balancé balancé balancé balancé balancé balancé balancé balancé
balancé balancé balancé balancé
balancé balancé balancé balancé balancé balancé I get up super early
balancé balancé I get up super early
balancé balancé I get up super early generally I have this thing where I like
generally I have this thing where I like
generally I have this thing where I like beating the Sun up not just in terms of
beating the Sun up not just in terms of
beating the Sun up not just in terms of what sometimes I have to get up and how
what sometimes I have to get up and how
what sometimes I have to get up and how do I do it like it’s just important to
do I do it like it’s just important to
do I do it like it’s just important to find balance and I try and do things
find balance and I try and do things
find balance and I try and do things really that I really enjoy doing and a
really that I really enjoy doing and a
really that I really enjoy doing and a lot of times you know it’s like in life
lot of times you know it’s like in life
lot of times you know it’s like in life right life brings like drama and you’re
right life brings like drama and you’re
right life brings like drama and you’re gonna deal with this person and make
gonna deal with this person and make
gonna deal with this person and make your relationship here do all these
your relationship here do all these
your relationship here do all these things you try and just kind of balance
things you try and just kind of balance
things you try and just kind of balance them out as best I can
them out as best I can
them out as best I can it’s it’s complex right and it’s
it’s it’s complex right and it’s
it’s it’s complex right and it’s deceiving mmm at times you know if
deceiving mmm at times you know if
deceiving mmm at times you know if people think the to equate yes you know
people think the to equate yes you know
people think the to equate yes you know to each other and they don’t write you
to each other and they don’t write you
to each other and they don’t write you don’t have a lot of money it’s up yeah
don’t have a lot of money it’s up yeah
don’t have a lot of money it’s up yeah and then I don’t have a lot of happiness
and then I don’t have a lot of happiness
and then I don’t have a lot of happiness but that doesn’t mean that the to equate
but that doesn’t mean that the to equate
but that doesn’t mean that the to equate to each other as your happiness risen at
to each other as your happiness risen at
to each other as your happiness risen at the same romano’s your bank account no
the same romano’s your bank account no
the same romano’s your bank account no that’s the thing they don’t they don’t
that’s the thing they don’t they don’t
that’s the thing they don’t they don’t they don’t equate they’re not as hide in
they don’t equate they’re not as hide in
they don’t equate they’re not as hide in any way that tied to each other I mean
any way that tied to each other I mean
any way that tied to each other I mean it allows you freedom and allows you to
it allows you freedom and allows you to
it allows you freedom and allows you to go places where you could smile and look
go places where you could smile and look
go places where you could smile and look at the sunset and things like that
at the sunset and things like that
at the sunset and things like that that’s what you choose to do in you
that’s what you choose to do in you
that’s what you choose to do in you enjoy to do right but there are a lot of
enjoy to do right but there are a lot of
enjoy to do right but there are a lot of people with tons of money who aren’t
people with tons of money who aren’t
people with tons of money who aren’t happy because they’re either they’ve
happy because they’re either they’ve
happy because they’re either they’ve become a prisoner of their money or
become a prisoner of their money or
become a prisoner of their money or they’ve become so concerned with getting
they’ve become so concerned with getting
they’ve become so concerned with getting money that they don’t allow time for
money that they don’t allow time for
money that they don’t allow time for happiness right life is about balance
happiness right life is about balance
happiness right life is about balance right you have to have some type of
right you have to have some type of
right you have to have some type of balance you have like time for work and
balance you have like time for work and
balance you have like time for work and it’s time for play and if you don’t
it’s time for play and if you don’t
it’s time for play and if you don’t allow these two things to co-exist you
allow these two things to co-exist you
allow these two things to co-exist you have an imbalance I’ve wanted up both
have an imbalance I’ve wanted up both
have an imbalance I’ve wanted up both Ryan and I are eight times I want to say
Ryan and I are eight times I want to say
Ryan and I are eight times I want to say envious but but we look at other people
envious but but we look at other people
envious but but we look at other people like you take Kendrick Kendrick is a
like you take Kendrick Kendrick is a
