by seeing people that literally have gone through hell and made it to the
gone through hell and made it to the
gone through hell and made it to the other side you get an opportunity now to
other side you get an opportunity now to
other side you get an opportunity now to say how do I apply this to my own life
say how do I apply this to my own life
say how do I apply this to my own life most of us think we have a problem in
most of us think we have a problem in
most of us think we have a problem in our life unless we have something that’s
our life unless we have something that’s
our life unless we have something that’s a bigger problem to contrast it with and
a bigger problem to contrast it with and
a bigger problem to contrast it with and when you see this story you walk through
when you see this story you walk through
when you see this story you walk through their exact life experience of the
their exact life experience of the
their exact life experience of the course of these two years the year that
course of these two years the year that
course of these two years the year that we work with them is 30 days but you see
we work with them is 30 days but you see
we work with them is 30 days but you see the course of what’s happened to them by
the course of what’s happened to them by
the course of what’s happened to them by finding out what’s happening a year
finding out what’s happening a year
finding out what’s happening a year later you begin to understand that it
later you begin to understand that it
later you begin to understand that it doesn’t matter what happens in your life
doesn’t matter what happens in your life
doesn’t matter what happens in your life you were more than any moment there’s no
you were more than any moment there’s no
you were more than any moment there’s no challenge you can’t face and overcome
challenge you can’t face and overcome
challenge you can’t face and overcome are the events of our lives don’t
are the events of our lives don’t
are the events of our lives don’t control our lives our decisions do and
control our lives our decisions do and
control our lives our decisions do and so I figured if we could take a couple
so I figured if we could take a couple
so I figured if we could take a couple that has faced this bigger challenge and
that has faced this bigger challenge and
that has faced this bigger challenge and be able to break through then you can
be able to break through then you can
be able to break through then you can look whatever’s in your life and make it
look whatever’s in your life and make it
look whatever’s in your life and make it happen it’s kind of like if if I wanted
happen it’s kind of like if if I wanted
happen it’s kind of like if if I wanted to show you that if you could face your
to show you that if you could face your
to show you that if you could face your biggest fear your smaller fears kind of
biggest fear your smaller fears kind of
biggest fear your smaller fears kind of drop aside it’s like what what’s your
drop aside it’s like what what’s your
drop aside it’s like what what’s your biggest fear today one of the biggest
biggest fear today one of the biggest
biggest fear today one of the biggest fears so many people in North America
fears so many people in North America
fears so many people in North America around the world the Western world are
around the world the Western world are
around the world the Western world are facing is losing their job it’s a
facing is losing their job it’s a
facing is losing their job it’s a horrific possibility it has impact on
horrific possibility it has impact on
horrific possibility it has impact on your family and your psychology or
your family and your psychology or
your family and your psychology or emotion so many things your choices but
emotion so many things your choices but
emotion so many things your choices but the truth of the matter is what’s a
the truth of the matter is what’s a
the truth of the matter is what’s a problem losing your job is a massive
problem losing your job is a massive
problem losing your job is a massive problem until you find yourself in a
problem until you find yourself in a
problem until you find yourself in a position where you lose all your savings
position where you lose all your savings
position where you lose all your savings what it took you maybe ten years of
what it took you maybe ten years of
what it took you maybe ten years of working to get then what’s the problem
working to get then what’s the problem
working to get then what’s the problem after losing your savings that’s not a
after losing your savings that’s not a
after losing your savings that’s not a problem anymore when all of a sudden you
problem anymore when all of a sudden you
problem anymore when all of a sudden you lose your leg or an arm or something
lose your leg or an arm or something
lose your leg or an arm or something horrific happens to one of your children
horrific happens to one of your children
horrific happens to one of your children that’s not a problem when someone tells
that’s not a problem when someone tells
that’s not a problem when someone tells you all of a sudden that you have
you all of a sudden that you have
you all of a sudden that you have terminal cancer I’ve had those moments
terminal cancer I’ve had those moments
terminal cancer I’ve had those moments if somebody says you’ve got that tumor
if somebody says you’ve got that tumor
if somebody says you’ve got that tumor in your brain and we don’t know what it
in your brain and we don’t know what it
in your brain and we don’t know what it means those moments take your other
means those moments take your other
means those moments take your other problems and make them disappear and you
problems and make them disappear and you
problems and make them disappear and you look interesting when you ask most
look interesting when you ask most
look interesting when you ask most people in North America what’s the
people in North America what’s the
people in North America what’s the greatest thing that could ever happen to
greatest thing that could ever happen to
greatest thing that could ever happen to you give them 10 seconds and dot over
you give them 10 seconds and dot over
you give them 10 seconds and dot over and over again first ten seconds what
and over again first ten seconds what
and over again first ten seconds what comes your mind what’s the best thing
comes your mind what’s the best thing
comes your mind what’s the best thing you’d ever happen in your life the
you’d ever happen in your life the
you’d ever happen in your life the majority of people North America say
majority of people North America say
majority of people North America say what can you guess winning the lottery
what can you guess winning the lottery
what can you guess winning the lottery and many of them say winning a hundred
and many of them say winning a hundred
and many of them say winning a hundred million dollar lottery two hundred
million dollar lottery two hundred
million dollar lottery two hundred million dollar lottery that
million dollar lottery that
million dollar lottery that is going to make their quality of life
is going to make their quality of life
is going to make their quality of life extraordinary but when you do the
extraordinary but when you do the
extraordinary but when you do the studies and they’ve been many done over
studies and they’ve been many done over
studies and they’ve been many done over the last fifteen or twenty years and
the last fifteen or twenty years and
the last fifteen or twenty years and people that win these giant lotteries
people that win these giant lotteries
people that win these giant lotteries what are their lives like two years
what are their lives like two years
what are their lives like two years later three years later five years later
later three years later five years later
later three years later five years later is the quality of their life
is the quality of their life
is the quality of their life extraordinary rarely if ever because
extraordinary rarely if ever because
extraordinary rarely if ever because what’s happened is they haven’t grown
what’s happened is they haven’t grown
what’s happened is they haven’t grown they haven’t life gives us these events
they haven’t life gives us these events
they haven’t life gives us these events these quote horrific events because
these quote horrific events because
these quote horrific events because there’s an area of a life that has to
there’s an area of a life that has to
there’s an area of a life that has to grow and you would ask me toning out of
grow and you would ask me toning out of
grow and you would ask me toning out of all the millions of people you’ve worked
all the millions of people you’ve worked
all the millions of people you’ve worked with if someone really wants to feel
with if someone really wants to feel
with if someone really wants to feel alive they want joy they want happiness
alive they want joy they want happiness
alive they want joy they want happiness they don’t just want money or things or
they don’t just want money or things or
they don’t just want money or things or just even respect they want to feel a
just even respect they want to feel a
just even respect they want to feel a sense that life is meaningful and alive
sense that life is meaningful and alive
sense that life is meaningful and alive what does it take I tell you one word
what does it take I tell you one word
what does it take I tell you one word progress when you’re making progress in
progress when you’re making progress in
progress when you’re making progress in your life it doesn’t matter where it is
your life it doesn’t matter where it is
your life it doesn’t matter where it is you’re going to feel more alive if
you’re going to feel more alive if
you’re going to feel more alive if you’re overweight will you get yourself
you’re overweight will you get yourself
you’re overweight will you get yourself today you say you know what I’m stepping
today you say you know what I’m stepping
today you say you know what I’m stepping into gear I’m just putting these darn
into gear I’m just putting these darn
into gear I’m just putting these darn shoes on I’m not waiting for the perfect
shoes on I’m not waiting for the perfect
shoes on I’m not waiting for the perfect you know person to come by and coach me
you know person to come by and coach me
you know person to come by and coach me I’ll get that too but right now I’m just
I’ll get that too but right now I’m just
I’ll get that too but right now I’m just going for a walk
going for a walk
going for a walk or I’m gonna go for a jog or I’m gonna
or I’m gonna go for a jog or I’m gonna
or I’m gonna go for a jog or I’m gonna go lift some weights I’m gonna do
go lift some weights I’m gonna do
go lift some weights I’m gonna do something right now and you get yourself
something right now and you get yourself
something right now and you get yourself into gear and you do that for a few days
into gear and you do that for a few days
into gear and you do that for a few days in a row even if you haven’t lost the
in a row even if you haven’t lost the
in a row even if you haven’t lost the ten twenty or thirty pounds yet you’re
ten twenty or thirty pounds yet you’re
ten twenty or thirty pounds yet you’re going to start feeling better
going to start feeling better
going to start feeling better immediately because you have the power
immediately because you have the power
immediately because you have the power of momentum and you’re making progress
of momentum and you’re making progress
of momentum and you’re making progress progress equals growth growth equals
progress equals growth growth equals
progress equals growth growth equals feeling alive we grow or we die so
feeling alive we grow or we die so
feeling alive we grow or we die so what’s the worst thing that could ever
what’s the worst thing that could ever
what’s the worst thing that could ever happen in your life same survey asked
happen in your life same survey asked
happen in your life same survey asked the people in North America ten seconds
the people in North America ten seconds
the people in North America ten seconds come up with the answer number one
come up with the answer number one
come up with the answer number one answer to become a quadriplegic that’s
answer to become a quadriplegic that’s
answer to become a quadriplegic that’s why I made the show because the idea
why I made the show because the idea
why I made the show because the idea that I could be in a position where I’d
that I could be in a position where I’d
that I could be in a position where I’d be alive but I couldn’t physically feed
be alive but I couldn’t physically feed
be alive but I couldn’t physically feed myself take care of myself that I’d be
myself take care of myself that I’d be
myself take care of myself that I’d be completely immobilized for most people
completely immobilized for most people
completely immobilized for most people that’s the scariest thought of all to
that’s the scariest thought of all to
that’s the scariest thought of all to them that’s the worst possible fear so
them that’s the worst possible fear so
them that’s the worst possible fear so by going through this journey with Frank
by going through this journey with Frank
by going through this journey with Frank and Kristin and experiencing their
and Kristin and experiencing their
and Kristin and experiencing their emotions and seeing and feeling that in
emotions and seeing and feeling that in
emotions and seeing and feeling that in 30 days they could go from trapped in
30 days they could go from trapped in
30 days they could go from trapped in their home where there is no possibility
their home where there is no possibility
their home where there is no possibility of a future no idea of intimacy no idea
of a future no idea of intimacy no idea
of a future no idea of intimacy no idea of children two world travelers who are
of children two world travelers who are
of children two world travelers who are doing things they weren’t doing before
doing things they weren’t doing before
doing things they weren’t doing before when he was quote supposedly able-bodied
when he was quote supposedly able-bodied
when he was quote supposedly able-bodied happier and stronger and closer in their
happier and stronger and closer in their
happier and stronger and closer in their love than ever before and you know it’s
love than ever before and you know it’s
love than ever before and you know it’s real and you see the results a year
real and you see the results a year
real and you see the results a year later as we do the
later as we do the
later as we do the Lipson you haven’t seen the follow-ups
Lipson you haven’t seen the follow-ups
Lipson you haven’t seen the follow-ups be sure to see that here about the story
be sure to see that here about the story
be sure to see that here about the story what’s happening with them when you get
what’s happening with them when you get
what’s happening with them when you get that experience affects you because it
that experience affects you because it
that experience affects you because it isn’t somebody verbally telling you a
isn’t somebody verbally telling you a
isn’t somebody verbally telling you a story it’s something you kind of went
story it’s something you kind of went
story it’s something you kind of went through so the idea here is I’m sure you
through so the idea here is I’m sure you
through so the idea here is I’m sure you have some other fears outside the one
have some other fears outside the one
have some other fears outside the one that we just came up with whatever
that we just came up with whatever
that we just came up with whatever you’re afraid of the job the loss of
you’re afraid of the job the loss of
you’re afraid of the job the loss of relationship trust me it’s small if
relationship trust me it’s small if
relationship trust me it’s small if you’ll face a bigger fear that little
you’ll face a bigger fear that little
you’ll face a bigger fear that little fear will start to be handled pretty
fear will start to be handled pretty
fear will start to be handled pretty easily that’s why when all of us go
easily that’s why when all of us go
easily that’s why when all of us go through in our lives extreme stress
through in our lives extreme stress
through in our lives extreme stress we’re all going to go through it you’re
we’re all going to go through it you’re
we’re all going to go through it you’re gonna have a home burned down or
gonna have a home burned down or
gonna have a home burned down or something’s going to happen if somebody
something’s going to happen if somebody
something’s going to happen if somebody you love or someone’s going to pass
you love or someone’s going to pass
you love or someone’s going to pass before you’re prepared for it which is
before you’re prepared for it which is
before you’re prepared for it which is almost always or you’re going to find
almost always or you’re going to find
almost always or you’re going to find yourself in a financial situation that
yourself in a financial situation that
yourself in a financial situation that feels like you can’t turn it around or
feels like you can’t turn it around or
feels like you can’t turn it around or you might feel like personal character
you might feel like personal character
you might feel like personal character assassination or maybe you get mugged or
assassination or maybe you get mugged or
assassination or maybe you get mugged or maybe you get a terminal disease we all
maybe you get a terminal disease we all
maybe you get a terminal disease we all will face multiple times in our life
will face multiple times in our life
will face multiple times in our life extreme stress the difference in
extreme stress the difference in
extreme stress the difference in people’s lives is not what we face it’s
people’s lives is not what we face it’s
people’s lives is not what we face it’s what we do with what we face you can
what we do with what we face you can
what we do with what we face you can take yourself from a place where in the
take yourself from a place where in the
take yourself from a place where in the face of absolute total tragedy you
face of absolute total tragedy you
face of absolute total tragedy you triumph but it requires making some new
triumph but it requires making some new
triumph but it requires making some new decisions taking some new actions and
decisions taking some new actions and
decisions taking some new actions and mastering a part of yourself that can
mastering a part of yourself that can
mastering a part of yourself that can unleash all of your power and abilities
unleash all of your power and abilities
unleash all of your power and abilities human being that human spirit as corny
human being that human spirit as corny
human being that human spirit as corny as it sounds can be channeled with a
as it sounds can be channeled with a
