practice faithful persistence means never ever ever give up I mean how many
never ever ever give up I mean how many
never ever ever give up I mean how many of you have ever had a great idea talked
of you have ever had a great idea talked
of you have ever had a great idea talked about it thought about it didn’t do it
about it thought about it didn’t do it
about it thought about it didn’t do it then someone else did it was successful
then someone else did it was successful
then someone else did it was successful when you went darn I should have done
when you went darn I should have done
when you went darn I should have done that you know one of the greatest myths
that you know one of the greatest myths
that you know one of the greatest myths that’s pervasive in our culture today is
that’s pervasive in our culture today is
that’s pervasive in our culture today is that you’re entitled to a great life if
that you’re entitled to a great life if
that you’re entitled to a great life if you’re not experiencing joy as you think
you’re not experiencing joy as you think
you’re not experiencing joy as you think about doing something and as you pursue
about doing something and as you pursue
about doing something and as you pursue doing it then it’s off course for you
doing it then it’s off course for you
doing it then it’s off course for you he’s an American author motivational
he’s an American author motivational
he’s an American author motivational speaker corporate trainer and
speaker corporate trainer and
speaker corporate trainer and entrepreneur he’s the co-author of the
entrepreneur he’s the co-author of the
entrepreneur he’s the co-author of the Chicken Soup for the Soul series that
Chicken Soup for the Soul series that
Chicken Soup for the Soul series that has sold over five hundred million
has sold over five hundred million
has sold over five hundred million copies in 40 languages in 2005 he
copies in 40 languages in 2005 he
copies in 40 languages in 2005 he co-authored the success principles how
co-authored the success principles how
co-authored the success principles how to get from where you are to where you
to get from where you are to where you
to get from where you are to where you want to be his Jack Canfield and here’s
want to be his Jack Canfield and here’s
want to be his Jack Canfield and here’s my take on his top ten rules for success
my take on his top ten rules for success
my take on his top ten rules for success rule number one is my personal favorite
rule number one is my personal favorite
rule number one is my personal favorite I’m curious to find out which one you
I’m curious to find out which one you
I’m curious to find out which one you guys like the best also as you’re
guys like the best also as you’re
guys like the best also as you’re watching the video if you hear something
watching the video if you hear something
watching the video if you hear something that Jack says it really resonates with
that Jack says it really resonates with
that Jack says it really resonates with you add it to the comments with quotes
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so we can keep track of what you find
so we can keep track of what you find most relevant practice faithful
most relevant practice faithful
most relevant practice faithful persistence means never ever ever give
persistence means never ever ever give
persistence means never ever ever give up Chicken Soup for the Soul was
up Chicken Soup for the Soul was
up Chicken Soup for the Soul was rejected by a hundred and forty four
rejected by a hundred and forty four
rejected by a hundred and forty four publishers 144 publisher said we don’t
publishers 144 publisher said we don’t
publishers 144 publisher said we don’t want to publish a collection of short
want to publish a collection of short
want to publish a collection of short stories the title stupid Chicken Soup
stories the title stupid Chicken Soup
stories the title stupid Chicken Soup for the Soul what does that mean people
for the Soul what does that mean people
for the Soul what does that mean people don’t buy collections of short stories
don’t buy collections of short stories
don’t buy collections of short stories there’s never been you know successful
there’s never been you know successful
there’s never been you know successful chain of doing that so literally we
chain of doing that so literally we
chain of doing that so literally we spent 14 months trying to find a
spent 14 months trying to find a
spent 14 months trying to find a publisher and we’d go to New York with
publisher and we’d go to New York with
publisher and we’d go to New York with our agent and eventually our agent gave
our agent and eventually our agent gave
our agent and eventually our agent gave us the book back and said I can’t sell
us the book back and said I can’t sell
us the book back and said I can’t sell this so we went to the National
this so we went to the National
this so we went to the National booksellers Association convention down
booksellers Association convention down
booksellers Association convention down in Anaheim
in Anaheim
in Anaheim we went from booth to booth to booth for
we went from booth to booth to booth for
we went from booth to booth to booth for three days and there were 4,000
three days and there were 4,000
three days and there were 4,000 publishers represented there and we go
publishers represented there and we go
publishers represented there and we go would you publish a book would you
would you publish a book would you
would you publish a book would you publish a book would you publish my book
publish a book would you publish my book
publish a book would you publish my book and we got no no no no no it was late on
and we got no no no no no it was late on
and we got no no no no no it was late on the third day that a little publisher
the third day that a little publisher
the third day that a little publisher from Florida after we’d gotten over 144
from Florida after we’d gotten over 144
from Florida after we’d gotten over 144 rejections said we’ll read it and then
rejections said we’ll read it and then
rejections said we’ll read it and then they said we said well how many copies
they said we said well how many copies
they said we said well how many copies do you think we’ll sell after they said
do you think we’ll sell after they said
do you think we’ll sell after they said yeah we’ll buy it a couple weeks later
yeah we’ll buy it a couple weeks later
yeah we’ll buy it a couple weeks later said we’ll publish it and we said well
said we’ll publish it and we said well
said we’ll publish it and we said well maybe 20,000 if we’re lucky now we said
maybe 20,000 if we’re lucky now we said
maybe 20,000 if we’re lucky now we said we our goal is to sell a million and a
we our goal is to sell a million and a
we our goal is to sell a million and a half in a year and a half
half in a year and a half
half in a year and a half now have you ever told someone your
now have you ever told someone your
now have you ever told someone your dream and had them laugh out loud of you
dream and had them laugh out loud of you
dream and had them laugh out loud of you he laughs out loud now if we had given
he laughs out loud now if we had given
he laughs out loud now if we had given up after a hundred publishers had said
up after a hundred publishers had said
up after a hundred publishers had said no I wouldn’t be standing here today
no I wouldn’t be standing here today
no I wouldn’t be standing here today you know wouldn’t have happened and so
you know wouldn’t have happened and so
you know wouldn’t have happened and so you’ve got to be willing to persevere
you’ve got to be willing to persevere
you’ve got to be willing to persevere because we didn’t take no see when the
because we didn’t take no see when the
because we didn’t take no see when the world says no you say next let’s
world says no you say next let’s
world says no you say next let’s practice that if I say no you say
practice that if I say no you say
practice that if I say no you say absolutely there’s only five or six
absolutely there’s only five or six
absolutely there’s only five or six billion people out there you can go and
billion people out there you can go and
billion people out there you can go and ask right there’s over four thousand
ask right there’s over four thousand
ask right there’s over four thousand publishers just here in the state of
publishers just here in the state of
publishers just here in the state of California so what we have is this
California so what we have is this
California so what we have is this endless possibility but you have to
endless possibility but you have to
endless possibility but you have to persevere it’s as if the universe tests
persevere it’s as if the universe tests
persevere it’s as if the universe tests our commitment and so today we have a
our commitment and so today we have a
our commitment and so today we have a hundred and forty seven titles in print
hundred and forty seven titles in print
hundred and forty seven titles in print we sold over 115 million copies
we sold over 115 million copies
we sold over 115 million copies we’re in 47 languages and over a billion
we’re in 47 languages and over a billion
we’re in 47 languages and over a billion dollars where the Chicken Soup for the
dollars where the Chicken Soup for the
dollars where the Chicken Soup for the Soul books have been sold worldwide so
Soul books have been sold worldwide so
Soul books have been sold worldwide so if you’re willing to decide what you
if you’re willing to decide what you
if you’re willing to decide what you want believe it’s possible consciously
want believe it’s possible consciously
want believe it’s possible consciously envision the future feel the feelings of
envision the future feel the feelings of
envision the future feel the feelings of what it would feel like if you would
what it would feel like if you would
what it would feel like if you would achieve this goal you could have
achieve this goal you could have
achieve this goal you could have anything and then you take action both
anything and then you take action both
anything and then you take action both obvious actions and inspired actions you
obvious actions and inspired actions you
obvious actions and inspired actions you can do anything one of the the functions
can do anything one of the the functions
can do anything one of the the functions of belief is taking action we did a
of belief is taking action we did a
of belief is taking action we did a survey of about 2,000 top entrepreneurs
survey of about 2,000 top entrepreneurs
survey of about 2,000 top entrepreneurs and we noticed that one of the things
and we noticed that one of the things
and we noticed that one of the things that people who win in that world have
that people who win in that world have
that people who win in that world have is a bias for action if they have an
is a bias for action if they have an