like you take Kendrick Kendrick is a rapper Kendrick is in the studio right
rapper Kendrick is in the studio right
rapper Kendrick is in the studio right now I guarantee it
now I guarantee it
now I guarantee it he’s not thinking about you know that
he’s not thinking about you know that
he’s not thinking about you know that the merge design that we have right now
the merge design that we have right now
the merge design that we have right now isn’t fitting on it on a tank top the
isn’t fitting on it on a tank top the
isn’t fitting on it on a tank top the way that it should it’s true and
way that it should it’s true and
way that it should it’s true and and that’s a it’s a blessing in the
and that’s a it’s a blessing in the
and that’s a it’s a blessing in the curse you know we we both are have we
curse you know we we both are have we
curse you know we we both are have we are the output in terms of anything
are the output in terms of anything
are the output in terms of anything creative it it’s a music video if it’s
creative it it’s a music video if it’s
creative it it’s a music video if it’s directing if it’s writing a treatment if
directing if it’s writing a treatment if
directing if it’s writing a treatment if it’s if it’s you know being a character
it’s if it’s you know being a character
it’s if it’s you know being a character in the music video it we are everything
in the music video it we are everything
in the music video it we are everything same thing with their merge same thing
same thing with their merge same thing
same thing with their merge same thing with just the ideas that we have full
with just the ideas that we have full
with just the ideas that we have full circle in terms of running a business so
circle in terms of running a business so
circle in terms of running a business so that’s taking away time that we could be
that’s taking away time that we could be
that’s taking away time that we could be working on our specific grass producing
working on our specific grass producing
working on our specific grass producing and rapping so I think that it’s a
and rapping so I think that it’s a
and rapping so I think that it’s a balance we both enjoy business we both
balance we both enjoy business we both
balance we both enjoy business we both enjoy being holistically creative that’s
enjoy being holistically creative that’s
enjoy being holistically creative that’s a fulfilling thing I don’t want to be in
a fulfilling thing I don’t want to be in
a fulfilling thing I don’t want to be in the studio every single day all the time
the studio every single day all the time
the studio every single day all the time I want to be picking fonts I want to be
I want to be picking fonts I want to be
I want to be picking fonts I want to be you know with Ryan color editing a music
you know with Ryan color editing a music
you know with Ryan color editing a music video that’s something that we both
video that’s something that we both
video that’s something that we both enjoy so it’s a balance and I think that
enjoy so it’s a balance and I think that
enjoy so it’s a balance and I think that we haven’t we wear enough hats that we
we haven’t we wear enough hats that we
we haven’t we wear enough hats that we can kind of bounce around and be
can kind of bounce around and be
can kind of bounce around and be inspired but it comes at a sacrifice
inspired but it comes at a sacrifice
inspired but it comes at a sacrifice yeah if you’re really gonna be an artist
yeah if you’re really gonna be an artist
yeah if you’re really gonna be an artist with your own voice and you want to do
with your own voice and you want to do
with your own voice and you want to do different things and try you know not
different things and try you know not
different things and try you know not the standard thing then you know the
the standard thing then you know the
the standard thing then you know the biggest balancing act you have to pull
biggest balancing act you have to pull
biggest balancing act you have to pull isn’t really even being a good filmmaker
isn’t really even being a good filmmaker
isn’t really even being a good filmmaker we’ll just say that you have that is
we’ll just say that you have that is
we’ll just say that you have that is that balancing act between sticking to
that balancing act between sticking to
that balancing act between sticking to your vision sticking to your voice but
your vision sticking to your voice but
your vision sticking to your voice but not being some asshole that could only
not being some asshole that could only
not being some asshole that could only hear the sound of his own voice you know
hear the sound of his own voice you know
hear the sound of his own voice you know and that’s I mean it’s all right there
and that’s I mean it’s all right there
and that’s I mean it’s all right there that’s it you got to be able to listen
that’s it you got to be able to listen
that’s it you got to be able to listen to people you got to be able to hear
to people you got to be able to hear
to people you got to be able to hear what they’re saying but you also can’t
