one of the biggest challenges for people everybody wants a better quality of life
everybody wants a better quality of life
everybody wants a better quality of life everybody wants life to be greater but
everybody wants life to be greater but
everybody wants life to be greater but almost all of us get stuck at times or
almost all of us get stuck at times or
almost all of us get stuck at times or something stops us something prevents us
something stops us something prevents us
something stops us something prevents us from doing something that we really are
from doing something that we really are
from doing something that we really are capable of doing whether it’s turning
capable of doing whether it’s turning
capable of doing whether it’s turning around our body or shifting a
around our body or shifting a
around our body or shifting a relationship or turning around our
relationship or turning around our
relationship or turning around our finances or just maybe just being happy
finances or just maybe just being happy
finances or just maybe just being happy and fulfilled at a different level we
and fulfilled at a different level we
and fulfilled at a different level we get stuck with a belief of how we’re not
get stuck with a belief of how we’re not
get stuck with a belief of how we’re not supposed to be what we’re not supposed
supposed to be what we’re not supposed
supposed to be what we’re not supposed to do what people won’t accept what
to do what people won’t accept what
to do what people won’t accept what we’re not capable of or maybe we get
we’re not capable of or maybe we get
we’re not capable of or maybe we get stuck in an emotional pattern just being
stuck in an emotional pattern just being
stuck in an emotional pattern just being pissed off or frustrated or worried or
pissed off or frustrated or worried or
pissed off or frustrated or worried or sad or overwhelmed sometimes we get
sad or overwhelmed sometimes we get
sad or overwhelmed sometimes we get stuck you know not so much and anything
stuck you know not so much and anything
stuck you know not so much and anything but sin just some habits of doing things
but sin just some habits of doing things
but sin just some habits of doing things a certain way and what a breakthrough
a certain way and what a breakthrough
a certain way and what a breakthrough simply is is that moment in time where
simply is is that moment in time where
simply is is that moment in time where there’s an opening and the opening can
there’s an opening and the opening can
there’s an opening and the opening can come from a conversation it can come
come from a conversation it can come
come from a conversation it can come from meeting somebody that inspires you
from meeting somebody that inspires you
from meeting somebody that inspires you it can come from an insight it can come
it can come from an insight it can come
it can come from an insight it can come from watching a movie and being moved
from watching a movie and being moved
from watching a movie and being moved emotionally just that right moment it
emotionally just that right moment it
emotionally just that right moment it usually comes because something kind of
usually comes because something kind of
usually comes because something kind of clicked inside of us something snapped
clicked inside of us something snapped
clicked inside of us something snapped us and made us look at life through a
us and made us look at life through a
us and made us look at life through a different filter in a different way and
different filter in a different way and
different filter in a different way and you know it’s a real break you because
you know it’s a real break you because
you know it’s a real break you because you take that little insight that little
you take that little insight that little
you take that little insight that little distinction that little moment or maybe
distinction that little moment or maybe
distinction that little moment or maybe that little or big emotion inside of you
that little or big emotion inside of you
that little or big emotion inside of you that says no more I’m going to change
that says no more I’m going to change
that says no more I’m going to change this and suddenly you do something to
this and suddenly you do something to
this and suddenly you do something to make your life better you break out of
make your life better you break out of
make your life better you break out of the impossibility of life has to lead us
the impossibility of life has to lead us
the impossibility of life has to lead us right life is controlling me and you
right life is controlling me and you
right life is controlling me and you start to take back control of your life
start to take back control of your life
start to take back control of your life you start to make the shift that creates
you start to make the shift that creates
you start to make the shift that creates the quality of life that you really
the quality of life that you really
the quality of life that you really deserve everybody experiences extreme
deserve everybody experiences extreme
deserve everybody experiences extreme stress at some point in their life I
stress at some point in their life I
stress at some point in their life I don’t care who we are
don’t care who we are
don’t care who we are something happens outside our control
something happens outside our control
something happens outside our control and it hits our life and it knocks us on
and it hits our life and it knocks us on
and it hits our life and it knocks us on our tail it might be a health stress it
our tail it might be a health stress it
our tail it might be a health stress it could be something with your family it
could be something with your family it
could be something with your family it could be economic career
could be economic career
could be economic career emotional that happened biochemical
emotional that happened biochemical
emotional that happened biochemical there’s so many things it could be an
there’s so many things it could be an
there’s so many things it could be an environmental situation that nothing to
environmental situation that nothing to
environmental situation that nothing to do with you every one of us in our
do with you every one of us in our
do with you every one of us in our lifetime experiencing extreme stress and
lifetime experiencing extreme stress and
lifetime experiencing extreme stress and these days because of the economy and
these days because of the economy and
these days because of the economy and the way we respond to it
the way we respond to it
the way we respond to it the majority of people experiencing some
the majority of people experiencing some
the majority of people experiencing some form of extreme stress least according
form of extreme stress least according
form of extreme stress least according to polls stress doesn’t come from the
to polls stress doesn’t come from the
to polls stress doesn’t come from the facts stress comes from that we get the
facts stress comes from that we get the
facts stress comes from that we get the facts yes those things that happen but
facts yes those things that happen but
facts yes those things that happen but the real question is if we fight what’s
the real question is if we fight what’s
the real question is if we fight what’s happened we got to probably get aside
happened we got to probably get aside
happened we got to probably get aside what are we gonna do with what’s
what are we gonna do with what’s
what are we gonna do with what’s happening in our life how are we gonna
happening in our life how are we gonna
happening in our life how are we gonna take this how do we get a mole this how
take this how do we get a mole this how
take this how do we get a mole this how we’re going to turn a life around
we’re going to turn a life around
we’re going to turn a life around because when you come up with a new
because when you come up with a new
because when you come up with a new meaning get a new life
we’re going to take a look at something
we’re going to take a look at something from a different perspective we’re going
from a different perspective we’re going
from a different perspective we’re going to ask you this question what is the
to ask you this question what is the
to ask you this question what is the single force that controls the quality
single force that controls the quality
single force that controls the quality of your life if there was one gift our
of your life if there was one gift our
of your life if there was one gift our Creator has given us or the universe
Creator has given us or the universe
Creator has given us or the universe whatever you believe what is it what is
whatever you believe what is it what is
whatever you believe what is it what is the one power that you have right now in
the one power that you have right now in
the one power that you have right now in this moment that can change everything
this moment that can change everything
this moment that can change everything you haven’t I haven’t we all have it
you haven’t I haven’t we all have it
you haven’t I haven’t we all have it this one singular individual power that
this one singular individual power that
this one singular individual power that can change anything in our life
can change anything in our life
can change anything in our life regardless of what’s happened to us that
regardless of what’s happened to us that
regardless of what’s happened to us that I know you know the answer the answer is
I know you know the answer the answer is
I know you know the answer the answer is the power of choice the one thing we
the power of choice the one thing we
the power of choice the one thing we have in this world is we can’t control
have in this world is we can’t control
have in this world is we can’t control the events but we can choose what to
the events but we can choose what to
the events but we can choose what to focus on we can choose what things mean
focus on we can choose what things mean
focus on we can choose what things mean and we can choose what to do those three
and we can choose what to do those three
and we can choose what to do those three choices those three decisions really
choices those three decisions really
choices those three decisions really control our life
it’s not so much the conditions of our
it’s not so much the conditions of our life that control our destiny as much as
life that control our destiny as much as
life that control our destiny as much as the decisions of our life try for a
the decisions of our life try for a
the decisions of our life try for a second to think about something think
second to think about something think
second to think about something think about your life and just think about are
about your life and just think about are
about your life and just think about are there a few decisions if I were to ask
there a few decisions if I were to ask
there a few decisions if I were to ask you two decisions you’ve made your life
you two decisions you’ve made your life
you two decisions you’ve made your life you know that if you would have made a
you know that if you would have made a
you know that if you would have made a different decision you would have a
different decision you would have a
different decision you would have a totally different life I mean it may be
totally different life I mean it may be
totally different life I mean it may be a life may have been better it may have
a life may have been better it may have
a life may have been better it may have been worse I don’t know but you would
been worse I don’t know but you would
been worse I don’t know but you would have different life I’m not asking you
have different life I’m not asking you
have different life I’m not asking you to to buy into the fact that you should
to to buy into the fact that you should
to to buy into the fact that you should have known the answers I’m just want you
have known the answers I’m just want you
have known the answers I’m just want you to see the power of a decision how is
to see the power of a decision how is
to see the power of a decision how is your life better today because the
your life better today because the
your life better today because the decision you made years ago not just
decision you made years ago not just
decision you made years ago not just negative ones think about it sometimes a
negative ones think about it sometimes a
negative ones think about it sometimes a little decision changes your whole life
little decision changes your whole life
little decision changes your whole life like you decide one day to go to a
like you decide one day to go to a
like you decide one day to go to a certain school and you go to that school
certain school and you go to that school
certain school and you go to that school or to go eat someplace and you bump into
or to go eat someplace and you bump into
or to go eat someplace and you bump into person that becomes the love of your
person that becomes the love of your
person that becomes the love of your life or you meet someone and you sign as
life or you meet someone and you sign as
life or you meet someone and you sign as a result of that that you’re going to
a result of that that you’re going to
a result of that that you’re going to become a photographer or a software
become a photographer or a software
become a photographer or a software engineer or a business person or a
engineer or a business person or a
engineer or a business person or a doctor and dentists whatever they
doctor and dentists whatever they
doctor and dentists whatever they impacted you but you made the decision
impacted you but you made the decision
impacted you but you made the decision that’s what I really want that’s what
that’s what I really want that’s what
that’s what I really want that’s what that’s what my life’s going to be about
that’s what my life’s going to be about
that’s what my life’s going to be about and that decision has affected so much
and that decision has affected so much
and that decision has affected so much of your life what you do how you live
of your life what you do how you live
of your life what you do how you live your life I spend your time what you
your life I spend your time what you
your life I spend your time what you earn or don’t earn you know who you
earn or don’t earn you know who you
earn or don’t earn you know who you attract into your life beliefs you have
attract into your life beliefs you have
attract into your life beliefs you have all come from some of these little
all come from some of these little
all come from some of these little decisions what you decide to eat from
decisions what you decide to eat from
decisions what you decide to eat from your dinner plate each night certainly
your dinner plate each night certainly
your dinner plate each night certainly determines your physical destiny right
determines your physical destiny right
determines your physical destiny right we all know that at least to a certain
we all know that at least to a certain
we all know that at least to a certain extent I know there’s certain out that’s
extent I know there’s certain out that’s
extent I know there’s certain out that’s genetics but I’m talking about the stuff
genetics but I’m talking about the stuff
genetics but I’m talking about the stuff you like
you like
you like truck so decisions equal destiny it’s
truck so decisions equal destiny it’s
truck so decisions equal destiny it’s not our conditions
not our conditions
not our conditions it’s our decisions so if we want a new
it’s our decisions so if we want a new
it’s our decisions so if we want a new life a lot of new experience you’ve got
life a lot of new experience you’ve got
life a lot of new experience you’ve got to make new choices if you don’t like
to make new choices if you don’t like
to make new choices if you don’t like the way your career is your business is
the way your career is your business is
the way your career is your business is change it if you don’t like your body
change it if you don’t like your body
change it if you don’t like your body change it you don’t like your
change it you don’t like your
change it you don’t like your relationship change you first because if
relationship change you first because if
relationship change you first because if you change it you’ll bring you to the
you change it you’ll bring you to the
you change it you’ll bring you to the next one maybe it’s time to change it
next one maybe it’s time to change it
next one maybe it’s time to change it too but change yourself first if you
too but change yourself first if you
too but change yourself first if you want to change it in your life you have
want to change it in your life you have
want to change it in your life you have the choice so there is no right or wrong
the choice so there is no right or wrong
the choice so there is no right or wrong I just want to make you aware in this
I just want to make you aware in this
I just want to make you aware in this breakthrough session that everything in
breakthrough session that everything in
breakthrough session that everything in our life changes the moment we make a
our life changes the moment we make a
our life changes the moment we make a decision I mean a real decision the
decision I mean a real decision the
decision I mean a real decision the decision is when you cut off any other
decision is when you cut off any other
decision is when you cut off any other possibility you commit to something with
possibility you commit to something with
possibility you commit to something with everything you’ve got and you take
everything you’ve got and you take
everything you’ve got and you take action but the big decisions start with
action but the big decisions start with
action but the big decisions start with little decisions like what am I gonna
little decisions like what am I gonna
little decisions like what am I gonna focus on because whatever you focus on
focus on because whatever you focus on
focus on because whatever you focus on you’re gonna feel if you focus on all
you’re gonna feel if you focus on all
you’re gonna feel if you focus on all the things that have been done to you in
the things that have been done to you in
the things that have been done to you in your life of course you’re gonna feel
your life of course you’re gonna feel
your life of course you’re gonna feel like how you focus on all the amazing
like how you focus on all the amazing
like how you focus on all the amazing coincidences sort of happened things
coincidences sort of happened things
coincidences sort of happened things that maybe they were guided maybe
that maybe they were guided maybe
that maybe they were guided maybe without but things happen and because of
without but things happen and because of
without but things happen and because of that you met this person that’s your
that you met this person that’s your
that you met this person that’s your best friend your husband your wife but
best friend your husband your wife but
best friend your husband your wife but because of that you have this ability or
because of that you have this ability or
because of that you have this ability or because you were there that day God you
because you were there that day God you
because you were there that day God you missed an accident I don’t know what it
missed an accident I don’t know what it
missed an accident I don’t know what it is but whatever you focus on you’re
is but whatever you focus on you’re
is but whatever you focus on you’re going to feel if you focus on people
going to feel if you focus on people
going to feel if you focus on people don’t care and you look through reasons
don’t care and you look through reasons
don’t care and you look through reasons why they don’t care and evidence they
why they don’t care and evidence they
why they don’t care and evidence they don’t care you’ll find it everyone if
don’t care you’ll find it everyone if
don’t care you’ll find it everyone if you look for evidence that people are
you look for evidence that people are
you look for evidence that people are really good people inside at some level
really good people inside at some level
really good people inside at some level we all care about each other you’ll find
we all care about each other you’ll find
we all care about each other you’ll find it seek and you shall find the secret is
it seek and you shall find the secret is
it seek and you shall find the secret is have you become conscious about your
have you become conscious about your
have you become conscious about your decision-making because this
decision-making because this
decision-making because this breakthrough session is really you want
breakthrough session is really you want
breakthrough session is really you want to change your life make new choices new
to change your life make new choices new
to change your life make new choices new life comes from new choices but you got
life comes from new choices but you got
life comes from new choices but you got to make conscious choices
when you make decisions about what to
when you make decisions about what to focus on and what things mean what to do
focus on and what things mean what to do
focus on and what things mean what to do and your unconscious you get pretty
and your unconscious you get pretty
and your unconscious you get pretty terrible results usually now we’ve all
terrible results usually now we’ve all
terrible results usually now we’ve all done this I do it still we all do but if
done this I do it still we all do but if
done this I do it still we all do but if you want to change your results you’ve
you want to change your results you’ve
you want to change your results you’ve got to become more conscious in your
got to become more conscious in your
got to become more conscious in your decision-making so think about it what
decision-making so think about it what
decision-making so think about it what you focus on you will feel whether it’s
you focus on you will feel whether it’s
you focus on you will feel whether it’s true not you focus on our people don’t
true not you focus on our people don’t
true not you focus on our people don’t care you’re gonna feel they don’t care
care you’re gonna feel they don’t care
care you’re gonna feel they don’t care second decision you make is what things
