hello everyone so welcome to another episode of unlocking lily it’s always
episode of unlocking lily it’s always
episode of unlocking lily it’s always been my dream to be a speaker and with
been my dream to be a speaker and with
been my dream to be a speaker and with the help of Evan I’m able to do this
the help of Evan I’m able to do this
the help of Evan I’m able to do this full-time and you guys are all coming
full-time and you guys are all coming
full-time and you guys are all coming along for the ride with me
so Evan challenge for you to research 20
so Evan challenge for you to research 20 speakers and the reason for that is I’m
speakers and the reason for that is I’m
speakers and the reason for that is I’m starting out on my journey and the truth
starting out on my journey and the truth
starting out on my journey and the truth is I can’t figure everything out on my
is I can’t figure everything out on my
is I can’t figure everything out on my own but it will take me a very very long
own but it will take me a very very long
own but it will take me a very very long time
time
time so to shorten that process it’s
so to shorten that process it’s
so to shorten that process it’s important for me to take a look at all
important for me to take a look at all
important for me to take a look at all the people who have done similar things
the people who have done similar things
the people who have done similar things to what I want to do and I can look at
to what I want to do and I can look at
to what I want to do and I can look at their path so that way I could
their path so that way I could
their path so that way I could fast-track my process and a model after
fast-track my process and a model after
fast-track my process and a model after them so I needed 20 speaker I only had
them so I needed 20 speaker I only had
them so I needed 20 speaker I only had three three people have been following
three three people have been following
three three people have been following for the past few years but I needed 17
for the past few years but I needed 17
for the past few years but I needed 17 more how do I do that right so I thought
more how do I do that right so I thought
more how do I do that right so I thought to myself all you know what Evan
to myself all you know what Evan
to myself all you know what Evan actually covers a lot of successful
actually covers a lot of successful
actually covers a lot of successful people on his channel I’m sure some of
people on his channel I’m sure some of
people on his channel I’m sure some of them are speakers and it’s true I did
them are speakers and it’s true I did
them are speakers and it’s true I did find a lot of them on his channel but I
find a lot of them on his channel but I
find a lot of them on his channel but I needed more than that and Google being
needed more than that and Google being
needed more than that and Google being our best friends I actually would be
our best friends I actually would be
our best friends I actually would be Google’s famous speakers and I was able
Google’s famous speakers and I was able
Google’s famous speakers and I was able to come up with my list of 20 names and
to come up with my list of 20 names and
to come up with my list of 20 names and once I got their 20 names I split the
once I got their 20 names I split the
once I got their 20 names I split the research into two parts so I had one
research into two parts so I had one
research into two parts so I had one part which was a path to success and the
part which was a path to success and the
part which was a path to success and the other part is their business side so the
other part is their business side so the
other part is their business side so the path to success is very crucial the
path to success is very crucial the
path to success is very crucial the reason for that is right now I’m just
reason for that is right now I’m just
reason for that is right now I’m just starting which for me to compare my
starting which for me to compare my
starting which for me to compare my beginning to their top is what they’re
beginning to their top is what they’re
beginning to their top is what they’re doing right now seems like it’s way too
doing right now seems like it’s way too
doing right now seems like it’s way too much of a leap and it almost seems
much of a leap and it almost seems
much of a leap and it almost seems impossible at times but if I were to
impossible at times but if I were to
impossible at times but if I were to actually look at all the things that
actually look at all the things that
actually look at all the things that they have done in the previous years and
they have done in the previous years and
they have done in the previous years and when they first got started it not only
when they first got started it not only
when they first got started it not only doesn’t make it more realistic for me
doesn’t make it more realistic for me
doesn’t make it more realistic for me but also makes more sense now okay these
but also makes more sense now okay these
but also makes more sense now okay these are the things that I need to do to get
are the things that I need to do to get
are the things that I need to do to get to where they are today
to where they are today
to where they are today and on the business side I want to be
and on the business side I want to be
and on the business side I want to be able to make an income from speaking so
able to make an income from speaking so
able to make an income from speaking so for me to look at all the things that
for me to look at all the things that
for me to look at all the things that you’re doing to earn an income is going
you’re doing to earn an income is going
you’re doing to earn an income is going to help me create a business around
to help me create a business around
to help me create a business around speaking as well so as part of my
speaking as well so as part of my
speaking as well so as part of my research I needed to highlight their
research I needed to highlight their