what they’re saying but you also can’t
what they’re saying but you also can’t just I mean when the when the going gets
just I mean when the when the going gets
just I mean when the when the going gets tough not give up on your vision
tough not give up on your vision
tough not give up on your vision well I always sort of test my boys and
well I always sort of test my boys and
well I always sort of test my boys and say okay I can be a stay-at-home mom
say okay I can be a stay-at-home mom
say okay I can be a stay-at-home mom what do you think and they’re like no no
what do you think and they’re like no no
what do you think and they’re like no no no we don’t want that
no we don’t want that
no we don’t want that so I think that’s kind of funny in a way
so I think that’s kind of funny in a way
so I think that’s kind of funny in a way but I think my boys know they’re my
but I think my boys know they’re my
but I think my boys know they’re my first priority and I think it’s about
first priority and I think it’s about
first priority and I think it’s about how being a mother to me is the gift of
how being a mother to me is the gift of
how being a mother to me is the gift of the world to me and but also being able
the world to me and but also being able
the world to me and but also being able to have a company like this as well so I
to have a company like this as well so I
to have a company like this as well so I think it’s really about just figuring
think it’s really about just figuring
think it’s really about just figuring out the balance and it’s always going to
out the balance and it’s always going to
out the balance and it’s always going to be a balance in my opinion having it all
be a balance in my opinion having it all
be a balance in my opinion having it all and what all these people are talking
and what all these people are talking
and what all these people are talking about now is a very individual question
about now is a very individual question
about now is a very individual question I don’t think that having it all means
I don’t think that having it all means
I don’t think that having it all means everything to the same person so you
everything to the same person so you
everything to the same person so you have to figure out what having it all is
have to figure out what having it all is
have to figure out what having it all is for you I certainly had to give certain
for you I certainly had to give certain
for you I certainly had to give certain things up things that I didn’t mind
things up things that I didn’t mind
things up things that I didn’t mind giving up but my family and my work came
giving up but my family and my work came
giving up but my family and my work came first and that’s sort of finding that
first and that’s sort of finding that
first and that’s sort of finding that balance we got to incorporate in the
balance we got to incorporate in the
balance we got to incorporate in the philosophy of our company the values the
philosophy of our company the values the
philosophy of our company the values the real value statement of what we’re all
real value statement of what we’re all
real value statement of what we’re all about
about
about the idea of work love and play to be
the idea of work love and play to be
the idea of work love and play to be successful in life you have to have
successful in life you have to have
successful in life you have to have three things in balance if not how would
three things in balance if not how would
three things in balance if not how would you run a 24 hour day business if you
you run a 24 hour day business if you
you run a 24 hour day business if you didn’t have a balance in your life you
didn’t have a balance in your life you
didn’t have a balance in your life you follow me I mean you have a nervous
follow me I mean you have a nervous
follow me I mean you have a nervous breakdown if you’re just a workaholic
breakdown if you’re just a workaholic
breakdown if you’re just a workaholic wouldn’t you so I think to be successful
wouldn’t you so I think to be successful
wouldn’t you so I think to be successful you have to have all three and you’ll be
you have to have all three and you’ll be
you have to have all three and you’ll be more successful if you strive for
more successful if you strive for
more successful if you strive for balance in your life you make better
balance in your life you make better
balance in your life you make better decisions
decisions
decisions somehow wives really ground the hell out
somehow wives really ground the hell out
somehow wives really ground the hell out of you you’re not a big shot at home
of you you’re not a big shot at home
of you you’re not a big shot at home that’s good so just try to remember make
that’s good so just try to remember make
that’s good so just try to remember make goals every year for all three work love
goals every year for all three work love
goals every year for all three work love and play and it’s you know it’s just
and play and it’s you know it’s just
and play and it’s you know it’s just important you make better decisions you
