and when I was 11 I had a casting director tell me that I wasn’t strong
director tell me that I wasn’t strong
director tell me that I wasn’t strong enough to carry my own show I’ve had a
enough to carry my own show I’ve had a
enough to carry my own show I’ve had a lot of people try to tear me down but
lot of people try to tear me down but
lot of people try to tear me down but I’m here I never took a moment to just
I’m here I never took a moment to just
I’m here I never took a moment to just go go away and be myself and figure it
go go away and be myself and figure it
go go away and be myself and figure it out or not meant to put a goal on your
out or not meant to put a goal on your
out or not meant to put a goal on your life you’re not meant to say once I get
life you’re not meant to say once I get
life you’re not meant to say once I get there I’ll have it all I think the
there I’ll have it all I think the
there I’ll have it all I think the definition of strength is being
definition of strength is being
definition of strength is being vulnerable and being honest you’ve got
vulnerable and being honest you’ve got
vulnerable and being honest you’ve got to go and explore and explore who you
to go and explore and explore who you
to go and explore and explore who you are and find out what it’s about and
are and find out what it’s about and
are and find out what it’s about and what you like and what you don’t like
what you like and what you don’t like
what you like and what you don’t like she’s an American singer and actress she
she’s an American singer and actress she
she’s an American singer and actress she came to prominence after being cast in a
came to prominence after being cast in a
came to prominence after being cast in a Disney Channel series Wizards of Waverly
Disney Channel series Wizards of Waverly
Disney Channel series Wizards of Waverly Place she embraced an increasingly
Place she embraced an increasingly
Place she embraced an increasingly mature image with the 2013 of her debut
mature image with the 2013 of her debut
mature image with the 2013 of her debut studio album stars dance
studio album stars dance
studio album stars dance she’s Selena Gomez and here is my take
she’s Selena Gomez and here is my take
she’s Selena Gomez and here is my take on her top 10 rules for success there
on her top 10 rules for success there
on her top 10 rules for success there are so many great ones that it’s hard to
are so many great ones that it’s hard to
are so many great ones that it’s hard to choose but if I had to pick I’d go with
choose but if I had to pick I’d go with
choose but if I had to pick I’d go with number one as my favorite and make sure
number one as my favorite and make sure
number one as my favorite and make sure to stick her on all the way to the end
to stick her on all the way to the end
to stick her on all the way to the end for some special bonus clips and when I
for some special bonus clips and when I
for some special bonus clips and when I was 11 I had a casting director tell me
was 11 I had a casting director tell me
was 11 I had a casting director tell me that I wasn’t strong enough to carry my
that I wasn’t strong enough to carry my
that I wasn’t strong enough to carry my own show and I’m sure all of you have
own show and I’m sure all of you have
own show and I’m sure all of you have been told that you don’t have what it
been told that you don’t have what it
been told that you don’t have what it takes and that you may not be good
takes and that you may not be good
takes and that you may not be good enough and you don’t have enough people
enough and you don’t have enough people
enough and you don’t have enough people supporting you and you’re being told all
supporting you and you’re being told all
supporting you and you’re being told all of these things when deep down it’s all
of these things when deep down it’s all
of these things when deep down it’s all you want to do you want to be a part of
you want to do you want to be a part of
you want to do you want to be a part of something great you want to make
something great you want to make
something great you want to make something great and it does more than
something great and it does more than
something great and it does more than knock the wind out of you it crushes you
knock the wind out of you it crushes you
knock the wind out of you it crushes you when people tried to tell you that
when people tried to tell you that
when people tried to tell you that you’re not good enough and it almost did
you’re not good enough and it almost did
you’re not good enough and it almost did for me but there was my mom next to me
for me but there was my mom next to me
for me but there was my mom next to me stronger than ever and she said the most
stronger than ever and she said the most
stronger than ever and she said the most important thing is to always trust in
important thing is to always trust in
important thing is to always trust in myself if I have if I’m doing something
myself if I have if I’m doing something
myself if I have if I’m doing something because I love it I should do it because
because I love it I should do it because
because I love it I should do it because I love it and I believe I can do it so
I love it and I believe I can do it so
I love it and I believe I can do it so she told me to keep
