the only credit I will give myself is when other people break and give up and
when other people break and give up and
when other people break and give up and stop I just don’t do whatever you need
stop I just don’t do whatever you need
stop I just don’t do whatever you need to do to remind yourself only execution
to do to remind yourself only execution
to do to remind yourself only execution matters so my entire youth I feared pain
matters so my entire youth I feared pain
matters so my entire youth I feared pain I moved away from pain if something was
I moved away from pain if something was
I moved away from pain if something was emotionally or physically difficult I
emotionally or physically difficult I
emotionally or physically difficult I avoided it
avoided it
avoided it what’s that believe nation it’s evan my
what’s that believe nation it’s evan my
what’s that believe nation it’s evan my one word is believe and i believe in you
one word is believe and i believe in you
one word is believe and i believe in you and i want to see that great thing that
and i want to see that great thing that
and i want to see that great thing that you have inside of you come out so you
you have inside of you come out so you
you have inside of you come out so you can help change the world so to help you
can help change the world so to help you
can help change the world so to help you on your journey today we’re gonna learn
on your journey today we’re gonna learn
on your journey today we’re gonna learn from entrepreneur Tom wheeler and my
from entrepreneur Tom wheeler and my
from entrepreneur Tom wheeler and my take on his top ten rules for success
take on his top ten rules for success
take on his top ten rules for success rule number one is my personal favorite
rule number one is my personal favorite
rule number one is my personal favorite and I’d love to know which one you guys
and I’d love to know which one you guys
and I’d love to know which one you guys like the best and as always guys as
like the best and as always guys as
like the best and as always guys as you’re watching if you hear something
you’re watching if you hear something
you’re watching if you hear something that really resonates with you please
that really resonates with you please
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inspired and when you write it down it’s much more likely to stick with yourself
much more likely to stick with yourself
much more likely to stick with yourself as well enjoy what does that believe
as well enjoy what does that believe
as well enjoy what does that believe nation and Evan Carmichael Evan I have
nation and Evan Carmichael Evan I have
nation and Evan Carmichael Evan I have been using your content for years to
been using your content for years to
been using your content for years to help me prepare for my episodes of
help me prepare for my episodes of
help me prepare for my episodes of impact theory so I am incredibly honored
impact theory so I am incredibly honored
impact theory so I am incredibly honored that you’re doing one of these top ten
that you’re doing one of these top ten
that you’re doing one of these top ten rules for success on me and believe
rules for success on me and believe
rules for success on me and believe nation I hope that you guys get a ton of
nation I hope that you guys get a ton of
nation I hope that you guys get a ton of value out of this and that it helps you
value out of this and that it helps you
value out of this and that it helps you build the mindset that you’re going to
build the mindset that you’re going to
build the mindset that you’re going to need in order to actually execute on
need in order to actually execute on
need in order to actually execute on your dreams and until then my friends be
your dreams and until then my friends be
your dreams and until then my friends be legendary
legendary
legendary take care
when you launch quests there were 1600
when you launch quests there were 1600 other protein bar companies that
other protein bar companies that
other protein bar companies that launched in 2010 flavors or companies or
launched in 2010 flavors or companies or
launched in 2010 flavors or companies or companies yeah what gave you the
companies yeah what gave you the
companies yeah what gave you the audacious mindset to think that you
audacious mindset to think that you
audacious mindset to think that you could compete against all those plus the
could compete against all those plus the
could compete against all those plus the 10 20 years of other nutrition companies
10 20 years of other nutrition companies
10 20 years of other nutrition companies out there and beat them yeah it’s I’m
out there and beat them yeah it’s I’m
out there and beat them yeah it’s I’m having any experience in this yeah I’m
having any experience in this yeah I’m
having any experience in this yeah I’m gonna give you a phrase that I play in
gonna give you a phrase that I play in
gonna give you a phrase that I play in my own head that I know and I say out
my own head that I know and I say out
my own head that I know and I say out loud 50% of people love and 50% of
loud 50% of people love and 50% of
loud 50% of people love and 50% of people hate me for it but it’s true so
people hate me for it but it’s true so
people hate me for it but it’s true so hey here we go I have the arrogance of
hey here we go I have the arrogance of
hey here we go I have the arrogance of belief I believe in myself no I believe
belief I believe in myself no I believe
belief I believe in myself no I believe in one thing about me I am NOT the
in one thing about me I am NOT the
in one thing about me I am NOT the smartest guy I got a 990 on my SATs I
smartest guy I got a 990 on my SATs I
smartest guy I got a 990 on my SATs I took it twice that’s my combined score
took it twice that’s my combined score
took it twice that’s my combined score that’s bad for both of us
that’s bad for both of us
that’s bad for both of us I was joking people a monkey smearing
I was joking people a monkey smearing
I was joking people a monkey smearing feces on the test could score higher
feces on the test could score higher
feces on the test could score higher than I did like it’s literally terrible
than I did like it’s literally terrible
than I did like it’s literally terrible yeah but I always believed that I could
yeah but I always believed that I could
yeah but I always believed that I could do whatever I set my mind to right so
do whatever I set my mind to right so
do whatever I set my mind to right so that’s the only the only credit I will
that’s the only the only credit I will
that’s the only the only credit I will give myself is when other people break
give myself is when other people break
give myself is when other people break and give up and stop I just don’t write
and give up and stop I just don’t write
and give up and stop I just don’t write and it comes down to the story you tell
and it comes down to the story you tell
and it comes down to the story you tell yourself about yourself and that’s the
yourself about yourself and that’s the
yourself about yourself and that’s the story I tell myself it was just this
story I tell myself it was just this
story I tell myself it was just this last weekend I was at an entrepreneurial
last weekend I was at an entrepreneurial
last weekend I was at an entrepreneurial organization and they brought a
organization and they brought a
organization and they brought a world-class mountain biker in and said
world-class mountain biker in and said
world-class mountain biker in and said hey anybody that wants to go for a ride
hey anybody that wants to go for a ride
hey anybody that wants to go for a ride with her go and I thought okay you know
with her go and I thought okay you know
with her go and I thought okay you know I’ll go and and cuz she’s saying we can
I’ll go and and cuz she’s saying we can
I’ll go and and cuz she’s saying we can do a beginner course whatever I thought
do a beginner course whatever I thought
do a beginner course whatever I thought was perfect now jump on the bike and go
was perfect now jump on the bike and go
was perfect now jump on the bike and go I’ve never been on a mountain bike
I’ve never been on a mountain bike
I’ve never been on a mountain bike before ever in my life I’ve been on a
before ever in my life I’ve been on a
before ever in my life I’ve been on a bike of any kind probably in 15 years
bike of any kind probably in 15 years
bike of any kind probably in 15 years that was probably stupid and we’re in
that was probably stupid and we’re in
that was probably stupid and we’re in God’s Sun Valley Idaho so it’s not
God’s Sun Valley Idaho so it’s not
God’s Sun Valley Idaho so it’s not exactly flatland and we go mountain
exactly flatland and we go mountain
exactly flatland and we go mountain biking and I’m dying I’m just done it’s
biking and I’m dying I’m just done it’s
biking and I’m dying I’m just done it’s it like 6,000 feet first of all so I can
it like 6,000 feet first of all so I can
it like 6,000 feet first of all so I can match my breath and I keep stopping and
match my breath and I keep stopping and
match my breath and I keep stopping and everyone’s like yeah you know you took
everyone’s like yeah you know you took
everyone’s like yeah you know you took hey man like go ahead and turn back it’s
hey man like go ahead and turn back it’s
hey man like go ahead and turn back it’s all good it’s all good and I’m like I
all good it’s all good and I’m like I
all good it’s all good and I’m like I don’t think you know the story I tell
don’t think you know the story I tell
don’t think you know the story I tell myself like there’s no universe in which
myself like there’s no universe in which
myself like there’s no universe in which I stop so I keep going finally they’ve
I stop so I keep going finally they’ve
I stop so I keep going finally they’ve done the loop right some people have
done the loop right some people have
done the loop right some people have turned back whatever they
turned back whatever they
turned back whatever they done the loop and now they’re coming
done the loop and now they’re coming
done the loop and now they’re coming back and they’re passing me I’m still
back and they’re passing me I’m still
back and they’re passing me I’m still headed out and they’re like you need to
headed out and they’re like you need to
headed out and they’re like you need to turn around and I’m like I’m so sorry
turn around and I’m like I’m so sorry
