what if people actually knew that I had tons of flaws would they still accept me
tons of flaws would they still accept me
tons of flaws would they still accept me when they still love me would they still
when they still love me would they still
when they still love me would they still listen to me and be my friend so let me
listen to me and be my friend so let me
listen to me and be my friend so let me break it down for more men so they can
break it down for more men so they can
break it down for more men so they can understand what’s holding them back from
understand what’s holding them back from
understand what’s holding them back from their truest self and their greatest
their truest self and their greatest
their truest self and their greatest dreams when men in general don’t feel
dreams when men in general don’t feel
dreams when men in general don’t feel like they can communicate internal
like they can communicate internal
like they can communicate internal challenges arise and then it comes into
challenges arise and then it comes into
challenges arise and then it comes into physical and outward challenges as well
physical and outward challenges as well
physical and outward challenges as well and that’s when I started realized wow
and that’s when I started realized wow
and that’s when I started realized wow I’ve been wearing a mask throughout my
I’ve been wearing a mask throughout my
I’ve been wearing a mask throughout my entire life I’ve been wearing different
entire life I’ve been wearing different
entire life I’ve been wearing different types of masks we know when to use it
types of masks we know when to use it
types of masks we know when to use it when it can drive and fuel us to help us
when it can drive and fuel us to help us
when it can drive and fuel us to help us achieve our dreams and help create
achieve our dreams and help create
achieve our dreams and help create better relationships so if it fuels us
better relationships so if it fuels us
better relationships so if it fuels us into achieving our dreams and creating
into achieving our dreams and creating
into achieving our dreams and creating better relationships put it on as much
better relationships put it on as much
better relationships put it on as much as you want when should we take it off
as you want when should we take it off
as you want when should we take it off when it’s hurting yourself and it’s
when it’s hurting yourself and it’s
when it’s hurting yourself and it’s hurting other people if you’re wearing
hurting other people if you’re wearing
hurting other people if you’re wearing it and it’s not benefiting yourself and
it and it’s not benefiting yourself and
it and it’s not benefiting yourself and everyone else around you it’s time to
everyone else around you it’s time to
everyone else around you it’s time to take it off it’s time to be aware of a
take it off it’s time to be aware of a
take it off it’s time to be aware of a different mass to put on or complete
different mass to put on or complete
different mass to put on or complete take it off completely and be you’re
take it off completely and be you’re
take it off completely and be you’re vulnerable real self
vulnerable real self
vulnerable real self people are going to constantly judge us
people are going to constantly judge us
people are going to constantly judge us whether we go after big dreams or do
whether we go after big dreams or do
whether we go after big dreams or do nothing we’re gonna be judged either way
nothing we’re gonna be judged either way
nothing we’re gonna be judged either way if we sit on a couch all day our parents
if we sit on a couch all day our parents
if we sit on a couch all day our parents and our friends gonna be you’re lazy
and our friends gonna be you’re lazy
and our friends gonna be you’re lazy do something with your life if we go
do something with your life if we go
do something with your life if we go chase after the most audacious dreams we
chase after the most audacious dreams we
chase after the most audacious dreams we have a lot of people are gonna attack us
have a lot of people are gonna attack us
have a lot of people are gonna attack us and try to bring us down so we might as
and try to bring us down so we might as
and try to bring us down so we might as well go do something with our lives and
well go do something with our lives and
well go do something with our lives and say thank you for the feedback and move
say thank you for the feedback and move
say thank you for the feedback and move on some things will land other things
on some things will land other things
on some things will land other things will just bounce right off and it’s our
will just bounce right off and it’s our
will just bounce right off and it’s our duty and responsibility to be able to
duty and responsibility to be able to
duty and responsibility to be able to move forward and and be discerning of
move forward and and be discerning of
move forward and and be discerning of the information we receive have a close
the information we receive have a close
the information we receive have a close group of people that we really trust who
group of people that we really trust who
group of people that we really trust who can cipher some of the information and
can cipher some of the information and
can cipher some of the information and give the feedback that is worthy and
give the feedback that is worthy and