important you make better decisions you
important you make better decisions you imagine when I went out and I told these
imagine when I went out and I told these
imagine when I went out and I told these people that loved things
people that loved things
people that loved things let’s go 24 hours a day what they would
let’s go 24 hours a day what they would
let’s go 24 hours a day what they would say to me Paul I can’t work any harder
say to me Paul I can’t work any harder
say to me Paul I can’t work any harder does it how do you expect me to keep
does it how do you expect me to keep
does it how do you expect me to keep this thing open 24 hours a day those are
this thing open 24 hours a day those are
this thing open 24 hours a day those are the wrong people they had an idea of
the wrong people they had an idea of
the wrong people they had an idea of going to people base people and you
going to people base people and you
going to people base people and you can’t lead other people unless you
can’t lead other people unless you
can’t lead other people unless you manage yourself and if you don’t look
manage yourself and if you don’t look
manage yourself and if you don’t look rested nobody wants to follow a leader
rested nobody wants to follow a leader
rested nobody wants to follow a leader that’s tired Haggard and miserable I
that’s tired Haggard and miserable I
that’s tired Haggard and miserable I mean it’s just
mean it’s just
mean it’s just prerequisite for leadership nobody wants
prerequisite for leadership nobody wants
prerequisite for leadership nobody wants to I think Obama’s done a bad job the
to I think Obama’s done a bad job the
to I think Obama’s done a bad job the first month he looked too dour I agree
first month he looked too dour I agree
first month he looked too dour I agree with B I voted for him if I agree with
with B I voted for him if I agree with
with B I voted for him if I agree with Bill Clinton he is not yesterday was
Bill Clinton he is not yesterday was
Bill Clinton he is not yesterday was inspirational but you don’t want the
inspirational but you don’t want the
inspirational but you don’t want the President of the United States saying if
President of the United States saying if
President of the United States saying if you don’t pass this legislation you go
you don’t pass this legislation you go
you don’t pass this legislation you go off the cliff wrong he’s got to always
off the cliff wrong he’s got to always
off the cliff wrong he’s got to always be cheerful always uplifting that’s what
be cheerful always uplifting that’s what
be cheerful always uplifting that’s what leaders are supposed to do and then
leaders are supposed to do and then
leaders are supposed to do and then somebody said well you don’t want it you
somebody said well you don’t want it you
somebody said well you don’t want it you wanted to be honest no you don’t always
wanted to be honest no you don’t always
wanted to be honest no you don’t always have to be honest as a leader you could
have to be honest as a leader you could
have to be honest as a leader you could honestly say I know this problems over
honestly say I know this problems over
honestly say I know this problems over there but we’re still gonna charge
there but we’re still gonna charge
there but we’re still gonna charge forward you don’t have to the leadership
forward you don’t have to the leadership
forward you don’t have to the leadership is a different thing it’s not the open
is a different thing it’s not the open
is a different thing it’s not the open kimono every time remember remember work
kimono every time remember remember work
kimono every time remember remember work love and play you’ll be successful
love and play you’ll be successful
love and play you’ll be successful you’ll be a better leader
you’ll be a better leader
you’ll be a better leader you’ll be a more balanced person and
you’ll be a more balanced person and
you’ll be a more balanced person and people will respect you more so all you
people will respect you more so all you
people will respect you more so all you workaholics drink some beer the hardest
workaholics drink some beer the hardest
workaholics drink some beer the hardest job that I have a CEO is blending or
job that I have a CEO is blending or
job that I have a CEO is blending or finding the right balance between like
finding the right balance between like
finding the right balance between like empathy and and realism mm-hmm
empathy and and realism mm-hmm
empathy and and realism mm-hmm I guess what I mean by that is you know
I guess what I mean by that is you know
I guess what I mean by that is you know I have a few or a bunch of employees who
I have a few or a bunch of employees who
I have a few or a bunch of employees who work me who haven’t been at startups
work me who haven’t been at startups
work me who haven’t been at startups this early you know don’t necessarily
this early you know don’t necessarily
this early you know don’t necessarily kind of understand things break all the
kind of understand things break all the