turn around and I’m like I’m so sorry but I’m not gonna turn around and they
but I’m not gonna turn around and they
but I’m not gonna turn around and they said okay but then we’re no longer
said okay but then we’re no longer
said okay but then we’re no longer responsible for you and I was like okay
responsible for you and I was like okay
responsible for you and I was like okay I like it is what it is man I appreciate
I like it is what it is man I appreciate
I like it is what it is man I appreciate that no worries I’m a big boy
that no worries I’m a big boy
that no worries I’m a big boy like go and I just kept going and I must
like go and I just kept going and I must
like go and I just kept going and I must have come in an hour and twenty minutes
have come in an hour and twenty minutes
have come in an hour and twenty minutes or something after everybody else but I
or something after everybody else but I
or something after everybody else but I finished and that meant so much to me I
finished and that meant so much to me I
finished and that meant so much to me I was like I’m gonna ignore the fact I got
was like I’m gonna ignore the fact I got
was like I’m gonna ignore the fact I got my ass handed to me and I came in dead
my ass handed to me and I came in dead
my ass handed to me and I came in dead last yeah yeah but I’m gonna be proud
last yeah yeah but I’m gonna be proud
last yeah yeah but I’m gonna be proud that I didn’t quit interesting did you
that I didn’t quit interesting did you
that I didn’t quit interesting did you say arrogance of belief is that you say
say arrogance of belief is that you say
say arrogance of belief is that you say arrogance of believed now if you don’t
arrogance of believed now if you don’t
arrogance of believed now if you don’t know this quote live by it one can have
know this quote live by it one can have
know this quote live by it one can have no smaller or greater mastery the
no smaller or greater mastery the
no smaller or greater mastery the mastery over oneself that’s da Vinci da
mastery over oneself that’s da Vinci da
mastery over oneself that’s da Vinci da Vinci did amazing things with his life I
Vinci did amazing things with his life I
Vinci did amazing things with his life I wanted to do equally amazing things with
wanted to do equally amazing things with
wanted to do equally amazing things with mine and if that’s the game that we’re
mine and if that’s the game that we’re
mine and if that’s the game that we’re playing if I can construct my belief
playing if I can construct my belief
playing if I can construct my belief system if I can choose at any moment to
system if I can choose at any moment to
system if I can choose at any moment to believe something that’s more empowering
believe something that’s more empowering
believe something that’s more empowering than I was believing the moment before
than I was believing the moment before
than I was believing the moment before and that that will actually find its way
and that that will actually find its way
and that that will actually find its way into my actions allow me to do things
into my actions allow me to do things
into my actions allow me to do things that I couldn’t do the moment before
that I couldn’t do the moment before
that I couldn’t do the moment before then it’s like that moment in the matrix
then it’s like that moment in the matrix
then it’s like that moment in the matrix where neo realizes he knows kung-fu and
where neo realizes he knows kung-fu and
where neo realizes he knows kung-fu and that’s like as funny as that is that’s
that’s like as funny as that is that’s
that’s like as funny as that is that’s how I think about life to me the very
how I think about life to me the very
how I think about life to me the very fundamental purpose of life is to find
fundamental purpose of life is to find
fundamental purpose of life is to find out how many skills I can acquire that
out how many skills I can acquire that
out how many skills I can acquire that have utility and then put that utility
have utility and then put that utility
have utility and then put that utility to the test in service of something
to the test in service of something
to the test in service of something greater than myself
greater than myself
greater than myself how many skills can i acquire that have
how many skills can i acquire that have
how many skills can i acquire that have utility put that utility to the test in
utility put that utility to the test in
utility put that utility to the test in service of something greater than myself
service of something greater than myself
service of something greater than myself that is for me the purpose of life now I
that is for me the purpose of life now I
that is for me the purpose of life now I don’t actually want to know kung-fu
don’t actually want to know kung-fu
don’t actually want to know kung-fu that is not the mission that I’m here to
that is not the mission that I’m here to
that is not the mission that I’m here to live but I knew that I had to identify
live but I knew that I had to identify
live but I knew that I had to identify my mission so what was going to be my
my mission so what was going to be my
my mission so what was going to be my mission mother Theresa is an amazing
mission mother Theresa is an amazing
mission mother Theresa is an amazing quote nobody will act for the many but
quote nobody will act for the many but
quote nobody will act for the many but people will act for the one and that
people will act for the one and that
people will act for the one and that really struck me
really struck me
really struck me because I realized they were right I was
because I realized they were right I was
because I realized they were right I was looking at this global pandemic of ill
looking at this global pandemic of ill
looking at this global pandemic of ill health and I wasn’t moving into action
health and I wasn’t moving into action
health and I wasn’t moving into action but thinking about my mom and my sister
but thinking about my mom and my sister
but thinking about my mom and my sister or the uncle I had who ate himself to
or the uncle I had who ate himself to
or the uncle I had who ate himself to death when I was 12 years old that made
death when I was 12 years old that made
death when I was 12 years old that made me want to act can you describe what you
me want to act can you describe what you
me want to act can you describe what you mean by going into the darkness I can
mean by going into the darkness I can
mean by going into the darkness I can alright so going into the darkness I
alright so going into the darkness I
alright so going into the darkness I think everybody is motivated by two
think everybody is motivated by two
think everybody is motivated by two different things one you have the
different things one you have the
different things one you have the beautiful things in your life the things
beautiful things in your life the things
beautiful things in your life the things that are going well the things that
that are going well the things that
that are going well the things that you’re grateful for the things you’re
you’re grateful for the things you’re
you’re grateful for the things you’re moving towards instead of a way you have
moving towards instead of a way you have
moving towards instead of a way you have a compelling vision of your future it’s
a compelling vision of your future it’s
a compelling vision of your future it’s something that you’re very excited about
something that you’re very excited about
something that you’re very excited about all of those things are the beautiful
all of those things are the beautiful
all of those things are the beautiful things now the flip side of that
things now the flip side of that
things now the flip side of that equation are the things that it’s people
equation are the things that it’s people
equation are the things that it’s people that doubt you its haters it’s things
that doubt you its haters it’s things
that doubt you its haters it’s things you’re moving away from
you’re moving away from
you’re moving away from it’s fear-based things it’s something
it’s fear-based things it’s something
it’s fear-based things it’s something that you absolutely refuse to let happen
that you absolutely refuse to let happen
that you absolutely refuse to let happen so one that is incredibly potent to me
so one that is incredibly potent to me
so one that is incredibly potent to me are the people that want to see me fail
are the people that want to see me fail
are the people that want to see me fail so it’s very different than people who
so it’s very different than people who
so it’s very different than people who just think you’re going to fail I
just think you’re going to fail I
just think you’re going to fail I actually don’t have a lot of aggression
actually don’t have a lot of aggression
actually don’t have a lot of aggression towards people like that but people that
towards people like that but people that
towards people like that but people that want me to fail those people I have a
want me to fail those people I have a
want me to fail those people I have a lot of aggression for and I find in very
lot of aggression for and I find in very
lot of aggression for and I find in very acute moments the darkness serves you
acute moments the darkness serves you
acute moments the darkness serves you better in very acute moments now the
better in very acute moments now the
better in very acute moments now the light the things you’re moving towards
light the things you’re moving towards
light the things you’re moving towards the things that are beautiful the things
the things that are beautiful the things
the things that are beautiful the things that you’re grateful for all of that is
that you’re grateful for all of that is
that you’re grateful for all of that is the only winning strategy
the only winning strategy
the only winning strategy long term because the darkness becomes
long term because the darkness becomes
long term because the darkness becomes corrosive you start to become bitter you
corrosive you start to become bitter you
corrosive you start to become bitter you start to be angry you stop being
start to be angry you stop being
start to be angry you stop being optimistic you stop seeing things in a
optimistic you stop seeing things in a
optimistic you stop seeing things in a way that’s empowering and positive and I
way that’s empowering and positive and I
way that’s empowering and positive and I mean just thinking about the deep limbic
