at a time when people are going to work and don’t know whether or not they will
and don’t know whether or not they will
and don’t know whether or not they will have a job when they get off and not
have a job when they get off and not
have a job when they get off and not necessarily because of their performance
necessarily because of their performance
necessarily because of their performance but because what’s happening in the
but because what’s happening in the
but because what’s happening in the economy at a time when there are
economy at a time when there are
economy at a time when there are challenges more so than ever before in
challenges more so than ever before in
challenges more so than ever before in personal relationships we look at what’s
personal relationships we look at what’s
personal relationships we look at what’s happening on a crime level and what’s
happening on a crime level and what’s
happening on a crime level and what’s happening without you that many times
happening without you that many times
happening without you that many times I’m sure that we’ve all taken time just
I’m sure that we’ve all taken time just
I’m sure that we’ve all taken time just to stop and reflect many times when we
to stop and reflect many times when we
to stop and reflect many times when we hear what’s happening in the news or
hear what’s happening in the news or
hear what’s happening in the news or read the newspapers where’s always
read the newspapers where’s always
read the newspapers where’s always leading story money and so I think that
leading story money and so I think that
leading story money and so I think that now more than ever we must begin to look
now more than ever we must begin to look
now more than ever we must begin to look at what are the things that we can do
at what are the things that we can do
at what are the things that we can do that would put us on some firm footing
that would put us on some firm footing
that would put us on some firm footing in life that will enable us to do some
in life that will enable us to do some
in life that will enable us to do some things and use some powers that we have
things and use some powers that we have
things and use some powers that we have that many of us go through life never
that many of us go through life never
that many of us go through life never ever discovering that we have those
ever discovering that we have those
ever discovering that we have those things going for it and part of that I
things going for it and part of that I
things going for it and part of that I believe is knowing what it is your life
believe is knowing what it is your life
believe is knowing what it is your life work what is it that gives your life a
work what is it that gives your life a
work what is it that gives your life a sense of meaning and purpose because
sense of meaning and purpose because
sense of meaning and purpose because once you find that it puts you in your
once you find that it puts you in your
once you find that it puts you in your power place see if you know what your
power place see if you know what your
power place see if you know what your life work is I encourage you to start
life work is I encourage you to start
life work is I encourage you to start working on it if you can’t do it all at
working on it if you can’t do it all at
working on it if you can’t do it all at one time do just a little bit of it and
one time do just a little bit of it and
one time do just a little bit of it and if you don’t know what it is if you
if you don’t know what it is if you
if you don’t know what it is if you showed up to do you don’t know why
showed up to do you don’t know why
showed up to do you don’t know why you’re here I encourage you to find out
you’re here I encourage you to find out
you’re here I encourage you to find out what your purpose is here what is the
what your purpose is here what is the
what your purpose is here what is the meaning of your life what will be
meaning of your life what will be
meaning of your life what will be different have you’ve asked yourself
different have you’ve asked yourself
different have you’ve asked yourself I’ve done that up I remember coming from
I’ve done that up I remember coming from
I’ve done that up I remember coming from a friends of my funeral and I was
a friends of my funeral and I was
a friends of my funeral and I was reflecting on how much time I had left
reflecting on how much time I had left
reflecting on how much time I had left and I went for a walk in a park thinking
and I went for a walk in a park thinking
and I went for a walk in a park thinking about this guy whose life was so
about this guy whose life was so
about this guy whose life was so promising and I mean what in the nose is
promising and I mean what in the nose is
promising and I mean what in the nose is quite the onion fact and I thought about
quite the onion fact and I thought about
quite the onion fact and I thought about all of the things that he said he was
all of the things that he said he was
all of the things that he said he was going to do and he never got a chance to
going to do and he never got a chance to
going to do and he never got a chance to do those things and I start thinking
do those things and I start thinking
do those things and I start thinking about my own life and how much time I
about my own life and how much time I
about my own life and how much time I had left to do the things that I would
had left to do the things that I would
had left to do the things that I would like to do and at that time I wasn’t
like to do and at that time I wasn’t
like to do and at that time I wasn’t sure what my life’s purpose was what’s
sure what my life’s purpose was what’s
sure what my life’s purpose was what’s my life worth look I wasn’t sure about
my life worth look I wasn’t sure about
my life worth look I wasn’t sure about it at that time and I thought about it
it at that time and I thought about it
it at that time and I thought about it quite a lot I had some idea but I wasn’t
quite a lot I had some idea but I wasn’t
quite a lot I had some idea but I wasn’t convinced I don’t think I felt worried I
convinced I don’t think I felt worried I
convinced I don’t think I felt worried I didn’t believe that it could be needed
didn’t believe that it could be needed
didn’t believe that it could be needed to do this kind of work that I’m doing
to do this kind of work that I’m doing
to do this kind of work that I’m doing right now and I say to you that if you
right now and I say to you that if you
right now and I say to you that if you begin to take a conscious effort to find
begin to take a conscious effort to find
begin to take a conscious effort to find out what it is that you’re supposed to
out what it is that you’re supposed to
out what it is that you’re supposed to do I say that it can literally save your
do I say that it can literally save your
do I say that it can literally save your life I said that it can you literally
life I said that it can you literally
life I said that it can you literally save your life I was telling a group of
save your life I was telling a group of
save your life I was telling a group of people of a study that was conducted dr.
people of a study that was conducted dr.
people of a study that was conducted dr. Larry Dossey who wrote a book called
Larry Dossey who wrote a book called
Larry Dossey who wrote a book called recovery to soul
recovery to soul
recovery to soul in fact human beings are the only living
in fact human beings are the only living
in fact human beings are the only living species that has achieved the dubious
species that has achieved the dubious
species that has achieved the dubious distinction of dying or having a stroke
distinction of dying or having a stroke
distinction of dying or having a stroke or heart attack on a certain day if you
or heart attack on a certain day if you
or heart attack on a certain day if you ask most people what would you say the
ask most people what would you say the
ask most people what would you say the primary cause why people would have a
primary cause why people would have a
primary cause why people would have a heart attack of stroke many people say
heart attack of stroke many people say
heart attack of stroke many people say well because they smoke cigarettes or
well because they smoke cigarettes or
well because they smoke cigarettes or because of high cholesterol or because
because of high cholesterol or because
because of high cholesterol or because of stress or because of obesity and all
of stress or because of obesity and all
of stress or because of obesity and all of those things are contributing factors
of those things are contributing factors
of those things are contributing factors when ladies and gentlemen more heart
when ladies and gentlemen more heart
when ladies and gentlemen more heart attacks take place in this country on
attacks take place in this country on
attacks take place in this country on Monday morning between 8:00 and 9:00
Monday morning between 8:00 and 9:00
Monday morning between 8:00 and 9:00 a.m. that’s when the majority of people
a.m. that’s when the majority of people
a.m. that’s when the majority of people who have their first heart attack have
who have their first heart attack have
who have their first heart attack have in eighty five percent of the American
in eighty five percent of the American
in eighty five percent of the American public according to recent studies of
public according to recent studies of
public according to recent studies of going to jobs that they hate working on
going to jobs that they hate working on
going to jobs that they hate working on jobs that do not challenge this
migraine headaches after the Sunday
migraine headaches after the Sunday afternoon football game or sixty minutes
afternoon football game or sixty minutes
afternoon football game or sixty minutes being Barney begin to build and come
being Barney begin to build and come
being Barney begin to build and come Monday morning they drop dead of a
Monday morning they drop dead of a
Monday morning they drop dead of a fuckin halt some of you want to think
fuckin halt some of you want to think
fuckin halt some of you want to think about not going to work on Monday thank
about not going to work on Monday thank
about not going to work on Monday thank about this people are literally dying to
about this people are literally dying to
about this people are literally dying to go to work
Oh
Oh [Music]
[Music]
[Music] because then you’ve got your job and you
because then you’ve got your job and you
because then you’ve got your job and you already know how far you can go you can
already know how far you can go you can
already know how far you can go you can already see that proverbial glass
already see that proverbial glass
already see that proverbial glass ceiling it’s like going to a movie when
ceiling it’s like going to a movie when
ceiling it’s like going to a movie when you’ve gone in in the middle of the
you’ve gone in in the middle of the
you’ve gone in in the middle of the movie and you’ve seen the innings and
movie and you’ve seen the innings and
movie and you’ve seen the innings and you fit that afford to start all over
you fit that afford to start all over
you fit that afford to start all over again but something is missing you know
again but something is missing you know
again but something is missing you know what the outcome is going to be you
what the outcome is going to be you
what the outcome is going to be you can’t get excited about going through
can’t get excited about going through
can’t get excited about going through that movie all over again am i correct
that movie all over again am i correct
that movie all over again am i correct see when you’re going some places you
see when you’re going some places you
see when you’re going some places you already know how much you’re going to
already know how much you’re going to
already know how much you’re going to make you already know how far you can go
make you already know how far you can go
make you already know how far you can go you’re in a dead-end position it erodes
you’re in a dead-end position it erodes
you’re in a dead-end position it erodes your self-esteem it lowers your sense of
your self-esteem it lowers your sense of
your self-esteem it lowers your sense of yourself it creates a give it form or it
yourself it creates a give it form or it
yourself it creates a give it form or it creates an openness in you so I say that
creates an openness in you so I say that
creates an openness in you so I say that your life is worth finally what it is it
your life is worth finally what it is it
your life is worth finally what it is it is possible
is possible
is possible [Music]
[Music]
[Music] and I’m not saying Twitter job I’m
and I’m not saying Twitter job I’m
and I’m not saying Twitter job I’m saying find it in just a little bit
saying find it in just a little bit
saying find it in just a little bit other one I wanted to become involved in
other one I wanted to become involved in
other one I wanted to become involved in speaking I started just learning quote
speaking I started just learning quote
speaking I started just learning quote listening to other peoples tense going
listening to other peoples tense going
listening to other peoples tense going to seminars going to watch out asking
to seminars going to watch out asking
to seminars going to watch out asking other people to help me just started
other people to help me just started
other people to help me just started working at it just a little bit but do
working at it just a little bit but do
working at it just a little bit but do find out what the work is and hold on to
find out what the work is and hold on to
find out what the work is and hold on to it and don’t let your dream go don’t let
it and don’t let your dream go don’t let
it and don’t let your dream go don’t let it go see and here’s something else I
it go see and here’s something else I
it go see and here’s something else I want you to begin to look at why is it
want you to begin to look at why is it
want you to begin to look at why is it that most people don’t pursue their
that most people don’t pursue their
that most people don’t pursue their dreams and don’t do better than what
dreams and don’t do better than what
dreams and don’t do better than what they’re doing if they’re capable of
they’re doing if they’re capable of
they’re doing if they’re capable of doing it I think that many of us don’t
doing it I think that many of us don’t
doing it I think that many of us don’t go the next step because we don’t know
go the next step because we don’t know
go the next step because we don’t know what to do yet and I say that that the
what to do yet and I say that that the
what to do yet and I say that that the reason that we don’t even explore the
reason that we don’t even explore the
reason that we don’t even explore the possibility of what to do is because
possibility of what to do is because
possibility of what to do is because subconsciously we don’t believe that it
subconsciously we don’t believe that it
subconsciously we don’t believe that it can happen for us and we don’t believe
can happen for us and we don’t believe
can happen for us and we don’t believe that we deserve it so here’s what I’m
that we deserve it so here’s what I’m
that we deserve it so here’s what I’m suggesting how much time do you spend
suggesting how much time do you spend
suggesting how much time do you spend working on you how much time do you
working on you how much time do you
working on you how much time do you spend every day working on your dream in
spend every day working on your dream in
spend every day working on your dream in the last 90 days
the last 90 days
the last 90 days how many books have you read
how many books have you read
how many books have you read in the last year what new skill or
in the last year what new skill or
in the last year what new skill or knowledge have you acquired what kind of
knowledge have you acquired what kind of
knowledge have you acquired what kind of investment have you made in you so I’m
investment have you made in you so I’m
investment have you made in you so I’m saying that as you begin to look at
saying that as you begin to look at
saying that as you begin to look at where you want to go if you want to make
where you want to go if you want to make
where you want to go if you want to make it today and things are changing so fast
it today and things are changing so fast
it today and things are changing so fast you have to literally want to stand
you have to literally want to stand
you have to literally want to stand still I’m saying that you’ve got to make
still I’m saying that you’ve got to make
still I’m saying that you’ve got to make some conscious effort to begin to work
some conscious effort to begin to work
some conscious effort to begin to work to develop you here’s something else
to develop you here’s something else
to develop you here’s something else most people are not living their dreams
most people are not living their dreams
most people are not living their dreams because of fear ladies and gentlemen I
because of fear ladies and gentlemen I
because of fear ladies and gentlemen I was in Columbus Ohio yesterday speaking
was in Columbus Ohio yesterday speaking
was in Columbus Ohio yesterday speaking for a particular Ohio Department you
for a particular Ohio Department you
for a particular Ohio Department you lady named Karen who greeted me who
lady named Karen who greeted me who
lady named Karen who greeted me who organized the event very talented very
organized the event very talented very
organized the event very talented very skillful and she was talking about she
skillful and she was talking about she
skillful and she was talking about she wanted to become involved in the
wanted to become involved in the
wanted to become involved in the consulting business that they launched
consulting business that they launched
consulting business that they launched in doing it I said you have the ability
in doing it I said you have the ability
in doing it I said you have the ability I said you’re not here because they like
I said you’re not here because they like
I said you’re not here because they like me you’re here because you’re doing the
me you’re here because you’re doing the
me you’re here because you’re doing the cow you’re making things happen
cow you’re making things happen
cow you’re making things happen and she came up with all kind of ideas
and she came up with all kind of ideas
and she came up with all kind of ideas but finally she said I guess I I can’t
but finally she said I guess I I can’t
but finally she said I guess I I can’t see myself doing it I guess I’m afraid
see myself doing it I guess I’m afraid
see myself doing it I guess I’m afraid fear limited vision and lack of self
fear limited vision and lack of self
fear limited vision and lack of self esteem is what he must be for doing
esteem is what he must be for doing
esteem is what he must be for doing things they don’t want to do I was loose
things they don’t want to do I was loose
things they don’t want to do I was loose from Columbus Ohio to Denver Colorado to
from Columbus Ohio to Denver Colorado to
from Columbus Ohio to Denver Colorado to a major communications company and the
a major communications company and the
a major communications company and the person that signifies what told me about
person that signifies what told me about
person that signifies what told me about the fact that the company is planning on
the fact that the company is planning on
the fact that the company is planning on having a major downsizing and they
having a major downsizing and they
having a major downsizing and they offered some of the employees there an
offered some of the employees there an
offered some of the employees there an early retirement and some of them work
early retirement and some of them work
early retirement and some of them work earn as much as 300
earn as much as 300
earn as much as 300 and they said this is the last time that
and they said this is the last time that
and they said this is the last time that you can take this offer if you don’t do
you can take this offer if you don’t do
you can take this offer if you don’t do it when we have the downsizing you might
it when we have the downsizing you might
it when we have the downsizing you might be among those who will lose their jobs
be among those who will lose their jobs
be among those who will lose their jobs and all you will get in your severance
and all you will get in your severance
and all you will get in your severance pay and only 50% of the people who were
pay and only 50% of the people who were
pay and only 50% of the people who were eligible to take the $300,000
eligible to take the $300,000
eligible to take the $300,000 chuckles the other were afraid to take a
chuckles the other were afraid to take a
chuckles the other were afraid to take a chance of themselves the other couldn’t
chance of themselves the other couldn’t
chance of themselves the other couldn’t see themselves beyond that company they
see themselves beyond that company they
see themselves beyond that company they couldn’t see life after that company
couldn’t see life after that company
couldn’t see life after that company cause they’ll even the people say in
cause they’ll even the people say in
cause they’ll even the people say in relationships whether abused are they’re
relationships whether abused are they’re
relationships whether abused are they’re unhappy or fun fulfilling they can’t see
unhappy or fun fulfilling they can’t see
unhappy or fun fulfilling they can’t see themselves beyond that relationship they
themselves beyond that relationship they
themselves beyond that relationship they can’t see themselves enjoying life
can’t see themselves enjoying life
can’t see themselves enjoying life without that person they think that this
without that person they think that this
without that person they think that this is all that they can do the same reason
is all that they can do the same reason
is all that they can do the same reason that people get stuck at a certain level
that people get stuck at a certain level
that people get stuck at a certain level in life they can’t see things being
in life they can’t see things being
in life they can’t see things being jealous of them and they think that this
jealous of them and they think that this
jealous of them and they think that this is given this is all they deserve
is given this is all they deserve
is given this is all they deserve because all they’ve ever seen it’s been
because all they’ve ever seen it’s been
because all they’ve ever seen it’s been passed on to them and they think that
passed on to them and they think that
passed on to them and they think that this is get for them oh no out looking
this is get for them oh no out looking
this is get for them oh no out looking what dr. Blanton Smalley Blanton who is
what dr. Blanton Smalley Blanton who is
what dr. Blanton Smalley Blanton who is a colleague of dr. norman vincent peale
a colleague of dr. norman vincent peale
a colleague of dr. norman vincent peale what he said about theories of fear is
what he said about theories of fear is
what he said about theories of fear is the most subtle and destructive of all
the most subtle and destructive of all
the most subtle and destructive of all human diseases
human diseases
human diseases ladies and gentlemen fear kills dreams
ladies and gentlemen fear kills dreams
ladies and gentlemen fear kills dreams fear kills hope fear put people in the
fear kills hope fear put people in the
fear kills hope fear put people in the hospital fear can age you fear ladies
hospital fear can age you fear ladies
hospital fear can age you fear ladies and gentlemen can hold you back from
and gentlemen can hold you back from
and gentlemen can hold you back from doing something that you know within
doing something that you know within
doing something that you know within yourself that you are capable of doing
yourself that you are capable of doing
yourself that you are capable of doing but it will paralyze you and it seem
but it will paralyze you and it seem
but it will paralyze you and it seem like you’re in a hypnotic spell I ask
like you’re in a hypnotic spell I ask
like you’re in a hypnotic spell I ask you a question what is the benefit
you a question what is the benefit
you a question what is the benefit what’s the benefit of allowing fear to
what’s the benefit of allowing fear to
what’s the benefit of allowing fear to hold you back what’s the benefit of
hold you back what’s the benefit of
hold you back what’s the benefit of giving up on yourself of not stepping
giving up on yourself of not stepping
giving up on yourself of not stepping out on life and taking life on what is
out on life and taking life on what is
out on life and taking life on what is the benefit but you want the plus in
the benefit but you want the plus in
the benefit but you want the plus in that sort of the things I had asked
that sort of the things I had asked
that sort of the things I had asked myself so I didn’t want to make any
myself so I didn’t want to make any
myself so I didn’t want to make any mistake I wanted everybody to like me
mistake I wanted everybody to like me
mistake I wanted everybody to like me I wanted to be perfect the first time I
I wanted to be perfect the first time I
I wanted to be perfect the first time I did something it’s not going to happen
did something it’s not going to happen
did something it’s not going to happen you’re going to make some mistake you’re
you’re going to make some mistake you’re
you’re going to make some mistake you’re going to hurt some folks feelings you’re
going to hurt some folks feelings you’re
going to hurt some folks feelings you’re going to create some enemy whenever you
going to create some enemy whenever you
going to create some enemy whenever you decide that you want to begin to take
decide that you want to begin to take
decide that you want to begin to take life on you’ve got to ask yourself how
life on you’ve got to ask yourself how
life on you’ve got to ask yourself how long am I going to allow this to hold me
long am I going to allow this to hold me
long am I going to allow this to hold me back
back
back I like the big Ziggler says who says
I like the big Ziggler says who says
I like the big Ziggler says who says fear is false evidence appearing real
that’s an illusion that we create in our
that’s an illusion that we create in our minds it is a state of mind that can be
minds it is a state of mind that can be
minds it is a state of mind that can be changed so let’s look at how we can
changed so let’s look at how we can
changed so let’s look at how we can begin to take some steps to restructure
begin to take some steps to restructure
begin to take some steps to restructure that fear to begin to expand our visions
that fear to begin to expand our visions
that fear to begin to expand our visions of ourselves to begin to increase our
of ourselves to begin to increase our
of ourselves to begin to increase our self-esteem Webster says that
self-esteem Webster says that
self-esteem Webster says that self-esteem means confidence in
self-esteem means confidence in
self-esteem means confidence in satisfaction in oneself look at your
satisfaction in oneself look at your
satisfaction in oneself look at your life right now whatever you’ve done up
life right now whatever you’ve done up
life right now whatever you’ve done up to this point is on your life is working
to this point is on your life is working
to this point is on your life is working whatever you had produced it came out of
whatever you had produced it came out of
whatever you had produced it came out of you as a result of the kind of person
you as a result of the kind of person
you as a result of the kind of person that you have become as a result of your
that you have become as a result of your
that you have become as a result of your choices it’s a result of your
choices it’s a result of your
choices it’s a result of your consciousness now you have to ask
consciousness now you have to ask
consciousness now you have to ask yourself are you satisfied with what you
yourself are you satisfied with what you
yourself are you satisfied with what you have produced is this what you want
have produced is this what you want
have produced is this what you want would you like the things to be better
would you like the things to be better
would you like the things to be better than this do you believe that you
than this do you believe that you
than this do you believe that you deserve better than this are you
deserve better than this are you
deserve better than this are you consistent if you don’t have to do every
consistent if you don’t have to do every
consistent if you don’t have to do every anything else if you already resign
anything else if you already resign
anything else if you already resign yourself like the one Esther I’m not
yourself like the one Esther I’m not
yourself like the one Esther I’m not sobbing like the people in Calcutta are
sobbing like the people in Calcutta are
sobbing like the people in Calcutta are you allowing yourself to get off the
you allowing yourself to get off the
you allowing yourself to get off the hook like that or do you believe
hook like that or do you believe
hook like that or do you believe somewhere in the back of your mind in
somewhere in the back of your mind in
somewhere in the back of your mind in your heart but there’s some other great
your heart but there’s some other great
your heart but there’s some other great work for you to do there’s something
work for you to do there’s something
work for you to do there’s something else the right man to you and that’s why
else the right man to you and that’s why
else the right man to you and that’s why you’re here
you’re here
you’re here how do we handle this fear factor how do
how do we handle this fear factor how do
how do we handle this fear factor how do we increase out of the peace you have to
we increase out of the peace you have to
we increase out of the peace you have to begin to fortify yourself how do we do
begin to fortify yourself how do we do
begin to fortify yourself how do we do that I believe that you have to begin to
that I believe that you have to begin to
that I believe that you have to begin to consciously monitor your inner
consciously monitor your inner
consciously monitor your inner conversation and start talking to
conversation and start talking to
conversation and start talking to yourself start building yourself up
yourself start building yourself up
yourself start building yourself up sometimes the only good thing you will
sometimes the only good thing you will
sometimes the only good thing you will hear about you are the things that you
hear about you are the things that you
hear about you are the things that you say to you
say to you
say to you [Music]
young lady but that was in the audience
young lady but that was in the audience this afternoon said to me I told myself
this afternoon said to me I told myself
this afternoon said to me I told myself yesterday for the first time I’m proud
yesterday for the first time I’m proud
yesterday for the first time I’m proud of me and she said I felt good about
of me and she said I felt good about
of me and she said I felt good about that I’m saying learn to be your own
that I’m saying learn to be your own
that I’m saying learn to be your own booster stop building yourself up start
booster stop building yourself up start
booster stop building yourself up start encouraging yourself stop saying I can
encouraging yourself stop saying I can
encouraging yourself stop saying I can do this I can make this happen when I
do this I can make this happen when I
do this I can make this happen when I started thinking about becoming the
started thinking about becoming the
started thinking about becoming the speaker I said yes I can do this I can
speaker I said yes I can do this I can
speaker I said yes I can do this I can make this happen when I start trying to
make this happen when I start trying to
make this happen when I start trying to convince myself I can be a businessman
convince myself I can be a businessman
convince myself I can be a businessman after flopping and failing and losing
after flopping and failing and losing
after flopping and failing and losing thousands of dollars and feeling stupid
thousands of dollars and feeling stupid
thousands of dollars and feeling stupid and dumb and having people take
and dumb and having people take
and dumb and having people take advantage of me because of what I didn’t
advantage of me because of what I didn’t
advantage of me because of what I didn’t know I had to talk to myself because
know I had to talk to myself because
know I had to talk to myself because people say to me that I was dumb and
people say to me that I was dumb and
people say to me that I was dumb and somewhere in the back of my mind I was
somewhere in the back of my mind I was
somewhere in the back of my mind I was saying you’re right look at what I’ve
saying you’re right look at what I’ve
saying you’re right look at what I’ve done I had to say no no no no no no no
done I had to say no no no no no no no
done I had to say no no no no no no no that’s hey hey come on man get your
that’s hey hey come on man get your
that’s hey hey come on man get your stuff together you can handle this you
stuff together you can handle this you
stuff together you can handle this you just haven’t figured it out yet it’s all
just haven’t figured it out yet it’s all
just haven’t figured it out yet it’s all right this is your training period this
right this is your training period this
right this is your training period this is the tuition you have to pay for what
is the tuition you have to pay for what
is the tuition you have to pay for what you don’t know you can do this other
you don’t know you can do this other
you don’t know you can do this other people have done it doesn’t take an
people have done it doesn’t take an
people have done it doesn’t take an Einstein get you some people that can
Einstein get you some people that can
Einstein get you some people that can teach you some Sussex you don’t go get
teach you some Sussex you don’t go get
teach you some Sussex you don’t go get you some people that have done it
you some people that have done it
you some people that have done it successfully and learn from them take
successfully and learn from them take
successfully and learn from them take some seminars workshops read some books
some seminars workshops read some books
some seminars workshops read some books on how to manage a business change the
on how to manage a business change the
on how to manage a business change the way you see yourself and begin to tend
way you see yourself and begin to tend
way you see yourself and begin to tend to the personal detail understand that
to the personal detail understand that
to the personal detail understand that nobody’s going to take care of business
nobody’s going to take care of business
nobody’s going to take care of business better than you and when I start
better than you and when I start
better than you and when I start changing that kind of mindset of beating
changing that kind of mindset of beating
changing that kind of mindset of beating myself up because of my mistakes and
myself up because of my mistakes and
myself up because of my mistakes and start looking at the possibilities of my
start looking at the possibilities of my
start looking at the possibilities of my doing better of my making the
doing better of my making the
doing better of my making the adjustments that would enable me to do
adjustments that would enable me to do
adjustments that would enable me to do what I want to do six
what I want to do six
what I want to do six things begin to change nothing stop
things begin to change nothing stop
things begin to change nothing stop beating up on yourself you do do I know
beating up on yourself you do do I know
beating up on yourself you do do I know you do have done it’s a natural
you do have done it’s a natural
you do have done it’s a natural inclination for us to put ourselves down
inclination for us to put ourselves down
inclination for us to put ourselves down see we have born negative icing in a
see we have born negative icing in a
see we have born negative icing in a negative consciousness because we live
negative consciousness because we live
negative consciousness because we live in a negative world so you don’t have to
in a negative world so you don’t have to
in a negative world so you don’t have to keep children to live there my
keep children to live there my
keep children to live there my automatically thank you wet in your face
automatically thank you wet in your face
