good morning believe nation today’s message is be comfortable with who you
message is be comfortable with who you
message is be comfortable with who you are over to you Salma Hayek you should
are over to you Salma Hayek you should
are over to you Salma Hayek you should not wait for someone else’s opinion to
not wait for someone else’s opinion to
not wait for someone else’s opinion to decide who you are it’s nice if
decide who you are it’s nice if
decide who you are it’s nice if somebody’s supportive of you and
somebody’s supportive of you and
somebody’s supportive of you and embracive of you but you should be
embracive of you but you should be
embracive of you but you should be comfortable with who you are and come to
comfortable with who you are and come to
comfortable with who you are and come to terms with who you are regardless of
terms with who you are regardless of
terms with who you are regardless of others people’s acceptance because then
others people’s acceptance because then
others people’s acceptance because then it’s you giving the power to the other
it’s you giving the power to the other
it’s you giving the power to the other person ah this one said I was I was the
person ah this one said I was I was the
person ah this one said I was I was the terrible oh I’m terrible he thinks I’m
terrible oh I’m terrible he thinks I’m
terrible oh I’m terrible he thinks I’m terrible oh why does he think I’m
terrible oh why does he think I’m
terrible oh why does he think I’m terrible I’m good I’m not and then
terrible I’m good I’m not and then
terrible I’m good I’m not and then somebody else comes it’s not you know
somebody else comes it’s not you know
somebody else comes it’s not you know terrible okay I’m not terrible because
terrible okay I’m not terrible because
terrible okay I’m not terrible because the other one says you’re not terrible
the other one says you’re not terrible
the other one says you’re not terrible so you’re again waiting for someone else
so you’re again waiting for someone else
so you’re again waiting for someone else to tell you who you are or what you are
to tell you who you are or what you are
to tell you who you are or what you are or what you’re supposed to be what
or what you’re supposed to be what
or what you’re supposed to be what you’re supposed to feel good about what
you’re supposed to feel good about what
you’re supposed to feel good about what you are who you are it should not be
you are who you are it should not be
you are who you are it should not be healed because somebody else likes you
healed because somebody else likes you
healed because somebody else likes you it should be healed because you believe
it should be healed because you believe
it should be healed because you believe something good about yourself so what
something good about yourself so what
something good about yourself so what the other person thinks of you should
the other person thinks of you should
the other person thinks of you should not matter as much focus on yourself on
not matter as much focus on yourself on
not matter as much focus on yourself on improving yourself or being a good
improving yourself or being a good
improving yourself or being a good person yourself focus on you liking
person yourself focus on you liking
person yourself focus on you liking yourself do you like who you are be the
yourself do you like who you are be the
yourself do you like who you are be the best that you can be and do not try to
best that you can be and do not try to
best that you can be and do not try to be like anyone else I really love this
be like anyone else I really love this
be like anyone else I really love this message and for me this is one of those
message and for me this is one of those
message and for me this is one of those things that is super easy to love and
things that is super easy to love and
things that is super easy to love and super easy to agree with but difficult
super easy to agree with but difficult
super easy to agree with but difficult to execute I think most people who watch
to execute I think most people who watch
to execute I think most people who watch this clip would agree that yes I want to
this clip would agree that yes I want to
this clip would agree that yes I want to be comfortable with me I want to live my
be comfortable with me I want to live my
be comfortable with me I want to live my life and not always worry about being
life and not always worry about being
life and not always worry about being judged by others I think people want to
judged by others I think people want to
judged by others I think people want to do that but the execution is hard all of
do that but the execution is hard all of
do that but the execution is hard all of our lives we’re we’re trained to seek
our lives we’re we’re trained to seek
our lives we’re we’re trained to seek acceptance and approval right when we’re
acceptance and approval right when we’re
acceptance and approval right when we’re really young we want to
really young we want to
really young we want to parents to give us approval and see we
parents to give us approval and see we
parents to give us approval and see we did a good job and as we go through
did a good job and as we go through
did a good job and as we go through school we want you know our teachers to
school we want you know our teachers to
school we want you know our teachers to give us an A and get their recognition
give us an A and get their recognition
give us an A and get their recognition and we get the awards in the metal and
and we get the awards in the metal and
and we get the awards in the metal and so we’re trained to want to fit in be a
so we’re trained to want to fit in be a
so we’re trained to want to fit in be a part of the club get acceptance and warm
part of the club get acceptance and warm
part of the club get acceptance and warm feelings and we want people to tell us
feelings and we want people to tell us
feelings and we want people to tell us that we’re doing a good job and I think
that we’re doing a good job and I think
that we’re doing a good job and I think that’s dangerous and data can really
that’s dangerous and data can really
that’s dangerous and data can really weaken your confidence in that when you
weaken your confidence in that when you
weaken your confidence in that when you want to do something that’s different
want to do something that’s different
want to do something that’s different that’s outside the norm and when people
that’s outside the norm and when people
