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Simon Sinek’s Top 10 Rules for Success (YouGottaLove remix)


he’s an author speaker and consultant

he’s an author speaker and consultant who writes on leadership and management

who writes on leadership and management

who writes on leadership and management he joined the RAND Corporation in 2010

he joined the RAND Corporation in 2010

he joined the RAND Corporation in 2010 where he advises on military innovation

where he advises on military innovation

where he advises on military innovation in planning he’s known for popularizing

in planning he’s known for popularizing

in planning he’s known for popularizing the concepts of the golden circle and to

the concepts of the golden circle and to

the concepts of the golden circle and to start with why he’s simon Sinek and

start with why he’s simon Sinek and

start with why he’s simon Sinek and here’s my take on his top ten rules for

here’s my take on his top ten rules for

here’s my take on his top ten rules for success rule number six is my personal

success rule number six is my personal

success rule number six is my personal favorite and make sure to stick around

favorite and make sure to stick around

favorite and make sure to stick around although to the end for some special

although to the end for some special

although to the end for some special bonus clips and as always if Simon says

bonus clips and as always if Simon says

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let me tell you a story so a friend of

let me tell you a story so a friend of mine and I we went for a run in Central

mine and I we went for a run in Central

mine and I we went for a run in Central Park the Roadrunners organization on the

Park the Roadrunners organization on the

Park the Roadrunners organization on the weekends they host races and it’s very

weekends they host races and it’s very

weekends they host races and it’s very common at the end of the race they’ll

common at the end of the race they’ll

common at the end of the race they’ll have a sponsor who will give away

have a sponsor who will give away

have a sponsor who will give away something apples or bagels or something

something apples or bagels or something

something apples or bagels or something and on this particular day when we got

and on this particular day when we got

and on this particular day when we got to the end of the run there were some

to the end of the run there were some

to the end of the run there were some free bagels and they had picnic tables

free bagels and they had picnic tables

free bagels and they had picnic tables set up and on one side was a group of

set up and on one side was a group of

set up and on one side was a group of volunteers on the table were boxes of

volunteers on the table were boxes of

volunteers on the table were boxes of bagels and on the other side was a long

bagels and on the other side was a long

bagels and on the other side was a long line of runners waiting to get their

line of runners waiting to get their

line of runners waiting to get their free bagel so I said to my friend let’s

free bagel so I said to my friend let’s

free bagel so I said to my friend let’s let’s get a bagel and he looked at me

let’s get a bagel and he looked at me

let’s get a bagel and he looked at me and said that lines too long and I said

and said that lines too long and I said

and said that lines too long and I said free bagel and he said I don’t want to

free bagel and he said I don’t want to

free bagel and he said I don’t want to wait in line and I was like free bagel

wait in line and I was like free bagel

wait in line and I was like free bagel and he says not that’s it’s too long and

and he says not that’s it’s too long and

and he says not that’s it’s too long and that’s when I realized that there’s two

that’s when I realized that there’s two

that’s when I realized that there’s two ways to see the world some people see

ways to see the world some people see

ways to see the world some people see the thing that they want and some people

the thing that they want and some people

the thing that they want and some people see the thing that prevents them from

see the thing that prevents them from

see the thing that prevents them from getting the thing that they want I could

getting the thing that they want I could

getting the thing that they want I could only see the bagels he could only see

only see the bagels he could only see

only see the bagels he could only see the line and so I walked up to the line

the line and so I walked up to the line

the line and so I walked up to the line I leaned in between two people put my

I leaned in between two people put my

I leaned in between two people put my hand in the box

hand in the box

hand in the box and pulled out two bagels and no one get

and pulled out two bagels and no one get

and pulled out two bagels and no one get mad at me because the rule is you can go

mad at me because the rule is you can go

mad at me because the rule is you can go after whatever you want

after whatever you want

after whatever you want you just cannot deny anyone else to go

you just cannot deny anyone else to go

you just cannot deny anyone else to go after whatever they want

after whatever they want

after whatever they want now I had to sacrifice choice I didn’t

now I had to sacrifice choice I didn’t

now I had to sacrifice choice I didn’t get to choose which bagel I got I got

get to choose which bagel I got I got

get to choose which bagel I got I got whatever I pulled out but I didn’t have

whatever I pulled out but I didn’t have

whatever I pulled out but I didn’t have to wait in line so the point is is you

to wait in line so the point is is you

to wait in line so the point is is you don’t have to wait in line you don’t

don’t have to wait in line you don’t

don’t have to wait in line you don’t have to do it the way everybody else has

have to do it the way everybody else has

have to do it the way everybody else has done it you can do it your way you can

done it you can do it your way you can

done it you can do it your way you can break the rules you just can’t get in

break the rules you just can’t get in

break the rules you just can’t get in the way of somebody else getting what

the way of somebody else getting what

the way of somebody else getting what they want that’s rule number one

they want that’s rule number one

they want that’s rule number one performing under pressure whether it’s

performing under pressure whether it’s

performing under pressure whether it’s me or anybody else is the same you know

me or anybody else is the same you know

me or anybody else is the same you know I have the same pressures as anyone else

I have the same pressures as anyone else

I have the same pressures as anyone else there’s time there’s performance

there’s time there’s performance

there’s time there’s performance is financial I mean there oh you know

is financial I mean there oh you know

is financial I mean there oh you know there’s deadlines my pressures are not

there’s deadlines my pressures are not

there’s deadlines my pressures are not unique the situation may be different or

unique the situation may be different or

unique the situation may be different or you know but but everybody has the same

you know but but everybody has the same

you know but but everybody has the same kinds of pressures but what I found or

kinds of pressures but what I found or

kinds of pressures but what I found or what I find fascinating is the

what I find fascinating is the

what I find fascinating is the interpretation of the stimuli let me let

interpretation of the stimuli let me let

interpretation of the stimuli let me let me explain so I was watching the

me explain so I was watching the

me explain so I was watching the Olympics this last number level and I

Olympics this last number level and I

Olympics this last number level and I was amazed at how bad the questions were

was amazed at how bad the questions were

was amazed at how bad the questions were that the reporters would ask all the

that the reporters would ask all the

that the reporters would ask all the athletes and almost always they asked

athletes and almost always they asked

athletes and almost always they asked the same question whether they were

the same question whether they were

the same question whether they were about to compete or after they competed

about to compete or after they competed

about to compete or after they competed were you nervous right and to a tee all

were you nervous right and to a tee all

were you nervous right and to a tee all the athletes went no right and what I

the athletes went no right and what I

the athletes went no right and what I realized is it’s not that they’re not

realized is it’s not that they’re not

realized is it’s not that they’re not nervous if their interpretation of

nervous if their interpretation of

nervous if their interpretation of what’s happening in their bodies I mean

what’s happening in their bodies I mean

what’s happening in their bodies I mean what it what happens when you’re nervous

what it what happens when you’re nervous

what it what happens when you’re nervous right your heart rate starts to go your

right your heart rate starts to go your

right your heart rate starts to go your you know you sort of get a little tense

you know you sort of get a little tense

you know you sort of get a little tense you get a little sweaty right

you get a little sweaty right

you get a little sweaty right you have expectation of what’s coming

you have expectation of what’s coming

you have expectation of what’s coming and we interpreted that is I’m nervous

and we interpreted that is I’m nervous

and we interpreted that is I’m nervous now what’s the interpretation of excited

now what’s the interpretation of excited

now what’s the interpretation of excited your heart rate starts to go you become

your heart rate starts to go you become

your heart rate starts to go you become you’re anticipating what’s coming right

you’re anticipating what’s coming right

you’re anticipating what’s coming right you get a little sort of like tense it’s

you get a little sort of like tense it’s

you get a little sort of like tense it’s all the same thing at the same stimuli

all the same thing at the same stimuli

all the same thing at the same stimuli except these athletes these these

except these athletes these these

except these athletes these these Olympic quality athletes have learned to

Olympic quality athletes have learned to

Olympic quality athletes have learned to interpret the stimuli that the rest of

interpret the stimuli that the rest of

interpret the stimuli that the rest of us would say as nervous as excited they

us would say as nervous as excited they

us would say as nervous as excited they also the same thing no I’m not nervous

also the same thing no I’m not nervous

also the same thing no I’m not nervous I’m excited and so I’ve actually

I’m excited and so I’ve actually

I’m excited and so I’ve actually practiced it just to tell myself when I

practiced it just to tell myself when I

practiced it just to tell myself when I start to get nervous that this is

start to get nervous that this is

start to get nervous that this is excitement you know and so where when

excitement you know and so where when

excitement you know and so where when you used to be speaking from a large

you used to be speaking from a large

you used to be speaking from a large audience somebody’d say how do you feel

audience somebody’d say how do you feel

audience somebody’d say how do you feel it’s a little nervous now when somebody

it’s a little nervous now when somebody

it’s a little nervous now when somebody says how do you feel like really excited

says how do you feel like really excited

says how do you feel like really excited actually and it it came from just sort

actually and it it came from just sort

actually and it it came from just sort of telling myself no no this is

of telling myself no no this is

of telling myself no no this is excitement and it becomes a little bit

excitement and it becomes a little bit

excitement and it becomes a little bit automatic later on but it’s kind of a

automatic later on but it’s kind of a

automatic later on but it’s kind of a remarkable thing to deal with pressure

remarkable thing to deal with pressure

remarkable thing to deal with pressure by interpreting what your body is

by interpreting what your body is

by interpreting what your body is experiencing as excitement rather than

experiencing as excitement rather than

experiencing as excitement rather than nerves and it’s really kind of effective

nerves and it’s really kind of effective

nerves and it’s really kind of effective it makes you want to rush for is rather

it makes you want to rush for is rather

it makes you want to rush for is rather than pull back and yet it’s the same

than pull back and yet it’s the same

than pull back and yet it’s the same experience I talked to so many smart

experience I talked to so many smart

experience I talked to so many smart fantastic ambitious idealistic

fantastic ambitious idealistic

fantastic ambitious idealistic hard-working kids and they’re right out

hard-working kids and they’re right out

hard-working kids and they’re right out of college they’re in their entry-level

of college they’re in their entry-level

of college they’re in their entry-level jobs and I’ll ask

jobs and I’ll ask

jobs and I’ll ask how is it going and they’ll say I think

how is it going and they’ll say I think

how is it going and they’ll say I think I’m gonna quit and I’m like fine they

I’m gonna quit and I’m like fine they

I’m gonna quit and I’m like fine they say to me I’m not making an impact I’m

say to me I’m not making an impact I’m

say to me I’m not making an impact I’m like you know you’ve been here eight

like you know you’ve been here eight

like you know you’ve been here eight months right

months right

months right [Music]

[Music]

[Music] they treat the sense of fulfillment or

they treat the sense of fulfillment or

they treat the sense of fulfillment or even love like it’s a scavenger hunt

even love like it’s a scavenger hunt

even love like it’s a scavenger hunt like it’s something you look for my

like it’s something you look for my

like it’s something you look for my millennial friends they’ve gone through

millennial friends they’ve gone through

millennial friends they’ve gone through so many jobs they’re either getting

so many jobs they’re either getting

so many jobs they’re either getting fired I mean it was mutual or they’re

fired I mean it was mutual or they’re

fired I mean it was mutual or they’re quitting because they’re not making an

quitting because they’re not making an

quitting because they’re not making an impact or they’re not finding the thing

impact or they’re not finding the thing

impact or they’re not finding the thing they’re looking for they’re not feeling

they’re looking for they’re not feeling

they’re looking for they’re not feeling fulfilled as if it’s a scavenger hunt

fulfilled as if it’s a scavenger hunt

fulfilled as if it’s a scavenger hunt love a job you find joy from is not

love a job you find joy from is not

love a job you find joy from is not something you discover it’s not like I

something you discover it’s not like I

something you discover it’s not like I found love here it is I found a job I

found love here it is I found a job I

found love here it is I found a job I love that’s not how it works both of

love that’s not how it works both of

love that’s not how it works both of those things require hard work you are

those things require hard work you are

those things require hard work you are in love because you work very hard every

in love because you work very hard every

in love because you work very hard every single day of your life to stay in love

single day of your life to stay in love

single day of your life to stay in love you find a job that brings you ultimate

you find a job that brings you ultimate

you find a job that brings you ultimate joy because you work hard every single

joy because you work hard every single

joy because you work hard every single day to serve those around you and you

day to serve those around you and you

day to serve those around you and you maintain that joy it’s not a discovery

maintain that joy it’s not a discovery

maintain that joy it’s not a discovery but the problem is the sense of

but the problem is the sense of

but the problem is the sense of impatience it’s as if an entire

impatience it’s as if an entire

impatience it’s as if an entire generation is standing at the foot of a

generation is standing at the foot of a

generation is standing at the foot of a mountain they know exactly what they

mountain they know exactly what they

mountain they know exactly what they want they can see the summit what they

want they can see the summit what they

want they can see the summit what they can’t see is the mountain this large a

can’t see is the mountain this large a

can’t see is the mountain this large a movable object that doesn’t mean you

movable object that doesn’t mean you

movable object that doesn’t mean you have to do your time that’s not what I’m

have to do your time that’s not what I’m

have to do your time that’s not what I’m talking about

talking about

talking about take a helicopter climb I don’t care but

take a helicopter climb I don’t care but

take a helicopter climb I don’t care but there’s still a mountain life career

there’s still a mountain life career

there’s still a mountain life career fulfillment relationships our journeys

fulfillment relationships our journeys

fulfillment relationships our journeys the problem is this entire generation

the problem is this entire generation

the problem is this entire generation has an institutionalized sense of

has an institutionalized sense of

has an institutionalized sense of impatience and do they have the patience

impatience and do they have the patience

impatience and do they have the patience to go on the journey to maintain love to