research I needed to highlight their breakthrough so what are the specific
breakthrough so what are the specific
breakthrough so what are the specific things that they did to break them
things that they did to break them
things that they did to break them through into the success as they are
through into the success as they are
through into the success as they are today and as I was doing my research I
today and as I was doing my research I
today and as I was doing my research I started to realize that there were three
started to realize that there were three
started to realize that there were three common ways that they were breaking
common ways that they were breaking
common ways that they were breaking through so the first one is to find a
through so the first one is to find a
through so the first one is to find a kingmaker so what that means is to
kingmaker so what that means is to
kingmaker so what that means is to leverage an existing brand or media so
leverage an existing brand or media so
leverage an existing brand or media so for example Oprah Winfrey and Les Brown
for example Oprah Winfrey and Les Brown
for example Oprah Winfrey and Les Brown where has mediocre success but they
where has mediocre success but they
where has mediocre success but they didn’t actually become household name
didn’t actually become household name
didn’t actually become household name until they have their own talk shows and
until they have their own talk shows and
until they have their own talk shows and even Jack Canfield who used to be an
even Jack Canfield who used to be an
even Jack Canfield who used to be an educator and he didn’t actually become
educator and he didn’t actually become
educator and he didn’t actually become known for what he is today until he
known for what he is today until he
known for what he is today until he published his first book in his Chicken
published his first book in his Chicken
published his first book in his Chicken Soup for the Soul series number two is
Soup for the Soul series number two is
Soup for the Soul series number two is to grind out content is to work
to grind out content is to work
to grind out content is to work consistently on your craft day after day
consistently on your craft day after day
consistently on your craft day after day after day so you have Neil passed Rita
after day so you have Neil passed Rita
after day so you have Neil passed Rita who wrote on his blog a thousand awesome
who wrote on his blog a thousand awesome
who wrote on his blog a thousand awesome things every single day until one day he
things every single day until one day he
things every single day until one day he was recognized and he was able to get a
was recognized and he was able to get a
was recognized and he was able to get a book deal out of it which is the book of
book deal out of it which is the book of
book deal out of it which is the book of awesome and Eric Thomas who put out
awesome and Eric Thomas who put out
awesome and Eric Thomas who put out YouTube videos after YouTube videos
YouTube videos after YouTube videos
YouTube videos after YouTube videos after YouTube videos until one of them
after YouTube videos until one of them
after YouTube videos until one of them went viral and had over 40 million views
went viral and had over 40 million views
went viral and had over 40 million views and number three is to prove it live
and number three is to prove it live
and number three is to prove it live these are the folks that went on stage
these are the folks that went on stage
these are the folks that went on stage and actually proved themselves and their
and actually proved themselves and their
and actually proved themselves and their message and stood up for what they
message and stood up for what they
message and stood up for what they believed in so you have Tony Robbins who
believed in so you have Tony Robbins who
believed in so you have Tony Robbins who was well known but did not become
was well known but did not become
was well known but did not become notorious until he went on stage and
notorious until he went on stage and
notorious until he went on stage and cured a woman from her snake phobia
cured a woman from her snake phobia
cured a woman from her snake phobia after being challenged by psychiatrists
after being challenged by psychiatrists
after being challenged by psychiatrists that he was a sane and even Bernie Brown
that he was a sane and even Bernie Brown
that he was a sane and even Bernie Brown and simon Sinek
and simon Sinek
and simon Sinek were relatively unknown before they had
were relatively unknown before they had
were relatively unknown before they had their world popular TEDx talk which
their world popular TEDx talk which
their world popular TEDx talk which actually put them on the map as being
actually put them on the map as being
actually put them on the map as being the leading thought leader so the
the leading thought leader so the
the leading thought leader so the business side I was able to identify
business side I was able to identify
business side I was able to identify three common ways they were making an
three common ways they were making an
three common ways they were making an income so number one our online training
income so number one our online training
income so number one our online training program so Sean actually
program so Sean actually
program so Sean actually we Oberstein and Zig Ziglar all have
we Oberstein and Zig Ziglar all have
we Oberstein and Zig Ziglar all have online courses that they fell through
online courses that they fell through
online courses that they fell through their website number two our books Lisa
their website number two our books Lisa
their website number two our books Lisa Nichols Robin Sharma and Dale Carnegie
Nichols Robin Sharma and Dale Carnegie
Nichols Robin Sharma and Dale Carnegie all Rose bestsellers has sold millions
all Rose bestsellers has sold millions
all Rose bestsellers has sold millions of copies number three our live events
