I created the mentor me series to hang around famous and successful
around famous and successful
around famous and successful entrepreneurs a little bit more and soak
entrepreneurs a little bit more and soak
entrepreneurs a little bit more and soak up some of their energy wisdom and ideas
up some of their energy wisdom and ideas
up some of their energy wisdom and ideas so today we’re going to learn from Tony
so today we’re going to learn from Tony
so today we’re going to learn from Tony Robbins on relationships one of things
Robbins on relationships one of things
Robbins on relationships one of things that we found is we meet couples and
that we found is we meet couples and
that we found is we meet couples and very often people say you guys seem like
very often people say you guys seem like
very often people say you guys seem like you know you’re newlyweds or they’ll ask
you know you’re newlyweds or they’ll ask
you know you’re newlyweds or they’ll ask us did you guys just get married which
us did you guys just get married which
us did you guys just get married which we’re really proud of up to 12 years but
we’re really proud of up to 12 years but
we’re really proud of up to 12 years but it’s not a matter of time that makes
it’s not a matter of time that makes
it’s not a matter of time that makes that difference if you’re single one of
that difference if you’re single one of
that difference if you’re single one of the reasons that people find themself in
the reasons that people find themself in
the reasons that people find themself in a relationship that they’re unhappy with
a relationship that they’re unhappy with
a relationship that they’re unhappy with is they’re filtering today’s
is they’re filtering today’s
is they’re filtering today’s relationship through the past and one of
relationship through the past and one of
relationship through the past and one of the things that we’ve done for anybody
the things that we’ve done for anybody
the things that we’ve done for anybody we’re going to help is get you to clear
we’re going to help is get you to clear
we’re going to help is get you to clear the decks of the paths and step into who
the decks of the paths and step into who
the decks of the paths and step into who you’re with right here and right now
you’re with right here and right now
you’re with right here and right now that can start to create a difference
that can start to create a difference
that can start to create a difference because in the beginning of a
because in the beginning of a
because in the beginning of a relationship what do you look what are
relationship what do you look what are
relationship what do you look what are you willing to do for that person
you willing to do for that person
you willing to do for that person anything right anything whatever it
anything right anything whatever it
anything right anything whatever it takes now after a few months or a few
takes now after a few months or a few
takes now after a few months or a few weeks or a few years all of a sudden
weeks or a few years all of a sudden
weeks or a few years all of a sudden you’re saying you know would you take
you’re saying you know would you take
you’re saying you know would you take out the trash in the beginning you’re
out the trash in the beginning you’re
out the trash in the beginning you’re like whatever you want the trash I’m
like whatever you want the trash I’m
like whatever you want the trash I’m happy to do it for you now it’s like you
happy to do it for you now it’s like you
happy to do it for you now it’s like you know what I look like your janitor so
know what I look like your janitor so
know what I look like your janitor so learning how to be able to create that
learning how to be able to create that
learning how to be able to create that aliveness again and not filter your
aliveness again and not filter your
aliveness again and not filter your partner through an old story is one of
partner through an old story is one of
partner through an old story is one of the most important things you can do to
the most important things you can do to
the most important things you can do to have a passionate relationship I found
have a passionate relationship I found
have a passionate relationship I found in my life for years I had a
in my life for years I had a
in my life for years I had a relationship with some was a great lady
relationship with some was a great lady
relationship with some was a great lady and we had tons of love but very little
and we had tons of love but very little
and we had tons of love but very little passion and I wanted more passion but I
passion and I wanted more passion but I
passion and I wanted more passion but I didn’t understand what the triggers were
didn’t understand what the triggers were
didn’t understand what the triggers were I didn’t understand the differences in
I didn’t understand the differences in
I didn’t understand the differences in values and rules I didn’t know how to
values and rules I didn’t know how to
values and rules I didn’t know how to shift anything nobody teach you this and
shift anything nobody teach you this and
shift anything nobody teach you this and so I’d be in this experience where it’s
so I’d be in this experience where it’s
so I’d be in this experience where it’s like wow you know I remember being on
like wow you know I remember being on
like wow you know I remember being on stage vividly in a room that would have
stage vividly in a room that would have
stage vividly in a room that would have been my my ultimate years before it was
been my my ultimate years before it was
been my my ultimate years before it was the Continental Center in New York City
the Continental Center in New York City
the Continental Center in New York City there were 13,000 people in the room
there were 13,000 people in the room
there were 13,000 people in the room 12,000 something hundred almost 13,000
12,000 something hundred almost 13,000
12,000 something hundred almost 13,000 people and I was doing my gig and we
people and I was doing my gig and we
people and I was doing my gig and we were rocking like what we’re doing here
were rocking like what we’re doing here
were rocking like what we’re doing here with five thousand thousand thirteen
with five thousand thousand thirteen
with five thousand thousand thirteen thousand and we were going full-tilt
thousand and we were going full-tilt
thousand and we were going full-tilt with a level of intensity was
with a level of intensity was
with a level of intensity was unbelievable people are out of their
unbelievable people are out of their
unbelievable people are out of their mind and during one of the stretch
mind and during one of the stretch
mind and during one of the stretch breaks one of my partners came up and
breaks one of my partners came up and
breaks one of my partners came up and told me my company had gone public that
told me my company had gone public that
told me my company had gone public that morning and that’s the morning where my
morning and that’s the morning where my
morning and that’s the morning where my stock Alone’s worth 40 billion dollars
stock Alone’s worth 40 billion dollars
stock Alone’s worth 40 billion dollars so Sony you just made four hundred
so Sony you just made four hundred
so Sony you just made four hundred million dollars this morning while
million dollars this morning while
million dollars this morning while you’re doing what you love I was like
you’re doing what you love I was like
you’re doing what you love I was like good morning
good morning
good morning great morning you know was interesting
great morning you know was interesting
great morning you know was interesting it was really great it was like wow
it was really great it was like wow
it was really great it was like wow that’s wonderful and then what I really
that’s wonderful and then what I really
that’s wonderful and then what I really want to do is get right back into what I
want to do is get right back into what I
want to do is get right back into what I loved it didn’t like it was a cool thing
loved it didn’t like it was a cool thing
loved it didn’t like it was a cool thing but it wasn’t didn’t change my life but
but it wasn’t didn’t change my life but
but it wasn’t didn’t change my life but the biggest thing is the end of it at
the biggest thing is the end of it at
the biggest thing is the end of it at night I’m connecting people high-five
night I’m connecting people high-five
night I’m connecting people high-five and sign and hugging people and it’s
and sign and hugging people and it’s