to go on the journey to maintain love to

to go on the journey to maintain love to feel fulfill or do they just quit and on

feel fulfill or do they just quit and on

feel fulfill or do they just quit and on to the next dumpin on to the neck ghost

to the next dumpin on to the neck ghost

to the next dumpin on to the neck ghost and unto the next in the 18th century

and unto the next in the 18th century

and unto the next in the 18th century there was something that spread across

there was something that spread across

there was something that spread across Europe and eventually made its way to

Europe and eventually made its way to

Europe and eventually made its way to America where Apple fever also known as

America where Apple fever also known as

America where Apple fever also known as the Black Death of child bed basically

the Black Death of child bed basically

the Black Death of child bed basically what was happening is women were giving

what was happening is women were giving

what was happening is women were giving birth

birth

birth and they would die within 48 hours after

and they would die within 48 hours after

and they would die within 48 hours after giving birth

giving birth

giving birth this black death of childbirth was the

this black death of childbirth was the

this black death of childbirth was the ravage of Europe and it got worse and

ravage of Europe and it got worse and

ravage of Europe and it got worse and worse and worse over the course of over

worse and worse over the course of over

worse and worse over the course of over a century in some hospitals it was as

a century in some hospitals it was as

a century in some hospitals it was as high as 70% of women who gave birth who

high as 70% of women who gave birth who

high as 70% of women who gave birth who would die as a result of giving birth

would die as a result of giving birth

would die as a result of giving birth but this was the Renaissance this was

but this was the Renaissance this was

but this was the Renaissance this was the time of empirical data and science

the time of empirical data and science

the time of empirical data and science and we had thrown away things like

and we had thrown away things like

and we had thrown away things like tradition and mysticism these were men

tradition and mysticism these were men

tradition and mysticism these were men of science these were doctors and these

of science these were doctors and these

of science these were doctors and these doctors and men of science wanted to

doctors and men of science wanted to

doctors and men of science wanted to study and try and find the reason for

study and try and find the reason for

study and try and find the reason for this black death of childbed and so they

this black death of childbed and so they

this black death of childbed and so they got to work studying and they would

got to work studying and they would

got to work studying and they would study the corpses of the of the women

study the corpses of the of the women

study the corpses of the of the women who had died and in the morning they

who had died and in the morning they

who had died and in the morning they would conduct autopsies and then in the

would conduct autopsies and then in the

would conduct autopsies and then in the afternoon they would go and deliver

afternoon they would go and deliver

afternoon they would go and deliver babies and finish their rounds and it

babies and finish their rounds and it

babies and finish their rounds and it wasn’t until somewhere in the mid 1800s

wasn’t until somewhere in the mid 1800s

wasn’t until somewhere in the mid 1800s that dr. Oliver Wendell Holmes father of

that dr. Oliver Wendell Holmes father of

that dr. Oliver Wendell Holmes father of Supreme Court justice Oliver Wendell

Supreme Court justice Oliver Wendell

Supreme Court justice Oliver Wendell Holmes realized that all of these

Holmes realized that all of these

Holmes realized that all of these doctors who conducting autopsies in the

doctors who conducting autopsies in the

doctors who conducting autopsies in the morning weren’t washing their hands

morning weren’t washing their hands

morning weren’t washing their hands before they delivered babies in the

before they delivered babies in the

before they delivered babies in the afternoon and he pointed it out and said

afternoon and he pointed it out and said

afternoon and he pointed it out and said guys you’re the problem

guys you’re the problem

guys you’re the problem and they ignored him and called him

and they ignored him and called him

and they ignored him and called him crazy for 30 years until finally

crazy for 30 years until finally

crazy for 30 years until finally somebody realized that if they simply

somebody realized that if they simply

somebody realized that if they simply washed their hands it would go away and

washed their hands it would go away and

washed their hands it would go away and that’s exactly what happened when they

that’s exactly what happened when they

that’s exactly what happened when they started sterilizing their instruments

started sterilizing their instruments

started sterilizing their instruments and washing their hands the black death

and washing their hands the black death

and washing their hands the black death of childbed disappeared my point is the

of childbed disappeared my point is the

of childbed disappeared my point is the lesson here is sometimes you’re the

lesson here is sometimes you’re the

lesson here is sometimes you’re the problem we’ve seen this happen all too

problem we’ve seen this happen all too

problem we’ve seen this happen all too recently with our new men of science and

recently with our new men of science and

recently with our new men of science and empirical studies these Menace finance

empirical studies these Menace finance

empirical studies these Menace finance who are smarter than the rest of us

who are smarter than the rest of us

who are smarter than the rest of us until the thing collapse and they blamed

until the thing collapse and they blamed

until the thing collapse and they blamed everything else except themselves and my

everything else except themselves and my

everything else except themselves and my point is is take accountability for your

point is is take accountability for your

point is is take accountability for your actions you can take all the credit in

actions you can take all the credit in

actions you can take all the credit in the world for the things that you do

the world for the things that you do

the world for the things that you do right as long as you also take

right as long as you also take

right as long as you also take responsibility for the things you do

responsibility for the things you do

responsibility for the things you do wrong it must be a balanced equation you

wrong it must be a balanced equation you

wrong it must be a balanced equation you don’t get it one way and not the other

don’t get it one way and not the other

don’t get it one way and not the other you get to take credit when you also

you get to take credit when you also

you get to take credit when you also take accountability

take accountability

take accountability I spoke at an education summit for

I spoke at an education summit for

I spoke at an education summit for Microsoft I also spoke at an education

Microsoft I also spoke at an education

Microsoft I also spoke at an education summit for education from Mike at the

summit for education from Mike at the

summit for education from Mike at the education summit for Microsoft I would

education summit for Microsoft I would

education summit for Microsoft I would say that 70% of the executives spent

say that 70% of the executives spent

say that 70% of the executives spent about 70% of their presentations talking

about 70% of their presentations talking

about 70% of their presentations talking about how to beat Apple at the Apple

about how to beat Apple at the Apple

about how to beat Apple at the Apple education summit a hundred percent of

education summit a hundred percent of

education summit a hundred percent of the executives spent a hundred percent

the executives spent a hundred percent

the executives spent a hundred percent of their presentations talking about how

of their presentations talking about how

of their presentations talking about how to help teachers teach and how to help

to help teachers teach and how to help

to help teachers teach and how to help students learn one is playing this way

students learn one is playing this way

students learn one is playing this way and one is playing that one is playing

and one is playing that one is playing

and one is playing that one is playing finite and the other one is playing

finite and the other one is playing

finite and the other one is playing infinite gets which one gets frustrated

so at the end of my talk at Microsoft

so at the end of my talk at Microsoft that gave me a gift they gave me the new

that gave me a gift they gave me the new

that gave me a gift they gave me the new Zune when it was a thing and let me tell

Zune when it was a thing and let me tell

Zune when it was a thing and let me tell you this thing was spectacular

you this thing was spectacular

you this thing was spectacular it was the most elegant piece of

it was the most elegant piece of

it was the most elegant piece of technology I’ve ever used the user

technology I’ve ever used the user

technology I’ve ever used the user interface was incredible the design was

interface was incredible the design was

interface was incredible the design was spectacular I absolutely loved it it was

spectacular I absolutely loved it it was

spectacular I absolutely loved it it was easy to use and it was bright and

easy to use and it was bright and

easy to use and it was bright and gorgeous and it didn’t work on iTunes

gorgeous and it didn’t work on iTunes

gorgeous and it didn’t work on iTunes which is a different problem I couldn’t

which is a different problem I couldn’t

which is a different problem I couldn’t use it but but it was amazing

use it but but it was amazing

use it but but it was amazing and elegant my god it was elegant

and elegant my god it was elegant

and elegant my god it was elegant so I’m sitting in the back of the taxi

so I’m sitting in the back of the taxi

so I’m sitting in the back of the taxi with a very senior Apple executive sort

with a very senior Apple executive sort

with a very senior Apple executive sort of employee number 12 kind of guy and

of employee number 12 kind of guy and

of employee number 12 kind of guy and you know I like to stir pots so I turned

you know I like to stir pots so I turned

you know I like to stir pots so I turned him I said you know Microsoft gave me

him I said you know Microsoft gave me

him I said you know Microsoft gave me their new zoom and it is so much better

their new zoom and it is so much better

their new zoom and it is so much better than your iPod touch and he turned to me

than your iPod touch and he turned to me

than your iPod touch and he turned to me and he said I have no doubt

and he said I have no doubt

and he said I have no doubt conversation over

conversation over

conversation over [Applause]

[Applause]

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because the infinite player understands

because the infinite player understands sometimes your head and sometimes you

sometimes your head and sometimes you

sometimes your head and sometimes you behind

behind

behind sometimes your product is better and

sometimes your product is better and

sometimes your product is better and sometimes it’s work the goal isn’t to be

sometimes it’s work the goal isn’t to be

sometimes it’s work the goal isn’t to be the best every day the goal isn’t out to

the best every day the goal isn’t out to

the best every day the goal isn’t out to outdo your competition every day

outdo your competition every day

outdo your competition every day that’s a finite construction if I had

that’s a finite construction if I had

that’s a finite construction if I had said to Microsoft I’ve got the new ipod

said to Microsoft I’ve got the new ipod

said to Microsoft I’ve got the new ipod touch and it’s so much better than your

touch and it’s so much better than your

touch and it’s so much better than your Zune

Zune

Zune they would have said can we see it what

they would have said can we see it what

they would have said can we see it what does it do react react react react

does it do react react react react

does it do react react react react finite player is play to be bet to beat

finite player is play to be bet to beat

finite player is play to be bet to beat the people around them infinite players

the people around them infinite players

the people around them infinite players play to be better than themselves to

play to be better than themselves to

play to be better than themselves to wake up every single day and say how can

wake up every single day and say how can

wake up every single day and say how can we make our company a better version of

we make our company a better version of

we make our company a better version of itself today than it was yesterday how

itself today than it was yesterday how

itself today than it was yesterday how can we create a product this week that’s

can we create a product this week that’s

can we create a product this week that’s better than the product you created last

better than the product you created last

better than the product you created last year we also have to play the instant

year we also have to play the instant

year we also have to play the instant game it’s not about being ranked number

game it’s not about being ranked number

game it’s not about being ranked number one it’s not about having more followers

one it’s not about having more followers

one it’s not about having more followers on Twitter than your friends it’s not

on Twitter than your friends it’s not

on Twitter than your friends it’s not about outdoing anyone it’s about how to

about outdoing anyone it’s about how to

about outdoing anyone it’s about how to outdo yourself it’s not about selling

outdo yourself it’s not about selling

outdo yourself it’s not about selling more books or getting more 10 views than

more books or getting more 10 views than

more books or getting more 10 views than somebody else it’s about how to make

somebody else it’s about how to make

somebody else it’s about how to make sure that the work that you’re producing

sure that the work that you’re producing

sure that the work that you’re producing is better than you working produced

is better than you working produced

is better than you working produced before you are your competition and that

before you are your competition and that

before you are your competition and that is what ensures you stay in the game the

is what ensures you stay in the game the

is what ensures you stay in the game the longest and that is what ensures you

longest and that is what ensures you

longest and that is what ensures you find joy because the joy comes not from

find joy because the joy comes not from

find joy because the joy comes not from comparison but from advancement when are

comparison but from advancement when are

comparison but from advancement when are you at your best

you at your best

you at your best I met my best when I’m around people who

I met my best when I’m around people who

I met my best when I’m around people who believe what I believe I know it seems

believe what I believe I know it seems

believe what I believe I know it seems silly but I try very very hard to sort

silly but I try very very hard to sort

silly but I try very very hard to sort of stack the deck you know to put myself

of stack the deck you know to put myself

of stack the deck you know to put myself in a position of strength so for example

in a position of strength so for example

in a position of strength so for example you know somebody asked me just

you know somebody asked me just

you know somebody asked me just yesterday have you ever had sort of a

yesterday have you ever had sort of a

yesterday have you ever had sort of a bad you know engagement I was thinking

bad you know engagement I was thinking

bad you know engagement I was thinking myself I’m like not really but it’s not

myself I’m like not really but it’s not

myself I’m like not really but it’s not because I’m some sort of sort of genius

because I’m some sort of sort of genius

because I’m some sort of sort of genius understanding anything like that it’s

understanding anything like that it’s

understanding anything like that it’s because I stack the deck it’s because I

because I stack the deck it’s because I

because I stack the deck it’s because I want to be there I want to be around

want to be there I want to be around

want to be there I want to be around people who want me there in other words

people who want me there in other words

people who want me there in other words if I’m somebody’s tenth choice you’re

if I’m somebody’s tenth choice you’re

if I’m somebody’s tenth choice you’re like you know I’ll probably turn it down

like you know I’ll probably turn it down

like you know I’ll probably turn it down whereas if I’m their first choice they

whereas if I’m their first choice they

whereas if I’m their first choice they really won’t be there

really won’t be there

really won’t be there I’m more likely to have a good

I’m more likely to have a good

I’m more likely to have a good engagement they’re supportive of me I’m

engagement they’re supportive of me I’m

engagement they’re supportive of me I’m supportive of them and so yeah I’m at my

supportive of them and so yeah I’m at my

supportive of them and so yeah I’m at my best when I stack the deck when I choose