mean just thinking about the deep limbic
mean just thinking about the deep limbic system when it gets inflamed you
system when it gets inflamed you
system when it gets inflamed you perceive things as negative
perceive things as negative
perceive things as negative I think negativity stops people from
I think negativity stops people from
I think negativity stops people from making progress there’s a whole host of
making progress there’s a whole host of
making progress there’s a whole host of neurological reasons and the sort of
neurological reasons and the sort of
neurological reasons and the sort of mindset reasons why I think that being
mindset reasons why I think that being
mindset reasons why I think that being negative over the long run becomes very
negative over the long run becomes very
negative over the long run becomes very very detrimental and hold you back but
very detrimental and hold you back but
very detrimental and hold you back but from an acute standpoint they’ve done
from an acute standpoint they’ve done
from an acute standpoint they’ve done Studies on this if you want someone to
Studies on this if you want someone to
Studies on this if you want someone to be able to endure more pain the surest
be able to endure more pain the surest
be able to endure more pain the surest way to get people to endure more pain is
way to get people to endure more pain is
way to get people to endure more pain is to let them
to let them
to let them get angry let them be aggressive and in
get angry let them be aggressive and in
get angry let them be aggressive and in doing that people are able to withstand
doing that people are able to withstand
doing that people are able to withstand in the clinical trials I’ll say that’s
in the clinical trials I’ll say that’s
in the clinical trials I’ll say that’s probably more than this but in clinical
probably more than this but in clinical
probably more than this but in clinical trials they’re able to withstand 30%
trials they’re able to withstand 30%
trials they’re able to withstand 30% more pain so just straight being able to
more pain so just straight being able to
more pain so just straight being able to take more pain anger and aggression lets
take more pain anger and aggression lets
take more pain anger and aggression lets you do 30% more so that’s why I think in
you do 30% more so that’s why I think in
you do 30% more so that’s why I think in acute ways and short-term bursts that
acute ways and short-term bursts that
acute ways and short-term bursts that the darkness will serve you there’s a
the darkness will serve you there’s a
the darkness will serve you there’s a gap between who people are and what they
gap between who people are and what they
gap between who people are and what they tell you they want to accomplish because
tell you they want to accomplish because
tell you they want to accomplish because in the beginning I hired everyone
in the beginning I hired everyone
in the beginning I hired everyone everyone right not because I’m super
everyone right not because I’m super
everyone right not because I’m super smart and thought hey I should there was
smart and thought hey I should there was
smart and thought hey I should there was no one else right like we had the
no one else right like we had the
no one else right like we had the smallest handful of people ever and so I
smallest handful of people ever and so I
smallest handful of people ever and so I started doing the interviewing as I was
started doing the interviewing as I was
started doing the interviewing as I was doing it I start realizing God these
doing it I start realizing God these
doing it I start realizing God these guys tell me they want to do something
guys tell me they want to do something
guys tell me they want to do something amazing with their life and if you just
amazing with their life and if you just
amazing with their life and if you just listen like wow yeah like I want to be
listen like wow yeah like I want to be
listen like wow yeah like I want to be in your team dude you’re gonna do
in your team dude you’re gonna do
in your team dude you’re gonna do amazing stuff and then you realize I
amazing stuff and then you realize I
amazing stuff and then you realize I can’t execute on that dream so if I
can’t execute on that dream so if I
can’t execute on that dream so if I can’t think they don’t have the mindset
can’t think they don’t have the mindset
can’t think they don’t have the mindset yet like theirs you could do an entire
yet like theirs you could do an entire
yet like theirs you could do an entire podcast series on how to get the mindset
podcast series on how to get the mindset
podcast series on how to get the mindset but I’ll just use Carol Dweck and her
but I’ll just use Carol Dweck and her
but I’ll just use Carol Dweck and her amazing voting mindset as I’m sure such
amazing voting mindset as I’m sure such
amazing voting mindset as I’m sure such a good book I see Simon’s the neck up
a good book I see Simon’s the neck up
a good book I see Simon’s the neck up there who is also very influential in us
there who is also very influential in us
there who is also very influential in us and she says some people either believe
and she says some people either believe
and she says some people either believe they’re smart as they’re ever gonna be
they’re smart as they’re ever gonna be
they’re smart as they’re ever gonna be and that’s that so they’re gonna be ego
and that’s that so they’re gonna be ego
and that’s that so they’re gonna be ego protective and they’re gonna you know
protective and they’re gonna you know
protective and they’re gonna you know try to thwart anything that makes them
try to thwart anything that makes them
try to thwart anything that makes them feel like they’re not the smartest
feel like they’re not the smartest
feel like they’re not the smartest person or whatever and then there’s
person or whatever and then there’s
person or whatever and then there’s people with a growth mindset and they
people with a growth mindset and they
people with a growth mindset and they realize I’m not the smartest person and
realize I’m not the smartest person and
realize I’m not the smartest person and I’m certainly not as smart as I could be
I’m certainly not as smart as I could be
I’m certainly not as smart as I could be yeah so even if I am the smartest person
yeah so even if I am the smartest person
yeah so even if I am the smartest person I ever lived I could get a little bit
I ever lived I could get a little bit
I ever lived I could get a little bit smarter and so when they’re confronted
smarter and so when they’re confronted
smarter and so when they’re confronted with contradictory information they
with contradictory information they
with contradictory information they learn and they soak it up like as well
learn and they soak it up like as well
learn and they soak it up like as well whereas other people are fixed mindset
whereas other people are fixed mindset
whereas other people are fixed mindset right correct it’s done like no this is
right correct it’s done like no this is
right correct it’s done like no this is the way and I’m writing that’s wrong yes
the way and I’m writing that’s wrong yes
the way and I’m writing that’s wrong yes and I would say the world everyone’s on
and I would say the world everyone’s on
and I would say the world everyone’s on a spectrum right even I as much as I
a spectrum right even I as much as I
a spectrum right even I as much as I believe in it and work my ass off to be
believe in it and work my ass off to be
believe in it and work my ass off to be a growth mindset
a growth mindset
a growth mindset I still have let’s call it 10% where I
I still have let’s call it 10% where I
I still have let’s call it 10% where I catch myself I’m like come on dude you
catch myself I’m like come on dude you
catch myself I’m like come on dude you know better than that yeah but so people
know better than that yeah but so people
know better than that yeah but so people that fall in less a sub 50% spectrum of
that fall in less a sub 50% spectrum of
that fall in less a sub 50% spectrum of the growth mindset it’s got to be 98%
the growth mindset it’s got to be 98%
the growth mindset it’s got to be 98% and I remember this was a piece of
and I remember this was a piece of
and I remember this was a piece of advice that my father-in-law gave me
advice that my father-in-law gave me
advice that my father-in-law gave me that I promptly ignored
that I promptly ignored
that I promptly ignored and we have since apologized to him and
and we have since apologized to him and
and we have since apologized to him and very much adopted this mentality but he
very much adopted this mentality but he
very much adopted this mentality but he said the most important thing in
said the most important thing in
said the most important thing in business is to know more about the topic
business is to know more about the topic
business is to know more about the topic than anybody else in the room and if you
than anybody else in the room and if you
than anybody else in the room and if you don’t see an echo of that in my
don’t see an echo of that in my
don’t see an echo of that in my preparation for the interviews and I’m
preparation for the interviews and I’m
preparation for the interviews and I’m not doing a good job of explaining it
not doing a good job of explaining it
not doing a good job of explaining it that was something that when he said it
that was something that when he said it
that was something that when he said it I am so sad to report that it did not
I am so sad to report that it did not
I am so sad to report that it did not hit me but for whatever weird reason it
hit me but for whatever weird reason it
hit me but for whatever weird reason it really stuck with me and it was one of
really stuck with me and it was one of
really stuck with me and it was one of those things that I thought about and
those things that I thought about and
those things that I thought about and thought about and thought about and then
thought about and thought about and then
thought about and thought about and then it finally manifested itself and me
it finally manifested itself and me
it finally manifested itself and me realizing that to get good at anything
realizing that to get good at anything
realizing that to get good at anything whether that’s business whether that’s
whether that’s business whether that’s
whether that’s business whether that’s interviewing it really is that level of