of copies number three our live events
of copies number three our live events and seminars Tony Robbins Brenda
and seminars Tony Robbins Brenda
and seminars Tony Robbins Brenda Bouchard and Eckhart Tolle all sell out
Bouchard and Eckhart Tolle all sell out
Bouchard and Eckhart Tolle all sell out their shows months leading up to their
their shows months leading up to their
their shows months leading up to their live event so I walked into this
live event so I walked into this
live event so I walked into this research knowing I wanted to be a
research knowing I wanted to be a
research knowing I wanted to be a speaker but I’m walking away so much
speaker but I’m walking away so much
speaker but I’m walking away so much more clarity on the briefing aside I
more clarity on the briefing aside I
more clarity on the briefing aside I love the people that proved it live
love the people that proved it live
love the people that proved it live there’s something so magical and
there’s something so magical and
there’s something so magical and exhilarating to me about going onstage
exhilarating to me about going onstage
exhilarating to me about going onstage and showing yourself showing up as
and showing yourself showing up as
and showing yourself showing up as yourself and standing up for what you
yourself and standing up for what you
yourself and standing up for what you believe in and proving yourselves
believe in and proving yourselves
believe in and proving yourselves improving your message so I really want
improving your message so I really want
improving your message so I really want to focus my energy into doing that and
to focus my energy into doing that and
to focus my energy into doing that and on the business side I love coaching I
on the business side I love coaching I
on the business side I love coaching I love the one-on-one connection that I
love the one-on-one connection that I
love the one-on-one connection that I get with people not only that to see
get with people not only that to see
get with people not only that to see them being inspired by their own
them being inspired by their own
them being inspired by their own awesomeness and going out there and
awesomeness and going out there and
awesomeness and going out there and doing amazing things with taking action
doing amazing things with taking action
doing amazing things with taking action so I’m going to focus a lot of my energy
so I’m going to focus a lot of my energy
so I’m going to focus a lot of my energy into coaching and as much as I love the
into coaching and as much as I love the
into coaching and as much as I love the one-on-one connection that I get from
one-on-one connection that I get from
one-on-one connection that I get from coaching I love a group environment as
coaching I love a group environment as
coaching I love a group environment as well
well
well there’s something so fulfilling to me
there’s something so fulfilling to me
there’s something so fulfilling to me when I see a group of people support
when I see a group of people support
when I see a group of people support each other and have empathy for each
each other and have empathy for each
each other and have empathy for each other and then walk away as a group
other and then walk away as a group
other and then walk away as a group feeling you know completely inspired and
feeling you know completely inspired and
feeling you know completely inspired and ready to like take on their goals it’s
ready to like take on their goals it’s
ready to like take on their goals it’s such an amazing feeling so on the
such an amazing feeling so on the
such an amazing feeling so on the business side I’m going to really focus
business side I’m going to really focus
business side I’m going to really focus a lot of my time into the coaching and
a lot of my time into the coaching and
a lot of my time into the coaching and the workshops side so this research gave
the workshops side so this research gave
the workshops side so this research gave me so much more than just a path to
me so much more than just a path to
me so much more than just a path to becoming a speaker it gave me confidence
becoming a speaker it gave me confidence
becoming a speaker it gave me confidence a lot of the times I think to myself but
a lot of the times I think to myself but
a lot of the times I think to myself but maybe my goal is to bold maybe I can’t
maybe my goal is to bold maybe I can’t
maybe my goal is to bold maybe I can’t get there maybe it’s a silly idea you
get there maybe it’s a silly idea you
get there maybe it’s a silly idea you know what makes me think that I could
know what makes me think that I could
know what makes me think that I could actually achieve the same amount of
actually achieve the same amount of
actually achieve the same amount of success as all these people did you know
success as all these people did you know
success as all these people did you know maybe I should have started when I was a
maybe I should have started when I was a
maybe I should have started when I was a lot younger I don’t have a lot of time
lot younger I don’t have a lot of time
lot younger I don’t have a lot of time I need more education I need to go back
I need more education I need to go back
I need more education I need to go back to school I need to go get a PhD until
to school I need to go get a PhD until
to school I need to go get a PhD until that happens I can’t actually go on
that happens I can’t actually go on
that happens I can’t actually go on stage and give a speech because I don’t
stage and give a speech because I don’t
stage and give a speech because I don’t know what I’m talking about or I feel
know what I’m talking about or I feel
know what I’m talking about or I feel like I don’t have the money to back up
like I don’t have the money to back up
like I don’t have the money to back up this business plan that I have and the
this business plan that I have and the
this business plan that I have and the truth is a lot of these people that are