is a bias for action if they have an inspiration they act on it I mean how
inspiration they act on it I mean how
inspiration they act on it I mean how many of you have ever had a great idea
many of you have ever had a great idea
many of you have ever had a great idea talked about it thought about it didn’t
talked about it thought about it didn’t
talked about it thought about it didn’t do it then someone else did it was
do it then someone else did it was
do it then someone else did it was successful when you went darn I should
successful when you went darn I should
successful when you went darn I should have done that maybe it was buy that
have done that maybe it was buy that
have done that maybe it was buy that piece of property and as all that we all
piece of property and as all that we all
piece of property and as all that we all have that piece of property we wish we’d
have that piece of property we wish we’d
have that piece of property we wish we’d bought you know anyway so we’re going to
bought you know anyway so we’re going to
bought you know anyway so we’re going to be looking at the idea that taking
be looking at the idea that taking
be looking at the idea that taking action is part of Law of Attraction see
action is part of Law of Attraction see
action is part of Law of Attraction see a lot of people thinking just sit in
a lot of people thinking just sit in
a lot of people thinking just sit in your room
your room
your room meditate visualize having the perfect
meditate visualize having the perfect
meditate visualize having the perfect car the perfect house the perfect
car the perfect house the perfect
car the perfect house the perfect relationship and then it’ll kind of just
relationship and then it’ll kind of just
relationship and then it’ll kind of just come to you and I always say unless you
come to you and I always say unless you
come to you and I always say unless you live at the bottom of the hill
live at the bottom of the hill
live at the bottom of the hill whereas a road it’s probably not going
whereas a road it’s probably not going
whereas a road it’s probably not going to be a Cadillac show up in your living
to be a Cadillac show up in your living
to be a Cadillac show up in your living room right so think about this the last
room right so think about this the last
room right so think about this the last six letters of the word attractions fell
six letters of the word attractions fell
six letters of the word attractions fell what AC tion action now there’s two
what AC tion action now there’s two
what AC tion action now there’s two kinds of actions that are critical
kinds of actions that are critical
kinds of actions that are critical there’s obvious actions if you want a
there’s obvious actions if you want a
there’s obvious actions if you want a certain kind of car you should go down
certain kind of car you should go down
certain kind of car you should go down and test drive it you should find out
and test drive it you should find out
and test drive it you should find out how much it costs you should see what it
how much it costs you should see what it
how much it costs you should see what it costs to maintain it you should go you
costs to maintain it you should go you
costs to maintain it you should go you know spend I like the test-drive a car
know spend I like the test-drive a car
know spend I like the test-drive a car three or four times go down to the
three or four times go down to the
three or four times go down to the dealer take a camera stick my head out
dealer take a camera stick my head out
dealer take a camera stick my head out the window say take a picture of me I’ll
the window say take a picture of me I’ll
the window say take a picture of me I’ll be back to buy it put it up on my
be back to buy it put it up on my
be back to buy it put it up on my refrigerator look at it every day
refrigerator look at it every day
refrigerator look at it every day eventually you know those kind of things
eventually you know those kind of things
eventually you know those kind of things produce car right saving for it and so
produce car right saving for it and so
produce car right saving for it and so forth but there are also things called
forth but there are also things called
forth but there are also things called inspired actions all of a sudden you get
inspired actions all of a sudden you get
inspired actions all of a sudden you get an inspiration to do something and you
an inspiration to do something and you
an inspiration to do something and you didn’t know what it was you don’t have a
didn’t know what it was you don’t have a
didn’t know what it was you don’t have a sense of like how’s this rationally
sense of like how’s this rationally
sense of like how’s this rationally going to make sense for me to move
going to make sense for me to move
going to make sense for me to move forward in my life I’ll give you an
forward in my life I’ll give you an
forward in my life I’ll give you an example a friend of mine dr. Ignatius
example a friend of mine dr. Ignatius
example a friend of mine dr. Ignatius Piazza graduates chiropractic school he
Piazza graduates chiropractic school he
Piazza graduates chiropractic school he wants to move to Monterey
wants to move to Monterey
wants to move to Monterey near Pebble Beach where the golf course
near Pebble Beach where the golf course
near Pebble Beach where the golf course is and he gets there and he says to the
is and he gets there and he says to the
is and he gets there and he says to the local Chiropractic Association like to
local Chiropractic Association like to
local Chiropractic Association like to join you and like you to help me get my
join you and like you to help me get my
join you and like you to help me get my practice started and they said we don’t
practice started and they said we don’t
practice started and they said we don’t need anymore chiropractors we have one
need anymore chiropractors we have one
need anymore chiropractors we have one chiropractor for every eight people in
chiropractor for every eight people in
chiropractor for every eight people in this area as too many now he could have
this area as too many now he could have
this area as too many now he could have said okay let the external reality
said okay let the external reality
said okay let the external reality control his internal experience but he
control his internal experience but he
control his internal experience but he doesn’t do that he said I’m going to
doesn’t do that he said I’m going to
doesn’t do that he said I’m going to think about this and visualize it and
think about this and visualize it and
think about this and visualize it and believe in it and something will come
believe in it and something will come
believe in it and something will come that I will do and what came to him to
that I will do and what came to him to
that I will do and what came to him to do was to take six months before he
do was to take six months before he
do was to take six months before he opened his office and put a pin where he
opened his office and put a pin where he
opened his office and put a pin where he wanted his office and then concentric
wanted his office and then concentric
wanted his office and then concentric circles knock on every door in every
circles knock on every door in every
circles knock on every door in every neighborhood saying hi I’m a new doctor
neighborhood saying hi I’m a new doctor
neighborhood saying hi I’m a new doctor in town could I ask you a few questions
in town could I ask you a few questions
in town could I ask you a few questions you know I’m starting this practice
you know I’m starting this practice
you know I’m starting this practice should I open from 5:00 told 9:00 in the
should I open from 5:00 told 9:00 in the
should I open from 5:00 told 9:00 in the morning and or should I be open from
morning and or should I be open from
morning and or should I be open from 5:00 until 9:00 at night for people who
5:00 until 9:00 at night for people who
5:00 until 9:00 at night for people who have nine-to-five jobs which would be
have nine-to-five jobs which would be
have nine-to-five jobs which would be better should I advertise in this paper
better should I advertise in this paper
better should I advertise in this paper or that paper should I call it Ignatius
or that paper should I call it Ignatius
or that paper should I call it Ignatius Piazza chiropractic or chiropractic West
Piazza chiropractic or chiropractic West
Piazza chiropractic or chiropractic West then his last question was the fire of
then his last question was the fire of
then his last question was the fire of an open house would you like to receive
an open house would you like to receive
an open house would you like to receive an invitation they said yes he wrote it
an invitation they said yes he wrote it
an invitation they said yes he wrote it though now over six months he knocked on
though now over six months he knocked on
though now over six months he knocked on 12500 doors talked to 6500 people and
12500 doors talked to 6500 people and
12500 doors talked to 6500 people and gathered over 4,000 names of people who
gathered over 4,000 names of people who
gathered over 4,000 names of people who said yes I’d like an invitation you’re
said yes I’d like an invitation you’re
said yes I’d like an invitation you’re open
open
open now when he opened his office six months
now when he opened his office six months
now when he opened his office six months later in a town that did not need
later in a town that did not need
later in a town that did not need another chiropractor according to the
another chiropractor according to the
another chiropractor according to the professionals
professionals
professionals his first month in practice he netted
his first month in practice he netted
his first month in practice he netted seventy two thousand dollars in his
seventy two thousand dollars in his
seventy two thousand dollars in his first year in practice his gross income
first year in practice his gross income
first year in practice his gross income was over $1,000,000 I was giving a talk
was over $1,000,000 I was giving a talk
was over $1,000,000 I was giving a talk to mention this story just about five
to mention this story just about five
to mention this story just about five years ago and this happened about 25
years ago and this happened about 25
years ago and this happened about 25 years ago someone said he knocked on my
years ago someone said he knocked on my
years ago someone said he knocked on my door and he left his card and two years
door and he left his card and two years
door and he left his card and two years later I needed the chiropractor and I
later I needed the chiropractor and I
later I needed the chiropractor and I called him because we work with people
called him because we work with people
called him because we work with people we know we’ve had an experience with
we know we’ve had an experience with
