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Be HONEST with Yourself – Mel Robbins (@melrobbins) – #Entspresso


good morning believe nation today’s

good morning believe nation today’s message is be honest with yourself

message is be honest with yourself

message is be honest with yourself over to you Mel Robbins we live in the

over to you Mel Robbins we live in the

over to you Mel Robbins we live in the most amazing moment in time so that

most amazing moment in time so that

most amazing moment in time so that thing that you have up here whatever it

thing that you have up here whatever it

thing that you have up here whatever it may be you want to use healthy eating to

may be you want to use healthy eating to

may be you want to use healthy eating to cure your diabetes you want to figure

cure your diabetes you want to figure

cure your diabetes you want to figure out how to take care of the elders and

out how to take care of the elders and

out how to take care of the elders and start a new hospice center you want to

start a new hospice center you want to

start a new hospice center you want to move to Africa and build a school guess

move to Africa and build a school guess

move to Africa and build a school guess what you can walk into a bookstore right

what you can walk into a bookstore right

what you can walk into a bookstore right now and buy at least ten books written

now and buy at least ten books written

now and buy at least ten books written by credentialed experts on how the hell

by credentialed experts on how the hell

by credentialed experts on how the hell you doing you could google it and you

you doing you could google it and you

you doing you could google it and you could probably find at least I know a

could probably find at least I know a

could probably find at least I know a thousand blogs documenting the step by

thousand blogs documenting the step by

thousand blogs documenting the step by step by step transformation that

step by step transformation that

step by step transformation that somebody else is already doing you can

somebody else is already doing you can

somebody else is already doing you can find anybody online and cyberstalk them

find anybody online and cyberstalk them

find anybody online and cyberstalk them you can just walk in there split steps

you can just walk in there split steps

you can just walk in there split steps and let that you know just use the

and let that you know just use the

and let that you know just use the science of drafting follow what everyone

science of drafting follow what everyone

science of drafting follow what everyone else has done cuz somebody else is

else has done cuz somebody else is

else has done cuz somebody else is already doing it

already doing it

already doing it so why don’t you have what you want when

so why don’t you have what you want when

so why don’t you have what you want when you have all the information that you

you have all the information that you

you have all the information that you need you have the contacts that you need

need you have the contacts that you need

need you have the contacts that you need there are probably free tools online

there are probably free tools online

there are probably free tools online that allow you to start a business or

that allow you to start a business or

that allow you to start a business or join a group or do whatever the heck you

join a group or do whatever the heck you

join a group or do whatever the heck you want it all comes down to one word

shut the front door you know what I’m

shut the front door you know what I’m talking about the f-bomb it’s everywhere

talking about the f-bomb it’s everywhere

talking about the f-bomb it’s everywhere you hear it all the time and I honestly

you hear it all the time and I honestly

you hear it all the time and I honestly don’t understand what the appeal is of

don’t understand what the appeal is of

don’t understand what the appeal is of the word I mean you don’t sound smart

the word I mean you don’t sound smart

the word I mean you don’t sound smart when you say it and it’s really not

when you say it and it’s really not

when you say it and it’s really not expressing how you really feel it’s sort

expressing how you really feel it’s sort

expressing how you really feel it’s sort of a cheap you know shot to take and of

of a cheap you know shot to take and of

of a cheap you know shot to take and of course you know I’m talking about the

course you know I’m talking about the

course you know I’m talking about the word fine how you doing on fine oh

word fine how you doing on fine oh

word fine how you doing on fine oh really you are dragging around those

really you are dragging around those

really you are dragging around those extra 40 pounds you’re fine

extra 40 pounds you’re fine

extra 40 pounds you’re fine feeling like roommates with your spouse

feeling like roommates with your spouse

feeling like roommates with your spouse and you’re fine you haven’t had sex in

and you’re fine you haven’t had sex in

and you’re fine you haven’t had sex in four months you’re fine really