automatically thank you wet in your face no I did not
no I did not
no I did not well what is that I don’t know you don’t
well what is that I don’t know you don’t
well what is that I don’t know you don’t have encouraged kids to misbehave they
have encouraged kids to misbehave they
have encouraged kids to misbehave they will do it by themselves
will do it by themselves
will do it by themselves you have encouraged them to do the wrong
you have encouraged them to do the wrong
you have encouraged them to do the wrong thing they would do it automatic you
thing they would do it automatic you
thing they would do it automatic you have to correct their behavior started
have to correct their behavior started
have to correct their behavior started saying that we have to work through the
saying that we have to work through the
saying that we have to work through the challenges of life and learning how to
challenges of life and learning how to
challenges of life and learning how to begin to work the quantified self the
begin to work the quantified self the
begin to work the quantified self the feet up in the booth I can live my dream
feet up in the booth I can live my dream
feet up in the booth I can live my dream I can find my purpose in life and live
I can find my purpose in life and live
I can find my purpose in life and live my person I deserve more for myself I
my person I deserve more for myself I
my person I deserve more for myself I deserve more for life take somebody’s
deserve more for life take somebody’s
deserve more for life take somebody’s hand on your lighted leopard said you
hand on your lighted leopard said you
hand on your lighted leopard said you deserve more than right too
deserve more than right too
deserve more than right too [Music]
[Music]
[Music] here’s some other things later
here’s some other things later
here’s some other things later government begins of god you’re mine
government begins of god you’re mine
government begins of god you’re mine against negative programming like turn
against negative programming like turn
against negative programming like turn off the television don’t watch the news
off the television don’t watch the news
off the television don’t watch the news don’t watch it I think it bet that more
don’t watch it I think it bet that more
don’t watch it I think it bet that more people have a sense of hopelessness and
people have a sense of hopelessness and
people have a sense of hopelessness and anxiety about life if you look at the
anxiety about life if you look at the
anxiety about life if you look at the news you cannot feel good looking at the
news you cannot feel good looking at the
news you cannot feel good looking at the news you’ll be scared to death you’re
news you’ll be scared to death you’re
news you’ll be scared to death you’re scared to go to sleep I mean it turns
scared to go to sleep I mean it turns
scared to go to sleep I mean it turns your power down you’ve got to be
your power down you’ve got to be
your power down you’ve got to be conscious of that don’t pick up the
conscious of that don’t pick up the
conscious of that don’t pick up the newspaper and read it no no I just try
newspaper and read it no no I just try
newspaper and read it no no I just try this just experiment with yourself now
this just experiment with yourself now
this just experiment with yourself now if your job depends upon your knowing
if your job depends upon your knowing
if your job depends upon your knowing certain things let somebody tell you
certain things let somebody tell you
certain things let somebody tell you just about those things but stop
just about those things but stop
just about those things but stop filtering the stuff you allow to come in
filtering the stuff you allow to come in
filtering the stuff you allow to come in your mind you know that song you
your mind you know that song you
your mind you know that song you advanced it don’t let nobody bring you
advanced it don’t let nobody bring you
advanced it don’t let nobody bring you know bad news
know bad news
know bad news I tell my staff look here don’t tell me
I tell my staff look here don’t tell me
I tell my staff look here don’t tell me any bad news while I’m on the road
any bad news while I’m on the road
any bad news while I’m on the road let me handle it tomorrow our life
let me handle it tomorrow our life
let me handle it tomorrow our life anybody tell me any bad news at night
anybody tell me any bad news at night
anybody tell me any bad news at night before I go to sleep I can’t do anything
before I go to sleep I can’t do anything
before I go to sleep I can’t do anything about it anyhow what let me go to sleep
about it anyhow what let me go to sleep
about it anyhow what let me go to sleep with that on my consciousness no no in
with that on my consciousness no no in
with that on my consciousness no no in my staff they know that is that it wait
my staff they know that is that it wait
my staff they know that is that it wait till tomorrow and I have a period of
till tomorrow and I have a period of
till tomorrow and I have a period of time
time
time tell me bad news between 10 o’clock and
tell me bad news between 10 o’clock and
tell me bad news between 10 o’clock and 12 news
after I prayed and meditated read my
after I prayed and meditated read my books I’m fortified I’m ready to handle
books I’m fortified I’m ready to handle
books I’m fortified I’m ready to handle it I deal with that I’m out of there I’m
it I deal with that I’m out of there I’m
it I deal with that I’m out of there I’m going on to something else
going on to something else
going on to something else so you’ve got to grab the kinds of
so you’ve got to grab the kinds of
so you’ve got to grab the kinds of things that you put in my teens you
things that you put in my teens you
things that you put in my teens you don’t program your mind your mind will
don’t program your mind your mind will
don’t program your mind your mind will be programmed because human beings are
be programmed because human beings are
be programmed because human beings are goal-oriented that’s why we die of
goal-oriented that’s why we die of
goal-oriented that’s why we die of broken hearts early that’s why you’re
broken hearts early that’s why you’re
broken hearts early that’s why you’re running through life the early grades
running through life the early grades
running through life the early grades were going through life ladies and
were going through life ladies and
were going through life ladies and gentlemen I think that Henry David
gentlemen I think that Henry David
gentlemen I think that Henry David Thoreau says that most men live in quiet
Thoreau says that most men live in quiet
Thoreau says that most men live in quiet desperation
desperation
desperation welcome go through life running stairs
welcome go through life running stairs
welcome go through life running stairs Clara Gangi who I think is going to be
Clara Gangi who I think is going to be
Clara Gangi who I think is going to be one of the greatest motivational
one of the greatest motivational
one of the greatest motivational speakers around today told me a story a
speakers around today told me a story a
speakers around today told me a story a true story of offended me is that every
true story of offended me is that every
true story of offended me is that every day when you came home from school when
day when you came home from school when
day when you came home from school when he would get to a certain block in his
he would get to a certain block in his
he would get to a certain block in his neighborhood there was a neighborhood
neighborhood there was a neighborhood
neighborhood there was a neighborhood dog that they’re chasing and that dog
dog that they’re chasing and that dog
dog that they’re chasing and that dog was gone after him barking more he would
was gone after him barking more he would
was gone after him barking more he would run just running from that dog heaven
run just running from that dog heaven
run just running from that dog heaven the entity wow he just got tired of that
the entity wow he just got tired of that
the entity wow he just got tired of that dog tasting everything if there is also
dog tasting everything if there is also
dog tasting everything if there is also money Delma take a purchase of him fuck
money Delma take a purchase of him fuck
money Delma take a purchase of him fuck him in here so he was walking the home
him in here so he was walking the home
him in here so he was walking the home that they might evolve isn’t showing up
that they might evolve isn’t showing up
that they might evolve isn’t showing up same area there was that dolphin the
same area there was that dolphin the
same area there was that dolphin the dogs got barking he stopped running he
dogs got barking he stopped running he
dogs got barking he stopped running he saw brick and he stopping picked up the
saw brick and he stopping picked up the
saw brick and he stopping picked up the picking turn on and the dog got closer
picking turn on and the dog got closer
picking turn on and the dog got closer he realized doesn’t have anything
he realized doesn’t have anything
he realized doesn’t have anything [Music]
[Music]
[Music] see maybe one to break down to get away
see maybe one to break down to get away
see maybe one to break down to get away and ladies and gentlemen all our lives
and ladies and gentlemen all our lives
and ladies and gentlemen all our lives many of us go through life we running
many of us go through life we running
many of us go through life we running from Aynsley you’ve got no keys to do
from Aynsley you’ve got no keys to do
from Aynsley you’ve got no keys to do anymore
anymore
anymore [Music]
[Music]
[Music] [Applause]
how’s it going to pray to do something
how’s it going to pray to do something in the nap you get to stay home if I
in the nap you get to stay home if I
in the nap you get to stay home if I notice for 13 hours before everything
notice for 13 hours before everything
notice for 13 hours before everything absolutely so we created this in our
absolutely so we created this in our
absolutely so we created this in our minds false evidence appearing real
minds false evidence appearing real
minds false evidence appearing real we made it real in our mind I thought
we made it real in our mind I thought
we made it real in our mind I thought Churchill said there’s nothing to fear
Churchill said there’s nothing to fear
Churchill said there’s nothing to fear but fear itself
but fear itself
but fear itself that’s the destructive monster so turn
that’s the destructive monster so turn
that’s the destructive monster so turn off things that can contribute to your
off things that can contribute to your
off things that can contribute to your fear turn a deaf ear to people that all
fear turn a deaf ear to people that all
fear turn a deaf ear to people that all they can do is talk about how negative
they can do is talk about how negative
they can do is talk about how negative things up because they have bought into
things up because they have bought into
things up because they have bought into the consciousness of the world start
the consciousness of the world start
the consciousness of the world start attending workshops seminars listening
attending workshops seminars listening
attending workshops seminars listening to tapes on a daily basis to begin to
to tapes on a daily basis to begin to
to tapes on a daily basis to begin to recondition your mind to retrain your
recondition your mind to retrain your
recondition your mind to retrain your thinking faith comes by what hearing and
thinking faith comes by what hearing and
thinking faith comes by what hearing and hearing and hearing listen to things
hearing and hearing listen to things
hearing and hearing listen to things that can empower you that can enable you
that can empower you that can enable you
that can empower you that can enable you to create a new reality for yourself in
to create a new reality for yourself in
to create a new reality for yourself in a new life for yourself you might appear
a new life for yourself you might appear
a new life for yourself you might appear to be strange around most people you
to be strange around most people you
to be strange around most people you know most people think you’re strange if
know most people think you’re strange if
know most people think you’re strange if you’re happy today people say how you
you’re happy today people say how you
you’re happy today people say how you doing I said better than good
doing I said better than good
doing I said better than good whoa what’s wrong with him
whoa what’s wrong with him
whoa what’s wrong with him let’s go around smiling and watch people
let’s go around smiling and watch people
let’s go around smiling and watch people look at this a weird guy over here
look at this a weird guy over here
look at this a weird guy over here because most people smile watch him look
because most people smile watch him look
because most people smile watch him look at their faces in the morning here we go
at their faces in the morning here we go
at their faces in the morning here we go another Monday morning how you doing
another Monday morning how you doing
another Monday morning how you doing haven’t had my coffee yet don’t ask see
haven’t had my coffee yet don’t ask see
haven’t had my coffee yet don’t ask see these people have not found their
these people have not found their
these people have not found their purpose in life that’s why they are
purpose in life that’s why they are
purpose in life that’s why they are grumpy but that’s why they’re miserable
grumpy but that’s why they’re miserable
grumpy but that’s why they’re miserable that’s why they’re so negative they’re
that’s why they’re so negative they’re
that’s why they’re so negative they’re hurting and they want to hurt other
hurting and they want to hurt other
hurting and they want to hurt other people so start practicing using
people so start practicing using
people so start practicing using programs for your mind seminars book
programs for your mind seminars book
programs for your mind seminars book workshop keep a journal record your
workshop keep a journal record your
workshop keep a journal record your thoughts what’s happening with you every
thoughts what’s happening with you every
thoughts what’s happening with you every day when you get up have a journal near
day when you get up have a journal near
day when you get up have a journal near you I use the dead golden journal so
you I use the dead golden journal so
you I use the dead golden journal so that I can write down my ideas I keep it
that I can write down my ideas I keep it
that I can write down my ideas I keep it by my bed so I can write down my
by my bed so I can write down my
by my bed so I can write down my thoughts the ladies and gentlemen we get
thoughts the ladies and gentlemen we get
thoughts the ladies and gentlemen we get three to four plus a year but if you
three to four plus a year but if you
three to four plus a year but if you would act on those books they could
would act on those books they could
would act on those books they could change a lot don’t say well I’ll
change a lot don’t say well I’ll
change a lot don’t say well I’ll remember that no write that sport done I
remember that no write that sport done I
remember that no write that sport done I got a song today I worked out a friend
got a song today I worked out a friend
got a song today I worked out a friend of mine is in the hospital his morale is
of mine is in the hospital his morale is
of mine is in the hospital his morale is low they talk to my staff today to
low they talk to my staff today to
low they talk to my staff today to discuss these cattle feels very very
discuss these cattle feels very very
discuss these cattle feels very very secure i’m gonna i’m not only am i going
secure i’m gonna i’m not only am i going
secure i’m gonna i’m not only am i going to see him but I can’t be there with him
to see him but I can’t be there with him
to see him but I can’t be there with him all examine that I’m going to clinic
all examine that I’m going to clinic
all examine that I’m going to clinic tape on that and we can listen to that
tape on that and we can listen to that
tape on that and we can listen to that really ties in his level of morale we
really ties in his level of morale we
really ties in his level of morale we told him the other night does go to
told him the other night does go to
told him the other night does go to surgery your distress
surgery your distress
surgery your distress any level is down no no telling not now
any level is down no no telling not now
any level is down no no telling not now don’t do it not back most doctors you
don’t do it not back most doctors you
don’t do it not back most doctors you have any sense of awareness don’t reform
have any sense of awareness don’t reform
have any sense of awareness don’t reform surgery on patients down in the state of
surgery on patients down in the state of
surgery on patients down in the state of fear but don’t think they will make it
fear but don’t think they will make it
fear but don’t think they will make it they wait till they’re in a different
they wait till they’re in a different
they wait till they’re in a different state of mind because it what about
state of mind because it what about
state of mind because it what about making tapes of people that are facing a
making tapes of people that are facing a
making tapes of people that are facing a physical challenge
[Applause]
[Applause] these their ideas that can come to you
these their ideas that can come to you
these their ideas that can come to you out of things that appear to be negative
out of things that appear to be negative
out of things that appear to be negative I have a printout of Chicago just that
I have a printout of Chicago just that
I have a printout of Chicago just that in years twenty four years old and this
in years twenty four years old and this
in years twenty four years old and this guy Queen went financially bankrupt two
guy Queen went financially bankrupt two
guy Queen went financially bankrupt two years ago Reuters credit that’s what he
years ago Reuters credit that’s what he
years ago Reuters credit that’s what he decided to do
decided to do
decided to do he found a blessing and he wanted to
he found a blessing and he wanted to
he found a blessing and he wanted to restore his credit it was very
restore his credit it was very
restore his credit it was very challenging very difficult and we
challenging very difficult and we
challenging very difficult and we arrived at a lot of other people during
arrived at a lot of other people during
arrived at a lot of other people during these particulars as a rule in their
these particulars as a rule in their
these particulars as a rule in their credit so now he started a credit repair
credit so now he started a credit repair
credit so now he started a credit repair business last year he earned over
business last year he earned over
business last year he earned over $100,000 helping teachers to restore
$100,000 helping teachers to restore
$100,000 helping teachers to restore their credit I met a young lady who
their credit I met a young lady who
their credit I met a young lady who attends this church that she was at her
attends this church that she was at her
attends this church that she was at her father’s funeral and and she was putting
father’s funeral and and she was putting
father’s funeral and and she was putting flowers on her father’s grave and she
flowers on her father’s grave and she
flowers on her father’s grave and she looked around and saw the other grade
looked around and saw the other grade
looked around and saw the other grade sights they did not look well-groomed
sights they did not look well-groomed
sights they did not look well-groomed and they were not attended to on a
and they were not attended to on a
and they were not attended to on a regular basis she sought a grave site
regular basis she sought a grave site
regular basis she sought a grave site maintenance business out of that tragedy
maintenance business out of that tragedy
maintenance business out of that tragedy something positive has come out of it
something positive has come out of it
something positive has come out of it and now she’s earning more money during
and now she’s earning more money during
and now she’s earning more money during that than on her present job what idea
that than on her present job what idea
that than on her present job what idea are you sitting on right your ideas down
are you sitting on right your ideas down
are you sitting on right your ideas down and then once you get that idea
and then once you get that idea
and then once you get that idea take the lead hello take the lead see a
take the lead hello take the lead see a
take the lead hello take the lead see a lot of people get the ideas and just
lot of people get the ideas and just
lot of people get the ideas and just walk around with it have you ever had an
walk around with it have you ever had an
walk around with it have you ever had an idea and all of us let you look around
idea and all of us let you look around
idea and all of us let you look around and somebody had that idea and go on
and somebody had that idea and go on
and somebody had that idea and go on with it think you going to be going with
with it think you going to be going with
with it think you going to be going with my hospital idea forget that buddy
my hospital idea forget that buddy
my hospital idea forget that buddy we will be out there together jack
we will be out there together jack
we will be out there together jack begley this out of the universe
begley this out of the universe
begley this out of the universe if you don’t take the plunge I guarantee
if you don’t take the plunge I guarantee
if you don’t take the plunge I guarantee you somebody else will take the plunge
you somebody else will take the plunge
you somebody else will take the plunge go into action and ladies and gentlemen
go into action and ladies and gentlemen
go into action and ladies and gentlemen you will be surprised how things will
you will be surprised how things will
you will be surprised how things will come together you’ll be surprised now
come together you’ll be surprised now
come together you’ll be surprised now you’re going to have some difficult
you’re going to have some difficult
you’re going to have some difficult challenges I could tell you that now be
challenges I could tell you that now be
challenges I could tell you that now be aware of that things are not going to
aware of that things are not going to
aware of that things are not going to work out exactly right for time they
work out exactly right for time they
work out exactly right for time they will sometimes and that’s when life is
will sometimes and that’s when life is
will sometimes and that’s when life is just playing the game we want you to
just playing the game we want you to
just playing the game we want you to feel good and relaxed then after a while
feel good and relaxed then after a while
feel good and relaxed then after a while they’re OK the honeymoons over and their
they’re OK the honeymoons over and their
they’re OK the honeymoons over and their life can come over that’s left aside the
life can come over that’s left aside the
life can come over that’s left aside the heat so what you’re doing out here but
heat so what you’re doing out here but
heat so what you’re doing out here but if my dream right is that right come
if my dream right is that right come
if my dream right is that right come over here visitor oh you went to the
over here visitor oh you went to the
over here visitor oh you went to the seminar harkaman I can tell you that but
seminar harkaman I can tell you that but
seminar harkaman I can tell you that but ladies and gentlemen go into action
ladies and gentlemen go into action
ladies and gentlemen go into action and don’t absorb where the sites are get
and don’t absorb where the sites are get
and don’t absorb where the sites are get in the midst of the fight and get some
in the midst of the fight and get some
in the midst of the fight and get some hickeys on your head get knocked down so
hickeys on your head get knocked down so
hickeys on your head get knocked down so you can learn how to fight so you can
you can learn how to fight so you can
you can learn how to fight so you can hold your position
hold your position
hold your position see most people don’t get out of the
see most people don’t get out of the
see most people don’t get out of the arena right because they don’t want to
arena right because they don’t want to
arena right because they don’t want to play most people don’t get out there
play most people don’t get out there
play most people don’t get out there because they don’t want to get knocked
because they don’t want to get knocked
because they don’t want to get knocked down they don’t want to be dropped to
down they don’t want to be dropped to
down they don’t want to be dropped to their knees but see you’re going to be
their knees but see you’re going to be
their knees but see you’re going to be dropped
dropped
dropped whether you on the field or whether or
whether you on the field or whether or
whether you on the field or whether or not just sitting on the sidelines you’re
not just sitting on the sidelines you’re
not just sitting on the sidelines you’re going to be proud but Lee’s get wrapped
going to be proud but Lee’s get wrapped
going to be proud but Lee’s get wrapped with something don’t get knocked down
with something don’t get knocked down
with something don’t get knocked down while you sit down see that’s how most
while you sit down see that’s how most
while you sit down see that’s how most people of spectators in life you don’t
people of spectators in life you don’t
people of spectators in life you don’t want to be a spectator you want to get
want to be a spectator you want to get
want to be a spectator you want to get out in the field where the action is and
out in the field where the action is and
out in the field where the action is and you will be on pain after the struggle
you will be on pain after the struggle
you will be on pain after the struggle there will be a calm period and phase
there will be a calm period and phase
there will be a calm period and phase will begin to click for you
will begin to click for you
will begin to click for you come on mirror what you got you can have
come on mirror what you got you can have
come on mirror what you got you can have enough play don’t worry about it you got
enough play don’t worry about it you got
enough play don’t worry about it you got to dream you got the idea you don’t have
to dream you got the idea you don’t have
to dream you got the idea you don’t have enough resources don’t worry about it
enough resources don’t worry about it
enough resources don’t worry about it you need some help don’t worry about it
you need some help don’t worry about it
you need some help don’t worry about it you get out here and be a leader that
you get out here and be a leader that
you get out here and be a leader that one will look at you and become inspired
one will look at you and become inspired
one will look at you and become inspired and say hey can I help you but if you
and say hey can I help you but if you
and say hey can I help you but if you step up on the bleachers nobody’s going
step up on the bleachers nobody’s going
step up on the bleachers nobody’s going to ask you anything at a time when
to ask you anything at a time when
to ask you anything at a time when people are feeling a great deal of
people are feeling a great deal of
people are feeling a great deal of anxiety and fear and reservations about
anxiety and fear and reservations about
anxiety and fear and reservations about the future at a time when people are
the future at a time when people are
the future at a time when people are going to work and don’t know whether or
going to work and don’t know whether or
going to work and don’t know whether or not they will have a job when they get
not they will have a job when they get
not they will have a job when they get off and not necessarily because of their
off and not necessarily because of their
off and not necessarily because of their performance but because what’s happening
performance but because what’s happening
performance but because what’s happening in the economy at a time when there are
in the economy at a time when there are
in the economy at a time when there are challenges more so than ever before in
challenges more so than ever before in
challenges more so than ever before in personal relationships we look at what’s
personal relationships we look at what’s
personal relationships we look at what’s happening on the climb level
and what’s happening without you that
and what’s happening without you that many times I’m sure that we’ve all taken
many times I’m sure that we’ve all taken
many times I’m sure that we’ve all taken time just to stop and reflect many times
time just to stop and reflect many times
time just to stop and reflect many times when we hear what’s happening in the
when we hear what’s happening in the
when we hear what’s happening in the news or leave the newspaper where’s
news or leave the newspaper where’s
news or leave the newspaper where’s always leading to it’s going on and so I
always leading to it’s going on and so I
always leading to it’s going on and so I think that now more than ever we must
think that now more than ever we must
think that now more than ever we must begin to look at what are the things
begin to look at what are the things
begin to look at what are the things that we can do that would put us on some
that we can do that would put us on some
that we can do that would put us on some firm footing in life that will enable us
firm footing in life that will enable us
firm footing in life that will enable us to do some things and and use the powers
to do some things and and use the powers
to do some things and and use the powers that we have that many of us go through
that we have that many of us go through
that we have that many of us go through life never ever discovering that we have
life never ever discovering that we have
life never ever discovering that we have those things going forward and part of
those things going forward and part of
those things going forward and part of that I believe is knowing what it is
that I believe is knowing what it is
that I believe is knowing what it is your life work what is it that gives
your life work what is it that gives
your life work what is it that gives your life a sense of meaning and purpose
your life a sense of meaning and purpose
your life a sense of meaning and purpose because once you find that it puts you
because once you find that it puts you
because once you find that it puts you in your power place see if you know what
in your power place see if you know what
in your power place see if you know what your life work is I encourage you to
your life work is I encourage you to
your life work is I encourage you to start working on it if you can’t do it
start working on it if you can’t do it
start working on it if you can’t do it all at one time do just a little bit of
all at one time do just a little bit of
all at one time do just a little bit of it and if you don’t know what it is that
it and if you don’t know what it is that
it and if you don’t know what it is that you showed up to do if you don’t know
you showed up to do if you don’t know
you showed up to do if you don’t know why you’re here
why you’re here
why you’re here I encourage you to find out what your
I encourage you to find out what your
I encourage you to find out what your purpose is what is the meaning of your
purpose is what is the meaning of your
purpose is what is the meaning of your life what will be different about
life what will be different about
life what will be different about different questions I’ve done that I
different questions I’ve done that I
different questions I’ve done that I remember coming from a friend of mine
remember coming from a friend of mine
remember coming from a friend of mine funeral when I was reflecting on how
funeral when I was reflecting on how
funeral when I was reflecting on how much time I had left and I went for a
much time I had left and I went for a
much time I had left and I went for a walk in a park thinking about this guy
walk in a park thinking about this guy
walk in a park thinking about this guy whose life is so promising and I mean
whose life is so promising and I mean
whose life is so promising and I mean more than the nose I was quite young in
more than the nose I was quite young in
more than the nose I was quite young in fact and I thought about all of the
fact and I thought about all of the
fact and I thought about all of the things that he said he was going to do
things that he said he was going to do
things that he said he was going to do and he never got a chance to do those
and he never got a chance to do those
and he never got a chance to do those things and I started thinking about my
things and I started thinking about my
things and I started thinking about my own life and how much time I had left to
own life and how much time I had left to
own life and how much time I had left to do the things that I would like to do
do the things that I would like to do
do the things that I would like to do and at that time I wasn’t sure what my
and at that time I wasn’t sure what my
and at that time I wasn’t sure what my life purpose was what my life worked was
life purpose was what my life worked was
life purpose was what my life worked was I wasn’t sure about it at that time and
I wasn’t sure about it at that time and
I wasn’t sure about it at that time and I thought about it quite a lot I had
I thought about it quite a lot I had
I thought about it quite a lot I had some ideas about I wasn’t convinced I
some ideas about I wasn’t convinced I
some ideas about I wasn’t convinced I don’t think I felt worth I didn’t
don’t think I felt worth I didn’t
don’t think I felt worth I didn’t believe that it could be me to do this
believe that it could be me to do this
believe that it could be me to do this kind of work that I’m doing right now
kind of work that I’m doing right now
kind of work that I’m doing right now and I say to you that if you began to
and I say to you that if you began to
and I say to you that if you began to take a conscious effort to find out what
take a conscious effort to find out what
take a conscious effort to find out what it is if you suppose to do
it is if you suppose to do
it is if you suppose to do I say that it can literally save your
I say that it can literally save your
I say that it can literally save your life I said that it can literally save
life I said that it can literally save
life I said that it can literally save your life I was telling a group of
your life I was telling a group of
your life I was telling a group of people of a study that was conducted dr.
people of a study that was conducted dr.
people of a study that was conducted dr. Larry Dossey who wrote a book called
Larry Dossey who wrote a book called
Larry Dossey who wrote a book called recovering the soul because human beings
recovering the soul because human beings
recovering the soul because human beings are the only living species that has
are the only living species that has
are the only living species that has achieved the dubious distinction of
achieved the dubious distinction of
achieved the dubious distinction of dying or having a stroke or a heart
dying or having a stroke or a heart
dying or having a stroke or a heart attack on a certain day if you ask most
attack on a certain day if you ask most
attack on a certain day if you ask most people what would you say the primary
people what would you say the primary
people what would you say the primary cause why people would have a heart
cause why people would have a heart
cause why people would have a heart attack of stroke many people say well
attack of stroke many people say well
attack of stroke many people say well because they smoke cigarettes or because
because they smoke cigarettes or because
because they smoke cigarettes or because of high cholesterol or because of stress
of high cholesterol or because of stress
of high cholesterol or because of stress or because of obesity and all of those
or because of obesity and all of those
or because of obesity and all of those things are contributing factors when
things are contributing factors when
things are contributing factors when ladies and gentlemen more heart attacks
ladies and gentlemen more heart attacks
ladies and gentlemen more heart attacks take place in this country on Monday
take place in this country on Monday
take place in this country on Monday morning between 8 and 9 a.m.