she told me and she taught me to turn
she told me and she taught me to turn the other cheek and let the credits
the other cheek and let the credits
the other cheek and let the credits earned like the critics be critics and
earned like the critics be critics and
earned like the critics be critics and let us just trust ourselves so for me
let us just trust ourselves so for me
let us just trust ourselves so for me thank you
thank you
thank you two years later I got my own show and
two years later I got my own show and
two years later I got my own show and the first thought the first thought
the first thought the first thought
the first thought the first thought wasn’t oh man
wasn’t oh man
wasn’t oh man that girl when I was 11 said I wouldn’t
that girl when I was 11 said I wouldn’t
that girl when I was 11 said I wouldn’t carry my own show and I did I mean I
carry my own show and I did I mean I
carry my own show and I did I mean I thought about that for a little bit but
thought about that for a little bit but
thought about that for a little bit but I thought about what my mom said my mom
I thought about what my mom said my mom
I thought about what my mom said my mom was like you have to trust yourself and
was like you have to trust yourself and
was like you have to trust yourself and I realized if I didn’t believe that I
I realized if I didn’t believe that I
I realized if I didn’t believe that I could do it I wouldn’t be able to be
could do it I wouldn’t be able to be
could do it I wouldn’t be able to be here I think I’ve been doing this long
here I think I’ve been doing this long
here I think I’ve been doing this long enough to realize that no matter what
enough to realize that no matter what
enough to realize that no matter what people perceive of me I always shine
people perceive of me I always shine
people perceive of me I always shine through at the end of the day so I’ve
through at the end of the day so I’ve
through at the end of the day so I’ve had a lot of people try to tear me down
had a lot of people try to tear me down
had a lot of people try to tear me down so but I’m here and I have always been
so but I’m here and I have always been
so but I’m here and I have always been myself and I’ve always wanted that and
myself and I’ve always wanted that and
myself and I’ve always wanted that and I’ve been graceful and I’ve tried to
I’ve been graceful and I’ve tried to
I’ve been graceful and I’ve tried to handle myself with as much class and
handle myself with as much class and
handle myself with as much class and it’s only because I know how hard I work
it’s only because I know how hard I work
it’s only because I know how hard I work and I’m not gonna let any of that get to
and I’m not gonna let any of that get to
and I’m not gonna let any of that get to me grab a dream
I don’t know I don’t want to say it’s
I don’t know I don’t want to say it’s one thing I just want to constantly have
one thing I just want to constantly have
one thing I just want to constantly have goals to keep reaching them because I
goals to keep reaching them because I
goals to keep reaching them because I don’t want to stop if I feel settled
don’t want to stop if I feel settled
don’t want to stop if I feel settled then I won’t keep going
then I won’t keep going
then I won’t keep going so yes personally there’s a lot of
so yes personally there’s a lot of
so yes personally there’s a lot of things I’d love to do in my life and
things I’d love to do in my life and
things I’d love to do in my life and professionally I feel like I’ve just
professionally I feel like I’ve just
professionally I feel like I’ve just begun so this a lot when you wake up in
begun so this a lot when you wake up in
begun so this a lot when you wake up in the morning you say okay a year ago I
the morning you say okay a year ago I
the morning you say okay a year ago I didn’t think this or know this what is
didn’t think this or know this what is
didn’t think this or know this what is it how to love myself first and not just
it how to love myself first and not just
it how to love myself first and not just in a relationship in my everyday life I
in a relationship in my everyday life I
in a relationship in my everyday life I give myself so much I let people pull at
give myself so much I let people pull at
give myself so much I let people pull at me in every direction and I want
me in every direction and I want
me in every direction and I want everybody to be happy and eventually I
everybody to be happy and eventually I
everybody to be happy and eventually I would I mean I would be in my bathroom
would I mean I would be in my bathroom
would I mean I would be in my bathroom sobbing right before I’d go on stage and
sobbing right before I’d go on stage and
sobbing right before I’d go on stage and then I’d just put myself on stage and
then I’d just put myself on stage and
then I’d just put myself on stage and I’d want though I’d want to be there for
I’d want though I’d want to be there for
I’d want though I’d want to be there for those people I never took a moment to
those people I never took a moment to
those people I never took a moment to just go go away and be myself and figure
just go go away and be myself and figure
just go go away and be myself and figure it out I kept pushing myself and I think
it out I kept pushing myself and I think