second decision you make is what things
second decision you make is what things mean so you focus on something someone
mean so you focus on something someone
mean so you focus on something someone does and you come up with a meaning and
does and you come up with a meaning and
does and you come up with a meaning and the meaning is no one loves me the
the meaning is no one loves me the
the meaning is no one loves me the meaning is they’re trying to take
meaning is they’re trying to take
meaning is they’re trying to take advantage of men depending on what
advantage of men depending on what
advantage of men depending on what meaning you come up with and you get to
meaning you come up with and you get to
meaning you come up with and you get to choose the meaning of anything for some
choose the meaning of anything for some
choose the meaning of anything for some people they say this situation happened
people they say this situation happened
people they say this situation happened with the economy and what that means is
with the economy and what that means is
with the economy and what that means is I’m going broke somebody else said the
I’m going broke somebody else said the
I’m going broke somebody else said the situation at with the economy guess what
situation at with the economy guess what
situation at with the economy guess what that means I’m going to work harder I’m
that means I’m going to work harder I’m
that means I’m going to work harder I’m going to be more creative it changed
going to be more creative it changed
going to be more creative it changed everything everybody else is going to
everything everybody else is going to
everything everybody else is going to quit so we’re going to dominate the
quit so we’re going to dominate the
quit so we’re going to dominate the marketplace
marketplace
marketplace click be able to do it is this the end
click be able to do it is this the end
click be able to do it is this the end right now or is it the beginning see
right now or is it the beginning see
right now or is it the beginning see whether it’s the end of beginning is
whether it’s the end of beginning is
whether it’s the end of beginning is your choice you get to decide because
your choice you get to decide because
your choice you get to decide because once you make up a meaning it’s true if
once you make up a meaning it’s true if
once you make up a meaning it’s true if you think this is the end of a
you think this is the end of a
you think this is the end of a relationship are you going to treat
relationship are you going to treat
relationship are you going to treat people the same way as if you think it’s
people the same way as if you think it’s
people the same way as if you think it’s the beginning of a relationship no way
the beginning of a relationship no way
the beginning of a relationship no way in fact I tell people if you want to
in fact I tell people if you want to
in fact I tell people if you want to have a great relationship think about
have a great relationship think about
have a great relationship think about this treat people like you did in the
this treat people like you did in the
this treat people like you did in the beginning of the relationship and there
beginning of the relationship and there
beginning of the relationship and there will be an end in the beginning of the
will be an end in the beginning of the
will be an end in the beginning of the relationship when somebody says to you
relationship when somebody says to you
relationship when somebody says to you would you take out the trash what do you
would you take out the trash what do you
would you take out the trash what do you say of course take out the trash and
say of course take out the trash and
say of course take out the trash and you’re happy to do anything right but
you’re happy to do anything right but
you’re happy to do anything right but after about six months or six years ago
after about six months or six years ago
after about six months or six years ago taking out the trash you go what do you
taking out the trash you go what do you
taking out the trash you go what do you mean well I look like your janitor take
mean well I look like your janitor take
mean well I look like your janitor take out your own trash the meaning we give
out your own trash the meaning we give
out your own trash the meaning we give things is very different so we feel
things is very different so we feel
things is very different so we feel different and our life is different in
different and our life is different in
different and our life is different in the beginning you’ll do anything for
the beginning you’ll do anything for
the beginning you’ll do anything for someone now you make up a new meaning
someone now you make up a new meaning
someone now you make up a new meaning why should I have to do that
why should I have to do that
why should I have to do that little choices like what to believe
little choices like what to believe
little choices like what to believe about yourself what to believe about
about yourself what to believe about
about yourself what to believe about other people whether this is the end of
other people whether this is the end of
other people whether this is the end of the beginning start to affect your whole
the beginning start to affect your whole
the beginning start to affect your whole life and the third decision we make I
life and the third decision we make I
life and the third decision we make I decide with the focus on most of us
decide with the focus on most of us
decide with the focus on most of us unconsciously we decide what things mean
unconsciously we decide what things mean
unconsciously we decide what things mean and the third thing we decide is what
and the third thing we decide is what
and the third thing we decide is what are we going to do we decide to quit
are we going to do we decide to quit
are we going to do we decide to quit because it’s overwhelming we decide to
because it’s overwhelming we decide to
because it’s overwhelming we decide to get strong and focus we decide you’re
get strong and focus we decide you’re
get strong and focus we decide you’re going to turn it around decide to wait
going to turn it around decide to wait
going to turn it around decide to wait and see ultimately your destiny is
and see ultimately your destiny is
and see ultimately your destiny is determined by what you do so for example
determined by what you do so for example
determined by what you do so for example what do you do if somebody comes to you
what do you do if somebody comes to you
what do you do if somebody comes to you one day and says you have a tumor again
one day and says you have a tumor again
one day and says you have a tumor again I have that experience I used that as a
I have that experience I used that as a
I have that experience I used that as a reference point because a lot of intense
reference point because a lot of intense
reference point because a lot of intense experience in my life but that was one
experience in my life but that was one
experience in my life but that was one of the more intense ones for sure have
of the more intense ones for sure have
of the more intense ones for sure have many but that was very intense you know
many but that was very intense you know
many but that was very intense you know first what do you focus on you focus on
first what do you focus on you focus on
first what do you focus on you focus on it’s over do you focus on why me
it’s over do you focus on why me
it’s over do you focus on why me you give it a meaning that says I’m
you give it a meaning that says I’m
you give it a meaning that says I’m going to die what do you do just go
going to die what do you do just go
going to die what do you do just go through traditional therapeutic approach
through traditional therapeutic approach
through traditional therapeutic approach you put yourself at the hands of someone
you put yourself at the hands of someone
you put yourself at the hands of someone else do you evaluate this
you get a second or third opinion your
you get a second or third opinion your destiny is determined by your decisions
destiny is determined by your decisions
destiny is determined by your decisions now if your guy like Lance Armstrong
now if your guy like Lance Armstrong
now if your guy like Lance Armstrong your focus immediately on I gotta find a
your focus immediately on I gotta find a
your focus immediately on I gotta find a solution the meaning you come up with is
solution the meaning you come up with is
solution the meaning you come up with is this is the ultimate battle what you say
this is the ultimate battle what you say
this is the ultimate battle what you say to do is you’re going to exhaust every
to do is you’re going to exhaust every
to do is you’re going to exhaust every possibility
possibility
possibility now that doesn’t guarantee you’re going
now that doesn’t guarantee you’re going
now that doesn’t guarantee you’re going to succeed but it’s interesting when you
to succeed but it’s interesting when you
to succeed but it’s interesting when you have that kind of a mindset it shifts
have that kind of a mindset it shifts
have that kind of a mindset it shifts you and that’s Armstrong I mean he was
you and that’s Armstrong I mean he was
you and that’s Armstrong I mean he was told things like look you got a-you got
told things like look you got a-you got
told things like look you got a-you got tumors here in your brain you got him in
tumors here in your brain you got him in
tumors here in your brain you got him in your lungs right you got obviously in
your lungs right you got obviously in
your lungs right you got obviously in testicles and you ride a bike for a
testicles and you ride a bike for a
testicles and you ride a bike for a living that’s pretty tough
but he made it to all those pieces now
but he made it to all those pieces now am i saying because he made the right
am i saying because he made the right
am i saying because he made the right choices again how do you doctors
choices again how do you doctors
choices again how do you doctors certainly some grace and everything I
certainly some grace and everything I
certainly some grace and everything I think in life there’s three things
think in life there’s three things
think in life there’s three things there’s our ability to choose what we’re
there’s our ability to choose what we’re
there’s our ability to choose what we’re focused on or to commit to get a result
focused on or to commit to get a result
focused on or to commit to get a result to put all our intention and focus into
to put all our intention and focus into
to put all our intention and focus into something
something
something there’s our ability to do the right
there’s our ability to do the right
there’s our ability to do the right things to have the right strategy to
things to have the right strategy to
things to have the right strategy to execute and then there’s some grace
execute and then there’s some grace
execute and then there’s some grace there’s what some people call luck some
there’s what some people call luck some
there’s what some people call luck some people call grace there’s if you do the
people call grace there’s if you do the
people call grace there’s if you do the right thing is over and over again and
right thing is over and over again and
right thing is over and over again and with total focus sometimes you know you
with total focus sometimes you know you
with total focus sometimes you know you get good fortune that comes your way and
get good fortune that comes your way and
get good fortune that comes your way and you tend to have more good fortune when
you tend to have more good fortune when
you tend to have more good fortune when you’re totally focused and decisive and
you’re totally focused and decisive and
you’re totally focused and decisive and you take lots of action than if you kind
you take lots of action than if you kind
you take lots of action than if you kind of just sit around and accept things
of just sit around and accept things
of just sit around and accept things like like you don’t have a future but
like like you don’t have a future but
like like you don’t have a future but the point of the matter is this guy
the point of the matter is this guy
the point of the matter is this guy turning around what was he like after he
turning around what was he like after he
turning around what was he like after he got through this problem after he had
got through this problem after he had
got through this problem after he had his breakthrough lecture he faced cancer
his breakthrough lecture he faced cancer
his breakthrough lecture he faced cancer racing against some other guys seem like
racing against some other guys seem like
racing against some other guys seem like nothing by comparison you’re not much of
nothing by comparison you’re not much of
nothing by comparison you’re not much of a competitor I face death and he goes on
a competitor I face death and he goes on
a competitor I face death and he goes on to win Twitter France up to Twitter
to win Twitter France up to Twitter
to win Twitter France up to Twitter press f2 Tour de France breaking every
press f2 Tour de France breaking every
press f2 Tour de France breaking every record in we could ever imagine what do
record in we could ever imagine what do
record in we could ever imagine what do you do mac decades ago half a century
you do mac decades ago half a century
you do mac decades ago half a century ago almost now and someone says to you
ago almost now and someone says to you
ago almost now and someone says to you go to the back of the bus in your
go to the back of the bus in your
go to the back of the bus in your african-american one woman just decided
african-american one woman just decided
african-american one woman just decided you know what you can’t take my dignity
you know what you can’t take my dignity
you know what you can’t take my dignity for me I can only give that up and I
for me I can only give that up and I
for me I can only give that up and I don’t choose to give it up and I will
don’t choose to give it up and I will
don’t choose to give it up and I will not go back to us the answer is no Rosa
not go back to us the answer is no Rosa
not go back to us the answer is no Rosa Parks changed an entire society because
Parks changed an entire society because
Parks changed an entire society because that day she chose to focus on something
that day she chose to focus on something
that day she chose to focus on something else she gave it a different meaning
else she gave it a different meaning
else she gave it a different meaning this is not a command you do not have
this is not a command you do not have
this is not a command you do not have control over me and she decided to fight
control over me and she decided to fight
control over me and she decided to fight and she changed the direction of a
and she changed the direction of a
and she changed the direction of a country and many other countries she
country and many other countries she
country and many other countries she started something we forgot that you
started something we forgot that you
started something we forgot that you don’t have to be famous to have the
don’t have to be famous to have the
don’t have to be famous to have the ability to change at least your own
ability to change at least your own
ability to change at least your own personal history change the direction we
personal history change the direction we
personal history change the direction we go in our life we have
go in our life we have
go in our life we have power to choose even if you have it
power to choose even if you have it
power to choose even if you have it before you can finally say no one will
before you can finally say no one will
before you can finally say no one will put up with that within myself or from
put up with that within myself or from
put up with that within myself or from anybody else and here’s what I’m going
anybody else and here’s what I’m going
anybody else and here’s what I’m going to do differently that’s where the
to do differently that’s where the
to do differently that’s where the breakthroughs really start to happen now
breakthroughs really start to happen now
breakthroughs really start to happen now the question is why do some people stand
the question is why do some people stand
the question is why do some people stand their ground and make something change
their ground and make something change
their ground and make something change versus other people just kind of accept
versus other people just kind of accept
versus other people just kind of accept things why do some people make bold
things why do some people make bold
things why do some people make bold decisions and other people make
decisions and other people make
decisions and other people make decisions that are based on trying to
decisions that are based on trying to
decisions that are based on trying to hang on to what they’ve got
because you can change your decisions
because you can change your decisions you can change your life when you can
you can change your life when you can
you can change your life when you can change the force that controls your
change the force that controls your
change the force that controls your decisions you can change anything in
decisions you can change anything in
decisions you can change anything in your life at some level we have certain
your life at some level we have certain
your life at some level we have certain beliefs and values but if I was going to
beliefs and values but if I was going to
beliefs and values but if I was going to make it simple I’d say there’s two
make it simple I’d say there’s two
make it simple I’d say there’s two things that determine your choices the
things that determine your choices the
things that determine your choices the first thing is the state of mind and
first thing is the state of mind and
first thing is the state of mind and emotion you’re in at that moment
emotion you’re in at that moment
emotion you’re in at that moment think about it have you ever snapped at
think about it have you ever snapped at
think about it have you ever snapped at somebody you had nothing to do with them
somebody you had nothing to do with them
somebody you had nothing to do with them it was just the state you’re in right
it was just the state you’re in right
it was just the state you’re in right you’re frustrated you’re pissed off
you’re frustrated you’re pissed off
you’re frustrated you’re pissed off about something and in that state of
about something and in that state of
about something and in that state of mind whatever they said got interpreted
mind whatever they said got interpreted
mind whatever they said got interpreted to that state and you made up a meaning
to that state and you made up a meaning
to that state and you made up a meaning like they’re an irritant or they were
like they’re an irritant or they were
like they’re an irritant or they were interrupting you
interrupting you
interrupting you they weren’t probably feel bad
they weren’t probably feel bad
they weren’t probably feel bad afterwards when we get the wrong state
afterwards when we get the wrong state
afterwards when we get the wrong state they make the wrong decisions when you
they make the wrong decisions when you
they make the wrong decisions when you get in a strong empowering state you’ll
get in a strong empowering state you’ll
get in a strong empowering state you’ll make a better decision learning how to
make a better decision learning how to
make a better decision learning how to direct your state is a big part of what
direct your state is a big part of what
direct your state is a big part of what my work is with people and it’s a big
my work is with people and it’s a big
my work is with people and it’s a big part of what I do in my seminars but the
part of what I do in my seminars but the
part of what I do in my seminars but the other thing that affects your decisions
other thing that affects your decisions
other thing that affects your decisions would be what I would call your story or
would be what I would call your story or
would be what I would call your story or your blueprint we all have kind of a
your blueprint we all have kind of a
your blueprint we all have kind of a story about how our life is supposed to
story about how our life is supposed to
story about how our life is supposed to be comes from a set of life experiences
be comes from a set of life experiences
be comes from a set of life experiences interpretations some people think life
interpretations some people think life
interpretations some people think life is all about getting theirs
is all about getting theirs
is all about getting theirs some people think life is about growing
some people think life is about growing
some people think life is about growing and contributing some people think life
and contributing some people think life
and contributing some people think life is about making judgments some people
is about making judgments some people
is about making judgments some people think life is about saving other
think life is about saving other
think life is about saving other people’s lives
people’s lives
people’s lives some people think life is about being
some people think life is about being
some people think life is about being successful some people think god is the
successful some people think god is the
successful some people think god is the basis of everything and the way to know
basis of everything and the way to know
basis of everything and the way to know God is to go through life a very
God is to go through life a very
God is to go through life a very specific way let us set rules and they
specific way let us set rules and they
specific way let us set rules and they follow it and that’s what they believe
follow it and that’s what they believe
follow it and that’s what they believe whatever your story is whatever your
whatever your story is whatever your
whatever your story is whatever your blueprint your blueprint just another
blueprint your blueprint just another
blueprint your blueprint just another way of saying whatever you believe is
way of saying whatever you believe is
way of saying whatever you believe is how your life is supposed to be at some