best when I stack the deck when I choose

best when I stack the deck when I choose to be in an environment where my

to be in an environment where my

to be in an environment where my strengths are right there Nelson Mandela

strengths are right there Nelson Mandela

strengths are right there Nelson Mandela is a particularly special case study in

is a particularly special case study in

is a particularly special case study in the leadership world because he is

the leadership world because he is

the leadership world because he is universally regarded as a great leader

universally regarded as a great leader

universally regarded as a great leader you can take other personalities and

you can take other personalities and

you can take other personalities and depending on the nation you go to we

depending on the nation you go to we

depending on the nation you go to we have different opinions about other

have different opinions about other

have different opinions about other personalities but Nelson Mandela across

personalities but Nelson Mandela across

personalities but Nelson Mandela across the world is universally regarded as a

the world is universally regarded as a

the world is universally regarded as a great leader he was actually the son of

great leader he was actually the son of

great leader he was actually the son of a tribal chief and he was asked one day

a tribal chief and he was asked one day

a tribal chief and he was asked one day how did you learn to be a great leader

how did you learn to be a great leader

how did you learn to be a great leader and he responded that he would go with

and he responded that he would go with

and he responded that he would go with his father to tribal meetings and he

his father to tribal meetings and he

his father to tribal meetings and he remembers two things when his father

remembers two things when his father

remembers two things when his father would meet with other elders one they

would meet with other elders one they

would meet with other elders one they would always sit in a circle and to his

would always sit in a circle and to his

would always sit in a circle and to his father was always the last to speak

father was always the last to speak

father was always the last to speak you will be told your whole life that

you will be told your whole life that

you will be told your whole life that you need to learn to listen I would say

you need to learn to listen I would say

you need to learn to listen I would say that you need to learn to be the last to

that you need to learn to be the last to

that you need to learn to be the last to speak I see it in boardrooms every day

speak I see it in boardrooms every day

speak I see it in boardrooms every day of the week even people who consider

of the week even people who consider

of the week even people who consider themselves good leaders who may actually

themselves good leaders who may actually

themselves good leaders who may actually be decent leaders will walk into a room

be decent leaders will walk into a room

be decent leaders will walk into a room and say here’s the problem here’s what I

and say here’s the problem here’s what I

and say here’s the problem here’s what I think but I’m interested in your opinion

think but I’m interested in your opinion

think but I’m interested in your opinion let’s go around the room it’s too late

let’s go around the room it’s too late

let’s go around the room it’s too late the skill to hold your opinions to

the skill to hold your opinions to

the skill to hold your opinions to yourself until everyone has spoken does

yourself until everyone has spoken does

yourself until everyone has spoken does two things

two things

two things one it gives everybody else the feeling

one it gives everybody else the feeling

one it gives everybody else the feeling that they have been heard the give way

that they have been heard the give way

that they have been heard the give way gives everyone else the ability to feel

gives everyone else the ability to feel

gives everyone else the ability to feel that they have contributed and two you

that they have contributed and two you

that they have contributed and two you get the benefit of hearing what

get the benefit of hearing what

get the benefit of hearing what everybody else has to think before you

everybody else has to think before you

everybody else has to think before you render your opinion the skill is really

render your opinion the skill is really

render your opinion the skill is really to keep your opinions to yourself if you

to keep your opinions to yourself if you

to keep your opinions to yourself if you agree with somebody don’t nod yes if you

agree with somebody don’t nod yes if you

agree with somebody don’t nod yes if you disagree with somebody don’t not know

disagree with somebody don’t not know

disagree with somebody don’t not know simply sit there take it all in and the

simply sit there take it all in and the

simply sit there take it all in and the only thing you’re allowed to do is ask

only thing you’re allowed to do is ask

only thing you’re allowed to do is ask questions so that you can understand

questions so that you can understand

questions so that you can understand what they mean and why they have the

what they mean and why they have the

what they mean and why they have the opinion that they have you must

opinion that they have you must

opinion that they have you must understand from where they are speaking

understand from where they are speaking

understand from where they are speaking why they have the opinion they have not

why they have the opinion they have not

why they have the opinion they have not just what they are saying and at the end

just what they are saying and at the end

just what they are saying and at the end you will get your turn it sounds easy

you will get your turn it sounds easy

you will get your turn it sounds easy it’s not practice being the last to

it’s not practice being the last to

it’s not practice being the last to speak that’s what Nelson Mandela did

speak that’s what Nelson Mandela did

speak that’s what Nelson Mandela did decision-making is a process right the

decision-making is a process right the

decision-making is a process right the question is what filters are you using

question is what filters are you using

question is what filters are you using to make decisions are you making

to make decisions are you making

to make decisions are you making decisions based on the financial rewards

decisions based on the financial rewards

decisions based on the financial rewards are you making decisions based on how

are you making decisions based on how

are you making decisions based on how easy the work will be I mean I remember

easy the work will be I mean I remember

easy the work will be I mean I remember in college you know they would give you

in college you know they would give you

in college you know they would give you this book where they all the students

this book where they all the students

this book where they all the students would rate the classes and they would

would rate the classes and they would

would rate the classes and they would rate things like how easy the class was

rate things like how easy the class was

rate things like how easy the class was and how you know how much do you they

and how you know how much do you they

and how you know how much do you they like the professor and you know the

like the professor and you know the

like the professor and you know the first year I picked all my classes based

first year I picked all my classes based

first year I picked all my classes based on it workload and I picked everything a

on it workload and I picked everything a

on it workload and I picked everything a low workload you know and pretty bored

low workload you know and pretty bored

low workload you know and pretty bored didn’t work very hard which was fine

didn’t work very hard which was fine

didn’t work very hard which was fine but nothing was dynamic and nothing

but nothing was dynamic and nothing

but nothing was dynamic and nothing really excited me and I thank goodness

really excited me and I thank goodness

really excited me and I thank goodness learned that and so the second year I

learned that and so the second year I

learned that and so the second year I picked all my classes by professor

picked all my classes by professor

picked all my classes by professor rating regardless of the workload so

rating regardless of the workload so

rating regardless of the workload so every class I had I had these dynamic

every class I had I had these dynamic

every class I had I had these dynamic amazing incredible human beings

amazing incredible human beings

amazing incredible human beings passing on their knowledge and you were

passing on their knowledge and you were

passing on their knowledge and you were excited to work hard for them you know

excited to work hard for them you know

excited to work hard for them you know and so again what the question is what

and so again what the question is what

and so again what the question is what are the filters we were using and so if

are the filters we were using and so if

are the filters we were using and so if you’re only chasing the mighty dollar

you’re only chasing the mighty dollar

you’re only chasing the mighty dollar then you will have jobs that’ll pay you

then you will have jobs that’ll pay you

then you will have jobs that’ll pay you a little more than the last but you

a little more than the last but you

a little more than the last but you enjoying yourself and I talked to a guy

enjoying yourself and I talked to a guy

enjoying yourself and I talked to a guy recently who wasn’t he’s in bad shape

recently who wasn’t he’s in bad shape

recently who wasn’t he’s in bad shape like he really hates his life and he’s

like he really hates his life and he’s

like he really hates his life and he’s really depressed he doesn’t know what to

really depressed he doesn’t know what to

really depressed he doesn’t know what to do and so we were going through all his

do and so we were going through all his

do and so we were going through all his old jobs you know and I said give me a

old jobs you know and I said give me a

old jobs you know and I said give me a job that you’ve loved and he hadn’t

job that you’ve loved and he hadn’t

job that you’ve loved and he hadn’t every single job he’s chosen out of

every single job he’s chosen out of

every single job he’s chosen out of college he picked because of the the

college he picked because of the the

college he picked because of the the money and if something offered him or

money and if something offered him or

money and if something offered him or somewhere else he took it you know

somewhere else he took it you know

somewhere else he took it you know regardless and and and the amazing thing

regardless and and and the amazing thing

regardless and and and the amazing thing is he plateaued because if you’re only

is he plateaued because if you’re only

is he plateaued because if you’re only chasing the result if you’re only

chasing the result if you’re only

chasing the result if you’re only chasing the thing that makes it easy

chasing the thing that makes it easy

chasing the thing that makes it easy right then eventually you will get bored

right then eventually you will get bored

right then eventually you will get bored or they’ll get bored of you right and

or they’ll get bored of you right and

or they’ll get bored of you right and you Plateau

you Plateau

you Plateau in other words chasing the old mighty

in other words chasing the old mighty

in other words chasing the old mighty dollar if that’s your only thing it

dollar if that’s your only thing it

dollar if that’s your only thing it eventually flattens out whereas if

eventually flattens out whereas if

eventually flattens out whereas if you’re chasing the thing that excites

you’re chasing the thing that excites

you’re chasing the thing that excites you the human beings to be around the

you the human beings to be around the

you the human beings to be around the work that excites you the stuff that you

work that excites you the stuff that you

work that excites you the stuff that you know you know you you can get passionate

know you know you you can get passionate

know you know you you can get passionate about you know the the irony is is

about you know the the irony is is

about you know the the irony is is you’ll actually make way way more right

you’ll actually make way way more right

you’ll actually make way way more right because you’re excited and they

because you’re excited and they

because you’re excited and they appreciate your excitement and they

appreciate your excitement and they

appreciate your excitement and they reward your excitement and you’re better

reward your excitement and you’re better

reward your excitement and you’re better at your work because you want to work

at your work because you want to work

at your work because you want to work harder and all of that stuff you don’t

harder and all of that stuff you don’t

harder and all of that stuff you don’t have to strain to work harder so

have to strain to work harder so

have to strain to work harder so decision making a Siddal is simply a

decision making a Siddal is simply a

decision making a Siddal is simply a matter of filters you know and so I’ve

matter of filters you know and so I’ve

matter of filters you know and so I’ve made decisions in my life that I would

made decisions in my life that I would

made decisions in my life that I would rather be happy than right I

rather be happy than right I

rather be happy than right I good then

good then

good then then get rich and and so the decisions I

then get rich and and so the decisions I

then get rich and and so the decisions I make put in positions where would I

make put in positions where would I

make put in positions where would I leave any engagement when I leave any

leave any engagement when I leave any

leave any engagement when I leave any meeting I feel that I’ve contributed

meeting I feel that I’ve contributed

meeting I feel that I’ve contributed right where are the times anymore we

right where are the times anymore we

right where are the times anymore we were crying

were crying

were crying [Music]

[Music]

[Music] you know

you know

you know because that doesn’t feel nuts and the

because that doesn’t feel nuts and the

because that doesn’t feel nuts and the experience I have

experience I have

experience I have I don’t enjoy traveling to them and I

I don’t enjoy traveling to them and I

I don’t enjoy traveling to them and I don’t enjoy our traveling home we’re

don’t enjoy our traveling home we’re

don’t enjoy our traveling home we’re gonna have an amazing experience I am

gonna have an amazing experience I am

gonna have an amazing experience I am looking forward to getting there and I’m

looking forward to getting there and I’m

looking forward to getting there and I’m excited when I leave you know so it’s

excited when I leave you know so it’s

excited when I leave you know so it’s just decision decision making is just a

just decision decision making is just a

just decision decision making is just a matter of what filters you use and if

matter of what filters you use and if

matter of what filters you use and if you’re if you’re good about keeping

you’re if you’re good about keeping

you’re if you’re good about keeping those filters up and clear then then

those filters up and clear then then

those filters up and clear then then make the decision I don’t judge anybody

make the decision I don’t judge anybody

make the decision I don’t judge anybody by how if they choose to use different

by how if they choose to use different

by how if they choose to use different filters these are just the filters I

filters these are just the filters I

filters these are just the filters I choose to live my life you know not

choose to live my life you know not

choose to live my life you know not right or wrong just those are my

right or wrong just those are my

right or wrong just those are my decisions

decisions

decisions you know that’s my filter how can you

you know that’s my filter how can you

you know that’s my filter how can you help the human race how can you help the

help the human race how can you help the

help the human race how can you help the human race human species progress

human race human species progress

human race human species progress I’m not joking either this is something

I’m not joking either this is something

I’m not joking either this is something I think we all have to be aware of at

I think we all have to be aware of at

I think we all have to be aware of at the end of the day the human animals are

the end of the day the human animals are

the end of the day the human animals are social animal and our very survival

social animal and our very survival

social animal and our very survival depends on our ability to form

depends on our ability to form

depends on our ability to form communities to form cultures what’s a

communities to form cultures what’s a

communities to form cultures what’s a community what’s a culture it’s a group

community what’s a culture it’s a group

community what’s a culture it’s a group of people with a common set of values

of people with a common set of values

of people with a common set of values and beliefs right

and beliefs right

and beliefs right what’s a country it’s a group of people

what’s a country it’s a group of people

what’s a country it’s a group of people with a common set of values and beliefs

with a common set of values and beliefs

with a common set of values and beliefs what’s a company it should be a group of

what’s a company it should be a group of

what’s a company it should be a group of people with a common set of values and

people with a common set of values and

people with a common set of values and beliefs when we’re surrounded by people

beliefs when we’re surrounded by people

beliefs when we’re surrounded by people who believe what we believe something

who believe what we believe something

who believe what we believe something remarkable happens Trust emerges and

remarkable happens Trust emerges and

remarkable happens Trust emerges and make no mistake of it trust as a feeling

make no mistake of it trust as a feeling

make no mistake of it trust as a feeling a distinctly human feeling you know we

a distinctly human feeling you know we

a distinctly human feeling you know we all have friends we’re total screw-ups

all have friends we’re total screw-ups

all have friends we’re total screw-ups and yet we still trust them right Trust

and yet we still trust them right Trust

and yet we still trust them right Trust is not a checklist if we doing

is not a checklist if we doing

is not a checklist if we doing everything you say you’re going to do

everything you say you’re going to do

everything you say you’re going to do doesn’t that much does not mean people

doesn’t that much does not mean people

doesn’t that much does not mean people will inherently trust you it just means

will inherently trust you it just means

will inherently trust you it just means you’re reliable

you’re reliable

you’re reliable we need trust right we need trust when

we need trust right we need trust when

we need trust right we need trust when we’re surrounded by people who believe

we’re surrounded by people who believe

we’re surrounded by people who believe what we believe and trust starts to

what we believe and trust starts to

what we believe and trust starts to emerge and we trust them and they trust

emerge and we trust them and they trust

emerge and we trust them and they trust us we’re more willing to take risks

us we’re more willing to take risks

us we’re more willing to take risks we’re more willing to experiment which

we’re more willing to experiment which

we’re more willing to experiment which requires failure we’re more willing to

requires failure we’re more willing to

requires failure we’re more willing to explore and go somewhere with that no

explore and go somewhere with that no

explore and go somewhere with that no one has ever gone before with the

one has ever gone before with the

one has ever gone before with the confidence that if we fail if we trip

confidence that if we fail if we trip

confidence that if we fail if we trip over if we turn our backs that those

over if we turn our backs that those

over if we turn our backs that those within our community those who we trust

within our community those who we trust

within our community those who we trust and who trust us will look after us

and who trust us will look after us

and who trust us will look after us while we’re gone we’ll pick us up when

while we’re gone we’ll pick us up when

while we’re gone we’ll pick us up when we fall over will help us when we’re

we fall over will help us when we’re

we fall over will help us when we’re hurt our very survival

hurt our very survival

hurt our very survival depends on it we’re not good at

depends on it we’re not good at

depends on it we’re not good at everything we’re not good by ourselves

everything we’re not good by ourselves

everything we’re not good by ourselves you know if I send you out to go fight a

you know if I send you out to go fight a

you know if I send you out to go fight a saber-toothed tiger by yourself odds are

