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Self-Esteem – Poor Me!


poor me it’s something we tell ourselves

poor me it’s something we tell ourselves a lot as entrepreneurs and it causes a

a lot as entrepreneurs and it causes a

a lot as entrepreneurs and it causes a cycle of depression that we don’t know

cycle of depression that we don’t know

cycle of depression that we don’t know how to get out of if you’re thinking

how to get out of if you’re thinking

how to get out of if you’re thinking poor me right now with your business

poor me right now with your business

poor me right now with your business this can be a hard for you to build

this can be a hard for you to build

this can be a hard for you to build something successful and it’s okay to

something successful and it’s okay to

something successful and it’s okay to get down it’s going to happen you know

get down it’s going to happen you know

get down it’s going to happen you know riding a running the business like

riding a running the business like

riding a running the business like riding a roller coaster but you can’t

riding a roller coaster but you can’t

riding a roller coaster but you can’t stay down for too long I know it’s hard

stay down for too long I know it’s hard

stay down for too long I know it’s hard with my first business I was making

with my first business I was making

with my first business I was making three hundred dollars a month and it

three hundred dollars a month and it

three hundred dollars a month and it wasn’t enough to survive and and I was

wasn’t enough to survive and and I was

wasn’t enough to survive and and I was at poor me almost every day at different

at poor me almost every day at different

at poor me almost every day at different points and it built up and up and up and

points and it built up and up and up and

points and it built up and up and up and and and made it really hard to continue

and and made it really hard to continue

and and made it really hard to continue and even if I had a great day one day

and even if I had a great day one day

and even if I had a great day one day you know we’ve got some sales we brought

you know we’ve got some sales we brought

you know we’ve got some sales we brought somebody new onto the team whatever it

somebody new onto the team whatever it

somebody new onto the team whatever it was some great news from the next day

was some great news from the next day

was some great news from the next day was still hard getting up out of bed and

was still hard getting up out of bed and

was still hard getting up out of bed and going to work and if you stay there for

going to work and if you stay there for

going to work and if you stay there for too long it’s going to be hard to get

too long it’s going to be hard to get

too long it’s going to be hard to get out of it so the question that came in

out of it so the question that came in

out of it so the question that came in from from one of my youtube viewers

from from one of my youtube viewers

from from one of my youtube viewers Linna we’re didn’t say how do you get

Linna we’re didn’t say how do you get

Linna we’re didn’t say how do you get out of poor me depression I guess I just

out of poor me depression I guess I just

out of poor me depression I guess I just need to to think that no one else will

need to to think that no one else will

need to to think that no one else will do it if it’s not me it’s a dog-eat-dog

do it if it’s not me it’s a dog-eat-dog

do it if it’s not me it’s a dog-eat-dog world I got to start biting back Selena

world I got to start biting back Selena

world I got to start biting back Selena here’s what helped me and here’s what

here’s what helped me and here’s what

here’s what helped me and here’s what hopefully can help you what changed with

hopefully can help you what changed with

hopefully can help you what changed with me what changed to help me break out on

me what changed to help me break out on

me what changed to help me break out on my poor me method was was one really

my poor me method was was one really

my poor me method was was one really make sure that your business is around

make sure that your business is around

make sure that your business is around something that you are intensely

something that you are intensely

something that you are intensely passionate about when I change my focus

passionate about when I change my focus

passionate about when I change my focus and I started talking about

and I started talking about

and I started talking about entrepreneurs and helping entrepreneurs

entrepreneurs and helping entrepreneurs

entrepreneurs and helping entrepreneurs and I knew that that meant something to

and I knew that that meant something to

and I knew that that meant something to me you know for you may not mean

me you know for you may not mean

me you know for you may not mean anything and that’s cool but it’s my

anything and that’s cool but it’s my

anything and that’s cool but it’s my personal belief and passion that may be

personal belief and passion that may be

personal belief and passion that may be more excited that made me want to get

more excited that made me want to get

more excited that made me want to get out of bed number two was I started

out of bed number two was I started

out of bed number two was I started looking at the impact that I was having

looking at the impact that I was having

looking at the impact that I was having so for example I might go on and do a

so for example I might go on and do a

so for example I might go on and do a presentation to help entrepreneurs

presentation to help entrepreneurs

presentation to help entrepreneurs deliver a speech

deliver a speech

deliver a speech and I feel great you know that whole

and I feel great you know that whole

and I feel great you know that whole night I feel wow I really helped all

night I feel wow I really helped all

night I feel wow I really helped all these people I feel really great on top

these people I feel really great on top

these people I feel really great on top of the world and then I wake up the next

of the world and then I wake up the next

of the world and then I wake up the next day and it’s like I’m starting over from