interviewing it really is that level of
interviewing it really is that level of preparation it is about going above and
preparation it is about going above and
preparation it is about going above and beyond to get good at something and I’m
beyond to get good at something and I’m
beyond to get good at something and I’m thinking about this last night at the
thinking about this last night at the
thinking about this last night at the event and there’s always like a thousand
event and there’s always like a thousand
event and there’s always like a thousand questions that I get asked about how you
questions that I get asked about how you
questions that I get asked about how you build a business you know whatever your
build a business you know whatever your
build a business you know whatever your dream is how do you go and actually
dream is how do you go and actually
dream is how do you go and actually manifest it and the honest answer to
manifest it and the honest answer to
manifest it and the honest answer to everything is get better get better and
everything is get better get better and
everything is get better get better and I’ve had really talented artists begin
I’ve had really talented artists begin
I’ve had really talented artists begin reaching out to me on Instagram because
reaching out to me on Instagram because
reaching out to me on Instagram because obviously that’s a huge focus for us in
obviously that’s a huge focus for us in
obviously that’s a huge focus for us in the next phase is going to be getting
the next phase is going to be getting
the next phase is going to be getting writers getting artists bringing them
writers getting artists bringing them
writers getting artists bringing them together creating amazing comic books in
together creating amazing comic books in
together creating amazing comic books in Phase one and they’ll have like a really
Phase one and they’ll have like a really
Phase one and they’ll have like a really small following and they’ll say you know
small following and they’ll say you know
small following and they’ll say you know like what what am I doing wrong what’s
like what what am I doing wrong what’s
like what what am I doing wrong what’s the secret and the truth is even though
the secret and the truth is even though
the secret and the truth is even though they’re really good they’ve got to get a
they’re really good they’ve got to get a
they’re really good they’ve got to get a lot better and when you can be
lot better and when you can be
lot better and when you can be world-class but admit that you’re not
world-class but admit that you’re not
world-class but admit that you’re not yet undeniable cuz there’s unfortunately
yet undeniable cuz there’s unfortunately
yet undeniable cuz there’s unfortunately a lot of people that are world-class
a lot of people that are world-class
a lot of people that are world-class like think about it you make a deal at
like think about it you make a deal at
like think about it you make a deal at Olympics your whole life you’ve been
Olympics your whole life you’ve been
Olympics your whole life you’ve been busting your ass you finally make it
busting your ass you finally make it
busting your ass you finally make it you’re one of the best in your country
you’re one of the best in your country
you’re one of the best in your country truly a world-class player but you come
truly a world-class player but you come
truly a world-class player but you come in seventh eighth it’s you haven’t
in seventh eighth it’s you haven’t
in seventh eighth it’s you haven’t gotten to the point where you’re so good
gotten to the point where you’re so good
gotten to the point where you’re so good that you can’t be ignored and that like
that you can’t be ignored and that like
that you can’t be ignored and that like in today’s world where social media
in today’s world where social media
in today’s world where social media rules everything and anyone can get on
rules everything and anyone can get on
rules everything and anyone can get on there create noise you’ve got to find a
there create noise you’ve got to find a
there create noise you’ve got to find a way to cut through the clutter and a way
way to cut through the clutter and a way
way to cut through the clutter and a way to cut through the clutter one of
to cut through the clutter one of
to cut through the clutter one of there’s more and I will recommend
there’s more and I will recommend
there’s more and I will recommend and perennial seller by our boy Ryan
and perennial seller by our boy Ryan
and perennial seller by our boy Ryan holiday really interesting book really
holiday really interesting book really
holiday really interesting book really excited I think we’ve booked him for
excited I think we’ve booked him for
excited I think we’ve booked him for like November that’ll be a lot of fun
like November that’ll be a lot of fun
like November that’ll be a lot of fun but is in his book he talks about
but is in his book he talks about
but is in his book he talks about several of the other things you’re gonna
several of the other things you’re gonna
several of the other things you’re gonna do but I’ll say that the most important
do but I’ll say that the most important
do but I’ll say that the most important one is to get so good that you you
one is to get so good that you you
one is to get so good that you you cannot be ignored cannot be ignored so
cannot be ignored cannot be ignored so
cannot be ignored cannot be ignored so if you’re being ignored by the way the
if you’re being ignored by the way the
if you’re being ignored by the way the world has told you that you’ve not yet
world has told you that you’ve not yet
world has told you that you’ve not yet gotten to where you want to get to so
gotten to where you want to get to so
gotten to where you want to get to so everybody knows my obsession with Disney
everybody knows my obsession with Disney
everybody knows my obsession with Disney read the Disney biography in times of
read the Disney biography in times of
read the Disney biography in times of trouble Disney always came back round to
trouble Disney always came back round to
trouble Disney always came back round to make the product better make the product
make the product better make the product
make the product better make the product better only execution matters burn that
better only execution matters burn that
better only execution matters burn that into your nervous system
into your nervous system
into your nervous system get a tattoo do whatever you need to do
get a tattoo do whatever you need to do
get a tattoo do whatever you need to do to remind yourself only execution
to remind yourself only execution
to remind yourself only execution matters thinking about it feeling good
matters thinking about it feeling good
matters thinking about it feeling good about it those are awesome but if you
about it those are awesome but if you
about it those are awesome but if you have a vision of something you’re trying
have a vision of something you’re trying
have a vision of something you’re trying to do become whatever and you don’t
to do become whatever and you don’t
to do become whatever and you don’t execute against it and I don’t need you
execute against it and I don’t need you
execute against it and I don’t need you to want to build a big business if you
to want to build a big business if you
to want to build a big business if you tell me you want to be the greatest
tell me you want to be the greatest
tell me you want to be the greatest parent of all time then I’m gonna ask
parent of all time then I’m gonna ask
parent of all time then I’m gonna ask you what are you doing to execute on
you what are you doing to execute on
you what are you doing to execute on that goal what are you doing how do you
that goal what are you doing how do you
that goal what are you doing how do you define it
define it
define it what are your deliverables what are the
what are your deliverables what are the
what are your deliverables what are the metrics by which you’re judging yourself
metrics by which you’re judging yourself
metrics by which you’re judging yourself and by the way if you don’t want a grand
and by the way if you don’t want a grand
and by the way if you don’t want a grand goal you don’t need one but then say
goal you don’t need one but then say
goal you don’t need one but then say what I’m trying to do is get centered
what I’m trying to do is get centered
what I’m trying to do is get centered I’m trying to experience happiness even
I’m trying to experience happiness even
I’m trying to experience happiness even that you can begin to look at ways that
that you can begin to look at ways that
that you can begin to look at ways that you can improve that your talent and
you can improve that your talent and
you can improve that your talent and intelligence are not fixed they’re
intelligence are not fixed they’re
intelligence are not fixed they’re malleable so you suck at skateboarding
malleable so you suck at skateboarding
malleable so you suck at skateboarding because you’re afraid of pain so the
because you’re afraid of pain so the
because you’re afraid of pain so the only thing you need to know right now
only thing you need to know right now
only thing you need to know right now the point is not to avoid the pain and
the point is not to avoid the pain and
the point is not to avoid the pain and you need to stop asking yourself what’s
you need to stop asking yourself what’s
you need to stop asking yourself what’s the least you can do to get good and you
the least you can do to get good and you
the least you can do to get good and you need to start asking yourself what’s the
need to start asking yourself what’s the
need to start asking yourself what’s the most you can bear to become great once
most you can bear to become great once
most you can bear to become great once you understand the whole point is to let
you understand the whole point is to let
you understand the whole point is to let the suffering and the pain harden you
the suffering and the pain harden you
the suffering and the pain harden you into becoming the version of yourself
into becoming the version of yourself
into becoming the version of yourself that you need to become in order to
that you need to become in order to
that you need to become in order to execute at the highest level to be
execute at the highest level to be
execute at the highest level to be world-class at anything and stop
world-class at anything and stop