that’s when the majority of people who
that’s when the majority of people who have the first heart attacks have their
have the first heart attacks have their
have the first heart attacks have their 85% of the American public according to
85% of the American public according to
85% of the American public according to recent studies of going to jobs that
recent studies of going to jobs that
recent studies of going to jobs that they hate working on jobs that do not
they hate working on jobs that do not
they hate working on jobs that do not challenge them they get sick thinking
challenge them they get sick thinking
challenge them they get sick thinking about going
about going
about going [Music]
[Music]
[Music] migraine headaches after the Sunday
migraine headaches after the Sunday
migraine headaches after the Sunday afternoon football game for 60 minutes
afternoon football game for 60 minutes
afternoon football game for 60 minutes being body begins to build and run
being body begins to build and run
being body begins to build and run Monday morning they drop dead of a
Monday morning they drop dead of a
Monday morning they drop dead of a broken heart
broken heart
broken heart some of you ought to think about not
some of you ought to think about not
some of you ought to think about not going to work on Monday
think about this people are literally
think about this people are literally dying to go to work
[Music]
[Music] because when you go to a job and you
because when you go to a job and you
because when you go to a job and you already know how far you can go you can
already know how far you can go you can
already know how far you can go you can already see that proverbial glass
already see that proverbial glass
already see that proverbial glass ceiling it’s like going to a movie when
ceiling it’s like going to a movie when
ceiling it’s like going to a movie when you’ve gone in in the middle of the
you’ve gone in in the middle of the
you’ve gone in in the middle of the movie and you’ve seen MacKinnon and you
movie and you’ve seen MacKinnon and you
movie and you’ve seen MacKinnon and you sit there to pour the salt all over
sit there to pour the salt all over
sit there to pour the salt all over again but something is missing you know
again but something is missing you know
again but something is missing you know what the outcome is going to be you
what the outcome is going to be you
what the outcome is going to be you can’t get excited about drawings till
can’t get excited about drawings till
can’t get excited about drawings till that movie all over again am I correct
that movie all over again am I correct
that movie all over again am I correct see when you’re going someplace and you
see when you’re going someplace and you
see when you’re going someplace and you already know how much you’re going to
already know how much you’re going to
already know how much you’re going to make you already know how far you can go
make you already know how far you can go
make you already know how far you can go you’re on a dead in position it was this
you’re on a dead in position it was this
you’re on a dead in position it was this prophecy it was your sense of yourself
prophecy it was your sense of yourself
prophecy it was your sense of yourself it creates a uniform or it creates a 15
it creates a uniform or it creates a 15
it creates a uniform or it creates a 15 esteem you so I say that your life is
esteem you so I say that your life is
esteem you so I say that your life is worth finding what it is that you’re
worth finding what it is that you’re
worth finding what it is that you’re supposed to do
supposed to do
supposed to do and I’m not saying put your job on so
and I’m not saying put your job on so
and I’m not saying put your job on so you find it it do just a little bit of
you find it it do just a little bit of
you find it it do just a little bit of it when I wanted to become involved in
it when I wanted to become involved in
it when I wanted to become involved in speaking I started just learning to
speaking I started just learning to
speaking I started just learning to listen to other people’s plates going to
listen to other people’s plates going to
listen to other people’s plates going to somehow is going to work job asking
somehow is going to work job asking
somehow is going to work job asking other people to help you just start
other people to help you just start
other people to help you just start working at it just a little bit but do
working at it just a little bit but do
working at it just a little bit but do find out what your work is and hold on
find out what your work is and hold on
find out what your work is and hold on to it and don’t let your dream go don’t
to it and don’t let your dream go don’t
to it and don’t let your dream go don’t let it go see and here’s what something
let it go see and here’s what something
let it go see and here’s what something else I want you to begin to look at why
else I want you to begin to look at why
else I want you to begin to look at why is it that most people don’t pursue
is it that most people don’t pursue
is it that most people don’t pursue their dream so don’t do better than what
their dream so don’t do better than what
their dream so don’t do better than what they’re doing if they’re capable of
they’re doing if they’re capable of
they’re doing if they’re capable of doing it I think that many of us don’t
doing it I think that many of us don’t
doing it I think that many of us don’t go the next step because we don’t know
go the next step because we don’t know
go the next step because we don’t know what to do yet and I say that that the
what to do yet and I say that that the
what to do yet and I say that that the reason that we don’t even explore the
reason that we don’t even explore the
reason that we don’t even explore the possibility of what to do is because
possibility of what to do is because
possibility of what to do is because subconsciously we don’t believe that it
subconsciously we don’t believe that it
subconsciously we don’t believe that it can happen for us and we don’t believe
can happen for us and we don’t believe
can happen for us and we don’t believe that we deserve it so here’s what I’m
that we deserve it so here’s what I’m
that we deserve it so here’s what I’m suggesting how much time do you spend
suggesting how much time do you spend
suggesting how much time do you spend working on you how much time do you
working on you how much time do you
working on you how much time do you spend every day working on your dream in
spend every day working on your dream in
spend every day working on your dream in the last 90 days how many books have you
the last 90 days how many books have you
the last 90 days how many books have you read in the last year what new skill or
read in the last year what new skill or
read in the last year what new skill or knowledge have you acquired what kind of
knowledge have you acquired what kind of
knowledge have you acquired what kind of investment have you made in you so I’m
investment have you made in you so I’m
investment have you made in you so I’m saying that as you begin to look at
saying that as you begin to look at
saying that as you begin to look at where you want to go if you want to make
where you want to go if you want to make
where you want to go if you want to make it today and things are changing so fast
it today and things are changing so fast
it today and things are changing so fast you have to literally run the standstill
you have to literally run the standstill
you have to literally run the standstill I’m saying that you’ve got to make some
I’m saying that you’ve got to make some
I’m saying that you’ve got to make some conscious effort to begin to work to
conscious effort to begin to work to
conscious effort to begin to work to develop you here’s something else most
develop you here’s something else most
develop you here’s something else most people are not living their dreams
people are not living their dreams
people are not living their dreams because of fear ladies and gentlemen I
because of fear ladies and gentlemen I
because of fear ladies and gentlemen I was in Columbus Ohio yesterday speaking
was in Columbus Ohio yesterday speaking
was in Columbus Ohio yesterday speaking for a particular Ohio Department Jung
for a particular Ohio Department Jung
for a particular Ohio Department Jung lady named Karen who greeted me who
lady named Karen who greeted me who
lady named Karen who greeted me who organized the event very talented very
organized the event very talented very
organized the event very talented very skillful and she was talking about she
skillful and she was talking about she
skillful and she was talking about she wanted to become involved in the
wanted to become involved in the
wanted to become involved in the consulting business as they watch it
consulting business as they watch it
consulting business as they watch it I think you have the ability I said
I think you have the ability I said
I think you have the ability I said you’re not here because they like me do
you’re not here because they like me do
you’re not here because they like me do here because you’re doing the job you’re
here because you’re doing the job you’re
here because you’re doing the job you’re making things happen and she came up
making things happen and she came up
making things happen and she came up with all kind of ideas that finally she
with all kind of ideas that finally she
with all kind of ideas that finally she said I guess I I can’t see myself doing
said I guess I I can’t see myself doing
said I guess I I can’t see myself doing it against I’m afraid fear limited
it against I’m afraid fear limited
it against I’m afraid fear limited vision and lack of self esteem is what
vision and lack of self esteem is what
vision and lack of self esteem is what keep most people doing things they don’t
keep most people doing things they don’t
keep most people doing things they don’t want to do I would flew from Columbus
want to do I would flew from Columbus
want to do I would flew from Columbus Ohio to Denver Colorado to a major
Ohio to Denver Colorado to a major
Ohio to Denver Colorado to a major communications company and the person
communications company and the person
communications company and the person that taking up the airport told me about
that taking up the airport told me about
that taking up the airport told me about the fact that the company is planning on
the fact that the company is planning on
the fact that the company is planning on having a major downsizing and they
having a major downsizing and they
having a major downsizing and they offered some of the employees their
offered some of the employees their
offered some of the employees their early retirement and some of them was
early retirement and some of them was
early retirement and some of them was earned as much as $300,000 and they said
earned as much as $300,000 and they said
earned as much as $300,000 and they said this is the last time that you can take
this is the last time that you can take
this is the last time that you can take this offer if you don’t do it when we
this offer if you don’t do it when we
this offer if you don’t do it when we have the downsizing you might be among
have the downsizing you might be among
have the downsizing you might be among those who will lose their jobs and all
those who will lose their jobs and all
those who will lose their jobs and all you will get is your severance pay and
you will get is your severance pay and
you will get is your severance pay and only 50% of the people who were eligible
only 50% of the people who were eligible
only 50% of the people who were eligible to take two three hundred thousand
to take two three hundred thousand
to take two three hundred thousand dollars took it the other we’re afraid
dollars took it the other we’re afraid
dollars took it the other we’re afraid to take a chance on themselves the
to take a chance on themselves the
to take a chance on themselves the others couldn’t see themselves beyond
others couldn’t see themselves beyond
others couldn’t see themselves beyond that simply they couldn’t see light
that simply they couldn’t see light
that simply they couldn’t see light after that company the same reason the
after that company the same reason the
after that company the same reason the people same relationship where their
people same relationship where their
people same relationship where their views are they’re unhappy with
views are they’re unhappy with
views are they’re unhappy with unfulfilled they can’t see themselves
unfulfilled they can’t see themselves
unfulfilled they can’t see themselves beyond that relationship they can’t see
beyond that relationship they can’t see
beyond that relationship they can’t see themselves enjoying life without that
themselves enjoying life without that
themselves enjoying life without that person they think that this is all that
person they think that this is all that
person they think that this is all that they can do but they believing that
they can do but they believing that
they can do but they believing that people get stuck at a certain level in
people get stuck at a certain level in
people get stuck at a certain level in life they can’t see things develop again
life they can’t see things develop again
life they can’t see things develop again and they think the business in and this
and they think the business in and this
and they think the business in and this is all they deserve this law they’ve
is all they deserve this law they’ve
is all they deserve this law they’ve ever seen it’s been passed on to them
ever seen it’s been passed on to them
ever seen it’s been passed on to them and they think that this is it for them
and they think that this is it for them
and they think that this is it for them oh no I looking what dr. Blanton Smalley
oh no I looking what dr. Blanton Smalley
oh no I looking what dr. Blanton Smalley Blanton who is a colleague of dr. norman
Blanton who is a colleague of dr. norman
Blanton who is a colleague of dr. norman vincent peale what he said about
vincent peale what he said about
vincent peale what he said about theories of fear is the most subtle and
theories of fear is the most subtle and
theories of fear is the most subtle and destructive of all human diseases
destructive of all human diseases
destructive of all human diseases ladies and gentlemen fear kills dreams
ladies and gentlemen fear kills dreams
ladies and gentlemen fear kills dreams fear kills hope fear put people in the
fear kills hope fear put people in the
fear kills hope fear put people in the hospital beer can aging
hospital beer can aging
hospital beer can aging fear ladies and gentlemen can hold you
fear ladies and gentlemen can hold you
fear ladies and gentlemen can hold you back from doing something that you know
back from doing something that you know
back from doing something that you know within yourself that you’re capable of
within yourself that you’re capable of
within yourself that you’re capable of doing but it will paralyze you and it
doing but it will paralyze you and it
doing but it will paralyze you and it seem like you’re in a hypnotic spell I
seem like you’re in a hypnotic spell I
seem like you’re in a hypnotic spell I ask you a question what is the benefit
ask you a question what is the benefit
ask you a question what is the benefit what’s the benefit of allowing fear to
what’s the benefit of allowing fear to
what’s the benefit of allowing fear to hold you back what’s the benefit of
hold you back what’s the benefit of
hold you back what’s the benefit of giving up on yourself of not stepping
giving up on yourself of not stepping
giving up on yourself of not stepping out on life and taking life on what is
out on life and taking life on what is
out on life and taking life on what is the benefit is what’s the fuss of man so
the benefit is what’s the fuss of man so
the benefit is what’s the fuss of man so one of the things I had asked myself so
one of the things I had asked myself so
one of the things I had asked myself so I didn’t want to make any mistakes I
I didn’t want to make any mistakes I
I didn’t want to make any mistakes I wanted everybody to like me I wanted to
wanted everybody to like me I wanted to
wanted everybody to like me I wanted to be perfect the first time I did
be perfect the first time I did
be perfect the first time I did something it’s not going to happen
something it’s not going to happen
something it’s not going to happen you’re going to make some mistakes you
you’re going to make some mistakes you
you’re going to make some mistakes you learn hurt some folks feelings you want
learn hurt some folks feelings you want
learn hurt some folks feelings you want to create some enemy whenever you decide
to create some enemy whenever you decide
to create some enemy whenever you decide that you want to begin to take life on
that you want to begin to take life on
that you want to begin to take life on you’ve got to ask yourself how long am I
you’ve got to ask yourself how long am I
you’ve got to ask yourself how long am I going to allow this to hold me back
going to allow this to hold me back
going to allow this to hold me back I like the zig Zigler sense that fear is
I like the zig Zigler sense that fear is
I like the zig Zigler sense that fear is false evidence appearing real
but it’s an illusion that we create an
but it’s an illusion that we create an online it is a state of mind that can be
online it is a state of mind that can be
online it is a state of mind that can be changed so let’s look at how we can
changed so let’s look at how we can
changed so let’s look at how we can begin to take some steps to restructure
begin to take some steps to restructure
begin to take some steps to restructure that fear to begin to expand our visions
that fear to begin to expand our visions
that fear to begin to expand our visions of our cells to begin to increase our
of our cells to begin to increase our
of our cells to begin to increase our self-esteem Webster said that
self-esteem Webster said that
self-esteem Webster said that self-esteem means competence and
self-esteem means competence and
self-esteem means competence and satisfaction in oneself look at your
satisfaction in oneself look at your
satisfaction in oneself look at your life right now whatever you’ve done up
life right now whatever you’ve done up
life right now whatever you’ve done up to this point in time your life is
to this point in time your life is
to this point in time your life is working whatever you have produced it
working whatever you have produced it
working whatever you have produced it came out of you as a result of the kind
came out of you as a result of the kind
came out of you as a result of the kind of person that you have become its
of person that you have become its
of person that you have become its result of your choices as the result of
result of your choices as the result of
result of your choices as the result of your consciousness now you have to ask
your consciousness now you have to ask
your consciousness now you have to ask yourself are you satisfied with what you
yourself are you satisfied with what you
yourself are you satisfied with what you have to do and this what you want
have to do and this what you want
have to do and this what you want would you like the things to be better
would you like the things to be better
would you like the things to be better than this do you believe that you
than this do you believe that you
than this do you believe that you deserve better than this are you
deserve better than this are you
deserve better than this are you consistent if you have to do everything
consistent if you have to do everything
consistent if you have to do everything anything else if you already resign
anything else if you already resign
anything else if you already resign yourself in life – well I’m happy I’m
yourself in life – well I’m happy I’m
yourself in life – well I’m happy I’m not solving like the people in Calcutta
not solving like the people in Calcutta
not solving like the people in Calcutta are you allow yourself to get off the
are you allow yourself to get off the
are you allow yourself to get off the hook like that or do you believe
hook like that or do you believe
hook like that or do you believe somewhere in the back of your mind or in
somewhere in the back of your mind or in
somewhere in the back of your mind or in your heart so there’s some other great
your heart so there’s some other great
your heart so there’s some other great work and you to do there’s something
work and you to do there’s something
work and you to do there’s something else the right man to you and that’s why
else the right man to you and that’s why
else the right man to you and that’s why you’re here how do we handle this fear
you’re here how do we handle this fear
you’re here how do we handle this fear factor how do we increase our
factor how do we increase our
factor how do we increase our self-esteem you have to begin to fortify
self-esteem you have to begin to fortify
self-esteem you have to begin to fortify yourself
yourself
yourself how do we do that I believe that you
how do we do that I believe that you
how do we do that I believe that you have to begin to consciously monitor
have to begin to consciously monitor
have to begin to consciously monitor your Skinner conversation and stop
your Skinner conversation and stop
your Skinner conversation and stop talking to yourself start building
talking to yourself start building
talking to yourself start building yourself up sometimes the only good
yourself up sometimes the only good
yourself up sometimes the only good thing you will hear about you are the
thing you will hear about you are the
thing you will hear about you are the things that you say to you young lady
things that you say to you young lady
things that you say to you young lady that that was in the audience this
that that was in the audience this
that that was in the audience this afternoon said to me I told myself
afternoon said to me I told myself
afternoon said to me I told myself yesterday for the first time I’m proud
yesterday for the first time I’m proud
yesterday for the first time I’m proud of me and she said I felt good about
of me and she said I felt good about
of me and she said I felt good about that
that
that so I’m saying learn to be your own
so I’m saying learn to be your own
so I’m saying learn to be your own booster start building yourself up start
booster start building yourself up start
booster start building yourself up start encouraging yourself start saying I can
encouraging yourself start saying I can
encouraging yourself start saying I can do this I can make this happen when I
do this I can make this happen when I
do this I can make this happen when I started thinking about becoming a
started thinking about becoming a
started thinking about becoming a speaker I said yes I can do this I can
speaker I said yes I can do this I can
speaker I said yes I can do this I can make this happen when I start trying to
make this happen when I start trying to
make this happen when I start trying to convince myself I can be a businessman
convince myself I can be a businessman
convince myself I can be a businessman after flopping and failing and losing
after flopping and failing and losing
after flopping and failing and losing thousands of dollars and feeling stupid
thousands of dollars and feeling stupid
thousands of dollars and feeling stupid and dumb and having people take
and dumb and having people take
and dumb and having people take advantage of me because of what I did no
advantage of me because of what I did no
advantage of me because of what I did no I have to talk to myself because people
I have to talk to myself because people
I have to talk to myself because people are saying to me that I was done and
are saying to me that I was done and
are saying to me that I was done and somewhere the back of my mind I was
somewhere the back of my mind I was
somewhere the back of my mind I was saying you’re right looking what I’ve
saying you’re right looking what I’ve
saying you’re right looking what I’ve done I had to say no no no no no no no
done I had to say no no no no no no no
done I had to say no no no no no no no less hey hey come on man get your stuff
less hey hey come on man get your stuff
less hey hey come on man get your stuff together you can handle this you just
together you can handle this you just
together you can handle this you just haven’t figured it out yet it’s all
haven’t figured it out yet it’s all
haven’t figured it out yet it’s all right this is your training period this
right this is your training period this
right this is your training period this is the tuition you have to pay for what
is the tuition you have to pay for what
is the tuition you have to pay for what you don’t know you can do this other
you don’t know you can do this other
you don’t know you can do this other people have done it doesn’t take an
people have done it doesn’t take an
people have done it doesn’t take an Einstein get you some people that can
Einstein get you some people that can
Einstein get you some people that can teach you some stuff that you don’t know
teach you some stuff that you don’t know
teach you some stuff that you don’t know get you some people that have done it
get you some people that have done it
get you some people that have done it successfully and learn from them take
successfully and learn from them take
successfully and learn from them take some seminars workshops leave some books
some seminars workshops leave some books
some seminars workshops leave some books on how to manage a business change the
on how to manage a business change the
on how to manage a business change the way you see yourself
way you see yourself
way you see yourself and begin to tend to the personal detail
and begin to tend to the personal detail
and begin to tend to the personal detail understand that nobody’s going to take
understand that nobody’s going to take
understand that nobody’s going to take your your business better than you and
your your business better than you and
your your business better than you and when I start changing that kind of
when I start changing that kind of
when I start changing that kind of mindset of beating myself up because of
mindset of beating myself up because of
mindset of beating myself up because of hey and start looking at the possibility
hey and start looking at the possibility
hey and start looking at the possibility of my doing better of my making the
of my doing better of my making the
of my doing better of my making the adjustment that would enable me to do
adjustment that would enable me to do
adjustment that would enable me to do what I want to do successfully things
what I want to do successfully things
what I want to do successfully things begin to change
begin to change
begin to change nothing stops easing up on yourself you
nothing stops easing up on yourself you
nothing stops easing up on yourself you do do it I know you do it I’ve done it’s
do do it I know you do it I’ve done it’s
do do it I know you do it I’ve done it’s a natural inclination for us to put
a natural inclination for us to put
a natural inclination for us to put ourselves down then we have born
ourselves down then we have born
ourselves down then we have born negative I think and a negative
negative I think and a negative
negative I think and a negative consciousness because we live in a
consciousness because we live in a
consciousness because we live in a negative world but you don’t have to
negative world but you don’t have to
negative world but you don’t have to teach children to live their light
teach children to live their light
teach children to live their light automatically take your wet in your
automatically take your wet in your
automatically take your wet in your pants no I did not your what is that I
pants no I did not your what is that I
pants no I did not your what is that I don’t know you don’t have to encourage
don’t know you don’t have to encourage
don’t know you don’t have to encourage kids to misbehave they will do it by
kids to misbehave they will do it by
kids to misbehave they will do it by themselves
themselves
themselves you have to encourage them to do the
you have to encourage them to do the
you have to encourage them to do the wrong things they will do it
wrong things they will do it
wrong things they will do it automatically
automatically
automatically yes it’s correct of you some things that
yes it’s correct of you some things that
yes it’s correct of you some things that we have to work through the challenges
we have to work through the challenges
we have to work through the challenges of life and learning how to begin to
of life and learning how to begin to
of life and learning how to begin to work the quantified self repeat after me
work the quantified self repeat after me
work the quantified self repeat after me please I can live my breathe
please I can live my breathe
please I can live my breathe I can find my purpose in life and live
I can find my purpose in life and live
I can find my purpose in life and live my purpose I preserved more for myself I
my purpose I preserved more for myself I
my purpose I preserved more for myself I deserve more from life take somebody’s
deserve more from life take somebody’s
deserve more from life take somebody’s out on your riding lessons they do
out on your riding lessons they do
out on your riding lessons they do deserve more from like two
here’s the mother thing ladies and
here’s the mother thing ladies and gentlemen begin to guard your mind
gentlemen begin to guard your mind
gentlemen begin to guard your mind against negative programming like turn
against negative programming like turn
against negative programming like turn off the television don’t watch the news
off the television don’t watch the news
off the television don’t watch the news don’t lock it I think that more people
don’t lock it I think that more people
don’t lock it I think that more people have a sense of hopelessness and anxiety
have a sense of hopelessness and anxiety
have a sense of hopelessness and anxiety about life if you look at the news you
about life if you look at the news you
about life if you look at the news you cannot feel good looking at the news
cannot feel good looking at the news
cannot feel good looking at the news you’ll be scared to death
you’ll be scared to death
you’ll be scared to death you’re scared to go to sleep I mean it
you’re scared to go to sleep I mean it
you’re scared to go to sleep I mean it turns your power down you’ve got to be
turns your power down you’ve got to be
turns your power down you’ve got to be conscious of that don’t pick up the
conscious of that don’t pick up the
conscious of that don’t pick up the newspaper and read it no no I can just
newspaper and read it no no I can just
newspaper and read it no no I can just try this just experiment with yourself
try this just experiment with yourself
try this just experiment with yourself now if your job depends upon your
now if your job depends upon your
now if your job depends upon your knowing certain things let somebody tell
knowing certain things let somebody tell
knowing certain things let somebody tell you just about those things but stop
you just about those things but stop
you just about those things but stop filtering the stuff you allow to come in
filtering the stuff you allow to come in
filtering the stuff you allow to come in your mind you know that song you’ve
your mind you know that song you’ve
your mind you know that song you’ve answered don’t let nobody bring me no
answered don’t let nobody bring me no
answered don’t let nobody bring me no bad news I tell my staff look here don’t
bad news I tell my staff look here don’t
bad news I tell my staff look here don’t tell me any bad news while I’m on the
tell me any bad news while I’m on the
tell me any bad news while I’m on the road
road
road let me handle it tomorrow I’m like
let me handle it tomorrow I’m like
let me handle it tomorrow I’m like anybody tell me any bad news at night
anybody tell me any bad news at night
anybody tell me any bad news at night before I go to sleep I can’t do anything
before I go to sleep I can’t do anything
before I go to sleep I can’t do anything about it anyhow like let me go to sleep
about it anyhow like let me go to sleep
about it anyhow like let me go to sleep with that on my consciousness no no in
with that on my consciousness no no in
with that on my consciousness no no in my staff they know that since the letter
my staff they know that since the letter
my staff they know that since the letter wait till tomorrow and I have a theory
wait till tomorrow and I have a theory
wait till tomorrow and I have a theory design
design
design tell me bad news between Center clock
tell me bad news between Center clock
tell me bad news between Center clock and 12:00 news
after I prayed and meditated and read my
after I prayed and meditated and read my books I’m fortified I’m ready to handle
books I’m fortified I’m ready to handle
books I’m fortified I’m ready to handle it I deal with it I’m out of there and
it I deal with it I’m out of there and
it I deal with it I’m out of there and I’m going on to something else
I’m going on to something else
I’m going on to something else so you’ve got the job the kinds of
so you’ve got the job the kinds of
so you’ve got the job the kinds of things that you’re putting in my opinion
things that you’re putting in my opinion
things that you’re putting in my opinion you don’t program your mind your mind
you don’t program your mind your mind
you don’t program your mind your mind will be programmed because human beings
will be programmed because human beings
will be programmed because human beings of all oriented that’s why we die of
of all oriented that’s why we die of
of all oriented that’s why we die of broken hearts early that’s why we’re
broken hearts early that’s why we’re
broken hearts early that’s why we’re running through life too early grades
running through life too early grades
running through life too early grades were going through life ladies and
were going through life ladies and
were going through life ladies and gentlemen I think that Henry David
gentlemen I think that Henry David
gentlemen I think that Henry David Thoreau said that most men live in quiet
Thoreau said that most men live in quiet
Thoreau said that most men live in quiet desperation look for go through life
desperation look for go through life
desperation look for go through life running scared Larry and ruffians would
running scared Larry and ruffians would
running scared Larry and ruffians would be one of the greatest motivational
be one of the greatest motivational
be one of the greatest motivational speakers around today told me a story a
speakers around today told me a story a
speakers around today told me a story a true story of appendages that every day
true story of appendages that every day
true story of appendages that every day when he came home from school when he
when he came home from school when he
when he came home from school when he would get to a certain block in his
would get to a certain block in his
would get to a certain block in his neighborhood there was a neighborhood
neighborhood there was a neighborhood
neighborhood there was a neighborhood dog that could sit here and that dog
dog that could sit here and that dog
dog that could sit here and that dog would start after him barking bored he
would start after him barking bored he
would start after him barking bored he would lunge if what is the my dog Kevin
would lunge if what is the my dog Kevin
would lunge if what is the my dog Kevin evidence finally he just got tired of
evidence finally he just got tired of
evidence finally he just got tired of that dog Kirstin every day there is dog
that dog Kirstin every day there is dog
that dog Kirstin every day there is dog come on you don’t would take a breakfast
come on you don’t would take a breakfast
come on you don’t would take a breakfast of them busting in here so he was
of them busting in here so he was
of them busting in here so he was walking home that they might evolve
walking home that they might evolve
walking home that they might evolve isn’t sure enough same area there was
isn’t sure enough same area there was
isn’t sure enough same area there was that dog the dog stopped barking he
that dog the dog stopped barking he
that dog the dog stopped barking he started running he saw brick and he
started running he saw brick and he
started running he saw brick and he stopped and picked up a brick and turn
stopped and picked up a brick and turn
stopped and picked up a brick and turn on and the dog got close to me realize
on and the dog got close to me realize
on and the dog got close to me realize dog enhance identity
he said he’s what the breakdown is
he said he’s what the breakdown is they’d get away and letting the
they’d get away and letting the
they’d get away and letting the gentlemen are many but don’t feel like
gentlemen are many but don’t feel like
gentlemen are many but don’t feel like running from things and he’s got no
running from things and he’s got no
running from things and he’s got no teeth of drove it home
teeth of drove it home
teeth of drove it home [Music]
[Music]
[Music] [Applause]
haven’t you been afraid to do something
haven’t you been afraid to do something in monopoly did you say no if I noticed
in monopoly did you say no if I noticed
in monopoly did you say no if I noticed was it means I was good before have you
was it means I was good before have you
was it means I was good before have you ever feared reason absolutely so we
ever feared reason absolutely so we
ever feared reason absolutely so we create exists in our minds false
create exists in our minds false
create exists in our minds false evidence appearing real we made and real
evidence appearing real we made and real
evidence appearing real we made and real in our mind as our Trisha says there’s
in our mind as our Trisha says there’s
in our mind as our Trisha says there’s nothing to fear but fear itself
nothing to fear but fear itself
nothing to fear but fear itself that’s the destructive monster so turn
that’s the destructive monster so turn
that’s the destructive monster so turn off things that can contribute to your
off things that can contribute to your
off things that can contribute to your fear turn a deaf ear to people that all
fear turn a deaf ear to people that all
fear turn a deaf ear to people that all they can do is talk about how negative
they can do is talk about how negative
they can do is talk about how negative things off because they have bought into
things off because they have bought into
things off because they have bought into the consciousness of the world start
the consciousness of the world start
the consciousness of the world start attending workshops seminars listening
attending workshops seminars listening
attending workshops seminars listening to tapes on a daily basis to begin to
to tapes on a daily basis to begin to
to tapes on a daily basis to begin to recondition your mind to retrain your
recondition your mind to retrain your
recondition your mind to retrain your thinking
thinking
thinking faith comes by what hearing and hearing
faith comes by what hearing and hearing
faith comes by what hearing and hearing and hearing listen to things that can
and hearing listen to things that can
and hearing listen to things that can empower you that can enable you to
empower you that can enable you to
empower you that can enable you to create a new reality for yourself in a
create a new reality for yourself in a
create a new reality for yourself in a new life for yourself you might appear
new life for yourself you might appear
new life for yourself you might appear to be strange around most people you
to be strange around most people you
to be strange around most people you know most people think you’re strange if
know most people think you’re strange if
know most people think you’re strange if you’re happy today people say how you
you’re happy today people say how you
you’re happy today people say how you doing I said better than good whoa
doing I said better than good whoa
doing I said better than good whoa what’s wrong with him let’s go around
what’s wrong with him let’s go around
what’s wrong with him let’s go around smiling and watch people look at is this
smiling and watch people look at is this
smiling and watch people look at is this a weird guy over here because most
a weird guy over here because most
a weird guy over here because most people’s file watch him look at their
people’s file watch him look at their
people’s file watch him look at their faces in the morning here we go another
faces in the morning here we go another
faces in the morning here we go another Monday morning
Monday morning
Monday morning how you doing haven’t had my coffee yet
how you doing haven’t had my coffee yet
how you doing haven’t had my coffee yet don’t ask
see these people have not found their
see these people have not found their purpose in life that’s why they are
purpose in life that’s why they are
purpose in life that’s why they are grumpy but that’s why they’re miserable
grumpy but that’s why they’re miserable
grumpy but that’s why they’re miserable that’s why they’re so negative they’re
that’s why they’re so negative they’re
that’s why they’re so negative they’re hurting and they want to hurt other
hurting and they want to hurt other
hurting and they want to hurt other people so start thought to see using
people so start thought to see using
people so start thought to see using programs for your mind seminars books
programs for your mind seminars books
programs for your mind seminars books workshops
workshops
workshops keep a journal record your thoughts
keep a journal record your thoughts
keep a journal record your thoughts what’s happening with you every day when
what’s happening with you every day when
what’s happening with you every day when you get up have a journal near you I use
you get up have a journal near you I use
you get up have a journal near you I use a Jack Boland journal so that I can
a Jack Boland journal so that I can
a Jack Boland journal so that I can write down my ideas I keep it by my bed
write down my ideas I keep it by my bed
write down my ideas I keep it by my bed stop and write down my thoughts see
stop and write down my thoughts see
stop and write down my thoughts see ladies and gentlemen we get three to
ladies and gentlemen we get three to
ladies and gentlemen we get three to four fourths of year that agree with
four fourths of year that agree with
four fourths of year that agree with customers if you change how I don’t say
customers if you change how I don’t say
customers if you change how I don’t say well I’ll remember that no write that
well I’ll remember that no write that
well I’ll remember that no write that part down I got across today I wrote
part down I got across today I wrote
part down I got across today I wrote down a friend of mine is in the hospital
down a friend of mine is in the hospital
down a friend of mine is in the hospital this malala’s lawyer talked about
this malala’s lawyer talked about
this malala’s lawyer talked about amputating his foot he’s got a field
amputating his foot he’s got a field
amputating his foot he’s got a field very bad such as you know I’m gonna I’m
very bad such as you know I’m gonna I’m
very bad such as you know I’m gonna I’m not only am I going to see him but I
not only am I going to see him but I
not only am I going to see him but I can’t be there with him all atomic that
can’t be there with him all atomic that
can’t be there with him all atomic that I’m going to create a state form that
I’m going to create a state form that
I’m going to create a state form that that we can listen to that will type in
that we can listen to that will type in
that we can listen to that will type in his level of noël we told him the other
his level of noël we told him the other
his level of noël we told him the other night go go to surgery you will discuss
night go go to surgery you will discuss
night go go to surgery you will discuss York energy level is down no no tell
York energy level is down no no tell
York energy level is down no no tell them not now don’t do it now but most
them not now don’t do it now but most
them not now don’t do it now but most doctors who have any sense of awareness
doctors who have any sense of awareness
doctors who have any sense of awareness don’t perform surgery on patients better
don’t perform surgery on patients better
don’t perform surgery on patients better in the state of fear but don’t think
in the state of fear but don’t think