saber-toothed tiger by yourself odds are

saber-toothed tiger by yourself odds are Tiger one you zero it’s not gonna go

Tiger one you zero it’s not gonna go

Tiger one you zero it’s not gonna go very well but if you go out as a group

very well but if you go out as a group

very well but if you go out as a group we’re pretty damn amazing

we’re pretty damn amazing

we’re pretty damn amazing and the reason is is because we all have

and the reason is is because we all have

and the reason is is because we all have our strengths and we all of our certain

our strengths and we all of our certain

our strengths and we all of our certain weaknesses and the goal is not to fix

weaknesses and the goal is not to fix

weaknesses and the goal is not to fix your weaknesses the goal is to amplify

your weaknesses the goal is to amplify

your weaknesses the goal is to amplify your strengths and surround yourself

your strengths and surround yourself

your strengths and surround yourself with the people who can do what you

with the people who can do what you

with the people who can do what you can’t do but it’s not just based on

can’t do but it’s not just based on

can’t do but it’s not just based on skills and an application and experience

skills and an application and experience

skills and an application and experience it’s based on what you believe it’s

it’s based on what you believe it’s

it’s based on what you believe it’s based on what you believe you see simply

based on what you believe you see simply

based on what you believe you see simply being good at something and having

being good at something and having

being good at something and having somebody else being good what you’re no

somebody else being good what you’re no

somebody else being good what you’re no good at does not mean you will trust

good at does not mean you will trust

good at does not mean you will trust each other trust the sense of trust

each other trust the sense of trust

each other trust the sense of trust comes from the sense of common values

comes from the sense of common values

comes from the sense of common values and common beliefs I can prove it how

and common beliefs I can prove it how

and common beliefs I can prove it how many of you from New York okay

many of you from New York okay

many of you from New York okay bunch of you are you friends with

bunch of you are you friends with

bunch of you are you friends with everybody in New York why not why not

everybody in New York why not why not

everybody in New York why not why not but when you go to Los Angeles and you

but when you go to Los Angeles and you

but when you go to Los Angeles and you meet someone from New York you’re like

meet someone from New York you’re like

meet someone from New York you’re like hey how about New York and your best

hey how about New York and your best

hey how about New York and your best friend’s right and when you go to France

friend’s right and when you go to France

friend’s right and when you go to France you there you are on the Paris Metro

you there you are on the Paris Metro

you there you are on the Paris Metro minding your own business and you’re

minding your own business and you’re

minding your own business and you’re here in American accent behind you and

here in American accent behind you and

here in American accent behind you and you turn around and say hey where’re you

you turn around and say hey where’re you

you turn around and say hey where’re you from

from

from they say Los Angeles you’re like hey I’m

they say Los Angeles you’re like hey I’m

they say Los Angeles you’re like hey I’m from New York and you’re best friends

from New York and you’re best friends

from New York and you’re best friends because when you’re surrounded by people

because when you’re surrounded by people

because when you’re surrounded by people who don’t believe what you believe when

who don’t believe what you believe when

who don’t believe what you believe when you’re in a strange environment where

you’re in a strange environment where

you’re in a strange environment where you don’t feel comfortable you look for

you don’t feel comfortable you look for

you don’t feel comfortable you look for anyone who may share some of the same

anyone who may share some of the same

anyone who may share some of the same values and beliefs that you have and you

values and beliefs that you have and you

values and beliefs that you have and you start to form a very wheat real and very

start to form a very wheat real and very

start to form a very wheat real and very intense bond with them simply because

intense bond with them simply because

intense bond with them simply because you know that they have a basic

you know that they have a basic

you know that they have a basic understanding of how you grew up of the

understanding of how you grew up of the

understanding of how you grew up of the things that you care about or the life

things that you care about or the life

things that you care about or the life that you live back home well the same is

that you live back home well the same is

that you live back home well the same is true when we go to work do we want to go

true when we go to work do we want to go

true when we go to work do we want to go to work with people who understand us

to work with people who understand us

to work with people who understand us who believe what we believe who have a

who believe what we believe who have a

who believe what we believe who have a similar view of the world that has

similar view of the world that has

similar view of the world that has nothing to do with their opinions and

nothing to do with their opinions and

nothing to do with their opinions and the differences that we share

the differences that we share

the differences that we share that’s good that’s called diversity

that’s good that’s called diversity

that’s good that’s called diversity that’s called advantages to

that’s called advantages to

that’s called advantages to problem-solving which is we can all look

problem-solving which is we can all look

problem-solving which is we can all look at the same thing from a different angle

at the same thing from a different angle

at the same thing from a different angle and come up with solutions what I’m

and come up with solutions what I’m

and come up with solutions what I’m talking about is why should you help

talking about is why should you help

talking about is why should you help each other in the first place what are

each other in the first place what are

each other in the first place what are you in pursuit of

you in pursuit of

you in pursuit of now the question is is what creates that

now the question is is what creates that

now the question is is what creates that sense of values and believes what

sense of values and believes what

sense of values and believes what creates that sense of trust our very

creates that sense of trust our very

creates that sense of trust our very human instinct we know how to find

human instinct we know how to find

human instinct we know how to find people who believe what we believe our

people who believe what we believe our

people who believe what we believe our survival depends on it

survival depends on it

survival depends on it we’re biologically gifted with this idea

we’re biologically gifted with this idea

we’re biologically gifted with this idea if I ask you to go out in the street and

if I ask you to go out in the street and

if I ask you to go out in the street and find all the people who believe what you

find all the people who believe what you

find all the people who believe what you believe you know exactly what to do

believe you know exactly what to do

believe you know exactly what to do you’re gonna strike up conversations

you’re gonna strike up conversations

you’re gonna strike up conversations you’re gonna start talking to people and

you’re gonna start talking to people and

you’re gonna start talking to people and nearly either you’ll have a good feeling

nearly either you’ll have a good feeling

nearly either you’ll have a good feeling about them or you want either you’ll

about them or you want either you’ll

about them or you want either you’ll have chemistry whatever that means where

have chemistry whatever that means where

have chemistry whatever that means where you don’t sometimes it’s quick sometimes

you don’t sometimes it’s quick sometimes

you don’t sometimes it’s quick sometimes it’s slow but we know how to do it it’s

it’s slow but we know how to do it it’s

it’s slow but we know how to do it it’s called making friends it’s called dating

called making friends it’s called dating

called making friends it’s called dating it’s called networking we have the

it’s called networking we have the

it’s called networking we have the innate ability to do it true story there

innate ability to do it true story there

innate ability to do it true story there was a former Undersecretary of Defense

was a former Undersecretary of Defense

was a former Undersecretary of Defense who was invited to give a speech at a

who was invited to give a speech at a

who was invited to give a speech at a large conference about a thousand people

large conference about a thousand people

large conference about a thousand people and he was standing on the stage with

and he was standing on the stage with

and he was standing on the stage with his cup of coffee and a Styrofoam cup

his cup of coffee and a Styrofoam cup

his cup of coffee and a Styrofoam cup giving his prepare to march with his

giving his prepare to march with his

giving his prepare to march with his powerpoint behind him

powerpoint behind him

powerpoint behind him and he took a sip of his coffee and he

and he took a sip of his coffee and he

and he took a sip of his coffee and he smiled and he looked down at the coffee

smiled and he looked down at the coffee

smiled and he looked down at the coffee and then he went off-script

and then he went off-script

and then he went off-script and he said you know last year I spoke

and he said you know last year I spoke

and he said you know last year I spoke at this exact same conference last year

at this exact same conference last year

at this exact same conference last year I was still the undersecretary and when

I was still the undersecretary and when

I was still the undersecretary and when I spoke here last year they flew me here

I spoke here last year they flew me here

I spoke here last year they flew me here business class and when I arrived at the