we know we’ve had an experience with right so he trusted his intuition he
right so he trusted his intuition he
right so he trusted his intuition he took action on it other people would say
took action on it other people would say
took action on it other people would say oh yes I can’t have what I want you got
oh yes I can’t have what I want you got
oh yes I can’t have what I want you got to be willing to take the action if
to be willing to take the action if
to be willing to take the action if you’re going to be successful in
you’re going to be successful in
you’re going to be successful in creating the life of your dreams you’d
creating the life of your dreams you’d
creating the life of your dreams you’d have to believe that you are capable of
have to believe that you are capable of
have to believe that you are capable of making it happen you have to believe
making it happen you have to believe
making it happen you have to believe that you have the right stuff and that
that you have the right stuff and that
that you have the right stuff and that you’re able to pull it off now whether
you’re able to pull it off now whether
you’re able to pull it off now whether you call it self esteem self confidence
you call it self esteem self confidence
you call it self esteem self confidence or self assurance
or self assurance
or self assurance it’s a deep-seated belief that you have
it’s a deep-seated belief that you have
it’s a deep-seated belief that you have what it takes the abilities the inner
what it takes the abilities the inner
what it takes the abilities the inner resources the talents and the skills to
resources the talents and the skills to
resources the talents and the skills to create your desired results now
create your desired results now
create your desired results now believing in yourself is simply an
believing in yourself is simply an
believing in yourself is simply an attitude believing yourself is a choice
attitude believing yourself is a choice
attitude believing yourself is a choice you have to choose to believe that you
you have to choose to believe that you
you have to choose to believe that you can do anything you set your mind to
can do anything you set your mind to
can do anything you set your mind to anything at all because in fact you can
anything at all because in fact you can
anything at all because in fact you can it might help you to know that the
it might help you to know that the
it might help you to know that the latest brain research now indicates with
latest brain research now indicates with
latest brain research now indicates with enough positive self-talk and positive
enough positive self-talk and positive
enough positive self-talk and positive visualization combined with proper
visualization combined with proper
visualization combined with proper training coaching and practice anyone
training coaching and practice anyone
training coaching and practice anyone can learn to do almost anything now I’ve
can learn to do almost anything now I’ve
can learn to do almost anything now I’ve interviewed thousands of successful
interviewed thousands of successful
interviewed thousands of successful people and almost every one of them has
people and almost every one of them has
people and almost every one of them has told me I was not the most gifted or the
told me I was not the most gifted or the
told me I was not the most gifted or the most talented person in my field but I
most talented person in my field but I
most talented person in my field but I chose to believe that anything was
chose to believe that anything was
chose to believe that anything was possible and because of that I studied I
possible and because of that I studied I
possible and because of that I studied I practiced and I worked harder than the
practiced and I worked harder than the
practiced and I worked harder than the others and that’s how I got to where I
others and that’s how I got to where I
others and that’s how I got to where I am
am
am you know Ruben Gonzalez a 20 year old
you know Ruben Gonzalez a 20 year old
you know Ruben Gonzalez a 20 year old living in Texas hot Texas can pick up
living in Texas hot Texas can pick up
living in Texas hot Texas can pick up the ludes which is a winter sport and
the ludes which is a winter sport and
the ludes which is a winter sport and become an Olympic athlete if Bill Gates
become an Olympic athlete if Bill Gates
become an Olympic athlete if Bill Gates who is a college dropout can become a
who is a college dropout can become a
who is a college dropout can become a multi billionaire and Stephen Jay candle
multi billionaire and Stephen Jay candle
multi billionaire and Stephen Jay candle who was a dyslexic student who failed
who was a dyslexic student who failed
who was a dyslexic student who failed three grades in school
three grades in school
three grades in school Oh can become a best-selling author and
Oh can become a best-selling author and
Oh can become a best-selling author and the television producer then you too can
the television producer then you too can
the television producer then you too can accomplish anything if you’ll simply
accomplish anything if you’ll simply
accomplish anything if you’ll simply believe it’s possible so make the
believe it’s possible so make the
believe it’s possible so make the decision right now to believe that you
decision right now to believe that you
decision right now to believe that you create all of your experiences because
create all of your experiences because
create all of your experiences because you do let’s start creating the ones you
you do let’s start creating the ones you
you do let’s start creating the ones you want by believing you can sounds a
want by believing you can sounds a
want by believing you can sounds a little strange but accepting this level
little strange but accepting this level
little strange but accepting this level of responsibility is uniquely and
of responsibility is uniquely and
of responsibility is uniquely and inevitably empowering it means you can
inevitably empowering it means you can
inevitably empowering it means you can do change and become anything at all you
do change and become anything at all you
do change and become anything at all you may think that something as small as
may think that something as small as
may think that something as small as being optimistic won’t change much about
being optimistic won’t change much about
being optimistic won’t change much about your life have you ever heard this line
your life have you ever heard this line
your life have you ever heard this line just because I’m paranoid doesn’t mean
just because I’m paranoid doesn’t mean
just because I’m paranoid doesn’t mean the world is not to get me now that may
the world is not to get me now that may
the world is not to get me now that may be a joke but many people believe the
be a joke but many people believe the
be a joke but many people believe the deck is stacked against them people who
deck is stacked against them people who
deck is stacked against them people who are reverse paranoids otherwise known as
are reverse paranoids otherwise known as
are reverse paranoids otherwise known as optimists use the same consistent
optimists use the same consistent
optimists use the same consistent thinking but they believe that the world
thinking but they believe that the world
thinking but they believe that the world is plotting to do them good everything
is plotting to do them good everything
is plotting to do them good everything that happens is pushing them in the
that happens is pushing them in the
that happens is pushing them in the right direction
right direction
right direction this attitude breeds more good thoughts
this attitude breeds more good thoughts
this attitude breeds more good thoughts so why not practice to become a reverse
so why not practice to become a reverse
so why not practice to become a reverse paranoid start seeing obstacles as
paranoid start seeing obstacles as
paranoid start seeing obstacles as opportunities to grow and change when
opportunities to grow and change when
opportunities to grow and change when your presentation doesn’t get the sale
your presentation doesn’t get the sale
your presentation doesn’t get the sale see it as an opportunity to create a
see it as an opportunity to create a
see it as an opportunity to create a better presentation and become better at
better presentation and become better at
better presentation and become better at your job see the task that gives you
your job see the task that gives you
your job see the task that gives you some power to change rather than the
some power to change rather than the
some power to change rather than the failure that makes you feel powerless
failure that makes you feel powerless
failure that makes you feel powerless look for the seed of something better
look for the seed of something better
look for the seed of something better when everything is going wrong almost
when everything is going wrong almost
when everything is going wrong almost everyone sees getting laid off is a bad
everyone sees getting laid off is a bad
everyone sees getting laid off is a bad thing but even if you want your job to
thing but even if you want your job to
thing but even if you want your job to be over the end always feel sad not
be over the end always feel sad not
be over the end always feel sad not inspiring the end of one job however
inspiring the end of one job however
inspiring the end of one job however always holds the promise of the new
always holds the promise of the new
always holds the promise of the new beginning of the next job if you look at
beginning of the next job if you look at
beginning of the next job if you look at it that way you’re focusing on what a
it that way you’re focusing on what a
it that way you’re focusing on what a reverse paranoid thinks about identify
reverse paranoid thinks about identify
reverse paranoid thinks about identify the great benefit in every event soon
the great benefit in every event soon
the great benefit in every event soon you’ll start to see that good is not an
you’ll start to see that good is not an
you’ll start to see that good is not an accident but something you create with
accident but something you create with
accident but something you create with your attitudes walk through your home
your attitudes walk through your home
your attitudes walk through your home your business your apartment your condo
your business your apartment your condo
your business your apartment your condo anything you’re in charge of and make a
anything you’re in charge of and make a
anything you’re in charge of and make a list of all the things that aren’t
list of all the things that aren’t
list of all the things that aren’t exactly the way you want it there’s
exactly the way you want it there’s
exactly the way you want it there’s never a stapler by the Xerox machine
never a stapler by the Xerox machine