give the feedback that is worthy and then try to learn apologize move on
then try to learn apologize move on
then try to learn apologize move on that’s all we can do if you have an
that’s all we can do if you have an
that’s all we can do if you have an opinion and you just shout your opinion
opinion and you just shout your opinion
opinion and you just shout your opinion and say you’re wrong I’m right and this
and say you’re wrong I’m right and this
and say you’re wrong I’m right and this is the way it should be most people
is the way it should be most people
is the way it should be most people aren’t gonna listen to that unless those
aren’t gonna listen to that unless those
aren’t gonna listen to that unless those unless of us you’re speaking to the
unless of us you’re speaking to the
unless of us you’re speaking to the choir yes you’re gonna rally the troops
choir yes you’re gonna rally the troops
choir yes you’re gonna rally the troops who believe in that but if you want to
who believe in that but if you want to
who believe in that but if you want to make real change listen to everyone else
make real change listen to everyone else
make real change listen to everyone else who doesn’t believe in that the reason
who doesn’t believe in that the reason
who doesn’t believe in that the reason why you know I believe that Democrats
why you know I believe that Democrats
why you know I believe that Democrats didn’t win it’s because they weren’t
didn’t win it’s because they weren’t
didn’t win it’s because they weren’t willing to listen now I’m not saying
willing to listen now I’m not saying
willing to listen now I’m not saying there’s one party right or wrong or
there’s one party right or wrong or
there’s one party right or wrong or whatever like I’m not it’s not even
whatever like I’m not it’s not even
whatever like I’m not it’s not even about that for me it’s like just be open
about that for me it’s like just be open
about that for me it’s like just be open to listening to someone else was a
to listening to someone else was a
to listening to someone else was a completely different point of view and
completely different point of view and
completely different point of view and see where they’re coming from I believe
see where they’re coming from I believe
see where they’re coming from I believe the greatest leaders in the world know
the greatest leaders in the world know
the greatest leaders in the world know how to understand where any person is
how to understand where any person is
how to understand where any person is coming from and can connect and
coming from and can connect and
coming from and can connect and communicate on their level as opposed to
communicate on their level as opposed to
communicate on their level as opposed to expecting that person to connect and
expecting that person to connect and
expecting that person to connect and communicate on the leaders level and
communicate on the leaders level and
communicate on the leaders level and when they can connect to someone on any
when they can connect to someone on any
when they can connect to someone on any level that they’re at that’s when you
level that they’re at that’s when you
level that they’re at that’s when you can create change in my opinion that’s
can create change in my opinion that’s
can create change in my opinion that’s when you can come together that’s when
when you can come together that’s when
when you can come together that’s when you can have some meaningful
you can have some meaningful
you can have some meaningful conversation and see how you can work
conversation and see how you can work
conversation and see how you can work together as opposed to working apart and
together as opposed to working apart and
together as opposed to working apart and that’s where I think as as men and human
that’s where I think as as men and human
that’s where I think as as men and human beings in general it’s our mission to
beings in general it’s our mission to
beings in general it’s our mission to learn how to be an effective leader in
learn how to be an effective leader in
learn how to be an effective leader in life
life
life a leader with our families with our
a leader with our families with our
a leader with our families with our communities and with ourselves and if we
communities and with ourselves and if we
communities and with ourselves and if we don’t understand how to communicate
don’t understand how to communicate
don’t understand how to communicate properly and listen listen that is the
properly and listen listen that is the
properly and listen listen that is the key to creating real change creating
key to creating real change creating
key to creating real change creating impact getting people to take action
the definition of masculinity is living
the definition of masculinity is living in service being in service to others
in service being in service to others
in service being in service to others and to humanity
and to humanity
and to humanity we’ve been given so much just to be on
we’ve been given so much just to be on
we’ve been given so much just to be on this earth that’s the way I choose to
this earth that’s the way I choose to
this earth that’s the way I choose to look at life is I’ve been given so much
look at life is I’ve been given so much
look at life is I’ve been given so much even if I went through so many
even if I went through so many
even if I went through so many challenges I’ve been given a lot I feel
