okay if you say no and then people don’t like you that’s really okay the
don’t like you that’s really okay the
don’t like you that’s really okay the important thing is how you feel about
important thing is how you feel about
important thing is how you feel about what you’re doing how you feel about
what you’re doing how you feel about
what you’re doing how you feel about yourself it’s a long struggle though
yourself it’s a long struggle though
yourself it’s a long struggle though it’s a long struggle and I’m just hoping
it’s a long struggle and I’m just hoping
it’s a long struggle and I’m just hoping that you know in the work that I do on
that you know in the work that I do on
that you know in the work that I do on the show and the speaking that I do
the show and the speaking that I do
the show and the speaking that I do around the country and that young people
around the country and that young people
around the country and that young people who are watching this can get the lesson
who are watching this can get the lesson
who are watching this can get the lesson sooner than I did because it’s painful
sooner than I did because it’s painful
sooner than I did because it’s painful because you keep repeating it over and
because you keep repeating it over and
because you keep repeating it over and over and over until you get it right and
over and over until you get it right and
over and over until you get it right and what I found is that every time you have
what I found is that every time you have
what I found is that every time you have to repeat the lesson it gets worse
to repeat the lesson it gets worse
to repeat the lesson it gets worse because it’s you know it’s I call it God
because it’s you know it’s I call it God
because it’s you know it’s I call it God trying to get your attention the
trying to get your attention the
trying to get your attention the universe trying to get your attention so
universe trying to get your attention so
universe trying to get your attention so we didn’t get your attention the first
we didn’t get your attention the first
we didn’t get your attention the first time so we’re gonna have to hit you a
time so we’re gonna have to hit you a
time so we’re gonna have to hit you a little harder this time so I’m still
little harder this time so I’m still
little harder this time so I’m still doing it I’m still learning okay seems
doing it I’m still learning okay seems
doing it I’m still learning okay seems worse because it gets worse you train
worse because it gets worse you train
worse because it gets worse you train the people in your life how to treat you
the people in your life how to treat you
the people in your life how to treat you if you are not happy with the way
if you are not happy with the way
if you are not happy with the way something is going in your life with how
something is going in your life with how
something is going in your life with how somebody is treating you it’s not their
somebody is treating you it’s not their
somebody is treating you it’s not their fault it’s not their fault for walking
fault it’s not their fault for walking
fault it’s not their fault for walking all over you it’s not their fault for
all over you it’s not their fault for
all over you it’s not their fault for being a loser and eighty-eight or
being a loser and eighty-eight or
being a loser and eighty-eight or uncaring it’s your fault for allowing it
uncaring it’s your fault for allowing it
uncaring it’s your fault for allowing it to happen to you and you need to raise
to happen to you and you need to raise
to happen to you and you need to raise your standards and teach the people in
your standards and teach the people in
your standards and teach the people in your life how to treat you now I’m not
your life how to treat you now I’m not
your life how to treat you now I’m not talking about as a child and child abuse
talking about as a child and child abuse
talking about as a child and child abuse and all those things like at some point
and all those things like at some point
and all those things like at some point you know you’re too young to be able to
you know you’re too young to be able to
you know you’re too young to be able to make those decisions but if you’re not
make those decisions but if you’re not
make those decisions but if you’re not old you always have a choice you are not
old you always have a choice you are not
old you always have a choice you are not powerless you teach the people in your
powerless you teach the people in your
powerless you teach the people in your life how to treat you and if you’re
life how to treat you and if you’re
life how to treat you and if you’re not happy with it then you need to raise
not happy with it then you need to raise
not happy with it then you need to raise your standards one of the things for me
your standards one of the things for me
your standards one of the things for me as an example is punctuality I hate when
as an example is punctuality I hate when
as an example is punctuality I hate when people are late and I’m never late for
people are late and I’m never late for
people are late and I’m never late for things I value my time time is the most
things I value my time time is the most
things I value my time time is the most precious thing that I have and so I
precious thing that I have and so I
precious thing that I have and so I value it immensely and if you are late
value it immensely and if you are late
value it immensely and if you are late for something for me that’s gonna really
for something for me that’s gonna really
for something for me that’s gonna really bother me that’s gonna be a problem and
bother me that’s gonna be a problem and
bother me that’s gonna be a problem and I’ll respect your time in the process as
I’ll respect your time in the process as
I’ll respect your time in the process as well so when I first started working
well so when I first started working
well so when I first started working with Alex at Toronto events also as an
with Alex at Toronto events also as an