as it sounds can be channeled with a very specific way and if you do the game
very specific way and if you do the game
very specific way and if you do the game of life changes so I’ll give you another
of life changes so I’ll give you another
of life changes so I’ll give you another example outside Frank and Kristen a
example outside Frank and Kristen a
example outside Frank and Kristen a friend of mine who just passed recently
friend of mine who just passed recently
friend of mine who just passed recently he’s always been a deep inspiration man
he’s always been a deep inspiration man
he’s always been a deep inspiration man his name is art bird and art the guy
his name is art bird and art the guy
his name is art bird and art the guy that was a young man good-looking strong
that was a young man good-looking strong
that was a young man good-looking strong athletic he lived in Utah and he fell in
athletic he lived in Utah and he fell in
athletic he lived in Utah and he fell in love with his absolute sweetheart she
love with his absolute sweetheart she
love with his absolute sweetheart she was you know the most popular girl the
was you know the most popular girl the
was you know the most popular girl the most attractive girl she met all the
most attractive girl she met all the
most attractive girl she met all the criteria the college boy and his buddy
criteria the college boy and his buddy
criteria the college boy and his buddy here driving across the state to go to
here driving across the state to go to
here driving across the state to go to where he’s going to get married and he
where he’s going to get married and he
where he’s going to get married and he falls asleep in the backseat while his
falls asleep in the backseat while his
falls asleep in the backseat while his best friend is driving and his best
best friend is driving and his best
best friend is driving and his best friend falls asleep in the middle of the
friend falls asleep in the middle of the
friend falls asleep in the middle of the night as they’re driving my friend art
night as they’re driving my friend art
night as they’re driving my friend art Berg woke up rather intensely on the
Berg woke up rather intensely on the
Berg woke up rather intensely on the desert floor the car upside down his
desert floor the car upside down his
desert floor the car upside down his legs trapped beneath it and unable to
legs trapped beneath it and unable to
legs trapped beneath it and unable to feel anything
feel anything
feel anything he became a quadriplegic in an instant
he became a quadriplegic in an instant
he became a quadriplegic in an instant his friend actually was beat up but
his friend actually was beat up but
his friend actually was beat up but actually survived
actually survived
actually survived now what do you do in a situation like
now what do you do in a situation like
now what do you do in a situation like that well the first thing most people do
that well the first thing most people do
that well the first thing most people do is they want to curse God or they want
is they want to curse God or they want
is they want to curse God or they want to curse their friend it’s not their
to curse their friend it’s not their
to curse their friend it’s not their fault most of what happens in our lives
fault most of what happens in our lives
fault most of what happens in our lives is not our fault but what we do with it
is not our fault but what we do with it
is not our fault but what we do with it is going to determine the quality of our
is going to determine the quality of our
is going to determine the quality of our lives sometimes it is our fault let’s be
lives sometimes it is our fault let’s be
lives sometimes it is our fault let’s be honest lots of times and thence happen
honest lots of times and thence happen
honest lots of times and thence happen stuff happens or whatever word you want
stuff happens or whatever word you want
stuff happens or whatever word you want to play stuff with you know what I’m
to play stuff with you know what I’m
to play stuff with you know what I’m talking about what was different about
talking about what was different about
talking about what was different about this man if he made a different set of
this man if he made a different set of
this man if he made a different set of decisions on that day he said to himself
decisions on that day he said to himself
decisions on that day he said to himself you know what I got two choices
you know what I got two choices
you know what I got two choices I could live here in the dirt and live
I could live here in the dirt and live
I could live here in the dirt and live and suffer the rest of my life when I’ve
and suffer the rest of my life when I’ve
and suffer the rest of my life when I’ve lost so I can figure out and maximize
lost so I can figure out and maximize
lost so I can figure out and maximize what I have he developed this mindset
what I have he developed this mindset
what I have he developed this mindset his mindset was before the accident
his mindset was before the accident
his mindset was before the accident there were about probably 10,000 things
there were about probably 10,000 things
there were about probably 10,000 things I could do after the accident he said I
I could do after the accident he said I
I could do after the accident he said I could probably do 9,000 things before
could probably do 9,000 things before
could probably do 9,000 things before the accident I was probably not even
the accident I was probably not even
the accident I was probably not even doing 500 of those things I’m going to
doing 500 of those things I’m going to
doing 500 of those things I’m going to be more while I am now and he did he
be more while I am now and he did he
be more while I am now and he did he became an entrepreneur on his own book
became an entrepreneur on his own book
became an entrepreneur on his own book store and became very successful he
store and became very successful he
store and became very successful he married the same childhood sweetheart
married the same childhood sweetheart
married the same childhood sweetheart because this man was so inspiration will
because this man was so inspiration will
because this man was so inspiration will be around he didn’t matter what he was
be around he didn’t matter what he was
be around he didn’t matter what he was in a chair she loved him he had two
in a chair she loved him he had two
in a chair she loved him he had two children one of the greatest gifts of
children one of the greatest gifts of
children one of the greatest gifts of life and he did all kinds of crazy
life and he did all kinds of crazy
life and he did all kinds of crazy things he’d scuba dive his friends would
things he’d scuba dive his friends would
things he’d scuba dive his friends would put him in a soup pie said awaits to me
put him in a soup pie said awaits to me
put him in a soup pie said awaits to me flopped to the bottom they dragged him
flopped to the bottom they dragged him
flopped to the bottom they dragged him along the bottom that was his idea of
along the bottom that was his idea of
along the bottom that was his idea of scuba diving he was incredible human
scuba diving he was incredible human
scuba diving he was incredible human being and he lived an incredibly full
being and he lived an incredibly full
being and he lived an incredibly full life filled with joy the worst thing
life filled with joy the worst thing
life filled with joy the worst thing ever happened to you being quadriplegic
ever happened to you being quadriplegic
ever happened to you being quadriplegic the best thing win a lottery I feel like
the best thing win a lottery I feel like
the best thing win a lottery I feel like everybody wants something from you and
everybody wants something from you and
everybody wants something from you and you didn’t earn it and there’s no sense
you didn’t earn it and there’s no sense
you didn’t earn it and there’s no sense of joy and everything’s about trying to
of joy and everything’s about trying to
of joy and everything’s about trying to hang on to what you got what is the best
hang on to what you got what is the best
hang on to what you got what is the best thing to happen to you what is the worst
thing to happen to you what is the worst
thing to happen to you what is the worst the worst is not to take control of the
the worst is not to take control of the
the worst is not to take control of the force that controls your life and that
force that controls your life and that
force that controls your life and that force is human emotion now what you
force is human emotion now what you
force is human emotion now what you think about this and answer a question
think about this and answer a question
think about this and answer a question for me if you would what really changed
for me if you would what really changed
for me if you would what really changed Frank and Christina’s quality of life
Frank and Christina’s quality of life
Frank and Christina’s quality of life what changed them you can see the change
what changed them you can see the change
what changed them you can see the change you can see it even more a year later
you can see it even more a year later
you can see it even more a year later that it’s continued to happen what made
that it’s continued to happen what made
that it’s continued to happen what made the change possible did you get it did
the change possible did you get it did
the change possible did you get it did you see it
you see it
you see it the answer is simple we change the
the answer is simple we change the
the answer is simple we change the emotional pattern that was controlling
emotional pattern that was controlling
emotional pattern that was controlling their life and you and I have emotional
their life and you and I have emotional
their life and you and I have emotional patterns that are controlling us right
patterns that are controlling us right
patterns that are controlling us right now whether well aware of it consciously
now whether well aware of it consciously
now whether well aware of it consciously or not doesn’t matter it’s the force
or not doesn’t matter it’s the force
or not doesn’t matter it’s the force that is shaping you it’s shaping your
that is shaping you it’s shaping your
that is shaping you it’s shaping your relationship that’s shaping your finance
relationship that’s shaping your finance
relationship that’s shaping your finance it’s shaping your career it’s shaping
it’s shaping your career it’s shaping
it’s shaping your career it’s shaping the amount of joy or unhappiness or
the amount of joy or unhappiness or
the amount of joy or unhappiness or suffering or excitement you have right
suffering or excitement you have right
suffering or excitement you have right now in this moment but it’s an invisible
now in this moment but it’s an invisible
now in this moment but it’s an invisible force most of us never take a look at
force most of us never take a look at
force most of us never take a look at you might want to take a look at it
you might want to take a look at it
you might want to take a look at it right now through the eyes of what we
right now through the eyes of what we
right now through the eyes of what we did was Frank and Kristin now what was
did was Frank and Kristin now what was
did was Frank and Kristin now what was the emotional pattern that was
the emotional pattern that was
the emotional pattern that was dominating them at the beginning of the
dominating them at the beginning of the
dominating them at the beginning of the show he could feel it couldn’t you and
show he could feel it couldn’t you and
show he could feel it couldn’t you and there was this feeling of death that
there was this feeling of death that
there was this feeling of death that there was no future
there was no future
there was no future probably the most common belief system
probably the most common belief system
probably the most common belief system in people in North America now in Europe
in people in North America now in Europe
in people in North America now in Europe 60% of Americans now believed that the
60% of Americans now believed that the
60% of Americans now believed that the future is going to be worse than the
future is going to be worse than the
future is going to be worse than the past for themselves and for their kids
past for themselves and for their kids
past for themselves and for their kids 70 percent of Germans and Europeans I
70 percent of Germans and Europeans I
70 percent of Germans and Europeans I think it’s 80% according to Pew study
think it’s 80% according to Pew study
think it’s 80% according to Pew study recently in France around the world
recently in France around the world
recently in France around the world we’re starting to believe that
we’re starting to believe that
we’re starting to believe that circumstances control who we are don’t
circumstances control who we are don’t
circumstances control who we are don’t get me wrong circumstances play a huge
get me wrong circumstances play a huge
get me wrong circumstances play a huge impact and then play a huge impact on
impact and then play a huge impact on
impact and then play a huge impact on your life but they’re not the ultimate
your life but they’re not the ultimate
your life but they’re not the ultimate determining factor the force of human
determining factor the force of human
determining factor the force of human spirit or emotion is it with the right
spirit or emotion is it with the right
spirit or emotion is it with the right emotion you can unleash things you could
emotion you can unleash things you could
emotion you can unleash things you could never dream up I know you know this is
never dream up I know you know this is
never dream up I know you know this is true
true
true so take a look let’s analyze where do
so take a look let’s analyze where do
so take a look let’s analyze where do these two live after the accident well
these two live after the accident well
these two live after the accident well where would you live if you were Kristen
where would you live if you were Kristen
where would you live if you were Kristen I mean you’ve lost your future
I mean you’ve lost your future
I mean you’ve lost your future supposedly there’s no intimacy there’s
supposedly there’s no intimacy there’s
supposedly there’s no intimacy there’s no chance of children you become the
no chance of children you become the
no chance of children you become the full-time nurse to your husband who you
full-time nurse to your husband who you
full-time nurse to your husband who you love but now you’re changing his
love but now you’re changing his
love but now you’re changing his catheter every few hours you’re afraid
catheter every few hours you’re afraid
catheter every few hours you’re afraid to leave the house because you’re afraid
to leave the house because you’re afraid
to leave the house because you’re afraid what if he falls over he may stop
what if he falls over he may stop
what if he falls over he may stop breathing I mean there’s no life so she
breathing I mean there’s no life so she
breathing I mean there’s no life so she goes from the emotions of feeling
goes from the emotions of feeling
goes from the emotions of feeling depressed to the life she’s lost to
depressed to the life she’s lost to
depressed to the life she’s lost to feeling angry I call it a crazy eight we
feeling angry I call it a crazy eight we
feeling angry I call it a crazy eight we get tired of feeling sad and then we’ll
get tired of feeling sad and then we’ll
get tired of feeling sad and then we’ll get angry for a while and then we beat
get angry for a while and then we beat
get angry for a while and then we beat ourselves up for being angry at
ourselves up for being angry at
ourselves up for being angry at ourselves or God or a partner and then
ourselves or God or a partner and then
ourselves or God or a partner and then we get all depressed again it’s a common
we get all depressed again it’s a common
we get all depressed again it’s a common pattern you don’t have to have something
pattern you don’t have to have something
pattern you don’t have to have something like their event happen in your life to
like their event happen in your life to
like their event happen in your life to get stuck in a crazy a but interestingly
get stuck in a crazy a but interestingly
get stuck in a crazy a but interestingly enough she’s living in that place and
enough she’s living in that place and
enough she’s living in that place and now what what’s Frank doing Frank wants
now what what’s Frank doing Frank wants
now what what’s Frank doing Frank wants to help his wife but he’s got a
to help his wife but he’s got a
to help his wife but he’s got a limitation we got a breakthrough you’ve
limitation we got a breakthrough you’ve
limitation we got a breakthrough you’ve got a belief all breakthrough start with
got a belief all breakthrough start with
got a belief all breakthrough start with a change in your beliefs because once
a change in your beliefs because once
a change in your beliefs because once you believe how something is that means
you believe how something is that means
you believe how something is that means you’re certain that’s how it is if
you’re certain that’s how it is if
you’re certain that’s how it is if you’re certainly can’t change you’re
you’re certainly can’t change you’re
you’re certainly can’t change you’re right it can’t I can’t convince you no
right it can’t I can’t convince you no
right it can’t I can’t convince you no one else can convince you and Frank’s
one else can convince you and Frank’s
one else can convince you and Frank’s thinking I’m helpless and
thinking I’m helpless and
thinking I’m helpless and for my wife and he’s living with the
for my wife and he’s living with the
for my wife and he’s living with the emotions of guilt and sadness and
emotions of guilt and sadness and
emotions of guilt and sadness and depression and he’s tired that he gets
depression and he’s tired that he gets
depression and he’s tired that he gets completely overwhelmed because he says
completely overwhelmed because he says
completely overwhelmed because he says if I just would have not jumped in or if
if I just would have not jumped in or if
if I just would have not jumped in or if I would have jumped in a different spot
I would have jumped in a different spot
I would have jumped in a different spot or a million of the things that they
or a million of the things that they
or a million of the things that they were different then I wouldn’t have
were different then I wouldn’t have
were different then I wouldn’t have destroyed my wife’s life instead of
destroyed my wife’s life instead of
destroyed my wife’s life instead of saying my wife needs me right now and I
saying my wife needs me right now and I
saying my wife needs me right now and I don’t give a damn if I’m strapped
don’t give a damn if I’m strapped
don’t give a damn if I’m strapped physically in this chair my soul my