world-class at anything and stop avoiding it stop being afraid of it and
avoiding it stop being afraid of it and
avoiding it stop being afraid of it and start understanding for what it really
start understanding for what it really
start understanding for what it really is which is the thing that shapes you so
is which is the thing that shapes you so
is which is the thing that shapes you so my entire youth I feared pain I moved
my entire youth I feared pain I moved
my entire youth I feared pain I moved away from pain if something was
away from pain if something was
away from pain if something was emotionally or physically difficult I
emotionally or physically difficult I
emotionally or physically difficult I avoided it and I remember being in the
avoided it and I remember being in the
avoided it and I remember being in the gym one day and going will you stop
gym one day and going will you stop
gym one day and going will you stop asking like what’s the least you need to
asking like what’s the least you need to
asking like what’s the least you need to do to consider it a full week workout
do to consider it a full week workout
do to consider it a full week workout because it was like could I stop now
because it was like could I stop now
because it was like could I stop now could I stop now could I stop now and I
could I stop now could I stop now and I
could I stop now could I stop now and I was like do you want the muscles or do
was like do you want the muscles or do
was like do you want the muscles or do you want to like put on a show that you
you want to like put on a show that you
you want to like put on a show that you showed up like you showed up right like
showed up like you showed up right like
showed up like you showed up right like cuz the muscles demand what the muscles
cuz the muscles demand what the muscles
cuz the muscles demand what the muscles demand like you have to break them down
demand like you have to break them down
demand like you have to break them down you have to push you have to do more
you have to push you have to do more
you have to push you have to do more like so it is purely a question of how
like so it is purely a question of how
like so it is purely a question of how much you’re willing to bear because
much you’re willing to bear because
much you’re willing to bear because there’s never gonna be enough you could
there’s never gonna be enough you could
there’s never gonna be enough you could have always done more everybody lean in
have always done more everybody lean in
have always done more everybody lean in nice and close self-compassion it’s
nice and close self-compassion it’s
nice and close self-compassion it’s probably the most important thing that
probably the most important thing that
probably the most important thing that you can do for yourself is when you
you can do for yourself is when you
you can do for yourself is when you up
up
up you need to forgive yourself okay so
you need to forgive yourself okay so
you need to forgive yourself okay so that’s really really important so and
that’s really really important so and
that’s really really important so and I’ll walk you through an example about
I’ll walk you through an example about
I’ll walk you through an example about whatever twenty minutes ago I get really
whatever twenty minutes ago I get really
whatever twenty minutes ago I get really frustrated when people are trying to
frustrated when people are trying to
frustrated when people are trying to tell me something but they’re whispering
tell me something but they’re whispering
tell me something but they’re whispering definitely red lines me in a way that I
definitely red lines me in a way that I
definitely red lines me in a way that I can’t even begin to tell you and so it
can’t even begin to tell you and so it
can’t even begin to tell you and so it just happened while I’m here live on
just happened while I’m here live on
just happened while I’m here live on camera and I hold myself to a standard
camera and I hold myself to a standard
camera and I hold myself to a standard of catching my emotions before they rise
of catching my emotions before they rise
of catching my emotions before they rise up now this has happened twice today the
up now this has happened twice today the
up now this has happened twice today the first time it happened I caught myself
first time it happened I caught myself
first time it happened I caught myself yay the second time it happened I was
yay the second time it happened I was
yay the second time it happened I was like for real we’re doing this again and
like for real we’re doing this again and
like for real we’re doing this again and I got very frustrated so I was very
I got very frustrated so I was very
I got very frustrated so I was very disappointed in myself for that I need
disappointed in myself for that I need
disappointed in myself for that I need to be compassionate towards myself
to be compassionate towards myself
to be compassionate towards myself forgive myself for that get better use
forgive myself for that get better use
forgive myself for that get better use it as practice and remember that life is
it as practice and remember that life is
it as practice and remember that life is in performance it really is about
in performance it really is about
in performance it really is about practice so once you can meet yourself
practice so once you can meet yourself
practice so once you can meet yourself with compassion then you can begin to
with compassion then you can begin to
with compassion then you can begin to let go of whatever it is that’s really
let go of whatever it is that’s really
let go of whatever it is that’s really with your mindset you can get back on
with your mindset you can get back on
with your mindset you can get back on track
track
track you can refocus and don’t wait til
you can refocus and don’t wait til
you can refocus and don’t wait til Monday and that’s a mistake that
Monday and that’s a mistake that
Monday and that’s a mistake that everybody makes so if you fall off the
everybody makes so if you fall off the
everybody makes so if you fall off the wagon like five thought the wagon at
wagon like five thought the wagon at
wagon like five thought the wagon at 9:58 at 9:59 and back on the wagon so
9:58 at 9:59 and back on the wagon so
9:58 at 9:59 and back on the wagon so I’m not waiting even for a 10 o’clock
I’m not waiting even for a 10 o’clock
I’m not waiting even for a 10 o’clock like you literally do it right there at
like you literally do it right there at
like you literally do it right there at that moment make it a part of your
that moment make it a part of your
that moment make it a part of your identity that you’re the type of person
identity that you’re the type of person
identity that you’re the type of person that does that so that is really really
that does that so that is really really
that does that so that is really really critical right now between me and the
critical right now between me and the
critical right now between me and the person I want to be between you and the
person I want to be between you and the
person I want to be between you and the person you want to be there is a gap of
person you want to be there is a gap of
person you want to be there is a gap of skillset and that’s it but once you know
skillset and that’s it but once you know
skillset and that’s it but once you know your mission and once you believe that
your mission and once you believe that
your mission and once you believe that you can accomplish anything you set your
you can accomplish anything you set your
you can accomplish anything you set your mind to then you can do the
mind to then you can do the
mind to then you can do the extraordinary now for me getting out of
extraordinary now for me getting out of
extraordinary now for me getting out of that space of being lost of not knowing
that space of being lost of not knowing
that space of being lost of not knowing what I wanted to do with my life
what I wanted to do with my life
what I wanted to do with my life it all came down to needing to earn
it all came down to needing to earn
it all came down to needing to earn credibility with myself in very small
credibility with myself in very small
credibility with myself in very small incremental ways this is me sixty pounds
incremental ways this is me sixty pounds
incremental ways this is me sixty pounds ago and I knew if I was going to
ago and I knew if I was going to
ago and I knew if I was going to accomplish anything in my life I was
accomplish anything in my life I was
accomplish anything in my life I was going to have to get control of my mind
going to have to get control of my mind
going to have to get control of my mind now ironically there’s two ways to get
now ironically there’s two ways to get
now ironically there’s two ways to get control of your mind way number one is
control of your mind way number one is
control of your mind way number one is directly going to the mind which can be
directly going to the mind which can be
directly going to the mind which can be very scary can be very daunting very
very scary can be very daunting very
very scary can be very daunting very ethereal it’s ephemeral it’s hard to
ethereal it’s ephemeral it’s hard to
ethereal it’s ephemeral it’s hard to grab on to it’s hard to touch but way
grab on to it’s hard to touch but way
grab on to it’s hard to touch but way number two is through the body and so I
number two is through the body and so I
number two is through the body and so I decided that my kungfu
decided that my kungfu
decided that my kungfu was going to be to get very good at
was going to be to get very good at
was going to be to get very good at developing my body and in that process I
developing my body and in that process I
developing my body and in that process I was going to learn about nutrition which
was going to learn about nutrition which
was going to learn about nutrition which would allow me to help my mom and my
would allow me to help my mom and my
would allow me to help my mom and my sister in that process I was going to
sister in that process I was going to
sister in that process I was going to earn credibility with myself and earning
earn credibility with myself and earning
earn credibility with myself and earning credibility with yourself is so
credibility with yourself is so
credibility with yourself is so important do it in micro ways for me
important do it in micro ways for me
important do it in micro ways for me just showing up to the gym every day was
