do all mentors want to get paid so I got a great question front of my YouTube
a great question front of my YouTube
a great question front of my YouTube viewers love you guys Daniel who wrote
viewers love you guys Daniel who wrote
viewers love you guys Daniel who wrote in to say how should I proceed to find
in to say how should I proceed to find
in to say how should I proceed to find the mentor most mentors want to be paid
the mentor most mentors want to be paid
the mentor most mentors want to be paid for coaching and if I was like 15 years
for coaching and if I was like 15 years
for coaching and if I was like 15 years old don’t have money how do we do it so
old don’t have money how do we do it so
old don’t have money how do we do it so this is a great question and mentors are
this is a great question and mentors are
this is a great question and mentors are fantastic resource for you to shortcut
fantastic resource for you to shortcut
fantastic resource for you to shortcut your path to success whatever your goal
your path to success whatever your goal
your path to success whatever your goal is whatever you want to accomplish
is whatever you want to accomplish
is whatever you want to accomplish whatever hurdles you’re facing right now
whatever hurdles you’re facing right now
whatever hurdles you’re facing right now in your life in your business finding
in your life in your business finding
in your life in your business finding somebody who’s already busted through
somebody who’s already busted through
somebody who’s already busted through those and have reached the goal that you
those and have reached the goal that you
those and have reached the goal that you want to reach and having them coach and
want to reach and having them coach and
want to reach and having them coach and mentor you along will dramatically cut
mentor you along will dramatically cut
mentor you along will dramatically cut down the time you’re gonna take to get
down the time you’re gonna take to get
down the time you’re gonna take to get to where you want to be the number of
to where you want to be the number of
to where you want to be the number of mistakes you’re gonna make it’s just
mistakes you’re gonna make it’s just
mistakes you’re gonna make it’s just overall a great thing that you want to
overall a great thing that you want to
overall a great thing that you want to try out and mentors can come in the form
try out and mentors can come in the form
try out and mentors can come in the form of real-life people who you’re
of real-life people who you’re
of real-life people who you’re connecting with and having coffee with
connecting with and having coffee with
connecting with and having coffee with two people who you learn from from books
two people who you learn from from books
two people who you learn from from books and videos and movies and people you’ve
and videos and movies and people you’ve
and videos and movies and people you’ve never met but one thing that’s really
never met but one thing that’s really
never met but one thing that’s really important when we’re talking about
important when we’re talking about
important when we’re talking about people that you’re meaning live
people that you’re meaning live
people that you’re meaning live face-to-face people that you look up to
face-to-face people that you look up to
face-to-face people that you look up to the you respect you want their opinions
the you respect you want their opinions
the you respect you want their opinions you want their coaching you want their
you want their coaching you want their
you want their coaching you want their advice they don’t necessarily want money
advice they don’t necessarily want money
advice they don’t necessarily want money but they want value for their time and
but they want value for their time and
but they want value for their time and what I mean by that is everybody wants
what I mean by that is everybody wants
what I mean by that is everybody wants to feel like to have it an impact right
to feel like to have it an impact right
to feel like to have it an impact right especially as you get older you want to
especially as you get older you want to
especially as you get older you want to feel like you’re doing something to make
feel like you’re doing something to make
feel like you’re doing something to make the world a better place and mentoring
the world a better place and mentoring
the world a better place and mentoring is a great way to do it the challenge is
is a great way to do it the challenge is
is a great way to do it the challenge is a lot of mentees they’re honestly not
a lot of mentees they’re honestly not
a lot of mentees they’re honestly not ready they’re not ready to put in the
ready they’re not ready to put in the
ready they’re not ready to put in the work and the time and the commitment to
work and the time and the commitment to
work and the time and the commitment to make it valuable so you want to make
make it valuable so you want to make
make it valuable so you want to make sure that you’re bringing value to the
sure that you’re bringing value to the
sure that you’re bringing value to the relationship that you’re making that
relationship that you’re making that
relationship that you’re making that mentor feel like they’re giving back so
mentor feel like they’re giving back so
mentor feel like they’re giving back so have three bits of advice for you
have three bits of advice for you
have three bits of advice for you number one is start with coffee people
number one is start with coffee people
number one is start with coffee people make the mistake of emailing or calling
make the mistake of emailing or calling
make the mistake of emailing or calling up somebody that they’ve never met that
up somebody that they’ve never met that
up somebody that they’ve never met that they look up to saying will you be my
they look up to saying will you be my
they look up to saying will you be my mentor you have to understand that a
mentor you have to understand that a
mentor you have to understand that a mentorship is a serious relationship
mentorship is a serious relationship
mentorship is a serious relationship maybe we’re not getting married but it’s
maybe we’re not getting married but it’s
maybe we’re not getting married but it’s as serious as dating at least you should
as serious as dating at least you should
as serious as dating at least you should take it that seriously because a good
take it that seriously because a good
take it that seriously because a good mentor they’ll take it that seriously so
mentor they’ll take it that seriously so
mentor they’ll take it that seriously so you don’t just jump into a relationship
you don’t just jump into a relationship
you don’t just jump into a relationship with somebody having never met them