physically in this chair my soul my
physically in this chair my soul my spirit is going to reach her that’s my
spirit is going to reach her that’s my
spirit is going to reach her that’s my assignment to get him to remember that
assignment to get him to remember that
assignment to get him to remember that power to not again and remember it but
power to not again and remember it but
power to not again and remember it but to get him to use it and shift his wife
to get him to use it and shift his wife
to get him to use it and shift his wife and that’s what we did do this process
and that’s what we did do this process
and that’s what we did do this process how well the process really was giving
how well the process really was giving
how well the process really was giving him a series of experiences that would
him a series of experiences that would
him a series of experiences that would change his entire belief about who he is
change his entire belief about who he is
change his entire belief about who he is I could try to tell him oh here’s what
I could try to tell him oh here’s what
I could try to tell him oh here’s what you can do and yeah I’m six foot seven
you can do and yeah I’m six foot seven
you can do and yeah I’m six foot seven and I obviously have use of all my
and I obviously have use of all my
and I obviously have use of all my appendages easy for me right but if I
appendages easy for me right but if I
appendages easy for me right but if I get him to have some experiences like I
get him to have some experiences like I
get him to have some experiences like I bring him to Fiji and I show me and get
bring him to Fiji and I show me and get
bring him to Fiji and I show me and get out of the house morning of the house
out of the house morning of the house
out of the house morning of the house become a world traveler and go through
become a world traveler and go through
become a world traveler and go through all the challenges that are part of that
all the challenges that are part of that
all the challenges that are part of that that if you watch our little section and
that if you watch our little section and
that if you watch our little section and the story behind the story you’ll hear
the story behind the story you’ll hear
the story behind the story you’ll hear some things that weren’t in the show
some things that weren’t in the show
some things that weren’t in the show about that by the way but again the
about that by the way but again the
about that by the way but again the travel to Fiji and the first thing I got
travel to Fiji and the first thing I got
travel to Fiji and the first thing I got to do with him is I got to get him to
to do with him is I got to get him to
to do with him is I got to get him to experience not know intellectually but
experience not know intellectually but
experience not know intellectually but experience he can make a difference for
experience he can make a difference for
experience he can make a difference for his wife he is not helpless
his wife he is not helpless
his wife he is not helpless she needs him and he can transform he
she needs him and he can transform he
she needs him and he can transform he can take her from crying sad out of
can take her from crying sad out of
can take her from crying sad out of control angry – laughing and giggling
control angry – laughing and giggling
control angry – laughing and giggling and feeling love that fast it’s a
and feeling love that fast it’s a
and feeling love that fast it’s a beautiful moment the Shelf you watched
beautiful moment the Shelf you watched
beautiful moment the Shelf you watched and all it is is something called
and all it is is something called
and all it is is something called presence something if you’re not clear
presence something if you’re not clear
presence something if you’re not clear about do some homework follow up with us
about do some homework follow up with us
about do some homework follow up with us or someone else figure out how to create
or someone else figure out how to create
or someone else figure out how to create that because that’s what changes
that because that’s what changes
that because that’s what changes relationships presents it works and
relationships presents it works and
relationships presents it works and these pranks starts to understand not
these pranks starts to understand not
these pranks starts to understand not verbally but by his own experience hey
verbally but by his own experience hey
verbally but by his own experience hey you know I don’t have to live in that
you know I don’t have to live in that
you know I don’t have to live in that sadness or that feeling of being
sadness or that feeling of being
sadness or that feeling of being unworthy or that feeling of being
unworthy or that feeling of being
unworthy or that feeling of being overwhelmed
overwhelmed
overwhelmed I can I can matter I can matter to her I
I can I can matter I can matter to her I
I can I can matter I can matter to her I don’t have to be the person she just
don’t have to be the person she just
don’t have to be the person she just takes care of there was a huge shift in
takes care of there was a huge shift in
takes care of there was a huge shift in the experience and I’m giving you
the experience and I’m giving you
the experience and I’m giving you Frank’s example because it relates to
Frank’s example because it relates to
Frank’s example because it relates to yours maybe you have different emotions
yours maybe you have different emotions
yours maybe you have different emotions but then we all get the points where we
but then we all get the points where we
but then we all get the points where we feel like we don’t matter we can’t
feel like we don’t matter we can’t
feel like we don’t matter we can’t change something we’re stuck and it’s
change something we’re stuck and it’s
change something we’re stuck and it’s our belief great way to break that
our belief great way to break that
our belief great way to break that belief get yourself another experience
belief get yourself another experience
belief get yourself another experience that’s what I do with people in seminars
that’s what I do with people in seminars
that’s what I do with people in seminars it’s what they do in any coaching
it’s what they do in any coaching
it’s what they do in any coaching process change it what do we do after
process change it what do we do after
process change it what do we do after that they take them through the
that they take them through the
that they take them through the experience of facing as fears and we get
experience of facing as fears and we get
experience of facing as fears and we get them
them
them do the skydive together with his lady
do the skydive together with his lady
do the skydive together with his lady and he feels total freedom for the first
and he feels total freedom for the first
and he feels total freedom for the first time since the accident you get freedom
time since the accident you get freedom
time since the accident you get freedom when you face your fear not just face it
when you face your fear not just face it
when you face your fear not just face it but you push through it I get a
but you push through it I get a
but you push through it I get a separation from his lady for 10 days get
separation from his lady for 10 days get
separation from his lady for 10 days get him to be in a room with Olympic
him to be in a room with Olympic
him to be in a room with Olympic athletes who couldn’t move across the
athletes who couldn’t move across the
athletes who couldn’t move across the room he couldn’t move cross through but
room he couldn’t move cross through but
room he couldn’t move cross through but now they’re incredible he feels like
now they’re incredible he feels like
now they’re incredible he feels like he’s not enough and he has to push
he’s not enough and he has to push
he’s not enough and he has to push through them show him how to get back
through them show him how to get back
through them show him how to get back his dream drive his truck
his dream drive his truck
his dream drive his truck give him that thing and drive 100 miles
give him that thing and drive 100 miles
give him that thing and drive 100 miles an hour even though are you got as your
an hour even though are you got as your
an hour even though are you got as your elbows to drive the darn thing and I’m
elbows to drive the darn thing and I’m
elbows to drive the darn thing and I’m on the other seat pretty cool thing so
on the other seat pretty cool thing so
on the other seat pretty cool thing so it was a stacking of these experiences
it was a stacking of these experiences
it was a stacking of these experiences that got Frank to own himself in a new
that got Frank to own himself in a new
that got Frank to own himself in a new way to build a new identity a new set of
way to build a new identity a new set of
way to build a new identity a new set of emotional patterns so here are the steps
emotional patterns so here are the steps
emotional patterns so here are the steps and this is what you want to do what I
and this is what you want to do what I
and this is what you want to do what I do with him I get four things that’s all
do with him I get four things that’s all
do with him I get four things that’s all I really did at its core number one for
I really did at its core number one for
I really did at its core number one for both of them for Frank and Kristen to
both of them for Frank and Kristen to
both of them for Frank and Kristen to transform I identified where do they
transform I identified where do they
transform I identified where do they live emotionally that’s what you got to
live emotionally that’s what you got to
live emotionally that’s what you got to do where do they live emotionally well
do where do they live emotionally well
do where do they live emotionally well we just decided to subscribe where they
we just decided to subscribe where they
we just decided to subscribe where they live depression anger and one said
live depression anger and one said
live depression anger and one said feeling guilty feeling overwhelmed
feeling guilty feeling overwhelmed
feeling guilty feeling overwhelmed feeling sad on the other there’s no way
feeling sad on the other there’s no way
feeling sad on the other there’s no way they can change their life with that is
they can change their life with that is
they can change their life with that is the emotional fuel to get you to take
the emotional fuel to get you to take
the emotional fuel to get you to take action you’re not going to take action
action you’re not going to take action
action you’re not going to take action there’s not enough intensity to get you
there’s not enough intensity to get you
there’s not enough intensity to get you to get through the obstacles of the
to get through the obstacles of the
to get through the obstacles of the tragedies or the challenges once you see
tragedies or the challenges once you see
tragedies or the challenges once you see what the pattern is you tell yourself
what the pattern is you tell yourself
what the pattern is you tell yourself the truth this is where I’m living
the truth this is where I’m living
the truth this is where I’m living step 2 I did Williams has identified
step 2 I did Williams has identified
step 2 I did Williams has identified what’s the antidote so if fear is what’s
what’s the antidote so if fear is what’s
what’s the antidote so if fear is what’s controlling things right now we need an
controlling things right now we need an
controlling things right now we need an antidote called courage now hers doesn’t
antidote called courage now hers doesn’t
antidote called courage now hers doesn’t mean that you’re not scared courage just
mean that you’re not scared courage just
mean that you’re not scared courage just simply means that you’re scared of death
simply means that you’re scared of death
simply means that you’re scared of death but you do it anyway
but you do it anyway
but you do it anyway it’s an emotional muscle and it doesn’t
it’s an emotional muscle and it doesn’t
it’s an emotional muscle and it doesn’t feel good you just exercise it that’s
feel good you just exercise it that’s
feel good you just exercise it that’s what courage is I mean everybody you
what courage is I mean everybody you
what courage is I mean everybody you know has different emotional patterns
know has different emotional patterns
know has different emotional patterns and it may be hard to see it yourself
and it may be hard to see it yourself
and it may be hard to see it yourself but I bet you know and other people I
but I bet you know and other people I
but I bet you know and other people I mean come on don’t you know somebody who
mean come on don’t you know somebody who
mean come on don’t you know somebody who lives every day and they’re angry all
lives every day and they’re angry all
lives every day and they’re angry all the time what a pissed off or they’re
the time what a pissed off or they’re
the time what a pissed off or they’re frustrated or they’re worried all the
frustrated or they’re worried all the
frustrated or they’re worried all the time I mean haven’t you met people
time I mean haven’t you met people
time I mean haven’t you met people different times who don’t you know
different times who don’t you know
different times who don’t you know somebody that’s always kind of playful
somebody that’s always kind of playful
somebody that’s always kind of playful or crazy or cracking jokes better yet do
or crazy or cracking jokes better yet do
or crazy or cracking jokes better yet do you know somebody who’s not really funny
you know somebody who’s not really funny
you know somebody who’s not really funny but they think they are
but they think they are
but they think they are and there’s betel stupid joke and
and there’s betel stupid joke and
and there’s betel stupid joke and everything else it’s not even funny but
everything else it’s not even funny but
everything else it’s not even funny but they cracked himself up so much that you
they cracked himself up so much that you
they cracked himself up so much that you find yourself cracking up right I mean
find yourself cracking up right I mean
find yourself cracking up right I mean people have patterns the question is
people have patterns the question is
people have patterns the question is what’s yours see you can identify the
what’s yours see you can identify the
what’s yours see you can identify the patterns and other people you can start
patterns and other people you can start
patterns and other people you can start to see them in yourself as well and you
to see them in yourself as well and you
to see them in yourself as well and you know what we all do we all find a way to
know what we all do we all find a way to
know what we all do we all find a way to try to get what I call home home is I
try to get what I call home home is I
try to get what I call home home is I noticed after 9/11 I’m with two thousand
noticed after 9/11 I’m with two thousand
noticed after 9/11 I’m with two thousand plus people from I think was 45
plus people from I think was 45
plus people from I think was 45 countries that was in Hawaii the
countries that was in Hawaii the
countries that was in Hawaii the accidents happened the tragedy happened
accidents happened the tragedy happened
accidents happened the tragedy happened you know the attacks happened and we got
you know the attacks happened and we got
you know the attacks happened and we got the information at 3 o’clock in the
the information at 3 o’clock in the
the information at 3 o’clock in the morning in Hawaii and we had you know
morning in Hawaii and we had you know
morning in Hawaii and we had you know 100 plus people 200 people that were
100 plus people 200 people that were
100 plus people 200 people that were from New York many of which you know
from New York many of which you know
from New York many of which you know work can have offices and friends in the
work can have offices and friends in the
work can have offices and friends in the towers and all the friends died or the
towers and all the friends died or the
towers and all the friends died or the whole company disappeared I had to bring
whole company disappeared I had to bring
whole company disappeared I had to bring these people in from all these countries
these people in from all these countries
these people in from all these countries with different religions different
with different religions different
with different religions different backgrounds different belief systems
backgrounds different belief systems
backgrounds different belief systems some people were celebrating other
some people were celebrating other
some people were celebrating other people are crying and saying was the end
people are crying and saying was the end
people are crying and saying was the end times it was unbelievable I noticed all
times it was unbelievable I noticed all
times it was unbelievable I noticed all this emotion around me and the biggest
this emotion around me and the biggest
this emotion around me and the biggest thing to put them all together as I had
thing to put them all together as I had
thing to put them all together as I had to say what what’s really going on here
to say what what’s really going on here
to say what what’s really going on here and I noticed angry people got angry sad
and I noticed angry people got angry sad
and I noticed angry people got angry sad people got that yogi people a nurse she
people got that yogi people a nurse she
people got that yogi people a nurse she was guilty too I think they’re helping
was guilty too I think they’re helping
was guilty too I think they’re helping people but she’s always guilty the angry
people but she’s always guilty the angry
people but she’s always guilty the angry lady is always angry we all have a home
lady is always angry we all have a home
lady is always angry we all have a home maybe people didn’t live in the United
maybe people didn’t live in the United
maybe people didn’t live in the United States didn’t know anyone in New York
States didn’t know anyone in New York
States didn’t know anyone in New York City and they were yet angry guilty or
City and they were yet angry guilty or
City and they were yet angry guilty or sad why they weren’t angry guilty or sad
sad why they weren’t angry guilty or sad
sad why they weren’t angry guilty or sad about the 3,000 people a day that died
about the 3,000 people a day that died
about the 3,000 people a day that died of cancer and heart disease they’re all
of cancer and heart disease they’re all
of cancer and heart disease they’re all mothers fathers children I pointed out
mothers fathers children I pointed out
mothers fathers children I pointed out that day you can’t be convenient with
that day you can’t be convenient with
that day you can’t be convenient with your compassion and yet most of us are