how your life is supposed to be at some
how your life is supposed to be at some level we either follow that blueprint or
level we either follow that blueprint or
level we either follow that blueprint or we fight it if we follow it or we fight
we fight it if we follow it or we fight
we fight it if we follow it or we fight it we’re going to find that we’re gonna
it we’re going to find that we’re gonna
it we’re going to find that we’re gonna bump into things in life where life
bump into things in life where life
bump into things in life where life isn’t always the same
isn’t always the same
isn’t always the same or think it should be and that’s we
or think it should be and that’s we
or think it should be and that’s we start to experience stress
[Music]
[Music] I really believe life is the dance
I really believe life is the dance
I really believe life is the dance between what you desire most and fear
between what you desire most and fear
between what you desire most and fear goes that’s where you find where we live
goes that’s where you find where we live
goes that’s where you find where we live our life the dance between what you want
our life the dance between what you want
our life the dance between what you want most of what you fear most that’s that’s
most of what you fear most that’s that’s
most of what you fear most that’s that’s where all that energy is in life so what
where all that energy is in life so what
where all that energy is in life so what does she want she wants to be famous she
does she want she wants to be famous she
does she want she wants to be famous she wants to be able to sing and have
wants to be able to sing and have
wants to be able to sing and have everyone hear a voice and be able to
everyone hear a voice and be able to
everyone hear a voice and be able to touch everyone she wants to contribute
touch everyone she wants to contribute
touch everyone she wants to contribute she wants to share a gift and she
she wants to share a gift and she
she wants to share a gift and she definitely wants to be famous and
definitely wants to be famous and
definitely wants to be famous and successful
successful
successful she needs to be closer to her children
she needs to be closer to her children
she needs to be closer to her children one of the big challenges in life is
one of the big challenges in life is
one of the big challenges in life is oftentimes what we want what we need are
oftentimes what we want what we need are
oftentimes what we want what we need are two different things
two different things
two different things she has five boys they’re all extremely
she has five boys they’re all extremely
she has five boys they’re all extremely young as I’m sure you’ve solved and she
young as I’m sure you’ve solved and she
young as I’m sure you’ve solved and she has a husband and while they’re all
has a husband and while they’re all
has a husband and while they’re all supportive of going on this journey
supportive of going on this journey
supportive of going on this journey somewhere along the line she lost that
somewhere along the line she lost that
somewhere along the line she lost that connection to what was most important
connection to what was most important
connection to what was most important now she a bad person to make bad
now she a bad person to make bad
now she a bad person to make bad decisions no good people make bad
decisions no good people make bad
decisions no good people make bad decisions when they get lousy states
decisions when they get lousy states
decisions when they get lousy states what our ego gets involved or when we
what our ego gets involved or when we
what our ego gets involved or when we start believing our story and here was
start believing our story and here was
start believing our story and here was the story she had being a mom is
the story she had being a mom is
the story she had being a mom is important but the bigger gift God gave
important but the bigger gift God gave
important but the bigger gift God gave me is my singing voice
now once we get seduced into a
now once we get seduced into a particular story and we start to believe
particular story and we start to believe
particular story and we start to believe it it takes ahold of our life and it
it it takes ahold of our life and it
it it takes ahold of our life and it controls all of our choices and then
controls all of our choices and then
controls all of our choices and then pretty soon that choice on top of bad
pretty soon that choice on top of bad
pretty soon that choice on top of bad choice um time a bad choice starts to
choice um time a bad choice starts to
choice um time a bad choice starts to affect our life
affect our life
affect our life can you write how many times you’ve made
can you write how many times you’ve made
can you write how many times you’ve made some choices that you wish like Halle
some choices that you wish like Halle
some choices that you wish like Halle would have made a different decision
would have made a different decision
would have made a different decision back then and or that no one ever knows
back then and or that no one ever knows
back then and or that no one ever knows the stupid decisions you made I know I
the stupid decisions you made I know I
the stupid decisions you made I know I can relate to that so what I want to
can relate to that so what I want to
can relate to that so what I want to talk to you about today for this brief
talk to you about today for this brief
talk to you about today for this brief little session is how to break through a
little session is how to break through a
little session is how to break through a crisis crises happen whatever type of
crisis crises happen whatever type of
crisis crises happen whatever type of crises you go through again again I know
crises you go through again again I know
crises you go through again again I know you’ve had many when we make some
you’ve had many when we make some
you’ve had many when we make some cutters unconsciously and we get
cutters unconsciously and we get
cutters unconsciously and we get consequences and we make them
consequences and we make them
consequences and we make them unconsciously because we’re trying to
unconsciously because we’re trying to
unconsciously because we’re trying to get what we want you don’t really know
get what we want you don’t really know
get what we want you don’t really know what we value most we don’t know what we
what we value most we don’t know what we
what we value most we don’t know what we need and we find ourselves waking up one
need and we find ourselves waking up one
need and we find ourselves waking up one day and going why is my life this way
day and going why is my life this way
day and going why is my life this way it’s kind of like life is always calling
it’s kind of like life is always calling
it’s kind of like life is always calling to us to constantly grow and prove you
to us to constantly grow and prove you
to us to constantly grow and prove you know if you’re going to look at what’s
know if you’re going to look at what’s
know if you’re going to look at what’s going to make life work it’s really
going to make life work it’s really
going to make life work it’s really simple what makes people happy is
simple what makes people happy is
simple what makes people happy is progress
we’re happy we’re progressing if you’re
we’re happy we’re progressing if you’re overweight but you leave today you know
overweight but you leave today you know
overweight but you leave today you know what this breakthrough thing when I got
what this breakthrough thing when I got
what this breakthrough thing when I got it today for me more anything else is
it today for me more anything else is
it today for me more anything else is I’ve been stuck waiting for some magical
I’ve been stuck waiting for some magical
I’ve been stuck waiting for some magical diets and magical exercise find some
diets and magical exercise find some
diets and magical exercise find some magical time in the future when they
magical time in the future when they
magical time in the future when they have more time there is more than one
have more time there is more than one
have more time there is more than one more time I don’t need a week late for
more time I don’t need a week late for
more time I don’t need a week late for that I’m just going to make a decision
that I’m just going to make a decision
that I’m just going to make a decision today to get started I don’t need to go
today to get started I don’t need to go
today to get started I don’t need to go out there and go interview 20 trainers
out there and go interview 20 trainers
out there and go interview 20 trainers and get online I don’t need somebody
and get online I don’t need somebody
and get online I don’t need somebody give me a perfect plan I used to pick up
give me a perfect plan I used to pick up
give me a perfect plan I used to pick up my shoes and start walking I need just
my shoes and start walking I need just
my shoes and start walking I need just get Sony behind me who just goes wrong I
get Sony behind me who just goes wrong I
get Sony behind me who just goes wrong I don’t need a way for perfection I’m
don’t need a way for perfection I’m
don’t need a way for perfection I’m gonna do something right now I choose to
gonna do something right now I choose to
gonna do something right now I choose to get there I choose the walk I choose the
get there I choose the walk I choose the
get there I choose the walk I choose the run I choose to go join a club I’m doing
run I choose to go join a club I’m doing
run I choose to go join a club I’m doing it now a breakthrough happens the moment
it now a breakthrough happens the moment
it now a breakthrough happens the moment you make a new choice and you don’t have
you make a new choice and you don’t have
you make a new choice and you don’t have to wait you just get yourself in a new
to wait you just get yourself in a new
to wait you just get yourself in a new state maybe this tape will get your
state maybe this tape will get your
state maybe this tape will get your doing or just have to have a new thought
doing or just have to have a new thought
doing or just have to have a new thought that says you know what I need choices
that says you know what I need choices
that says you know what I need choices in the past I’m overweight because I
in the past I’m overweight because I
in the past I’m overweight because I chose D this and this I’m not gonna eat
chose D this and this I’m not gonna eat
chose D this and this I’m not gonna eat it anymore
it anymore
it anymore I’m changing now you can change your
I’m changing now you can change your
I’m changing now you can change your whole life real fast with just a few
whole life real fast with just a few
whole life real fast with just a few choices but if you don’t make the right
choices but if you don’t make the right
choices but if you don’t make the right choices eventually you’re going to face
choices eventually you’re going to face
choices eventually you’re going to face a crisis crisis is when you made so many
a crisis crisis is when you made so many
a crisis crisis is when you made so many poor choices that sooner why your life
poor choices that sooner why your life
poor choices that sooner why your life shows up and instead of asking gently
shows up and instead of asking gently
shows up and instead of asking gently for you to change and improve to grow to
for you to change and improve to grow to
for you to change and improve to grow to make progress to be happy life when it’s
make progress to be happy life when it’s
make progress to be happy life when it’s a crisis now demands change it isn’t
a crisis now demands change it isn’t
a crisis now demands change it isn’t asking anymore we borrowed money as a
asking anymore we borrowed money as a
asking anymore we borrowed money as a society and we overspent and we talked
society and we overspent and we talked
society and we overspent and we talked about changing and we knew we had to
about changing and we knew we had to
about changing and we knew we had to change and our crisis happens and guess
change and our crisis happens and guess
change and our crisis happens and guess what nobody has a choice the game has
what nobody has a choice the game has
what nobody has a choice the game has changed and what crisis does is it melts
changed and what crisis does is it melts
changed and what crisis does is it melts us down it melts us down so that we can
us down it melts us down so that we can
us down it melts us down so that we can recast our life we can we mold ourselves
recast our life we can we mold ourselves
recast our life we can we mold ourselves and usually on the other side our life
and usually on the other side our life
and usually on the other side our life is greater because as we go through that
is greater because as we go through that
is greater because as we go through that crisis we have to
crisis we have to
crisis we have to nobody everybody wants change nobody
nobody everybody wants change nobody
nobody everybody wants change nobody wants to do it everybody I should say
wants to do it everybody I should say
wants to do it everybody I should say wants progress but nobody wants to
wants progress but nobody wants to
wants progress but nobody wants to change
everybody wants their life better but
everybody wants their life better but nobody wants to do the push-ups the
nobody wants to do the push-ups the
nobody wants to do the push-ups the running have the economic or emotional
running have the economic or emotional
running have the economic or emotional discipline to make it happen
discipline to make it happen
discipline to make it happen but if you’re watching this right now
but if you’re watching this right now
but if you’re watching this right now and you’re still with me some part of
and you’re still with me some part of
and you’re still with me some part of you wants more and I’m saying to you
you wants more and I’m saying to you
you wants more and I’m saying to you choose it and the way you’re going to
choose it and the way you’re going to
choose it and the way you’re going to choose it is really simple if you’re in
choose it is really simple if you’re in
choose it is really simple if you’re in that crisis what keeps you in the crisis
that crisis what keeps you in the crisis
that crisis what keeps you in the crisis is probably because you’re being
is probably because you’re being
is probably because you’re being reinforced most people they will eat are
reinforced most people they will eat are
reinforced most people they will eat are they smoked or they drink or they yell
they smoked or they drink or they yell
they smoked or they drink or they yell at people they keep doing it because
at people they keep doing it because
at people they keep doing it because they’re rewarded whatever gets rewarded
they’re rewarded whatever gets rewarded
they’re rewarded whatever gets rewarded gets reinforced whatever habit or
gets reinforced whatever habit or
gets reinforced whatever habit or behaviors reinforced becomes a habit and
behaviors reinforced becomes a habit and
behaviors reinforced becomes a habit and then pretty soon do it long enough it
then pretty soon do it long enough it
then pretty soon do it long enough it becomes part of your personality and
becomes part of your personality and
becomes part of your personality and pretty soon you think it’s who you are
pretty soon you think it’s who you are
pretty soon you think it’s who you are and you just keep living that one I mean
and you just keep living that one I mean
and you just keep living that one I mean it’s easy to see this in other people
it’s easy to see this in other people
it’s easy to see this in other people right it’s easy to see how messed up
right it’s easy to see how messed up
right it’s easy to see how messed up they are how easy they could it they
they are how easy they could it they
they are how easy they could it they just make some new choices all you gotta
just make some new choices all you gotta
just make some new choices all you gotta do is turn on the television some news
do is turn on the television some news
do is turn on the television some news programs an entertainment program and
programs an entertainment program and
programs an entertainment program and you’ll hear detailed descriptions about
you’ll hear detailed descriptions about
you’ll hear detailed descriptions about some person who is very powerful
some person who is very powerful
some person who is very powerful celebrity who is doing some stupid thing
celebrity who is doing some stupid thing
celebrity who is doing some stupid thing why do we see all this stuff on
why do we see all this stuff on
why do we see all this stuff on television why do we hear about every
television why do we hear about every
television why do we hear about every person you can imagine from Lindsay
person you can imagine from Lindsay
person you can imagine from Lindsay Lohan to Britney Spears to only back to
Lohan to Britney Spears to only back to
Lohan to Britney Spears to only back to the old days it was Elvis or Michael
the old days it was Elvis or Michael
the old days it was Elvis or Michael Jackson or whoever it is that’s in the
Jackson or whoever it is that’s in the
Jackson or whoever it is that’s in the news today and this stage of life in
news today and this stage of life in
news today and this stage of life in your country as you’re watching this
your country as you’re watching this
your country as you’re watching this it’s because we want to see other people
it’s because we want to see other people
it’s because we want to see other people make bad decisions so we can feel better
make bad decisions so we can feel better
make bad decisions so we can feel better about our own
about our own
about our own but the reason those people don’t change
but the reason those people don’t change
but the reason those people don’t change Lindsay Lohan she’s got another DUI
Lindsay Lohan she’s got another DUI
Lindsay Lohan she’s got another DUI she’s putting herself at risk she’s
she’s putting herself at risk she’s
she’s putting herself at risk she’s putting other viewers Gilson she goes to
putting other viewers Gilson she goes to
putting other viewers Gilson she goes to jail and supposed to be 90 days but
jail and supposed to be 90 days but
jail and supposed to be 90 days but here’s the consequence it goes to two
here’s the consequence it goes to two
here’s the consequence it goes to two weeks and before she even gets out of
weeks and before she even gets out of
weeks and before she even gets out of the jail she makes a deal for an
the jail she makes a deal for an
the jail she makes a deal for an interview and gets paid a million
interview and gets paid a million
interview and gets paid a million dollars when she gets out for the
dollars when she gets out for the
dollars when she gets out for the interview do you think the chances of
interview do you think the chances of
interview do you think the chances of her changing when her bad behavior gets
her changing when her bad behavior gets
her changing when her bad behavior gets her a million dollars I don’t know she
her a million dollars I don’t know she
her a million dollars I don’t know she even makes that for that much time of
even makes that for that much time of
even makes that for that much time of acting at this stage what do you think
acting at this stage what do you think
acting at this stage what do you think the chances are when people around her
the chances are when people around her
the chances are when people around her say it’s not your fault it’s not fair
say it’s not your fault it’s not fair
say it’s not your fault it’s not fair they treat you unfairly as long as we
they treat you unfairly as long as we
they treat you unfairly as long as we have the decision that we’re not
have the decision that we’re not
have the decision that we’re not responsible it’s not our fault we can’t
responsible it’s not our fault we can’t
responsible it’s not our fault we can’t change anything we have no power so I
change anything we have no power so I
change anything we have no power so I don’t know if I time you watches of
don’t know if I time you watches of
don’t know if I time you watches of Lindsay will change but if she did it’ll
Lindsay will change but if she did it’ll
Lindsay will change but if she did it’ll be cuz the enablers are gone she’s
be cuz the enablers are gone she’s
be cuz the enablers are gone she’s taking responsibility and she’s found
taking responsibility and she’s found
taking responsibility and she’s found something she values more than attention
something she values more than attention
something she values more than attention and money for bad behavior now it’s easy
and money for bad behavior now it’s easy
and money for bad behavior now it’s easy look at that with her but what about you
look at that with her but what about you
look at that with her but what about you and I where you die addicted to our
and I where you die addicted to our
and I where you die addicted to our problems where are you i reinforce so
problems where are you i reinforce so
problems where are you i reinforce so many people have a big problem listen if
many people have a big problem listen if
many people have a big problem listen if things are going well you say how it’s
things are going well you say how it’s
things are going well you say how it’s going so great your friends go well
going so great your friends go well
going so great your friends go well that’s great after a while they go well
that’s great after a while they go well
that’s great after a while they go well easy for you but if you got a problem
easy for you but if you got a problem
easy for you but if you got a problem people hey I understand and we connect
people hey I understand and we connect
people hey I understand and we connect with you where do we get addicted to our
with you where do we get addicted to our
with you where do we get addicted to our problems if you want to make a new
problems if you want to make a new
problems if you want to make a new choice if you want to make a new
choice if you want to make a new
choice if you want to make a new decision today you want to have a
