good morning guys I’m just thinking I’m trying to remember one state can we do
trying to remember one state can we do
trying to remember one state can we do that again sorry let’s see I wish it
that again sorry let’s see I wish it
that again sorry let’s see I wish it because I’m melding it as you’re seen
because I’m melding it as you’re seen
because I’m melding it as you’re seen yeah like I’m cheering you Jared morning
yeah like I’m cheering you Jared morning
yeah like I’m cheering you Jared morning believe nation today’s message is
believe nation today’s message is
believe nation today’s message is solitude matters over to you Susan Cain
Steve Wozniak invented the first Apple
Steve Wozniak invented the first Apple Computer sitting alone in his cubicle
Computer sitting alone in his cubicle
Computer sitting alone in his cubicle and hewlett-packard where he was working
and hewlett-packard where he was working
and hewlett-packard where he was working at the time and he says that he never
at the time and he says that he never
at the time and he says that he never would have become such an expert in the
would have become such an expert in the
would have become such an expert in the first place had he not been too
first place had he not been too
first place had he not been too introverted to leave the house when he
introverted to leave the house when he
introverted to leave the house when he was growing up now of course this does
was growing up now of course this does
was growing up now of course this does not mean that we should all stop
not mean that we should all stop
not mean that we should all stop collaborating and case in point is Steve
collaborating and case in point is Steve
collaborating and case in point is Steve Wozniak famously coming together with
Wozniak famously coming together with
Wozniak famously coming together with Steve Jobs to start Apple Computer but
Steve Jobs to start Apple Computer but
Steve Jobs to start Apple Computer but it does mean that solitude matters and
it does mean that solitude matters and
it does mean that solitude matters and that for some people it is the air that
that for some people it is the air that
that for some people it is the air that they breathe and in fact we have known
they breathe and in fact we have known
they breathe and in fact we have known for centuries about the transcendent
for centuries about the transcendent
for centuries about the transcendent power of solitude it’s only recently
power of solitude it’s only recently
power of solitude it’s only recently that we’ve strangely begun to forget it
that we’ve strangely begun to forget it
that we’ve strangely begun to forget it if you look at most of the world’s major
if you look at most of the world’s major
if you look at most of the world’s major religions you will find seekers Moses
religions you will find seekers Moses
religions you will find seekers Moses Jesus Buddha Muhammad seekers who are
Jesus Buddha Muhammad seekers who are
Jesus Buddha Muhammad seekers who are going off by themselves alone to the
going off by themselves alone to the
going off by themselves alone to the wilderness where they then have profound
wilderness where they then have profound
wilderness where they then have profound epiphanies and revelations that they
epiphanies and revelations that they
epiphanies and revelations that they then bring back to the rest of the
then bring back to the rest of the
then bring back to the rest of the community
community
community so no wilderness no revelations what do
so no wilderness no revelations what do
so no wilderness no revelations what do you think my background in psychology
you think my background in psychology
you think my background in psychology are I mean at least I studied psychology
are I mean at least I studied psychology
are I mean at least I studied psychology and university I’m a strong believer and
and university I’m a strong believer and
and university I’m a strong believer and self-actualization being the best that
self-actualization being the best that
self-actualization being the best that you can be and I know for our
you can be and I know for our
you can be and I know for our entrepreneurs you know as you start to
entrepreneurs you know as you start to
entrepreneurs you know as you start to go to different people for opinions
go to different people for opinions
go to different people for opinions start to get information start to grow
start to get information start to grow
start to get information start to grow your business so much that sometimes
your business so much that sometimes
your business so much that sometimes there is too much white noise and you
there is too much white noise and you
there is too much white noise and you got to remove yourself and be able to
got to remove yourself and be able to
got to remove yourself and be able to digest it I think of it as almost like a
digest it I think of it as almost like a
digest it I think of it as almost like a computer you know when you start to
computer you know when you start to
computer you know when you start to Unwin with Windows computers you defrag
Unwin with Windows computers you defrag
Unwin with Windows computers you defrag a computer right to clean up the memory
a computer right to clean up the memory
a computer right to clean up the memory and organize things so this so even
and organize things so this so even
and organize things so this so even simple things like sleeping getting
simple things like sleeping getting
simple things like sleeping getting enough sleep it helps you just center
enough sleep it helps you just center
enough sleep it helps you just center yourself so
yourself so
yourself so solitude self-actualization growth is
solitude self-actualization growth is
solitude self-actualization growth is just as important as being out in the