your compassion and yet most of us are
your compassion and yet most of us are we run aware that we use events as a
we run aware that we use events as a
we run aware that we use events as a trigger to get home back to the patterns
trigger to get home back to the patterns
trigger to get home back to the patterns we know even if it’s uncomfortable so if
we know even if it’s uncomfortable so if
we know even if it’s uncomfortable so if you identify where you live emotionally
you identify where you live emotionally
you identify where you live emotionally the patterns are limiting you the second
the patterns are limiting you the second
the patterns are limiting you the second piece is find the antidote courage can
piece is find the antidote courage can
piece is find the antidote courage can replace fear if you’re feeling this
replace fear if you’re feeling this
replace fear if you’re feeling this unbelievable feeling of overwhelm you
unbelievable feeling of overwhelm you
unbelievable feeling of overwhelm you need love or support and not just go get
need love or support and not just go get
need love or support and not just go get it go give it see finding that antidote
it go give it see finding that antidote
it go give it see finding that antidote starts to change the game and then after
starts to change the game and then after
starts to change the game and then after you identify it you find the antidote
you identify it you find the antidote
you identify it you find the antidote number three is you got to practice that
number three is you got to practice that
number three is you got to practice that emotion I know that sounds weird I’ll
emotion I know that sounds weird I’ll
emotion I know that sounds weird I’ll explain what I mean in the moment but
explain what I mean in the moment but
explain what I mean in the moment but you got to do bout emotion enough
you got to do bout emotion enough
you got to do bout emotion enough consciously that you can go
consciously that you can go
consciously that you can go frustrated or depressed too determined
frustrated or depressed too determined
frustrated or depressed too determined and you know how to shift that gear and
and you know how to shift that gear and
and you know how to shift that gear and it’s not big it’s not some pump up it’s
it’s not big it’s not some pump up it’s
it’s not big it’s not some pump up it’s real and it changes your life when you
real and it changes your life when you
real and it changes your life when you can do that like that and it’s a
can do that like that and it’s a
can do that like that and it’s a biochemical change it’s not some I’m
biochemical change it’s not some I’m
biochemical change it’s not some I’m happy I’m happy I’m happy
happy I’m happy I’m happy
happy I’m happy I’m happy positive thinking BS if not what I teach
positive thinking BS if not what I teach
positive thinking BS if not what I teach I’m not here to tell you go to your
I’m not here to tell you go to your
I’m not here to tell you go to your garden and chant there’s no weeds I’m
garden and chant there’s no weeds I’m
garden and chant there’s no weeds I’m going to say there’s a weed go pull it
going to say there’s a weed go pull it
going to say there’s a weed go pull it out but you’re not going to pull it out
out but you’re not going to pull it out
out but you’re not going to pull it out without determination without passion
without determination without passion
without determination without passion without commitment am I making sense so
without commitment am I making sense so
without commitment am I making sense so if you know the pattern if you find the
if you know the pattern if you find the
if you know the pattern if you find the antidote if you practice it enough and
antidote if you practice it enough and
antidote if you practice it enough and then the final step you condition it you
then the final step you condition it you
then the final step you condition it you practice enough that you can just
practice enough that you can just
practice enough that you can just automatically go into it that’s when
automatically go into it that’s when
automatically go into it that’s when your life changes so what are you going
your life changes so what are you going
your life changes so what are you going to do is your assignment for this week
to do is your assignment for this week
to do is your assignment for this week to take this little 10 minute
to take this little 10 minute
to take this little 10 minute you know rant I’m giving you and convert
you know rant I’m giving you and convert
you know rant I’m giving you and convert it into a massive measurable increase in
it into a massive measurable increase in
it into a massive measurable increase in the quality of your life I can’t do that
the quality of your life I can’t do that
the quality of your life I can’t do that for you can do it for yourself if you do
for you can do it for yourself if you do
for you can do it for yourself if you do what I tell you here’s what you’re going
what I tell you here’s what you’re going
what I tell you here’s what you’re going to do step one and those of you on the
to do step one and those of you on the
to do step one and those of you on the web as well step one you gotta identify
web as well step one you gotta identify
web as well step one you gotta identify where you live so where do you live
where you live so where do you live
where you live so where do you live where do you live emotionally you
where do you live emotionally you
where do you live emotionally you personally just like we did with Frank
personally just like we did with Frank
personally just like we did with Frank and Kristin there are thousands of
and Kristin there are thousands of
and Kristin there are thousands of emotions there’s 4,000 words in the
emotions there’s 4,000 words in the
emotions there’s 4,000 words in the human in the English language I should
human in the English language I should
human in the English language I should say four different individual emotions
say four different individual emotions
say four different individual emotions the research on it years ago I’m having
the research on it years ago I’m having
the research on it years ago I’m having you take out a piece of paper pen take
you take out a piece of paper pen take
you take out a piece of paper pen take out your you know your notebook computer
out your you know your notebook computer
out your you know your notebook computer get a page on one side one column like
get a page on one side one column like
get a page on one side one column like all the emotions that you experience at
all the emotions that you experience at
all the emotions that you experience at least once a week that empower you in
least once a week that empower you in
least once a week that empower you in some way
some way
some way Wow passion excitement creativity
Wow passion excitement creativity
Wow passion excitement creativity whatever it is peace determinate I don’t
whatever it is peace determinate I don’t
whatever it is peace determinate I don’t know what are yours I want you to write
know what are yours I want you to write
know what are yours I want you to write the emotions though you don’t experience
the emotions though you don’t experience
the emotions though you don’t experience once in a while the ones you experience
once in a while the ones you experience
once in a while the ones you experience at least once a week a powerful way and
at least once a week a powerful way and
at least once a week a powerful way and really feel it not in the motion you
really feel it not in the motion you
really feel it not in the motion you feel once every blue moon on the other
feel once every blue moon on the other
feel once every blue moon on the other side of that page or if you do it on our
side of that page or if you do it on our
side of that page or if you do it on our little application or wherever we put it
little application or wherever we put it
little application or wherever we put it here the other side I want to write all
here the other side I want to write all
here the other side I want to write all the negative emotions or to be more fair
the negative emotions or to be more fair
the negative emotions or to be more fair all emotions can be positive you use
all emotions can be positive you use
all emotions can be positive you use them all the disempowering emotions the
them all the disempowering emotions the
them all the disempowering emotions the ones that tend to put your state we
ones that tend to put your state we
ones that tend to put your state we don’t follow through and I want you on
don’t follow through and I want you on
don’t follow through and I want you on that side to write all of them and do it
that side to write all of them and do it
that side to write all of them and do it simultaneously just keep making your
simultaneously just keep making your
simultaneously just keep making your list what are the emotions I go into
list what are the emotions I go into
list what are the emotions I go into that messed me up like feeling
that messed me up like feeling
that messed me up like feeling frustrated or overwhelmed or lost or
frustrated or overwhelmed or lost or
frustrated or overwhelmed or lost or alone or do
alone or do
alone or do or pissed off and rageful whatever it is
or pissed off and rageful whatever it is
or pissed off and rageful whatever it is you go and again not emotions you
you go and again not emotions you
you go and again not emotions you experienced once in a while the ones you
experienced once in a while the ones you
experienced once in a while the ones you experience at least once a week so make
experience at least once a week so make
experience at least once a week so make a list of all the emotions experienced
a list of all the emotions experienced
a list of all the emotions experienced at least once a week once a depower you
at least once a week once a depower you
at least once a week once a depower you once disempower you on the list that’s
once disempower you on the list that’s
once disempower you on the list that’s step one
step one
step one that’s identifying where you live and
that’s identifying where you live and
that’s identifying where you live and circle the top two out of the whole list
circle the top two out of the whole list
circle the top two out of the whole list that you experience most often that are
that you experience most often that are
that you experience most often that are empowering and the top two experience
empowering and the top two experience
empowering and the top two experience most often that are just in time
most often that are just in time
most often that are just in time that’ll be step one have you I’m trying
that’ll be step one have you I’m trying
that’ll be step one have you I’m trying to explain it to you here it’ll be right
to explain it to you here it’ll be right
to explain it to you here it’ll be right in front of you as well so if you forget
in front of you as well so if you forget
in front of you as well so if you forget what I’m saying it’s going to be a
what I’m saying it’s going to be a
what I’m saying it’s going to be a little checklist I want you know what I
little checklist I want you know what I
little checklist I want you know what I mean step two let’s identify the
mean step two let’s identify the
mean step two let’s identify the solution so you look at your list and
solution so you look at your list and
solution so you look at your list and you see on the disappearing list
you see on the disappearing list
you see on the disappearing list I got sadness and depression I got
I got sadness and depression I got
I got sadness and depression I got feeling lonely or I’ve got filling rage
feeling lonely or I’ve got filling rage
feeling lonely or I’ve got filling rage and anger or I got feeling fear what
and anger or I got feeling fear what
and anger or I got feeling fear what emotional state would you like to feel
emotional state would you like to feel
emotional state would you like to feel in that situation that we change your
in that situation that we change your
in that situation that we change your life it would sphere maybe it’s courage
life it would sphere maybe it’s courage
life it would sphere maybe it’s courage again courage doesn’t mean it’s easy
again courage doesn’t mean it’s easy
again courage doesn’t mean it’s easy doesn’t mean you feel you know confident
doesn’t mean you feel you know confident
doesn’t mean you feel you know confident just mean you’re going to do it anyway
just mean you’re going to do it anyway
just mean you’re going to do it anyway maybe it’s determination maybe instead
maybe it’s determination maybe instead
maybe it’s determination maybe instead of feeling alone you feel loving and you
of feeling alone you feel loving and you
of feeling alone you feel loving and you go give to somebody else what’s the
go give to somebody else what’s the
go give to somebody else what’s the antidote
antidote
antidote what’s an emotional pattern that if you
what’s an emotional pattern that if you
what’s an emotional pattern that if you live that would change the game is it
live that would change the game is it
live that would change the game is it faith is it passion is it courage is it
faith is it passion is it courage is it
faith is it passion is it courage is it playfulness you’re taking things just
playfulness you’re taking things just
playfulness you’re taking things just too damn seriously
too damn seriously
too damn seriously you’ve forgotten perspective go watch
you’ve forgotten perspective go watch
you’ve forgotten perspective go watch the show again see if you really have a
the show again see if you really have a
the show again see if you really have a problem see if your problem is or is
problem see if your problem is or is
problem see if your problem is or is challenging as the people you just saw
challenging as the people you just saw
challenging as the people you just saw ants form their tragedy and it’s
ants form their tragedy and it’s
ants form their tragedy and it’s something tremendous something beautiful
something tremendous something beautiful
something tremendous something beautiful something magnificent something
something magnificent something
something magnificent something meaningful something that can even help
meaningful something that can even help
meaningful something that can even help other people that are watching that’s
other people that are watching that’s
other people that are watching that’s the beauty so that’s the second step
the beauty so that’s the second step
the beauty so that’s the second step what’s the antidote come up with your
what’s the antidote come up with your
what’s the antidote come up with your antidote emotion step three is you got
antidote emotion step three is you got
antidote emotion step three is you got to practice that emotion I know that
to practice that emotion I know that
to practice that emotion I know that sounds silly stupid kind of weird but if
sounds silly stupid kind of weird but if
sounds silly stupid kind of weird but if you came to a seminar with me you’d see
you came to a seminar with me you’d see
you came to a seminar with me you’d see you know three thousand ten thousand
you know three thousand ten thousand
you know three thousand ten thousand people we do this and we condition that
people we do this and we condition that
people we do this and we condition that a new emotion till you can shift gears
a new emotion till you can shift gears
a new emotion till you can shift gears have you ever heard about the firewalk
have you ever heard about the firewalk
have you ever heard about the firewalk it’s not about the firewalk I do
it’s not about the firewalk I do
it’s not about the firewalk I do skydiving all kinds of crazy stuff
skydiving all kinds of crazy stuff
skydiving all kinds of crazy stuff it’s a metaphor for how do I go from
it’s a metaphor for how do I go from
it’s a metaphor for how do I go from afraid fires metaphor for whatever you
afraid fires metaphor for whatever you
afraid fires metaphor for whatever you don’t follow through in on your life
don’t follow through in on your life
don’t follow through in on your life whatever holds you back – snapping going
whatever holds you back – snapping going
whatever holds you back – snapping going to state of mind where I just moved
to state of mind where I just moved
to state of mind where I just moved through it’s not this big
through it’s not this big
through it’s not this big a matter thing it’s mind over emotion
a matter thing it’s mind over emotion
a matter thing it’s mind over emotion it’s shifting when you learn how to go
it’s shifting when you learn how to go
it’s shifting when you learn how to go from scare to determine an action what
from scare to determine an action what
from scare to determine an action what can’t you do in your life so we show you
can’t you do in your life so we show you
can’t you do in your life so we show you how to do that but for right now I’ll
how to do that but for right now I’ll
how to do that but for right now I’ll give you just a quick example understand
give you just a quick example understand
give you just a quick example understand that emotion is really created by motion
that emotion is really created by motion
that emotion is really created by motion by the way you use your body so quick
by the way you use your body so quick
by the way you use your body so quick exam real quick imagine a time when you
exam real quick imagine a time when you
exam real quick imagine a time when you know someone who’s depressed or you were
know someone who’s depressed or you were
know someone who’s depressed or you were depressed you ever felt that way I’m
depressed you ever felt that way I’m
depressed you ever felt that way I’m sure you have at some time and think
sure you have at some time and think
sure you have at some time and think about what you do with your body when
about what you do with your body when
about what you do with your body when somebody’s depressed they get all
somebody’s depressed they get all
somebody’s depressed they get all excited talk faster just know everything
excited talk faster just know everything
excited talk faster just know everything kind of slows down doesn’t what happens
kind of slows down doesn’t what happens
kind of slows down doesn’t what happens your shoulders they drop where’s your
your shoulders they drop where’s your
your shoulders they drop where’s your head when you’re depressed drops you’re
head when you’re depressed drops you’re
head when you’re depressed drops you’re breathing full or shallow you know
breathing full or shallow you know
breathing full or shallow you know becomes shallow you talk loud and fast
becomes shallow you talk loud and fast
becomes shallow you talk loud and fast or slow and quiet slow and quiet more
or slow and quiet slow and quiet more
or slow and quiet slow and quiet more hesitant now emotion is created by