four months you’re fine really

four months you’re fine really I don’t think so but see here’s the deal

I don’t think so but see here’s the deal

I don’t think so but see here’s the deal with saying that you’re fine it’s

with saying that you’re fine it’s

with saying that you’re fine it’s actually genius because if you’re fine

actually genius because if you’re fine

actually genius because if you’re fine you don’t have to do anything about it

you don’t have to do anything about it

you don’t have to do anything about it but when you think about this word fine

but when you think about this word fine

but when you think about this word fine it just makes me so angry I mean here we

it just makes me so angry I mean here we

it just makes me so angry I mean here we are at a conference about being alive

are at a conference about being alive

are at a conference about being alive and you’re going to describe the

and you’re going to describe the

and you’re going to describe the experience of being alive as fine a

experience of being alive as fine a

experience of being alive as fine a flimsy and feeble word your crappy so

flimsy and feeble word your crappy so

flimsy and feeble word your crappy so your crappy if you’re amazing say you’re

your crappy if you’re amazing say you’re

your crappy if you’re amazing say you’re amazing

amazing

amazing tell the truth and this not only goes

tell the truth and this not only goes

tell the truth and this not only goes for the social construct though I want

for the social construct though I want

for the social construct though I want to burden you with the fact that I hate

to burden you with the fact that I hate

to burden you with the fact that I hate my life for you I am amazing but that

my life for you I am amazing but that

my life for you I am amazing but that would make you feel terrible

would make you feel terrible

would make you feel terrible the bigger issue the bigger issue with

the bigger issue the bigger issue with

the bigger issue the bigger issue with fine is that you say it to yourself that

fine is that you say it to yourself that

fine is that you say it to yourself that thing that you want I guarantee you

thing that you want I guarantee you

thing that you want I guarantee you you’ve convinced yourself that you’re

you’ve convinced yourself that you’re

you’ve convinced yourself that you’re fine not having it that’s why you’re not

fine not having it that’s why you’re not

fine not having it that’s why you’re not pushing yourself it’s the areas in your

pushing yourself it’s the areas in your

pushing yourself it’s the areas in your life where you’ve given up where you’ve

life where you’ve given up where you’ve

life where you’ve given up where you’ve said oh I’m fine

said oh I’m fine

said oh I’m fine my mom’s never going to change so I just

my mom’s never going to change so I just

my mom’s never going to change so I just can’t have that conversation I’m fine

can’t have that conversation I’m fine

can’t have that conversation I’m fine you know we got to wait until the kids

you know we got to wait until the kids

you know we got to wait until the kids graduate before we get divorced so we’ll

graduate before we get divorced so we’ll

graduate before we get divorced so we’ll just sleep in separate bedrooms I’m fine

just sleep in separate bedrooms I’m fine

just sleep in separate bedrooms I’m fine I lost my job I can barely pay my bills

I lost my job I can barely pay my bills

I lost my job I can barely pay my bills but whatever it’s hard to get a job

and you know one of the reasons why this

and you know one of the reasons why this word also just annoys me so much is

word also just annoys me so much is

word also just annoys me so much is scientists have calculated oh yeah I’m

scientists have calculated oh yeah I’m

scientists have calculated oh yeah I’m coming down scientists have calculated

coming down scientists have calculated

coming down scientists have calculated the odds of you being born that’s right

the odds of you being born that’s right

the odds of you being born that’s right they’ve crunched the numbers I see you

they’ve crunched the numbers I see you

they’ve crunched the numbers I see you up there

up there

up there they have crunched the numbers on you

they have crunched the numbers on you

they have crunched the numbers on you yeah no you guys standing up you want to

yeah no you guys standing up you want to

yeah no you guys standing up you want to sit down to this they’ve crunched the

sit down to this they’ve crunched the

sit down to this they’ve crunched the numbers on you being born and they took

numbers on you being born and they took

numbers on you being born and they took into account all of the wars and the

into account all of the wars and the

into account all of the wars and the natural disasters and the dinosaurs and

natural disasters and the dinosaurs and

natural disasters and the dinosaurs and everything else and you realize that the

everything else and you realize that the

everything else and you realize that the odds the odds of you yeah right here put