just as important as being out in the
just as important as being out in the world and talking to people and working
world and talking to people and working
world and talking to people and working with people and collaborating is to find
with people and collaborating is to find
with people and collaborating is to find a good balance of that yeah I think
a good balance of that yeah I think
a good balance of that yeah I think everybody has to find their own cadence
everybody has to find their own cadence
everybody has to find their own cadence I think it really depends on how
I think it really depends on how
I think it really depends on how introverted extroverted you are I’m much
introverted extroverted you are I’m much
introverted extroverted you are I’m much more introverted I need solitude every
more introverted I need solitude every
more introverted I need solitude every day if I don’t get it I start to freak
day if I don’t get it I start to freak
day if I don’t get it I start to freak out if I’m in a really stressful
out if I’m in a really stressful
out if I’m in a really stressful situation I go inwards right like don’t
situation I go inwards right like don’t
situation I go inwards right like don’t talk to me don’t bother me like give me
talk to me don’t bother me like give me
talk to me don’t bother me like give me a room by myself and I’ll figure out an
a room by myself and I’ll figure out an
a room by myself and I’ll figure out an answer to whatever problem we’re facing
answer to whatever problem we’re facing
answer to whatever problem we’re facing some people who are more extroverted
some people who are more extroverted
some people who are more extroverted they go crazy when there’s too much time
they go crazy when there’s too much time
they go crazy when there’s too much time by themselves phrase like alright gotta
by themselves phrase like alright gotta
by themselves phrase like alright gotta get out and I gotta go to a coffee shop
get out and I gotta go to a coffee shop
get out and I gotta go to a coffee shop or something just to be around other
or something just to be around other
or something just to be around other people I think to the extreme if you’re
people I think to the extreme if you’re
people I think to the extreme if you’re always around other people then you need
always around other people then you need
always around other people then you need to everybody needs some amount of
to everybody needs some amount of
to everybody needs some amount of solitude I think just you have to figure
solitude I think just you have to figure
solitude I think just you have to figure out where you fit on the spectrum I
out where you fit on the spectrum I
out where you fit on the spectrum I would probably a lot more than Alex
would probably a lot more than Alex
would probably a lot more than Alex would just based on our personalities so
would just based on our personalities so
would just based on our personalities so just find your cadence this is something
just find your cadence this is something
just find your cadence this is something that I try to make I try to be really
that I try to make I try to be really
that I try to make I try to be really self aware of where in my life things
self aware of where in my life things
self aware of where in my life things get out of balance and you’ll find that
get out of balance and you’ll find that
get out of balance and you’ll find that as you grow and build and you build a
as you grow and build and you build a
as you grow and build and you build a family you build a business things get
family you build a business things get
family you build a business things get added to your schedule you will at some
added to your schedule you will at some
added to your schedule you will at some point find some things are out of
point find some things are out of
point find some things are out of balance like I’m not spending enough
balance like I’m not spending enough
balance like I’m not spending enough time with my wife or I’m not spending
time with my wife or I’m not spending
time with my wife or I’m not spending enough time by myself and and I do a
enough time by myself and and I do a
enough time by myself and and I do a regular audit to see where is my life
regular audit to see where is my life
regular audit to see where is my life out of balance and how can I inject more
out of balance and how can I inject more
out of balance and how can I inject more stability for me so I can run
stability for me so I can run
stability for me so I can run effectively in according to my cadence
effectively in according to my cadence
effectively in according to my cadence so I think it’s important for everybody
so I think it’s important for everybody
so I think it’s important for everybody just you got to gotta go with the flow
just you got to gotta go with the flow
just you got to gotta go with the flow and see which one like how much shelter
and see which one like how much shelter
and see which one like how much shelter you need for yourself you know what I’m
you need for yourself you know what I’m
you need for yourself you know what I’m actually gonna go a little bit on a
actually gonna go a little bit on a
actually gonna go a little bit on a different side of it there was a
different side of it there was a
different side of it there was a motivational speaker with an a previous
motivational speaker with an a previous
motivational speaker with an a previous job who came in when I was working and
job who came in when I was working and
job who came in when I was working and he said you know when they talk about
he said you know when they talk about
he said you know when they talk about work/life violence he doesn’t believe in
work/life violence he doesn’t believe in