with Alex at Toronto events also as an example he would routinely be late not
example he would routinely be late not
example he would routinely be late not really late but fifteen minutes late ten
really late but fifteen minutes late ten
really late but fifteen minutes late ten minutes late five minutes late he’d be
minutes late five minutes late he’d be
minutes late five minutes late he’d be late that’s a problem for me don’t be
late that’s a problem for me don’t be
late that’s a problem for me don’t be late coming to meet me
late coming to meet me
late coming to meet me I value my time you should value yours
I value my time you should value yours
I value my time you should value yours as well
as well
as well and so when it kept happening I locked
and so when it kept happening I locked
and so when it kept happening I locked the door and he couldn’t get in you have
the door and he couldn’t get in you have
the door and he couldn’t get in you have to go work somewhere else you waste even
to go work somewhere else you waste even
to go work somewhere else you waste even more time and we had conversations if
more time and we had conversations if
more time and we had conversations if you are making a goal to show up at a
you are making a goal to show up at a
you are making a goal to show up at a certain time and then you show up late
certain time and then you show up late
certain time and then you show up late you’re missing another goal you’re
you’re missing another goal you’re
you’re missing another goal you’re letting yourself down not just me not
letting yourself down not just me not
letting yourself down not just me not just the people that you’re setting
just the people that you’re setting
just the people that you’re setting these times up you said you’re letting
these times up you said you’re letting
these times up you said you’re letting yourself down if you book the coffee
yourself down if you book the coffee
yourself down if you book the coffee meeting with me for three o’clock on a
meeting with me for three o’clock on a
meeting with me for three o’clock on a Thursday afternoon and you don’t show up
Thursday afternoon and you don’t show up
Thursday afternoon and you don’t show up at three o’clock by three o’clock I’m
at three o’clock by three o’clock I’m
at three o’clock by three o’clock I’m out because you shouldn’t just be there
out because you shouldn’t just be there
out because you shouldn’t just be there at three o’clock you really should be
at three o’clock you really should be
at three o’clock you really should be there 15 minutes early because I’m there
there 15 minutes early because I’m there
there 15 minutes early because I’m there 15 minutes early you should not be there
15 minutes early you should not be there
15 minutes early you should not be there at 3 o’clock when I do hangouts on my
at 3 o’clock when I do hangouts on my
at 3 o’clock when I do hangouts on my youtube channel I do more in the live
youtube channel I do more in the live
youtube channel I do more in the live channel than the main one if we’re
channel than the main one if we’re
channel than the main one if we’re supposed to start at 2 o’clock we
supposed to start at 2 o’clock we
supposed to start at 2 o’clock we started 2 o’clock I send you the link 10
started 2 o’clock I send you the link 10
started 2 o’clock I send you the link 10 to 15 minutes before we start if you
to 15 minutes before we start if you
to 15 minutes before we start if you don’t show up at time at 2 o’clock then
don’t show up at time at 2 o’clock then
don’t show up at time at 2 o’clock then I leave I cancel it and if you showed up
I leave I cancel it and if you showed up
I leave I cancel it and if you showed up at 2:01 you would have missed it I’m not
at 2:01 you would have missed it I’m not
at 2:01 you would have missed it I’m not there anymore I’m gone no five minute
there anymore I’m gone no five minute
there anymore I’m gone no five minute rule or 10 minute rule or 15 minute rule
rule or 10 minute rule or 15 minute rule
rule or 10 minute rule or 15 minute rule I’m gone and that’s with some customers
I’m gone and that’s with some customers
I’m gone and that’s with some customers right like that means I don’t do
right like that means I don’t do
right like that means I don’t do business with some people that means I
business with some people that means I
business with some people that means I lose out on some deals if I’m supposed
lose out on some deals if I’m supposed
lose out on some deals if I’m supposed to meet somebody at a coffee shop at 3
to meet somebody at a coffee shop at 3
to meet somebody at a coffee shop at 3 o’clock and they’re not there by 3
o’clock and they’re not there by 3
o’clock and they’re not there by 3 o’clock and I leave and they come five
o’clock and I leave and they come five
o’clock and I leave and they come five minutes later I’m gone they we sit there
minutes later I’m gone they we sit there
minutes later I’m gone they we sit there afternoon they’re probably not gonna be
afternoon they’re probably not gonna be
afternoon they’re probably not gonna be super happy about that I may not make a
super happy about that I may not make a
super happy about that I may not make a deal with that person
deal with that person
deal with that person one if that’s the kind of relationship
one if that’s the kind of relationship
one if that’s the kind of relationship we’re gonna have I don’t want to do
we’re gonna have I don’t want to do
we’re gonna have I don’t want to do business with that person if you’re
business with that person if you’re
business with that person if you’re gonna routinely be late to things I
gonna routinely be late to things I
gonna routinely be late to things I don’t want to deal with you – if we’re
don’t want to deal with you – if we’re
don’t want to deal with you – if we’re gonna reschedule something you’re not
gonna reschedule something you’re not
gonna reschedule something you’re not going to be late for me the next time
going to be late for me the next time
going to be late for me the next time and so you teach the people in your life