and sign and hugging people and it’s just a beautiful day and I get home and
just a beautiful day and I get home and
just a beautiful day and I get home and I’d made for two million dollars I’ve
I’d made for two million dollars I’ve
I’d made for two million dollars I’ve been with almost 13,000 people I’d done
been with almost 13,000 people I’d done
been with almost 13,000 people I’d done what I loved I was on fire alive and I
what I loved I was on fire alive and I
what I loved I was on fire alive and I went home and I was miserable because
went home and I was miserable because
went home and I was miserable because when he went home the person I was with
when he went home the person I was with
when he went home the person I was with wanted me be same thing different than
wanted me be same thing different than
wanted me be same thing different than what I was kind of like that’s why I
what I was kind of like that’s why I
what I was kind of like that’s why I understood Sarah may Sarah may was
understood Sarah may Sarah may was
understood Sarah may Sarah may was trying to be something she thinks people
trying to be something she thinks people
trying to be something she thinks people want or people are expecting from her
want or people are expecting from her
want or people are expecting from her but it’s not her so the person I was a
but it’s not her so the person I was a
but it’s not her so the person I was a relationship with when she met me is
relationship with when she met me is
relationship with when she met me is like Scotty he’s unbelievably this
like Scotty he’s unbelievably this
like Scotty he’s unbelievably this powerful force of nature he can shake a
powerful force of nature he can shake a
powerful force of nature he can shake a building with people and move people and
building with people and move people and
building with people and move people and then it was like why are you so proud I
then it was like why are you so proud I
then it was like why are you so proud I was like wow this is me right and so
was like wow this is me right and so
was like wow this is me right and so what I learned to do was be something
what I learned to do was be something
what I learned to do was be something different that I really wasn’t
different that I really wasn’t
different that I really wasn’t and so when you’re being something
and so when you’re being something
and so when you’re being something you’re not you’re miserable who knows
you’re not you’re miserable who knows
you’re not you’re miserable who knows what I’m talking about here say I and
what I’m talking about here say I and
what I’m talking about here say I and I’m such a lover I love people I never
I’m such a lover I love people I never
I’m such a lover I love people I never want somebody not be happy so I would
want somebody not be happy so I would
want somebody not be happy so I would always sacrifice everything try to make
always sacrifice everything try to make
always sacrifice everything try to make somebody happy but by not being who I
somebody happy but by not being who I
somebody happy but by not being who I was there was nothing wrong with her I
was there was nothing wrong with her I
was there was nothing wrong with her I was just miserable cuz I didn’t
was just miserable cuz I didn’t
was just miserable cuz I didn’t understand the game when I finally
understand the game when I finally
understand the game when I finally figured this process out and by the way
figured this process out and by the way
figured this process out and by the way guess how I did it I interviewed people
guess how I did it I interviewed people
guess how I did it I interviewed people I had a couple that was guy was 92
I had a couple that was guy was 92
I had a couple that was guy was 92 woman’s 89 kina my date with destiny
woman’s 89 kina my date with destiny
woman’s 89 kina my date with destiny seminar and these two were physically
seminar and these two were physically
seminar and these two were physically all over each other all the time I mean
all over each other all the time I mean
all over each other all the time I mean so much it was like get a room I mean
so much it was like get a room I mean
so much it was like get a room I mean this is hard to watch right and
this is hard to watch right and
this is hard to watch right and everybody whole seminar notice it so I
everybody whole seminar notice it so I
everybody whole seminar notice it so I finally bottomed on stage and interview
finally bottomed on stage and interview
finally bottomed on stage and interview them
I ship their young punks in their 60s so
I ship their young punks in their 60s so I bring this the eight year old man is
I bring this the eight year old man is
I bring this the eight year old man is 89 year old woman up I said I gotta
89 year old woman up I said I gotta
89 year old woman up I said I gotta interview you guys so I’m interviewing
interview you guys so I’m interviewing
interview you guys so I’m interviewing my set to my so tell me something I said
my set to my so tell me something I said
my set to my so tell me something I said you two seem to not just love each other
you two seem to not just love each other
you two seem to not just love each other you like love each other and they were
you like love each other and they were
you like love each other and they were oh yeah I mean like you’re rather
oh yeah I mean like you’re rather
oh yeah I mean like you’re rather physical aren’t you they said oh yes we
physical aren’t you they said oh yes we
physical aren’t you they said oh yes we love every we love to be together I said
love every we love to be together I said
love every we love to be together I said and you guys have intimate relations oh
and you guys have intimate relations oh
and you guys have intimate relations oh yes every day every day
yes every day every day
yes every day every day sometimes several times a day the woman
sometimes several times a day the woman
sometimes several times a day the woman says no exaggeration and they were so
says no exaggeration and they were so
says no exaggeration and they were so adorable and they were like all of each
adorable and they were like all of each
adorable and they were like all of each other how to get to grab each other
other how to get to grab each other
other how to get to grab each other touch each other I said to him I said
touch each other I said to him I said
touch each other I said to him I said okay there are a lot of people that
okay there are a lot of people that
okay there are a lot of people that think when you’re together 3 4 or 5 10
think when you’re together 3 4 or 5 10
think when you’re together 3 4 or 5 10 years you know there’s nothing new they
years you know there’s nothing new they
years you know there’s nothing new they said nothing new they just aren’t being
said nothing new they just aren’t being
said nothing new they just aren’t being in flexible enough they’re not trying
in flexible enough they’re not trying
in flexible enough they’re not trying new things I said well tell me something
new things I said well tell me something
new things I said well tell me something what’s your belief about like how do you
what’s your belief about like how do you
what’s your belief about like how do you stay intimate shit the woman says when
stay intimate shit the woman says when
stay intimate shit the woman says when you can’t just talk you got a touch and
you can’t just talk you got a touch and
you can’t just talk you got a touch and she said like touch lots of things and
she said like touch lots of things and
she said like touch lots of things and she’s so adorable and so I said so you
she’s so adorable and so I said so you
she’s so adorable and so I said so you guys have this passionate I’m Jana so
guys have this passionate I’m Jana so
guys have this passionate I’m Jana so what’s your belief and he said well we
what’s your belief and he said well we
what’s your belief and he said well we believe that it’s never boring because
believe that it’s never boring because
believe that it’s never boring because we believe there’s nothing ugly between
we believe there’s nothing ugly between
we believe there’s nothing ugly between two people love each other nothing dirty
two people love each other nothing dirty
two people love each other nothing dirty between two people love each other she
between two people love each other she
between two people love each other she said yeah here’s our rule we try
said yeah here’s our rule we try
said yeah here’s our rule we try anything once
anything once