business class and when I arrived at the

business class and when I arrived at the airport there was somebody waiting for

airport there was somebody waiting for

airport there was somebody waiting for me to take me to my hotel and they took

me to take me to my hotel and they took

me to take me to my hotel and they took me to my hotel and they had already

me to my hotel and they had already

me to my hotel and they had already checked me in and they just took me up

checked me in and they just took me up

checked me in and they just took me up to my room and the next morning I came

to my room and the next morning I came

to my room and the next morning I came downstairs and there was someone waiting

downstairs and there was someone waiting

downstairs and there was someone waiting in the lobby to greet me and they drove

in the lobby to greet me and they drove

in the lobby to greet me and they drove me to this here same venue they took me

me to this here same venue they took me

me to this here same venue they took me through the back entrance and took me

through the back entrance and took me

through the back entrance and took me into the green room and handed me a

into the green room and handed me a

into the green room and handed me a coffee cup of coffee in a beautiful

coffee cup of coffee in a beautiful

coffee cup of coffee in a beautiful ceramic cup

ceramic cup

ceramic cup he says I’m no longer the undersecretary

he says I’m no longer the undersecretary

he says I’m no longer the undersecretary a flew here coach I took a taxi to my

a flew here coach I took a taxi to my

a flew here coach I took a taxi to my hotel and I checked myself in when I

hotel and I checked myself in when I

hotel and I checked myself in when I came down the lobby this morning I took

came down the lobby this morning I took

came down the lobby this morning I took another taxi to this venue I came in the

another taxi to this venue I came in the

another taxi to this venue I came in the front door and found my way backstage

front door and found my way backstage

front door and found my way backstage and when I asked someone do you have any

and when I asked someone do you have any

and when I asked someone do you have any coffee he pointed to the coffee machine

coffee he pointed to the coffee machine

coffee he pointed to the coffee machine in the corner and I poured myself a cup

in the corner and I poured myself a cup

in the corner and I poured myself a cup of coffee into this here

of coffee into this here

of coffee into this here Foam Cup he says the lesson is the

Foam Cup he says the lesson is the

Foam Cup he says the lesson is the ceramic cup was never meant for me it

ceramic cup was never meant for me it

ceramic cup was never meant for me it was meant for the position I held I

was meant for the position I held I

was meant for the position I held I deserved a Styrofoam cup remember this

deserved a Styrofoam cup remember this

deserved a Styrofoam cup remember this as you gain Fame as you gain fortune as

as you gain Fame as you gain fortune as

as you gain Fame as you gain fortune as you gain position and seniority people

you gain position and seniority people

you gain position and seniority people will treat you better they will hold

will treat you better they will hold

will treat you better they will hold doors open for you they will get you a

doors open for you they will get you a

doors open for you they will get you a cup of tea and coffee without you even

cup of tea and coffee without you even

cup of tea and coffee without you even asking they will call you sir and ma’am

asking they will call you sir and ma’am

asking they will call you sir and ma’am and they will give you stuff none of

and they will give you stuff none of

and they will give you stuff none of that stuff is meant for you that stuff

that stuff is meant for you that stuff

that stuff is meant for you that stuff is meant for the position you hold it is

is meant for the position you hold it is

is meant for the position you hold it is meant for the level that you have

meant for the level that you have

meant for the level that you have achieved of leader or success or

achieved of leader or success or

achieved of leader or success or whatever you want to call it but you

whatever you want to call it but you

whatever you want to call it but you will always deserve a Styrofoam cup

will always deserve a Styrofoam cup

will always deserve a Styrofoam cup remember that remember that lesson of

remember that remember that lesson of

remember that remember that lesson of humility and gratitude you can accept

humility and gratitude you can accept

humility and gratitude you can accept all the free stuff you can accept all

all the free stuff you can accept all

all the free stuff you can accept all the perks absolutely you can enjoy them

the perks absolutely you can enjoy them

the perks absolutely you can enjoy them but just be grateful for them and know

but just be grateful for them and know

but just be grateful for them and know that they’re not for you I remember

that they’re not for you I remember

that they’re not for you I remember getting off the Acela I took the Acela

getting off the Acela I took the Acela

getting off the Acela I took the Acela from New York to Washington DC and I got

from New York to Washington DC and I got

from New York to Washington DC and I got off the train like everybody else and I

off the train like everybody else and I

off the train like everybody else and I was walking down the platform like

was walking down the platform like

was walking down the platform like everyone else and I walked past general

everyone else and I walked past general

everyone else and I walked past general Nordy Schwartz who used to be the chief

Nordy Schwartz who used to be the chief

Nordy Schwartz who used to be the chief of staff of the United States Air Force

of staff of the United States Air Force

of staff of the United States Air Force the head of the Air Force and here I did

the head of the Air Force and here I did

the head of the Air Force and here I did see a guy in a suit slepping his own

see a guy in a suit slepping his own

see a guy in a suit slepping his own suitcase down the platform just like me

suitcase down the platform just like me

suitcase down the platform just like me and just a couple months ago he was

and just a couple months ago he was

and just a couple months ago he was flying on private jets and a tan

flying on private jets and a tan

flying on private jets and a tan entourage and other people carried his

entourage and other people carried his

entourage and other people carried his light luggage but he no longer held the

light luggage but he no longer held the

light luggage but he no longer held the position and so now he got to drag his

position and so now he got to drag his

position and so now he got to drag his own suitcase and never did it sort of

own suitcase and never did it sort of

own suitcase and never did it sort of remind me more that none of us deserve

remind me more that none of us deserve

remind me more that none of us deserve the perks that we get we all deserve a

the perks that we get we all deserve a

the perks that we get we all deserve a styrofoam cup every decision we make in

styrofoam cup every decision we make in

styrofoam cup every decision we make in our lives as individuals or as

our lives as individuals or as

our lives as individuals or as organizations is a piece of

organizations is a piece of

organizations is a piece of communication it’s our way of saying

communication it’s our way of saying

communication it’s our way of saying something about who we are and what we

something about who we are and what we

something about who we are and what we believe this is why authenticity matters

believe this is why authenticity matters

believe this is why authenticity matters this is why you have to say

this is why you have to say

this is why you have to say and do the things you actually believe

and do the things you actually believe

and do the things you actually believe because the things you say and do are

because the things you say and do are

because the things you say and do are symbols of who you are and we look for

symbols of who you are and we look for

symbols of who you are and we look for those symbols so we can find people who

those symbols so we can find people who

those symbols so we can find people who believe what we believe our very

believe what we believe our very

believe what we believe our very survival depends on it so if you’re

survival depends on it so if you’re

survival depends on it so if you’re putting out false symbols you will

putting out false symbols you will

putting out false symbols you will attract people to those symbols but you

attract people to those symbols but you

attract people to those symbols but you won’t be able to form trust with them

won’t be able to form trust with them

won’t be able to form trust with them this is what Tiger Woods did to us he

this is what Tiger Woods did to us he

this is what Tiger Woods did to us he lied he lied he told us what he thought

lied he lied he told us what he thought

lied he lied he told us what he thought we wanted to hear and it was great and

we wanted to hear and it was great and

we wanted to hear and it was great and we were drawn to it and all of us who

we were drawn to it and all of us who

we were drawn to it and all of us who kind of liked that idea of that sort of

kind of liked that idea of that sort of

kind of liked that idea of that sort of the good guy

the good guy

the good guy we’re drawn to it until we found out it

we’re drawn to it until we found out it

we’re drawn to it until we found out it was a lie he could have been the bad boy

was a lie he could have been the bad boy

was a lie he could have been the bad boy of gold he could have had all the same

of gold he could have had all the same

of gold he could have had all the same endorsements and had a fantastic career

endorsements and had a fantastic career

endorsements and had a fantastic career and still been hailed as one of the

and still been hailed as one of the

and still been hailed as one of the great athletes of our day but he didn’t

great athletes of our day but he didn’t

great athletes of our day but he didn’t he chose to live good luck forming trust

he chose to live good luck forming trust

he chose to live good luck forming trust again tiger we don’t believe you we

again tiger we don’t believe you we

again tiger we don’t believe you we don’t trust you the goal of putting

don’t trust you the goal of putting

don’t trust you the goal of putting something out there if you say what you

something out there if you say what you

something out there if you say what you believe and you do what you believe you

believe and you do what you believe you

believe and you do what you believe you will attract people who believe what you

will attract people who believe what you

will attract people who believe what you believe if you go to one of your friends

believe if you go to one of your friends

believe if you go to one of your friends and you say to one of your friends how

and you say to one of your friends how

and you say to one of your friends how would you like me to dress so that

would you like me to dress so that

would you like me to dress so that you’ll like me better

you’ll like me better

you’ll like me better how would do you want me to address you

how would do you want me to address you

how would do you want me to address you how do you want me to speak so that

how do you want me to speak so that

how do you want me to speak so that you’ll like me more right your friends

you’ll like me more right your friends

you’ll like me more right your friends are gonna look at you be like what are

are gonna look at you be like what are

are gonna look at you be like what are you talking about yeah come on come on

you talking about yeah come on come on

you talking about yeah come on come on come on what should I wear so that

come on what should I wear so that

come on what should I wear so that you’ll find me more appealing and how

you’ll find me more appealing and how

you’ll find me more appealing and how would you like me to speak to you so

would you like me to speak to you so

would you like me to speak to you so that you’ll like me more and your

that you’ll like me more and your

that you’ll like me more and your friends are gonna tell you just be

friends are gonna tell you just be

friends are gonna tell you just be yourself that’s why I like you I don’t

yourself that’s why I like you I don’t

yourself that’s why I like you I don’t just be yourself now think about what we

just be yourself now think about what we

just be yourself now think about what we do in industry what do we do we do

do in industry what do we do we do

do in industry what do we do we do market research we don’t we ask the

market research we don’t we ask the

market research we don’t we ask the customers what kind of things away with

customers what kind of things away with

customers what kind of things away with what style should we speak to you how

what style should we speak to you how

what style should we speak to you how should we decorate ourselves what kind

should we decorate ourselves what kind

should we decorate ourselves what kind of things are you drawn to so that we

of things are you drawn to so that we

of things are you drawn to so that we can do those things you’ll like us more

can do those things you’ll like us more

can do those things you’ll like us more it’s just as ridiculous it’s just as

it’s just as ridiculous it’s just as

it’s just as ridiculous it’s just as ridiculous organizations should say and

ridiculous organizations should say and

ridiculous organizations should say and do the things they actually believe and

do the things they actually believe and

do the things they actually believe and they will attract people who believe

they will attract people who believe

they will attract people who believe what they believe or they can choose to

what they believe or they can choose to

what they believe or they can choose to lie and at the slightest hint that they

lie and at the slightest hint that they

lie and at the slightest hint that they might be lying cynicism sets in and

might be lying cynicism sets in and

might be lying cynicism sets in and people start saying I’m not sure I can

people start saying I’m not sure I can

people start saying I’m not sure I can trust these guys because there’s not a

trust these guys because there’s not a

trust these guys because there’s not a lot of consistency and all the things

lot of consistency and all the things

lot of consistency and all the things they say and do

they say and do

they say and do which means they can’t have a very

which means they can’t have a very

which means they can’t have a very strong belief set or they’re lying to me

strong belief set or they’re lying to me

strong belief set or they’re lying to me and we call them it authentic the entire

and we call them it authentic the entire

and we call them it authentic the entire process of asking other people who we

process of asking other people who we

process of asking other people who we should be is inauthentic that’s

should be is inauthentic that’s

should be is inauthentic that’s hilarious to me all these positioning

hilarious to me all these positioning

hilarious to me all these positioning studies we do are inherent

studies we do are inherent

studies we do are inherent we’re going to do a study to find out

we’re going to do a study to find out

we’re going to do a study to find out from people so we can be more authentic

from people so we can be more authentic

from people so we can be more authentic that’s hilarious

that’s hilarious

that’s hilarious say and do what you actually believe in

say and do what you actually believe in

say and do what you actually believe in the symbols you put out there the things

the symbols you put out there the things

the symbols you put out there the things you say and the things you do those red

you say and the things you do those red

you say and the things you do those red hats are ways that people can find you

hats are ways that people can find you

hats are ways that people can find you what you have the ability to do as

what you have the ability to do as

what you have the ability to do as designers is create those symbols and

designers is create those symbols and

designers is create those symbols and allow people to use those things to say

allow people to use those things to say

allow people to use those things to say something about who they are work for

something about who they are work for

something about who they are work for companies work for clients work for

companies work for clients work for

companies work for clients work for people who you believe what they believe

people who you believe what they believe

people who you believe what they believe show up and feel a part of something

show up and feel a part of something

show up and feel a part of something bigger than yourself and your part is to

bigger than yourself and your part is to

bigger than yourself and your part is to put what they believe into pictures and

put what they believe into pictures and

put what they believe into pictures and words and symbols and graphics so that

words and symbols and graphics so that

words and symbols and graphics so that other people can use those things to say

other people can use those things to say

other people can use those things to say something about who they are people put

something about who they are people put

something about who they are people put harley-davidson logos on their body to

harley-davidson logos on their body to

harley-davidson logos on their body to say something about who they are

say something about who they are

say something about who they are corporate logo ain’t no Procter &

corporate logo ain’t no Procter &

corporate logo ain’t no Procter & Gamble’s tattooed on anybody’s on

Gamble’s tattooed on anybody’s on

Gamble’s tattooed on anybody’s on because Harley means something they

because Harley means something they

because Harley means something they stand for something people put that

stand for something people put that

stand for something people put that tattoo on they’re not to tell you that

tattoo on they’re not to tell you that

tattoo on they’re not to tell you that they own a motorcycle they put that

they own a motorcycle they put that

they own a motorcycle they put that tattoo there to tell you something about

tattoo there to tell you something about

tattoo there to tell you something about themselves you ever see anybody with a

themselves you ever see anybody with a

themselves you ever see anybody with a with a Mac laptop put a sticker over

with a Mac laptop put a sticker over

with a Mac laptop put a sticker over that beautiful shining Apple ain’t never

that beautiful shining Apple ain’t never

that beautiful shining Apple ain’t never gonna happen then how will you know who

gonna happen then how will you know who

gonna happen then how will you know who I am

I am

I am give us to anybody with a PC break out

give us to anybody with a PC break out

give us to anybody with a PC break out the Windex to clean out their computer

the Windex to clean out their computer

the Windex to clean out their computer Mac people have you ever seen a dirty

Mac people have you ever seen a dirty

Mac people have you ever seen a dirty Mac doesn’t exist does not exist why

Mac doesn’t exist does not exist why

Mac doesn’t exist does not exist why because it’s Who I am

because it’s Who I am

because it’s Who I am these are symbols we use the companies

these are symbols we use the companies

these are symbols we use the companies that are crystal clear and what they

that are crystal clear and what they

that are crystal clear and what they believe and their discipline and how

believe and their discipline and how

believe and their discipline and how they do it they’re consistent what they

they do it they’re consistent what they

they do it they’re consistent what they do and everything they say and

do and everything they say and

do and everything they say and everything they do serves as a symbol of

everything they do serves as a symbol of

everything they do serves as a symbol of the set of values and beliefs we use

the set of values and beliefs we use

the set of values and beliefs we use those symbols to say something about who

those symbols to say something about who

those symbols to say something about who we are we surround ourselves with the

we are we surround ourselves with the

we are we surround ourselves with the people and the products and the brands

people and the products and the brands

people and the products and the brands that say something about who we are

that say something about who we are

that say something about who we are and when we confine the people who

and when we confine the people who

and when we confine the people who believe what we believe were weirdly

believe what we believe were weirdly

believe what we believe were weirdly drawn to them because our very survival

drawn to them because our very survival

drawn to them because our very survival depends on it we need it and so the more

depends on it we need it and so the more

depends on it we need it and so the more you can give of yourself the more you

you can give of yourself the more you

you can give of yourself the more you can give of what you believe the more

can give of what you believe the more

can give of what you believe the more you can discipline with discipline

you can discipline with discipline

you can discipline with discipline saying boo and do the things you

saying boo and do the things you

saying boo and do the things you actually believe strange things start to

actually believe strange things start to

actually believe strange things start to happen what are your thoughts and what’s

happen what are your thoughts and what’s

happen what are your thoughts and what’s your approach on finding in building

your approach on finding in building

your approach on finding in building upon passions passion is not an

upon passions passion is not an

upon passions passion is not an actionable word it’s correct you know

actionable word it’s correct you know

actionable word it’s correct you know that those who do the things that

that those who do the things that

that those who do the things that they’re passionate about do better but

they’re passionate about do better but

they’re passionate about do better but it’s not helpful advice and so the

it’s not helpful advice and so the

it’s not helpful advice and so the question is where does passion come from

question is where does passion come from

question is where does passion come from passion is a result passion is an energy

passion is a result passion is an energy

passion is a result passion is an energy passion is the feeling you have when

passion is the feeling you have when

passion is the feeling you have when you’re engaged in something that you

you’re engaged in something that you

you’re engaged in something that you love passion is the feeling you have

love passion is the feeling you have

love passion is the feeling you have that you would probably do this for free

that you would probably do this for free

that you would probably do this for free you know and you can’t believe somebody

you know and you can’t believe somebody

you know and you can’t believe somebody pays you to do it you know and I think

pays you to do it you know and I think

pays you to do it you know and I think we mistake that passion is something we

we mistake that passion is something we

we mistake that passion is something we do in our private lives but it shouldn’t

do in our private lives but it shouldn’t

do in our private lives but it shouldn’t be done you know in our careers for

be done you know in our careers for

be done you know in our careers for example and I’m a firm believer that you

example and I’m a firm believer that you

example and I’m a firm believer that you are who you are and anybody who says I’m