decision today you want to have a
decision today you want to have a breakthrough in summary your life you
breakthrough in summary your life you
breakthrough in summary your life you got to give up the story that it’s not
got to give up the story that it’s not
got to give up the story that it’s not and you got to give up the attention and
and you got to give up the attention and
and you got to give up the attention and the love and the connection and the
the love and the connection and the
the love and the connection and the commiserating that comes with it with
commiserating that comes with it with
commiserating that comes with it with other human beings here’s how you change
other human beings here’s how you change
other human beings here’s how you change five simple quick steps and then I’m
five simple quick steps and then I’m
five simple quick steps and then I’m going to give you a little tool but if
going to give you a little tool but if
going to give you a little tool but if you want to you can go online and really
you want to you can go online and really
you want to you can go online and really make a change if you’re going to change
make a change if you’re going to change
make a change if you’re going to change your life step one I don’t care if
your life step one I don’t care if
your life step one I don’t care if something has happened to you you know
something has happened to you you know
something has happened to you you know somebody’s spilled oil all over where
somebody’s spilled oil all over where
somebody’s spilled oil all over where you fish it’s horrific
you fish it’s horrific
you fish it’s horrific if disgusting how they’ve dealt with it
if disgusting how they’ve dealt with it
if disgusting how they’ve dealt with it but it’s happened you got to deal with
but it’s happened you got to deal with
but it’s happened you got to deal with it something’s happen someone your
it something’s happen someone your
it something’s happen someone your family has been injured you’ve lost your
family has been injured you’ve lost your
family has been injured you’ve lost your job I don’t care what the problem is if
job I don’t care what the problem is if
job I don’t care what the problem is if you’re in a crisis step number one see
you’re in a crisis step number one see
you’re in a crisis step number one see it as it is but don’t see it worse than
it as it is but don’t see it worse than
it as it is but don’t see it worse than it is now what do I mean by that I don’t
it is now what do I mean by that I don’t
it is now what do I mean by that I don’t mean beasts and mr. miss positive
mean beasts and mr. miss positive
mean beasts and mr. miss positive thinking right now if you’re spending
thinking right now if you’re spending
thinking right now if you’re spending time with me you know I’m not about that
time with me you know I’m not about that
time with me you know I’m not about that I’m not here to tell you go to that
I’m not here to tell you go to that
I’m not here to tell you go to that garden and chant there’s no leads
garden and chant there’s no leads
garden and chant there’s no leads there’s no leads or snow weeds but doing
there’s no leads or snow weeds but doing
there’s no leads or snow weeds but doing affirmations not gonna change your life
affirmations not gonna change your life
affirmations not gonna change your life you got to go see what the weeds are
you got to go see what the weeds are
you got to go see what the weeds are Paul now my point is simple you’ve got
Paul now my point is simple you’ve got
Paul now my point is simple you’ve got to see what the problem is but you can’t
to see what the problem is but you can’t
to see what the problem is but you can’t make it so horrific that you just give
make it so horrific that you just give
make it so horrific that you just give up today this is the first generation in
up today this is the first generation in
up today this is the first generation in almost a hundred years of Americans who
almost a hundred years of Americans who
almost a hundred years of Americans who now believe the majority of Americans
now believe the majority of Americans
now believe the majority of Americans now believe that the quality of life for
now believe that the quality of life for
now believe that the quality of life for themselves and their kids in the future
themselves and their kids in the future
themselves and their kids in the future is going to be worse than the past they
is going to be worse than the past they
is going to be worse than the past they have other words nothing to look forward
have other words nothing to look forward
have other words nothing to look forward to 63% of the you
to 63% of the you
to 63% of the you today Wow when you start thinking there
today Wow when you start thinking there
today Wow when you start thinking there is no future you go into what we call
is no future you go into what we call
is no future you go into what we call learned helplessness a place where you
learned helplessness a place where you
learned helplessness a place where you just kind of give up and if you get to a
just kind of give up and if you get to a
just kind of give up and if you get to a place a given hop then you have no power
place a given hop then you have no power
place a given hop then you have no power of your life that’s when people get
of your life that’s when people get
of your life that’s when people get depressed that’s when people do crazy
depressed that’s when people do crazy
depressed that’s when people do crazy stupid things that’s when people want to
stupid things that’s when people want to
stupid things that’s when people want to turn to drugs or alcohol or sometimes
turn to drugs or alcohol or sometimes
turn to drugs or alcohol or sometimes suicide or just total frustration and
suicide or just total frustration and
suicide or just total frustration and anger and their life starts to do the
anger and their life starts to do the
anger and their life starts to do the opposite to break you it becomes
opposite to break you it becomes
opposite to break you it becomes completely Stocking and pain or an
completely Stocking and pain or an
completely Stocking and pain or an ongoing suffering if you’re not going to
ongoing suffering if you’re not going to
ongoing suffering if you’re not going to break out of that we got to see it as it
break out of that we got to see it as it
break out of that we got to see it as it is we’re not here to be positive
is we’re not here to be positive
is we’re not here to be positive thinking people you got to see what’s
thinking people you got to see what’s
thinking people you got to see what’s really going on but if you’re overweight
really going on but if you’re overweight
really going on but if you’re overweight you can’t say to yourself well I’m
you can’t say to yourself well I’m
you can’t say to yourself well I’m big-boned that’s not why you’re
big-boned that’s not why you’re
big-boned that’s not why you’re overweight you’re overweight because you
overweight you’re overweight because you
overweight you’re overweight because you don’t work out you eat certain things
don’t work out you eat certain things
don’t work out you eat certain things you eat Cheetos all day long watching TV
you eat Cheetos all day long watching TV
you eat Cheetos all day long watching TV I don’t know what did you do but I know
I don’t know what did you do but I know
I don’t know what did you do but I know it’s not just cuz you’re big-boned you
it’s not just cuz you’re big-boned you
it’s not just cuz you’re big-boned you don’t want to make it so it’s outside
don’t want to make it so it’s outside
don’t want to make it so it’s outside your control or you can’t change it so
your control or you can’t change it so
your control or you can’t change it so see it as it is but don’t see it worse
see it as it is but don’t see it worse
see it as it is but don’t see it worse than it is so they have no reason to try
than it is so they have no reason to try
than it is so they have no reason to try does that make sense
does that make sense
does that make sense that’s the first step step two get to
that’s the first step step two get to
that’s the first step step two get to the real truth and deal with it don’t
the real truth and deal with it don’t
the real truth and deal with it don’t just see it as it is and not worse than
just see it as it is and not worse than
just see it as it is and not worse than it is don’t just like balance it but now
it is don’t just like balance it but now
it is don’t just like balance it but now get to the truth I mean listen if the
get to the truth I mean listen if the
get to the truth I mean listen if the truth is you’ve been trying to get a job
truth is you’ve been trying to get a job
truth is you’ve been trying to get a job for two years and you truly have worked
for two years and you truly have worked
for two years and you truly have worked every day in a particular industry and
every day in a particular industry and
every day in a particular industry and the number of jobs made industry you’ve
the number of jobs made industry you’ve
the number of jobs made industry you’ve shrunk down and you really aren’t
shrunk down and you really aren’t
shrunk down and you really aren’t getting that job and you may have look
getting that job and you may have look
getting that job and you may have look at the truth the truth is you might have
at the truth the truth is you might have
at the truth the truth is you might have to retool you might have to say gosh
to retool you might have to say gosh
to retool you might have to say gosh the industry I’m in is gone I mean gross
the industry I’m in is gone I mean gross
the industry I’m in is gone I mean gross simply the simplistic example but for
simply the simplistic example but for
simply the simplistic example but for years vinyl records were around for 85
years vinyl records were around for 85
years vinyl records were around for 85 years there was a gigantic industry and
years there was a gigantic industry and
years there was a gigantic industry and things can win during the vinyl record
things can win during the vinyl record
things can win during the vinyl record time what happened well there was number
time what happened well there was number
time what happened well there was number those 8-track tapes or you ain’t enough
those 8-track tapes or you ain’t enough
those 8-track tapes or you ain’t enough to remember those things maybe you know
to remember those things maybe you know
to remember those things maybe you know somebody remembers those things these
somebody remembers those things these
somebody remembers those things these big boxes you push it get it out yeah
big boxes you push it get it out yeah
big boxes you push it get it out yeah hey tracks came and went
hey tracks came and went
hey tracks came and went vinyl records were still here and then
vinyl records were still here and then
vinyl records were still here and then cassette tapes came right and concept’
cassette tapes came right and concept’
cassette tapes came right and concept’ eighths were smaller and more compact
eighths were smaller and more compact
eighths were smaller and more compact and more convenient two more seemingly
and more convenient two more seemingly
and more convenient two more seemingly indestructible and they came over here
indestructible and they came over here
indestructible and they came over here and vinyl records were still selling
and vinyl records were still selling
and vinyl records were still selling like crazy you had a job in vinyl
like crazy you had a job in vinyl
like crazy you had a job in vinyl records you kept it but then a little
records you kept it but then a little
records you kept it but then a little thing came along called the CD and when
thing came along called the CD and when
thing came along called the CD and when that happened almost overnight you saw
that happened almost overnight you saw
that happened almost overnight you saw an entire industry been around almost a
an entire industry been around almost a
an entire industry been around almost a century was gone if you were the guy
century was gone if you were the guy
century was gone if you were the guy that worked in the vinyl record Factory
that worked in the vinyl record Factory
that worked in the vinyl record Factory and knew everything about it it was the
and knew everything about it it was the
and knew everything about it it was the second generation didn’t matter it was
second generation didn’t matter it was
second generation didn’t matter it was over and when now we laugh about a CD
over and when now we laugh about a CD
over and when now we laugh about a CD right because everything in this digital
right because everything in this digital
right because everything in this digital world you can have instantly who wants
world you can have instantly who wants
world you can have instantly who wants to put on a CD pretty rare still
to put on a CD pretty rare still
to put on a CD pretty rare still available in vinyl records maybe there’s
available in vinyl records maybe there’s
available in vinyl records maybe there’s a small market of people that are
a small market of people that are
a small market of people that are collectors but it’s gone my point is if
collectors but it’s gone my point is if
collectors but it’s gone my point is if you’re in the bottle record business
you’re in the bottle record business
you’re in the bottle record business you’ve got to tell yourself the truth
you’ve got to tell yourself the truth
you’ve got to tell yourself the truth you got to see it it is not worse than
you got to see it it is not worse than
you got to see it it is not worse than it is but you also got to get the truth
it is but you also got to get the truth
it is but you also got to get the truth and deal with it you got to deal with a
and deal with it you got to deal with a
and deal with it you got to deal with a card you’re dealt you’re going to have
card you’re dealt you’re going to have
card you’re dealt you’re going to have to retool you’re gonna have to change
to retool you’re gonna have to change
to retool you’re gonna have to change something you might have to move if you
something you might have to move if you
something you might have to move if you live in the Gulf and I don’t support
live in the Gulf and I don’t support
live in the Gulf and I don’t support anything that’s happened there who could
anything that’s happened there who could
anything that’s happened there who could it’s unconscionable what’s happened with
it’s unconscionable what’s happened with
it’s unconscionable what’s happened with BP but if you live in the Gulf and
BP but if you live in the Gulf and
BP but if you live in the Gulf and you’re a third-generation fisherman and
you’re a third-generation fisherman and
you’re a third-generation fisherman and you’re now you fish for oysters and
you’re now you fish for oysters and
you’re now you fish for oysters and they’re dead you better get to the truth
they’re dead you better get to the truth
they’re dead you better get to the truth are they going to be dead for two years
are they going to be dead for two years
are they going to be dead for two years or ten or twenty to the best of your
or ten or twenty to the best of your
or ten or twenty to the best of your ability and you might say I can’t do
ability and you might say I can’t do
ability and you might say I can’t do anything else
anything else
anything else I can’t I’m a third generation this is
I can’t I’m a third generation this is
I can’t I’m a third generation this is all I know yes you can get to the truth
all I know yes you can get to the truth
all I know yes you can get to the truth and deal with it deal with the card
and deal with it deal with the card
and deal with it deal with the card you’re dealt with you got to deal with
you’re dealt with you got to deal with
you’re dealt with you got to deal with it sure I’m sure illegally but in the
it sure I’m sure illegally but in the
it sure I’m sure illegally but in the meantime you got to take care of your
meantime you got to take care of your
meantime you got to take care of your family I’m not saying this off-the-cuff
family I’m not saying this off-the-cuff
family I’m not saying this off-the-cuff easy because I’ve been in those
easy because I’ve been in those
easy because I’ve been in those situations where it’s impossible it’s
situations where it’s impossible it’s
situations where it’s impossible it’s unjust it’s wrong but I still got to
unjust it’s wrong but I still got to
unjust it’s wrong but I still got to deal with it just like you
deal with it just like you
deal with it just like you I make it sense it’s like you might say
I make it sense it’s like you might say
I make it sense it’s like you might say I haven’t lived here Marat you might
I haven’t lived here Marat you might
I haven’t lived here Marat you might have to move you might have to fish
have to move you might have to fish
have to move you might have to fish someplace else you might have to get I
someplace else you might have to get I
someplace else you might have to get I know you still got to deal with all the
know you still got to deal with all the
know you still got to deal with all the consequences but you got to take back
consequences but you got to take back
consequences but you got to take back control of your life
control of your life
control of your life they’re unjust things that happen but
they’re unjust things that happen but
they’re unjust things that happen but you got to take control easy for me to
you got to take control easy for me to
you got to take control easy for me to say I’m not sitting in your shoes I get
say I’m not sitting in your shoes I get
say I’m not sitting in your shoes I get that but who hasn’t experienced some
that but who hasn’t experienced some
that but who hasn’t experienced some form of injustice someplace who’s not
form of injustice someplace who’s not
form of injustice someplace who’s not dealt with something unfair who’s not
dealt with something unfair who’s not
dealt with something unfair who’s not double something it wasn’t meant to be
double something it wasn’t meant to be
double something it wasn’t meant to be unfair but it affected your entire life
unfair but it affected your entire life
unfair but it affected your entire life your career your finances whatever you
your career your finances whatever you
your career your finances whatever you got to tell yourself the truth and you
got to tell yourself the truth and you
got to tell yourself the truth and you got to get to those dealing with the
got to get to those dealing with the
got to get to those dealing with the reality right now the longer you wait
reality right now the longer you wait
reality right now the longer you wait the longer the crisis will be if you’re
the longer the crisis will be if you’re
the longer the crisis will be if you’re having an economic crisis got a deal
having an economic crisis got a deal
having an economic crisis got a deal with it
with it
with it got a downsize right sighs do whatever
got a downsize right sighs do whatever
got a downsize right sighs do whatever it takes I say okay Tony well so far you
it takes I say okay Tony well so far you
it takes I say okay Tony well so far you telling me don’t allow myself to make it
telling me don’t allow myself to make it
telling me don’t allow myself to make it so bad I know try see it as is but don’t
so bad I know try see it as is but don’t
so bad I know try see it as is but don’t make it worse than it is you’re telling
make it worse than it is you’re telling
make it worse than it is you’re telling me get to the truth and deal with it
me get to the truth and deal with it
me get to the truth and deal with it well that’s nice but you know how do I
well that’s nice but you know how do I
well that’s nice but you know how do I do that maybe the third step more than
do that maybe the third step more than
do that maybe the third step more than just getting the role model maybe the
just getting the role model maybe the
just getting the role model maybe the more specific is get a vision first get
more specific is get a vision first get
more specific is get a vision first get a vision and get strong that’s why I
a vision and get strong that’s why I
a vision and get strong that’s why I think the third step should be your
think the third step should be your
think the third step should be your first tell yourself the truth yes see it
first tell yourself the truth yes see it
first tell yourself the truth yes see it as it is not worse it is tell yourself
as it is not worse it is tell yourself
as it is not worse it is tell yourself the truth and deal with it but the way
the truth and deal with it but the way
the truth and deal with it but the way to deal with it is say what am I going
to deal with it is say what am I going
to deal with it is say what am I going to go for there’s gotta be a compelling
to go for there’s gotta be a compelling
to go for there’s gotta be a compelling future I’ve got to come up with a vision
future I’ve got to come up with a vision
future I’ve got to come up with a vision forever
forever
forever or a vision for my relationship had
or a vision for my relationship had
or a vision for my relationship had terrible relationships nothing’s work
terrible relationships nothing’s work
terrible relationships nothing’s work tell yourself the truth I’ve made poor
tell yourself the truth I’ve made poor
tell yourself the truth I’ve made poor choices or had told many self stories
choices or had told many self stories
choices or had told many self stories and gave myself excuses or I not have
and gave myself excuses or I not have
and gave myself excuses or I not have the courage whatever it is get to the
the courage whatever it is get to the
the courage whatever it is get to the truth and then get yourself a vision for
truth and then get yourself a vision for
truth and then get yourself a vision for what you do want because you have to
what you do want because you have to
what you do want because you have to have something you’re going to move
have something you’re going to move
have something you’re going to move towards does that make it sense it