anything once and if we like it we do it again so I
and if we like it we do it again so I
and if we like it we do it again so I spent five years interviewing people
spent five years interviewing people
spent five years interviewing people who’ve been together 20 30 40 50 years
who’ve been together 20 30 40 50 years
who’ve been together 20 30 40 50 years and they don’t just have love their
and they don’t just have love their
and they don’t just have love their passion they’re not hanging out they
passion they’re not hanging out they
passion they’re not hanging out they love each other and it changed the game
love each other and it changed the game
love each other and it changed the game for me and the biggest change in my life
for me and the biggest change in my life
for me and the biggest change in my life I would give up everything in my life
I would give up everything in my life
I would give up everything in my life without a no exaggeration no hyperbole
without a no exaggeration no hyperbole
without a no exaggeration no hyperbole everything I’ve ever learned if they
everything I’ve ever learned if they
everything I’ve ever learned if they never have done for the relationship I
never have done for the relationship I
never have done for the relationship I have with my sage she has been the great
have with my sage she has been the great
have with my sage she has been the great I died for this woman no exaggeration
I died for this woman no exaggeration
I died for this woman no exaggeration but I couldn’t have gotten to that place
but I couldn’t have gotten to that place
but I couldn’t have gotten to that place if I hadn’t been through all those other
if I hadn’t been through all those other
if I hadn’t been through all those other places first and the gift that I’ve got
places first and the gift that I’ve got
places first and the gift that I’ve got in that area is a gift you deserve and
in that area is a gift you deserve and
in that area is a gift you deserve and anybody can have it you could be with
anybody can have it you could be with
anybody can have it you could be with somebody together for 10 years and you
somebody together for 10 years and you
somebody together for 10 years and you could
could
could night it cuz she just to know the
night it cuz she just to know the
night it cuz she just to know the triggers or some of you may find that
triggers or some of you may find that
triggers or some of you may find that you’re in a relationship where
you’re in a relationship where
you’re in a relationship where truthfully you are nothing in common
truthfully you are nothing in common
truthfully you are nothing in common you’re just scared shitless to end it
you’re just scared shitless to end it
you’re just scared shitless to end it because you’re afraid of being alone but
because you’re afraid of being alone but
because you’re afraid of being alone but there’s a way to do this in a way where
there’s a way to do this in a way where
there’s a way to do this in a way where things can be ah elegant but you can be
things can be ah elegant but you can be
things can be ah elegant but you can be free and you can bring to your life what
free and you can bring to your life what
free and you can bring to your life what you deserve
you deserve
you deserve I tell people one thing if you’re not
I tell people one thing if you’re not
I tell people one thing if you’re not happy in your intimate relationship
happy in your intimate relationship
happy in your intimate relationship you’re not stabbing because I don’t give
you’re not stabbing because I don’t give
you’re not stabbing because I don’t give it how hard you work I don’t care how
it how hard you work I don’t care how
it how hard you work I don’t care how much money you make any troubles you get
much money you make any troubles you get
much money you make any troubles you get in the end if you don’t have that
in the end if you don’t have that
in the end if you don’t have that aliveness and passion a part of you is
aliveness and passion a part of you is
aliveness and passion a part of you is dead inside it’s one thing your
dead inside it’s one thing your
dead inside it’s one thing your strategies to know how to fix things but
strategies to know how to fix things but
strategies to know how to fix things but oftentimes you don’t apply what you know
oftentimes you don’t apply what you know
oftentimes you don’t apply what you know because you got a story about your
because you got a story about your
because you got a story about your relationship a story about your part but
relationship a story about your part but
relationship a story about your part but they don’t really care you know you got
they don’t really care you know you got
they don’t really care you know you got frustrations or pains or disappointments
frustrations or pains or disappointments
frustrations or pains or disappointments that got interpreted in the past and now
that got interpreted in the past and now
that got interpreted in the past and now you’re generalizing about your partner
you’re generalizing about your partner
you’re generalizing about your partner whenever we generalize about anybody we
whenever we generalize about anybody we
whenever we generalize about anybody we do them a disservice in ourselves as
do them a disservice in ourselves as
do them a disservice in ourselves as well so maybe this week during
well so maybe this week during
well so maybe this week during Valentine’s week it’s maybe discover
Valentine’s week it’s maybe discover
Valentine’s week it’s maybe discover what are the empowering stories about
what are the empowering stories about
what are the empowering stories about your relationship if you ask a couple
your relationship if you ask a couple
your relationship if you ask a couple how did you meet they talk about it with
how did you meet they talk about it with
how did you meet they talk about it with such passion excitement you know the
such passion excitement you know the
such passion excitement you know the relationships still alive if they go
relationships still alive if they go
relationships still alive if they go yeah we met you know this is what
yeah we met you know this is what
yeah we met you know this is what happened and we bumped into each other
happened and we bumped into each other
happened and we bumped into each other there’s no energy for it even the story
there’s no energy for it even the story
there’s no energy for it even the story of how you met affects you so probably
of how you met affects you so probably
of how you met affects you so probably this week Mike you might want to take a
this week Mike you might want to take a
this week Mike you might want to take a look at the stories that you tell about
look at the stories that you tell about
look at the stories that you tell about your partner to yourself to your friends
your partner to yourself to your friends
your partner to yourself to your friends to your partner
to your partner
to your partner because we start to believe our stories
because we start to believe our stories
because we start to believe our stories and I always tell people want to change
and I always tell people want to change
and I always tell people want to change your life change your story divorce the
your life change your story divorce the
your life change your story divorce the story of how your partner is not enough
story of how your partner is not enough
story of how your partner is not enough or you’ll never find the partner you
or you’ll never find the partner you
or you’ll never find the partner you want if you’re single or the good ones
want if you’re single or the good ones
want if you’re single or the good ones are gone whatever stopping you from
are gone whatever stopping you from
are gone whatever stopping you from getting what you want in a relationship
getting what you want in a relationship
getting what you want in a relationship there’s a story about it you can uncover
there’s a story about it you can uncover
there’s a story about it you can uncover it you can get rid of it divorce your
it you can get rid of it divorce your
it you can get rid of it divorce your story and marry the truth the truth is
story and marry the truth the truth is
story and marry the truth the truth is always something empower you much more
always something empower you much more
always something empower you much more and that truth of that magnification
and that truth of that magnification
and that truth of that magnification remembering it’s like one of the gifts
remembering it’s like one of the gifts