it out I kept pushing myself and I think the biggest thing I learned is it’s okay
the biggest thing I learned is it’s okay
the biggest thing I learned is it’s okay I’m gonna stop when I need to stop I’m
I’m gonna stop when I need to stop I’m
I’m gonna stop when I need to stop I’m gonna feel when I need to feel and I
gonna feel when I need to feel and I
gonna feel when I need to feel and I don’t care what comes with that or what
don’t care what comes with that or what
don’t care what comes with that or what people want to say it’s normal I’m
people want to say it’s normal I’m
people want to say it’s normal I’m supposed to keep going and I just wanted
supposed to keep going and I just wanted
supposed to keep going and I just wanted that’s all I want to do not meant to put
that’s all I want to do not meant to put
that’s all I want to do not meant to put a goal on your life you’re not meant to
a goal on your life you’re not meant to
a goal on your life you’re not meant to say once I get there I’ll have it all I
say once I get there I’ll have it all I
say once I get there I’ll have it all I think that that’s the biggest lesson
think that that’s the biggest lesson
think that that’s the biggest lesson I’ve needed to learn is how to be
I’ve needed to learn is how to be
I’ve needed to learn is how to be present in that moment and to know that
present in that moment and to know that
present in that moment and to know that I’m always going to strive for something
I’m always going to strive for something
I’m always going to strive for something I think everybody who’s watched my story
I think everybody who’s watched my story
I think everybody who’s watched my story they’ve seen that not everything has
they’ve seen that not everything has
they’ve seen that not everything has kind of been handed to me and and I’ve
kind of been handed to me and and I’ve
kind of been handed to me and and I’ve been honest about everything some of the
been honest about everything some of the
been honest about everything some of the things that haven’t been me in the past
things that haven’t been me in the past
things that haven’t been me in the past and other things I’ve been so passionate
and other things I’ve been so passionate
and other things I’ve been so passionate about and so spot-on with so if anything
about and so spot-on with so if anything
about and so spot-on with so if anything that’s what revival represents it’s that
that’s what revival represents it’s that
that’s what revival represents it’s that I feel the most confident I’ve ever felt
I feel the most confident I’ve ever felt
I feel the most confident I’ve ever felt and it goes like that like it’s
and it goes like that like it’s
and it goes like that like it’s constantly changing and I don’t know I
constantly changing and I don’t know I
constantly changing and I don’t know I think that’s just that’s what I want it
think that’s just that’s what I want it
think that’s just that’s what I want it to feel like there’s a real difference
to feel like there’s a real difference
to feel like there’s a real difference with revival though isn’t there because
with revival though isn’t there because
with revival though isn’t there because it really reflects on a lot of what
it really reflects on a lot of what
it really reflects on a lot of what you’ve been through over the last few
you’ve been through over the last few
you’ve been through over the last few years and there
years and there
years and there some songs on there that have much more
some songs on there that have much more
some songs on there that have much more deep earthy yes what was that like for
deep earthy yes what was that like for
deep earthy yes what was that like for you putting that out there was the
you putting that out there was the
you putting that out there was the process of putting the album together
process of putting the album together
process of putting the album together quite cathartic yeah I think the
quite cathartic yeah I think the
quite cathartic yeah I think the beginning of my career it was very
beginning of my career it was very
beginning of my career it was very tailored it was very precise sharing the
tailored it was very precise sharing the
tailored it was very precise sharing the vulnerable raw messy side wasn’t
vulnerable raw messy side wasn’t
vulnerable raw messy side wasn’t necessarily in college yeah
you take them sort of it on a whole it’s
you take them sort of it on a whole it’s quite actually empowering and it feels
quite actually empowering and it feels
quite actually empowering and it feels like you find in your voice absolute
like you find in your voice absolute
like you find in your voice absolute little bit and also I guess being
little bit and also I guess being
little bit and also I guess being prepared to be on your own as well
prepared to be on your own as well
prepared to be on your own as well there’s vulnerability
there’s vulnerability
there’s vulnerability yeah there’s vulnerable of strength is
yeah there’s vulnerable of strength is
yeah there’s vulnerable of strength is being vulnerable and being honest and
being vulnerable and being honest and
being vulnerable and being honest and that doesn’t mean you have to be like
that doesn’t mean you have to be like
that doesn’t mean you have to be like I’m strong I’m amazing look at you no
I’m strong I’m amazing look at you no