odds the odds of you yeah right here put

odds the odds of you yeah right here put your computer way stand up for me done

so the odds of judger turn around say hi

so the odds of judger turn around say hi to everybody the odds

to everybody the odds

to everybody the odds yeah of Doug Doug’s being born at the

yeah of Doug Doug’s being born at the

yeah of Doug Doug’s being born at the moment in time he was born to the

moment in time he was born to the

moment in time he was born to the parents you were born to with the DNA

parents you were born to with the DNA

parents you were born to with the DNA structure that you have a hundred under

structure that you have a hundred under

structure that you have a hundred under one and four hundred trillion

one and four hundred trillion

one and four hundred trillion isn’t it amazing we’re so lucky yes

isn’t it amazing we’re so lucky yes

isn’t it amazing we’re so lucky yes you’re not fine you’re fantastic

you’re not fine you’re fantastic

you’re not fine you’re fantastic you have life-changing ideas for a

you have life-changing ideas for a

you have life-changing ideas for a reason and it’s not to torture yourself

reason and it’s not to torture yourself

reason and it’s not to torture yourself thank you thank you Doug you know

thank you thank you Doug you know

thank you thank you Doug you know Christine was right when she said all of

Christine was right when she said all of

Christine was right when she said all of you could be on stage because all of you

you could be on stage because all of you

you could be on stage because all of you are all in this category one and four

are all in this category one and four

are all in this category one and four hundred trillion all day long you have

hundred trillion all day long you have

hundred trillion all day long you have ideas that could change your life that

ideas that could change your life that

ideas that could change your life that could change the world that could change

could change the world that could change

could change the world that could change the way that you feel and what do you do

the way that you feel and what do you do

the way that you feel and what do you do with them nothing Oh hopefully it won’t

with them nothing Oh hopefully it won’t

with them nothing Oh hopefully it won’t loan you

loan you

loan you we didn’t pay for that to be an

we didn’t pay for that to be an

we didn’t pay for that to be an exceptional entrepreneur you need to be

exceptional entrepreneur you need to be

exceptional entrepreneur you need to be allergic to mediocrity you need to have

allergic to mediocrity you need to have

allergic to mediocrity you need to have an allergy to mediocrity you got to take

an allergy to mediocrity you got to take

an allergy to mediocrity you got to take something that has been good and has

something that has been good and has

something that has been good and has been good and has been good and make it

been good and has been good and make it

been good and has been good and make it great be upset as good that’s the way

great be upset as good that’s the way

great be upset as good that’s the way great progress happens and the only way

great progress happens and the only way

great progress happens and the only way you do it is because you have that deep

you do it is because you have that deep

you do it is because you have that deep love for what you’re doing is that deep

love for what you’re doing is that deep

love for what you’re doing is that deep love for your business because otherwise

love for your business because otherwise

love for your business because otherwise you’re going to say that’s okay you know

you’re going to say that’s okay you know

you’re going to say that’s okay you know what that video are made that was okay

what that video are made that was okay

what that video are made that was okay I’m good with it he just keeps staying

I’m good with it he just keeps staying

I’m good with it he just keeps staying on the same treadmill instead of moving

on the same treadmill instead of moving

on the same treadmill instead of moving forward I really got a comment on one of

forward I really got a comment on one of

forward I really got a comment on one of my youtube videos I was talking about my