are who you are and anybody who says I’m

are who you are and anybody who says I’m different at home than I am at work and

different at home than I am at work and

different at home than I am at work and one of those two places you’re lying

one of those two places you’re lying

one of those two places you’re lying and the goal is to make everything you

and the goal is to make everything you

and the goal is to make everything you do in home and it works something that

do in home and it works something that

do in home and it works something that you have excitement to do so how do you

you have excitement to do so how do you

you have excitement to do so how do you find the things that you’re excited to

find the things that you’re excited to

find the things that you’re excited to do well it’s actually easier than you

do well it’s actually easier than you

do well it’s actually easier than you think what are the things that you love

think what are the things that you love

think what are the things that you love to do what are the things that you would

to do what are the things that you would

to do what are the things that you would do for free you know how can you

do for free you know how can you

do for free you know how can you recreate that feeling and and be paid

recreate that feeling and and be paid

recreate that feeling and and be paid for it so what are the things that I do

for it so what are the things that I do

for it so what are the things that I do in the weekend right I love I’m very

in the weekend right I love I’m very

in the weekend right I love I’m very involved in the art world I love to go

involved in the art world I love to go

involved in the art world I love to go to museums and galleries but I love to

to museums and galleries but I love to

to museums and galleries but I love to go see dance and performances because I

go see dance and performances because I

go see dance and performances because I want to see how others are interpreting

want to see how others are interpreting

want to see how others are interpreting the world so that inspires me new ideas

the world so that inspires me new ideas

the world so that inspires me new ideas new thoughts new ways of looking at the

new thoughts new ways of looking at the

new thoughts new ways of looking at the world are are things that interest me

world are are things that interest me

world are are things that interest me privately and I seek it out and pay

privately and I seek it out and pay

privately and I seek it out and pay money for it

money for it

money for it right so does that mean I have to have a

right so does that mean I have to have a

right so does that mean I have to have a career in the arts no it means I have to

career in the arts no it means I have to

career in the arts no it means I have to have a career where new ideas are

have a career where new ideas are

have a career where new ideas are explored where people are experimenting

explored where people are experimenting

explored where people are experimenting and trying things out and I have to

and trying things out and I have to

and trying things out and I have to explore new ideas and try things out and

explore new ideas and try things out and

explore new ideas and try things out and I’m just as excited to go to work every

I’m just as excited to go to work every

I’m just as excited to go to work every day as I am just you know go do

day as I am just you know go do

day as I am just you know go do something on a Saturday night and so the

something on a Saturday night and so the

something on a Saturday night and so the idea

idea

idea finding your passion is ironically

finding your passion is ironically

finding your passion is ironically simple because you should be doing stuff

simple because you should be doing stuff

simple because you should be doing stuff that you enjoy sometimes what is the

that you enjoy sometimes what is the

that you enjoy sometimes what is the stuff that you enjoy and then what is

stuff that you enjoy and then what is

stuff that you enjoy and then what is the stuff that you love who the people

the stuff that you love who the people

the stuff that you love who the people you love and what are that’s what they

you love and what are that’s what they

you love and what are that’s what they all have in common how do you explain

all have in common how do you explain

all have in common how do you explain when things don’t go as we assumed or

when things don’t go as we assumed or

when things don’t go as we assumed or better how do you explain when others

better how do you explain when others

better how do you explain when others are able to achieve things that seem to

are able to achieve things that seem to

are able to achieve things that seem to defy all of the assumptions for example

defy all of the assumptions for example

defy all of the assumptions for example why is Apple so innovative year after

why is Apple so innovative year after

why is Apple so innovative year after year after year after year they’re more

year after year after year they’re more

year after year after year they’re more innovative than all their competition

innovative than all their competition

innovative than all their competition and yet they’re just a computer company

and yet they’re just a computer company

and yet they’re just a computer company they’re just like everyone else they

they’re just like everyone else they

they’re just like everyone else they have the same access to the same talent

have the same access to the same talent

have the same access to the same talent the same agencies the same consultant

the same agencies the same consultant

the same agencies the same consultant the same media then why is it that they

the same media then why is it that they

the same media then why is it that they seemed to have something different why

seemed to have something different why

seemed to have something different why is it that Martin Luther King led the

is it that Martin Luther King led the

is it that Martin Luther King led the civil rights movement he wasn’t the only

civil rights movement he wasn’t the only

civil rights movement he wasn’t the only man who suffered in a pre-civil Rights

man who suffered in a pre-civil Rights

man who suffered in a pre-civil Rights America and he certainly wasn’t the only

America and he certainly wasn’t the only

America and he certainly wasn’t the only great orator of the day why him and why

great orator of the day why him and why

great orator of the day why him and why is it that the Wright brothers were able

is it that the Wright brothers were able

is it that the Wright brothers were able to figure out control powered man flight

to figure out control powered man flight

to figure out control powered man flight when there were certainly other teams

when there were certainly other teams

when there were certainly other teams who were better qualified better funded

who were better qualified better funded

who were better qualified better funded and they didn’t achieve powered man

and they didn’t achieve powered man

and they didn’t achieve powered man flight the Wright brothers beat them to

flight the Wright brothers beat them to

flight the Wright brothers beat them to it there’s something else at play here

it there’s something else at play here

it there’s something else at play here about three and a half years ago I made

about three and a half years ago I made

about three and a half years ago I made a discovery and this discovery

a discovery and this discovery

a discovery and this discovery profoundly changed my view on how I

profoundly changed my view on how I

profoundly changed my view on how I thought the world worked and it even

thought the world worked and it even

thought the world worked and it even profoundly changed the way in which I

profoundly changed the way in which I

profoundly changed the way in which I operate in it as it turns out there’s a

operate in it as it turns out there’s a

operate in it as it turns out there’s a pattern as it turns out all the great

pattern as it turns out all the great

pattern as it turns out all the great and inspiring leaders and organizations

and inspiring leaders and organizations

and inspiring leaders and organizations in the world whether it’s Apple or

in the world whether it’s Apple or

in the world whether it’s Apple or Martin Luther King or the Wright

Martin Luther King or the Wright

Martin Luther King or the Wright brothers they all think act and

brothers they all think act and

brothers they all think act and communicate the exact same way and it’s

communicate the exact same way and it’s

communicate the exact same way and it’s the complete opposite to everyone else

the complete opposite to everyone else

the complete opposite to everyone else all I did was codified and it’s probably

all I did was codified and it’s probably

all I did was codified and it’s probably the world’s simplest idea I call it the

the world’s simplest idea I call it the

the world’s simplest idea I call it the Golden Circle

why how what this little idea explains

why how what this little idea explains why some organizations and some leaders

why some organizations and some leaders

why some organizations and some leaders are able to inspire where others aren’t

are able to inspire where others aren’t

are able to inspire where others aren’t let me define the terms really quickly

let me define the terms really quickly

let me define the terms really quickly every single person every single

every single person every single

every single person every single organization on the planet knows what

organization on the planet knows what

organization on the planet knows what they do 100 percent some know how they

they do 100 percent some know how they

they do 100 percent some know how they do it with you call it your

do it with you call it your

do it with you call it your differentiating value proposition or

differentiating value proposition or

differentiating value proposition or your proprietary process or your USP but

your proprietary process or your USP but

your proprietary process or your USP but very very few people or organizations

very very few people or organizations

very very few people or organizations know why they do what they do and by why

know why they do what they do and by why

know why they do what they do and by why I don’t need to make a profit that’s a

I don’t need to make a profit that’s a

I don’t need to make a profit that’s a result it’s always a result by why I

result it’s always a result by why I

result it’s always a result by why I mean what’s your purpose what’s your

mean what’s your purpose what’s your

mean what’s your purpose what’s your cause what’s your belief why does your

cause what’s your belief why does your

cause what’s your belief why does your organization exist why do you get out of

organization exist why do you get out of

organization exist why do you get out of bed in the morning and why should anyone

bed in the morning and why should anyone

bed in the morning and why should anyone care well as a result the way we think

care well as a result the way we think

care well as a result the way we think the way we act the way we communicate is

the way we act the way we communicate is

the way we act the way we communicate is from the outside in and it’s obvious we

from the outside in and it’s obvious we

from the outside in and it’s obvious we go from the clearest thing to the

go from the clearest thing to the

go from the clearest thing to the fuzziest thing but the inspired leaders

fuzziest thing but the inspired leaders

fuzziest thing but the inspired leaders in the inspire or inspired organizations

in the inspire or inspired organizations

in the inspire or inspired organizations regardless of their size regardless of

regardless of their size regardless of

regardless of their size regardless of their industry all think act and

their industry all think act and

their industry all think act and communicate from the inside out let me

communicate from the inside out let me

communicate from the inside out let me give you an example I use Apple because

give you an example I use Apple because

give you an example I use Apple because they’re easy to understand and everybody

they’re easy to understand and everybody

they’re easy to understand and everybody gets it if Apple were like everyone else

gets it if Apple were like everyone else

gets it if Apple were like everyone else a marketing message from them might

a marketing message from them might

a marketing message from them might sound like this we make great computers

sound like this we make great computers

sound like this we make great computers they’re beautifully designed simple to

they’re beautifully designed simple to

they’re beautifully designed simple to use and user friendly want to buy one

use and user friendly want to buy one

use and user friendly want to buy one and that’s how most of us communicate

and that’s how most of us communicate

and that’s how most of us communicate that’s how most marketing is done that’s

that’s how most marketing is done that’s

that’s how most marketing is done that’s how most sales them and that’s how most

how most sales them and that’s how most

how most sales them and that’s how most of us communicate interpersonally we

of us communicate interpersonally we

of us communicate interpersonally we save what we do we say how we’re

save what we do we say how we’re

save what we do we say how we’re different or how we better and we expect

different or how we better and we expect

different or how we better and we expect some sort of behavior or purchase vote

some sort of behavior or purchase vote

some sort of behavior or purchase vote something like that here’s our new law

something like that here’s our new law

something like that here’s our new law firm we have the best lawyers with the

firm we have the best lawyers with the

firm we have the best lawyers with the biggest clients we have you know we

biggest clients we have you know we

biggest clients we have you know we always perform for our clients do

always perform for our clients do

always perform for our clients do business with us here’s our new car it

business with us here’s our new car it

business with us here’s our new car it gets great gas mileage it has you know

gets great gas mileage it has you know

gets great gas mileage it has you know leather seats by our car but it’s

leather seats by our car but it’s

leather seats by our car but it’s uninspiring here’s how Apple actually

uninspiring here’s how Apple actually

uninspiring here’s how Apple actually communicates everything we do we believe

communicates everything we do we believe

communicates everything we do we believe in challenging the status quo we believe

in challenging the status quo we believe

in challenging the status quo we believe in thinking differently

in thinking differently

in thinking differently the way we challenge in status quo is by

the way we challenge in status quo is by

the way we challenge in status quo is by making our products beautifully designed

making our products beautifully designed

making our products beautifully designed simple to use and user friendly we just

simple to use and user friendly we just

simple to use and user friendly we just happen to make great computers wanna buy

happen to make great computers wanna buy

happen to make great computers wanna buy one totally different right you’re ready

one totally different right you’re ready

one totally different right you’re ready to buy a computer from me all I did was

to buy a computer from me all I did was

to buy a computer from me all I did was reverse the order of the information

reverse the order of the information

reverse the order of the information what it proves to us is that people

what it proves to us is that people

what it proves to us is that people don’t buy what you do people buy why you

don’t buy what you do people buy why you

don’t buy what you do people buy why you do it people don’t buy what you do they

do it people don’t buy what you do they

do it people don’t buy what you do they buy why you do it

buy why you do it

buy why you do it this explains why every single person in

this explains why every single person in

this explains why every single person in this room is perfectly comfortable

this room is perfectly comfortable

this room is perfectly comfortable buying a computer from Apple but we’re

buying a computer from Apple but we’re

buying a computer from Apple but we’re also perfectly comfortable buying an mp3

also perfectly comfortable buying an mp3

also perfectly comfortable buying an mp3 player from Apple or a phone from Apple

player from Apple or a phone from Apple

player from Apple or a phone from Apple or a DVR from Apple but as I said before

or a DVR from Apple but as I said before

or a DVR from Apple but as I said before Apple’s just a computer company there’s

Apple’s just a computer company there’s

Apple’s just a computer company there’s nothing that distinguishes them

nothing that distinguishes them

nothing that distinguishes them structurally from any of their

structurally from any of their

structurally from any of their competitors their competitors are all

competitors their competitors are all

competitors their competitors are all equally qualified to make all of these

equally qualified to make all of these

equally qualified to make all of these products in fact they tried a few years

products in fact they tried a few years

products in fact they tried a few years ago gateway came out with flat-screen

ago gateway came out with flat-screen

ago gateway came out with flat-screen TVs they’re eminently qualified to make

TVs they’re eminently qualified to make

TVs they’re eminently qualified to make flat-screen tvs they’ve been making some

flat-screen tvs they’ve been making some

flat-screen tvs they’ve been making some flat-screen monitors for years Dell came