never a stapler by the Xerox machine someone always leaves that cabinet open
someone always leaves that cabinet open
someone always leaves that cabinet open my kid never picks up after himself
my kid never picks up after himself
my kid never picks up after himself those pictures are always slander they
those pictures are always slander they
those pictures are always slander they never stay straight the screen door
never stay straight the screen door
never stay straight the screen door slams there’s a hole in the window you
slams there’s a hole in the window you
slams there’s a hole in the window you know whatever it is write it down and
know whatever it is write it down and
know whatever it is write it down and then go back and here’s the key part
then go back and here’s the key part
then go back and here’s the key part remember in law of attraction we always
remember in law of attraction we always
remember in law of attraction we always focus on what you
focus on what you
focus on what you what not what you don’t want you don’t
what not what you don’t want you don’t
what not what you don’t want you don’t want to be going I don’t want a man of
want to be going I don’t want a man of
want to be going I don’t want a man of smokes I don’t want a man who watches TV
smokes I don’t want a man who watches TV
smokes I don’t want a man who watches TV all weekend I don’t want a man who yeah
all weekend I don’t want a man who yeah
all weekend I don’t want a man who yeah because that’s what you’re going to get
because that’s what you’re going to get
because that’s what you’re going to get alright because what you focus on is
alright because what you focus on is
alright because what you focus on is what your track so you want to focus on
what your track so you want to focus on
what your track so you want to focus on the opposite so what you want to focus
the opposite so what you want to focus
the opposite so what you want to focus on is the opposite of your irritation
on is the opposite of your irritation
on is the opposite of your irritation list there’ll be always be a stapler by
list there’ll be always be a stapler by
list there’ll be always be a stapler by the source machine we solved it in our
the source machine we solved it in our
the source machine we solved it in our office with a little chain and some glue
office with a little chain and some glue
office with a little chain and some glue it doesn’t leak okay but the key is
it doesn’t leak okay but the key is
it doesn’t leak okay but the key is there’s always solutions the pictures
there’s always solutions the pictures
there’s always solutions the pictures that won’t stay straight velcro right
that won’t stay straight velcro right
that won’t stay straight velcro right through the wall
through the wall
through the wall on the bottom it works you know but the
on the bottom it works you know but the
on the bottom it works you know but the point is you want to get a list of
point is you want to get a list of
point is you want to get a list of what’s the outcome you want and then
what’s the outcome you want and then
what’s the outcome you want and then take a day hire person or hot you know
take a day hire person or hot you know
take a day hire person or hot you know bring a friend over and go through the
bring a friend over and go through the
bring a friend over and go through the list and get as many done as you can you
list and get as many done as you can you
list and get as many done as you can you know all the easy ones build some
know all the easy ones build some
know all the easy ones build some momentum clean the garage develop a new
momentum clean the garage develop a new
momentum clean the garage develop a new filing system that might be something
filing system that might be something
filing system that might be something you know set off to another weekend and
you know set off to another weekend and
you know set off to another weekend and we say all the big ones that are really
we say all the big ones that are really
we say all the big ones that are really big do one a quarter every three months
big do one a quarter every three months
big do one a quarter every three months solve one of those now you’re getting
solve one of those now you’re getting
solve one of those now you’re getting rid of all the stuff in your life and
rid of all the stuff in your life and
rid of all the stuff in your life and why is this important we’re talking
why is this important we’re talking
why is this important we’re talking mostly about being wealthy having great
mostly about being wealthy having great
mostly about being wealthy having great relationships great health world peace
relationships great health world peace
relationships great health world peace ending hunger and you’re talking about
ending hunger and you’re talking about
ending hunger and you’re talking about the screen door when you don’t fix the
the screen door when you don’t fix the
the screen door when you don’t fix the screen door you settle and when you
screen door you settle and when you
screen door you settle and when you settle consistently you develop a habit
settle consistently you develop a habit
settle consistently you develop a habit of settling for what you don’t want and
of settling for what you don’t want and
of settling for what you don’t want and most people go through life in
most people go through life in
most people go through life in resignation
resignation
resignation they’ve resigned themselves to not
they’ve resigned themselves to not
they’ve resigned themselves to not having it the way they want it it’s
having it the way they want it it’s
having it the way they want it it’s taken no less than 100% responsibility
taken no less than 100% responsibility
taken no less than 100% responsibility for your life you’re one of the greatest
for your life you’re one of the greatest
for your life you’re one of the greatest myths that’s pervasive in our culture
myths that’s pervasive in our culture
myths that’s pervasive in our culture today is that you’re entitled to a great
today is that you’re entitled to a great
today is that you’re entitled to a great life and then somehow somewhere someone
life and then somehow somewhere someone
life and then somehow somewhere someone is responsible for filling our lives
is responsible for filling our lives
is responsible for filling our lives with continual happiness and exciting
with continual happiness and exciting
with continual happiness and exciting career options a nurturing family and
career options a nurturing family and
career options a nurturing family and blissful personal relationships simply
blissful personal relationships simply
blissful personal relationships simply because we exist but the real truth is
because we exist but the real truth is
because we exist but the real truth is that there’s only one person responsible
that there’s only one person responsible
that there’s only one person responsible for the quality of your life and that
for the quality of your life and that
for the quality of your life and that person is you you see everything about
person is you you see everything about
person is you you see everything about you is a result of your doing or not
you is a result of your doing or not
you is a result of your doing or not doing your income your debt your
doing your income your debt your
doing your income your debt your relationships your health your fitness
relationships your health your fitness
relationships your health your fitness level your attitudes and behaviors
level your attitudes and behaviors
level your attitudes and behaviors everything that person you see when you
everything that person you see when you
everything that person you see when you look in the mirror is the chief
look in the mirror is the chief
look in the mirror is the chief architect in your life you know I think
architect in your life you know I think
architect in your life you know I think everybody knows this in their heart of
everybody knows this in their heart of
everybody knows this in their heart of hearts but the my
hearts but the my
hearts but the my can play games tricking us into thinking
can play games tricking us into thinking
can play games tricking us into thinking that there are external factors that are
that there are external factors that are
that there are external factors that are the source of our failures our
the source of our failures our
the source of our failures our disappointments and our unhappiness but
disappointments and our unhappiness but
disappointments and our unhappiness but the truth of the matter is that external
the truth of the matter is that external
the truth of the matter is that external factors don’t determine how you live you
factors don’t determine how you live you
factors don’t determine how you live you and only you are in complete control of
and only you are in complete control of
and only you are in complete control of the quality of your life experience
the quality of your life experience
the quality of your life experience successful people take full
successful people take full
successful people take full responsibility for the thoughts they
responsibility for the thoughts they
responsibility for the thoughts they think the images they visualize in the
think the images they visualize in the
think the images they visualize in the actions they take they don’t waste their
actions they take they don’t waste their
actions they take they don’t waste their time and energy on blaming and
time and energy on blaming and
time and energy on blaming and complaining they evaluate their
complaining they evaluate their
complaining they evaluate their experiences and decide if they need to
experiences and decide if they need to
experiences and decide if they need to change them or not they face the
change them or not they face the
change them or not they face the uncomfortable and they take risks in
uncomfortable and they take risks in
uncomfortable and they take risks in order to create the life that they want
order to create the life that they want
order to create the life that they want to live how many of you have ever
to live how many of you have ever
to live how many of you have ever complained in your life yeah you know
complained in your life yeah you know
complained in your life yeah you know here’s what I’ve learned about
here’s what I’ve learned about
here’s what I’ve learned about complaining in order to complain I have
complaining in order to complain I have
complaining in order to complain I have to have a reference point of something
to have a reference point of something
to have a reference point of something better that I want that I’m not willing
better that I want that I’m not willing
better that I want that I’m not willing to risk creating now let me explain that
to risk creating now let me explain that
to risk creating now let me explain that again I have to have a reference point
again I have to have a reference point