in the state of fear but don’t think they will make it they wait till in a
they will make it they wait till in a
they will make it they wait till in a different state of mind I said what
different state of mind I said what
different state of mind I said what about making things for people that are
about making things for people that are
about making things for people that are facing physical challenge
facing physical challenge
facing physical challenge Oh
Oh
Oh [Music]
[Music]
[Music] [Applause]
think the ideas that can come from you
think the ideas that can come from you honor things that appear to be negative
honor things that appear to be negative
honor things that appear to be negative I have a friend out of Chicago just that
I have a friend out of Chicago just that
I have a friend out of Chicago just that I knew 23 years old and this guy he went
I knew 23 years old and this guy he went
I knew 23 years old and this guy he went financially bankrupt two years ago weird
financially bankrupt two years ago weird
financially bankrupt two years ago weird aesthetic that’s what he decided to do
aesthetic that’s what he decided to do
aesthetic that’s what he decided to do he found a blessing in it he worked to
he found a blessing in it he worked to
he found a blessing in it he worked to restore his credit it was very
restore his credit it was very
restore his credit it was very challenging very difficult and he
challenging very difficult and he
challenging very difficult and he realized that a lot of other people
realized that a lot of other people
realized that a lot of other people during these particulars after lowering
during these particulars after lowering
during these particulars after lowering their credit so now he’s product a
their credit so now he’s product a
their credit so now he’s product a credit repair business last year he
credit repair business last year he
credit repair business last year he earned over $100,000 helping people to
earned over $100,000 helping people to
earned over $100,000 helping people to restore their credit I met a young lady
restore their credit I met a young lady
restore their credit I met a young lady who attends this church that she was at
who attends this church that she was at
who attends this church that she was at her father’s funeral and and she was
her father’s funeral and and she was
her father’s funeral and and she was putting flowers on her father’s grave
putting flowers on her father’s grave
putting flowers on her father’s grave and she looked around and saw the other
and she looked around and saw the other
and she looked around and saw the other grave sites they did not look
grave sites they did not look
grave sites they did not look well-groomed and they were not attended
well-groomed and they were not attended
well-groomed and they were not attended to on a regular basis she start a grave
to on a regular basis she start a grave
to on a regular basis she start a grave site maintenance business out of that
site maintenance business out of that
site maintenance business out of that tragedy something positive has come out
tragedy something positive has come out
tragedy something positive has come out of and now she’s earning more money
of and now she’s earning more money
of and now she’s earning more money doing that than on her present job what
doing that than on her present job what
doing that than on her present job what idea are you sitting on right your ideas
idea are you sitting on right your ideas
idea are you sitting on right your ideas done and then once you get that idea
done and then once you get that idea
done and then once you get that idea take the lead hello
take the lead hello
take the lead hello [Music]
[Music]
[Music] take the lead see a lot of people get
take the lead see a lot of people get
take the lead see a lot of people get the ideas and just walk around with them
the ideas and just walk around with them
the ideas and just walk around with them have you ever had an idea and all of us
have you ever had an idea and all of us
have you ever had an idea and all of us have you looked around and somebody had
have you looked around and somebody had
have you looked around and somebody had that idea and going with it
that idea and going with it
that idea and going with it think you’re going to be going with my
think you’re going to be going with my
think you’re going to be going with my hospital idea forget that buddy we will
hospital idea forget that buddy we will
hospital idea forget that buddy we will be out there together Jack
thank you leave this out of the universe
thank you leave this out of the universe if you don’t take the plunge I guarantee
if you don’t take the plunge I guarantee
if you don’t take the plunge I guarantee you somebody else will take the plunge
you somebody else will take the plunge
you somebody else will take the plunge go into action and ladies and gentlemen
go into action and ladies and gentlemen
go into action and ladies and gentlemen you will be surprised how things will
you will be surprised how things will
you will be surprised how things will come together you’ll be surprised now
come together you’ll be surprised now
come together you’ll be surprised now you’re going to have some difficult
you’re going to have some difficult
you’re going to have some difficult challenges I could tell you that now be
challenges I could tell you that now be
challenges I could tell you that now be aware that things are not going to work
aware that things are not going to work
aware that things are not going to work out exactly right for time they will
out exactly right for time they will
out exactly right for time they will sometimes and that’s when life is just
sometimes and that’s when life is just
sometimes and that’s when life is just playing a game we want you to feel good
playing a game we want you to feel good
playing a game we want you to feel good and relaxed and then after a while
and relaxed and then after a while
and relaxed and then after a while okay the honeymoons over and then life
okay the honeymoons over and then life
okay the honeymoons over and then life can come over there / it’s out of here
can come over there / it’s out of here
can come over there / it’s out of here say what’s he doing out here but there’s
say what’s he doing out here but there’s
say what’s he doing out here but there’s my dream life is that right come over
my dream life is that right come over
my dream life is that right come over here minute oh oh you went to the
here minute oh oh you went to the
here minute oh oh you went to the seminar – I can tell you that but ladies
seminar – I can tell you that but ladies
seminar – I can tell you that but ladies and gentlemen go into action with your
and gentlemen go into action with your
and gentlemen go into action with your dreams and don’t avoid where the fights
dreams and don’t avoid where the fights
dreams and don’t avoid where the fights are get in the midst of the fight and
are get in the midst of the fight and
are get in the midst of the fight and get some hickeys on your head get
get some hickeys on your head get
get some hickeys on your head get knocked down so you can learn how to
knocked down so you can learn how to
knocked down so you can learn how to fight so you can hold your position see
fight so you can hold your position see
fight so you can hold your position see most people don’t get out in the arena
most people don’t get out in the arena
most people don’t get out in the arena of life because they don’t want fight
of life because they don’t want fight
of life because they don’t want fight most people don’t get out there because
most people don’t get out there because
most people don’t get out there because they don’t want to get knocked down they
they don’t want to get knocked down they
they don’t want to get knocked down they don’t want to be dropped to their knees
don’t want to be dropped to their knees
don’t want to be dropped to their knees but then you’re going to be dropped
but then you’re going to be dropped
but then you’re going to be dropped where are you on the field or whether
where are you on the field or whether
where are you on the field or whether not just sitting on the sidelines you’re
not just sitting on the sidelines you’re
not just sitting on the sidelines you’re going to be dropped but leave get
going to be dropped but leave get
going to be dropped but leave get dropped with something
dropped with something
dropped with something so give knock down while you’re sitting
so give knock down while you’re sitting
so give knock down while you’re sitting down see that’s not most people of
down see that’s not most people of
down see that’s not most people of spectators in life you don’t want to be
spectators in life you don’t want to be
spectators in life you don’t want to be a spectator you want to get out in the
a spectator you want to get out in the
a spectator you want to get out in the field where the action is and you will
field where the action is and you will
field where the action is and you will be a painting after the struggle there
be a painting after the struggle there
be a painting after the struggle there will be a problem period and things will
will be a problem period and things will
will be a problem period and things will begin to flex in you come on here with
begin to flex in you come on here with
begin to flex in you come on here with what you guys you don’t have enough
what you guys you don’t have enough
what you guys you don’t have enough money don’t worry about it you got the
money don’t worry about it you got the
money don’t worry about it you got the green you got the idea
green you got the idea
green you got the idea you’re having a process don’t worry
you’re having a process don’t worry
you’re having a process don’t worry about it you need some help don’t worry
about it you need some help don’t worry
about it you need some help don’t worry about it you’ll get out of here and be a
about it you’ll get out of here and be a
about it you’ll get out of here and be a leader someone will look at you and
leader someone will look at you and
leader someone will look at you and become inspired and say hey can I help
become inspired and say hey can I help
become inspired and say hey can I help you but if you sit up on the bleachers
you but if you sit up on the bleachers
you but if you sit up on the bleachers nobody’s going to ask you anything
nobody’s going to ask you anything
nobody’s going to ask you anything [Music]
when you’re working on a dream at some
when you’re working on a dream at some point in time a transition take place
point in time a transition take place
point in time a transition take place and the transition is is what you’ll be
and the transition is is what you’ll be
and the transition is is what you’ll be coming in pursuit of the dream because
coming in pursuit of the dream because
coming in pursuit of the dream because even if you don’t get the dream you
even if you don’t get the dream you
even if you don’t get the dream you become such a strong and powerful person
become such a strong and powerful person
become such a strong and powerful person it will so change your life you can look
it will so change your life you can look
it will so change your life you can look at something else and say well I think
at something else and say well I think
at something else and say well I think I’ll go do this then because you’ve not
I’ll go do this then because you’ve not
I’ll go do this then because you’ve not developed yourself in such confidence
developed yourself in such confidence
developed yourself in such confidence and such competence on how to deal in
and such competence on how to deal in
and such competence on how to deal in the arena of life that you can move into
the arena of life that you can move into
the arena of life that you can move into another area not miss a beam once you
another area not miss a beam once you
another area not miss a beam once you begin to discover who you are then you
begin to discover who you are then you
begin to discover who you are then you really realize how you have been given
really realize how you have been given
really realize how you have been given authority and dominion over everything
authority and dominion over everything
authority and dominion over everything on the face of the earth including all
on the face of the earth including all
on the face of the earth including all the dimensions of your life but you can
the dimensions of your life but you can
the dimensions of your life but you can only do that through the struggle of
only do that through the struggle of
only do that through the struggle of life and most people aboard the struggle
life and most people aboard the struggle
life and most people aboard the struggle most people go through life aborting
most people go through life aborting
most people go through life aborting pain and when you go through life like
pain and when you go through life like
pain and when you go through life like that something in you die something in
that something in you die something in
that something in you die something in you but you never activate is lying
you but you never activate is lying
you but you never activate is lying dormant in there that you never get a
dormant in there that you never get a
dormant in there that you never get a chance to call on because you have not
chance to call on because you have not
chance to call on because you have not challenged yourself somebody says the
challenged yourself somebody says the
challenged yourself somebody says the land of familiarity belongs to the day
land of familiarity belongs to the day
land of familiarity belongs to the day the most people like to feel like they
the most people like to feel like they
the most people like to feel like they are king in the area of their comfort
are king in the area of their comfort
are king in the area of their comfort zone they only want to do those things
zone they only want to do those things
zone they only want to do those things that they know how to do well I was born
that they know how to do well I was born
that they know how to do well I was born said unless you’re tempted to something
said unless you’re tempted to something
said unless you’re tempted to something beyond that which you’ve already
beyond that which you’ve already
beyond that which you’ve already mastered you will never grow so if you
mastered you will never grow so if you
mastered you will never grow so if you want to begin to grow you’ve got to put
want to begin to grow you’ve got to put
want to begin to grow you’ve got to put something out here that you can’t reach
something out here that you can’t reach
something out here that you can’t reach easily that has got to make you stretch
easily that has got to make you stretch
easily that has got to make you stretch got to make you jump for it got to make
got to make you jump for it got to make
got to make you jump for it got to make you get back a little dig and dig in so
you get back a little dig and dig in so
you get back a little dig and dig in so that you can take a leap forth and maybe
that you can take a leap forth and maybe
that you can take a leap forth and maybe you jump up then you miss it and you
you jump up then you miss it and you
you jump up then you miss it and you extend your knees you come back again
extend your knees you come back again
extend your knees you come back again and you bust your lip next time but you
and you bust your lip next time but you
and you bust your lip next time but you keep on and through that process you
keep on and through that process you
keep on and through that process you learn how to leap higher you start
learn how to leap higher you start
learn how to leap higher you start challenging yourself to dig deeper and
challenging yourself to dig deeper and
challenging yourself to dig deeper and then you discover some things about you
then you discover some things about you
then you discover some things about you that you don’t know right now
that you don’t know right now
that you don’t know right now talents that you have in you that you
talents that you have in you that you
talents that you have in you that you didn’t know that you can do I started
didn’t know that you can do I started
didn’t know that you can do I started out just talking to kids and now I’m
out just talking to kids and now I’m
out just talking to kids and now I’m speaking at corporations now I’m
speaking at corporations now I’m
speaking at corporations now I’m traveling I didn’t know I can do this
traveling I didn’t know I can do this
traveling I didn’t know I can do this but had I not given myself a chance and
but had I not given myself a chance and
but had I not given myself a chance and I’m saying to you give yourself a chance
I’m saying to you give yourself a chance
I’m saying to you give yourself a chance here’s something else if you want to
here’s something else if you want to
here’s something else if you want to begin to make yourself happen for you I
begin to make yourself happen for you I
begin to make yourself happen for you I think that it’s very important that you
think that it’s very important that you
think that it’s very important that you start trusting yourself listen to
start trusting yourself listen to
start trusting yourself listen to yourself listen to that still small
yourself listen to that still small
yourself listen to that still small voice within you don’t try and make
voice within you don’t try and make
voice within you don’t try and make everything logical there are some things
everything logical there are some things
everything logical there are some things about life that defies logic but you
about life that defies logic but you
about life that defies logic but you just can’t explain how the outcome is
just can’t explain how the outcome is
just can’t explain how the outcome is going to be I think that’s why Paul said
going to be I think that’s why Paul said
going to be I think that’s why Paul said you’ve got to learn how to walk by faith
you’ve got to learn how to walk by faith
you’ve got to learn how to walk by faith and not by sight that once you begin to
and not by sight that once you begin to
and not by sight that once you begin to trust yourself and your ideas in your
trust yourself and your ideas in your
trust yourself and your ideas in your instincts life takes on a whole new
instincts life takes on a whole new
instincts life takes on a whole new meaning because now I want you to do
meaning because now I want you to do
meaning because now I want you to do that feeling that you are led just feel
that feeling that you are led just feel
that feeling that you are led just feel I am led I remember the worst feature
I am led I remember the worst feature
I am led I remember the worst feature I’ve ever given in my life I let someone
I’ve ever given in my life I let someone
I’ve ever given in my life I let someone exploit a fear that I had for years I
exploit a fear that I had for years I
exploit a fear that I had for years I had a tremendous inferiority complex
had a tremendous inferiority complex
had a tremendous inferiority complex because I’m not college educated and
because I’m not college educated and
because I’m not college educated and this person knew this and she said let
this person knew this and she said let
this person knew this and she said let me write this speech for you you’re
me write this speech for you you’re
me write this speech for you you’re going to speak at Ohio State University
going to speak at Ohio State University
going to speak at Ohio State University those people are very educated there and
those people are very educated there and
those people are very educated there and they’re going to know when you make
they’re going to know when you make
they’re going to know when you make grammatical errors never know because of
grammatical errors never know because of
grammatical errors never know because of the substance of your speech that you
the substance of your speech that you
the substance of your speech that you are not literate I care about you I
are not literate I care about you I
are not literate I care about you I don’t want you to embarrass yourself so
don’t want you to embarrass yourself so
don’t want you to embarrass yourself so this person proceeded to write a speech
this person proceeded to write a speech
this person proceeded to write a speech for me I had a speech in my mind but
for me I had a speech in my mind but
for me I had a speech in my mind but this person was stronger than I was
this person was stronger than I was
this person was stronger than I was negatively than I was positive about my
negatively than I was positive about my
negatively than I was positive about my own thoughts and I gave my power away
own thoughts and I gave my power away
own thoughts and I gave my power away with my permission I allowed this person
with my permission I allowed this person
with my permission I allowed this person to guide me to do something that I
to guide me to do something that I
to guide me to do something that I really didn’t want to do but I didn’t
really didn’t want to do but I didn’t
really didn’t want to do but I didn’t feel enough inner strength and
feel enough inner strength and
feel enough inner strength and conviction about my skills as a speaker
conviction about my skills as a speaker
conviction about my skills as a speaker the method that I had to bring to stick
the method that I had to bring to stick
the method that I had to bring to stick by my guns and I got up there at the
by my guns and I got up there at the
by my guns and I got up there at the Ohio Union and I read this straight
Ohio Union and I read this straight
Ohio Union and I read this straight speech and did not move and did not take
speech and did not move and did not take
speech and did not move and did not take my eyes off the page because I’m not
my eyes off the page because I’m not
my eyes off the page because I’m not accustomed to reading and I thought
accustomed to reading and I thought
accustomed to reading and I thought Finley some people gave me a standing
Finley some people gave me a standing
Finley some people gave me a standing ovation because I read it extremely well
ovation because I read it extremely well
ovation because I read it extremely well when I was very tensed and I was very
when I was very tensed and I was very
when I was very tensed and I was very nervous but bull was with me we’ve been
nervous but bull was with me we’ve been
nervous but bull was with me we’ve been together since second grade and I didn’t
together since second grade and I didn’t
together since second grade and I didn’t want to go on the side of the room where
want to go on the side of the room where
want to go on the side of the room where he was I saw the look in his eyes and
he was I saw the look in his eyes and
he was I saw the look in his eyes and another friend of mine by the name of
another friend of mine by the name of
another friend of mine by the name of Mike Williams and I knew what they were
Mike Williams and I knew what they were
Mike Williams and I knew what they were going to say and they had the look on
going to say and they had the look on
going to say and they had the look on their face like what happened to you and
their face like what happened to you and
their face like what happened to you and so I didn’t go over there I went over
so I didn’t go over there I went over
so I didn’t go over there I went over here where I could get some compliments
and these people were saying you were
and these people were saying you were very good oh thank you very much I want
very good oh thank you very much I want
very good oh thank you very much I want to be fortified before I got this
to be fortified before I got this
to be fortified before I got this whispered so finally we were going to
whispered so finally we were going to
whispered so finally we were going to the car and we got in the car and bull
the car and we got in the car and bull
the car and we got in the car and bull was trying to be as tactful as he could
was trying to be as tactful as he could
was trying to be as tactful as he could and then he just said that was the worst
and then he just said that was the worst
and then he just said that was the worst beat you up ever given as oh boy oh I
beat you up ever given as oh boy oh I
beat you up ever given as oh boy oh I threw why did you read the speech what
threw why did you read the speech what
threw why did you read the speech what happened to your spontaneity
happened to your spontaneity
happened to your spontaneity you’ve always been extemporaneous
you’ve always been extemporaneous
you’ve always been extemporaneous speaker that’s why did you do it when
speaker that’s why did you do it when
speaker that’s why did you do it when she told me that they wouldn’t accept
she told me that they wouldn’t accept
she told me that they wouldn’t accept what I said let’s let him take you as
what I said let’s let him take you as
what I said let’s let him take you as you are I gave my power away
you are I gave my power away
you are I gave my power away [Applause]
[Applause]
[Applause] [Music]
[Music]
[Music] ladies and gentlemen don’t give your
ladies and gentlemen don’t give your
ladies and gentlemen don’t give your power away you don’t need anybody to
power away you don’t need anybody to
power away you don’t need anybody to approve your dream it was given to Nooh
approve your dream it was given to Nooh
approve your dream it was given to Nooh if they can’t see it it’s because it
if they can’t see it it’s because it
if they can’t see it it’s because it wasn’t given to them it was given to you
wasn’t given to them it was given to you
wasn’t given to them it was given to you hold it nourish it cultivated work on it
hold it nourish it cultivated work on it
hold it nourish it cultivated work on it it’s yours it’s your baby we’re going
it’s yours it’s your baby we’re going
it’s yours it’s your baby we’re going until it comes into fruition
until it comes into fruition
until it comes into fruition I gave wave my power and I said I’m not
I gave wave my power and I said I’m not
I gave wave my power and I said I’m not going to do very long if you’ve ever
going to do very long if you’ve ever
going to do very long if you’ve ever given where your power will repeat after
given where your power will repeat after
given where your power will repeat after meeting I’m not gonna do that no more is
meeting I’m not gonna do that no more is
meeting I’m not gonna do that no more is that something good today
that something good today
that something good today uh-uh no no no all right here’s
uh-uh no no no all right here’s
uh-uh no no no all right here’s something else for those who make it
something else for those who make it
something else for those who make it today do what you know is right
today do what you know is right
today do what you know is right please people like you want to be
please people like you want to be
please people like you want to be treated don’t try and take any shortcuts
treated don’t try and take any shortcuts
treated don’t try and take any shortcuts don’t try and achieve pay your dues
don’t try and achieve pay your dues
don’t try and achieve pay your dues upfront
upfront
upfront I believe ladies and gentlemen what goes
I believe ladies and gentlemen what goes
I believe ladies and gentlemen what goes around comes around
around comes around
around comes around you can pay now or you will pay double
you can pay now or you will pay double
you can pay now or you will pay double later so do the right thing there might
later so do the right thing there might
later so do the right thing there might be a tendency sometimes because of the
be a tendency sometimes because of the
be a tendency sometimes because of the negative part of our consciousness and
negative part of our consciousness and
negative part of our consciousness and our own programming for us to want to
our own programming for us to want to
our own programming for us to want to say well I just do it this time it won’t
say well I just do it this time it won’t
say well I just do it this time it won’t matter won’t nobody know ladies and
matter won’t nobody know ladies and
matter won’t nobody know ladies and gentlemen everything matters and you
gentlemen everything matters and you
gentlemen everything matters and you know you’re somebody you know I rather
know you’re somebody you know I rather
know you’re somebody you know I rather lose out on my dream doing the right
lose out on my dream doing the right
lose out on my dream doing the right thing than the cheap trying to make a
thing than the cheap trying to make a
thing than the cheap trying to make a shortcut to get to my goal I want to be
shortcut to get to my goal I want to be
shortcut to get to my goal I want to be able to look myself in the mirror that’s
able to look myself in the mirror that’s
able to look myself in the mirror that’s what you want to do there’s no saying
what you want to do there’s no saying
what you want to do there’s no saying judge a man not by what he does but by
judge a man not by what he does but by
judge a man not by what he does but by that that he doesn’t have to do the
that that he doesn’t have to do the
that that he doesn’t have to do the judge of true quality of a man is what
judge of true quality of a man is what
judge of true quality of a man is what do you do when nobody’s looking see
do you do when nobody’s looking see
do you do when nobody’s looking see there’s some good out there for you in
there’s some good out there for you in
there’s some good out there for you in the universe that has your name on it
the universe that has your name on it
the universe that has your name on it and nobody can get your good it has your
and nobody can get your good it has your
and nobody can get your good it has your name on it they can’t take your stuff
name on it they can’t take your stuff
name on it they can’t take your stuff it’s your stuff so when you know that
it’s your stuff so when you know that
it’s your stuff so when you know that when you know that whatever you’re
when you know that whatever you’re
when you know that whatever you’re seeking it’s also seeking
seeking it’s also seeking
seeking it’s also seeking you you don’t worry you don’t run scared
you you don’t worry you don’t run scared
you you don’t worry you don’t run scared you don’t think somebody’s going to take
you don’t think somebody’s going to take
you don’t think somebody’s going to take it from you you listen to your inner
it from you you listen to your inner
it from you you listen to your inner voice and you always take the high road
voice and you always take the high road
voice and you always take the high road there will be the tendency the natural
there will be the tendency the natural
there will be the tendency the natural inclination to take the low road you
inclination to take the low road you
inclination to take the low road you must resist that repeat after me please
must resist that repeat after me please
must resist that repeat after me please I will always take the high road
I will always take the high road
I will always take the high road and do the right thing no matter what
and do the right thing no matter what
and do the right thing no matter what take somebody’s hand on your right and
take somebody’s hand on your right and
take somebody’s hand on your right and left and say do the right thing
here’s something else I encourage you to
here’s something else I encourage you to do if you want to make it today
do if you want to make it today
do if you want to make it today keep your agreements keep your
keep your agreements keep your
keep your agreements keep your agreements that you make and establish a
agreements that you make and establish a
agreements that you make and establish a network of people who will also do that
network of people who will also do that
network of people who will also do that establish a network of people in your
establish a network of people in your
establish a network of people in your life that you can count on that will be
life that you can count on that will be
life that you can count on that will be there for you when you need them and
there for you when you need them and
there for you when you need them and you’ll be there for them and test them
you’ll be there for them and test them
you’ll be there for them and test them sometimes find out how many flaky people
sometimes find out how many flaky people
sometimes find out how many flaky people you’ve got in your life ask them to meet
you’ve got in your life ask them to meet
you’ve got in your life ask them to meet you someplace and say this is very
you someplace and say this is very
you someplace and say this is very important for me will you be there for
important for me will you be there for
important for me will you be there for me I need you and whoever shows up write
me I need you and whoever shows up write
me I need you and whoever shows up write their name down those that don’t show up
their name down those that don’t show up
their name down those that don’t show up draw a line through their name and when
draw a line through their name and when
draw a line through their name and when they call you make sure you’re not
they call you make sure you’re not
they call you make sure you’re not available for them
available for them
available for them are you busy no I just choose not to
are you busy no I just choose not to
are you busy no I just choose not to deal with you in this way
deal with you in this way
deal with you in this way get all the flaky people out of your
get all the flaky people out of your
get all the flaky people out of your life
life
life [Applause]
[Applause]
[Applause] I asked a friend of mine today about a
I asked a friend of mine today about a
I asked a friend of mine today about a mutual friend I said have you talked to
mutual friend I said have you talked to
mutual friend I said have you talked to him she said no I said why he is so
him she said no I said why he is so
him she said no I said why he is so negative I had to cut him out of my life
negative I had to cut him out of my life
negative I had to cut him out of my life I couldn’t risk having him in my life in
I couldn’t risk having him in my life in
I couldn’t risk having him in my life in my office I have a lot of fruit and I
my office I have a lot of fruit and I
my office I have a lot of fruit and I had a basket of apples on the table and
had a basket of apples on the table and
had a basket of apples on the table and I had a plum that has spoiled when I
I had a plum that has spoiled when I
I had a plum that has spoiled when I picked the plum up off this granny apple
picked the plum up off this granny apple
picked the plum up off this granny apple it left a brown spot you ever heard that
it left a brown spot you ever heard that
it left a brown spot you ever heard that one spoil Apple will spoil a whole
one spoil Apple will spoil a whole
one spoil Apple will spoil a whole barrel one negative person can spoil
barrel one negative person can spoil
barrel one negative person can spoil your whole life leave the flakes alone
your whole life leave the flakes alone
your whole life leave the flakes alone people that are seriously not serious
people that are seriously not serious
people that are seriously not serious and if you’re surrounded by flakes that
and if you’re surrounded by flakes that
and if you’re surrounded by flakes that tells you who you are because like
tells you who you are because like
tells you who you are because like attracts like hello I know you don’t
attracts like hello I know you don’t
attracts like hello I know you don’t like that but you want to plot that one
like that but you want to plot that one
like that but you want to plot that one [Music]
your blog for them huh here’s the other
your blog for them huh here’s the other thing is working on your dream a lot of
thing is working on your dream a lot of
thing is working on your dream a lot of people have been calling you saying hey
people have been calling you saying hey
people have been calling you saying hey then I read about you at everything boy
then I read about you at everything boy
then I read about you at everything boy you’re lucky ladies and gentlemen let me
you’re lucky ladies and gentlemen let me
you’re lucky ladies and gentlemen let me tell you something here’s something else
tell you something here’s something else
tell you something here’s something else three themes to have in your life and
three themes to have in your life and
three themes to have in your life and working on your dream and doing your
working on your dream and doing your
working on your dream and doing your life work you must be patient persistent
life work you must be patient persistent
life work you must be patient persistent and positive no matter what I call John
and positive no matter what I call John
and positive no matter what I call John H Johnson for two-and-a-half years to
H Johnson for two-and-a-half years to
H Johnson for two-and-a-half years to get in that magazine the first time I
get in that magazine the first time I
get in that magazine the first time I called him he wouldn’t talk to me then I
called him he wouldn’t talk to me then I
called him he wouldn’t talk to me then I was persistent trying to find out who
was persistent trying to find out who
was persistent trying to find out who knew him that could invite me there to
knew him that could invite me there to
knew him that could invite me there to meet him or an opportunity to speak so
meet him or an opportunity to speak so
meet him or an opportunity to speak so that he could hear me and I met a guy
that he could hear me and I met a guy
that he could hear me and I met a guy who worked for me and I say hey I like
who worked for me and I say hey I like
who worked for me and I say hey I like to speak to you guys free I just want to
to speak to you guys free I just want to
to speak to you guys free I just want to know will he be in the audience they
know will he be in the audience they
know will he be in the audience they said yes do it I spoken I try to tell
said yes do it I spoken I try to tell
said yes do it I spoken I try to tell him microphone up and he said after I
him microphone up and he said after I
him microphone up and he said after I finished hey young man you quite
finished hey young man you quite
finished hey young man you quite impressive I’m gonna have myself to an
impressive I’m gonna have myself to an
impressive I’m gonna have myself to an article on you I said thank you mr.
article on you I said thank you mr.
article on you I said thank you mr. Johnson and I sent him information on me
Johnson and I sent him information on me
Johnson and I sent him information on me Federal Express
Federal Express
Federal Express [Music]
and it didn’t happen waited for a month
and it didn’t happen waited for a month and it didn’t happen waited for two
and it didn’t happen waited for two
and it didn’t happen waited for two months it didn’t happen I stopped
months it didn’t happen I stopped
months it didn’t happen I stopped calling every month hello how are you
calling every month hello how are you
calling every month hello how are you man speak to mr. Johnson I’m sorry is
man speak to mr. Johnson I’m sorry is
man speak to mr. Johnson I’m sorry is not available
not available
not available telling Les Brown : I just want to say
telling Les Brown : I just want to say
telling Les Brown : I just want to say thank you very much for the article when
thank you very much for the article when
thank you very much for the article when he puts it in I kept on doing it kept on
he puts it in I kept on doing it kept on
he puts it in I kept on doing it kept on calling kept on calling sending new
calling kept on calling sending new
calling kept on calling sending new articles hitting new information on me
articles hitting new information on me
articles hitting new information on me Teflon upgrading the information on it
Teflon upgrading the information on it
Teflon upgrading the information on it sitting him thank you let us Thank You
sitting him thank you let us Thank You
sitting him thank you let us Thank You mr. Johnson I was always positive I
mr. Johnson I was always positive I
mr. Johnson I was always positive I could have gotten negative things why
could have gotten negative things why
could have gotten negative things why did you lie to me
did you lie to me
did you lie to me while you were telling me you were put
while you were telling me you were put
while you were telling me you were put me in the magazine and you didn’t do it
me in the magazine and you didn’t do it
me in the magazine and you didn’t do it I could have got an attitude be positive
I could have got an attitude be positive
I could have got an attitude be positive no matter what because when you are
no matter what because when you are
no matter what because when you are negative ladies and gentlemen you’re
negative ladies and gentlemen you’re
negative ladies and gentlemen you’re spending our negative energy and you’re
spending our negative energy and you’re
spending our negative energy and you’re blocking your good so don’t set out any
blocking your good so don’t set out any
blocking your good so don’t set out any negative energy don’t take it personal I
negative energy don’t take it personal I
negative energy don’t take it personal I didn’t care what he thought of me all
didn’t care what he thought of me all
didn’t care what he thought of me all the staffs and I was a nuisance to them
the staffs and I was a nuisance to them
the staffs and I was a nuisance to them they get paid to deal with people like
they get paid to deal with people like
they get paid to deal with people like me
I want to be in that magazine they got a
I want to be in that magazine they got a subscription of 1.7 million people ask
subscription of 1.7 million people ask
subscription of 1.7 million people ask me do I care what they think about me
me do I care what they think about me
me do I care what they think about me any sensible reasonable intelligent
any sensible reasonable intelligent
any sensible reasonable intelligent person know if somebody doesn’t call you
person know if somebody doesn’t call you
person know if somebody doesn’t call you back up to two and a half years they
back up to two and a half years they
back up to two and a half years they don’t want to talk to you ask me do I
don’t want to talk to you ask me do I
don’t want to talk to you ask me do I care about that results don’t lime in
care about that results don’t lime in
care about that results don’t lime in the magazine hello hello hello see a lot
the magazine hello hello hello see a lot
the magazine hello hello hello see a lot of people have an idea or dreaming they
of people have an idea or dreaming they
of people have an idea or dreaming they give up on no no don’t do that work your
give up on no no don’t do that work your
give up on no no don’t do that work your dream until it gets hot see most things
dream until it gets hot see most things
dream until it gets hot see most things don’t happen as soon as we think they
don’t happen as soon as we think they
don’t happen as soon as we think they should happen the messenger of misery
should happen the messenger of misery
should happen the messenger of misery might drop in on your cell all Murphy’s
might drop in on your cell all Murphy’s
might drop in on your cell all Murphy’s Law might come by and stump you on the
Law might come by and stump you on the
Law might come by and stump you on the head
head
head any number of things can happen to
any number of things can happen to
any number of things can happen to interrupt your flow it’s okay don’t take
interrupt your flow it’s okay don’t take
interrupt your flow it’s okay don’t take it personal just acknowledge what’s
it personal just acknowledge what’s
it personal just acknowledge what’s going on it’s called life and keep on
going on it’s called life and keep on
going on it’s called life and keep on working on your dream continue to keep
working on your dream continue to keep
working on your dream continue to keep on knocking keep on knocking because
on knocking keep on knocking because
on knocking keep on knocking because this is your life this is what you love
this is your life this is what you love
this is your life this is what you love this is your passion step back don’t
this is your passion step back don’t
this is your passion step back don’t judge it if you judge it judge not lest
judge it if you judge it judge not lest
judge it if you judge it judge not lest ye be judged why because when you judge
ye be judged why because when you judge
ye be judged why because when you judge it you in best emotion in it and that