flat-screen monitors for years Dell came

flat-screen monitors for years Dell came out with mp3 players and PDAs and they

out with mp3 players and PDAs and they

out with mp3 players and PDAs and they make great quality products and they can

make great quality products and they can

make great quality products and they can make perfectly well design products and

make perfectly well design products and

make perfectly well design products and nobody bought one in fact talking about

nobody bought one in fact talking about

nobody bought one in fact talking about it now we can’t even imagine buying an

it now we can’t even imagine buying an

it now we can’t even imagine buying an mp3 player from Dell why would you buy

mp3 player from Dell why would you buy

mp3 player from Dell why would you buy an mp3 player from a computer company

an mp3 player from a computer company

an mp3 player from a computer company but we do it every day people don’t buy

but we do it every day people don’t buy

but we do it every day people don’t buy what you do they buy why you do it

what you do they buy why you do it

what you do they buy why you do it the goal is not to do business with

the goal is not to do business with

the goal is not to do business with anybody with everybody who needs what

anybody with everybody who needs what

anybody with everybody who needs what you have the goal is to do business with

you have the goal is to do business with

you have the goal is to do business with people who believe what you believe

people who believe what you believe

people who believe what you believe here’s the best part none of what I’m

here’s the best part none of what I’m

here’s the best part none of what I’m telling you is my opinion it’s all

telling you is my opinion it’s all

telling you is my opinion it’s all grounded in the tenets of biology not

grounded in the tenets of biology not

grounded in the tenets of biology not psychology biology if you look at a

psychology biology if you look at a

psychology biology if you look at a cross-section of the human brain looking

cross-section of the human brain looking

cross-section of the human brain looking from the top down what you see is the

from the top down what you see is the

from the top down what you see is the human brain is actually broken into

human brain is actually broken into

human brain is actually broken into three major components that

three major components that

three major components that karley perfectly with the golden circle

karley perfectly with the golden circle

karley perfectly with the golden circle our newest brain our Homo Sapien brain

our newest brain our Homo Sapien brain

our newest brain our Homo Sapien brain our neocortex corresponds with the what

our neocortex corresponds with the what

our neocortex corresponds with the what level the neocortex is responsible for

level the neocortex is responsible for

level the neocortex is responsible for all of our rational and analytical

all of our rational and analytical

all of our rational and analytical thought and language the middle two

thought and language the middle two

thought and language the middle two sections make up our limbic brains and

sections make up our limbic brains and

sections make up our limbic brains and our limbic brains are responsible for

our limbic brains are responsible for

our limbic brains are responsible for all of our feelings like trust and

all of our feelings like trust and

all of our feelings like trust and loyalty it’s also responsible for all

loyalty it’s also responsible for all

loyalty it’s also responsible for all human behavior

human behavior

human behavior all decision-making and it has no

all decision-making and it has no

all decision-making and it has no capacity for language in other words

capacity for language in other words

capacity for language in other words when we communicate from the outside in

when we communicate from the outside in

when we communicate from the outside in yes people can understand vast amounts

yes people can understand vast amounts

yes people can understand vast amounts of complicated information like features

of complicated information like features

of complicated information like features and benefits and facts and figures just

and benefits and facts and figures just

and benefits and facts and figures just doesn’t drive behavior when we

doesn’t drive behavior when we

doesn’t drive behavior when we communicate from the inside out we’re

communicate from the inside out we’re

communicate from the inside out we’re talking directly to the part of the

talking directly to the part of the

talking directly to the part of the brain that controls behavior and then we

brain that controls behavior and then we

brain that controls behavior and then we allow people to rationalize it with the

allow people to rationalize it with the

allow people to rationalize it with the tangible things we say and do this is

tangible things we say and do this is

tangible things we say and do this is where gut decisions come from you know

where gut decisions come from you know

where gut decisions come from you know sometimes you can give somebody all the

sometimes you can give somebody all the

sometimes you can give somebody all the facts and your figures in these I know

facts and your figures in these I know

facts and your figures in these I know what all the facts in detail say but it

what all the facts in detail say but it

what all the facts in detail say but it just doesn’t feel right why would we use

just doesn’t feel right why would we use

just doesn’t feel right why would we use that verb it doesn’t feel right because

that verb it doesn’t feel right because

that verb it doesn’t feel right because the part of the brain that controls

the part of the brain that controls

the part of the brain that controls decision-making doesn’t control language

decision-making doesn’t control language

decision-making doesn’t control language and the best we can muster up is I don’t

and the best we can muster up is I don’t

and the best we can muster up is I don’t know it just doesn’t feel right or

know it just doesn’t feel right or

know it just doesn’t feel right or sometimes you say you’re leading with

sometimes you say you’re leading with

sometimes you say you’re leading with your heart through you’re leading with

your heart through you’re leading with

your heart through you’re leading with your soul oh I hate to break it to you

your soul oh I hate to break it to you

your soul oh I hate to break it to you those on the other body parts

those on the other body parts

those on the other body parts controlling your behavior it’s all

controlling your behavior it’s all

controlling your behavior it’s all happening here in your limbic brain the

happening here in your limbic brain the

happening here in your limbic brain the part of the brain that controls

part of the brain that controls

part of the brain that controls decision-making and not language but if

decision-making and not language but if

decision-making and not language but if you don’t know why you do what you do

you don’t know why you do what you do

you don’t know why you do what you do and people respond to why you do what

and people respond to why you do what

and people respond to why you do what you do then how will anybody how will

you do then how will anybody how will

you do then how will anybody how will you ever get people to vote for your by

you ever get people to vote for your by

you ever get people to vote for your by something from you or more importantly

something from you or more importantly

something from you or more importantly be loyal and want to be a part of what

be loyal and want to be a part of what

be loyal and want to be a part of what it is what that you do again the goal is

it is what that you do again the goal is

it is what that you do again the goal is not just as to sell people who need what

not just as to sell people who need what

not just as to sell people who need what you have the goal is to sell people who

you have the goal is to sell people who

you have the goal is to sell people who believe what you believe the goal is not

believe what you believe the goal is not

believe what you believe the goal is not just to hire people who need a job it’s

just to hire people who need a job it’s

just to hire people who need a job it’s to hire people who believe what you

to hire people who believe what you

to hire people who believe what you believe I always say that you know this

believe I always say that you know this

believe I always say that you know this if you if you if you um hire people just

if you if you if you um hire people just

if you if you if you um hire people just because they can do a job they’ll work

because they can do a job they’ll work

because they can do a job they’ll work for your money but if you hire people

for your money but if you hire people

for your money but if you hire people who believe what you believe they work

who believe what you believe they work

who believe what you believe they work for you with blood and sweat and tears

for you with blood and sweat and tears

for you with blood and sweat and tears and no era nowhere else is there a

and no era nowhere else is there a

and no era nowhere else is there a better example of this than with the

better example of this than with the

better example of this than with the Wright brothers most people don’t know

Wright brothers most people don’t know

Wright brothers most people don’t know about Samuel Pierpont Langley and back

about Samuel Pierpont Langley and back

about Samuel Pierpont Langley and back in the early 20th century the pursuit of

in the early 20th century the pursuit of

in the early 20th century the pursuit of powered man flight was like the dot-com

powered man flight was like the dot-com

powered man flight was like the dot-com of the day everybody was trying it and

of the day everybody was trying it and

of the day everybody was trying it and Samuel Pierpont Langley had what we

Samuel Pierpont Langley had what we

Samuel Pierpont Langley had what we assume to be the recipe for success I

assume to be the recipe for success I

assume to be the recipe for success I mean even now when you ask people why

mean even now when you ask people why

mean even now when you ask people why did your product or why did your company

did your product or why did your company

did your product or why did your company fail and people always give you the

fail and people always give you the

fail and people always give you the permeate same permutation of the same

permeate same permutation of the same

permeate same permutation of the same three things undercapitalized the wrong

three things undercapitalized the wrong

three things undercapitalized the wrong people bad market conditions it was the

people bad market conditions it was the

people bad market conditions it was the same

same

same three things so let’s explore that

three things so let’s explore that

three things so let’s explore that Samuel Pierpont Langley was given

Samuel Pierpont Langley was given

Samuel Pierpont Langley was given $50,000 by the War Department to figure

$50,000 by the War Department to figure

$50,000 by the War Department to figure out this flying machine money was no

out this flying machine money was no

out this flying machine money was no problem

problem

problem he held a seat at Harvard and worked at

he held a seat at Harvard and worked at

he held a seat at Harvard and worked at the Smithsonian and was extremely

the Smithsonian and was extremely

the Smithsonian and was extremely well-connected he knew all the big minds

well-connected he knew all the big minds

well-connected he knew all the big minds of the day he hired the best minds money

of the day he hired the best minds money

of the day he hired the best minds money could find and the market conditions

could find and the market conditions

could find and the market conditions were fantastic

were fantastic

were fantastic the New York Times followed him around

the New York Times followed him around

the New York Times followed him around everywhere and everyone was rooting for

everywhere and everyone was rooting for

everywhere and everyone was rooting for Langley and how come we’ve never heard

Langley and how come we’ve never heard

Langley and how come we’ve never heard of Samuel Pierpont Langley a few hundred

of Samuel Pierpont Langley a few hundred

of Samuel Pierpont Langley a few hundred miles away in Dayton Ohio Orville and

miles away in Dayton Ohio Orville and

miles away in Dayton Ohio Orville and Wilbur Wright they had none of what we

Wilbur Wright they had none of what we

Wilbur Wright they had none of what we consider to be the recipe for success

consider to be the recipe for success

consider to be the recipe for success they had no money they paid for their

they had no money they paid for their

they had no money they paid for their dream with the proceeds from their

dream with the proceeds from their

dream with the proceeds from their bicycle shop not a single person on the

bicycle shop not a single person on the

bicycle shop not a single person on the Wright brothers team had a college

Wright brothers team had a college

Wright brothers team had a college education

education

education not even Orville or Wilbur and the New

not even Orville or Wilbur and the New

not even Orville or Wilbur and the New York Times followed them around nowhere

York Times followed them around nowhere

York Times followed them around nowhere the difference was Orville and Wilbur

the difference was Orville and Wilbur

the difference was Orville and Wilbur were driven by a caused by a purpose by

were driven by a caused by a purpose by

were driven by a caused by a purpose by a belief they believed that if they

a belief they believed that if they

a belief they believed that if they could figure out this flying machine

could figure out this flying machine

could figure out this flying machine it’ll change the course of the world

it’ll change the course of the world

it’ll change the course of the world Samuel Pierpont Langley was different he

Samuel Pierpont Langley was different he

Samuel Pierpont Langley was different he wanted to be rich and he want to be

wanted to be rich and he want to be

wanted to be rich and he want to be famous he was in pursuit of the result

famous he was in pursuit of the result

famous he was in pursuit of the result he was in pursuit of the riches and lo

he was in pursuit of the riches and lo

he was in pursuit of the riches and lo and behold look what happened the people

and behold look what happened the people

and behold look what happened the people who believed in the Wright brothers

who believed in the Wright brothers

who believed in the Wright brothers dream worked with them with blood and

dream worked with them with blood and

dream worked with them with blood and sweat and tears the others just worked

sweat and tears the others just worked

sweat and tears the others just worked for the paycheck and they tell stories

for the paycheck and they tell stories

for the paycheck and they tell stories of how every time the Wright brothers

of how every time the Wright brothers

of how every time the Wright brothers went out they would have to take five

went out they would have to take five

went out they would have to take five sets of parts because that’s how many

sets of parts because that’s how many

sets of parts because that’s how many times they would crash before they came

times they would crash before they came

times they would crash before they came in for supper and eventually on December

in for supper and eventually on December

in for supper and eventually on December 17th 1903 the Wright brothers took

17th 1903 the Wright brothers took

17th 1903 the Wright brothers took flight and no one was there to even

flight and no one was there to even

flight and no one was there to even experience it we found out about it a

experience it we found out about it a

experience it we found out about it a few days later and further proof that

few days later and further proof that

few days later and further proof that Langley was motivated by the wrong thing

Langley was motivated by the wrong thing

Langley was motivated by the wrong thing the day the Wright brothers took flight

the day the Wright brothers took flight

the day the Wright brothers took flight he quit

he quit

he quit he could have said that’s an amazing

he could have said that’s an amazing

he could have said that’s an amazing discovery guys and I will improve upon

discovery guys and I will improve upon

discovery guys and I will improve upon your technology but he didn’t he wasn’t

your technology but he didn’t he wasn’t

your technology but he didn’t he wasn’t first he didn’t get rich he didn’t get

first he didn’t get rich he didn’t get

first he didn’t get rich he didn’t get famous so quick people don’t buy what

famous so quick people don’t buy what

famous so quick people don’t buy what you do they buy why you do it and if you

you do they buy why you do it and if you

you do they buy why you do it and if you talk about what you believe you will

talk about what you believe you will

talk about what you believe you will attract those who believe what you

attract those who believe what you

attract those who believe what you believe but why is it important to

believe but why is it important to

believe but why is it important to attract those who believe what you

attract those who believe what you

attract those who believe what you believe something called the law of

believe something called the law of

believe something called the law of diffusion of innovation and if you don’t

diffusion of innovation and if you don’t

diffusion of innovation and if you don’t know the law you definitely know the

know the law you definitely know the

know the law you definitely know the terminology the first two and a half

terminology the first two and a half

terminology the first two and a half percent of our population are our

percent of our population are our

percent of our population are our innovators the next thirteen and a half

innovators the next thirteen and a half

innovators the next thirteen and a half percent of our population are our early

percent of our population are our early

percent of our population are our early adopters the next 34% are your early

adopters the next 34% are your early

adopters the next 34% are your early majority your late majority and your

majority your late majority and your

majority your late majority and your laggards the only reason these people by

laggards the only reason these people by

laggards the only reason these people by touch-tone phones is because you can’t

touch-tone phones is because you can’t

touch-tone phones is because you can’t buy rotary phones anymore

buy rotary phones anymore

buy rotary phones anymore [Music]