towards does that make it sense it
towards does that make it sense it without a vision people perish it says
without a vision people perish it says
without a vision people perish it says in a very good book on the good book
in a very good book on the good book
in a very good book on the good book there are many good books but that’s a
there are many good books but that’s a
there are many good books but that’s a good one to take a look at we need
good one to take a look at we need
good one to take a look at we need something to go for we can deal with any
something to go for we can deal with any
something to go for we can deal with any problem today as long as there’s
problem today as long as there’s
problem today as long as there’s something that we can look for in the
something that we can look for in the
something that we can look for in the future that we can strive for it’ll give
future that we can strive for it’ll give
future that we can strive for it’ll give us the emotional and psychological fuel
us the emotional and psychological fuel
us the emotional and psychological fuel the juice to keep moving forward
the juice to keep moving forward
the juice to keep moving forward [Music]
so you gotta come up with a vision and a
so you gotta come up with a vision and a way to do that we’ll call that step four
way to do that we’ll call that step four
way to do that we’ll call that step four get a robot you might get the vision
get a robot you might get the vision
get a robot you might get the vision from a role model you might get the
from a role model you might get the
from a role model you might get the vision just from coming up with a new
vision just from coming up with a new
vision just from coming up with a new idea but in order to figure out how to
idea but in order to figure out how to
idea but in order to figure out how to go from where you are to where you want
go from where you are to where you want
go from where you are to where you want to be to close the gap from where you
to be to close the gap from where you
to be to close the gap from where you are to where you want to be its best to
are to where you want to be its best to
are to where you want to be its best to learn by other people’s experience
learn by other people’s experience
learn by other people’s experience whenever you can so get a role model get
whenever you can so get a role model get
whenever you can so get a role model get their strategy and go to work get into
their strategy and go to work get into
their strategy and go to work get into action so I’ll give you an example years
action so I’ll give you an example years
action so I’ll give you an example years ago when I was first starting to try to
ago when I was first starting to try to
ago when I was first starting to try to figure out how to build myself
figure out how to build myself
figure out how to build myself financially I grew up at a time when
financially I grew up at a time when
financially I grew up at a time when just as I was starting do well this big
just as I was starting do well this big
just as I was starting do well this big recession happened I remember I was like
recession happened I remember I was like
recession happened I remember I was like 29 30 years old I think and maybe 31 and
29 30 years old I think and maybe 31 and
29 30 years old I think and maybe 31 and I was doing okay and then all of a
I was doing okay and then all of a
I was doing okay and then all of a sudden there all these business
sudden there all these business
sudden there all these business challenges because we went through this
challenges because we went through this
challenges because we went through this severe recession back in those days and
severe recession back in those days and
severe recession back in those days and I remember at the time everybody was
I remember at the time everybody was
I remember at the time everybody was downsizing and freaking out and I
downsizing and freaking out and I
downsizing and freaking out and I thought you know what I don’t want to
thought you know what I don’t want to
thought you know what I don’t want to just settle for this I want to find a
just settle for this I want to find a
just settle for this I want to find a way to do well who’s done well and
way to do well who’s done well and
way to do well who’s done well and really tough
really tough
really tough that’s why I started doing my homework
that’s why I started doing my homework
that’s why I started doing my homework those days you know didn’t go out and
those days you know didn’t go out and
those days you know didn’t go out and use the internet the way you do today he
use the internet the way you do today he
use the internet the way you do today he couldn’t access all that information we
couldn’t access all that information we
couldn’t access all that information we actually went to libraries and did
actually went to libraries and did
actually went to libraries and did research in traditional ways an ancient
research in traditional ways an ancient
research in traditional ways an ancient F to remember those things and I started
F to remember those things and I started
F to remember those things and I started hearing about this man named Sir John
hearing about this man named Sir John
hearing about this man named Sir John Templeton very famous man he’s a man who
Templeton very famous man he’s a man who
Templeton very famous man he’s a man who became a multi-billionaire as an
became a multi-billionaire as an
became a multi-billionaire as an investor he started with nothing but
investor he started with nothing but
investor he started with nothing but that was interesting is when I started
that was interesting is when I started
that was interesting is when I started find out about his story as here’s a guy
find out about his story as here’s a guy
find out about his story as here’s a guy that when he’s a young man is called Sir
that when he’s a young man is called Sir
that when he’s a young man is called Sir John Templeton now he was actually an
John Templeton now he was actually an
John Templeton now he was actually an American originally and he wasn’t sir he
American originally and he wasn’t sir he
American originally and he wasn’t sir he came from a very poor family and he just
came from a very poor family and he just
came from a very poor family and he just decided that in his life he wanted not
decided that in his life he wanted not
decided that in his life he wanted not only do well financially you want to do
only do well financially you want to do
only do well financially you want to do so well he could help other people at
so well he could help other people at
so well he could help other people at any level that he want and today by the
any level that he want and today by the
any level that he want and today by the way he’s passed but before he did he
way he’s passed but before he did he
way he’s passed but before he did he created the Templeton fund and he also
created the Templeton fund and he also
created the Templeton fund and he also created a fund that now delivers money
created a fund that now delivers money
created a fund that now delivers money gives money each year Templeton Prize to
gives money each year Templeton Prize to
gives money each year Templeton Prize to people that do good spiritual works and
people that do good spiritual works and
people that do good spiritual works and it’s larger than the Nobel Prize and
it’s larger than the Nobel Prize and
it’s larger than the Nobel Prize and that continues to go long the guy
that continues to go long the guy
that continues to go long the guy started with nothing and here’s how he
started with nothing and here’s how he
started with nothing and here’s how he did this season the reason I look for
did this season the reason I look for
did this season the reason I look for him as a role model as because he made
him as a role model as because he made
him as a role model as because he made all his money and the worst of times he
all his money and the worst of times he
all his money and the worst of times he made all his money when people were
made all his money when people were
made all his money when people were going through the equivalent of the
going through the equivalent of the
going through the equivalent of the deepest recession or depression possible
deepest recession or depression possible
deepest recession or depression possible his whole belief was this is different
his whole belief was this is different
his whole belief was this is different than almost anybody else you see around
than almost anybody else you see around
than almost anybody else you see around he was pessimism was the secret to
he was pessimism was the secret to
he was pessimism was the secret to success that what he wanted to do is
success that what he wanted to do is
success that what he wanted to do is make money when people are most
make money when people are most
make money when people are most pessimistic when people are optimistic
pessimistic when people are optimistic
pessimistic when people are optimistic they want you to pay for their house a
they want you to pay for their house a
they want you to pay for their house a huge sum of money but as they start
huge sum of money but as they start
huge sum of money but as they start getting more and more pessimistic
getting more and more pessimistic
getting more and more pessimistic they think they can never the house is
they think they can never the house is
they think they can never the house is the worst thing to have they’ll
the worst thing to have they’ll
the worst thing to have they’ll virtually give you the house will
virtually give you the house will
virtually give you the house will virtually give you the business and so
virtually give you the business and so
virtually give you the business and so he minerals money starting in World War
he minerals money starting in World War
he minerals money starting in World War two when the war broke out and Hitler
two when the war broke out and Hitler
two when the war broke out and Hitler invaded over in Europe he took all the
invaded over in Europe he took all the
invaded over in Europe he took all the money had and borrowed total money at
money had and borrowed total money at
money had and borrowed total money at ten thousand dollars a total amount he
ten thousand dollars a total amount he
ten thousand dollars a total amount he bought with ten thousand dollars every
bought with ten thousand dollars every
bought with ten thousand dollars every stock on the New York Stock Exchange
stock on the New York Stock Exchange
stock on the New York Stock Exchange that was one dollar or less that he
that was one dollar or less that he
that was one dollar or less that he thought might be useful including some
thought might be useful including some
thought might be useful including some companies that look like they’re going
companies that look like they’re going
companies that look like they’re going to be bankrupt but he did it when people
to be bankrupt but he did it when people
to be bankrupt but he did it when people were the most pessimistic because if
were the most pessimistic because if
were the most pessimistic because if you’re call it look like Hitler was
you’re call it look like Hitler was
you’re call it look like Hitler was going to take over it didn’t look like
going to take over it didn’t look like
going to take over it didn’t look like we were all going to be the winners it
we were all going to be the winners it
we were all going to be the winners it looked like Hitler was gonna dominate
looked like Hitler was gonna dominate
looked like Hitler was gonna dominate more people have that scared they would
more people have that scared they would
more people have that scared they would give up anything they had just to get a
give up anything they had just to get a
give up anything they had just to get a little bit back and so he bottled the
little bit back and so he bottled the
little bit back and so he bottled the stock that eventually made him a multi
stock that eventually made him a multi
stock that eventually made him a multi billionaire became a billionaire because
billionaire became a billionaire because
billionaire became a billionaire because after things changed after the war just
after things changed after the war just
after things changed after the war just five years later and the economy started
five years later and the economy started
five years later and the economy started to surge everything change for him
to surge everything change for him
to surge everything change for him where do you think he invested next
where do you think he invested next
where do you think he invested next after World War two where was a country
after World War two where was a country
after World War two where was a country that was pummeled that was down the
that was pummeled that was down the
that was pummeled that was down the factories were basically turned into mud
factories were basically turned into mud
factories were basically turned into mud Japan you could buy things for pennies
Japan you could buy things for pennies
Japan you could buy things for pennies in Japan that would have cost you
in Japan that would have cost you
in Japan that would have cost you hundreds of thousands of dollars before
hundreds of thousands of dollars before
hundreds of thousands of dollars before and he did when everyone was most
and he did when everyone was most
and he did when everyone was most pessimistic he went indeed well and then
pessimistic he went indeed well and then
pessimistic he went indeed well and then he sold when the eighties surged and
he sold when the eighties surged and
he sold when the eighties surged and when everybody thought Japan was the
when everybody thought Japan was the
when everybody thought Japan was the greatest country on Earth the biggest
greatest country on Earth the biggest
greatest country on Earth the biggest businesses he sold made his maximum
businesses he sold made his maximum
businesses he sold made his maximum profit when people were overly
profit when people were overly
profit when people were overly optimistic did the same thing down in
optimistic did the same thing down in
optimistic did the same thing down in South America when inflation went crazy
South America when inflation went crazy
South America when inflation went crazy this man spent his entire life basically
this man spent his entire life basically
this man spent his entire life basically having a strategy of how to succeed when
having a strategy of how to succeed when
having a strategy of how to succeed when everybody else was scared I tell you
everybody else was scared I tell you
everybody else was scared I tell you that because he’s a role model what he
that because he’s a role model what he
that because he’s a role model what he did how he did it it’s all in writing
did how he did it it’s all in writing
did how he did it it’s all in writing it’s crystal clear he could do the same
it’s crystal clear he could do the same
it’s crystal clear he could do the same but you won’t be able to do it when
but you won’t be able to do it when
but you won’t be able to do it when you’re telling yourself the sky is
you’re telling yourself the sky is
you’re telling yourself the sky is falling it’s
falling it’s
falling it’s you see it worse than it is you’ll just
you see it worse than it is you’ll just
you see it worse than it is you’ll just give up you won’t do it if you don’t
give up you won’t do it if you don’t
give up you won’t do it if you don’t tell yourself the truth is you know what
tell yourself the truth is you know what
tell yourself the truth is you know what this system isn’t working I got to do
this system isn’t working I got to do
this system isn’t working I got to do something I got to change my finances I
something I got to change my finances I
something I got to change my finances I got to change my job I got to read you
got to change my job I got to read you
got to change my job I got to read you if you don’t tell yourself the truth and
if you don’t tell yourself the truth and
if you don’t tell yourself the truth and deal with the truth the real truth
deal with the truth the real truth
deal with the truth the real truth nothing’s going to happen you won’t ever
nothing’s going to happen you won’t ever
nothing’s going to happen you won’t ever even think about a guy like John
even think about a guy like John
even think about a guy like John Templeton if you don’t have a vision
Templeton if you don’t have a vision
Templeton if you don’t have a vision that says I don’t care how the
that says I don’t care how the
that says I don’t care how the environment is I’m going to find a way
environment is I’m going to find a way
environment is I’m going to find a way to do well and you won’t do well unless
to do well and you won’t do well unless
to do well and you won’t do well unless you get a strategy based on a role model
you get a strategy based on a role model
you get a strategy based on a role model who’s really done it my whole thing is
who’s really done it my whole thing is
who’s really done it my whole thing is this if anybody has something you want
this if anybody has something you want
this if anybody has something you want they aren’t lucky they did something if
they aren’t lucky they did something if
they aren’t lucky they did something if you model them if you take similar steps
you model them if you take similar steps
you model them if you take similar steps you can produce a similar result make
you can produce a similar result make
you can produce a similar result make sense and finally fifth step look if you
sense and finally fifth step look if you
sense and finally fifth step look if you in a situation where you see it as is
in a situation where you see it as is
in a situation where you see it as is but not worse than it is if you told
but not worse than it is if you told
but not worse than it is if you told yourself the truth will be dealt the
yourself the truth will be dealt the
yourself the truth will be dealt the cards you’re dealt with and just decided
cards you’re dealt with and just decided
cards you’re dealt with and just decided you’re going to change it you’re willing
you’re going to change it you’re willing
you’re going to change it you’re willing to do what’s necessary if you put
to do what’s necessary if you put
to do what’s necessary if you put yourself in a place where you got a new
yourself in a place where you got a new
yourself in a place where you got a new vision and you got yourself strong if
vision and you got yourself strong if
vision and you got yourself strong if you got a role model and you’ve got some
you got a role model and you’ve got some
you got a role model and you’ve got some strategy and you got yourself into
strategy and you got yourself into
strategy and you got yourself into action Step five is give much more than
action Step five is give much more than
action Step five is give much more than you expect to receive simple as that
you expect to receive simple as that
you expect to receive simple as that sounds if you find a way to meet
sounds if you find a way to meet
sounds if you find a way to meet people’s needs in business but an
people’s needs in business but an
people’s needs in business but an intimate relationship meeting your kids
intimate relationship meeting your kids
intimate relationship meeting your kids needs anybody’s meat the whole game
needs anybody’s meat the whole game
needs anybody’s meat the whole game changes
[Music]
[Music] truth is the truth will set you free but
truth is the truth will set you free but
truth is the truth will set you free but first it’ll piss you off the truth of it
first it’ll piss you off the truth of it
first it’ll piss you off the truth of it doesn’t feel good but not feeling that
doesn’t feel good but not feeling that
doesn’t feel good but not feeling that sometimes it will you get your drive to
sometimes it will you get your drive to
sometimes it will you get your drive to change things
deal with what is without exaggeration
deal with what is without exaggeration with total honesty dealing with the
with total honesty dealing with the
with total honesty dealing with the cards coming up with a vision finding a
cards coming up with a vision finding a
cards coming up with a vision finding a self a role model that shows your
self a role model that shows your
self a role model that shows your strategy work your tail off give give
strategy work your tail off give give
strategy work your tail off give give give keep changing your approach and you
give keep changing your approach and you
give keep changing your approach and you can get where you want to go make sense
can get where you want to go make sense
can get where you want to go make sense now that might sound like a lot so to
now that might sound like a lot so to
now that might sound like a lot so to get you started here’s what I’d like you
get you started here’s what I’d like you
get you started here’s what I’d like you do for this session start out if you
do for this session start out if you
do for this session start out if you want by taking a big crisis or problem
want by taking a big crisis or problem
want by taking a big crisis or problem you haven’t going through these steps
you haven’t going through these steps
you haven’t going through these steps say it okay what’s really true and let
say it okay what’s really true and let
say it okay what’s really true and let me exaggerate let me stop the
me exaggerate let me stop the
me exaggerate let me stop the exaggeration let me not make it worse
exaggeration let me not make it worse
exaggeration let me not make it worse than it’s just let’s define what’s true
than it’s just let’s define what’s true
than it’s just let’s define what’s true let’s stop the story just here’s what it
let’s stop the story just here’s what it
let’s stop the story just here’s what it is we got this much financial challenge
is we got this much financial challenge
is we got this much financial challenge we got this physical challenge covered
we got this physical challenge covered
we got this physical challenge covered it and then go to step two all right
it and then go to step two all right