with somebody having never met them
with somebody having never met them right that shows your level of ignorance
right that shows your level of ignorance
right that shows your level of ignorance that shows that you’re not really
that shows that you’re not really
that shows that you’re not really committed to this because I would never
committed to this because I would never
committed to this because I would never jump into something neither should you
jump into something neither should you
jump into something neither should you if you don’t really know that person so
if you don’t really know that person so
if you don’t really know that person so start small and start with coffee say
start small and start with coffee say
start small and start with coffee say I’m starting this new business or
I’m starting this new business or
I’m starting this new business or whatever your goal is and you know I
whatever your goal is and you know I
whatever your goal is and you know I respect everything you’ve done and show
respect everything you’ve done and show
respect everything you’ve done and show some examples to show that you’ve
some examples to show that you’ve
some examples to show that you’ve actually done some research on them and
actually done some research on them and
actually done some research on them and I’d love to be able to pick your brain
I’d love to be able to pick your brain
I’d love to be able to pick your brain over coffee it’s on me if you have half
over coffee it’s on me if you have half
over coffee it’s on me if you have half an hour 20 minutes any day next week any
an hour 20 minutes any day next week any
an hour 20 minutes any day next week any day next month whenever it is I’ll show
day next month whenever it is I’ll show
day next month whenever it is I’ll show up I’ll be there with a smile on my face
up I’ll be there with a smile on my face
up I’ll be there with a smile on my face ready to absorb all of your knowledge
ready to absorb all of your knowledge
ready to absorb all of your knowledge and wisdom okay show me some passion
and wisdom okay show me some passion
and wisdom okay show me some passion show me some excitement show me that you
show me some excitement show me that you
show me some excitement show me that you actually know who I am and ask for a
actually know who I am and ask for a
actually know who I am and ask for a coffee start off the relationship small
coffee start off the relationship small
coffee start off the relationship small make it easy to say yes and then start
make it easy to say yes and then start
make it easy to say yes and then start giving value so one start with coffee
giving value so one start with coffee
giving value so one start with coffee number two is bring passion and
number two is bring passion and
number two is bring passion and execution and this is honestly where so
execution and this is honestly where so
execution and this is honestly where so many people fall down okay the value may
many people fall down okay the value may
many people fall down okay the value may be ask what value do I bring to a mentor
be ask what value do I bring to a mentor
be ask what value do I bring to a mentor this is a two-way street and you have to
this is a two-way street and you have to
this is a two-way street and you have to understand that the value that you bring
understand that the value that you bring
understand that the value that you bring to a mentor is them being able to impart
to a mentor is them being able to impart
to a mentor is them being able to impart knowledge on you and you’ll be able to
knowledge on you and you’ll be able to
knowledge on you and you’ll be able to go take action on it right they want to
go take action on it right they want to
go take action on it right they want to see your face light up with the idea
see your face light up with the idea
see your face light up with the idea that’s great that gives the instant
that’s great that gives the instant
that’s great that gives the instant gratification that brings a passion out
gratification that brings a passion out
gratification that brings a passion out but the execution actually go out and do
but the execution actually go out and do
but the execution actually go out and do what I tell you to do right you’re
what I tell you to do right you’re
what I tell you to do right you’re they’re asking for their advice if you
they’re asking for their advice if you
they’re asking for their advice if you want an ongoing relationship you need to
want an ongoing relationship you need to
want an ongoing relationship you need to go out and actually take action a mentor
go out and actually take action a mentor
go out and actually take action a mentor doesn’t want to be just constantly
doesn’t want to be just constantly
doesn’t want to be just constantly coaching and being motivational so yeah
coaching and being motivational so yeah
coaching and being motivational so yeah you could do it go you can do it I
you could do it go you can do it I
you could do it go you can do it I believe in you rah rah rah they want to
believe in you rah rah rah they want to
believe in you rah rah rah they want to see you’re actually doing work they want
see you’re actually doing work they want
see you’re actually doing work they want to be able to give you practical things
to be able to give you practical things
to be able to give you practical things say go out and do XYZ and you go out and
say go out and do XYZ and you go out and
say go out and do XYZ and you go out and do it
do it
do it and you do it faster than they thought
and you do it faster than they thought
and you do it faster than they thought they were gonna take right
they were gonna take right
they were gonna take right get out there and do it for them that
get out there and do it for them that
get out there and do it for them that gives them the sense that you care and
gives them the sense that you care and
gives them the sense that you care and they’re giving back that’s the value
they’re giving back that’s the value
they’re giving back that’s the value that you bring they should see you they
that you bring they should see you they
that you bring they should see you they should look at you and the energy that
should look at you and the energy that
should look at you and the energy that you bring and that energy revitalizes
you bring and that energy revitalizes
you bring and that energy revitalizes them make them feel passionate about it
them make them feel passionate about it
them make them feel passionate about it again and they look at you and they see
again and they look at you and they see
again and they look at you and they see a younger version of themselves
a younger version of themselves
a younger version of themselves that’s what you want them to see that’s