just showing up to the gym every day was
just showing up to the gym every day was a micro victory I said I was gonna do it
a micro victory I said I was gonna do it
a micro victory I said I was gonna do it and I did it now you have to understand
and I did it now you have to understand
and I did it now you have to understand I hate working out so for all of you
I hate working out so for all of you
I hate working out so for all of you crazy people that get an endorphin rush
crazy people that get an endorphin rush
crazy people that get an endorphin rush from running I hate you all running for
from running I hate you all running for
from running I hate you all running for me is like being stuffed into a meat
me is like being stuffed into a meat
me is like being stuffed into a meat grinder there is absolutely nothing
grinder there is absolutely nothing
grinder there is absolutely nothing pleasurable about it whatsoever
pleasurable about it whatsoever
pleasurable about it whatsoever so whatever neurological thing you guys
so whatever neurological thing you guys
so whatever neurological thing you guys get that you’ve been blessed with I have
get that you’ve been blessed with I have
get that you’ve been blessed with I have not been blessed with that so for me
not been blessed with that so for me
not been blessed with that so for me showing up in the gym sucks eating a
showing up in the gym sucks eating a
showing up in the gym sucks eating a bowl of ice cream is awesome and so
bowl of ice cream is awesome and so
bowl of ice cream is awesome and so getting to getting to a better place for
getting to getting to a better place for
getting to getting to a better place for me was a totally different journey thank
me was a totally different journey thank
me was a totally different journey thank you
and what that was was just showing up
and what that was was just showing up every day and putting in the work it was
every day and putting in the work it was
every day and putting in the work it was reading about human metabolism and
reading about human metabolism and
reading about human metabolism and understanding how what I eat impacts my
understanding how what I eat impacts my
understanding how what I eat impacts my body it was earning a little bit of
body it was earning a little bit of
body it was earning a little bit of discipline every day knowing that well I
discipline every day knowing that well I
discipline every day knowing that well I did it yesterday I can do it again today
did it yesterday I can do it again today
did it yesterday I can do it again today it was not eating something that I
it was not eating something that I
it was not eating something that I wanted to eat and most importantly and
wanted to eat and most importantly and
wanted to eat and most importantly and if you’re taking notes write this down
if you’re taking notes write this down
if you’re taking notes write this down it was about changing my identity
it was about changing my identity
it was about changing my identity because at the end of the day identity
because at the end of the day identity
because at the end of the day identity and values drive behavior for each
identity and values drive behavior so if
identity and values drive behavior so if you want to make a change you have to
you want to make a change you have to
you want to make a change you have to change your vision of who you are you
change your vision of who you are you
change your vision of who you are you have to begin telling yourself a
have to begin telling yourself a
have to begin telling yourself a different narrative and the narrative
different narrative and the narrative
different narrative and the narrative you tell yourself about yourself is
you tell yourself about yourself is
you tell yourself about yourself is everything and if you tell yourself that
everything and if you tell yourself that
everything and if you tell yourself that you’re a scared under educated kid from
you’re a scared under educated kid from
you’re a scared under educated kid from Tacoma whose family has never
Tacoma whose family has never
Tacoma whose family has never accomplished anything let me tell you
accomplished anything let me tell you
accomplished anything let me tell you what you will become a scared under
what you will become a scared under
what you will become a scared under educated kid from Tacoma who never
educated kid from Tacoma who never
educated kid from Tacoma who never accomplishes anything because that’s
accomplishes anything because that’s
accomplishes anything because that’s what you believe you tell yourself that
what you believe you tell yourself that
what you believe you tell yourself that story enough and it will become real but
story enough and it will become real but
story enough and it will become real but on the flip side you could tell yourself
on the flip side you could tell yourself
on the flip side you could tell yourself a story of you’re a learner you learn
a story of you’re a learner you learn
a story of you’re a learner you learn faster than most people you’re willing
faster than most people you’re willing
faster than most people you’re willing to put in more work than most people
to put in more work than most people
to put in more work than most people you’re willing to read more books than
you’re willing to read more books than
you’re willing to read more books than most people you’re willing to spend an
most people you’re willing to spend an
most people you’re willing to spend an inhuman amount of time every day
inhuman amount of time every day
inhuman amount of time every day improving your mind simply by getting
improving your mind simply by getting
improving your mind simply by getting new ideas into the system and that you
new ideas into the system and that you
new ideas into the system and that you will admit that you’re wrong faster than
will admit that you’re wrong faster than
will admit that you’re wrong faster than anybody else that you won’t let your ego
anybody else that you won’t let your ego
anybody else that you won’t let your ego get in the way and you tell yourself
get in the way and you tell yourself
get in the way and you tell yourself that story over and over and over so
that story over and over and over so
that story over and over and over so when somebody comes and tells you how
when somebody comes and tells you how
when somebody comes and tells you how stupid you are that you’re just a dumb
stupid you are that you’re just a dumb
stupid you are that you’re just a dumb kid from Tacoma you go you’re right
kid from Tacoma you go you’re right
kid from Tacoma you go you’re right that’s amazing thank you for pointing
that’s amazing thank you for pointing
that’s amazing thank you for pointing out that flaw because now that I’m aware
out that flaw because now that I’m aware
out that flaw because now that I’m aware of it I can improve it because I’m the
of it I can improve it because I’m the
of it I can improve it because I’m the learner and once I switched my narrative
learner and once I switched my narrative
learner and once I switched my narrative to being the learner it didn’t matter
to being the learner it didn’t matter
to being the learner it didn’t matter where I started it only mattered where I
where I started it only mattered where I
where I started it only mattered where I was trying to go and as long as I had
was trying to go and as long as I had
was trying to go and as long as I had that clarity then I could execute
that clarity then I could execute
that clarity then I could execute because I believed I could do anything I
because I believed I could do anything I
because I believed I could do anything I set my mind to without limitation and
set my mind to without limitation and
set my mind to without limitation and then the last one which is maybe a
then the last one which is maybe a
then the last one which is maybe a little bit controversial because I use
little bit controversial because I use
little bit controversial because I use this word to get people’s attention it’s
this word to get people’s attention it’s
this word to get people’s attention it’s all your fault
all your fault
all your fault that what I mean by that is you always
that what I mean by that is you always
that what I mean by that is you always can control the outcome of anything so
can control the outcome of anything so
can control the outcome of anything so the example I give to people do it don’t
the example I give to people do it don’t
the example I give to people do it don’t have time to I give you a horse okay so
have time to I give you a horse okay so
have time to I give you a horse okay so the example I give to people and this is
the example I give to people and this is
the example I give to people and this is something that I do in the interview a
something that I do in the interview a
something that I do in the interview a lot so that people understand how we
lot so that people understand how we
lot so that people understand how we think a quest and if they think it’s
think a quest and if they think it’s
think a quest and if they think it’s crazy I tell them if you think this
crazy I tell them if you think this
crazy I tell them if you think this story is crazy you should turn and run
story is crazy you should turn and run
story is crazy you should turn and run in the opposite direction you will hate
in the opposite direction you will hate
in the opposite direction you will hate it here but if in hearing it like oh my
it here but if in hearing it like oh my
it here but if in hearing it like oh my god I want to be around people who think
god I want to be around people who think
god I want to be around people who think like that then you’ll get us after
like that then you’ll get us after
like that then you’ll get us after hearing this story goes like this my
hearing this story goes like this my
hearing this story goes like this my wife is British that’s actually true
wife is British that’s actually true
wife is British that’s actually true let’s say that she was at home visiting
let’s say that she was at home visiting
let’s say that she was at home visiting her family in London she’s in the bed
her family in London she’s in the bed
her family in London she’s in the bed that she grew up in the doors are locked
that she grew up in the doors are locked
that she grew up in the doors are locked the alarms on her mom’s there she’s safe
the alarms on her mom’s there she’s safe
the alarms on her mom’s there she’s safe and sound right at that moment a
