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Self-Esteem – Stop saying “I can’t”!


stop saying I can’t when you say I can’t

stop saying I can’t when you say I can’t you remove possibilities from your life

you remove possibilities from your life

you remove possibilities from your life that could have a tremendous positive

that could have a tremendous positive

that could have a tremendous positive impact on where you go when you say I

impact on where you go when you say I

impact on where you go when you say I can’t you shut doors you limit yourself

can’t you shut doors you limit yourself

can’t you shut doors you limit yourself and you limit the business that you can

and you limit the business that you can

and you limit the business that you can create for yourself I recently came back

create for yourself I recently came back

create for yourself I recently came back from a Carnival cruise and I met the DJ

from a Carnival cruise and I met the DJ

from a Carnival cruise and I met the DJ in the elevator on the first day I was

in the elevator on the first day I was

in the elevator on the first day I was so excited because I’m a big dancer I

so excited because I’m a big dancer I

so excited because I’m a big dancer I love salsa music I’m an investor in a

love salsa music I’m an investor in a

love salsa music I’m an investor in a salsa company here in Toronto and I’m a

salsa company here in Toronto and I’m a

salsa company here in Toronto and I’m a DJ dancer sometimes teaching I love

DJ dancer sometimes teaching I love

DJ dancer sometimes teaching I love salsa bachata kizomba all the Latin

salsa bachata kizomba all the Latin

salsa bachata kizomba all the Latin dances and I’m excited that the DJ’s on

dances and I’m excited that the DJ’s on

dances and I’m excited that the DJ’s on the elevator with me I wanted to pick

the elevator with me I wanted to pick

the elevator with me I wanted to pick his brain see what he had plain ask for

his brain see what he had plain ask for

his brain see what he had plain ask for some songs and he said he played sauce a

some songs and he said he played sauce a

some songs and he said he played sauce a plate bachata and they said you play

plate bachata and they said you play

plate bachata and they said you play kizomba in his own was a dancer that

kizomba in his own was a dancer that

kizomba in his own was a dancer that we’re teaching now here in Toronto and I

we’re teaching now here in Toronto and I

we’re teaching now here in Toronto and I wanted to practice I wanted to get my

wanted to practice I wanted to get my

wanted to practice I wanted to get my kazoomba on and he said no I can’t and

kazoomba on and he said no I can’t and

kazoomba on and he said no I can’t and that was the end of the conversation and

that was the end of the conversation and

that was the end of the conversation and I think what do you mean you can’t how

I think what do you mean you can’t how

I think what do you mean you can’t how hard is it to find one kizomba song and

hard is it to find one kizomba song and

hard is it to find one kizomba song and play it tonight it’ll take five minutes

play it tonight it’ll take five minutes

play it tonight it’ll take five minutes go online find one song and play it

go online find one song and play it

go online find one song and play it better yet ask me hey that’s a great

better yet ask me hey that’s a great

better yet ask me hey that’s a great idea I don’t usually play kizomba but

idea I don’t usually play kizomba but

idea I don’t usually play kizomba but I’ll play one for you tonight what’s

I’ll play one for you tonight what’s

I’ll play one for you tonight what’s your favorite kizomba song how hard

your favorite kizomba song how hard

your favorite kizomba song how hard would that have been and instead of me

would that have been and instead of me

would that have been and instead of me slamming the guy and saying what bad

slamming the guy and saying what bad

slamming the guy and saying what bad service carnival provides I’d be

service carnival provides I’d be

service carnival provides I’d be praising them and saying hey what a

praising them and saying hey what a

praising them and saying hey what a great example of customer service he

great example of customer service he

great example of customer service he would have made an impact on my vacation

would have made an impact on my vacation

would have made an impact on my vacation on my experience with that company just

on my experience with that company just

on my experience with that company just by limiting the word I can’t it’s so

by limiting the word I can’t it’s so

by limiting the word I can’t it’s so important when somebody says I can’t to

important when somebody says I can’t to

important when somebody says I can’t to you how do you feel you feel like you’re

you how do you feel you feel like you’re

you how do you feel you feel like you’re out of options you feel upset you feel

out of options you feel upset you feel

out of options you feel upset you feel hopeless you do not want your customers

hopeless you do not want your customers

hopeless you do not want your customers and your prospects feeling that way

and your prospects feeling that way

and your prospects feeling that way about your business I don’t even blame

about your business I don’t even blame

about your business I don’t even blame the guy

the guy

the guy I blame carnival because that’s bad

I blame carnival because that’s bad

I blame carnival because that’s bad training everybody on that boat needs to

training everybody on that boat needs to

training everybody on that boat needs to know never to say I can’t to a customer

know never to say I can’t to a customer

know never to say I can’t to a customer this is a service-based business it’s

this is a service-based business it’s

this is a service-based business it’s all about service provide good service

all about service provide good service

all about service provide good service it’s not that difficult and I know what