day and it’s like I’m starting over from

day and it’s like I’m starting over from scratch so to keep the momentum going in

scratch so to keep the momentum going in

scratch so to keep the momentum going in between I saved some of the comments

between I saved some of the comments

between I saved some of the comments that people wrote some of my favorite

that people wrote some of my favorite

that people wrote some of my favorite comments and people are written down on

comments and people are written down on

comments and people are written down on the feedback sheet and I read them in

the feedback sheet and I read them in

the feedback sheet and I read them in the morning and that made me feel better

the morning and that made me feel better

the morning and that made me feel better it made me break out of my funk it made

it made me break out of my funk it made

it made me break out of my funk it made me want to go and do something again to

me want to go and do something again to

me want to go and do something again to feel that hi to help more people and the

feel that hi to help more people and the

feel that hi to help more people and the third thing I did was I created a

third thing I did was I created a

third thing I did was I created a mastermind group and this is a group of

mastermind group and this is a group of

mastermind group and this is a group of entrepreneurs we meet once a month and

entrepreneurs we meet once a month and

entrepreneurs we meet once a month and we connect by phone once a week and it’s

we connect by phone once a week and it’s

we connect by phone once a week and it’s just another group of entrepreneurs to

just another group of entrepreneurs to

just another group of entrepreneurs to share ideas with to let to let loose the

share ideas with to let to let loose the

share ideas with to let to let loose the thoughts that I’m facing and it’s just

thoughts that I’m facing and it’s just

thoughts that I’m facing and it’s just great to be around other business owners

great to be around other business owners

great to be around other business owners I find a lot of a lot of entrepreneurs

I find a lot of a lot of entrepreneurs

I find a lot of a lot of entrepreneurs most of the time we don’t have friends

most of the time we don’t have friends

most of the time we don’t have friends and family who are business owners so

and family who are business owners so

and family who are business owners so people will listen to us but they don’t

people will listen to us but they don’t

people will listen to us but they don’t really know what to say to help us so

really know what to say to help us so

really know what to say to help us so it’s great but it doesn’t solve the

it’s great but it doesn’t solve the

it’s great but it doesn’t solve the problem and then when we are meeting

problem and then when we are meeting

problem and then when we are meeting people it’s usually always all the great

people it’s usually always all the great

people it’s usually always all the great stuff right if you go to a networking

stuff right if you go to a networking

stuff right if you go to a networking event it’s always I just landed this big

event it’s always I just landed this big

event it’s always I just landed this big sale or reliant working on this huge new