it you in best emotion in it and that
it you in best emotion in it and that look emotion to be anger and guess what
look emotion to be anger and guess what
look emotion to be anger and guess what that hurts you that doesn’t hurt anybody
that hurts you that doesn’t hurt anybody
that hurts you that doesn’t hurt anybody else one doctor says the man who angers
else one doctor says the man who angers
else one doctor says the man who angers me killeth be many allow someone to egg
me killeth be many allow someone to egg
me killeth be many allow someone to egg him into an argument on the floor of the
him into an argument on the floor of the
him into an argument on the floor of the National Medical Convention and suffered
National Medical Convention and suffered
National Medical Convention and suffered a massive heart attack when you know
a massive heart attack when you know
a massive heart attack when you know state of anger you have so much acid in
state of anger you have so much acid in
state of anger you have so much acid in your blood if they would do some blood
your blood if they would do some blood
your blood if they would do some blood from you and serve it to a pig it would
from you and serve it to a pig it would
from you and serve it to a pig it would die from the air so what do you want to
die from the air so what do you want to
die from the air so what do you want to take yourself out early for by
take yourself out early for by
take yourself out early for by internalizing things Shakespeare said
internalizing things Shakespeare said
internalizing things Shakespeare said nothing is neither good nor bad but
nothing is neither good nor bad but
nothing is neither good nor bad but thinking makes it so
thinking makes it so
thinking makes it so so judge not according to appearances
so judge not according to appearances
so judge not according to appearances for the right judgment and feel that
for the right judgment and feel that
for the right judgment and feel that everything is going to work out for you
everything is going to work out for you
everything is going to work out for you because your patient your persistence
because your patient your persistence
because your patient your persistence your going to be positive no matter what
your going to be positive no matter what
your going to be positive no matter what don’t allow other things or people of
don’t allow other things or people of
don’t allow other things or people of circumstances to determine what your
circumstances to determine what your
circumstances to determine what your reaction is going to be I was out to
reaction is going to be I was out to
reaction is going to be I was out to dinner with some people and we had a
dinner with some people and we had a
dinner with some people and we had a waitress that was quite discourteous
waitress that was quite discourteous
waitress that was quite discourteous room and the people around me took a an
room and the people around me took a an
room and the people around me took a an attitude about it I learned how to
attitude about it I learned how to
attitude about it I learned how to observe life I think that in order to
observe life I think that in order to
observe life I think that in order to overcome life you’ve got to learn how to
overcome life you’ve got to learn how to
overcome life you’ve got to learn how to observe it just stand back and watch
observe it just stand back and watch
observe it just stand back and watch what’s going on and choose not to buy
what’s going on and choose not to buy
what’s going on and choose not to buy into it I said excuse me ma’am I said do
into it I said excuse me ma’am I said do
into it I said excuse me ma’am I said do you know what tip stands for he said no
you know what tip stands for he said no
you know what tip stands for he said no as the tip stands forth to ensure proper
as the tip stands forth to ensure proper
as the tip stands forth to ensure proper we’ve been sitting here a long time I
we’ve been sitting here a long time I
we’ve been sitting here a long time I want to give you five dollars up front
want to give you five dollars up front
want to give you five dollars up front to ensure a prompt meal which assists me
to ensure a prompt meal which assists me
to ensure a prompt meal which assists me she gave me the biggest smile instead of
she gave me the biggest smile instead of
she gave me the biggest smile instead of and I said by the way I’m not with these
and I said by the way I’m not with these
and I said by the way I’m not with these people I’m gonna be sitting at another
people I’m gonna be sitting at another
people I’m gonna be sitting at another table please put my meal over there
table please put my meal over there
table please put my meal over there serve them by themselves see I don’t
serve them by themselves see I don’t
serve them by themselves see I don’t want to make anybody angry who goes
want to make anybody angry who goes
want to make anybody angry who goes behind closed doors to prepare my food
behind closed doors to prepare my food
behind closed doors to prepare my food Oh No
Oh No
Oh No [Applause]
[Applause]
[Applause] I got my food if I told him I said if I
I got my food if I told him I said if I
I got my food if I told him I said if I were you I would need that where’s the
were you I would need that where’s the
were you I would need that where’s the manager I want to see him she said I get
manager I want to see him she said I get
manager I want to see him she said I get in just a minute I know what she did to
in just a minute I know what she did to
in just a minute I know what she did to their food oh no I said eat that at your
their food oh no I said eat that at your
their food oh no I said eat that at your own risk I don’t even want a job driving
own risk I don’t even want a job driving
own risk I don’t even want a job driving me home I get you care no no no I don’t
me home I get you care no no no I don’t
me home I get you care no no no I don’t know when that’s gonna take effect on
know when that’s gonna take effect on
know when that’s gonna take effect on you so don’t allow people to determine
you so don’t allow people to determine
you so don’t allow people to determine how you are going to respond to this or
how you are going to respond to this or
how you are going to respond to this or circumstances learn to look at a friend
circumstances learn to look at a friend
circumstances learn to look at a friend of mine Tom Perkins Hanson meticulous
of mine Tom Perkins Hanson meticulous
of mine Tom Perkins Hanson meticulous man and his mid-fifties he had a
man and his mid-fifties he had a
man and his mid-fifties he had a tremendous business and at the height of
tremendous business and at the height of
tremendous business and at the height of his success someone was killed in his
his success someone was killed in his
his success someone was killed in his business he was sold in lost 750,000
business he was sold in lost 750,000
business he was sold in lost 750,000 dollars lost his business lost his
dollars lost his business lost his
dollars lost his business lost his family lost his home everything he was
family lost his home everything he was
family lost his home everything he was devastated ladies and gentlemen he
devastated ladies and gentlemen he
devastated ladies and gentlemen he started living in his car he would wash
started living in his car he would wash
started living in his car he would wash up in a McDonald’s across from Howard
up in a McDonald’s across from Howard
up in a McDonald’s across from Howard University on Georgia Avenue in
University on Georgia Avenue in
University on Georgia Avenue in Washington DC he said less I was so
Washington DC he said less I was so
Washington DC he said less I was so depressed he said I had everything and
depressed he said I had everything and
depressed he said I had everything and then one day I lost it all he said I
then one day I lost it all he said I
then one day I lost it all he said I didn’t want to live anymore he got some
didn’t want to live anymore he got some
didn’t want to live anymore he got some sleeping pills we took over 35 sleeping
sleeping pills we took over 35 sleeping
sleeping pills we took over 35 sleeping pills and he laid down both his hands
pills and he laid down both his hands
pills and he laid down both his hands across his chest he said he went to
across his chest he said he went to
across his chest he said he went to sleep to died two days later much to his
sleep to died two days later much to his
sleep to died two days later much to his amazement he woke up
he couldn’t even get that right I said
he couldn’t even get that right I said what happens in Tom he said an
what happens in Tom he said an
what happens in Tom he said an incredible thing happened he was laying
incredible thing happened he was laying
incredible thing happened he was laying there for a moment he said a voice said
there for a moment he said a voice said
there for a moment he said a voice said to him inside his mind
to him inside his mind
to him inside his mind it wasn’t your life to take that was one
it wasn’t your life to take that was one
it wasn’t your life to take that was one thing he said since that day when I get
thing he said since that day when I get
thing he said since that day when I get any major challenges I don’t take it all
any major challenges I don’t take it all
any major challenges I don’t take it all myself
myself
myself personally I feel that I’ve got somebody
personally I feel that I’ve got somebody
personally I feel that I’ve got somebody with me he said I’ll never leave you nor
with me he said I’ll never leave you nor
with me he said I’ll never leave you nor forsake you he said hey I said God you
forsake you he said hey I said God you
forsake you he said hey I said God you got an analyst for me this is too much
got an analyst for me this is too much
got an analyst for me this is too much to me is that I don’t sweat the
to me is that I don’t sweat the
to me is that I don’t sweat the challenges of life repeat after me
challenges of life repeat after me
challenges of life repeat after me please don’t sweat the small stuff
please don’t sweat the small stuff
please don’t sweat the small stuff because it’s all small see whatever you
because it’s all small see whatever you
because it’s all small see whatever you worried about if someone close calls you
worried about if someone close calls you
worried about if someone close calls you right now say look if you’ve got two
right now say look if you’ve got two
right now say look if you’ve got two days to live I’m telling you you won’t
days to live I’m telling you you won’t
days to live I’m telling you you won’t be worried about your bills ladies and
be worried about your bills ladies and
be worried about your bills ladies and gentlemen you won’t be worried about
gentlemen you won’t be worried about
gentlemen you won’t be worried about whether or not somebody loves you a
whether or not somebody loves you a
whether or not somebody loves you a cheating on you because you’re about to
cheating on you because you’re about to
cheating on you because you’re about to check out
check out
check out okay so put things in perspective here’s
okay so put things in perspective here’s
okay so put things in perspective here’s something else Tommy said that I think
something else Tommy said that I think
something else Tommy said that I think is important he said that the voice also
is important he said that the voice also
is important he said that the voice also said to him if you change your way
said to him if you change your way
said to him if you change your way I’ll give you far more than you ever
I’ll give you far more than you ever
I’ll give you far more than you ever lost look at your life right now if you
lost look at your life right now if you
lost look at your life right now if you want to keep on getting what you get
want to keep on getting what you get
want to keep on getting what you get keep on doing what you’re doing you’ve
keep on doing what you’re doing you’ve
keep on doing what you’re doing you’ve got to be willing to change your ways
got to be willing to change your ways
got to be willing to change your ways your life is working if you don’t like
your life is working if you don’t like
your life is working if you don’t like what you have produced your director you
what you have produced your director you
what you have produced your director you have to stop you wrote this script you
have to stop you wrote this script you
have to stop you wrote this script you produced it whatever it is if it’s a hit
produced it whatever it is if it’s a hit
produced it whatever it is if it’s a hit you produce it if it’s a flop you
you produce it if it’s a flop you
you produce it if it’s a flop you produced it take ownership of it and
produced it take ownership of it and
produced it take ownership of it and decide to go back to the drawing board
decide to go back to the drawing board
decide to go back to the drawing board and rewrite the script that you are the
and rewrite the script that you are the
and rewrite the script that you are the star on you have a power to do that on
star on you have a power to do that on
star on you have a power to do that on this day you can declare that I’m going
this day you can declare that I’m going
this day you can declare that I’m going to change as you look back on your life
to change as you look back on your life
to change as you look back on your life you can decide that I don’t like what I
you can decide that I don’t like what I
you can decide that I don’t like what I produced here and I want a higher ground
produced here and I want a higher ground
produced here and I want a higher ground I want to begin to experience more love
I want to begin to experience more love
I want to begin to experience more love I want to have more adventure in my life
I want to have more adventure in my life
I want to have more adventure in my life I want something that gives my life a
I want something that gives my life a
I want something that gives my life a sense of meaning ladies and gentlemen
sense of meaning ladies and gentlemen
sense of meaning ladies and gentlemen I’ve been selected to head up a program
I’ve been selected to head up a program
I’ve been selected to head up a program called project life in Chicago training
called project life in Chicago training
called project life in Chicago training thousands of kids and I had the
thousands of kids and I had the
thousands of kids and I had the experience since we had our second
experience since we had our second
experience since we had our second session this past Monday and to see
session this past Monday and to see
session this past Monday and to see these young people when they came in and
these young people when they came in and
these young people when they came in and to see the young people and the parents
to see the young people and the parents
to see the young people and the parents in the community volunteers when they
in the community volunteers when they
in the community volunteers when they went out one young man from a
went out one young man from a
went out one young man from a cabrini-green Housing Project who didn’t
cabrini-green Housing Project who didn’t
cabrini-green Housing Project who didn’t want to be there who came up and said I
want to be there who came up and said I
want to be there who came up and said I want you to know I’m so glad to be here
want you to know I’m so glad to be here
want you to know I’m so glad to be here he says I’ll never be the same again
he says I’ll never be the same again
he says I’ll never be the same again if they thanked you for the help I just
if they thanked you for the help I just
if they thanked you for the help I just got to go down to thank you for I’ll
got to go down to thank you for I’ll
got to go down to thank you for I’ll never be the thing to see a letter I got
never be the thing to see a letter I got
never be the thing to see a letter I got from a young man who was in the Cook
from a young man who was in the Cook
from a young man who was in the Cook County Jail where I work on Monday
County Jail where I work on Monday
County Jail where I work on Monday morning and this young man will not be
morning and this young man will not be
morning and this young man will not be out of jail for at least 50 years at
out of jail for at least 50 years at
out of jail for at least 50 years at least 50 years they gave him a hundred
least 50 years they gave him a hundred
least 50 years they gave him a hundred years this guy is shot at least 60
years this guy is shot at least 60
years this guy is shot at least 60 people that we know of and killed 10 at
people that we know of and killed 10 at
people that we know of and killed 10 at least and this letter he wrote he said
least and this letter he wrote he said
least and this letter he wrote he said since listening to your tape he said I
since listening to your tape he said I
since listening to your tape he said I have not changed but I feel a different
have not changed but I feel a different
have not changed but I feel a different person in over 70% of these young men
person in over 70% of these young men
person in over 70% of these young men are in there for murder we wanted to
are in there for murder we wanted to
are in there for murder we wanted to have a two-pronged attack where we would
have a two-pronged attack where we would
have a two-pronged attack where we would train people on the outside and train
train people on the outside and train
train people on the outside and train those that are in the jails because I
those that are in the jails because I
those that are in the jails because I believe if you cage them like animals
believe if you cage them like animals
believe if you cage them like animals and treat them like animals and they’re
and treat them like animals and they’re
and treat them like animals and they’re out on the streets every 22 months
out on the streets every 22 months
out on the streets every 22 months they’re going to get out and act like
they’re going to get out and act like
they’re going to get out and act like animals and go back in like animals
[Music]
[Music] so we said let’s take an approach this
so we said let’s take an approach this
so we said let’s take an approach this gives me my life this now this might be
gives me my life this now this might be
gives me my life this now this might be insane but I felt so good I believe
insane but I felt so good I believe
insane but I felt so good I believe ladies and gentlemen if we can accept
ladies and gentlemen if we can accept
ladies and gentlemen if we can accept the possibility of that this is the
the possibility of that this is the
the possibility of that this is the decade of consciousness that’s what I
decade of consciousness that’s what I
decade of consciousness that’s what I believe that this is the decade of
believe that this is the decade of
believe that this is the decade of consciousness if you please a time where
consciousness if you please a time where
consciousness if you please a time where we can begin to create in folks Minds me
we can begin to create in folks Minds me
we can begin to create in folks Minds me I did the possibility that we can create
I did the possibility that we can create
I did the possibility that we can create a more humane society the possibility
a more humane society the possibility
a more humane society the possibility that we create more love communication
that we create more love communication
that we create more love communication and understanding in relationships the
and understanding in relationships the
and understanding in relationships the possibility that we can create a
possibility that we can create a
possibility that we can create a drug-free America the possibility that
drug-free America the possibility that
drug-free America the possibility that we can create the kind of respect for
we can create the kind of respect for
we can create the kind of respect for diversity and difference in our
diversity and difference in our
diversity and difference in our multicultural society the possibility
multicultural society the possibility
multicultural society the possibility that we can begin to develop the mindset
that we can begin to develop the mindset
that we can begin to develop the mindset to bring out the best in people to
to bring out the best in people to
to bring out the best in people to encourage them to achieve their
encourage them to achieve their
encourage them to achieve their greatness and support them in their
greatness and support them in their
greatness and support them in their dreams that if we can in this decade of
dreams that if we can in this decade of
dreams that if we can in this decade of consciousness to begin to see it
consciousness to begin to see it
consciousness to begin to see it envision that happening and that we all
envision that happening and that we all
envision that happening and that we all can play a role that we were born for
can play a role that we were born for
can play a role that we were born for such a timelessness that we showed up
such a timelessness that we showed up
such a timelessness that we showed up for this and we survive one out of nine
for this and we survive one out of nine
for this and we survive one out of nine million sperms and we’ve been chosen for
million sperms and we’ve been chosen for
million sperms and we’ve been chosen for this great work what an exciting time to
this great work what an exciting time to
this great work what an exciting time to be alive
be alive
be alive [Applause]
[Applause]
[Applause] [Music]
[Music]
[Music] here’s something else to recognize
here’s something else to recognize
here’s something else to recognize wherever you are on the ladder of life
wherever you are on the ladder of life
wherever you are on the ladder of life and I was reading in dr. Norman Vincent
and I was reading in dr. Norman Vincent
and I was reading in dr. Norman Vincent fields latest book called the power of
fields latest book called the power of
fields latest book called the power of positive living which i think is his
positive living which i think is his
positive living which i think is his greatest work and he has something in
greatest work and he has something in
greatest work and he has something in there a section called comeback power
there a section called comeback power
there a section called comeback power wherever you are in life ladies and
wherever you are in life ladies and
wherever you are in life ladies and gentlemen you’ve got comeback power I
gentlemen you’ve got comeback power I
gentlemen you’ve got comeback power I don’t care how old you are I don’t care
don’t care how old you are I don’t care
don’t care how old you are I don’t care what you have done I don’t care what you
what you have done I don’t care what you
what you have done I don’t care what you have experienced I don’t care how
have experienced I don’t care how
have experienced I don’t care how devastated your life might appear to be
devastated your life might appear to be
devastated your life might appear to be the shambles it might be in there’s a
the shambles it might be in there’s a
the shambles it might be in there’s a power in you that can enable you to be
power in you that can enable you to be
power in you that can enable you to be stronger and better than anything that’s
stronger and better than anything that’s
stronger and better than anything that’s out here one man who came to the
out here one man who came to the
out here one man who came to the training he was not a kid and I knew he
training he was not a kid and I knew he
training he was not a kid and I knew he had a drinking problem and he was
had a drinking problem and he was
had a drinking problem and he was looking at me and I could smell alcohol
looking at me and I could smell alcohol
looking at me and I could smell alcohol on him as excuse me come here come here
on him as excuse me come here come here
on him as excuse me come here come here come in he said what is it I said let me
come in he said what is it I said let me
come in he said what is it I said let me tell you something I want you to know
tell you something I want you to know
tell you something I want you to know you’ve got something in you that’s owner
you’ve got something in you that’s owner
you’ve got something in you that’s owner than that point that you’re putting in
than that point that you’re putting in
than that point that you’re putting in your body do you understand me and he
your body do you understand me and he
your body do you understand me and he was looking he’s back and everything she
was looking he’s back and everything she
was looking he’s back and everything she said I don’t know is that I don’t know
said I don’t know is that I don’t know
said I don’t know is that I don’t know man I said it is I said that’s why
man I said it is I said that’s why
man I said it is I said that’s why you’re here something do you hear and
you’re here something do you hear and
you’re here something do you hear and that which taught you to come you said
that which taught you to come you said
that which taught you to come you said you want some help and you need to be
you want some help and you need to be
you want some help and you need to be around some people that can help you get
around some people that can help you get
around some people that can help you get in touch with your power because you
in touch with your power because you
in touch with your power because you know that your life deserves this see I
know that your life deserves this see I
know that your life deserves this see I think that the reason that we abused
think that the reason that we abused
think that the reason that we abused ourselves with drugs and alcohol is that
ourselves with drugs and alcohol is that
ourselves with drugs and alcohol is that we’re trying to learn something here not
we’re trying to learn something here not
we’re trying to learn something here not that that’s taking us that that’s urging
that that’s taking us that that’s urging
that that’s taking us that that’s urging us that’s nagging us to do something
us that’s nagging us to do something
us that’s nagging us to do something bigger and better it can’t be because it
bigger and better it can’t be because it
bigger and better it can’t be because it tastes so good it can’t because crack
tastes so good it can’t because crack
tastes so good it can’t because crack feels so good or cocaine is not that
feels so good or cocaine is not that
feels so good or cocaine is not that simple
simple
simple but when we are deluding ourselves or
but when we are deluding ourselves or
but when we are deluding ourselves or polluting our mind
polluting our mind
polluting our mind it numbs us where we don’t have to face
it numbs us where we don’t have to face
it numbs us where we don’t have to face reality because we don’t know what we’ve
reality because we don’t know what we’ve
reality because we don’t know what we’ve got going for us say once you discover
got going for us say once you discover
got going for us say once you discover who you are the truth of knowing who you
who you are the truth of knowing who you
who you are the truth of knowing who you are will set you free from ever wanting
are will set you free from ever wanting
are will set you free from ever wanting alcohol from ever wanting any kind of
alcohol from ever wanting any kind of
alcohol from ever wanting any kind of drug that’s going to destroy who you are
drug that’s going to destroy who you are
drug that’s going to destroy who you are once you begin to know who you
once you begin to know who you
once you begin to know who you it will set you free from believing I
it will set you free from believing I
it will set you free from believing I can’t see myself doing anything the
can’t see myself doing anything the
can’t see myself doing anything the reason that we are here this evening to
reason that we are here this evening to
reason that we are here this evening to talk about Joe versus the volcano and so
talk about Joe versus the volcano and so
talk about Joe versus the volcano and so what I wanted you to do was to really
what I wanted you to do was to really
what I wanted you to do was to really experience this now what is it when
experience this now what is it when
experience this now what is it when you’re near a volcano that’s that’s
you’re near a volcano that’s that’s
you’re near a volcano that’s that’s boiling over and about to explode what
boiling over and about to explode what
boiling over and about to explode what is it that you feel that lets you know
is it that you feel that lets you know
is it that you feel that lets you know you were in the area of a volcano what
you were in the area of a volcano what
you were in the area of a volcano what is it you feel oh I know I though you
is it you feel oh I know I though you
is it you feel oh I know I though you feel heat right so you’re going to
feel heat right so you’re going to
feel heat right so you’re going to experience this volcano because we have
experience this volcano because we have
experience this volcano because we have things in our lives ladies and gentlemen
things in our lives ladies and gentlemen
things in our lives ladies and gentlemen and because we don’t handle them because
and because we don’t handle them because
and because we don’t handle them because we don’t deal with those things they
we don’t deal with those things they
we don’t deal with those things they began to get kind of hot you know you’ve
began to get kind of hot you know you’ve
began to get kind of hot you know you’ve heard the expression for I’m in hot
heard the expression for I’m in hot
heard the expression for I’m in hot water have you ever heard that before
water have you ever heard that before
water have you ever heard that before and that means that there’s something
and that means that there’s something
and that means that there’s something that you’re in that some dilemma that
that you’re in that some dilemma that
that you’re in that some dilemma that you’ve got to handle something that
you’ve got to handle something that
you’ve got to handle something that you’ve got to deal with so let’s begin
you’ve got to deal with so let’s begin
you’ve got to deal with so let’s begin to look at this guy called Joe versus
to look at this guy called Joe versus
to look at this guy called Joe versus the volcano let’s see what’s in it for
the volcano let’s see what’s in it for
the volcano let’s see what’s in it for us I took the liberty of changing some
us I took the liberty of changing some
us I took the liberty of changing some things to enable them to be symbolic for
things to enable them to be symbolic for
things to enable them to be symbolic for us and Tom Hanks plays his role and for
us and Tom Hanks plays his role and for
us and Tom Hanks plays his role and for those of you that have not seen the
those of you that have not seen the
those of you that have not seen the movie about a guy who were going to work
movie about a guy who were going to work
movie about a guy who were going to work every day it was very depressing I mean
every day it was very depressing I mean
every day it was very depressing I mean when you see it I mean the photography
when you see it I mean the photography
when you see it I mean the photography is very dingy looking and gray and very
is very dingy looking and gray and very
is very dingy looking and gray and very dim lighting and the people are going
dim lighting and the people are going
dim lighting and the people are going and looking drab doing the same old
and looking drab doing the same old
and looking drab doing the same old thing every day in the same hallway some
thing every day in the same hallway some
thing every day in the same hallway some of you work with people like that their
of you work with people like that their
of you work with people like that their faces that you wish you never ever saw
faces that you wish you never ever saw
faces that you wish you never ever saw hell all right I mean if you never saw
hell all right I mean if you never saw
hell all right I mean if you never saw him again it’d be too soon I am I right
him again it’d be too soon I am I right
him again it’d be too soon I am I right I’m gone right so this is what was going
I’m gone right so this is what was going
I’m gone right so this is what was going on this guy was going into this job
on this guy was going into this job
on this guy was going into this job where it was a dead-end job he wasn’t
where it was a dead-end job he wasn’t
where it was a dead-end job he wasn’t happy he was miserable and many of us
happy he was miserable and many of us
happy he was miserable and many of us can identify with that he knew that he
can identify with that he knew that he
can identify with that he knew that he was capable of doing more but he had
was capable of doing more but he had
was capable of doing more but he had really given up on himself he had really
really given up on himself he had really
really given up on himself he had really sold himself out yeah some of us have
sold himself out yeah some of us have
sold himself out yeah some of us have done that he made a trade off for
done that he made a trade off for
done that he made a trade off for whatever reason he decided to do this is
whatever reason he decided to do this is
whatever reason he decided to do this is why we can identify with and the volcano
why we can identify with and the volcano
why we can identify with and the volcano is symbolic of the challenges
is symbolic of the challenges
is symbolic of the challenges that we invariably face in life the
that we invariably face in life the
that we invariably face in life the problems that many of us run away from
problems that many of us run away from
problems that many of us run away from handling and he had to handle this and
handling and he had to handle this and
handling and he had to handle this and how did he come in contact with this
how did he come in contact with this
how did he come in contact with this volcano well what happened was he was
volcano well what happened was he was
volcano well what happened was he was going to this doctor constantly he’s a
going to this doctor constantly he’s a
going to this doctor constantly he’s a hypochondriac because he wasn’t living
hypochondriac because he wasn’t living
hypochondriac because he wasn’t living his purpose his dream had not found his
his purpose his dream had not found his
his purpose his dream had not found his life work he would create illnesses for
life work he would create illnesses for
life work he would create illnesses for himself and so what happened in the
himself and so what happened in the
himself and so what happened in the process this doctor decided he set him
process this doctor decided he set him
process this doctor decided he set him up really when you’re not living your
up really when you’re not living your
up really when you’re not living your goal you go through life living like a
goal you go through life living like a
goal you go through life living like a victim if people can set you up for
victim if people can set you up for
victim if people can set you up for anything they can run any kind of game
anything they can run any kind of game
anything they can run any kind of game on you and you’re go for it I had a
on you and you’re go for it I had a
on you and you’re go for it I had a saying when I was in radio stand-up what
saying when I was in radio stand-up what
saying when I was in radio stand-up what you believe in because you can fall for
you believe in because you can fall for
you believe in because you can fall for anything
anything
anything well Joe didn’t believe it very much
well Joe didn’t believe it very much
well Joe didn’t believe it very much including himself in his dream seems so
including himself in his dream seems so
including himself in his dream seems so he was very vulnerable and so Joe was
he was very vulnerable and so Joe was
he was very vulnerable and so Joe was set up by this doctor this doctor told
set up by this doctor this doctor told
set up by this doctor this doctor told him that he had a rare disease and he
him that he had a rare disease and he
him that he had a rare disease and he had six months to live his disease was
had six months to live his disease was
had six months to live his disease was called a brain cloud all Cadell Joe went
called a brain cloud all Cadell Joe went
called a brain cloud all Cadell Joe went boy he believed it
boy he believed it
boy he believed it but you know something it changed his
but you know something it changed his
but you know something it changed his life it changed his life and so he was
life it changed his life and so he was
life it changed his life and so he was so look at you you know you don’t have
so look at you you know you don’t have
so look at you you know you don’t have long to live anyhow the guy said why
long to live anyhow the guy said why
long to live anyhow the guy said why don’t you do this I don’t give you all
don’t you do this I don’t give you all
don’t you do this I don’t give you all my credit cards in this way you can live
my credit cards in this way you can live
my credit cards in this way you can live like a king and there’s something I want
like a king and there’s something I want
like a king and there’s something I want you to do there’s a catch there’s a
you to do there’s a catch there’s a
you to do there’s a catch there’s a volcano on an island that’s about to
volcano on an island that’s about to
volcano on an island that’s about to erupt and and unless somebody jumps in
erupt and and unless somebody jumps in
erupt and and unless somebody jumps in that volcano sacrificed their life these
that volcano sacrificed their life these
that volcano sacrificed their life these people on this island will perish well
people on this island will perish well
people on this island will perish well your life isn’t worth much as you don’t
your life isn’t worth much as you don’t
your life isn’t worth much as you don’t have that low beauty huh so why’d you
have that low beauty huh so why’d you
have that low beauty huh so why’d you take my credit card all Micromax
take my credit card all Micromax
take my credit card all Micromax American Express master charge all take
American Express master charge all take
American Express master charge all take all them go live like a king and die
all them go live like a king and die
all them go live like a king and die like a man
like a man
like a man joe said okay what do you have to lose
joe said okay what do you have to lose
joe said okay what do you have to lose he’s going to die knee huh and his life
he’s going to die knee huh and his life
he’s going to die knee huh and his life didn’t have any meaning and value to it
didn’t have any meaning and value to it
didn’t have any meaning and value to it as it was so this was no big sacrifice
as it was so this was no big sacrifice
as it was so this was no big sacrifice on Joel’s behalf now that says something
on Joel’s behalf now that says something
on Joel’s behalf now that says something about us people human beings that when
about us people human beings that when
about us people human beings that when you have not structured your life so
you have not structured your life so
you have not structured your life so that it can have some meaning and value
that it can have some meaning and value
that it can have some meaning and value for you that
for you that
for you that be willing to throw your life away into
be willing to throw your life away into
be willing to throw your life away into anything see the volcano could be
anything see the volcano could be
anything see the volcano could be alcohol it could be drugs it could be a
alcohol it could be drugs it could be a
alcohol it could be drugs it could be a job that does not mean who you are that
job that does not mean who you are that
job that does not mean who you are that you go through life you’re doing it so
you go through life you’re doing it so
you go through life you’re doing it so long you you’re operating in this and
long you you’re operating in this and
long you you’re operating in this and you’re acting out that role of
you’re acting out that role of
you’re acting out that role of mediocrity for so long you think it’s
mediocrity for so long you think it’s
mediocrity for so long you think it’s you it could be a relationship that’s no
you it could be a relationship that’s no
you it could be a relationship that’s no longer giving you what you want and
longer giving you what you want and
longer giving you what you want and creating disease in your body it could
creating disease in your body it could
creating disease in your body it could be any kind of circumstance like in his
be any kind of circumstance like in his
be any kind of circumstance like in his work environment it was toxic it wasn’t
work environment it was toxic it wasn’t
work environment it was toxic it wasn’t good for him but he didn’t have the guts
good for him but he didn’t have the guts
good for him but he didn’t have the guts to do anything about it to act on it so
to do anything about it to act on it so
to do anything about it to act on it so therefore it was making him miserable
therefore it was making him miserable
therefore it was making him miserable and as a result he couldn’t see the
and as a result he couldn’t see the
and as a result he couldn’t see the beauty of life in fact in the movie they
beauty of life in fact in the movie they
beauty of life in fact in the movie they had in the concrete that was a daisy
had in the concrete that was a daisy
had in the concrete that was a daisy growing up through the concrete but
growing up through the concrete but
growing up through the concrete but people were so caught up in the
people were so caught up in the
people were so caught up in the depression in the gloominess of life
depression in the gloominess of life
depression in the gloominess of life they could even see the daisy when
they could even see the daisy when
they could even see the daisy when somebody just stepped on it one day I
somebody just stepped on it one day I
somebody just stepped on it one day I couldn’t see the beauty in life so
couldn’t see the beauty in life so
couldn’t see the beauty in life so that’s what can happen to your life that
that’s what can happen to your life that
that’s what can happen to your life that you can get so caught up in the misery
you can get so caught up in the misery
you can get so caught up in the misery of it and the pain and sickness and the
of it and the pain and sickness and the
of it and the pain and sickness and the depression and playing a victim and
depression and playing a victim and
depression and playing a victim and blaming everybody and everything rather
blaming everybody and everything rather
blaming everybody and everything rather than taking responsibility it will blind
than taking responsibility it will blind
than taking responsibility it will blind you from seeing the stuff out there
you from seeing the stuff out there
you from seeing the stuff out there that’s really beautiful that’s what
that’s really beautiful that’s what
that’s really beautiful that’s what Henry David Thoreau meant when he said
Henry David Thoreau meant when he said
Henry David Thoreau meant when he said that most people go through like a quiet
that most people go through like a quiet
that most people go through like a quiet desperation and miserable our friends
desperation and miserable our friends
desperation and miserable our friends American years living to different rooms
American years living to different rooms
American years living to different rooms why would you live like that I mean
why would you live like that I mean
why would you live like that I mean there’s a don’t even talk to each other
there’s a don’t even talk to each other
there’s a don’t even talk to each other grumbles oh I think that was fooling me
grumbles oh I think that was fooling me
grumbles oh I think that was fooling me good morning miserable just making each
good morning miserable just making each
good morning miserable just making each other miserable everybody live like that
other miserable everybody live like that
other miserable everybody live like that people gonna work like that’s a way even
people gonna work like that’s a way even
people gonna work like that’s a way even sure I used to work with a guy like that
sure I used to work with a guy like that
sure I used to work with a guy like that you couldn’t say good morning to him
you couldn’t say good morning to him
you couldn’t say good morning to him before nine o’clock he Lacrosse it does
before nine o’clock he Lacrosse it does