kind of understand things break all the time and that sort of thing but you have
time and that sort of thing but you have
time and that sort of thing but you have to still be empathetic about it because
to still be empathetic about it because
to still be empathetic about it because you don’t want them to give up but you
you don’t want them to give up but you
you don’t want them to give up but you have to kind of offer a harsh dose of
have to kind of offer a harsh dose of
have to kind of offer a harsh dose of realism like this is the way it happens
realism like this is the way it happens
realism like this is the way it happens right yeah this is real life so that’s
right yeah this is real life so that’s
right yeah this is real life so that’s something that I’ve never had to really
something that I’ve never had to really
something that I’ve never had to really balance before because I was just
balance before because I was just
balance before because I was just playing business yeah right now I’m
playing business yeah right now I’m
playing business yeah right now I’m playing with folks livelihood right
playing with folks livelihood right
playing with folks livelihood right their children’s health insurance right
their children’s health insurance right
their children’s health insurance right yeah yeah I have to think about things
yeah yeah I have to think about things
yeah yeah I have to think about things that I would have never thought so this
that I would have never thought so this
that I would have never thought so this is the hardest job I’ve ever had in my
is the hardest job I’ve ever had in my
is the hardest job I’ve ever had in my entire life right but the most rewarding
entire life right but the most rewarding
entire life right but the most rewarding when you want to have balance you will
when you want to have balance you will
when you want to have balance you will definitely have it you can have it know
definitely have it you can have it know
definitely have it you can have it know what it just is I want to have balance
what it just is I want to have balance
what it just is I want to have balance my life this thought itself is good
my life this thought itself is good
my life this thought itself is good enough you have already balancing you
enough you have already balancing you
enough you have already balancing you are moving in that direction yeah this
are moving in that direction yeah this
are moving in that direction yeah this question simply arises how do I do it
question simply arises how do I do it
question simply arises how do I do it you know you can do it ask yourself
you know you can do it ask yourself
you know you can do it ask yourself your consciousness will tell you I am
your consciousness will tell you I am
your consciousness will tell you I am not balanced I am missing out on this
not balanced I am missing out on this
not balanced I am missing out on this your consciousness will say then you
your consciousness will say then you
your consciousness will say then you listen to your consciousness if you are
listen to your consciousness if you are
listen to your consciousness if you are attending to your work too much your
attending to your work too much your
attending to your work too much your consciousness will prick he you’re
consciousness will prick he you’re
consciousness will prick he you’re forgetting your family you are a wife
forgetting your family you are a wife
forgetting your family you are a wife your children your husband then you say
your children your husband then you say
your children your husband then you say okay how are tend to them if you are
okay how are tend to them if you are
okay how are tend to them if you are attaining too much immersed so much in
attaining too much immersed so much in
attaining too much immersed so much in the family and forget about all other
the family and forget about all other
the family and forget about all other things then your consciousness will
things then your consciousness will
things then your consciousness will prick my god what am I got into what did
prick my god what am I got into what did
prick my god what am I got into what did they get into they are not I am just
they get into they are not I am just
they get into they are not I am just immersed in this family affairs I am NOT
immersed in this family affairs I am NOT
immersed in this family affairs I am NOT being useful to the world I had to do
being useful to the world I had to do
being useful to the world I had to do something I had to pursue my cause I had
something I had to pursue my cause I had
something I had to pursue my cause I had to do justice to my work but my dear
to do justice to my work but my dear
to do justice to my work but my dear prick then you do that but this wanting
prick then you do that but this wanting
prick then you do that but this wanting to keep balance in life that very
to keep balance in life that very
to keep balance in life that very thought is good enough it’s like the
thought is good enough it’s like the
thought is good enough it’s like the fuse in the electrical system you know
fuse in the electrical system you know