that’s outside the norm and when people don’t support you it makes it really
don’t support you it makes it really
don’t support you it makes it really hard to to try and keep going and you
hard to to try and keep going and you
hard to to try and keep going and you might start for a little bit and then
might start for a little bit and then
might start for a little bit and then stop and start and stop again I think
stop and start and stop again I think
stop and start and stop again I think the people who do make the breakthroughs
the people who do make the breakthroughs
the people who do make the breakthroughs the people who really take charge of
the people who really take charge of
the people who really take charge of their own life to people who really
their own life to people who really
their own life to people who really truly don’t care make a decision at some
truly don’t care make a decision at some
truly don’t care make a decision at some point that they’re gonna live their
point that they’re gonna live their
point that they’re gonna live their version of their life and not someone
version of their life and not someone
version of their life and not someone else’s are you doing this whatever it is
else’s are you doing this whatever it is
else’s are you doing this whatever it is you’re doing your career your
you’re doing your career your
you’re doing your career your relationship whatever it is are you
relationship whatever it is are you
relationship whatever it is are you doing it because you’re trying to make
doing it because you’re trying to make
doing it because you’re trying to make somebody else happy or you’re trying to
somebody else happy or you’re trying to
somebody else happy or you’re trying to make yourself happy and it doesn’t mean
make yourself happy and it doesn’t mean
make yourself happy and it doesn’t mean you have to be super selfish and only
you have to be super selfish and only
you have to be super selfish and only think of yourself because what you do
think of yourself because what you do
think of yourself because what you do Kayne’s serve others can help others can
Kayne’s serve others can help others can
Kayne’s serve others can help others can give back you can be a valuable part of
give back you can be a valuable part of
give back you can be a valuable part of your community but the reason why you’re
your community but the reason why you’re
your community but the reason why you’re doing is because it makes you come alive
doing is because it makes you come alive
doing is because it makes you come alive because you decided that this is
because you decided that this is
because you decided that this is something that I want to do to not be an
something that I want to do to not be an
something that I want to do to not be an accountant or a doctor or lawyer because
accountant or a doctor or lawyer because
accountant or a doctor or lawyer because that’s what your parents want to be if
that’s what your parents want to be if
that’s what your parents want to be if you want to go be that that’s great but
you want to go be that that’s great but
you want to go be that that’s great but you’re not doing it because there’s
you’re not doing it because there’s
you’re not doing it because there’s family pressures for you to have to do
family pressures for you to have to do
family pressures for you to have to do that and so I know it’s hard and I know
that and so I know it’s hard and I know
that and so I know it’s hard and I know it’s tough but when you see those people
it’s tough but when you see those people
it’s tough but when you see those people make that decision that I’m gonna live
make that decision that I’m gonna live
make that decision that I’m gonna live my version of my life and not somebody
my version of my life and not somebody
my version of my life and not somebody else’s version that’s when you start to
else’s version that’s when you start to
else’s version that’s when you start to see massive transformation that’s when
see massive transformation that’s when
see massive transformation that’s when you start to see people do a total 180
you start to see people do a total 180
you start to see people do a total 180 on their life and you start to see
on their life and you start to see
on their life and you start to see explosive growth and you start to
explosive growth and you start to
explosive growth and you start to finally come alive and you start to
finally come alive and you start to
finally come alive and you start to finally be excited and happy and things
finally be excited and happy and things
finally be excited and happy and things start falling into place and you don’t
start falling into place and you don’t
start falling into place and you don’t go to bed hating your life anymore but
go to bed hating your life anymore but
go to bed hating your life anymore but it doesn’t happen until you make the
it doesn’t happen until you make the
it doesn’t happen until you make the commitment to yourself that this is your
commitment to yourself that this is your
commitment to yourself that this is your life that you’re gonna live and I
life that you’re gonna live and I
life that you’re gonna live and I appreciate the people around me and
appreciate the people around me and
appreciate the people around me and appreciate the advices are trying to
appreciate the advices are trying to
appreciate the advices are trying to give but I’m doing it for me
give but I’m doing it for me
give but I’m doing it for me I’m not doing it because of that so the
I’m not doing it because of that so the
I’m not doing it because of that so the question today today is I’m curious what
question today today is I’m curious what
question today today is I’m curious what prevents you from being comfortable with
prevents you from being comfortable with
prevents you from being comfortable with who you are leave it in the comments
who you are leave it in the comments
who you are leave it in the comments below and hopefully we can all help each
below and hopefully we can all help each
below and hopefully we can all help each other out thank you guys so much for
other out thank you guys so much for
other out thank you guys so much for watching having a
watching having a
watching having a amazing they continue to believe and
amazing they continue to believe and
amazing they continue to believe and I’ll see you again tomorrow morning for
I’ll see you again tomorrow morning for
I’ll see you again tomorrow morning for another shot of espresso
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