hesitant now emotion is created by
hesitant now emotion is created by emotion we can try and think yourself
emotion we can try and think yourself
emotion we can try and think yourself and I’m happy I’m happy but if you go
and I’m happy I’m happy but if you go
and I’m happy I’m happy but if you go I’m happy I’m happy in your bodies like
I’m happy I’m happy in your bodies like
I’m happy I’m happy in your bodies like this nothing’s going to change we can
this nothing’s going to change we can
this nothing’s going to change we can change our biochemistry by eating by
change our biochemistry by eating by
change our biochemistry by eating by taking a drug like smoking a cigarette
taking a drug like smoking a cigarette
taking a drug like smoking a cigarette because you take a different breath you
because you take a different breath you
because you take a different breath you eat food you like you fill up your tummy
eat food you like you fill up your tummy
eat food you like you fill up your tummy and you start to breathe nice your whole
and you start to breathe nice your whole
and you start to breathe nice your whole mental emotional state changes doesn’t
mental emotional state changes doesn’t
mental emotional state changes doesn’t so what I’m saying is you don’t need the
so what I’m saying is you don’t need the
so what I’m saying is you don’t need the cigarette you’d only actually need the
cigarette you’d only actually need the
cigarette you’d only actually need the food you can just physically learn to
food you can just physically learn to
food you can just physically learn to say this is what I do when I’m depressed
say this is what I do when I’m depressed
say this is what I do when I’m depressed this is what I do on a most determine
this is what I do on a most determine
this is what I do on a most determine it’s her sister’s gesture I made I
it’s her sister’s gesture I made I
it’s her sister’s gesture I made I remember one time when I was a kid at
remember one time when I was a kid at
remember one time when I was a kid at one time I got pissed off and I just
one time I got pissed off and I just
one time I got pissed off and I just what do they do I’ve made a gesture I
what do they do I’ve made a gesture I
what do they do I’ve made a gesture I stood taller I look the person in the
stood taller I look the person in the
stood taller I look the person in the eye
eye
eye I spoke with more authority now my dia
I spoke with more authority now my dia
I spoke with more authority now my dia passion determination I’d be a little
passion determination I’d be a little
passion determination I’d be a little too tough for you and I get it I’m a
too tough for you and I get it I’m a
too tough for you and I get it I’m a crazy mofo and I am a passionate being
crazy mofo and I am a passionate being
crazy mofo and I am a passionate being but you can do your version what do you
but you can do your version what do you
but you can do your version what do you do when you’re really feeling something
do when you’re really feeling something
do when you’re really feeling something like determined what do you do when you
like determined what do you do when you
like determined what do you do when you are passionate with your face with your
are passionate with your face with your
are passionate with your face with your voice with your body just practice it
voice with your body just practice it
voice with your body just practice it make a contrast here’s what I do when
make a contrast here’s what I do when
make a contrast here’s what I do when I’m sad here’s what I do when I feel
I’m sad here’s what I do when I feel
I’m sad here’s what I do when I feel loved here’s what I do when I’m worried
loved here’s what I do when I’m worried
loved here’s what I do when I’m worried here’s what I do when I’m determined
here’s what I do when I’m determined
here’s what I do when I’m determined that’s what I mean by practice and I’d
that’s what I mean by practice and I’d
that’s what I mean by practice and I’d love to have you in a vent but I’m
love to have you in a vent but I’m
love to have you in a vent but I’m trying to give this to you so you can do
trying to give this to you so you can do
trying to give this to you so you can do it right now and you can and it may be
it right now and you can and it may be
it right now and you can and it may be this to be helpful to do with friends so
this to be helpful to do with friends so
this to be helpful to do with friends so they can give you feedback and say
they can give you feedback and say
they can give you feedback and say here’s what you do I see you do this
here’s what you do I see you do this
here’s what you do I see you do this when you’re really strong is he do that
when you’re really strong is he do that
when you’re really strong is he do that when you’re
when you’re
when you’re kind of week that’s the third step
kind of week that’s the third step
kind of week that’s the third step practice now what’s the assignment
practice now what’s the assignment
practice now what’s the assignment figure out your motions where do you let
figure out your motions where do you let
figure out your motions where do you let positive negative what are the big
positive negative what are the big
positive negative what are the big primary one antidotes what emotions do
primary one antidotes what emotions do
primary one antidotes what emotions do you need practice the emotions you need
you need practice the emotions you need
you need practice the emotions you need so you can go into them a few times
so you can go into them a few times
so you can go into them a few times sound a little weird but if you do it
sound a little weird but if you do it
sound a little weird but if you do it you’ll see it’s actually quite fun feels
you’ll see it’s actually quite fun feels
you’ll see it’s actually quite fun feels powerful maybe do it with a friend
powerful maybe do it with a friend
powerful maybe do it with a friend that’s the easy way to do it and
that’s the easy way to do it and
that’s the easy way to do it and condition it that means take the next
condition it that means take the next
condition it that means take the next three days do this three times figure
three days do this three times figure
three days do this three times figure out the difference and shift from not
out the difference and shift from not
out the difference and shift from not sure worry to determine from overwhelmed
sure worry to determine from overwhelmed
sure worry to determine from overwhelmed I don’t know what to do to focused and
I don’t know what to do to focused and
I don’t know what to do to focused and you just deliberately physically make
you just deliberately physically make
you just deliberately physically make the change from one to the other three
the change from one to the other three
the change from one to the other three times for three days if you’re bold do
times for three days if you’re bold do
times for three days if you’re bold do it for seven but if you do this three or
it for seven but if you do this three or
it for seven but if you do this three or four times a day for three to seven days
four times a day for three to seven days
four times a day for three to seven days let’s start to get a pattern in your
let’s start to get a pattern in your
let’s start to get a pattern in your body and the pattern and your body a new
body and the pattern and your body a new
body and the pattern and your body a new pattern is the new life
pattern is the new life
pattern is the new life our lives are reflection of our
our lives are reflection of our
our lives are reflection of our emotional patterns if you live in
emotional patterns if you live in
emotional patterns if you live in sadness and depression you could have a
sadness and depression you could have a
sadness and depression you could have a billion dollars in your life is called
billion dollars in your life is called
billion dollars in your life is called sad a depressed if you’re living feeling
sad a depressed if you’re living feeling
sad a depressed if you’re living feeling grateful feeling alive feeling
grateful feeling alive feeling
grateful feeling alive feeling passionate your life is filled with
passionate your life is filled with
passionate your life is filled with gratitude and passion doesn’t matter
gratitude and passion doesn’t matter
gratitude and passion doesn’t matter what’s happening anywhere else and you
what’s happening anywhere else and you
what’s happening anywhere else and you can face any challenge from those
can face any challenge from those
can face any challenge from those emotions and you can overcome this make
emotions and you can overcome this make
emotions and you can overcome this make sense this is how you can take what you
sense this is how you can take what you
sense this is how you can take what you watch in that show and convert it into
watch in that show and convert it into
watch in that show and convert it into some actions that will change you very
some actions that will change you very
some actions that will change you very simple approach work come see me or get
simple approach work come see me or get
simple approach work come see me or get some coaching I’ve got all kinds of
some coaching I’ve got all kinds of
some coaching I’ve got all kinds of resources but this is something you can
resources but this is something you can
resources but this is something you can do right now you don’t need anybody else
do right now you don’t need anybody else
do right now you don’t need anybody else to make happen you just need a little
to make happen you just need a little
to make happen you just need a little ability to take action make sense and if
ability to take action make sense and if
ability to take action make sense and if you haven’t seen the show for godsakes
you haven’t seen the show for godsakes
you haven’t seen the show for godsakes go on Hulu and watch the show or all
go on Hulu and watch the show or all
go on Hulu and watch the show or all this will just sound like a bunch of
this will just sound like a bunch of
this will just sound like a bunch of words you’ve had the experience you know
words you’ve had the experience you know
words you’ve had the experience you know what I’m talking about you witnessed it
what I’m talking about you witnessed it
what I’m talking about you witnessed it it’ll be real in you right now and
it’ll be real in you right now and
it’ll be real in you right now and you’ll get a sense of what you can do to
you’ll get a sense of what you can do to
you’ll get a sense of what you can do to move forward and if you can’t find on
move forward and if you can’t find on
move forward and if you can’t find on Hulu once again send us a little email
Hulu once again send us a little email
Hulu once again send us a little email we’ll make sure we find a way for you to
we’ll make sure we find a way for you to
we’ll make sure we find a way for you to be able to observe or experience the
be able to observe or experience the
be able to observe or experience the show directly and last thing I say t is
show directly and last thing I say t is
show directly and last thing I say t is the best way to keep something your body
the best way to keep something your body
the best way to keep something your body is share it with somebody else the whole
is share it with somebody else the whole
is share it with somebody else the whole philosophy of my life has been if your
philosophy of my life has been if your
philosophy of my life has been if your life’s going to be meaningful you can’t
life’s going to be meaningful you can’t
life’s going to be meaningful you can’t just hit me about me you got to be about
just hit me about me you got to be about
just hit me about me you got to be about week so if you can if you feel like it
week so if you can if you feel like it
week so if you can if you feel like it if your spirits touched by this help us
if your spirits touched by this help us
if your spirits touched by this help us pay it forward share this with your
pay it forward share this with your
pay it forward share this with your friends you can share the clip of our
friends you can share the clip of our
friends you can share the clip of our show you can share this little sex
show you can share this little sex
show you can share this little sex in all kinds of ways just take the clip
in all kinds of ways just take the clip
in all kinds of ways just take the clip and send it we’ve ever way you can push
and send it we’ve ever way you can push
and send it we’ve ever way you can push a button at once again and send it
a button at once again and send it
a button at once again and send it virally to everybody everybody who’s on
virally to everybody everybody who’s on
virally to everybody everybody who’s on your email list we’d love it if that
your email list we’d love it if that
your email list we’d love it if that works for you if you don’t we’re totally
works for you if you don’t we’re totally
works for you if you don’t we’re totally respectful of that but in the end I can
respectful of that but in the end I can
respectful of that but in the end I can promise you one thing if you will do
promise you one thing if you will do
promise you one thing if you will do this if you’ll discover your current
this if you’ll discover your current
this if you’ll discover your current emotional pattern and you’ll change it
emotional pattern and you’ll change it
emotional pattern and you’ll change it through a little bit of practice over
through a little bit of practice over
through a little bit of practice over and over again you will change the
and over again you will change the
and over again you will change the quality of your life no matter what
quality of your life no matter what
quality of your life no matter what you’re facing I think you might find
you’re facing I think you might find
you’re facing I think you might find really interesting to know the real
really interesting to know the real
really interesting to know the real story between Frank and Kristin did we
story between Frank and Kristin did we
story between Frank and Kristin did we faked you out on television no just in
faked you out on television no just in
faked you out on television no just in 44 minutes there’s only so much you can
44 minutes there’s only so much you can
44 minutes there’s only so much you can share between those little commercials
share between those little commercials
share between those little commercials it’s not even a full hour when you take
it’s not even a full hour when you take
it’s not even a full hour when you take the commercials out so I thought maybe
the commercials out so I thought maybe
the commercials out so I thought maybe I’d share with you what I think this
I’d share with you what I think this
I’d share with you what I think this story is really about maybe a quick idea
story is really about maybe a quick idea
story is really about maybe a quick idea of some of the strategies I use to help
of some of the strategies I use to help
of some of the strategies I use to help them create their breakthrough because
them create their breakthrough because
them create their breakthrough because understanding those strategies can help
understanding those strategies can help
understanding those strategies can help you make some breakthroughs in your own
you make some breakthroughs in your own
you make some breakthroughs in your own lives or maybe help somebody that you
lives or maybe help somebody that you
lives or maybe help somebody that you really care about and maybe thirdly tell
really care about and maybe thirdly tell
really care about and maybe thirdly tell you some stories that weren’t in that
you some stories that weren’t in that
you some stories that weren’t in that you might find interesting and most
you might find interesting and most
you might find interesting and most importantly maybe tell you what Frank
importantly maybe tell you what Frank
importantly maybe tell you what Frank and Kristin are right now if you’re
and Kristin are right now if you’re
and Kristin are right now if you’re interested in L a year later what their
interested in L a year later what their
interested in L a year later what their life is really like so what’s the story
life is really like so what’s the story
life is really like so what’s the story really about well on the surface you’d
really about well on the surface you’d
really about well on the surface you’d say it’s a story that’s a tragedy
say it’s a story that’s a tragedy
say it’s a story that’s a tragedy right I mean it’s obvious somebody goes
right I mean it’s obvious somebody goes
right I mean it’s obvious somebody goes down and they go for this great wedding
down and they go for this great wedding
down and they go for this great wedding and man becomes a quadriplegic right as
and man becomes a quadriplegic right as
and man becomes a quadriplegic right as he says I do virtually it’s about people
he says I do virtually it’s about people
he says I do virtually it’s about people losing their dreams it’s about having to
losing their dreams it’s about having to
losing their dreams it’s about having to you know live with limitation that’s the
you know live with limitation that’s the
you know live with limitation that’s the surface story and if we kept that
surface story and if we kept that
surface story and if we kept that surface story then these people would
surface story then these people would
surface story then these people would live in the emotional state they were in
live in the emotional state they were in
live in the emotional state they were in at that time which is a life but they
at that time which is a life but they
at that time which is a life but they have to settle for a life that’s less
have to settle for a life that’s less
have to settle for a life that’s less than they’d expected which whenever our
than they’d expected which whenever our
than they’d expected which whenever our life is less than we expect it doesn’t
life is less than we expect it doesn’t
life is less than we expect it doesn’t matter what our life is like we’re going
matter what our life is like we’re going
matter what our life is like we’re going to be unhappy we’re going to suffer so I
to be unhappy we’re going to suffer so I
to be unhappy we’re going to suffer so I believe this story is about the power of
believe this story is about the power of
believe this story is about the power of rewriting your story to change the
rewriting your story to change the
rewriting your story to change the quality of your life and I don’t mean
quality of your life and I don’t mean
quality of your life and I don’t mean that in some flippant way I don’t mean
that in some flippant way I don’t mean
that in some flippant way I don’t mean making something up but whenever an
making something up but whenever an
making something up but whenever an event happens there’s the event and then
event happens there’s the event and then