my youtube videos I was talking about my

my youtube videos I was talking about my book and I’m not super happy with my

book and I’m not super happy with my

book and I’m not super happy with my book cover talking about lessons I had

book cover talking about lessons I had

book cover talking about lessons I had learned in my book launch and one of the

learned in my book launch and one of the

learned in my book launch and one of the things that I wish I had more time when

things that I wish I had more time when

things that I wish I had more time when was my book cover because it wasn’t a

was my book cover because it wasn’t a

was my book cover because it wasn’t a huge fan of it and I got a comment and

huge fan of it and I got a comment and

huge fan of it and I got a comment and the comment was it’s easily an above

the comment was it’s easily an above

the comment was it’s easily an above average book cover and I get it I get

average book cover and I get it I get

average book cover and I get it I get the love I don’t want to rip into this

the love I don’t want to rip into this

the love I don’t want to rip into this comment I get to love write it it’s what

comment I get to love write it it’s what

comment I get to love write it it’s what we do we try to encourage others to do

we do we try to encourage others to do

we do we try to encourage others to do better when when we have found that we

better when when we have found that we

better when when we have found that we are unhappy with something right and

are unhappy with something right and

are unhappy with something right and we’re down what do people tell us oh

we’re down what do people tell us oh

we’re down what do people tell us oh you’re doing a great job you’re doing

you’re doing a great job you’re doing

you’re doing a great job you’re doing really well that’s an above average

really well that’s an above average

really well that’s an above average performance I don’t want to be above

performance I don’t want to be above

performance I don’t want to be above average it drives me nuts

average it drives me nuts

average it drives me nuts I do not want to be above average I want

I do not want to be above average I want

I do not want to be above average I want you guys to hold me to a higher standard

you guys to hold me to a higher standard

you guys to hold me to a higher standard – I want suggestions and he forgot how

– I want suggestions and he forgot how

– I want suggestions and he forgot how to make things better but when I look at

to make things better but when I look at

to make things better but when I look at the things that I make I’m equally happy

the things that I make I’m equally happy

the things that I make I’m equally happy with them like I’m proud of what we made

with them like I’m proud of what we made

with them like I’m proud of what we made with the resources we have skills

with the resources we have skills

with the resources we have skills ability but at the same time wanted to

ability but at the same time wanted to

ability but at the same time wanted to be better I wanted to be it’s a lot of

be better I wanted to be it’s a lot of

be better I wanted to be it’s a lot of to be more that’s what we do progress

to be more that’s what we do progress

to be more that’s what we do progress equals happiness you want to grow you

equals happiness you want to grow you

equals happiness you want to grow you want to continue to get better otherwise

want to continue to get better otherwise

want to continue to get better otherwise you get bored and your customers get

you get bored and your customers get

you get bored and your customers get bored your audience gets bored and so I

bored your audience gets bored and so I

bored your audience gets bored and so I don’t think you should ever settle for

don’t think you should ever settle for

don’t think you should ever settle for above average in anything if you know

above average in anything if you know

above average in anything if you know you can do better if you’re performing

you can do better if you’re performing

you can do better if you’re performing at the top of your abilities right now

at the top of your abilities right now

at the top of your abilities right now then that’s okay then that’s great

then that’s okay then that’s great

then that’s okay then that’s great that’s what you want to be doing but if

that’s what you want to be doing but if

that’s what you want to be doing but if you know you can do better

you know you can do better

you know you can do better push harder there’s a lot of people who

push harder there’s a lot of people who

push harder there’s a lot of people who may look up to somebody and say well

may look up to somebody and say well

may look up to somebody and say well look at what they’re doing and you know

look at what they’re doing and you know

look at what they’re doing and you know you can get there but you can’t you’re

you can get there but you can’t you’re

you can get there but you can’t you’re not there yet you want to play this

not there yet you want to play this

not there yet you want to play this beautiful piece of piano you know you

beautiful piece of piano you know you

beautiful piece of piano you know you know you can get there you’re just

know you can get there you’re just

know you can get there you’re just starting off learning a couple keys now

starting off learning a couple keys now

starting off learning a couple keys now maybe right now that’s all you can do is

maybe right now that’s all you can do is

maybe right now that’s all you can do is a couple keys but you can work harder to