fuse in the electrical system you know you know the fuse in the electrical
you know the fuse in the electrical
you know the fuse in the electrical system whenever the electric current
system whenever the electric current
system whenever the electric current surges too much the fuse will break and
surges too much the fuse will break and
surges too much the fuse will break and saved everything else like that that
saved everything else like that that
saved everything else like that that little amount of guilt must be there
little amount of guilt must be there
little amount of guilt must be there like the fuse in the system
like the fuse in the system
like the fuse in the system you don’t justify your fall but that
you don’t justify your fall but that
you don’t justify your fall but that little bit is okay to have like the fuse
little bit is okay to have like the fuse
little bit is okay to have like the fuse in it
in it
in it Electric you know about the electrical
Electric you know about the electrical
Electric you know about the electrical system you know all that electrical
system you know all that electrical
system you know all that electrical board there will be one small box called
board there will be one small box called
board there will be one small box called fuse so whenever there is imbalance in
fuse so whenever there is imbalance in
fuse so whenever there is imbalance in current the fuse will burst and save the
current the fuse will burst and save the
current the fuse will burst and save the rest of the electrical system like that
rest of the electrical system like that
rest of the electrical system like that in life a little bit of guilt should is
in life a little bit of guilt should is
in life a little bit of guilt should is okay but not too much like salt in the
okay but not too much like salt in the
okay but not too much like salt in the foot if there is too much salt can you
foot if there is too much salt can you
foot if there is too much salt can you eat it no got it
eat it no got it
eat it no got it so wanting to her balance is good to
so wanting to her balance is good to
so wanting to her balance is good to have if we were to run into rain
have if we were to run into rain
have if we were to run into rain conditions of this kind of
conditions of this kind of
conditions of this kind of is there a better method ayrton for us
is there a better method ayrton for us
is there a better method ayrton for us to look into how the race should be
to look into how the race should be
to look into how the race should be stopped earlier or more positively we
stopped earlier or more positively we
stopped earlier or more positively we shouldn’t start but whose decision is
shouldn’t start but whose decision is
shouldn’t start but whose decision is classier I think it’s very hard for the
classier I think it’s very hard for the
classier I think it’s very hard for the officials to make such a decision
officials to make such a decision
officials to make such a decision because there is a lot of pressure
because there is a lot of pressure
because there is a lot of pressure television all over the world and it’s
television all over the world and it’s
television all over the world and it’s difficult we understand but I think it’s
difficult we understand but I think it’s
difficult we understand but I think it’s in a way is our own fault
in a way is our own fault
in a way is our own fault we should have started the drivers if we
we should have started the drivers if we
we should have started the drivers if we just get out of the cars stick together
just get out of the cars stick together
just get out of the cars stick together and make a decision for ourselves then
and make a decision for ourselves then
and make a decision for ourselves then the race wouldn’t start in first place
the race wouldn’t start in first place
the race wouldn’t start in first place it’s always very difficult to get it all
it’s always very difficult to get it all
it’s always very difficult to get it all together I experienced it myself two
together I experienced it myself two
together I experienced it myself two years ago today again because also we
years ago today again because also we
years ago today again because also we have a lot of responsibility to the
have a lot of responsibility to the
have a lot of responsibility to the teams and the sponsors that give us so
teams and the sponsors that give us so
teams and the sponsors that give us so much and there are moments that we have
much and there are moments that we have
much and there are moments that we have to also try to give them something but
to also try to give them something but
to also try to give them something but he’s very difficult to find the
he’s very difficult to find the
he’s very difficult to find the equilibrium the balance on making the
equilibrium the balance on making the
equilibrium the balance on making the right decisions at every single time I
right decisions at every single time I
right decisions at every single time I want to share with you a piece of advice
want to share with you a piece of advice