event happens there’s the event and then there’s their story about the event you
there’s their story about the event you
there’s their story about the event you know you had a relationship and it ended
know you had a relationship and it ended
know you had a relationship and it ended that’s the event then there’s the story
that’s the event then there’s the story
that’s the event then there’s the story of the relationship you know there’s a
of the relationship you know there’s a
of the relationship you know there’s a story of oh my god I was abused I didn’t
story of oh my god I was abused I didn’t
story of oh my god I was abused I didn’t care and they spent all my money or they
care and they spent all my money or they
care and they spent all my money or they were just into whatever they were so
were just into whatever they were so
were just into whatever they were so selfish and what happens to us in life
selfish and what happens to us in life
selfish and what happens to us in life was we forget what the real truth is
was we forget what the real truth is
was we forget what the real truth is that you two just didn’t match up or
that you two just didn’t match up or
that you two just didn’t match up or maybe even even deeper
maybe even even deeper
maybe even even deeper maybe you didn’t really understand your
maybe you didn’t really understand your
maybe you didn’t really understand your partner’s needs or maybe your natures
partner’s needs or maybe your natures
partner’s needs or maybe your natures were totally different if you thought
were totally different if you thought
were totally different if you thought that the end of the relationship was
that the end of the relationship was
that the end of the relationship was because you were different people with
because you were different people with
because you were different people with different natures that story would make
different natures that story would make
different natures that story would make you feel very differently than they
you feel very differently than they
you feel very differently than they abused me they screwed me over they
abused me they screwed me over they
abused me they screwed me over they didn’t care about me they never did why
didn’t care about me they never did why
didn’t care about me they never did why do we make up such stories because our
do we make up such stories because our
do we make up such stories because our stories allow us to feel a certain way
stories allow us to feel a certain way
stories allow us to feel a certain way and most of us try to get back to the
and most of us try to get back to the
and most of us try to get back to the emotions that we know or at least we try
emotions that we know or at least we try
emotions that we know or at least we try to lower expectations so we won’t be
to lower expectations so we won’t be
to lower expectations so we won’t be disappointed
disappointed
disappointed can you relate in any way in your own
can you relate in any way in your own
can you relate in any way in your own life have you ever been so disappointed
life have you ever been so disappointed
life have you ever been so disappointed for the next time you don’t want to get
for the next time you don’t want to get
for the next time you don’t want to get your hopes up so you start trying to
your hopes up so you start trying to
your hopes up so you start trying to tear things down before you could ever
tear things down before you could ever
tear things down before you could ever get passionate about it even excited
get passionate about it even excited
get passionate about it even excited about it just because you don’t want
about it just because you don’t want
about it just because you don’t want that drop but if you protect yourself
that drop but if you protect yourself
that drop but if you protect yourself from the highs and try to never have
from the highs and try to never have
from the highs and try to never have that big drop then you have to live in
that big drop then you have to live in
that big drop then you have to live in the love and that’s where most people
the love and that’s where most people
the love and that’s where most people live in their life they are constantly
live in their life they are constantly
live in their life they are constantly adjusting their blueprint of life to
adjusting their blueprint of life to
adjusting their blueprint of life to something smaller that’s achievable so
something smaller that’s achievable so
something smaller that’s achievable so they won’t be disappointed and that’s a
they won’t be disappointed and that’s a
they won’t be disappointed and that’s a life where you could be comfortable
life where you could be comfortable
life where you could be comfortable that’s not a life where you can feel
that’s not a life where you can feel
that’s not a life where you can feel alive and passionate in my mind in my
alive and passionate in my mind in my
alive and passionate in my mind in my opinion and so when I saw these people I
opinion and so when I saw these people I
opinion and so when I saw these people I thought this is a perfect opportunity to
thought this is a perfect opportunity to
thought this is a perfect opportunity to show that these people’s if they change
show that these people’s if they change
show that these people’s if they change their story it can change the quality of
their story it can change the quality of
their story it can change the quality of their life because how do you know the
their life because how do you know the
their life because how do you know the quality of your life by the stuff you
quality of your life by the stuff you
quality of your life by the stuff you got oh gosh what the economy the way it
got oh gosh what the economy the way it
got oh gosh what the economy the way it is now that’s your definition you must
is now that’s your definition you must
is now that’s your definition you must be in a lot of stress because I don’t
be in a lot of stress because I don’t
be in a lot of stress because I don’t care if you’re a billionaire or a barber
care if you’re a billionaire or a barber
care if you’re a billionaire or a barber you got some stress right now because
you got some stress right now because
you got some stress right now because the world’s changed and they’re things
the world’s changed and they’re things
the world’s changed and they’re things that are outside our control that are
that are outside our control that are
that are outside our control that are happening and they’re things within our
happening and they’re things within our
happening and they’re things within our control what I mean by that is if life
control what I mean by that is if life
control what I mean by that is if life has to be a certain way for you to be
has to be a certain way for you to be
has to be a certain way for you to be happy and life doesn’t match it then
happy and life doesn’t match it then
happy and life doesn’t match it then you’re going to be pretty unhappy right
you’re going to be pretty unhappy right
you’re going to be pretty unhappy right now and if you look at Frank and Kristen
now and if you look at Frank and Kristen
now and if you look at Frank and Kristen it’s the ultimate example of that but I
it’s the ultimate example of that but I
it’s the ultimate example of that but I would say to you that if you got
would say to you that if you got
would say to you that if you got everything you wanted and have you ever
everything you wanted and have you ever
everything you wanted and have you ever done that ever gotten a dream or goal
done that ever gotten a dream or goal
done that ever gotten a dream or goal you wanted and then still said is this
you wanted and then still said is this
you wanted and then still said is this all there is I’ve done it many times
all there is I’ve done it many times
all there is I’ve done it many times I’ve been stupid I think we’ve all been
I’ve been stupid I think we’ve all been
I’ve been stupid I think we’ve all been that way so what are you gonna do go for
that way so what are you gonna do go for
that way so what are you gonna do go for the next thing or just lower your
the next thing or just lower your
the next thing or just lower your expectations neither one of it does you
expectations neither one of it does you
expectations neither one of it does you got to find something more meaningful so
got to find something more meaningful so
got to find something more meaningful so my idea with this couple was to say
my idea with this couple was to say
my idea with this couple was to say there are people that have everything
there are people that have everything
there are people that have everything and are miserable because the quality of
and are miserable because the quality of
and are miserable because the quality of your life is where you live emotionally
your life is where you live emotionally
your life is where you live emotionally if every day you’re live if you’re angry
if every day you’re live if you’re angry
if every day you’re live if you’re angry and frustrated and pissed off
and frustrated and pissed off
and frustrated and pissed off and you got everything you got your
and you got everything you got your
and you got everything you got your ultimate goal you are you know the most
ultimate goal you are you know the most
ultimate goal you are you know the most religious person in the world you make
religious person in the world you make
religious person in the world you make billions of dollars everybody boughs to
billions of dollars everybody boughs to
billions of dollars everybody boughs to your famous whatever that metaphor is
your famous whatever that metaphor is
your famous whatever that metaphor is for you but you live every day angry and
for you but you live every day angry and
for you but you live every day angry and frustrated your life quality is called
frustrated your life quality is called
frustrated your life quality is called angry and frustrated
angry and frustrated
angry and frustrated doesn’t matter what you have on the
doesn’t matter what you have on the
doesn’t matter what you have on the other hand if your life doesn’t match
other hand if your life doesn’t match
other hand if your life doesn’t match the way you thought it might be but
the way you thought it might be but
the way you thought it might be but every day you live in the state of
every day you live in the state of
every day you live in the state of gratitude for what you do have or the
gratitude for what you do have or the
gratitude for what you do have or the sense of passion and excitement to see
sense of passion and excitement to see
sense of passion and excitement to see what snack when your life is passionate
what snack when your life is passionate
what snack when your life is passionate excitement or gratitude pretty simple
excitement or gratitude pretty simple
excitement or gratitude pretty simple right what keeps us having this your
right what keeps us having this your
right what keeps us having this your story
story
story we’ve all got a series of different
we’ve all got a series of different
we’ve all got a series of different stories some people’s story is I was
stories some people’s story is I was
stories some people’s story is I was abused some people’s story is you know
abused some people’s story is you know
abused some people’s story is you know I’m so successful because I’m so
I’m so successful because I’m so
I’m so successful because I’m so intelligent and I work so hard you know
intelligent and I work so hard you know
intelligent and I work so hard you know and your story may be true but it’s
and your story may be true but it’s
and your story may be true but it’s still a story and we all got them so the
still a story and we all got them so the
still a story and we all got them so the secret is since we’re all storytellers
secret is since we’re all storytellers
secret is since we’re all storytellers find a story that empowers you instead
find a story that empowers you instead
find a story that empowers you instead of a story that disempowers you that’s
of a story that disempowers you that’s
of a story that disempowers you that’s the game of life so I looked at this
the game of life so I looked at this
the game of life so I looked at this couple and said what’s their story why
couple and said what’s their story why
couple and said what’s their story why they miserable obviously there’s lots of
they miserable obviously there’s lots of
they miserable obviously there’s lots of factual reasons that they should be but
factual reasons that they should be but
factual reasons that they should be but there are plenty of other people that
there are plenty of other people that
there are plenty of other people that are going through hell by other people’s
are going through hell by other people’s
are going through hell by other people’s standards and they’re really happy and
standards and they’re really happy and
standards and they’re really happy and so I said you know I’ve had the
so I said you know I’ve had the
so I said you know I’ve had the privilege of living in Fiji for a period
privilege of living in Fiji for a period
privilege of living in Fiji for a period of time I’ve been going there since I
of time I’ve been going there since I
of time I’ve been going there since I was 24 I meet people there who most
was 24 I meet people there who most
was 24 I meet people there who most people call poor and yet they don’t
people call poor and yet they don’t
people call poor and yet they don’t think they’re poor they have the most
think they’re poor they have the most
think they’re poor they have the most joyous culture they’re so happy and five
joyous culture they’re so happy and five
joyous culture they’re so happy and five down the street and people you boola
down the street and people you boola
down the street and people you boola boola boola which means welcome be happy
boola boola which means welcome be happy
boola boola which means welcome be happy we love you and you drive by five
we love you and you drive by five
we love you and you drive by five inflater is bulla bulla bulla I mean
inflater is bulla bulla bulla I mean
inflater is bulla bulla bulla I mean it’s like it’s like your dog you leave
it’s like it’s like your dog you leave
it’s like it’s like your dog you leave for five minutes you get the newspaper
for five minutes you get the newspaper
for five minutes you get the newspaper you come back it’s like you’ve been gone
you come back it’s like you’ve been gone
you come back it’s like you’ve been gone for six months or so excited you know
for six months or so excited you know
for six months or so excited you know it’s just a natural thing they aren’t
it’s just a natural thing they aren’t
it’s just a natural thing they aren’t focused on what they don’t have that’s
focused on what they don’t have that’s
focused on what they don’t have that’s not their story their story is we have
not their story their story is we have
not their story their story is we have the sunshine and we have the rain and we
the sunshine and we have the rain and we
the sunshine and we have the rain and we have the islands that we have the food
have the islands that we have the food
have the islands that we have the food and we have our family that’s the story
and we have our family that’s the story
and we have our family that’s the story they learn the story is were the
they learn the story is were the
they learn the story is were the happiest people in the world and they
happiest people in the world and they
happiest people in the world and they believe the story and so they are you
believe the story and so they are you
believe the story and so they are you see suffering in life doesn’t come from
see suffering in life doesn’t come from
see suffering in life doesn’t come from the life events suffering comes from the
the life events suffering comes from the
the life events suffering comes from the meaning we attach to the events
meaning we attach to the events
meaning we attach to the events suffering doesn’t come from the facts
suffering doesn’t come from the facts
suffering doesn’t come from the facts the fact is Frank and Kristen have gone
the fact is Frank and Kristen have gone
the fact is Frank and Kristen have gone through some severe changes in their
through some severe changes in their
through some severe changes in their life the fact is Frank you know when we
life the fact is Frank you know when we
life the fact is Frank you know when we started had something around his neck
started had something around his neck
started had something around his neck couldn’t move anything and now he’s
couldn’t move anything and now he’s
couldn’t move anything and now he’s still a quadriplegic he has some
still a quadriplegic he has some
still a quadriplegic he has some mobility but he’s not out of that chair
mobility but he’s not out of that chair
mobility but he’s not out of that chair he may or may not
he may or may not
he may or may not not get out of that’s a fact but the
not get out of that’s a fact but the
not get out of that’s a fact but the suffering isn’t from the fact the
suffering isn’t from the fact the
suffering isn’t from the fact the suffering comes from the meaning that
suffering comes from the meaning that
suffering comes from the meaning that says it shouldn’t have happened or
says it shouldn’t have happened or
says it shouldn’t have happened or because it happened my life is over
because it happened my life is over
because it happened my life is over because it happened we can’t have
because it happened we can’t have
because it happened we can’t have children because it happened you know we
children because it happened you know we
children because it happened you know we can’t have intimacy because it happened
can’t have intimacy because it happened
can’t have intimacy because it happened you know life life just can’t be joyous
you know life life just can’t be joyous
you know life life just can’t be joyous again that was the story and my goal was
again that was the story and my goal was
again that was the story and my goal was to rewrite the story not in my head but
to rewrite the story not in my head but
to rewrite the story not in my head but in their bodies their minds and bodies
in their bodies their minds and bodies
in their bodies their minds and bodies and so what was the strategy well the
and so what was the strategy well the
and so what was the strategy well the strategy was step one get them out of
strategy was step one get them out of
strategy was step one get them out of the environment where the story lives
the environment where the story lives
the environment where the story lives it’s hard sometimes to change your story
it’s hard sometimes to change your story
it’s hard sometimes to change your story when everything around you remind you of
when everything around you remind you of
when everything around you remind you of the story and everybody around you