and so you teach the people in your life
and so you teach the people in your life how to treat you because you have a new
how to treat you because you have a new
how to treat you because you have a new standard that you value yourself to such
standard that you value yourself to such
standard that you value yourself to such a degree that you say I am not willing
a degree that you say I am not willing
a degree that you say I am not willing to let you walk all over me anymore you
to let you walk all over me anymore you
to let you walk all over me anymore you need to setup a higher wall a higher
need to setup a higher wall a higher
need to setup a higher wall a higher barrier and so yes the people around you
barrier and so yes the people around you
barrier and so yes the people around you may be taking advantage of you they may
may be taking advantage of you they may
may be taking advantage of you they may be treating you like crap they may be
be treating you like crap they may be
be treating you like crap they may be hurling insults at you you need to stop
hurling insults at you you need to stop
hurling insults at you you need to stop allowing it to happen stop blaming them
allowing it to happen stop blaming them
allowing it to happen stop blaming them for their insecurities and their issues
for their insecurities and their issues
for their insecurities and their issues stop blaming them take ownership stop
stop blaming them take ownership stop
stop blaming them take ownership stop letting it happen to you the main
letting it happen to you the main
letting it happen to you the main respect so the question of day today is
respect so the question of day today is
respect so the question of day today is I’m curious when was the last time
I’m curious when was the last time
I’m curious when was the last time you’ve had to raise your standards and
you’ve had to raise your standards and
you’ve had to raise your standards and demand respect
demand respect
demand respect leave it in the comments below I’m
leave it in the comments below I’m
leave it in the comments below I’m really curious to find out I also want
really curious to find out I also want
really curious to find out I also want to give a quick shout-out to Sahana moo
to give a quick shout-out to Sahana moo
to give a quick shout-out to Sahana moo Kamala thank you so much for picking up
Kamala thank you so much for picking up
Kamala thank you so much for picking up a copy of my new book the top ten roses
a copy of my new book the top ten roses
a copy of my new book the top ten roses success and taking that picture and send
success and taking that picture and send
success and taking that picture and send it in I really really appreciate the
it in I really really appreciate the
it in I really really appreciate the support and I hope you enjoyed the read
support and I hope you enjoyed the read
support and I hope you enjoyed the read so thank you guys again for watching I
so thank you guys again for watching I
so thank you guys again for watching I believe in you I hope we continue to
believe in you I hope we continue to
believe in you I hope we continue to believe in yourself and whatever your
believe in yourself and whatever your
believe in yourself and whatever your one word is much love and I’ll see you
one word is much love and I’ll see you
one word is much love and I’ll see you again tomorrow morning for another shot
again tomorrow morning for another shot
again tomorrow morning for another shot of espresso
I always say you know worry about being
I always say you know worry about being respected never worry about being liked
respected never worry about being liked
respected never worry about being liked because that’s the track that’s where
because that’s the track that’s where
because that’s the track that’s where people manipulate you and so my kids you
people manipulate you and so my kids you
people manipulate you and so my kids you know I did not teach my kids to be liked
know I did not teach my kids to be liked
know I did not teach my kids to be liked I taught them to always live by their
I taught them to always live by their
I taught them to always live by their truth and to always respect others and
truth and to always respect others and
truth and to always respect others and to always reach to be respected and you
to always reach to be respected and you
to always reach to be respected and you know different people will respect
know different people will respect
know different people will respect different things but at the end of the
different things but at the end of the
different things but at the end of the day my kids have the confidence to be
day my kids have the confidence to be
day my kids have the confidence to be who they are and that is all as a parent
who they are and that is all as a parent
who they are and that is all as a parent that will and I can ask of them because
that will and I can ask of them because
that will and I can ask of them because that is where their power and their
that is where their power and their
that is where their power and their strength will come from would you ever
strength will come from would you ever
strength will come from would you ever sign our deal the major not me just the
sign our deal the major not me just the
sign our deal the major not me just the structure the majors they don’t respect
structure the majors they don’t respect
structure the majors they don’t respect talent you know I’m saying all respect
talent you know I’m saying all respect
talent you know I’m saying all respect these labels always backed out not
these labels always backed out not
these labels always backed out not definitely explain it you you at the
definitely explain it you you at the
definitely explain it you you at the bottom of the totem pole go go tap dance
bottom of the totem pole go go tap dance
bottom of the totem pole go go tap dance go rap go sing and then we talk to your
go rap go sing and then we talk to your
go rap go sing and then we talk to your manager or we talk to the executives and