challenges I’ve been given a lot I feel
challenges I’ve been given a lot I feel like it’s my responsibility to leave a
like it’s my responsibility to leave a
like it’s my responsibility to leave a legacy by making humanity better and
legacy by making humanity better and
legacy by making humanity better and making the world better in any way that
making the world better in any way that
making the world better in any way that I possibly can because I was given so
I possibly can because I was given so
I possibly can because I was given so much by just entering the world and
much by just entering the world and
much by just entering the world and that’s the way I choose to look at it so
that’s the way I choose to look at it so
that’s the way I choose to look at it so a masculine man is someone who lives in
a masculine man is someone who lives in
a masculine man is someone who lives in service who comes from a place of
service who comes from a place of
service who comes from a place of win-win of we’re all in this together
win-win of we’re all in this together
win-win of we’re all in this together and someone who lifts others up around
and someone who lifts others up around
and someone who lifts others up around them and you need to have a group of
them and you need to have a group of
them and you need to have a group of boys who are educated we’re educated by
boys who are educated we’re educated by
boys who are educated we’re educated by in my opinion loving powerful women and
in my opinion loving powerful women and
in my opinion loving powerful women and I was so grateful that I had two older
I was so grateful that I had two older
I was so grateful that I had two older sisters and an amazing mother who
sisters and an amazing mother who
sisters and an amazing mother who constantly would like come back from
constantly would like come back from
constantly would like come back from these dates like my sisters would come
these dates like my sisters would come
these dates like my sisters would come back from dates and be like never do
back from dates and be like never do
back from dates and be like never do this Lewis you know they would like tell
this Lewis you know they would like tell
this Lewis you know they would like tell me like never do this and so I learned
me like never do this and so I learned
me like never do this and so I learned early on like oh you don’t treat women
early on like oh you don’t treat women
early on like oh you don’t treat women this way and there’s a certain way to be
this way and there’s a certain way to be
this way and there’s a certain way to be in the world and so I think I was
in the world and so I think I was
in the world and so I think I was blessed enough to have kind of that
blessed enough to have kind of that
blessed enough to have kind of that experience in that relationship with
experience in that relationship with
experience in that relationship with women early on that taught me how to
women early on that taught me how to
women early on that taught me how to treat just humans with respect not women
treat just humans with respect not women
treat just humans with respect not women in general but I mean human beings all
in general but I mean human beings all
in general but I mean human beings all humans and that’s what it is I think
humans and that’s what it is I think
humans and that’s what it is I think it’s first education and I think women
it’s first education and I think women
it’s first education and I think women are the most incredible humans in the
are the most incredible humans in the
are the most incredible humans in the world
world
world I feel like women are just more wired
I feel like women are just more wired
I feel like women are just more wired that way in general obviously a lot of
that way in general obviously a lot of
that way in general obviously a lot of men are as well but I feel like that
men are as well but I feel like that
men are as well but I feel like that love that support that softness that
love that support that softness that
love that support that softness that sweetness if the world had more of that
sweetness if the world had more of that
sweetness if the world had more of that support there would be so much less wars
support there would be so much less wars
support there would be so much less wars less fighting less conflict less arguing
less fighting less conflict less arguing
less fighting less conflict less arguing just with that way of being in general
just with that way of being in general
just with that way of being in general from you know just the love that women
from you know just the love that women
from you know just the love that women bring
bring
bring and I interviewed everyone and said what
and I interviewed everyone and said what
and I interviewed everyone and said what does it mean to be a man in your mind I
does it mean to be a man in your mind I
does it mean to be a man in your mind I just wanted to get opinions and feedback
just wanted to get opinions and feedback
just wanted to get opinions and feedback and hear people because my way is not
and hear people because my way is not
and hear people because my way is not the right wing’s
the right wing’s
the right wing’s and I just want to make it simple and
and I just want to make it simple and
and I just want to make it simple and easy for men to understand maybe why
easy for men to understand maybe why