again I have to have a reference point in my mind of something I want it’s
in my mind of something I want it’s
in my mind of something I want it’s better than what I have that I’m not
better than what I have that I’m not
better than what I have that I’m not willing to risk creating so what I do is
willing to risk creating so what I do is
willing to risk creating so what I do is complain about it instead see if I was
complain about it instead see if I was
complain about it instead see if I was complaining about my wife it would mean
complaining about my wife it would mean
complaining about my wife it would mean that I would have to believe that
that I would have to believe that
that I would have to believe that somewhere out there in the world there’s
somewhere out there in the world there’s
somewhere out there in the world there’s a better woman than my wife see if every
a better woman than my wife see if every
a better woman than my wife see if every woman on a planet died except my wife do
woman on a planet died except my wife do
woman on a planet died except my wife do you think I go to work the next day and
you think I go to work the next day and
you think I go to work the next day and complain about her no she’s the only one
complain about her no she’s the only one
complain about her no she’s the only one and I’d be going hey I got her this is
and I’d be going hey I got her this is
and I’d be going hey I got her this is really cool right
really cool right
really cool right do you ever hear anyone complain about
do you ever hear anyone complain about
do you ever hear anyone complain about gravity very rarely you know gravity
gravity very rarely you know gravity
gravity very rarely you know gravity makes us all bend over do you ever see
makes us all bend over do you ever see
makes us all bend over do you ever see an old person walking down a streak on
an old person walking down a streak on
an old person walking down a streak on gravity they have a little Walker
gravity they have a little Walker
gravity they have a little Walker I hate gravity don’t work for gravity I
I hate gravity don’t work for gravity I
I hate gravity don’t work for gravity I wouldn’t be all bent over like this
wouldn’t be all bent over like this
wouldn’t be all bent over like this gravity sucks
gravity sucks
gravity sucks now have you ever heard an older person
now have you ever heard an older person
now have you ever heard an older person doing it no the reason they don’t
doing it no the reason they don’t
doing it no the reason they don’t complain about gravity is because
complain about gravity is because
complain about gravity is because there’s no alternative to it you know
there’s no alternative to it you know
there’s no alternative to it you know gravity just is so if someone’s
gravity just is so if someone’s
gravity just is so if someone’s complaining about something it means
complaining about something it means
complaining about something it means they know there’s something they can do
they know there’s something they can do
they know there’s something they can do about it because we don’t complain about
about it because we don’t complain about
about it because we don’t complain about the things we can’t change so as soon as
the things we can’t change so as soon as
the things we can’t change so as soon as you hear yourself complaining I want you
you hear yourself complaining I want you
you hear yourself complaining I want you to stop and say okay what would I rather
to stop and say okay what would I rather
to stop and say okay what would I rather have remember Law of Attraction always
have remember Law of Attraction always
have remember Law of Attraction always let’s focus on what you want not what
let’s focus on what you want not what
let’s focus on what you want not what you don’t want because we’re talking
you don’t want because we’re talking
you don’t want because we’re talking about what you don’t want when you’re
about what you don’t want when you’re
about what you don’t want when you’re complaining and blaming you’re focusing
complaining and blaming you’re focusing
complaining and blaming you’re focusing on that what you don’t want and you’re
on that what you don’t want and you’re
on that what you don’t want and you’re accelerating its expression out into the
accelerating its expression out into the
accelerating its expression out into the universe with those negative feelings
universe with those negative feelings
universe with those negative feelings and yet we’ll spend a majority of our
and yet we’ll spend a majority of our
and yet we’ll spend a majority of our time complaining about so many things
time complaining about so many things
time complaining about so many things and usually we complain about them to
and usually we complain about them to
and usually we complain about them to people who can’t do anything about it
people who can’t do anything about it
people who can’t do anything about it make a list of a hundred and one things
make a list of a hundred and one things
make a list of a hundred and one things you want to achieve before you die now
you want to achieve before you die now
you want to achieve before you die now we share this with someone last night
we share this with someone last night
we share this with someone last night they said God that just seems like a
they said God that just seems like a
they said God that just seems like a really big task I’m a single mom I don’t
really big task I’m a single mom I don’t
really big task I’m a single mom I don’t have any time when am I going to do that
we know that one of the things about
we know that one of the things about high achievers they all have goals only
high achievers they all have goals only
high achievers they all have goals only 10% of Americans set goals every year
10% of Americans set goals every year
10% of Americans set goals every year 10% and go to sales conferences people
10% and go to sales conferences people
10% and go to sales conferences people that are the learning stuff hear it over
that are the learning stuff hear it over
that are the learning stuff hear it over and over
and over
and over how many 10% we also know the same 3 to
how many 10% we also know the same 3 to
how many 10% we also know the same 3 to 10% controlled 90% of the resources of
10% controlled 90% of the resources of
10% controlled 90% of the resources of the world so literally without goals
the world so literally without goals
the world so literally without goals your directionless you will be you see
your directionless you will be you see
your directionless you will be you see people without goals get used by other
people without goals get used by other
people without goals get used by other people who have them people that don’t
people who have them people that don’t
people who have them people that don’t have goals work for people who do and so
have goals work for people who do and so
have goals work for people who do and so you want to be someone who picks up and
you want to be someone who picks up and
you want to be someone who picks up and gets clear about what you want make a
gets clear about what you want make a
gets clear about what you want make a list 101 goals I want to go to Paris I
list 101 goals I want to go to Paris I
list 101 goals I want to go to Paris I want to you know skydive I want to
want to you know skydive I want to
want to you know skydive I want to bungee cord jump I want to play the
bungee cord jump I want to play the
bungee cord jump I want to play the guitar I want to learn to juggle I want
guitar I want to learn to juggle I want
guitar I want to learn to juggle I want to learn to magic tricks for the kids I
to learn to magic tricks for the kids I
to learn to magic tricks for the kids I want to go to the Olympics in Beijing
want to go to the Olympics in Beijing
want to go to the Olympics in Beijing whatever it is make the list and you’ll
whatever it is make the list and you’ll
whatever it is make the list and you’ll see there’s a lot of stuff under there
see there’s a lot of stuff under there
see there’s a lot of stuff under there that you’ve kind of put down that you
that you’ve kind of put down that you
that you’ve kind of put down that you want and you can have anything you want
want and you can have anything you want
want and you can have anything you want if you want to know how to decide if a
if you want to know how to decide if a
if you want to know how to decide if a career opportunity is a good one there
career opportunity is a good one there
career opportunity is a good one there are several things you have to take into
are several things you have to take into
are several things you have to take into consideration number one does it make
consideration number one does it make
consideration number one does it make your heart sing the number one feedback
your heart sing the number one feedback
your heart sing the number one feedback system that you are given at birth is
system that you are given at birth is
system that you are given at birth is joy if you’re not experiencing joy as
joy if you’re not experiencing joy as
joy if you’re not experiencing joy as you as you think about doing something
you as you think about doing something
you as you think about doing something and as you pursue doing it then it’s off
and as you pursue doing it then it’s off
and as you pursue doing it then it’s off course for you you also want to put your
course for you you also want to put your
course for you you also want to put your rational mind to work you want it to
rational mind to work you want it to
rational mind to work you want it to some due diligence ask other people
some due diligence ask other people
some due diligence ask other people who’ve gone down that road before what
who’ve gone down that road before what
who’ve gone down that road before what was it like what did they have to do
was it like what did they have to do
was it like what did they have to do what were some of the cost of that path
what were some of the cost of that path
what were some of the cost of that path what were some of the bay offs and the
what were some of the bay offs and the
what were some of the bay offs and the benefits and really get a sense of what
benefits and really get a sense of what
benefits and really get a sense of what it would be like to do that sometimes
it would be like to do that sometimes
it would be like to do that sometimes you can go and do an internship or you
you can go and do an internship or you
you can go and do an internship or you can work for a friend in their
can work for a friend in their
can work for a friend in their restaurant just to see if you like it
restaurant just to see if you like it
restaurant just to see if you like it because often the fantasy doesn’t match
because often the fantasy doesn’t match
because often the fantasy doesn’t match the reality and the other thing is to
the reality and the other thing is to