a couple keys but you can work harder to

a couple keys but you can work harder to get better and improve improve improve

get better and improve improve improve

get better and improve improve improve improve improve progress equals

improve improve progress equals

improve improve progress equals happiness stop settling for average and

happiness stop settling for average and

happiness stop settling for average and you know what one thing I would

you know what one thing I would

you know what one thing I would challenge you to do it’s always easy to

challenge you to do it’s always easy to

challenge you to do it’s always easy to lean in on empathy when you see a friend

lean in on empathy when you see a friend

lean in on empathy when you see a friend who’s down it’s easy to lean on empathy

who’s down it’s easy to lean on empathy

who’s down it’s easy to lean on empathy but maybe you should push them to do

but maybe you should push them to do

but maybe you should push them to do better even when somebody’s down on

better even when somebody’s down on

better even when somebody’s down on their luck or maybe when someone made a

their luck or maybe when someone made a

their luck or maybe when someone made a video on they and they sucked at it

video on they and they sucked at it

video on they and they sucked at it maybe telling them I feel you I know you

maybe telling them I feel you I know you

maybe telling them I feel you I know you can do a lot better and so just saying

can do a lot better and so just saying

can do a lot better and so just saying that was really good when you know that

that was really good when you know that

that was really good when you know that I wasn’t even really good right we tell

I wasn’t even really good right we tell

I wasn’t even really good right we tell we tell ourselves we tell others the

we tell ourselves we tell others the

we tell ourselves we tell others the things that something is really good

things that something is really good

things that something is really good when we know it’s not and you don’t have

when we know it’s not and you don’t have

when we know it’s not and you don’t have to beat them down but telling them that

to beat them down but telling them that

to beat them down but telling them that you know they can do better you believe

you know they can do better you believe

you know they can do better you believe in them can make all the difference in

in them can make all the difference in

in them can make all the difference in the world and bringing them back up and

the world and bringing them back up and

the world and bringing them back up and then shooting beyond their comfort zone

then shooting beyond their comfort zone

then shooting beyond their comfort zone stop settling for average so the

stop settling for average so the

stop settling for average so the question today today is I’m curious what

question today today is I’m curious what

question today today is I’m curious what are you guys right now settling for

are you guys right now settling for

are you guys right now settling for average in that you want to start

average in that you want to start

average in that you want to start pushing harder on leave it now in the

pushing harder on leave it now in the

pushing harder on leave it now in the comments below

comments below

comments below I’m curious see what you guys have to

I’m curious see what you guys have to

I’m curious see what you guys have to say I also give a quick shout out to

say I also give a quick shout out to

say I also give a quick shout out to Malika I hope I pronounced that okay

Malika I hope I pronounced that okay

Malika I hope I pronounced that okay thank you so much for breaking up a copy

thank you so much for breaking up a copy

thank you so much for breaking up a copy of my book your one word

of my book your one word

of my book your one word really really really means a lot to me

really really really means a lot to me

really really really means a lot to me and I hope you enjoying the read thank

and I hope you enjoying the read thank

and I hope you enjoying the read thank you guys again for watching I believe in

you guys again for watching I believe in

you guys again for watching I believe in you I hope you continue to believe in

you I hope you continue to believe in

you I hope you continue to believe in yourself and whatever your word word is

yourself and whatever your word word is

yourself and whatever your word word is what’s love I will see you again

what’s love I will see you again

what’s love I will see you again tomorrow morning for another shot of

tomorrow morning for another shot of

tomorrow morning for another shot of espresso

when I was 22 right after I graduated

when I was 22 right after I graduated from Dartmouth I was so focused on

from Dartmouth I was so focused on

from Dartmouth I was so focused on making everyone happy that I almost

making everyone happy that I almost

making everyone happy that I almost chose the worst possible career for my

chose the worst possible career for my

chose the worst possible career for my personality it’s not a bad career it

personality it’s not a bad career it

personality it’s not a bad career it just would have been horrendous for me I

just would have been horrendous for me I

just would have been horrendous for me I was interested in the environment so I

was interested in the environment so I

was interested in the environment so I decided oh yeah I’ll go get a law degree

decided oh yeah I’ll go get a law degree

decided oh yeah I’ll go get a law degree and then I’ll go work in Washington and

and then I’ll go work in Washington and

and then I’ll go work in Washington and I think maybe I’ll work on environmental

I think maybe I’ll work on environmental

I think maybe I’ll work on environmental policy and I’d probably end up in some

policy and I’d probably end up in some

policy and I’d probably end up in some cube farm and everyone was thrilled with

cube farm and everyone was thrilled with

cube farm and everyone was thrilled with the plan everyone it turns out but me so