sale or reliant working on this huge new

sale or reliant working on this huge new deal or brought on new team members

deal or brought on new team members

deal or brought on new team members whatever it is you’re always talking

whatever it is you’re always talking

whatever it is you’re always talking about the great stuff but who you tell

about the great stuff but who you tell

about the great stuff but who you tell the crap to who do you tell the you know

the crap to who do you tell the you know

the crap to who do you tell the you know I hate my business right now what do I

I hate my business right now what do I

I hate my business right now what do I do who do you tell that to so I having a

do who do you tell that to so I having a

do who do you tell that to so I having a group of entrepreneurs you can meet was

group of entrepreneurs you can meet was

group of entrepreneurs you can meet was once a month some of us call it

once a month some of us call it

once a month some of us call it entrepreneur’s anonymous it helps it

entrepreneur’s anonymous it helps it

entrepreneur’s anonymous it helps it helps you keep you motivated so try to

helps you keep you motivated so try to

helps you keep you motivated so try to find a group or start your own it can

find a group or start your own it can

find a group or start your own it can help you get out your your your funk

help you get out your your your funk

help you get out your your your funk your comment about it being a

your comment about it being a

your comment about it being a dog-eat-dog world and you gotta fight

dog-eat-dog world and you gotta fight

dog-eat-dog world and you gotta fight back I totally disagree with I don’t

back I totally disagree with I don’t

back I totally disagree with I don’t think it’s a dog-eat-dog world you think

think it’s a dog-eat-dog world you think

think it’s a dog-eat-dog world you think that way you’re fighting against the

that way you’re fighting against the

that way you’re fighting against the world all the time I’d rather work with

world all the time I’d rather work with

world all the time I’d rather work with it I love helping my customers I love

it I love helping my customers I love

it I love helping my customers I love helping entrepreneurs and I found the

helping entrepreneurs and I found the

helping entrepreneurs and I found the way to do that follow my passion and be

way to do that follow my passion and be

way to do that follow my passion and be successful make money at the same time

successful make money at the same time

successful make money at the same time and that’s where I want you to get

and that’s where I want you to get

and that’s where I want you to get because if you wake up with a negative

because if you wake up with a negative

because if you wake up with a negative attitude you’re never going to have

attitude you’re never going to have

attitude you’re never going to have success if you’re forcing yourself to go

success if you’re forcing yourself to go

success if you’re forcing yourself to go and do something you’re not going to

and do something you’re not going to

and do something you’re not going to have success it’s got to come from here

have success it’s got to come from here

have success it’s got to come from here it’s got to be something that you love

it’s got to be something that you love

it’s got to be something that you love it’s gotta be from a place of passion a

it’s gotta be from a place of passion a

it’s gotta be from a place of passion a place if I want to change the world I

place if I want to change the world I

place if I want to change the world I want to have a real impact that’s where

want to have a real impact that’s where

want to have a real impact that’s where you start having success and I know it’s

you start having success and I know it’s

you start having success and I know it’s hard I know it’s hard when people tell

hard I know it’s hard when people tell

hard I know it’s hard when people tell you you’re never going to make it when

you you’re never going to make it when

you you’re never going to make it when people say eighty percent of new

people say eighty percent of new

people say eighty percent of new businesses fail when people say that’s a

businesses fail when people say that’s a

businesses fail when people say that’s a stupid idea when you don’t have a

stupid idea when you don’t have a

stupid idea when you don’t have a support network around you it’s it’s

support network around you it’s it’s

support network around you it’s it’s hard it’s tough and the only thing that

hard it’s tough and the only thing that

hard it’s tough and the only thing that keeps you going is the belief that what

keeps you going is the belief that what

keeps you going is the belief that what you’re doing is right that you’re on the

you’re doing is right that you’re on the

you’re doing is right that you’re on the right path that you’re here to make a

right path that you’re here to make a

right path that you’re here to make a mark that you’re helping people that’s

mark that you’re helping people that’s

mark that you’re helping people that’s what always kept me going was the

what always kept me going was the

what always kept me going was the helping people part I wasn’t money it

helping people part I wasn’t money it

helping people part I wasn’t money it wasn’t anything else it was I know that

wasn’t anything else it was I know that

wasn’t anything else it was I know that today I can get up and go help somebody

today I can get up and go help somebody

today I can get up and go help somebody and have a real lasting meaningful

and have a real lasting meaningful

and have a real lasting meaningful impact on their life that gets me

impact on their life that gets me

impact on their life that gets me excited that guess that makes me want to

excited that guess that makes me want to

excited that guess that makes me want to do more so hopefully you can find that

do more so hopefully you can find that

do more so hopefully you can find that within yourself again look at you know

within yourself again look at you know

within yourself again look at you know what your passion is try to follow that

what your passion is try to follow that

what your passion is try to follow that look at the impact you’ve already had

look at the impact you’ve already had

look at the impact you’ve already had with your customers and let that feed

with your customers and let that feed

with your customers and let that feed your momentum and three look at other

your momentum and three look at other

your momentum and three look at other entrepreneurs you can connect with on a

entrepreneurs you can connect with on a

entrepreneurs you can connect with on a formal basis like a mastermind group or

formal basis like a mastermind group or

formal basis like a mastermind group or even just grabbing coffee once a month

even just grabbing coffee once a month

even just grabbing coffee once a month to talk about what’s going on in your

to talk about what’s going on in your

to talk about what’s going on in your company’s it’ll help pull you up but

company’s it’ll help pull you up but

company’s it’ll help pull you up but help get you out of your funk I help you

help get you out of your funk I help you

help get you out of your funk I help you start building a company that you can be

start building a company that you can be

start building a company that you can be proud of and look back 10 years and say

proud of and look back 10 years and say

proud of and look back 10 years and say I built that belief

I built that belief

I built that belief those are you watching you liked the

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it always makes you want to do more for you and please leave a comment below if

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like the video below the comments I love seeing those come in they really make my

seeing those come in they really make my

seeing those come in they really make my morning every day and if you have a

morning every day and if you have a

morning every day and if you have a question leave it below i’ll make a

question leave it below i’ll make a

question leave it below i’ll make a video response just like this thank you

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