and sound right at that moment a
and sound right at that moment a meteorite comes screaming through the
meteorite comes screaming through the
meteorite comes screaming through the atmosphere crashes into her bedroom and
atmosphere crashes into her bedroom and
atmosphere crashes into her bedroom and kills her whose fault is that now every
kills her whose fault is that now every
kills her whose fault is that now every time I asked that question once people
time I asked that question once people
time I asked that question once people stopped trying to guess at what they
stopped trying to guess at what they
stopped trying to guess at what they think I’m gonna say and they just give
think I’m gonna say and they just give
think I’m gonna say and they just give their answer they say it’s nobody’s
their answer they say it’s nobody’s
their answer they say it’s nobody’s fault divine providence fate force
fault divine providence fate force
fault divine providence fate force majeure dumb blind luck however you want
majeure dumb blind luck however you want
majeure dumb blind luck however you want to sum it up but that and my answer is
to sum it up but that and my answer is
to sum it up but that and my answer is no it’s entirely my fault and the reason
no it’s entirely my fault and the reason
no it’s entirely my fault and the reason it’s my fault is because I know that
it’s my fault is because I know that
it’s my fault is because I know that there’s a group right now the track what
there’s a group right now the track what
there’s a group right now the track what are called near-earth objects that’s
are called near-earth objects that’s
are called near-earth objects that’s very true by the way they’re trying to
very true by the way they’re trying to
very true by the way they’re trying to find some way to knock them off course
find some way to knock them off course
find some way to knock them off course so if it could be something truly
so if it could be something truly
so if it could be something truly dangerous so whether it’s a laser beam a
dangerous so whether it’s a laser beam a
dangerous so whether it’s a laser beam a planted nuclear explosion whatever it is
planted nuclear explosion whatever it is
planted nuclear explosion whatever it is something to bump it off course it
something to bump it off course it
something to bump it off course it doesn’t collide with earth I’ve never
doesn’t collide with earth I’ve never
doesn’t collide with earth I’ve never sent them an email with encouraging
sent them an email with encouraging
sent them an email with encouraging words I’ve never sent them a dime on my
words I’ve never sent them a dime on my
words I’ve never sent them a dime on my money I’ve never called them up to give
money I’ve never called them up to give
money I’ve never called them up to give them any ideas nothing and I know they
them any ideas nothing and I know they
them any ideas nothing and I know they exist now I think that’s smart because
exist now I think that’s smart because
exist now I think that’s smart because the likelihood of my wife being killed
the likelihood of my wife being killed
the likelihood of my wife being killed by a meteorite is very very low I’d be
by a meteorite is very very low I’d be
by a meteorite is very very low I’d be much better off focusing on car safety
much better off focusing on car safety
much better off focusing on car safety or something like that but I choose not
or something like that but I choose not
or something like that but I choose not to contact these people I choose to
to contact these people I choose to
to contact these people I choose to leave my wife at risk of being hit by a
leave my wife at risk of being hit by a
leave my wife at risk of being hit by a meteorite sure so even though I would be
meteorite sure so even though I would be
meteorite sure so even though I would be mortified and sad if it happened I would
mortified and sad if it happened I would
mortified and sad if it happened I would never waste time saying that it wasn’t
never waste time saying that it wasn’t
never waste time saying that it wasn’t my fault because I could have done
my fault because I could have done
my fault because I could have done something and I chose not to yeah that
something and I chose not to yeah that
something and I chose not to yeah that to me is empowering that don’t want
to me is empowering that don’t want
to me is empowering that don’t want people feeling guilty about it you
people feeling guilty about it you
people feeling guilty about it you shouldn’t waste like I wrote an article
shouldn’t waste like I wrote an article
shouldn’t waste like I wrote an article about this one time people like y’all
about this one time people like y’all
about this one time people like y’all you’re you’re blaming the victim and all
you’re you’re blaming the victim and all
you’re you’re blaming the victim and all that stuff and what I’m trying to say is
that stuff and what I’m trying to say is
that stuff and what I’m trying to say is you don’t have to allow yourself to be a
you don’t have to allow yourself to be a
you don’t have to allow yourself to be a victim even if
victim even if
victim even if been victimized right like you can
been victimized right like you can
been victimized right like you can transcend that and you can look back and
transcend that and you can look back and
transcend that and you can look back and go what could I have done differently oh
go what could I have done differently oh
go what could I have done differently oh my gosh I could have done all these
my gosh I could have done all these
my gosh I could have done all these things awesome
things awesome
things awesome I’m now in control again yeah right cuz
I’m now in control again yeah right cuz
I’m now in control again yeah right cuz being victimized is inevitable but being
being victimized is inevitable but being
being victimized is inevitable but being a victim that’s a choice right it’s like
a victim that’s a choice right it’s like
a victim that’s a choice right it’s like pain is inevitable sufferings a choice
pain is inevitable sufferings a choice
pain is inevitable sufferings a choice yeah yeah so once I freed myself from
yeah yeah so once I freed myself from
yeah yeah so once I freed myself from the belief that I couldn’t break out of
the belief that I couldn’t break out of
the belief that I couldn’t break out of certain things like everyone told me oh
certain things like everyone told me oh
certain things like everyone told me oh dude your mom and your sister like
dude your mom and your sister like
dude your mom and your sister like they’ve got to want it keep what kept
they’ve got to want it keep what kept
they’ve got to want it keep what kept saying that they’ve gotta want it
saying that they’ve gotta want it
saying that they’ve gotta want it they’ve got to want to change and I was
they’ve got to want to change and I was
they’ve got to want to change and I was like I reject that because they’re gonna
like I reject that because they’re gonna
like I reject that because they’re gonna die like they clearly don’t want it so
die like they clearly don’t want it so
die like they clearly don’t want it so but I’m not willing to accept that I’m
but I’m not willing to accept that I’m
but I’m not willing to accept that I’m gonna lose these people who I’m I love
gonna lose these people who I’m I love
gonna lose these people who I’m I love so much I’m not willing to accept that
so much I’m not willing to accept that
so much I’m not willing to accept that so I’m gonna acknowledge the human
so I’m gonna acknowledge the human
so I’m gonna acknowledge the human condition which is that they eat for
condition which is that they eat for
condition which is that they eat for pleasure and not for sustenance so I’m
pleasure and not for sustenance so I’m
pleasure and not for sustenance so I’m gonna give him food that they can eat
gonna give him food that they can eat
gonna give him food that they can eat for pleasure that’s good for them yeah
for pleasure that’s good for them yeah
for pleasure that’s good for them yeah my sister’s lost 120 pounds so it works
my sister’s lost 120 pounds so it works
my sister’s lost 120 pounds so it works right and my sister owns that like she
right and my sister owns that like she
right and my sister owns that like she did excuse me she did the hard work like
did excuse me she did the hard work like
did excuse me she did the hard work like she put the grinder
she put the grinder
she put the grinder she should be super proud of herself but
she should be super proud of herself but
she should be super proud of herself but at the end of the day the it was born of
at the end of the day the it was born of
at the end of the day the it was born of me not accepting that she you know that
me not accepting that she you know that
me not accepting that she you know that I had to wait for her to make that a
I had to wait for her to make that a
I had to wait for her to make that a responsibility yeah exactly yeah so just
responsibility yeah exactly yeah so just
responsibility yeah exactly yeah so just paint that – any area of your life
paint that – any area of your life
paint that – any area of your life whether it’s you want success it’s not
whether it’s you want success it’s not
whether it’s you want success it’s not happening as your bosses or whatever no
happening as your bosses or whatever no
happening as your bosses or whatever no your boss may be it but you haven’t
your boss may be it but you haven’t
your boss may be it but you haven’t learned how to persuade to do what you
learned how to persuade to do what you
learned how to persuade to do what you want
want
want right right right which is how I think
right right right which is how I think
right right right which is how I think which is why I say I want to be a Jedi
which is why I say I want to be a Jedi
which is why I say I want to be a Jedi because I want to be able to persuade
because I want to be able to persuade
because I want to be able to persuade people to do things so that I can move
people to do things so that I can move
people to do things so that I can move the ball forward on the big goals that I
the ball forward on the big goals that I
the ball forward on the big goals that I want to accomplish and yeah just own it
want to accomplish and yeah just own it
want to accomplish and yeah just own it you can always change something
thank you guys so much for watching I