before nine o’clock he Lacrosse it does he know me
he know me
he know me anybody know me no you don’t talk to me
anybody know me no you don’t talk to me
anybody know me no you don’t talk to me before nine o’clock I don’t play that
before nine o’clock I don’t play that
before nine o’clock I don’t play that all right I mean oh is that the people
all right I mean oh is that the people
all right I mean oh is that the people like let me ever work with people that
like let me ever work with people that
like let me ever work with people that are just grumps raise your hands just
are just grumps raise your hands just
are just grumps raise your hands just put misery why show up come in
put misery why show up come in
put misery why show up come in complaining every day the best
complaining every day the best
complaining every day the best they only job is when they’re absent we
they only job is when they’re absent we
they only job is when they’re absent we am i right
so this is where Joe was so this doctor
so this is where Joe was so this doctor told Joe hangman you’ve got to dive this
told Joe hangman you’ve got to dive this
told Joe hangman you’ve got to dive this brain cloud you know something all of
brain cloud you know something all of
brain cloud you know something all of Joe’s other illnesses left Joe decided
Joe’s other illnesses left Joe decided
Joe’s other illnesses left Joe decided to live Joe decided to live his life now
to live Joe decided to live his life now
to live Joe decided to live his life now that is interesting
that is interesting
that is interesting a psychiatrist did a study and he was
a psychiatrist did a study and he was
a psychiatrist did a study and he was talking about how his patients reacted
talking about how his patients reacted
talking about how his patients reacted when they got information that they were
when they got information that they were
when they got information that they were going to die immediately he said that
going to die immediately he said that
going to die immediately he said that many of these patients that had gone
many of these patients that had gone
many of these patients that had gone through years of therapy that should
through years of therapy that should
through years of therapy that should have been making decisions about their
have been making decisions about their
have been making decisions about their careers about their marriage or about
careers about their marriage or about
careers about their marriage or about their circumstances and somehow another
their circumstances and somehow another
their circumstances and somehow another they were stuck and didn’t have the
they were stuck and didn’t have the
they were stuck and didn’t have the personal power the wherewithal or the
personal power the wherewithal or the
personal power the wherewithal or the willpower to act in their own best
willpower to act in their own best
willpower to act in their own best interest but when they were told listen
interest but when they were told listen
interest but when they were told listen you’ve got three months to live or you
you’ve got three months to live or you
you’ve got three months to live or you got six months to live all of a sudden
got six months to live all of a sudden
got six months to live all of a sudden these people who were initially victims
these people who were initially victims
these people who were initially victims or powerless all of a sudden they
or powerless all of a sudden they
or powerless all of a sudden they started acting in their own best
started acting in their own best
started acting in their own best interest they started living their lives
interest they started living their lives
interest they started living their lives and it’s amazing to me that that what a
and it’s amazing to me that that what a
and it’s amazing to me that that what a paradox that once people are told
paradox that once people are told
paradox that once people are told they’re going to die all of a sudden
they’re going to die all of a sudden
they’re going to die all of a sudden they start seeing the daisies in life
they start seeing the daisies in life
they start seeing the daisies in life they start seeing the beauty in life I
they start seeing the beauty in life I
they start seeing the beauty in life I remember it’s a monologue and it’s
remember it’s a monologue and it’s
remember it’s a monologue and it’s called the last mile it’s a it’s a
called the last mile it’s a it’s a
called the last mile it’s a it’s a monologue about a guy who was sentenced
monologue about a guy who was sentenced
monologue about a guy who was sentenced to die in the electric chair for a crime
to die in the electric chair for a crime
to die in the electric chair for a crime that he did not commit and he was
that he did not commit and he was
that he did not commit and he was pleading to the jury to understand his
pleading to the jury to understand his
pleading to the jury to understand his case and I remember one of the parts of
case and I remember one of the parts of
case and I remember one of the parts of the monologue where this guy talking to
the monologue where this guy talking to
the monologue where this guy talking to the jury and talking to himself and
the jury and talking to himself and
the jury and talking to himself and going the whole gamut of emotion and I
going the whole gamut of emotion and I
going the whole gamut of emotion and I remember something he said that struck
remember something he said that struck
remember something he said that struck me right now he said you know he said
me right now he said you know he said
me right now he said you know he said it’s Quinn how even though life has done
it’s Quinn how even though life has done
it’s Quinn how even though life has done you wrong somehow you still want to live
you wrong somehow you still want to live
you wrong somehow you still want to live if it you never getting fined me
if it you never getting fined me
if it you never getting fined me complaining about life about life has
complaining about life about life has
complaining about life about life has given me a
given me a
given me a but short deal no I just want to live I
but short deal no I just want to live I
but short deal no I just want to live I take Department is the crown’s
take Department is the crown’s
take Department is the crown’s buy anything I just I just want them in
buy anything I just I just want them in
buy anything I just I just want them in they’re not going to let me hobby hell
they’re not going to let me hobby hell
they’re not going to let me hobby hell of a second this guy who before from
of a second this guy who before from
of a second this guy who before from slows corner Indiana never really care
slows corner Indiana never really care
slows corner Indiana never really care about life all of a sudden now that he
about life all of a sudden now that he
about life all of a sudden now that he knew that his life was going to be taken
knew that his life was going to be taken
knew that his life was going to be taken away for crime that he did not commit he
away for crime that he did not commit he
away for crime that he did not commit he wanted to live it was a very passionate
wanted to live it was a very passionate
wanted to live it was a very passionate powerful monologue I used to read that
powerful monologue I used to read that
powerful monologue I used to read that quite often you study so what is it that
quite often you study so what is it that
quite often you study so what is it that we can begin to do do we have to get a
we can begin to do do we have to get a
we can begin to do do we have to get a pronouncement that we only have six
pronouncement that we only have six
pronouncement that we only have six months to live in order to decide to
months to live in order to decide to
months to live in order to decide to live in order to live in a third of
live in order to live in a third of
live in order to live in a third of integrity see most of us go through life
integrity see most of us go through life
integrity see most of us go through life living a lie the platters head of song
living a lie the platters head of song
living a lie the platters head of song oh yes I’m the brave three children what
oh yes I’m the brave three children what
oh yes I’m the brave three children what a beautiful voice oh don’t think it’s
a beautiful voice oh don’t think it’s
a beautiful voice oh don’t think it’s okay it’s alright
okay it’s alright
okay it’s alright oh I hit that note it just gives me a
oh I hit that note it just gives me a
oh I hit that note it just gives me a chill but anyhow that many of us don’t
chill but anyhow that many of us don’t
chill but anyhow that many of us don’t like being great pretenders we should
like being great pretenders we should
like being great pretenders we should get an Academy Award pretending that
get an Academy Award pretending that
get an Academy Award pretending that we’re happy pretending that we’re
we’re happy pretending that we’re
we’re happy pretending that we’re content pretending that everything’s
content pretending that everything’s
content pretending that everything’s happy and gay and carried away and
happy and gay and carried away and
happy and gay and carried away and that’s not the way that it is going to
that’s not the way that it is going to
that’s not the way that it is going to life feeling that we can’t do anything
life feeling that we can’t do anything
life feeling that we can’t do anything about our situation like Joe did but
about our situation like Joe did but
about our situation like Joe did but when they told Joe he was going to die
when they told Joe he was going to die
when they told Joe he was going to die Joe became a new person went back to
Joe became a new person went back to
Joe became a new person went back to work and young lady he’d been want to
work and young lady he’d been want to
work and young lady he’d been want to talk to for long time you say hey I want
talk to for long time you say hey I want
talk to for long time you say hey I want to take you up
to take you up
to take you up haha he wasn’t worried about rejection
haha he wasn’t worried about rejection
haha he wasn’t worried about rejection Joe had his eyes on huh if they Lord as
Joe had his eyes on huh if they Lord as
Joe had his eyes on huh if they Lord as myself what I see what I won’t go Jose
myself what I see what I won’t go Jose
myself what I see what I won’t go Jose now I might be going but I ain’t dead
now I might be going but I ain’t dead
now I might be going but I ain’t dead yet he was lovable livid you hear me I
yet he was lovable livid you hear me I
yet he was lovable livid you hear me I like that yo don’t lose that no lose
like that yo don’t lose that no lose
like that yo don’t lose that no lose that alright so so here’s what I think
that alright so so here’s what I think
that alright so so here’s what I think that we can begin to do to live our
that we can begin to do to live our
that we can begin to do to live our dreams to begin to let light take on
dreams to begin to let light take on
dreams to begin to let light take on some new meaning for some new powers the
some new meaning for some new powers the
some new meaning for some new powers the new value is to begin to look for the
new value is to begin to look for the
new value is to begin to look for the daisies in your life right now where you
daisies in your life right now where you
daisies in your life right now where you are regardless of what’s happening to
are regardless of what’s happening to
are regardless of what’s happening to you regardless of what’s going on with
you regardless of what’s going on with
you regardless of what’s going on with you begin to look for some beauty in it
you begin to look for some beauty in it
you begin to look for some beauty in it begin to look for some lessons that you
begin to look for some lessons that you
begin to look for some lessons that you can learn from where you are and what
can learn from where you are and what
can learn from where you are and what you’re going through see the volcano see
you’re going through see the volcano see
you’re going through see the volcano see when Joel jumped into the volcano and he
when Joel jumped into the volcano and he
when Joel jumped into the volcano and he eventually did that with a young lady
eventually did that with a young lady
eventually did that with a young lady that fell in love with him they were
that fell in love with him they were
that fell in love with him they were thrown out of the volcano and they
thrown out of the volcano and they
thrown out of the volcano and they survived think about that now see I
survived think about that now see I
survived think about that now see I think that when you decide to take a
think that when you decide to take a
think that when you decide to take a leap and you handle the challenges that
leap and you handle the challenges that
leap and you handle the challenges that you’re facing with something about fear
you’re facing with something about fear
you’re facing with something about fear that’s one of the things that keeps us
that’s one of the things that keeps us
that’s one of the things that keeps us from beginning to live life here’s what
from beginning to live life here’s what
from beginning to live life here’s what happened
happened
happened this guy John Rogers will they say when
this guy John Rogers will they say when
this guy John Rogers will they say when people take the courage to journey into
people take the courage to journey into
people take the courage to journey into the center of their fear they find
the center of their fear they find
the center of their fear they find nothing
nothing
nothing it is only many layers of fear being
it is only many layers of fear being
it is only many layers of fear being afraid of itself and Eleanor Roosevelt
afraid of itself and Eleanor Roosevelt
afraid of itself and Eleanor Roosevelt said you gain strength courage and
said you gain strength courage and
said you gain strength courage and competence by every experience in which
competence by every experience in which
competence by every experience in which you really stopped to look fear in the
you really stopped to look fear in the
you really stopped to look fear in the face you able to say to yourself I’ve
face you able to say to yourself I’ve
face you able to say to yourself I’ve lived through this how I can take the
lived through this how I can take the
lived through this how I can take the next thing that comes alone you must do
next thing that comes alone you must do
next thing that comes alone you must do the thing you cannot do see that’s what
the thing you cannot do see that’s what
the thing you cannot do see that’s what the volcano is it is the thing that we
the volcano is it is the thing that we
the volcano is it is the thing that we cannot do and because it is that we must
cannot do and because it is that we must
cannot do and because it is that we must do that once fear is acted upon the
do that once fear is acted upon the
do that once fear is acted upon the depth of fear is certain to what volcano
depth of fear is certain to what volcano
depth of fear is certain to what volcano you have in your life let me ask you
you have in your life let me ask you
you have in your life let me ask you some questions here if you had six
some questions here if you had six
some questions here if you had six months
months
months to live what would you do differently
to live what would you do differently
to live what would you do differently with your life what would you do
with your life what would you do
with your life what would you do different would you have the same job
would you be worried about things that
would you be worried about things that you worry about right now would you have
you worry about right now would you have
you worry about right now would you have the same relationships would you have
the same relationships would you have
the same relationships would you have the same people in your life
the same people in your life
the same people in your life I was hitting on the house of the Ohio
I was hitting on the house of the Ohio
I was hitting on the house of the Ohio legislative floor
legislative floor
legislative floor I just been elected for the third time
I just been elected for the third time
I just been elected for the third time as a chairman of the human resource
as a chairman of the human resource
as a chairman of the human resource committee powerful prestigious position
committee powerful prestigious position
committee powerful prestigious position and I was reading a book on how to
and I was reading a book on how to
and I was reading a book on how to manage your time in your life and they
manage your time in your life and they
manage your time in your life and they talked about what are your long wage
talked about what are your long wage
talked about what are your long wage goes to the three years from now what
goes to the three years from now what
goes to the three years from now what are your short range goes six months
are your short range goes six months
are your short range goes six months goals minute says if you have three
goals minute says if you have three
goals minute says if you have three months to live what would you spend your
months to live what would you spend your
months to live what would you spend your time doing several done I would I would
time doing several done I would I would
time doing several done I would I would spend my time I wouldn’t one thing I was
spend my time I wouldn’t one thing I was
spend my time I wouldn’t one thing I was running on from the legislation I would
running on from the legislation I would
running on from the legislation I would go and back to Miami and I buy my mother
go and back to Miami and I buy my mother
go and back to Miami and I buy my mother home something I promised myself that I
home something I promised myself that I
home something I promised myself that I was going to do and I had continued to
was going to do and I had continued to
was going to do and I had continued to procrastinate and put all kind of
procrastinate and put all kind of
procrastinate and put all kind of reasons why I couldn’t do it and you
reasons why I couldn’t do it and you
reasons why I couldn’t do it and you know I want to make sure that she was
know I want to make sure that she was
know I want to make sure that she was financially secure my children would be
financially secure my children would be
financially secure my children would be financially secure and I would do
financially secure and I would do
financially secure and I would do lectures and I would go around talking
lectures and I would go around talking
lectures and I would go around talking to people and working with kids that’s
to people and working with kids that’s
to people and working with kids that’s what I said I would do then it turns the
what I said I would do then it turns the
what I said I would do then it turns the next page and said for all you know you
next page and said for all you know you
next page and said for all you know you don’t have three months to live you
don’t have three months to live you
don’t have three months to live you might die today so whatever you wrote on
might die today so whatever you wrote on
might die today so whatever you wrote on the last page you want to spin as much
the last page you want to spin as much
the last page you want to spin as much of your time doing that today so I
of your time doing that today so I
of your time doing that today so I looked at mr. Byrne life the Speaker of
looked at mr. Byrne life the Speaker of
looked at mr. Byrne life the Speaker of the Ohio legislature and I said to the
the Ohio legislature and I said to the
the Ohio legislature and I said to the guy on my right State Representative
guy on my right State Representative
guy on my right State Representative Mike Cynthiana out of the ohio state
Mike Cynthiana out of the ohio state
Mike Cynthiana out of the ohio state district 1/6 Enzi 25 years from now who
district 1/6 Enzi 25 years from now who
district 1/6 Enzi 25 years from now who would care what legislation we passed he
would care what legislation we passed he
would care what legislation we passed he said nobody would care one year from now
said nobody would care one year from now
said nobody would care one year from now now here’s what was happening with me I
now here’s what was happening with me I
now here’s what was happening with me I came to the Ohio legislature with great
came to the Ohio legislature with great
came to the Ohio legislature with great expectations there are things I wanted
expectations there are things I wanted
expectations there are things I wanted to do I want to make a change in society
to do I want to make a change in society
to do I want to make a change in society I wanted to make an impact but I was
I wanted to make an impact but I was
I wanted to make an impact but I was just disillusioned after being there for
just disillusioned after being there for
just disillusioned after being there for a while I introduced some legislation
a while I introduced some legislation
a while I introduced some legislation that I’d worked months to get this
that I’d worked months to get this
that I’d worked months to get this legislation passed got it out of
legislation passed got it out of
legislation passed got it out of subcommittee vote it to the major
subcommittee vote it to the major
subcommittee vote it to the major committee and went from there to the
committee and went from there to the
committee and went from there to the reference committee and then they
reference committee and then they
reference committee and then they introduced it on the Ohio legislative
introduced it on the Ohio legislative
introduced it on the Ohio legislative floor and this legislation was designed
floor and this legislation was designed
floor and this legislation was designed to provide protection for senior
to provide protection for senior
to provide protection for senior citizens and for people who bought money
citizens and for people who bought money
citizens and for people who bought money on it
on it
on it people by many orders thinking that is
people by many orders thinking that is
people by many orders thinking that is cash but what they did not know that
cash but what they did not know that
cash but what they did not know that there is no bond or insurance security
there is no bond or insurance security
there is no bond or insurance security in the event that the money order
in the event that the money order
in the event that the money order company files bankruptcy and so this
company files bankruptcy and so this
company files bankruptcy and so this company filed bankruptcy just left a lot
company filed bankruptcy just left a lot
company filed bankruptcy just left a lot of people just holding worthless paper
of people just holding worthless paper
of people just holding worthless paper so I wanted to introduce some
so I wanted to introduce some
so I wanted to introduce some legislation so that senior citizens
legislation so that senior citizens
legislation so that senior citizens would not be victims of this anymore
would not be victims of this anymore
would not be victims of this anymore after months of hard work after
after months of hard work after
after months of hard work after introducing the bill and having the
introducing the bill and having the
introducing the bill and having the boats lined up God raises and mr.
boats lined up God raises and mr.
boats lined up God raises and mr. speaker this wife said yes they likely
speaker this wife said yes they likely
speaker this wife said yes they likely introduced amendment for mr. Brown’s
introduced amendment for mr. Brown’s
introduced amendment for mr. Brown’s bill he said we will hear the amendment
bill he said we will hear the amendment
bill he said we will hear the amendment is that I like to amend it and change
is that I like to amend it and change
is that I like to amend it and change the word shell to me as excuse me mr.
the word shell to me as excuse me mr.
the word shell to me as excuse me mr. speaker may I speak please yes I said
speaker may I speak please yes I said
speaker may I speak please yes I said ladies and gentlemen of a high
ladies and gentlemen of a high
ladies and gentlemen of a high legislature this legislation is not
legislature this legislation is not
legislature this legislation is not something we wanted to make it optional
something we wanted to make it optional
something we wanted to make it optional to provide protection for high ones and
to provide protection for high ones and
to provide protection for high ones and senior citizens we want to make it
senior citizens we want to make it
senior citizens we want to make it mandatory
mandatory
mandatory and then this guy said no Mr Speaker I
and then this guy said no Mr Speaker I
and then this guy said no Mr Speaker I just think that he’s taking it a little
just think that he’s taking it a little
just think that he’s taking it a little too far this was an honorable gesturing
too far this was an honorable gesturing
too far this was an honorable gesturing on behalf of the state but he’s taking
on behalf of the state but he’s taking
on behalf of the state but he’s taking it too far let’s make it optional and
it too far let’s make it optional and
it too far let’s make it optional and leave it up to the good will of these
leave it up to the good will of these
leave it up to the good will of these buddy auto companies to provide for the
buddy auto companies to provide for the
buddy auto companies to provide for the protection let’s have the boat and they
protection let’s have the boat and they
protection let’s have the boat and they had the votes and I lost
had the votes and I lost
had the votes and I lost and I’m always pleased this is not a
and I’m always pleased this is not a
and I’m always pleased this is not a black King and then all of a sudden this
black King and then all of a sudden this
black King and then all of a sudden this job that at one point had meaning to me
job that at one point had meaning to me
job that at one point had meaning to me and value and no longer had that form
and value and no longer had that form
and value and no longer had that form and all of us have had some experiences
and all of us have had some experiences
and all of us have had some experiences where you went to a job and you were
where you went to a job and you were
where you went to a job and you were excited about that job but had so much
excited about that job but had so much
excited about that job but had so much promise and then you got there so much
promise and then you got there so much
promise and then you got there so much you want to do you Bob was an
you want to do you Bob was an
you want to do you Bob was an opportunity for upward mobility and
opportunity for upward mobility and
opportunity for upward mobility and growth and development expansion and all
growth and development expansion and all
growth and development expansion and all of a sudden after you got that you found
of a sudden after you got that you found
of a sudden after you got that you found out it was nothing but up glorified
out it was nothing but up glorified
out it was nothing but up glorified cubbyholes old grave with no dirt on so
cubbyholes old grave with no dirt on so
cubbyholes old grave with no dirt on so it became very depressing going to work
it became very depressing going to work
it became very depressing going to work and so that’s what happened to this guy
and so that’s what happened to this guy
and so that’s what happened to this guy Joe and a lot of us have done that
Joe and a lot of us have done that
Joe and a lot of us have done that before I used to get my my headache
before I used to get my my headache
before I used to get my my headache stopped driving on Sunday afternoon
stopped driving on Sunday afternoon
stopped driving on Sunday afternoon after the Sunday afternoon football game
after the Sunday afternoon football game
after the Sunday afternoon football game a basketball game I just hated to go and
a basketball game I just hated to go and
a basketball game I just hated to go and work sometimes I just drive by just for
work sometimes I just drive by just for
work sometimes I just drive by just for nothing just drive on by I came back
nothing just drive on by I came back
nothing just drive on by I came back though I came back because I had bills I
though I came back because I had bills I
though I came back because I had bills I came back you know many of us in
came back you know many of us in
came back you know many of us in relationships like I had friends talking
relationships like I had friends talking
relationships like I had friends talking to she said she was so miserable in her
to she said she was so miserable in her
to she said she was so miserable in her marriage but one day she went home I
marriage but one day she went home I
marriage but one day she went home I said where did you get your divorce
said where did you get your divorce
said where did you get your divorce number to see fit less she’s a twin
number to see fit less she’s a twin
number to see fit less she’s a twin we’ll put the key in the door and she
we’ll put the key in the door and she
we’ll put the key in the door and she said I couldn’t go in she said I was so
said I couldn’t go in she said I was so
said I couldn’t go in she said I was so depressed had so much pain in my body
depressed had so much pain in my body
depressed had so much pain in my body she said I couldn’t just walk in she
she said I couldn’t just walk in she
she said I couldn’t just walk in she said I dropped to my knees I had to
said I dropped to my knees I had to
said I dropped to my knees I had to crawl in I had to crawl in the house
crawl in I had to crawl in the house
crawl in I had to crawl in the house because it I just couldn’t she said I
because it I just couldn’t she said I
because it I just couldn’t she said I knew then I had to get a divorce
knew then I had to get a divorce
knew then I had to get a divorce so that was happen to Joe and Joe
so that was happen to Joe and Joe
so that was happen to Joe and Joe decided to act on that so what can we do
decided to act on that so what can we do
decided to act on that so what can we do well here’s what we can do wherever you
well here’s what we can do wherever you
well here’s what we can do wherever you are
are
are decide that that you’re going to focus
decide that that you’re going to focus
decide that that you’re going to focus your time I lost my job in broadcasting
your time I lost my job in broadcasting
your time I lost my job in broadcasting and it was a major blow to me because
and it was a major blow to me because
and it was a major blow to me because broadcasting was all that I had that’s
broadcasting was all that I had that’s
broadcasting was all that I had that’s all that I knew I had been doing that
all that I knew I had been doing that
all that I knew I had been doing that for like 15 or 20 years and that’s that
for like 15 or 20 years and that’s that
for like 15 or 20 years and that’s that was my specialty but because I was so
was my specialty but because I was so
was my specialty but because I was so controversial we couldn’t keep them up
controversial we couldn’t keep them up
controversial we couldn’t keep them up close I lost my job
close I lost my job
close I lost my job you know and so it was a depressing time
you know and so it was a depressing time
you know and so it was a depressing time for me and I could not find a job
for me and I could not find a job
for me and I could not find a job immediately no one would hire me locally
immediately no one would hire me locally
immediately no one would hire me locally and because I was good and I would send
and because I was good and I would send
and because I was good and I would send off my audition tapes the other radio
off my audition tapes the other radio
off my audition tapes the other radio stations program directors would hear
stations program directors would hear
stations program directors would hear and they wouldn’t bring me and I was a
and they wouldn’t bring me and I was a
and they wouldn’t bring me and I was a seasoned veteran so you have that
seasoned veteran so you have that
seasoned veteran so you have that experience if you’re real good many
experience if you’re real good many
experience if you’re real good many people will perceive you as a threat and
people will perceive you as a threat and
people will perceive you as a threat and they won’t hire you because they want
they won’t hire you because they want
they won’t hire you because they want somebody that they can control and they
somebody that they can control and they
somebody that they can control and they don’t want anybody in there that’s going
don’t want anybody in there that’s going
don’t want anybody in there that’s going to outshine them see sometimes being
to outshine them see sometimes being
to outshine them see sometimes being good can be a liability to you am i
good can be a liability to you am i
good can be a liability to you am i right sometimes women have to scale down
right sometimes women have to scale down
right sometimes women have to scale down their ambitions and drive it what they
their ambitions and drive it what they
their ambitions and drive it what they can do in deference to men’s egos so
can do in deference to men’s egos so
can do in deference to men’s egos so what I did was means I’m in in-between
what I did was means I’m in in-between
what I did was means I’m in in-between time I start focusing on my flowers I
time I start focusing on my flowers I
time I start focusing on my flowers I got into flowers seatmate age when I was
got into flowers seatmate age when I was
got into flowers seatmate age when I was kid that an idle mind is the devil’s
kid that an idle mind is the devil’s
kid that an idle mind is the devil’s workshop event true see if you don’t
workshop event true see if you don’t
workshop event true see if you don’t have anything or you’re bad you know
have anything or you’re bad you know
have anything or you’re bad you know your mind to play all catch it so do you
your mind to play all catch it so do you
your mind to play all catch it so do you though
though
though see when I wasn’t busy sometimes I want
see when I wasn’t busy sometimes I want
see when I wasn’t busy sometimes I want to call birch Allen sit where can I get
to call birch Allen sit where can I get
to call birch Allen sit where can I get the job bang my mindless is why if you
the job bang my mindless is why if you
the job bang my mindless is why if you all you had you just keep your mouth yet
all you had you just keep your mouth yet
all you had you just keep your mouth yet now you heard it put running your mouth
now you heard it put running your mouth
now you heard it put running your mouth watch my papa papa papa why don’t you
watch my papa papa papa why don’t you
watch my papa papa papa why don’t you just get up they told you to shut up
just get up they told you to shut up
just get up they told you to shut up let’s hope you’re gonna get I know you
let’s hope you’re gonna get I know you
let’s hope you’re gonna get I know you had to keep on talking all ego ego ego
had to keep on talking all ego ego ego
had to keep on talking all ego ego ego now you are unemployed
now you are unemployed
now you are unemployed what about hiring cuz your mouth to be
what about hiring cuz your mouth to be
what about hiring cuz your mouth to be not to be stopped beat myself up why not
not to be stopped beat myself up why not
not to be stopped beat myself up why not shut up for you right you’re right
shut up for you right you’re right
shut up for you right you’re right you know they’ve all you ever talk to
you know they’ve all you ever talk to
you know they’ve all you ever talk to you separate hair northern colored ever
you separate hair northern colored ever
you separate hair northern colored ever talk to you that so I just kept busy I
talk to you that so I just kept busy I
talk to you that so I just kept busy I start working on clouds I got it really
start working on clouds I got it really
start working on clouds I got it really into flowers I knew my flower had names
into flowers I knew my flower had names
into flowers I knew my flower had names for my flowers grow real good out talk
for my flowers grow real good out talk
for my flowers grow real good out talk to hello how are you today oh you’re
to hello how are you today oh you’re
to hello how are you today oh you’re beautiful I want you to write people to
beautiful I want you to write people to
beautiful I want you to write people to bring the flowers over to me well we’re
bring the flowers over to me well we’re
bring the flowers over to me well we’re dying and willing I would speak to
dying and willing I would speak to
dying and willing I would speak to arrivals house straighten up like that
arrivals house straighten up like that
arrivals house straighten up like that oh that was phenomenal alright then the
oh that was phenomenal alright then the
oh that was phenomenal alright then the other thing is I did a lot of volunteer
other thing is I did a lot of volunteer
other thing is I did a lot of volunteer work I go to the hospital now to read
work I go to the hospital now to read
work I go to the hospital now to read the Bible to people and I would go to
the Bible to people and I would go to
the Bible to people and I would go to friends whose parents perhaps were ill
friends whose parents perhaps were ill
friends whose parents perhaps were ill or facing a challenge not talk to them I
or facing a challenge not talk to them I
or facing a challenge not talk to them I became involved in all kind of community
became involved in all kind of community
became involved in all kind of community volunteerism so I’m saying that if
volunteerism so I’m saying that if
volunteerism so I’m saying that if you’re going through a challenge not
you’re going through a challenge not
you’re going through a challenge not that you’ve been laid off but the
that you’ve been laid off but the
that you’ve been laid off but the universe has given you an opportunity to
universe has given you an opportunity to
universe has given you an opportunity to find your real – making on the planet
find your real – making on the planet
find your real – making on the planet then use that time wisely volunteer give
then use that time wisely volunteer give
then use that time wisely volunteer give your stuff away my high school teacher
your stuff away my high school teacher
your stuff away my high school teacher Charles L Williams said something I love
Charles L Williams said something I love
Charles L Williams said something I love he said love and happiness are like
he said love and happiness are like
he said love and happiness are like perfumes
perfumes
perfumes you can’t sprinkle it on others without
you can’t sprinkle it on others without
you can’t sprinkle it on others without getting a few drops on your style it’s
getting a few drops on your style it’s
getting a few drops on your style it’s not beautiful see what you give is what
not beautiful see what you give is what
not beautiful see what you give is what what you get all right repeat after me
what you get all right repeat after me
what you get all right repeat after me please I’m going to give my life away
please I’m going to give my life away
please I’m going to give my life away because what you did is what you get
because what you did is what you get
because what you did is what you get taking my pen and you write it up and
taking my pen and you write it up and
taking my pen and you write it up and they share some half now here’s
they share some half now here’s
they share some half now here’s something else
something else
something else fear of change see the reason that I
fear of change see the reason that I
fear of change see the reason that I think but Joe say that long as he did
think but Joe say that long as he did
think but Joe say that long as he did Joe fear change most people fear change
Joe fear change most people fear change
Joe fear change most people fear change a lot of people stand jobs or they’re
a lot of people stand jobs or they’re
a lot of people stand jobs or they’re miserable or stay in relationships where
miserable or stay in relationships where
miserable or stay in relationships where they’re miserable sometimes in order to
they’re miserable sometimes in order to
they’re miserable sometimes in order to begin to see the Dave is in life you’ve
begin to see the Dave is in life you’ve
begin to see the Dave is in life you’ve got to be willing to change cities
got to be willing to change cities
got to be willing to change cities change friends Shaye’s relationships
change friends Shaye’s relationships
change friends Shaye’s relationships change job say after while you get bored
change job say after while you get bored
change job say after while you get bored doing the same old thing in the same old
doing the same old thing in the same old
doing the same old thing in the same old way day in and day out
way day in and day out
way day in and day out human beings were designed to a key and
human beings were designed to a key and
human beings were designed to a key and when you are not on a path of developing
when you are not on a path of developing
when you are not on a path of developing your greatness and growing and being
your greatness and growing and being
your greatness and growing and being more productive and being more effective
more productive and being more effective
more productive and being more effective than your life literally becomes
than your life literally becomes
than your life literally becomes depressing just like Joe so Joe was
depressing just like Joe so Joe was
depressing just like Joe so Joe was resisting change and as a result of
resisting change and as a result of
resisting change and as a result of resisting change Joe made some
resisting change Joe made some
resisting change Joe made some trade-offs see the psychiatrist talked
trade-offs see the psychiatrist talked
trade-offs see the psychiatrist talked about the fact but these people who had
about the fact but these people who had
about the fact but these people who had been on his couch for months and years
been on his couch for months and years
been on his couch for months and years not being able to make decisions about
not being able to make decisions about
not being able to make decisions about things but when they found out that they
things but when they found out that they
things but when they found out that they were done they got up and stopped making
were done they got up and stopped making
were done they got up and stopped making all kinds of decisions they decided no
all kinds of decisions they decided no
all kinds of decisions they decided no longer to sell out and you know what
longer to sell out and you know what
longer to sell out and you know what happened to me when I lost my job you
happened to me when I lost my job you
happened to me when I lost my job you know what I think it was what life said
know what I think it was what life said
know what I think it was what life said to me more or less Les Brown you know
to me more or less Les Brown you know
to me more or less Les Brown you know you can do more than what you’re not
you can do more than what you’re not
you can do more than what you’re not doing Les Brown
doing Les Brown
doing Les Brown have sold out let’s round go home go in
have sold out let’s round go home go in
have sold out let’s round go home go in your drawer pull out your jet tub and
your drawer pull out your jet tub and
your drawer pull out your jet tub and see how much you throw your soul for see
see how much you throw your soul for see
see how much you throw your soul for see one of the things that got me about the
one of the things that got me about the
one of the things that got me about the movie is what Joe said to his boss after
movie is what Joe said to his boss after
movie is what Joe said to his boss after the doctor told him he was going to die
the doctor told him he was going to die
the doctor told him he was going to die he went back to work and he confronted
he went back to work and he confronted
he went back to work and he confronted him he said because I was afraid to
him he said because I was afraid to
him he said because I was afraid to afraid to live my life I sold it to you
afraid to live my life I sold it to you
afraid to live my life I sold it to you for $300 a week I sold my soul for $300
for $300 a week I sold my soul for $300
for $300 a week I sold my soul for $300 a week when I look at Joe
a week when I look at Joe