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[Music] we all sit at various places at various

we all sit at various places at various

we all sit at various places at various times on the scale but the law of

times on the scale but the law of

times on the scale but the law of diffusion of innovation tells us is that

diffusion of innovation tells us is that

diffusion of innovation tells us is that if you want mass-market success or

if you want mass-market success or

if you want mass-market success or mass-market acceptance of an idea you

mass-market acceptance of an idea you

mass-market acceptance of an idea you cannot have it until you achieve this

cannot have it until you achieve this

cannot have it until you achieve this tipping point between 15 and 18 percent

tipping point between 15 and 18 percent

tipping point between 15 and 18 percent market penetration and then the system

market penetration and then the system

market penetration and then the system tips and I love asking businesses what’s

tips and I love asking businesses what’s

tips and I love asking businesses what’s your conversion on new business and

your conversion on new business and

your conversion on new business and they’d love to sell you oh it’s about

they’d love to sell you oh it’s about

they’d love to sell you oh it’s about 10% proudly well you can trip over 10%

10% proudly well you can trip over 10%

10% proudly well you can trip over 10% of the customers we all have about 10%

of the customers we all have about 10%

of the customers we all have about 10% who just get it that’s how we describe

who just get it that’s how we describe

who just get it that’s how we describe them right that’s like that gut feeling

them right that’s like that gut feeling

them right that’s like that gut feeling oh they just get it the problem is how

oh they just get it the problem is how

oh they just get it the problem is how do you find the ones that just get it

do you find the ones that just get it

do you find the ones that just get it before you’re doing business with them

before you’re doing business with them

before you’re doing business with them versus the ones who don’t get it

versus the ones who don’t get it

versus the ones who don’t get it so it’s this here this little gap that

so it’s this here this little gap that

so it’s this here this little gap that you have to close is Geoffrey more close

you have to close is Geoffrey more close

you have to close is Geoffrey more close o’clock crossing the chasm because you

o’clock crossing the chasm because you

o’clock crossing the chasm because you see the early majority will not try

see the early majority will not try

see the early majority will not try something until someone else has tried

something until someone else has tried

something until someone else has tried it first and these guys the innovators

it first and these guys the innovators

it first and these guys the innovators in the early adopters they’re

in the early adopters they’re

in the early adopters they’re comfortable making those gut decisions

comfortable making those gut decisions

comfortable making those gut decisions they’re more comfortable making those

they’re more comfortable making those

they’re more comfortable making those intuitive decisions that are driven by

intuitive decisions that are driven by

intuitive decisions that are driven by what they believe about the world

what they believe about the world

what they believe about the world and not just what product is available

and not just what product is available

and not just what product is available these are the people who stood on line

these are the people who stood on line

these are the people who stood on line for six hours to buy an iPhone when they

for six hours to buy an iPhone when they

for six hours to buy an iPhone when they first came out when you could have just

first came out when you could have just

first came out when you could have just walked into the store the next week and

walked into the store the next week and

walked into the store the next week and bought one off the shelf these are the

bought one off the shelf these are the

bought one off the shelf these are the people who spent $40,000 on flat-screen

people who spent $40,000 on flat-screen

people who spent $40,000 on flat-screen TVs when they first came out even though

TVs when they first came out even though

TVs when they first came out even though the technology was substandard and by

the technology was substandard and by

the technology was substandard and by the way they didn’t do it because the

the way they didn’t do it because the

the way they didn’t do it because the technology was so great they did it for

technology was so great they did it for

technology was so great they did it for themselves it’s because they wanted to

themselves it’s because they wanted to

themselves it’s because they wanted to be first people don’t buy what you do

be first people don’t buy what you do

be first people don’t buy what you do they buy why you do it and what you do

they buy why you do it and what you do

they buy why you do it and what you do simply proves what you believe in fact

simply proves what you believe in fact

simply proves what you believe in fact people will do the things that prove

people will do the things that prove

people will do the things that prove what they believe the reason that person

what they believe the reason that person

what they believe the reason that person bought the iPhone on the first in the

bought the iPhone on the first in the

bought the iPhone on the first in the first six hours of stood and Sigma in

first six hours of stood and Sigma in

first six hours of stood and Sigma in line for six hours was because of what

line for six hours was because of what

line for six hours was because of what they believed about the world and how

they believed about the world and how

they believed about the world and how they wanted everybody to see them they

they wanted everybody to see them they

they wanted everybody to see them they were first people don’t buy what you do

were first people don’t buy what you do

were first people don’t buy what you do they buy why you do it so let me give

they buy why you do it so let me give

they buy why you do it so let me give you a famous example a famous failure

you a famous example a famous failure

you a famous example a famous failure and a famous success of the law of

and a famous success of the law of

and a famous success of the law of diffusion of innovation first the famous

diffusion of innovation first the famous

diffusion of innovation first the famous failure it’s a commercial example as we

failure it’s a commercial example as we

failure it’s a commercial example as we said before a second ago the recipe for

said before a second ago the recipe for

said before a second ago the recipe for success is money in the right people in

success is money in the right people in

success is money in the right people in the right marketing conditions right you

the right marketing conditions right you

the right marketing conditions right you should have success then look at TiVo

should have success then look at TiVo

should have success then look at TiVo from the time TiVo came out about eight

from the time TiVo came out about eight

from the time TiVo came out about eight or nine years ago to this current day

or nine years ago to this current day

or nine years ago to this current day they are the single highest quality

they are the single highest quality

they are the single highest quality product on the market hands down there

product on the market hands down there

product on the market hands down there is no dispute they were extremely

is no dispute they were extremely

is no dispute they were extremely well-funded market conditions were

well-funded market conditions were

well-funded market conditions were fantastic I mean we use TiVo as a verb

fantastic I mean we use TiVo as a verb

fantastic I mean we use TiVo as a verb like TiVo stuff on my piece of junk Time

like TiVo stuff on my piece of junk Time

like TiVo stuff on my piece of junk Time Warner DVR all the time

but t-bones commercial failure they’ve

but t-bones commercial failure they’ve never made money and when they went IPO

never made money and when they went IPO

never made money and when they went IPO their stock was at about 30 or 40

their stock was at about 30 or 40

their stock was at about 30 or 40 dollars then plummeted and it’s never

dollars then plummeted and it’s never

dollars then plummeted and it’s never traded above 10 in fact I don’t thinks

traded above 10 in fact I don’t thinks

traded above 10 in fact I don’t thinks it’s even traded above 6 except for a

it’s even traded above 6 except for a

it’s even traded above 6 except for a couple of little spikes because you see

couple of little spikes because you see

couple of little spikes because you see when Tebow launched their product they

when Tebow launched their product they

when Tebow launched their product they told us all what they had they said we

told us all what they had they said we

told us all what they had they said we have a product that pauses live TV skips

have a product that pauses live TV skips

have a product that pauses live TV skips commercials rewinds live TV and

commercials rewinds live TV and

commercials rewinds live TV and memorizes your viewing habits without

memorizes your viewing habits without

memorizes your viewing habits without you even asking and the cynical majority

you even asking and the cynical majority

you even asking and the cynical majority said you don’t believe you we don’t need

said you don’t believe you we don’t need

said you don’t believe you we don’t need it we don’t like it you’re scaring us

it we don’t like it you’re scaring us

it we don’t like it you’re scaring us what if they had said if you’re the kind

what if they had said if you’re the kind

what if they had said if you’re the kind of person who likes to have total

of person who likes to have total

of person who likes to have total control over every aspect of your life

control over every aspect of your life

control over every aspect of your life boy do we have a product for you

boy do we have a product for you

boy do we have a product for you it causes live TV skips commercials

it causes live TV skips commercials

it causes live TV skips commercials memorizes your viewing habits etc etc

memorizes your viewing habits etc etc

memorizes your viewing habits etc etc people don’t buy what you do they buy

people don’t buy what you do they buy

people don’t buy what you do they buy why you do it and what you do simply

why you do it and what you do simply

why you do it and what you do simply serves as the proof of what you believe

serves as the proof of what you believe

serves as the proof of what you believe now let me give you a successful example

now let me give you a successful example

now let me give you a successful example of the law of diffusion of innovation in

of the law of diffusion of innovation in

of the law of diffusion of innovation in the summer of 1963 250,000 people showed

the summer of 1963 250,000 people showed

the summer of 1963 250,000 people showed up on the mall in Washington to hear dr.

up on the mall in Washington to hear dr.

up on the mall in Washington to hear dr. King speak they sent out no invitations

King speak they sent out no invitations

King speak they sent out no invitations and there was no website to check the

and there was no website to check the

and there was no website to check the date how do you do that well dr. King

date how do you do that well dr. King

date how do you do that well dr. King wasn’t the only man in America

wasn’t the only man in America

wasn’t the only man in America who was the who’s a great orator he

who was the who’s a great orator he

who was the who’s a great orator he wasn’t the only man in America who

wasn’t the only man in America who

wasn’t the only man in America who suffered in a pre-civil Rights America

suffered in a pre-civil Rights America

suffered in a pre-civil Rights America in fact some of his ideas were bad but

in fact some of his ideas were bad but

in fact some of his ideas were bad but he had a gift he didn’t go around

he had a gift he didn’t go around

he had a gift he didn’t go around telling people what needed to change in

telling people what needed to change in

telling people what needed to change in America you know he went around and told

America you know he went around and told

America you know he went around and told people what he believed I believe

people what he believed I believe

people what he believed I believe I believe he told people and people who

I believe he told people and people who

I believe he told people and people who believed what he believed took his cause

believed what he believed took his cause

believed what he believed took his cause and they made it their own and they told

and they made it their own and they told

and they made it their own and they told me and some of those people created

me and some of those people created

me and some of those people created structures to get the word out even more

structures to get the word out even more

structures to get the word out even more and lo and behold 250,000 people showed

and lo and behold 250,000 people showed

and lo and behold 250,000 people showed up on the right day on the right time to

up on the right day on the right time to

up on the right day on the right time to hear him speak how many of them showed

hear him speak how many of them showed

hear him speak how many of them showed up for him zero

up for him zero

up for him zero they should even since it’s what they

they should even since it’s what they

they should even since it’s what they believed about America that got them to

believed about America that got them to

believed about America that got them to travel on a bus for eight hours to stand

travel on a bus for eight hours to stand

travel on a bus for eight hours to stand in the Sun in Washington for in the

in the Sun in Washington for in the

in the Sun in Washington for in the middle of August it’s what they believed

middle of August it’s what they believed

middle of August it’s what they believed and it wasn’t about black versus white

and it wasn’t about black versus white

and it wasn’t about black versus white 25 percent of the audience was white dr.

25 percent of the audience was white dr.

25 percent of the audience was white dr. King believed that there are two types

King believed that there are two types

King believed that there are two types of laws in this world those that are

of laws in this world those that are

of laws in this world those that are made by a higher lottery authority and

made by a higher lottery authority and

made by a higher lottery authority and those that are made by man and nothing

those that are made by man and nothing

those that are made by man and nothing till all the laws that are made by man

till all the laws that are made by man

till all the laws that are made by man are consistent with the laws that are

are consistent with the laws that are

are consistent with the laws that are made by the higher thought he will we

made by the higher thought he will we

made by the higher thought he will we live in a just world it just so happens

live in a just world it just so happens

live in a just world it just so happens that the civil rights movement was the

that the civil rights movement was the

that the civil rights movement was the perfect thing to help him bring his

perfect thing to help him bring his

perfect thing to help him bring his cause to life we followed him not for

cause to life we followed him not for

cause to life we followed him not for him but for ourselves and by the way he

him but for ourselves and by the way he

him but for ourselves and by the way he gave the I have a dream speech not the I

gave the I have a dream speech not the I

gave the I have a dream speech not the I have a planned speech

have a planned speech

have a planned speech [Music]

listen to politicians now with the

listen to politicians now with the comprehensive 12-point plans are not

comprehensive 12-point plans are not

comprehensive 12-point plans are not inspiring anybody because there were

inspiring anybody because there were

inspiring anybody because there were leaders and there are those who read

leaders and there are those who read

leaders and there are those who read leaders hold a position of power or

leaders hold a position of power or

leaders hold a position of power or authority but those who lead inspire us

authority but those who lead inspire us

authority but those who lead inspire us with other individuals or organizations

with other individuals or organizations

with other individuals or organizations we follow those who lead but because we

we follow those who lead but because we

we follow those who lead but because we have to but because we want to we follow

have to but because we want to we follow

have to but because we want to we follow those who lead not for them but for

those who lead not for them but for

those who lead not for them but for ourselves and it’s those who start with

ourselves and it’s those who start with

ourselves and it’s those who start with why that have the ability to inspire

why that have the ability to inspire

why that have the ability to inspire those around them

those around them

those around them we’ll find others who inspire them thank

we’ll find others who inspire them thank

we’ll find others who inspire them thank you very much thank you guys so much for

you very much thank you guys so much for

you very much thank you guys so much for watching I made this video because Lex

watching I made this video because Lex

watching I made this video because Lex vent the Herrick asked me to so there’s

vent the Herrick asked me to so there’s

vent the Herrick asked me to so there’s a famous entrepreneur that you would

a famous entrepreneur that you would

a famous entrepreneur that you would like me to profile next please leave it

like me to profile next please leave it

like me to profile next please leave it down the comments below and I’ll see

down the comments below and I’ll see

down the comments below and I’ll see what I can do I also love to know which

what I can do I also love to know which

what I can do I also love to know which clip resonated the most with you today

clip resonated the most with you today

clip resonated the most with you today what did Simon say that had the biggest

what did Simon say that had the biggest

what did Simon say that had the biggest impact what change you’re gonna make to

impact what change you’re gonna make to

impact what change you’re gonna make to your life your business after watching

your life your business after watching

your life your business after watching this video please leave it down the

this video please leave it down the

this video please leave it down the comments below I’m gonna join in the

comments below I’m gonna join in the

comments below I’m gonna join in the discussion thank you so much for

discussion thank you so much for

discussion thank you so much for watching I believe in you I hope you

watching I believe in you I hope you

watching I believe in you I hope you continue to believe in yourself

continue to believe in yourself

continue to believe in yourself and whatever your one word is much love

and whatever your one word is much love

and whatever your one word is much love I’ll see you soon

I’ll see you soon

I’ll see you soon [Music]

[Music]

[Music] raise your standard cool it’s not one

raise your standard cool it’s not one

raise your standard cool it’s not one drop of my self-worth depends on your

drop of my self-worth depends on your

drop of my self-worth depends on your acceptance of me

acceptance of me

acceptance of me I don’t ever give up I’d have to be dead

I don’t ever give up I’d have to be dead

I don’t ever give up I’d have to be dead or completely incapacitated hey believe

or completely incapacitated hey believe

or completely incapacitated hey believe nation if you want to see my all-time

nation if you want to see my all-time

nation if you want to see my all-time favorite top ten Rose a success I have a

favorite top ten Rose a success I have a

favorite top ten Rose a success I have a very special secret video for you these

very special secret video for you these

very special secret video for you these are the individual Clips that I have

are the individual Clips that I have

are the individual Clips that I have personally learned the most from and

personally learned the most from and

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