remembering it’s like one of the gifts that we give each other especially
that we give each other especially
that we give each other especially actually at a time like this like
actually at a time like this like
actually at a time like this like Valentine’s week is actually reliving
Valentine’s week is actually reliving
Valentine’s week is actually reliving those moments you know reliving the
those moments you know reliving the
those moments you know reliving the magic and appreciate
magic and appreciate
magic and appreciate the magic and it’s just I don’t know it
the magic and it’s just I don’t know it
the magic and it’s just I don’t know it infuses into your life rather than
infuses into your life rather than
infuses into your life rather than looking and letting those stacking stack
looking and letting those stacking stack
looking and letting those stacking stack up for you become frustrations and the
up for you become frustrations and the
up for you become frustrations and the story knowing that this man I was born
story knowing that this man I was born
story knowing that this man I was born to love this man story and God gifted me
to love this man story and God gifted me
to love this man story and God gifted me for all that a good done with millions
for all that a good done with millions
for all that a good done with millions of people the good I’ve done this has
of people the good I’ve done this has
of people the good I’ve done this has been the gift of my life I got into that
been the gift of my life I got into that
been the gift of my life I got into that I believe that’s my positive karma
I believe that’s my positive karma
I believe that’s my positive karma that’s the core story I believe about
that’s the core story I believe about
that’s the core story I believe about this woman and that produces on a love
this woman and that produces on a love
this woman and that produces on a love and a commitment and a devotion to each
and a commitment and a devotion to each
and a commitment and a devotion to each other that gets through any of the other
other that gets through any of the other
other that gets through any of the other BS that shows up when you get caught up
BS that shows up when you get caught up
BS that shows up when you get caught up in the daily stresses of things so
in the daily stresses of things so
in the daily stresses of things so rewrite your story what is your love
rewrite your story what is your love
rewrite your story what is your love affair and who are you for the one that
affair and who are you for the one that
affair and who are you for the one that you love and if you’re single it’s time
you love and if you’re single it’s time
you love and if you’re single it’s time to rewrite the story of who you are and
to rewrite the story of who you are and
to rewrite the story of who you are and the one that you’re going to track
the one that you’re going to track
the one that you’re going to track because whenever we focus on wherever we
because whenever we focus on wherever we
because whenever we focus on wherever we all know whatever energy go wherever
all know whatever energy go wherever
all know whatever energy go wherever focus goes energy flows so your story
focus goes energy flows so your story
focus goes energy flows so your story controls the energy of your life if you
controls the energy of your life if you
controls the energy of your life if you think all the good ones are gone its
think all the good ones are gone its
think all the good ones are gone its self-fulfilling you know if you’re
self-fulfilling you know if you’re
self-fulfilling you know if you’re overweight and hard losing weight the
overweight and hard losing weight the
overweight and hard losing weight the strategies are there but you’re not
strategies are there but you’re not
strategies are there but you’re not doing it cuz you go I’ve tried
doing it cuz you go I’ve tried
doing it cuz you go I’ve tried everything you haven’t tried everything
everything you haven’t tried everything
everything you haven’t tried everything not all the good ones are gone and your
not all the good ones are gone and your
not all the good ones are gone and your partner who’s right with you if there
partner who’s right with you if there
partner who’s right with you if there was ever a passion that passion can be
was ever a passion that passion can be
was ever a passion that passion can be brought back to life with the right
brought back to life with the right
brought back to life with the right strategies but first you got about the
strategies but first you got about the
strategies but first you got about the story that says again what really is
story that says again what really is
story that says again what really is important though is if you consistently
important though is if you consistently
important though is if you consistently feel like there’s a loss of attraction
feel like there’s a loss of attraction
feel like there’s a loss of attraction in the relationship it changes your
in the relationship it changes your
in the relationship it changes your filter on each other’s behaviors and it
filter on each other’s behaviors and it
filter on each other’s behaviors and it goes to the second stressor now all of a
goes to the second stressor now all of a
goes to the second stressor now all of a sudden with a loss of attraction there’s
sudden with a loss of attraction there’s
sudden with a loss of attraction there’s an increase in irritation there’s a
an increase in irritation there’s a
an increase in irritation there’s a mutation yeah people start to get very
mutation yeah people start to get very
mutation yeah people start to get very often where they get emotionally stacked
often where they get emotionally stacked
often where they get emotionally stacked like little things start to bug them in
like little things start to bug them in
like little things start to bug them in a worst case they get to stonewalling so
a worst case they get to stonewalling so
a worst case they get to stonewalling so we’ll give you an example there’s four
we’ll give you an example there’s four
we’ll give you an example there’s four R’s that we talk about that actually
R’s that we talk about that actually
R’s that we talk about that actually this came out of a couple of our friends
this came out of a couple of our friends
this came out of a couple of our friends or both relationship experts who got
or both relationship experts who got
or both relationship experts who got divorced but they learned from that
divorced but they learned from that
divorced but they learned from that experience and I both were trying to
experience and I both were trying to
experience and I both were trying to figure out what destroyed the
figure out what destroyed the
figure out what destroyed the relationship and they’re sharing onus
relationship and they’re sharing onus
relationship and they’re sharing onus and I said well the first thing is
and I said well the first thing is
and I said well the first thing is there’s that initial resistance you know
there’s that initial resistance you know
there’s that initial resistance you know where somebody says something or
where somebody says something or
where somebody says something or somebody does something your partner
somebody does something your partner
somebody does something your partner does it you’re like oh you know wish
does it you’re like oh you know wish
does it you’re like oh you know wish they wouldn’t do that but you don’t say
they wouldn’t do that but you don’t say
they wouldn’t do that but you don’t say anything you know you know it’s not
anything you know you know it’s not
anything you know you know it’s not to say anything about that big a deal
to say anything about that big a deal
to say anything about that big a deal but if you don’t deal the resistance
but if you don’t deal the resistance
but if you don’t deal the resistance level and you don’t always call it
level and you don’t always call it
level and you don’t always call it speaking in spoken if you don’t speak
speaking in spoken if you don’t speak
speaking in spoken if you don’t speak the unspoken and you don’t speak that
the unspoken and you don’t speak that
the unspoken and you don’t speak that resistance then that resistance becomes
resistance then that resistance becomes
resistance then that resistance becomes the next and it becomes a little bit
the next and it becomes a little bit
the next and it becomes a little bit deeper which is the resentment and all
deeper which is the resentment and all