easy for men to understand maybe why they’ve become who they are how it
they’ve become who they are how it
they’ve become who they are how it supported them how it doesn’t support
supported them how it doesn’t support
supported them how it doesn’t support them and then also there’s a section the
them and then also there’s a section the
them and then also there’s a section the end of every chapter for women on how
end of every chapter for women on how
end of every chapter for women on how they can understand the men in their
they can understand the men in their
they can understand the men in their lives a little bit better and how to get
lives a little bit better and how to get
lives a little bit better and how to get them the steps they can take to get the
them the steps they can take to get the
them the steps they can take to get the man to take the mask off without making
man to take the mask off without making
man to take the mask off without making them wrong which is the most important
them wrong which is the most important
them wrong which is the most important thing when a man feels like we’re wrong
thing when a man feels like we’re wrong
thing when a man feels like we’re wrong for who we are it doesn’t feel good so
for who we are it doesn’t feel good so
for who we are it doesn’t feel good so how can you come from a place of such
how can you come from a place of such
how can you come from a place of such understanding and love where they just
understanding and love where they just
understanding and love where they just like oh I don’t need this on anymore
like oh I don’t need this on anymore
like oh I don’t need this on anymore like you’re not gonna leave me you
like you’re not gonna leave me you
like you’re not gonna leave me you accept me you love me cool I don’t need
accept me you love me cool I don’t need
accept me you love me cool I don’t need it and that’s what it comes down to most
it and that’s what it comes down to most
it and that’s what it comes down to most people don’t feel like they’re gonna be
people don’t feel like they’re gonna be
people don’t feel like they’re gonna be accepted
if you’re a young entrepreneur who’s got
if you’re a young entrepreneur who’s got a startup idea a product idea you’re
a startup idea a product idea you’re
a startup idea a product idea you’re gonna be very driven to getting the
gonna be very driven to getting the
gonna be very driven to getting the press good accomplishments get hit
press good accomplishments get hit
press good accomplishments get hit certain marks hit certain financial
certain marks hit certain financial
certain marks hit certain financial goals so that you can you know live
goals so that you can you know live
goals so that you can you know live another month and pay your team and do
another month and pay your team and do
another month and pay your team and do those do these things so you’re gonna be
those do these things so you’re gonna be
those do these things so you’re gonna be driven pretty much at all costs to
driven pretty much at all costs to
driven pretty much at all costs to generate revenue to get attention to get
generate revenue to get attention to get
generate revenue to get attention to get your product out there maybe burning
your product out there maybe burning
your product out there maybe burning some relationships and trying to
some relationships and trying to
some relationships and trying to leverage too much that’s gonna help ask
leverage too much that’s gonna help ask
leverage too much that’s gonna help ask for too much promotion two things if
for too much promotion two things if
for too much promotion two things if it’s hurting relationships and it’s
it’s hurting relationships and it’s
it’s hurting relationships and it’s hurting your dream it’s time to take it
hurting your dream it’s time to take it
hurting your dream it’s time to take it off if it’s not for the betterment of
off if it’s not for the betterment of
off if it’s not for the betterment of all and it’s hurting your health I feel
all and it’s hurting your health I feel
all and it’s hurting your health I feel like it’s time to take it off when
like it’s time to take it off when
like it’s time to take it off when you’re wearing a mask you don’t want
you’re wearing a mask you don’t want
you’re wearing a mask you don’t want feedback you want to know that your
feedback you want to know that your
feedback you want to know that your rights but your way is the right way
rights but your way is the right way
rights but your way is the right way because it’s been working for you so
because it’s been working for you so
because it’s been working for you so asking someone hey how I show up for you
asking someone hey how I show up for you
asking someone hey how I show up for you you know if you can’t have an open
you know if you can’t have an open
you know if you can’t have an open conversation if you don’t feel good
conversation if you don’t feel good
conversation if you don’t feel good about that email someone and say hey I
about that email someone and say hey I
about that email someone and say hey I just want to get some feedback you know
just want to get some feedback you know
just want to get some feedback you know I’m not gonna get upset I want you to uh
I’m not gonna get upset I want you to uh
I’m not gonna get upset I want you to uh speak openly to me but could you write a
speak openly to me but could you write a
speak openly to me but could you write a list of like five things that I do