manager or we talk to the executives and
manager or we talk to the executives and be involved in your situation you know
be involved in your situation you know
be involved in your situation you know of course when you blow up they jump on
of course when you blow up they jump on
of course when you blow up they jump on your dick and act like you know they
your dick and act like you know they
your dick and act like you know they don’t but it’s not respect and I’m
don’t but it’s not respect and I’m
don’t but it’s not respect and I’m saying to me respect come first so when
saying to me respect come first so when
saying to me respect come first so when I walk in the door you know I’m saying
I walk in the door you know I’m saying
I walk in the door you know I’m saying I’m the executive representing the
I’m the executive representing the
I’m the executive representing the talent I’m not the time I’m the
talent I’m not the time I’m the
talent I’m not the time I’m the executive representative Talent so
executive representative Talent so
executive representative Talent so that’s the different conversation don’t
that’s the different conversation don’t
that’s the different conversation don’t play with me you know you know don’t
play with me you know you know don’t
play with me you know you know don’t talk to me like the town is
talk to me like the town is
talk to me like the town is disrespectful but then I was in the die
disrespectful but then I was in the die
disrespectful but then I was in the die hard office one day and as a sign on the
hard office one day and as a sign on the
hard office one day and as a sign on the on the on the wall that I adhere to be
on the on the wall that I adhere to be
on the on the wall that I adhere to be Emily now they said be careful of the
Emily now they said be careful of the
Emily now they said be careful of the toes you step on today for they could be
toes you step on today for they could be
toes you step on today for they could be connected to the ass you’ll have to kiss
connected to the ass you’ll have to kiss
connected to the ass you’ll have to kiss tomorrow and believe me they’re been pas
tomorrow and believe me they’re been pas
tomorrow and believe me they’re been pas and other people like when I’m on a
and other people like when I’m on a
and other people like when I’m on a movie set I think everybody is just as
movie set I think everybody is just as
movie set I think everybody is just as important as I am I treat them that way
important as I am I treat them that way
important as I am I treat them that way so I know pas names I talked to him I
so I know pas names I talked to him I
so I know pas names I talked to him I speak to him every day I speak to the
speak to him every day I speak to the
speak to him every day I speak to the gaffer’s I speak to the grips I speak to
gaffer’s I speak to the grips I speak to
gaffer’s I speak to the grips I speak to all these people and over the years I’ve
all these people and over the years I’ve
all these people and over the years I’ve gotten jobs and the producer will show
gotten jobs and the producer will show
gotten jobs and the producer will show up and he’ll be like you you don’t
up and he’ll be like you you don’t
up and he’ll be like you you don’t remember me but I was a PA on a song
remember me but I was a PA on a song
remember me but I was a PA on a song song son you were so nice to me that you
song son you were so nice to me that you
song son you were so nice to me that you know I was doing this movie I couldn’t
know I was doing this movie I couldn’t
know I was doing this movie I couldn’t help but think you know
help but think you know
help but think you know would be the perfect and that works
would be the perfect and that works
would be the perfect and that works out you know or they become writers or
out you know or they become writers or
out you know or they become writers or they become directors you know but it’s
they become directors you know but it’s
they become directors you know but it’s a collaborative effort I mean we’re
a collaborative effort I mean we’re
a collaborative effort I mean we’re we’re almost the least important element
we’re almost the least important element
we’re almost the least important element of any film cuz if ain’t
of any film cuz if ain’t
of any film cuz if ain’t putting the lights up right or the
putting the lights up right or the
putting the lights up right or the soundman mic is jacked up
soundman mic is jacked up
soundman mic is jacked up it’ll mean about what you’re doing cuz
it’ll mean about what you’re doing cuz
it’ll mean about what you’re doing cuz nobody can see you or hear you you know
nobody can see you or hear you you know
nobody can see you or hear you you know so they can fix that in the mix you know
so they can fix that in the mix you know
so they can fix that in the mix you know but everything else has got to work and
but everything else has got to work and
but everything else has got to work and you you have to know that if you had to
you you have to know that if you had to
you you have to know that if you had to think of one word that’s most important
think of one word that’s most important
think of one word that’s most important to you or that sums you up or that would
to you or that sums you up or that would
to you or that sums you up or that would be like a little beacon hey believe
be like a little beacon hey believe
be like a little beacon hey believe nation if you want to know what the most
nation if you want to know what the most
nation if you want to know what the most important one word is for Tony Robbins
important one word is for Tony Robbins
important one word is for Tony Robbins Gary Vaynerchuk Oprah Winfrey will.i.am
Gary Vaynerchuk Oprah Winfrey will.i.am
Gary Vaynerchuk Oprah Winfrey will.i.am and Howard Schultz I have a very special
and Howard Schultz I have a very special
and Howard Schultz I have a very special secret video for you check the
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