I’m strong I’m amazing look at you no look at me
look at me
look at me you can have those moments but you won’t
you can have those moments but you won’t
you can have those moments but you won’t have those moments unless you’re like
have those moments unless you’re like
have those moments unless you’re like I’ve been broken I’ve felt things I’ve
I’ve been broken I’ve felt things I’ve
I’ve been broken I’ve felt things I’ve messed up a lot and I’m okay saying none
messed up a lot and I’m okay saying none
messed up a lot and I’m okay saying none for many young stars who have had a lot
for many young stars who have had a lot
for many young stars who have had a lot of success at a young age sometimes they
of success at a young age sometimes they
of success at a young age sometimes they get on the wrong path mm-hmm how do you
get on the wrong path mm-hmm how do you
get on the wrong path mm-hmm how do you stay on the right path you are who you
stay on the right path you are who you
stay on the right path you are who you surround yourself with I know that’s
surround yourself with I know that’s
surround yourself with I know that’s such a cliche quote but it’s true I’ve
such a cliche quote but it’s true I’ve
such a cliche quote but it’s true I’ve just witnessed it too much it’s easy to
just witnessed it too much it’s easy to
just witnessed it too much it’s easy to get caught up because of course you’re
get caught up because of course you’re
get caught up because of course you’re you’re thrown things you’re given things
you’re thrown things you’re given things
you’re thrown things you’re given things that are fun and exciting but it’s just
that are fun and exciting but it’s just
that are fun and exciting but it’s just at the end of the day success is nothing
at the end of the day success is nothing
at the end of the day success is nothing if you don’t have the right people to
if you don’t have the right people to
if you don’t have the right people to share it with you’re just gonna end up
share it with you’re just gonna end up
share it with you’re just gonna end up lonely first of all congratulations on
lonely first of all congratulations on
lonely first of all congratulations on just world domination I’ll say that’s
just world domination I’ll say that’s
just world domination I’ll say that’s really what you are on like this tour is
really what you are on like this tour is
really what you are on like this tour is gonna be huge how excited are you I’m
gonna be huge how excited are you I’m
gonna be huge how excited are you I’m really excited to be honest in the best
really excited to be honest in the best
really excited to be honest in the best possible way I really haven’t been able
possible way I really haven’t been able
possible way I really haven’t been able to sleep or eat anything I mean I’m
to sleep or eat anything I mean I’m
to sleep or eat anything I mean I’m taking care of myself but it’s crazy
taking care of myself but it’s crazy
taking care of myself but it’s crazy when you when you really believe in
when you when you really believe in
when you when you really believe in something it’s so different and not to
something it’s so different and not to
something it’s so different and not to say that I didn’t believe in anything in
say that I didn’t believe in anything in
say that I didn’t believe in anything in the past
the past
the past I just didn’t know what I was what my
I just didn’t know what I was what my
I just didn’t know what I was what my purpose was I didn’t know what I was
purpose was I didn’t know what I was
purpose was I didn’t know what I was meant to say how I was supposed to say
meant to say how I was supposed to say
meant to say how I was supposed to say it and then once I started experiencing
it and then once I started experiencing
it and then once I started experiencing so much and I knew people were wanting
so much and I knew people were wanting
so much and I knew people were wanting to know what I felt and I was scared to
to know what I felt and I was scared to
to know what I felt and I was scared to be honest and now to see it come to life
be honest and now to see it come to life
be honest and now to see it come to life it’s crazy
it’s crazy
it’s crazy everybody’s path is different you know
everybody’s path is different you know
everybody’s path is different you know everybody’s gonna do things differently
everybody’s gonna do things differently
everybody’s gonna do things differently so honestly I’m I understand when you
so honestly I’m I understand when you
so honestly I’m I understand when you need to be free it’s like everybody when
need to be free it’s like everybody when
need to be free it’s like everybody when you’re younger and you
you’re younger and you
you’re younger and you to experience something and you want to
to experience something and you want to
to experience something and you want to feel real things you’ve got to go and
feel real things you’ve got to go and
feel real things you’ve got to go and explore explore who you are and find out
explore explore who you are and find out
explore explore who you are and find out what it’s about and what you like and
what it’s about and what you like and
what it’s about and what you like and what you don’t like so everybody’s
what you don’t like so everybody’s
what you don’t like so everybody’s different and I’m just knocking on wood