deeper which is the resentment and all of these unspoken zin the anchors and
of these unspoken zin the anchors and
of these unspoken zin the anchors and the stacking z’ they all go deeper yeah
the stacking z’ they all go deeper yeah
the stacking z’ they all go deeper yeah and what happens when it starts to
and what happens when it starts to
and what happens when it starts to become a resentment the way you kind of
become a resentment the way you kind of
become a resentment the way you kind of know that is you start going why does he
know that is you start going why does he
know that is you start going why does he or whether she always have to tell that
or whether she always have to tell that
or whether she always have to tell that story or you know why is he always late
story or you know why is he always late
story or you know why is he always late or she always later why do we have to go
or she always later why do we have to go
or she always later why do we have to go through this but you still don’t
through this but you still don’t
through this but you still don’t necessarily say much of that and you
necessarily say much of that and you
necessarily say much of that and you feel anymore sometimes you just wake up
feel anymore sometimes you just wake up
feel anymore sometimes you just wake up in the morning feel a charge and you
in the morning feel a charge and you
in the morning feel a charge and you don’t even know where it came from
don’t even know where it came from
don’t even know where it came from that’s just that built up what it was
that’s just that built up what it was
that’s just that built up what it was resistance is that you didn’t do well no
resistance is that you didn’t do well no
resistance is that you didn’t do well no by the way the resistance is may have
by the way the resistance is may have
by the way the resistance is may have just been your stuff but the fact that
just been your stuff but the fact that
just been your stuff but the fact that you didn’t come and say gosh honey I and
you didn’t come and say gosh honey I and
you didn’t come and say gosh honey I and those my stuff but I was gonna react
those my stuff but I was gonna react
those my stuff but I was gonna react this thing it’s not you but I just want
this thing it’s not you but I just want
this thing it’s not you but I just want to tell you I got a shift this or would
to tell you I got a shift this or would
to tell you I got a shift this or would you help me with this if you just talk
you help me with this if you just talk
you help me with this if you just talk about it’s different but I don’t that
about it’s different but I don’t that
about it’s different but I don’t that resistance turns in a resentment if that
resistance turns in a resentment if that
resistance turns in a resentment if that resentment isn’t dealt with it starts to
resentment isn’t dealt with it starts to
resentment isn’t dealt with it starts to show up as rejection that’s when
show up as rejection that’s when
show up as rejection that’s when somebody starts going why do you always
somebody starts going why do you always
somebody starts going why do you always do that or they you know when you
do that or they you know when you
do that or they you know when you overreact to somebody you’re not
overreact to somebody you’re not
overreact to somebody you’re not reacting to this moment you’re reacting
reacting to this moment you’re reacting
reacting to this moment you’re reacting the fact that happened again in your
the fact that happened again in your
the fact that happened again in your mind and so people by the way when you
mind and so people by the way when you
mind and so people by the way when you start rejecting them or being really
start rejecting them or being really
start rejecting them or being really overly harsh they don’t know why you’re
overly harsh they don’t know why you’re
overly harsh they don’t know why you’re doing this and so then they feel really
doing this and so then they feel really
doing this and so then they feel really wounded they tend to then reject you
wounded they tend to then reject you
wounded they tend to then reject you back and it spirals it is very easy 8
back and it spirals it is very easy 8
back and it spirals it is very easy 8 that happens or the rejection of general
that happens or the rejection of general
that happens or the rejection of general I’m out of here and you know Pete in
I’m out of here and you know Pete in
I’m out of here and you know Pete in that space there’s words that are spoken
that space there’s words that are spoken
that space there’s words that are spoken that it’s just there’s that emotional
that it’s just there’s that emotional
that it’s just there’s that emotional charge now we’re getting in deeper in
charge now we’re getting in deeper in
charge now we’re getting in deeper in you’re getting a level with a level of
you’re getting a level with a level of
you’re getting a level with a level of charge and honestly toxicity in the
charge and honestly toxicity in the
charge and honestly toxicity in the relationship that you don’t want and we
relationship that you don’t want and we
relationship that you don’t want and we so stay in our relationship just with
so stay in our relationship just with
so stay in our relationship just with these once again it’s the awareness and
these once again it’s the awareness and
these once again it’s the awareness and once you have this awareness you can see
once you have this awareness you can see
once you have this awareness you can see where you are it’s like to know and feel
where you are it’s like to know and feel
where you are it’s like to know and feel and resistance right now that you can
and resistance right now that you can
and resistance right now that you can speak that unspoken and you don’t get to
speak that unspoken and you don’t get to
speak that unspoken and you don’t get to level 3 and for my girls not difficulty
level 3 and for my girls not difficulty
level 3 and for my girls not difficulty expressing her resistance
expressing her resistance
expressing her resistance but the great thing seriously is we both
but the great thing seriously is we both
but the great thing seriously is we both tease we have diesel play fights where
tease we have diesel play fights where
tease we have diesel play fights where she’ll sing it on here during the mill
she’ll sing it on here during the mill
she’ll sing it on here during the mill okay right now or I’ll do the same thing
okay right now or I’ll do the same thing
okay right now or I’ll do the same thing with her but we do it not from a harsh
with her but we do it not from a harsh
with her but we do it not from a harsh exactly yeah and then it gets the energy
exactly yeah and then it gets the energy
exactly yeah and then it gets the energy out and then you don’t build it up so
out and then you don’t build it up so
out and then you don’t build it up so there is a fourth level but we’re out of
there is a fourth level but we’re out of
there is a fourth level but we’re out of time
time
time so we’ll see you tomorrow seriously
so we’ll see you tomorrow seriously
so we’ll see you tomorrow seriously finished there is when you get to a
finished there is when you get to a
finished there is when you get to a place where now you’re oppressing in
place where now you’re oppressing in
place where now you’re oppressing in other words resistance grew to
other words resistance grew to
other words resistance grew to resentment resentment got yourself to a
resentment resentment got yourself to a
resentment resentment got yourself to a point of rejection where you’re kind of
point of rejection where you’re kind of
point of rejection where you’re kind of being harsh with each other some people
being harsh with each other some people
being harsh with each other some people get targetting harsh with each other and
get targetting harsh with each other and
get targetting harsh with each other and they just surrender they’re just numb
they just surrender they’re just numb
they just surrender they’re just numb that’s right they go into what we call
that’s right they go into what we call
that’s right they go into what we call learned helplessness where it’s just
learned helplessness where it’s just
learned helplessness where it’s just like not gonna get any better so it is
like not gonna get any better so it is
like not gonna get any better so it is and those times very often when other
and those times very often when other
and those times very often when other couples meet them they’ll say oh those