work/life violence he doesn’t believe in work-life balance and he said it’s about
work-life balance and he said it’s about
work-life balance and he said it’s about harmony actually because the whole word
harmony actually because the whole word
harmony actually because the whole word of balance implies that there are these
of balance implies that there are these
of balance implies that there are these scales and you put enough here you put
scales and you put enough here you put
scales and you put enough here you put enough here and your personal life and
enough here and your personal life and
enough here and your personal life and your work life somehow balance out and
your work life somehow balance out and
your work life somehow balance out and it’s almost like you set yourself up to
it’s almost like you set yourself up to
it’s almost like you set yourself up to fail actually so harmony if you think of
fail actually so harmony if you think of
fail actually so harmony if you think of your life as sort of a symphony right
your life as sort of a symphony right
your life as sort of a symphony right you have certain you know you
you have certain you know you
you have certain you know you the oboe you have the violin they play
the oboe you have the violin they play
the oboe you have the violin they play at their own levels and what you want to
at their own levels and what you want to
at their own levels and what you want to find and what’s perfect that you’ve ever
find and what’s perfect that you’ve ever
find and what’s perfect that you’ve ever gone to listen to a symphony is when all
gone to listen to a symphony is when all
gone to listen to a symphony is when all the instruments play in harmony whether
the instruments play in harmony whether
the instruments play in harmony whether there are thirty violins and two drums
there are thirty violins and two drums
there are thirty violins and two drums or 20 drums and thirty violins right
or 20 drums and thirty violins right
or 20 drums and thirty violins right yeah that’s right
yeah that’s right
yeah that’s right there that’s what matters and I think
there that’s what matters and I think
there that’s what matters and I think this you know it’s all about
this you know it’s all about
this you know it’s all about visualization of in any kind of industry
visualization of in any kind of industry
visualization of in any kind of industry that you are in so if you visualize how
that you are in so if you visualize how
that you are in so if you visualize how do I find harmony with my friends with
do I find harmony with my friends with
do I find harmony with my friends with my lover with everything in your life
my lover with everything in your life
my lover with everything in your life that will have more value than saying
that will have more value than saying
that will have more value than saying that I need to balance these scales
that I need to balance these scales
that I need to balance these scales because then you tend to want to stress
because then you tend to want to stress
because then you tend to want to stress out and you know that bogs you doubt oh
out and you know that bogs you doubt oh
out and you know that bogs you doubt oh I’m not spending enough time with my
I’m not spending enough time with my
I’m not spending enough time with my family I’m not spending enough time this
family I’m not spending enough time this
family I’m not spending enough time this instead of you said you’d be coming from
instead of you said you’d be coming from
instead of you said you’d be coming from well how do I provide a little bit more
well how do I provide a little bit more
well how do I provide a little bit more time for my family to make sure that
time for my family to make sure that
time for my family to make sure that everything sounds nice
everything sounds nice
everything sounds nice I think to add to that I would say the
I think to add to that I would say the
I think to add to that I would say the song always changes yeah right so like
song always changes yeah right so like
song always changes yeah right so like you may get it right for this one song
you may get it right for this one song
you may get it right for this one song but then something new gets like you
but then something new gets like you
but then something new gets like you have a new job now or now you have a kid
have a new job now or now you have a kid
have a new job now or now you have a kid right to another song changes so you
right to another song changes so you
right to another song changes so you have to find harmony constantly right
have to find harmony constantly right
have to find harmony constantly right look it’s a it’s a you’re never you know
look it’s a it’s a you’re never you know
look it’s a it’s a you’re never you know you might be totally in balance now but
you might be totally in balance now but
you might be totally in balance now but then you got to continue to adjust as
then you got to continue to adjust as
then you got to continue to adjust as the song changes in your life yeah so
the song changes in your life yeah so
the song changes in your life yeah so the question of the day today is how do
the question of the day today is how do
the question of the day today is how do you find harmony in your life thank you
you find harmony in your life thank you
you find harmony in your life thank you so much for watching have an amazing day
so much for watching have an amazing day
so much for watching have an amazing day continue to believe and we’ll see you
continue to believe and we’ll see you
continue to believe and we’ll see you again tomorrow morning for another shot
again tomorrow morning for another shot
again tomorrow morning for another shot of espresso
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