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What to do when people DON’T like your story? – Evan & @SKellyCEO


next question comes in from Trudy I’ve

next question comes in from Trudy I’ve been telling my story since 1990 I’ve

been telling my story since 1990 I’ve

been telling my story since 1990 I’ve done a lot of training in the early 90s

done a lot of training in the early 90s

done a lot of training in the early 90s and in my surveys I found eighty percent

and in my surveys I found eighty percent

and in my surveys I found eighty percent liked the fact those using a story to

liked the fact those using a story to

liked the fact those using a story to reinforce something twenty percent did

reinforce something twenty percent did

reinforce something twenty percent did not do you have any advice so most

not do you have any advice so most

not do you have any advice so most people are liking this you worry about

people are liking this you worry about

people are liking this you worry about the other twenty percent he just keep

the other twenty percent he just keep

the other twenty percent he just keep going on the 80 or can the stories be

going on the 80 or can the stories be

going on the 80 or can the stories be better what would you tell Trudy I think

better what would you tell Trudy I think

better what would you tell Trudy I think Trudy I think if you do a few things and

Trudy I think if you do a few things and

Trudy I think if you do a few things and it probably was your story from the

it probably was your story from the

it probably was your story from the nineties around connect in your heart in

nineties around connect in your heart in

nineties around connect in your heart in your head connecting to the audience

your head connecting to the audience

your head connecting to the audience being authentic making years stories

being authentic making years stories

being authentic making years stories super clear you know making it hopefully

super clear you know making it hopefully

super clear you know making it hopefully visual as well you’ve got eighty percent

visual as well you’ve got eighty percent

visual as well you’ve got eighty percent love from your community I’ll kind of go

love from your community I’ll kind of go

love from your community I’ll kind of go after the other twenty percent I’m kind

after the other twenty percent I’m kind

after the other twenty percent I’m kind of water they miss it because eighty

of water they miss it because eighty

of water they miss it because eighty percent connected totally with your

percent connected totally with your

percent connected totally with your story and that I’d say that’s good

story and that I’d say that’s good

story and that I’d say that’s good enough but you can always improve and

enough but you can always improve and

enough but you can always improve and you know actually one of the interesting

you know actually one of the interesting

you know actually one of the interesting thing one of our customer stories from a