the story and everybody around you
the story and everybody around you believes your story because if they
believes your story because if they
believes your story because if they don’t challenge you’re going to keep the
don’t challenge you’re going to keep the
don’t challenge you’re going to keep the story and you’re going to keep living
story and you’re going to keep living
story and you’re going to keep living and feeling the same thing see we feel
and feeling the same thing see we feel
and feeling the same thing see we feel whatever meaning we give things if this
whatever meaning we give things if this
whatever meaning we give things if this is the worst thing that ever happened in
is the worst thing that ever happened in
is the worst thing that ever happened in your life then it’s the worst thing you
your life then it’s the worst thing you
your life then it’s the worst thing you never happier life if this is a secret
never happier life if this is a secret
never happier life if this is a secret gift even if you don’t know what it is
gift even if you don’t know what it is
gift even if you don’t know what it is but you know everything in life is
but you know everything in life is
but you know everything in life is guided and even though this is horrible
guided and even though this is horrible
guided and even though this is horrible and you hate it you know somehow this is
and you hate it you know somehow this is
and you hate it you know somehow this is going to serve and that’s the story of
going to serve and that’s the story of
going to serve and that’s the story of your life you’re going to find a meaning
your life you’re going to find a meaning
your life you’re going to find a meaning that says this is good and you’re going
that says this is good and you’re going
that says this is good and you’re going to find a way to feel good about
to find a way to feel good about
to find a way to feel good about something other people can’t handle
something other people can’t handle
something other people can’t handle everyone has stress do you use stress
everyone has stress do you use stress
everyone has stress do you use stress what does it use you the story is the
what does it use you the story is the
what does it use you the story is the secret to changing that stress to where
secret to changing that stress to where
secret to changing that stress to where you take advantage of it that if it
you take advantage of it that if it
you take advantage of it that if it taking the energy will use it for drive
taking the energy will use it for drive
taking the energy will use it for drive or use it for gratitude or something
or use it for gratitude or something
or use it for gratitude or something else so all I did was I give them out of
else so all I did was I give them out of
else so all I did was I give them out of the environment said let’s take MIDI G
the environment said let’s take MIDI G
the environment said let’s take MIDI G let’s somewhere around these other
let’s somewhere around these other
let’s somewhere around these other people let’s get them out of the house
people let’s get them out of the house
people let’s get them out of the house because their current belief system is
because their current belief system is
because their current belief system is we cannot leave the house and Christi
we cannot leave the house and Christi
we cannot leave the house and Christi leaves if I leave it could fall over if
leaves if I leave it could fall over if
leaves if I leave it could fall over if he doesn’t stop breathing he could die
he doesn’t stop breathing he could die
he doesn’t stop breathing he could die and I’d be responsible
and I’d be responsible
and I’d be responsible her story is he’s broken and I have to
her story is he’s broken and I have to
her story is he’s broken and I have to be there every moment so I can’t look
be there every moment so I can’t look
be there every moment so I can’t look his story is I destroyed my wife’s life
his story is I destroyed my wife’s life
his story is I destroyed my wife’s life and I could do nothing to help it so I
and I could do nothing to help it so I
and I could do nothing to help it so I took him on a journey a journey why I
took him on a journey a journey why I
took him on a journey a journey why I didn’t tell them their story was wrong I
didn’t tell them their story was wrong I
didn’t tell them their story was wrong I gave them an experience of a new story I
gave them an experience of a new story I
gave them an experience of a new story I got them to leave and go to Fiji now
got them to leave and go to Fiji now
got them to leave and go to Fiji now I’ll tell you the story behind the story
I’ll tell you the story behind the story
I’ll tell you the story behind the story I’m just a little quick
I’m just a little quick
I’m just a little quick [Music]
[Music]
[Music] to get them to leave the house is that
to get them to leave the house is that
to get them to leave the house is that was a big thing it may not be dramatic
was a big thing it may not be dramatic
was a big thing it may not be dramatic in television we don’t even show it is
in television we don’t even show it is
in television we don’t even show it is in 44 minutes who cares but you might
in 44 minutes who cares but you might
in 44 minutes who cares but you might find this interesting
find this interesting
find this interesting I decided I got to get them convinced
I decided I got to get them convinced
I decided I got to get them convinced that they’re going to leave the house
that they’re going to leave the house
that they’re going to leave the house Kristen’s afraid you know if I leave to
Kristen’s afraid you know if I leave to
Kristen’s afraid you know if I leave to fall over he’s not going to travel and
fall over he’s not going to travel and
fall over he’s not going to travel and get on airline and fly 11 hours to
get on airline and fly 11 hours to
get on airline and fly 11 hours to another part of the world and then get
another part of the world and then get
another part of the world and then get another small plane and then go to an
another small plane and then go to an
another small plane and then go to an island I mean she doesn’t leave the
island I mean she doesn’t leave the
island I mean she doesn’t leave the house it’s impossible breakthroughs
house it’s impossible breakthroughs
house it’s impossible breakthroughs happen when you start to realize what
happen when you start to realize what
happen when you start to realize what was impossible is possible breakthroughs
was impossible is possible breakthroughs
was impossible is possible breakthroughs happen when you change a belief I got to
happen when you change a belief I got to
happen when you change a belief I got to get her to understand this we get
get her to understand this we get
get her to understand this we get they’re incentivized enough that she’s
they’re incentivized enough that she’s
they’re incentivized enough that she’s going to go for it that she starts to
going to go for it that she starts to
going to go for it that she starts to see the value of this him too and they
see the value of this him too and they
see the value of this him too and they step up with a lot of courage I’m
step up with a lot of courage I’m
step up with a lot of courage I’m telling the airlines everybody there you
telling the airlines everybody there you
telling the airlines everybody there you got to take care of these people are
got to take care of these people are
got to take care of these people are special they’re important here’s the
special they’re important here’s the
special they’re important here’s the situation everybody’s prepared NBC more
situation everybody’s prepared NBC more
situation everybody’s prepared NBC more than does their part and they get to the
than does their part and they get to the
than does their part and they get to the LA Airport and what do you think happens
LA Airport and what do you think happens
LA Airport and what do you think happens they drop him they dropped Frank they
they drop him they dropped Frank they
they drop him they dropped Frank they dropped him her deepest fear his deepest
dropped him her deepest fear his deepest
dropped him her deepest fear his deepest fear he’s gonna break and the beauty is
fear he’s gonna break and the beauty is
fear he’s gonna break and the beauty is he’s okay he shooken up she’s freaked
he’s okay he shooken up she’s freaked
he’s okay he shooken up she’s freaked out he’s freaked out but they get an
out he’s freaked out but they get an
out he’s freaked out but they get an experience that he’s not so weak I would
experience that he’s not so weak I would
experience that he’s not so weak I would never have asked this a million years
never have asked this a million years
never have asked this a million years I’m going berserk I’m in Fiji hearing
I’m going berserk I’m in Fiji hearing
I’m going berserk I’m in Fiji hearing about this going on who I kill you don’t
about this going on who I kill you don’t
about this going on who I kill you don’t think how could they drop him right he
think how could they drop him right he
think how could they drop him right he gets to Fiji you can’t make these
gets to Fiji you can’t make these
gets to Fiji you can’t make these stories out they drop him again big
stories out they drop him again big
stories out they drop him again big drops Frank again some guy tripped and
drops Frank again some guy tripped and
drops Frank again some guy tripped and fell and klum they go down and Kristen’s
fell and klum they go down and Kristen’s
fell and klum they go down and Kristen’s freaking out he’s freaking out they make
freaking out he’s freaking out they make
freaking out he’s freaking out they make it so now they get on a small plane you
it so now they get on a small plane you
it so now they get on a small plane you slide a 3G and then you fight a mile
slide a 3G and then you fight a mile
slide a 3G and then you fight a mile into small island you get on a small
into small island you get on a small
into small island you get on a small little hopper and NBC’s got all these
little hopper and NBC’s got all these
little hopper and NBC’s got all these doctors there and they’re gonna make
doctors there and they’re gonna make
doctors there and they’re gonna make sure he Frank’s taken care of I’m
sure he Frank’s taken care of I’m
sure he Frank’s taken care of I’m grateful for that
grateful for that
grateful for that I got 80 true or waiting on the island
I got 80 true or waiting on the island
I got 80 true or waiting on the island to rock and roll and take these guys on
to rock and roll and take these guys on
to rock and roll and take these guys on a journey I’ve got a Fiji for 23 24
a journey I’ve got a Fiji for 23 24
a journey I’ve got a Fiji for 23 24 years I went there when I was a little
years I went there when I was a little
years I went there when I was a little kid just got started you know my early
kid just got started you know my early
kid just got started you know my early early 20s oh you get a picture and I’ve
early 20s oh you get a picture and I’ve
early 20s oh you get a picture and I’ve never not been in the land and some bad
never not been in the land and some bad
never not been in the land and some bad weather but you can always as they’re
weather but you can always as they’re
weather but you can always as they’re flying you get like cyclone like winds
flying you get like cyclone like winds
flying you get like cyclone like winds and the plane is turning sideways and
and the plane is turning sideways and
and the plane is turning sideways and the storm is coming through and the
the storm is coming through and the
the storm is coming through and the people on the plane Frank was actually
people on the plane Frank was actually
people on the plane Frank was actually okay but they’re freaking out going we
okay but they’re freaking out going we
okay but they’re freaking out going we can’t land we can
can’t land we can
can’t land we can and we’re all sitting on the ground we
and we’re all sitting on the ground we
and we’re all sitting on the ground we can see the plane and they turn around
can see the plane and they turn around
can see the plane and they turn around and fly back to the main island and when
and fly back to the main island and when
and fly back to the main island and when they get the main island no one’s there
they get the main island no one’s there
they get the main island no one’s there to take care of them so they throw Frank
to take care of them so they throw Frank
to take care of them so they throw Frank in the back of a taxi right so now he
in the back of a taxi right so now he
in the back of a taxi right so now he goes a taxi
goes a taxi
goes a taxi thinking on the phone ago we’re out this
thinking on the phone ago we’re out this
thinking on the phone ago we’re out this isn’t saying we’re done with this
isn’t saying we’re done with this
isn’t saying we’re done with this long story short we got Frank there
long story short we got Frank there
long story short we got Frank there eventually got him on a plane the
eventually got him on a plane the
eventually got him on a plane the weather cleared and they had the time of
weather cleared and they had the time of
weather cleared and they had the time of their life and here’s the rewrite of the
their life and here’s the rewrite of the
their life and here’s the rewrite of the story their story was we went off to
story their story was we went off to
story their story was we went off to have our wedding we flew to this
have our wedding we flew to this
have our wedding we flew to this beautiful land and we took a leap of
beautiful land and we took a leap of
beautiful land and we took a leap of faith and our life ended and the new
faith and our life ended and the new
faith and our life ended and the new story I wanted to write was we flew to a
story I wanted to write was we flew to a
story I wanted to write was we flew to a beautiful land
beautiful land
beautiful land we took a leap of faith skydive the leap
we took a leap of faith skydive the leap
we took a leap of faith skydive the leap of faith to be going on this and at the
of faith to be going on this and at the
of faith to be going on this and at the end we have the greatest possible life
end we have the greatest possible life
end we have the greatest possible life or closer we love each other more we’re
or closer we love each other more we’re
or closer we love each other more we’re doing things we were through and we took
doing things we were through and we took
doing things we were through and we took them on that journey by using a strategy
them on that journey by using a strategy
them on that journey by using a strategy of getting them to constantly exceed
of getting them to constantly exceed
of getting them to constantly exceed their expectations to not have a belief
their expectations to not have a belief
their expectations to not have a belief but just do it and then you’ll find up
but just do it and then you’ll find up
but just do it and then you’ll find up you’re capable of so whether it’s Frank
you’re capable of so whether it’s Frank
you’re capable of so whether it’s Frank breaking to is to arrive for the skydive
breaking to is to arrive for the skydive
breaking to is to arrive for the skydive or you know Murderball a frank driving
or you know Murderball a frank driving
or you know Murderball a frank driving his truck something you couldn’t do
his truck something you couldn’t do
his truck something you couldn’t do couldn’t get the truck built together
couldn’t get the truck built together
couldn’t get the truck built together when you’re supposedly able-bodied we’re
when you’re supposedly able-bodied we’re
when you’re supposedly able-bodied we’re going to get him do more than you did
going to get him do more than you did
going to get him do more than you did before and suddenly the story is I’m
before and suddenly the story is I’m
before and suddenly the story is I’m alive we’re world travelers I’m a
alive we’re world travelers I’m a
alive we’re world travelers I’m a skydiver I’m a murder ballplayer I’m
skydiver I’m a murder ballplayer I’m
skydiver I’m a murder ballplayer I’m driving my truck 100 miles an hour and
driving my truck 100 miles an hour and
driving my truck 100 miles an hour and the desert and the final part of the
the desert and the final part of the
the desert and the final part of the story Asian that was rewriting their
story Asian that was rewriting their
story Asian that was rewriting their wedding so it might so that’s
wedding so it might so that’s
wedding so it might so that’s interesting Tony if you’re into other
interesting Tony if you’re into other
interesting Tony if you’re into other Clips go online here we’ve got I don’t
Clips go online here we’ve got I don’t
Clips go online here we’ve got I don’t know what we’ve got we got different
know what we’ve got we got different
know what we’ve got we got different clips that didn’t make it because there
clips that didn’t make it because there
clips that didn’t make it because there was a 30-day journey and you know we had
was a 30-day journey and you know we had
was a 30-day journey and you know we had 44 minutes in prime-time television so
44 minutes in prime-time television so
44 minutes in prime-time television so there’s some cool stuff I know there’s
there’s some cool stuff I know there’s
there’s some cool stuff I know there’s probably stuff there with Frank learning
probably stuff there with Frank learning
probably stuff there with Frank learning to drive because before he drove me 100
to drive because before he drove me 100
to drive because before he drove me 100 miles an hour he had to get in a car
miles an hour he had to get in a car
miles an hour he had to get in a car with two other guys who are Moreau
with two other guys who are Moreau
with two other guys who are Moreau ballplayers and trying to have five
ballplayers and trying to have five
ballplayers and trying to have five miles an hour and crash you might see
miles an hour and crash you might see
miles an hour and crash you might see some other details with some of the work
some other details with some of the work
some other details with some of the work that I did with them look at some of the
that I did with them look at some of the
that I did with them look at some of the cliffs if you want but if you want to
cliffs if you want but if you want to
cliffs if you want but if you want to know where they are today
know where they are today
know where they are today one year later I’ll tell you four months
one year later I’ll tell you four months
one year later I’ll tell you four months ago I got a chance to get this phone
ago I got a chance to get this phone
ago I got a chance to get this phone call and got a kind of crackly sound and
call and got a kind of crackly sound and
call and got a kind of crackly sound and all of a sudden spanked gone guess where