it and then go to step two all right let’s find out the truth let’s get the
let’s find out the truth let’s get the
let’s find out the truth let’s get the details let’s forget the details and
details let’s forget the details and
details let’s forget the details and figure out what we’re going to do then
figure out what we’re going to do then
figure out what we’re going to do then here’s where we’re going to go this is
here’s where we’re going to go this is
here’s where we’re going to go this is where we’re going to eventually get to
where we’re going to eventually get to
where we’re going to eventually get to it might take us longer to get where we
it might take us longer to get where we
it might take us longer to get where we want to go but we’re going to get here
want to go but we’re going to get here
want to go but we’re going to get here who’s done it that we can model that we
who’s done it that we can model that we
who’s done it that we can model that we can follow the steps in who can coach us
can follow the steps in who can coach us
can follow the steps in who can coach us and let’s just work our tail off and
and let’s just work our tail off and
and let’s just work our tail off and change everything
but to give you a quick jump sometimes
but to give you a quick jump sometimes when you’re in the middle of crisis or a
when you’re in the middle of crisis or a
when you’re in the middle of crisis or a crises multiple crises lots of things
crises multiple crises lots of things
crises multiple crises lots of things going on simultaneously
going on simultaneously
going on simultaneously it feels been overwhelming so you might
it feels been overwhelming so you might
it feels been overwhelming so you might not know robot that’s a Tony I don’t
not know robot that’s a Tony I don’t
not know robot that’s a Tony I don’t know who well not hard enough these days
know who well not hard enough these days
know who well not hard enough these days to find role models or come to an event
to find role models or come to an event
to find role models or come to an event yeah I promise you we can show you
yeah I promise you we can show you
yeah I promise you we can show you plenty of role models like you for a
plenty of role models like you for a
plenty of role models like you for a living but what you can view right away
living but what you can view right away
living but what you can view right away is you can model yourself think about
is you can model yourself think about
is you can model yourself think about almost everyone alive it’s been through
almost everyone alive it’s been through
almost everyone alive it’s been through more than one tough tough time crisis or
more than one tough tough time crisis or
more than one tough tough time crisis or multi crises where you’re having a
multi crises where you’re having a
multi crises where you’re having a problem financially and I’m a part of
problem financially and I’m a part of
problem financially and I’m a part of your family and you’re having health
your family and you’re having health
your family and you’re having health problems all simultaneously those
problems all simultaneously those
problems all simultaneously those intense ones right but if you’re
intense ones right but if you’re
intense ones right but if you’re standing still today most of us found a
standing still today most of us found a
standing still today most of us found a way to get through and if you don’t you
way to get through and if you don’t you
way to get through and if you don’t you know someone who went through a tough
know someone who went through a tough
know someone who went through a tough time
time
time my grandmother aunt and uncle somebody
my grandmother aunt and uncle somebody
my grandmother aunt and uncle somebody the greatest way to make that change
the greatest way to make that change
the greatest way to make that change happen when you break out of a
happen when you break out of a
happen when you break out of a breakthrough you break out of a problem
breakthrough you break out of a problem
breakthrough you break out of a problem you break out of crisis is model
you break out of crisis is model
you break out of crisis is model yourself
what’s been one of the toughest times in
what’s been one of the toughest times in your life that you did get through
your life that you did get through
your life that you did get through there is a financial situation
there is a financial situation
there is a financial situation yeah maybe it was an intimate
yeah maybe it was an intimate
yeah maybe it was an intimate relationship where you were crushed you
relationship where you were crushed you
relationship where you were crushed you thought you’d never make it through all
thought you’d never make it through all
thought you’d never make it through all the pain you went through there maybe it
the pain you went through there maybe it
the pain you went through there maybe it was a physical challenge or health
was a physical challenge or health
was a physical challenge or health challenge maybe it was a lack of
challenge maybe it was a lack of
challenge maybe it was a lack of confidence or ability I don’t know what
confidence or ability I don’t know what
confidence or ability I don’t know what it was but what was it just incredibly
it was but what was it just incredibly
it was but what was it just incredibly tough time that you did make it through
you go back and you think about that
you go back and you think about that situation what told you through what
situation what told you through what
situation what told you through what pulled you through that situation what
pulled you through that situation what
pulled you through that situation what did you what did you learn what
did you what did you learn what
did you what did you learn what distinction or did you get a strategy or
distinction or did you get a strategy or
distinction or did you get a strategy or was it a belief or did you meet someone
was it a belief or did you meet someone
was it a belief or did you meet someone who helped you or was it just somehow
who helped you or was it just somehow
who helped you or was it just somehow you clicked into your faith kick
you clicked into your faith kick
you clicked into your faith kick yourself into gear what pulled you
yourself into gear what pulled you
yourself into gear what pulled you through those tough times
through those tough times
through those tough times was it a person was in place was an idea
was it a person was in place was an idea
was it a person was in place was an idea was a distinction was a belief what was
was a distinction was a belief what was
was a distinction was a belief what was he
what did you do to go from where you
what did you do to go from where you were to where you are today
were to where you are today
were to where you are today what’d you do to get over that situation
what’d you do to get over that situation
what’d you do to get over that situation what did you do to get through that
what did you do to get through that
what did you do to get through that situation what did you do to turn it
situation what did you do to turn it
situation what did you do to turn it around what action did you take who did
around what action did you take who did
around what action did you take who did you go learn from what skill did you go
you go learn from what skill did you go
you go learn from what skill did you go get what what did you physically do kind
get what what did you physically do kind
get what what did you physically do kind of give us the description of what you
of give us the description of what you
of give us the description of what you did because we all want to know because
did because we all want to know because
did because we all want to know because you can provide us a pathway you may
you can provide us a pathway you may
you can provide us a pathway you may have been through a crisis that someone
have been through a crisis that someone
have been through a crisis that someone else is going through right now and they
else is going through right now and they
else is going through right now and they could learn from you because they can
could learn from you because they can
could learn from you because they can learn the shortcut
because you went through this crisis
because you went through this crisis whatever the crisis was how are you
whatever the crisis was how are you
whatever the crisis was how are you stronger or are you more compassionate
stronger or are you more compassionate
stronger or are you more compassionate because you felt that suffering you
because you felt that suffering you
because you felt that suffering you don’t want anybody else to feel it or
don’t want anybody else to feel it or
don’t want anybody else to feel it or are you more hopeful because you know
are you more hopeful because you know
are you more hopeful because you know you need to do that so you can make it
you need to do that so you can make it
you need to do that so you can make it through the things or are you in a
through the things or are you in a
through the things or are you in a situation where you’ve got a skill today
situation where you’ve got a skill today
situation where you’ve got a skill today that you didn’t have the wouldn’t have
that you didn’t have the wouldn’t have
that you didn’t have the wouldn’t have had if it wasn’t for that situation that
had if it wasn’t for that situation that
had if it wasn’t for that situation that made you have to grow or you just
made you have to grow or you just
made you have to grow or you just happier today because you have a
happier today because you have a
happier today because you have a contrast of what life could be like and
contrast of what life could be like and
contrast of what life could be like and so now you appreciate the simple moments
so now you appreciate the simple moments
so now you appreciate the simple moments how are you better mentally emotionally
how are you better mentally emotionally
how are you better mentally emotionally physically financially or spiritually
physically financially or spiritually
physically financially or spiritually today because you went through the
today because you went through the
today because you went through the crisis even though you wouldn’t want to
crisis even though you wouldn’t want to
crisis even though you wouldn’t want to go through it again you know anybody
go through it again you know anybody
go through it again you know anybody else to go through it how did it
else to go through it how did it
else to go through it how did it actually serve you
[Music]
[Music] who here’s ever failed
who here’s ever failed
who here’s ever failed whose here’s failed miserably at
whose here’s failed miserably at
whose here’s failed miserably at something you wanted to achieve when you
something you wanted to achieve when you
something you wanted to achieve when you failed why did you fail
I fail because okay good I didn’t have
I fail because okay good I didn’t have enough money what else didn’t have
enough money what else didn’t have
enough money what else didn’t have didn’t have the right technology good
didn’t have the right technology good
didn’t have the right technology good sir why’d you fail I had the wrong
sir why’d you fail I had the wrong
sir why’d you fail I had the wrong people they say I had the wrong leader
people they say I had the wrong leader
people they say I had the wrong leader isn’t that interesting it was the
isn’t that interesting it was the
isn’t that interesting it was the economy bad economy not enough time
economy bad economy not enough time
economy bad economy not enough time didn’t have enough time now I ask this
didn’t have enough time now I ask this
didn’t have enough time now I ask this question for the first time about seven
question for the first time about seven
question for the first time about seven years ago I was at this place called Ted
years ago I was at this place called Ted
years ago I was at this place called Ted anybody watching those Ted videos and
anybody watching those Ted videos and
anybody watching those Ted videos and Ted didn’t have a website everything of
Ted didn’t have a website everything of
Ted didn’t have a website everything of that stage it was a very small program
that stage it was a very small program
that stage it was a very small program was done for about 800 people in Silicon
was done for about 800 people in Silicon
was done for about 800 people in Silicon Valley
Valley
Valley most of them billionaire investors the
most of them billionaire investors the
most of them billionaire investors the founders of Yahoo founders of Apple the
founders of Yahoo founders of Apple the
founders of Yahoo founders of Apple the founders of the whole series of
founders of the whole series of
founders of the whole series of companies and I was brought in and they
companies and I was brought in and they
companies and I was brought in and they say you got 18 minutes which my shortest
say you got 18 minutes which my shortest
say you got 18 minutes which my shortest seminars for days so I’m like
seminars for days so I’m like
seminars for days so I’m like you got to be kidding me
you got to be kidding me
you got to be kidding me and then when they four they introduced
and then when they four they introduced
and then when they four they introduced me the guy who he was introducing me
me the guy who he was introducing me
me the guy who he was introducing me wasn’t the guy invited me he was an
wasn’t the guy invited me he was an
wasn’t the guy invited me he was an English guy we’re good friends today
English guy we’re good friends today
English guy we’re good friends today we’re back and he didn’t know who I was
we’re back and he didn’t know who I was
we’re back and he didn’t know who I was he thought I was a motivator so he got
he thought I was a motivator so he got
he thought I was a motivator so he got up and he said first thing he said to me
up and he said first thing he said to me
up and he said first thing he said to me before I went out there goes not nice to
before I went out there goes not nice to
before I went out there goes not nice to meet you don’t have people do that jump
meet you don’t have people do that jump
meet you don’t have people do that jump in I heard you
in I heard you
in I heard you so he wants me to take these dead people
so he wants me to take these dead people
so he wants me to take these dead people and leave them dead in this dark room
and leave them dead in this dark room
and leave them dead in this dark room sitting and I watched before I got up to
sitting and I watched before I got up to
sitting and I watched before I got up to speak and there’s a woman who was a
speak and there’s a woman who was a
speak and there’s a woman who was a genius and she was three teaching string
genius and she was three teaching string
genius and she was three teaching string theory which is one the most complex
theory which is one the most complex
theory which is one the most complex things on earth and they gave her
things on earth and they gave her
things on earth and they gave her eighteen minutes and people were
eighteen minutes and people were
eighteen minutes and people were shuffling their feet and at the end they
shuffling their feet and at the end they
shuffling their feet and at the end they didn’t even clap for her they were
didn’t even clap for her they were
didn’t even clap for her they were assholes they all thought their did
assholes they all thought their did
assholes they all thought their did his thing
his thing
his thing these are all the achievers of the world
these are all the achievers of the world
these are all the achievers of the world so I walk out there and the introduction
so I walk out there and the introduction
so I walk out there and the introduction he gives me as Tony Robbins was like a
he gives me as Tony Robbins was like a
he gives me as Tony Robbins was like a motivator and he’s helped a lot of
motivator and he’s helped a lot of
motivator and he’s helped a lot of sports people so maybe he can kind of
sports people so maybe he can kind of
sports people so maybe he can kind of create some energy here he a very
create some energy here he a very
create some energy here he a very publicized divorce a few years ago
publicized divorce a few years ago
publicized divorce a few years ago [Music]
[Music]
[Music] I couldn’t believe it really did
I couldn’t believe it really did
I couldn’t believe it really did say that he wants a TED video he cut
say that he wants a TED video he cut
say that he wants a TED video he cut that out cuz he’s embarrassed
that out cuz he’s embarrassed
that out cuz he’s embarrassed I said so I got up afterwards I still
I said so I got up afterwards I still
I said so I got up afterwards I still got courage to be here I said that I
got courage to be here I said that I
got courage to be here I said that I didn’t know that my divorce is very
didn’t know that my divorce is very
didn’t know that my divorce is very publicized that’s why that’s very happy
publicized that’s why that’s very happy
publicized that’s why that’s very happy tens of millions of dollars I didn’t
tens of millions of dollars I didn’t
tens of millions of dollars I didn’t come about that I didn’t serve you and
come about that I didn’t serve you and
come about that I didn’t serve you and then I jump forgot engage this room so I
then I jump forgot engage this room so I
then I jump forgot engage this room so I ask them question just ask you I said
ask them question just ask you I said
ask them question just ask you I said who hears ever failed and no one raised
who hears ever failed and no one raised
who hears ever failed and no one raised their hand the whole room
their hand the whole room
their hand the whole room so I paused and I said I know you’re out
so I paused and I said I know you’re out
so I paused and I said I know you’re out there I can hear their hearts beating
there I can hear their hearts beating
there I can hear their hearts beating who here has ever failed and I demand an
who here has ever failed and I demand an
who here has ever failed and I demand an answer
answer
answer and who has ever failed and now the
and who has ever failed and now the
and who has ever failed and now the holes they started complain so I said
holes they started complain so I said
holes they started complain so I said great when you failed why did you fail
great when you failed why did you fail
great when you failed why did you fail and they said all the things you said
and they said all the things you said
and they said all the things you said didn’t have enough time didn’t have the
didn’t have enough time didn’t have the
didn’t have enough time didn’t have the right technology didn’t have the money
right technology didn’t have the money
right technology didn’t have the money didn’t have the contacts you know have
didn’t have the contacts you know have
didn’t have the contacts you know have the wrong people the people said with
the wrong people the people said with
the wrong people the people said with the wrong leader
the wrong leader
the wrong leader [Music]
[Music]
[Music] cuz let’s just do this logically
cuz let’s just do this logically
cuz let’s just do this logically everything you people have told me I
everything you people have told me I
everything you people have told me I didn’t have the technology I have the
didn’t have the technology I have the
didn’t have the technology I have the right contacts I didn’t have the time I
right contacts I didn’t have the time I
right contacts I didn’t have the time I didn’t have money everything you’ve told
didn’t have money everything you’ve told
didn’t have money everything you’ve told me I didn’t have enough Supreme Court
me I didn’t have enough Supreme Court
me I didn’t have enough Supreme Court justices those are resources and so
justices those are resources and so
justices those are resources and so you’re telling me I fail because I
you’re telling me I fail because I
you’re telling me I fail because I didn’t have the resources and I’m here
didn’t have the resources and I’m here
didn’t have the resources and I’m here to tell you what you already know
to tell you what you already know
to tell you what you already know resources are never the problem it’s a
resources are never the problem it’s a
resources are never the problem it’s a lack of resourcefulness is why you
lack of resourcefulness is why you
lack of resourcefulness is why you failed because the ultimate resources
failed because the ultimate resources
failed because the ultimate resources are emotional states if you’re creative
are emotional states if you’re creative
are emotional states if you’re creative enough can you find the answer yes or no
enough can you find the answer yes or no
enough can you find the answer yes or no if you’re determined enough can you find
if you’re determined enough can you find
if you’re determined enough can you find the breakthrough yes or no if you’re
the breakthrough yes or no if you’re
the breakthrough yes or no if you’re passionate loving enough can you get
passionate loving enough can you get
passionate loving enough can you get someone to help you yes or no if there’s
someone to help you yes or no if there’s
someone to help you yes or no if there’s no way that you’re committed can you
no way that you’re committed can you
no way that you’re committed can you find the money even if you don’t have it
find the money even if you don’t have it
find the money even if you don’t have it yes or no
yes or no
yes or no so I said creativity decisiveness
so I said creativity decisiveness
so I said creativity decisiveness passion honesty sincerity love these are
passion honesty sincerity love these are
passion honesty sincerity love these are the ultimate human resources and when
the ultimate human resources and when
the ultimate human resources and when you engage these resource you can get
you engage these resource you can get
you engage these resource you can get any other resource on earth and I said
any other resource on earth and I said
any other resource on earth and I said so you told me all the resources you’re
so you told me all the resources you’re
so you told me all the resources you’re missing and you hypnotize yourself into