it’s not that difficult and I know what

it’s not that difficult and I know what you’re thinking hey it’s hard you know

you’re thinking hey it’s hard you know

you’re thinking hey it’s hard you know maybe the guys really busy maybe doesn’t

maybe the guys really busy maybe doesn’t

maybe the guys really busy maybe doesn’t want to step outside the box maybe he’s

want to step outside the box maybe he’s

want to step outside the box maybe he’s got a lot on his plate and fine we’re

got a lot on his plate and fine we’re

got a lot on his plate and fine we’re all busy I’m busy you’re busy but busy

all busy I’m busy you’re busy but busy

all busy I’m busy you’re busy but busy is not enough this would have taken five

is not enough this would have taken five

is not enough this would have taken five minutes and had a massive impact on how

minutes and had a massive impact on how

minutes and had a massive impact on how I thought about him and the company you

I thought about him and the company you

I thought about him and the company you have to go that extra mile if you don’t

have to go that extra mile if you don’t

have to go that extra mile if you don’t you’re going to be forgettable and

you’re going to be forgettable and

you’re going to be forgettable and people won’t come back and they won’t

people won’t come back and they won’t

people won’t come back and they won’t talk about you stop spending your money

talk about you stop spending your money

talk about you stop spending your money on advertising and marketing and invest

on advertising and marketing and invest

on advertising and marketing and invest in the customer experience every

in the customer experience every

in the customer experience every experience with your business should be

experience with your business should be

experience with your business should be fantastic amazing make me want to come

fantastic amazing make me want to come

fantastic amazing make me want to come back and do more with you that’s where

back and do more with you that’s where

back and do more with you that’s where your time and effort should go because

your time and effort should go because

your time and effort should go because that will help spread the word and get

that will help spread the word and get

that will help spread the word and get repeat business coming to you so some

repeat business coming to you so some

repeat business coming to you so some action items some steps for you what to

action items some steps for you what to

action items some steps for you what to do next the next time somebody says can

do next the next time somebody says can

do next the next time somebody says can you do something and before you say i

you do something and before you say i

you do something and before you say i can if you’re thinking i can’t pause

can if you’re thinking i can’t pause

can if you’re thinking i can’t pause breathe take two minutes and try to

breathe take two minutes and try to

breathe take two minutes and try to think of a way that you can just think

think of a way that you can just think

think of a way that you can just think outside the box this is not what you

outside the box this is not what you

outside the box this is not what you typically do you may not provide that

typically do you may not provide that

typically do you may not provide that exact product or service but just humor

exact product or service but just humor

exact product or service but just humor me and take two minutes to try to find a

me and take two minutes to try to find a

me and take two minutes to try to find a solution when your brain is set on

solution when your brain is set on

solution when your brain is set on finding something often it will surprise

finding something often it will surprise

finding something often it will surprise you and find it so just stop yourself

you and find it so just stop yourself

you and find it so just stop yourself for two minutes and think about it okay

for two minutes and think about it okay

for two minutes and think about it okay number two step number two find the

number two step number two find the

number two step number two find the closest thing that you can do to help

closest thing that you can do to help

closest thing that you can do to help them if you can’t help this customer

them if you can’t help this customer

them if you can’t help this customer with exactly what they want find the

with exactly what they want find the

with exactly what they want find the closest thing that you can

closest thing that you can

closest thing that you can do to help them and show them that you

do to help them and show them that you

do to help them and show them that you care that’s what it’s all about at the

care that’s what it’s all about at the

care that’s what it’s all about at the end of the day if you can actually help

end of the day if you can actually help

end of the day if you can actually help them it’s fine but you want them walking

them it’s fine but you want them walking

them it’s fine but you want them walking away thinking like you tried everything

away thinking like you tried everything

away thinking like you tried everything you could to help them not to get their

you could to help them not to get their

you could to help them not to get their money but to help them don’t try to

money but to help them don’t try to

money but to help them don’t try to settle on something they don’t need find

settle on something they don’t need find

settle on something they don’t need find the closest thing that you can do for

the closest thing that you can do for

the closest thing that you can do for them and show them you’re thinking

them and show them you’re thinking

them and show them you’re thinking outside the box say you know we don’t

outside the box say you know we don’t

outside the box say you know we don’t really do this but here’s an idea that

really do this but here’s an idea that

really do this but here’s an idea that might work for you and give them the

might work for you and give them the