all of a sudden spanked gone guess where
all of a sudden spanked gone guess where we are so where he goes camping who said
we are so where he goes camping who said
we are so where he goes camping who said what he’s at all our life is so changed
what he’s at all our life is so changed
what he’s at all our life is so changed man we thought we could leave Val’s were
man we thought we could leave Val’s were
man we thought we could leave Val’s were out here camping so here’s this man who
out here camping so here’s this man who
out here camping so here’s this man who thought his life was over couldn’t do
thought his life was over couldn’t do
thought his life was over couldn’t do any
any
any thing that everything has changed for so
thing that everything has changed for so
thing that everything has changed for so I’m feeling pretty excited this is you
I’m feeling pretty excited this is you
I’m feeling pretty excited this is you know after six seven months of them you
know after six seven months of them you
know after six seven months of them you know being done to the show and then
know being done to the show and then
know being done to the show and then three months ago I got a very different
three months ago I got a very different
three months ago I got a very different call and that is I get a phone call and
call and that is I get a phone call and
call and that is I get a phone call and this time Frank has to tell me that he
this time Frank has to tell me that he
this time Frank has to tell me that he has some bad news and I’m thinking what
has some bad news and I’m thinking what
has some bad news and I’m thinking what they’ve been through so much what could
they’ve been through so much what could
they’ve been through so much what could be bad news at this point and Frank says
be bad news at this point and Frank says
be bad news at this point and Frank says you know as long as they’ve known
you know as long as they’ve known
you know as long as they’ve known Kristen I think three and a half four
Kristen I think three and a half four
Kristen I think three and a half four years you said she’s had these intense
years you said she’s had these intense
years you said she’s had these intense headaches and they’ve gotten so intense
headaches and they’ve gotten so intense
headaches and they’ve gotten so intense we took her to the hospital today and a
we took her to the hospital today and a
we took her to the hospital today and a different doctor looked at her and it
different doctor looked at her and it
different doctor looked at her and it turns out she has a brain tumor the size
turns out she has a brain tumor the size
turns out she has a brain tumor the size of a baseball and then later they said a
of a baseball and then later they said a
of a baseball and then later they said a grapefruit and it’s horrific as it was I
grapefruit and it’s horrific as it was I
grapefruit and it’s horrific as it was I thought God you know if any family
thought God you know if any family
thought God you know if any family deserves a break this is the family here
deserves a break this is the family here
deserves a break this is the family here the break you know it’s just you know
the break you know it’s just you know
the break you know it’s just you know why why to see him but the beauty
why why to see him but the beauty
why why to see him but the beauty there’s always a beauty I believe in
there’s always a beauty I believe in
there’s always a beauty I believe in things was that Frank was stronger
things was that Frank was stronger
things was that Frank was stronger Frank’s story was I can’t do anything my
Frank’s story was I can’t do anything my
Frank’s story was I can’t do anything my wife has to take care of me I’m a I’m a
wife has to take care of me I’m a I’m a
wife has to take care of me I’m a I’m a burden and in this 30-day process he
burden and in this 30-day process he
burden and in this 30-day process he shifted to taking care of her he
shifted to taking care of her he
shifted to taking care of her he reassured her he got her out of that
reassured her he got her out of that
reassured her he got her out of that pain didn’t matter if he was in the
pain didn’t matter if he was in the
pain didn’t matter if he was in the chair he got her through the sky dog he
chair he got her through the sky dog he
chair he got her through the sky dog he got it through it all Frank took charge
got it through it all Frank took charge
got it through it all Frank took charge became a man and gave her the strength
became a man and gave her the strength
became a man and gave her the strength she needed she had one surgery and it
she needed she had one surgery and it
she needed she had one surgery and it took I think nine hours and I couldn’t
took I think nine hours and I couldn’t
took I think nine hours and I couldn’t get it all and then she had another
get it all and then she had another
get it all and then she had another surgery two months well about three
surgery two months well about three
surgery two months well about three weeks ago it’s two months later and I
weeks ago it’s two months later and I
weeks ago it’s two months later and I was with him last night but about three
was with him last night but about three
was with him last night but about three weeks later and interesting part the
weeks later and interesting part the
weeks later and interesting part the good news to the story is she got
good news to the story is she got
good news to the story is she got another surgeon he got it all she’s free
another surgeon he got it all she’s free
another surgeon he got it all she’s free and clear of cancer she’s great and the
and clear of cancer she’s great and the
and clear of cancer she’s great and the beauty is I wouldn’t saw them last night
beauty is I wouldn’t saw them last night
beauty is I wouldn’t saw them last night as far as going to come film this I’d be
as far as going to come film this I’d be
as far as going to come film this I’d be associating cuz I was gonna be in Los
associating cuz I was gonna be in Los
associating cuz I was gonna be in Los Angeles late living with John Doe Beach
Angeles late living with John Doe Beach
Angeles late living with John Doe Beach and I want to show him the shelter they
and I want to show him the shelter they
and I want to show him the shelter they see it
see it
see it and first of all they were both glowing
and first of all they were both glowing
and first of all they were both glowing I mean they’re so happy about Frank now
I mean they’re so happy about Frank now
I mean they’re so happy about Frank now moving around he went to the the
moving around he went to the the
moving around he went to the the all-star game he saw the homerun
all-star game he saw the homerun
all-star game he saw the homerun competition on his own with some buddies
competition on his own with some buddies
competition on his own with some buddies jumped out of the car and what made
jumped out of the car and what made
jumped out of the car and what made things happen when she was my hospital
things happen when she was my hospital
things happen when she was my hospital he got himself up these ramps by himself
he got himself up these ramps by himself
he got himself up these ramps by himself and he’s gotten so strong but he’s
and he’s gotten so strong but he’s
and he’s gotten so strong but he’s psychologically spiritually emotionally
psychologically spiritually emotionally
psychologically spiritually emotionally strong and happy and she said to me and
strong and happy and she said to me and
strong and happy and she said to me and if you met her kristin is amazing so she
if you met her kristin is amazing so she
if you met her kristin is amazing so she goes Tony it was a blip she said you
goes Tony it was a blip she said you
goes Tony it was a blip she said you know it’s like after all we’ve been
know it’s like after all we’ve been
know it’s like after all we’ve been through it’s like I don’t come talk to
through it’s like I don’t come talk to
through it’s like I don’t come talk to me wrong I had my moments but to be in
me wrong I had my moments but to be in
me wrong I had my moments but to be in this situation you know I had cancer and
this situation you know I had cancer and
this situation you know I had cancer and I’m through it it’s done look at our
I’m through it it’s done look at our
I’m through it it’s done look at our life look where we offer and she’s
life look where we offer and she’s
life look where we offer and she’s demonstrating something that all people
demonstrating something that all people
demonstrating something that all people who take extreme stress and grow from it
who take extreme stress and grow from it
who take extreme stress and grow from it instead of being traumatized by it by it
instead of being traumatized by it by it
instead of being traumatized by it by it here’s what they have in common number
here’s what they have in common number
here’s what they have in common number one they find out who they really are
one they find out who they really are
one they find out who they really are they find out like you like me if you’re
they find out like you like me if you’re
they find out like you like me if you’re tested by life and you don’t give up if
tested by life and you don’t give up if
tested by life and you don’t give up if you don’t give yourself a story that
you don’t give yourself a story that
you don’t give yourself a story that you’re broken or you can’t turn it
you’re broken or you can’t turn it
you’re broken or you can’t turn it around if you really live with it you’re
around if you really live with it you’re
around if you really live with it you’re going to find out how strong you are the
going to find out how strong you are the
going to find out how strong you are the second thing that happens you find out
second thing that happens you find out
second thing that happens you find out who your real friends are
who your real friends are
who your real friends are your real family because when you have
your real family because when you have
your real family because when you have tough times all your Facebook friends go
tough times all your Facebook friends go
tough times all your Facebook friends go away your real friends they’re the ones
away your real friends they’re the ones
away your real friends they’re the ones that will be there when it’s not fun to
that will be there when it’s not fun to
that will be there when it’s not fun to be there your family may have a lot of
be there your family may have a lot of
be there your family may have a lot of blood family but who’s your real family
blood family but who’s your real family
blood family but who’s your real family the ones would be for you you’d be there
the ones would be for you you’d be there
the ones would be for you you’d be there for them no matter what those
for them no matter what those
for them no matter what those relationships strengthen and freaking
relationships strengthen and freaking
relationships strengthen and freaking Kristen love each other even more
Kristen love each other even more
Kristen love each other even more because of this and thirdly it’s almost
because of this and thirdly it’s almost
because of this and thirdly it’s almost like you get a psychological immunity
like you get a psychological immunity
like you get a psychological immunity from the next big disaster not that you
from the next big disaster not that you
from the next big disaster not that you don’t feel it it’s just like it’s almost
don’t feel it it’s just like it’s almost
don’t feel it it’s just like it’s almost like when you get the stimulation of
like when you get the stimulation of
like when you get the stimulation of immunity it’s like give it to me baby I
immunity it’s like give it to me baby I
immunity it’s like give it to me baby I know like in cognitive I don’t know how
know like in cognitive I don’t know how
know like in cognitive I don’t know how but I’ve been through so much give it
but I’ve been through so much give it
but I’ve been through so much give it your best shot and if you had experience
your best shot and if you had experience
your best shot and if you had experience in your life I thought somebody say you
in your life I thought somebody say you
in your life I thought somebody say you got a tumor in your brain or this
got a tumor in your brain or this
got a tumor in your brain or this business is over you’re going to go
business is over you’re going to go
business is over you’re going to go bankrupt or every store you can imagine
bankrupt or every store you can imagine
bankrupt or every store you can imagine of disaster one of the great gifts in my
of disaster one of the great gifts in my
of disaster one of the great gifts in my life is I found people they don’t buy
life is I found people they don’t buy
life is I found people they don’t buy that story and I’ve learned from them
that story and I’ve learned from them
that story and I’ve learned from them and I haven’t bought the story myself
and I haven’t bought the story myself
and I haven’t bought the story myself and you can’t either it’s not that the
and you can’t either it’s not that the
and you can’t either it’s not that the story is wrong it’s just pick a story
story is wrong it’s just pick a story
story is wrong it’s just pick a story that’s going to strengthen you’re not
that’s going to strengthen you’re not
that’s going to strengthen you’re not one that’s going to weaken you pick a
one that’s going to weaken you pick a
one that’s going to weaken you pick a story they’ll make you grateful instead
story they’ll make you grateful instead
story they’ll make you grateful instead of angry if you pick your own story
of angry if you pick your own story
of angry if you pick your own story instead of life giving it to you or let
instead of life giving it to you or let
instead of life giving it to you or let the environment give it to you you can
the environment give it to you you can
the environment give it to you you can have a very very different life so
have a very very different life so
have a very very different life so that’s some of the story behind the
that’s some of the story behind the
that’s some of the story behind the story that’s then what happened that you
story that’s then what happened that you
story that’s then what happened that you didn’t see on camera there’s so much
didn’t see on camera there’s so much
didn’t see on camera there’s so much more and I can talk forever as you
more and I can talk forever as you
more and I can talk forever as you probably figured out by now you’re on
probably figured out by now you’re on
probably figured out by now you’re on the internet probably on how long is the
the internet probably on how long is the
the internet probably on how long is the guy talking I have no clue thanks for
guy talking I have no clue thanks for
guy talking I have no clue thanks for watching and if the spirit of the show
watching and if the spirit of the show
watching and if the spirit of the show touches you please pass it on my whole
touches you please pass it on my whole
touches you please pass it on my whole life is you grow and you give so and the
life is you grow and you give so and the
life is you grow and you give so and the more you share something the more you
more you share something the more you
more you share something the more you feel itself you want yeah get someone
feel itself you want yeah get someone
feel itself you want yeah get someone see this show not on check it out on
see this show not on check it out on
see this show not on check it out on Hulu or someplace else or or pass it on
Hulu or someplace else or or pass it on
Hulu or someplace else or or pass it on to people we love it if you pass it on
to people we love it if you pass it on
to people we love it if you pass it on we didn’t just do this to show we did it
we didn’t just do this to show we did it
we didn’t just do this to show we did it because these times demand people to see
because these times demand people to see
because these times demand people to see new example of what’s possible when
new example of what’s possible when
new example of what’s possible when times are tough and it’s a winter time
times are tough and it’s a winter time
times are tough and it’s a winter time right now it’s tough if you believe role
right now it’s tough if you believe role
right now it’s tough if you believe role models are people that have made it
models are people that have made it
models are people that have made it through it so they know they can do it
through it so they know they can do it
through it so they know they can do it as well and Frank and Kristen are the
as well and Frank and Kristen are the
as well and Frank and Kristen are the example or one of those examples and as
example or one of those examples and as
example or one of those examples and as corny as it sounds and I think it’s
corny as it sounds and I think it’s
corny as it sounds and I think it’s example of love conquering all they
example of love conquering all they
example of love conquering all they loved each other so much they did more
loved each other so much they did more
loved each other so much they did more for each other than they would do for
for each other than they would do for
for each other than they would do for themselves that’s part of the beauty of
themselves that’s part of the beauty of
themselves that’s part of the beauty of being a human being so thanks for
being a human being so thanks for
being a human being so thanks for listening I hope you watch our stories
listening I hope you watch our stories
listening I hope you watch our stories next week there’s some clips on here and
next week there’s some clips on here and
next week there’s some clips on here and if you want to take this story and apply
if you want to take this story and apply
if you want to take this story and apply it to your own life and change your life
it to your own life and change your life
it to your own life and change your life I got a little breakthrough section
I got a little breakthrough section
I got a little breakthrough section that’s one of them is frankly 30 minutes
that’s one of them is frankly 30 minutes
that’s one of them is frankly 30 minutes and some are probably 10 minutes so hang
and some are probably 10 minutes so hang
and some are probably 10 minutes so hang in there but it’ll show you how to use
in there but it’ll show you how to use
in there but it’ll show you how to use this for your own life to change or help
this for your own life to change or help
this for your own life to change or help other people to that’s another clip on
other people to that’s another clip on
other people to that’s another clip on the site I think that’s it for now
the site I think that’s it for now
the site I think that’s it for now LIVESTRONG it was passion god bless
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