missing and you hypnotize yourself into
missing and you hypnotize yourself into believing that you don’t have what you
believing that you don’t have what you
believing that you don’t have what you want because you love the resources when
want because you love the resources when
want because you love the resources when the most successful people in history
the most successful people in history
the most successful people in history had no resources but they were
had no resources but they were
had no resources but they were incredibly resourceful so they got the
incredibly resourceful so they got the
incredibly resourceful so they got the researchers resourcefulness is the
researchers resourcefulness is the
researchers resourcefulness is the ultimate resource
ultimate resource
ultimate resource and if you don’t have what you want stop
and if you don’t have what you want stop
and if you don’t have what you want stop telling yourself the story because you
telling yourself the story because you
telling yourself the story because you don’t the money over time that’s
don’t the money over time that’s
don’t the money over time that’s it’s because you haven’t
it’s because you haven’t
it’s because you haven’t committed yourself where you would burn
committed yourself where you would burn
committed yourself where you would burn your boats if you want to take the
your boats if you want to take the
your boats if you want to take the island burn your boats
island burn your boats
island burn your boats and you will take the audit because
and you will take the audit because
and you will take the audit because people when they’re gonna either die or
people when they’re gonna either die or
people when they’re gonna either die or succeed tend to succeed but most of us
succeed tend to succeed but most of us
succeed tend to succeed but most of us give ourselves a way out and that’s why
give ourselves a way out and that’s why
give ourselves a way out and that’s why we don’t have
we don’t have
we don’t have [Music]
so if you and I really want to know
so if you and I really want to know what’s going to take to get your dream
what’s going to take to get your dream
what’s going to take to get your dream and make it real it’s to stop all the
and make it real it’s to stop all the
and make it real it’s to stop all the things you told yourself at art and I’m
things you told yourself at art and I’m
things you told yourself at art and I’m here to tell you what I said at the top
here to tell you what I said at the top
here to tell you what I said at the top of our discussion 80% of success of
of our discussion 80% of success of
of our discussion 80% of success of psychology and 20% of mechanics that’s
psychology and 20% of mechanics that’s
psychology and 20% of mechanics that’s true of running your business that’s
true of running your business that’s
true of running your business that’s true of your intimate relationship
true of your intimate relationship
true of your intimate relationship that’s true of your body that’s true and
that’s true of your body that’s true and
that’s true of your body that’s true and your level of happiness see got to know
your level of happiness see got to know
your level of happiness see got to know the 20% because that gives you the edge
the 20% because that gives you the edge
the 20% because that gives you the edge right those strategies but you got to
right those strategies but you got to
right those strategies but you got to know the psychology if you’re in
know the psychology if you’re in
know the psychology if you’re in business right now there’s a few things
business right now there’s a few things
business right now there’s a few things the choke hold since again how many on a
the choke hold since again how many on a
the choke hold since again how many on a business I’m real clear really do only
business I’m real clear really do only
business I’m real clear really do only business you’re not thinking about it
business you’re not thinking about it
business you’re not thinking about it you own one raise your hand so I can say
you own one raise your hand so I can say
you own one raise your hand so I can say most you don’t impress so if you
most you don’t impress so if you
most you don’t impress so if you own your business
own your business
own your business I’ll tell you right now the choke hold
I’ll tell you right now the choke hold
I’ll tell you right now the choke hold on the growth of your business is you it
on the growth of your business is you it
on the growth of your business is you it is not your people
is not your people
is not your people it is the leader of this organization
it is the leader of this organization
it is the leader of this organization the leader is the chokehold and the
the leader is the chokehold and the
the leader is the chokehold and the chokehold comes in one or two forms your
chokehold comes in one or two forms your
chokehold comes in one or two forms your psychology you think you’ve tried
psychology you think you’ve tried
psychology you think you’ve tried everything you’ve tried everything but
everything you’ve tried everything but
everything you’ve tried everything but what works who knows what I’m
what works who knows what I’m
what works who knows what I’m talking about here right or it’s a skill
talking about here right or it’s a skill
talking about here right or it’s a skill that you’re missing like you really are
that you’re missing like you really are
that you’re missing like you really are incredible writing code but you don’t
incredible writing code but you don’t
incredible writing code but you don’t know about accounting and finance
know about accounting and finance
know about accounting and finance and it’s eating your business alive cuz
and it’s eating your business alive cuz
and it’s eating your business alive cuz I got to tell you 96% of all businesses
I got to tell you 96% of all businesses
I got to tell you 96% of all businesses in a 10-year period of time go under
in a 10-year period of time go under
in a 10-year period of time go under only 4% make it by the way make it
only 4% make it by the way make it
only 4% make it by the way make it doesn’t mean that you succeed to have
doesn’t mean that you succeed to have
doesn’t mean that you succeed to have any money it just means you’re still
any money it just means you’re still
any money it just means you’re still standing 4% by the way after 10 years
standing 4% by the way after 10 years
standing 4% by the way after 10 years you’re set right there’s no more
you’re set right there’s no more
you’re set right there’s no more challenges
challenges
challenges ever heard of company called Lehman
ever heard of company called Lehman
ever heard of company called Lehman Brothers right 100 year old company if
Brothers right 100 year old company if
Brothers right 100 year old company if you took their gross revenues and added
you took their gross revenues and added
you took their gross revenues and added them up
them up
them up it’d be a trillion dollars over the
it’d be a trillion dollars over the
it’d be a trillion dollars over the decades a trillion with a T and they’re
decades a trillion with a T and they’re
decades a trillion with a T and they’re no longer here that’s how competitive
no longer here that’s how competitive
no longer here that’s how competitive the world is today so if you got into
the world is today so if you got into
the world is today so if you got into business and you’re in it right now I
business and you’re in it right now I
business and you’re in it right now I love you I respect you as a brother or
love you I respect you as a brother or
love you I respect you as a brother or sister and I know you’re a crazy son of
sister and I know you’re a crazy son of
sister and I know you’re a crazy son of a bitch just like me
a bitch just like me
a bitch just like me you have to be who gets in a sport with
you have to be who gets in a sport with
you have to be who gets in a sport with a longer you play the more likely you
a longer you play the more likely you
a longer you play the more likely you die you’re a gladiator if you’re in
die you’re a gladiator if you’re in
die you’re a gladiator if you’re in business a gladiator goes out there and
business a gladiator goes out there and
business a gladiator goes out there and they know every time I go out I can die
they know every time I go out I can die
they know every time I go out I can die and the longer I stay in the game the
and the longer I stay in the game the
and the longer I stay in the game the more likely I die but every day they go
more likely I die but every day they go
more likely I die but every day they go out to win that takes an incredible
out to win that takes an incredible
out to win that takes an incredible psychology but in that psychology we
psychology but in that psychology we
psychology but in that psychology we bump onto limits and that’s what you got
bump onto limits and that’s what you got
bump onto limits and that’s what you got a ship and if your psychology is solid
a ship and if your psychology is solid
a ship and if your psychology is solid and you got to say where are the skills
and you got to say where are the skills
and you got to say where are the skills I’m missing because that’s equally
I’m missing because that’s equally
I’m missing because that’s equally important
I created a brand and that’s why I have
I created a brand and that’s why I have the privilege to serve you but that
the privilege to serve you but that
the privilege to serve you but that brand came because I realized early in
brand came because I realized early in
brand came because I realized early in my career I get the best ideas in the
my career I get the best ideas in the
my career I get the best ideas in the world but they’re gonna die on my lips
world but they’re gonna die on my lips
world but they’re gonna die on my lips unless I can market them unless I can
unless I can market them unless I can
unless I can market them unless I can build a brand it is the most important
build a brand it is the most important
build a brand it is the most important thing today because the world is made up
thing today because the world is made up
thing today because the world is made up of commodities the world is so
of commodities the world is so
of commodities the world is so competitive if you’re a commodity if
competitive if you’re a commodity if
competitive if you’re a commodity if you’re a racer the lowest price you will
you’re a racer the lowest price you will
you’re a racer the lowest price you will be out of business within ten years
be out of business within ten years
be out of business within ten years probably more like two to five you have
probably more like two to five you have
probably more like two to five you have to have something that separates you
to have something that separates you
to have something that separates you from everybody else on earth and until
from everybody else on earth and until
from everybody else on earth and until you find out that something you will be
you find out that something you will be
you find out that something you will be stressed and you will be struggling but
stressed and you will be struggling but
stressed and you will be struggling but everybody has it or anybody can create
everybody has it or anybody can create
everybody has it or anybody can create it that’s my expertise my companies I
it that’s my expertise my companies I
it that’s my expertise my companies I started with zero we do more than 5
started with zero we do more than 5
started with zero we do more than 5 billion with a bean per year my
billion with a bean per year my
billion with a bean per year my companies
companies
companies I had a mission but I realize I have to
I had a mission but I realize I have to
I had a mission but I realize I have to master business or that mission is going
master business or that mission is going
master business or that mission is going to die and you got to get that too
to die and you got to get that too
to die and you got to get that too because otherwise you don’t get one of
because otherwise you don’t get one of
because otherwise you don’t get one of the many more for ass off and not have
the many more for ass off and not have
the many more for ass off and not have what you deserve so this is an area that
what you deserve so this is an area that
what you deserve so this is an area that deserves mastering not dabbling and
deserves mastering not dabbling and
deserves mastering not dabbling and probably most of you in this room work
probably most of you in this room work
probably most of you in this room work your ass off in your business and your
your ass off in your business and your
your ass off in your business and your so working in the business you’re not
so working in the business you’re not
so working in the business you’re not working on the business I know you know
working on the business I know you know
working on the business I know you know the difference and if you do you’re not
the difference and if you do you’re not
the difference and if you do you’re not getting distinctions that are cutting
getting distinctions that are cutting
getting distinctions that are cutting edge one right strategy can save you ten
edge one right strategy can save you ten
edge one right strategy can save you ten years
years
years but you got to go get it you can’t just
but you got to go get it you can’t just
but you got to go get it you can’t just keep doing what you’re doing good and
keep doing what you’re doing good and
keep doing what you’re doing good and then pumping yourself back up she got to
then pumping yourself back up she got to
then pumping yourself back up she got to get the skills marketing is one of those
get the skills marketing is one of those
get the skills marketing is one of those skills selecting the right people’s
skills selecting the right people’s
skills selecting the right people’s everything
so knowing how to pick the right people
so knowing how to pick the right people knowing how to train those people
knowing how to train those people
knowing how to train those people knowing what you gonna do in sales no
knowing what you gonna do in sales no
knowing what you gonna do in sales no way to go to in markets knowing what
way to go to in markets knowing what
way to go to in markets knowing what you’re doing the financial side if your
you’re doing the financial side if your
you’re doing the financial side if your business is everything you have to
business is everything you have to
business is everything you have to master these things you can’t pull
master these things you can’t pull
master these things you can’t pull expect your business to either
a breakthrough is when there’s something
a breakthrough is when there’s something you struggle with for a long time you
you struggle with for a long time you
you struggle with for a long time you say you’re going to change you say
say you’re going to change you say
say you’re going to change you say you’re going to make it happen you’re
you’re going to make it happen you’re
you’re going to make it happen you’re going to lose that weight going to grow
going to lose that weight going to grow
going to lose that weight going to grow your revenues you’re going to make that
your revenues you’re going to make that
your revenues you’re going to make that profit you’re going to make something
profit you’re going to make something
profit you’re going to make something happy going to find that relationship
happy going to find that relationship
happy going to find that relationship you’re going to stop smoking and you
you’re going to stop smoking and you
you’re going to stop smoking and you start to get right near the edge
start to get right near the edge
start to get right near the edge [Music]
and then you pull back who’s done this
and then you pull back who’s done this multiple times before but then finally
multiple times before but then finally
multiple times before but then finally how to break through you broke through
how to break through you broke through
how to break through you broke through and actually change and say I so jot
and actually change and say I so jot
and actually change and say I so jot down what a break your is and let me
down what a break your is and let me
down what a break your is and let me give you three steps of it a
give you three steps of it a
give you three steps of it a breakthrough is a moment in time that’s
breakthrough is a moment in time that’s
breakthrough is a moment in time that’s what it is it’s a moment in time it’s a
what it is it’s a moment in time it’s a
what it is it’s a moment in time it’s a moment where suddenly what was
moment where suddenly what was
moment where suddenly what was impossible becomes possible
for that to happen for the impossibly
for that to happen for the impossibly compatible and for you to have action
compatible and for you to have action
compatible and for you to have action that’s going to get results really I
that’s going to get results really I
that’s going to get results really I found over the years any kind of
found over the years any kind of
found over the years any kind of breakthrough
breakthrough
breakthrough you’re going to have requires three
you’re going to have requires three
you’re going to have requires three things to it and if you never see me
things to it and if you never see me
things to it and if you never see me again and you’re ever in a place you say
again and you’re ever in a place you say
again and you’re ever in a place you say I’m sick of fighting this I’m sick of
I’m sick of fighting this I’m sick of
I’m sick of fighting this I’m sick of not getting results I want I don’t want
not getting results I want I don’t want
not getting results I want I don’t want to just learn more I want to break
to just learn more I want to break
to just learn more I want to break through if you remember this and go back
through if you remember this and go back
through if you remember this and go back to the simple formula and by the way
to the simple formula and by the way
to the simple formula and by the way I’ve made this simple purposely you know
I’ve made this simple purposely you know
I’ve made this simple purposely you know why complexity is the enemy of execution
why complexity is the enemy of execution
why complexity is the enemy of execution the more complex you make it the less
the more complex you make it the less
the more complex you make it the less likely you’re going to execute I’m so
likely you’re going to execute I’m so
likely you’re going to execute I’m so good at getting people to do things as I
good at getting people to do things as I
good at getting people to do things as I make it so damn simple you can’t miss it
make it so damn simple you can’t miss it
make it so damn simple you can’t miss it so let’s do it what’s it going to take
so let’s do it what’s it going to take
so let’s do it what’s it going to take that to break through before I tell you
that to break through before I tell you
that to break through before I tell you let’s have you think of an area where
let’s have you think of an area where
let’s have you think of an area where you once thought and you finally had a
you once thought and you finally had a
you once thought and you finally had a breakthrough for you person what’s an
breakthrough for you person what’s an
breakthrough for you person what’s an area where you push and push and push
area where you push and push and push
area where you push and push and push you couldn’t do it couldn’t do it and
you couldn’t do it couldn’t do it and
you couldn’t do it couldn’t do it and you finally made yourself do it go
you finally made yourself do it go
you finally made yourself do it go through
this a man once said you tell a lie big
this a man once said you tell a lie big enough loud enough and long enough
enough loud enough and long enough
enough loud enough and long enough sooner or later people will believe you
sooner or later people will believe you
sooner or later people will believe you who said that
who said that
who said that Hitler and most of us are Hitler in our
Hitler and most of us are Hitler in our
Hitler and most of us are Hitler in our own minds we convinced ourselves with
own minds we convinced ourselves with
own minds we convinced ourselves with challenges so when person says well you
challenges so when person says well you
challenges so when person says well you know Alicia I’ve tried someone who
know Alicia I’ve tried someone who
know Alicia I’ve tried someone who doesn’t lost weight they’ll say I’ve
doesn’t lost weight they’ll say I’ve
doesn’t lost weight they’ll say I’ve tried come on will they say I tried
tried come on will they say I tried
tried come on will they say I tried everything bel if you tried
everything bel if you tried
everything bel if you tried everything you’d be fitting strong well
everything you’d be fitting strong well
everything you’d be fitting strong well I’ve tried thousands of ways thousands
I’ve tried thousands of ways thousands
I’ve tried thousands of ways thousands named them
named them
named them well tried hundreds name them wife tried
well tried hundreds name them wife tried
well tried hundreds name them wife tried dozens name them why did you these two
dozens name them why did you these two
dozens name them why did you these two stupid things that don’t work over and
stupid things that don’t work over and
stupid things that don’t work over and over again
over again
over again mine was I’m big-boned
mine was I’m big-boned
mine was I’m big-boned I am big-boned but I was thirty-eight
I am big-boned but I was thirty-eight
I am big-boned but I was thirty-eight pounds heavier with the same bones so we
pounds heavier with the same bones so we
pounds heavier with the same bones so we often say things that are true to back
often say things that are true to back
often say things that are true to back things up they are true you’re big-boned
things up they are true you’re big-boned
things up they are true you’re big-boned but that is not why you’re fat right so
but that is not why you’re fat right so
but that is not why you’re fat right so the story keeps us Irma if you know the
the story keeps us Irma if you know the