the reality and the other thing is to simply trust yourself you know deep
simply trust yourself you know deep
simply trust yourself you know deep inside what’s true for you and if you’ll
inside what’s true for you and if you’ll
inside what’s true for you and if you’ll take a few minutes and go inside we call
take a few minutes and go inside we call
take a few minutes and go inside we call it meditation and just ask and sit with
it meditation and just ask and sit with
it meditation and just ask and sit with the question and see what kind of
the question and see what kind of
the question and see what kind of feelings come up does this feel right so
feelings come up does this feel right so
feelings come up does this feel right so do all the rational research but then
do all the rational research but then
do all the rational research but then ultimately bring it back into your heart
ultimately bring it back into your heart
ultimately bring it back into your heart and decide does this feel good for me
and decide does this feel good for me
and decide does this feel good for me and if it makes sense up here and it
and if it makes sense up here and it
and if it makes sense up here and it feels good then step into it just lean
feels good then step into it just lean
feels good then step into it just lean into it and see what happens pursue it
into it and see what happens pursue it
into it and see what happens pursue it no decision is forever you can always
no decision is forever you can always
no decision is forever you can always change if it’s not what you want
change if it’s not what you want
change if it’s not what you want you’re a kid you have an impulse to act
you’re a kid you have an impulse to act
you’re a kid you have an impulse to act you act you want to touch the cat you
you act you want to touch the cat you
you act you want to touch the cat you want to throw the cat out the window you
want to throw the cat out the window you
want to throw the cat out the window you want to stick your hand into the VCR and
want to stick your hand into the VCR and
want to stick your hand into the VCR and put peanut butter in there you do the
put peanut butter in there you do the
put peanut butter in there you do the problem is as we’re growing up we get
problem is as we’re growing up we get
problem is as we’re growing up we get conditioned by our parents and our
conditioned by our parents and our
conditioned by our parents and our caretakers and our siblings and our
caretakers and our siblings and our
caretakers and our siblings and our teachers and coaches and nuns and all
teachers and coaches and nuns and all
teachers and coaches and nuns and all these different people that come into
these different people that come into
these different people that come into our life don’t do that stop that’s bad
our life don’t do that stop that’s bad
our life don’t do that stop that’s bad you know we get slapped and told we’re
you know we get slapped and told we’re
you know we get slapped and told we’re not OK and so after a while when we go
not OK and so after a while when we go
not OK and so after a while when we go to do something we’re looking SoDo k if
to do something we’re looking SoDo k if
to do something we’re looking SoDo k if I do this you know instead of just doing
I do this you know instead of just doing
I do this you know instead of just doing it all my sons and my stepson and my
it all my sons and my stepson and my
it all my sons and my stepson and my stepdaughter I’ve been great risk takers
stepdaughter I’ve been great risk takers
stepdaughter I’ve been great risk takers there they’re all artists once a drummer
there they’re all artists once a drummer
there they’re all artists once a drummer one’s a hip-hop singer one is a in high
one’s a hip-hop singer one is a in high
one’s a hip-hop singer one is a in high school but he’s in the school play just
school but he’s in the school play just
school but he’s in the school play just had to lead mystical places sing sings
had to lead mystical places sing sings
had to lead mystical places sing sings and and then my daughter’s a singer and
and and then my daughter’s a singer and
and and then my daughter’s a singer and my other son is a very athletic he’s a
my other son is a very athletic he’s a
my other son is a very athletic he’s a surfer he still boards as well and he’s
surfer he still boards as well and he’s
surfer he still boards as well and he’s always inventing games and trying out
always inventing games and trying out
always inventing games and trying out new things always on the edge you know
new things always on the edge you know
new things always on the edge you know always coming in with cuts and scrapes
always coming in with cuts and scrapes
always coming in with cuts and scrapes which I love because they’re out there
which I love because they’re out there
which I love because they’re out there on the edge of their potential exploring
on the edge of their potential exploring
on the edge of their potential exploring how they can keep pushing it and it’s
how they can keep pushing it and it’s
how they can keep pushing it and it’s not that they never get scared or they
not that they never get scared or they
not that they never get scared or they never feel rejected and have to go
never feel rejected and have to go
never feel rejected and have to go through things but they seem to rebound
through things but they seem to rebound
through things but they seem to rebound very quickly
thank you guys so much for watching I
thank you guys so much for watching I hope you enjoyed I made this video
hope you enjoyed I made this video
hope you enjoyed I made this video because Naru Malkani asked me to so if
because Naru Malkani asked me to so if
because Naru Malkani asked me to so if there’s a famous entrepreneur
there’s a famous entrepreneur
there’s a famous entrepreneur you want me to profile next leave in the
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do I also love to know what to Jack’s
do I also love to know what to Jack’s ten messages had the biggest impact on
ten messages had the biggest impact on
ten messages had the biggest impact on you and why what change you’re going to
you and why what change you’re going to
you and why what change you’re going to make in your life or business after
make in your life or business after
make in your life or business after watching this video leave it in the
watching this video leave it in the
watching this video leave it in the comments and I will join the discussion
comments and I will join the discussion
comments and I will join the discussion also if you see some of the quotes that
also if you see some of the quotes that
also if you see some of the quotes that people have left from Jack from these
people have left from Jack from these
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show some love finally want to give a
show some love finally want to give a quick shout out to far bode from Paul
quick shout out to far bode from Paul
quick shout out to far bode from Paul charge comm far bowed thank you so much
charge comm far bowed thank you so much
charge comm far bowed thank you so much for picking up a copy of my book really
for picking up a copy of my book really
for picking up a copy of my book really means a lot to me those you watch it if
means a lot to me those you watch it if
means a lot to me those you watch it if you want your chance at a shadow in a
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so we can keep track thank you guys so much for watching
much for watching
much for watching continue to believe or whatever your one
continue to believe or whatever your one
continue to believe or whatever your one word is and I’ll see you soon
the other thing a friend of mine just
the other thing a friend of mine just a book called the the fear cure and/or
a book called the the fear cure and/or
a book called the the fear cure and/or the cure for fear one of those and she
the cure for fear one of those and she
the cure for fear one of those and she talked about one of the biggest fears is
talked about one of the biggest fears is
talked about one of the biggest fears is of the unknown and uncertainty of the
of the unknown and uncertainty of the
of the unknown and uncertainty of the future but everything’s uncertain you
future but everything’s uncertain you
future but everything’s uncertain you know we’re trying to create certainty in
know we’re trying to create certainty in
know we’re trying to create certainty in an uncertain world and stop being afraid
an uncertain world and stop being afraid
an uncertain world and stop being afraid of uncertainty uncertainty is what’s
of uncertainty uncertainty is what’s
of uncertainty uncertainty is what’s exciting you go to Africa on a vacation
exciting you go to Africa on a vacation
exciting you go to Africa on a vacation a safari you’ve no idea what’s going to
a safari you’ve no idea what’s going to
a safari you’ve no idea what’s going to happen that’s part of the adventure fun
happen that’s part of the adventure fun
happen that’s part of the adventure fun that’s part of the fun exactly you knew
that’s part of the fun exactly you knew
that’s part of the fun exactly you knew all there’s gonna be a zebra that pops
all there’s gonna be a zebra that pops
all there’s gonna be a zebra that pops out right here this is gonna be nice
out right here this is gonna be nice
out right here this is gonna be nice right you’re boring right or if you go
right you’re boring right or if you go
right you’re boring right or if you go river rafting you don’t know where the
river rafting you don’t know where the
river rafting you don’t know where the rapids are and how you’re going to do it
rapids are and how you’re going to do it
rapids are and how you’re going to do it and if you go surfing you don’t know
and if you go surfing you don’t know
and if you go surfing you don’t know exactly how the way is going to break
exactly how the way is going to break
exactly how the way is going to break and all that how big it’s going to be
and all that how big it’s going to be
and all that how big it’s going to be and so that adventure is really what
and so that adventure is really what
and so that adventure is really what life’s about so we need to be excited
life’s about so we need to be excited
life’s about so we need to be excited fear is created by imagining bad things
fear is created by imagining bad things
fear is created by imagining bad things that haven’t happened yet so fantasized
that haven’t happened yet so fantasized
that haven’t happened yet so fantasized experiences appearing real everyone
experiences appearing real everyone
experiences appearing real everyone always says that someone else recently
always says that someone else recently
always says that someone else recently said forget everything and run but I
said forget everything and run but I
said forget everything and run but I think that if you realize that you’re