want to share with you a piece of advice that one of my mentors gave me a few
that one of my mentors gave me a few
that one of my mentors gave me a few years ago he sat me down actually I was
years ago he sat me down actually I was
years ago he sat me down actually I was already sitting he sat down next to me
already sitting he sat down next to me
already sitting he sat down next to me and he said I get that you’re struggling
and he said I get that you’re struggling
and he said I get that you’re struggling right now I mean at the time I was going
right now I mean at the time I was going
right now I mean at the time I was going through a problem and he said Sean you
through a problem and he said Sean you
through a problem and he said Sean you got to remember this life is a delicate
got to remember this life is a delicate
got to remember this life is a delicate balance from one end remaining flexible
balance from one end remaining flexible
balance from one end remaining flexible and on the other hand enforcing your
and on the other hand enforcing your
and on the other hand enforcing your boundaries and it was so simple that I
boundaries and it was so simple that I
boundaries and it was so simple that I almost discarded it that advice just
almost discarded it that advice just
almost discarded it that advice just sounded right click write flexible yet
sounded right click write flexible yet
sounded right click write flexible yet boundaries and he further explained that
boundaries and he further explained that
boundaries and he further explained that you gotta remain flexible life is going
you gotta remain flexible life is going
you gotta remain flexible life is going to change on you but you also have to
to change on you but you also have to
to change on you but you also have to enforce your boundaries you gotta let
enforce your boundaries you gotta let
enforce your boundaries you gotta let other people know I am the universe know
other people know I am the universe know
other people know I am the universe know what you will and will not tolerate and
what you will and will not tolerate and
what you will and will not tolerate and he said if you get to was the words he
he said if you get to was the words he
he said if you get to was the words he said if you get to flexible you can be
said if you get to flexible you can be
said if you get to flexible you can be manipulated and walk
manipulated and walk
manipulated and walk if you get too much in the space of
if you get too much in the space of
if you get too much in the space of enforcing your boundary you’ll become
enforcing your boundary you’ll become
enforcing your boundary you’ll become cold hard and distant people aren’t
cold hard and distant people aren’t
cold hard and distant people aren’t gonna want to love you work with you
gonna want to love you work with you
gonna want to love you work with you hang out with you you need a balance
hang out with you you need a balance
hang out with you you need a balance when I looked at my life and I thought
when I looked at my life and I thought
when I looked at my life and I thought well where am I
well where am I
well where am I gravitating towards naturally well my
gravitating towards naturally well my
gravitating towards naturally well my whole life I’ve had to remain flexible
whole life I’ve had to remain flexible
whole life I’ve had to remain flexible I’m three feet on in a wheelchair I have
I’m three feet on in a wheelchair I have
I’m three feet on in a wheelchair I have you know a condition by the time I
you know a condition by the time I
you know a condition by the time I turned 18 I had fractured over 200 times
turned 18 I had fractured over 200 times
turned 18 I had fractured over 200 times something like going to the airport on a
something like going to the airport on a
something like going to the airport on a family vacation and I break my arm
family vacation and I break my arm
family vacation and I break my arm putting my jacket on and now we can’t go
putting my jacket on and now we can’t go
putting my jacket on and now we can’t go you know all these things happen in my
you know all these things happen in my
you know all these things happen in my life that forced me become flexible
life that forced me become flexible
life that forced me become flexible handle whatever comes at you but when it
handle whatever comes at you but when it
handle whatever comes at you but when it came to enforcing boundaries sometimes I
came to enforcing boundaries sometimes I
came to enforcing boundaries sometimes I wasn’t strong enough and sometimes I
wasn’t strong enough and sometimes I
wasn’t strong enough and sometimes I would tolerate things in relationships
would tolerate things in relationships
would tolerate things in relationships in business partnerships I didn’t agree
in business partnerships I didn’t agree
in business partnerships I didn’t agree with ready to rock the boat can you
with ready to rock the boat can you
with ready to rock the boat can you relate but not everybody’s like me some
relate but not everybody’s like me some