the plan everyone it turns out but me so

the plan everyone it turns out but me so here I am I’m driving a u-haul across

here I am I’m driving a u-haul across

here I am I’m driving a u-haul across country to go to law school and to get a

country to go to law school and to get a

country to go to law school and to get a degree in environmental law and

degree in environmental law and

degree in environmental law and something started to gnaw at me and with

something started to gnaw at me and with

something started to gnaw at me and with every single mile that I drove my

every single mile that I drove my

every single mile that I drove my thoughts were getting louder and doubts

thoughts were getting louder and doubts

thoughts were getting louder and doubts were starting to pour in my gut was

were starting to pour in my gut was

were starting to pour in my gut was telling me Mel turn the damn u-haul

telling me Mel turn the damn u-haul

telling me Mel turn the damn u-haul around but the problem was that

around but the problem was that

around but the problem was that everything was already in place right I

everything was already in place right I

everything was already in place right I mean I’m already in the u-haul the thing

mean I’m already in the u-haul the thing

mean I’m already in the u-haul the thing is already packed I’m already 10 miles

is already packed I’m already 10 miles

is already packed I’m already 10 miles into my drive the tuition had been paid

into my drive the tuition had been paid

into my drive the tuition had been paid for the first semester I had signed a

for the first semester I had signed a

for the first semester I had signed a lease I mean I could not undo these

lease I mean I could not undo these

lease I mean I could not undo these things

things

things isn’t that why it’s so difficult for you

isn’t that why it’s so difficult for you

isn’t that why it’s so difficult for you to make changes in your life because you

to make changes in your life because you

to make changes in your life because you think that things can’t be undone the

think that things can’t be undone the

think that things can’t be undone the fact is any excuse that you come up with

fact is any excuse that you come up with

fact is any excuse that you come up with you can undo tuition can be reimbursed

you can undo tuition can be reimbursed

you can undo tuition can be reimbursed apartments can be leased Plan B can be

apartments can be leased Plan B can be

apartments can be leased Plan B can be invented so I got up I repack that

invented so I got up I repack that

invented so I got up I repack that u-haul and I drove out of town

u-haul and I drove out of town

u-haul and I drove out of town I let myself make a u-turn in life if

I let myself make a u-turn in life if

I let myself make a u-turn in life if you ever find your gut battling your

you ever find your gut battling your

you ever find your gut battling your head save yourself the drama I guarantee

head save yourself the drama I guarantee

head save yourself the drama I guarantee you your gut is right guarantee you your