different and I’m just knocking on wood
different and I’m just knocking on wood hoping that it works out because it’s
hoping that it works out because it’s
hoping that it works out because it’s never an easy transition being a kid
never an easy transition being a kid
never an easy transition being a kid transitioning into adult
transitioning into adult
transitioning into adult it never ends the journey yeah I mean
it never ends the journey yeah I mean
it never ends the journey yeah I mean when do you stop growing you keep going
when do you stop growing you keep going
when do you stop growing you keep going sometimes you have to just say like why
sometimes you have to just say like why
sometimes you have to just say like why would you want to make the situation
would you want to make the situation
would you want to make the situation miserable uh-huh I go to photo shoots
miserable uh-huh I go to photo shoots
miserable uh-huh I go to photo shoots and I actually working with Pantene they
and I actually working with Pantene they
and I actually working with Pantene they were so sweet and I just like you’re so
were so sweet and I just like you’re so
were so sweet and I just like you’re so nice and and they they said that to me
nice and and they they said that to me
nice and and they they said that to me as if that was shocking and I looked at
as if that was shocking and I looked at
as if that was shocking and I looked at them I’m like why would I want to make
them I’m like why would I want to make
them I’m like why would I want to make this miserable for you and me like we’re
this miserable for you and me like we’re
this miserable for you and me like we’re taking pretty pictures I’m flinging my
taking pretty pictures I’m flinging my
taking pretty pictures I’m flinging my hair around like it’s you have a choice
hair around like it’s you have a choice
hair around like it’s you have a choice yeah it’s like if you want to be happy
yeah it’s like if you want to be happy
yeah it’s like if you want to be happy be happy and that’s so hard to do
be happy and that’s so hard to do
be happy and that’s so hard to do sometimes but it’s something that I just
sometimes but it’s something that I just
sometimes but it’s something that I just have come to terms with more than ever
have come to terms with more than ever
have come to terms with more than ever lately in my life and I think people
lately in my life and I think people
lately in my life and I think people just see that
thank you guys so much for watching I
thank you guys so much for watching I made this video because who Sam as he
made this video because who Sam as he
made this video because who Sam as he asked me to so if there’s a famous
asked me to so if there’s a famous
asked me to so if there’s a famous entrepreneur
entrepreneur
entrepreneur you want me to profile next leave it
you want me to profile next leave it
you want me to profile next leave it down in the comments below and I’ll see
down in the comments below and I’ll see
down in the comments below and I’ll see what I can do I also love to know which
what I can do I also love to know which
what I can do I also love to know which is Selena’s top ten rules the biggest
is Selena’s top ten rules the biggest
is Selena’s top ten rules the biggest impact on you on why what change you’re
impact on you on why what change you’re
impact on you on why what change you’re now going to make after watching this
now going to make after watching this
now going to make after watching this how do you feel after watching all those
how do you feel after watching all those
how do you feel after watching all those inspiring Clips leave it in the comments
inspiring Clips leave it in the comments
inspiring Clips leave it in the comments and I will join in the discussion thank
and I will join in the discussion thank
and I will join in the discussion thank you so much for watching continue to
you so much for watching continue to
you so much for watching continue to believe and I’ll see you soon
tell me about the first time that you
tell me about the first time that you decided said to yourself you know what I
decided said to yourself you know what I
decided said to yourself you know what I love to act I want to act I think I
love to act I want to act I think I
love to act I want to act I think I always knew that I wanted to do it plus
always knew that I wanted to do it plus
always knew that I wanted to do it plus it was an only child so I basically
it was an only child so I basically
it was an only child so I basically entertained myself
entertained myself
entertained myself I was super dramatic and always wanted
I was super dramatic and always wanted
I was super dramatic and always wanted to put on a show for everyone I actually
to put on a show for everyone I actually
to put on a show for everyone I actually held auditions for my friends and
held auditions for my friends and
held auditions for my friends and wanting to like past plays like my mom
wanting to like past plays like my mom
wanting to like past plays like my mom and I mean my mom was probably a little
and I mean my mom was probably a little
and I mean my mom was probably a little bit of an influence in that because of
bit of an influence in that because of
bit of an influence in that because of the theatre background I loved watching