relate but not everybody’s like me some people will get really good at enforcing
people will get really good at enforcing
people will get really good at enforcing their boundaries making it very clear
their boundaries making it very clear
their boundaries making it very clear what they will and won’t tolerate they
what they will and won’t tolerate they
what they will and won’t tolerate they have a hard time and you like you move
have a hard time and you like you move
have a hard time and you like you move one little thing on their desk or you
one little thing on their desk or you
one little thing on their desk or you change one thing about their life or you
change one thing about their life or you
change one thing about their life or you need them to compromise on something and
need them to compromise on something and
need them to compromise on something and they freak out
they freak out
they freak out they can’t handle uncertainty they can’t
they can’t handle uncertainty they can’t
they can’t handle uncertainty they can’t handle dealing with other people’s
handle dealing with other people’s
handle dealing with other people’s schedules whatever it may be they just
schedules whatever it may be they just
schedules whatever it may be they just have a hard time being flexible with
have a hard time being flexible with
have a hard time being flexible with life and you need to think about where
life and you need to think about where
life and you need to think about where are you naturally gravitating because
are you naturally gravitating because
are you naturally gravitating because it’s time to move yourself more towards
it’s time to move yourself more towards
it’s time to move yourself more towards the middle if you’ve gotten really good
the middle if you’ve gotten really good
the middle if you’ve gotten really good at forcing your boundaries
at forcing your boundaries
at forcing your boundaries congratulations that’s awesome you’re
congratulations that’s awesome you’re
congratulations that’s awesome you’re not gonna be messed with but maybe
not gonna be messed with but maybe
not gonna be messed with but maybe you’re very hard to deal with or meeting
you’re very hard to deal with or meeting
you’re very hard to deal with or meeting you’re like the most flexible person on
you’re like the most flexible person on
you’re like the most flexible person on earth everybody loves you you’re the
earth everybody loves you you’re the
earth everybody loves you you’re the nice girl a nice guy but you get walked
nice girl a nice guy but you get walked
nice girl a nice guy but you get walked all over and you have no self respect
all over and you have no self respect
all over and you have no self respect now
now
now because you get manipulated and pushed
because you get manipulated and pushed
because you get manipulated and pushed in or maybe you were one and then swung
in or maybe you were one and then swung
in or maybe you were one and then swung the pendulum so far to the other side
the pendulum so far to the other side
the pendulum so far to the other side that you’ve lost your original space the
that you’ve lost your original space the
that you’ve lost your original space the goal is to find that center point it’s
goal is to find that center point it’s
goal is to find that center point it’s to find that I will get graceful dance
to find that I will get graceful dance
to find that I will get graceful dance as my mentor called it the dance between
as my mentor called it the dance between
as my mentor called it the dance between remaining flexible then forcing your
remaining flexible then forcing your
remaining flexible then forcing your boundaries so next time you’re having a
boundaries so next time you’re having a
boundaries so next time you’re having a challenge with someone or in your own
challenge with someone or in your own
challenge with someone or in your own life just by yourself ask yourself am I
life just by yourself ask yourself am I
life just by yourself ask yourself am I too strict with my boundaries am i
too strict with my boundaries am i
too strict with my boundaries am i laying down a lot too much and making it
laying down a lot too much and making it
laying down a lot too much and making it uncomfortable for people to deal with me
uncomfortable for people to deal with me
uncomfortable for people to deal with me or am I too flexible my too
or am I too flexible my too
or am I too flexible my too accommodating to my making all kinds of
accommodating to my making all kinds of
accommodating to my making all kinds of concessions and getting walked on or
concessions and getting walked on or
concessions and getting walked on or abused figure out what is it for you
abused figure out what is it for you
abused figure out what is it for you keep the two in balance in your life or
keep the two in balance in your life or
keep the two in balance in your life or flow thank you guys so much for watching
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continue to believe and I’ll see you
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