a week when I look at Joe ladies and gentlemen I know that I’ve
ladies and gentlemen I know that I’ve
ladies and gentlemen I know that I’ve sold out for myself at different points
sold out for myself at different points
sold out for myself at different points in my life and when you go home and you
in my life and when you go home and you
in my life and when you go home and you look at if your life is not what you
look at if your life is not what you
look at if your life is not what you want it to be if you’re not living the
want it to be if you’re not living the
want it to be if you’re not living the way that you want to live if you’re not
way that you want to live if you’re not
way that you want to live if you’re not experiencing what you want to experience
experiencing what you want to experience
experiencing what you want to experience if it’s not giving you what you want
if it’s not giving you what you want
if it’s not giving you what you want you’ve got to ask yourself what if I
you’ve got to ask yourself what if I
you’ve got to ask yourself what if I sold my soul for remember that song 16
sold my soul for remember that song 16
sold my soul for remember that song 16 tongue what do you get another day older
tongue what do you get another day older
tongue what do you get another day older and deeper in debt saying Peter don’t
and deeper in debt saying Peter don’t
and deeper in debt saying Peter don’t you call me because I can’t go oh my
you call me because I can’t go oh my
you call me because I can’t go oh my soul to the company store oh no this is
soul to the company store oh no this is
soul to the company store oh no this is not loop a bad drop tonight no last time
not loop a bad drop tonight no last time
not loop a bad drop tonight no last time I saw Cooper call my hotel and made a
I saw Cooper call my hotel and made a
I saw Cooper call my hotel and made a bomb threat no no that song is
bomb threat no no that song is
bomb threat no no that song is depressingly his the gentlemen but many
depressingly his the gentlemen but many
depressingly his the gentlemen but many of us have sold our souls for home in
of us have sold our souls for home in
of us have sold our souls for home in the suburbs or a brand new car or three
the suburbs or a brand new car or three
the suburbs or a brand new car or three meals a day and a roof over our head
meals a day and a roof over our head
meals a day and a roof over our head well because we want to be popular with
well because we want to be popular with
well because we want to be popular with our friends see when you decide to make
our friends see when you decide to make
our friends see when you decide to make a change it’s challenging but there
a change it’s challenging but there
a change it’s challenging but there going to be some resistance everybody is
going to be some resistance everybody is
going to be some resistance everybody is not going to agree with that there’s a
not going to agree with that there’s a
not going to agree with that there’s a price to pay
price to pay
price to pay am i right see when I had to think about
am i right see when I had to think about
am i right see when I had to think about getting a divorce it was time for me to
getting a divorce it was time for me to
getting a divorce it was time for me to grow and sometimes you stay in a
grow and sometimes you stay in a
grow and sometimes you stay in a situation too long many times you say
situation too long many times you say
situation too long many times you say well I need to do it for the kids well
well I need to do it for the kids well
well I need to do it for the kids well si staying there too long can be harmful
si staying there too long can be harmful
si staying there too long can be harmful to the kids out a friend of mine who
to the kids out a friend of mine who
to the kids out a friend of mine who finally got a divorce after agonizing
finally got a divorce after agonizing
finally got a divorce after agonizing and she said I saved there as long as I
and she said I saved there as long as I
and she said I saved there as long as I did for the kids she said
did for the kids she said
did for the kids she said if I had to do over again I would have
if I had to do over again I would have
if I had to do over again I would have left sooner because it wasn’t healthy
left sooner because it wasn’t healthy
left sooner because it wasn’t healthy for them and it wasn’t healthy for me
for them and it wasn’t healthy for me
for them and it wasn’t healthy for me many of us saying jobs where it’s no
many of us saying jobs where it’s no
many of us saying jobs where it’s no longer good for us to be there but
longer good for us to be there but
longer good for us to be there but because we can’t see ourselves having
because we can’t see ourselves having
because we can’t see ourselves having the capacity to do more – achievable and
the capacity to do more – achievable and
the capacity to do more – achievable and can’t be life after that job we stay
can’t be life after that job we stay
can’t be life after that job we stay there as victims volunteer victims
there as victims volunteer victims
there as victims volunteer victims because nobody’s making us do it we
because nobody’s making us do it we
because nobody’s making us do it we volunteer to be victims we volunteer not
volunteer to be victims we volunteer not
volunteer to be victims we volunteer not to be in charge of our destiny we
to be in charge of our destiny we
to be in charge of our destiny we volunteer we willingly do any people
volunteer we willingly do any people
volunteer we willingly do any people bailout don’t do it in a hurry do it
bailout don’t do it in a hurry do it
bailout don’t do it in a hurry do it slowly let somebody who’d come and have
slowly let somebody who’d come and have
slowly let somebody who’d come and have to take it from you don’t just give it
to take it from you don’t just give it
to take it from you don’t just give it up willingly and that’s what you had
up willingly and that’s what you had
up willingly and that’s what you had done think about a guy who he had
done think about a guy who he had
done think about a guy who he had everything going for with the Hobbit
everything going for with the Hobbit
everything going for with the Hobbit became a lawyer joined a large
became a lawyer joined a large
became a lawyer joined a large prestigious law firm married the perfect
prestigious law firm married the perfect
prestigious law firm married the perfect life had children and guess what he was
life had children and guess what he was
life had children and guess what he was going through the motions day in and day
going through the motions day in and day
going through the motions day in and day out but it wasn’t giving him what he
out but it wasn’t giving him what he
out but it wasn’t giving him what he wanted out of life he was going for an
wanted out of life he was going for an
wanted out of life he was going for an act he was acting on a roll and one day
act he was acting on a roll and one day
act he was acting on a roll and one day he couldn’t get out of bed he was just
he couldn’t get out of bed he was just
he couldn’t get out of bed he was just there in bed couldn’t get up paralyzed
there in bed couldn’t get up paralyzed
there in bed couldn’t get up paralyzed they got the doctors they looked at him
they got the doctors they looked at him
they got the doctors they looked at him examine him from head to toe is that
examine him from head to toe is that
examine him from head to toe is that there’s nothing physically wrong with
there’s nothing physically wrong with
there’s nothing physically wrong with him get up John come on get up he
him get up John come on get up he
him get up John come on get up he couldn’t get up he stayed like that from
couldn’t get up he stayed like that from
couldn’t get up he stayed like that from months had to take therapy see because
months had to take therapy see because
months had to take therapy see because there was disease there was conflict in
there was disease there was conflict in
there was disease there was conflict in his body many times when life calling on
his body many times when life calling on
his body many times when life calling on us to change it to grown to expand we
us to change it to grown to expand we
us to change it to grown to expand we said no not over here that no no no no
said no not over here that no no no no
said no not over here that no no no no we resist that so we can go back to that
we resist that so we can go back to that
we resist that so we can go back to that lifestyle of mediocrity
lifestyle of mediocrity
lifestyle of mediocrity we resisted that changed that growth we
we resisted that changed that growth we
we resisted that changed that growth we go back so we can go back to sleep
go back so we can go back to sleep
go back so we can go back to sleep Winston Churchill said the truth is
Winston Churchill said the truth is
Winston Churchill said the truth is incontrovertible malice may attack it
incontrovertible malice may attack it
incontrovertible malice may attack it ignorance may derided but at the end
ignorance may derided but at the end
ignorance may derided but at the end there is Carlisle said truth crushed to
there is Carlisle said truth crushed to
there is Carlisle said truth crushed to earth shall rise again we know
earth shall rise again we know
earth shall rise again we know scriptures say ye shall know the truth
scriptures say ye shall know the truth
scriptures say ye shall know the truth and truth shall set you free but the
and truth shall set you free but the
and truth shall set you free but the truth that will set me free
truth that will set me free
truth that will set me free it’s the truth again don’t want to hear
it’s the truth again don’t want to hear
it’s the truth again don’t want to hear so we don’t want to hear you got to
so we don’t want to hear you got to
so we don’t want to hear you got to change you got to take responsibility
change you got to take responsibility
change you got to take responsibility for your stuff you got to clean your act
for your stuff you got to clean your act
for your stuff you got to clean your act up you are not your act you’re going to
up you are not your act you’re going to
up you are not your act you’re going to get your life together we don’t hear
get your life together we don’t hear
get your life together we don’t hear that
we’ve been going through several stages
we’ve been going through several stages we talked about self-awareness who am I
we talked about self-awareness who am I
we talked about self-awareness who am I asking that central question in one’s
asking that central question in one’s
asking that central question in one’s life looking at your strengths and your
life looking at your strengths and your
life looking at your strengths and your weaknesses getting some evaluation
weaknesses getting some evaluation
weaknesses getting some evaluation determining what it is you want out of
determining what it is you want out of
determining what it is you want out of life then we went to the next level of
life then we went to the next level of
life then we went to the next level of self what self approval approving
self what self approval approving
self what self approval approving yourself to do the things that you’d
yourself to do the things that you’d
yourself to do the things that you’d like to do and going after the dreams
like to do and going after the dreams
like to do and going after the dreams that you like to go after and we know
that you like to go after and we know
that you like to go after and we know when we don’t approve of our dreams
when we don’t approve of our dreams
when we don’t approve of our dreams because of the fact that they stay up in
because of the fact that they stay up in
because of the fact that they stay up in our minds we don’t act on them we
our minds we don’t act on them we
our minds we don’t act on them we procrastinate we come up with a variety
procrastinate we come up with a variety
procrastinate we come up with a variety of excuses on why we’re not going into
of excuses on why we’re not going into
of excuses on why we’re not going into action and then the next level is what
action and then the next level is what
action and then the next level is what self commitment going for that dream
self commitment going for that dream
self commitment going for that dream going for those goals deciding to do the
going for those goals deciding to do the
going for those goals deciding to do the things that are necessary to bring about
things that are necessary to bring about
things that are necessary to bring about the changes that we want to bring in our
the changes that we want to bring in our
the changes that we want to bring in our lives or what we want to bring in
lives or what we want to bring in
lives or what we want to bring in society and then after that we are now
society and then after that we are now
society and then after that we are now to this level in this stage is what self
to this level in this stage is what self
to this level in this stage is what self fulfillment because when you are
fulfillment because when you are
fulfillment because when you are involved in commitment when you are
involved in commitment when you are
involved in commitment when you are implementing your plan of action you’re
implementing your plan of action you’re
implementing your plan of action you’re going to produce some results you’re
going to produce some results you’re
going to produce some results you’re going to have some victories that you
going to have some victories that you
going to have some victories that you can feel good about and it’s a time of
can feel good about and it’s a time of
can feel good about and it’s a time of celebration so what happens when you hit
celebration so what happens when you hit
celebration so what happens when you hit the level of self fulfillment first of
the level of self fulfillment first of
the level of self fulfillment first of all what we want to know is that self
all what we want to know is that self
all what we want to know is that self fulfillment is unending and should be
fulfillment is unending and should be
fulfillment is unending and should be viewed in that context Robert Schuller
viewed in that context Robert Schuller
viewed in that context Robert Schuller says it best when he says success is
says it best when he says success is
says it best when he says success is never ending so it means that we never
never ending so it means that we never
never ending so it means that we never get to a level where we feel that
get to a level where we feel that
get to a level where we feel that there’s nothing else for us to do that
there’s nothing else for us to do that
there’s nothing else for us to do that we’ve achieved certain number of goals
we’ve achieved certain number of goals
we’ve achieved certain number of goals and we figure that we’re through no no
and we figure that we’re through no no
and we figure that we’re through no no you don’t want to stay there and
you don’t want to stay there and
you don’t want to stay there and celebrate too long like a lot of people
celebrate too long like a lot of people
celebrate too long like a lot of people do they do something they consider
do they do something they consider
do they do something they consider outstanding they go around talking about
outstanding they go around talking about
outstanding they go around talking about what they used to do see let me tell you
what they used to do see let me tell you
what they used to do see let me tell you I used to do this and I used to do that
I used to do this and I used to do that
I used to do this and I used to do that excuse me used to beans don’t make no
excuse me used to beans don’t make no
excuse me used to beans don’t make no honey
what are you doing now what have you
what are you doing now what have you done for me lately Quran telling me
done for me lately Quran telling me
done for me lately Quran telling me about what you used to do and who you
about what you used to do and who you
about what you used to do and who you used to be what does that count for now
used to be what does that count for now
used to be what does that count for now nothing what are you doing now you’re
nothing what are you doing now you’re
nothing what are you doing now you’re still here breathing that means you’ve
still here breathing that means you’ve
still here breathing that means you’ve got some more to give doesn’t matter how
got some more to give doesn’t matter how
got some more to give doesn’t matter how old you are doesn’t matter about where
old you are doesn’t matter about where
old you are doesn’t matter about where you are doesn’t matter about what you
you are doesn’t matter about what you
you are doesn’t matter about what you have doesn’t matter about what you’ve
have doesn’t matter about what you’ve
have doesn’t matter about what you’ve done
done
done life is about growing it’s about being
life is about growing it’s about being
life is about growing it’s about being productive is about stretching it’s
productive is about stretching it’s
productive is about stretching it’s about challenging yourself so you start
about challenging yourself so you start
about challenging yourself so you start looking around and decide hey hey what
looking around and decide hey hey what
looking around and decide hey hey what else do I want to do what got me here is
else do I want to do what got me here is
else do I want to do what got me here is the time for celebration but also a time
the time for celebration but also a time
the time for celebration but also a time for reflection what got me here what
for reflection what got me here what
for reflection what got me here what worked what did not work what do I need
worked what did not work what do I need
worked what did not work what do I need to do to repeat so that I can get the
to do to repeat so that I can get the
to do to repeat so that I can get the same kind of results with other areas of
same kind of results with other areas of
same kind of results with other areas of my life if the goal is to improve my
my life if the goal is to improve my
my life if the goal is to improve my health if the goal is to improve my
health if the goal is to improve my
health if the goal is to improve my relationship if the goal is to improve
relationship if the goal is to improve
relationship if the goal is to improve my income if the goal is to improve
my income if the goal is to improve
my income if the goal is to improve something in society what is it I need
something in society what is it I need
something in society what is it I need to do now don’t get them fuels with what
to do now don’t get them fuels with what
to do now don’t get them fuels with what you do with who you are don’t trip don’t
you do with who you are don’t trip don’t
you do with who you are don’t trip don’t go on some type of ego trip are talking
go on some type of ego trip are talking
go on some type of ego trip are talking about how bad you are none of us do
about how bad you are none of us do
about how bad you are none of us do anything by ourselves develop an
anything by ourselves develop an
anything by ourselves develop an appreciation for external support as
appreciation for external support as
appreciation for external support as well as good fortune because all of
well as good fortune because all of
well as good fortune because all of those things play a role the other thing
those things play a role the other thing
those things play a role the other thing is don’t go overboard celebrating at
is don’t go overboard celebrating at
is don’t go overboard celebrating at Kipling says it best you must meet with
Kipling says it best you must meet with
Kipling says it best you must meet with triumph and disaster and treat those two
triumph and disaster and treat those two
triumph and disaster and treat those two Impostors just the things you look at
Impostors just the things you look at
Impostors just the things you look at hey I did it I feel good about that now
hey I did it I feel good about that now
hey I did it I feel good about that now you’re moving on to the next thing
you’re moving on to the next thing
you’re moving on to the next thing things did not work out the way you
things did not work out the way you
things did not work out the way you wanted them to work out you didn’t
wanted them to work out you didn’t
wanted them to work out you didn’t produce the results you wanted to
produce the results you wanted to
produce the results you wanted to produce hey miss that win some you lose
produce hey miss that win some you lose
produce hey miss that win some you lose them next moving right on
them next moving right on
them next moving right on don’t confuse who you are with what you
don’t confuse who you are with what you
don’t confuse who you are with what you do let’s go on to the next level looking
do let’s go on to the next level looking
do let’s go on to the next level looking in that particular area
in that particular area
in that particular area you return to the area of
you return to the area of
you return to the area of self-assessment you start looking at
self-assessment you start looking at
self-assessment you start looking at yourself and evaluating yourself now
yourself and evaluating yourself now
yourself and evaluating yourself now what are some of the elements or the
what are some of the elements or the
what are some of the elements or the characteristics of the qualities of
characteristics of the qualities of
characteristics of the qualities of people who are fulfilled
people who are fulfilled
people who are fulfilled live a life of fulfillment what are some
live a life of fulfillment what are some
live a life of fulfillment what are some of the things we can look at about them
of the things we can look at about them
of the things we can look at about them I think number one make your mind
I think number one make your mind
I think number one make your mind fertile ground for the seeds of
fertile ground for the seeds of
fertile ground for the seeds of opportunity think if you want to
opportunity think if you want to
opportunity think if you want to experience a sense of fulfillment you’ve
experience a sense of fulfillment you’ve
experience a sense of fulfillment you’ve got to have an open mind so that ideas
got to have an open mind so that ideas
got to have an open mind so that ideas can come in there and take root and grow
can come in there and take root and grow
can come in there and take root and grow so part of beginning to have fertile
so part of beginning to have fertile
so part of beginning to have fertile ground you know you got to break that
ground you know you got to break that
ground you know you got to break that ground up you got to break up that hard
ground up you got to break up that hard
ground up you got to break up that hard crust because if you don’t seem to fall
crust because if you don’t seem to fall
crust because if you don’t seem to fall there and the wind can blow them away
there and the wind can blow them away
there and the wind can blow them away the winds of doubt when you’re set in
the winds of doubt when you’re set in
the winds of doubt when you’re set in your mind and you refuse to grow and
your mind and you refuse to grow and
your mind and you refuse to grow and you’re not open to new ideas new methods
you’re not open to new ideas new methods
you’re not open to new ideas new methods new ways of doing things if your mind is
new ways of doing things if your mind is
new ways of doing things if your mind is already fixed
already fixed
already fixed you become stagnant you can’t grow you
you become stagnant you can’t grow you
you become stagnant you can’t grow you can’t have a sense of fulfillment you
can’t have a sense of fulfillment you
can’t have a sense of fulfillment you become extremely cynical and negative
become extremely cynical and negative
become extremely cynical and negative about everything you know it all so you
about everything you know it all so you
about everything you know it all so you want to begin to look at the light and
want to begin to look at the light and
want to begin to look at the light and have a sense of curiosity not know it
have a sense of curiosity not know it
have a sense of curiosity not know it all you want to keep learning keep
all you want to keep learning keep
all you want to keep learning keep growing realize that we had a theme you
growing realize that we had a theme you
growing realize that we had a theme you never find out how much you know until
never find out how much you know until
never find out how much you know until you find out how little you know there
you find out how little you know there
you find out how little you know there are some people you can’t tell anything
are some people you can’t tell anything
are some people you can’t tell anything they have all the answers though I’ve
they have all the answers though I’ve
they have all the answers though I’ve already done that Larry Daniel was
already done that Larry Daniel was
already done that Larry Daniel was telling me he said he was on a plane and
telling me he said he was on a plane and
telling me he said he was on a plane and he was observing two men talking and he
he was observing two men talking and he
he was observing two men talking and he the guy was reading a magazine he looked
the guy was reading a magazine he looked
the guy was reading a magazine he looked at the guy next to him state would you
at the guy next to him state would you
at the guy next to him state would you like to read this magazine I’m sure this
like to read this magazine I’m sure this
like to read this magazine I’m sure this magazine I have know I read that before
magazine I have know I read that before
magazine I have know I read that before don’t like it I like it okay he had a
don’t like it I like it okay he had a
don’t like it I like it okay he had a newspaper better what about the USA
newspaper better what about the USA
newspaper better what about the USA Today no read that before don’t like
Today no read that before don’t like
Today no read that before don’t like that either try that once don’t like
that either try that once don’t like
that either try that once don’t like that so they serve them some food and he
that so they serve them some food and he
that so they serve them some food and he said would you care to have anything I
said would you care to have anything I
said would you care to have anything I have here because the guy was needing no
have here because the guy was needing no
have here because the guy was needing no no tried that before I don’t like that
no tried that before I don’t like that
no tried that before I don’t like that and you know this guy I only had one
and you know this guy I only had one
and you know this guy I only had one child he said
what Larry’s trying to say that a lot of
what Larry’s trying to say that a lot of people go through life free judging
people go through life free judging
people go through life free judging things how many of you don’t like
things how many of you don’t like
things how many of you don’t like buttermilk raise your hands please how
buttermilk raise your hands please how
buttermilk raise your hands please how many of you raise your hands it never
many of you raise your hands it never
many of you raise your hands it never tastes about a bill please oh and I want
tastes about a bill please oh and I want
tastes about a bill please oh and I want to I just don’t like the way it looks
to I just don’t like the way it looks
to I just don’t like the way it looks but I might be missing out on something
but I might be missing out on something
but I might be missing out on something all right so many of us count ourselves
all right so many of us count ourselves
all right so many of us count ourselves out of things prematurely you don’t know
out of things prematurely you don’t know
out of things prematurely you don’t know what the possibilities are up in there
what the possibilities are up in there
what the possibilities are up in there so you want to be open you want to
so you want to be open you want to
so you want to be open you want to continue to learn you want to continue
continue to learn you want to continue
continue to learn you want to continue to grow you want to begin to know that
to grow you want to begin to know that
to grow you want to begin to know that their unlimited ideas out here waiting
their unlimited ideas out here waiting
their unlimited ideas out here waiting for you to latch onto them and if you
for you to latch onto them and if you
for you to latch onto them and if you don’t take advantage of them when they
don’t take advantage of them when they
don’t take advantage of them when they come your way because you’re so
come your way because you’re so
come your way because you’re so closed-minded do understand somebody
closed-minded do understand somebody
closed-minded do understand somebody else will
else will
else will we’ve all had ideas then we did not act
we’ve all had ideas then we did not act
we’ve all had ideas then we did not act on and looked around and somebody else
on and looked around and somebody else
on and looked around and somebody else add the idea and go on with it so be
add the idea and go on with it so be
add the idea and go on with it so be open and receptive next thing in order
open and receptive next thing in order
open and receptive next thing in order to live a fulfilling life become
to live a fulfilling life become
to live a fulfilling life become involved in life live your fantasy most
involved in life live your fantasy most
involved in life live your fantasy most people go for life not living their
people go for life not living their
people go for life not living their fantasy going sitting up in the
fantasy going sitting up in the
fantasy going sitting up in the bleachers looking out on the field
bleachers looking out on the field
bleachers looking out on the field looking out into the arena wishing that
looking out into the arena wishing that
looking out into the arena wishing that they were down there just fantasizing
they were down there just fantasizing
they were down there just fantasizing ting themselves running with the ball I
ting themselves running with the ball I
ting themselves running with the ball I used to do that I used to always see
used to do that I used to always see
used to do that I used to always see myself at a basketball game one second
myself at a basketball game one second
myself at a basketball game one second to go less bomb comes down court it
to go less bomb comes down court it
to go less bomb comes down court it looks his right look to his love he’s
looks his right look to his love he’s
looks his right look to his love he’s the only one that can do it
the only one that can do it
the only one that can do it the basket goes in left phasers and
the basket goes in left phasers and
the basket goes in left phasers and people pick you up and care if y’all
people pick you up and care if y’all
people pick you up and care if y’all but I never without a knitted decide to
but I never without a knitted decide to
but I never without a knitted decide to live your fantasy see in life you can go
live your fantasy see in life you can go
live your fantasy see in life you can go through life you can come up with
through life you can come up with
through life you can come up with reasons or you can come up with results
reasons or you can come up with results
reasons or you can come up with results you can come up with excuses or you can
you can come up with excuses or you can
you can come up with excuses or you can come up with achievements you can go
come up with achievements you can go
come up with achievements you can go through life blaming or you can come up
through life blaming or you can come up
through life blaming or you can come up with solutions the choice is in your
with solutions the choice is in your
with solutions the choice is in your hands satisfaction or despair we can
hands satisfaction or despair we can
hands satisfaction or despair we can choose that so look at your life and
choose that so look at your life and
choose that so look at your life and decide what it is that you want to do
decide what it is that you want to do
decide what it is that you want to do that will give your life a sense of
that will give your life a sense of
that will give your life a sense of Worth someone said that your life worth
Worth someone said that your life worth
Worth someone said that your life worth is measured by your accomplishments and
is measured by your accomplishments and
is measured by your accomplishments and not by your complaints want to have a
not by your complaints want to have a
not by your complaints want to have a fulfilling life decide not to make your
fulfilling life decide not to make your
fulfilling life decide not to make your life predictable some people their lives
life predictable some people their lives
life predictable some people their lives very predictable they got a little
very predictable they got a little
very predictable they got a little routine they do that and they follow
routine they do that and they follow
routine they do that and they follow that day in and day out day in and day
that day in and day out day in and day
that day in and day out day in and day out you don’t get much juice and
out you don’t get much juice and
out you don’t get much juice and happiness out of life like that if you
happiness out of life like that if you
happiness out of life like that if you are predictable you want to change it up
are predictable you want to change it up
are predictable you want to change it up variety most certainly it’s a spice of
variety most certainly it’s a spice of
variety most certainly it’s a spice of life here’s something else one it
life here’s something else one it
life here’s something else one it created greater sense of fulfillment
created greater sense of fulfillment
created greater sense of fulfillment challenge your fears challenge them look
challenge your fears challenge them look
challenge your fears challenge them look those fears in the face and take them on
those fears in the face and take them on
those fears in the face and take them on don’t allow them to rule you decide that
don’t allow them to rule you decide that
don’t allow them to rule you decide that you’re going to take some chances friend
you’re going to take some chances friend
you’re going to take some chances friend of mine by the name of Adrian is that
of mine by the name of Adrian is that
of mine by the name of Adrian is that one day he decided to have a day of
one day he decided to have a day of
one day he decided to have a day of challenge so he and a friend went to
challenge so he and a friend went to
challenge so he and a friend went to Cedar Point
he’s always a afraid of certain rides he
he’s always a afraid of certain rides he said on this particular day is that he
said on this particular day is that he
said on this particular day is that he decided that he was going to go on the
decided that he was going to go on the
decided that he was going to go on the most dangerous rides at sea the point
most dangerous rides at sea the point
most dangerous rides at sea the point so they went around looking at all the
so they went around looking at all the
so they went around looking at all the rides and so the young lady that he was
rides and so the young lady that he was
rides and so the young lady that he was whipped and said that’s the one there
whipped and said that’s the one there
whipped and said that’s the one there that’s it she said why that one he said
that’s it she said why that one he said
that’s it she said why that one he said well she said on I read about it in the
well she said on I read about it in the
well she said on I read about it in the newspapers that two people would kill
newspapers that two people would kill
newspapers that two people would kill last year oh man is that yes that’s the
last year oh man is that yes that’s the
last year oh man is that yes that’s the one I want that’s the word you know so
one I want that’s the word you know so
one I want that’s the word you know so he got in the line and said it was a
he got in the line and said it was a
he got in the line and said it was a long line had to wait in line for about
long line had to wait in line for about
long line had to wait in line for about two hours and agent say while it was in
two hours and agent say while it was in
two hours and agent say while it was in line and as they saw it getting closer
line and as they saw it getting closer
line and as they saw it getting closer he said he start doubting him said what
he said he start doubting him said what
he said he start doubting him said what would lady I should not do this maybe so
would lady I should not do this maybe so
would lady I should not do this maybe so she says no come on get back in line he
she says no come on get back in line he
she says no come on get back in line he said no no no no I changed my mind I
said no no no no I changed my mind I
said no no no no I changed my mind I don’t want to do this I don’t have to
don’t want to do this I don’t have to
don’t want to do this I don’t have to have the most dangerous ride he said he
have the most dangerous ride he said he
have the most dangerous ride he said he started visualizing himself being thrown
started visualizing himself being thrown
started visualizing himself being thrown out of this big ride and his name on the
out of this big ride and his name on the
out of this big ride and his name on the front page of the newspaper after being
front page of the newspaper after being
front page of the newspaper after being splattered against the wall or something
splattered against the wall or something
splattered against the wall or something so he just started saying no I don’t
so he just started saying no I don’t
so he just started saying no I don’t want to do it but his friend insisted no
want to do it but his friend insisted no
want to do it but his friend insisted no come on Adrian we said we were going to
come on Adrian we said we were going to
come on Adrian we said we were going to do it we’re going to confront our fears
do it we’re going to confront our fears
do it we’re going to confront our fears today come on just stand on it so he
today come on just stand on it so he
today come on just stand on it so he kept on his lady was arguing with her
kept on his lady was arguing with her
kept on his lady was arguing with her the whole time they got up then the guy
the whole time they got up then the guy
the whole time they got up then the guy said okay next he says no no I just
said okay next he says no no I just
said okay next he says no no I just decided to change my mind she said come
decided to change my mind she said come
decided to change my mind she said come on she pushed him they went there and he
on she pushed him they went there and he
on she pushed him they went there and he got him a little seating they strapped
got him a little seating they strapped
got him a little seating they strapped him in and as they begin to move in –
him in and as they begin to move in –
him in and as they begin to move in – wait a min I want to get out but it was
wait a min I want to get out but it was
wait a min I want to get out but it was too late oh then it’s not taking up his
too late oh then it’s not taking up his
too late oh then it’s not taking up his bed oh no please please I got a bad
bed oh no please please I got a bad
bed oh no please please I got a bad heart let me out and he was up there he
heart let me out and he was up there he
heart let me out and he was up there he was gone is that he screamed all through
was gone is that he screamed all through
was gone is that he screamed all through that right his room was laughing you
that right his room was laughing you
that right his room was laughing you know we came off
but Adrian said left when I got off he
but Adrian said left when I got off he said I walked a little taller
anybody felt glad inside and what did
anybody felt glad inside and what did they miss anything hey it wasn’t that
they miss anything hey it wasn’t that
they miss anything hey it wasn’t that bad after all and we’ve all had
bad after all and we’ve all had
bad after all and we’ve all had experiences things that we dread doing
experiences things that we dread doing
experiences things that we dread doing and when we finally did it with the hey
and when we finally did it with the hey
and when we finally did it with the hey once as bad as I thought it was gonna be
once as bad as I thought it was gonna be
once as bad as I thought it was gonna be raise your hand if you ever had that
raise your hand if you ever had that
raise your hand if you ever had that experience before hey hey hey I just
experience before hey hey hey I just
experience before hey hey hey I just thought I’ll die if I did this I didn’t
thought I’ll die if I did this I didn’t
thought I’ll die if I did this I didn’t die I’m still here ladies and gentlemen
die I’m still here ladies and gentlemen
die I’m still here ladies and gentlemen that’s that’s what most people miss out
that’s that’s what most people miss out
that’s that’s what most people miss out of life you’ve got to be willing to risk
of life you’ve got to be willing to risk
of life you’ve got to be willing to risk if you’re not willing to risk you can’t
if you’re not willing to risk you can’t
if you’re not willing to risk you can’t grow in life life has no power when
grow in life life has no power when
grow in life life has no power when you’re not willing to risk somebody
you’re not willing to risk somebody
you’re not willing to risk somebody wrote this and it was given to me it’s
wrote this and it was given to me it’s
wrote this and it was given to me it’s that to laugh as to risk appearing the
that to laugh as to risk appearing the
that to laugh as to risk appearing the fool to weep is to risk appearing
fool to weep is to risk appearing
fool to weep is to risk appearing sentimental to reach out for another is
sentimental to reach out for another is
sentimental to reach out for another is to risk involvement to expose feelings
to risk involvement to expose feelings
to risk involvement to expose feelings is to risk exposing your true self to
is to risk exposing your true self to
is to risk exposing your true self to place your ideas your dreams before
place your ideas your dreams before
place your ideas your dreams before crowd is to risk their loss to love is
crowd is to risk their loss to love is
crowd is to risk their loss to love is to risk not being loved in return to
to risk not being loved in return to
to risk not being loved in return to live is to risk dying to hope is to risk
live is to risk dying to hope is to risk
live is to risk dying to hope is to risk despair to try is to risk failure but
despair to try is to risk failure but
despair to try is to risk failure but risk must be taken because the greatest
risk must be taken because the greatest
risk must be taken because the greatest hazard in life is to risk nothing the
hazard in life is to risk nothing the
hazard in life is to risk nothing the person who risks nothing does nothing
person who risks nothing does nothing
person who risks nothing does nothing has nothing is nothing they may avoid
has nothing is nothing they may avoid
has nothing is nothing they may avoid suffering and sorrow but they cannot
suffering and sorrow but they cannot
suffering and sorrow but they cannot learn feel change grow love and live
learn feel change grow love and live
learn feel change grow love and live chained by their certitudes they are a
chained by their certitudes they are a
chained by their certitudes they are a slave they have forfeited their freedom
slave they have forfeited their freedom
slave they have forfeited their freedom only a person who risk is free reminded
only a person who risk is free reminded
only a person who risk is free reminded of a missionary who had gone to Africa
of a missionary who had gone to Africa
of a missionary who had gone to Africa to work
to work
to work a certain tribe they were called the hit
a certain tribe they were called the hit
a certain tribe they were called the hit hunters and there was a reporter
hunters and there was a reporter
hunters and there was a reporter observing him and for a long period of
observing him and for a long period of
observing him and for a long period of time he had a limited relationship with
time he had a limited relationship with
time he had a limited relationship with him they would not take him in and he
him they would not take him in and he