couples meet them they’ll say oh those
couples meet them they’ll say oh those guys are best friends great you’re
guys are best friends great you’re
guys are best friends great you’re neutral I can never be never fight
neutral I can never be never fight
neutral I can never be never fight that’s the first thing they never the
that’s the first thing they never the
that’s the first thing they never the fact they never bites a little clue
fact they never bites a little clue
fact they never bites a little clue right benign because what they do is
right benign because what they do is
right benign because what they do is they lower their expectation for the
they lower their expectation for the
they lower their expectation for the relationship and they start filling up
relationship and they start filling up
relationship and they start filling up through their work or through their kids
through their work or through their kids
through their work or through their kids or through shopping after something else
or through shopping after something else
or through shopping after something else and what happens that relationship is
and what happens that relationship is
and what happens that relationship is it’s really dead um or maybe it’s a
it’s really dead um or maybe it’s a
it’s really dead um or maybe it’s a decent friendship but you’ll be friends
decent friendship but you’ll be friends
decent friendship but you’ll be friends with anybody again you can’t be intimate
with anybody again you can’t be intimate
with anybody again you can’t be intimate with anybody so we’re this our whole
with anybody so we’re this our whole
with anybody so we’re this our whole thing is about love and passion not
thing is about love and passion not
thing is about love and passion not settling for one or the other I’ve taken
settling for one or the other I’ve taken
settling for one or the other I’ve taken it up a notch and so breaking the
it up a notch and so breaking the
it up a notch and so breaking the pattern these four R’s is really
pattern these four R’s is really
pattern these four R’s is really critical if you want to change a
critical if you want to change a
critical if you want to change a relationship the number one thing you
relationship the number one thing you
relationship the number one thing you have to do is master your own emotions
have to do is master your own emotions
have to do is master your own emotions if you don’t do that forget it
if you don’t do that forget it
if you don’t do that forget it there’s no hope and what’s wonderful
there’s no hope and what’s wonderful
there’s no hope and what’s wonderful though is it’s easy to do if you know
though is it’s easy to do if you know
though is it’s easy to do if you know how but none of us have been taught
how but none of us have been taught
how but none of us have been taught really emotional leadership emotional
really emotional leadership emotional
really emotional leadership emotional management is a very minimum much less
management is a very minimum much less
management is a very minimum much less how to direct and shape ourselves I
how to direct and shape ourselves I
how to direct and shape ourselves I don’t mean faking your emotions and I
don’t mean faking your emotions and I
don’t mean faking your emotions and I mean pushing them down I don’t believe
mean pushing them down I don’t believe
mean pushing them down I don’t believe in positive thinking although you may
in positive thinking although you may
in positive thinking although you may think that from watching you know some
think that from watching you know some
think that from watching you know some of the media coverage I’m not into
of the media coverage I’m not into
of the media coverage I’m not into positive thinking I’m not here tonight
positive thinking I’m not here tonight
positive thinking I’m not here tonight to tell you to go to your garden and say
to tell you to go to your garden and say
to tell you to go to your garden and say there’s no weeds there’s no leads
there’s no weeds there’s no leads
there’s no weeds there’s no leads there’s no leads there’s no leads
there’s no leads there’s no leads
there’s no leads there’s no leads now I’m very clear that I believe that
now I’m very clear that I believe that
now I’m very clear that I believe that life is about leadership and being
life is about leadership and being
life is about leadership and being truthful to yourself and so I believe
truthful to yourself and so I believe
truthful to yourself and so I believe number one that the mandate for any
number one that the mandate for any
number one that the mandate for any great relationship a mandate for anybody
great relationship a mandate for anybody
great relationship a mandate for anybody to lead their own life and not be a
to lead their own life and not be a
to lead their own life and not be a followers you got to see things as they
followers you got to see things as they
followers you got to see things as they are but not worse than they are because
are but not worse than they are because
are but not worse than they are because that’s where most people go that’s where
that’s where most people go that’s where
that’s where most people go that’s where they go on relationship that’s why they
they go on relationship that’s why they
they go on relationship that’s why they start to tear it down that’s why the
start to tear it down that’s why the
start to tear it down that’s why the relationship starts to break down
relationship starts to break down
relationship starts to break down because people get scared when isn’t
because people get scared when isn’t
because people get scared when isn’t working out and then they make it worse
working out and then they make it worse
working out and then they make it worse than it is so they don’t have to try
than it is so they don’t have to try
than it is so they don’t have to try because they don’t want to try again and
because they don’t want to try again and
because they don’t want to try again and be disappointed they don’t want to feel
be disappointed they don’t want to feel
be disappointed they don’t want to feel that sense of rejection they don’t want
that sense of rejection they don’t want
that sense of rejection they don’t want to feel that sense of failure so most
to feel that sense of failure so most
to feel that sense of failure so most people make it much worse than it is
people make it much worse than it is
people make it much worse than it is people tell me all the time oh I’m
people tell me all the time oh I’m
people tell me all the time oh I’m skeptical or I’m pessimistic I said no
skeptical or I’m pessimistic I said no
skeptical or I’m pessimistic I said no no you’re gutless
no you’re gutless
no you’re gutless it takes no guts it takes no courage to
it takes no guts it takes no courage to
it takes no guts it takes no courage to be a pessimist to say it’s not going to
be a pessimist to say it’s not going to
be a pessimist to say it’s not going to work to try to find out what’s wrong
work to try to find out what’s wrong
work to try to find out what’s wrong what’s wrong is always available so
what’s wrong is always available so
what’s wrong is always available so what’s right so I’m not into positive
what’s right so I’m not into positive
what’s right so I’m not into positive thinking but I am into intelligence and
thinking but I am into intelligence and
thinking but I am into intelligence and intelligence says see it as it is don’t
intelligence says see it as it is don’t
intelligence says see it as it is don’t make it worse than it is
make it worse than it is
make it worse than it is maybe you’ve all time say um my problem
maybe you’ve all time say um my problem
maybe you’ve all time say um my problem is I’m big bone no you’re freaking fat
is I’m big bone no you’re freaking fat
is I’m big bone no you’re freaking fat tell the truth you know what is this big
tell the truth you know what is this big
tell the truth you know what is this big bone story you know the only way it gets
bone story you know the only way it gets
bone story you know the only way it gets better is if you can see out it is don’t
better is if you can see out it is don’t
better is if you can see out it is don’t make it worse than it is don’t try make
make it worse than it is don’t try make
make it worse than it is don’t try make it so it’s impossible to change that’s
it so it’s impossible to change that’s
it so it’s impossible to change that’s not true not true at all the second
not true not true at all the second