the story keeps us Irma if you know the relationship you want what’s the story
relationship you want what’s the story
relationship you want what’s the story all the good ones are gone and they’re
all the good ones are gone and they’re
all the good ones are gone and they’re gay and I’m not or they’re not getting I
gay and I’m not or they’re not getting I
gay and I’m not or they’re not getting I am the story the story is there back
am the story the story is there back
am the story the story is there back write this down the only thing keeping
write this down the only thing keeping
write this down the only thing keeping you from getting what you want the only
you from getting what you want the only
you from getting what you want the only thing keeping you from getting what you
thing keeping you from getting what you
thing keeping you from getting what you want is the story you keep telling
want is the story you keep telling
want is the story you keep telling yourself about why you don’t have it the
yourself about why you don’t have it the
yourself about why you don’t have it the only thing keeping you from getting what
only thing keeping you from getting what
only thing keeping you from getting what you really want is the story you keep
you really want is the story you keep
you really want is the story you keep telling yourself about why you don’t
telling yourself about why you don’t
telling yourself about why you don’t have it yet here’s what I said divorce
have it yet here’s what I said divorce
have it yet here’s what I said divorce your story and marry the truth divorce
your story and marry the truth divorce
your story and marry the truth divorce your story and marry the truth and don’t
your story and marry the truth and don’t
your story and marry the truth and don’t make it when those divorces where you
make it when those divorces where you
make it when those divorces where you leave visit with your old past belief
leave visit with your old past belief
leave visit with your old past belief system again divorce it cut it off and
system again divorce it cut it off and
system again divorce it cut it off and marry the truth the truth will set you
marry the truth the truth will set you
marry the truth the truth will set you what but you got to develop the
what but you got to develop the
what but you got to develop the empowering story without that now some
empowering story without that now some
empowering story without that now some of you think that empathic story is the
of you think that empathic story is the
of you think that empathic story is the one that allows you to be keep going at
one that allows you to be keep going at
one that allows you to be keep going at what doesn’t work I’m not talking about
what doesn’t work I’m not talking about
what doesn’t work I’m not talking about a story where you cover your ass and
a story where you cover your ass and
a story where you cover your ass and explain that you’re still going to
explain that you’re still going to
explain that you’re still going to achieve you want some day in the future
achieve you want some day in the future
achieve you want some day in the future because no one can argue with that
because no one can argue with that
because no one can argue with that because if you
because if you
because if you not here but really you’re not doing
not here but really you’re not doing
not here but really you’re not doing anything to change significant who knows
anything to change significant who knows
anything to change significant who knows what I’m talking about here say hi so
what I’m talking about here say hi so
what I’m talking about here say hi so you’ve got to find a story that’s going
you’ve got to find a story that’s going
you’ve got to find a story that’s going to empower you to act a story that’s
to empower you to act a story that’s
to empower you to act a story that’s going to get you to find the
going to get you to find the
going to get you to find the breakthrough because otherwise with a
breakthrough because otherwise with a
breakthrough because otherwise with a lousy story you’ll never find the
lousy story you’ll never find the
lousy story you’ll never find the strategy or you’ll come up with a reason
strategy or you’ll come up with a reason
strategy or you’ll come up with a reason why it’s too expensive you can’t get
why it’s too expensive you can’t get
why it’s too expensive you can’t get there you can’t access it or you’ll even
there you can’t access it or you’ll even
there you can’t access it or you’ll even get the strategy and then half-assed
get the strategy and then half-assed
get the strategy and then half-assed apply it just so you can reward your
apply it just so you can reward your
apply it just so you can reward your story that says it doesn’t work as I
story that says it doesn’t work as I
story that says it doesn’t work as I tried it if you want to know the
tried it if you want to know the
tried it if you want to know the difference in people’s lives it all
difference in people’s lives it all
difference in people’s lives it all comes down to what are the things that
comes down to what are the things that
comes down to what are the things that are must view versus shows so let me
are must view versus shows so let me
are must view versus shows so let me tell you this we said to have an
tell you this we said to have an
tell you this we said to have an extraordinary life you gotta have an
extraordinary life you gotta have an
extraordinary life you gotta have an extraordinary psychology right
extraordinary psychology right
extraordinary psychology right extraordinary psychology means you got
extraordinary psychology means you got
extraordinary psychology means you got to live in an extraordinary state to be
to live in an extraordinary state to be
to live in an extraordinary state to be an extraordinary state you got to
an extraordinary state you got to
an extraordinary state you got to condition your nervous system your body
condition your nervous system your body
condition your nervous system your body your physiology and focus to be at their
your physiology and focus to be at their
your physiology and focus to be at their best do you agree with this yes or no
best do you agree with this yes or no
best do you agree with this yes or no then to do that though you can do that
then to do that though you can do that
then to do that though you can do that why doesn’t everybody not cuz you can’t
why doesn’t everybody not cuz you can’t
why doesn’t everybody not cuz you can’t with all of the ability is because of
with all of the ability is because of
with all of the ability is because of our standing I remember a time early my
our standing I remember a time early my
our standing I remember a time early my career is about 24 I went to do a
career is about 24 I went to do a
career is about 24 I went to do a seminar in Boston and in those days a
seminar in Boston and in those days a
seminar in Boston and in those days a big seminar for me was like 125 people
big seminar for me was like 125 people
big seminar for me was like 125 people there was a three-day seminar and we
there was a three-day seminar and we
there was a three-day seminar and we worked around the clock and people made
worked around the clock and people made
worked around the clock and people made such extraordinary changes in their life
such extraordinary changes in their life
such extraordinary changes in their life at the end of it I was feeling so
at the end of it I was feeling so
at the end of it I was feeling so fulfilled I was thinking my god in 24
fulfilled I was thinking my god in 24
fulfilled I was thinking my god in 24 maybe 25 at the time I am so happy
maybe 25 at the time I am so happy
maybe 25 at the time I am so happy because I have
because I have
because I have now my mission in life I’m doing what I
now my mission in life I’m doing what I
now my mission in life I’m doing what I love it’s making a difference in
love it’s making a difference in
love it’s making a difference in people’s lives this is shortner so we
people’s lives this is shortner so we
people’s lives this is shortner so we finished about midnight on the Sunday
finished about midnight on the Sunday
finished about midnight on the Sunday night and around midnight you know I’m
night and around midnight you know I’m
night and around midnight you know I’m still wound up so I don’t feel like
still wound up so I don’t feel like
still wound up so I don’t feel like going to bed so I decided okay you know
going to bed so I decided okay you know
going to bed so I decided okay you know let me take a walk here and I decided go
let me take a walk here and I decided go
let me take a walk here and I decided go through Copley Square if you don’t do
through Copley Square if you don’t do
through Copley Square if you don’t do Copley Square you know it’s pretty neat
Copley Square you know it’s pretty neat
Copley Square you know it’s pretty neat but because in Copley Square you can
but because in Copley Square you can
but because in Copley Square you can look up when you see buildings that we
look up when you see buildings that we
look up when you see buildings that we were before we were known as the United
were before we were known as the United
were before we were known as the United States and beside them you see
States and beside them you see
States and beside them you see skyscrapers that are new it’s pretty
skyscrapers that are new it’s pretty
skyscrapers that are new it’s pretty cool place some walk around midnight on
cool place some walk around midnight on
cool place some walk around midnight on Sunday night there’s nobody in Copley
Sunday night there’s nobody in Copley
Sunday night there’s nobody in Copley Square midnight is every night and I’m
Square midnight is every night and I’m
Square midnight is every night and I’m walking along and I see this guy in the
walking along and I see this guy in the
walking along and I see this guy in the distance and he’s kind of stumbling back
distance and he’s kind of stumbling back
distance and he’s kind of stumbling back and forth between the butter and the
and forth between the butter and the
and forth between the butter and the sidewalk they go one trench coming on
sidewalk they go one trench coming on
sidewalk they go one trench coming on his heads down like that he’s all in the
his heads down like that he’s all in the
his heads down like that he’s all in the brown bag and I can start to smell and
brown bag and I can start to smell and
brown bag and I can start to smell and even for I get brown I’m thinking and
even for I get brown I’m thinking and
even for I get brown I’m thinking and this guy is obviously drunk and as I
this guy is obviously drunk and as I
this guy is obviously drunk and as I started get closer I thought I bet he’s
started get closer I thought I bet he’s
started get closer I thought I bet he’s going to beg me for some money sure
going to beg me for some money sure
going to beg me for some money sure enough whatever you focus our life tends
enough whatever you focus our life tends
enough whatever you focus our life tends to happen doesn’t it so sure enough he
to happen doesn’t it so sure enough he
to happen doesn’t it so sure enough he gets real close to me and I thought oh
gets real close to me and I thought oh
gets real close to me and I thought oh honey wasn’t gonna do it all so they pop
honey wasn’t gonna do it all so they pop
honey wasn’t gonna do it all so they pop his head it was really good mister it
his head it was really good mister it
his head it was really good mister it was really bizarre looking sounding
was really bizarre looking sounding
was really bizarre looking sounding voice mister did you mind me quieter hot
voice mister did you mind me quieter hot
voice mister did you mind me quieter hot do I want to reward this behavior and I
do I want to reward this behavior and I
do I want to reward this behavior and I thought I don’t want him to suffer you
thought I don’t want him to suffer you
thought I don’t want him to suffer you have this dilemma sometimes you know I’m
have this dilemma sometimes you know I’m
have this dilemma sometimes you know I’m not here to judge so usually when I
not here to judge so usually when I
not here to judge so usually when I finally decided I always just give even
finally decided I always just give even
finally decided I always just give even the person’s pulling a scam that’s for
the person’s pulling a scam that’s for
the person’s pulling a scam that’s for them to deal with if I have the ability
them to deal with if I have the ability
them to deal with if I have the ability than they give and so I thought what
than they give and so I thought what
than they give and so I thought what could I teach him something so I asked
could I teach him something so I asked
could I teach him something so I asked him a question back I said is that all
him a question back I said is that all
him a question back I said is that all you want is a quarter
you want is a quarter
you want is a quarter zigu yeah just one quarter one gorgeous
zigu yeah just one quarter one gorgeous
zigu yeah just one quarter one gorgeous man I said really so yeah uncle so I
man I said really so yeah uncle so I
man I said really so yeah uncle so I reached in my pocket and I pull out my
reached in my pocket and I pull out my
reached in my pocket and I pull out my money club and those things are you know
money club and those things are you know
money club and those things are you know are young just starting to succeed in my
are young just starting to succeed in my
are young just starting to succeed in my original mentor was a man named Jim Rohn
original mentor was a man named Jim Rohn
original mentor was a man named Jim Rohn and when I heard of Jim Rohn yeah it’s a
and when I heard of Jim Rohn yeah it’s a
and when I heard of Jim Rohn yeah it’s a great guy and Jim told me said Tony look
great guy and Jim told me said Tony look
great guy and Jim told me said Tony look you’ve come from a poor background you
you’ve come from a poor background you
you’ve come from a poor background you got a poor psychology you got to change
got a poor psychology you got to change
got a poor psychology you got to change it he said you know any money some
it he said you know any money some
it he said you know any money some pretend you do he said start training
pretend you do he said start training
pretend you do he said start training your brain conditioning
your brain conditioning
your brain conditioning he said go save all your money get three
he said go save all your money get three
he said go save all your money get three hundred dollar bills and put them in the
hundred dollar bills and put them in the
hundred dollar bills and put them in the outside of your money clip even though
outside of your money clip even though
outside of your money clip even though you only have five bucks in between them
you only have five bucks in between them
you only have five bucks in between them so every time you pull out you’ll see
so every time you pull out you’ll see
so every time you pull out you’ll see that you’ll feel inspired you’ll feel
that you’ll feel inspired you’ll feel
that you’ll feel inspired you’ll feel better he said you’ll feel better you’ll
better he said you’ll feel better you’ll
better he said you’ll feel better you’ll do better so I was like okay so I did so
do better so I was like okay so I did so
do better so I was like okay so I did so I put my money clip and sure enough I
I put my money clip and sure enough I
I put my money clip and sure enough I got 300 mils then I made sure he saw the
got 300 mils then I made sure he saw the
got 300 mils then I made sure he saw the bills so I’m tearing through that right
bills so I’m tearing through that right
bills so I’m tearing through that right looking in between there see if I can
looking in between there see if I can
looking in between there see if I can find some change but I made sure he saw
find some change but I made sure he saw
find some change but I made sure he saw sure enough he’s working at the how to
sure enough he’s working at the how to
sure enough he’s working at the how to dog built checking it out I find the
dog built checking it out I find the
dog built checking it out I find the quarter I pull it out taking money to it
quarter I pull it out taking money to it
quarter I pull it out taking money to it my pocket I notice he’s watching my hand
my pocket I notice he’s watching my hand
my pocket I notice he’s watching my hand going into the pocket I took the cord
going into the pocket I took the cord
going into the pocket I took the cord and I looked at him and I said sir
and I looked at him and I said sir
and I looked at him and I said sir life won’t pay any price you’re asking
then something really engineer took the
then something really engineer took the cord he looked at the corner he looked
cord he looked at the corner he looked
cord he looked at the corner he looked at me he looked in my pocket look back
at me he looked in my pocket look back
at me he looked in my pocket look back of the quarter looked at me looked in my
of the quarter looked at me looked in my
of the quarter looked at me looked in my pocket looked at me again hope to the
pocket looked at me again hope to the
pocket looked at me again hope to the coral into my pocket looked back at me
coral into my pocket looked back at me
coral into my pocket looked back at me and said weird and then shuffled on off
and said weird and then shuffled on off
and said weird and then shuffled on off like this and I thought to myself wow
like this and I thought to myself wow
like this and I thought to myself wow what’s the difference between him and me
what’s the difference between him and me
what’s the difference between him and me I mean I was twenty four twenty five two
I mean I was twenty four twenty five two
I mean I was twenty four twenty five two time
time
time do what I love most have a mission in
do what I love most have a mission in
do what I love most have a mission in life and he’s in his early 60s drunk on
life and he’s in his early 60s drunk on
life and he’s in his early 60s drunk on the street begging for quarters what’s
the street begging for quarters what’s
the street begging for quarters what’s this
this
this I thought well maybe God’s blessed me
I thought well maybe God’s blessed me
I thought well maybe God’s blessed me cuz I’m such a good person or not it’s
cuz I’m such a good person or not it’s
cuz I’m such a good person or not it’s he’s such a bad person that’s such a
he’s such a bad person that’s such a
he’s such a bad person that’s such a bull and I thought wow maybe the answer
bull and I thought wow maybe the answer
bull and I thought wow maybe the answer to that question is what I just told him
to that question is what I just told him
to that question is what I just told him life will pay whatever price you ask him
life will pay whatever price you ask him
life will pay whatever price you ask him you know what’s interesting he got to
you know what’s interesting he got to
you know what’s interesting he got to ask intelligently and the Bible it says
ask intelligently and the Bible it says
ask intelligently and the Bible it says asking you shall let pretty Deponia you
asking you shall let pretty Deponia you
asking you shall let pretty Deponia you got to look into it but you know what it
got to look into it but you know what it
got to look into it but you know what it says asking you shall receive but I’m
says asking you shall receive but I’m
says asking you shall receive but I’m sure it meant ask intelligently I’m sure
sure it meant ask intelligently I’m sure
sure it meant ask intelligently I’m sure that’s what God met I’m sure he didn’t
that’s what God met I’m sure he didn’t
that’s what God met I’m sure he didn’t mean bitch and you will receive warning
mean bitch and you will receive warning
mean bitch and you will receive warning and you will receive I don’t think that
and you will receive I don’t think that
and you will receive I don’t think that was the instruction now if you can ask
was the instruction now if you can ask
was the instruction now if you can ask intelligently there might be five items
intelligently there might be five items
intelligently there might be five items to that number one you have to ask
to that number one you have to ask
to that number one you have to ask specifically wouldn’t you we wouldn’t
specifically wouldn’t you we wouldn’t
specifically wouldn’t you we wouldn’t ask you know generally people do as
ask you know generally people do as
ask you know generally people do as telling me I want more money fine here’s
telling me I want more money fine here’s
telling me I want more money fine here’s a dollar get out of here very often
a dollar get out of here very often
a dollar get out of here very often you’re getting what you’re asking for
you’re getting what you’re asking for
you’re getting what you’re asking for you just not aware of how generally
you just not aware of how generally
you just not aware of how generally you’re asking clarity is power the more
you’re asking clarity is power the more
you’re asking clarity is power the more clear you are about exactly what it is
clear you are about exactly what it is
clear you are about exactly what it is you want the more your brain knows how
you want the more your brain knows how
you want the more your brain knows how to get there
to get there
to get there your brain is a servomechanism it’s like
your brain is a servomechanism it’s like
your brain is a servomechanism it’s like a bomb those banjos missiles they have a
a bomb those banjos missiles they have a
a bomb those banjos missiles they have a servomechanism so if the target moves it
servomechanism so if the target moves it
servomechanism so if the target moves it knows what the target is it follows it
knows what the target is it follows it
knows what the target is it follows it your brain when you condition it was
your brain when you condition it was
your brain when you condition it was exactly what to go for and we’ll find a
exactly what to go for and we’ll find a
exactly what to go for and we’ll find a way to get there
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