the theatre background I loved watching
the theatre background I loved watching her do her own makeup and run the lines
her do her own makeup and run the lines
her do her own makeup and run the lines in the mirror and then she’d kind of
in the mirror and then she’d kind of
in the mirror and then she’d kind of noticed and it’d be like oh Lord
noticed and it’d be like oh Lord
noticed and it’d be like oh Lord she’s gonna be an entertainer it’s an
she’s gonna be an entertainer it’s an
she’s gonna be an entertainer it’s an interesting the way it starts there’s
interesting the way it starts there’s
interesting the way it starts there’s some moaning at the beginning which
some moaning at the beginning which
some moaning at the beginning which makes it which one the first song in the
makes it which one the first song in the
makes it which one the first song in the record birthday don’t know the title is
record birthday don’t know the title is
record birthday don’t know the title is no one told me the titles just heard the
no one told me the titles just heard the
no one told me the titles just heard the record what is it called look at that
record what is it called look at that
record what is it called look at that exclusive birthday yeah you say birthday
exclusive birthday yeah you say birthday
exclusive birthday yeah you say birthday in a lot but that’s a very mature
in a lot but that’s a very mature
in a lot but that’s a very mature progression sonically to add those kind
progression sonically to add those kind
progression sonically to add those kind of moaning sounds as opposed to being
of moaning sounds as opposed to being
of moaning sounds as opposed to being that the Disney person you you’ve been
that the Disney person you you’ve been
that the Disney person you you’ve been known to be over the years sure but I
known to be over the years sure but I
known to be over the years sure but I mean I’m not messing yeah yeah no Mars
mean I’m not messing yeah yeah no Mars
mean I’m not messing yeah yeah no Mars no I think I think more I think it’s
no I think I think more I think it’s
no I think I think more I think it’s more me being able to experiment you
more me being able to experiment you
more me being able to experiment you know being going into the booth and
know being going into the booth and
know being going into the booth and actually having the confidence of being
actually having the confidence of being
actually having the confidence of being like alright let me try this let me see
like alright let me try this let me see
like alright let me try this let me see if this works and messing around with
if this works and messing around with
if this works and messing around with melodies or just harmonies or as you say
melodies or just harmonies or as you say
melodies or just harmonies or as you say moaning is that it wow that’s what it is
moaning is that it wow that’s what it is
moaning is that it wow that’s what it is isn’t it guys I guess that’s the right
isn’t it guys I guess that’s the right
isn’t it guys I guess that’s the right term for it in a way but um ya know I
term for it in a way but um ya know I
term for it in a way but um ya know I think in a way I really was able to just
think in a way I really was able to just
think in a way I really was able to just play and that’s that was fun for me it’s
play and that’s that was fun for me it’s
play and that’s that was fun for me it’s all on how you choose to live your life
all on how you choose to live your life
all on how you choose to live your life because you can allow yours oh this one
because you can allow yours oh this one
because you can allow yours oh this one yes I do I choose to live this life but
yes I do I choose to live this life but
yes I do I choose to live this life but I also choose to live it the way I want
I also choose to live it the way I want
I also choose to live it the way I want to live it cuz it’s too easy to say that
to live it cuz it’s too easy to say that
to live it cuz it’s too easy to say that I want people around me that will tell
I want people around me that will tell
I want people around me that will tell me yes and think everything around me is
me yes and think everything around me is
me yes and think everything around me is perfect because I can have those people
perfect because I can have those people
perfect because I can have those people around me right now
around me right now
around me right now but I’d rather have people around me
but I’d rather have people around me
but I’d rather have people around me that tell me I don’t look good or I
that tell me I don’t look good or I
that tell me I don’t look good or I should work out or that sounded stupid
should work out or that sounded stupid
should work out or that sounded stupid you know I like having real people that
you know I like having real people that
you know I like having real people that that make me feel like a normal person
that make me feel like a normal person
that make me feel like a normal person because then it makes it easier to be me
because then it makes it easier to be me
because then it makes it easier to be me so I don’t know I hope there’s more of
so I don’t know I hope there’s more of
so I don’t know I hope there’s more of that I’d rather just have real people
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