not true not true at all the second mandate I think to changing anything in
mandate I think to changing anything in
mandate I think to changing anything in your life to believe in your life is
your life to believe in your life is
your life to believe in your life is once you see it as it is not worse it is
once you see it as it is not worse it is
once you see it as it is not worse it is then you got to see it better than it it
then you got to see it better than it it
then you got to see it better than it it because that’s the thing it’s missing
because that’s the thing it’s missing
because that’s the thing it’s missing for most relationships there’s no vision
for most relationships there’s no vision
for most relationships there’s no vision I mean without a vision in a bible it
I mean without a vision in a bible it
I mean without a vision in a bible it says people what parish and what a
says people what parish and what a
says people what parish and what a relationship has no vision for greater
relationship has no vision for greater
relationship has no vision for greater than where they are that relationship is
than where they are that relationship is
than where they are that relationship is going downhill if not destroyed
going downhill if not destroyed
going downhill if not destroyed I believe that every relationship every
I believe that every relationship every
I believe that every relationship every part of life every part of a human being
part of life every part of a human being
part of life every part of a human being needs a compelling future if the future
needs a compelling future if the future
needs a compelling future if the future is not more compelling than today today
is not more compelling than today today
is not more compelling than today today could be tough one of the future is
could be tough one of the future is
could be tough one of the future is compelling we can get there and that’s
compelling we can get there and that’s
compelling we can get there and that’s what every leader does and every one of
what every leader does and every one of
what every leader does and every one of you in this room and I know some of you
you in this room and I know some of you
you in this room and I know some of you are here I guess from the general public
are here I guess from the general public
are here I guess from the general public as well just for your own relationships
as well just for your own relationships
as well just for your own relationships I really acknowledge you for but I know
I really acknowledge you for but I know
I really acknowledge you for but I know that you’re from the military here and
that you’re from the military here and
that you’re from the military here and all the therapist here people from all
all the therapist here people from all
all the therapist here people from all walks of life you’re all leaders what’s
walks of life you’re all leaders what’s
walks of life you’re all leaders what’s your job to lead your job is to help
your job to lead your job is to help
your job to lead your job is to help people see it as it is not worse than it
people see it as it is not worse than it
people see it as it is not worse than it is what’s your job help them create a
is what’s your job help them create a
is what’s your job help them create a compelling future see it better than it
compelling future see it better than it
compelling future see it better than it is so there’s a reason
is so there’s a reason
is so there’s a reason give my all again otherwise there’s just
give my all again otherwise there’s just
give my all again otherwise there’s just no juice there’s no energy why they’ll
no juice there’s no energy why they’ll
no juice there’s no energy why they’ll go through the motions complain with
go through the motions complain with
go through the motions complain with each other not really believe it’s going
each other not really believe it’s going
each other not really believe it’s going to work and nothing will change and then
to work and nothing will change and then
to work and nothing will change and then finally the third step that we’ve all
finally the third step that we’ve all
finally the third step that we’ve all got to do if we’re going to change our
got to do if we’re going to change our
got to do if we’re going to change our life or anybody else’s is make it the
life or anybody else’s is make it the
life or anybody else’s is make it the way we see it and that’s where strategy
way we see it and that’s where strategy
way we see it and that’s where strategy comes in I try to take things that are
comes in I try to take things that are
comes in I try to take things that are complex and make them as simple as
complex and make them as simple as
complex and make them as simple as possible I’ve noticed most people it’s
possible I’ve noticed most people it’s
possible I’ve noticed most people it’s like logic where I’ll try to make it as
like logic where I’ll try to make it as
like logic where I’ll try to make it as complex as humanly possible because it
complex as humanly possible because it
complex as humanly possible because it makes us feel so sophisticated we can
makes us feel so sophisticated we can
makes us feel so sophisticated we can talk with all these complex words and
talk with all these complex words and
talk with all these complex words and elements and so forth we can really you
elements and so forth we can really you
elements and so forth we can really you know we got our degrees I mean we’re
know we got our degrees I mean we’re
know we got our degrees I mean we’re somebody but you know what that doesn’t
somebody but you know what that doesn’t
somebody but you know what that doesn’t help anybody so I look for a nickle word
help anybody so I look for a nickle word
help anybody so I look for a nickle word to get to the cart of something I’m
to get to the cart of something I’m
to get to the cart of something I’m trying to take something complex to make
trying to take something complex to make
trying to take something complex to make it simple so that people really will
it simple so that people really will
it simple so that people really will apply it the most important part of
apply it the most important part of
apply it the most important part of relationship is the state direct we
relationship is the state direct we
relationship is the state direct we always call it the State of the Union
always call it the State of the Union
always call it the State of the Union uh-huh you know what’s the State of the
uh-huh you know what’s the State of the
uh-huh you know what’s the State of the Union if two people independent each
Union if two people independent each
Union if two people independent each other are in peak States about things in
other are in peak States about things in
other are in peak States about things in their business their life their career
their business their life their career
their business their life their career and they meet together it’s a great
and they meet together it’s a great
and they meet together it’s a great relationship if they’re both in kind of
relationship if they’re both in kind of
relationship if they’re both in kind of a soso state eventually relationships
a soso state eventually relationships
a soso state eventually relationships are so if they’re both in a crappy state
are so if they’re both in a crappy state
are so if they’re both in a crappy state reason it’s a crappy relationship what
reason it’s a crappy relationship what
reason it’s a crappy relationship what people want is when we need somebody we
people want is when we need somebody we
people want is when we need somebody we could attract to them because they
could attract to them because they
could attract to them because they change our state that changed the way we
change our state that changed the way we
change our state that changed the way we feel we get excited want to be with them
feel we get excited want to be with them
feel we get excited want to be with them are you being are you putting yourself
are you being are you putting yourself
are you being are you putting yourself in a state when you’re with the partner
in a state when you’re with the partner
in a state when you’re with the partner of your life or the person you want to
of your life or the person you want to
of your life or the person you want to attract are you really in the state that
attract are you really in the state that
attract are you really in the state that would want them make them want to be
would want them make them want to be
would want them make them want to be with you like they would be in the