thing one of our customer stories from a

thing one of our customer stories from a company up in Oregon deschutes craft

company up in Oregon deschutes craft

company up in Oregon deschutes craft brewery their kind of motto is do you

brewery their kind of motto is do you

brewery their kind of motto is do you best and next time do better now they

best and next time do better now they

best and next time do better now they build a they build a social enterprise

build a they build a social enterprise

build a they build a social enterprise effectiveness business they’re never

effectiveness business they’re never

effectiveness business they’re never going to sell out to a conglomerate so

going to sell out to a conglomerate so

going to sell out to a conglomerate so they are grounded by producing awesome

they are grounded by producing awesome

they are grounded by producing awesome beer and every time they sell a crate of

beer and every time they sell a crate of

beer and every time they sell a crate of beer they basically give a dollar to a

beer they basically give a dollar to a

beer they basically give a dollar to a community charity so they’ve raised I

community charity so they’ve raised I

community charity so they’ve raised I think last year a hundred and fifty

think last year a hundred and fifty

think last year a hundred and fifty thousand dollars in the communities

thousand dollars in the communities

thousand dollars in the communities where they sold the beer but also

where they sold the beer but also

where they sold the beer but also they’ve given every one of their

they’ve given every one of their

they’ve given every one of their employees stock ownership in the company

employees stock ownership in the company

employees stock ownership in the company to make a really clear statement that

to make a really clear statement that

to make a really clear statement that we’re all in this together with

we’re all in this together with

we’re all in this together with following our dreams we’re producing

following our dreams we’re producing

following our dreams we’re producing awesome beer and we’re going to play a

awesome beer and we’re going to play a

awesome beer and we’re going to play a role giving back to the communities so

role giving back to the communities so

role giving back to the communities so with that the reason why I tell you that

with that the reason why I tell you that

with that the reason why I tell you that story is every time they do anything in

story is every time they do anything in

story is every time they do anything in their business they want to make it

their business they want to make it

their business they want to make it better so were those twenty percent that

better so were those twenty percent that

better so were those twenty percent that you left behind why don’t you know in

you left behind why don’t you know in

you left behind why don’t you know in the world of the social media now you

the world of the social media now you

the world of the social media now you could access every one of those

could access every one of those

could access every one of those individuals and find out what is it what

individuals and find out what is it what

individuals and find out what is it what is it they’re missing in terms of the

is it they’re missing in terms of the

is it they’re missing in terms of the connection with your story and and you

connection with your story and and you

connection with your story and and you could get up into the high 90s and

could get up into the high 90s and

could get up into the high 90s and touching a hundred percent I love it i

touching a hundred percent I love it i

touching a hundred percent I love it i love you i love the drive and ambition

love you i love the drive and ambition

love you i love the drive and ambition there yeah i think eighty percent is a

there yeah i think eighty percent is a

there yeah i think eighty percent is a good

good

good number if you’re starting out 80 that

number if you’re starting out 80 that

number if you’re starting out 80 that that’s quality if you’re if you’re

that’s quality if you’re if you’re

that’s quality if you’re if you’re speaking and you’re moving eighty

speaking and you’re moving eighty

speaking and you’re moving eighty percent of the room that’s definitely

percent of the room that’s definitely

percent of the room that’s definitely great start and I would just echo

great start and I would just echo

great start and I would just echo stevens point there to like always try

stevens point there to like always try

stevens point there to like always try to get better it’s a good mark but let’s

to get better it’s a good mark but let’s

to get better it’s a good mark but let’s how do i get to 100 what do i have to do

how do i get to 100 what do i have to do

how do i get to 100 what do i have to do to get there right how can my

to get there right how can my

to get there right how can my storytelling be better whether it’s his

storytelling be better whether it’s his

storytelling be better whether it’s his advice of going out and trying to find

advice of going out and trying to find

advice of going out and trying to find them on social media whether it’s you

them on social media whether it’s you

them on social media whether it’s you know recording your speech back and

know recording your speech back and

know recording your speech back and watch it again and seeing where you

watch it again and seeing where you

watch it again and seeing where you might be able to improve you know doing

might be able to improve you know doing

might be able to improve you know doing surveys over the room trying to find

surveys over the room trying to find

surveys over the room trying to find people who like left the room and ask

people who like left the room and ask

people who like left the room and ask them what happened that can be a tough

them what happened that can be a tough

them what happened that can be a tough pill to swallow like hey why did you

pill to swallow like hey why did you

pill to swallow like hey why did you leave my session we hope it’s the honest

leave my session we hope it’s the honest

leave my session we hope it’s the honest kind of truthful advice that will help

kind of truthful advice that will help

kind of truthful advice that will help you get better and you could do coaching

you get better and you could do coaching

you get better and you could do coaching with other you know professional

with other you know professional

with other you know professional speakers or speeching coaches to give

speakers or speeching coaches to give

speakers or speeching coaches to give you guidance on how your next speech can

you guidance on how your next speech can

you guidance on how your next speech can be better I think if you want to be good

be better I think if you want to be good

be better I think if you want to be good at something then you should want to be

at something then you should want to be

at something then you should want to be great at something and every time you do

great at something and every time you do

great at something and every time you do it you may you may suck at the start but

it you may you may suck at the start but

it you may you may suck at the start but the most important part is that you are

the most important part is that you are

the most important part is that you are better than yesterday and you keep

better than yesterday and you keep

better than yesterday and you keep working on and most people would start

working on and most people would start

working on and most people would start with their stories it’s uncomfortable to

with their stories it’s uncomfortable to

with their stories it’s uncomfortable to start you feel like who wants to learn

start you feel like who wants to learn

start you feel like who wants to learn about me you know and you have to

about me you know and you have to

about me you know and you have to understand that you telling your story

understand that you telling your story

understand that you telling your story isn’t about you it’s not an ego trip for

isn’t about you it’s not an ego trip for

isn’t about you it’s not an ego trip for you it helps the customer connect to you

you it helps the customer connect to you

you it helps the customer connect to you better it’s for them and it’s for your

better it’s for them and it’s for your

better it’s for them and it’s for your business and so the start you will

business and so the start you will

business and so the start you will probably be terrible telling your story

probably be terrible telling your story

probably be terrible telling your story and then every time you do it you’ll get

and then every time you do it you’ll get

and then every time you do it you’ll get better and better and better and better

better and better and better and better

better and better and better and better you move to eighty percent with a nine

you move to eighty percent with a nine

you move to eighty percent with a nine percent hopefully move up to the hundred

percent hopefully move up to the hundred

percent hopefully move up to the hundred percent

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