think that if you realize that you’re
think that if you realize that you’re creating your own fear by imagining a
creating your own fear by imagining a
creating your own fear by imagining a bad thing offers a recession I’ll lose
bad thing offers a recession I’ll lose
bad thing offers a recession I’ll lose my house why not go if there was a
my house why not go if there was a
my house why not go if there was a recession I’m going to make more money
recession I’m going to make more money
recession I’m going to make more money because there’s going to be
because there’s going to be
because there’s going to be opportunities and we’re going to be able
opportunities and we’re going to be able
opportunities and we’re going to be able to pay our house out faster Zig Ziglar
to pay our house out faster Zig Ziglar
to pay our house out faster Zig Ziglar said worrying is negative goal-setting
said worrying is negative goal-setting
said worrying is negative goal-setting and all you have to do is use that same
and all you have to do is use that same
and all you have to do is use that same power to think and visualize to create a
power to think and visualize to create a
power to think and visualize to create a positive outcome instead of a negative
positive outcome instead of a negative
positive outcome instead of a negative and then the fear disappears let’s look
and then the fear disappears let’s look
and then the fear disappears let’s look at this idea of specificity for a minute
at this idea of specificity for a minute
at this idea of specificity for a minute like a winter home in Hawaii very nice
like a winter home in Hawaii very nice
like a winter home in Hawaii very nice but if I say I will own a two-bedroom
but if I say I will own a two-bedroom
but if I say I will own a two-bedroom beachfront villa on the west coast of
beachfront villa on the west coast of
beachfront villa on the west coast of Maui Hawaii by June 1st 2003 does that
Maui Hawaii by June 1st 2003 does that
Maui Hawaii by June 1st 2003 does that sound a little more clear yeah and until
sound a little more clear yeah and until
sound a little more clear yeah and until you get specific like that the creative
you get specific like that the creative
you get specific like that the creative part of your brain won’t jump in and
part of your brain won’t jump in and
part of your brain won’t jump in and decide how to help you get there and
decide how to help you get there and
decide how to help you get there and that’s why a lot of people never get
that’s why a lot of people never get
that’s why a lot of people never get their dreams because they don’t make
their dreams because they don’t make
their dreams because they don’t make them specific enough you got to get real
them specific enough you got to get real
them specific enough you got to get real nitty-gritty break it down how much buy
nitty-gritty break it down how much buy
nitty-gritty break it down how much buy when I want a better relationship with
when I want a better relationship with
when I want a better relationship with my husband or what does that mean but if
my husband or what does that mean but if
my husband or what does that mean but if I say I want to spend an hour a week
I say I want to spend an hour a week
I say I want to spend an hour a week sitting opposite my husband talking
sitting opposite my husband talking
sitting opposite my husband talking about real things that matter no TV on I
about real things that matter no TV on I
about real things that matter no TV on I to eye communication that we can measure
to eye communication that we can measure
to eye communication that we can measure did you do it for an hour
did you do it for an hour
did you do it for an hour want to have more fun what does that
want to have more fun what does that
want to have more fun what does that mean but what if I say I’m going to
mean but what if I say I’m going to
mean but what if I say I’m going to listen to comedy albums twice a week for
listen to comedy albums twice a week for
listen to comedy albums twice a week for a minimum of an hour you’re probably
a minimum of an hour you’re probably
a minimum of an hour you’re probably going to have more fun so make it
going to have more fun so make it
going to have more fun so make it specific make it make it real some
specific make it make it real some
specific make it make it real some people say you know I want our business
people say you know I want our business
people say you know I want our business to increase well how much by whim want
to increase well how much by whim want
to increase well how much by whim want the reading scores to go up in a school
the reading scores to go up in a school
the reading scores to go up in a school how much by win until you have that
how much by win until you have that
how much by win until you have that you’re not going to make progress and so
you’re not going to make progress and so
you’re not going to make progress and so many people’s dreams never get completed
many people’s dreams never get completed
many people’s dreams never get completed because they’re not clear about the
because they’re not clear about the
because they’re not clear about the specific number of how much by whim I
specific number of how much by whim I
specific number of how much by whim I told you earlier in the program we said
told you earlier in the program we said
told you earlier in the program we said we’re going to sell a million half books
we’re going to sell a million half books
we’re going to sell a million half books in a year and a half and that directed
in a year and a half and that directed
in a year and a half and that directed our behavior recently we just said we’re
our behavior recently we just said we’re
our behavior recently we just said we’re going to sell a million books in one day
going to sell a million books in one day
going to sell a million books in one day we had 101 bookstores involved in a book
we had 101 bookstores involved in a book
we had 101 bookstores involved in a book signing I’m going to try to be in the
signing I’m going to try to be in the
signing I’m going to try to be in the Guinness Book of World Record for the
Guinness Book of World Record for the
Guinness Book of World Record for the largest book signing ever done now I
largest book signing ever done now I
largest book signing ever done now I don’t think we sold a million books
don’t think we sold a million books
don’t think we sold a million books maybe we sold a couple hundred thousand
maybe we sold a couple hundred thousand
maybe we sold a couple hundred thousand but by holding that question and trying
but by holding that question and trying
but by holding that question and trying to figure out how to do it it moved us
to figure out how to do it it moved us
to figure out how to do it it moved us toward that goal and maybe it’ll take us
toward that goal and maybe it’ll take us
toward that goal and maybe it’ll take us two years to figure out how to sell a
two years to figure out how to sell a
two years to figure out how to sell a million books in one day but it gets the
million books in one day but it gets the
million books in one day but it gets the thinking to expand out into that arena
thinking to expand out into that arena
thinking to expand out into that arena just making sense okay so you want to
just making sense okay so you want to
just making sense okay so you want to have those goals now the other thing you
have those goals now the other thing you
have those goals now the other thing you want to do is break your goals down many
want to do is break your goals down many
want to do is break your goals down many of you have big goals and hunger in the
of you have big goals and hunger in the
of you have big goals and hunger in the world that’s pretty big goal you know
world that’s pretty big goal you know
world that’s pretty big goal you know have world peace achieve a certain level
have world peace achieve a certain level
have world peace achieve a certain level of spiritual oneness with God or life
of spiritual oneness with God or life
of spiritual oneness with God or life big goals when you first look at it it’s
big goals when you first look at it it’s
big goals when you first look at it it’s kind of overwhelming but what if we were
kind of overwhelming but what if we were
kind of overwhelming but what if we were to break that down into little steps it
to break that down into little steps it
to break that down into little steps it says okay I want to go to college and
says okay I want to go to college and
says okay I want to go to college and get a PhD gosh I’m only a high school
get a PhD gosh I’m only a high school
get a PhD gosh I’m only a high school student but the next step would be
student but the next step would be
student but the next step would be finish the math class get an A in this
finish the math class get an A in this
finish the math class get an A in this right for a brochure from a college get
right for a brochure from a college get
right for a brochure from a college get a catalog pick one or five colleges that
a catalog pick one or five colleges that
a catalog pick one or five colleges that I want to apply to you know just keep
I want to apply to you know just keep
I want to apply to you know just keep breaking it down to little steps and
breaking it down to little steps and
breaking it down to little steps and then figure out how to get all those
then figure out how to get all those
then figure out how to get all those steps done and put a date by each step
steps done and put a date by each step
steps done and put a date by each step and then start doing the plan someone
and then start doing the plan someone
and then start doing the plan someone said if you fail to plan you’re planning
said if you fail to plan you’re planning
said if you fail to plan you’re planning to fail does that make sense yeah
to fail does that make sense yeah
to fail does that make sense yeah absolutely
absolutely
absolutely some of one of my friends said success
some of one of my friends said success
some of one of my friends said success by the yard is hard by the inch it’s a
by the yard is hard by the inch it’s a
by the yard is hard by the inch it’s a cinch so we just break it down into
cinch so we just break it down into
cinch so we just break it down into small pieces I had to I was reading the
small pieces I had to I was reading the
small pieces I had to I was reading the Guinness Book of World Records because
Guinness Book of World Records because
Guinness Book of World Records because we were thinking about being in there
we were thinking about being in there
we were thinking about being in there and this guy set a goal to eat an entire
and this guy set a goal to eat an entire
and this guy set a goal to eat an entire bicycle
bicycle
bicycle tires and all now how do you do that
tires and all now how do you do that