that’s what you want them to see that’s
that’s what you want them to see that’s the value that you bring so remember to
the value that you bring so remember to
the value that you bring so remember to always bring the passion and then go
always bring the passion and then go
always bring the passion and then go execute and the execution may be hard
execute and the execution may be hard
execute and the execution may be hard it’s not going to just be some simple
it’s not going to just be some simple
it’s not going to just be some simple strategy it’s gonna be hard it’s gonna
strategy it’s gonna be hard it’s gonna
strategy it’s gonna be hard it’s gonna push your comfort zone it’s gonna make
push your comfort zone it’s gonna make
push your comfort zone it’s gonna make you do things that you’re not
you do things that you’re not
you do things that you’re not comfortable with that you may have never
comfortable with that you may have never
comfortable with that you may have never done before that you’re scared of but
done before that you’re scared of but
done before that you’re scared of but that’s what you need to do to grow
that’s what you need to do to grow
that’s what you need to do to grow that’s what you need to do to get to
that’s what you need to do to get to
that’s what you need to do to get to that place that you want to be and if
that place that you want to be and if
that place that you want to be and if you’re not willing to do that then don’t
you’re not willing to do that then don’t
you’re not willing to do that then don’t go out and get a mentor because they’re
go out and get a mentor because they’re
go out and get a mentor because they’re gonna drop you before you can drop them
gonna drop you before you can drop them
gonna drop you before you can drop them passion and execution and number three
passion and execution and number three
passion and execution and number three is join a program you could do a lot of
is join a program you could do a lot of
is join a program you could do a lot of great research on your own and reach out
great research on your own and reach out
great research on your own and reach out to people and ask questions even this is
to people and ask questions even this is
to people and ask questions even this is a start right you’re asking me a
a start right you’re asking me a
a start right you’re asking me a question responding and trying to help
question responding and trying to help
question responding and trying to help you out what’s the value that I get I
you out what’s the value that I get I
you out what’s the value that I get I like knowing that I’m helping
like knowing that I’m helping
like knowing that I’m helping entrepreneurs you know are you gonna go
entrepreneurs you know are you gonna go
entrepreneurs you know are you gonna go out and execute on this I hope you will
out and execute on this I hope you will
out and execute on this I hope you will a lot of people won’t that makes a
a lot of people won’t that makes a
a lot of people won’t that makes a difference between the ones who become
difference between the ones who become
difference between the ones who become successful and the ones who don’t they
successful and the ones who don’t they
successful and the ones who don’t they have the courage to step outside their
have the courage to step outside their
have the courage to step outside their comfort zone and execute so you can do
comfort zone and execute so you can do
comfort zone and execute so you can do it on your own like you’re doing now or
it on your own like you’re doing now or
it on your own like you’re doing now or you can also look for programs
you can also look for programs
you can also look for programs especially for young people there’s a
especially for young people there’s a
especially for young people there’s a lot more mentorship opportunities so
lot more mentorship opportunities so
lot more mentorship opportunities so look at you know whatever school you’re
look at you know whatever school you’re
look at you know whatever school you’re at look at whatever government programs
at look at whatever government programs
at look at whatever government programs are look at if there’s any companies
are look at if there’s any companies
are look at if there’s any companies that are offering mentorship programs
that are offering mentorship programs
that are offering mentorship programs there’s a lot of these programs and
there’s a lot of these programs and
there’s a lot of these programs and nonprofits that have been set up to
nonprofits that have been set up to
nonprofits that have been set up to specifically guide young people through
specifically guide young people through
specifically guide young people through their career path and giving them advice
their career path and giving them advice
their career path and giving them advice and connections to mentors and specific
and connections to mentors and specific
and connections to mentors and specific programs so if you want to become an
programs so if you want to become an
programs so if you want to become an entrepreneur there’s a program for that
entrepreneur there’s a program for that
entrepreneur there’s a program for that if you want to become a lawyer there’s a
if you want to become a lawyer there’s a
if you want to become a lawyer there’s a program for that right so they have
program for that right so they have
program for that right so they have specific programs that can help you as
specific programs that can help you as
specific programs that can help you as well do you research to find them and
well do you research to find them and
well do you research to find them and apply and get in and see if it’s for you
apply and get in and see if it’s for you
apply and get in and see if it’s for you it’s a it’s a great supplement to you
it’s a it’s a great supplement to you
it’s a it’s a great supplement to you going out and reaching out to mentors
going out and reaching out to mentors
going out and reaching out to mentors directly on your own so in summary how
directly on your own so in summary how
directly on your own so in summary how to find the mentors it’s not just about
to find the mentors it’s not just about
to find the mentors it’s not just about giving them money but you got a number
giving them money but you got a number
giving them money but you got a number one start with coffee
one start with coffee
one start with coffee number two bring passion and execution
number two bring passion and execution
number two bring passion and execution number three
number three
number three join a program
join a program
join a program and believe for those of you watching
and believe for those of you watching
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