with you like they would be in the
with you like they would be in the beginning you know most people are
beginning you know most people are
beginning you know most people are noticing what the other person isn’t
noticing what the other person isn’t
noticing what the other person isn’t doing but the most important thing is
doing but the most important thing is
doing but the most important thing is you’re going to interpret your partner
you’re going to interpret your partner
you’re going to interpret your partner and really negative ways when you’re in
and really negative ways when you’re in
and really negative ways when you’re in a lousy state giver been mad at somebody
a lousy state giver been mad at somebody
a lousy state giver been mad at somebody about something and you found out later
about something and you found out later
about something and you found out later on you were wrong with just the state
on you were wrong with just the state
on you were wrong with just the state you’re in so we have so many tools for
you’re in so we have so many tools for
you’re in so we have so many tools for changing state and we work at it
changing state and we work at it
changing state and we work at it wicked tuna I’m giggling about this one
wicked tuna I’m giggling about this one
wicked tuna I’m giggling about this one because Dave my husband always says are
because Dave my husband always says are
because Dave my husband always says are the most loving human being on the
the most loving human being on the
the most loving human being on the planet until I don’t eat then he calls
planet until I don’t eat then he calls
planet until I don’t eat then he calls me Godzilla uh-huh so far we were dead
me Godzilla uh-huh so far we were dead
me Godzilla uh-huh so far we were dead from a state perspective be aware
from a state perspective be aware
from a state perspective be aware sometimes truthfully we will even if
sometimes truthfully we will even if
sometimes truthfully we will even if there’s a stacking or we have a
there’s a stacking or we have a
there’s a stacking or we have a frustration we will literally it’s like
frustration we will literally it’s like
frustration we will literally it’s like you know what we need to change our
you know what we need to change our
you know what we need to change our state we’ll go drink some water we’ll
state we’ll go drink some water we’ll
state we’ll go drink some water we’ll eat something just taking a breath from
eat something just taking a breath from
eat something just taking a breath from what’s happening in that moment so it
what’s happening in that moment so it
what’s happening in that moment so it allows your physiology to change so
allows your physiology to change so
allows your physiology to change so you’re not like bringing that to the
you’re not like bringing that to the
you’re not like bringing that to the table in that moment because that can
table in that moment because that can
table in that moment because that can just cause if you’re both frustrated in
just cause if you’re both frustrated in
just cause if you’re both frustrated in those two frustrations users going
those two frustrations users going
those two frustrations users going together it’s like literally I mean we
together it’s like literally I mean we
together it’s like literally I mean we will physically just it’s like let’s do
will physically just it’s like let’s do
will physically just it’s like let’s do something physical jump in the pool it
something physical jump in the pool it
something physical jump in the pool it sounds crazy but it actually like you
sounds crazy but it actually like you
sounds crazy but it actually like you know you come out and you feel different
know you come out and you feel different
know you come out and you feel different and feeling different your physiology
and feeling different your physiology
and feeling different your physiology you experience a different reality when
you experience a different reality when
you experience a different reality when you’re stuck in a relationship you’re
you’re stuck in a relationship you’re
you’re stuck in a relationship you’re stuck because you’re stuck in a state
stuck because you’re stuck in a state
stuck because you’re stuck in a state people get stuck in the future as
people get stuck in the future as
people get stuck in the future as futures not the way they want it to be
futures not the way they want it to be
futures not the way they want it to be in their head or something gonna happen
in their head or something gonna happen
in their head or something gonna happen in the past the best thing is to change
in the past the best thing is to change
in the past the best thing is to change something in the present physically
something in the present physically
something in the present physically change it drink some water have
change it drink some water have
change it drink some water have something to eat jump in the river do
something to eat jump in the river do
something to eat jump in the river do whatever you got to do because in the
whatever you got to do because in the
whatever you got to do because in the right state you and I both know at this
right state you and I both know at this
right state you and I both know at this if there’s any love there you will
if there’s any love there you will
if there’s any love there you will transform and come back and solve the
transform and come back and solve the
transform and come back and solve the problem but in the wrong state good
problem but in the wrong state good
problem but in the wrong state good people the right people in the wrong
people the right people in the wrong
people the right people in the wrong state will mess up the relationship so
state will mess up the relationship so
state will mess up the relationship so if you want up a breakthrough this week
if you want up a breakthrough this week
if you want up a breakthrough this week look at some of the strategies for
look at some of the strategies for
look at some of the strategies for understanding appreciating and changing
understanding appreciating and changing
understanding appreciating and changing look at what triggers you to feel
look at what triggers you to feel
look at what triggers you to feel attractive because this week’s not just
attractive because this week’s not just
attractive because this week’s not just about love it’s love and passion if all
about love it’s love and passion if all
about love it’s love and passion if all you have is love you have a friendship
you have is love you have a friendship
you have is love you have a friendship nothing wrong with that but you have an
nothing wrong with that but you have an
nothing wrong with that but you have an intimate relationship then there’s
intimate relationship then there’s
intimate relationship then there’s passion there so what are the strategies
passion there so what are the strategies
passion there so what are the strategies to trigger that the masculine and
to trigger that the masculine and
to trigger that the masculine and feminine energy the dance of it take a
feminine energy the dance of it take a
feminine energy the dance of it take a look at some of those this week thank
look at some of those this week thank
look at some of those this week thank you guys so much for watching I hope you
you guys so much for watching I hope you
you guys so much for watching I hope you enjoyed I’d love to know what you think
enjoyed I’d love to know what you think
enjoyed I’d love to know what you think of the video and from the clips that you
of the video and from the clips that you
of the video and from the clips that you saw what was the most impactful one for
saw what was the most impactful one for
saw what was the most impactful one for you how are you going to make some
you how are you going to make some
you how are you going to make some changes in your relationships as a
changes in your relationships as a
changes in your relationships as a result of watching this I’d love to hear
result of watching this I’d love to hear
result of watching this I’d love to hear from you leave a comment below I’ll join
from you leave a comment below I’ll join
from you leave a comment below I’ll join in the responses thank you so much for
in the responses thank you so much for
in the responses thank you so much for watching continue to believe and I’ll
watching continue to believe and I’ll
watching continue to believe and I’ll see you soon
see you soon
see you soon you
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