tires and all now how do you do that right well it took him 17 days but what
right well it took him 17 days but what
right well it took him 17 days but what he did is he kept cutting the bicycle up
he did is he kept cutting the bicycle up
he did is he kept cutting the bicycle up and then melting it down into little
and then melting it down into little
and then melting it down into little swallowable pieces and he ate them I
swallowable pieces and he ate them I
swallowable pieces and he ate them I don’t know how much stayed in but he ate
don’t know how much stayed in but he ate
don’t know how much stayed in but he ate right but the point being anything can
right but the point being anything can
right but the point being anything can be done if you break it down small
be done if you break it down small
be done if you break it down small enough make sense so don’t let the
enough make sense so don’t let the
enough make sense so don’t let the bigness of a goal overwhelm you now I
bigness of a goal overwhelm you now I
bigness of a goal overwhelm you now I was over in Bangkok how many of you’ve
was over in Bangkok how many of you’ve
was over in Bangkok how many of you’ve been to Bangkok Thailand how many of you
been to Bangkok Thailand how many of you
been to Bangkok Thailand how many of you have seen the Golden Buddha it’s one of
have seen the Golden Buddha it’s one of
have seen the Golden Buddha it’s one of the three tourist attractions you always
the three tourist attractions you always
the three tourist attractions you always see the Jade Buddha the Golden Buddha
see the Jade Buddha the Golden Buddha
see the Jade Buddha the Golden Buddha and the reclining Buddha and that kind
and the reclining Buddha and that kind
and the reclining Buddha and that kind of thing
of thing
of thing and this Buddha is ten and a half feet
and this Buddha is ten and a half feet
and this Buddha is ten and a half feet tall of solid gold the gold value alone
tall of solid gold the gold value alone
tall of solid gold the gold value alone is about 196 million dollars that
is about 196 million dollars that
is about 196 million dollars that doesn’t even count the artistic and the
doesn’t even count the artistic and the
doesn’t even count the artistic and the historical value and when my wife was
historical value and when my wife was
historical value and when my wife was taking that picture I was over next to
taking that picture I was over next to
taking that picture I was over next to the I’d say about five feet away there
the I’d say about five feet away there
the I’d say about five feet away there was a big glass case and in that case
was a big glass case and in that case
was a big glass case and in that case there was a piece of clay about a foot
there was a piece of clay about a foot
there was a piece of clay about a foot wide two feet tall two feet thick and it
wide two feet tall two feet thick and it
wide two feet tall two feet thick and it said that in 1953 they did not know
said that in 1953 they did not know
said that in 1953 they did not know there was such a thing as a Golden
there was such a thing as a Golden
there was such a thing as a Golden Buddha they were moving this large clay
Buddha they were moving this large clay
Buddha they were moving this large clay Buddha from one side of Bangkok to the
Buddha from one side of Bangkok to the
Buddha from one side of Bangkok to the other to make room for a road that was
other to make room for a road that was
other to make room for a road that was coming through and as they picked up the
coming through and as they picked up the
coming through and as they picked up the Buddha with the crane because it was
Buddha with the crane because it was
Buddha with the crane because it was very heavy a big crack went down through
very heavy a big crack went down through
very heavy a big crack went down through it and as the crack went down through it
it and as the crack went down through it
it and as the crack went down through it the head monk got scared and he lowered
the head monk got scared and he lowered
the head monk got scared and he lowered the Buddha down and he said you know
the Buddha down and he said you know
the Buddha down and he said you know we’d better take a look at it and see if
we’d better take a look at it and see if
we’d better take a look at it and see if we’ve done any damage to it and it
we’ve done any damage to it and it
we’ve done any damage to it and it started to rain so they put a canvas
started to rain so they put a canvas
started to rain so they put a canvas over it to keep it dry
over it to keep it dry
over it to keep it dry that night the monk came out and he
that night the monk came out and he
that night the monk came out and he shined a flashlight in to see if it was
shined a flashlight in to see if it was
shined a flashlight in to see if it was staying dry and something reflected back
staying dry and something reflected back
staying dry and something reflected back from inside the crack he said clay does
from inside the crack he said clay does
from inside the crack he said clay does not reflect light there must be
not reflect light there must be
not reflect light there must be something else in there and so the next
something else in there and so the next
something else in there and so the next morning they chipped away in behind
morning they chipped away in behind
morning they chipped away in behind where they wouldn’t see it if there was
where they wouldn’t see it if there was
where they wouldn’t see it if there was made a mistake and lo and behold sure
made a mistake and lo and behold sure
made a mistake and lo and behold sure enough was this Golden Buddha and their
enough was this Golden Buddha and their
enough was this Golden Buddha and their best theory is that three hundred years
best theory is that three hundred years
best theory is that three hundred years earlier when the burmese were attacking
earlier when the burmese were attacking
earlier when the burmese were attacking thai lamb the monks of this monastery
thai lamb the monks of this monastery
thai lamb the monks of this monastery covered up the golden buddha with clay
covered up the golden buddha with clay
covered up the golden buddha with clay to make it look worthless so they
to make it look worthless so they
to make it look worthless so they wouldn’t steal it they also think all
wouldn’t steal it they also think all
wouldn’t steal it they also think all the monks were killed in
the monks were killed in
the monks were killed in massacre and the secret died with the
massacre and the secret died with the
massacre and the secret died with the monks and then they rediscovered it the
monks and then they rediscovered it the
monks and then they rediscovered it the word discover means what take the cover
word discover means what take the cover
word discover means what take the cover off of this cover something was always
off of this cover something was always
off of this cover something was always in there but they took the cover off
in there but they took the cover off
in there but they took the cover off it’s having dinner with my wife that
it’s having dinner with my wife that
it’s having dinner with my wife that night and she said you know Jack that
night and she said you know Jack that
night and she said you know Jack that boot is like all the people in our
boot is like all the people in our
boot is like all the people in our seminars they come in with this cover of
seminars they come in with this cover of
seminars they come in with this cover of clay of their negative beliefs their
clay of their negative beliefs their
clay of their negative beliefs their self-doubt their sense of guilt and
self-doubt their sense of guilt and
self-doubt their sense of guilt and shame their beliefs that they’re not
shame their beliefs that they’re not
shame their beliefs that they’re not enough that they’re not worthy they
enough that they’re not worthy they
enough that they’re not worthy they don’t deserve and what we really do is
don’t deserve and what we really do is
don’t deserve and what we really do is we take the clay off so this golden
we take the clay off so this golden
we take the clay off so this golden essence can come and be there as who
essence can come and be there as who
essence can come and be there as who they are again they’re our true identity
they are again they’re our true identity
they are again they’re our true identity it’s not like we put anything in it’s
it’s not like we put anything in it’s
it’s not like we put anything in it’s just that we remove the things that are
just that we remove the things that are
just that we remove the things that are not there I think Barbara talked a
not there I think Barbara talked a
not there I think Barbara talked a little about that earlier today so as we
little about that earlier today so as we
little about that earlier today so as we go through this next hour and a half
go through this next hour and a half
go through this next hour and a half think about and hold that metaphor that
think about and hold that metaphor that
think about and hold that metaphor that image of the Buddha and it could be the
image of the Buddha and it could be the
image of the Buddha and it could be the golden Christ the golden buddha the
golden Christ the golden buddha the
golden Christ the golden buddha the Atman the source whatever you want to
Atman the source whatever you want to
Atman the source whatever you want to call it but that’s who you really are
call it but that’s who you really are
call it but that’s who you really are and although we do a lot of things of
and although we do a lot of things of
and although we do a lot of things of giving you more information and tools
giving you more information and tools
giving you more information and tools and all of that really if you were to
and all of that really if you were to
and all of that really if you were to stop doing the stuff that’s negative as
stop doing the stuff that’s negative as
stop doing the stuff that’s negative as harp said you’ve been defined when you
harp said you’ve been defined when you
harp said you’ve been defined when you came in you were just fine and what we
came in you were just fine and what we
came in you were just fine and what we did was we layered on all that stuff if
did was we layered on all that stuff if
did was we layered on all that stuff if we could just start to remove that and
we could just start to remove that and
we could just start to remove that and realize that everything you need is in
realize that everything you need is in
realize that everything you need is in you now you have everything you need to
you now you have everything you need to
you now you have everything you need to do everything you want to do it’s just
do everything you want to do it’s just
do everything you want to do it’s just that we learn not to trust that
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