list of like five things that I do
list of like five things that I do really well five things that you feel
really well five things that you feel
really well five things that you feel like are holding me back and from our
like are holding me back and from our
like are holding me back and from our relationship from my relationship with
relationship from my relationship with
relationship from my relationship with other people and from my dreams start
other people and from my dreams start
other people and from my dreams start there you’re gonna get so much and say I
there you’re gonna get so much and say I
there you’re gonna get so much and say I want you to be completely honest again
want you to be completely honest again
want you to be completely honest again it’s just one person’s opinion but it’s
it’s just one person’s opinion but it’s
it’s just one person’s opinion but it’s their perception and perception is
their perception and perception is
their perception and perception is reality to that person it’s never going
reality to that person it’s never going
reality to that person it’s never going to be perfect but I like to scale things
to be perfect but I like to scale things
to be perfect but I like to scale things and just rate and evaluate give me
and just rate and evaluate give me
and just rate and evaluate give me feedback I welcome feedback how can I
feedback I welcome feedback how can I
feedback I welcome feedback how can I make it better how can I improve how can
make it better how can I improve how can
make it better how can I improve how can I grow because I don’t feel like if
I grow because I don’t feel like if
I grow because I don’t feel like if we’re just not getting feedback then we
we’re just not getting feedback then we
we’re just not getting feedback then we think we know it all we think we’re like
think we know it all we think we’re like
think we know it all we think we’re like already smart as we need to be and I
already smart as we need to be and I
already smart as we need to be and I know I’m never the smartest person in
know I’m never the smartest person in
know I’m never the smartest person in the room and I just welcome information
the room and I just welcome information
the room and I just welcome information and feedback some things land some
and feedback some things land some
and feedback some things land some things go right behind me but I’m
things go right behind me but I’m
things go right behind me but I’m constantly a demand for feedback in my
constantly a demand for feedback in my
constantly a demand for feedback in my life
life
life [Music]
[Music]
[Music] follow and pursue your dreams what’s the
follow and pursue your dreams what’s the
follow and pursue your dreams what’s the point of life if we don’t have a dream
point of life if we don’t have a dream
point of life if we don’t have a dream and if we’re not in pursuit I don’t care
and if we’re not in pursuit I don’t care
and if we’re not in pursuit I don’t care if I ever achieve my dream but I’ve got
if I ever achieve my dream but I’ve got
if I ever achieve my dream but I’ve got to be in that pursuit because that’s
to be in that pursuit because that’s
to be in that pursuit because that’s where I learn the most that’s where I
where I learn the most that’s where I
where I learn the most that’s where I have the most amazing times that’s where
have the most amazing times that’s where
have the most amazing times that’s where I explored and venture and travel and
I explored and venture and travel and
I explored and venture and travel and connect with people that I’d never meet
connect with people that I’d never meet
connect with people that I’d never meet because I’m following my dreams live in
because I’m following my dreams live in
because I’m following my dreams live in service and give back we entered this
service and give back we entered this
service and give back we entered this world for some reason most of us will
world for some reason most of us will
world for some reason most of us will never be able to fully understand what
never be able to fully understand what
never be able to fully understand what that reason is
that reason is
that reason is maybe we think we know but who knows if
maybe we think we know but who knows if
maybe we think we know but who knows if it’s the actual truth we’re here for a
it’s the actual truth we’re here for a
it’s the actual truth we’re here for a reason for us to it’s a big playground
reason for us to it’s a big playground
reason for us to it’s a big playground and if we don’t give back to the world
and if we don’t give back to the world
and if we don’t give back to the world and live a life of service to so many
and live a life of service to so many
and live a life of service to so many thousands of people who have supported
thousands of people who have supported
thousands of people who have supported us and getting to where we’re at before
us and getting to where we’re at before
us and getting to where we’re at before us then I feel like we’re doing a
us then I feel like we’re doing a
us then I feel like we’re doing a disservice to the world so follow your
disservice to the world so follow your
disservice to the world so follow your dreams master your health and live a
dreams master your health and live a
dreams master your health and live a life to service
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