truth is a lot of these people that are
truth is a lot of these people that are researched start off with a lot less
researched start off with a lot less
researched start off with a lot less than what I have right now I already
than what I have right now I already
than what I have right now I already have way more you know look at Dale
have way more you know look at Dale
have way more you know look at Dale Carnegie
Carnegie
Carnegie she was actually homeless when he
she was actually homeless when he
she was actually homeless when he started off his first seminar he was
started off his first seminar he was
started off his first seminar he was living at the YMCA and the things that
living at the YMCA and the things that
living at the YMCA and the things that he’s accomplished from having so little
he’s accomplished from having so little
he’s accomplished from having so little is incredible even years and years after
is incredible even years and years after
is incredible even years and years after his passing people know his training
his passing people know his training
his passing people know his training program they know his books his book is
program they know his books his book is
program they know his books his book is still one of the bestsellers in the
still one of the bestsellers in the
still one of the bestsellers in the world so what gives me the excuse at the
world so what gives me the excuse at the
world so what gives me the excuse at the same time it makes me feel very
same time it makes me feel very
same time it makes me feel very confident if he can do it so can i and
confident if he can do it so can i and
confident if he can do it so can i and that’s really this is write anything
that’s really this is write anything
that’s really this is write anything that you want to do is not too bold
that you want to do is not too bold
that you want to do is not too bold because people who have done it before
because people who have done it before
because people who have done it before you have done it with a lot less so for
you have done it with a lot less so for
you have done it with a lot less so for my next challenge I’m going to take you
my next challenge I’m going to take you
my next challenge I’m going to take you guys on a deeper journey into the three
guys on a deeper journey into the three
guys on a deeper journey into the three people that I resonated with the most so
people that I resonated with the most so
people that I resonated with the most so they are Tony Robbins brynee Brown and
they are Tony Robbins brynee Brown and
they are Tony Robbins brynee Brown and simon Sinek I’m going to share with you
simon Sinek I’m going to share with you
simon Sinek I’m going to share with you what are the specific things that they
what are the specific things that they
what are the specific things that they did to get to where they are today and
did to get to where they are today and
did to get to where they are today and also what are the things that I have
also what are the things that I have
also what are the things that I have learned from them that I could put into
learned from them that I could put into
learned from them that I could put into action right away so the question of the
action right away so the question of the
action right away so the question of the day is who are the three people that you
day is who are the three people that you
day is who are the three people that you look up to in your industry that you
look up to in your industry that you
look up to in your industry that you know start researching today I love
know start researching today I love
know start researching today I love reading your comments and I would love
reading your comments and I would love
reading your comments and I would love to find out who they are so leave in the
to find out who they are so leave in the
to find out who they are so leave in the comments below and I’m going to join in
comments below and I’m going to join in
comments below and I’m going to join in on the discussion so thank you so much
on the discussion so thank you so much
on the discussion so thank you so much for watching but more importantly I am
for watching but more importantly I am
for watching but more importantly I am so grateful for having you on this
so grateful for having you on this
so grateful for having you on this journey with me
journey with me
journey with me you have been so supportive and
you have been so supportive and
you have been so supportive and encouraging and loving since day one and
encouraging and loving since day one and
encouraging and loving since day one and honestly I couldn’t have asked for a
honestly I couldn’t have asked for a
honestly I couldn’t have asked for a better community than the leaf nation to
better community than the leaf nation to
better community than the leaf nation to be part of this pretty ride I’m awed and
be part of this pretty ride I’m awed and
be part of this pretty ride I’m awed and actually have a special shout out for
actually have a special shout out for
actually have a special shout out for Karthik ready
Karthik ready
Karthik ready so Karthik
so Karthik
so Karthik out Lilly you improved Lilly
out Lilly you improved Lilly
out Lilly you improved Lilly congratulations
congratulations
congratulations so Karthik thank you so much for writing
so Karthik thank you so much for writing
so Karthik thank you so much for writing the encouraging kind words it really
the encouraging kind words it really
the encouraging kind words it really does mean a lot to me so thank you and
does mean a lot to me so thank you and
does mean a lot to me so thank you and thank you guys and I’ll see you very
thank you guys and I’ll see you very
thank you guys and I’ll see you very very soon for another episode of
very soon for another episode of
very soon for another episode of unlocking Lilly thank you and love you
unlocking Lilly thank you and love you
unlocking Lilly thank you and love you all
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