him they would not take him in and he said because he was tentative and
said because he was tentative and
said because he was tentative and hesitant and fearful he didn’t want to
hesitant and fearful he didn’t want to
hesitant and fearful he didn’t want to risk having a relationship with him
risk having a relationship with him
risk having a relationship with him because he didn’t want to mess around to
because he didn’t want to mess around to
because he didn’t want to mess around to have his here take it off
have his here take it off
have his here take it off he had this fear and obviously it showed
he had this fear and obviously it showed
he had this fear and obviously it showed and the tribesman sensed it say one
and the tribesman sensed it say one
and the tribesman sensed it say one night he was sleeping and he made a
night he was sleeping and he made a
night he was sleeping and he made a decision because the reporter came back
decision because the reporter came back
decision because the reporter came back and saw him and he had the incredible
and saw him and he had the incredible
and saw him and he had the incredible relationship with the tribesman these
relationship with the tribesman these
relationship with the tribesman these headhunters guys that what happened how
headhunters guys that what happened how
headhunters guys that what happened how did you convert the distance the
did you convert the distance the
did you convert the distance the hostility into a warm close relationship
hostility into a warm close relationship
hostility into a warm close relationship he said I had a dream one night I was
he said I had a dream one night I was
he said I had a dream one night I was thinking and and he said I dream so what
thinking and and he said I dream so what
thinking and and he said I dream so what we you know what’s my passion what’s my
we you know what’s my passion what’s my
we you know what’s my passion what’s my life goal he’s always wanted to be a
life goal he’s always wanted to be a
life goal he’s always wanted to be a missionary and he said this is the work
missionary and he said this is the work
missionary and he said this is the work I love and said in the dream he asked
I love and said in the dream he asked
I love and said in the dream he asked himself how much do you love it I said
himself how much do you love it I said
himself how much do you love it I said I’m willing to die for this dream and he
I’m willing to die for this dream and he
I’m willing to die for this dream and he said he thought about that we woke up
said he thought about that we woke up
said he thought about that we woke up that he loved doing this so much that if
that he loved doing this so much that if
that he loved doing this so much that if it was in fact his passion that it was
it was in fact his passion that it was
it was in fact his passion that it was in fact his life’s work he’s willing to
in fact his life’s work he’s willing to
in fact his life’s work he’s willing to die for it and so therefore he said he
die for it and so therefore he said he
die for it and so therefore he said he had no longer any fear of death and he
had no longer any fear of death and he
had no longer any fear of death and he went in there and started working with
went in there and started working with
went in there and started working with them and obviously they picked that up
them and obviously they picked that up
them and obviously they picked that up and he said something else that was
and he said something else that was
and he said something else that was profound he said when you no longer fear
profound he said when you no longer fear
profound he said when you no longer fear dying
dying
dying what else can life threaten you with
what else see when you are willing to
what else see when you are willing to risk all of it when you’re making that
risk all of it when you’re making that
risk all of it when you’re making that kind of commitment somebody always
kind of commitment somebody always
kind of commitment somebody always defined commitment I love it so the next
defined commitment I love it so the next
defined commitment I love it so the next time you have bacon and eggs look at it
time you have bacon and eggs look at it
time you have bacon and eggs look at it say the chicken was involved but the pig
say the chicken was involved but the pig
say the chicken was involved but the pig was committed he had to give it all up
was committed he had to give it all up
was committed he had to give it all up see when you willing to give it all up
[Music]
[Music] [Laughter]
[Laughter]
[Laughter] yes that’s what life is you’ve got to be
yes that’s what life is you’ve got to be
yes that’s what life is you’ve got to be willing to give it all up when you’re
willing to give it all up when you’re
willing to give it all up when you’re willing to to throw it all on the line
willing to to throw it all on the line
willing to to throw it all on the line that’s when life takes on a whole new
that’s when life takes on a whole new
that’s when life takes on a whole new dimension so most people won’t do that
dimension so most people won’t do that
dimension so most people won’t do that they won’t risk that so decide to take
they won’t risk that so decide to take
they won’t risk that so decide to take some risks you want to break the routine
some risks you want to break the routine
some risks you want to break the routine most people go through life following
most people go through life following
most people go through life following that routine and we know that that is a
that routine and we know that that is a
that routine and we know that that is a living death going through life playing
living death going through life playing
living death going through life playing it safe is like a breathing call because
it safe is like a breathing call because
it safe is like a breathing call because the only way that you can grow you’ve
the only way that you can grow you’ve
the only way that you can grow you’ve got to risk the only way that you can
got to risk the only way that you can
got to risk the only way that you can become your best you have got to risk
become your best you have got to risk
become your best you have got to risk you got to challenge yourself you’ve got
you got to challenge yourself you’ve got
you got to challenge yourself you’ve got to venture into the unknown you got to
to venture into the unknown you got to
to venture into the unknown you got to take some chances got to put you on the
take some chances got to put you on the
take some chances got to put you on the line so in order to have that sense of
line so in order to have that sense of
line so in order to have that sense of fulfillment getting out of your comfort
fulfillment getting out of your comfort
fulfillment getting out of your comfort zone as you get out of your comfort zone
zone as you get out of your comfort zone
zone as you get out of your comfort zone you expand your whole life the more you
you expand your whole life the more you
you expand your whole life the more you do the more you realize you can do you
do the more you realize you can do you
do the more you realize you can do you expand your capacity you expand your
expand your capacity you expand your
expand your capacity you expand your potential you expand your horizons you
potential you expand your horizons you
potential you expand your horizons you expand your vision of yourself and of
expand your vision of yourself and of
expand your vision of yourself and of life you expand your participation in
life you expand your participation in
life you expand your participation in life you’re involved in life more you’ll
life you’re involved in life more you’ll
life you’re involved in life more you’ll get more out of life because you’re
get more out of life because you’re
get more out of life because you’re putting more into life than most people
putting more into life than most people
putting more into life than most people that’s why it’s so important that we are
that’s why it’s so important that we are
that’s why it’s so important that we are willing to take some risk I don’t know
willing to take some risk I don’t know
willing to take some risk I don’t know exactly what to do it’s okay you’ll find
exactly what to do it’s okay you’ll find
exactly what to do it’s okay you’ll find out
out
out you either learn that you’re going in
you either learn that you’re going in
you either learn that you’re going in the right direction or the wrong
the right direction or the wrong
the right direction or the wrong direction and from that you learn you’ll
direction and from that you learn you’ll
direction and from that you learn you’ll get some feedback the universe will tell
get some feedback the universe will tell
get some feedback the universe will tell you where do I get started just get
you where do I get started just get
you where do I get started just get started the universe will give you
started the universe will give you
started the universe will give you immediate feedback don’t worry
immediate feedback don’t worry
immediate feedback don’t worry you hit your head long enough you get
you hit your head long enough you get
you hit your head long enough you get the message loose enough money you’ll
the message loose enough money you’ll
the message loose enough money you’ll learn real quick get enough nuts or heat
learn real quick get enough nuts or heat
learn real quick get enough nuts or heat it’ll be alright here’s something else
it’ll be alright here’s something else
it’ll be alright here’s something else choose to be happy and spite of life’s
choose to be happy and spite of life’s
choose to be happy and spite of life’s challenges in spite of life’s challenges
life changes every day sometimes things
life changes every day sometimes things will be going your way sometimes things
will be going your way sometimes things
will be going your way sometimes things work well for you sometimes won’t work
work well for you sometimes won’t work
work well for you sometimes won’t work so well sometimes you have your health
so well sometimes you have your health
so well sometimes you have your health you’re feeling good and energetic have a
you’re feeling good and energetic have a
you’re feeling good and energetic have a yes I can’t attitude and and there’s
yes I can’t attitude and and there’s
yes I can’t attitude and and there’s some things that can happen to you in
some things that can happen to you in
some things that can happen to you in life that can take all of that from you
life that can take all of that from you
life that can take all of that from you all of that can go sometimes you might
all of that can go sometimes you might
all of that can go sometimes you might be financially secure in a sickness once
be financially secure in a sickness once
be financially secure in a sickness once sickness can wipe out an illness I
sickness can wipe out an illness I
sickness can wipe out an illness I always teach but you can choose you can
always teach but you can choose you can
always teach but you can choose you can choose in the midst of all of this
choose in the midst of all of this
choose in the midst of all of this that’s going on to be happy in spite of
that’s going on to be happy in spite of
that’s going on to be happy in spite of it the good times and in the bad times
it the good times and in the bad times
it the good times and in the bad times you can make a choice Viktor Frankl he
you can make a choice Viktor Frankl he
you can make a choice Viktor Frankl he talks about that is that the last of the
talks about that is that the last of the
talks about that is that the last of the human freedoms to choose one’s attitude
human freedoms to choose one’s attitude
human freedoms to choose one’s attitude in any given set of circumstances to
in any given set of circumstances to
in any given set of circumstances to choose one’s own way Douglas Matlock has
choose one’s own way Douglas Matlock has
choose one’s own way Douglas Matlock has poor my love entitled it’s fine today if
poor my love entitled it’s fine today if
poor my love entitled it’s fine today if it show this world is full of troubles I
it show this world is full of troubles I
it show this world is full of troubles I ain’t said a name Lord I’ve had enough
ain’t said a name Lord I’ve had enough
ain’t said a name Lord I’ve had enough and double reason for complaint rain and
and double reason for complaint rain and
and double reason for complaint rain and storm have come to threatening skies off
storm have come to threatening skies off
storm have come to threatening skies off often great thorns and brambles have
often great thorns and brambles have
often great thorns and brambles have beset me on the road but faith ain’t it
beset me on the road but faith ain’t it
beset me on the road but faith ain’t it fine today
fine today
fine today we’ll see you as always we’ve been
we’ll see you as always we’ve been
we’ll see you as always we’ve been making trouble last what’s the use of
making trouble last what’s the use of
making trouble last what’s the use of always keeping thinking of the past each
always keeping thinking of the past each
always keeping thinking of the past each must have his tribulation water with his
must have his tribulation water with his
must have his tribulation water with his wine life it ain’t no celebration
wine life it ain’t no celebration
wine life it ain’t no celebration trouble
trouble
trouble I’ve had mine but today is fine it’s
I’ve had mine but today is fine it’s
I’ve had mine but today is fine it’s today that I’m living not a muffled old
today that I’m living not a muffled old
today that I’m living not a muffled old having losing taking giving as time
having losing taking giving as time
having losing taking giving as time Wilczek so yesterday a cloud of sorrow
Wilczek so yesterday a cloud of sorrow
Wilczek so yesterday a cloud of sorrow fell across the way it may rain again
fell across the way it may rain again
fell across the way it may rain again tomorrow it may rain but they ain’t it
tomorrow it may rain but they ain’t it
tomorrow it may rain but they ain’t it finding
finding
finding is that good I like that so even if a
is that good I like that so even if a
is that good I like that so even if a cloud of sorrow comes over here ain’t it
cloud of sorrow comes over here ain’t it
cloud of sorrow comes over here ain’t it fine today living in the moment getting
fine today living in the moment getting
fine today living in the moment getting everything we can out of where we are in
everything we can out of where we are in
everything we can out of where we are in the moment where we are right now living
the moment where we are right now living
the moment where we are right now living in the present the other thing is
in the present the other thing is
in the present the other thing is willingness to let people and things go
willingness to let people and things go
willingness to let people and things go want to live a life of fulfillment
want to live a life of fulfillment
want to live a life of fulfillment you’ve got to be willing to let certain
you’ve got to be willing to let certain
you’ve got to be willing to let certain people go in your life especially if
people go in your life especially if
people go in your life especially if they want to go
don’t get addicted to material things be
don’t get addicted to material things be willing to let things or people go when
willing to let things or people go when
willing to let things or people go when they’re no longer good for you just let
they’re no longer good for you just let
they’re no longer good for you just let them go just a whole lawn tenaciously
them go just a whole lawn tenaciously
them go just a whole lawn tenaciously really doesn’t make really good steps
really doesn’t make really good steps
really doesn’t make really good steps all right just many times we do it
all right just many times we do it
all right just many times we do it because we don’t realize that we might
because we don’t realize that we might
because we don’t realize that we might desire but we don’t need it
desire but we don’t need it
desire but we don’t need it next thing is face the truth about life
next thing is face the truth about life
next thing is face the truth about life and deal with it a lot of people when
and deal with it a lot of people when
and deal with it a lot of people when someone in their life of the love very
someone in their life of the love very
someone in their life of the love very much dies they allow it to take such a
much dies they allow it to take such a
much dies they allow it to take such a toll on them they make themselves
toll on them they make themselves
toll on them they make themselves miserable and they literally will
miserable and they literally will
miserable and they literally will themselves to die early because they
themselves to die early because they
themselves to die early because they feel without this person they have
feel without this person they have
feel without this person they have nothing to look forward to and no life
nothing to look forward to and no life
nothing to look forward to and no life has other opportunities other
has other opportunities other
has other opportunities other relationships
relationships
relationships other experiences for us and the people
other experiences for us and the people
other experiences for us and the people that we love really want us to go on
that we love really want us to go on
that we love really want us to go on other thing if things are going to
other thing if things are going to
other thing if things are going to happen to you here in order to have a
happen to you here in order to have a
happen to you here in order to have a fulfilling life knowing that that things
fulfilling life knowing that that things
fulfilling life knowing that that things are going to happen expect the
are going to happen expect the
are going to happen expect the unexpected whatever happens to you use
unexpected whatever happens to you use
unexpected whatever happens to you use everything for your upliftment learning
everything for your upliftment learning
everything for your upliftment learning and growth everything that happens use
and growth everything that happens use
and growth everything that happens use it for your upliftment learning and grow
it for your upliftment learning and grow
it for your upliftment learning and grow in the midst of it s looking on learn
in the midst of it s looking on learn
in the midst of it s looking on learn from this what can I get from it how did
from this what can I get from it how did
from this what can I get from it how did I end up here
I end up here
I end up here what’s the blessing in this for me ask
what’s the blessing in this for me ask
what’s the blessing in this for me ask yourself that whatever it is and don’t
yourself that whatever it is and don’t
yourself that whatever it is and don’t let it go until you get your blessing
let it go until you get your blessing
let it go until you get your blessing out of it because there’s a blessing
out of it because there’s a blessing
out of it because there’s a blessing there there’s a lesson there there’s
there there’s a lesson there there’s
there there’s a lesson there there’s something for you in everything that
something for you in everything that
something for you in everything that happens to you for you to learn from
happens to you for you to learn from
happens to you for you to learn from that experience look at it examine it
that experience look at it examine it
that experience look at it examine it analyze it dissect it take it apart
analyze it dissect it take it apart
analyze it dissect it take it apart until it reveals itself to you and then
until it reveals itself to you and then
until it reveals itself to you and then get what you need from that and move on
get what you need from that and move on
get what you need from that and move on everything that happens to you have a
everything that happens to you have a
everything that happens to you have a friendship stutters and I said are you
friendship stutters and I said are you
friendship stutters and I said are you taking any special classes to stop them
taking any special classes to stop them
taking any special classes to stop them stuttering shit
stuttering shit
stuttering shit no I said why because it helps my
no I said why because it helps my
no I said why because it helps my business
business
business I said how when I go in to somebody I
I said how when I go in to somebody I
I said how when I go in to somebody I say now if you’re busy I’ll come back
say now if you’re busy I’ll come back
say now if you’re busy I’ll come back because I stuttered and there used to
because I stuttered and there used to
because I stuttered and there used to say oh no no you can tell me right now
say oh no no you can tell me right now
say oh no no you can tell me right now and then she say well this is my product
and then she say well this is my product
and then she say well this is my product and she said after she goes through it
and she said after she goes through it
and she said after she goes through it and if they say no she said well you
and if they say no she said well you
and if they say no she said well you didn’t understand let me tell you again
didn’t understand let me tell you again
didn’t understand let me tell you again AG they say oh no no that’s all right
AG they say oh no no that’s all right
AG they say oh no no that’s all right how much is all right don’t know don’t
how much is all right don’t know don’t
how much is all right don’t know don’t tell me no more that’s all right don’t
tell me no more that’s all right don’t
tell me no more that’s all right don’t let me know how much I need to give you
let me know how much I need to give you
let me know how much I need to give you so you think you could give you the
so you think you could give you the
so you think you could give you the yellow out of here
so these turn that stuttering to her
so these turn that stuttering to her advantage somebody says I mean like give
advantage somebody says I mean like give
advantage somebody says I mean like give you limit write yourself a lemon
you limit write yourself a lemon
you limit write yourself a lemon cookbook
but everything is I had people say to me
but everything is I had people say to me hey I really feel sorry you know for you
hey I really feel sorry you know for you
hey I really feel sorry you know for you the fact is ashamed they labeled you
the fact is ashamed they labeled you
the fact is ashamed they labeled you educable mentally retarded I said it’s
educable mentally retarded I said it’s
educable mentally retarded I said it’s okay
okay
okay I’ve told this story before AT&T Procter
I’ve told this story before AT&T Procter
I’ve told this story before AT&T Procter & Gamble McDonald corporations they rock
& Gamble McDonald corporations they rock
& Gamble McDonald corporations they rock they pay a whole lot of money to head
they pay a whole lot of money to head
they pay a whole lot of money to head what would I have to say if they hadn’t
what would I have to say if they hadn’t
what would I have to say if they hadn’t done that you know whatever happens to
done that you know whatever happens to
done that you know whatever happens to you turn it to your advantage so I have
you turn it to your advantage so I have
you turn it to your advantage so I have now made that a blessing for me as
now made that a blessing for me as
now made that a blessing for me as opposed to a handicap
opposed to a handicap
opposed to a handicap I wouldn’t prove them wrong by engaging
I wouldn’t prove them wrong by engaging
I wouldn’t prove them wrong by engaging in self study and consciously working to
in self study and consciously working to
in self study and consciously working to develop myself so now they have to ask
develop myself so now they have to ask
develop myself so now they have to ask themselves about when we labeled this
themselves about when we labeled this
themselves about when we labeled this guy what was going on and then their
guy what was going on and then their
guy what was going on and then their people will look at miss awaited this
people will look at miss awaited this
people will look at miss awaited this guy he labeled it
guy he labeled it
guy he labeled it what retarding you got a kid if he’s
what retarding you got a kid if he’s
what retarding you got a kid if he’s done what he’s done
done what he’s done
done what he’s done what can I do with what I got that’s
what can I do with what I got that’s
what can I do with what I got that’s what happens to when I get through
what happens to when I get through
what happens to when I get through talking in and motivating a sales force
talking in and motivating a sales force
talking in and motivating a sales force they leave their shame not to be
they leave their shame not to be
they leave their shame not to be motivated say that retarded guy can do
motivated say that retarded guy can do
motivated say that retarded guy can do it on door I got to do something they
it on door I got to do something they
it on door I got to do something they ready to ride the rule I gotta do
ready to ride the rule I gotta do
ready to ride the rule I gotta do something over here oh no no no no am I
something over here oh no no no no am I
something over here oh no no no no am I making any sense to y’all
here’s something I encourage you to do
here’s something I encourage you to do whatever you do do it in a consciousness
whatever you do do it in a consciousness
whatever you do do it in a consciousness of love see if if you if you love what
of love see if if you if you love what
of love see if if you if you love what you do and if you decide to love people
you do and if you decide to love people
you do and if you decide to love people to make wherever you are in experience
to make wherever you are in experience
to make wherever you are in experience of love just decide to be a loving
of love just decide to be a loving
of love just decide to be a loving person regardless it’s the people you
person regardless it’s the people you
person regardless it’s the people you allow a loving enough just see I’ve
allow a loving enough just see I’ve
allow a loving enough just see I’ve never read anywhere where they say God
never read anywhere where they say God
never read anywhere where they say God has loved Anna River what is what how
has loved Anna River what is what how
has loved Anna River what is what how does it go
does it go
does it go what what is God is love not be God have
what what is God is love not be God have
what what is God is love not be God have love now if we are the children of God
love now if we are the children of God
love now if we are the children of God we are the offsprings of God then we are
we are the offsprings of God then we are
we are the offsprings of God then we are what love see love is not an emotion
what love see love is not an emotion
what love see love is not an emotion love is not something you can give you
love is not something you can give you
love is not something you can give you you can’t give love you must be loved
you can’t give love you must be loved
you can’t give love you must be loved you’ve got to be a loving person
you’ve got to be a loving person
you’ve got to be a loving person so as you operate in that consciousness
so as you operate in that consciousness
so as you operate in that consciousness and this comes not just overnight with
and this comes not just overnight with
and this comes not just overnight with enlightenment or insight or just the one
enlightenment or insight or just the one
enlightenment or insight or just the one recommending that but with practice
recommending that but with practice
recommending that but with practice practice and practice and practice and
practice and practice and practice and
practice and practice and practice and doing it and doing it and doing it and
doing it and doing it and doing it and
doing it and doing it and doing it and working consciously how do you do that
working consciously how do you do that
working consciously how do you do that how what with all of the evil things and
how what with all of the evil things and
how what with all of the evil things and evil people how you do that one of the
evil people how you do that one of the
evil people how you do that one of the things is we’ve got to practice to be
things is we’ve got to practice to be
things is we’ve got to practice to be non-judgmental to suspend judgment but
non-judgmental to suspend judgment but
non-judgmental to suspend judgment but if you can in the midst of where you are
if you can in the midst of where you are
if you can in the midst of where you are no gentleman by the name of Geoffrey in
no gentleman by the name of Geoffrey in
no gentleman by the name of Geoffrey in Chicago when I go there do my training
Chicago when I go there do my training
Chicago when I go there do my training he’s a quadriplegic he used to be a
he’s a quadriplegic he used to be a
he’s a quadriplegic he used to be a bitter young man he’s involved in a car
bitter young man he’s involved in a car
bitter young man he’s involved in a car accident and just paralyzed cannot move
accident and just paralyzed cannot move
accident and just paralyzed cannot move his neck quadriplegic complete used to
his neck quadriplegic complete used to
his neck quadriplegic complete used to be very bitter very angry he decided to
be very bitter very angry he decided to
be very bitter very angry he decided to become a loving person as a result of
become a loving person as a result of
become a loving person as a result of Jeffrey’s decision Jeffrey’s life has
Jeffrey’s decision Jeffrey’s life has
Jeffrey’s decision Jeffrey’s life has taken a dramatic turn he is now an
taken a dramatic turn he is now an
taken a dramatic turn he is now an inspiration and a blessing to other
inspiration and a blessing to other
inspiration and a blessing to other people
people
people there are people – wait a minute and I
there are people – wait a minute and I
there are people – wait a minute and I know one guy in particular is always a
know one guy in particular is always a
know one guy in particular is always a cynical negative guy not introduced in –
cynical negative guy not introduced in –
cynical negative guy not introduced in – Jeffrey said if this guy could be
Jeffrey said if this guy could be
Jeffrey said if this guy could be pleasant and loving and have a smile on
pleasant and loving and have a smile on
pleasant and loving and have a smile on his face how can I worry about this
his face how can I worry about this
his face how can I worry about this little stuff I’m worried about how can I
little stuff I’m worried about how can I
little stuff I’m worried about how can I allow life to get next to me how can I
allow life to get next to me how can I
allow life to get next to me how can I talk about being depressed when I can
talk about being depressed when I can
talk about being depressed when I can get up and move around and walk around
get up and move around and walk around
get up and move around and walk around and Jeffrey can’t do that and he’s
and Jeffrey can’t do that and he’s
and Jeffrey can’t do that and he’s confined to this wheelchair Jeffrey has
confined to this wheelchair Jeffrey has
confined to this wheelchair Jeffrey has decided in a spirit of love to make his
decided in a spirit of love to make his
decided in a spirit of love to make his life a blessing to other people he’s
life a blessing to other people he’s
life a blessing to other people he’s going back to school he writes with a
going back to school he writes with a
going back to school he writes with a pencil in his mouth he is determined
pencil in his mouth he is determined
pencil in his mouth he is determined sometimes it becomes a little frustrated
sometimes it becomes a little frustrated
sometimes it becomes a little frustrated sometimes he does get a little depressed
sometimes he does get a little depressed
sometimes he does get a little depressed but he doesn’t allow it to keep him
but he doesn’t allow it to keep him
but he doesn’t allow it to keep him there he’s a loving spirit you can feel
there he’s a loving spirit you can feel
there he’s a loving spirit you can feel it in his consciousness just being
it in his consciousness just being
it in his consciousness just being around him you can look at him and feel
around him you can look at him and feel
around him you can look at him and feel good inside he’s an inspiration to the
good inside he’s an inspiration to the
good inside he’s an inspiration to the people that come in contact with his
people that come in contact with his
people that come in contact with his life that’s a decision but he has made
life that’s a decision but he has made
life that’s a decision but he has made an IP
an IP
an IP but we can all make that decision and
but we can all make that decision and
but we can all make that decision and through practice practice of being lovey
through practice practice of being lovey
through practice practice of being lovey and giving out what we want that we can
and giving out what we want that we can
and giving out what we want that we can become that kind of person in spite of
become that kind of person in spite of
become that kind of person in spite of the circumstances Emmitt Fox that love
the circumstances Emmitt Fox that love
the circumstances Emmitt Fox that love is absolutely invincible he said that
is absolutely invincible he said that
is absolutely invincible he said that there is no difficulty that enough love
there is no difficulty that enough love
there is no difficulty that enough love will not conquer no disease that enough
will not conquer no disease that enough
will not conquer no disease that enough love will not deal no door that enough
love will not deal no door that enough
love will not deal no door that enough love will not open no golf that enough
love will not open no golf that enough
love will not open no golf that enough love will not bridge no wall that enough
love will not bridge no wall that enough
love will not bridge no wall that enough love will not throw down no sin that
love will not throw down no sin that
love will not throw down no sin that enough love will not redeem it makes no
enough love will not redeem it makes no
enough love will not redeem it makes no difference how deeply seated may be the
difference how deeply seated may be the
difference how deeply seated may be the trouble
trouble
trouble how hopeless the outlook how muddled the
how hopeless the outlook how muddled the
how hopeless the outlook how muddled the tangle how great the mistake a
tangle how great the mistake a
tangle how great the mistake a sufficient realization of love will
sufficient realization of love will
sufficient realization of love will dissolve it all if only you could love
dissolve it all if only you could love
dissolve it all if only you could love enough you would be the happiest and
enough you would be the happiest and
enough you would be the happiest and most powerful being in the world and he
most powerful being in the world and he
most powerful being in the world and he ends it in a scripture that says God is
ends it in a scripture that says God is
ends it in a scripture that says God is love and he that dwelleth in love
love and he that dwelleth in love
love and he that dwelleth in love dwelleth in God and God in him decide to
dwelleth in God and God in him decide to
dwelleth in God and God in him decide to be a loving experience in life at
be a loving experience in life at
be a loving experience in life at whatever work you have to do do it
whatever work you have to do do it
whatever work you have to do do it lovingly then whatever relationships
lovingly then whatever relationships
lovingly then whatever relationships that you have just decide to be more
that you have just decide to be more
that you have just decide to be more loving more giving more caring more
loving more giving more caring more
loving more giving more caring more concerned more sensitive than you’ve
concerned more sensitive than you’ve
concerned more sensitive than you’ve ever been before but what if you don’t
ever been before but what if you don’t
ever been before but what if you don’t get it back it would be great if you get
get it back it would be great if you get
get it back it would be great if you get it back it would be great but don’t
it back it would be great but don’t
it back it would be great but don’t count on it you might get it back and
count on it you might get it back and
count on it you might get it back and you might not but don’t let someone else
you might not but don’t let someone else
you might not but don’t let someone else determine who you’re going to be be who
determine who you’re going to be be who
determine who you’re going to be be who you are give what you want why because
you are give what you want why because
you are give what you want why because you want it back
you want it back
you want it back no do it because that’s who you are do
no do it because that’s who you are do
no do it because that’s who you are do it because that’s how you decided to
it because that’s how you decided to
it because that’s how you decided to live your life
live your life
live your life do it because it gives your life a sense
do it because it gives your life a sense
do it because it gives your life a sense of fulfillment and work and self-respect
of fulfillment and work and self-respect
of fulfillment and work and self-respect when we get off center when we allow
when we get off center when we allow
when we get off center when we allow people or circumstances to determine
people or circumstances to determine
people or circumstances to determine whether or not we are loving because of
whether or not we are loving because of
whether or not we are loving because of the way they treat us or because of what
the way they treat us or because of what
the way they treat us or because of what we are experiencing then we are not
we are experiencing then we are not
we are experiencing then we are not operating at cause in our lives we’re
operating at cause in our lives we’re
operating at cause in our lives we’re not controlling our destiny we’re not
not controlling our destiny we’re not
not controlling our destiny we’re not determining what happens to us and for
determining what happens to us and for
determining what happens to us and for us and that’s the power that we have
us and that’s the power that we have
us and that’s the power that we have been given the power to choose ye this
been given the power to choose ye this
been given the power to choose ye this thing who you serve who are you sir
thing who you serve who are you sir
thing who you serve who are you sir those negative feelings and emotions
those negative feelings and emotions
those negative feelings and emotions anybody can hate anybody can be
anybody can hate anybody can be
anybody can hate anybody can be revengeful some people rather get
revengeful some people rather get
revengeful some people rather get revenge than get ahead in life
revenge than get ahead in life
revenge than get ahead in life anybody can do that anybody can hold a
anybody can do that anybody can hold a
anybody can do that anybody can hold a grudge doesn’t take any greatness on
grudge doesn’t take any greatness on
grudge doesn’t take any greatness on that don’t need any motivation and
that don’t need any motivation and
that don’t need any motivation and encouragement to hold a grudge have some
encouragement to hold a grudge have some
encouragement to hold a grudge have some resentment in your heart and some
resentment in your heart and some
resentment in your heart and some bitterness but the real challenge about
bitterness but the real challenge about
bitterness but the real challenge about growth and moving into your greatness by
growth and moving into your greatness by
growth and moving into your greatness by being who you are being true to you I
say as you look at life if something I
say as you look at life if something I like what Charles Fillmore said at age
like what Charles Fillmore said at age
like what Charles Fillmore said at age 94 are fairly sizzle with zeal and
94 are fairly sizzle with zeal and
94 are fairly sizzle with zeal and enthusiasm as I spring forth with a
enthusiasm as I spring forth with a
enthusiasm as I spring forth with a mighty faith to do the things that ought
mighty faith to do the things that ought
mighty faith to do the things that ought to be done by me I spring forth with a
to be done by me I spring forth with a
to be done by me I spring forth with a mighty faith to do the things that ought
mighty faith to do the things that ought
mighty faith to do the things that ought to be done by me and I say as you go
to be done by me and I say as you go
to be done by me and I say as you go toward your goals and your dreams spring
toward your goals and your dreams spring
toward your goals and your dreams spring forth with a mighty faith to write the
forth with a mighty faith to write the
forth with a mighty faith to write the book that ought to be written by you to
book that ought to be written by you to
book that ought to be written by you to sing the song that ought to be found by
sing the song that ought to be found by
sing the song that ought to be found by you to start the business that ought to
you to start the business that ought to
you to start the business that ought to be started by you to help the people
be started by you to help the people
be started by you to help the people that ought to be helped by you to make
that ought to be helped by you to make
that ought to be helped by you to make the difference in our societies that
the difference in our societies that
the difference in our societies that ought to be made for
ought to be made for
ought to be made for you determine what is my life work what
you determine what is my life work what
you determine what is my life work what is the work that I ought to do how is it
is the work that I ought to do how is it
is the work that I ought to do how is it that I can make my life a great
that I can make my life a great
that I can make my life a great experiment how is it that I can make the
experiment how is it that I can make the
experiment how is it that I can make the contribution that I showed up to give
contribution that I showed up to give
contribution that I showed up to give something that when I go to sleep at
something that when I go to sleep at
something that when I go to sleep at night I can feel good within myself
night I can feel good within myself
night I can feel good within myself and know that I’ve given life my very
and know that I’ve given life my very
and know that I’ve given life my very best and one last step I think in the
best and one last step I think in the
best and one last step I think in the area of self fulfillment and that is
area of self fulfillment and that is
area of self fulfillment and that is that you must live in a spirit and an
that you must live in a spirit and an
that you must live in a spirit and an attitude of gratitude there’s so many
attitude of gratitude there’s so many
attitude of gratitude there’s so many things ladies and gentlemen have we take
things ladies and gentlemen have we take
things ladies and gentlemen have we take the planet so many things as I look at
the planet so many things as I look at
the planet so many things as I look at my life there are a lot of things I know
my life there are a lot of things I know
my life there are a lot of things I know I I could have done and I haven’t done
I I could have done and I haven’t done
I I could have done and I haven’t done them but I’ve also done some things and
them but I’ve also done some things and
them but I’ve also done some things and I’m thankful a lot of things that we
I’m thankful a lot of things that we
I’m thankful a lot of things that we need to be thankful for the big things
need to be thankful for the big things
need to be thankful for the big things they’re little things I’m thankful for
they’re little things I’m thankful for
they’re little things I’m thankful for my health I’m thankful for my children
my health I’m thankful for my children
my health I’m thankful for my children thankful for my mother I’m thankful for
thankful for my mother I’m thankful for
thankful for my mother I’m thankful for you I’m thankful for for the life that I
you I’m thankful for for the life that I
you I’m thankful for for the life that I live and for the people who have
live and for the people who have
live and for the people who have enriched my life
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