might work for you and give them the best closest option that you can find

best closest option that you can find

best closest option that you can find and step three if that doesn’t work if

and step three if that doesn’t work if

and step three if that doesn’t work if you if you have nothing absolutely

you if you have nothing absolutely

you if you have nothing absolutely nothing then pass them on to a

nothing then pass them on to a

nothing then pass them on to a competitor pass them on to another

competitor pass them on to another

competitor pass them on to another company that you know can help them even

company that you know can help them even

company that you know can help them even that means giving them to your

that means giving them to your

that means giving them to your competition because the customer will

competition because the customer will

competition because the customer will walk away feeling great about your

walk away feeling great about your

walk away feeling great about your business they’ll feeling great about you

business they’ll feeling great about you

business they’ll feeling great about you or your employee and they’ll wanna come

or your employee and they’ll wanna come

or your employee and they’ll wanna come back and spend money with you even if it

back and spend money with you even if it

back and spend money with you even if it didn’t work out this time if you sell

didn’t work out this time if you sell

didn’t work out this time if you sell them something that they don’t need

them something that they don’t need

them something that they don’t need they’re going to be pissed off they’re

they’re going to be pissed off they’re

they’re going to be pissed off they’re not going to come back I’m going to tell

not going to come back I’m going to tell

not going to come back I’m going to tell their friends about what crappy service

their friends about what crappy service

their friends about what crappy service you have but if you pass them on your

you have but if you pass them on your

you have but if you pass them on your competition say hey this is the best

competition say hey this is the best

competition say hey this is the best that we can do like I’m thinking outside

that we can do like I’m thinking outside

that we can do like I’m thinking outside the box here this is a closest thing we

the box here this is a closest thing we

the box here this is a closest thing we can come with but I don’t think it’s

can come with but I don’t think it’s

can come with but I don’t think it’s going to solve you know what you need

going to solve you know what you need

going to solve you know what you need your best bet is probably to go down the

your best bet is probably to go down the

your best bet is probably to go down the street to this company and they can

street to this company and they can

street to this company and they can solve your problem for you they’re going

solve your problem for you they’re going

solve your problem for you they’re going to love that you give them that tip

to love that you give them that tip

to love that you give them that tip they’re going to love your business is

they’re going to love your business is

they’re going to love your business is gonna have nothing but good thoughts if

gonna have nothing but good thoughts if

gonna have nothing but good thoughts if they have another potentially she

they have another potentially she

they have another potentially she they’re going to come back to you and

they’re going to come back to you and

they’re going to come back to you and they’re going to tell their friends

they’re going to tell their friends

they’re going to tell their friends about you or make videos like this I

about you or make videos like this I

about you or make videos like this I wish somebody gave me that kind of

wish somebody gave me that kind of

wish somebody gave me that kind of experience because I would promote them

experience because I would promote them

experience because I would promote them that’s what you need for your business

that’s what you need for your business

that’s what you need for your business so eliminate the words I can’t from your

so eliminate the words I can’t from your

so eliminate the words I can’t from your vocabulary today and everybody on your

vocabulary today and everybody on your

vocabulary today and everybody on your team and you’ll start seeing

team and you’ll start seeing

team and you’ll start seeing improvements for your company it’s one

improvements for your company it’s one

improvements for your company it’s one small change but has a dramatic impact

small change but has a dramatic impact

small change but has a dramatic impact on what happens with your company

on what happens with your company

on what happens with your company belief if you like this video you know

belief if you like this video you know

belief if you like this video you know the drill thumbs up below thanks guys

the drill thumbs up below thanks guys

the drill thumbs up below thanks guys and I want to hear we have to think you

and I want to hear we have to think you

and I want to hear we have to think you liked this video leave a comment

liked this video leave a comment

liked this video leave a comment underneath let me know what you’re

underneath let me know what you’re

underneath let me know what you’re thinking about if you have a question

thinking about if you have a question

thinking about if you have a question for your company leave it below I always

for your company leave it below I always

for your company leave it below I always read those I read every single comment

read those I read every single comment

read those I read every single comment that comes in and i love it always makes

that comes in and i love it always makes

that comes in and i love it always makes my day so please leave a comment below

my day so please leave a comment below

my day so please leave a comment below thank you i’ll see you soon

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