you your gut is right guarantee you your

you your gut is right guarantee you your excuses can be undone and I guarantee

excuses can be undone and I guarantee

excuses can be undone and I guarantee you you can make a u-turn in your life

you you can make a u-turn in your life

you you can make a u-turn in your life right now if you want to so if it were

right now if you want to so if it were

right now if you want to so if it were easy to get what you wanted in life

easy to get what you wanted in life

easy to get what you wanted in life Google would have already figured out an

Google would have already figured out an

Google would have already figured out an app you would just type in okay I’m a

app you would just type in okay I’m a

app you would just type in okay I’m a student and I want to go from being a

student and I want to go from being a

student and I want to go from being a student to being successful and Google

student to being successful and Google

student to being successful and Google would tell you go to college then you

would tell you go to college then you

would tell you go to college then you get your masters then you land this

get your masters then you land this

get your masters then you land this killer job and then you put in a bunch

killer job and then you put in a bunch

killer job and then you put in a bunch of face time while you’re checking

of face time while you’re checking

of face time while you’re checking Facebook then you get promoted to

Facebook then you get promoted to

Facebook then you get promoted to manager

manager

manager then you realize managing people kind of

then you realize managing people kind of

then you realize managing people kind of thinks and then you keep climbing the

thinks and then you keep climbing the

thinks and then you keep climbing the corporate ladder and then you start to

corporate ladder and then you start to

corporate ladder and then you start to wonder well how did I end up here

wonder well how did I end up here

wonder well how did I end up here anyways this what success looks like

anyways this what success looks like

anyways this what success looks like you’re like no I’m going to go to Jay

you’re like no I’m going to go to Jay

you’re like no I’m going to go to Jay hilburn that’s what success looks like

so keep this in mind if there’s

so keep this in mind if there’s something that you want like seven

something that you want like seven

something that you want like seven people or a trip to Africa or you’re

people or a trip to Africa or you’re

people or a trip to Africa or you’re going to make it to Mexico in the pink

going to make it to Mexico in the pink

going to make it to Mexico in the pink shirt I’m looking at you again sir

shirt I’m looking at you again sir

shirt I’m looking at you again sir I’m watching you and rooting for you

I’m watching you and rooting for you

I’m watching you and rooting for you keep in mind this here you are this is

keep in mind this here you are this is

keep in mind this here you are this is what you want I spend a lot of time on

what you want I spend a lot of time on

what you want I spend a lot of time on lacrosse fields although they don’t

lacrosse fields although they don’t

lacrosse fields although they don’t really look like this you tend to think

really look like this you tend to think

really look like this you tend to think that what you want you just march right

that what you want you just march right

that what you want you just march right towards it but if in sports you march

towards it but if in sports you march

towards it but if in sports you march right towards the goal what happens the

right towards the goal what happens the

right towards the goal what happens the defenders come in and what the defenders

defenders come in and what the defenders

defenders come in and what the defenders are is it’s your brain saying ain’t

are is it’s your brain saying ain’t

are is it’s your brain saying ain’t going to happen

going to happen

going to happen so the second you start moving toward

so the second you start moving toward

so the second you start moving toward that thing you want be ready you’re

that thing you want be ready you’re

that thing you want be ready you’re going to tell yourself you don’t feel

going to tell yourself you don’t feel

going to tell yourself you don’t feel like it you’re going to have to force

like it you’re going to have to force

like it you’re going to have to force yourself it’s happening there’s no way

yourself it’s happening there’s no way

yourself it’s happening there’s no way to get around it so what you’re going to

to get around it so what you’re going to

to get around it so what you’re going to have to do is you’re going to basically

have to do is you’re going to basically

have to do is you’re going to basically get bounced around a lot all over the

get bounced around a lot all over the

get bounced around a lot all over the place and they’re going to be a lot of

place and they’re going to be a lot of

place and they’re going to be a lot of times that you feel like this was a

times that you feel like this was a

times that you feel like this was a really dumb idea to start this business

really dumb idea to start this business

really dumb idea to start this business because it’s going to get hard and I

because it’s going to get hard and I

because it’s going to get hard and I want to remind you about something

want to remind you about something

want to remind you about something unlike a sports field where there’s an

unlike a sports field where there’s an

unlike a sports field where there’s an in and out of bounds the great thing

in and out of bounds the great thing

in and out of bounds the great thing about life is there actually aren’t any

about life is there actually aren’t any

about life is there actually aren’t any and it’s usually in those moments where

and it’s usually in those moments where

and it’s usually in those moments where you feel like you can’t do it that

you feel like you can’t do it that

you feel like you can’t do it that you’re closer than ever to having

you’re closer than ever to having

you’re closer than ever to having everything that you wanted and I wanted

everything that you wanted and I wanted

everything that you wanted and I wanted to show you this so that you keep it in

to show you this so that you keep it in

to show you this so that you keep it in mind because I think a lot of times when

mind because I think a lot of times when

mind because I think a lot of times when you look back it’s the darkest moments

you look back it’s the darkest moments

you look back it’s the darkest moments where you realize holy cow that’s what

where you realize holy cow that’s what

where you realize holy cow that’s what projected me forward

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