thank you guys so much for watching I made this video because Steven Odie
made this video because Steven Odie
made this video because Steven Odie asked me to if there’s a famous
asked me to if there’s a famous
asked me to if there’s a famous entrepreneur that you would like me to
entrepreneur that you would like me to
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I’d also love to know what did you learn
I’d also love to know what did you learn from this video that had the biggest
from this video that had the biggest
from this video that had the biggest impact on you what lesson you’re going
impact on you what lesson you’re going
impact on you what lesson you’re going to take and immediately apply it somehow
to take and immediately apply it somehow
to take and immediately apply it somehow in your life or in your business leave
in your life or in your business leave
in your life or in your business leave in the comments below I’m really curious
in the comments below I’m really curious
in the comments below I’m really curious to find out I also want to give a quick
to find out I also want to give a quick
to find out I also want to give a quick shout out to Jason from HarperCollins
shout out to Jason from HarperCollins
shout out to Jason from HarperCollins Christian publishing Jason thank you so
Christian publishing Jason thank you so
Christian publishing Jason thank you so much for picking up a copy of my book
much for picking up a copy of my book
much for picking up a copy of my book your one word and posting the link in
your one word and posting the link in
your one word and posting the link in the review on your Linkedin I really
the review on your Linkedin I really
the review on your Linkedin I really really appreciate the support Jason and
really appreciate the support Jason and
really appreciate the support Jason and I’m so glad that you enjoyed the book
I’m so glad that you enjoyed the book
I’m so glad that you enjoyed the book thank you guys again for watching I
thank you guys again for watching I
thank you guys again for watching I believe in you hope you continue to
believe in you hope you continue to
believe in you hope you continue to believe in yourself and whatever your
believe in yourself and whatever your
believe in yourself and whatever your one word is much love I’ll see you soon
one word is much love I’ll see you soon
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maybe the most important reason each and
maybe the most important reason each and every one of you should start working
every one of you should start working
every one of you should start working out and it has nothing to do with living
out and it has nothing to do with living
out and it has nothing to do with living longer because we could get hit by a
longer because we could get hit by a
longer because we could get hit by a meteorite who knows so I’m not even
meteorite who knows so I’m not even
meteorite who knows so I’m not even worried about that but I am worried
worried about that but I am worried
worried about that but I am worried about this when you watch your body
about this when you watch your body
about this when you watch your body transform you get the loudest signal
transform you get the loudest signal
transform you get the loudest signal from your subconscious that you can
from your subconscious that you can
from your subconscious that you can change that you can change anything you
change that you can change anything you
change that you can change anything you want that you can change your bicep your
want that you can change your bicep your
want that you can change your bicep your tricep your quad whatever it is you want
tricep your quad whatever it is you want
tricep your quad whatever it is you want something that you literally could not
something that you literally could not
something that you literally could not do the day before you can do today and
do the day before you can do today and
do the day before you can do today and your mind sees that that’s true your
your mind sees that that’s true your
your mind sees that that’s true your mind sees that something you couldn’t
mind sees that something you couldn’t
mind sees that something you couldn’t pick up yesterday you can pick up today
pick up yesterday you can pick up today
pick up yesterday you can pick up today and it begins to ask itself
and it begins to ask itself
and it begins to ask itself well if that’s possible then what else
well if that’s possible then what else
well if that’s possible then what else is possible it’s important to me to have
is possible it’s important to me to have
is possible it’s important to me to have the balls to look at the biggest
the balls to look at the biggest
the balls to look at the biggest problems we face as a society and say
problems we face as a society and say
problems we face as a society and say that’s my problem to solve right obesity
that’s my problem to solve right obesity
that’s my problem to solve right obesity metabolic disease the slide towards ill
metabolic disease the slide towards ill
metabolic disease the slide towards ill health however you want to categorize it
health however you want to categorize it
health however you want to categorize it that’s my problem like I don’t even wake
that’s my problem like I don’t even wake
that’s my problem like I don’t even wake up thinking that’s my business partners
up thinking that’s my business partners
up thinking that’s my business partners problem that’s my problem
problem that’s my problem
problem that’s my problem I’m working with my business partners
I’m working with my business partners
I’m working with my business partners because a very sharp guy yeah but at the
because a very sharp guy yeah but at the
because a very sharp guy yeah but at the end of the day like I own that
end of the day like I own that
end of the day like I own that responsibility and that’s awesome to me
responsibility and that’s awesome to me
responsibility and that’s awesome to me right like having that it isn’t a weight
right like having that it isn’t a weight
right like having that it isn’t a weight that drags me down it’s like this goal
that drags me down it’s like this goal
that drags me down it’s like this goal to chase that’s so big that I’m just
to chase that’s so big that I’m just
to chase that’s so big that I’m just stoked that there are people in the
stoked that there are people in the
stoked that there are people in the world that are prepared to dream that
world that are prepared to dream that
world that are prepared to dream that big like I’m inspired by that in others
big like I’m inspired by that in others
big like I’m inspired by that in others and hopefully can inspire other people
and hopefully can inspire other people
and hopefully can inspire other people with our dream but there is one truth so
with our dream but there is one truth so
with our dream but there is one truth so you have to burn into your nervous
you have to burn into your nervous
you have to burn into your nervous system I can’t remember where I first
system I can’t remember where I first
system I can’t remember where I first heard this but your network is your net
heard this but your network is your net
heard this but your network is your net worth the people that you meet the
worth the people that you meet the
worth the people that you meet the relationships that you cultivate they
relationships that you cultivate they
relationships that you cultivate they are going to be that next phase in your
are going to be that next phase in your
are going to be that next phase in your development they are going to be that
development they are going to be that
development they are going to be that next relationship that next partnership
next relationship that next partnership
next relationship that next partnership that next thing introduction that turns
that next thing introduction that turns
that next thing introduction that turns into some
into some
into some that allows you to scale and grow and
that allows you to scale and grow and
that allows you to scale and grow and get beyond yourself because that is the
get beyond yourself because that is the
get beyond yourself because that is the thing about scaling you will never scale
thing about scaling you will never scale
thing about scaling you will never scale if it’s just you you have no leverage so
if it’s just you you have no leverage so
if it’s just you you have no leverage so you’ve got to meet other people that can
you’ve got to meet other people that can
you’ve got to meet other people that can get the ball rolling that can introduce
get the ball rolling that can introduce
get the ball rolling that can introduce you that can give you that key piece of
you that can give you that key piece of
you that can give you that key piece of information that you need to really go
information that you need to really go
information that you need to really go on and do something so get out there
on and do something so get out there
on and do something so get out there meet people be yourself
meet people be yourself
meet people be yourself let your freak flag fly introduce
let your freak flag fly introduce
let your freak flag fly introduce yourself stance Superman awkwardly next
yourself stance Superman awkwardly next
yourself stance Superman awkwardly next to somebody that you want to meet like I
to somebody that you want to meet like I
to somebody that you want to meet like I did tonight and just say what’s up
did tonight and just say what’s up
did tonight and just say what’s up introduce yourself tell them what you’re
introduce yourself tell them what you’re
introduce yourself tell them what you’re up to and if you want to be interesting
up to and if you want to be interesting
up to and if you want to be interesting be interested ask them find out what
be interested ask them find out what
be interested ask them find out what they’re about find out what makes them
they’re about find out what makes them
they’re about find out what makes them tick
tick
tick that’s the secret that’ll get them
that’s the secret that’ll get them
that’s the secret that’ll get them rolling and then you can see if there’s
rolling and then you can see if there’s
rolling and then you can see if there’s a real connection and if there is from
a real connection and if there is from
a real connection and if there is from that something can build so get out
that something can build so get out
that something can build so get out there
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